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Speaker 1: It's awful. Tell you how I feel?

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Speaker 2: Hello, this reed?

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Speaker 1: Who are we talking with?

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Speaker 3: This is cosmic tacos?

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Speaker 1: Oh, cosmic tagos.

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Speaker 2: How you doing?

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Speaker 1: How you doing?

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Speaker 3: I'm great?

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Speaker 1: How are y'all so tired? So tired of talking to you?

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Speaker 1: Can you tell us your one sentence?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Subscriptor?

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Speaker 3: My parents kicked me out for having sex when I

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Speaker 3: was seventeen and ruined my chances of going to an

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Speaker 3: IVY League university.

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Speaker 1: Oh whoa, Oh my god, there's so much to unpack there.

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Speaker 1: Can you talk about how you were caught? Pad to start?

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Speaker 3: And then yeah, quite genuinely, don't think I was actually caught,

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Speaker 3: Like I think being seventeen, like you're dumb, you don't know,

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Speaker 3: your parents don't know things. Yeah, And so like my

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Speaker 3: mom was like, I know you've been having sex and

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Speaker 3: I was like, no, I didn't. She's like, I know

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Speaker 3: you did your were you au Sler?

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Speaker 2: Totally?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 3: Like I don't even. So it was like the first time.

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Speaker 1: And this was a boy.

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Speaker 3: They were like super religious. It was my boyfriend. It

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Speaker 3: was like my first boyfriend. Yeah, they were really angry

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Speaker 3: It didn't matter.

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Speaker 2: Did they just repress you until they got a confession?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they got they got a confession from you.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, because I was like, I was such a

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Speaker 3: good kid, like in general, I was a really good kid.

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Speaker 1: And I just show me the cond of.

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Speaker 3: That pretty sure. My mom told me she could tell

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Speaker 1: So they said, okay, we know that you've been having sex,

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Speaker 3: It kicked me out of the house. And they told

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Speaker 3: So they wanted me to break up with my boyfriend,

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Speaker 3: and I was talking, I was in love, you know,

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Speaker 3: want to and so I like knuck around and kept

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Speaker 3: seeing him and then they like that's when they kicked

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Speaker 3: get out of their house.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Then where where did you go? And how did play?

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Speaker 3: Okay? When they kicked me out, Like I went to

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Speaker 3: like they called the cops on me and stuff. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but at the time, I had applied to several Ivy

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Speaker 3: League schools. I had gone to interviews for two of them,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my god, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Also, so what did you do?

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Speaker 3: And I never graduated high school because they kicked me

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Speaker 3: out on top of that? What Wow?

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Speaker 1: That fucking sucks, it did? Can we ask you what

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Speaker 1: really school it was?

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Speaker 2: It was Princeton, Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: I had applied to Harvard and Princeton and like some

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Wow, did you like try to what

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Speaker 1: did you do after you found out?

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Speaker 3: I was like really sad, like it was way too

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can imagine it sucks. Holy shit. So what

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Speaker 1: is your relationship now, like with your parents?

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Speaker 3: Really contentious?

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Speaker 2: I guess, yeah, do.

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Speaker 1: You even talk to them? Or did you like, did

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Speaker 1: you talk to them?

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Speaker 5: I do?

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Speaker 3: I mean I still talk to my mom. I'm actually

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Speaker 3: her like medical power of attorney.

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Speaker 1: Now Chat says, I hope you won't go like no

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Speaker 3: I did it? I feel like I said, like I'm

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Speaker 1: Have they gotten better with age?

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Speaker 3: So like my stepdad is really nice now, Like he

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Speaker 3: apologized to me years ago. He was like, you know,

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Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. I could have handled things better. My

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Speaker 3: and I was like, yeah, no, you taked me out

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, wow wow, Well fuck dude, that sucks.

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Speaker 1: But like at least they've gotten a little better and

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Speaker 1: are remorseful and also now like, oh, you have the

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Speaker 1: you have the power.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just proud of you for your resilience and

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Speaker 2: the grace to you know, help your mom now. And yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, you're a very big person for doing this,

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Speaker 2: and I hope you're you're proud of yourself.

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Speaker 1: Because you should be overcoming all that.

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Speaker 3: That is very nice of you to say.

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Speaker 2: Of course you deserve it. My god, you're so deserve it.

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Speaker 3: I will give you a positive note. I'm in university now,

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Speaker 3: like I'm working on getting a degree. No way, I

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Speaker 3: will gratulate like next spring. So everything is fine for me.

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Speaker 2: Now, congrats, that's fantastic.

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Speaker 1: But what are you studying?

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Speaker 3: Applied mathematics?

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Speaker 2: Actually, so you're smart. We already knew. We already knew.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy smart smart. Oh my gosh, what do.

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Speaker 2: You what do you want to do? Like, what what

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to lie to you.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, bro, apply that that.

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Speaker 3: I mean you could do a lot. Understanding is that

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Speaker 3: I could do pretty much anything. Not pretty much anything,

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Speaker 3: but like there's a lot of fields I can go into.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, problem solving, physics, you could become a professor.

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Speaker 2: Don't get that bag, Yeah, don't get that girl.

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Speaker 1: Goodness, Wow, sleepless night, says a happy ending. Let's go.

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Speaker 1: That is right, Yeah, that's what that's what we like

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Speaker 1: to see. Mega. My own is cosmic taco. I help

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Speaker 1: my parents me to a fucking home with your asses. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: your cosmic tako.

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Speaker 3: To be fair, she isn't a home right now.

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Speaker 1: Like, honestly, that's good.

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Speaker 3: I like, like I don't even live in the same state.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right. Yeah, and also like a home is

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Speaker 1: like is helping because the other options like on the.

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Speaker 3: Street exactly, let her go to the state.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, thank you for calling Cosmic Talco and

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Speaker 1: tell your story and I'm glad that's a happy ending.

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Speaker 1: Can you deserve it?

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Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you for having me on. I love

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Speaker 3: your show so much.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely do this for us. You call back once you

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Speaker 2: graduate and we're going to have you back on the show.

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Speaker 1: Hell yeah, celeb perfect, awesome, thankless night.

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Speaker 2: Let's go see chat with you.

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Speaker 3: Bye bye you.

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Speaker 6: Guys, ready for another one?

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Speaker 1: Another calling?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, another call?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do why not?

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Speaker 2: These colins have been so great, by the way, all

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Speaker 2: so funny, love the most. This is the most fun

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Speaker 2: batch of collins.

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Speaker 6: This is yeah, pretty chaotic of all time.

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Speaker 1: Like the last ones weren't chaotic.

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Speaker 6: They're all chaotic, beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Hello Sam, Yeah from okay o P Show. Hey, who

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Speaker 7: TuS tiny cat?

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Speaker 2: What's up?

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Speaker 1: What's your one sentence descriptor of your story?

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Speaker 7: I showed a friend photo that I accidentally took of

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Speaker 7: his girlfriend cheating on him and blew up our whole

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, the nuclear photo truly the nuclear photo.

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Speaker 1: If people always say I say that word wrong.

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Speaker 7: It truly was an accident, and no one believes me

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Speaker 7: because it was just so stupid and I don't even

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Speaker 1: Gods camera but let's right, let's give us your sixty second.

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Speaker 1: Well we'll give you the Yeah, we'll see if you're

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Speaker 1: the a hill or now.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Well, we were all just like playing around with

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Speaker 7: my new camera flash and just passing around the camera

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Speaker 7: like we're just doing stupid stuff.

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Speaker 1: Are you from Florida and Texas?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm from Florida, So that's why continue.

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Speaker 7: We turned off all the lives at one point and

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Speaker 7: it's completely pitch black in there and we have all

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Speaker 7: the doors open in the bedroom, so like everyone's just

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Speaker 7: flash was going off and we kind of scrolled through

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Speaker 7: the bedrooms.

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Speaker 7: Because way in the background and in the.

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Speaker 7: We have like it's like a big living room setting.

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Speaker 7: It was like four bedrooms and they're all off the

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Speaker 7: the dark being stupid, and the flash was just like

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Speaker 7: going off and we.

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Speaker 1: Was the significant other there, no okay.

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Speaker 7: And I didn't know that was his girlfriend at oh.

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Speaker 1: And so you're going through these photos later and then

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Speaker 1: it's like, oh shit, like we just caught what happened.

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Speaker 7: And she was like, well, you don't have any proof,

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Speaker 1: Like you gave me.

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Speaker 2: Tiny cactus, thank.

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Speaker 7: You, and so I was like trying to explain it.

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Speaker 7: It's on my old hard drives.

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Speaker 2: That's like being like, you're the asshole for taking a

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I don't know. He thanked me later because

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Speaker 7: So she denied it for years and like bad mouths

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Speaker 2: what it was, right.

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Speaker 7: She actually twisted it and said that I told her

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Speaker 1: But you had the photo, show them the photo.

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Speaker 7: But guess what, I was the only person in the

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Speaker 1: That is so whack.

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Speaker 7: But I did do that, and I was like what

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Speaker 7: Like I can't do something that nice. You would never

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Speaker 1: Good on you for doing it because that was the

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Speaker 2: And now you're friends with the okay fam. Yeah, the

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Speaker 1: You are not the a hole. Nope, to be clear,

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Speaker 1: not the a hole, the angel a million And thank

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Speaker 1: you for calling in and sharing your story.

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Speaker 3: Oh, no problem.

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Speaker 7: Thanks for sharing all the stories with us.

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Speaker 1: Of course. Of course, if you find that picture, put

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Speaker 1: You put it in our slash okop show. That's right,

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Speaker 1: Thanks again for calling it.

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Speaker 2: You rock, tiny Cactus.

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Speaker 6: I don't have another call, Inky.

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Speaker 1: Well, if you want to call in, text us at

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Speaker 6: Seven hitter line baby are a line headline.

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Speaker 1: We'll break it up to do. Yeah, we're gonna do

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Speaker 1: another story right now.

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Speaker 2: My wife's ex just died. He left a kid who

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Speaker 2: isn't biologically either of ours. How do I talk to

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Speaker 1: YO? Can we be like Brad Pitt and Angelina Joe

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Speaker 1: Lee and adopt some children?

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Speaker 2: I guess I'm like, we'll be cool like that, babe, be.

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Speaker 1: Or like maybe adopt like two more, just to dilute

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Speaker 2: Interesting?

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Speaker 1: And then it's like, no, I just didn't. I didn't

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Speaker 1: adopt kids in general.

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Speaker 2: What a philosophy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's great. You know what I also

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Speaker 1: is a great philosophy. Read this story. Let's see this story.

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Speaker 2: What this suck? My guys? So this comes from through

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Speaker 2: a three seven, four nine two eight who says so yeah,

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Speaker 2: basically what it says on the tin. My wife, Kara

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Speaker 2: Yes. After wasn't an a fair baby. It was all clean,

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Speaker 1: Is how does that make sense?

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Speaker 2: It doesn't. It's like, why would your mom not want

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Speaker 1: Does that make sense to you?

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Speaker 1: Would he not want to.

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Speaker 2: Just be insane? But yeah, that's what's happening. Is the

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Speaker 1: That's so funny. He is just like, I have to

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Speaker 2: Yes, So Levi is currently staying in a foster home,

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Speaker 2: this is the worst.

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Speaker 1: No child should be left in the streets to eat

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Speaker 1: out of the hands of old men.

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Speaker 2: Yes, amen, Amen, brother, Oh god, it's late, it's late.

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Speaker 2: It's late. It's late, guys. So back to the story.

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Speaker 2: I think that's staying connected with her brother will help

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Speaker 2: Charlotte through the grief, and that staying with his sister

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Speaker 2: The split up was pretty much on the worst of terms,

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Speaker 2: She once told me that if it wasn't for Charlotte,

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Speaker 1: Bro. She hates her ex so much that the hate

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Speaker 1: transcends to the child.

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Speaker 2: That's too much.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, are we getting this right? This feels like,

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Speaker 1: this feels wrong. I feel like, yeah, it is wrong,

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Speaker 1: but it feels it's like why, I don't understand.

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Speaker 2: It's not like an affair baby.

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Speaker 1: It's not an affair baby. They had a kid together,

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Speaker 1: and she just doesn't want to take him in because

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Speaker 1: But that's what That's what it's sound like. That's what

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Speaker 1: and she's like, oh fuck, But.

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Speaker 2: Still like that's the dumbest because again her own daughter.

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Speaker 2: This is her daughter's half brother. But like, in reality,

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Speaker 2: I have an idea he actual brother. All right, Fly

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Speaker 2: the kid to Los Angeles. Some of the best plastic

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Speaker 2: surgeons in the world are here. Oh my god, I

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Speaker 2: have the kid get plastic surgery on his face so

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Speaker 2: he doesn't look like the dad anymore.

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Speaker 1: And then she gonna at him.

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Speaker 2: Just adopt him, just adopt him.

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Speaker 1: Just that did not adopt him. But Patria B. Says

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Speaker 1: he probably looks like his father.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's what Sam said.

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Speaker 1: That's what I said. Probably true, Jessica says, loll Sam,

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Speaker 1: thank you you guys.

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Speaker 2: Put a W in the chat for delirious. Put a

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Speaker 2: D in the chat for delirious Sam, for delirious Sam,

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Speaker 2: put a D in the chat for him. Okay, I

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Speaker 2: Oh boy, okay, we're going back to the story. I

447
00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,720
Speaker 2: don't know how to talk to Kara about potentially stepping

448
00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:35,879
Speaker 2: up to take Levi in, or if she might be

449
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:38,479
Speaker 2: gravely insulted if I brought this up. I know that

450
00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:42,400
Speaker 2: Levi is not technically mine or Kara's problems, but he's

451
00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,480
Speaker 2: an innocent child and Charlotte's little brother, and I would

452
00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:48,040
Speaker 2: feel guilty if I didn't even try to take him

453
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:49,680
Speaker 2: in at it. Since a lot of people have been

454
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,640
Speaker 2: asking the reason that Levi's mom can't and won't take

455
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:55,960
Speaker 2: him in is because she lost custody a while ago

456
00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:58,960
Speaker 2: and has no interest in fighting to get it back.

457
00:20:59,119 --> 00:20:59,680
Speaker 2: I don't know.

458
00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:06,439
Speaker 1: Oh oh, so basically, the dead husband had custody and

459
00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:08,960
Speaker 1: when he died, she's like, I don't want this kid.

460
00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:11,639
Speaker 1: I didn't even have him in the first place. Wow,

461
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,960
Speaker 1: you took them away from me in the messy, messy divorce,

462
00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:16,120
Speaker 1: and you can have them all the way to the grave.

463
00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:18,679
Speaker 1: Bury the kid with your body.

464
00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:19,840
Speaker 2: It makes no sense.

465
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,280
Speaker 1: Yeah it doesn't. She's just like you had them. You

466
00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 1: keep them, bro have your ghost?

467
00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 2: Who is?

468
00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:28,080
Speaker 1: What is it? Watch? They suck? They suck, poor child.

469
00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:32,840
Speaker 1: Jesse says, aimmen, amen, bro ammen to that princess skank

470
00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:36,680
Speaker 1: faced thirteen, She said, Sam suffering from the big d

471
00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:40,679
Speaker 1: right now, Dude, so many d's, so many time, so

472
00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:43,200
Speaker 1: little time. I can't read them all. Yeah, you can

473
00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:45,120
Speaker 1: only lay your eyes on so many deeds.

474
00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:45,640
Speaker 2: That's right.

475
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:47,480
Speaker 1: How many dicks do you think you've seen? John in

476
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:47,959
Speaker 1: the person?

477
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:50,160
Speaker 2: Very few?

478
00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:52,439
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pump those numbers up.

479
00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:53,640
Speaker 2: I'm really trying to think here.

480
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:55,919
Speaker 1: I went to a bunch of newdist colonies. Yeah, I mean,

481
00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:58,760
Speaker 1: I've seen dicks I've seen the most men at dicks

482
00:21:58,800 --> 00:21:59,920
Speaker 1: in this room for sure.

483
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,159
Speaker 2: You got that, bro, you got that.

484
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:03,120
Speaker 6: We'll give you that.

485
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:04,199
Speaker 1: All right, let's get back to this.

486
00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:06,439
Speaker 2: I don't know how many dead off to figure I.

487
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 1: Have seen you.

488
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 6: Have you seen your dad's what about whenever you were small?

489
00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 1: I've definitely seen it. I don't think I've remembered it.

490
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, but but like remembering is seeing what now, it's

491
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:20,440
Speaker 2: remembering is seeing your dad? If? I probably did, but

492
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:23,680
Speaker 2: I don't remember it, so it doesn't doesn't make a difference. Anyways,

493
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 2: back to the story, King, I have seen all of

494
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,160
Speaker 2: the dicks from all the land.

495
00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 4: Every kind circumcised the propacy shower between the prophecy, Forho

496
00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 4: told of a man who would see more dicks than

497
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:42,439
Speaker 4: anyone before.

498
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:48,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, oh god, have you all seen to be touched? Whoa?

499
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:50,880
Speaker 1: I think I've only touched my dick.

500
00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:53,160
Speaker 6: Same Wait, have you ever changed the baby's diaper?

501
00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 1: Though I accidentally touched a baby dick?

502
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, but like I mean, you're you're like wiping and

503
00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 6: then it's like, oh, then.

504
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:03,199
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I definitely changed raise dix with

505
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 1: my hand over shorts for sure.

506
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:08,360
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that happens doesn't count though. Many times it's

507
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:10,200
Speaker 2: got to be like bear naked penis.

508
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:11,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, bear naked penis.

509
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 2: We are almost done with this stream, guys.

510
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:18,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, onto some relevant minutes. That's right. Anyway, let's go

511
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:22,119
Speaker 1: back to not Dix and let's talk about this father

512
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 1: and this child and the dead people.

513
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 2: Fox one one two says, well, dude, she is your wife.

514
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 2: We're just random strangers on the internet, and this is

515
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 2: a seriously large decision. I would recommend talking to her

516
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:34,400
Speaker 2: about it and seeing how she feels. Are you even

517
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 2: able to take in this child, to which Opi responds, well,

518
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:39,080
Speaker 2: I've never been in my wife's position, and I was

519
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:42,000
Speaker 2: thinking maybe someone with more experience could give me advice.

520
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:44,160
Speaker 2: I love my wife, but she can be a bit,

521
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 2: let's say, volatile when it comes to anything involving her

522
00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 2: ex And yes, we are able to take the kid

523
00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 2: in well financially at least comfortable. Search seven oh four

524
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:56,160
Speaker 2: says info needed. Did Kara have much contact with Levi

525
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,680
Speaker 2: prior to the accident. If she did, that might make

526
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 2: it a little bit easier, But you also do you

527
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 2: need to go with that. It's just Charlotte's brother. Just

528
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 2: think how you will put this and start by admitting

529
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 2: to her. She may or may not like the idea,

530
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 2: but there is the possibility that she's trying to figure

531
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 2: out how to bring it up to you. So think

532
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,639
Speaker 2: of it as a way of making it easier to

533
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:17,959
Speaker 2: say what she wants. I think that you're going to do, Okay,

534
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,919
Speaker 2: Opie responds, No, she purposely didn't form a relationship with

535
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 2: him so she'd have less attachments to her ex.

536
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:27,480
Speaker 1: Wow, that's so crazy. Hate your ex so much that

537
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 1: you throw your child under the bus, just like just

538
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:34,640
Speaker 1: bar dirt in the mud and the blood and the God.

539
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 2: I actually saw the kid more often than my wife

540
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 2: because I handle most of the childcare stuff with my stepdaughter,

541
00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:43,679
Speaker 2: which included pick up and drop off from visits with

542
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:47,160
Speaker 2: her dad. Charlie Chuck says, I'm curious, what was your

543
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 2: relationship like with your wife's ex. It seems like you

544
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:54,120
Speaker 2: and him had a better relationship than your wife and him.

545
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 2: I'm not saying you guys are buddy buddy. Opie says,

546
00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:58,639
Speaker 2: he and I were cordial, but if I'm being frank,

547
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,160
Speaker 2: he was a massive douche. My wife and I would

548
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 2: rock paper scissors sometimes to see who would have to

549
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 2: deal with him.

550
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:04,479
Speaker 1: Lol.

551
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,800
Speaker 2: No Glove fifteen seventy five says, do you think your

552
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:09,240
Speaker 2: wife will be able to be a loving parent to

553
00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 2: Levi the same way that she is with Charlotte? Physically

554
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 2: taking him in? Is only the beginning of the journey,

555
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 2: Opi says, knowing my wife, yes, I think she would.

556
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 2: She might hate the idea or she may not, but

557
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,360
Speaker 2: I don't think she's physically capable of hating a little

558
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 2: kid once she gets to know him. That's why she's

559
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 2: avoided forming a relationship with her ex's kid. I think

560
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 2: she didn't want to get to attach someone adjacent to

561
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,959
Speaker 2: her ex, but that's just my speculation, of course. Final

562
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 2: comment before the big Juicy update biggain juicy.

563
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 1: Oh I can do a Tibetan throat saying you can

564
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 1: wait big yes Juicy updates. Nice thanks.

565
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 2: Kamillia Rivera says what did the ex do for Kara

566
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 2: to divorce him? Damn man? Answer, which, like Loki, truely

567
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 2: what happened, Opie, The better question is what didn't he do?

568
00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 2: A man is not allowed to sleep. He cheated, lied,

569
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 2: gas let her, they hit screaming matches, and during the

570
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 2: divorce he tried to keep my stepdaughter away from her.

571
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 2: He made things up about her in court to try

572
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 2: and serve his end. The only thing he never did

573
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:14,120
Speaker 2: was hit her.

574
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: Yikes, yikes, hit her.

575
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 2: He didn't. That was the only only thing he did

576
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 2: not do.

577
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 1: Oh, he didn't hit her.

578
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 2: Everything. So it's bad bad either way.

579
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 1: Okay, I thought it was like they didn't hit her. No, No,

580
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 1: what's everything else?

581
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 2: The lying, cheating, stealing the child's gas lighting, Yeah, the

582
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 2: screaming matches, things of this nature. But guys, we have

583
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 2: a final update. Some relevant comments.

584
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:49,880
Speaker 1: John read this story, okay for everyone sleeping all right, So.

585
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 2: Onto the updates. After reading through as many comments as

586
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:56,119
Speaker 2: I could, I was even more nervous than ever about

587
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 2: talking to my wife. I was also even more convinced

588
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 2: that this was a converse I needed to have sooner

589
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,880
Speaker 2: rather than later. I also tried to get more information

590
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 2: on Levi's situation and why no one could take him

591
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 2: from my wife. And according to Kara, Levi's mom immigrated

592
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 2: from another country and doesn't have any family here. One

593
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 2: of her ex's parents is an aged care and the

594
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 2: other is unwilling for some reason. As for the rest

595
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:22,199
Speaker 2: of his extended family. I don't know, and neither does she,

596
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 2: but she did say that he's no contact with most

597
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 2: of his family and he's been disowned by a fair

598
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 2: number of the family. The kid, the ex husband, OH,

599
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 2: the ex, the ceased X. Someone may reach out in

600
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 2: the future, but it seems unlikely again to help claim

601
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 2: the kid. Last night, Charlotte was over at her friend's

602
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 2: house for a sleepover, so Kara and I had dinner

603
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 2: alone together. I started by bringing up how lonely I

604
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 2: thought Charlotte was and how glad I was that she

605
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 2: was feeling well enough to go over to her friend's house.

606
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 2: Kara agreed, and I basically got straight to the point

607
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 2: by saying that how I thought that she'd feel better

608
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 2: if she could spend time with her brother and asked

609
00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 2: if she might consider taking on Levi as a kinship foster.

610
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 1: What's a kinship foster?

611
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 2: Let us know in the comments. I'm guessing it means like, yeah,

612
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 2: she's not related to him.

613
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 1: No, she's the kinship is maybe just like not related

614
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 1: or anything, you.

615
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 2: Know, something like that, Sam just woke up my kid.

616
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 1: Yeah.

617
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,880
Speaker 6: It might be a term or concept relating to foster care,

618
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:24,120
Speaker 6: suggesting nurturing and caring environments that emphasizes kindness and familial bonds.

619
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 1: Sella Davis is next of family.

620
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:28,920
Speaker 2: Oh nice, God, so it's like next in line, next

621
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 2: in line, I see, I see, I see.

622
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, here we go.

623
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,200
Speaker 2: We're gonna keep going, and Sam will keep dancing giving

624
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 2: me worms and vibes.

625
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, still love me if I was a worm. Oh god, yeah,

626
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: you'd like me to wear them all up in the air.

627
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 1: Ear feature to my bird, to my bird, call, give

628
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 1: you that sweet word. Oh John, he's gonna give you

629
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 1: those words. Oh goodness, gracious, here we go. Hit him

630
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 1: with it, Johnny boy.

631
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 2: Carol looked awful for a minute before tentatively agreeing to

632
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 2: take in the kid. That's big. We're going to be

633
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 2: taking steps to see about taking him in and at

634
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 2: the very least setting up visits so the siblings can

635
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 2: see each other. This is a huge weight off my shoulders,

636
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 2: knowing that she doesn't resent a little kid for her

637
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 2: relationship with his father, and that she was able to

638
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 2: have a rational conversation regarding a topic related to her ex.

639
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 2: The last time we had a conversation about him, I'd

640
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 2: accidentally used a phrase that her excuse a lot during

641
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 2: in their fights, and she got triggered by it. She

642
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 2: ended up storming out and staying at a hotel for

643
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 2: the night so she could calm down. She's a lovely woman.

644
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 2: I know it might not seem like that from my post,

645
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 2: but she really is. She had a really toxic and

646
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 2: borderline abusive relationship which almost resulted in her losing access

647
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 2: to her daughter. So I hope that y'all don't think

648
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 2: of her as a monster, but as a loving wife

649
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 2: and a mother with some trauma that she's trying her

650
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 2: damnedest to work through and with the support of her

651
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 2: therapist and myself.

652
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: But don't we think of her as a monster though,

653
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 1: Like even though I mean Opie said not to, but

654
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 1: I feel like we kind of do right. Well, we're

655
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 1: you know.

656
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 2: She actually she didn't want to see the kid because

657
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 2: of the ties to the husband, which is fucked up,

658
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 2: which because he was in a I guess not stable.

659
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: I think it's good to abandon children, That's what I'm hearing.

660
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 2: Yes, I think it's very, very very good to abandon children.

661
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 2: But and she ultimately did pretty much on the first

662
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 2: ask except the kidden.

663
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I gets that she is redeeming.

664
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 2: Herself, which is like, she didn't offer it up, so.

665
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Speaker 1: She didn't offer it up.

666
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 2: You can on her.

667
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 1: But she redeemed herself. She did, so she did overall good.

668
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 1: I'm saying overall good. I say overall good.

669
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 2: I'm saying overall with a.

670
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 1: Sprinkle of bad, but the good covered up the bad.

671
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: It's like if you like accidentally dropped some oil on

672
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 1: the street, but then rain came by and washed it away.

673
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 2: One hundred percent agree.

674
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 1: And Correnza bond, thanks for the five bucks. Got to

675
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 1: go back to work. By for now, Little Silly's a

676
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 1: happy birthday. The sleepless nights, that's right, nights making my own. Technically,

677
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 1: everything in the universe is either worm or not a worm,

678
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 1: and we are worms.

679
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 2: Damn Trompin just bombs on my brain. All right, guys,

680
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 2: are you ready? We have one last relevant comment in

681
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 2: the story. I'm so ready one last relevant comment. So

682
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 2: this one comes from cooler than unicorns. I'm so happy

683
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 2: about this outcome. Your wife seems like a lovely woman. OPI,

684
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 2: I know right, I'm so thrilled. My jaw hurts from

685
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 2: smiling so much. Oh dear, it's Richard Y says I'm

686
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 2: glad to Reddit didn't talk you out of this. There

687
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 2: were so many negative and pessimistic comments. I was worried

688
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 2: that you were going to abandon the idea, Opie says.

689
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 2: No one short of my wife herself would convince me

690
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 2: not to. He's an innocent child who needs someone to

691
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 2: love him. If anything, Reddit made me more determined to try.

692
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 2: If I chickened out and never brought it up, everyone

693
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 2: calling me a saint completely undeserved. But that's aside. The

694
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 2: point would be disappointed in me along with myself.

695
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 1: What a saga we really want all all around around

696
00:31:58,840 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: the world. That's right.

697
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 2: So would you adopt the child?

698
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 1: Would I adopt the child? Yes? Yeah, I think so.

699
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 1: I think this story turned out way better that started. Yes,

700
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: I'm really glad. I'm really glad for that reason.

701
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 2: It was a good ending, good ending to a good story.

702
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, baby, got tea five bucks? Thank you your day jobs?

703
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: Are you asking us? Yeah? Dude, because tell me looking

704
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:21,480
Speaker 1: at it? Tell them what we're looking at it. We

705
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 1: do this full time.

706
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 2: We went all in. We went actually from.

707
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 1: The very first day, yeah literally the first day for

708
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 1: the first day, we kind of before we had any.

709
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 2: Performance of it like the first day of recording.

710
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 6: And posted tell them how you guys started this. I

711
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 6: don't think anything.

712
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's actually a good way to close out.

713
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, we can tell you guys how

714
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 1: we started.

715
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 2: Yes, do it?

716
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 3: So?

717
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: Me and Sam met from a mutual friend, which is

718
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: also so crazy, like if she had never introduced us,

719
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: none of this would be literally you wouldn't be watching

720
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 1: this right now probably, But so we had a mutual

721
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 1: friend introduce us, and we were both like in the

722
00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 1: podcast space and we just started chating like every two weeks,

723
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 1: every two weeks. And this was during the pandemic.

724
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is this is actually literally right right as

725
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 2: the pandemic started.

726
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, because we're both doing podcast stuff.

727
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 2: I was a podcast producer for other businesses. But we

728
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 2: started talking like literally every we put a recurring thing

729
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 2: on the calendar every two weeks.

730
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 1: And we're just chatting because like we were both in

731
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: the podcast based John was doing the business podcast stuff

732
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 1: and I had like an entrepreneurial podcast where I interviewed people.

733
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: Were like, we're doing kind of the same thing, and

734
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 1: we started talking and then we fell madly in a lot.

735
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 2: Just insatiably in love, and Sam got this awesome opportunity

736
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 2: from the show Finding Founders, by the way, which is

737
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 2: still live.

738
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 1: It's still live. You look up Finding Founders, you can

739
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 1: see another side to me.

740
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's technically under.

741
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 1: Our whole network. Yeah, yeah, yeah it is. It is

742
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 1: under literally okop now very much.

743
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 3: Yeah.

744
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 1: If you look up Finding Founders you can see where

745
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 1: I talked to nudists and stuff.

746
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 2: That's right, Yeah, that's where the new stuff came from Curio.

747
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 2: But yeah, he got an opportunity from them, and then

748
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 2: they were like, oh, actually this is a co hosted

749
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 2: position and dude.

750
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,759
Speaker 1: He yeah, and I'm like, John. We went talking for

751
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 1: a while. I want to come on tapped in your boy, dude,

752
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 1: and we started doing this show with Wondery called Secret

753
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: Sauce you can name drop.

754
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 2: And this this is the first time ever publicly.

755
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 1: Okay, well people can look at it link. Yeah yeah.

756
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:27,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

757
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 1: And we did that for a while and it was fun.

758
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: But eventually they're like they canceled the show and were

759
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 1: like this, we could do this better. And so we

760
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 1: were like brainstorming ideas and eventually we're like, oh, what

761
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 1: if we like read like you know, Reddit stories. We've

762
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 1: been seeing like people do it like, we could probably

763
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 1: do this better. We're funny a little bit. And then

764
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 1: our first TikTok got like five hundred thousand views. They

765
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:51,760
Speaker 1: were like, holy.

766
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 2: Shit, bleue our minds blue?

767
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 1: Are minds blue? Our minds? And so from that point

768
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 1: on we really it's like two tiktoks a day.

769
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, for seven days a week, seven days a week

770
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 2: since that, since that September nineteenth, twenty twenty one was

771
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 2: the upload date, which we have to celebrate as an

772
00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 2: anniversary next time. We're like bad at not we're bad

773
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 2: at celebrating, and we need to do that.

774
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, gem ass, Sam, did you interview the newest nude? Yes?

775
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: I did. It was a picture out there of me,

776
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 1: me doing that five thousand and John shaves his head

777
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: Hamster girl.

778
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 2: Unfortunately not that was unfortunately not going to happen.

779
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 1: Oh man, I think we could read one small story, yeah,

780
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: a little, Yeah, we want one one show or something. Yeah,

781
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 1: we got something.

782
00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 2: And then and then if we do, we only have

783
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 2: a few minutes left. If by some miraculous godsend miracle,

784
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:44,839
Speaker 2: we passed five thousand, it's going public. It's going That's

785
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 2: what it is. Okay, So there you go there, well

786
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 2: a giant that clows out strong.

787
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: Oh man, yeah, even I get to start my day.

788
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 1: I get one story. Yeah, we we're looking for we've

789
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 1: read through all of our stories right now, we've just

790
00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:01,720
Speaker 1: blown up. This was amazing, guys. Yeah, I'm so glad

791
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,839
Speaker 1: that you've liked it, because like this is I think,

792
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 1: like the most fun is interacting with you guys.

793
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's it's been kind of crazy because like

794
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 2: you know, we put out the videos and obviously we

795
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 2: see your comments, and but being able to interact with

796
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:17,280
Speaker 2: all of the comments in real time, like, yeah, it's crazy,

797
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 2: like truly crazy.

798
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it really feels like a community. And also seeing

799
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: you guys like talk in the chat with each other

800
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 1: and then find your like each other in the comments

801
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 1: of the videos is so cool because like, like I

802
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 1: see you guys like exchanging information say like oh, like

803
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:35,719
Speaker 1: that was like sleepless nights or whatever. It's really really

804
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:38,800
Speaker 1: cool and we're lucky to have such an awesome community.

805
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 2: So lucky as has like.

806
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 1: I don't know, just supported us and supported each other.

807
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 2: I won't say thename, but don't tell. Don't tell X

808
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:50,320
Speaker 2: how much was spent? Don't worry. See we we censored

809
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:50,799
Speaker 2: in that time.

810
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: Time, Sarah King says, Daddy Jesse, thanks again for the membership.

811
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: I appreciate it, oh Jesse.

812
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 2: But yeah, Jesse, by the way, I love that you're

813
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 2: gifting the memberships. It's just such a I just love it. Yeah,

814
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 2: it's just such a cool way to donate to the stream.

815
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, that he got something for us. All right,

816
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 1: last story. It's a short one. This is the story

817
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 1: to close it out. Thank you again for everyone who's

818
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 1: been here. This has been awesome. All right, Today I

819
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:18,399
Speaker 1: afft up by giving a meth head nine dollars to.

820
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 2: Rake my yard. Dang.

821
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 1: So this actually happened yesterday, and my roommate suggested I

822
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 1: put it on Reddit. So they started at around ten am.

823
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 1: While I was walking outside my car to take my

824
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 1: wife to work. As we share a car, a guy

825
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 1: walks up to me and starts saying, hell, rake my

826
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 1: yard for some money. I don't know, because we have

827
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 1: someone that does that. I also said no because he

828
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 1: was clearly tweaking on meth and I didn't want him

829
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,760
Speaker 1: in my yard. Well, he wasn't taking no for an answer,

830
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 1: and he just started doing it anyway. I kept telling

831
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: him not to do it, but I was in a

832
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:48,279
Speaker 1: rush as my wife was already running late, so I

833
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:50,840
Speaker 1: just handed him the cash for my center console and said,

834
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:52,920
Speaker 1: try to be done quick. I was kind of hoping

835
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 1: you'd just take my money and leave before I got back,

836
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 1: because I didn't want to have to deal with him. Well,

837
00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 1: when I came back from dropping her off, he's still there,

838
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 1: and now he has a lawnmower. I'm just telling him

839
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 1: to hurry up, but he's rambling nonsense out one thousand

840
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 1: words a minute and picking individual grass blades out. So

841
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:12,000
Speaker 1: I decided to just go inside and make breakfast. When

842
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 1: not even five minutes later, he's banging on my front door.

843
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 1: I'm not an idiot, so I ad an answer because I'm

844
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 1: not sure if he would try to come inside, and instead,

845
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 1: I called my uncle and he came over and basically

846
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 1: told the guy to leave in thirty minutes where he's

847
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 1: calling the cops. The guy freaked out and then proceeded

848
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 1: to start calling my uncle Joe Biden and screaming, I

849
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 1: can't believe a black man like me is cutting grass

850
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:41,880
Speaker 1: for the president. Then starts something better. It starts cutting

851
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,920
Speaker 1: the grass after we told him to just leave. At

852
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: this point, I'm starting to consider bringing my gun to

853
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 1: be more convincing, but I had a feeling he was

854
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,320
Speaker 1: from a meth house that's like five houses down, damn,

855
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: and didn't want to bring more trouble. In the end,

856
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:57,800
Speaker 1: it took him like four hours, and he kept begging

857
00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: for more money. I guess the myth has long say

858
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 1: it's worn off at this point because he looked like

859
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:04,360
Speaker 1: he was about to die on my sidewalk, so I

860
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 1: gave him a water bottle and told him the person

861
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 1: across the street probably needs the yard done. It's an

862
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 1: abandoned house. I went to Valmart several hours later and

863
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:15,440
Speaker 1: saw him taking the sidewalk in front of the abandoned house.

864
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:17,960
Speaker 1: This is kind of the short version. I didn't end

865
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 1: up giving him another five, but I told him from

866
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 1: the start I don't really care cash, which is true. Also,

867
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 1: if you're wondering why we didn't just call the cops,

868
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 1: I kind of live hood adjacent and that's really frowned

869
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:31,399
Speaker 1: on here, t LDR. I very reluctantly gave a meth

870
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 1: head nine dollars to break my grass, and he refused

871
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 1: to leave my house for another four hours.

872
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 2: Wow. What a hilarious closer. Hilarious understood the assignment though,

873
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 2: like he was literally tweeted.

874
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, all the like for the president. You got

875
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 1: to make sure the presidential as is great. He did.

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00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 2: Bro Mega, my own says, meth heads are awesome. Gay.

877
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:57,959
Speaker 1: You know they know how to work, dude. They're out

878
00:39:57,960 --> 00:39:59,800
Speaker 1: here speaking and working.

879
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 2: Shout out to them.

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00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 1: Man. Well, so good night to all of you. If

881
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 1: you love us, make sure to subscribe and like this

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Speaker 1: video We love you at Sea, so Farrow. This is

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Speaker 1: an episode from Deep Within the Archives.

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Speaker 2: Time for okop Reward. My brother slept with my girlfriend,

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Speaker 2: so on canceling my daughter's wedding. I'm forty six Mail

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Speaker 2: and my brother is forty eight Mal. When I was twenty,

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Speaker 2: my then girlfriend cheated on me with my brother. I

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Speaker 2: was heartbroken and pissed. I told him he is no

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Speaker 2: longer my brother. Despite my request, my family didn't cut

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Speaker 2: him off. So I told him that I will never

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Speaker 2: again be in the same place he is. If the

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Speaker 2: family wishes to invite both of us, then they should

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Speaker 2: just invite him, as I'm the one giving the ultimatum.

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Speaker 5: That's fair, I think if you're going to be like

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Speaker 5: unreasonable and be like I'm cutting him off from everything. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: they shouldn't insist that he's not going to be invited.

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Speaker 2: My daughter is getting married in spring next year, and

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Speaker 2: in our culture, both parents are paying for the wedding

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Speaker 2: fifty to fifty. Unexpectedly, my daughter sat me down and

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Speaker 2: told me that she will be inviting my brother and

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Speaker 2: his family. He married my cheating x oh. Wait, I

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Speaker 2: didn't realize that he married the cheating x oh.

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Speaker 5: God, so that means that he would always have to

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Speaker 5: see him at events.

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Speaker 2: That makes so much more sense.

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Speaker 1: God, that's like a knife every time you see him.

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Speaker 2: I can understand.

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Speaker 1: It's like one thing to cheat and then it just

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Speaker 1: like like they like they cheat once and then they

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Speaker 1: never see each other again, or they cheat and like

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Speaker 1: they're unhappy, but to be happy with the person Chad,

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Speaker 1: bad bad bad.

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Speaker 5: Yikes, because then you know, like it's not like a

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Speaker 5: like oh maybe there was just some attraction but no feelings.

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Speaker 5: So that's like they had feelings for your brother. It's

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Speaker 5: like the double attraction.

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Speaker 2: Yeah literally, yeah, like a sexual attraction, like yeah, it

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Speaker 2: was a one time thing whatever.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, Like I feel like it's.

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Speaker 2: Like I didn't love you. I loved your brother.

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Speaker 1: Like the better version of the Yeah yeah you're cool,

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Speaker 1: but like your brother's better, So I hate you goodbye.

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Speaker 1: Is it an older brother or younger brother, because if

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Speaker 1: it isn't older, I feel like it's because that's like

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Speaker 1: you're like, like you look up to your older brother.

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Speaker 1: Oh man.

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Speaker 2: Now, apparently my daughter was seeing them for the last

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Speaker 2: four years and built a relationship with them behind my back.

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Speaker 2: With the brother, the cheating brother. It's like the daughter's

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Speaker 2: cheating and this is this is the kick in the gun.

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Speaker 2: She even wants the cousin from the cheaters to be

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Speaker 2: some kind of flower girl. So they had a kid

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Speaker 2: and they want the kid to be a flower girl.

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Speaker 5: Part of me thinks, so that kids shouldn't be punished

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Speaker 5: for the wrongdoing of the parents.

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Speaker 2: True, true, But then then it's.

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Speaker 5: Kind of messed up. I'm like, absolutely hold the grudge

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Speaker 5: against the people, but like should not be able to

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Speaker 5: have a relationship with their cousin because their parents.

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Speaker 2: Oh relationship. Yeah yeah. Needless to say, I was pissed

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Speaker 2: and I told her what my boundaries are and if

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Speaker 2: my brother is invited, then I will not pay for

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Speaker 2: any part of the wedding. My daughter became angry and

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Speaker 2: told me that it's time to let go of the past.

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Speaker 2: I told her it's not her call to make. We

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Speaker 2: argued some more, and she told me that I was

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Speaker 2: making her wedding about myself. And I told her I

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Speaker 2: will probably not even attend, so it will be all

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Speaker 2: about her. She left crying.

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Speaker 5: She has a point, that's yeah, because you got to

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Speaker 5: think too, so like this happened. Yeah, you obviously met

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Speaker 5: her mom, they got they got together, they had a kid.

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Speaker 1: Yep, this kid is old enough.

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Speaker 5: Now they're getting married.

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Speaker 2: It's it's been a while. Like can you just.

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Speaker 5: Like like even if she was trying to get married

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Speaker 5: right at eighteen.

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Speaker 2: It's twenty six years has.

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Speaker 5: Pasted, Okay, I was gonna say, it's got.

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Speaker 2: Twenty six years, get over it. Yeah, that's I mean.

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Speaker 2: I would. I would be like, this is your daughter's wedding.

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Speaker 2: This is her day. She can invite who she wants

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Speaker 2: and you don't have to like them or interact or anything,

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Speaker 2: but like, this is her day. And it's been twenty

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Speaker 2: six years.

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Speaker 1: I mean, is there like like twenty six years feels

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Speaker 1: like more than enough time to try, Like for the

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Speaker 1: family's sake. Yeah, like try to mend things. What's like

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Speaker 1: the minimum amount of time.

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Speaker 5: I think he probably like could have easily gotten away

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Speaker 5: with a good five years honestly on that, especially considering

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Speaker 5: that they have a child.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's very easily.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I think like a little over an election

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Speaker 1: cycle and then you should be over it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Biden's out brothers in.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think anything under five years would have been

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Speaker 5: such a like four to five. Yeah, like if you

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Speaker 5: were trying to push it that soon, would you would

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Speaker 5: have been the asshole for pushing that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: At this point it's twenty six. I don't know. So

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Speaker 2: my ex wife called me screaming and told me I'm

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Speaker 2: a huge a hole and our daughter is crushed. Then

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Speaker 2: my parents called and said the same thing. I told

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Speaker 2: them off, and now I'm ignoring all of their calls.

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Speaker 2: My girlfriend told me to reconsider and apologize, but I said,

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Speaker 2: I'm breaking up with you and now I'm just kidding

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Speaker 2: full dottle fuck everyone who wants this. She said that

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Speaker 2: by not paying and attending, I will break the relationship

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Speaker 2: with my daughter. So true. I don't know. I think

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Speaker 2: my boundaries should be respected. Am I the a hole

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Speaker 2: for that. What do we think?

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Speaker 5: Oh, absolutely, my dad was not at my wedding. I

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Speaker 5: would be like, my dad could get in a serious

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Speaker 5: car crash the night before, and I would move the

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Speaker 5: wedding to the hospital with a few close friends and family.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Important.

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Speaker 5: It would be to me to have my mom, I

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Speaker 5: mean my dad and my mom and like the most

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Speaker 5: immediate family members there. I feel like, yeah, at the point,

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Speaker 5: you don't need to have a relationship with them, but

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Speaker 5: you don't need to be hurting other relationships.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I totally agree. And also like he's like

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Speaker 1: destroying all of his relationships right now. It's like it's

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Speaker 1: like this is this isn't benefiting you this grudge anymore, right,

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Speaker 1: So maybe let it go so you can have a

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Speaker 1: relationship with your daughter and your rest of your family.

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Speaker 5: Find some covert and clear revenge and just that you

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Speaker 5: never can be traced back to. You do that and

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Speaker 5: then call it good.

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Speaker 2: And then put a story on nuclear revenge, and then

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Speaker 2: we read that.

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Speaker 1: There we go some more content babies, that's right.

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Speaker 2: If you liked this episode, check out this one where

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Speaker 2: the mom prioritized her yoga over her own daughter's wedding.

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Speaker 1: Oh god,