WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Ray Gets His Swag Back

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<v Speaker 1>Looking jubil in the morning. You've got to be careful

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<v Speaker 1>when joking around on a first date because the other

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<v Speaker 1>person might not get your sense of humor. Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how many dates have been ruined that I've

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<v Speaker 1>been on when in the middle of it, I just

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<v Speaker 1>dropped my fork and I look her dead in the

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<v Speaker 1>eye and just go, how many other people know you're

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<v Speaker 1>out with me right now? That's a really funny joke.

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<v Speaker 1>They never get it. It just ruins the mood right there.

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<v Speaker 1>And Maggie, who is on the phone with us right

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<v Speaker 1>now to do a second date update, apparently made a

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<v Speaker 1>poorly time joke on her date and she thinks that's

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<v Speaker 1>why she's not getting a call back today. We'll find

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<v Speaker 1>out what her joke is in a second hopefully it's

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<v Speaker 1>as good as mine. But first let's find out a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about the guy that she wants to call. Maggie,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? I'm good? How are you good? So

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<v Speaker 1>you want to call a guy named Ray today? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>actually I want you to call him good. Point. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess that is how the second DA updates work, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I called him? Well, you want me to call a

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<v Speaker 1>guy named Ray to day? Where'd you meet Ray. Ray

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<v Speaker 1>and I met at a bar a couple of weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I was out with some of my girlfriends, not expecting

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<v Speaker 1>to meet me buddy, and I meet this great guy

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<v Speaker 1>and he and I end up talking for most of

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<v Speaker 1>the night. Did he approach you or did you approach him? He?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he approached me. Did he use like a

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<v Speaker 1>cheesy line or was he pretty cool? You know? He

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<v Speaker 1>actually he came over with two shots of fireball, Um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said can I warm you up? And that worked? Huh?

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<v Speaker 1>Well I was a few drinks in, so, yeah, you're sober,

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<v Speaker 1>that probably wouldn't have worked exactly right. Yeah, you're the

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<v Speaker 1>type of girl that never turns down free alcohol, is

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<v Speaker 1>what it sounds like, right, I'm not. No. So we

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<v Speaker 1>just started talking after that, and I get home from

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<v Speaker 1>the bar and he texted me. Was it a booty

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<v Speaker 1>call text? Or was it a nice place? He just

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<v Speaker 1>said it was great to meet me, and he loved

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<v Speaker 1>to go out for coffee later that week's Yeah, which

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<v Speaker 1>was great. Normally guys will text me a picture my number,

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<v Speaker 1>especially if you had a bar and you've been drinking

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<v Speaker 1>fireball all night. It's like, I know how to I

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<v Speaker 1>know how to seal the deal. Here, give her a

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<v Speaker 1>little sample of the goods. Yeah, yeah, So anyway to

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<v Speaker 1>h getting pictures, but I didn't this time, which was surprising,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's so sad that that's the exception to the rule.

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<v Speaker 1>Is the one guy that doesn't send you is junk,

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I mean that's kind of the day and

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<v Speaker 1>age we live in right now. There's a beautiful time

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<v Speaker 1>we're living in. So how was coffee then? It was awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>He was very sweet. He you know, pulled the chair

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<v Speaker 1>up for me when we got to the coffee bar,

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<v Speaker 1>and he even paid for my coffee. He was very gentleman.

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<v Speaker 1>Where standards really are low normally if I get pictures

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<v Speaker 1>after a night of fireball, yeah, my standards are pretty

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<v Speaker 1>low right now. But that sounds good. I mean, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like he was generally excited to see you, because

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes after a you know, inebriated night in a dark bar,

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<v Speaker 1>daylight dates can be a little shocking, exactly right. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was a great date. So tell me about the

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<v Speaker 1>joke though, you said that you made a joke you

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<v Speaker 1>thought might have been poorly timed or he didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>it or something. Yeah, Okay, what happened? So I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty sarcastic person anyway, and he and I were talking

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<v Speaker 1>and he says something like, I bet you get asked

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<v Speaker 1>out by a lot of guys. And I said, yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you know i've in this past week alone. You're my

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<v Speaker 1>thirtieth date, ampletely joking. Yeah. He gives me this blank look.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't get it. No, he thought I was being sperited, Like, whoa,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't have to be honest, right? Did you clarify

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<v Speaker 1>for him that it was a joke. I didn't, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>A few seconds when five him not laughing, and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>we find kidding, Like, obviously I haven't gone out with

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<v Speaker 1>thirty guys in the past week because I made that

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<v Speaker 1>awkward joke. So okay, So that's the reason you think

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<v Speaker 1>that he's not calling you back is he thought you

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<v Speaker 1>might not have been joking about dating thirty guys. You

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<v Speaker 1>think so? Yeah? I think, all right, Well, how did

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<v Speaker 1>the date end? Then again, very gentlemanly, he gave me

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<v Speaker 1>a hug and a peck on the cheek and he said,

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<v Speaker 1>this was fun. We should do dinner sometime. Okay, that's good. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I thought it ended on a high note. You

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<v Speaker 1>should have messed with him some more and be like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's good, I'll fit you in. I got like forty

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<v Speaker 1>five other dudes if you would get it. Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>And he hasn't responded to any of your text messages

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<v Speaker 1>a phone call since that day. No, and that was

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of weeks ago. I'm surprised that you want

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<v Speaker 1>to see him, just because I think it's pretty unattractive

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<v Speaker 1>when a guy can't laugh at things. You know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not used to going out with gentlemanly guys. So I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he was really sweet, and I get I can't blame

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<v Speaker 1>him for not getting the joke. You know, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>even really know if that's why he's not calling you

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<v Speaker 1>about through now. Yeah, yeah, it could have been something

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<v Speaker 1>completely different. Right, Well, we'll find out what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll play song, come back, call him and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Okay, all right, hang on brooking jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. Second This could be a second date update. First, Maggie,

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<v Speaker 1>who's on the phone to do a second day update today,

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<v Speaker 1>just admitted to us that she has been with thirty

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<v Speaker 1>guys in the last week. The impressive statistics Maggie, Good

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<v Speaker 1>job girl. If you missed the first part of the

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, Maggie met this guy named Ray at

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<v Speaker 1>a bar. They went out for a coffee date. After

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<v Speaker 1>meeting up, she said everything was going well, but she

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<v Speaker 1>made a joke to him when he said like something

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<v Speaker 1>along the lines of I bet you go out on

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of dates. Her response was, yeah, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>on thirty dates in the past week. The only thing

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<v Speaker 1>is he didn't get the joke, and he just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of sat there like, oh my god. And that's why

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<v Speaker 1>she thinks she's not getting a call back because he

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<v Speaker 1>still doesn't think that it's a joke. It's pretty hard

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with that many people in one week.

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<v Speaker 1>So hopefully, maybe Maggie, we can get him to realize

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<v Speaker 1>that and go out with you again. Are you ready

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<v Speaker 1>to give him a call? Yes for sure. Okay, this

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<v Speaker 1>one's so weird to me because he asked you to

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<v Speaker 1>go out to dinner at the end of the day.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he was obviously complimenting your looks when he

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<v Speaker 1>said you must get asked out a lot. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>get that one little joke would make him not call you.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know, so I'm excited to see what

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<v Speaker 1>the problem is. One little joke. If you didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that he was if like he was thinking

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<v Speaker 1>that you really went out with thirty guys in a week,

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<v Speaker 1>that's bigger than a little joke. All right, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>die with one of her right now and see we

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<v Speaker 1>get him on the phone. Okay, okay, Hello, can I

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<v Speaker 1>speak to Ray? Please? Yeah? This is Ray? Hey, Ray,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Who Jewel from Brook and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, how's it going fine?

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<v Speaker 1>Any idea why I'm calling you? Uh? No, We recently

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<v Speaker 1>got an email about you from one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Maggie, and you recently went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with Maggie. Okay, okay, do you remember that happening? Yeah, okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Maggie emailed us because she's wondering why you haven't given

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<v Speaker 1>her a call back, especially at the end of the

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<v Speaker 1>day when you were like talking about maybe meeting up

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<v Speaker 1>for dinner or something. She hasn't heard from you, so

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<v Speaker 1>she asked if maybe we could get you on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone to find out why. Oh is there a reason

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<v Speaker 1>you're not calling Maggie back. Uh. I mean, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>it's probably not going to work out. Oh man, why

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<v Speaker 1>is that? Uh? I don't know. I just I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think we're I don't think we're a good match. Is

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<v Speaker 1>there a specific reason? Why do you think that? Um Ray,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a hard guy to read. I agree, Why don't

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<v Speaker 1>at all? Why don't you think you guys would be

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<v Speaker 1>a good match? I don't know. I mean, Maggie, she's

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<v Speaker 1>a really nice girl, probably one of the nicest girls

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<v Speaker 1>I've met in a little while here. But she just

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<v Speaker 1>she likes to do a lot of stuff. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean by that, like drugs? She didn't. Yeah, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean by she likes to do a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff? She just like, I don't know. We were

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<v Speaker 1>we were talking about stuff. She was saying all the

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<v Speaker 1>things she likes to do. She likes to take cooking classes,

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<v Speaker 1>and she like rides a bike, and she, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>always goes out with her friends. And she sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a fun, interesting person. By the thing you said, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like normal interests to me. You're right, She's totally interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>normal person. I'm the one I'm not very normal, Like

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<v Speaker 1>when she asked me what I like to do, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really like to do very much, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>hold up against her. So you don't have any hobbies

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<v Speaker 1>or interests. I mean, I like watching TV, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>hanging around the house, and maybe maybe that's one of

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<v Speaker 1>the things that she likes to do too. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>talk to her about that? Well? I think probably she does,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't know if I could keep up with

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<v Speaker 1>all that other stuff. You don't have to go biking

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<v Speaker 1>with her or hiking or whatever she likes to dods. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I could just tell I think I

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<v Speaker 1>think she deserves someone really amazing. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really up to snuff. You just sound like you

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<v Speaker 1>just have really bad self esteem, buddy. No, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm It's not my fault that I'm like this. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just it was probably the way I was raised. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have a problem with it. I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it maybe matches up with her lifestyle. Okay, but

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<v Speaker 1>don't you think that's a decision she should make, not

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<v Speaker 1>you for her, because you don't know how she feels. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>She might even be okay with it now, but I

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<v Speaker 1>know that in a little bit she's gonna see like

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<v Speaker 1>what I see now, which is that I mean, she's

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna like it. I mean, for instance, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be expected to do things. Hey. Look, I

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<v Speaker 1>am one hundred percent with you on that, Ray. Whenever

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in a relationship, it's the worst when you're expected

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<v Speaker 1>to do things. But you don't know if she's going

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you to go bike you can. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>both have your own separate lives. We're just two totally

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<v Speaker 1>different people. I mean, she's fun like to do things

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not. I'm just boring. Well, maybe have you

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<v Speaker 1>thought about this? Maybe if you date her, you could

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<v Speaker 1>learn to do some activities that you like. See that

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like a lot of pressure right there. All right, well, Ray,

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<v Speaker 1>if that's if that's not enough pressure for you, hear

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<v Speaker 1>some more pressure. She's actually on the other line listening

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<v Speaker 1>to this conversation and wants to talk to you. What hello, Hi, Nah?

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<v Speaker 1>Like it really breaks my heart to hear you talk

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<v Speaker 1>about yourself like that. I don't feel bad about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm just boring And you're not boring. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to date me. You're being really hard on yourself. Ray,

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<v Speaker 1>Are you always like this? I'm not trying to be

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<v Speaker 1>a downer. I'm just being realistic just how things are.

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<v Speaker 1>Being honest, Well, I had a really great time with

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<v Speaker 1>you a couple of weeks ago, and talking to you

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<v Speaker 1>now you sound like a completely different person. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>when you asked me what I like to do, didn't

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<v Speaker 1>you notice that it took me like ten minutes to

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<v Speaker 1>get back to you On that You asked me what

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<v Speaker 1>my interests were, and I realized I don't really do anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really have any interest, So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of feel like maybe I should look at that.

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<v Speaker 1>You are you saying that your date with Maggie like

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<v Speaker 1>changed your whole perspective on life. I'm just looking at

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<v Speaker 1>things a little differently now. Wow, Maggie, what did you do?

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<v Speaker 1>You mean? Right? You really don't think this about yourself?

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<v Speaker 1>I just think I need to take some time with

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<v Speaker 1>myself and just you know, I think you're really sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think you are really onto something. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>onto something, and Maggie, you keep doing what you're doing,

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<v Speaker 1>you're onto something. So Ray, let me ask you this, Ray,

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<v Speaker 1>I will pay for a second date if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>go out again? Will you go out with Maggie one

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<v Speaker 1>more time? Oh? My God? Really likes you, Ray. She

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<v Speaker 1>thinks you're interesting and fun and attractive. I do, Ray,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I like that. You're really sweet and you're gentlemanly.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you pulled my chair up for me at

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant. You know, guys don't do that. So I

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<v Speaker 1>would love to see you again. M hm. Oh what

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<v Speaker 1>in that list you forgot? Boring? You know I like

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<v Speaker 1>doing boring stuff too. I like sitting around doing nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's fun for me sometimes, you know, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>just saying that to impress me, that's how you really

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<v Speaker 1>impress a lot of people. Yeah, I'm super boring. Ray.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there any way we can get you to go

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<v Speaker 1>with Maggie again? I mean you're paying for it. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you're in a slump. You need this. You could be

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<v Speaker 1>boring and she won't mind. M fine, but don't expect much.

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<v Speaker 1>So so is that yes? Then you'll go out with Maggie? Yeah? Yes, congratulations, Maggie,

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<v Speaker 1>you got a second date. I don't so you are

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<v Speaker 1>excited about this? Well, yeah, I'm excited. It just sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like he's going a many slump, so I'm I'm excited

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<v Speaker 1>to help him get out of it. Good. Well, you

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<v Speaker 1>can be raised slumpbuster, then I'm not in a slump.

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<v Speaker 1>This is how I am. Please don't expect more. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited to hear about how this whole date turns

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<v Speaker 1>out with you guys too. It's close to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a romance novel or something. I won't be too exciting

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<v Speaker 1>broken juwel in the morning,