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Speaker 1: Right now, it's time to ask the CLO our Chief

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Speaker 1: Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is from Chanelle in Rochester Clo.

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Speaker 1: Chanell writes, my coworker told another coworker that I am

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Speaker 1: a racist after I wouldn't eat the peppermint bark that

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Speaker 1: she gave us for Christmas. All I said was all

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Speaker 1: I said was that black people don't eat mess like that.

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Speaker 1: I'm one of three blacks in the office. How do

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Speaker 1: I stop this gossip?

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Speaker 2: But ain't no bak park bark. I know what that is.

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Speaker 2: That's never in our bowls at Christmas.

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Speaker 1: It's not what we do.

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Speaker 2: That's not now. Well, she tried to educate them too.

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Speaker 2: Don't write this ension for other black people because I

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Speaker 2: think we're gonna hire some mo in twenty twenty six.

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Speaker 2: Let you know, it's really just sharing information. Yeah that's real.

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Speaker 1: Yeah wow, Yeah, we don't though, She's right. Moving on

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Speaker 1: to Luwan in a Key West, Lwan writes, my wife

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Speaker 1: gets on my nerves constantly on social media and wanting

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Speaker 1: me to see what she's looking at on our phone.

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Speaker 1: It's annoying when I want to chill and watch TV

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Speaker 1: or if we're out to dinner. How do I get

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Speaker 1: my fifty eight year old wife off of Facebook?

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Speaker 2: You're not fifty eight. That's her thing, that's where they like. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: they own Facebook. Yeah, you ain't gonna be pulling no

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Speaker 2: fifty eight year all off of Facebook. That ain't gonna help.

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Speaker 2: They contacted free and from school everything. That's a whole

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Speaker 2: new world for them. Yeah, yeah, you locked in this

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Speaker 2: one dog. Yeah, she don't care. He ain't talking about nothing.

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Speaker 2: They you said, didn't even talk to dinner. At least

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Speaker 2: now she got Facebook. She's on the Facebook. No free

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Speaker 2: all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Brittany and Flint, Brittany writes, I am

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Speaker 1: saying an older man and he thinks I love him

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Speaker 1: and that we can possibly have a relationship one day.

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Speaker 1: I love the benefits of being with him until my

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Speaker 1: soulmate finds me. How do I keep the perks of

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Speaker 1: being with him without him getting caught.

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Speaker 2: Up dragging him alone? Well, dragging sounds like he dragging

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Speaker 2: him alone. Say whatever you want to say, tell him

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Speaker 2: you in a relationship, and then just show him how

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Speaker 2: these new ones he is. He ain't been in a

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Speaker 2: relationship so long, a girl, And then if he pillow

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Speaker 2: how old he is, you might not have to carry

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Speaker 2: this home, but for so long?

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Speaker 1: Wow, like that she just said older man, She didn't

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Speaker 1: say old.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like I said, said it. Depending on how old

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Speaker 2: he is, you might not have to keep the look

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Speaker 2: up too long, just go on and play it out

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Speaker 2: or like, you know, because if he worried about the relationship,

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Speaker 2: all you got to do is just you know, if

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Speaker 2: you over there at night sometime, if he's single, day,

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Speaker 2: you over there at night, you know, just look at

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Speaker 2: the night stand.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean? Oh what what loaded?

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Speaker 2: You know? It's loaded with pil bottles. You ain't he

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Speaker 2: ain't got along no huh wow?

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Speaker 1: How much how many pill bottles determine determined?

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Speaker 2: Or you just thinking, well he got nine ten pill bottles.

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Speaker 2: You ain't got to worry about nothing, any motive. He

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Speaker 2: almost out of here alive. Like floor going to the

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Speaker 2: bathroom too. If you open up that bottom, if you

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Speaker 2: see it bag with the cafeters in it, you really

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Speaker 2: what old people got? Stuff you don't even think about.

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Speaker 1: You know, guy, he thinks shoot.

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Speaker 2: Glass body bed that all your whole mouth can fit in.

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Speaker 2: You need to go see this stuff, any of that.

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Speaker 2: You open up the medicine cabinet and don't recognize medicines.

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Speaker 2: You open up the medicine cabinet and you see father John.

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Speaker 2: You you ain't even know they made that no more?

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Speaker 2: You know, big job, vixed vapor rub. This is old

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Speaker 2: doones back pills. Nobody got no domes domes backpill. This

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Speaker 2: old medicine scots some mush cast off you. You ain't

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Speaker 2: come back though, Well, I'm just telling you it's some

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Speaker 2: old medicine in there.

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Speaker 1: So she just stays with him until because she she

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Speaker 1: wants to keep the perks. You know, I'm sure he's

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Speaker 1: taking care of her, giving her money, buying her stuff.

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Speaker 2: Vixed cough syrup. Don't nobody by that over? Yeah? You

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Speaker 2: in there and you see bottle of Anderson. Who the

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Speaker 2: hell by caught that?

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Speaker 1: What about?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Oil step?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're up in there. You're peroxide all this. He

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Speaker 2: brushing his teeth with peroxide. You ain't got to wear

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Speaker 2: them des think don't from Crown And you're going to

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Speaker 2: going to refrigerate this food in there? You've never heard

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Speaker 2: prune juice? What's prune juice? That's in her fault? When

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Speaker 2: you see a can of tabeah? This dude right here.

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Speaker 1: Man, she just said older man, she did not see

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Speaker 1: one in.

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Speaker 2: The gray some food in there? You're refrigerator. You see

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Speaker 2: a jaw of sardines. Boy right here, it's not letting

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Speaker 2: go and we needed to.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I think she got that's Brittany and Flint. What

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Speaker 1: is his name, by the way, what is his name?

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Speaker 2: Oh it's either she's gotten me old that like Oscar Oscar.

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Speaker 2: If you see some des next foot palm, yeah, hell yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's next not not doctor shows decimating gold bond anything

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Speaker 2: any gold bond and calibine lotion. What is what is

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Speaker 2: calibine lotion? You girl? That's in here. He's still getting boys.

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Speaker 2: And if that preparation h is on that nice day?

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Speaker 2: My god?

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Speaker 1: People still take pepto bismo. Is that still cool?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? You're going there. You see a cad of high Sea.

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Speaker 2: What's that for? Cana fruit drink? Yeah? That's all. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's one of the PRIs high Sea.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes you think of Hawaiian punch. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: think we got it. So hang in there. You're telling

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Speaker 1: Brittany to hang in there.

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Speaker 2: She ain't got along. Just you just checked Brittany an Oscar.

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Speaker 2: If you see so, I tell you one time.

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Speaker 1: I can't even use that anymore.

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Speaker 2: First, I'll tell you what, all right, if you buy

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Speaker 2: him a Christmas griff and he appreciate it, like if

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Speaker 2: you get him a pack of handkerchiefs and he appreciated

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Speaker 2: very great.

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Speaker 1: Thanks were you right after this? You're listening Hardy Morning

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