WEBVTT - Thursday Post Show (12-5-24) 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:11.200 Comitting this guy. 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:13.880 Everybody, thank you for being here. The Saint Jude Radiothon 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:17.360 was today on the broadcast version of the show, and 0:00:17.760 --> 0:00:19.880 this is the podcast version, which we're gonna do some 0:00:19.920 --> 0:00:21.520 content as well. We appreciate you guys that listen to 0:00:21.560 --> 0:00:23.720 the podcast and we hope you became a partner in 0:00:23.720 --> 0:00:25.920 hope and if you did, awesome, And if you're here 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:28.960 just for the giggles, great or not always just giggles, 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:31.240 just for the compelling content. I know everybody's got a 0:00:31.280 --> 0:00:35.360 little something here. I'll go first that ceo that was 0:00:35.360 --> 0:00:36.080 shot in New York. 0:00:36.240 --> 0:00:37.639 Oh crazy dude, and. 0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:40.720 I've watched so many videos. First, let me just explain 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:43.440 what happened. Six forty five am yesterday morning. The United 0:00:43.440 --> 0:00:46.240 Healthcare CEO Brian Thompson was headed to an investor conference 0:00:46.240 --> 0:00:48.360 in New York City. He was one of the big speakers. 0:00:48.720 --> 0:00:51.960 Gunman approached him from behind, fired several shots. 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:52.720 Uh. 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:55.240 He was pronounced dead at a local hospital. Police say 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:57.760 the gunman arrived at the location about five minutes before. However, 0:00:57.840 --> 0:01:00.960 that's been since there and multiple witness to say this 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:03.200 guy was waiting there for hours and hours. So but 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:05.240 I'm just gonna read from the story from NBC News. 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:08.679 Talking to NBC News, his wife paul At Thompson, said, 0:01:08.720 --> 0:01:10.880 there have been some threats that were tracking down what 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:13.800 they called several good leads. That is from NBC News. 0:01:13.880 --> 0:01:15.640 Now this is just gonna be talking about it because 0:01:15.640 --> 0:01:18.480 I got on the algorithm of it last night on TikTok. 0:01:19.600 --> 0:01:23.640 And first of all, the guy's in full head and mask, 0:01:23.880 --> 0:01:26.320 and nobody thinks anything of it because people said, must 0:01:26.319 --> 0:01:28.319 be wearing masks now because of COVID. 0:01:28.520 --> 0:01:30.440 Yeah, and it was that kind of mask. 0:01:30.560 --> 0:01:33.360 No, but it doesn't matter, it doesn't And it's cold 0:01:33.440 --> 0:01:35.200 at the same time in New York down here, so 0:01:35.440 --> 0:01:38.119 it's a combination of people already wear masks and it's cold, 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:40.360 so you're just covering your face anyway, so you don't 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:42.319 think anything of it. He's dressed and dark, he has 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:47.800 a great backpack on. And initially it was he arrived 0:01:48.360 --> 0:01:50.840 right when the guy arrived, so it was like he 0:01:50.920 --> 0:01:53.680 must have known exactly when he was there. But then 0:01:53.920 --> 0:01:56.680 again watching the eyewitness some of the people were like, no, 0:01:56.760 --> 0:01:58.440 he was there. He was at a Starbucks. That footage 0:01:58.480 --> 0:02:00.440 of him at a Starbucks. The bat called the guy 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:03.000 was at the Starbucks and they waited for hours apparently 0:02:04.200 --> 0:02:07.200 walks up. I believe it was a twenty two pistol. 0:02:07.960 --> 0:02:10.440 And what they call a suppressor is what we would 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:12.200 call a silencer. So when you hear them talk about 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:15.360 a suppressor, that's like in the movies when it's a silencer. 0:02:16.840 --> 0:02:19.160 So it did have that on it. The gun jammed 0:02:19.240 --> 0:02:23.639 while he was shooting, and you can see him unjam 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:27.079 it and shoot because because he shot him in the 0:02:27.120 --> 0:02:31.040 calf at first. This is why I don't think and 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:33.240 it was purpose. This is just me giving an opinion. 0:02:34.520 --> 0:02:36.600 This is why I don't think it was like a 0:02:36.720 --> 0:02:41.360 hired super skilled hitman is because of all the things 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:43.280 that went wrong. What's up? 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:46.680 Okay? 0:02:47.120 --> 0:02:47.720 Just me chilling? 0:02:48.760 --> 0:02:52.080 Is this just men's phone ringing your. 0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:54.280 Yeah, he's just a joint eruption at no problem, No, 0:02:54.360 --> 0:02:54.600 I thought. 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:56.200 I I wanted you to check because in case it's 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:57.400 an emergency, it's. 0:02:57.320 --> 0:03:00.960 All good here, no miscalls anything. Yeah here. So the 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:04.400 reason that I don't feel that it was a hired hitman, 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:07.240 especially one of high skill, because it could have been 0:03:07.240 --> 0:03:09.160 a hired person to kill, but he shot him in 0:03:09.160 --> 0:03:12.679 the calf at first, And if you're using a handgun 0:03:13.560 --> 0:03:17.160 and you shoot in very rudiment. And reversion of this 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:20.240 is if you shoot in your hands or below your shoulders, 0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:22.160 it's going to shoot low. The guy didn't know what 0:03:22.200 --> 0:03:24.440 he was did he did hit him. He didn't know 0:03:24.440 --> 0:03:25.840 what he was doing, so he shot him in the calf, 0:03:26.880 --> 0:03:29.680 unjammed the gun, shot him in the back, took off, 0:03:29.680 --> 0:03:31.560 got on the e bike, got out of there. As 0:03:31.560 --> 0:03:32.880 of right now, they still don't know who he is. 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:37.440 So I think there was some history of using that weapon, 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:40.320 because you don't unjam a gun like that without knowing 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:42.360 how to use it. But I don't think it was 0:03:42.400 --> 0:03:45.080 someone who was like a million dollar hired to hire 0:03:45.080 --> 0:03:47.520 a hitman to kill a CEO because of how because 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:48.800 if that were the case, he'd walked up, put her 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:50.160 upside his head and killed him and walked off, same 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:51.960 thing because he was five feet away from him. Like 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:53.320 that's probably how that would have gone down. 0:03:53.360 --> 0:03:55.360 Oh so he probably wouldn't have gone to the Starbucks beforehand. 0:03:55.960 --> 0:03:57.800 Like that seems so weird that times you gotta stay away. 0:03:57.800 --> 0:03:59.640 You've been out there all night, like you're just taking it, 0:03:59.680 --> 0:04:02.560 like you're going to go to Starbucks when like you know, 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:04.640 there's gonna be a video of you in the Starbucks 0:04:04.720 --> 0:04:05.040 and then. 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:06.760 He didn't have his mask on though, And how what 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:08.880 I would counter on that is he knew he's gonna 0:04:08.880 --> 0:04:10.800 be on video anyway everywhere because he was. He's on 0:04:10.920 --> 0:04:13.160 video at the mask on and the gun. They got 0:04:13.240 --> 0:04:15.200 him like four or five different places, including Starbucks, and 0:04:15.200 --> 0:04:16.800 it looks like the same picture. He didn't take his 0:04:16.800 --> 0:04:17.760 mask down in Starbucks. 0:04:17.800 --> 0:04:19.159 Do we know what he used to pay with at 0:04:19.200 --> 0:04:19.920 Starbucks yet? 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:22.320 And they haven't said that. That's why I wondered buy 0:04:22.360 --> 0:04:22.680 a drink. 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:23.960 And it's like if he had his phone with him, 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:24.400 he's cooked. 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:25.560 Well, they found a phone. 0:04:25.640 --> 0:04:28.320 They found a phone in the alley way where he fled, 0:04:28.400 --> 0:04:31.320 and they do believe the phone belongs to the person, 0:04:31.360 --> 0:04:33.240 and they are trying to get a search warrant to 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:34.560 go through the phone, which. 0:04:34.360 --> 0:04:37.599 If it wasn't a Barner phone, again not not somebody 0:04:37.640 --> 0:04:40.160 who is hired to do this at a high level. Now, 0:04:40.160 --> 0:04:41.640 there are one hundred theories as to what it could 0:04:41.680 --> 0:04:44.239 have been, and those are just people making up stuff. 0:04:44.839 --> 0:04:47.640 But a person that would have been hired to do 0:04:47.680 --> 0:04:51.960 this on a high level would have probably one had 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:55.640 no electronic device on them at all because there's no tracking. 0:04:56.240 --> 0:04:57.680 Two would have walked up and just put it at 0:04:57.680 --> 0:05:00.279 his head and boom and walked away. Because he actually 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:02.680 did the same thing just two shots, but seven to 0:05:02.680 --> 0:05:05.240 ten to twelve feet away when a shot in the 0:05:05.279 --> 0:05:10.960 calf there. So all that is the non non emotional 0:05:11.000 --> 0:05:13.039 part of it, right, that is the I cannot believe 0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:15.320 we just saw that happen broad daylight, got away on 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:17.760 an e bike, e biked there, walked walk got back 0:05:17.760 --> 0:05:19.159 on an e bike, had closed you could change in 0:05:19.160 --> 0:05:22.120 and out of, had a gray backpack, nondescript clothing. All 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:22.360 of that. 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:24.640 Also fled into Central Park where they said there's not 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:27.600 very much, very many cameras, So that's probably why he 0:05:27.640 --> 0:05:28.440 went into Central Park. 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:30.560 Right, changed his clothes, like rode the bike in a park, right, 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:33.480 changes clothes, got it and got out of there. Is 0:05:33.520 --> 0:05:36.880 this update of Mike the mask gunman who stalked and 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:41.880 killed used ammunition with the words denied defendant pose so 0:05:41.960 --> 0:05:43.920 on the bullets. I had not read that until right now. 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:47.599 Which is yeah, which is the title of a book 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:51.479 written a few years ago talking about how health caught 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:55.559 care uses these words to delay your to avoid paying 0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:56.720 you out insurance things. 0:05:56.760 --> 0:05:58.360 What are the words deny. 0:05:58.320 --> 0:06:00.479 Delay, deny, defending in to pose. 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:01.000 There you go. 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:03.280 So also, this could also be what they call like 0:06:03.279 --> 0:06:05.039 a false flag. Somebody could be doing this to throw 0:06:05.040 --> 0:06:07.440 the scin off where if they're doing this, someone goes, well, 0:06:07.440 --> 0:06:09.640 it must be because they're upset about insurance. When it's 0:06:09.680 --> 0:06:11.760 somebody going well, if we do this, there's just so 0:06:11.960 --> 0:06:17.320 much right now that that doesn't make me feel like 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:19.640 that is real. That could be a red herring. 0:06:19.760 --> 0:06:21.720 As you did say that the wife said that they 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:22.320 had threats. 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:27.640 Yes, yeah, but I would think that insurance CEOs. Yeah, 0:06:27.680 --> 0:06:31.160 I feel like that. I think that's a common people. 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:33.120 Are so mean to. I was looking at comments and 0:06:33.160 --> 0:06:34.839 every one of them was like I would give condolences, 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:37.680 but my insurance when cook in the comments section of 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:40.839 these set, but also people also, I was also because 0:06:40.839 --> 0:06:42.880 they're like stealing the joke too from other people. So 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:44.760 the first thing I was like, you're sad human, why 0:06:44.760 --> 0:06:46.440 would you do this? Somebody just die? Then secondly I'm like, 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:49.000 you just stole that joke from another person's Instagram comment 0:06:49.040 --> 0:06:51.960 and used it. Now you're getting all the likes. Loser. 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:54.880 He was a guy who moved up through the company too. 0:06:55.040 --> 0:06:56.880 He wasn't one of these CEOs. It was like hired 0:06:57.120 --> 0:06:59.320 headhunted from another company. He's like somebody who started low 0:06:59.400 --> 0:07:06.320 level and rose up. I understand that the trouble that 0:07:07.560 --> 0:07:11.680 and there was some insider trading stuff that that had 0:07:12.880 --> 0:07:16.040 started to circulate, and there was some AI stuff where 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:17.520 it was like they were using a company. This is 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:19.000 just gonna be my memory, and I could be wrong 0:07:19.000 --> 0:07:21.560 about the numbers here, but they were using an AI 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:23.800 company to say yes or no to things, and it 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:26.239 was proven the AI company was like ninety percent wrong, 0:07:26.480 --> 0:07:28.480 and they were still using it anyway, even while knowing that. 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:31.000 Like that, that's something that I read. But there's going 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:33.360 to be so much misinformation out there now because people 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:35.920 just want to get clicks that now it's like, we'll 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:37.960 just wait and see. But the problem is with wait 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:39.800 and see is okay, we're still waiting to see what 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:42.960 happened Jefrey Epstein And you know what he dies? That 0:07:43.000 --> 0:07:44.960 was from the inside. That was for sure, from the inside. 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:47.240 The cops take a break. The cops take a break. 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:50.520 They turned the cameras off it so who knows what 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:54.640 we know except this guy. Also, you don't really know 0:07:54.680 --> 0:07:56.920 what your CEO is doing. Like let's say you work 0:07:56.920 --> 0:07:59.320 at the company and he was speaking at this conference, 0:07:59.320 --> 0:08:01.680 and it was known he was there way early, like 0:08:01.720 --> 0:08:05.120 you don't know. It wasn't like it was said, this 0:08:05.160 --> 0:08:07.360 guy's going to be here on this day, because it 0:08:07.400 --> 0:08:09.720 wasn't the day he was talking. There's just a lot 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:12.320 of things that don't allow you to have the full 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:15.080 scope of what's happening because we only are we only 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:15.840 know what we're being told. 0:08:15.920 --> 0:08:17.520 Because it's sort of like, okay, well was this guy 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:19.880 professional or not, because it seems like some of this 0:08:19.920 --> 0:08:22.280 stuff he would have to know, or how he would 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:25.120 have to know what he knew would be really a 0:08:25.120 --> 0:08:27.040 little more a professional issue. 0:08:27.280 --> 0:08:29.440 I would say that you can be in the know 0:08:29.680 --> 0:08:31.920 without being professional, okay, and also have. 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:34.760 Some skills okay, So it's like not or just. 0:08:34.679 --> 0:08:37.760 Be in the know and hire somebody who is like 0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:39.800 a drug addict that will do anything for drugs or 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:42.120 moneycause they're a bad place and you know what they do. 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:44.160 This is what happens with a lot of these is 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:46.319 that they will hire somebody I say they I'll just 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:48.960 use that generically, that they'll hire somebody with this situation 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:50.920 like this, and they'll pay them and they'll give them 0:08:50.960 --> 0:08:52.680 and then they'll make sure they ode on the drugs afterwards, 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:54.760 so there's no trail back to the I'm not saying 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:56.360 that's this one, but that does happen as well. Then 0:08:56.400 --> 0:08:57.160 you never know, because I. 0:08:57.120 --> 0:08:59.200 Feel like that that really happened in real life or 0:08:59.200 --> 0:08:59.720 just on TV. 0:09:00.160 --> 0:09:01.800 Oh, I don't know on TV that happens. Oh, in 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:06.360 real life, that happens. It's a sucky story. And I 0:09:06.360 --> 0:09:08.000 couldn't believe it happened right there. And then I was 0:09:08.040 --> 0:09:09.520 thinking what about the people that saw it happen? And 0:09:09.520 --> 0:09:10.400 I was like, what if I saw it? 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:10.960 What I do? 0:09:11.559 --> 0:09:11.839 Run? 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:14.480 Yeah? Shots fired? You run? 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:16.520 It's like I guess people are like, why didn't someone 0:09:16.559 --> 0:09:18.200 just jump and take him down? And then I think, 0:09:18.840 --> 0:09:21.440 let me think about what I would do. I'd run. 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:24.240 You don't know who those people are. 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:26.160 Like and exactly where it was coming from. Maybe you 0:09:26.200 --> 0:09:27.800 hear it, and then you're like, oh, is that if 0:09:27.800 --> 0:09:28.760 it's silence? 0:09:29.600 --> 0:09:29.840 Yeah? 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:32.240 True, they were right there like they saw it, because 0:09:32.240 --> 0:09:36.120 again it's ten feet people that saw him. Silence wasn't 0:09:36.120 --> 0:09:37.360 mean that makes no noise, right. 0:09:37.679 --> 0:09:42.120 Because suppressor that's a better way to put it suppressor because. 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:44.000 TV gives you a wrong impression of silencers for the 0:09:44.000 --> 0:09:48.440 most part. So anyway, that story sucks. I feel terrible 0:09:48.480 --> 0:09:51.199 for the family because he's in such a high position. 0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:54.200 There are a thousand different theories as to why or 0:09:54.200 --> 0:09:55.320 what or how? 0:09:55.640 --> 0:09:56.559 Yeah could it? 0:09:56.720 --> 0:09:58.760 Do you think there's any I mean, I don't. I 0:09:58.800 --> 0:10:01.120 was reading about the him being investigated for the inside 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:03.480 of trading and whatever could have been an inside job 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:06.160 of he'd they're worried. He was going to squeal like 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:07.840 he was going to say, Hey, this is what's happening. 0:10:08.440 --> 0:10:10.400 How does this guy know that he's coming out that 0:10:10.559 --> 0:10:13.760 door that early in the morning, And. 0:10:13.800 --> 0:10:17.120 Well if he waited for hours and hours and the 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:19.480 conference was in that hotel, right, there is bits of 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:22.840 intel that would lead you to think that. But you're right, yes, 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:24.199 that could be one. But I mean, yeah, I was 0:10:24.240 --> 0:10:25.920 just I'm not attaching myself to a theory because I 0:10:25.920 --> 0:10:29.679 know nothing except what's being told here, and then I 0:10:29.760 --> 0:10:32.480 know what I don't know, and that's most of it. 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:35.559 But that if I were an like I see you 0:10:35.640 --> 0:10:37.400 have a different insurance company today, I would have full 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:38.439 scary around here eight time. 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:40.960 And they said he bought a bottle of water in 0:10:41.000 --> 0:10:44.480 two bars from the Starbucks, and they did find a 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:47.240 bottle of water in the alleyway where the gun was 0:10:48.240 --> 0:10:50.640 or the phone, So they think that that that bottle 0:10:50.679 --> 0:10:51.120 of water is his. 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:52.319 So they're going to test it for DNA. 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:54.760 Okay, but if they find ben A on it, this 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:56.240 guy's not a professional. 0:10:55.920 --> 0:10:59.920 Right And also did he use Apple play or cash? 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:01.959 Probably cash unless he's just so really. 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:04.040 That's what I want to know link out yeah. 0:11:03.920 --> 0:11:06.800 Yeah, and firearm experts things, it is someone that has 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:09.920 military or a lot of gun training because the way 0:11:09.920 --> 0:11:12.599 it jams and the way they are able to jam it. 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:15.600 So I doing that was him having weapons training or 0:11:16.080 --> 0:11:16.720 a lot of. 0:11:17.000 --> 0:11:20.280 Seeing the calf part he just got nervous or or 0:11:20.360 --> 0:11:21.280 the gun to malfunction. 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:21.679 You know. 0:11:21.960 --> 0:11:24.520 He was definitely shooting a little low and the first 0:11:24.520 --> 0:11:25.160 one didn't jam. 0:11:25.200 --> 0:11:28.120 The first one she was trying to really not. 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:30.200 Well, My friends that live in cities think I'm like 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:33.040 since I'm they think I'm like the biggest hillbilly and 0:11:33.120 --> 0:11:36.040 a medium hillbilly and have decent gun experience, but never 0:11:36.040 --> 0:11:38.320 with handguns. And it's like I had a four ten 0:11:38.440 --> 0:11:40.200 and twelve gauge and thirty. I six when I had 0:11:40.200 --> 0:11:43.959 a rifle, and so I know like general basic Arkansas gun, right, 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:46.240 hunting hunting gun. Yeah, yeah, I can tell you the 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:48.440 difference in all the gauges of shot guns. I can 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:51.440 tell you different kinds of bird shot, buck shot, slug. 0:11:51.480 --> 0:11:54.000 I can do all that. But they're hitting me up 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:56.560 like I'm some gun expert to give analysis, and I'm like, guys, 0:11:57.240 --> 0:11:59.760 I'm a hillbilly with guns. I don't know about the 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:02.040 only thing that I could tell you was he knew 0:12:02.400 --> 0:12:06.160 and he has used a weapon at how calm He 0:12:06.240 --> 0:12:09.240 unjammed the thing because it did jam, and a lot 0:12:09.240 --> 0:12:11.560 of times they jam with a silent with the suppressor 0:12:12.120 --> 0:12:15.240 because that's not common. So anyway, we'll move off because 0:12:15.280 --> 0:12:17.439 I'm wildly uneducated on it. I just want to talk 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:20.880 about the story and that sucks, and I hope they 0:12:20.880 --> 0:12:24.319 figure it out. That's it for me. You'll take a 0:12:24.320 --> 0:12:25.040 mideral real quick. 0:12:25.960 --> 0:12:26.480 Yeah, let's do it. 0:12:26.520 --> 0:12:29.040 Okay, let's to the middle here, boom Amy, what do 0:12:29.080 --> 0:12:29.240 you have? 0:12:29.280 --> 0:12:31.320 What do you want to bring a story I can't 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:34.800 stop thinking about. It's not a new shooting. It's something 0:12:34.800 --> 0:12:37.760 that happened years back. But dayline just released a podcast 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:43.520 about it, and it's about this guy that shot two 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:45.480 teenagers that broke into his home. 0:12:46.640 --> 0:12:47.760 Okay, what's the problem. 0:12:47.880 --> 0:12:49.960 The problem is why I can't stop thinking about it 0:12:50.000 --> 0:12:54.880 is he's in jail for the rest of his life 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:56.280 for murder. 0:12:56.559 --> 0:12:59.640 So a couple questions. He didn't know them. They broke 0:12:59.679 --> 0:13:02.120 into a home, right, so I'm not confused on that. 0:13:02.480 --> 0:13:04.320 Were they running away from his home, like in his 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:04.839 yard and he. 0:13:05.080 --> 0:13:07.480 Was waiting for them in the basement because I guess 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:10.720 his home had been broken into leading up to that, 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:14.480 and he's he had guns himself and two guns were stolen. 0:13:15.080 --> 0:13:19.360 So he was an older man who was obviously scared 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:23.000 for his life, and he set sort of like the 0:13:23.000 --> 0:13:25.600 way they presented it in court were like he set 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:27.800 this up as a trap, Like he made it seem 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:29.880 like his home was empty. He wasn't there. He parked 0:13:29.880 --> 0:13:31.839 his truck down the road, and then he was waiting 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:33.760 in the basement for whoever was breaking in. He didn't 0:13:33.760 --> 0:13:35.280 know who it was going to be. And when they 0:13:35.320 --> 0:13:38.280 came down, he didn't even wait to see their face. 0:13:38.320 --> 0:13:41.880 He just shot the first kid and then his cousin, 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:43.480 a girl like was looking for him. And she was 0:13:43.480 --> 0:13:45.599 like waiting for him to come out. She starts to 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:48.360 go down the stairs, he shoots her. Well, the problem is, 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:50.319 I think maybe he had started to go a little bit, 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:53.000 you know, something was not right because he was like 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:53.760 recording this. 0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:56.720 You I'd broken into his house before, though, and these 0:13:56.720 --> 0:13:58.439 people had broken into his house, right. 0:13:58.280 --> 0:14:00.560 And so he was there. They pitched it is sort 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:03.120 of don't quote me on the exact words, but premeditated 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:05.640 in a sense because he was sitting and waiting and 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:06.440 he set a trap. 0:14:06.600 --> 0:14:09.120 But again, but they broke in, Yes. 0:14:09.040 --> 0:14:12.640 Like they broke in, and these are I think, good 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:15.080 kids making a bad choice. And I felt bad for 0:14:15.160 --> 0:14:17.280 the family talking in the podcast and whatnot. But I 0:14:17.400 --> 0:14:20.440 just thought, man, what would how I just keep thinking 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:22.480 about if I was on the jury, what would I 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:23.240 do guilt? 0:14:23.440 --> 0:14:23.840 If it's what? 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:25.960 Yeah, but he's in jail for the rest of his life. 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:28.720 I wonder why there might be some in that case. 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:30.680 I wonder what they got him for. 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:34.560 That audio got him, The fact that he had the recording. 0:14:34.880 --> 0:14:37.080 The it wasn't a video, it was just an audio recording, 0:14:37.120 --> 0:14:39.840 and you hear him talking to himself beforehand, like you know, 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:42.440 kind of going over like I'm gonna get him or 0:14:42.600 --> 0:14:45.440 you know, talking about that. But but I'm like, he's scared, 0:14:45.760 --> 0:14:48.120 and he may and maybe he was going a little 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:52.280 crazy because of it. I would maybe too, but I did. 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:56.080 Another part is he waited because he was scared. Apparently 0:14:56.160 --> 0:14:58.640 his lawyer said, after he did it, and you have 0:14:58.760 --> 0:15:00.600 own clip, he went and hid in the club to 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:03.440 know are more people coming whatnot. He didn't report it 0:15:03.680 --> 0:15:06.560 till the next day, and that's always trouble if somebody's 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:10.040 been killed and you don't report it immediately. Yeah, So 0:15:10.120 --> 0:15:12.160 anyway that I can't stop talking about thinking about it. 0:15:13.520 --> 0:15:15.440 And if not, it's crazy. But there must be something 0:15:15.440 --> 0:15:19.760 we're missing. Because if someone breaks into your house and 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:22.080 I feel it all threatened, I'm shooting them, right, I mean, 0:15:22.080 --> 0:15:25.400 that's it. If I feel threatened, I'm going to eliminate this. 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:28.640 It's the castle doctrine. You have the right to protect 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:29.200 your castle. 0:15:29.240 --> 0:15:30.840 And the only time I've seen people get in trouble 0:15:30.880 --> 0:15:32.520 because I don't I didn't know this story is if 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:34.800 people are like still on your property and they're like 0:15:34.880 --> 0:15:37.360 running away and you still shoot them, right even if 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:39.160 they're on your property, Like you can go to jail 0:15:39.200 --> 0:15:41.440 for that because they are now not a threat and 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:44.560 they are eliminating themselves from being a threat. 0:15:44.600 --> 0:15:48.600 Okay, So to that point, the second person, the second team, 0:15:48.640 --> 0:15:51.320 he ended up shooting. He did not need to shoot 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:55.080 her multiple times, but he did. And then like specifically 0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:56.640 like in the E But I mean I think he was. 0:15:57.160 --> 0:15:58.600 I don't know if you're in that state of mind. 0:15:58.640 --> 0:15:59.880 I don't know how crazy are I just don't know 0:15:59.920 --> 0:16:01.960 that it's like murder in jail for the rest of 0:16:01.960 --> 0:16:04.920 your life, Like maybe you need some mental help. I 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:07.520 think he was scared. And when you're in fear and 0:16:07.560 --> 0:16:10.640 then people are breaking like they literally broke into the home. 0:16:10.840 --> 0:16:13.120 So that's the part too where I'm like, I would 0:16:13.120 --> 0:16:15.440 have been shooting. And you say, do you feel after 0:16:15.440 --> 0:16:19.600 my house got broken into and I'd been pistol whipped 0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:22.200 and had a couple I was I was crazy at 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:25.320 my house any noise, I had a gun right beside me. 0:16:25.720 --> 0:16:27.080 So it's like, he's crazy. You know what makes you 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:29.560 crazy Whenever you feel like you could die any minute, 0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:31.600 because you've had experiences that have led you to think 0:16:31.640 --> 0:16:33.600 that you could die any minute, because people have broken 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:36.880 in or people have attacked you. Yeah, I just wonder 0:16:36.920 --> 0:16:38.800 what the jury like. Why the jury I'd need to 0:16:38.800 --> 0:16:39.960 see why, like. 0:16:39.880 --> 0:16:42.640 You could listen to I don't know. 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:45.200 I mean it's the cord hurts Smith's whispers at the 0:16:45.200 --> 0:16:47.240 time of the shootings. I don't see them as human. 0:16:47.280 --> 0:16:48.200 I see them as vermin. 0:16:48.840 --> 0:16:49.360 What does that mean? 0:16:50.440 --> 0:16:53.000 I think you probably in my mind I was thinking, 0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:54.960 like you probably have to convince yourself, like I've got 0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:56.640 to protect myself and right now if I see them 0:16:56.680 --> 0:16:58.320 as human, like, I'm not going to be able to 0:16:58.680 --> 0:17:00.720 protect my home, and I'm scared it and I'm tired 0:17:00.720 --> 0:17:02.800 of living scared. So I'm going to take care of business. 0:17:03.200 --> 0:17:06.399 Smith's decision earlier on Thanksgiving Day Movies Vehicle from the 0:17:06.440 --> 0:17:09.080 Driveway allowed prosecutors to present the idea that he wished 0:17:09.080 --> 0:17:11.760 to bait the intruders in the act of premeditation. If 0:17:11.760 --> 0:17:14.720 you're just moving your corner baiting, it's not like you're 0:17:14.720 --> 0:17:17.920 piling up presents inside the window, going anybody that can 0:17:17.920 --> 0:17:19.640 get to these you can have and leave the door. 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:21.600 A good you know, they had to break a window 0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:22.199 to get in. 0:17:22.440 --> 0:17:25.199 And but he I guess what they're saying baiting is 0:17:25.240 --> 0:17:28.560 by presenting the fact that you're not home knowing. 0:17:31.440 --> 0:17:33.879 I mean, yes, he said it, yes. 0:17:33.680 --> 0:17:35.800 Because you present that you're not home. But I mean 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:38.120 you have the right to break into somebody. 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:39.960 But he had the motive that he was going to 0:17:40.040 --> 0:17:44.920 kill these people premeditated because he trap and said, I'm. 0:17:44.720 --> 0:17:46.120 Going to move my truck down the road. 0:17:46.760 --> 0:17:47.000 Bait. 0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:52.679 If you put that's a trap, that's your garage is 0:17:52.680 --> 0:17:56.520 different down the street to make the appearance you're not home. 0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:59.120 That's saying I'm going to put Christmas presents in my car. 0:17:59.280 --> 0:18:01.960 Not because you can wait for someone to shoot it. 0:18:02.000 --> 0:18:03.560 Doesn't make it okay for somebody to break it even 0:18:03.600 --> 0:18:05.119 if you're not home. I didn't they was okay for 0:18:05.160 --> 0:18:07.960 them to break in, But to try to lead them 0:18:07.960 --> 0:18:09.920 to break in, to give them reason to break. 0:18:09.720 --> 0:18:12.160 In, Yeah, because he's tired of living scared like yes, 0:18:12.520 --> 0:18:13.480 Like however you want to. 0:18:13.400 --> 0:18:15.560 Put it begging someone to break in by saying I'm 0:18:15.560 --> 0:18:18.240 not home, No, that is extremely er. 0:18:18.520 --> 0:18:19.560 It is setting the stage. 0:18:20.400 --> 0:18:23.200 That's why the jury found him guilty because he baited them. 0:18:23.359 --> 0:18:24.960 He came up with a plan to get them in 0:18:25.000 --> 0:18:25.840 his house so he can. 0:18:25.760 --> 0:18:28.440 Murder them, but to break into his house. 0:18:29.440 --> 0:18:32.119 No one had broken into his house multiple times it 0:18:32.160 --> 0:18:33.000 was multiple times. 0:18:33.080 --> 0:18:33.320 Great. 0:18:33.359 --> 0:18:36.560 If no one had done it ever before, then he 0:18:36.600 --> 0:18:39.320 wouldn't have been in fear. And when you're in survival mode, 0:18:39.359 --> 0:18:42.560 you fight flight freeze. He was fighting correct for his 0:18:42.720 --> 0:18:44.600 own safety. 0:18:44.640 --> 0:18:48.760 In my opinion, baiting baiting would be again big flashing arrow, 0:18:49.119 --> 0:18:51.560 door wide open baiting is not something that would happen 0:18:51.600 --> 0:18:53.439 anyway because he could be gone. 0:18:53.560 --> 0:18:55.359 I just wish he would have been driven. I mean, 0:18:55.359 --> 0:18:58.720 because these poor these kids, their poor decision to break 0:18:58.720 --> 0:19:01.040 in when when they think it's an innocent thing, I mean, 0:19:01.040 --> 0:19:02.840 it's bringing in is not innocent. But right if they 0:19:02.840 --> 0:19:05.040 think he's not home, they're going to go in, steal 0:19:05.080 --> 0:19:08.080 some money, steal some whatever, and probably run out. 0:19:07.920 --> 0:19:10.760 But maybe kill him if they run into him, right Like, yeah. 0:19:10.560 --> 0:19:13.200 But that's okay. See, I don't think these teens would 0:19:13.240 --> 0:19:15.919 have But he didn't know that doesn't that two of 0:19:15.960 --> 0:19:18.639 his guns were previously stolen, So in his mind, he's like, 0:19:18.680 --> 0:19:21.119 they could come back and use my own weapons against me. 0:19:21.440 --> 0:19:23.920 And when someone is in a situation, if their life 0:19:24.000 --> 0:19:26.720 is threatened, they may actually do something exactly they're threatening 0:19:26.760 --> 0:19:28.160 to yours, even if they did not plan to. 0:19:28.160 --> 0:19:31.160 Do that, right, which is the which is where I'm 0:19:31.240 --> 0:19:36.080 just like God, like, oh yeah. 0:19:34.840 --> 0:19:36.159 Yeah, that would that sucks. 0:19:36.359 --> 0:19:39.480 Like I have these uh like I'd say every two months, 0:19:39.480 --> 0:19:41.600 like these kids come through my neighborhood and they just 0:19:41.840 --> 0:19:44.240 go through car doors and if they're unlocked, they steal stuff, 0:19:44.400 --> 0:19:48.359 right Yeah, And I have thought myself, Mike, I would 0:19:48.520 --> 0:19:50.360 love to see them doing that so I can call 0:19:50.400 --> 0:19:52.840 the cops and like tell them exactly where they are 0:19:53.000 --> 0:19:56.000 and they get busted. But like I've even thought, maybe 0:19:56.040 --> 0:19:58.280 I get some nails, pop their tires when they go 0:19:58.400 --> 0:20:00.200 that way, I throw it all on the roads. When 0:20:00.200 --> 0:20:01.760 they have to come back down the road their tires 0:20:01.760 --> 0:20:02.600 are popped, then the cops. 0:20:02.680 --> 0:20:04.119 Is like giving a kidney though, where you're really not 0:20:04.160 --> 0:20:06.240 you know, I literally thought this, but I never know 0:20:06.240 --> 0:20:07.040 when they're doing it. 0:20:07.280 --> 0:20:10.880 He's thought it, Bobby saying it is nobody's literally thought 0:20:10.880 --> 0:20:13.520 about donating your kidney too. I know you can think 0:20:13.560 --> 0:20:14.360 all kinds of things. 0:20:14.440 --> 0:20:16.160 Yeah, that sucks, Amy, And well I don't. 0:20:16.320 --> 0:20:18.560 I mean, it's the whole story just was it happened 0:20:18.560 --> 0:20:21.040 back in twenty twelve. But for whatever reason, Daylight, I 0:20:21.040 --> 0:20:23.119 don't know. The podcast and my heart breaks for the 0:20:23.160 --> 0:20:25.320 family of the teenagers and it's just. 0:20:25.200 --> 0:20:27.840 A it is there a chance this guy gets released, 0:20:28.359 --> 0:20:31.000 because again, depending on how small the town is, and 0:20:31.320 --> 0:20:35.160 you know, there's people sometimes running for office make things 0:20:35.160 --> 0:20:37.080 happen certain ways, they win and lose case. You know, 0:20:37.119 --> 0:20:39.080 there's just a lot happening. And if there's a light 0:20:39.119 --> 0:20:41.880 shine on it now from back in twenty twelve. Obviously 0:20:41.960 --> 0:20:43.200 I do not know all the facts other than what 0:20:43.240 --> 0:20:46.200 I'm reading. I'm reading it as we're doing the bit here. 0:20:46.480 --> 0:20:48.080 But I think not having your conference your house is 0:20:48.080 --> 0:20:49.320 not bait for someone to break in. 0:20:49.760 --> 0:20:52.640 But the audio was not in his favor is not good, 0:20:52.640 --> 0:20:54.680 and him shooting her multip time is not good. But again, 0:20:54.720 --> 0:20:56.840 he wasn't in his right mind because. 0:20:56.800 --> 0:20:59.520 Somebody's threatening you, you're never in your right mind. And 0:20:59.520 --> 0:21:02.600 that's crazy. Okay, let's do a couple other things. So 0:21:02.920 --> 0:21:06.680 there's that we have our Saint Jude Radiothon that we 0:21:06.760 --> 0:21:08.159 have been doing all morning. I do want to bring 0:21:08.240 --> 0:21:10.440 Jessica on a share on the phone or no. 0:21:10.160 --> 0:21:12.720 I thought that was gonna be for something else. 0:21:12.800 --> 0:21:15.680 Oh got it, Oh got it, we'll do it. We'll 0:21:15.720 --> 0:21:18.120 do it off the shore. Yeah, no problem. So if 0:21:18.119 --> 0:21:19.879 you are listening to the show and you want to 0:21:19.880 --> 0:21:21.040 be a partner. I hope we're gonna we have one 0:21:21.080 --> 0:21:22.359 of the families. We're gonna talk to you coming up 0:21:22.359 --> 0:21:24.080 in just a little bit. We went to the Christmas 0:21:24.080 --> 0:21:27.159 gift uh drawing yes, because we need to do this 0:21:27.200 --> 0:21:31.000 now so we know who is who. So yeah, Kevin 0:21:31.000 --> 0:21:31.840 can bring all the stuff in. 0:21:33.400 --> 0:21:34.879 This is where we draw our gift cards. 0:21:35.080 --> 0:21:40.040 Yeah, oh my gosh, we're gonna add yes. So but 0:21:40.119 --> 0:21:41.679 we're gonna bring in and actually talk it out for 0:21:41.680 --> 0:21:44.119 a second because we only have like seven or eight 0:21:44.200 --> 0:21:52.280 minutes to do this. Yeah, I'm thinking. So Macy's gave 0:21:52.400 --> 0:21:53.840 us all these gift cards. The good thing is we 0:21:53.920 --> 0:21:55.800 have to spending never own money, which we never spent 0:21:55.840 --> 0:21:57.200 a whole lot anyway, because it was always like a 0:21:57.240 --> 0:22:00.680 forty dollars limit or something. But Macy's gave these gift cards. 0:22:00.680 --> 0:22:02.840 And there's one from ten and I have the key 0:22:02.960 --> 0:22:06.000 coming in. I will not draw, I will take which 0:22:06.000 --> 0:22:08.520 everyone is last. That way, I have no influence on 0:22:08.520 --> 0:22:10.639 what bag is what bag, but I will have the 0:22:10.720 --> 0:22:13.920 key to know what's what. So can I have the key? 0:22:13.920 --> 0:22:16.199 You can set the bags right there? Thanks Kevin. What 0:22:16.280 --> 0:22:17.680 sucks for Kevin is he was in it until we 0:22:17.760 --> 0:22:19.439 only had eight. Now he's eliminated because there's only eight. 0:22:19.520 --> 0:22:20.040 He was nine. 0:22:20.200 --> 0:22:21.720 What's the key? The key? 0:22:22.280 --> 0:22:25.920 Your key? Like all the answers. Okay, So there's there's 0:22:26.160 --> 0:22:27.280 one ten dollars gift card. 0:22:27.600 --> 0:22:31.440 Oh my gosh, you put him in the middle. 0:22:31.600 --> 0:22:33.680 Yeah, one fell into the There's one twenty five dollars 0:22:33.680 --> 0:22:37.560 gift card. There's one fifty dollars. There's two fifty dollars 0:22:37.600 --> 0:22:40.920 gift cards. There's two seventy five dollars gift cards. There's 0:22:40.920 --> 0:22:43.119 one hundred, a five hundred, and a one thousand. 0:22:43.320 --> 0:22:44.159 My goodness, I. 0:22:44.200 --> 0:22:46.200 Mean five hundred sounds awesome, but then you go there's 0:22:46.200 --> 0:22:48.800 a thousand, and I'm just like, five hundred doesn't count. 0:22:48.880 --> 0:22:51.040 Playing the odds here, Hey, did you get the one 0:22:51.040 --> 0:22:52.720 thousand and one and a five hundred dollar one? That's 0:22:52.720 --> 0:22:57.320 two versus one, two, three, four, five verse seven. So 0:22:57.359 --> 0:22:59.960 you're looking at two and seven five hundred. That odds 0:23:00.080 --> 0:23:03.080 to because that one is awesome. That's you want to 0:23:03.080 --> 0:23:08.360 get them. So first I'll say this about Macy's. It's 0:23:08.359 --> 0:23:10.120 the best offer of the season. Take an extra thirty 0:23:10.119 --> 0:23:12.600 percent off top gifts plus fifteen percent off their best 0:23:12.600 --> 0:23:15.600 beauty brands. They have the perfect gifts of holiday season, uggs, Crocs, 0:23:15.600 --> 0:23:17.760 a wall of water bottles, lots of great stocking stuffers. 0:23:17.920 --> 0:23:20.200 Let Macy's be your guide to gifting. Shop at Macy's 0:23:20.240 --> 0:23:23.080 dot com. They do have everything. So and maybe we 0:23:23.080 --> 0:23:25.840 don't even draw until tomorrow. We can just draw names now. 0:23:26.280 --> 0:23:30.199 But here's the thing. I'm not totally set on the 0:23:30.200 --> 0:23:33.280 most interesting way to do this. I've walked through every 0:23:33.320 --> 0:23:36.280 scenario in my head. I've walked through we draw a name. 0:23:37.119 --> 0:23:39.720 Let's say I draw Amy's name, and then I pull 0:23:39.760 --> 0:23:41.800 a bag and do I pull it immediately and go 0:23:42.320 --> 0:23:47.080 only got ten dollars. I've done the thing where it's like, 0:23:47.920 --> 0:23:51.160 we don't say who we have and we draw the bag, 0:23:51.240 --> 0:23:52.760 but we know how much money there is on the 0:23:52.800 --> 0:23:56.080 card go because then the person does that. That's an 0:23:56.119 --> 0:24:01.560 interesting wrinkle. I've done the thing where it's we have 0:24:01.680 --> 0:24:04.760 the bag and nobody knows who they who has I 0:24:04.760 --> 0:24:06.800 don't know Amy. I'm gonna go to you. What do 0:24:06.840 --> 0:24:10.800 you think the best idea for the most drama? This 0:24:10.880 --> 0:24:11.800 is a bit, this is not real. 0:24:11.840 --> 0:24:13.480 This is you want me to pick which one's gonna 0:24:13.480 --> 0:24:14.600 be the most drama asked. 0:24:14.480 --> 0:24:17.800 Lunch or I'm not asking him because he's rageful and international. 0:24:18.119 --> 0:24:22.520 I'm asking you because it's for the most compelling part 0:24:22.520 --> 0:24:25.120 of the bit, like what's the best way to do 0:24:25.160 --> 0:24:27.520 this as a fund? Fund doesn't mean everybody has a 0:24:27.560 --> 0:24:29.600 good time, but for the listeners to go like, oh 0:24:29.640 --> 0:24:34.480 my god, I can't believe that. What's the most suspenseful 0:24:34.480 --> 0:24:35.080 way to do this? 0:24:36.160 --> 0:24:39.400 Where you I think that you capitalize on two moments 0:24:39.400 --> 0:24:43.040 of suspense, the first moment being you find out right 0:24:43.080 --> 0:24:46.080 away what the dollar amount is for whatever person, and 0:24:46.160 --> 0:24:48.320 then it'll be funny to see what they end up getting, 0:24:48.960 --> 0:24:49.560 like which. 0:24:49.520 --> 0:24:51.560 But what about knowing who the person is? Like what 0:24:52.080 --> 0:24:52.840 in your version? 0:24:52.920 --> 0:24:55.320 Yeah, like if it's okay, so I guess how because. 0:24:55.119 --> 0:24:56.720 I have in my head, I have it drawn exactly 0:24:56.720 --> 0:24:57.719 how I do it. But I want to hear your 0:24:57.720 --> 0:24:58.439 work before you say that. 0:24:58.440 --> 0:25:01.600 Well, here's what I'm thinking, Like you like, I say, 0:25:01.760 --> 0:25:04.360 I draw a lunchbox, so you go on name first. 0:25:04.400 --> 0:25:06.160 I draw the name first. It's like, oh, I got lunchbox. 0:25:06.160 --> 0:25:07.720 And then I draw my gift card and I'm like, 0:25:09.160 --> 0:25:10.080 it's ten dollars. 0:25:10.400 --> 0:25:12.000 So you want to know that that's out there? 0:25:12.080 --> 0:25:14.960 Yes, And then it'll be fine to find out later 0:25:15.359 --> 0:25:17.520 what I got for ten dollars for him, because it's 0:25:17.560 --> 0:25:20.480 like a double because otherwise we're waiting, and then I'm 0:25:20.520 --> 0:25:22.680 going to give him the thing I got for ten dollars, 0:25:22.720 --> 0:25:24.200 and it's going to be like, oh, you find both 0:25:24.200 --> 0:25:25.440 of those things out at the same time. 0:25:25.560 --> 0:25:27.200 So I'm fifty percent with you on that. I think 0:25:27.240 --> 0:25:32.080 we draw the name, and I think we draw the 0:25:32.520 --> 0:25:35.560 if you say, because it's just not interesting. If I 0:25:35.640 --> 0:25:37.800 draw you and then I say I have ten dollars 0:25:37.880 --> 0:25:39.199 for you, I don't even care to hear what do 0:25:39.200 --> 0:25:41.480 you get it for ten dollars? Right it already lost 0:25:41.520 --> 0:25:44.440 the lust face, the luster of the that is gone 0:25:45.000 --> 0:25:45.480 as the guy. 0:25:45.400 --> 0:25:47.320 That's full of rage and irrational. If you told me 0:25:47.400 --> 0:25:49.280 right away, I'd lose interest if you told me ten 0:25:49.320 --> 0:25:50.160 dollars right away. 0:25:50.000 --> 0:25:52.320 Where I want to, like, I draw somebody and it's you, 0:25:52.880 --> 0:25:56.600 and we don't say what the gift card amount is, okay, and. 0:25:56.520 --> 0:25:58.120 Then you're waiting until we do the day and you're 0:25:58.119 --> 0:25:58.719 sitting there the day. 0:25:59.240 --> 0:26:01.160 Oh my god. But even when they open. 0:26:01.000 --> 0:26:03.199 The press, the person doesn't know, but the listeners do. 0:26:04.520 --> 0:26:06.520 Maybe what if it's like lunch let me finish. Let 0:26:06.560 --> 0:26:07.359 me finish the explanation here. 0:26:07.400 --> 0:26:08.400 Okay, sorry I got excited. 0:26:09.800 --> 0:26:16.720 I think what it is is draw the name, get 0:26:16.760 --> 0:26:18.560 the gift. You draw the gift card, but you don't 0:26:18.560 --> 0:26:20.119 say what the how much it is. They open the 0:26:20.160 --> 0:26:23.280 gift without knowing how much the gift card was until 0:26:23.359 --> 0:26:26.119 after they open the gift, and then it's like I 0:26:26.160 --> 0:26:28.560 had X amount of dollars, we're going to say something. 0:26:28.800 --> 0:26:31.120 Well, the reverse could also be that we don't say 0:26:31.119 --> 0:26:33.000 who we get, we say what our gift card is. 0:26:34.040 --> 0:26:37.160 That's that's that's basically the same. But yes, it's that 0:26:37.160 --> 0:26:40.359 that we're leaving one of the elements unknown. So you 0:26:40.480 --> 0:26:42.280 but but if we draw the name, and we have 0:26:42.320 --> 0:26:45.760 the name, we know like who's our friend or enemy already? 0:26:46.080 --> 0:26:48.360 Because because what makes it interesting is if Lunchbox gets 0:26:48.400 --> 0:26:51.040 you or you get Lunchbox because he's easy to be pissed. 0:26:51.200 --> 0:26:53.000 But the power is interesting. 0:26:53.240 --> 0:26:55.159 The power is interesting, Like, but if you don't have 0:26:55.320 --> 0:26:57.080 who the power over who is, it doesn't matter. 0:26:58.040 --> 0:27:00.520 Yeah, but everyone's gonna want to hope that that power 0:27:00.600 --> 0:27:01.640 is for a certain person. 0:27:01.640 --> 0:27:04.280 That's a good point too. Okay, So what we're gonna 0:27:04.280 --> 0:27:05.280 do because we have to go. We're going to draw 0:27:05.359 --> 0:27:07.080 names today. Only we're not gonna draw bags. 0:27:07.480 --> 0:27:09.280 Wait, but I'll be here tomorrow. 0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:13.000 We'll drawn names. It's a good point. So we have 0:27:13.040 --> 0:27:14.679 to do well, No, we don't. You can just do 0:27:14.720 --> 0:27:20.159 yours today. Just Morgan will do hers today. So do 0:27:20.240 --> 0:27:22.960 we have some different names? We had a wheel? Do 0:27:23.000 --> 0:27:23.480 we have time? 0:27:24.440 --> 0:27:24.640 Yeah? 0:27:25.800 --> 0:27:28.960 I can put everybody's name on it. Yeah, bring it name. 0:27:29.080 --> 0:27:31.000 It's just we got to keep spending it and pull names. 0:27:33.080 --> 0:27:33.440 It's fun. 0:27:33.480 --> 0:27:37.120 I mean, we have an interview in like five minutes. Yeah, 0:27:37.200 --> 0:27:39.320 let's do this. I don't worry about that. Who are 0:27:39.359 --> 0:27:42.359 the names on the thing? Just read the names of 0:27:42.359 --> 0:27:46.920 the other people participating, please, I don't know if a 0:27:48.440 --> 0:27:53.520 read I can write. I don't know. Okay, all right, 0:27:53.560 --> 0:27:56.680 hold on, Bobby. That's why I think we're bringing a 0:27:56.680 --> 0:27:57.320 new characters for this. 0:27:57.400 --> 0:27:58.040 Well, you said. 0:28:00.040 --> 0:28:07.760 If lunchbox spin Mike D, Mike D go ahead, Abby Rude, 0:28:08.680 --> 0:28:09.840 Rick Murray. 0:28:09.400 --> 0:28:10.160 Well he said Kevin. 0:28:10.640 --> 0:28:16.960 Kevin's never been done, and Morgan just spin two, three, four, five, six. 0:28:17.320 --> 0:28:19.439 That's nine people should be nine? Yeah, we have nine 0:28:19.480 --> 0:28:24.400 gift cards, Becky nine Okay, hey, please, okay, so Amy, 0:28:24.400 --> 0:28:26.440 you're gonna go first, pick a number one, nine, nine, 0:28:26.720 --> 0:28:31.480 you have Scuba Steve okay, Lunchbox picking number four, you 0:28:31.520 --> 0:28:36.239 have Amy. I'm gonna take a picture of my sheet though, 0:28:36.240 --> 0:28:37.840 by the way, so you guys don't think I'm changing anything. 0:28:38.280 --> 0:28:39.840 Lunchbucks bo got it? 0:28:40.480 --> 0:28:46.640 Okay, Lunchbox is Amy? Okay, Morgan? Yeah, pick a number two? 0:28:47.120 --> 0:28:50.640 You have Ray? Hey, Ray, Eddie. If you need to 0:28:50.640 --> 0:28:51.400 know the numbers that are. 0:28:51.320 --> 0:28:52.880 Left, I got it, go ahead. Number three. 0:28:53.000 --> 0:28:59.400 That's me, Mike d It's left one, five, six, seven 0:28:59.480 --> 0:29:05.320 and eight. I'll say one. You have Abby. You've already picked. 0:29:05.200 --> 0:29:07.280 Amy, ray Man. 0:29:07.280 --> 0:29:10.480 They got a number picked crazy? 0:29:10.480 --> 0:29:10.680 Eight? 0:29:10.960 --> 0:29:16.600 Eight, you have Eddie Crap Ray Mundo. You have Scuba 0:29:17.680 --> 0:29:19.880 Scooba is already on the list. I have Yeah. 0:29:20.560 --> 0:29:22.600 So there's only eight, then that should be nine? 0:29:22.960 --> 0:29:25.440 Did you Oh Morgan? That's Morgan. That's Morgan. That's Morgan. 0:29:25.560 --> 0:29:28.680 You have Morgan. That's right, that's Morgan. And then there's 0:29:28.720 --> 0:29:29.120 two left. 0:29:30.400 --> 0:29:30.600 Ray. 0:29:31.480 --> 0:29:33.400 Have you picked a number? There's two left, There's six 0:29:33.480 --> 0:29:36.640 and seven, and then Abby you'll pick I think you 0:29:36.640 --> 0:29:37.760 did pick you have Morgan? 0:29:39.040 --> 0:29:39.880 Wait, I have Ray? 0:29:39.920 --> 0:29:40.800 So Ray has me? Also? 0:29:41.000 --> 0:29:41.360 Do you have more? 0:29:41.360 --> 0:29:41.600 Okay? 0:29:41.600 --> 0:29:44.080 So you guys have each other happenings. So I have 0:29:44.120 --> 0:29:46.240 a pick, and Abby has a pick, and I Mike. 0:29:46.280 --> 0:29:48.480 You can look so you can see what the numbers are. 0:29:48.480 --> 0:29:51.239 So I'm not a cheating or anything. Abby, you can 0:29:51.240 --> 0:29:55.800 pick number six or number seven and seven you have 0:29:55.880 --> 0:29:56.240 Mike d. 0:29:59.080 --> 0:30:00.760 He's the most honest in the world. 0:30:00.800 --> 0:30:03.680 And when he gets that thousand, I'm getting all thousand dollars. 0:30:04.000 --> 0:30:05.640 You don't know that. You don't know that. 0:30:05.840 --> 0:30:08.120 Yeah, you're gonna have to bring proof of receipt. 0:30:08.280 --> 0:30:12.160 Yeah, but here's another rink. Do you have to spend 0:30:12.160 --> 0:30:16.840 the whole card? I think the option is you don't 0:30:16.960 --> 0:30:19.640 have to. We'll talk about it. We'll talk about it. 0:30:19.920 --> 0:30:22.000 These are rules. We're inventing a new. 0:30:21.920 --> 0:30:24.640 Game because you know, if Lunchbucks gets I have him 0:30:24.880 --> 0:30:28.760 if I get the thousand, So you're saying he could 0:30:28.760 --> 0:30:31.400 get me something for like twenty bucks and keep. 0:30:32.920 --> 0:30:36.160 I'm thinking that could be a wrinkle. Moregan needs you 0:30:36.200 --> 0:30:38.880 to draw a bag. You know he will, and then 0:30:39.360 --> 0:30:43.880 just draw the bag and take it with you. Tell 0:30:43.920 --> 0:30:46.080 me the number your don't open it. Just tell me 0:30:46.080 --> 0:30:52.600 the number you're picking. Okay, And so I'm the only 0:30:52.600 --> 0:30:54.320 one that knows how much that is. I don't want 0:30:54.320 --> 0:30:56.080 you to look in it. Just give it to Scuba 0:30:56.120 --> 0:30:59.040 Steve until you get back. Okay, I'm your trip, but 0:30:59.120 --> 0:31:02.120 we know which one is yours. Your number is nine 0:31:02.560 --> 0:31:07.840 nine nine, all right, nine, all right, let's do this 0:31:07.880 --> 0:31:09.920 is uh Fisher. We're gonna play this from the show 0:31:09.920 --> 0:31:11.840 this morning. Be a partner Hope if you can. Here's 0:31:11.880 --> 0:31:14.480 Fisher and his mom talking about Fisher went to Saint Jude. 0:31:14.480 --> 0:31:17.840 I think she was awesome. And we've spent you know, 0:31:17.840 --> 0:31:20.360 today's show and tomorrow show raising money for the hospital. 0:31:20.400 --> 0:31:23.920 Because that's what's up. And I we'll just go to 0:31:23.960 --> 0:31:27.840 the interview now, thanks show and the b team giving 0:31:27.880 --> 0:31:30.640 Saint you kids the greatest gift Hope. 0:31:31.760 --> 0:31:33.720 Seven eighteen hundred. 0:31:34.640 --> 0:31:36.320 That's the number you can call to become a partner 0:31:36.320 --> 0:31:38.360 in Hope. We'll get back to that number in a second. 0:31:38.480 --> 0:31:40.800 The heck, I'll say it again, one eight hundred seven 0:31:40.920 --> 0:31:42.320 nine five eighteen hundred. 0:31:42.600 --> 0:31:42.760 Uh. 0:31:42.800 --> 0:31:46.000 Special guests in studio now Fisher and his mom, Felena 0:31:46.280 --> 0:31:49.880 and Fisher Holiday Buddy eleven years old. Yeah, so how 0:31:49.920 --> 0:31:53.920 long you've been eleven exactly? I know, a year a whole. 0:31:54.000 --> 0:31:54.960 Are you about to have a birthday? 0:31:55.160 --> 0:31:57.120 Yeah? Oh, Simmer nineteenth. 0:31:57.240 --> 0:31:59.760 Let's go. Okay, that's coming up quick. Maybe i'll give 0:31:59.760 --> 0:32:00.880 you a or someth before you leave. But if you 0:32:00.880 --> 0:32:01.840 want a present, I don't know what I have, but 0:32:01.840 --> 0:32:07.040 I can probably got something. Huh. So Fisher has brain cancer? 0:32:07.600 --> 0:32:07.840 Right? 0:32:08.160 --> 0:32:08.880 Had had? 0:32:08.960 --> 0:32:09.640 Okay? Good? 0:32:09.800 --> 0:32:11.440 Because this is why I want your mom. Will you 0:32:11.440 --> 0:32:13.920 tell me about the process, like how you learned, like 0:32:14.000 --> 0:32:17.120 the very early on, how you learned Fisher had something 0:32:18.240 --> 0:32:20.560 like the cancer you later realized it was cancer, But 0:32:20.600 --> 0:32:21.200 how that happened. 0:32:22.280 --> 0:32:25.920 It started off with just a few random headaches, and 0:32:26.680 --> 0:32:30.000 it progressed really fast. It went from a few random 0:32:30.280 --> 0:32:32.960 the next week was every morning. The following week was 0:32:33.000 --> 0:32:36.680 every morning and every afternoon. And then that following week, 0:32:36.720 --> 0:32:39.320 on Wednesday, he got sick at school, so they called 0:32:39.320 --> 0:32:40.520 me to go get him. They thought he had a 0:32:40.520 --> 0:32:43.800 stomach bug, but when I picked him up, he was like, Mom, 0:32:43.880 --> 0:32:47.280 this headache. So we went to urgent care, who told 0:32:47.360 --> 0:32:51.120 us it was a sinus infection. And I was like, 0:32:51.760 --> 0:32:54.520 he's just not a complainer. So I scheduled him to 0:32:54.520 --> 0:32:58.640 see his regular pediatrician on the friday. He was passing 0:32:58.680 --> 0:33:02.800 all of his neurological test. He showed no symptoms of 0:33:02.840 --> 0:33:07.280 like a balance, inconsistency or anything. So she kind of 0:33:07.600 --> 0:33:10.960 felt the same that, you know, baby, it is sinuses, 0:33:11.840 --> 0:33:12.880 give it a couple more days. 0:33:12.920 --> 0:33:14.400 Did you feel that were wrong? Like as a mom, 0:33:14.440 --> 0:33:18.400 did you feel that they probably didn't have a total grasp. 0:33:18.160 --> 0:33:21.440 Of it in my gut? I don't know. There was 0:33:21.480 --> 0:33:24.080 just a part of me that was like, something's just 0:33:24.120 --> 0:33:24.560 not right. 0:33:26.040 --> 0:33:28.120 But I don't know. 0:33:28.160 --> 0:33:31.640 We're just a pretty laid back family, so I didn't 0:33:31.680 --> 0:33:33.320 throw up any immediate red flags. 0:33:33.600 --> 0:33:35.719 Sure, were the headaches different than like a normal headache? 0:33:36.280 --> 0:33:38.280 Not really, So there was no reason for you to 0:33:38.320 --> 0:33:40.440 think other than you'd probably it could have been sinuses 0:33:40.520 --> 0:33:40.880 or something. 0:33:41.280 --> 0:33:41.440 Right. 0:33:41.480 --> 0:33:44.040 The only thing that I thought is why am I 0:33:44.080 --> 0:33:45.920 getting them every day consistently? 0:33:45.960 --> 0:33:48.360 Because you've never had that happen never, So then what 0:33:48.400 --> 0:33:50.000 do you do after they say sinus infection. 0:33:51.560 --> 0:33:53.920 We were just gonna take them antibotics and give it 0:33:53.920 --> 0:33:58.200 a couple more days. But on the Saturday we couldn't 0:33:58.240 --> 0:34:01.600 get the headache to go away. He was miserable. We 0:34:01.680 --> 0:34:04.360 tried to make a trip to the camp, thinking, you know, 0:34:04.360 --> 0:34:07.120 if it is migraines that are starting from him kind 0:34:07.120 --> 0:34:09.680 of getting older, maybe if we distract him. 0:34:09.760 --> 0:34:10.400 What's the camp? 0:34:11.040 --> 0:34:14.520 Our dear camp got him. So we, you know, thought 0:34:14.640 --> 0:34:17.360 let's get a distraction for the weekend. And on the 0:34:17.360 --> 0:34:20.600 way there, he was in so much pain that I 0:34:20.680 --> 0:34:22.920 was like, this is clearly not a sign as headache. 0:34:24.160 --> 0:34:27.200 We made it there for an hour or two, loaded 0:34:27.239 --> 0:34:30.239 back up, and had my husband just drop us off 0:34:30.239 --> 0:34:31.120 at the door of the ere. 0:34:32.040 --> 0:34:34.240 Okay, so they want to know, Okay, you've had headache, 0:34:34.280 --> 0:34:36.120 and you tell them you went to the urgent care, 0:34:36.440 --> 0:34:38.400 you went to the doctor. This is what they've said, 0:34:38.719 --> 0:34:40.240 So what do they do that's different? 0:34:41.320 --> 0:34:45.440 In the lobby, he kind of stumbled and I got 0:34:45.480 --> 0:34:47.640 a little alarmed, so I went and tell the nurse, like, 0:34:47.719 --> 0:34:51.480 that's unusual, something's not right. I guess we were just 0:34:51.520 --> 0:34:53.400 blessed by that nurse. She kind of pushed the issue 0:34:53.440 --> 0:34:57.920 quick and within about ten minutes we were in the back. 0:34:58.160 --> 0:35:00.680 He had already had his CT and they were starting 0:35:00.719 --> 0:35:04.920 an ivy and they had already given him like pain medicine. 0:35:06.160 --> 0:35:08.640 And within forty five minutes of being there, the doctor 0:35:08.680 --> 0:35:11.040 came in and told us that he had a mass 0:35:11.080 --> 0:35:13.360 on his brain and that that was an ambulance waiting 0:35:13.360 --> 0:35:14.560 for us to be transported. 0:35:15.120 --> 0:35:18.120 What do you remember about that fisher that day, like 0:35:18.160 --> 0:35:19.640 the hospital and all that, What do you remember? 0:35:19.760 --> 0:35:23.280 All I really remember is getting out of the camper, 0:35:23.840 --> 0:35:27.520 walking in, going to sleep, and waking up in a room. 0:35:27.680 --> 0:35:31.320 Really and it's gonna be hard to describe the emotion, 0:35:31.400 --> 0:35:34.160 but when they say there's something on his brain, like, 0:35:34.239 --> 0:35:37.239 what do you think? As a mom it was. 0:35:38.200 --> 0:35:43.080 Like, I think I was just stunned. There was a 0:35:43.080 --> 0:35:44.560 part of me, like I said, that had that kind 0:35:44.560 --> 0:35:46.920 of gut feeling that like something wasn't wrong right, But 0:35:46.960 --> 0:35:52.040 I never thought that. And it was just so much 0:35:52.120 --> 0:35:55.280 to take in and it went so fast. 0:35:55.480 --> 0:35:56.640 Where are they taken from there? 0:35:57.080 --> 0:36:00.560 They took him to the Saint Jude affiliate in Baton Rouge. 0:36:00.680 --> 0:36:03.399 It was about midnight when they got us there. 0:36:03.880 --> 0:36:05.920 And what happens when you arrived there? Do they go 0:36:05.960 --> 0:36:07.279 to work immediately trying to figure out. 0:36:07.200 --> 0:36:10.440 Why we had doctors waiting already that we're there to 0:36:10.440 --> 0:36:14.680 talk to us multiple doctors. They already had a game plan, 0:36:14.760 --> 0:36:17.160 already had him on the schedule for in the morning. 0:36:17.200 --> 0:36:19.600 What was going to happen. Their goal for that night 0:36:19.719 --> 0:36:23.239 was just to make sure he stayed comfortable and to 0:36:23.320 --> 0:36:25.400 get a team together for the morning. 0:36:26.400 --> 0:36:27.799 I imagine you didn't sleep much. 0:36:28.800 --> 0:36:33.080 Yeah, it was an unusual feeling, like yesterday. I was 0:36:33.120 --> 0:36:37.439 looking back because yesterday was one year that we walked 0:36:37.440 --> 0:36:42.000 into the ere. So like to walk in and read 0:36:42.040 --> 0:36:46.799 the oncology floor, like you never think, wow, this is 0:36:46.840 --> 0:36:48.960 going to be me, and you know, my child walking 0:36:49.000 --> 0:36:52.799 through an oncology floor. So I remember like that night 0:36:52.800 --> 0:36:55.560 when he was sleeping, it just kept like I just 0:36:55.640 --> 0:36:58.600 kept replaying when you walk through you know it's that 0:36:58.840 --> 0:37:01.640 Saint Jude affiliate, but it's the oncology floor, and. 0:37:01.680 --> 0:37:04.400 It had to be like is this even real it? 0:37:04.640 --> 0:37:05.839 I think it took a couple of days. 0:37:05.920 --> 0:37:09.160 Yeah, like it's like what because you're right, you never 0:37:09.239 --> 0:37:14.040 actually picture it being you or even worse, your kid, Like. 0:37:14.000 --> 0:37:19.399 I remember my grandmother my entire life with the Saint 0:37:19.480 --> 0:37:23.640 Jude kids on her refrigerator because you know she would 0:37:23.719 --> 0:37:27.439 donate and never in a million years do you think, wow, 0:37:27.480 --> 0:37:28.760 that might be my kid's picture. 0:37:29.400 --> 0:37:32.040 You know, when do they and what do they tell you, 0:37:32.080 --> 0:37:33.839 Like the next day or the next couple of days 0:37:33.840 --> 0:37:35.239 when they can give you more information about it. 0:37:37.200 --> 0:37:39.400 They told us the mass was stable and then he 0:37:39.480 --> 0:37:43.320 wasn't bleeding or anything. His situation was rather critical because 0:37:43.360 --> 0:37:46.520 there was so much The pressure that he was holding 0:37:46.600 --> 0:37:50.759 in his head could have started causing life threatening things 0:37:50.840 --> 0:37:51.520 like on the spot. 0:37:51.680 --> 0:37:55.400 And that's the headache, the pressure, Yes, of the ten masses, 0:37:55.800 --> 0:37:57.719 that's the headache. And that's why it hurts so bad. 0:37:57.840 --> 0:37:58.320 Yeah. 0:37:58.360 --> 0:38:01.080 Wow, So and I have a lot more I want 0:38:01.120 --> 0:38:03.160 to get to. But Fisher wearing a cowboy hat there, 0:38:03.200 --> 0:38:05.279 I saw some signatures. Who is That's what's happening in 0:38:05.320 --> 0:38:08.000 Sam Hunt? You met Landy Wilson at Sam Mind? Where'd 0:38:08.000 --> 0:38:09.960 you meet them? 0:38:10.120 --> 0:38:14.840 Laney was the exact day on my last chemo, Sam was. 0:38:15.520 --> 0:38:16.840 They were both at Saint Jude. 0:38:17.280 --> 0:38:19.880 That's pretty cool. Do you like Lanny? You beg Landy fan? 0:38:20.200 --> 0:38:20.359 Yeah? 0:38:20.440 --> 0:38:22.879 She's pretty awesome. So, Okay, here's what we're gonna do here. 0:38:22.920 --> 0:38:25.239 And by the way, if you're listening and we're gonna 0:38:25.280 --> 0:38:27.720 talk more about specifically Saint Jude in just a second, 0:38:27.719 --> 0:38:30.160 you can become a partner and hope and help people 0:38:30.200 --> 0:38:33.920 like Fisher. You can text one eight hundred seven nine 0:38:34.080 --> 0:38:36.120 five eighteen hundred. I guess you call that number now, 0:38:36.280 --> 0:38:38.960 one eight hundred seven nine five eighteen hundred. Call the 0:38:39.040 --> 0:38:41.200 number We have a phone bank here. People are ready 0:38:41.200 --> 0:38:43.719 to answer. Nineteen dollars a month to help the kids 0:38:43.719 --> 0:38:46.319 at Saint Jude fight cancer, because no family receives a 0:38:46.320 --> 0:38:48.560 bill because of people like you that are listening. One 0:38:48.560 --> 0:38:51.319 eight hundred seven nine five eighteen hundred. Do you have 0:38:51.320 --> 0:38:52.399 a favorite Landy Wilson song? 0:38:52.719 --> 0:38:54.920 One of my really good friends that I met there, 0:38:55.760 --> 0:38:57.800 It was wild Horses and wild Flowers. 0:38:57.920 --> 0:38:58.480 That's a good one. 0:38:58.520 --> 0:39:02.080 She was there in music therapy. They let her make 0:39:02.160 --> 0:39:05.360 curln songs. She called it a wild ride through radiation, 0:39:05.719 --> 0:39:07.080 m the. 0:39:06.960 --> 0:39:10.200 Bobby Bones Show and Saint Jude. You guys can become 0:39:10.239 --> 0:39:12.000 a partner in hope. So I'll give you the number 0:39:12.040 --> 0:39:13.200 to call, and then I'll give you the number to 0:39:13.239 --> 0:39:15.640 text later. But the number to call. We have people 0:39:15.719 --> 0:39:18.600 standing by right now. One eight hundred seven nine to 0:39:18.680 --> 0:39:22.240 five eighteen hundred. Become a partner in hope nineteen dollars 0:39:22.280 --> 0:39:24.359 a month and you will help kids at Saint Jude 0:39:24.360 --> 0:39:27.160 fight cancer. And I don't just say those words, like 0:39:27.200 --> 0:39:29.799 we have Fisher here who is eleven. He's about to 0:39:29.800 --> 0:39:32.319 be twelve though, like almost immediately. Hey, life changes when 0:39:32.320 --> 0:39:34.239 you're twelve. Do you know that? Like you can't even 0:39:34.280 --> 0:39:36.239 stop your arport here from going. It grows so much 0:39:36.480 --> 0:39:37.919 you have down to your knees in like a day. 0:39:37.960 --> 0:39:38.520 Don't you know that? 0:39:38.680 --> 0:39:39.520 Man, don't scare them. 0:39:39.640 --> 0:39:43.360 Oh, I'm just saying, twelve is a whole different ballgame. 0:39:43.960 --> 0:39:48.240 Fisher had brain cancer and we were talking with Flanta, 0:39:48.280 --> 0:39:50.200 his mom a few minutes ago, and we got to 0:39:50.200 --> 0:39:52.720 the point where you were at like this Saint judeah 0:39:52.719 --> 0:39:55.560 Philly and Baton Rouge. At what point did the doctor say, hey, 0:39:55.600 --> 0:39:58.080 we want to send you to the Saint Jude in Memphis? Like, 0:39:58.120 --> 0:39:59.520 how does that conversation happen? 0:39:59.680 --> 0:40:01.239 When the they made a game plan that they were 0:40:01.239 --> 0:40:04.400 going to go ahead and do his first brain surgery 0:40:04.440 --> 0:40:07.600 to remove the tumor on the front of his brain. 0:40:08.200 --> 0:40:10.440 They said, we're going to do this, he'll be stable, 0:40:10.520 --> 0:40:12.600 and then we're going to send everything to Saint Jude 0:40:12.719 --> 0:40:15.839 and have their team look at it, and then you'll 0:40:15.880 --> 0:40:19.000 get a better game plan. So we did the surgery 0:40:19.080 --> 0:40:22.200 the following day and then they told us, oh, you'll 0:40:22.239 --> 0:40:25.720 have about two weeks before it was holidays, was Thanksgiving break. 0:40:27.239 --> 0:40:29.719 We were about ten minutes from home and one of 0:40:29.760 --> 0:40:33.879 their doctors called and said, we need you to turn around. Man, 0:40:34.160 --> 0:40:37.799 he's you know, he's got one of tumors that's going 0:40:37.880 --> 0:40:40.239 to cause an issue. He gave us till he said, 0:40:40.280 --> 0:40:41.799 I need you, you know, on the road by like 0:40:41.800 --> 0:40:46.719 two am. So do you live in Louisiana? 0:40:47.239 --> 0:40:49.160 So do you start because I think what I would 0:40:49.160 --> 0:40:51.400 start doing is googling everything about the brain. I mean 0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:55.320 I'd be an expert the cerebellum, the Surrey room, yes, 0:40:55.520 --> 0:40:58.239 and probably getting myself in trouble, like learn it you do? 0:40:58.440 --> 0:41:01.840 Yeah, before we had our team conference with the doctors. 0:41:02.000 --> 0:41:03.879 You know, everybody's like, don't go down that rabbit hole. 0:41:04.520 --> 0:41:07.799 But as a parent, you can't not because you want 0:41:07.800 --> 0:41:11.719 to know, you know, how do you fix it? And 0:41:11.760 --> 0:41:14.080 you do? You read all the things that you probably 0:41:14.080 --> 0:41:20.480 shouldn't read for his case. His cancer type is it's 0:41:20.640 --> 0:41:23.520 it's like it's a lot. It can go many different ways. 0:41:23.560 --> 0:41:27.359 There's all subgroups and subtypes and markers, and you kind 0:41:27.360 --> 0:41:30.080 of you know, I have no medical background at all. 0:41:30.080 --> 0:41:32.239 And it's the brain, right, it's the brain, which we 0:41:32.280 --> 0:41:34.320 know nothing. I mean I know nothing about the brain. 0:41:34.600 --> 0:41:37.480 It's we know nothing, very little about the brain. And 0:41:37.560 --> 0:41:40.080 so I can understand where a lot of anxiety would 0:41:40.120 --> 0:41:44.200 set in because of just in general cancer with your kid, yep, 0:41:44.320 --> 0:41:45.799 but then brain and. 0:41:45.760 --> 0:41:49.120 Then they tell you, like any of the surgeries, we 0:41:49.200 --> 0:41:50.920 don't know what's going to come out of it, not 0:41:51.000 --> 0:41:53.080 just the cancer, but what side effects is he going 0:41:53.120 --> 0:41:54.560 to have? Will he be able to walk again? 0:41:55.040 --> 0:41:59.160 When you get to Saint Jude Fisher in Memphis, what's 0:41:59.160 --> 0:41:59.480 that like? 0:42:00.200 --> 0:42:04.080 Giant? Very big. Most of the people, all of the 0:42:04.080 --> 0:42:07.040 people there, they they don't look like they're not happy. 0:42:07.480 --> 0:42:09.680 Not a day that all was there. No, one's not 0:42:09.800 --> 0:42:13.279 happy to be there, even if they are inside, they 0:42:13.320 --> 0:42:15.000 don't show in it at all. 0:42:15.160 --> 0:42:18.680 Such a positive vibe. Yeah, and you get there and 0:42:18.760 --> 0:42:20.680 like the doctors like, how did they talk to you? 0:42:20.800 --> 0:42:22.200 Pretty calm, collected? 0:42:22.400 --> 0:42:25.240 Yeah, the fact you toward collected at eleven is amazing. 0:42:25.360 --> 0:42:27.520 I just learned that like last year to say collected. 0:42:27.800 --> 0:42:31.240 Look at you? So tell me about like the process, 0:42:31.239 --> 0:42:33.680 like what starts to happen? And how long were you there? Total? 0:42:34.160 --> 0:42:38.840 Two months in twenty three and then we had the 0:42:39.000 --> 0:42:43.160 break for Christmas that we went back for my birthday 0:42:43.200 --> 0:42:46.040 in Christmas and then we were there for ten months. 0:42:46.960 --> 0:42:49.160 Right about you're all in Yeah, do you make a 0:42:49.160 --> 0:42:53.040 lot of friends there. Oh yeah, really yes, a lot 0:42:53.080 --> 0:42:55.200 of kids that are going through similar things. What do 0:42:55.200 --> 0:42:56.439 you guys do there for fine? 0:42:57.520 --> 0:43:01.319 I mean around there. Some times you can get free 0:43:01.360 --> 0:43:05.440 and go places, but most of it they have their 0:43:05.520 --> 0:43:06.280 second floor. 0:43:06.600 --> 0:43:07.120 It is. 0:43:08.800 --> 0:43:12.799 Been too long, so it's been there. Can't make makerspace. 0:43:12.880 --> 0:43:18.800 There's music lounge. They have three D printers. They always 0:43:18.800 --> 0:43:24.040 have like different crafts out every day. They have a 0:43:24.080 --> 0:43:28.440 wood engraver, vinyl stuff. 0:43:28.719 --> 0:43:31.000 It's a lot of stuff for you do when you 0:43:31.000 --> 0:43:32.440 say go free, like they don't let you go like 0:43:32.480 --> 0:43:39.400 Bill Street, hang out. 0:43:36.960 --> 0:43:39.160 Like the put put places. 0:43:39.320 --> 0:43:42.080 We talk a lot about how when people become a 0:43:42.080 --> 0:43:45.320 partner and hope, which is why we we do these shows, 0:43:45.320 --> 0:43:47.120 which is why I've done it for years. That the 0:43:47.200 --> 0:43:48.920 nineteen dollars a month goes to help the kids, that 0:43:48.960 --> 0:43:51.200 Saint You'd fight cancer, and that families never receive a bill. 0:43:51.400 --> 0:43:53.279 Can you speak on that never receiving a bill? 0:43:54.160 --> 0:43:54.759 Part of it. 0:43:55.840 --> 0:43:59.799 I can't imagine going through the day to days of 0:44:00.040 --> 0:44:04.200 keeping track of the medicines or the appointments, or what's 0:44:04.239 --> 0:44:07.239 working or what's not working, and then on the back 0:44:07.360 --> 0:44:10.960 end worrying how are we going to pay? You know, 0:44:12.160 --> 0:44:17.040 it's a lot there, but there's no stress. You're not 0:44:17.080 --> 0:44:20.480 worried about, you know, simple things of like can we 0:44:20.680 --> 0:44:22.560 go eat out tonight because that's what he's hungry for. 0:44:22.800 --> 0:44:27.319 Because they allow you to have your entire focus on 0:44:27.360 --> 0:44:30.400 your child. I was never worried about you know what, 0:44:30.440 --> 0:44:33.759 Bill is my husband getting at home? You know, how 0:44:33.840 --> 0:44:36.239 is this going to affect our family long term? Will 0:44:36.280 --> 0:44:38.680 we ever come out of it? Because we knew that 0:44:40.040 --> 0:44:42.520 him being here, not only was he getting taken care of, 0:44:43.120 --> 0:44:47.120 you know, but that our family was going to be 0:44:47.160 --> 0:44:48.080 able to keep it together. 0:44:49.080 --> 0:44:51.000 And that's why we encourage you guys that are listening 0:44:51.320 --> 0:44:52.840 that if you can become a partner and hope, the 0:44:52.880 --> 0:44:55.520 nineteen dollars makes such a difference. So you can call 0:44:55.640 --> 0:44:58.719 eight hundred seven nine to five, eighteen hundred. We've got 0:44:58.760 --> 0:45:02.600 people here waiting. You get the black crew neck sweatshirt. 0:45:02.960 --> 0:45:04.839 It says Pip and Joy. It's the Bobby Bone Show. 0:45:05.520 --> 0:45:11.799 So what about whenever you guys did chemo radiation? How 0:45:11.880 --> 0:45:15.520 long was that and just from knowing other people that have 0:45:15.600 --> 0:45:20.160 gone through it, it's terrible for everybody involved. How long 0:45:20.200 --> 0:45:21.799 did you have to do it and how intense was it? 0:45:22.600 --> 0:45:26.400 For him, they chose six weeks of radiation. It was 0:45:26.560 --> 0:45:30.680 thirty rounds, with twenty being all over and the last 0:45:30.680 --> 0:45:36.440 ten being aimed directly at the tumors remaining. His cancer 0:45:36.760 --> 0:45:40.040 was higher risk and it was being aggressive, so they 0:45:40.160 --> 0:45:43.960 chose to add chemo with that. So every day he 0:45:44.040 --> 0:45:47.480 woke up and did chemo and then went to do 0:45:47.600 --> 0:45:51.560 radiation after which you don't see that often with children, 0:45:52.760 --> 0:45:54.279 and then he got a short break and then we 0:45:54.360 --> 0:45:58.960 started the hard chemo that was four chemos or three 0:45:59.040 --> 0:46:02.359 chemos together over a four day span. He would do that, 0:46:02.440 --> 0:46:04.920 and then as soon as his body showed like it 0:46:04.960 --> 0:46:08.000 was recovering, they would just start another round. 0:46:08.480 --> 0:46:11.640 At what point did you feel like we are progressing, 0:46:12.800 --> 0:46:15.120 like we might actually do this. 0:46:16.360 --> 0:46:21.240 I got hopeful when a couple of weeks after radiation ended, 0:46:21.360 --> 0:46:26.480 they said we were seeing a response, so be hopeful 0:46:26.480 --> 0:46:30.200 that even though he was stage three, we're seeing a response. 0:46:31.480 --> 0:46:34.239 So that was probably our first turning point, and I 0:46:34.280 --> 0:46:38.360 think it was what gave us, you know, something to 0:46:38.400 --> 0:46:40.960 look forward to and help us through that next couple 0:46:40.920 --> 0:46:42.040 of months that were pretty hard. 0:46:42.200 --> 0:46:45.160 When did you finish chemo first round or second round? 0:46:45.200 --> 0:46:47.160 All done? When we were all done the last the 0:46:47.200 --> 0:46:50.680 last few months. Yeah, did you do it? You ring 0:46:50.719 --> 0:46:54.800 a bell? 0:46:52.200 --> 0:46:56.200 I know what. 0:46:56.400 --> 0:46:57.520 He was very upset over. 0:46:57.600 --> 0:47:01.840 No, I saw a video of it and the second 0:47:01.880 --> 0:47:03.280 it was done, where's my belt? 0:47:03.400 --> 0:47:03.920 Exactly? 0:47:05.480 --> 0:47:06.480 How did it feel to finish it? 0:47:06.880 --> 0:47:10.560 Amazing? I got to go do the things with my 0:47:10.640 --> 0:47:12.400 friends that I've always done. 0:47:14.040 --> 0:47:16.200 That's the best part about being home and not haven't 0:47:16.239 --> 0:47:19.399 worry about that anymore. What's your favorite memory from being 0:47:19.400 --> 0:47:21.880 at Saint Jude. There's a lot, Give me a couple. 0:47:22.600 --> 0:47:23.600 There are no wrong answers here. 0:47:23.640 --> 0:47:29.120 I mean meeting Sam uh, probably meeting a lot of 0:47:29.160 --> 0:47:30.560 my friends there. 0:47:30.880 --> 0:47:34.279 Yeah, pretty cool. How they keep that environment huh Like 0:47:34.320 --> 0:47:36.239 it kind of sucks, I want to be honest. That 0:47:36.400 --> 0:47:39.160 why people are there. But it's such a positive place 0:47:40.280 --> 0:47:43.839 with everyone that is there. What would you tell another 0:47:43.920 --> 0:47:47.640 kid Fisher that's listening right now, if they're starting to 0:47:47.680 --> 0:47:48.400 go through something like this. 0:47:49.000 --> 0:47:51.400 You you're the one that knows what to say. 0:47:52.000 --> 0:47:57.399 I'm done. If one of your friends would any case, 0:47:57.480 --> 0:48:00.080 they're like, what worry about? Yeah, what would you say? 0:48:00.239 --> 0:48:01.160 Nothing to worry about? 0:48:01.360 --> 0:48:05.160 Like Saint Jude's got you. Yeah, that's awesome. What would 0:48:05.200 --> 0:48:06.920 you say, Oh, you know, it's great. I just keep 0:48:06.920 --> 0:48:10.640 thinking about that you're the magnet on the fridge or 0:48:10.680 --> 0:48:13.840 like your grandma's fridge, that of saint you kids. 0:48:14.560 --> 0:48:17.920 It's hard even now we get home and I've gotten 0:48:17.960 --> 0:48:21.640 too since we've been home, and it's kids that we 0:48:21.680 --> 0:48:24.080 met that were living in the same housing as us, 0:48:24.239 --> 0:48:24.600 you know. 0:48:24.600 --> 0:48:27.680 That are now on like them. Yes, and its pictures. 0:48:28.560 --> 0:48:32.600 It's the most unusual feeling, but like it hurts your 0:48:32.600 --> 0:48:35.880 heart to see them and then realize, you know, like 0:48:36.320 --> 0:48:38.520 it's not just a picture, like it was a kid 0:48:38.560 --> 0:48:41.240 we met and we played outside and drove remote controls 0:48:41.280 --> 0:48:45.200 with or and there's just no way for people to 0:48:45.239 --> 0:48:47.560 know that kid's story, you know. 0:48:48.440 --> 0:48:50.560 And to a lot of parents out there, I would 0:48:50.600 --> 0:48:52.279 say most to think, wow, this probably will never happen 0:48:52.320 --> 0:48:53.719 to me. I mean that was that was you who 0:48:53.760 --> 0:48:56.200 thought like that's what never happened to you? This just 0:48:56.239 --> 0:49:01.200 happens in like on TV abs. But it did. And 0:49:01.320 --> 0:49:03.279 if someone's listening now, they're thinking about it being a 0:49:03.280 --> 0:49:04.960 partner in hope, like what would you what would you 0:49:05.000 --> 0:49:06.359 ask them that you. 0:49:06.400 --> 0:49:10.839 Please consider this. There's no way to describe watching your 0:49:10.960 --> 0:49:15.799 child go through the treatment that they need, but not 0:49:16.000 --> 0:49:19.120 having to worry about. If you can pay for what's 0:49:19.160 --> 0:49:22.640 going to save their life. I will forever be grateful 0:49:22.680 --> 0:49:22.880 for that. 0:49:23.200 --> 0:49:25.080 So if you're listening now, you can text the word 0:49:25.120 --> 0:49:29.200 Bobby to seven eight five eight three three, click the 0:49:29.280 --> 0:49:32.080 link from Saint Jude to donate. That link is okay 0:49:32.080 --> 0:49:33.799 to click. If you text the word Bobby which is 0:49:33.840 --> 0:49:36.799 my name, to seven eight five eight three three, you'll 0:49:36.800 --> 0:49:39.200 get a link from Saint Jude. Click the link, fill 0:49:39.200 --> 0:49:41.600 it out. For nineteen bucks a month, you can help 0:49:41.680 --> 0:49:45.879 kids like Fisher at Saint Jude fight cancer. Another great 0:49:45.880 --> 0:49:47.560 thing is any of the research they do, they share 0:49:47.560 --> 0:49:49.960 it openly and freely with everybody, every hospital, everyone. So 0:49:50.280 --> 0:49:53.719 even if you know you're you're you're not at Saint 0:49:53.800 --> 0:49:56.640 Jude and you're at a hospital somewhere else, like that 0:49:56.800 --> 0:50:00.719 research that these you know people are listening to become 0:50:00.719 --> 0:50:03.160 partners up with their funding. It goes out to help 0:50:03.239 --> 0:50:06.719 other kids all around the country. So for sure, you're 0:50:06.719 --> 0:50:08.879 a pretty cool kid. You never know some kids aren't 0:50:08.880 --> 0:50:11.560 that cool. You're pretty cool, man, I got admit, you're 0:50:11.560 --> 0:50:14.640 pretty cool. Have birthday. 0:50:15.120 --> 0:50:16.600 Thank you pretty cool. 0:50:16.640 --> 0:50:17.560 We'll get to be twelve. 0:50:17.680 --> 0:50:17.879 Now. 0:50:18.360 --> 0:50:21.840 Remember the arm pit here thing? You are the odorant? Okay, 0:50:21.880 --> 0:50:23.799 good because some kids don't wear the odor it because 0:50:23.800 --> 0:50:25.920 they're like my arm pets don't sneak yet. But like 0:50:25.960 --> 0:50:27.480 now it's time. I'm just gonna be that guy. I'm 0:50:27.480 --> 0:50:28.920 gonna be your friend and let you know, like it'sign 0:50:28.920 --> 0:50:30.919 shot wearing the odorant, even if it doesn't smell that bad. 0:50:31.880 --> 0:50:33.720 But not too much cologne. Do you have work alone? 0:50:34.040 --> 0:50:35.759 Oh my gosh, my brother. 0:50:35.960 --> 0:50:38.560 Oh okay, so you know what it's like. You know 0:50:38.560 --> 0:50:39.319 what the too much? 0:50:40.360 --> 0:50:40.520 Yeah? 0:50:40.560 --> 0:50:46.040 Yeah, okay, cologne? Yes, extremely strong and you're only supposed. 0:50:45.719 --> 0:50:48.359 To like one little one. What's he doing? How old 0:50:48.360 --> 0:50:49.040 is he? 0:50:49.040 --> 0:50:49.720 He's fourteen? 0:50:49.800 --> 0:50:50.479 Okay, he like. 0:50:50.400 --> 0:50:51.160 Holds it down. 0:50:52.640 --> 0:50:55.560 You have an example, then we can do a little clone, 0:50:55.800 --> 0:50:58.360 but don't do the holding it down. I feel like 0:50:58.360 --> 0:50:59.040 you're a smart guy. 0:50:59.080 --> 0:50:59.560 You got this. 0:51:00.200 --> 0:51:02.080 You can spray it and then walk through it. 0:51:02.200 --> 0:51:05.400 And only once and only on special occasions, mostly deodorant. 0:51:06.320 --> 0:51:07.840 But then if it's like, you know, yeah, something, you 0:51:07.920 --> 0:51:10.080 do a look alone, big day, big up here, maybe 0:51:10.160 --> 0:51:12.160 a look long. You know, I don't I know ever 0:51:12.200 --> 0:51:15.000 work long. Okay, so this is every day for you, 0:51:15.080 --> 0:51:16.680 though I know it's ply pretty special, like to me, 0:51:16.760 --> 0:51:18.480 people like you. This is pretty cool for me, pretty 0:51:18.480 --> 0:51:21.560 cool day for me. You're out there, you're listening. Now, 0:51:21.840 --> 0:51:24.439 become a partner and hope the number one eight hundred, 0:51:24.560 --> 0:51:27.359 seven nine to five, eighteen hundred, or text the word 0:51:27.400 --> 0:51:30.400 Bobby to seven eight five eight three three. Thank you 0:51:30.440 --> 0:51:32.960 guys for coming up. You have made such a difference. 0:51:33.000 --> 0:51:34.480 I know you may just be thinking by your stopping 0:51:34.480 --> 0:51:38.120 by this goofballs show, but like you have made such 0:51:38.120 --> 0:51:41.600 a difference in being up here sharing your story, and 0:51:42.000 --> 0:51:45.239 I think this and people hearing this, I mean, will 0:51:45.280 --> 0:51:48.319 be the version of somebody singing on a refrigerator and 0:51:48.480 --> 0:51:50.799 one day there you know, you know, the world works 0:51:50.840 --> 0:51:53.600 in weird ways. All right, Fisher, I'm gonna be watching 0:51:53.640 --> 0:51:55.120 for you. What do you want to do when you 0:51:55.120 --> 0:51:55.919 grow up? What's the deal? 0:51:57.440 --> 0:52:01.520 I'm hoping to either exceed my dream and be a 0:52:01.520 --> 0:52:05.560 professional uh not motocross in duro racer. 0:52:05.680 --> 0:52:07.239 Okay, I don't know. I know motocross. I don't know 0:52:07.280 --> 0:52:11.200 what enduro is. It's is it like long time riding 0:52:11.200 --> 0:52:13.120 a bike for like hours and days. 0:52:13.160 --> 0:52:14.360 Like racing through the woods. 0:52:14.560 --> 0:52:17.520 Oh, like cross country running but for motorcycles. 0:52:17.680 --> 0:52:23.399 Yeah, but motocross is track see everything, and it's only 0:52:23.480 --> 0:52:27.319 for like five minutes. My races are the younger kid, 0:52:27.360 --> 0:52:29.920 it's like twenty minutes races do I do? It's like 0:52:29.960 --> 0:52:31.279 forty five minutes. 0:52:31.160 --> 0:52:33.000 The wins compared to do you keep going? Yeah, you 0:52:33.080 --> 0:52:35.439 got this, so that's what you want to do. Yeah, 0:52:35.480 --> 0:52:37.759 you have a bike. One time my friend had a 0:52:37.800 --> 0:52:40.440 mopad I got on it. You don't mopad is it's 0:52:40.440 --> 0:52:41.160 like a wingie bike. 0:52:41.320 --> 0:52:41.520 Yeah. 0:52:41.600 --> 0:52:43.800 Yeah, I wrecked it like five minutes, fell over immediately, 0:52:43.840 --> 0:52:45.279 never got on it again. So I'm scared of those. 0:52:45.320 --> 0:52:48.000 You're you're a bigger dude than I am. Uh Okay, Fisher, 0:52:48.080 --> 0:52:50.600 you're the man flying to Thank you so much. Everybody 0:52:50.600 --> 0:52:52.040 out there. Become a partner in hope if you can. 0:52:52.120 --> 0:52:53.839 If you can't afford it right now, we totally get it. 0:52:53.960 --> 0:52:55.160 If you can, you look up for a reason to 0:52:55.200 --> 0:52:58.000 help change lives. One eight hundred seventy nine five eighteen 0:52:58.080 --> 0:52:59.479 hundred and we'll be back. 0:53:02.239 --> 0:53:05.360 Wakey, wakey, eggs and baky. 0:53:06.200 --> 0:53:11.320 It's time for the Bobby Bones pre show. Here's your host, Bones, 0:53:11.680 --> 0:53:14.160 that's on me. You weren't ready, No, it wasn't that. 0:53:14.200 --> 0:53:17.359 I think I explained it to Ray wrong. Oh yeah, 0:53:17.400 --> 0:53:18.960 I think I explained it to keep us up. I 0:53:18.960 --> 0:53:22.200 think I explained it to Rayrong. Did anybody hear my explanation? 0:53:22.600 --> 0:53:24.440 I said, just do a normal intro. Okay, that's what 0:53:24.440 --> 0:53:26.160 I thought, And I think Ray thought normal intro was 0:53:26.200 --> 0:53:28.640 pre show. I met regular morning show because we're doing 0:53:28.640 --> 0:53:30.759 two shows, right, we have the Saint Jude Show, and 0:53:30.800 --> 0:53:32.759 some of our a Philliates can't carry the Saint Jude Show. 0:53:33.120 --> 0:53:35.280 And also I want our podcast listeners to have content 0:53:35.360 --> 0:53:38.920 for today as well, and so I was not as 0:53:38.960 --> 0:53:40.560 descriptive as I should have been. I said, Ray, give 0:53:40.600 --> 0:53:43.160 me the normal Bobby Bone Show morning intro that they 0:53:43.239 --> 0:53:44.880 hear at the front of the podcast. I think what 0:53:45.000 --> 0:53:48.600 Ray heard was give me the morning the pre show, 0:53:49.480 --> 0:53:53.080 so you know what that's on me? You know it 0:53:53.120 --> 0:53:54.360 sounded great. I was confused. 0:53:54.640 --> 0:54:10.320 Yeah, I hit it, hit it, transmitting. 0:54:05.880 --> 0:54:09.560 Alisa, Hey, welcome to Thursday show morning Studio Mine. Okay, 0:54:09.640 --> 0:54:12.800 so we're doing the Saint Jude radiothon. That's not this show. 0:54:13.239 --> 0:54:15.520 This is gonna be content that we would have done 0:54:15.760 --> 0:54:17.839 had we not done the Saint Jude Radiothon. But we 0:54:17.840 --> 0:54:19.759 appreciate every single partner and hope we'll give you a 0:54:19.840 --> 0:54:21.279 chance to be a partner and hope in this as well, 0:54:21.320 --> 0:54:24.120 because we kind of hang our hats on this. We're 0:54:24.200 --> 0:54:27.080 very passionate about it, and we hope you guys, for 0:54:27.200 --> 0:54:28.879 nineteen bucks a month can be a partner in Hope. 0:54:28.920 --> 0:54:30.480 I can actually give you the number and then I 0:54:30.520 --> 0:54:32.080 got a lot of stuff to talk about. But if 0:54:32.080 --> 0:54:33.959 you want to text and be a partner in Hope, 0:54:34.239 --> 0:54:36.439 which you can all the way through Sunday, I think 0:54:36.920 --> 0:54:39.319 you can text the word Bobby to seven eight five 0:54:39.440 --> 0:54:41.799 eight three three, and so become a partner in Hope. 0:54:41.800 --> 0:54:44.399 Text the word Bobby to seven eight five eight three three. 0:54:44.760 --> 0:54:47.080 You get a Pimp and Joy sweatshirt that's made just 0:54:47.120 --> 0:54:50.800 for today. You you really do. It does help. I 0:54:50.840 --> 0:54:53.239 mean parents don't pay bills. There are no bills for 0:54:53.320 --> 0:54:56.399 travel or housing or food and so more of that 0:54:56.440 --> 0:55:00.120 to come. But we are very passionate about it. We 0:55:00.160 --> 0:55:03.279 spend two days you know, of the show doing it. 0:55:03.560 --> 0:55:04.920 So if you can become a partner, and I hope 0:55:04.920 --> 0:55:07.319 that would be awesome. I'd like to say, avn't had 0:55:07.320 --> 0:55:10.759 a meal in three days, Emmy, aal meal, And I 0:55:10.760 --> 0:55:13.359 say that a little southern. I've had a stomach bug 0:55:13.400 --> 0:55:16.760 for about three days, and I'm like sixty percent better, 0:55:16.800 --> 0:55:18.640 which is great because you know how amy when you're 0:55:18.640 --> 0:55:20.400 sick for a long time and then you finally are 0:55:20.480 --> 0:55:23.040 just a little less sick, You're like, oh, llelujah, I 0:55:23.080 --> 0:55:25.000 feel great, like run a marathon, like it feels so good. 0:55:25.400 --> 0:55:29.040 And so there's a bit whenever I like push to talk. 0:55:29.080 --> 0:55:30.680 We were doing like commercials and stuff, and you got 0:55:30.680 --> 0:55:33.040 to have a little more umph, little energy. I had 0:55:33.040 --> 0:55:34.799 to pause and be like, ooh, I might throw up, 0:55:35.239 --> 0:55:36.200 or am I puma pants? 0:55:37.040 --> 0:55:37.720 That'd be terrible. 0:55:37.760 --> 0:55:39.920 It will be terrible. Not too good to say. It's 0:55:39.920 --> 0:55:43.719 happened before and recently so but I'm feeling pretty good. 0:55:43.719 --> 0:55:45.160 But I avn't had a real meal in three days. 0:55:45.840 --> 0:55:48.360 Crackers that type thing. 0:55:48.320 --> 0:55:50.080 Oh yeah, stuff that you can keep down. 0:55:50.200 --> 0:55:52.360 But I only say that now because I'm starting to 0:55:52.360 --> 0:55:53.760 feel better, which is awesome. 0:55:53.840 --> 0:55:55.760 What do you think is going to be your first meal? 0:55:57.200 --> 0:55:58.520 Why'd you say it like that meal? 0:55:59.320 --> 0:56:00.879 That's why I say I. 0:56:00.800 --> 0:56:02.480 Didn't think anything weird about it. People make fun of 0:56:02.480 --> 0:56:05.360 me mual because it's like two syllables and it's like 0:56:05.400 --> 0:56:07.520 I am straight from the cement pond. At the Beverly 0:56:07.560 --> 0:56:08.000 Hill Bellies. 0:56:08.000 --> 0:56:09.160 You're saying, like mill. 0:56:11.000 --> 0:56:13.600 Meal anyway, I don't know, It'll be something light and. 0:56:13.520 --> 0:56:15.120 Tight, you know, I don't know if you're craving something. 0:56:15.280 --> 0:56:18.360 No, I have no need to eat anything, like I 0:56:18.360 --> 0:56:20.160 don't want to eat anything I need to. But it's 0:56:20.160 --> 0:56:22.280 like I'm not even hungry when I woke up this morning, 0:56:22.640 --> 0:56:24.839 Like I have my first whole thing first of all, 0:56:24.880 --> 0:56:27.600 like a bagel type thing, sourdo bagel, and my wife 0:56:27.600 --> 0:56:27.840 got me. 0:56:29.640 --> 0:56:32.160 Oh, that reminds me I'm gonna get picking up sourdough bread. 0:56:31.960 --> 0:56:34.840 Today that didn't sit very well or what it's the talking, 0:56:35.320 --> 0:56:37.680 it's like the oh gosh. 0:56:37.520 --> 0:56:39.719 Let me speak for you. So you you got the. 0:56:39.680 --> 0:56:44.200 Bag that came out, So I got it, and. 0:56:43.000 --> 0:56:43.960 Let's guess, let's finish this. 0:56:44.200 --> 0:56:46.160 I'm just ready to be hungry because when I'm hungry, 0:56:46.160 --> 0:56:48.560 my body is healing. I'm ready to my body be 0:56:48.600 --> 0:56:49.640 like I'm starving. 0:56:49.680 --> 0:56:49.919 Man. 0:56:50.640 --> 0:56:54.600 Uh So you're doing chicken middle sup? Yeah, hackers and 0:56:54.840 --> 0:56:56.440 had a little soup, but the chick you know, I 0:56:56.440 --> 0:56:59.760 don't want to talk about a six yes, but no broth 0:57:00.040 --> 0:57:03.000 for the most part, A little ginger ale, little orange juice, 0:57:03.640 --> 0:57:05.400 all the stuff that really doesn't matter, but our grandmas 0:57:05.400 --> 0:57:08.080 made us think that when we were young. So, but 0:57:08.120 --> 0:57:09.319 there was no post show yet, there's nothing. 0:57:09.400 --> 0:57:09.760 Yesterday. 0:57:09.880 --> 0:57:11.920 I did the show and then I left because I 0:57:11.960 --> 0:57:13.480 was I should have worked from home and worked from 0:57:13.480 --> 0:57:15.920 the studio at home. That was my bad. But I 0:57:15.960 --> 0:57:18.840 did it, showed up, almost put my pants but didn't. 0:57:19.520 --> 0:57:21.240 Got that got out of here good that you didn't 0:57:21.240 --> 0:57:22.120 feeling good here today? 0:57:22.120 --> 0:57:22.320 Though? 0:57:22.560 --> 0:57:23.919 Do you want to put James on? Is James still 0:57:23.920 --> 0:57:24.280 on the phone? 0:57:25.640 --> 0:57:26.680 You know? 0:57:26.920 --> 0:57:27.200 You know? 0:57:27.680 --> 0:57:28.680 Are you talking? Did he hang up? 0:57:30.120 --> 0:57:30.800 Put him on hold? 0:57:31.000 --> 0:57:31.240 You guys? 0:57:31.240 --> 0:57:33.120 A James James calls the voicemail all time? Oh yeah, 0:57:33.320 --> 0:57:35.040 James in what state? Everybody? 0:57:35.720 --> 0:57:36.120 Virginia? 0:57:36.120 --> 0:57:40.600 And yeah, that's right. Can you put them on? Hey James, Hey, Bobby, 0:57:40.760 --> 0:57:43.200 what's up? Buddy? 0:57:44.120 --> 0:57:48.440 You're awesome. You're awesome before you met even before you 0:57:48.520 --> 0:57:52.400 met Caitlin, you've been such just you don't have any 0:57:52.480 --> 0:57:57.480 children yet or even even a lady, you know, wife 0:57:57.880 --> 0:58:00.920 at that point, but you've always been so supportive of 0:58:01.000 --> 0:58:06.720 the children. But so, yeah, I'm trying to arrange to 0:58:06.760 --> 0:58:11.560 get one of them. Pimp and Joy And by the way, 0:58:11.600 --> 0:58:14.320 it always sounds like Pimp and Joy, but it's actually 0:58:14.480 --> 0:58:19.080 Pimp and p I m p a n Joy arrange 0:58:19.080 --> 0:58:24.040 to get well one of the sweatshirts. 0:58:24.080 --> 0:58:25.120 But what do you want? 0:58:25.840 --> 0:58:27.040 What I want? What do you just tell us what 0:58:27.080 --> 0:58:29.200 you want? I'm running the show here. What do you want? 0:58:31.400 --> 0:58:36.280 Well, just a large Saint Jud's and a large Pimp 0:58:36.360 --> 0:58:39.800 and Joy and then I am going to contribute, huh. 0:58:39.840 --> 0:58:40.640 I get them both for you. 0:58:42.640 --> 0:58:42.760 All. 0:58:42.920 --> 0:58:45.400 Hey, y'all are awesome. I love the buy Ball family 0:58:45.680 --> 0:58:50.760 and I was telling Scuba, y'all just have an awesome 0:58:50.800 --> 0:58:54.760 family team. I really mean that, and y'all personified that 0:58:55.320 --> 0:58:59.720 because I came down to Jackson's Good Time Bar and 0:58:59.760 --> 0:59:03.680 grow when Abby made her debut the show showed up. 0:59:04.000 --> 0:59:05.920 He drove ten hours. Dude, he drove ten hours to 0:59:05.960 --> 0:59:06.800 come to the show. 0:59:06.800 --> 0:59:10.360 He's like, legit support him. I think James we like 0:59:10.360 --> 0:59:15.600 trying to set her up with them from Abby. Yeah, Hi, he. 0:59:15.720 --> 0:59:16.320 Kept his distance. 0:59:16.360 --> 0:59:17.400 Let him tell you what he did. 0:59:19.360 --> 0:59:22.800 Well, her co worker chat. I went to the bathroom 0:59:23.440 --> 0:59:25.920 at the end of the show and Abby there was 0:59:25.960 --> 0:59:29.720 a side table, and I guess Amy and maybe Shatira 0:59:29.800 --> 0:59:33.400 and Stevenson were I didn't look because I was there 0:59:33.400 --> 0:59:37.160 to make sure somebody showed up. And I told Scooba 0:59:37.160 --> 0:59:44.000 about my school girlfriend and she drew up pre New 0:59:44.080 --> 0:59:49.640 yeary party and nobody showed up. But she got so trashed, 0:59:50.080 --> 0:59:51.560 so we didn't get to go to any of the 0:59:51.600 --> 0:59:57.360 other events because she was so done. But uh about that, 0:59:57.400 --> 1:00:00.360 what happened? What happened if nobody shows up? That's why 1:00:00.360 --> 1:00:02.680 I grow to make sure that somebody was there. And 1:00:02.840 --> 1:00:06.920 I and I teddy what awesome awful parents were there. 1:00:07.080 --> 1:00:09.880 But her mother's best friend was because I met her 1:00:10.760 --> 1:00:13.919 because I sit next to I know the story about 1:00:14.040 --> 1:00:16.560 all of y'all, but I'd love That's why I call 1:00:16.600 --> 1:00:20.800 it the Bondball Family Show, because you're always so enthusiastic 1:00:20.880 --> 1:00:23.480 and you give so much wisdom, But you really are 1:00:23.520 --> 1:00:26.920 a family. Y'all really care about each other sometimes. 1:00:26.480 --> 1:00:27.280 But that's a real family. 1:00:27.640 --> 1:00:28.840 We're family. 1:00:29.920 --> 1:00:30.440 We want to kill it. 1:00:30.680 --> 1:00:32.959 We want to kill each other. To any of these shows, 1:00:32.960 --> 1:00:34.640 you here like they're all friends all the time, best friend, 1:00:34.680 --> 1:00:36.240 best friend. That's they're full of crowd. They don't even 1:00:36.280 --> 1:00:38.280 like each other in real life. And the and these 1:00:38.280 --> 1:00:40.360 shows you hear podcasts they fight with each other on 1:00:40.680 --> 1:00:43.040 and then they come back the next day. I mean, 1:00:43.120 --> 1:00:45.480 isn't that what family is? Yes, you want to punch 1:00:45.480 --> 1:00:47.800 them in the freaking head, But then you're. 1:00:47.640 --> 1:00:49.640 Like, I guess, tell us how you really feel? 1:00:49.800 --> 1:00:52.040 Yeah, yeah, hey, you can this way too. 1:00:52.160 --> 1:00:53.760 No, for sure, but if you're like on the side 1:00:53.760 --> 1:00:55.280 of the road or the flat tire, will go help you, 1:00:55.360 --> 1:00:55.760 for sure. 1:00:56.000 --> 1:00:58.280 Uh, Eddie, say what you want to say. If you 1:00:58.320 --> 1:00:59.200 need a kidney, you'll give it. 1:00:59.240 --> 1:00:59.959 You give your kidne. 1:01:00.120 --> 1:01:03.080 Yeah, hey, James, I think we'll make sure we have 1:01:03.120 --> 1:01:04.560 your addressed stuff. We'll just send you a whole bunch 1:01:04.600 --> 1:01:06.960 of stuff. We appreciate you call and appreciate you being 1:01:06.960 --> 1:01:08.439 a part of the career. Buddy. We feel like whenever 1:01:08.440 --> 1:01:10.360 you leave a voicemail or you call, we love it. 1:01:10.520 --> 1:01:11.440 So please don't stop. 1:01:11.480 --> 1:01:15.480 Okay, Hey, can I tell you the ultimate? Tell me 1:01:15.520 --> 1:01:16.200 something good? 1:01:16.400 --> 1:01:17.280 I would love to hear it. 1:01:17.560 --> 1:01:22.920 I mean, I lived, it's my life. January twenty nineteen. 1:01:24.080 --> 1:01:29.880 I was I was fine, felt fine, but I was 1:01:29.920 --> 1:01:34.080 installing a rural mailbox at the wrong house on the 1:01:34.120 --> 1:01:40.240 wrong street. My brain obviously wasn't getting up oxygen, and 1:01:40.400 --> 1:01:47.800 uh so I flopped over and if I'd been on 1:01:47.840 --> 1:01:51.400 the right street, at the right house, my anonymous guardian 1:01:51.440 --> 1:01:53.680 Angel would not have been driving by and saw me 1:01:53.760 --> 1:01:59.760 flop over, and apparently she started CPR, got hold. I 1:01:59.840 --> 1:02:03.720 call the second first responders aka the Fort Washington Hospital, 1:02:03.760 --> 1:02:09.840 shout out our Fort Washington Rescue squad team and when 1:02:09.880 --> 1:02:13.440 they got to me, my heart was beating one or 1:02:13.480 --> 1:02:16.959 two times a minute. So they got me in the 1:02:17.000 --> 1:02:21.320 rescue mobile and they're raising me the Fort Washington Hospital 1:02:22.000 --> 1:02:25.120 and along the way they had to zapp me three 1:02:25.200 --> 1:02:28.800 times and they're racing me through their murgency room door 1:02:29.320 --> 1:02:33.400 and I flatlined on them and flatlined thirty three minutes. 1:02:34.200 --> 1:02:42.360 But the medical teams, the professionalism and the coordination amongst 1:02:42.400 --> 1:02:47.959 all of them. Fort Washington Hospital knew that with their 1:02:49.760 --> 1:02:54.640 staff that I was way above their capabilities saved my life. 1:02:55.560 --> 1:02:58.680 They already had a METAVAC on the way, so they 1:02:58.680 --> 1:03:02.800 got me on life support and airbacked me. Met it 1:03:02.880 --> 1:03:08.000 BacT me to Menstall Washington d C. I was on 1:03:08.040 --> 1:03:12.600 life support there nine days. They ran brain scans and 1:03:13.200 --> 1:03:16.080 brought me back to life and I didn't come out 1:03:16.280 --> 1:03:19.040 for uh. That was on the age. I came back 1:03:19.280 --> 1:03:26.520 started to come back to on twenty four and I 1:03:26.560 --> 1:03:30.840 got released on my fifty seventh birthday four days later, 1:03:31.000 --> 1:03:34.280 and uh, but there's more to the rest of the story, 1:03:34.680 --> 1:03:37.600 or there is a rest of the story. So I 1:03:37.760 --> 1:03:43.880 flopped over and one of the spectators, one of the neighbors, 1:03:44.600 --> 1:03:49.880 my HIC was parked in front of driveway. So she 1:03:50.120 --> 1:03:54.720 found it, you know, proper to move it, and found 1:03:54.760 --> 1:03:58.840 one of my business cards. So I'm a small company. 1:03:59.000 --> 1:04:02.120 I only had three but work with me. Their names 1:04:02.160 --> 1:04:04.000 are me and myself and I. So if me or I, 1:04:04.040 --> 1:04:10.320 don't do it. But she called that number and uh, 1:04:11.320 --> 1:04:15.000 you know, obviously that's just going to go to voicemail 1:04:16.000 --> 1:04:19.320 and uh, but she had the perseverance and the competency 1:04:20.000 --> 1:04:23.480 and thought the solution to the problem. Didn't think the problem. 1:04:23.680 --> 1:04:26.200 The problem's already there, but she thought the solution. That's 1:04:26.240 --> 1:04:28.960 why I came up with that line. Have a problem, 1:04:29.000 --> 1:04:33.720 think the solution. So what she did was she googled 1:04:33.760 --> 1:04:38.080 my company. And because I bought my home from my 1:04:38.280 --> 1:04:43.440 sister fifteen years prior and never had a landline, my 1:04:43.520 --> 1:04:46.600 sister's number was still associated with to her old address, 1:04:46.600 --> 1:04:48.200 and that's how my family found out. 1:04:48.480 --> 1:04:52.760 Oh wow, oh my god, crazy, because otherwise, yeah, they 1:04:52.760 --> 1:04:53.800 wouldn't have known where he was. 1:04:53.920 --> 1:04:57.280 And so what you're saying too, is that your this 1:04:57.360 --> 1:04:59.880 was going to happen to you regardless, like physically, You're 1:05:00.040 --> 1:05:01.760 body was going to give out, And had you been 1:05:01.800 --> 1:05:03.760 at the other place where you were supposed to be 1:05:04.280 --> 1:05:06.120 that person that did all this work, would not have 1:05:06.360 --> 1:05:08.960 been there to have seen you fall over and then 1:05:09.280 --> 1:05:10.320 follow through like that. 1:05:12.080 --> 1:05:15.080 I come from a very Catholic family. Four of my 1:05:15.280 --> 1:05:19.360 five ants for Catholic nuns. My fifth one never took 1:05:19.400 --> 1:05:22.840 her final vow because she took care of my grandmother 1:05:23.760 --> 1:05:30.200 was utterly. Bishop Soulvan of Richmond is my second cousin. 1:05:30.320 --> 1:05:39.040 I guess that's the way we're always put told. My 1:05:39.040 --> 1:05:43.600 my father's brother married Bishop Soulsan's sister, So I don't 1:05:43.640 --> 1:05:46.720 know if that's second cousin, but that's out the math let. 1:05:46.760 --> 1:05:50.680 Two of my aunts are buried at Saint Mary's across 1:05:50.680 --> 1:05:54.440 from their dame, and so is one of our close 1:05:54.480 --> 1:05:58.320 family friends, sister John Frederick. And if you've never been 1:05:58.400 --> 1:06:01.160 to the granit another game. I'm telling you it's the 1:06:01.200 --> 1:06:05.640 most humbling experience in my entire life. I mean it is, 1:06:05.720 --> 1:06:15.840 so it's just it's so warm and humbling and just awesome. 1:06:15.920 --> 1:06:20.120 But I don't know, but I don't have the five 1:06:20.200 --> 1:06:24.840 Bow family. But that is that's my love story. And 1:06:26.680 --> 1:06:30.680 and you know, my favorite county is PG County. I 1:06:30.720 --> 1:06:33.440 live across the river. I caught unfair tax County. It's 1:06:33.440 --> 1:06:37.760 Philly Fairfax County. I'm caught unfair tax. That's a probably. Well, 1:06:37.760 --> 1:06:41.000 it's the wealthiest black community in America. These are the 1:06:41.120 --> 1:06:43.439 night I don't My father's like, what are you doing 1:06:43.480 --> 1:06:45.800 working over there? Don't you read the paper, don't you 1:06:46.040 --> 1:06:48.720 watch the news? I said, Dad, I don't work in 1:06:48.760 --> 1:06:51.920 a partner the townhouses. I work at single family homes. 1:06:52.040 --> 1:06:55.040 And Dad, I'm telling you, these are the most kindest, nicest, 1:06:55.120 --> 1:06:59.280 most grateful, god fearing people. So anyway, I was living 1:06:59.320 --> 1:07:01.200 with my father last three and a half years of 1:07:01.200 --> 1:07:06.440 his life, and uh, and I was working over in 1:07:06.480 --> 1:07:10.959 PG County. And this is uh way back in two 1:07:11.000 --> 1:07:14.080 thousand and two thousand and one. I've been in business 1:07:14.120 --> 1:07:18.760 six years and always you know, just I'm just telling you, 1:07:18.800 --> 1:07:23.040 it's an awesome community. So annyway up, all these people 1:07:24.000 --> 1:07:29.320 would mail their checks to me, and they always had 1:07:29.320 --> 1:07:32.320 a post it note or a thank you card, and 1:07:32.400 --> 1:07:35.880 it was all PG County. And my dad's referring to 1:07:36.040 --> 1:07:40.000 my mail as my love letters. And yep, and I'm 1:07:40.040 --> 1:07:43.200 telling you what I'm color brod. And I know your 1:07:43.240 --> 1:07:45.480 show is as well. I know how close you are 1:07:45.600 --> 1:07:51.640 to like Kane Brown and Various Rucker and and Amy 1:07:51.760 --> 1:07:53.560 with you know, a gospel. 1:07:55.400 --> 1:07:58.120 Now we understand, I know, we understand what you're saying. 1:07:58.160 --> 1:08:00.320 Unless we can't, we eventually have to move on to 1:08:00.360 --> 1:08:02.560 something else here, but we really appreciate that. I also 1:08:02.720 --> 1:08:04.240 like in real life from color blind. But also I'm 1:08:04.240 --> 1:08:05.920 not colorblind, Like I do see color. And I think 1:08:05.960 --> 1:08:08.880 every everybody that does a different color of skin, you know, 1:08:08.880 --> 1:08:10.920 it goes through different things. And you know, someone goes, oh, 1:08:10.920 --> 1:08:12.560 I don't see color. I kind of think that's a lie. 1:08:12.920 --> 1:08:14.600 I do see color, and I do understand people go 1:08:14.600 --> 1:08:16.960 through different things because of how they were born and 1:08:17.040 --> 1:08:19.400 what they were born into. But I do understand your sentiment, 1:08:19.400 --> 1:08:22.160 and I also agree with your sentiment. But that that's crazy, 1:08:22.280 --> 1:08:24.080 that the whole, the whole crazy. I'm glad we give 1:08:24.160 --> 1:08:26.559 James some space here air. 1:08:26.439 --> 1:08:28.519 That out his own personal tell me something good. 1:08:29.560 --> 1:08:31.439 A great listener and a great caller, and we've never. 1:08:31.360 --> 1:08:33.960 Spent one day one day, one day I want him 1:08:33.960 --> 1:08:36.760 to call and leave us a voicemail about why he 1:08:36.960 --> 1:08:40.200 was doing the wrong mailbox. I know that that worked 1:08:40.200 --> 1:08:41.719 out in his favor, but you know, we have stories 1:08:41.760 --> 1:08:44.120 sometimes where people, you know, throw a wrecking ball into 1:08:44.120 --> 1:08:45.680 the wrong house and it's like whoop. See I mean 1:08:45.720 --> 1:08:47.760 a male you know, how do you make the what 1:08:47.880 --> 1:08:48.680 was the mix up? You know? 1:08:49.280 --> 1:08:52.559 Well, sometimes they can't. They reckon ball the wrong house. Yes, yeah, 1:08:52.960 --> 1:08:55.040 that's what I'm saying. Did you say that? Yeah, it's ready. 1:08:55.040 --> 1:08:57.559 Get text from somebody saying this is a long call. 1:08:58.560 --> 1:09:00.920 When you said that, well that's why I said to 1:09:00.960 --> 1:09:01.720 call back and leave us. 1:09:03.040 --> 1:09:04.200 I know, sorry, I wasn't. 1:09:04.280 --> 1:09:06.439 I'd also like a voicemail to see like what happened 1:09:06.479 --> 1:09:07.960 when he would flatline for thirty minutes? 1:09:07.960 --> 1:09:09.080 Like what did he see? Great? 1:09:09.680 --> 1:09:12.400 Leave James, buddy, We're going to send you that stuff. 1:09:12.439 --> 1:09:14.400 Thank you for listening, and we'll talk to you soon. 1:09:14.439 --> 1:09:18.680 Okay, man, Hey, take care of both family team, and 1:09:18.760 --> 1:09:21.360 take care of the children. They're just fighting for their laugh. 1:09:21.960 --> 1:09:24.360 And uh. The other thing is you can say, Bob 1:09:24.400 --> 1:09:27.160 because you've never been a father, but you've always been 1:09:27.320 --> 1:09:30.920 supportive of Saint dudes, and like you know, I'm an 1:09:31.000 --> 1:09:33.000 uncle many times though, But well, actually I have a 1:09:33.720 --> 1:09:36.839 great uncle and a couple of years from now, assuming 1:09:36.920 --> 1:09:40.800 the Lord gets me extra time, more exercise, I'll be 1:09:40.840 --> 1:09:43.880 a great great uncle because uh, I come for a 1:09:44.000 --> 1:09:46.960 very Catholic family, very small plan. But I'll tell you what, 1:09:47.720 --> 1:09:51.960 Uh they're breeding like well, mate, been breeding pretty quick 1:09:52.080 --> 1:09:52.719 my whole life. 1:09:53.479 --> 1:09:56.240 Look, we can do a whole hour with James, I 1:09:56.240 --> 1:09:58.680 feel pretty easily. I definitely wanted to give James room 1:09:58.680 --> 1:09:59.920 to stretch out and talk to us a little bit. 1:10:00.560 --> 1:10:01.760 Don't want to be rude, but I do have to 1:10:01.760 --> 1:10:03.639 move on, James. But we we really appreciate you. We're 1:10:03.640 --> 1:10:04.400 going to send you some stuff. 1:10:04.400 --> 1:10:08.120 Okay, buddy, all right, take care of the family, your 1:10:08.160 --> 1:10:10.280 pop bone family, take care of the children. 1:10:10.600 --> 1:10:12.360 But oh, y'all, thanks James. 1:10:12.560 --> 1:10:12.800 James. 1:10:12.840 --> 1:10:14.559 By the fact they drove ten hours to make sure 1:10:14.600 --> 1:10:16.559 Abby didn't have a party by herself, amazing. That's why 1:10:16.560 --> 1:10:18.120 that guy gets to talk for fifteen minutes. And let's 1:10:18.200 --> 1:10:19.040 just sit back and listen. 1:10:19.600 --> 1:10:22.879 And it's like you never know the gain of something 1:10:23.040 --> 1:10:26.680 that happens, like when it's rough. But like Abby benefited 1:10:26.720 --> 1:10:31.639 from his this guy's James's girlfriend's party that she's party 1:10:31.680 --> 1:10:34.040 two years back where nobody showed up and she drank 1:10:34.040 --> 1:10:36.240 too much. Like then that that benefited Abby. 1:10:36.280 --> 1:10:37.720 I always like people started to call 'm my black 1:10:37.720 --> 1:10:39.240 friends too, just to be like, I know you like 1:10:39.280 --> 1:10:41.000 black people. Let me list out your black friends. And 1:10:41.040 --> 1:10:42.680 I have more black friends than that, but you know, 1:10:43.000 --> 1:10:47.599 yeah I can, and I'm like, you know, yeah, yeah, 1:10:47.720 --> 1:10:49.120 I don't any I don't think he was doing it 1:10:49.160 --> 1:10:51.320 from home at all. I think he was just like 1:10:51.840 --> 1:10:53.599 you like everybody. And I always think it's funny when 1:10:53.640 --> 1:10:55.000 it's like here's one, here's your one. 1:10:55.040 --> 1:10:56.519 Did think you're talking about your eye's eyes? 1:10:56.760 --> 1:10:57.080 Me too? 1:10:57.120 --> 1:10:59.760 Color blind? And I'm like, I am that color bloe. 1:11:00.080 --> 1:11:01.760 But I just want to state I'm not colorblind toward 1:11:02.040 --> 1:11:04.800 what people go through being different from different places and 1:11:04.840 --> 1:11:07.400 different races, like uh yeah, yeah, I always love onen. 1:11:07.400 --> 1:11:09.479 Some'th like a listen black friends. They forgot Charlemagne, they 1:11:09.479 --> 1:11:12.400 forgot I got like nine others. But there's ever a 1:11:12.439 --> 1:11:14.360 complete list. We can want to do that. 1:11:14.479 --> 1:11:14.920 I'm odd. 1:11:15.160 --> 1:11:16.360 Yeah, I meant. 1:11:17.479 --> 1:11:18.960 I got lots of Mexican friends too. We need to 1:11:19.000 --> 1:11:19.160 do that. 1:11:19.200 --> 1:11:19.720 We go down that. 1:11:21.120 --> 1:11:25.360 I'm forty okay, man, I had so I had a 1:11:25.479 --> 1:11:27.400 huge list to get to of stuff. 1:11:29.040 --> 1:11:29.280 Real. 1:11:29.680 --> 1:11:31.640 Yeah, thank you? Could you guys hear Scoopa say that 1:11:31.680 --> 1:11:36.240 or just thank you? I do want to talk about stealing. 1:11:37.439 --> 1:11:40.880 We can't. And I know it's nobody here, but I'll 1:11:40.880 --> 1:11:42.960 burn the building down if people start stealing from this office. 1:11:45.120 --> 1:11:48.960 People are taking stuff from my office, which there's no 1:11:49.120 --> 1:11:51.280 I don't put a lot in there. Because of the 1:11:51.360 --> 1:11:54.040 last building we were in, people stole like good stuff, 1:11:56.080 --> 1:11:57.680 meaning it doesn't matter if they're still bad stuff. I'm 1:11:57.680 --> 1:12:01.080 still pissed, but they still like I had. For example, 1:12:02.960 --> 1:12:06.200 I've known Laney Wilson since before she had a record deal, 1:12:06.960 --> 1:12:08.960 and she had written this real nice thing and it 1:12:09.000 --> 1:12:11.720 was like, you know, once artist, if I've had a 1:12:11.760 --> 1:12:14.599 relationship with them, or if like help them or whatever. 1:12:14.640 --> 1:12:15.960 And she definitely didn't need my help. And I'm not 1:12:16.000 --> 1:12:17.800 saying that, but I'm saying like I was a big 1:12:17.920 --> 1:12:20.599 supporter early, early, early, and we had to do show, 1:12:20.640 --> 1:12:23.160 a million dollar show with us, and so she wrote 1:12:23.160 --> 1:12:26.440 this thing about ever somebody stole it out of my office. 1:12:27.120 --> 1:12:28.560 That was just one of many things like that was 1:12:28.640 --> 1:12:31.479 valuable to me because that has like sentimental value. How 1:12:31.479 --> 1:12:33.280 could I get Landy to sign something tomorrow. Yeah, but 1:12:33.280 --> 1:12:37.840 that's that's the point of it. So we started like somebody, 1:12:37.840 --> 1:12:43.040 sy'll raise hot pockets, Oh yeah from the freezer. Yeah, 1:12:43.120 --> 1:12:46.320 even better, Brazer. That was a little different. If anybody starts, 1:12:46.320 --> 1:12:51.960 if we I'll burn the building down. Don't if it's good. 1:12:51.960 --> 1:12:52.479 But what do we know. 1:12:53.960 --> 1:12:55.439 I'm not really sure what's happening, but I sent an 1:12:55.439 --> 1:12:57.960 email to two important people that says the water is 1:12:58.000 --> 1:13:00.639 gone in our green green room. The fridge was stocked 1:13:00.640 --> 1:13:03.479 on Monday, and we had a pack in the cabinet. 1:13:03.600 --> 1:13:06.160 Now nothing. It's not just about the water disappearing, it's 1:13:06.160 --> 1:13:09.080 the principle of it. Someone came into the green you said, yeah, yeah, 1:13:09.080 --> 1:13:11.720 someone came in my office the ground. Yeah, well, no 1:13:11.760 --> 1:13:13.240 one stole from your office this time. 1:13:14.040 --> 1:13:15.160 Well, the green room is. 1:13:15.400 --> 1:13:17.280 The greenom is still our space. That's why I said, 1:13:17.280 --> 1:13:19.040 this is our space open though. Yeah, but it doesn't matter. 1:13:19.080 --> 1:13:21.400 You shouldn't walk in someone's your desk and just start 1:13:21.400 --> 1:13:22.080 taking your pencils. 1:13:22.120 --> 1:13:23.920 It's just a little easier to if a place is 1:13:23.920 --> 1:13:24.519 wide open, and. 1:13:24.680 --> 1:13:26.439 You're only going to burn it down if it's your office. 1:13:26.520 --> 1:13:28.560 Because it's locked, someone has to get in there with 1:13:28.680 --> 1:13:30.320 a key and has to know somebody that's different. 1:13:30.400 --> 1:13:31.880 But no one stole from your office this time. 1:13:32.320 --> 1:13:35.000 If I'll just say this about the green room, if 1:13:35.040 --> 1:13:37.679 like you work in this building, they shouldn't take anything 1:13:37.680 --> 1:13:41.759 of ours. There's a wide open community refrigerator. I'll probably 1:13:41.760 --> 1:13:43.320 take water two from that. I'll be honest. 1:13:43.400 --> 1:13:46.360 The green room is not a community refrigerator. 1:13:45.760 --> 1:13:46.439 But it's wide open. 1:13:47.160 --> 1:13:48.120 There's a community fridge in. 1:13:49.920 --> 1:13:51.320 Over here in the green rooms open and there's a 1:13:51.360 --> 1:13:52.960 water and there. I'll probably wouldake one of those. I 1:13:52.960 --> 1:13:53.920 wouldn't burn it down for that. 1:13:54.439 --> 1:13:55.759 You had to take all the waters. 1:13:55.920 --> 1:13:59.200 Yeah, no, that sucks one bottle, sure, take the case. 1:13:59.280 --> 1:14:00.960 My point is like and a full fridge. 1:14:01.040 --> 1:14:02.519 Let's just it's the whole case. 1:14:02.640 --> 1:14:03.200 The whole case. 1:14:04.840 --> 1:14:09.920 They're thirsty they need now, I'm sympathetic to their problem. 1:14:09.960 --> 1:14:15.120 Just ask them office. It totally switches. Yeah, we can't 1:14:15.120 --> 1:14:19.360 have stealing here. I want to I'll not come in. 1:14:20.080 --> 1:14:22.439 You heard me say it. If people start stealing, I'll 1:14:22.479 --> 1:14:23.800 just work from home for the rest of my life. 1:14:24.240 --> 1:14:28.880 Mm hmm. Okay, okay, And. 1:14:28.760 --> 1:14:30.280 That's up to you guys to figure out what you're. 1:14:30.120 --> 1:14:32.559 Doing and deal with that. 1:14:32.600 --> 1:14:35.360 If they sold the whole case, that's a dirty dog. 1:14:35.680 --> 1:14:37.320 It's somebody's like taking a water too. That's not a 1:14:37.320 --> 1:14:39.080 big deal from like the mate from that area. 1:14:39.600 --> 1:14:42.759 But a whole case isn't a matter of three days, 1:14:43.479 --> 1:14:44.639 all right, it's a lot of water. 1:14:44.800 --> 1:14:46.559 I feel like this is all interrvial so far. But 1:14:46.560 --> 1:14:47.479 what isn't about our show? 1:14:47.520 --> 1:14:49.120 I will say though, Like I walked by one of 1:14:49.160 --> 1:14:51.160 the conference rooms and they had these nice tumblers that 1:14:51.200 --> 1:14:54.040 said iHeartMedia on it and now I thought about getting one, 1:14:54.439 --> 1:14:55.840 but good thing I didn't because they had a meeting 1:14:55.880 --> 1:14:56.960 right after that for all those people. 1:14:56.960 --> 1:14:59.519 They were laid out for people in the meeting community. 1:14:59.720 --> 1:15:00.600 But I did think about it. 1:15:00.520 --> 1:15:01.639 It sounds like community to me. 1:15:03.320 --> 1:15:05.400 Okay, don't see, there was a meeting the other day. 1:15:05.439 --> 1:15:07.120 That room was so full of people and I was like. 1:15:07.080 --> 1:15:08.240 Who, I don't even know who they were? 1:15:08.240 --> 1:15:13.000 All they were yesterday? No I met the dentist. This 1:15:13.200 --> 1:15:15.160 is different. This was like, I don't know. They looked 1:15:15.200 --> 1:15:17.160 like they worked here doing. 1:15:16.960 --> 1:15:20.519 Something there renting space. They rent out space or lett 1:15:20.520 --> 1:15:23.160 people use space to work in office. It's the thing 1:15:23.200 --> 1:15:25.200 I guess in larger cities where you. 1:15:25.240 --> 1:15:27.800 Can use space boardroom sharing. 1:15:27.680 --> 1:15:29.920 It's almost like that we work, but a version of 1:15:29.960 --> 1:15:31.120 that where it's like, hey, come by with my wife, 1:15:31.160 --> 1:15:33.960 for example in San Francisco. 1:15:35.680 --> 1:15:40.760 Figured out, figured it out, we work. Okay, this all 1:15:40.800 --> 1:15:44.439 makes sense now because I feel like I've seen most 1:15:44.439 --> 1:15:46.000 people that work in our office. 1:15:45.720 --> 1:15:47.639 Got microphones and a board recording. 1:15:48.680 --> 1:15:51.599 Okay, this totally you know, it's like shared work space. 1:15:52.160 --> 1:15:54.000 But I saw that show, and that show is awesome, 1:15:54.040 --> 1:15:55.880 Like we worked was cool. They had parties and stuff. 1:15:56.439 --> 1:15:59.800 I mean the documentary that was or the as scripted. 1:15:59.400 --> 1:16:02.080 Show'll show with dared Leto Let's take a while, went 1:16:03.200 --> 1:16:04.200 right and then came back. 1:16:05.040 --> 1:16:07.479 What do they call that when it's a it's a 1:16:07.520 --> 1:16:08.080 real shop. 1:16:08.160 --> 1:16:08.719 A biopic? 1:16:08.880 --> 1:16:09.439 Is that what it's called. 1:16:09.520 --> 1:16:13.559 Yeah, yeah, okay, biopic. We got we got other stuff 1:16:13.560 --> 1:16:16.639 to do, real stuff to do. You yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 1:16:16.640 --> 1:16:18.760 I'm good. Oh I'm a seventy five percent here, but 1:16:18.800 --> 1:16:19.120 I'm good. 1:16:19.479 --> 1:16:22.800 Oh no, you've already gone up fifteen percent because earlier sixty. 1:16:22.680 --> 1:16:23.320 James did that. 1:16:23.439 --> 1:16:26.599 Let's do and what we're gonna do to just everybody knows. 1:16:26.760 --> 1:16:28.120 I know we're live on the stream right now, but 1:16:28.160 --> 1:16:30.600 we're gonna put this as the second half of the 1:16:30.640 --> 1:16:35.639 podcast that goes up today. Okay, Scooba, when we put 1:16:35.640 --> 1:16:38.000 them this as a whole podcast, yes, but this is 1:16:38.040 --> 1:16:39.439 the second half. It's to the first half because we're 1:16:39.439 --> 1:16:41.599 gonna break in a minute. Okay, but we'll put this 1:16:41.600 --> 1:16:43.800 in the second half because we got like stuffed. Do 1:16:43.880 --> 1:16:45.080 we need to do that? Really? Put this at the front. 1:16:45.080 --> 1:16:46.479 I see what we're saying. Yes, I know where you're 1:16:46.479 --> 1:16:46.760 going with this. 1:16:46.880 --> 1:16:50.280 Thank you, let's go, Ray give me voicemare number four days? 1:16:51.240 --> 1:16:54.320 What up? Bobby Bones? I left you a voicemail about 1:16:54.320 --> 1:16:57.240 a month ago about going to rehabbing Man, Do I 1:16:57.280 --> 1:17:00.040 sound silly being like I'm going for this person and 1:17:00.160 --> 1:17:03.200 I'm doing it for this Hell no, my mind was 1:17:03.280 --> 1:17:09.160 changed very quickly. I am healing myself by myself, for myself, 1:17:09.320 --> 1:17:11.759 and the rest is yet to come. In love, y'all, 1:17:11.880 --> 1:17:12.559 I made it. 1:17:13.080 --> 1:17:15.519 Oh well, I don't know how I feel about that. 1:17:15.560 --> 1:17:17.719 But first of all, death sounds twelve in this clip? 1:17:18.680 --> 1:17:19.840 Does it death sound very young? 1:17:23.080 --> 1:17:24.080 Does a woman got it? 1:17:24.240 --> 1:17:24.479 Yeah? 1:17:24.600 --> 1:17:26.479 I thought, is there a young boy or a woman? 1:17:26.520 --> 1:17:27.759 But she sounds very excited? 1:17:28.160 --> 1:17:29.200 Played the original for me. 1:17:29.640 --> 1:17:30.719 Hello, Boby Bones. 1:17:31.160 --> 1:17:34.320 I'm currently taking off on a six hour drive to 1:17:34.400 --> 1:17:38.000 the mental health facility in Denver, Colorado, my last chance 1:17:38.040 --> 1:17:41.280 to save my family. I struggled with addiction and mental health. 1:17:41.400 --> 1:17:43.400 My whole life is wondering if you could tell my 1:17:43.439 --> 1:17:46.479 wife Jessica that I love her and I'm going to 1:17:46.560 --> 1:17:48.800 miss her and I'm doing this for her. And this 1:17:49.000 --> 1:17:51.960 was the most gangs three I've ever done. I love you, guys, 1:17:52.000 --> 1:17:53.160 and you're gonna get me through this. 1:17:53.360 --> 1:17:55.800 Thank you sounds more adult there because she's crying, I think, 1:17:56.080 --> 1:17:58.160 and she also mentions wife, which is you have to 1:17:58.160 --> 1:17:58.519 be adult. 1:17:59.280 --> 1:17:59.519 You know. 1:17:59.600 --> 1:18:02.160 I don't like the first voicemail at all. I know 1:18:02.160 --> 1:18:03.479 you guys are like a good I don't like it 1:18:03.520 --> 1:18:05.160 at all. Why do you know how hard it is 1:18:05.160 --> 1:18:05.960 to do it by yourself? 1:18:06.000 --> 1:18:08.800 No, no, no, I think what she's saying now, she went, she went, 1:18:08.920 --> 1:18:11.040 she's out, she spent her days there, and she's saying, 1:18:11.040 --> 1:18:13.599 because you encourage. What happened was she sent that note 1:18:13.640 --> 1:18:15.559 and then you said, hey, look, I know that you're 1:18:15.560 --> 1:18:17.559 saying you're doing this for your wife, but you need 1:18:17.600 --> 1:18:20.120 to do it for yourself. And this is her follow 1:18:20.200 --> 1:18:23.559 up message, saying, like, because that's so true, Like if 1:18:23.600 --> 1:18:26.240 you're going to get sober, it has to be for yourself. 1:18:26.240 --> 1:18:28.160 It can't be for anybody else, or it may not stick. 1:18:28.240 --> 1:18:30.000 Can I hear that one again? Then the first one? 1:18:31.439 --> 1:18:34.519 What up, Bobby Bones? I left you a voicemail about 1:18:34.520 --> 1:18:37.439 a month ago about going to rehabing. Man, Do I 1:18:37.479 --> 1:18:40.479 sound silly being like I'm going for this person? I'm 1:18:40.520 --> 1:18:43.759 doing it for this Hell No, my mind was changed 1:18:43.840 --> 1:18:49.360 very quickly. I am healing myself by myself, for myself, 1:18:49.520 --> 1:18:51.960 and the rest is yet to come. In love, y'all, 1:18:52.080 --> 1:18:52.720 I made it. 1:18:53.320 --> 1:18:55.639 Yeah, she made it through the program. So she went 1:18:55.720 --> 1:18:58.559 to Denver, she made it out, and I think quickly 1:18:58.600 --> 1:19:00.479 there she learned, Oh, I need to be doing this 1:19:00.600 --> 1:19:01.280 for myself. 1:19:01.400 --> 1:19:01.640 Got it. 1:19:01.760 --> 1:19:03.479 Nobody can do this for me, So I've got to 1:19:03.520 --> 1:19:05.640 do it by myself and for myself. 1:19:05.680 --> 1:19:08.360 But obviously I just buy myself is where I got. 1:19:08.000 --> 1:19:10.880 I see how that's confusing, But I just remembered what 1:19:10.960 --> 1:19:14.840 you told her after the first voicemail was what which 1:19:15.000 --> 1:19:18.000 was that, Yeah, that's great you're wanting to do this, 1:19:18.080 --> 1:19:19.880 but do this for yourself, because she was like, I'm 1:19:19.880 --> 1:19:23.200 doing it for my wife and it's yeah, it has 1:19:23.280 --> 1:19:25.720 to be for yourself. 1:19:25.800 --> 1:19:28.479 Then that's awesome. Yeah, because my initial actually you can't 1:19:28.479 --> 1:19:29.000 do it by yourself. 1:19:29.080 --> 1:19:32.519 Correct like correct, you need support, but which it seems 1:19:32.520 --> 1:19:34.880 like she got the support, and that's when she also 1:19:34.960 --> 1:19:38.720 quickly realized that, oh, I can't do this for I mean, 1:19:38.800 --> 1:19:41.479 sure you want, you want to sober up for your family, 1:19:41.600 --> 1:19:44.559 that makes sense, but at the end of the day, 1:19:44.560 --> 1:19:45.240 it has to be for you. 1:19:45.320 --> 1:19:48.120 That's why I wish today we're Thanksgiving, why, because I'm 1:19:48.120 --> 1:19:50.000 thankful for you to set me straight on that problem. 1:19:50.080 --> 1:19:51.719 Walked right into that it can be Thanksgiving. 1:19:51.800 --> 1:19:54.400 No, it can't be. Sure a few days ago anything. 1:19:54.160 --> 1:19:57.280 You practicing gratitude as you doing your Thanksgiving, so that's 1:19:57.320 --> 1:19:57.920 what you call it. 1:19:58.200 --> 1:20:00.439 You don't have to have turkey and all that, though, 1:20:00.560 --> 1:20:02.040 But I haven't had a meal in a few days, so. 1:20:02.320 --> 1:20:03.320 That's why you're saying this. 1:20:03.400 --> 1:20:06.200 Yeah, that's all. Hey, look, I just root for you 1:20:06.280 --> 1:20:07.960 to have the support that you need. This is one 1:20:08.000 --> 1:20:10.040 of those situations, just from dealing with personal experience, that 1:20:10.080 --> 1:20:11.720 you need support, and I hope you got it, and 1:20:11.720 --> 1:20:12.920 I hope you have it, and I hope you are 1:20:12.920 --> 1:20:14.360 doing it for you, because then you will be doing 1:20:14.400 --> 1:20:16.960 it for everybody else like it can you're doing, you'll 1:20:17.000 --> 1:20:18.680 be doing it for you and it will affect everybody else. 1:20:18.680 --> 1:20:22.400 I should say, great, I'm glad Amy interpreted that because 1:20:22.400 --> 1:20:25.920 I did not interpret that correctly. Okay, let's see what else. 1:20:27.520 --> 1:20:30.519 That first voicemail is tough to hear though. Man's just 1:20:30.560 --> 1:20:31.240 driving there. 1:20:31.840 --> 1:20:33.920 And I really hope that's what happened. That's what she did. 1:20:34.320 --> 1:20:37.360 I want to say that about cursing. Somebody had DM 1:20:37.360 --> 1:20:40.200 me said there hear me curse on them like a 1:20:40.240 --> 1:20:43.439 podcast or something. I didn't, But I don't care. Like 1:20:43.520 --> 1:20:45.400 cursing to me is not bad. I want people to 1:20:45.479 --> 1:20:47.559 understand something about me and not cursing. I haven't cursed 1:20:48.000 --> 1:20:50.320 in my definition of cursing in I don't know, seven 1:20:50.360 --> 1:20:52.679 eight years at this point. I don't not curse because 1:20:52.720 --> 1:20:54.360 I think cursing is bad. I don't not curse because 1:20:54.360 --> 1:20:56.200 there are certain disciplines I like to have inside of 1:20:56.240 --> 1:20:59.720 me to just stay sharp, and there are things if 1:20:59.760 --> 1:21:03.160 I like pissing off people like well that's curse word, yeah, 1:21:03.200 --> 1:21:05.519 but to you. But I don't not curse because I 1:21:05.520 --> 1:21:09.120 think there is something inherently wrong with a word I 1:21:09.280 --> 1:21:13.080 like to. So if I curse, big deal, I don't care. 1:21:13.520 --> 1:21:15.559 I like when people don't curse I'm like, White, why 1:21:15.560 --> 1:21:18.160 don't you curse your little whim. I don't curse because 1:21:18.160 --> 1:21:19.679 when I was writing kids books and I was doing 1:21:19.720 --> 1:21:22.920 a bunch of comedy and I was writing, even doing 1:21:23.000 --> 1:21:24.400 this show, we don't curse in the studio. So I 1:21:24.400 --> 1:21:26.040 was like, I'm just gonna discipline myself to not say 1:21:26.040 --> 1:21:27.920 any curse words. And the curse words, to me are 1:21:27.920 --> 1:21:29.360 the ones that would get me fine. By the FCC, 1:21:29.479 --> 1:21:33.000 the S word, the F word, the C word. That's 1:21:33.000 --> 1:21:34.640 a tough one, and that's that's not even really a 1:21:34.680 --> 1:21:35.800 curse word. She's a nasty one. 1:21:35.920 --> 1:21:37.160 Oh that's the worst. 1:21:37.360 --> 1:21:40.519 That's a nasty one. Those to me, that's cursing. And 1:21:40.520 --> 1:21:42.760 it's not because I feel like not cursing makes me 1:21:42.840 --> 1:21:45.960 better or more in favor in God's eyes in any 1:21:45.960 --> 1:21:48.840 way whatsoever. Because I think a sound is just a sound. 1:21:48.920 --> 1:21:52.280 Oh got the word, And with that, I would compare 1:21:52.320 --> 1:21:55.559 it to this. If I say the F word and 1:21:55.640 --> 1:21:57.720 I say it, that's a sound. If I were to 1:21:57.760 --> 1:22:04.040 travel to Pakistan or Paris, or to somebody who doesn't 1:22:04.040 --> 1:22:06.120 speak place it doesn't speak English, I don't know English, 1:22:06.160 --> 1:22:07.519 and I say that same word, it means nothing to them. 1:22:07.720 --> 1:22:08.240 There's nothing. 1:22:08.840 --> 1:22:11.320 No, I'm saying, they don't speak English, so it doesn't 1:22:11.320 --> 1:22:13.120 matter what the word is. Let me just go for 1:22:13.120 --> 1:22:16.720 a second. So you can say any curse word in 1:22:16.760 --> 1:22:19.439 English if they don't understand another language. To them, that's 1:22:19.479 --> 1:22:20.920 just a sound, the same way they would say a 1:22:20.960 --> 1:22:23.640 word in Mandarin and we wouldn't know what that was, 1:22:24.080 --> 1:22:27.760 just a sound. So there is nothing inherently bad about 1:22:27.760 --> 1:22:29.640 a sound. But if I went to a country that 1:22:29.720 --> 1:22:32.600 did not speak English and I stole, well, there is 1:22:32.640 --> 1:22:36.800 something inherently bad about stealing or killing or like. Those 1:22:36.840 --> 1:22:43.679 are actually bad things that, regardless of boundaries of where 1:22:43.720 --> 1:22:50.719 you live language culture, like those are bad regardless. Words 1:22:50.720 --> 1:22:54.360 are just words. I feel like I'd say every sound. 1:22:54.400 --> 1:22:55.840 I could say every curse word ever, and it makes 1:22:55.840 --> 1:23:00.599 me know better or worse than anybody else that's anywhere 1:23:00.640 --> 1:23:02.920 near me or far from me. So if I do 1:23:03.000 --> 1:23:05.080 happen to say a curse word, which I haven't, I 1:23:05.080 --> 1:23:09.639 don't give a because it's not about that. It literally 1:23:09.680 --> 1:23:11.600 is not about me. I don't care. I'm doing a 1:23:11.600 --> 1:23:17.280 moral thing. People that claim moral are often the opposite 1:23:17.360 --> 1:23:19.400 because the people that live moral don't have to claim moral. 1:23:20.960 --> 1:23:22.760 It's like, you know who is the meanest in my 1:23:22.800 --> 1:23:25.679 Instagram comments or TikTok comment and not TikTok so much, 1:23:25.800 --> 1:23:30.880 but Instagram comments or uh, Twitter or Facebook people that 1:23:30.960 --> 1:23:35.600 publicly proclaim Bible verses in there or only loving the 1:23:35.840 --> 1:23:37.760 next person next to me. You don't need to say 1:23:37.760 --> 1:23:42.080 that stuff if you're living that stuff. So whenever someone 1:23:42.200 --> 1:23:44.800 is like I heard him curse, he said a hypocrite. No, 1:23:44.920 --> 1:23:46.840 I'm a hypocrite. I curse all day if I want to. 1:23:46.880 --> 1:23:48.360 I don't think it makes me better or worse than you. 1:23:48.400 --> 1:23:50.920 Probably probably worse than you anyway. But there's no way 1:23:50.960 --> 1:23:53.280 you curse though. There's no way. Oh I know my 1:23:53.479 --> 1:23:55.479 version of course. But to some people, like say, pizzing 1:23:55.560 --> 1:23:57.040 off is curse or. 1:23:59.200 --> 1:24:01.200 Did the d d I s kay. 1:24:01.200 --> 1:24:03.439 Sometimes you've said, well, I won't talk about that as 1:24:03.439 --> 1:24:05.240 a human body part, but I'm like that dude is 1:24:05.280 --> 1:24:08.160 such a dick, Like I don't feel like that. Also, 1:24:08.280 --> 1:24:09.680 that's not about That's not a curse word to me. 1:24:09.720 --> 1:24:10.559 It could be a word that is. 1:24:10.840 --> 1:24:11.000 Uh. 1:24:11.080 --> 1:24:12.640 I wouldn't say around a kid. I wouldn't be like 1:24:12.720 --> 1:24:14.400 lunch box in a car with that these kids, right, 1:24:14.680 --> 1:24:20.759 like you know, like I would never say that around 1:24:20.800 --> 1:24:23.200 a kid, But I don't consider that to be a 1:24:23.200 --> 1:24:24.760 curse word to me, so therefore I don't say it 1:24:24.760 --> 1:24:27.600 because it's a self discipline right. The same thing with 1:24:27.680 --> 1:24:29.479 the P word. I would never refer to a woman's 1:24:29.520 --> 1:24:33.000 body part, but if somebody is like a whimp every once, 1:24:33.000 --> 1:24:34.800 so I'll be like, why you minchedja posy? Come on? 1:24:37.680 --> 1:24:39.880 But I but I would say, there's a different I 1:24:39.880 --> 1:24:42.720 would never refer to a guy's body part as that 1:24:42.720 --> 1:24:44.240 with a D word, or a woman's body part as 1:24:44.280 --> 1:24:45.280 that was but. 1:24:47.280 --> 1:24:47.880 Unattractive. 1:24:49.280 --> 1:24:53.519 But I'm just showing there's no rationale to this. There 1:24:53.520 --> 1:24:56.160 are no rules that I'm right or wrong about. I'm 1:24:56.200 --> 1:24:59.320 living by my standards that I've set myself and everybody 1:24:59.360 --> 1:25:02.720 else can suck. I'm just kidding. But but yeah, that's that's 1:25:02.720 --> 1:25:04.280 the deal. So I got to tell DM about it. It 1:25:04.280 --> 1:25:05.360 was like, you say you don't curse, but we heard 1:25:05.360 --> 1:25:06.920 you say the f R and I'm like, no, you didn't. 1:25:06.920 --> 1:25:08.160 First of all, no chance, there's no. 1:25:08.160 --> 1:25:08.880 Chance, no chance. 1:25:09.560 --> 1:25:13.439 Secondly, who cares. I wouldn't say it on the air 1:25:13.479 --> 1:25:16.360 because I don't want to get the fine by the sec. 1:25:17.439 --> 1:25:20.599 Well, like, could you go into like a board meeting 1:25:20.760 --> 1:25:22.240 like in a company and be. 1:25:22.280 --> 1:25:26.120 Like, all right, here's the deal, like yes, something or 1:25:26.360 --> 1:25:27.439 human like a human. 1:25:27.479 --> 1:25:29.360 I feel like automatically they'd be like whoa, WHOA. 1:25:29.400 --> 1:25:30.840 Well, it depends on It's on the culture. 1:25:30.840 --> 1:25:31.320 Absolutely. 1:25:31.479 --> 1:25:33.720 It depends on the culture that's set early. It's just 1:25:33.800 --> 1:25:36.080 like even had football coaches. There are some that are 1:25:36.280 --> 1:25:38.160 f F f F and that's the culture, and there 1:25:38.160 --> 1:25:40.840 are some that are exactly the opposite of that. Or 1:25:40.920 --> 1:25:43.240 I would say, let's let's not use bad words, let's 1:25:43.360 --> 1:25:47.960 use demeanor. If we're ever after a show and I 1:25:48.040 --> 1:25:53.599 just start screaming at everybody, and I'm like, what would 1:25:53.600 --> 1:25:55.720 that tell you about me that day? Amy? If I 1:25:55.720 --> 1:25:58.160 if I'm so mad and I'm just yelling at at 1:25:58.520 --> 1:26:00.000 I'm just gonna say you, I've never yelled at you, 1:26:00.160 --> 1:26:02.280 but I'm just saying if I'm like, but I'm yelling, 1:26:02.360 --> 1:26:02.800 what would you. 1:26:02.800 --> 1:26:08.439 Think I based on your demeanor? I would think something 1:26:08.560 --> 1:26:11.200 is wrong with you. It's really bad. Like also like 1:26:11.520 --> 1:26:14.400 maybe like I don't know, we need to check him 1:26:14.400 --> 1:26:17.400 in somewhere, like something totally off if you're screaming or yelling, 1:26:17.479 --> 1:26:18.799 because that's not the way. 1:26:18.600 --> 1:26:22.200 You or somebody here did something that was completely detrimental 1:26:22.240 --> 1:26:25.559 to what the entire our world is that we built, 1:26:25.600 --> 1:26:27.960 and it must be something so severe it's never happened. 1:26:29.200 --> 1:26:31.680 I have never just yelled at anyone. I've never, but 1:26:31.760 --> 1:26:33.400 if I did, it would be like I'm not okay 1:26:33.520 --> 1:26:37.080 or something is really not okay here, right, one of 1:26:37.080 --> 1:26:40.400 the two things something to a level. So I would 1:26:40.400 --> 1:26:42.280 also think if you go into a boardroom and there's 1:26:42.280 --> 1:26:46.160 a boardroom, when we have been in boardrooms, we work 1:26:46.200 --> 1:26:48.000 here one day and all of a sudden he's got bordroom. 1:26:49.320 --> 1:26:51.920 Hey, I like going in there. Sometimes I'm like, oh, 1:26:52.920 --> 1:26:53.920 I don't know when I'm working. 1:26:53.720 --> 1:26:58.200 On sitting there, like imagine this if a CEO who 1:26:58.200 --> 1:26:59.680 doesn't all of a sudden it's like we gotta f 1:26:59.720 --> 1:27:02.000 and do this, and you're like, oh, this is serious today, yes, 1:27:02.200 --> 1:27:03.360 like way more than ever before. 1:27:03.560 --> 1:27:05.120 Well, if you're saying it like that, if you were 1:27:05.160 --> 1:27:06.839 to say that, I'd be like, okay, he means business. 1:27:06.840 --> 1:27:08.920 But if you're like going off and angry, then that 1:27:08.960 --> 1:27:09.679 would be weird. 1:27:09.479 --> 1:27:11.599 Because it's same same because the culture has been said 1:27:11.600 --> 1:27:13.400 of what you don't do. So when the culture is 1:27:13.479 --> 1:27:16.920 shifted to where it never is, something is really off. 1:27:16.960 --> 1:27:18.600 Either the person or the situation, and it's got to 1:27:18.640 --> 1:27:20.679 be fixed right. And the person could be the person 1:27:20.720 --> 1:27:22.679 saying it, or the person receiving it, or the situation 1:27:22.760 --> 1:27:26.280 of everyone involved. Anyway, it makes me want to curse, 1:27:26.320 --> 1:27:28.479 just to start cursing, to piss everybody off. I only 1:27:28.479 --> 1:27:29.880 do it for me. I don't do it for anybody else. 1:27:29.920 --> 1:27:32.240 I don't do it to be like, oh, he doesn't curse. 1:27:33.240 --> 1:27:35.960 I do it because I'm like, I don't want to 1:27:36.000 --> 1:27:39.639 slip up in a situation. Or when I was writing 1:27:39.680 --> 1:27:43.960 a lot of jokes, be able to use that as 1:27:43.960 --> 1:27:46.680 a crutch for humor. That's where a lot of it 1:27:46.720 --> 1:27:48.920 came from, because man, you could be so funny with 1:27:48.960 --> 1:27:51.559 the effort. It's it's the funniest word. Yeah, And I 1:27:51.600 --> 1:27:52.960 was like, I don't want to do that. It's also 1:27:53.040 --> 1:27:57.680 very therapeutic, and I wanted to work completely clean, so 1:27:57.840 --> 1:28:00.880 I could. I could do private because they pay a 1:28:00.920 --> 1:28:03.200 ton of money when a company brings you out to 1:28:04.120 --> 1:28:08.840 tell jokes to a thousand workers at X company. So 1:28:09.000 --> 1:28:11.960 that's what it is. So f off everybody. 1:28:13.120 --> 1:28:14.960 What's funny is like my wife and I don't curse 1:28:15.000 --> 1:28:17.720 obviously around our kids. But the second we're alone, we're 1:28:18.240 --> 1:28:21.120 sailors all of a sudden, it's so weird. 1:28:21.680 --> 1:28:24.280 Yeah, Lunchbox walks a very fine line though, of doing 1:28:24.280 --> 1:28:26.080 it close to the door, and at times you can 1:28:26.120 --> 1:28:28.400 almost hear it in here. And that's why we don't. 1:28:28.439 --> 1:28:30.240 We don't. Nobody's allowed to curse in this room at all. 1:28:30.360 --> 1:28:31.800 Yeah, it's a no no in this room. 1:28:31.840 --> 1:28:36.040 I know that we're not even close on air, just. 1:28:36.000 --> 1:28:38.360 In case the implications of it being on the air. 1:28:38.360 --> 1:28:39.960 So there's no cursing here. But that's also not a 1:28:39.960 --> 1:28:41.719 moral thing. That's a we don't want to go to 1:28:41.720 --> 1:28:42.880 to SCC jail. 1:28:43.240 --> 1:28:45.759 Yeah, but lunchwgs, do you cuss on your kids? 1:28:46.040 --> 1:28:50.240 I'm not on purpose? Well no, but your kid, my kid, 1:28:50.400 --> 1:28:51.479 you know he knows how to use. 1:28:51.400 --> 1:28:51.800 Some of them. 1:28:51.840 --> 1:28:54.080 Okay, imagine you're saying they slip out. 1:28:54.120 --> 1:28:56.679 Yea, that happens like you drop somethe on your foot. 1:28:56.760 --> 1:29:00.559 It's hard to say, Oh, oh, I don't. 1:29:00.680 --> 1:29:02.960 I don't really let it slip out, mrmay Kit. I mean, 1:29:03.160 --> 1:29:04.800 I guess I have accidentally, But the other day I 1:29:04.920 --> 1:29:07.880 used one intentionally because I needed to You needed to 1:29:07.920 --> 1:29:12.719 know I meant business and I was dead serious about 1:29:12.760 --> 1:29:15.640 what I was saying, and I added it in and 1:29:15.720 --> 1:29:18.920 I even said, yeah, you heard me say that, because 1:29:18.920 --> 1:29:20.320 it needs you to know how serious I am. 1:29:21.479 --> 1:29:23.640 Yeah, yeah, I mean it would be like if I 1:29:23.680 --> 1:29:25.800 came in and we're like, what the you guys be like, Oh, 1:29:25.840 --> 1:29:26.439 like something real. 1:29:26.360 --> 1:29:29.919 Bad to happen, and yeah. 1:29:29.040 --> 1:29:31.240 Okay, soire's what we're gonna do. Because this we just 1:29:31.439 --> 1:29:34.240 like half an hour, We're gonna have to break for 1:29:34.240 --> 1:29:36.920 a few minutes, so we're gonna go off the stream. 1:29:37.240 --> 1:29:39.519 We're gonna this is the end of the podcast though, 1:29:39.640 --> 1:29:42.439 but if you guys are watching YouTube or whatever, we're 1:29:42.439 --> 1:29:44.000 gonna be back in a few minutes and we'll do 1:29:44.040 --> 1:29:46.600 the beginning of the show. But uh, everybody got on 1:29:46.680 --> 1:29:49.400 all those things. Oh yeah okay, And by the way, 1:29:49.400 --> 1:29:54.280 become a partner and hope why the f not? Uh, 1:29:54.439 --> 1:29:56.080 that would be awesome if you would not. Seriously, We've 1:29:56.080 --> 1:29:59.439 we spent the whole show today doing the radiothon for 1:29:59.479 --> 1:30:01.479 Saint Jude, and we feel like we owe it to 1:30:01.520 --> 1:30:03.080 you guys that also come to us for content to 1:30:03.080 --> 1:30:05.599 do a separate side show, which is what we're doing here. 1:30:05.880 --> 1:30:07.479 So if you guys can become a partner and hope 1:30:07.479 --> 1:30:09.400 if you don't listen to the show that's live in 1:30:09.439 --> 1:30:12.840 the morning, please do text the word Bobby to seven 1:30:12.880 --> 1:30:15.519 eight five eight three three. That would be awesome. Seven 1:30:15.560 --> 1:30:17.680 eight five eight three three. You get the Pimpa Joy 1:30:17.720 --> 1:30:20.760 sweatshirt you it's nineteen bucks a month. You help kids, 1:30:20.760 --> 1:30:22.080 And the whole thing with helping kids is that it 1:30:22.120 --> 1:30:24.960 helps our families. Nobody pays a bill at Saint Jude. 1:30:25.320 --> 1:30:28.000 A parent, you don't. They're no bills because the partners 1:30:28.000 --> 1:30:31.200 in hope. And there are times I understand people like, well, 1:30:31.240 --> 1:30:32.400 I want to don it to my local hospital, and 1:30:32.439 --> 1:30:35.000 that's great, love it, do it, But Saint Jude's not 1:30:35.080 --> 1:30:37.400 local to us. But the reason that we are so 1:30:37.520 --> 1:30:39.400 involved in Saint Jude is because it's local to everybody 1:30:39.439 --> 1:30:40.960 in the way. They take kids from every single city 1:30:40.960 --> 1:30:43.000 in the whole country, and all you need is to 1:30:43.000 --> 1:30:48.599 have a cancer that they research, diagnose, try to heal. 1:30:48.720 --> 1:30:51.599 Heal is not the word what I'm looking. 1:30:51.400 --> 1:30:54.920 For, like heal, okay, fair enoughs and treat. 1:30:54.880 --> 1:30:57.479 Treat good, thank you from it and they go immediately 1:30:57.520 --> 1:30:59.840 and all the bills are paid for. So it's Is 1:30:59.880 --> 1:31:02.120 it in your town probably not? Does it help your 1:31:02.120 --> 1:31:05.360 town absolutely? Yes, and all the research that they do 1:31:05.640 --> 1:31:10.000 because a lot of hospitals they do research so they 1:31:10.040 --> 1:31:13.560 can have and almost own that, so people have to 1:31:13.600 --> 1:31:15.840 go to the hospital. Saint Jude doesn't do that. That 1:31:15.880 --> 1:31:18.840 research goes out to every hospital. That's why we are 1:31:18.840 --> 1:31:24.040 involved with Saint Jude. So, but sometimes you don't have 1:31:24.120 --> 1:31:26.479 the ability to do it. Trust me, been there. It's 1:31:26.560 --> 1:31:30.559 nineteen bucks a month. Also, sometimes you're just like, I 1:31:30.560 --> 1:31:32.479 want to do this because it's important to me, and 1:31:32.479 --> 1:31:34.639 that's great too. So we're just saying, if you want 1:31:34.640 --> 1:31:36.080 to be a partner and hope that would be awesome, 1:31:36.360 --> 1:31:39.160 nineteen bucks a month, text that Bobby to seven eight 1:31:39.280 --> 1:31:42.160 five eight three three and you'll get a link when 1:31:42.160 --> 1:31:43.439 you text that. I should say that you'll get a 1:31:43.439 --> 1:31:45.040 link back from Saint Jude because it won't like take 1:31:45.040 --> 1:31:46.679 out of your phone bill and you get a link 1:31:46.680 --> 1:31:48.040 from Saint Jude and then you fill it out and 1:31:48.040 --> 1:31:51.000 it takes nineteen bucks a month after that, Okay, thank you. 1:31:51.720 --> 1:31:53.120 We're ending the podcast now. 1:31:53.479 --> 1:31:54.000 This is it. 1:31:54.840 --> 1:31:57.320 Hope you enjoyed the first half, which we haven't done yet, 1:31:57.800 --> 1:31:59.559 but if you're listening to the podcast, you already heard it, 1:31:59.640 --> 1:32:01.840 all right. Bye,