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Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of horrible decisions. We were just

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Speaker 1: talking about how fucking hot it is outside. But welcome.

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Speaker 1: motherfucking beach. Hi, guys, and wheezy, I'm burning up in

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Speaker 1: New York's hot. It's hot so hot. We should all

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Speaker 1: we should actually have the top. We should That's why

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Speaker 1: if y'all watching on the YouTube? Baby, what do YouTube do? YouTube? Anyways,

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Speaker 1: guys were joined today by a good friend of mine. Hello,

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Speaker 1: we have Louise from Susia b K. Right now, are

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Speaker 1: are y'all expanding? We're trying to grow. We're trying to

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Speaker 1: evolve me. We're trying to to to make sure that

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Speaker 1: our name represents that evolution. I love that. Now y'all know,

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Speaker 1: Susie has comprised with three people, myself, my fiance, Organa,

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Speaker 1: and our business partner. Gecko Jones is amazing man. Gecko

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Speaker 1: Gecko is um. He's something else. He's a powerhouse. He

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Speaker 1: does he does a production, he does a lot of

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Speaker 1: He's also the soundtrack. He's a DJ. A lot of

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Speaker 1: our parties, Um, Susi the space or Susia the brand,

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Speaker 1: what su is? It's a lifestyle. Can we get into

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Speaker 1: Susia because some of us su like what it means?

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Speaker 1: What Susia? Alright, So Susia originally was a party I

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Speaker 1: did with my homegirl DJ Juicy What's Up Juicy years

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Speaker 1: ago at madame x And it came up because Uh,

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Speaker 1: I like the words. She liked the word. We we

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Speaker 1: knew what it meant, and it was that was basically it.

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Speaker 1: But when we um started up all over again, right,

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Speaker 1: it was like, Okay, we're doing these parties. And I

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Speaker 1: think Susia is a dope fit because it is the

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Speaker 1: feminine derivative of dirty you know really yeah, dirty girl.

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Speaker 1: Oh I just thought it was dirty. It's dirty girl.

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Speaker 1: Susio is dirty guy. Susio is dirty guy. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: know what it's for me, It's kind of like like

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Speaker 1: anti patriarchy type ship. I like Susia because, um, it

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Speaker 1: signifies in my mind a woman that is behaving like

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Speaker 1: and I appreciate and respect that, and I encourage them

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Speaker 1: that's way to thinking that way. That's the only way

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Speaker 1: to think of it for me, you know, especially being

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Speaker 1: Latino and what mean Wait is that where you're from?

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Speaker 1: From Nicarawa up. So let's about is it brand? Is

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Speaker 1: it a space? Is it like a physical It's it's

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Speaker 1: a it's a physical space and it's a brand. Uh.

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Speaker 1: It's a secret location in Bushwick. It's a speak easy

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Speaker 1: kind of vibe. Uh. It's a safe space that was

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Speaker 1: created with the intent to be um a safe space

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Speaker 1: now that sounds cute? Can I tell the audience y'all?

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Speaker 1: This is the space that I go in Brooklyn when

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Speaker 1: I've spoke on the last two years about finding a

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Speaker 1: And then let me ask the question that we've heard

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Speaker 1: why promote the space and how do you keep yourself

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Speaker 1: safe from I would say this, I would say this, Well, no, no,

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Speaker 1: for black and brown humans to be in safe spaces,

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Speaker 1: in places where they could explore the sensuality and sexuality

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Speaker 1: without judgment. The reason it's important to have them in

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Speaker 1: the blacks basis because we have different hangups, we have

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Speaker 1: It would be your goal for some that you just

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Speaker 1: I learned about the play party, then the party party.

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Speaker 1: It's it's Susy A play which is his name speaks

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Speaker 1: for self. We do our sex positive events. We also

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Speaker 1: do our mixers um for people are interested. We do

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Speaker 1: to identify toxic masculinity in the play space. You know, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: let him know. It's particular men or people who exhibit

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Speaker 1: those uh toxicities that other bodies are not there for

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Speaker 1: their pleasure. You know, you're not there to go get

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Speaker 1: So you know, I'm always maybe that was Mandy on

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Speaker 1: Talking about the panels um something I had in the

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Speaker 1: it being well, damn grow with the cops that there

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Speaker 1: are no laws against people having sex, a group sex,

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Speaker 1: considered then a private public space. So your space is private. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Because it's not that someone's you know, public sex would

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Speaker 1: the sex clubs in Bushwick, But could you just give

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Speaker 1: us I'm gonna cueue you up. What would an enthusiastic

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Speaker 1: This is welcome, guys. I'm more personality forward. Um, all right,

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, I need to be a the bitch.

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00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 1: I brought up your your kids because we had a

426
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:30,879
Speaker 1: vanilla ship we wanted to do, and Mandy was like, oh,

427
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 1: he's a dad, let's be perfect. Look ahead, vanilla vanilla

428
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 1: ll We're not giving you a vanilla shake right now. Basically,

429
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 1: there was a viral clip of a guy bringing McDonald's

430
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 1: to his son. I don't know if you saw it,

431
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,360
Speaker 1: and the woman basically spazzed out because she has two

432
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 1: other kids, and she was like, neighbor, what the fun?

433
00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:59,119
Speaker 1: Where's the food for my So I'm gonna play a

434
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 1: little bit of this clip just so you can see it.

435
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 1: Daddy come here with one and for my child, but

436
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:10,359
Speaker 1: I have three other kids. We have one kids together.

437
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 1: But you only want to come or break one thing

438
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 1: to McDonald's. One about my other kids? How can you

439
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 1: can't see my other kids? McDonald's. Poe like this, feel

440
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 1: like you're not going to sit here and make my

441
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,880
Speaker 1: other kids feel left out and you're only bringing one

442
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 1: child something you may agree with that. Wait do you

443
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:30,239
Speaker 1: what about? Okay? I don't know if you've ever been

444
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:34,639
Speaker 1: broken your life? Okay, do your do you do your kids?

445
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 1: Do you? They did their mothers have other children? H No? Okay,

446
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 1: so I feel you said just one? Actually see god?

447
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 1: She said she looks like you have multiple baby mother

448
00:24:53,760 --> 00:25:00,159
Speaker 1: You did say mothers? I feel right away? Yea? Anyway, right,

449
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:04,120
Speaker 1: isn't that she said you got took? But she say

450
00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 1: you gotta beard, you light skin. It's different baby moms.

451
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 1: You'll pull out a game week. I was like, play parties,

452
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:20,199
Speaker 1: you know, big moments. Okay, you said you agree and

453
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:22,879
Speaker 1: you're broke? Is the broke days? What if? That was? Like?

454
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 1: I don't know, because you want to do something? You

455
00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: know what I did in my broke is the broke days?

456
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 1: I would have fucking because you could buy cheap ice

457
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 1: cream and whatever, a little mixer, throw that it in

458
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 1: a blender and make enough of the three kids. The

459
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 1: problem with it is as as a as a parent,

460
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:44,960
Speaker 1: even if you're outside or just just an adult, why

461
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 1: would you want to single out one child because when

462
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:51,159
Speaker 1: you single out that child, they deal with different percussions

463
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 1: of being the only ones in. Yes, kind of agree,

464
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,360
Speaker 1: so like I can't even believe I'm doing like two

465
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: things at one time or thinking two things at one time.

466
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 1: Here I agree, and then the other like turning point

467
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 1: of this, I'm like, but would that keep somebody from

468
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 1: being a good dad? Like, for example, I never had

469
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,159
Speaker 1: that experience my parents like group together, but I do

470
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 1: remember one of my home girls just being like, oh,

471
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:16,199
Speaker 1: like he didn't take me and my sister anywhere? What

472
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,639
Speaker 1: if he just couldn't afford to fucking kids in the moment?

473
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 1: And then what if he had to think, like you

474
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:22,160
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like if there are more kids

475
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 1: in the house, I've got to do this with all

476
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 1: the kids, and I just can't, so I'll just ignore it.

477
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,719
Speaker 1: But I also agree with you because how fucked up

478
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: is it? But also do you not pick your kid

479
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,399
Speaker 1: up and take them to go somewhere or do you

480
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 1: have to take all the other kids. No, no, But

481
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 1: if you're spending time something as small as as a

482
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 1: shake like on some real ship, we I think a

483
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:45,440
Speaker 1: lot of times we we project thoughts of niggas being

484
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:48,640
Speaker 1: that broke. But he looked like he had some gear on.

485
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 1: Not to look at the video and look at the

486
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 1: fit in the video. I bet you he's looking, you know, decently, presentable.

487
00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 1: You know. So those are financial decisions you make beforehand.

488
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,480
Speaker 1: And if you allow those decisions like sucking a chick

489
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 1: who got mad kids raw and getting her pregnant, know

490
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 1: that there's other things attached to that, and and and

491
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 1: and and I don't I'm not saying you're not you're

492
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: not responsible for raising them, but the little ship like

493
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 1: a fucking milkshake or a bag of chips. Don't single

494
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 1: out your kids like that. It's weird. I grew up um.

495
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 1: So my mom has two baby daddies. One of the

496
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 1: mes got deported back to Haiti and my dad. When

497
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 1: my mom did ask for more help because she was

498
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 1: taking care of all of us, we had to all

499
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 1: get DNA tests and we didn't speak to him for

500
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 1: a year, and it became very awkward because she just

501
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 1: needed help, even just for the two of us out

502
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 1: of the three, and so that's hard I understand though

503
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: from all aspects. Where to me that to me, I

504
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: put that on my mom even growing up, and we've

505
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,879
Speaker 1: kind of had this conversation as an adult, like you

506
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 1: pro created with man that ended up being deported. I

507
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 1: don't think my father should have showed up for my

508
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 1: other sister. He did for Christmas and holidays, but always

509
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: not as much as he showed up for me and

510
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 1: my other sister. And I and I never faulted my

511
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 1: dad because he's living his life. He created me and

512
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 1: my sister and then he had another son. So to me,

513
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 1: I never thought it was right for my mom to

514
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 1: expect him to show up as a father for my

515
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:34,679
Speaker 1: younger sister, knowing that the other person she created this

516
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 1: kid with couldn't show up. And so to me, that

517
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 1: was just unfair. So when I saw this clip, what

518
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 1: about when he picked you guys up? Did you guys?

519
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: Did you pick up all three of you? A um,

520
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: For the most part, yes, he did. Okay, for the

521
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 1: most part, yes, from from what I can remember growing up,

522
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 1: he he did get all of us. But I know Christmas,

523
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: Holidays and birthdays I don't remember him really doing her

524
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 1: birthday and holiday specifically, she'll get one gift. Me and

525
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 1: my other sister got a lot of gifts. She would

526
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 1: just be she would have something, but it would never

527
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 1: be to the extent of me and my sisters. But

528
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 1: I never expected him to show up for that way.

529
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: She got a whole different daddy, and before her daddy

530
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: got deported, he would show up only for her. The

531
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 1: Haitian daddy like my sister's uh father. Me and my

532
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: sister never got nothing from his ass. My dad showed

533
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: up more for my sister than her dad showed up

534
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: for her. So I just but I believe that that

535
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 1: was my mom's responsibility. Any any any hang ups and

536
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 1: how the father showed up, what's her responsibility? My mom,

537
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 1: you're a single mother now hate that you are, but

538
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 1: these are these were your choices and men, I'm saying,

539
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 1: what's the It was her responsibility to just show up

540
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 1: as a mom, maybe makeup where these niggas shows, not

541
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 1: to make up for I never expected my my little

542
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: sister's dad to be hard dad. And even though my

543
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 1: dad showed up more for her, to me, that was

544
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 1: a responsibility where Ms. Tammy maybe you show up a

545
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 1: little bit more and we kind of tas No, we

546
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 1: grew up in a single parent house. I saw my

547
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: dad whenever the nigga chose to show up, and we

548
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 1: got gifts, and he made my mom feel like ship

549
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 1: because he bought us all the name brand ship my

550
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: mom couldn't afford because she's running a single parent household.

551
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,239
Speaker 1: But in terms of how both of our dads showed up,

552
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 1: I don't think I ever expected my sister's dad to

553
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 1: show up for me as a child, and in vice versa.

554
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:40,680
Speaker 1: Growing up now, I understand the difference I feel as

555
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 1: a father of two children having two grandkids if I

556
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 1: were to have a child with a woman who has

557
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 1: like two other kids, um, just because of just growing

558
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: up Latino, Like, those are my kids. So that's a

559
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 1: conversation you gotta have early. No, of course, got a conversation.

560
00:30:57,120 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 1: But if we're talking about a milkshake like Orphandonald order

561
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 1: and there's niggas actually trying to fucking justify, like how

562
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 1: broke are you? Like if you're respond no, I'm not

563
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 1: gonna lie to me. That's my problem with social media,

564
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 1: Like bro handle that to me. That's something that you

565
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 1: videotape your nigga dropping off food for his kid and

566
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 1: made him seem like a bad dad for taking care

567
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: of his child. So that to me was nuts. Do

568
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 1: you know what? I feel like he could have the

569
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 1: only thing you so, you know, like a woman is

570
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 1: not wrong at all? In oh, no, I think she's wrong.

571
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 1: I was gonna saying, I'm sorry. Why can't the owners

572
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 1: also be on the nigger for knowing who he's putting

573
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 1: his nicken? You know, like if if you like, I'll

574
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 1: be honest. How many times have we dated someone and

575
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 1: they do some ship months down the road? They were like,

576
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 1: what the fuck it right right away? Plan B fifty

577
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: five dollars maybe more than I know what a nigga

578
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 1: is gonna be a good baby dad? Get crazy, my

579
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 1: whole reals acting crazy, and I'd be like, damn, who

580
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: then have you come like valid? And I especially would

581
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: love I don't know who I became less what I'm saying,

582
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 1: love make you do crazy things, and then he might

583
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 1: got a new bitch and you're like, fuck you and

584
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 1: this McDonald's come back to that hole. That's where it's

585
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 1: always another You took it, You took an extreme. I

586
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 1: did but so does she. But anyway, get four bags

587
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 1: and chips dollars. He could have walked it like tip

588
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: of non inflated life. Do you live in I just

589
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 1: went to the grocery store for the first time in

590
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 1: a long time. Chips are not four for one. I

591
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 1: don't know where them niggas them? Chips is hot? Do

592
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 1: you know? Fetter cheese is sixteen dollars and nigga? That

593
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 1: was that was at food Bizarre. I wasn't even fet

594
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 1: a cheese was sixteen dollars. I was like, let me

595
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 1: get some short rooms fifty eight dollars. I said, no,

596
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 1: it's staying in there. I also did not get the

597
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 1: sixteen dollars a cheese, the sixteen bro I went some

598
00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 1: foods five this one. Black people like to doller anyway, hope,

599
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: okay all the time. I know, but I don't even

600
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 1: feet a hole. But you eat cheese, but not fatter.

601
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: You just don't eat fetter, but you eat cheese. No,

602
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: I like to get a plate of it's called a shark. Oh,

603
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 1: she said, I like sharkucci sharkui Haitian nigger. I was corrected,

604
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 1: shark Wait, what is it? What is that? It was

605
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 1: so embarrassing again. I mean, I don't know how to

606
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 1: say it like that man the French new or the

607
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: creole which one? Because Haitian is not French, bitch, it's

608
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 1: a broken French. His is not anyway, He's a special

609
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: Haitian and it's beautiful and it is all right when

610
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: they be pulling that, I don't do that. Don't you

611
00:33:54,560 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 1: don't do that? Don't like you? Just we stop? Welcome

612
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 1: to stop? Can we start doing that? No? See that's

613
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:18,240
Speaker 1: your French person be like differently. Horror is our next segment.

614
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Speaker 1: Sex tip. It could be receiving giving something for women

615
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616
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Speaker 1: Louise a sex tip. I think the biggest thing that

617
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,240
Speaker 1: I've learned in my experience as as as an adult

618
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:36,359
Speaker 1: is listen, wenna that okay, okay, like an actual take

619
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Speaker 1: give me some freaking we like I love eating pussy

620
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 1: like a my things. Right here we go now joining

621
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Speaker 1: you like getting my finger just maybe like up to

622
00:34:52,120 --> 00:35:00,800
Speaker 1: the second digit inside uh and concentric circles also consensual

623
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 1: you're you think a lot of big words. Circles just

624
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:07,840
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625
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 1: you know, that's my favorite. Pressure pressure on the claturist

626
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:15,320
Speaker 1: itself on the and then you know you sound like

627
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 1: right there, But the thing is what I've noticed the

628
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: baseball turn that way and then start moving down like

629
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: right where the ass is at. But you're selling the

630
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:25,799
Speaker 1: pussy and putting pressure on that area. There's a bunch

631
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Speaker 1: of nerves there too. So as far as eat and pussy, like,

632
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 1: that's that's my ship. You I mean, I like to

633
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:34,600
Speaker 1: think of the beer. I can tell you who I know.

634
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 1: If you get this far in life and don't know

635
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 1: how to fuck or eat pussy or suck dick, then

636
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Speaker 1: it's not Yeah, definitely. Men have no idea that they

637
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 1: need to start with just a little bit and you

638
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 1: can maybe quick though it's like and I think they

639
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: just can't grasp that, like like you have to stop

640
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 1: thinking it's it's not. The pussy is very sensitive. There's

641
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 1: a lot of nerve endings. Just give a little and

642
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 1: we will get a lot and we will let you

643
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 1: know if we want more. Like I've had that been

644
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 1: really okay with it, and then suddenly I've pulled someone's

645
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 1: risk closer to me, Like let someone lead you more

646
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 1: than we push you away, because nothing is worse than

647
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: doing this when someone's eating your pussy. I get so

648
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:21,960
Speaker 1: embarrassed to do that because then I gotta explain how

649
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:28,879
Speaker 1: terb like like going to teach you. Yeah, mean, that's

650
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 1: that's what you're gonna get stuck with. I know it's

651
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 1: up to you, not in my pussy. Power, I'll take it.

652
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 1: I wanted to see a sub the power. Let's figuring

653
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 1: out you like to be a sub. Okay, I'm the

654
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 1: dumb over here, so you see it's a dynamic. This

655
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,879
Speaker 1: is how this is working. Sider line for this show.

656
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:57,440
Speaker 1: I own a sexpob basically, So how did you grow up?

657
00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: And what what did you think you were gonna do? Um?

658
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:07,360
Speaker 1: I wanted to be a teacher. Yeah, it's still I

659
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 1: mean I'm a musician. Um that as I do music fingers,

660
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:14,840
Speaker 1: that's not my focus right now. Look, I hate you

661
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:19,360
Speaker 1: edit too. Should we call you Carlos Santana? That's awful?

662
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 1: Was not ready actual? Now this has given whole nid.

663
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you same. Um. The question was what

664
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 1: did I think I'd be doing? Definitely not doing this,

665
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: But I am I am, I'm always been a community

666
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 1: building in a community organizer on whatever level, you know.

667
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 1: So that's that's always been my thing. Um, and I

668
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 1: happened to like fucking right, like I gotta thanks for it.

669
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 1: Tell me if you think this is dirty? Yes, yes, okay,

670
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. We had this conversation or if I

671
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 1: did another interview where somebody it was like a conversation

672
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 1: like I think it was me and you, and we

673
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 1: were talking about our parents, and I was like, I

674
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 1: think I've always been kind of sexual, but not in

675
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 1: this way of like my mom grew me up to

676
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 1: be a horn. We were talking about the hord baby.

677
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 1: I was like, oh I knew. I was like, you know,

678
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:22,840
Speaker 1: do you think you grew up like that? Like, do

679
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 1: you think you had it? You grew up to be

680
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 1: a horr Um? I think I I was a fun

681
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:34,240
Speaker 1: boy for a minute. You don't say what your tribal

682
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: tats and beard? But I got those after that? Well, no,

683
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:42,239
Speaker 1: it's happened. Did you have the kids and the tattoos?

684
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 1: It happened. Since I'll say this, um, and this is

685
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: directly related to the question. It took a lot of

686
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 1: women to raise me. It took my mom my, thea

687
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,320
Speaker 1: uh my daughter's mother influenced me a lot, you know,

688
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,279
Speaker 1: my son's mother and the woman I'm with right now

689
00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 1: to get where I'm at. So before or I was honestly,

690
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:06,439
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that I was, um a demisexual, which

691
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 1: is I like connections. So I was trying to fuck

692
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 1: and finding myself like this isn't cool, and then being

693
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:18,960
Speaker 1: in relationships and always I've only I've been in four relationships.

694
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:22,760
Speaker 1: What's the difference though, between a demisexual and a sapio sexual.

695
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: Sapio sexual is really just more the brain, like just

696
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 1: thinking about things, like talking like like Demi is actual.

697
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: Demi is a connection, like I want an emotional collect

698
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 1: connection with somebody you are. Demi is fun, That's all.

699
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure this out because it ain't really

700
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,800
Speaker 1: Stepio hurt. Yeah, I think it's not me, not like

701
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 1: it's hard I do, like don't you don't know? But

702
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 1: they loved me and giving Demi giving Demi. He loves me.

703
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,839
Speaker 1: He has a big bite, Oh my god. And maybe

704
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 1: I drop this gun off to this homeboy for him off.

705
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 1: Oh he picked it up. He said it's in there,

706
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 1: but hood because it's different. I can't explain this ship, bro.

707
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 1: I love hooding. You've been to jail? Me deal inid me?

708
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 1: Do you want to know something? Trolin not your person.

709
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:33,879
Speaker 1: I've been day and recently has a great job. Whatever.

710
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 1: Do you know? We connected and bonded one night drunk

711
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:38,920
Speaker 1: over how many times we've been to jail. I was like,

712
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 1: look at us, look at who would have thought? Oh

713
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 1: my god, like what about you? And he was like,

714
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: damn there that one. And I was like, oh, I

715
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 1: got me. Tell what you know been a jail what

716
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:55,360
Speaker 1: does it matter? You know? Damn that's a felon girl. No,

717
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,759
Speaker 1: he was like seven misdemeaners. I mean no, Like I

718
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 1: think that we can all eyes above it, and uh yeah,

719
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 1: that's great. I love that that we connected over jail

720
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 1: words and yo, I've been a lot of like four times. No,

721
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 1: way we're at that's nut. That's nut. That's nuts. So

722
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 1: technically you are a community builder and an education Like

723
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:29,600
Speaker 1: you're still kind of an education totally. That's kind of

724
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 1: the role that that I've been privileged to be allowed

725
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:35,799
Speaker 1: to do in the community. Okay, So it's like cool

726
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 1: if this is the role that that that I'm lucky

727
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 1: to be doing, and that's fine. I'm good with it

728
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 1: with your family raising you what what's the tea on

729
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: any of the family members that like anyone not sport?

730
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 1: My mom knows because my partner's older. Um, were you mad? No,

731
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 1: my mom is cool at fun. Man Like, she's cool

732
00:41:58,600 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 1: as fun. It's one of those things where it's like

733
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: she she she was just open enough with me growing up,

734
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:07,800
Speaker 1: Uh where she you know, she didn't hide things from me,

735
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 1: but she didn't bullshit me. My mom manby, but she

736
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 1: was seventeen. So it's one of those things where like

737
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 1: I was lucky that she was mature enough to handle

738
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:18,239
Speaker 1: a ship. But also you know, she was just open

739
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,759
Speaker 1: about things. I never felt like I couldn't go and

740
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 1: talk to her. Um, so I need to talk to

741
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: her about my swinger parties. Probably not, it's cool, but

742
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear like, oh you got it honest, Like,

743
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:30,320
Speaker 1: let's that's a lot, you know what I'm saying, and

744
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 1: and like Mama's boy last week. Yeah, but also it's

745
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:36,640
Speaker 1: funny that you say that too because with this with

746
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:39,919
Speaker 1: us having his podcast and he shares, No, it wasn't

747
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 1: he covered his dick, he covered it. It was just

748
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 1: his body. It was dick was not there. The dick

749
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 1: was not there. It was just like the p But

750
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, mamma, look where I'm sucking. But

751
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:56,399
Speaker 1: then show called me and try to talk about her

752
00:42:56,520 --> 00:43:00,120
Speaker 1: sexual experiences and get advice from me, and I'm like, well,

753
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:01,279
Speaker 1: my no, I have my pot. And she's like, but

754
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:02,960
Speaker 1: I'm really proud of you because I didn't have this

755
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 1: opportunity to be this open. She'll like, ask me about toys.

756
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 1: She'll be like, oh, girl, that rolls baby, and I'm like, Ma,

757
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: don't want to hear it. I'm not having that conversation

758
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 1: with my mom. But what okay, but what about as

759
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:23,319
Speaker 1: a man? Then? What about what the mail? The man

760
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:27,800
Speaker 1: in your life is a hardcore joble witness. Wait he

761
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 1: didn't raise me though, Okay, okay, okay. I remember one

762
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:33,320
Speaker 1: of the funniest moments of my life. My my, my

763
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 1: mom or not I opening. My mom was on the

764
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 1: phone with him and she started laughing and I heard

765
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: him screaming and she had the phone on him and

766
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 1: She's like hysterically laughing. Why was it He called her

767
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: a fornicating whore? You know, ye, But I'm the hor Wow,

768
00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:58,840
Speaker 1: you know that ain't good to know it's been this

769
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:03,759
Speaker 1: way for generations. So I'm like, I don't any any

770
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:06,239
Speaker 1: other family members. I don't need to talk too much

771
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,440
Speaker 1: people about it to too many people, uh in my

772
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 1: family about it. My my little brother knows, you know,

773
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 1: so if he wants to come to an event, you know,

774
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 1: I'll make sure I'm not there because I don't want to.

775
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 1: I was about to say, I'm not gonna lie. We've

776
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:20,760
Speaker 1: talked about um. There was a vanilla and a couple

777
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 1: probably last year now, where a father and son went

778
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:27,400
Speaker 1: to a sex party together, or was it a mother

779
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:29,839
Speaker 1: and daughter. I remember something like that. Have you had

780
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: any like crazy experiences where people ran into each other

781
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 1: and like I've had, I've seen a brother and sister

782
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:37,880
Speaker 1: but they weren't doing anything, and somebody was triggered by

783
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 1: the presence of a brother and sister they went together,

784
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 1: hold his pants down in front of his sister and said,

785
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 1: there you see his dick now, And she flipped. She flipped.

786
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 1: Seeing things like that or why we fucking curate because

787
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 1: you don't know, you don't know what. Then I was

788
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: right there, I was right there watching. I was like,

789
00:44:57,040 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 1: oh my god, that that ship. She really did that

790
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:04,439
Speaker 1: you know they went together. Yeah, but they were fully dressed.

791
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 1: They weren't doing anything. It was, but they like, why

792
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 1: go together? Why? Man? I don't. I don't mean I

793
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 1: do I judge. I don't. I don't think there's I judged. Like,

794
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:16,840
Speaker 1: you know, if you're going in there and its support

795
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:20,479
Speaker 1: system and you're not sucking each other, you know, like yeah,

796
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 1: I mean like, I think it comes down to your

797
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 1: perspective and what you're comfortable with what I'm saying now,

798
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 1: it's your space. Do you have hard limits for any

799
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: kinks that cannot happen like ship that involves like blood,

800
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:41,400
Speaker 1: unless it's specifically I just got lightheaded thinking about sucking

801
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 1: Orlando talking about that ship with a butterfly maybe like

802
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 1: czy Orlando. The last party I went to his spot,

803
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 1: Orlando was there in a whole fucking fishnet body suit.

804
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 1: I said, Orlando, why are you dressed like this? Like

805
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 1: because I'm bad, I'm a bad bitch or some ship,

806
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:06,160
Speaker 1: my god, but outside of blood, you're cool with any

807
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 1: other king happening ship. I mean stuff like that. No,

808
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 1: I don't want to yuck anyone's yums or someone likes

809
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 1: that cool not here they black? Oh you did. I

810
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 1: ask you, what has been the craziest thing you found

811
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 1: in cleaning your spot? Oh? I fuckings for sure? Tampon? No, No,

812
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:31,840
Speaker 1: that's not the look I mean. I grew up in

813
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 1: a household full of woman that wasn't crazy. My mom

814
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:36,880
Speaker 1: sent me to the store again time pans like that

815
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 1: ship when in the storm, thirteen years old, getting like

816
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 1: fucking assorted. Remember a little boy, but you do use them,

817
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 1: don't the big ones that they got him? Home? Boy?

818
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 1: They ship? So wait, I thought of tampon the what

819
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 1: else did you see? I my fit my hand, I

820
00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 1: was pulling the sheet back, and there was a used

821
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:04,479
Speaker 1: them okay, and it was very discolored. Oh, I didn't

822
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:08,959
Speaker 1: have no idea where it was at? What the shiver

823
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 1: like my split crawled in a wave up here toped

824
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,399
Speaker 1: my hand offs kind of shipped. I didn't know whose

825
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:15,840
Speaker 1: it was. It was the next day I was cleaning

826
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:17,440
Speaker 1: and it was a nuts ship in there too. It

827
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 1: was a look. I didn't inspect it. I saw, I

828
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:24,320
Speaker 1: saw quickly, but you know, and you gotta chill. I

829
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:27,480
Speaker 1: got a chill? How and why lay the way? Have

830
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:30,240
Speaker 1: you already pussy so hard that you forgot to breathe

831
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:33,920
Speaker 1: and then oh wow, wow, wow, wow wow you in here. Oh,

832
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna bring it up. That's happened with this man

833
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 1: right here, biggest Spanish all the year Apple Podcast said

834
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 1: this is the English. Yeah, man, that's like one of

835
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 1: my Mexican girl and you've re clueless. You know, I

836
00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:01,400
Speaker 1: don't speak Mexican. She you know what she does mean

837
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 1: when I get real, get real, she'd be like, bitch,

838
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 1: here you go with your chicken. Ship says that we

839
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 1: just go out with each other. She's black when we

840
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 1: all says, and we just be going on. But I

841
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:15,320
Speaker 1: love because like any when I got my grill, she

842
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 1: was like, there you go, that's the chicken right now.

843
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:22,279
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I've never I've gotten short of breath.

844
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:27,719
Speaker 1: All right, all right, it's really you're about to die.

845
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 1: He Almo died. So there's that. Well, we've got a

846
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 1: homemail and the reason I wanted you to join in

847
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,759
Speaker 1: lists because yes, we could give advice, but you may

848
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,879
Speaker 1: know what that man would want. So hey, ladies, Love

849
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 1: the Podcast, got a new partner and we have really

850
00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:45,239
Speaker 1: great sex. And today he texted me and said, make

851
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:47,839
Speaker 1: it exciting for me when I come back, please, don't

852
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:50,280
Speaker 1: judge me because I actually started freak out goods so insecure,

853
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, damn. On the camera he

854
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 1: said this pussy is so good, So I'm confused. Are

855
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 1: there any tips? Tad excitement? He's long distance things in

856
00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 1: advance does not mean your puss she isn't good to me.

857
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 1: I think it's just sexting and flirting and trying to

858
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 1: hype it up. I think you probably. I think she

859
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: should ask him what excites him? Why? Like why guests, like, Yo,

860
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 1: what do you want me to do? Because one thing

861
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 1: I have noticed is that, you know, relationships and conversations

862
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:22,400
Speaker 1: with other people, is that a lot of times us

863
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 1: fellas tend to get like repetitive with our ships. So

864
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, you want me to excite you, what

865
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 1: do you like? And are you willing to do the

866
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 1: same for me? It's a negotiation, right, like like like

867
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:37,360
Speaker 1: this is not just giving giving, giving, giving and not getting,

868
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:40,960
Speaker 1: So like, what do you like? I think there's a

869
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:43,720
Speaker 1: really easy answer, and I think people are so scared

870
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 1: to ask that, but it's kind of good to put

871
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:48,400
Speaker 1: the ball in their court. Um. I was going to

872
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 1: suggest the checklist when he wasn't watched Sex Cells. The

873
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 1: first episode, Um, it's all about uh sexual healing and ship.

874
00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: Long story short, I go hang out with Freddy Gibbs

875
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 1: and him and I talk about sex so much. We'll

876
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 1: be talking about like the different ship we do, the

877
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 1: ship we're scared of. So in the episode, we meet

878
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 1: with someone who does sex therapy, jet Setting Jasmine, and

879
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 1: we go through this b D s M checklist and

880
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 1: it was so fucking funny because we go through this

881
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 1: list and everything he said no to, no color, no this,

882
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:19,439
Speaker 1: no that, And literally after the episode he was like, Nick,

883
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 1: I gotta tell you about all the ship I just did.

884
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,840
Speaker 1: And there is a yes no maybe on the b

885
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 1: D s M checklist. You just gotta google it. It'll

886
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:28,480
Speaker 1: pop up. But we kind of don't know until we

887
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 1: go there, you know what I'm saying. And that's just

888
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:32,839
Speaker 1: like a really basic, kind of fun way to figure

889
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 1: out what that person is into. And it might seem

890
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,239
Speaker 1: like you're giving them homework, but it's so exciting to

891
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:40,759
Speaker 1: talk about in fun. And like even me on the list,

892
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 1: I said no to something that I did a week ago,

893
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So I think we just

894
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 1: don't know and Also a note could be you may

895
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 1: not feel like doing something with a certain individual that

896
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 1: you're open to do with someone else. But I think

897
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:55,920
Speaker 1: it's crazy that you say that. I'm sure you do

898
00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 1: a peggy. Well, I would think just then outside of

899
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 1: doing ing, outside of doing a checklist, or like asking well,

900
00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:06,719
Speaker 1: what what what makes you exciting? One of the things

901
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 1: that my partner used to do is Max when we

902
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 1: would be in bed, he would be like, play the

903
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:17,520
Speaker 1: porn that you like to watch, and he'd be like,

904
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 1: whatever it is that you like to watch, We're gonna

905
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:24,279
Speaker 1: have have our fun, but watch what you like to watch.

906
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 1: And I think that that's always something I said, maybe

907
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:30,400
Speaker 1: since season one of this show, and not really season

908
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 1: You're one, You're one of the show, is to see

909
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:38,200
Speaker 1: what the person likes to watch in their porns. Like,

910
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:41,959
Speaker 1: I think that that's very indicative of what someone's into.

911
00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:45,439
Speaker 1: To me that this is why I don't like straight porn?

912
00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:47,840
Speaker 1: Do I like dick a whole lot? But is that

913
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 1: why I watch gay porn? No? I like men being sensual,

914
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 1: I like men moaning. I like men that trim. I

915
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 1: don't want to Nigga fucking me and Tim. I don't

916
00:51:57,560 --> 00:51:59,919
Speaker 1: know if my phorn is my my point is gay

917
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:02,839
Speaker 1: gay porn because of what I visually like to see

918
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 1: and what I would like out of a partner, and

919
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 1: I don't think it's very present and a lot of

920
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:11,080
Speaker 1: straight porn, and I like big old black dick. I

921
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 1: just do baby see me all day. And I don't

922
00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:20,080
Speaker 1: like unattractive women. I'm very visual in that gape point

923
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 1: look good. I actually don't mind how the women look

924
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 1: more than I might when a wig is bad. It's

925
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:30,319
Speaker 1: all the wig because bid looking girl. And I'll find

926
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:32,719
Speaker 1: attractivity in it because there's something sexy about it. I like.

927
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:36,839
Speaker 1: I like shitty porn. You like wait wait wait oh yeah,

928
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:40,880
Speaker 1: am oh no, I need the Lighting movie right now

929
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 1: because at that point for me, amateur ship is like okay,

930
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:47,799
Speaker 1: I feel like it's I'm watching um valid. I like imperfections.

931
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Um off, dude, if you're

932
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 1: making me think of something. So on sex Cells, I

933
00:52:57,320 --> 00:53:00,640
Speaker 1: do episode about porn and we basically highlight a top

934
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 1: earner on Only Fans lending the plug and then Evil

935
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 1: Angel the studio, and it was so insane because they

936
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 1: both make crazy amounts of money. Let us specifically talks

937
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:12,759
Speaker 1: about how like she only uses an iPhone because people

938
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:14,840
Speaker 1: like amateur ship. Right, she'll do her makeup but not

939
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:17,279
Speaker 1: crazy and like maybe the camera will sunk up whatever

940
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 1: people are into that. And then with Evil Angel, the

941
00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 1: guy was saying to me, I was like, do you

942
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 1: feel competition from only fans? And he's like, no, like

943
00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 1: people are watching this porn for this reason, right, Like

944
00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:28,880
Speaker 1: the girl that was in there, it was just like

945
00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:31,359
Speaker 1: beautiful house, all white, you see the pool in the back,

946
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:36,239
Speaker 1: need mansion, but like I don't want to see. I

947
00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:38,360
Speaker 1: don't want to see. I don't want to see floral

948
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:40,920
Speaker 1: sheets and pillowcases the dope. Maybe I like that sometimes

949
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:44,839
Speaker 1: I like that ship, give me the fancy. Her house

950
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:50,359
Speaker 1: is limp, but like but they look on the floor. Look, yeah,

951
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't magic on the phone. I do

952
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 1: like a parking lot. But clearly because I had to

953
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 1: teach Friday experience, that's probably a thing. Now, I don't

954
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:02,879
Speaker 1: think I don't need his narrative important. I don't care,

955
00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:06,920
Speaker 1: not that I'll tell you watch part of the A

956
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:11,279
Speaker 1: one like it's training me. Like I drink off in

957
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:13,520
Speaker 1: the bath and I lived on myself. Now, y'all was

958
00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:17,839
Speaker 1: playing video games and made a bet, Oh yeah, they'd

959
00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:20,880
Speaker 1: be playing on basketball court lose, are gonna suck? Like

960
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 1: that's the type of ship that I like. I like

961
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 1: the narrative, like I love when I'm lost. No, no,

962
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:33,719
Speaker 1: even though they'll be they'll be sucking in the car

963
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:35,480
Speaker 1: and it's like this is what I did to my

964
00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 1: uber driver and now like I love, I love it.

965
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:42,800
Speaker 1: And then I started obsessing it is it real? Like

966
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:47,320
Speaker 1: I love, but I'd be like, oh every time like

967
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:49,760
Speaker 1: she scored to make a mistake, is it really a mistake?

968
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 1: Like I don't thinking too much, but actually I got

969
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 1: some really basic advice. You want spice stuff, but you

970
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:56,320
Speaker 1: don't want to do too much. All you gotta do

971
00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:58,239
Speaker 1: is go to sex store. You bout the fish net

972
00:54:58,280 --> 00:54:59,880
Speaker 1: body suit is like eighteen dollars and then they just

973
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:02,880
Speaker 1: ripping when they're sucking you, and it's fun, a vanilla

974
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:05,839
Speaker 1: of you that's just like but that's basic, but it's

975
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:08,120
Speaker 1: still fun because you're ripping, you're fucking, they're tearing it

976
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 1: up and there's a whole right for the pussy. Um,

977
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 1: how can people support you more than like even following,

978
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:15,439
Speaker 1: like what can they do to support your your brand

979
00:55:15,480 --> 00:55:19,439
Speaker 1: and up here party on Sundays, just Sunday's check this out.

980
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:23,800
Speaker 1: So it's Susia NYC. Info at Susia n y C.

981
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 1: S u C I a NYC. Um if interested in

982
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 1: our dance party, uh, email us via that and put

983
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:34,319
Speaker 1: Susia dance in the subject, let us know who you are. Um,

984
00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 1: same thing for play. Put Susie a play in the subject.

985
00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:39,759
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean you're gonna get in, and I don't

986
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:41,840
Speaker 1: want anyone to feel upset that they didn't get in.

987
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 1: It's usually because we cap at a certain number for

988
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:49,839
Speaker 1: both our parties. Um, we offer a premium experience. UM,

989
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 1: I just I just want to say, this is gonna

990
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:56,560
Speaker 1: come out super after. I'm really excited because I'm going

991
00:55:56,640 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 1: to experience my first of them party this weekend, madus

992
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 1: in my ID life time. So I am going. I'm

993
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:09,400
Speaker 1: excited because, Yeah, I like women. I know a lot

994
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:10,840
Speaker 1: of the women that are gonna come. A lot of

995
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:12,919
Speaker 1: the girls that I have brought are interested in coming.

996
00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:16,160
Speaker 1: Um and I've never been to an all them play party,

997
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 1: Like I gotta find somewhere to go. Basically, you'll be there.

998
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:25,879
Speaker 1: Get your grass out the speech. What do you say

999
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:29,960
Speaker 1: we don't play. We're gonna play your speech via FaceTime.

1000
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 1: You cannot be so funny. I'm excited. I mean, obviously

1001
00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 1: you still need a speech. I'm not saying it's but

1002
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 1: generally women are not always the craziest aggressor. And I'm

1003
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 1: saying with each other, no, No, I've found that women

1004
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 1: treat me a lot more kindly in my lifetime and

1005
00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 1: are a lot more cautious of making me feel and

1006
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:53,280
Speaker 1: anywhere sex clubs included, women have definitely paid more attention

1007
00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 1: to being consensual with me. The dudes. It's weird because

1008
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 1: we also talked about to me, no, especially having the podcast,

1009
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:04,479
Speaker 1: the meet and greet, it's been and I'll be honest

1010
00:57:04,520 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: with y'all right here to me and greet for this podcast. Specifically,

1011
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:13,440
Speaker 1: they grab our as our breasts like we've had and

1012
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 1: to me, women understandably so cool. We all love each

1013
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:20,840
Speaker 1: other as our bodies are, what our we vary, our

1014
00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 1: bodies are, we we we we we like. I want

1015
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 1: to say we respect each other's body, but in the

1016
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 1: way we put ourselves out there, I would say we've

1017
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:33,680
Speaker 1: been violated in our in our meet and greets and

1018
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 1: in public. To me, way more than personally. Thing that's

1019
00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 1: ever happened to me is someone not leaving when it

1020
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 1: has to leave. Actually, that wasn't here. I think also

1021
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 1: context is important, like if you're again, if you're in

1022
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:50,920
Speaker 1: a situation where there is a certain level of vulnerability

1023
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:53,040
Speaker 1: and people want to come and explore something new, is

1024
00:57:53,080 --> 00:57:57,040
Speaker 1: important to to really if you are able to define

1025
00:57:57,400 --> 00:58:00,720
Speaker 1: your boundaries and what enthusiastic consent is before they even

1026
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:02,680
Speaker 1: get to the space to get take their clothes off

1027
00:58:03,000 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 1: or meet and great or whatever, you're ready, you're setting

1028
00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 1: the tone. It's the onus. I feel there's always in

1029
00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:10,120
Speaker 1: the people doing the events to make sure that they

1030
00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:12,800
Speaker 1: have um I would I call it the buoyon. Have

1031
00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 1: your crew of people that you've been nurturing and you've

1032
00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: been rocking with, have them be there. So yeah, it's

1033
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 1: a ship, the ship ship all right? And the instagram

1034
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:33,680
Speaker 1: is what sousa nyc um. And one last thing I

1035
00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:39,440
Speaker 1: just want to say when you reach out to us, um, no,

1036
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 1: we don't need a picture. You don't. We don't need

1037
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 1: a picture. No I need a picture because you Yeah,

1038
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:50,160
Speaker 1: it's a nice space you've curated. Don't just be allowed

1039
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:55,160
Speaker 1: to anybody. No, we when people are when people are

1040
00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:57,400
Speaker 1: in their highest truest form and they're naked and they're

1041
00:58:57,400 --> 00:59:01,040
Speaker 1: feeling good, they're beautiful full. You've seen the crowd, I

1042
00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:03,000
Speaker 1: haven't seen it, and like, I haven't seen really seen

1043
00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 1: an ugly pussy. But I will say this, I've seen

1044
00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 1: an ugly face. I've seen I've seen when get a

1045
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:12,200
Speaker 1: chance person and you're like, yeah, you know what, I'm

1046
00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 1: stop talking niggas you see you because you like talking

1047
00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 1: to people. I told you when I going to be faces.

1048
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk, but yeah, I know. I

1049
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:22,200
Speaker 1: just want you to look good, give me a little.

1050
00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:24,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk, so I don't want you

1051
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 1: to become attractive to me. I want to look at

1052
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Speaker 1: you and be like, eat, I just want to say

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Speaker 1: something really quick. Uh, for any any if you're coming in,

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Speaker 1: and ladies too, if you're coming in as a couple, Um,

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Speaker 1: it's important for the fellows to understand that your girl

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Speaker 1: isn't there just for you. Boom, thank you, she's if

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Speaker 1: she's If she's lying and tells you that she just

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Speaker 1: wants to fun other women and watch you be pleased

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Speaker 1: you that's the first couple of times if a nig

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Speaker 1: came in and looked better than my nigga cool I

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Speaker 1: had an ex to just everybody wanted to climb. So

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Speaker 1: I'm like, why am I gonna step down when this

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Speaker 1: is the prize in the building that I think. I

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Speaker 1: think sometimes when you're just into someone, your brain is there,

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Speaker 1: and I think women just go there. But I agree

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Speaker 1: with you after having mad women come up to me

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Speaker 1: and be like, Yo, can you talk to my man

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Speaker 1: and let him know that I would like I would

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Speaker 1: like to engage. It's been like a couple of months

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Speaker 1: of me come to this party and all I've done

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Speaker 1: is eat pussy and suck his dick with like other girls,

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Speaker 1: and they want to be involved. So understand that don't

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Speaker 1: don't be selfish niggas, don't sing um and also especially

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Speaker 1: for men, besides hard dick and a smile, what do

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Speaker 1: you bring into our community? What makes you so dope

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Speaker 1: that we should embrace you and bring you in it?

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Speaker 1: It could be anything. It doesn't have to be like, Yo,

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Speaker 1: you know I'm a scholar now and I'm just a

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Speaker 1: cool motherfucker. Um. Yeah, I love that. Well, if you

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Speaker 1: out there again. Thank you guys so much for tuning in.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to another episode of our cinema. We have

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Speaker 1: been talking about Johnson's cabarets so much chat we weren't

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Speaker 1: able to do it on nothing else. I will tell

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Speaker 1: you guys this, even if you don't watch the show,

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Speaker 1: we promise we will make it relative, make it fun.

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Speaker 1: It's also such a hot mess that should probably seen

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Speaker 1: the show. This is just every ratchet show reincarnated that

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Speaker 1: you've ever watched on DV. I really like it. I

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01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:32,160
Speaker 1: really think that what Zeus is doing uh with their

1107
01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:38,440
Speaker 1: content is really really good. I'm watching um. Let me

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Speaker 1: give you a gauge from what I know from other people,

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01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:43,320
Speaker 1: so we could take maybe a guess of what we think.

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Speaker 1: Bad Girls Club Girls get anywhere from two to four

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Speaker 1: thousand an episode. Love and Hip Hop gasts three thousand

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Speaker 1: an episode for first timers, ten thousand for like that's

1113
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Speaker 1: all because I know people all love it hip guy

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Speaker 1: from talking about like for the first show, three thousand

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Speaker 1: for like a no name for first timers to ten thousand,

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Speaker 1: So you could try to get anywhere from one to

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Speaker 1: one fifty and the other thing with Love and Hip Hop,

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Speaker 1: though it's based on appearance, So sorry handing the line,

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Speaker 1: but I do know that Quimby was paying about five

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Speaker 1: thousand an episode for new shows, and Quippy had a

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Speaker 1: larger budgete than Zeus, but they didn't have anyone as

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Speaker 1: big as Joscelyn. Johncelyn's putting out and I'm shocked. I mean,

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Speaker 1: Quimby also went out in six months. They did, but

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Speaker 1: they had mad bread though. They were giving it all out.

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Speaker 1: That's why I'm like, they were spending it on production,

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Speaker 1: building studios, so they just used their money wrong. But

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Speaker 1: if these shows give it out that much, what do

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Speaker 1: you think Joscelyn is getting on a streaming platform not

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Speaker 1: TV or cable. I'm not gonna hold you. It depends

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Speaker 1: how good her attorney is. I know too many people

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Speaker 1: that have done TV who have been like, it's worth it,

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Speaker 1: And I've seen a lot of people who have done

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Speaker 1: TV and said, yeah, it ain't worth it because it's

1134
01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:12,200
Speaker 1: really they can guarantee exposure, so that's where they're like,

1135
01:04:12,440 --> 01:04:14,560
Speaker 1: you can go and get kill things and bookings. So

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't be watching these people. I

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Speaker 1: think that she definitely is a millionaire out of all

1138
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Speaker 1: of the ventures she has, but I don't know. I

1139
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 1: don't know watch the jobs you but I did do.

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01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:29,000
Speaker 1: We probably watched the Call Her daddy Ship. Whenever something

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Speaker 1: is going on or if anything, I always want to

1142
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Speaker 1: know what people in my lane are getting paid. That's important, bro,

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Speaker 1: for the job that I have. Now, I called three

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Speaker 1: people that worked at Audible. I called Charlotte, I main,

1145
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Speaker 1: I said, I know y'all don't get along nowaday' friends,

1146
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Speaker 1: but I said, I know y'all get alone, but I

1147
01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:45,880
Speaker 1: need to talk to the people that do my job

1148
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Speaker 1: on your side, like we I think getting undervalued and

1149
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Speaker 1: undersold is like something that is super important, and we've

1150
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Speaker 1: definitely been conscientious of that too. Like I'm really happy

1151
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Speaker 1: with what we got, you know, for a black Effect contract.

1152
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Speaker 1: But even now it's like, what if we grow crazy

1153
01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 1: then what? Like it's it's good to know your competition

1154
01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:07,280
Speaker 1: and um not that I will start a tripper show.

1155
01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:10,640
Speaker 1: But she's just so phenomenal that I am curious because

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Speaker 1: even when I watched season one, it wasn't given With

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Speaker 1: season two gay, it wasn't giving way that supposed to

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Speaker 1: gay naked. Season two was gorgeous, she was fine, the

1159
01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:24,400
Speaker 1: bitches was batter Like. That show is really impressive to

1160
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Speaker 1: the point where like, now that I'm done and waiting

1161
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:28,880
Speaker 1: for that next episode, now Zeus got me clicking on

1162
01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:32,600
Speaker 1: other ship them nig is smart, bro, real good didn't

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Speaker 1: be Samoneople on there too. Yeah, did you watch it

1164
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 1: for like the love of the Simone or something? I

1165
01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:40,760
Speaker 1: just got zeus. No, I didn't. I didn't watch your show.

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Speaker 1: T T got one to the dude from with the

1167
01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:49,680
Speaker 1: blue hair. I wish I could. He's not trance, he'd

1168
01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:52,760
Speaker 1: just be putting a wig on up good. I got

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01:05:52,840 --> 01:05:56,200
Speaker 1: everybody I gotta show on that motherfuck anyway. Out of

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Speaker 1: all the women or men that have futured, you've got

1171
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:02,040
Speaker 1: her husband and a therapist. Who would you want to

1172
01:06:02,200 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 1: fuck from Jocelyn's caberet? Uh, it's damn? What's her name?

1173
01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:11,760
Speaker 1: How long? I got the one she has the short hair,

1174
01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 1: like short red hair. LEXI blow yes, so the one

1175
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Speaker 1: that Johnson was like so Lexi Lexie and Miss Natural.

1176
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:26,560
Speaker 1: Those are my two favorite ms. Natural. Maybe she's just

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Speaker 1: turned me off somebody because she'll be here going nuts.

1178
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Speaker 1: I like her so I like Miss Natural and I

1179
01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:34,960
Speaker 1: like Lexi those ms LEXI blow LEXI blows hot. But

1180
01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:37,840
Speaker 1: that's the lightest I've ever seen you. Um find somebody attractive?

1181
01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:43,120
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy about you saying that my my

1182
01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:47,800
Speaker 1: ex is the same way? Now, Like we'll go to

1183
01:06:47,960 --> 01:06:52,920
Speaker 1: a club and uh, he'll like already know. And he

1184
01:06:53,080 --> 01:06:55,440
Speaker 1: says that he's like, you don't like light skinned girls,

1185
01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:56,480
Speaker 1: like you don't like