1 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all back a 2 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: suit on, looking back to back down, giving the mother 3 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 1: like the moking buck bus things and its cub me 4 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: true good Steve har listening to moviether for Steve, please by, 5 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: I don't join join me to be doing me. You 6 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:41,119 Speaker 1: gotta u turn be hurting the You gotta turn to 7 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 1: turn them out. Got to turn out, turn the water 8 00:01:47,200 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 1: the water. Come, come on your baby at it. Huh, 9 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: I sure will A good morning everybody. You're listening to 10 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: the voice, Come on dig me now, one and only 11 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show man. God is in 12 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:20,519 Speaker 1: a blessing business. I'm in the receiving line. Man. That's 13 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 1: a good feeling. That's a good feeling. You know. I 14 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,360 Speaker 1: thank God for waking me up in the mornings. I 15 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 1: really really do. I thank God for the spirit that 16 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: he wakes me up with because I finally, but I 17 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: finally figured it out. Such a blessing man, such a 18 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 1: blessing that shouldn't be taken for granted. The fact that 19 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: you are up today, the fact that you just got 20 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 1: off working, you driving home, the fact that you got 21 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: a job to come home from, the fact that you 22 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 1: got a job to wake up too. Whatever it is, 23 00:02:56,200 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: the fact that you can see think here smeil walk, talk, rhyme, reason, 24 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: whatever it is, it's a blessing, man, it is a blessing. 25 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:09,959 Speaker 1: And you know, I was talking to a partner of 26 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 1: mine last night and an analogy came to me last 27 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: night of what my life has been like. And I 28 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: was just going over my story with a friend of 29 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 1: mine of all some of the things I had gone through, 30 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: and he never knew it because he said, man, you 31 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 1: never told me that we were just talking. One of 32 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 1: the things I remember, and it's kind of equated to 33 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 1: my life, was when I was a little boy and 34 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: she go to the store with my mom and she 35 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: would let me buy a jigsaw puzzle. Now, for those 36 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 1: of you, a jigsaw puzzle comes in a box that 37 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 1: I know instructions. It just comes in a box and 38 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 1: it's simple. You're gonna dump the pieces out in a 39 00:03:56,760 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: pile and you're gonna try to put the pieces together 40 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: until it looks like the picture that's on the cover 41 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 1: of the box. That's as simple as it is. Here 42 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: is the deal. I would select a jigsaw puzzle based 43 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 1: on the picture that I liked and if I thought 44 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 1: I could do it now, if the jigsaw puzzle, if 45 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 1: the picture looked too crazy, if it looked too intricate, 46 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:36,719 Speaker 1: I didn't want that puzzle, you know. And the thing was, 47 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 1: back in the day, you got a jigsaw puzzle, you 48 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: had a hundred piece puzzles. Four hundred piece puzzles. Man, 49 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 1: then they say a thousand piece puzzle. You go oh. 50 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:49,840 Speaker 1: So those were a little difficult for me when I 51 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 1: was a little boy, so I didn't want that. As 52 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: I got a little bit older, I had more challenging puzzles, 53 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: you know, four fifty five, five hundred piece puzzles. But 54 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 1: I always picked a picture of something I liked and 55 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 1: wanted to see happen. So it's very simple. You get 56 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 1: the jigsaw puzzle, you get it home, you open it up, 57 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:17,559 Speaker 1: you dump it out on the table, You flip all 58 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:21,799 Speaker 1: the pieces over so you can see them, and then 59 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 1: I would try to saw them based on the colors 60 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: on the box. If it was like a black section, 61 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: I'd take all the black pieces and slide them over there. 62 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 1: If it was some flowers, I'd try to find all 63 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:36,359 Speaker 1: the pictures with little jigsaw pieces, with the little floor, 64 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: and I separate them, and then I started putting it together. 65 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: And the way I started was, I try to build 66 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 1: a border first, because I knew all the straight edges 67 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 1: had to be side by side at one point, so 68 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:51,720 Speaker 1: I'd go like that. And it was funny, man, because 69 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:55,599 Speaker 1: it's related to my life. I would start putting the 70 00:05:55,720 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: pieces together of the picture I saw that I liked, 71 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 1: and that would be my picture. And oftentimes when I 72 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: got through it the puzzle. The puzzle would be about 73 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 1: maybe two feet wide two feet high, something like that. 74 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:15,919 Speaker 1: I liked them about that side. Sometimes I get a 75 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 1: little bigger one pin on the size of the piece 76 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 1: and stuff, and I would make that puzzle. A lot 77 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 1: of people didn't like jigsaw puzzles. The majority of people 78 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 1: I knew and my friends didn't like jigsaw puzzles because 79 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 1: they didn't like the work. And I had a partner 80 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:34,039 Speaker 1: that used to come to my house and see mine 81 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 1: and get mad, and he'd go home and start oneting. 82 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,119 Speaker 1: He'd get too difficult along the way and then he'd 83 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:43,480 Speaker 1: stopped go back to it, and his puzzle was left 84 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: unfinished a lot of time. As a matter of fact, 85 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 1: none of the boys on the street like jigsaw puzzles 86 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:52,839 Speaker 1: butt me because they just didn't want to go through 87 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: the intricate details of figuring that out really go outside 88 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: and run or something like that. Well I did too, 89 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 1: but in the one the time, you know. And so 90 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 1: what happened was, as I got older, I wanted more 91 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 1: difficult than challenging puzzles, but I wouldn't go too far. 92 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: I wanted some nice stuff to happen. I had a 93 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 1: picture of what I wanted for my life, but I 94 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: didn't want to go too far because it was so 95 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: challenging and difficult. I couldn't see myself at all of that, 96 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: and I didn't have the time, the knowledge, the expertise 97 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: to figuring all the intricate details. And I discovered something 98 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: when I was talking last night. That's what happens in 99 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: life to a lot of people. You get bogged down 100 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 1: with the details of coming up and trying to create 101 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 1: the picture that you want for yourself. You put it 102 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: to the side, you said, oh that puzs are crazy. 103 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 1: Next thing, you know, you crumbled it up and put 104 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 1: it back in the box. So you go halfway and 105 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 1: you get stuck, and you get to the part where 106 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: it ain't a lot of different colors, it's all the 107 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: same and that's a little bit more challenging. So that 108 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 1: may stop you. But it's somewhere in the jigsaw puzzle 109 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 1: that it gets very difficult and challenging. The bigger the 110 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 1: picture you want, but then what a happened in your life, 111 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 1: It's just like what ha happened in the jigsaw. Once 112 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: you get comfortable and you don't mind a challenge, you 113 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: could get a bigger picture. But here's the key to it, though, 114 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: if you put God in your mix. See, the picture 115 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: that I saw for myself as a boy is not 116 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 1: the picture that has happened to me as a man. 117 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: Because along the way from boyhood to manhood, from the 118 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 1: time I was ten, you understand what happened along the 119 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: riding now was I started putting God in the mix. 120 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 1: And so now the picture that I have now is 121 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 1: not the picture I saw, It's the picture that God saw. 122 00:08:56,360 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: So what I'm saying this analogy is the picture you 123 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 1: have may be difficult to complete, but if you were 124 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:08,679 Speaker 1: to include God in your life, put God in your 125 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 1: jigsaw puzzle, God will not only help you complete the puzzle, 126 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 1: and he gonna add some pieces. He gonna do some favors. 127 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 1: He gonna show some mercy and you're gonna look up 128 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: and the picture that you're able to end up with 129 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: or be totally different and much more complete, much more beautiful, 130 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: or bigger picture than the one you had. Because there's 131 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:34,080 Speaker 1: no way that I could have saw the life that 132 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 1: I have today back when I was a boy. And 133 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 1: it amazes me when I hear people say I always 134 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 1: saw this for myself. I didn't do that. I didn't 135 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 1: quite see this for myself. I don't know how you 136 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:49,319 Speaker 1: can have the ability to see what God really has 137 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 1: for you. But man, he's a masterful jigsaw. Man, he's 138 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 1: an incredible puzzle complet So if you got a puzzle 139 00:09:57,040 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 1: that's challenging to you, maybe you need to see what's 140 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:03,680 Speaker 1: the picture that God has for your life. If God 141 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:08,560 Speaker 1: were in your life, if you completed the puzzle, what 142 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 1: would it look like. It'll be a far more extensive puzzle, 143 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 1: and it would be a far more beautiful piece of 144 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: scenery than you could have ever imagined. Tears come in 145 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 1: my eyes because I can't believe God bought me this far. 146 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 1: I can't believe that when I opened up and accepted 147 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 1: him and started talking to him that he would add 148 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:32,959 Speaker 1: all these pieceles to my jigsaw puzzle, and my jigsaw 149 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 1: puzzle would look like this. And I can tell you 150 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 1: I ain't got a whole lot to do with with 151 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: with what I had and turned into, it's mostly favored 152 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: and blessings and grace and mercy of God. And I 153 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 1: looked up and I just got a much bigger jigsaw 154 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:50,679 Speaker 1: puzzle completed. And guess what, He ain't through with me yet. 155 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 1: That's what's amazing and exciting about a relationship with God. 156 00:10:55,200 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 1: God could take your jigsaw puzzle and fix it. Every 157 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 1: morning show, ladies and gentlemen, there is a public service 158 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 1: announcement that has to be made right off the top. 159 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: Due to the difficulties stemming from the White House and 160 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 1: the current administration, we have decided to give you a 161 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 1: break from it all today. We're not talking about you 162 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 1: know who and what him didn't did, because he do 163 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 1: something every damn day. Ladies and gentlemen. Welcome to levity, 164 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 1: high comedy moments, and foolerly this is the Steve Harvey 165 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Welcome, Welcome to reality radio. Yes they stole 166 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:56,559 Speaker 1: it to say that, huh, you're very just was stolen. 167 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 1: It was stolen. That's right. Let's not start any man. 168 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 1: It's okay. We don't want to be like the White House. 169 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:08,079 Speaker 1: But this ain't freak news though. This is the real 170 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 1: because you just said I coined you did. I was 171 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 1: there and did you know who took it? Good morning, Steve, 172 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 1: Happy Friday. No, no, I speak to you first. Shirley 173 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 1: ladies first, Good morning, shut how you doing dolling? Happy 174 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 1: Friday to you? Hey, Steve? What's up? Crewe? What's up? Jayne? 175 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:36,080 Speaker 1: What's going out? Oh? It is Black History Month? I 176 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 1: don't know. Yes, that's why he didn't hear this ship 177 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 1: because who we asked not to do this morning? It's 178 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 1: doing it, Tom and Tom big dogging dog Friday morning. Baby, 179 00:12:53,679 --> 00:13:00,720 Speaker 1: let's get it Black History month. We've just had a 180 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 1: meeting with you off the air, did we not? Carla 181 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 1: called you out. Jay has been performing in black face 182 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 1: all his life, My life right up in there with 183 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:21,559 Speaker 1: the head long. We've been on the air this long. 184 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: Said it's gonna be foolery. He said it. Okay, Steve, 185 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 1: you are have embarrassed me. We we've just gotten here. 186 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 1: I'm already be an embarrassing Get ready meeting. Nothing with Jack. 187 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 1: We just no, no, Jay, don't listen. He was at 188 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 1: the meeting that he don't listen. He was the meeting 189 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 1: and then he when y'all talking about me because of 190 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 1: that right there, we ain't been on their eight minutes. 191 00:13:57,720 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 1: Need some fun and just do something. I don't know 192 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:09,680 Speaker 1: why y'all running. I knew, I knew he would get something, 193 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:15,680 Speaker 1: but I knew Team Tomas. You have to you have 194 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 1: to stop this chat. I don't know why y'all shut up. Tommy, 195 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: Now come on, he got no business on this radio. 196 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 1: Can anybody do? President Obama? We need him right now? 197 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 1: All right? Coming up at thirty two after the hour, 198 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 1: Yesterday was Chris Rock's birthday. We'll talk about comedy today 199 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 1: versus comedy back in the day with our three comedians 200 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show, all right, So, Steve, 201 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 1: yesterday was Chris Rock's birthday. That is your birthday, Rock 202 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 1: n legend. And so as I mentioned as we went 203 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 1: to break you Jans and he around Tommy, you guys, 204 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 1: well everybody knows this. It's no secret. You guys are 205 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 1: all comedians, very very very great comedians. What does it take? 206 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 1: I gotta ask you this, Steve, what does it take 207 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 1: to make it big in comedy today versus back in 208 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 1: the day when you guys got started, And I mean, 209 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 1: you know, Steve, it's your show, so let us well, 210 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 1: I mean one of the biggest reasons back in the 211 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 1: day when eighty five, when I started, Jay was already 212 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: out there. A matter of fact, he taught me the 213 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 1: ropes of comedy move my first gig on the road, 214 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 1: and he was the first headliner that I ever met 215 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 1: or worked with him, So he taught me a lot. 216 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 1: But one of the main differences I know is two things. 217 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go quickly, okay. Number one is the 218 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 1: goal of the comedians on stage today seems to has 219 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 1: changed from getting big laughs to getting big reactions. I 220 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 1: think there's a misconception of the difference between a laugh 221 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:04,080 Speaker 1: and a reaction. Laughter is where we after not oh 222 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 1: now that's just the reaction. That's not a laugh. Your 223 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 1: objective is to get laughs. And then secondly, I think 224 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: the way that comedies promoted Oh what what do you 225 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 1: mean by that? Guys? You want to jump in here. Well, 226 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 1: I think one of the things that for me and 227 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:28,520 Speaker 1: when I met Steve, one thing that really made us 228 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 1: especially good writers is that there weren't no there were 229 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 1: no black clubs. There weren't black audiences. So people don't 230 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: take this wrong, but we played all white clubs. Is 231 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 1: that's all you could play. So by doing that, it 232 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 1: made you a comic. By the time you went to 233 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 1: the black clubs, you weren't cursing as much. You were thinking. 234 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 1: I'm not saying comics don't think today, but playing those 235 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 1: clubs in the beginning, by the time you moved over 236 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 1: to the all black audience, you you build this ability 237 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:57,160 Speaker 1: up to work both audiences. And a lot of comics 238 00:16:57,200 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 1: today can't work white crowdser they can't work clean They 239 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:09,399 Speaker 1: just the audience changed. They did in the water up people. No, 240 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 1: I understand it, but yeah, because okay, let's just peel 241 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 1: the skin back on the banana. Our culture can do 242 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 1: it a certain way and it's acceptable, right, Okay, other 243 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 1: whites are not even familiar with that culture. So when 244 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 1: you bring that culture to a white club that it's 245 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:41,760 Speaker 1: too much. Too many small things that they won't get. 246 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:45,760 Speaker 1: Don't mean this guy ain't funny, but he can't work 247 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:50,399 Speaker 1: a white rule because it doesn't understand the parameters because 248 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 1: he just been doing black clubs, and a lot of 249 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:55,879 Speaker 1: the comedians today, if you put them in all white audiences, 250 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:59,359 Speaker 1: will die dog step because they have no concept of 251 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 1: working both rooms. We were forced to learn that back 252 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:07,640 Speaker 1: then because the only rooms to work were white comedy clubs. 253 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:11,399 Speaker 1: And now they have the internet in their own little follower, 254 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 1: they could just stay in their niche tom I've learned 255 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 1: to make adjustments to like what he's saying. I've learned 256 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 1: to make the adjustments, whether I'm performing in front of 257 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:22,879 Speaker 1: a church crowd, whether I'm performing in front of a 258 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 1: predominant white crowd, whatever it is, I've learned, excuse me, 259 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 1: to make the adjustments of whatever my audience is. Second League. Definitely, 260 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:33,400 Speaker 1: no crustin in front of the church crowd, Oh definitely. 261 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 1: You know that I got it. I've done everything. I know, 262 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 1: the whole makeupfest thing. I did not not one profanity 263 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 1: word come out of my mouth. So I make the adjustment. 264 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 1: I don't know about uncle, but I have made the adjustment. 265 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:55,840 Speaker 1: I'm sure he makes it now. I mean in front 266 00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 1: of churches like Steve and Tommy, and I see to myself, 267 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 1: I don't know how the hell you do it. I read, so, Jay, 268 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:07,200 Speaker 1: you've never done a profanity free show for clan show. 269 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:13,680 Speaker 1: Hell no, what were you saying, Steve, you were talking 270 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:16,960 Speaker 1: about this, it's I mean, you know, as I've done Megafest. 271 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 1: Oh it was the toughest h performance because I was 272 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 1: so concerned. But Bishop Jakes was right about me. He 273 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 1: said you can do it. He said, God knows your heart, 274 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 1: just do it, man. And I did it and it 275 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:37,200 Speaker 1: was and it was absolutely great. It wasn't a drop 276 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 1: off in funny or anything. I wrote jokes specifically for 277 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:43,000 Speaker 1: that crowd because I grew up in the church, so 278 00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 1: I had a lot of relatable material, you know, like 279 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 1: if you can't read really good church announcement, should not 280 00:19:54,359 --> 00:20:00,119 Speaker 1: be your fan, right, because now we could that And 281 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:03,879 Speaker 1: people just started laughing. You know, Steve, people, a lot 282 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 1: of people don't even know that. At one time, you 283 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:10,000 Speaker 1: went on tour with Kirk Franklin. Oh. Yeah, I toured 284 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 1: the whole year with Kirk frank We sold out a 285 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 1: lot of places together. And I was deeply concerned. And 286 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:25,000 Speaker 1: I told he's a doctor, doctor, doctor, you could do 287 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:30,439 Speaker 1: you could you could do this? Yeah? That was my 288 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: best Kirk, And so I told Kirk I said no, 289 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:38,119 Speaker 1: man said Kirk your headline. He said, doctor, you just 290 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:42,000 Speaker 1: start here. You're gonna close the show. And Kirk Franklin 291 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:46,719 Speaker 1: was out there having church. Man, it was dog. I 292 00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 1: was in back sweating bullets. They out there screaming, holland 293 00:20:53,600 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 1: getting feeled shouting, oh what it is I've been without 294 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 1: Lord Dog and went right out there customs. I mean, 295 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:14,480 Speaker 1: I made a lot of mistakes on that tour, man, 296 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 1: a lot of mistakes, and I just had church before. 297 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 1: But it was my slowest show ever, I mean ever, 298 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:31,440 Speaker 1: The timing was slow. I had to do I'm for 299 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:35,360 Speaker 1: Luther for three years. I could not curse at all. 300 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:39,479 Speaker 1: Started off like that. I started off, no customs. Wow, 301 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:44,399 Speaker 1: you've changed. Luther would have had to kiss. If you 302 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:47,440 Speaker 1: have any questions for the cure for the crew, please 303 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:49,879 Speaker 1: go to Steve HARVEYFM dot com. Coming up next, it 304 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 1: is a nephew. Probably gonna be a couple of cuss 305 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:57,480 Speaker 1: words in the prank phone call. You think that's a couple, Yeah, 306 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,400 Speaker 1: we gotta run that prank back right after this. You're 307 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 1: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top 308 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:08,440 Speaker 1: of the hour. Entertainment News. Nick Cannon was a celebrity 309 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 1: guest host for Wendy Williams. Her staff was not happy 310 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 1: about it, and Michael B. Jordan needed therapy after black Panther. 311 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 1: What Tommy did too? Yeah, Plus, Miss Anna's gonna be 312 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:24,640 Speaker 1: here to give us the latest from the White House. 313 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 1: But right now it is a nephew here to run 314 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,680 Speaker 1: that prank back. What you got new? We got a 315 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:33,400 Speaker 1: problem at the valet. Oh hey, it's a problem at 316 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:40,600 Speaker 1: the valet. Randy Baby. Hello, Hey, Hey Tommy, how's it going? Hey? Man? 317 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 1: What's going on? You doing all right? I'm doing good, 318 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 1: doing good? What's up? Hey? Listen, I need you to 319 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:50,120 Speaker 1: do something for me. You need your your cartels? No no, no, no, 320 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:52,160 Speaker 1: no no, not because we listen. If I got someone 321 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 1: want you to do for me. I'm doing a plank 322 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,160 Speaker 1: phone call, and I want you to call this guy 323 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 1: and tell him you're the valet downstairs, ask him for 324 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,160 Speaker 1: ticket number and tell them, hey, we got a little 325 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,040 Speaker 1: bit of an issue. But my my manager is gonna 326 00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,760 Speaker 1: call you back. Uh are you sure you want me 327 00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,119 Speaker 1: to do it? You're the vallet guy. That's all you 328 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 1: gotta do, all right? What does the Mexican guy gotta 329 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 1: be at the valet guy and you get to be 330 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:17,159 Speaker 1: the manager. What's up with that? Nick? I'll put a 331 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:18,960 Speaker 1: click on with Nick the car. All I want you 332 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:21,120 Speaker 1: to do is just telling you new the ballet guy. 333 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:23,040 Speaker 1: Will you do that for me? All right? Man? I 334 00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 1: got you? All right? All right? All right? Hey on? 335 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 1: Just hey on? Hello? Hello? Is this mister Franklin? Yes? 336 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 1: Can I ask? What's calling? Oh? Yes? Um, I'm I'm 337 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,800 Speaker 1: Orlanda with valet. Did you park Alec's just with us 338 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 1: about thirty minutes ago? Yeah? I did. What's what's going on? 339 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,440 Speaker 1: What's this about? I'm just gonna need your ticket number 340 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: real quick. There's a small issue. And once you get 341 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:49,440 Speaker 1: the ticket number, I could have my manager just call 342 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:53,359 Speaker 1: you back five three four six? But why do you 343 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: Why do you need my ticket number? Is there something 344 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 1: wrong with my car? If something happened, Um, my manager 345 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 1: will call you back and he'll give you all the details. 346 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 1: Oh okay, so so something did happen to my car? Um? 347 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,720 Speaker 1: Once I give him my manager your ticket number, he'll 348 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:11,320 Speaker 1: call you back shortly and he'll tell you everything. Okay, Well, 349 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:12,800 Speaker 1: can you have him give me a call as soon 350 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 1: as possible because I would like to know what happened 351 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 1: to my car? If something happened this is I don't 352 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 1: I don't really understand what's going on here. I'm sorry. 353 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 1: I have to go, but you can't tell me anything 354 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:25,440 Speaker 1: else before you leave. I mean, there's no details that 355 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,480 Speaker 1: you can give me about anything with my car. Like 356 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,879 Speaker 1: I said, my manager will handle it. I have to 357 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 1: get going perfect, Orlando, that's perfect. I got it from you, bro. 358 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:40,439 Speaker 1: I appreciate. Let's call him back. Hello. Hello, is this uh? 359 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:42,960 Speaker 1: Is this mister Franklin? Yeah, this is he can ask 360 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,800 Speaker 1: his calling. This is tu man. I'm the manager here 361 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 1: down at the vallet. Oh great, thank you. I've been 362 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:51,399 Speaker 1: waiting to hear from you. Oh my god. Thirty minutes 363 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 1: ago you you pulled in with a telling me a 364 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 1: silver light great lexus, Yeah, that's that's yeah, that's my car. 365 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,840 Speaker 1: What what's going on with my car here? Okay? And 366 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,840 Speaker 1: what's your numbers at five three, four six? Yeah, that's 367 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:05,840 Speaker 1: that's my number. I mean I already went through this 368 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:07,199 Speaker 1: with the other guy. Can you just tell me what 369 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: the hell is going on with my car? Okay? Are 370 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 1: you able to come downstairs right now? No? I can't. 371 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 1: I valiate over there. I'm at a I'm at a 372 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 1: lunch with a client somewhere else. I'm not there right now? 373 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 1: Why do I need to come down right now? But 374 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 1: he just what is happening? Okay? So here's the deal, sir. 375 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:27,400 Speaker 1: We have a we have a one of the valet 376 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,880 Speaker 1: workers here has gotten mad and he left. He quit 377 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:34,359 Speaker 1: the job, and he's he's gone, he's left. The premise. 378 00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 1: The problem we're having right now is we don't see 379 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 1: your car, you know, and then you don't see what 380 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,800 Speaker 1: do you what? I'm sorry? What? Well, I'm okay, okay, okay, 381 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:48,359 Speaker 1: oh wow, all right, So my car is gone? Car 382 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:49,679 Speaker 1: is gone? Is that what you're telling me right now? 383 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 1: Somebody company and took my car? Well, well, hey, we're 384 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 1: looking on every four and we're trying to figure out 385 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 1: if it got part somewhere else. He's gone and we're 386 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,520 Speaker 1: we're that's why we call to get your number on 387 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,520 Speaker 1: cards somewhere else. Man, What the do you mean? Do 388 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 1: I have a car or not? That my car just stole? 389 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:10,720 Speaker 1: With how many forts do you have? How on to say? 390 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 1: I just bought that car that is a brand new 391 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,240 Speaker 1: car and now it's just dam are you kidding me? 392 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 1: Right now? Well? Hold on, hold on, I understand, I understand. 393 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 1: Let me ask you something. Is there a way? Um? 394 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 1: Is there a way? Maybe you can come by tomorrow 395 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:26,560 Speaker 1: and we can try to work. Come now and just 396 00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 1: see it. You know, No, there is no way I'm 397 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:33,120 Speaker 1: coming by tomorrow for a car. That's listening today. First 398 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 1: of all, we need to get the police involved in this. 399 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:41,200 Speaker 1: I don't even Frank right now, mister Frank, we don't 400 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,000 Speaker 1: want to get the police involved in this. Were gonna 401 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:46,959 Speaker 1: who is we? Because I damn sure why to get 402 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,160 Speaker 1: the police involved? So who is it? I'm just saying 403 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 1: we are. I'm listen. I don't want to lose my 404 00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:53,680 Speaker 1: job because we lost the car. If you just give 405 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 1: me some time to find the car, that's all I 406 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,399 Speaker 1: want you to do, is give me some time. Let 407 00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:59,320 Speaker 1: me go by this guy's house where he lives and 408 00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 1: see if the car is there. You should already be 409 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:05,920 Speaker 1: in a car driving yo. Ask to this man's house 410 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,120 Speaker 1: talking to me right now. Okay. The fact that you're 411 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:11,119 Speaker 1: not there, it's malpractice. I'm calling the police. I'm suing 412 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,919 Speaker 1: the building on I'm suing the manager, I'm suing the 413 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:18,159 Speaker 1: made the valet box. I'm sure everybody affiliated with yo business. 414 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,880 Speaker 1: You didn't seeing me right now, I'm okay, good listen. 415 00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:23,040 Speaker 1: Parking why are you? Why are you? Why are you 416 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,399 Speaker 1: upset with me? How didn't do that? Now? I didn't 417 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:29,119 Speaker 1: take the car? Oka? Why are you responsible for this? 418 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:32,200 Speaker 1: Parking bot? Are you a manager? What's your occuproblem? Sir? 419 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:35,919 Speaker 1: Why are you doing? Manager? I'm the manager here? An 420 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:39,480 Speaker 1: Orlando called you earlier, okay, and we're trying to find 421 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 1: out where the car is. We all really feel like 422 00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 1: if you don't even want the police involved, man, you're 423 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,640 Speaker 1: not trying to find you're trying to come yet. Right now, 424 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:49,159 Speaker 1: I'm mad at Orlando, I'm mad at you, I'm mad 425 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:51,080 Speaker 1: at your company. I'm at the man who put the 426 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 1: day an assphalt down in the parket lot. I'm mad 427 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,400 Speaker 1: at everybody right now. Okay, Cliff, Okay, okay, okay, we'll 428 00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 1: come down. Okay, but let me ask you this here? 429 00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 1: Are you? Are you? Are you mad? Um? Are you? Man? 430 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 1: At your wife? What? What? What is none of my wife? 431 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 1: But white didn't steal my damn car Ain't your wife 432 00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:10,160 Speaker 1: name Carrie? How the hell you know my wife's name? 433 00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 1: You know how I know your wife's name? Because your 434 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,240 Speaker 1: wife got me to call you. This is Nephew tom 435 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:21,439 Speaker 1: Me from the Steve Harvey More. Damn, Frankly, you just 436 00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: gotta played baby. Damn. Oh boy, we're going to the 437 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 1: marriage counselorce. This was this is y'all. Have you have 438 00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:34,560 Speaker 1: shared your boy? She said, he just bought this car. 439 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 1: He loves this car. Yeah. I started sitting in it 440 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 1: when he ain't going nowhere. Wow, I can't believe. It's 441 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 1: always it's always the closest people. It's all pay you 442 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:45,440 Speaker 1: what I tell you? Who is not getting the right 443 00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:51,080 Speaker 1: in this car for a long time? She knows? Hey, man, 444 00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:52,920 Speaker 1: I mean it is. What is the baddest that I'm 445 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 1: talking about, the baddest radio show in the land. It's 446 00:28:56,640 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Baby Wold Tommy, what's the 447 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:11,920 Speaker 1: part out like the outside? Sitting in the car? Ain't 448 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:15,200 Speaker 1: it ain't even going now? I hadn't done that before 449 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 1: with manual. Oh when you get the new one. February fourteen, 450 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,719 Speaker 1: fifteen sixteenth. The Nephew is in Colleen, Texas. Colleen, Texas. 451 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 1: Dolentie's weekend tickets on sale right now. Two shows Thursday 452 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:36,440 Speaker 1: to Friday and two Saturday tickets on sale, right naw, 453 00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:39,480 Speaker 1: all right, nephew, thank you. Coming up at the top 454 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 1: of the hour, Entertainment News, we'll tell you about Nick Cannon. 455 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 1: He was a guest for Wendy Williams. Michael B. Jordan 456 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 1: is in the news too. He needed therapy after Black Panther. 457 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to 458 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:55,920 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, Coming up in 459 00:29:55,960 --> 00:30:02,280 Speaker 1: twenty minutes, we'll tell you about Gucci. Yes, now, Gucci 460 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 1: is apologizing. No Gucci the fashion. Yeah, he is apologizing 461 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:15,600 Speaker 1: for selling a black faced sweater. What I saw. Okay, Well, 462 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about it, Steve. Okay, Okay, I was 463 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:20,200 Speaker 1: thinking I just bought a bag. I don't have to 464 00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:25,000 Speaker 1: take my bag, all right. But first in today's entertainment news. 465 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 1: So you guys know we've talked about this. I think 466 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,080 Speaker 1: we mentioned it yesterday that Nick Cannon is filling in 467 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:32,880 Speaker 1: for Wendy Williams on her show while she recovers from 468 00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 1: complications due to graves disease. Well earlier this week, Nick 469 00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:41,160 Speaker 1: shared a private conversation he had with Wendy and told 470 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:44,040 Speaker 1: her viewers her co host as she calls them that 471 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,000 Speaker 1: she's on the mend and that the Hunter family is 472 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 1: stronger than ever. However, some staffers were upset about that 473 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 1: because they said Wendy gave Nick an update while they 474 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 1: were completely left in the dark. A source also called 475 00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 1: Wendy hypocrite for trying to keep her business on the hush. Uh, 476 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:04,920 Speaker 1: you know, because she talks about everybody else's business. I 477 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 1: guess that was their point in keeping her business, you know, 478 00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 1: on the hush. The staffer said, I mean, please, she 479 00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 1: has made a fortune from tearing people down. This is 480 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 1: a staffer saying this. However, when it comes to her 481 00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 1: own life, it's all a secret. Imagine if this was 482 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:23,440 Speaker 1: another celebrity living their life like she does, she'd be 483 00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:26,680 Speaker 1: sipping the tea and talking about it in hot topics 484 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 1: every day. She's such a hypocrite. No, yeah, Wendy still 485 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,520 Speaker 1: hasn't set a return date. You know what I don't 486 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:37,720 Speaker 1: like about this. I don't like kicking people when they're down, 487 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 1: you know, and she's she's upset. I mean, she's sick, 488 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:44,920 Speaker 1: outsick as far as we know. Yeah, you know this, 489 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 1: just wait on this. I don't know. I'm calling her 490 00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:53,000 Speaker 1: a hypocrite and all that you know, but I mean, 491 00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:58,280 Speaker 1: Wendy's kind of gone there with people. You know, this 492 00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:00,840 Speaker 1: is what she does. She talks about people and then 493 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 1: now you know, you don't get information about what's going 494 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:07,680 Speaker 1: on with her. So right, that's what some of her 495 00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 1: staff people are saying. Right, that's how they feel. Right, 496 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,480 Speaker 1: I get it, you're right. I mean, I mean, I 497 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:14,160 Speaker 1: get it. They have their right to feel that way. 498 00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:18,000 Speaker 1: I just think, you know, yeah, she's out with this disease. 499 00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:20,800 Speaker 1: Just wait until you get the fact. Then that's Look, 500 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 1: I've made a lot of mistakes with things I've said 501 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:28,280 Speaker 1: over the years, but I've tried my best not to 502 00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:32,920 Speaker 1: make it, you know, personal about people's personal business. I 503 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 1: made a comment a long time ago about Cornell Weston 504 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:43,320 Speaker 1: at the time, no Cornell westonith smiled and I came 505 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 1: back on the end. I apologized about that because what 506 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,520 Speaker 1: I said I didn't feel was right of me to 507 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 1: say something like that. So, if ever I've said something 508 00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:56,640 Speaker 1: about a person that was you know, wrong or something 509 00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,160 Speaker 1: or came out the wrong way, I've always tried to 510 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,480 Speaker 1: lease all you ask for. That's been my stance with 511 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:06,240 Speaker 1: other celebrities and famous people. You know, and you never 512 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:08,160 Speaker 1: you don't even like us to do it on the show. 513 00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,400 Speaker 1: You No, I don't. I don't care for it. You know, 514 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:14,320 Speaker 1: it's not it's not my method. I'm not gonna make 515 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:20,479 Speaker 1: mine at the demise of yours. That's I've been very 516 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 1: conscious of that, and I feel comfortable in saying that 517 00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 1: part right there. But you know, I don't I want 518 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 1: I want Wendy to be well, you know, I don't 519 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 1: want everybody, whatever she's going through, you know, to not 520 00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:38,280 Speaker 1: do that. But to see them staff as nis coming out, 521 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 1: that's sort of crazy. You know, staffers are making statements 522 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 1: like that, you know, and she might talk about it. 523 00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,160 Speaker 1: I mean, if she comes back to her show, when 524 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:49,200 Speaker 1: she has her platform, she'll talk about it. Nobody's gonna 525 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 1: dog themselves, right, That's kind of difficult. Yeah, all right, Steve, 526 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:57,240 Speaker 1: We're gonna move on to miss Anne with her ladies 527 00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:01,280 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, miss Anne Tripp. Thanks Steve, Thanks everybody. This 528 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:02,960 Speaker 1: is a trip with the news as well. Here we go. 529 00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:06,040 Speaker 1: Congressional leaders from both sides of the Aisle reportedly still 530 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:08,520 Speaker 1: trying to work out a compromise on a new government 531 00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:12,239 Speaker 1: spending bill before February fifteenth. That's a deadline set by 532 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 1: the President when he ended the partial government shutdown. You 533 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:17,200 Speaker 1: remember that there's word that some Democrats say they could 534 00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:20,000 Speaker 1: be open to supporting some kind of wall or barrier 535 00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,600 Speaker 1: or something in some places. So Trump says he thinks 536 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,400 Speaker 1: the situation may be hopeful. I certainly hear that they 537 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 1: are working on something and both sides are moving along. 538 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 1: We'll see what happens. We need border security. We have 539 00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 1: to have it. It's not an option. Meanwhile, the President 540 00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:37,920 Speaker 1: addressed the National Prayer Breakfast in Washington yesterday. He outlined 541 00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:41,440 Speaker 1: the importance of faith in American society the founding of 542 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:45,799 Speaker 1: our nation. Many of our greatest strides, from gaining our 543 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:52,000 Speaker 1: independence to abolition of civil rights have been led by 544 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:55,839 Speaker 1: people of faith and started in prayer. Yes he made 545 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,360 Speaker 1: another one of his famous gas by talking about the 546 00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:02,400 Speaker 1: abolition out of slavery but civil rights. However, he was 547 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:04,800 Speaker 1: talking to his base. Wells Fargo says it's working to 548 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:08,360 Speaker 1: restore our services after its online and mobile banking assystems 549 00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 1: crash yesterday. Wells Fargo says its service grid went down 550 00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:13,759 Speaker 1: after engineer shut the power off at one of its 551 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:17,120 Speaker 1: sites after a maintenance check detected some smoke. Wells Fargo's 552 00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:19,799 Speaker 1: website isn't working. Some customers say their debit cards are 553 00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:23,040 Speaker 1: being rejected. Yesterday's outage was the second one this week. 554 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:25,799 Speaker 1: Last year, Wells Fargo agreed to pay out some two 555 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,080 Speaker 1: billion dollars. Would it be because of allegations that has 556 00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:31,919 Speaker 1: sold mortgage loans using false income information and Wells Fargo 557 00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:39,560 Speaker 1: admitted to creating unauthorized customer accounts. Here we go. Yeah, 558 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:41,959 Speaker 1: we're talking about the loss of a legend, a black 559 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:45,439 Speaker 1: history maker. Baseball great Frank Robinson has died at age 560 00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:48,840 Speaker 1: eighty three. Frank Robinson was a stellar player on five teams. 561 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,000 Speaker 1: He's the only player to have ever been named Most 562 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,160 Speaker 1: Valuable Player in both leagues. Frank Robinson became the first 563 00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,000 Speaker 1: Black American to become a manager in the big leagues 564 00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:59,319 Speaker 1: in nineteen seventy five, three years after Jackie Robinson died. 565 00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:03,360 Speaker 1: He first manage the Cleveland Indians, later managed San Francisco, Baltimore, Montreal. 566 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,080 Speaker 1: Frank Robinson later moved to the front office as an 567 00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:09,800 Speaker 1: executive for Major League Baseball. Frank Robinson dead at age 568 00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:13,600 Speaker 1: eighty three. President Trump's former personal attorney, Michael Cohons, agreed 569 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:16,880 Speaker 1: to testify before the House Intelligence Committee today and behind 570 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:19,560 Speaker 1: closed door, as the chairman of the committee is California 571 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:23,160 Speaker 1: Democrat Adams Shiff, confirming that today on The Young and 572 00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:26,040 Speaker 1: the Restless, the show will present a special tribute to 573 00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:29,480 Speaker 1: Christoph Saint John's character Neil Winters, kristof Saint John was 574 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,480 Speaker 1: found dead of what authority say looks like suicide on Sunday. 575 00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:36,160 Speaker 1: And then finally today is National laugh but Grow Rich Day. 576 00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,120 Speaker 1: Ain't it? Just now? Back to Steve Harvey's boarding show. 577 00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:49,560 Speaker 1: You're listening to show what the heck is going on 578 00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:56,239 Speaker 1: with the blackface thing? Okay, now, Gucci, Yeah, Gucci, the brand, 579 00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:59,880 Speaker 1: you know, Gucci, not Gucci made Jay, but Gucci is 580 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 1: that it's getting backlash and they've apologized now for their 581 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,400 Speaker 1: racist black face sweater. People are calling this sweater that 582 00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:10,480 Speaker 1: they that they came out with racist and calling it 583 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:17,640 Speaker 1: black face. Uh, it's a turtleneck, black wool sweater. Back lava. 584 00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:21,680 Speaker 1: Is that how you pronounce that? Back lava sweater? Yeah? 585 00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:28,160 Speaker 1: Uh yeah, block clava block clovah, Yeah, nine hundred dollars. 586 00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,480 Speaker 1: It covers the nose, It includes a red cutout for 587 00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:36,239 Speaker 1: the mouth. Balaclava, balaclava anyway, it was being sold yeah 588 00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:39,000 Speaker 1: for eight hundred ninety nine hundred dollars as far as 589 00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,719 Speaker 1: we're concerned with tax and all that. Anyway, it's been 590 00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:45,400 Speaker 1: sold in Gucci stores and online. It's being pulled and 591 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:51,080 Speaker 1: Gucci has, uh, they've apologized. Actually old treat, this is 592 00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,040 Speaker 1: number a treat. There's something that people hate and didn't 593 00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:57,320 Speaker 1: apologize for it. You know, come here and do this 594 00:37:57,560 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 1: all the time. I wouldn't even say it's an old trick. 595 00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:04,080 Speaker 1: I say that's what everybody does. Yeah, they do it. Um, 596 00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:08,440 Speaker 1: let's see. They are deeply apologize for the offense caused. 597 00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:12,600 Speaker 1: Gucci added that we are fully committed to increasing diversity 598 00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:16,560 Speaker 1: throughout our organization and turning this incident into a powerful 599 00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:19,600 Speaker 1: learning moment for the Gucci team and beyond. How I 600 00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:23,359 Speaker 1: wonder what they're gonna do. The sweater was was wrong? 601 00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:27,040 Speaker 1: You knew that it's a turtleneck that extends up to 602 00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:30,399 Speaker 1: your nose. The mouth is cut out and it has 603 00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:34,800 Speaker 1: like red lipstick from the mouth. Yes. Now, the ad 604 00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:38,200 Speaker 1: has this white girl with this turtleneck up to her 605 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:41,680 Speaker 1: neck who goes up to her nose right and straight across, 606 00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,880 Speaker 1: and it has the red lipstick for a mouth and 607 00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:48,040 Speaker 1: then your mouth can be seen. What's crazy to me 608 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:52,239 Speaker 1: is what we got so much to contend with now, 609 00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:57,000 Speaker 1: starting with the White House and how it's created this 610 00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:00,879 Speaker 1: aura in this country of ours and allowed so many 611 00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:03,879 Speaker 1: people to come forward. Then you got the governor over 612 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:07,360 Speaker 1: there in Virginia. He trying to save his job. That 613 00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:11,640 Speaker 1: ain't him in him photos. It's just so much matter. 614 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 1: I don't even car from the view, she was in 615 00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:25,440 Speaker 1: black face and a costume. What seventies her job? I 616 00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:31,440 Speaker 1: don't know the view quiet about it? Yeah? What joy? Cool? 617 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:35,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's a lot man, My god, is 618 00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:40,719 Speaker 1: it there's some sort of epidemic? Oh my goodness? The 619 00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:45,040 Speaker 1: rules we got the lady rules? Yeah, all right. Coming 620 00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:48,120 Speaker 1: up at thirty four after the hour, m Robert de 621 00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:51,760 Speaker 1: Nio goes off on a driver outside of a divorce court, 622 00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:57,080 Speaker 1: and uh, three of us on this morning show can relate. 623 00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:07,560 Speaker 1: What Wait a minute, we'll get into that right after this. 624 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:12,759 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Robert de 625 00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:15,399 Speaker 1: Niro was in New York City on Thursday. It's part 626 00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:18,959 Speaker 1: of his divorce case with his estranged wife, Grace high Tower. 627 00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:22,200 Speaker 1: When the hearing was over, DeNiro went outside to meet 628 00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:25,520 Speaker 1: his driver, who was nowhere to be found. DeNiro was 629 00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 1: seen covering his face with a newspaper as he talked 630 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,759 Speaker 1: on his flip phone. What did DeNiro say, Jay, I'm 631 00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:34,560 Speaker 1: just trying to figure out what he's waiting for his riding. 632 00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:37,279 Speaker 1: He's going, what in hell are you? Man? But he's cussing, right, 633 00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:40,239 Speaker 1: what hell are you? You're not here? And they got 634 00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:42,440 Speaker 1: the papers over his head the right he said, I 635 00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,920 Speaker 1: know you're not here. I'm outside. What hell are you? 636 00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:48,879 Speaker 1: You know? He's just going off and there's no ride. 637 00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:53,919 Speaker 1: The ride is not there because he got this flip 638 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:57,440 Speaker 1: phone on. Oh yeah, you got a flip phone. You're 639 00:40:57,520 --> 00:41:01,880 Speaker 1: mad about that? Ye? You to bring me phone five? 640 00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:08,040 Speaker 1: I phone five and the divorce so that was gone. 641 00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:13,680 Speaker 1: I got this flip phone. Can't tech? Got them three 642 00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:17,839 Speaker 1: leadders on one button? What man ain't never come out 643 00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:23,399 Speaker 1: of corn? Loss everything? Oh that's all I could afford now, yeah, 644 00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:28,600 Speaker 1: he got only afford to flip phone. After you got 645 00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:34,080 Speaker 1: to see the video. It's hilarious. Papers Steve, and you 646 00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:36,840 Speaker 1: can't see his face. You're talking to flip phone. What 647 00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:42,200 Speaker 1: the hell are you man? You're talking to me? Wow, Steve. 648 00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,120 Speaker 1: He's on the flip phone like the NFL coaches becoming 649 00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:49,840 Speaker 1: up there. I'm outside, what's going to? Where are you? 650 00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:53,920 Speaker 1: I'm outside the court. I just I just I just 651 00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:59,520 Speaker 1: lost everything. Man, I'm just that. It's people starting noticed me. 652 00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,319 Speaker 1: I'm famous. Okay, it ain't. I'm famous. I'm the only 653 00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:08,719 Speaker 1: one out here with a flip from round. He would 654 00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:16,960 Speaker 1: just calm, man, what I'm playing you phone? Wow, it's crazy. 655 00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:23,840 Speaker 1: It's never it's never fun. No, no, no, it's not 656 00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:29,719 Speaker 1: fun unless you take it all. So I just want 657 00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:38,000 Speaker 1: my name, I mean, y'all. So yeah, yeah, me neither 658 00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:44,080 Speaker 1: tummy Steve, I've been you want to talk about divorce court? Yeah, 659 00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:50,760 Speaker 1: I just don't feel like I'm exhausted, and I certainly 660 00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:54,640 Speaker 1: don't want to not a good feeling. I won't ever 661 00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:59,839 Speaker 1: go again. You say to yourself, well, okay, all right, 662 00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:06,479 Speaker 1: I'll be all right. I'll be good. I said, I said. 663 00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:09,319 Speaker 1: One thing I was saying was gonna be all right. Dog. 664 00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:12,400 Speaker 1: Let me ask you this when you came, when you 665 00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:14,920 Speaker 1: when you got your divorce, did you ever think you 666 00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:17,359 Speaker 1: would remarried? Did you ever think you get married again 667 00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:20,640 Speaker 1: after going through all of that? I you know, I was. 668 00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:25,320 Speaker 1: I've never been against marriage because I think because I 669 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:28,719 Speaker 1: saw my mom, my mother, and my father and they 670 00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:31,719 Speaker 1: were married sixty four years, I saw all I ever knew, 671 00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:35,440 Speaker 1: so I've always believed in it. I thought that was 672 00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:38,680 Speaker 1: the right thing to do for me, you know, was 673 00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:41,640 Speaker 1: to have some kids, raise a family, be a parent, 674 00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:45,400 Speaker 1: be a dad, you know, help my daughters, help my sons, 675 00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:50,200 Speaker 1: you know, give a woman the right to feel like 676 00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:54,759 Speaker 1: a queen. You know. Um, just in my younger years, 677 00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:58,320 Speaker 1: I didn't have that aspect of it together. The providing 678 00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:01,839 Speaker 1: part was lacking, and so I couldn't really make her 679 00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:06,359 Speaker 1: feel like a queen because at times I wasn't very keenly. Yeah, 680 00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:09,200 Speaker 1: so you know, I had to. I had to. I 681 00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:11,080 Speaker 1: had to really just come to terms with that. But 682 00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:15,160 Speaker 1: that's very true though to say that. Yeah, I mean, 683 00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:18,839 Speaker 1: but I always wanted to be what I saw my father. Yeah, 684 00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:20,919 Speaker 1: you had a great example at home to my mother, 685 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:24,040 Speaker 1: and I was trying. I was just getting it wrong, 686 00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:28,080 Speaker 1: and then I just made a bad selection. Man. Well, 687 00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:31,360 Speaker 1: I mean, no one gets married to get a divorce. 688 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:33,400 Speaker 1: I mean, that's not what's in your mind when you 689 00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:39,279 Speaker 1: take the vows, or is it? Jay? Yeah, Hey, Jay, 690 00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:43,759 Speaker 1: when you got a divorce? How long after ja? Yeah? 691 00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:54,719 Speaker 1: Answer your questions? How long after the marriage did you 692 00:44:55,040 --> 00:45:01,279 Speaker 1: think I should not be here? All? Right? Look up next, 693 00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:03,479 Speaker 1: it is the nephew with the prank phone call coming 694 00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 1: up right after this you're listening to show. Coming up 695 00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,520 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after. 696 00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:15,680 Speaker 1: It's today's strawberry letter, the subject my husband's drinking buddy. 697 00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:20,080 Speaker 1: But right now it is the nephew here with today's 698 00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,680 Speaker 1: prank phone call. What you got now? I left my 699 00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:29,640 Speaker 1: medicine in your house. Yeah, I left my medicine in 700 00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:35,920 Speaker 1: your house. Did hello the Clarence? Yeahze, it was just 701 00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:40,400 Speaker 1: a Clarence. Uh hey money, Sherman. Dog your house is 702 00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:44,919 Speaker 1: the one that uh got broke into last week? Right? Yeah? Man, 703 00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:48,000 Speaker 1: just waiting on the police to get back women Tim 704 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:51,640 Speaker 1: if they found these people or not. Man, So now alone. 705 00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:58,319 Speaker 1: What's your name again, Norman Sherman? Sherman, How you here 706 00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:00,960 Speaker 1: about it? Oh? No, you know, I stay a couple 707 00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:02,960 Speaker 1: of streets over. Everybody in the neighborhood kind of heard 708 00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:05,960 Speaker 1: that y'all had got broke in on damn man. Everybody 709 00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:08,040 Speaker 1: being kind of kind of really good around him. Man, 710 00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,239 Speaker 1: just don't make no sense. Man. You go out here 711 00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:13,480 Speaker 1: and work hard for stuff and then you know people 712 00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:16,359 Speaker 1: just do you like this? Man, It's just I'm just glad. 713 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:19,120 Speaker 1: Wasn't nobody hurt? Man. My wife and my son they 714 00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:21,719 Speaker 1: alive and that's you know, that's the best thing. Man. 715 00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:25,760 Speaker 1: So you know, trying not to custom something like this happened. 716 00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:28,920 Speaker 1: You know, I understand. Man, You stay a couple of 717 00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:33,680 Speaker 1: streets over, you say yeah, yeah, yeah, hey, hey, let 718 00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:35,359 Speaker 1: me let me let me say this to you. Man. 719 00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:38,200 Speaker 1: I want to say, pray all, I hate what happened, 720 00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:42,520 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Yeah, And uh I do, man, 721 00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:46,000 Speaker 1: you know, and I'm glad you're your family and stuff. Yeah, 722 00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:49,920 Speaker 1: I said that. Man. Well hey, man, can I just 723 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:52,759 Speaker 1: can I just say this here? Man? Uh? And I 724 00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:57,759 Speaker 1: don't really know how to say it, but uh I was. 725 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:01,440 Speaker 1: I was with the two dudes that had broken there. 726 00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:05,920 Speaker 1: I was with them when they did that. Okay, you 727 00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:08,799 Speaker 1: did you just say you was with them that broke 728 00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:12,759 Speaker 1: in my house? Oh so you were broke in my 729 00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:16,480 Speaker 1: house saying no, I say, see, that's why I'm see though, claims. 730 00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:18,320 Speaker 1: That's what I'm I'm calling you trying to tell you 731 00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:20,560 Speaker 1: I was trying to talk them out of it. You 732 00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:23,400 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Well, what the happened? Because they 733 00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:26,200 Speaker 1: did this, I couldn't talk them out of it. But 734 00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:28,680 Speaker 1: you know I was what I wasn't there taking nothing, 735 00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:31,239 Speaker 1: is what I'm saying. Okay, okay, okay. Who was in 736 00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:34,040 Speaker 1: the attation then? And I can't I can't be doing 737 00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,200 Speaker 1: I can't do that. I can't see I ain't trying 738 00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:38,120 Speaker 1: to get in the middle of that. No, no, no, 739 00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:41,000 Speaker 1: you you can't do that. You just called my damn 740 00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:43,120 Speaker 1: pho oh, you can tell me who broke in? Is 741 00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:45,160 Speaker 1: you was one of them? Do what ilse want to 742 00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:47,560 Speaker 1: with you? That? Ain't this? That ain't even the reason 743 00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:50,520 Speaker 1: why I called. Man, how I don't give a damn 744 00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:53,839 Speaker 1: what the reason you called me? You called me broken? 745 00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:58,319 Speaker 1: Who who was with you? Who was with you? Man? 746 00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:00,800 Speaker 1: I'm a matter of fact, what street you stay on? 747 00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:03,839 Speaker 1: Let me say this to you, man, This is why 748 00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:06,879 Speaker 1: I called. And when we was in there and then 749 00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:09,480 Speaker 1: they started screaming and halling in each other and then 750 00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:11,400 Speaker 1: seeing we got to hear him get out. You know, 751 00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:13,600 Speaker 1: like I say, I was in there trying to talk 752 00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:16,560 Speaker 1: to them out of that. I don't give us if 753 00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:19,160 Speaker 1: you tried to talk them into it, you walk into 754 00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:23,759 Speaker 1: my man, broken my heart, you and my dash it 755 00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,720 Speaker 1: to calm me. Okay, but listen, man, listen, listen, listen 756 00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:30,040 Speaker 1: to me, man, I'm listening to you fucking while I 757 00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:32,880 Speaker 1: was in there, man, and and you know they was. 758 00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:34,920 Speaker 1: We was getting out of there in a hurry. I 759 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:40,320 Speaker 1: actually lovet I my uh my pills fell out my pocket, 760 00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:43,120 Speaker 1: my bottle of pills. Man, my medicine, and I don't. 761 00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:45,279 Speaker 1: I don't got no more retails on the man, and 762 00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:47,400 Speaker 1: I need my medice. That's why I'm calling you to 763 00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:49,319 Speaker 1: see if you don't man me coming back over there 764 00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:52,360 Speaker 1: to get my pie. I don't give us about your medicine. 765 00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:58,160 Speaker 1: Who gives us? I'll tell you what I tell you. 766 00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:02,480 Speaker 1: I can a boy some medicine, go. I was just 767 00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:06,359 Speaker 1: caught up in a bad situation. Man. I swear to God, 768 00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:08,440 Speaker 1: if I see you over, I swear to God, I'm 769 00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:12,279 Speaker 1: gonna beat your ass. I'm gonna beat your You better 770 00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:16,040 Speaker 1: be glad my so I wasn't in my com house. Man. Listen, man, 771 00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:18,320 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to get him. I have no problems 772 00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:21,960 Speaker 1: with nobody. I just need my medicine. Man, don't noticine. 773 00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:24,839 Speaker 1: You got problems with me, but I don't. I haven't 774 00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:27,080 Speaker 1: no more red fields on that medicine. I need my 775 00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:30,279 Speaker 1: medicine now that I get said, tell you what. I'll 776 00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:32,680 Speaker 1: tell you what. Come, Come get your medicine. You know 777 00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:34,719 Speaker 1: exactly where I said, I'm gonna have to get the 778 00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:36,680 Speaker 1: front door open. You ain't got the break in this time. 779 00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:39,879 Speaker 1: Come get your gun medicine. I swear to God, gonna 780 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:42,600 Speaker 1: need more than just that. I'm noticin donna put some 781 00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:44,879 Speaker 1: on your I swear, why are you down? I don't 782 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:46,520 Speaker 1: mean man, And I'm the one that was in there 783 00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:48,560 Speaker 1: trying to talk him out of it. He was with 784 00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:51,879 Speaker 1: them because that's the point. I don't. That's bring them 785 00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:55,840 Speaker 1: to telling them to help you. Come get your medicine. 786 00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:58,080 Speaker 1: So all I want to do is get my medicine 787 00:49:58,080 --> 00:49:59,759 Speaker 1: and be through with this. That's all I'm trying to 788 00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:01,840 Speaker 1: say to you. I ain't trying to start no trouble 789 00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:07,080 Speaker 1: with you. Start no trouble. You're gonna get to my 790 00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:10,279 Speaker 1: Uh you know what, I'll tell you what. I all 791 00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:14,720 Speaker 1: this here. I'll tell you what. Come get the medicine. 792 00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:17,920 Speaker 1: Come come, come, get the medicine right now. I'm at 793 00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:21,880 Speaker 1: what what street you stay on? I bring it to you. Man. 794 00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:24,239 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go back and form arguing with you. Man, 795 00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,759 Speaker 1: I'm gonna come over there and get my medicine. And man, 796 00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:29,320 Speaker 1: you're gonna be through with anytime. You ain't got to 797 00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:31,960 Speaker 1: go back and form. I tell you what. Come on 798 00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:34,840 Speaker 1: over here, get your gun from medicine right now. This 799 00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,960 Speaker 1: anynths you're gonna need some moments in medicine. They're gonna 800 00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:41,560 Speaker 1: come breaking my gun from hospital. You bot get to 801 00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:45,080 Speaker 1: my shoe. I take care on my wife and my 802 00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:48,359 Speaker 1: kids in this house. I understand that, and I would 803 00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:50,759 Speaker 1: not be back in your arms. I'm not get my mouth. 804 00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:54,480 Speaker 1: I give you holding that dog. I'll tell you what 805 00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:56,359 Speaker 1: you no, no, no, no, you ain't gonna be back 806 00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:59,040 Speaker 1: in my house. After you get the medicine. You're gonna 807 00:50:59,080 --> 00:51:02,160 Speaker 1: have a permanent news it is. That's why to God, 808 00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,520 Speaker 1: you're gonna be living in the cemetery. I got a 809 00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:07,120 Speaker 1: lot of your friend. I need to see you before 810 00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:10,040 Speaker 1: I get over there. You mean sell us on your 811 00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:14,799 Speaker 1: way over here. I'm gonna I'm on my want my friend. 812 00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:17,560 Speaker 1: I need to see you to say that's what I 813 00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:22,279 Speaker 1: say it did. That's ply from the Steve Harby Morning Show. 814 00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:29,560 Speaker 1: You just got prank by your sister bright. Hello, who 815 00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:35,240 Speaker 1: the fuck is this a man? He class this nephew, 816 00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:37,680 Speaker 1: tim me man from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your 817 00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:41,720 Speaker 1: sister breed got me to prank you. Man, boy you humor? 818 00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:45,680 Speaker 1: Oh you play too so much. I don't believe it. 819 00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:50,120 Speaker 1: Miss you say, man, they broke in my brother Owes 820 00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:53,560 Speaker 1: he needs the spiritually, he said, come on calling and 821 00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:59,040 Speaker 1: get it. You know what you damn to ad you 822 00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:03,160 Speaker 1: a well with bass? Oh man, boy, y'all roll for 823 00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:08,080 Speaker 1: this here, Oh man, oh man, man? What is what 824 00:52:08,360 --> 00:52:11,759 Speaker 1: is the baddest radio show in the land. It is 825 00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:15,880 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvest Morning Show. Listen, bro hey, and if 826 00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:19,920 Speaker 1: that that broke in my house is listening, you come 827 00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:22,000 Speaker 1: back over here. If you left your medicine, come on, 828 00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:24,080 Speaker 1: come back and get it. I'm at home right now. 829 00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:27,239 Speaker 1: If they're listening, come on back over that, yeah, right 830 00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:32,680 Speaker 1: right now. Bring your boy, y'all roll for that, nephew. 831 00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:41,040 Speaker 1: Tell me, man, gotta right to get this medicine back, 832 00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:44,319 Speaker 1: don't I got we broken the house. I was trying 833 00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:46,360 Speaker 1: to stop them people from breaking in the house. I 834 00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:48,680 Speaker 1: just happen to be with him, But I'm not gonna 835 00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:52,480 Speaker 1: not have my medicine. You know that a lot of nerves. 836 00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:54,800 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I just want to come back there and 837 00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:56,200 Speaker 1: pick up my man. I ain't got nothing to do 838 00:52:56,280 --> 00:53:05,480 Speaker 1: with what happened. Really, nobody got to keep it stupid. 839 00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:07,840 Speaker 1: That's all I'm asking. That's all I do, And you do, 840 00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:11,399 Speaker 1: you just that's my job. My job is to keep 841 00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:15,520 Speaker 1: it and I will be stupid. Valentine's Night fourteen, fifteen, 842 00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:21,000 Speaker 1: six and sixteen in Colleen, Texas twice It's Funny Comedy Club. 843 00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:25,440 Speaker 1: And then the following weekend, I'm still stupid. I'm stupid 844 00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:29,160 Speaker 1: NW at the improv in West Palm Beats twenty eight, 845 00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:34,040 Speaker 1: first and second, the nephew would be there, all right, first, second, 846 00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:36,520 Speaker 1: and third of March. I'm sorry for damn. Might have 847 00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:42,560 Speaker 1: done all that wrong. Scratch all that. And then the 848 00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:45,640 Speaker 1: following week West Palm Beats twenty second, twenty third, and 849 00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:48,640 Speaker 1: twenty four, the nephew will be there twenty second, twenty third, 850 00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:51,640 Speaker 1: twenty four West Palm Beats flowed in the improv. That's 851 00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:54,160 Speaker 1: all stupid. It's like a little tour. I just take 852 00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:57,160 Speaker 1: stupid on tours. You know what I'm is? That is 853 00:53:57,200 --> 00:53:59,319 Speaker 1: that the name of it? Nephew tell me stupid tour 854 00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:05,880 Speaker 1: now like that because that sounds stupid. Wow, stupid is 855 00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:14,200 Speaker 1: what stupid? Stupid? I don't I don't want to sound. 856 00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:19,400 Speaker 1: You want your stupid sound intelligent? Okay, yeah, okay, natural? Yeah, well, 857 00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:22,680 Speaker 1: thank you, nephew. Up next, it is a Strawberry letter 858 00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:26,440 Speaker 1: subject my husband's drinking buddy. We'll get into it right 859 00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:32,160 Speaker 1: after this you're listening to all right, guys, it's time 860 00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:34,600 Speaker 1: now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice 861 00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:38,720 Speaker 1: on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit 862 00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:42,200 Speaker 1: your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com and 863 00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:46,719 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We need your letters. We could 864 00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:49,479 Speaker 1: be reading yours live on the air like we're gonna 865 00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:53,200 Speaker 1: read this one right now. Buckle up, hold on tight, 866 00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:56,080 Speaker 1: We got it full you Here. It is Strawberry Letter 867 00:54:56,920 --> 00:55:01,920 Speaker 1: subject my husband's drinking buddy. Here's Stephen Shirley. I've been 868 00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,120 Speaker 1: married for three years, but my husband and I have 869 00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:08,680 Speaker 1: been together for thirteen years. Our relationship has had his challenges, 870 00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:12,239 Speaker 1: and lately we have been arguing over bills and the 871 00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:16,560 Speaker 1: fact that he sometimes stays out until five am drinking. 872 00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:20,319 Speaker 1: My husband and I split the household bills each month, 873 00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:23,160 Speaker 1: and the past two months he's been coming up short 874 00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:25,879 Speaker 1: with his half of our rent money. Whenever I talked 875 00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:28,480 Speaker 1: to him about money, he gets an attitude and calls 876 00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:32,600 Speaker 1: me controlling. On top of not having his portion of 877 00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:34,960 Speaker 1: the bill money, he's been lying to me about his 878 00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:37,680 Speaker 1: whereabouts when he's out all night. He's been a heavy 879 00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:40,520 Speaker 1: drinker since I met him, but it's never been a problem. 880 00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:42,600 Speaker 1: When we first met, he and I hung out with 881 00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:46,560 Speaker 1: my sister a lot, so they became drinking buddies. Because 882 00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:49,160 Speaker 1: I was not a big drinker. At first, it was 883 00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:51,680 Speaker 1: no big deal when they hung out, but I had 884 00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:54,200 Speaker 1: to ask my sister to stop inviting my husband out 885 00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:57,600 Speaker 1: once we got married, and she did. The past few weeks, 886 00:55:57,680 --> 00:56:00,560 Speaker 1: they've been back to their old tricks, hanging out drinking 887 00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,239 Speaker 1: to all hours of the morning. When I asked my 888 00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:05,400 Speaker 1: husband why he feels the need to hang out with 889 00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:09,600 Speaker 1: my sister once again, he said, I'm controlling and I 890 00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:13,160 Speaker 1: need to stop nagging him. But I've caught him in 891 00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:16,239 Speaker 1: several lives about where he's been, so I can't help 892 00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:19,280 Speaker 1: but think he's at my sister's house or they're out together. 893 00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:23,560 Speaker 1: Deep down, I feel like something is going on with them, 894 00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:26,680 Speaker 1: and maybe he's giving her money to keep her quiet. 895 00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:30,080 Speaker 1: My sister swore that it's innocent and they just like 896 00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:32,759 Speaker 1: hanging out. I need your advice. How do I get 897 00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:35,960 Speaker 1: my sister to see that she's being disrespectful? And is 898 00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:37,759 Speaker 1: there a way to talk to my husband so he 899 00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:42,080 Speaker 1: won't think I'm controlling or nagging him? Please help? Well, 900 00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:46,480 Speaker 1: now he's spending way too much time and way too 901 00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:49,480 Speaker 1: much money. I'm sure with your sister, all right, I 902 00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:52,120 Speaker 1: can only think that you're right what you're feeling, that 903 00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:55,360 Speaker 1: something is going on between the two of them. Besides 904 00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:57,799 Speaker 1: just going out getting a drink. Who stays out till 905 00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:00,800 Speaker 1: five o'clock in the morning drinking? I mean, you know, 906 00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:03,520 Speaker 1: I know they're alcoholics in the world. That's not what 907 00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:07,280 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. This is beyond to me just drinking buddies. 908 00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:11,799 Speaker 1: He's drinking with your sister, He's staying out until five. 909 00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:14,279 Speaker 1: When you talk to him about it, he says you're 910 00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:17,920 Speaker 1: controlling or nagging him. Those are all signs to me. 911 00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:21,320 Speaker 1: Put and you put that together. Yeah, and you put 912 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:25,240 Speaker 1: that together. With how you're feeling. Why are you letting 913 00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:28,000 Speaker 1: Why do you continue to let them go out together though? 914 00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:31,240 Speaker 1: I mean, or if you suspect that he's at your 915 00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:34,000 Speaker 1: sister's house, why don't you go over there and see 916 00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:39,520 Speaker 1: what's really going on? Controlling? No, you just want the 917 00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:43,080 Speaker 1: agreement to follow through. You know, you guys go in 918 00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:45,560 Speaker 1: half on the rent and all of that. Yeah, he's 919 00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:48,800 Speaker 1: spending his money on your sister and on alcohol. It 920 00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:50,800 Speaker 1: takes a lot of money to stay up until five 921 00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:56,440 Speaker 1: o'clock drinking. So how do you let your sister know 922 00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:59,800 Speaker 1: that she's being disrespectful? She already knows you've asked her 923 00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:03,040 Speaker 1: to stop, You've asked her, she knows that if she 924 00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:06,600 Speaker 1: continues to do it again, to continues to do it, 925 00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:11,160 Speaker 1: that she's being disrespectful. Uh. So you know this, This 926 00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:16,280 Speaker 1: is a mess. This is another Strawberry letter mess. You're 927 00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:21,000 Speaker 1: gonna have to I don't know get you. I don't know, really, 928 00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:23,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna just be honest. I don't know, but I 929 00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:25,600 Speaker 1: do believe that you need to get to the bottom 930 00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:27,720 Speaker 1: of it. You don't, You don't to figure out what's 931 00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:29,520 Speaker 1: going on. You don't have to catch them in anything 932 00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:32,320 Speaker 1: you feel it. You see how they're acting, you know 933 00:58:32,520 --> 00:58:35,040 Speaker 1: something's going on. That's how you get to the bottom 934 00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:40,440 Speaker 1: of it. Believe in what you feel. Steve Yo, all right, 935 00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:44,360 Speaker 1: here we go. Let me let me tell your ladies 936 00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:49,680 Speaker 1: something so you understand this. The term controlling or nagging 937 00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:54,360 Speaker 1: is a term that was created by men. We do 938 00:58:54,600 --> 00:58:58,120 Speaker 1: this just ain't no secret or nothing. But we call 939 00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:03,160 Speaker 1: you controlling a nag so you can stop controlling and 940 00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:07,920 Speaker 1: nagging us. That's the only reason we label you that 941 00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:12,080 Speaker 1: as controlling or nagging is so you can stop controlling 942 00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:14,800 Speaker 1: or nagging us. Now, there are a lot of men 943 00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:19,840 Speaker 1: who really don't deserve to be controlled or nagged. But 944 00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:24,160 Speaker 1: for some reason, I had a partner mine who was 945 00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:28,120 Speaker 1: dating a woman whose parents were that type of relationship, 946 00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:31,560 Speaker 1: and she bought that to him, and she was very 947 00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:34,080 Speaker 1: controlling and nagging and this guy was trying to treat 948 00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:36,920 Speaker 1: it like an ultimate queen. So there are people out 949 00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:39,400 Speaker 1: here to do this, but we use this so you 950 00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:43,320 Speaker 1: don't control us or nagg us. Okay, So now that 951 00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:45,680 Speaker 1: we've got that out the way, this woman's been together 952 00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:48,880 Speaker 1: with this three years with this dude, and our relationship 953 00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:52,680 Speaker 1: had his challenges. They've been together for thirteen though, so 954 00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:55,760 Speaker 1: lately they've been arguing over bills. Money is a big 955 00:59:56,000 --> 01:00:00,600 Speaker 1: argument and a relationship. We all know that they sometimes 956 01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:03,480 Speaker 1: and the fact that he stays out to five am drinking. 957 01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:06,760 Speaker 1: Now you got a lot of problems. You got bill 958 01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:11,440 Speaker 1: problem and he ain't home. He stay out to five 959 01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:20,480 Speaker 1: am drinking. What open? Damn? I'm trying to take clubs 960 01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:25,240 Speaker 1: and bars is too. My husband and I split the 961 01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:28,479 Speaker 1: household bills each month, and for the past two months 962 01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:32,040 Speaker 1: he's been shot whenever I asked him about the money. 963 01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:34,880 Speaker 1: Here we go, he gets an attitude and he calls 964 01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:38,640 Speaker 1: me controlling. On top of not having his portion of 965 01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:41,840 Speaker 1: the money. He's been lying to me about it whereabouts 966 01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:45,680 Speaker 1: when he's out all night. And here's the Keith in 967 01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:49,400 Speaker 1: this laugh. He's been a heavy drinker since I met him. 968 01:00:49,640 --> 01:00:52,960 Speaker 1: But it's never been a problem. I didn't Hell, it's 969 01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:56,840 Speaker 1: somebody a damn heavy drinker and it hain't a problem. 970 01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:02,760 Speaker 1: Who do you know that's a heavy drinker And it's 971 01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:08,440 Speaker 1: not a problem. No one, no one, No one can 972 01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:12,120 Speaker 1: be a heavy drinker. Lady, you've been trying to tolerate 973 01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:15,040 Speaker 1: stuff for a long time. But when you said in 974 01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:18,080 Speaker 1: this letter. He's been a heavy drinker since I met him, 975 01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:21,360 Speaker 1: but it's never been a problem. Good Lord a mighty. 976 01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:24,600 Speaker 1: When I first met here and I hung out with 977 01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:28,360 Speaker 1: my sister a lot, so they became drinking buddies, right 978 01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:33,720 Speaker 1: that when the problems started, y'all started dating. He couldn't 979 01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:38,040 Speaker 1: hang with you because you didn't drink enough, so he 980 01:01:38,240 --> 01:01:45,040 Speaker 1: found your damn sister, Lucy Lush. Yeah, now, Lucy l 981 01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:53,400 Speaker 1: l just drinking same as you? So what was that? 982 01:01:54,120 --> 01:01:59,880 Speaker 1: I was just drink and drink, drinking same as you? Okay, 983 01:02:00,120 --> 01:02:09,160 Speaker 1: loose all right? Uh well, hang on, I'm not a 984 01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:12,840 Speaker 1: big trip. You have a part two to that. We'll 985 01:02:12,920 --> 01:02:15,080 Speaker 1: have part two of your response coming up at twenty 986 01:02:15,120 --> 01:02:18,240 Speaker 1: three after the hours. Steve, my husband's drinking buddy is 987 01:02:18,240 --> 01:02:20,840 Speaker 1: the Strawberry letter for today. We'll get back into it 988 01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:26,720 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, Hey, listen up, everybody. 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Video typically streams at DVD quality. 998 01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:01,919 Speaker 1: See terms at my Family Mobile dot com. All right, Steve, 999 01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:06,120 Speaker 1: Let's recap today's Strawberry letter subject my husband's drinking buddy. 1000 01:03:06,520 --> 01:03:10,360 Speaker 1: So this lady been with her husband thirteen years. The 1001 01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:13,000 Speaker 1: relationship had a lot of challenges. He had been paying 1002 01:03:13,080 --> 01:03:15,880 Speaker 1: his bills, y'all split the bills. Last two months, he 1003 01:03:15,920 --> 01:03:18,680 Speaker 1: had been playing had he been staying out to five 1004 01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:21,040 Speaker 1: in the morning, And he's been lying about him It 1005 01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:23,840 Speaker 1: was whereabouts. When you talked to him about the money, 1006 01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:26,840 Speaker 1: he calls you control. And on top of his not 1007 01:03:27,040 --> 01:03:29,000 Speaker 1: having to bill money, he's been lying to me by 1008 01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:32,120 Speaker 1: where he'd been out to. He's been a heavy drinker 1009 01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:34,480 Speaker 1: since I met him, but it's never been a problem. 1010 01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:40,400 Speaker 1: What that's so crazy to me? But to hold on 1011 01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:42,600 Speaker 1: to that because she's gonna do it again because I 1012 01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:46,040 Speaker 1: was not a big drinker at first. So he became 1013 01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:50,000 Speaker 1: drinking buddies with her sister because she said, I'm not 1014 01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:53,240 Speaker 1: a big drinker. At first, it was no big deal 1015 01:03:53,320 --> 01:03:55,680 Speaker 1: when they hung out. See how she'd be writing stuff 1016 01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:58,400 Speaker 1: off Now he when he drank a lot, that wasn't 1017 01:03:58,400 --> 01:04:01,920 Speaker 1: a problem. Now hanging out with your sister all night 1018 01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:06,400 Speaker 1: that at first it was no big deal. How that 1019 01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:09,000 Speaker 1: ain't a big deal, right, But I asked my sister 1020 01:04:10,200 --> 01:04:13,840 Speaker 1: to stop inviting my husband once we got married, Mircael 1021 01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:17,840 Speaker 1: husband now she did. Past few weeks though, they've been 1022 01:04:17,920 --> 01:04:20,840 Speaker 1: back to their old tricks, hanging out, drinking to all 1023 01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:23,960 Speaker 1: hours of the morning. When I asked my husband why 1024 01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:26,040 Speaker 1: he feels a need to hang out with my sister 1025 01:04:26,400 --> 01:04:29,880 Speaker 1: once again, he said, you're controlling and you need to 1026 01:04:29,920 --> 01:04:36,800 Speaker 1: stop nagging him. Du you don't drink right now because 1027 01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:41,200 Speaker 1: you writing letter. You have to be it. This is 1028 01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:48,280 Speaker 1: not begging for a reenactment, and so first let me 1029 01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:52,200 Speaker 1: finish this. I called him civil lives. I can help. 1030 01:04:52,840 --> 01:04:55,400 Speaker 1: I can't help but think he's at my sister's house 1031 01:04:56,240 --> 01:04:58,760 Speaker 1: all day out together not deep down, I feel like 1032 01:04:58,920 --> 01:05:02,240 Speaker 1: something going on with him. Maybe he's giving her money 1033 01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:04,520 Speaker 1: to keep her quiet. That probably ain't a problem to 1034 01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:09,160 Speaker 1: you either. My sister swore was innocent. I think your 1035 01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:15,200 Speaker 1: sister lying drunk people do have a tendency that they 1036 01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:18,840 Speaker 1: just like hanging out. Hanging out for what. I don't 1037 01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:21,480 Speaker 1: need to hang out with you just to drink. I 1038 01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:24,680 Speaker 1: can drink at a home. It's something to hell going on. 1039 01:05:24,760 --> 01:05:27,120 Speaker 1: I need your advice. How do I get my sister 1040 01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:31,000 Speaker 1: to see what that she's being disrespectful? How to hell? 1041 01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:33,160 Speaker 1: You'll say, Well, your sister ain't gonna see it, because 1042 01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:38,800 Speaker 1: your sister alcoholic alcoholics don't ever see nothing. Right now, 1043 01:05:39,640 --> 01:05:42,280 Speaker 1: it's sister alcoholics staying all these nights to five in 1044 01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:45,320 Speaker 1: the morning drink. Yeah, she's alcohol and he is too. 1045 01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:48,360 Speaker 1: And is there a way to talk to my husband 1046 01:05:48,400 --> 01:05:51,000 Speaker 1: so he won't think I'm controlling a nagging him. You 1047 01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:53,479 Speaker 1: need to quit worried about how everybody feels, because ain't 1048 01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:58,000 Speaker 1: nobody worried about how you feel? Wow? See that right there? 1049 01:05:58,640 --> 01:06:00,440 Speaker 1: How do I talk to my husband so he don't 1050 01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:03,120 Speaker 1: think I'm controlled? The next? Stop worried about what he thinks. 1051 01:06:04,040 --> 01:06:06,560 Speaker 1: Stop worried about what your sister thinking, because they don't. 1052 01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:10,040 Speaker 1: Neither one of them care what you think. They out drinking. 1053 01:06:12,480 --> 01:06:15,120 Speaker 1: That was to reenact we're gonna do the sister is 1054 01:06:15,160 --> 01:06:18,400 Speaker 1: calling the sister the drunk sister. Okay, are you the 1055 01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:21,800 Speaker 1: drunk sister? No you no, you you you're already doing it? 1056 01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:31,240 Speaker 1: You drunk? You drunk, real dude. Okay, go ahead. Hello Colletta, huh, 1057 01:06:31,800 --> 01:06:33,640 Speaker 1: this is Cynthia. I need to talk to you about 1058 01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:40,920 Speaker 1: Earl Sythia, your sister. Yeah. This, Oh oh that's one 1059 01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:44,280 Speaker 1: sister girl. No, hey, baby meeting. What's what's going on 1060 01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:46,000 Speaker 1: with you and Earl? I need you to tell me 1061 01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:52,400 Speaker 1: what's going on with who? You and Earl? Garyl? Collatta? 1062 01:06:52,640 --> 01:06:57,920 Speaker 1: You and Earl? What's going on you and Earl? Earl? 1063 01:07:01,120 --> 01:07:03,400 Speaker 1: Why are you ob so late with my husband? What's 1064 01:07:03,440 --> 01:07:08,320 Speaker 1: going on with that? Oh? Earl? Yea yeah, Earl? High? 1065 01:07:08,440 --> 01:07:12,320 Speaker 1: Is he find he with you? He over there drunk 1066 01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:17,840 Speaker 1: drinking with you? He's not here right now? He is there. 1067 01:07:18,320 --> 01:07:20,520 Speaker 1: I just just called me and said he's over there. 1068 01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:26,200 Speaker 1: Let me go in here and see go see you 1069 01:07:26,320 --> 01:07:29,280 Speaker 1: know what? He is in there? I told you he 1070 01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:32,720 Speaker 1: was there. He didn't tell me he was in there. Hello, 1071 01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:35,800 Speaker 1: he been here. He's been there all day? How long 1072 01:07:35,920 --> 01:07:39,080 Speaker 1: y'all been over there drinking? What's going on? I didn't 1073 01:07:39,160 --> 01:07:45,520 Speaker 1: start drinking until later? What time did you start at four? 1074 01:07:46,200 --> 01:07:51,720 Speaker 1: Four thirty four? Or four thirty. Which one is it yesterday? 1075 01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:58,880 Speaker 1: You started? You started drinking yesterday. Yes, you need to 1076 01:07:58,920 --> 01:08:02,800 Speaker 1: stop drinking. You don't tell me what you stop. He said, 1077 01:08:02,840 --> 01:08:06,640 Speaker 1: you're trying to control me and your man. He said that. 1078 01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:13,800 Speaker 1: He said, I'm a nigger. He said, huh, a nigger. Yes, 1079 01:08:13,920 --> 01:08:17,240 Speaker 1: she was nagging and controlling him, and that's why he 1080 01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:20,920 Speaker 1: comes over him. Well, y'all need to stop drinking. I 1081 01:08:21,360 --> 01:08:25,960 Speaker 1: put him in the uber cabus. You don't drink. Sweet sweetie, 1082 01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:30,280 Speaker 1: you don't drink. Don't call you don't you don't drink. 1083 01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:33,719 Speaker 1: I don't like when he comes. That's not my name. Huh, 1084 01:08:34,720 --> 01:08:40,639 Speaker 1: my name is Cynthia. What's hill? If you drank, would 1085 01:08:40,680 --> 01:08:48,280 Speaker 1: be a shoe house instead of coming to him. Say 1086 01:08:48,320 --> 01:08:53,000 Speaker 1: that again. I said, if you was for if you 1087 01:08:53,320 --> 01:08:57,960 Speaker 1: was to was drinking, that he wouldn't have to come 1088 01:08:58,040 --> 01:09:02,200 Speaker 1: over for him. You send my husband home. Okay, he's not. 1089 01:09:03,080 --> 01:09:08,640 Speaker 1: I can't seeing him nowhere because that we he was 1090 01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:11,920 Speaker 1: in there listening to his song. What song is that? 1091 01:09:13,680 --> 01:09:19,960 Speaker 1: As we laugh, they're doing it and you know he 1092 01:09:20,160 --> 01:09:22,960 Speaker 1: was in there hearsting. I can't put him in No 1093 01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:27,439 Speaker 1: costs if you're kill it, but you need to let 1094 01:09:27,520 --> 01:09:29,800 Speaker 1: my husband, go and stop. Put the bottle down and 1095 01:09:29,920 --> 01:09:32,559 Speaker 1: put my husband down. I'm not putting the bottle down, 1096 01:09:35,040 --> 01:09:38,080 Speaker 1: my SIPI you nagging again. That's why he's over here. 1097 01:09:38,120 --> 01:09:42,240 Speaker 1: I keep telling you stop. Where is he resting? I 1098 01:09:42,320 --> 01:09:45,719 Speaker 1: don't put him on the phone. Stop. He can't coag 1099 01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:49,760 Speaker 1: to put him on the phone. He here, put him 1100 01:09:49,800 --> 01:09:53,160 Speaker 1: on the damn phone. He heard me? All right? We 1101 01:09:53,280 --> 01:10:04,280 Speaker 1: gotta go, drunk people, syl we gotta go. Email us 1102 01:10:04,400 --> 01:10:06,960 Speaker 1: or instagram us your thoughts on today Strawberry Letter at 1103 01:10:06,960 --> 01:10:09,800 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM. Coming up in ten minutes, we'll talk 1104 01:10:09,800 --> 01:10:12,840 Speaker 1: about the Grammys and speaking of music, our hit maker 1105 01:10:12,960 --> 01:10:16,920 Speaker 1: Jay Anthony Brown will murder another hit right after this 1106 01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:23,960 Speaker 1: you're listening to well. The Grammys are this Sunday. It 1107 01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:28,360 Speaker 1: is hosted by Alicia Keys Eliza Wild. This will be 1108 01:10:28,400 --> 01:10:32,160 Speaker 1: a first for her Yeah, Multi Grammy Award winning Alicia Keys. 1109 01:10:32,600 --> 01:10:37,479 Speaker 1: Performers and presenters include Cardi B, Travis Scott, Lady Gaga, 1110 01:10:37,960 --> 01:10:44,120 Speaker 1: Young Thug, Miley, Miley cyrus Her, Janelle Monet, and then 1111 01:10:44,200 --> 01:10:47,599 Speaker 1: the nominations include a Record of the Year from Drake 1112 01:10:48,320 --> 01:10:53,760 Speaker 1: God's Plan, Song of the Year boot up by Lame Best, RMB, Yeah, 1113 01:10:54,400 --> 01:10:58,280 Speaker 1: and from them. No, no for your murdering the hit. No, 1114 01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:01,360 Speaker 1: I don't done so many songs and Grammars has never 1115 01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:05,280 Speaker 1: called me. Wow, never call me. I'm always on point. Yeah, 1116 01:11:05,360 --> 01:11:07,120 Speaker 1: I got a song. I went into the studio, I 1117 01:11:07,200 --> 01:11:09,160 Speaker 1: did a little something. I got something right here. You 1118 01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:11,280 Speaker 1: have a song today? Yeah, I got a song. You 1119 01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:14,400 Speaker 1: want to hear? Well it is time. Yeah. It's dedicated 1120 01:11:14,439 --> 01:11:17,679 Speaker 1: to chicken wings or wangs as we like to say. 1121 01:11:18,200 --> 01:11:36,320 Speaker 1: Hit gig, go ahead and take chicken. I'm dead with 1122 01:11:36,600 --> 01:12:10,160 Speaker 1: chicken wings my faborite thing. Iram feeling spicy, cant I'm 1123 01:12:10,320 --> 01:12:24,800 Speaker 1: doing lett w checking where you might look, checking where 1124 01:12:27,479 --> 01:12:33,160 Speaker 1: I'm all with chicken legs, and go with everything you need. 1125 01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:41,240 Speaker 1: So the fasting I had them. I feel good when 1126 01:12:41,439 --> 01:13:26,599 Speaker 1: men God, I can't you love? Was that not nominated 1127 01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:32,280 Speaker 1: for a Grammy Steed Classic? It should be I'm in 1128 01:13:32,400 --> 01:13:43,960 Speaker 1: love with Jake Love. Yeah, gake me out, y'all. At 1129 01:13:44,000 --> 01:13:46,519 Speaker 1: the last minute, they'll decide that they should have nominated you. 1130 01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:50,640 Speaker 1: After all, I know I was robbed. Yeah, once you 1131 01:13:50,720 --> 01:13:53,519 Speaker 1: dropped it on the ground, you have me, you have me. Yeah, 1132 01:13:55,479 --> 01:13:59,639 Speaker 1: right up there with Travis Scott and Cardi Beatam, don't 1133 01:13:59,640 --> 01:14:04,200 Speaker 1: you kiss the God and the God kissing devil missing 1134 01:14:06,240 --> 01:14:10,599 Speaker 1: Wow even as a man. Yeah, that was good. Steve, 1135 01:14:11,160 --> 01:14:15,599 Speaker 1: y'all gotta make a song. I'm waiting. I'm waiting because 1136 01:14:15,600 --> 01:14:20,120 Speaker 1: Steven played the piano. See oh yeah blue Yeah, and 1137 01:14:20,200 --> 01:14:23,920 Speaker 1: he say he played a piano and I played a harmonica. Oh, man, 1138 01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:26,320 Speaker 1: we do blue song. Yeah, we gotta do a blue song. 1139 01:14:26,720 --> 01:14:30,519 Speaker 1: Oh and it could be nominated for a Grammy. And 1140 01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:37,360 Speaker 1: the winner is Steve Harvey and Jathony Brown. Terrell, y'all 1141 01:14:37,400 --> 01:14:40,599 Speaker 1: go to bed. Daddy loves you. I'd like to thank 1142 01:14:40,720 --> 01:14:44,599 Speaker 1: my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Yeah, that'd be so crazy. 1143 01:14:44,960 --> 01:14:50,559 Speaker 1: That'd be grand. Living room productions. Man, come on living 1144 01:14:50,600 --> 01:14:54,479 Speaker 1: room production, Baby, that's where the magic happens. That the 1145 01:14:54,520 --> 01:14:59,680 Speaker 1: magic r in the living room. How do you come 1146 01:14:59,840 --> 01:15:02,320 Speaker 1: up with those things? Jake? You hear a song, you 1147 01:15:02,439 --> 01:15:04,120 Speaker 1: hear a song on the radio, and you hear a 1148 01:15:04,200 --> 01:15:06,719 Speaker 1: song that you can murder. You See, they write the songs. 1149 01:15:06,880 --> 01:15:09,160 Speaker 1: I just figure out how to murder it. Yeah, I 1150 01:15:09,280 --> 01:15:12,120 Speaker 1: got that, okay, And you just follow their arrangement and 1151 01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:14,519 Speaker 1: put your own lyrics. Ben and everybody, I got a 1152 01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:17,320 Speaker 1: guest singer next week. He did, I live in my 1153 01:15:17,439 --> 01:15:23,280 Speaker 1: best life. Oh a collabor what right? Huh. It's called 1154 01:15:23,320 --> 01:15:27,800 Speaker 1: I'm living my broke life. You're gonna love it, trust jam, 1155 01:15:28,479 --> 01:15:34,240 Speaker 1: I'm living my paycheck to pe. Next week it's gonna 1156 01:15:34,240 --> 01:15:39,000 Speaker 1: be dropped. Oh okay, that's sure to get a Grammy. Yeah. 1157 01:15:40,360 --> 01:15:45,040 Speaker 1: So y'all gonna watch this Sunday Grammy. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 1158 01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:47,800 Speaker 1: I'm it's gonna be better than the super Bowl. Why 1159 01:15:47,920 --> 01:15:55,080 Speaker 1: not another Sunday watch it? Nothing. I'm scared to Dell 1160 01:15:57,200 --> 01:16:01,040 Speaker 1: and Jennifer Lopez is uh yeah, she's supposed to be 1161 01:16:01,200 --> 01:16:05,360 Speaker 1: doing this Motown tribute. Jennifer Lopez. A lot of people 1162 01:16:05,520 --> 01:16:07,519 Speaker 1: said about a lot of people were very up in 1163 01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:09,640 Speaker 1: arms about it. You know, they were saying a lot 1164 01:16:09,680 --> 01:16:13,240 Speaker 1: of people from Motown still living, Legends from Motown are 1165 01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:17,600 Speaker 1: still alive. I love, love love Jennifer Mopez. Yeah. I 1166 01:16:17,960 --> 01:16:21,760 Speaker 1: do not understand the selection for that. Maybe didn't have 1167 01:16:21,880 --> 01:16:24,519 Speaker 1: a reason. I don't know what it is. But you know, 1168 01:16:25,320 --> 01:16:28,640 Speaker 1: many people tied to Motown still here. Yeah, you get 1169 01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:30,760 Speaker 1: all the day of Jackson to come back and do 1170 01:16:31,200 --> 01:16:34,720 Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. All right, Well thank you 1171 01:16:34,840 --> 01:16:37,519 Speaker 1: Jay coming up at the top of the hour, more 1172 01:16:37,520 --> 01:16:41,719 Speaker 1: about food. Some Americans would give up sex for pizza. 1173 01:16:42,920 --> 01:16:45,679 Speaker 1: Hell no, it ain't enough pepperoni in the damn world. 1174 01:16:47,400 --> 01:17:00,439 Speaker 1: Say oh you can, don't you know me? Love, We'll 1175 01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:08,479 Speaker 1: be back right after this. You're listening to all right, Steve. 1176 01:17:08,600 --> 01:17:11,880 Speaker 1: Tomorrow is National Pizza Day, and you know how we 1177 01:17:11,960 --> 01:17:15,960 Speaker 1: all love pizza. According to a new survey, ninety eight 1178 01:17:16,120 --> 01:17:20,200 Speaker 1: percent of Americans eat pizza. People are so in love 1179 01:17:20,240 --> 01:17:22,679 Speaker 1: with pizza that some people even say that they would 1180 01:17:22,720 --> 01:17:25,439 Speaker 1: be willing to give up some pretty important things if 1181 01:17:25,439 --> 01:17:27,960 Speaker 1: it meant they could eat all the pizza they want 1182 01:17:28,360 --> 01:17:34,320 Speaker 1: without feeling guilty. Like what you ask? Yeah? Really well. 1183 01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:37,599 Speaker 1: Thirty seven percent say they would go without social media 1184 01:17:37,720 --> 01:17:45,360 Speaker 1: for a year. Okay, that's easy, yes, yes. Seventeen percent 1185 01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:47,719 Speaker 1: say they would give up their smartphones for a month 1186 01:17:48,240 --> 01:17:54,479 Speaker 1: easy eat pizza, to be able to eat pizza and 1187 01:17:54,600 --> 01:17:57,000 Speaker 1: not feel guilty about it, all the pizza you want 1188 01:17:57,080 --> 01:18:00,719 Speaker 1: it and not feel guilty. A month without sal phone 1189 01:18:01,880 --> 01:18:07,559 Speaker 1: huh wonderful? Yeah right right. Seventeen percent said that they 1190 01:18:07,600 --> 01:18:11,400 Speaker 1: would give him up. Sixteen percent, or twenty six million 1191 01:18:11,439 --> 01:18:15,400 Speaker 1: Americans say this is a tough one right here. They're saying, well, 1192 01:18:15,479 --> 01:18:20,040 Speaker 1: Tommy said so anyway, twenty six million Americans say they 1193 01:18:20,080 --> 01:18:24,880 Speaker 1: would actually give up sex for a whole year. No, 1194 01:18:25,360 --> 01:18:27,280 Speaker 1: I wouldn't eat no more pizza. Don't give a damn 1195 01:18:27,320 --> 01:18:32,599 Speaker 1: by looking back here, man, give up sex for a year, Yeah, 1196 01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:39,120 Speaker 1: for all the pizza you wanted without feeling guilty. A year? 1197 01:18:41,600 --> 01:18:48,920 Speaker 1: No months, loving for year. I'll be suicide, Baroni, I'll 1198 01:18:49,000 --> 01:19:03,080 Speaker 1: be suicidal lovers Hawaiian, You up for a whole year? Yeah? Okay? 1199 01:19:03,200 --> 01:19:09,040 Speaker 1: Six months? Six months? How about that? No? Three months? 1200 01:19:09,479 --> 01:19:18,200 Speaker 1: Sex years left? Three months? Three months? Let's do you 1201 01:19:18,320 --> 01:19:21,360 Speaker 1: get to eat all the pizza you want, not feeling 1202 01:19:21,439 --> 01:19:23,720 Speaker 1: guilty about it, but you have to give up sex 1203 01:19:23,800 --> 01:19:26,640 Speaker 1: for three months? But how long do you pizza for? 1204 01:19:26,720 --> 01:19:32,200 Speaker 1: As long as you want? You can eat pizza? Yeah? Yeah, yeah? Okay, 1205 01:19:34,520 --> 01:19:37,240 Speaker 1: you are you actually leaning towards this? You can eat 1206 01:19:37,320 --> 01:19:39,200 Speaker 1: all the pizza you want and you don't you know, 1207 01:19:39,360 --> 01:19:42,080 Speaker 1: don't worry about your diet or anything getting fat, none 1208 01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:45,200 Speaker 1: of that. Uh, you know, too much cheese, overload, too 1209 01:19:45,320 --> 01:19:48,000 Speaker 1: much dairy, none of that. But give up sex for 1210 01:19:48,160 --> 01:19:53,519 Speaker 1: three months? Yeah? Give up? Yeah, ninety days sex for pizza? 1211 01:19:54,400 --> 01:20:01,200 Speaker 1: Give it up? I wish, I wish I would oh pizza? 1212 01:20:01,920 --> 01:20:05,800 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, rush of my life. Pizza. Three months 1213 01:20:06,120 --> 01:20:24,799 Speaker 1: is just ninety days? Yeah, women, I got Bett all right, okay, okay, 1214 01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:28,000 Speaker 1: three months Stevens. You know he's on the fence for 1215 01:20:28,120 --> 01:20:30,400 Speaker 1: the rest of my life. Pizza, pizza and not feel 1216 01:20:30,439 --> 01:20:33,120 Speaker 1: guilty about it. All the pizza. Yeah, I could do 1217 01:20:33,240 --> 01:20:36,920 Speaker 1: it for ninety days, all right? Uh uh? Sixty days? 1218 01:20:37,160 --> 01:20:42,920 Speaker 1: Two months? Yeah, yeah, I'm I'm not. I'm not. I'm 1219 01:20:42,960 --> 01:20:44,840 Speaker 1: not eating the pizza. I'm not messing with the piece 1220 01:20:44,920 --> 01:20:48,040 Speaker 1: I was fast. I'm not doing it. I'm not doing it. 1221 01:20:48,080 --> 01:20:51,519 Speaker 1: You're not taking that away from me. A month, thirty days, 1222 01:20:52,360 --> 01:20:58,519 Speaker 1: it's all I got. Thirty days, guys, I'm not giving 1223 01:20:58,560 --> 01:21:04,000 Speaker 1: you three hours. What a dalistic time? Yeah? A day? 1224 01:21:04,560 --> 01:21:08,959 Speaker 1: How about one day day? He ain't have him for yesterday? 1225 01:21:09,280 --> 01:21:15,719 Speaker 1: He can do it. He's been Yeah, Jo didn't, Steve, 1226 01:21:18,600 --> 01:21:21,960 Speaker 1: he's committed. Isn't even know how this go be married? 1227 01:21:25,479 --> 01:21:27,439 Speaker 1: Hunting outfits and you know not to go over there. 1228 01:21:29,280 --> 01:21:32,880 Speaker 1: Describe the hunting out that day. I'm hunting out fitting. 1229 01:21:33,120 --> 01:21:37,439 Speaker 1: Sweat pants on and then big thick wool socks rolled 1230 01:21:37,600 --> 01:21:41,320 Speaker 1: down and balls all on them. Damn sweat pants and 1231 01:21:41,400 --> 01:21:49,560 Speaker 1: the damn jersey all T shirt. No, not, no, you 1232 01:21:49,680 --> 01:21:52,680 Speaker 1: know if when you know, though, when they come to 1233 01:21:52,800 --> 01:21:58,240 Speaker 1: bed with that onesion, you know, with defeating you know 1234 01:21:59,240 --> 01:22:01,800 Speaker 1: this is not happening at all. When they come to 1235 01:22:01,880 --> 01:22:13,160 Speaker 1: dead with jeans and boots. One know that that. Don't 1236 01:22:13,200 --> 01:22:15,680 Speaker 1: even think about it. I was staying over there with 1237 01:22:15,800 --> 01:22:19,400 Speaker 1: that damn bathball ball with all them fur balls on. 1238 01:22:21,360 --> 01:22:25,280 Speaker 1: Not back to you with that head brand, with all 1239 01:22:25,360 --> 01:22:38,360 Speaker 1: that sulf aiding gloves. Man, know what is that? Let's 1240 01:22:38,360 --> 01:22:42,679 Speaker 1: go to sleep right here. You can go a day 1241 01:22:42,960 --> 01:22:47,160 Speaker 1: or so or two or three with that. It's not 1242 01:22:47,240 --> 01:22:50,920 Speaker 1: that I want to, but yeah I have. Yeah, they're 1243 01:22:51,000 --> 01:22:55,719 Speaker 1: right about that. Uh huh. Pizza Day is tomorrow. What's 1244 01:22:55,720 --> 01:22:59,920 Speaker 1: your favorite pizza that just pepperoni or everything or veggie love? 1245 01:23:00,400 --> 01:23:05,640 Speaker 1: I'm Temperoni, Italian sausage and mushroom. I can stop right there. 1246 01:23:05,680 --> 01:23:10,320 Speaker 1: I don't have to go there. Tommy, you had loue 1247 01:23:10,360 --> 01:23:15,799 Speaker 1: Mound Natties from Chicago. No go to lou Mound Naughties 1248 01:23:15,920 --> 01:23:21,640 Speaker 1: in order the classic saucehit pan pad pizza. Now what 1249 01:23:22,000 --> 01:23:27,920 Speaker 1: does that have on it? What's in that saucage? Damn board? 1250 01:23:28,000 --> 01:23:37,080 Speaker 1: I see any vegetables around pizza, not a nail saucy 1251 01:23:39,080 --> 01:23:42,280 Speaker 1: little mound Naughtie. They wanted the Golden Spatial Award from 1252 01:23:42,360 --> 01:23:45,040 Speaker 1: my show when I was in Chicago. You've got to 1253 01:23:45,160 --> 01:23:49,720 Speaker 1: try lou Mount Naughties, y'all. I'm sorry. Now they got 1254 01:23:49,800 --> 01:23:53,160 Speaker 1: some great pizza in Chicago. The loue Mount Naughties is 1255 01:23:53,240 --> 01:23:59,880 Speaker 1: the bad. Geno's is good, and donald donald Gia Donald's 1256 01:24:00,160 --> 01:24:02,680 Speaker 1: is good. That's what I meant. I'm sorry. Genos is 1257 01:24:02,760 --> 01:24:04,920 Speaker 1: good too, though they say Genos is good too. I 1258 01:24:05,000 --> 01:24:09,880 Speaker 1: can't remember having yeah, uh um, they used to be good. 1259 01:24:10,760 --> 01:24:16,040 Speaker 1: Us used to be pizza, but Gia Donald's and uh 1260 01:24:16,360 --> 01:24:21,439 Speaker 1: and loul Ntedge Lounedge though for wow, lord, they just 1261 01:24:21,520 --> 01:24:23,560 Speaker 1: can't have mushrooms. If I have mushrooms, I have to 1262 01:24:23,600 --> 01:24:28,160 Speaker 1: have onions, Bell pepper mushrooms. I just can't have one, 1263 01:24:28,280 --> 01:24:30,600 Speaker 1: but I have to have more than two. Can we 1264 01:24:30,680 --> 01:24:33,640 Speaker 1: have pizza and sex? Is that possible to have? B No, 1265 01:24:33,760 --> 01:24:37,120 Speaker 1: that's not on the survey, baby, that's not even before. Yeah, 1266 01:24:37,240 --> 01:24:45,120 Speaker 1: pizza and sex. I was in college especially about all right, 1267 01:24:45,720 --> 01:24:48,760 Speaker 1: back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right 1268 01:24:48,800 --> 01:24:55,240 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Delta 1269 01:24:55,320 --> 01:24:57,840 Speaker 1: Airlines in Coca Cola wanted to make the dream of 1270 01:24:57,920 --> 01:25:00,760 Speaker 1: falling in love on a plane a reality t but 1271 01:25:00,880 --> 01:25:04,400 Speaker 1: their approach did not have the internet uh the intended 1272 01:25:04,439 --> 01:25:08,200 Speaker 1: effect um. As part of Delta's brand partnership with Coke, 1273 01:25:08,320 --> 01:25:12,360 Speaker 1: the airline handed out promotional in flight napkins that encourage 1274 01:25:12,400 --> 01:25:15,240 Speaker 1: passengers to give their number to others on the plane. 1275 01:25:15,760 --> 01:25:18,360 Speaker 1: On one side of the napkin, it read because you're 1276 01:25:18,400 --> 01:25:21,680 Speaker 1: on a plane with interesting people and hey, you never know, 1277 01:25:22,400 --> 01:25:25,639 Speaker 1: the other side had space to write down the name 1278 01:25:25,720 --> 01:25:28,760 Speaker 1: and phone number, with the additional text be a little 1279 01:25:28,800 --> 01:25:31,000 Speaker 1: old school, write down your number and give it to 1280 01:25:31,120 --> 01:25:35,320 Speaker 1: your plane crush you never know. Delta passengers apparently did 1281 01:25:35,439 --> 01:25:38,840 Speaker 1: not take kindly to the approach, and dozens wrote to 1282 01:25:38,920 --> 01:25:43,320 Speaker 1: the brands on social media, calling the stunt creepy have you? Uh? 1283 01:25:44,200 --> 01:25:47,800 Speaker 1: That is, You're sitting over there your wife on the 1284 01:25:47,880 --> 01:25:50,200 Speaker 1: plane and some dude turn around and go, oh yeah, 1285 01:25:50,560 --> 01:25:54,760 Speaker 1: well yeah, I got a napkin for you paper. I 1286 01:25:54,920 --> 01:25:59,559 Speaker 1: thought that was a good idea that I'm like Coca 1287 01:25:59,640 --> 01:26:03,880 Speaker 1: Cola and I love. Yeah. What they should have done. 1288 01:26:04,040 --> 01:26:06,920 Speaker 1: Here's what they should have did, guys. They should have 1289 01:26:07,040 --> 01:26:12,960 Speaker 1: came to me the CLO chief Love Officer and says 1290 01:26:13,040 --> 01:26:16,880 Speaker 1: Steve put Us together a campaign so we can talk 1291 01:26:16,960 --> 01:26:21,679 Speaker 1: about expanding our brand but including love to unify us all. 1292 01:26:22,160 --> 01:26:24,439 Speaker 1: And I would have came up with a cold because 1293 01:26:24,479 --> 01:26:27,639 Speaker 1: I got it. Oh you don't want to care. Hell, 1294 01:26:28,080 --> 01:26:33,200 Speaker 1: they might call now, yeah they probably well, yeah, you 1295 01:26:33,320 --> 01:26:36,479 Speaker 1: know they listen. Yeah, they got to join partnership. I've 1296 01:26:36,520 --> 01:26:39,879 Speaker 1: done business with Coca Cola before. Yeah, a big campaign 1297 01:26:40,000 --> 01:26:46,320 Speaker 1: with them and Delta. Delta is talking about helping my foundation. 1298 01:26:47,320 --> 01:26:50,719 Speaker 1: I understand. So that's a great talk we're having with Delta. 1299 01:26:51,760 --> 01:26:54,200 Speaker 1: So you know, because I do my camp right outside 1300 01:26:54,240 --> 01:26:57,360 Speaker 1: of Atlanta, So what's some good things going on? He 1301 01:26:57,479 --> 01:27:01,519 Speaker 1: never knows what God is working on. So hey, CLO 1302 01:27:01,760 --> 01:27:05,040 Speaker 1: is here for you. I let your boy. Yeah, they 1303 01:27:05,120 --> 01:27:10,880 Speaker 1: wanted to make what Yeah, let's hear it. Jake the 1304 01:27:11,080 --> 01:27:14,880 Speaker 1: c CHO, the chief hate officer, wanting you have make 1305 01:27:14,960 --> 01:27:20,120 Speaker 1: your rest room sig. Yeah, it's pretty tight in the cab, 1306 01:27:22,439 --> 01:27:27,200 Speaker 1: trying to make people fall in love on the plane. Oh, 1307 01:27:29,640 --> 01:27:32,640 Speaker 1: I'm catching up. And when I'm a little wild, just 1308 01:27:32,800 --> 01:27:42,680 Speaker 1: a little wild club. I'm not a part of my 1309 01:27:42,880 --> 01:27:46,559 Speaker 1: high club. Anybody on here part of my Hello rich boy, 1310 01:27:46,960 --> 01:27:50,439 Speaker 1: say rich boy, Well you well, I told you guys 1311 01:27:50,479 --> 01:27:52,560 Speaker 1: about that story last week. And I was on the 1312 01:27:52,600 --> 01:27:57,080 Speaker 1: plane story. You don't want to answer the questions. Well, 1313 01:27:57,120 --> 01:27:58,800 Speaker 1: I remember I told you guys, I was on this 1314 01:27:58,960 --> 01:28:01,920 Speaker 1: plane and these two people could not keep their hands 1315 01:28:02,040 --> 01:28:05,360 Speaker 1: off each other. They were all over each other, I 1316 01:28:05,520 --> 01:28:08,920 Speaker 1: mean all over each other, Steve. They finally got up. 1317 01:28:08,960 --> 01:28:11,240 Speaker 1: She got up first, went to the to the restroom. 1318 01:28:11,520 --> 01:28:14,280 Speaker 1: He got up, went to the laboratory. They came back, 1319 01:28:15,400 --> 01:28:19,200 Speaker 1: sat in their seats. Once they finished, plane landed. She 1320 01:28:19,360 --> 01:28:24,840 Speaker 1: got off the plane. Some man met her. They were 1321 01:28:25,000 --> 01:28:28,320 Speaker 1: not together. They were not together. She went into the 1322 01:28:28,479 --> 01:28:30,799 Speaker 1: arms of someone else, and I don't know what happened 1323 01:28:30,880 --> 01:28:34,160 Speaker 1: to the guy that. You know, they'd gone and done it. 1324 01:28:34,680 --> 01:28:36,840 Speaker 1: When they came out of the bathroom. Did they look 1325 01:28:36,960 --> 01:28:44,720 Speaker 1: flushed when they Yes, absolutely, because you were both but 1326 01:28:44,920 --> 01:28:47,320 Speaker 1: but but people on the plane wanted them to go 1327 01:28:47,520 --> 01:28:52,920 Speaker 1: in there because it was ridiculous. Yeah, it was that jail. 1328 01:28:53,560 --> 01:28:57,759 Speaker 1: Get the monkey off your back. You can't turn around 1329 01:28:57,840 --> 01:29:04,080 Speaker 1: in there. We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning 1330 01:29:04,120 --> 01:29:09,240 Speaker 1: Show coming up right after this. You're listening to the 1331 01:29:09,400 --> 01:29:13,920 Speaker 1: Stry Morning Show and Today's Entertainment News. So you guys 1332 01:29:14,040 --> 01:29:15,920 Speaker 1: know we've talked about this. I think we mentioned it 1333 01:29:16,040 --> 01:29:19,000 Speaker 1: yesterday that Nick Cannon is filling in for Wendy Williams 1334 01:29:19,080 --> 01:29:22,000 Speaker 1: on her show while she recovers from complications due to 1335 01:29:22,280 --> 01:29:26,479 Speaker 1: graves disease. Well Earlier this week, Nick shared a private 1336 01:29:26,560 --> 01:29:30,320 Speaker 1: conversation he had with Wendy and told her viewers her 1337 01:29:30,360 --> 01:29:32,720 Speaker 1: co host as she calls them, that she's on the 1338 01:29:32,840 --> 01:29:36,920 Speaker 1: mend and that the Hunter family is stronger than ever. However, 1339 01:29:37,080 --> 01:29:40,840 Speaker 1: some staffers were upset about that because they said Wendy 1340 01:29:40,920 --> 01:29:43,760 Speaker 1: gave Nick an update while they were completely left in 1341 01:29:43,840 --> 01:29:48,160 Speaker 1: the dark. A source also called Wendy hypocrite for trying 1342 01:29:48,200 --> 01:29:51,160 Speaker 1: to keep her business on the hush, you know, because 1343 01:29:51,160 --> 01:29:53,560 Speaker 1: she talks about everybody else's business. I guess that was 1344 01:29:53,640 --> 01:29:57,400 Speaker 1: their point in keeping her business, you know, on the hush. 1345 01:29:57,479 --> 01:29:59,400 Speaker 1: The staffer said, I mean, please, She has made a 1346 01:29:59,439 --> 01:30:03,439 Speaker 1: fortune for tearing people down. This is a staffer saying this. However, 1347 01:30:03,520 --> 01:30:06,240 Speaker 1: when it comes to her own life, it's all a secret. 1348 01:30:06,840 --> 01:30:10,120 Speaker 1: Imagine if this was another celebrity living their life like 1349 01:30:10,320 --> 01:30:13,439 Speaker 1: she does, she'd be sipping the tea and talking about 1350 01:30:13,479 --> 01:30:18,880 Speaker 1: it in hot topics every day. She's such a hypocrite. No, yeah, 1351 01:30:19,080 --> 01:30:22,080 Speaker 1: Wendy still hasn't set a return date, you know, what 1352 01:30:22,200 --> 01:30:25,040 Speaker 1: I don't like about this. I don't like kicking people 1353 01:30:25,120 --> 01:30:29,040 Speaker 1: when they're down, you know, and she's she's upset. I mean, 1354 01:30:29,200 --> 01:30:32,479 Speaker 1: she's sick, outsick as far as we know. Yeah, you know, 1355 01:30:32,960 --> 01:30:37,640 Speaker 1: just just wait on this. I don't know her a 1356 01:30:37,720 --> 01:30:44,000 Speaker 1: hypocrite and all that, you know, but I mean, Wendy's 1357 01:30:44,120 --> 01:30:46,439 Speaker 1: kind of gone there with people. You know, this is 1358 01:30:46,520 --> 01:30:49,160 Speaker 1: what she does. She talks about people and then now 1359 01:30:49,960 --> 01:30:52,320 Speaker 1: you know, you don't get information about what's going on 1360 01:30:52,640 --> 01:30:56,080 Speaker 1: with her. So right, that's what some of her staff 1361 01:30:56,120 --> 01:30:58,680 Speaker 1: people are saying. Right, that's how they feel. Right, I 1362 01:30:58,800 --> 01:31:00,840 Speaker 1: get it, you're right. I mean, I mean, I get it. 1363 01:31:00,920 --> 01:31:02,760 Speaker 1: They have their right to feel that way. I just think, 1364 01:31:03,040 --> 01:31:06,639 Speaker 1: you know, yeah, she's out with this disease. Just wait 1365 01:31:06,800 --> 01:31:09,760 Speaker 1: until you get the facts in that's look. I've made 1366 01:31:09,800 --> 01:31:13,360 Speaker 1: a lot of mistakes with things I've said over the years, 1367 01:31:14,080 --> 01:31:17,920 Speaker 1: but I've tried my best not to make it, you know, 1368 01:31:18,160 --> 01:31:21,880 Speaker 1: personal about people's personal business. I made a comment a 1369 01:31:21,960 --> 01:31:26,840 Speaker 1: long time ago about Cornell west and at the time, 1370 01:31:27,000 --> 01:31:31,680 Speaker 1: no Cornell weston Taith smiled and I came back on 1371 01:31:31,800 --> 01:31:34,080 Speaker 1: the air and I apologized about that because what I 1372 01:31:34,200 --> 01:31:36,840 Speaker 1: said I didn't feel was right of me to say 1373 01:31:36,920 --> 01:31:40,639 Speaker 1: something like that. So if ever I've said something about 1374 01:31:40,680 --> 01:31:44,880 Speaker 1: a person that was you know, wrong or something or 1375 01:31:44,960 --> 01:31:47,360 Speaker 1: came out the wrong way, I've always tried to at 1376 01:31:47,439 --> 01:31:51,720 Speaker 1: least apologize for That's been my stance with other celebrities 1377 01:31:52,080 --> 01:31:54,720 Speaker 1: and famous people, you know, and you never you don't 1378 01:31:54,760 --> 01:31:57,280 Speaker 1: even like it on the show. No, I don't. I 1379 01:31:57,360 --> 01:31:59,600 Speaker 1: don't care for it. You know, it's not it's not 1380 01:32:00,400 --> 01:32:05,000 Speaker 1: my method. I'm not gonna make mine at the demise 1381 01:32:05,120 --> 01:32:09,560 Speaker 1: of yours. That's I've been very conscious of that, and 1382 01:32:09,640 --> 01:32:13,280 Speaker 1: I feel comfortable in saying that part right there. But 1383 01:32:13,600 --> 01:32:16,960 Speaker 1: you know, uh, I don't. I want. I want Wendy 1384 01:32:17,040 --> 01:32:20,519 Speaker 1: to be well, you know, I don't know everybody whatever 1385 01:32:20,600 --> 01:32:23,720 Speaker 1: she's going through, you know, to not do that, but 1386 01:32:24,320 --> 01:32:26,880 Speaker 1: to see them staff as NIC's coming out, that's sort 1387 01:32:26,920 --> 01:32:30,160 Speaker 1: of crazy. You know. Staffers are making statements like that, 1388 01:32:30,360 --> 01:32:32,680 Speaker 1: you know, and she might talk about it. I mean, 1389 01:32:32,760 --> 01:32:34,599 Speaker 1: if she comes back to her show, when she has 1390 01:32:34,640 --> 01:32:40,120 Speaker 1: her platform, she'll talk about it. Nobody's gonna dog themselves, right, 1391 01:32:40,640 --> 01:32:43,120 Speaker 1: that's kind of difficult. Yeah, all right, we'll be back 1392 01:32:43,200 --> 01:32:46,559 Speaker 1: with the clothes. Uh. Today it's been a good day. Um, 1393 01:32:46,800 --> 01:32:50,880 Speaker 1: we'll be back to close show. Yeah, with Steve's closing 1394 01:32:50,920 --> 01:32:54,080 Speaker 1: remarks coming up at forty nine after the hour right 1395 01:32:54,120 --> 01:32:59,760 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, all right, Steve. Here we are 1396 01:33:00,000 --> 01:33:02,679 Speaker 1: on this Friday, our last break of the day, last 1397 01:33:02,720 --> 01:33:05,240 Speaker 1: break of the week. I've been really, really on a 1398 01:33:05,360 --> 01:33:10,360 Speaker 1: mission here to try to encourage people, you know, because 1399 01:33:10,400 --> 01:33:14,320 Speaker 1: they're actually moments that I feel lost. You know, I'm 1400 01:33:14,360 --> 01:33:16,439 Speaker 1: pretty sure all of you had those moments here on 1401 01:33:16,479 --> 01:33:19,759 Speaker 1: the morning shows. I mean, you know, there's just times 1402 01:33:19,800 --> 01:33:23,679 Speaker 1: when you just are confused and you just don't really 1403 01:33:23,880 --> 01:33:28,240 Speaker 1: know what to do. So I was gonna replay another one, 1404 01:33:29,280 --> 01:33:34,519 Speaker 1: but I'm in it now, so you know here it is, 1405 01:33:34,720 --> 01:33:41,120 Speaker 1: because you know, it is it is paramount that you 1406 01:33:41,400 --> 01:33:46,200 Speaker 1: understand that you're not the only one that's going through something. 1407 01:33:47,439 --> 01:33:50,559 Speaker 1: That the people that you think have it also together. 1408 01:33:51,960 --> 01:33:57,080 Speaker 1: You gotta understand something they're going through something. The person 1409 01:33:57,200 --> 01:34:00,840 Speaker 1: that you think has gotten it all right, they going 1410 01:34:00,920 --> 01:34:06,120 Speaker 1: through something. It was funny today, man, I was somewhere. 1411 01:34:07,320 --> 01:34:10,000 Speaker 1: I can't tell you where, but I was somewhere. There 1412 01:34:10,080 --> 01:34:14,320 Speaker 1: was a lot of a lot of people there who 1413 01:34:14,439 --> 01:34:18,560 Speaker 1: are supposedly well off, you know, and I met a 1414 01:34:18,640 --> 01:34:22,439 Speaker 1: guy that I had never met before, but I do 1415 01:34:22,640 --> 01:34:27,080 Speaker 1: business with him, but I've never met him. And so 1416 01:34:27,360 --> 01:34:30,120 Speaker 1: I was coming out of the place and a guy 1417 01:34:30,320 --> 01:34:32,840 Speaker 1: was talking to on the way. I said, Steve, I 1418 01:34:33,080 --> 01:34:37,120 Speaker 1: like you to meet SO and Soul. And I said, hey, man, 1419 01:34:37,200 --> 01:34:40,920 Speaker 1: how you doing. My name is Steve Harvey. The guy said, 1420 01:34:41,040 --> 01:34:44,880 Speaker 1: the real Steve Harvey. I said yeah. He said, I'm 1421 01:34:44,960 --> 01:34:48,559 Speaker 1: So and So. I owned SO and Soul. And I said, 1422 01:34:48,800 --> 01:34:52,639 Speaker 1: what are you kidding me? And I hugged a guy 1423 01:34:52,760 --> 01:34:55,599 Speaker 1: because I've been doing business with him for almost six 1424 01:34:55,800 --> 01:34:58,760 Speaker 1: years and I had no idea who he was. I 1425 01:34:59,000 --> 01:35:01,519 Speaker 1: never met him. I just do some business with it. 1426 01:35:02,640 --> 01:35:04,519 Speaker 1: And I was sitting there and he got to talk 1427 01:35:04,600 --> 01:35:07,479 Speaker 1: it to me, and I was saying, because the business, 1428 01:35:07,520 --> 01:35:11,519 Speaker 1: I get something from this guy, a service that he provides, 1429 01:35:12,120 --> 01:35:16,160 Speaker 1: and he makes a tremendous amount of money. And I 1430 01:35:16,320 --> 01:35:19,040 Speaker 1: was just telling him, man, man, I smell you're doing 1431 01:35:19,120 --> 01:35:21,880 Speaker 1: really good. And he just opened up out of nowhere. 1432 01:35:21,960 --> 01:35:27,280 Speaker 1: He said, I'm going through a divorce and I went, wow, man, 1433 01:35:27,439 --> 01:35:29,639 Speaker 1: hanging there, man, I've been there a couple of times. 1434 01:35:30,040 --> 01:35:32,360 Speaker 1: He said, no, man, I'm really going through it. Man, 1435 01:35:32,400 --> 01:35:35,599 Speaker 1: he said, I love my children. I said, he said, 1436 01:35:35,640 --> 01:35:38,040 Speaker 1: but just we got to the point where we can't 1437 01:35:38,120 --> 01:35:41,240 Speaker 1: make it. And this is a guy who, keep in 1438 01:35:41,360 --> 01:35:46,000 Speaker 1: mind on the outward appearance hasn't all working. I mean, 1439 01:35:46,320 --> 01:35:48,280 Speaker 1: when I met him, I was going like, whoa, this 1440 01:35:48,479 --> 01:35:50,920 Speaker 1: is the guy. Man, this is the dude that does 1441 01:35:51,080 --> 01:35:54,519 Speaker 1: the thing that people love. And man, this is the 1442 01:35:54,680 --> 01:35:58,360 Speaker 1: guy he got it together. And he said, Man, I'm 1443 01:35:58,479 --> 01:36:02,080 Speaker 1: going through a divorce. I said, man, hanging down. I've 1444 01:36:02,120 --> 01:36:05,720 Speaker 1: been there, He said, Man, have you really? I said yeah, Man, 1445 01:36:06,200 --> 01:36:08,320 Speaker 1: he said, that's right. I've kind of heard your story 1446 01:36:08,400 --> 01:36:11,479 Speaker 1: off and on. This is your third marriage. I said yeah. 1447 01:36:12,320 --> 01:36:15,800 Speaker 1: And we sat down and we started talking, and I 1448 01:36:15,920 --> 01:36:18,080 Speaker 1: gave him some advice. I just said, hey, man, at 1449 01:36:18,120 --> 01:36:20,679 Speaker 1: one point in time, you know what it is. It's money, 1450 01:36:21,520 --> 01:36:23,439 Speaker 1: I said, at one point in time, Man, you can't 1451 01:36:23,520 --> 01:36:26,439 Speaker 1: fight so hard. He said, Man, but I was married 1452 01:36:26,479 --> 01:36:28,800 Speaker 1: for twenty six years. I thought I knew this woman, 1453 01:36:28,840 --> 01:36:31,800 Speaker 1: and I don't. I said, look, man, whatever the case is, 1454 01:36:31,880 --> 01:36:34,200 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you gotta get to 1455 01:36:34,320 --> 01:36:37,080 Speaker 1: a place of happiness. He said, how do I do that? 1456 01:36:37,520 --> 01:36:40,000 Speaker 1: I said, why don't you just let go? I said, 1457 01:36:40,040 --> 01:36:42,599 Speaker 1: what's causing you the most griefous? You're trying to hang 1458 01:36:42,720 --> 01:36:47,000 Speaker 1: on to something so deeply without realizing that you made 1459 01:36:47,120 --> 01:36:50,000 Speaker 1: money before you make some more. He said, are you 1460 01:36:50,200 --> 01:36:54,519 Speaker 1: kidding me? I said yeah. I said, I just gave 1461 01:36:54,600 --> 01:36:58,120 Speaker 1: up man. He said, wow, that's what I should do, 1462 01:36:58,560 --> 01:37:01,200 Speaker 1: he said, I was. The biggest is killing me is 1463 01:37:01,280 --> 01:37:03,719 Speaker 1: how do I keep what I got? I said, You're 1464 01:37:03,720 --> 01:37:05,200 Speaker 1: not gonna be able to do that. Man. It's because 1465 01:37:05,240 --> 01:37:08,080 Speaker 1: that's what the divorce is. And I'm saying all that 1466 01:37:08,200 --> 01:37:10,760 Speaker 1: to say this that no matter who you are, no 1467 01:37:10,840 --> 01:37:13,960 Speaker 1: matter who you think a person is, they're going through something. 1468 01:37:14,920 --> 01:37:18,519 Speaker 1: Everybody's going through something. But the key for all of 1469 01:37:18,640 --> 01:37:21,519 Speaker 1: us that's going through something, That is one thing that's 1470 01:37:21,520 --> 01:37:24,760 Speaker 1: available to us all. And I don't want to sound 1471 01:37:24,880 --> 01:37:32,320 Speaker 1: corny or nothing, but prayer man, prayer, prayer man. Man. 1472 01:37:32,600 --> 01:37:37,559 Speaker 1: I can't even tell you how many times it has 1473 01:37:37,680 --> 01:37:44,040 Speaker 1: been my only source of hope, my only source of comfort, 1474 01:37:45,120 --> 01:37:50,559 Speaker 1: my only source of inspiration, my only source of an answer. 1475 01:37:51,920 --> 01:37:54,880 Speaker 1: I've been in some stuff so wrong, so turned up, 1476 01:37:55,120 --> 01:37:57,360 Speaker 1: so flipped up. Man. I had no clue what to do. 1477 01:37:58,479 --> 01:38:04,160 Speaker 1: But prayer man, that simple thing of going somewhere in 1478 01:38:04,280 --> 01:38:06,439 Speaker 1: your mind. You ain't got to If you can get 1479 01:38:06,479 --> 01:38:09,160 Speaker 1: in the room by yourself, cool, but you ain't gonna 1480 01:38:09,200 --> 01:38:12,080 Speaker 1: make an appointment. You ain't got to clear it with nobody. 1481 01:38:12,840 --> 01:38:17,120 Speaker 1: You can just say, hey, God, it's me, and I 1482 01:38:17,280 --> 01:38:19,920 Speaker 1: know you ain't used to hear from me, and I 1483 01:38:20,520 --> 01:38:24,200 Speaker 1: gotta do better. But hey, I'm I'm a. I'm a 1484 01:38:24,520 --> 01:38:26,920 Speaker 1: I'm in a hole right now and I don't know 1485 01:38:27,080 --> 01:38:31,040 Speaker 1: what to do. And I've heard that you hear and 1486 01:38:31,080 --> 01:38:34,280 Speaker 1: answer prayer. I'm asking you right now to hear me. 1487 01:38:35,800 --> 01:38:37,519 Speaker 1: And if you don't, do nothing but just give me 1488 01:38:37,640 --> 01:38:40,320 Speaker 1: the strength to endure it all? Could you do that 1489 01:38:40,479 --> 01:38:43,360 Speaker 1: for me? Could you just calm my spirit down and 1490 01:38:43,600 --> 01:38:45,479 Speaker 1: send me a sign that it's gonna be all right. 1491 01:38:45,840 --> 01:38:48,040 Speaker 1: I don't can hide in, but just let me know 1492 01:38:48,120 --> 01:38:50,400 Speaker 1: that it's gonna be all. I've done it like that. 1493 01:38:51,560 --> 01:38:59,840 Speaker 1: Prayer is effective. Prayer changes things. Prayer, don't forget to pray, 1494 01:39:00,439 --> 01:39:03,200 Speaker 1: don't be ashamed to pray, and don't ever be too 1495 01:39:03,320 --> 01:39:07,880 Speaker 1: proud to pray, because prayer, prayer changes things, and prayer 1496 01:39:08,040 --> 01:39:13,720 Speaker 1: change people too. Drop it closing. That's it. What was 1497 01:39:15,520 --> 01:39:18,880 Speaker 1: that was really good? That was phenomena. Y'all have a 1498 01:39:18,960 --> 01:39:25,679 Speaker 1: great weekend for all. 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