1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,559 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, This is from DK on Steve Harvey FM. 2 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: DK says, my teenage son has been spreading a lot, 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 1: spending a lot of time with my dad, but my 4 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: dad unfortunately holds some pretty racist beliefs, which he has 5 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: no problem sharing, especially when it comes to politics. I'm 6 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:22,759 Speaker 1: glad they're bonding, but worried my son might absorb these 7 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: outdated and offensive attitudes. I don't want to bad mouth 8 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: my pops to my kid, but I also can't just 9 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: ignore this. How do I address this issue with my 10 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:36,319 Speaker 1: son without disrespecting his grandfather. I don't want to make 11 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 1: things awkward or push my son away. 12 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 2: My answer to this depends on whether this is a 13 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 2: black person asking the question or a white person asking 14 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 2: the question and thank. 15 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: The person, yeah, person because he said my pops later on, Uh, that's. 16 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, all right. 17 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 2: If you're black, you need to let your son understand 18 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 2: both sides of this, because that old man is talking 19 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 2: from an experience that he's had, and I can assure 20 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 2: you those experiences still exist because this country is not fixed. 21 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 2: This country is not non racist. This country is quite racist. 22 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 2: This country is quite hypocritical. So if your old black 23 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 2: man is telling him some viewpoints. Then you gotta let 24 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 2: him absorb some of this because he gonna run into 25 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 2: it anyway. Now, if you are white, check your son 26 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 2: before somebody else do. Get your son and say, hey, look, son, 27 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 2: this is not the language we use describing people. 28 00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 3: This is not how I'm teaching you to be. 29 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 2: Now. I want you to relationship with your grandfather. But hey, man, 30 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 2: maybe you need to go to your dad and go, 31 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 2: hey dad, look man, stop using these negative terms in 32 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 2: front of my son. Stop telling my son that this 33 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 2: is how it all to be weaned fing to make 34 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 2: America great again. We're not finn to do that, and 35 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 2: the South is not rising again. Please know that, and 36 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 2: stop ordering them T shirts with do rebel flags on 37 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:29,359 Speaker 2: it offline. 38 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: All right, So you're two different ways to both ways. 39 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 3: All right, we have. 40 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: Time for another one. This is from Gary and Steve 41 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: Harvey FM. Gary says, I'm a huge fan of your show. 42 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: I follow all of you on Instagram. Anyway, I recently 43 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 1: broke up with my girlfriend of two years. She was 44 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 1: pretty emotional throughout our relationship and I finally decided to 45 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 1: break up. But now she's going around telling everyone that 46 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: she broke up with me and even accusing me of 47 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:01,119 Speaker 1: being a whack boyfriend on Facebook. I'm mad about this, 48 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 1: but Uncle Steve, I don't know if I should just 49 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 1: let it go or defend myself. What do you guys 50 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: think I should do? 51 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, bro, just let that go. Let that go. See, bro, 52 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:17,360 Speaker 3: listen to me. Blogs die out eventually, and you just 53 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 3: have to let it go. 54 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 2: Fortunate thing is you're not famous, and it would die 55 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 2: out a lot quicker her followers speaking from speaker. Yeah, 56 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 2: and if all her friends think you ain't about nothing, 57 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 2: so what which is the narrative she's gonna tell them anyway? 58 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 2: And just like you telling your friends she was a 59 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 2: whiner and a complainer and all that you, everybody gonna 60 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 2: have their own narrative. 61 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 3: Just let it go, bro, you'll be better off. So 62 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 3: you can move on. 63 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 2: Somebody gonna accept you the way you are, and somebody's 64 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 2: gonna accept her the where she is. 65 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: And how does he let it go? And move on? 66 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 3: Tell let it go? 67 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 2: Just stop dog, just stop tripping. Get on Facebook. Hey, bro, 68 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 2: listen to me. Here's what I had to learn. I 69 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 2: stop caring about people's opinion to me that don't have 70 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 2: my cell number. 71 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 3: There you go. You ain't got my cell number. I 72 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 3: care what you think of me, Go up and put 73 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 3: somebody in her spot immediately. What you say like that morning? Yeah? Yeah, 74 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 3: and post that on Facebook, Me and my new boom. Yeah, 75 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 3: I'll boot up. 76 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:29,359 Speaker 2: All right, Guys, put a picture of you and some 77 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 2: fine girl on Facebook. 78 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:33,119 Speaker 3: Electric caption be whack it back. 79 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: The Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this. 80 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 3: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.