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Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand Jebils dirty little Secret. It's

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Speaker 1: time for your dirty little secret text in four one

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Speaker 1: oh six one. If you have a dirty little secret,

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Speaker 1: you can tell us anything because nobody will know who

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Speaker 1: you are. We don't even ask what your name is.

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Speaker 1: So you have a dirty little secret, I do. I've

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Speaker 1: been keeping something from my husband for quite some time.

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Speaker 1: That's not good. Is it a man? Are you keeping

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Speaker 1: a man from your husband? Or No, it's not a man.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of more around how we actually met. Oh,

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Speaker 1: he thinks it was just you know, fate, kiss meant whatever,

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Speaker 1: And it actually was a bet from my friends for

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Speaker 1: me to go up to him. But I haven't never

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Speaker 1: had the heart to tell him because we met in

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Speaker 1: college and he was like the total nerdy bookworm across

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Speaker 1: the way, and my friends and I we're not super

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Speaker 1: into school, so we were they're more hanging out than

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Speaker 1: we were actually studying, and so we saw this guy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's that's what I was about to ask you, because

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Speaker 1: Derek in that situation could go either way. It could

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Speaker 1: be like, oh, that guy is so hot, right, Like

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Speaker 1: I dare you to go talk to a girl like

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Speaker 1: he definitely is. Oh, my god, I don't even know

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Speaker 1: how I get words out of my mouth in it.

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Speaker 1: Or it could be like, wow, I dare you to

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Speaker 1: ask that guy out because he's tragic. So it was

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Speaker 1: kind of like that. It was kind of like that.

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Speaker 1: I mean he was like glasses, like middle part, like

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Speaker 1: a total like nerd, chewing on his pen, and I, well,

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Speaker 1: I went just to you know, make my friends laugh.

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Speaker 1: But then I actually started talking to him, and you know,

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Speaker 1: his charm makes up for everything at a really sweet Wait,

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Speaker 1: so how long have you been married? Now we've been

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Speaker 1: married for six years now. Wo Yeah, I'm assuming you

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Speaker 1: won the bet. Then I did win the bet. But

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Speaker 1: it's so hard to tell him that he was kind

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Speaker 1: of targeted for being a nerd. Um. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if you would, how he would take that. But I

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Speaker 1: just don't want to hurt his feelings, you know. I mean,

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Speaker 1: he's got to know that he's a nerd. Yeah he does.

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Speaker 1: He know he's a nerd, he does. But I will

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Speaker 1: say I've done some work on him in the in

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Speaker 1: the years that we've been married to try to I know, now,

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Speaker 1: if you will, there's a couple of ways of looking

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Speaker 1: at it, right, because if someone were to tell you

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Speaker 1: that they had a bet to go up and ask

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Speaker 1: you out because you were like a nerdy, funky looking dude,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, just looking or not, but nerdy whatever.

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Speaker 1: You could go, oh that sucks that you did that,

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Speaker 1: or you could look at it how I look at

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Speaker 1: it right, because Alex and I are married if you

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Speaker 1: didn't know them by the way, um, and you know,

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Speaker 1: people make a comment about my wife being attractive, right

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Speaker 1: and in dudes a lot of times online, especially on

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Speaker 1: social media, will rip on me right on my social

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Speaker 1: media and on Alex's social media. Uh, but I just

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Speaker 1: look at it like, yeah, that's how dope I am, right, right,

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Speaker 1: are you kidding me? Like I'm not about looks. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're my twin flame and there's no like, there's no

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Speaker 1: better person for me in this world, and like that's it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And that's what I mean though, Like you can look

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Speaker 1: at it one or two ways, like your husband could

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Speaker 1: look at it, like, yeah, that's how cool I am.

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Speaker 1: I was so tragic and nerdy that you got dared

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Speaker 1: to ask me out. But then I talked to you

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Speaker 1: and you were like, damn this nerd is hot. Yes, right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that is what happened. That is what happened. So does

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Speaker 1: that help you in your decision if you tell your

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Speaker 1: husband or not. Yeah, I feel better about it. I

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Speaker 1: at first was thinking that he was just going to

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Speaker 1: be upset, but you made a really valid point, so

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Speaker 1: I think he might think that it's actually kind of

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Speaker 1: funny and feel better about it. Yeah, like, after this long,

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Speaker 1: you're talking years. If it does end in a divorce,

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Speaker 1: you know our phone number, so give us a goal. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I will definitely call you guys. Then okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: thank you for telling us you're doing a little secret.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys for the Jebel Show on demand.