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Speaker 1: to another episode of poor Minds, where a drunk mind

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Speaker 1: speaks sober thoughts. You know a song I've had stuck

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Speaker 1: saw it. I told the cop you was and had

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Speaker 1: a night messing around with me. Get you. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. I was listening to that song the

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Speaker 1: other day. I was on YouTube and he came up

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Speaker 1: on shipful nine one on Mary Deol needed to be done.

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Speaker 1: That mind just got shut down, a doubullet in my hall.

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Speaker 1: Why Mary did her? She did when he to be

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Speaker 1: now walk Clan.

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Speaker 2: It was a little shaky, exactly, his vocals was a

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Speaker 2: little shakey. Did not do my brother.

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Speaker 1: He could have died a little better. You know, I need,

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Speaker 1: That was a good song man. That, like Mary is

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Speaker 1: the reason sung and she it was that exactly. Give

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Speaker 1: my brother his thing but it wasn't the vocals. No,

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Speaker 1: quick update. What's been going on this week for you? Now,

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Speaker 1: I always gotta go first. I don't know me put

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Speaker 1: nothing's new. I still ain't shit. I still don't have

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Speaker 1: Me and Football Bay are good. That's my nigga, that's

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Speaker 1: my dog. I don't know. It's a weird situation, like

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Speaker 1: I said, because that's my homie. It's weird because that's

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Speaker 1: I mean, damn, yeah, y'a don't know. I'm very inqueasy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's curve. You got a curved little digg. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's not like that big deal. It ain't that big drip.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, but besides a car, yeah, we

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Speaker 1: you know, he always good with me. So yeah, but

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Speaker 1: Somebody had me fucking crying on Twitter. People be always

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Speaker 1: tweeting me because they be like, Bro, Dramy had to

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Speaker 1: don't hear l sing every day, brom getting y'all. I'm

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Speaker 1: just letting y'all know this is a single episode, and

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Speaker 1: y'all get these vocus today period. So yeah, I'll be

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Speaker 1: in Houston one night, Saturday night. I'm going on vacation

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Speaker 1: next week, but next weekend I will be in DC

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Speaker 1: with Mandy. I'm not doing ship. I'm just gonna be

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Speaker 1: I'm not a jealous person. So like if you're doing,

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Speaker 1: that same energy, you know what I'm saying. Like, if

421
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Speaker 1: I'm doing the podcast, if I take shoot on times

422
00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:35,600
Speaker 1: and you are with welling, then I'm about to go

423
00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:37,080
Speaker 1: off on your It'm about to be like da shall

424
00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:38,720
Speaker 1: know you've seen me with the PIP. I'm fucking dead.

425
00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:41,000
Speaker 1: I'm playing. Ain't gonna call you. But I mean people

426
00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:43,160
Speaker 1: be busy, so I understand that. So it's like I've been.

427
00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:44,879
Speaker 1: You know, there's been times where I was recording the

428
00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:47,760
Speaker 1: podcast or I'm doing something and I don't have my

429
00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:49,119
Speaker 1: phone on me. Then I come back and I have

430
00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:51,960
Speaker 1: like three, like a miscall and a few text messages.

431
00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,800
Speaker 1: I don't mind that, that's cool. I'm not looking at

432
00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:58,120
Speaker 1: them like oh, this nigga crazy, especially right, especially if

433
00:20:58,160 --> 00:21:00,680
Speaker 1: I like you. So, I hate the fact that people

434
00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:02,760
Speaker 1: just have too much pride and they're like, so that's

435
00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,560
Speaker 1: what playing games is to me, and I'm not playing

436
00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:07,640
Speaker 1: those games. If I want to talk to you, if

437
00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:09,720
Speaker 1: I want to see you, I'm gonna let it be known.

438
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:11,680
Speaker 1: Like if I don't care if I hung out with

439
00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:13,240
Speaker 1: you three days in a row, if it's day number

440
00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:15,040
Speaker 1: four and I'm like, hey, what are you doing tonight,

441
00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:16,640
Speaker 1: I kind of want to see you again, I'm going

442
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 1: to say that. You know what I mean, I feel

443
00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:23,120
Speaker 1: like it's okay. You need to be open and honies

444
00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:26,800
Speaker 1: dealing with somebody. When y'all are dating, you know, you

445
00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 1: have to establish good communication with people, because that's the

446
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,160
Speaker 1: number one reason why situations don't be working out. It's

447
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,720
Speaker 1: because y'all be lacking communicating. Y'all be like and people

448
00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:37,440
Speaker 1: be trying to be too cool and they don't want

449
00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:39,879
Speaker 1: to seem like this. Then just be yourself, and that's

450
00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 1: why people fuck up in relationship. Just be yourself. Why

451
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:44,879
Speaker 1: do you want somebody to fuck with? Like? You know

452
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:46,960
Speaker 1: how when you go into a job interview, right and

453
00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 1: you put on your best little face, of course, and

454
00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:50,239
Speaker 1: then you get to your job and you get more

455
00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:52,959
Speaker 1: comfortable whatever. That's just how. But you can't do that

456
00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:56,440
Speaker 1: in relationships because the person the person going the person

457
00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:58,720
Speaker 1: they thought you would, Well you're not. So you might

458
00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:00,840
Speaker 1: as well just go into the city situation being you

459
00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 1: stop lying. Like I was on the phone with football

460
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:05,159
Speaker 1: Baby the other night and he was like, do you

461
00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 1: be cooking? I said, honestly, no, I don't. I said.

462
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:11,160
Speaker 1: When I do cook, I cook healthy shit now because

463
00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 1: when I used to be cooking all the time, all

464
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,600
Speaker 1: I cook was bad shit. So I'm trying. I broke

465
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:17,960
Speaker 1: that habit of cooking. Bashit and I was like, but

466
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I was like, I don't be

467
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,400
Speaker 1: in the kitchen throwing down, like I'm not, no fucking

468
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,320
Speaker 1: Martha Stewart. I can't cook like my grandma, but I

469
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:26,920
Speaker 1: can do a little shop shop. He was like, Damn,

470
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,040
Speaker 1: that's real. He was like, cause every time you ask

471
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:31,560
Speaker 1: the bitch and she can cook, they'd be like, yeah,

472
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:35,320
Speaker 1: I'll be cooking mac and cheese, Damn fried chicken, turkey.

473
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:37,119
Speaker 1: He was like, and all them hoes be knowing how

474
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 1: to make his day fucking shrimp and that's exactly what

475
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:43,400
Speaker 1: and that's exactly what he says. Like, Man, I'll tell

476
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 1: you hoes be like they can cook and they just

477
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:46,920
Speaker 1: be whipping up Outfreda. Oh. He was like, so that's

478
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:48,719
Speaker 1: every bitch think they can cook because they know how

479
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,120
Speaker 1: to make it. Bro everybody can make some fucking Alfreda.

480
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 1: But it's like, I'm not gonna lie because guess what

481
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:54,359
Speaker 1: if that nigga come to my house and be like,

482
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 1: let's cook. Okay, nigga gonna get this Sam and Brock

483
00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:59,359
Speaker 1: whole stories all the time on Easter gram Me and

484
00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 1: bout his friend Dans and we stay seeing each other

485
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 1: people's story. Yes, because Holls really and not trying to

486
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 1: be funny or nothing. Because if a nigga asks me

487
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:09,720
Speaker 1: do I cook, I'm gonna kick you one hundred too.

488
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:12,119
Speaker 1: I can cook like and I would let a nigga know, like,

489
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 1: I can absolutely throw down. I could cook, but I

490
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 1: don't like to, so I don't cook. I don't like

491
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,639
Speaker 1: cooking either, so you know I don't cook often. But

492
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 1: if I really start fucking with you and we really

493
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 1: fucking with each other, I will cook for you. You

494
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I'm not capping I can't cook,

495
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:28,359
Speaker 1: but no, I don't like to. So it'd be funny

496
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,639
Speaker 1: to me because I always be seeing halls stories on

497
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,119
Speaker 1: Instagram and bitches always posting their plates when they be

498
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:39,399
Speaker 1: looking weak. It's fun pork chops. I seen somebody make

499
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:42,160
Speaker 1: some smother chicken the other day. The chicken was still

500
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 1: pink looking. Then I used cream and mushroom. Who used

501
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: cream and mushroom for smothered chicken? Not because I was

502
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:52,359
Speaker 1: raised in the South and like my mama used to

503
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:56,880
Speaker 1: make the gravy from scrab with flowers. But I don't

504
00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:59,159
Speaker 1: know but what I'm like. But that's that's just an

505
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 1: example though, Like people stop they love to I'm not

506
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:05,760
Speaker 1: capping with shit because I don't make mac and cheese.

507
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 1: Then put like the craft in the I'm the craft.

508
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 1: Now I eat from Belvita. Now I ain't saying you

509
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 1: wouldn't eat it, but I wouldn't go around saying I

510
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 1: know how to make powder with the powdered lord. But

511
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: that's what I was saying. Like one thing about me

512
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:23,919
Speaker 1: that I definitely do not do because I have a

513
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 1: I'm a lot my personality. I'm just a lot. I'm loud.

514
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,919
Speaker 1: I like to drink. I'm a big bitch. I'm a

515
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 1: lot to handle. So why am I going to pretend

516
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 1: that I'm quiet and I'm missing? I'm mad? And then

517
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 1: you like, damn, because some people might like quiet women.

518
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,199
Speaker 1: A lot of niggas like quiet women. Why would I

519
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 1: pretend to be quiet just for you to like me?

520
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:44,199
Speaker 1: Then you really get to know me and figure out,

521
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 1: Oh damn? Do you really feel like niggas like quiet

522
00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 1: some nigga? Yes, because some men are quiet themselves and

523
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:52,640
Speaker 1: they like quiet women. Yes, absolutely, because I would say

524
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 1: my sister is a quiet person. Really, yeah, she's like shaw,

525
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:59,320
Speaker 1: She's very like my sister is not loud, like she

526
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,679
Speaker 1: likes to drenk and she you know, she's smart and

527
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:04,680
Speaker 1: she talks, but like out in public, like she's just quiet.

528
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 1: She's just very well reserved woman. Me I'm not like

529
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So yeah, niggas absolutely like

530
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 1: quiet women and reserved women. Some niggas just like bitches

531
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:16,439
Speaker 1: that turned up and get lit and are fun. You know,

532
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:18,920
Speaker 1: I'm not saying my sister's not fun. She's definitely fun.

533
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 1: She's just a reserved woman, you know what I'm saying.

534
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,880
Speaker 1: And yes, men do like that. So I'm not gonna

535
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,359
Speaker 1: pretend that I'm this woman and then you fall in

536
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 1: love with me, and then are you start to like me?

537
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,919
Speaker 1: And then the real lets comes out you like, damn

538
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 1: these beachamers. This is bitch ain't quiet, you know what

539
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like, so it's just like it's always just

540
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 1: best to just put who you really are for a

541
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 1: stop lying. If a nigga like a bitch that can cook,

542
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,360
Speaker 1: that's cool. I'm just letting you know that's not me. Ya.

543
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:45,360
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I ain't about to cook

544
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:47,360
Speaker 1: for you every day. Me and my mama had this conversation.

545
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,479
Speaker 1: We was s having this conversation the other day. She

546
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 1: was telling me how one of my uncles, when him

547
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 1: and my aunt got married, he told her she didn't

548
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 1: have to cook every day, so like they be going

549
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 1: out to eat and stuff all the time. And then

550
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,879
Speaker 1: it's this lady that works at the facility that my

551
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 1: dad stays it, and she was saying how her husband

552
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: expects her to come home and cook every night. And

553
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 1: I was like telling my mom, I was like, that's

554
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 1: some crazy ass shit, because any nigga that I marry,

555
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 1: he's gonna have to understand I'm not fucking cooking for

556
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 1: you every night. Like that's absolutely ridiculous. That is ridiculous.

557
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,400
Speaker 1: It's absolutely ridiculous. And I don't even plan on Mary.

558
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,399
Speaker 1: I definitely plan on marrying somebody who is, like, you know,

559
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 1: successful and will off and all that type of stuff.

560
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 1: So I couldn't even imagine if I married a regular,

561
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,880
Speaker 1: average Joe and y'all bow that nine to five jobs

562
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: and then we got kids, and you expect me to

563
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: get off work, go pick up the kids, come home

564
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 1: and cook every night. That's insane to me. I feel like,

565
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 1: if you want your woman to cook every day, you

566
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,880
Speaker 1: need to make sure she doesn't have to work, saying

567
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 1: I don't have shit to do all day but take

568
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 1: care of the kids and take care of the home.

569
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 1: Ain't no reason why you shouldn't get to have dinner

570
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 1: ready every day. Ain't no problem, right, That ain't no

571
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:56,960
Speaker 1: problem If I ain't gotta work, bitch, bitch, I'm gonna

572
00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: have this grilled cheese, HoTT and ready for youall. Not

573
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 1: the grilled cheese, you know what I'm saying. But Yeah,

574
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:04,400
Speaker 1: it's just I just think that that's crazy. A lot

575
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:08,120
Speaker 1: of men just be having some and really seek expectations.

576
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 1: But women also let their sheet slide. So that's a

577
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: whole and that's what I say. I feel like on

578
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 1: both ends, a lot of men and women we present

579
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 1: ourselves like who we aren't. Yahause she was complaining about

580
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 1: the sheet to my mama, but probably when she got

581
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 1: married today because she was like, oh, yeah, I love it,

582
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 1: because but now you at the hospital complaining for your

583
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:36,919
Speaker 1: man every day. Yeah, I'm definitely not presenting nothing. So

584
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 1: let us know how y'all feel. Well. Off topic, we

585
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:43,880
Speaker 1: talk about about three So the next topic I want

586
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 1: to talk about is when you're dating somebody and you're

587
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:51,120
Speaker 1: in a relationship, whether maybe you're dating somebody, I'll say

588
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 1: at the three month mark. I always like to use

589
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 1: a three month mark because no matter if y'all are

590
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 1: exclusives or y'all are just you know, casually dating, the

591
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,160
Speaker 1: feelings are there. So we'll say you're at the three

592
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 1: month mark, or you're in a relationship with somebody and

593
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,360
Speaker 1: they just have a lot of baggage, you know, as

594
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 1: far as past relationships, or they're going through some things

595
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 1: mentally and they just need help and they need somebody

596
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 1: to talk to, and they need somebody to vent to.

597
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 1: So how do you feel about dating people with baggage?

598
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 1: Because I don't know. I'm a kind of person where

599
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 1: I'm at my life, I've been through a lot mentally,

600
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 1: I would say, I mean, I'm not gonna lie. I

601
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:27,679
Speaker 1: haven't gone through a lot in my life as far

602
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:31,120
Speaker 1: as like struggle or financial things like that. Like I've

603
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 1: always had a roof over my head, you know what

604
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 1: I mean. Like I've always just been good. But you know,

605
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: we all struggle with our own demons every now and then,

606
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 1: you know, mentally. But when I go through those things,

607
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 1: I'm a type of person where I can handle that myself.

608
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 1: You know, I'll pray about it or I'll like talk

609
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 1: to my mom about it. I never bring that into

610
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 1: a relationship or a situation, you know what I mean. Right,

611
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: So I feel personally, I don't wanna date somebody that

612
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 1: always has shit going on. Relationships to me are supposed

613
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 1: to be fun. I I wanna date somebody that I

614
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 1: feel like always got shit going on. But however, I

615
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 1: feel like everybody has a certain amount of begbies. I

616
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 1: don't feel like he's a nobody. Yeah, nobody is perfect

617
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: and now, I feel like nobody is perfect, but bitch,

618
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: I like to get lead and I like to have fun,

619
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 1: and I'm a fun I like to turn up, especially

620
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 1: with my niggas, you know what I'm saying. So I

621
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 1: feel like, I mean, of course we're gonna have deep

622
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:26,479
Speaker 1: combos and we're gonna have intellectual conversations, but it's like

623
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: we're supposed to be enjoying each other. Why are you

624
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 1: always mad because I dated somebody who was always to

625
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: date somebody who always That's what I'm saying. Always it's

626
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 1: always an issue. It's always something with your baby mama,

627
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: or it's always something that I did, or it's always

628
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 1: something that's emotionally you dealing with with your job. It's

629
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 1: always something that you're pulling through. I'm sorry, what a

630
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: niggas that want to have fun at? What a niggas

631
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: that's want to turn up back? Because that's the nigga

632
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 1: I want to fuck? Yeah, Like I'm just at this

633
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 1: point in my life, I feel like people need to

634
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 1: get back to enjoying relationships. Like every time I see

635
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 1: things on Twitter, people are always like, I'm gonna help

636
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 1: my man whenever he's down, I'm gonna pick him up.

637
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna hold him down. If he's crying, I'm his

638
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 1: shoulder to lean on, which is cool. It ain't nothing

639
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: wrong with that, but damn, where's the fun at the

640
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 1: remind me of this this meme I scene like two

641
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 1: weeks ago that his said, of all the things you

642
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 1: can grow, you bitches always wanna grow, help a man grow, grow,

643
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: a plan, do something, grow something else? Well, seriously, where

644
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 1: I always but it's always women. It's always women doing

645
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 1: this though. It's always the women being like, oh, I'm

646
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 1: gonna be That's what I'm saying, you to come fully

647
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 1: fully ready, That's what I'm saying, like they always want

648
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: to be somebody rocking and saying where's the fun? Bitch?

649
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 1: Where's the bottles? Where's the vacation? I'm trying to fuck,

650
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 1: don't do some karaoke? Come home? You know what I'm saying, Like,

651
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 1: where is the fun? Why aren't relationships fun anymore? Because

652
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: everybody talks. Okay, don't get me wrong, relationships aren't easy.

653
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: I know that firsthand. But to me, I feel like

654
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 1: everybody just wants to talk about the struggle and relationships,

655
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 1: Like why can't relationships be viewed as fun? Anymore. Like, honestly,

656
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: I do feel like relationships are fun, but I also

657
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 1: think that he's very realistic and logical to also look

658
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 1: at she for what it is and relationships don't always

659
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 1: be peachy Like in the beginning, yeah, she'd be fun,

660
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna lie to cool. I feel like

661
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 1: that's that's my personal opinion. I feel like if in

662
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 1: the beginning of a relationship, if you having issues with

663
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 1: somebody and y'all not getting along, then you really need

664
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 1: to let this sheet. But I'm gonna go lie. I

665
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 1: was with somebody for three years and our relationship was

666
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: lit the whole time. I can count on my hands

667
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 1: the times that we argue. We broke up because he

668
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 1: went back to school, so he moved back to Austin

669
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 1: and I was still in Houston and we couldn't handle

670
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 1: the distance. So and we just never got back. Right.

671
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 1: But not even arguing, I'm just saying, like, relationships have issues.

672
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 1: I mean, we had issues, but I'm telling you relationships

673
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: can be lent and can be fun if y'all just

674
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 1: if y'all want that, Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Like,

675
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 1: I feel like people argue about things that don't need

676
00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 1: people be nitpicking dog like, I'm not about to. I'm

677
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 1: telling you, bro, there's a lot of things that aren't

678
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 1: deal breakers for me that are for the average women.

679
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 1: But that's okay because we're not. But I'm saying I

680
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 1: see a lot of times women and men tripping over shit.

681
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 1: Why are you mad about this? Because I mean, I

682
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: have my friends be like, girl, let me tell you

683
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 1: what this dude did to me, and blah blah. I'm

684
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 1: looking like, bitch, that's really not that serious, Like why

685
00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 1: is you tripping over this? Like girls be dead ass

686
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: getting mad at over the and niggas too be getting

687
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 1: mad because they see the girl laughing at another nigga

688
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 1: on Twitter or some shit, or they'll see they nigga

689
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 1: like a picture, What are you? What do you do? Like,

690
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 1: y'all are you over the stupidest. I don't give a

691
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: fuck what my nigga like, and I don't give a

692
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 1: fuck with my nigga around. I don't give a fuck

693
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 1: about none of that shit because as long ignorance is bliss,

694
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: bitch ignorance, I don't know, looking more miserable, you got more, miss,

695
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 1: So just enjoy shit for what it is. People are

696
00:32:57,920 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 1: gonna do what the fuck they want to do. I

697
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 1: don't want to know about all that extra shit. Let's

698
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: just enjoy each other while we're here. And that's what

699
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Life is too short to always be mad

700
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 1: at something. You gotta stop letting things control your happiness.

701
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 1: I control my happiness. Yeah. The only person who can

702
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 1: make me upset is myself. Yeah, you see what I'm saying.

703
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 1: When you let other people control whether you're happy or sad,

704
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 1: that's when shit get real fucking ugly and real annoying facts.

705
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: It's true, you don't want nobody to be able to

706
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: control your happy. Yeah. So I just feel like I

707
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 1: don't know, like I think I would want to be

708
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: like right now, I wouldn't mind being a relationship. You know,

709
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 1: I've said this before, but I don't know. I just

710
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 1: can't find something that I don't know that's just always

711
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: one hundred percent enjoy, not one hundred percent. I'll say

712
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 1: ninety percent. But I think that just goes back to

713
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: what we always say too about well. I mean, and

714
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 1: I know me personally my views on marriage and just

715
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 1: being married. That's why I don't really necessarily know if

716
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 1: I want to be married because I don't know why.

717
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,959
Speaker 1: I just feel like relationships be some boolish pepy in

718
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: the beginning, but then with and so I just feel

719
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 1: like it would for me, it would be the same

720
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 1: thing with marriage, Like, Okay, it was cool. I'm not

721
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 1: trying to be funny. You know, that's why people get divorced. No,

722
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 1: not no, But you know Seandra Wilson, the lady that

723
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: plays Bailey on Grey's Anatomy, she's been with her boyfriend

724
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 1: for thirty one years. I think they said they never

725
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 1: got married, never got married. They have three kids together.

726
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 1: You know, I didn't look it up, but I feel

727
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,400
Speaker 1: like there's a lot of people like that, just because

728
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 1: it's like, have you ever been like talking to somebody?

729
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 1: Then y'all got that title and things just got different,

730
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,800
Speaker 1: like they felt more possessive, and then you started feeling

731
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 1: more possessive than y'all started arguing more. I feel like

732
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:40,839
Speaker 1: that's what it kind of made. Marriage does too, Like

733
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 1: things change when people get married. So I feel like

734
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 1: that's why a lot of people just stay in their

735
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 1: relationship like me, and like I had a situation like

736
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,919
Speaker 1: with a guy that we never got in a serious relationship,

737
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 1: but we were talking for a long time, but we

738
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:56,840
Speaker 1: always say, oh, that's my ex, you know. But we

739
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,760
Speaker 1: never had that official title. But that's what worked for us,

740
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:01,840
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. It literally just worked for

741
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 1: us and we It was cool while it lasted. But

742
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 1: it's like something about that title sometimes just messes things up.

743
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 1: I absolutely feel that way. I mean, and like I said, okay, y'all, sorry,

744
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:16,359
Speaker 1: the neighbors are fusing and the mic is on the wall.

745
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 1: Let me move it. Nasty, nasty motherfucker he beating in.

746
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 1: You don't sound like it. I don't hear, no money,

747
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 1: I don't hear Okay, But yeah, I definitely feel like

748
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,880
Speaker 1: that's what marriage is in my personal opinion. That's why

749
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 1: I'm not super geeks about getting married. Press. If I

750
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 1: could find me somebody that I really like and I

751
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:45,320
Speaker 1: enjoy spending time with you, and I feel like we

752
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 1: have a great relationship, we can really be in a

753
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: relationship forever honestly without being married. I'm okay, But I

754
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 1: know some people may be wanting to get especially a

755
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:56,839
Speaker 1: lot of women may be wanting to get married because

756
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 1: they be feeling like, oh, I'm getting married because at

757
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 1: the end the day, these bitches need to know that

758
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 1: this nigga belongs to me and he's mine, and that's

759
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 1: the thing, like you said, just the possessiveness of it all.

760
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 1: And then also some people be wanting to get married

761
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 1: because they feel like, well, if he cheat on me,

762
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:13,879
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take his ass and everything then he got

763
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 1: and all that type of shit. But I don't know,

764
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 1: I mean, but I mean, for some people still view married,

765
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: that's a beautiful thing and they just want to you know.

766
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:22,839
Speaker 1: So for the people like that, I'm not counting them

767
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 1: in this conversation. I'm talking about the people who, like

768
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 1: you said, the people that you just name, like they're

769
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,879
Speaker 1: just trying to prove people do view do still view

770
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:33,879
Speaker 1: married like it's supposed to be. So for those people, yeah,

771
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,399
Speaker 1: get married. But for the people who just you trying

772
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:38,320
Speaker 1: to show somebody like, oh, yeah, are you feel like

773
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:39,800
Speaker 1: this is what I'm supposed to be doing or this

774
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 1: is what I have to do, or oh, I'm just

775
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,800
Speaker 1: trying to show you bitches that he belongs to me,

776
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,320
Speaker 1: Like I got the ring. You know, they love to

777
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:48,359
Speaker 1: throw the ring out there like it means some job.

778
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be shaded because you know, we had

779
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:58,399
Speaker 1: a case like to throw that ring like it means

780
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 1: something now, you know. So I feel like when you

781
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 1: go into a situation with the wrong thing, with the

782
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:12,439
Speaker 1: wrong goals, like you know, like it's not your heart

783
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 1: is not in it for the right reasons, Karma is

784
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 1: a bitch and it's gonna show you every time. So yeah,

785
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 1: a word. Look, we got distracted because it was supposed

786
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 1: to be about dating people with baggage. But yeah, how

787
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 1: I feel is relationships should be fun. So if you

788
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 1: have a lot of baggage or you're kind of like

789
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 1: dealing with a lot of demons, please don't talk to

790
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 1: me because I like to go get drunk and I

791
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 1: like to have fun. I'm a fun girl. I'm the

792
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,840
Speaker 1: happiest I've been in a long time right now. I

793
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 1: don't mean nobody disturbing that shit. I agree, it took

794
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 1: me a long time to get here, nigga like relax.

795
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 1: I agree. I definitely feel like relationships starts supposed to

796
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,320
Speaker 1: be fun. But I've always been a person who says, like,

797
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: in the beginning of a situation, if you have more

798
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 1: problems and issues and you having fun with a person,

799
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: you need to cut that shit all yeah, y'all, they

800
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 1: have no feelings for each other like that. Yeah, you

801
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 1: just trying to force it because you really want to

802
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 1: like these persons. But I ain't like you know what

803
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:05,360
Speaker 1: I mean, y'all don't have no concrete real feelings. And

804
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:09,240
Speaker 1: with me that I've learned, I'm okay with being alone

805
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:10,879
Speaker 1: because I'd rather be alone to be with a half

806
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,720
Speaker 1: ass nigga or somebody. I'm always being okay with being alone.

807
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: I have no problem like I'm gonna be by myself

808
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 1: before I'm with somebody that I argue with all his facts.

809
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 1: Like I will sleep. I sleep so good at Nidrea

810
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:23,839
Speaker 1: because I'm not worried about what none of my nigga's doing.

811
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:26,320
Speaker 1: I'm not worried about nothing, who they talking to nothing.

812
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:29,880
Speaker 1: I have not remember the last time I lost sleepover

813
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:32,439
Speaker 1: a nigga where I cried. I've cried myself to sleep

814
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 1: before a man before, but it's been sing y'all had

815
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 1: But it's been so long since I've done that, and

816
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 1: I just thank God. I'm woking up and I'm there.

817
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:49,359
Speaker 1: I'm don't live, don't live delive a boy video? Yes

818
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:54,400
Speaker 1: I did, I'm stick to your egg. Enough is enough Okay,

819
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:56,399
Speaker 1: so let us know how y'all feel about dating people

820
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: with baggage if you're in your happy place. The next time,

821
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,360
Speaker 1: I think it's not necessary relationship topic. I want to

822
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:12,880
Speaker 1: talk about bartending. Who look you care looking up on me?

823
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: You know I'm not trying to sound I'm trying to

824
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 1: sound like lex Pain. What what do you think the

825
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 1: piece stuff for the lex is lex Pain? Nigga? The

826
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 1: fuck I can make you in up gabing. That is

827
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,799
Speaker 1: not Bartend. I'm showing you why they call me lex Pain. Bro.

828
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 1: They don't call y literally bro. The same people that

829
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:39,279
Speaker 1: call L big l is the same people that call

830
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 1: me nobody exactly. That's the point that I make because

831
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 1: literally nobody calls him yes, yes, you don't call it,

832
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 1: yes I do. Why do you think he said that

833
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 1: he was talking about me? You was like five, and

834
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:59,320
Speaker 1: I was like L. I was like, mom, playing that

835
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:03,360
Speaker 1: sound about big? You fucking lie? I did I know

836
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: You're lying? Bro? You are a fiver anyways, like the

837
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 1: barer anyway. So we're gonna be talking about bartenders because

838
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 1: I think we both heard a lot of people always

839
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 1: be just having negative things about women in the club.

840
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:29,280
Speaker 1: Barteend and making their money how they make it. People.

841
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 1: Do you have people who have this stigma against bartending

842
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 1: and they feel like, oh, you say, only barteen if

843
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:35,920
Speaker 1: you a certain age. They feel like we just be

844
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:39,320
Speaker 1: too old to still be in the club bartending. And

845
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:42,400
Speaker 1: you know, I just want to know. I guess how

846
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 1: do you feel about that? Okay? So you know, I

847
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:47,399
Speaker 1: see the main thing that I see is people talking

848
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 1: about like, yeah, you're too old to be bartender? Why

849
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 1: are you thirty something in the bottle girl? And I

850
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 1: feel like this, it's twenty nineteen. Okay, it's not the

851
00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 1: nineteen nineties. I'll even say anymore of the ages you

852
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 1: have to Really, we have options to not be in

853
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: corporate America. And I'll tell you this, if you can

854
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 1: have a job that gives you freedom and where you

855
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 1: can really manage your money right and you don't have

856
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: to clock into somebody's nine to five, I wouldn't do

857
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 1: that shit, honestly, because nine to five is miserable bro

858
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 1: for me. I'm not saying this for everybody, Like some

859
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:20,799
Speaker 1: people enjoy waking up and going not because some people

860
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 1: are doing what they want to do right, but for

861
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 1: the people like if they have an option. Like now,

862
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:26,800
Speaker 1: it's like you can make money on social media, you

863
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 1: can make money bartending. It makes good fucking money. So

864
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 1: if you if a nine to five isn't for you,

865
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 1: what's wrong with people bartending? These girls are making like

866
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: sometimes five hundred and six hundred dollars in a night.

867
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,280
Speaker 1: Some people are making that in a week at work. Okay,

868
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 1: So it's like, I don't see the issue with it.

869
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:46,839
Speaker 1: I don't know why people are always talking mad shit

870
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 1: like and it's crazy to me. Some I we feel

871
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:52,800
Speaker 1: like he's jealousy. I really think it is too, you know,

872
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 1: because a lot of the time, shit that I've seen

873
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,439
Speaker 1: in the past, and I'm not just saying it's because

874
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:00,920
Speaker 1: at one point I was bartending and waitressing as well.

875
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 1: But shit that I used to see in the past

876
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,919
Speaker 1: from people on social media that will always talk down

877
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 1: on girls that was bartending and shit like that was

878
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:10,320
Speaker 1: from a lot of people who you know, were working

879
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 1: on to five jobs and things of that nature. But

880
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:15,359
Speaker 1: it's like you talking down on these girls and these

881
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:17,879
Speaker 1: women that are working in the club and they're making

882
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:19,959
Speaker 1: more money than you, and they're still making legal money.

883
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 1: Number one, let's be understand how doing nothing illegal to

884
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,880
Speaker 1: make their money. And yeah, like you said, majority of

885
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 1: the time, y'all be talking down on these beaches, but

886
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 1: these pictures be really getting to a bag and they

887
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:34,240
Speaker 1: be making way more money than you bitches and you niggas.

888
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:36,840
Speaker 1: They'd be talking down on the profession. And I know

889
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 1: because I don't know a bag, That's what I'm saying. Bro.

890
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 1: When a lot of times bartending, I'm getting I was

891
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:49,320
Speaker 1: making so much bread. Bro, I was twenty, I was

892
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 1: what twenty one, twenty two with a luxury apartment. I

893
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 1: mean it's normal now for girls to have that because

894
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 1: how the game is now, But like that was like

895
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 1: what twenty eleven. Girls wasn't having the ship that I was,

896
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So it's like this, I

897
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 1: don't understand why people while did people care how people

898
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 1: make their money to me, because barten is a lucrative business.

899
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:11,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna lie. It's not how it

900
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:14,399
Speaker 1: used to be. But girls are still making more money.

901
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 1: And I would say, being somebody that just had a

902
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:20,239
Speaker 1: nine to five, I would definitely rather bartend and make

903
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 1: some quick money, make you know, make a quick three

904
00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 1: hundred four hundred dollars working two nights in a row

905
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 1: than waiting on the paycheck. You gotta get You're gonna

906
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:30,839
Speaker 1: get paid twice a month, bro, Yeah, twice a month.

907
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 1: I mean, if y'll check that, it's cool. But it's

908
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 1: just like, let's be real. Most people that's working a

909
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 1: nine to five, they not making a lot of money.

910
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 1: But the average, the average with cash every every night,

911
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 1: and the average, let's keep it real, the average black

912
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 1: person is making what the census say like thirty to

913
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:52,320
Speaker 1: fifty thousand. That's the average. I'm telling you, Bartenders is

914
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 1: making more than that. Oh we know you, Bartenders is beach.

915
00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. It was years bar then I

916
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 1: definitely heat like seventy eighty thousand dollars. Oh easy, easily.

917
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you no. And that's what to say.

918
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 1: No cap All Star Weekend. I worked four nights in

919
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:18,360
Speaker 1: Houston and I made almost eight almost eight rex. Some

920
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 1: people don't even make that in a month. Yes, too

921
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 1: much three months even so it's like that shit wild.

922
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:26,919
Speaker 1: I mean, people just always I don't know if people

923
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 1: just always like to judge with they don't know or

924
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 1: what they haven't done, and I just think it's weird

925
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 1: as fuck, because it's like, Beach, I can judge you

926
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:37,320
Speaker 1: for being stupid enough to fucking work forty hours a

927
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:40,839
Speaker 1: week and be making two thousand dollars every two weeks,

928
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 1: because I'm not gonna be like, I will beat you

929
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 1: a pans and that's something that's that's no, you ain't

930
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 1: making I mean, I'm not gonna lie though, because if

931
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 1: you go to like Vegas, most of these bartender's about

932
00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:53,240
Speaker 1: you go to, you notice that the bartenders are older people,

933
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 1: not just women either, they're older men. Like even the

934
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:58,759
Speaker 1: bartender at Cheetahs, that white guy. He's an older white

935
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:02,800
Speaker 1: guy bartender because he makes money. A job is a

936
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 1: job as soon as you can pay. And I don't

937
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 1: understand you ain't out here robbing and killing nobody, right.

938
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,399
Speaker 1: And I feel like like people always saying something like, oh,

939
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 1: like somebody was talking about somebody on Twitter the other

940
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 1: day because they were she was like, oh, bit, you

941
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 1: work at dealers or something like that. So why do

942
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:21,800
Speaker 1: people judge how people are trying to shame people for

943
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 1: making Like for her, that shit is crazy shit. It's

944
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:26,960
Speaker 1: crazy to me too, because nine times out of ten,

945
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:28,880
Speaker 1: if you decide the Beach that's talking down on somebody

946
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:32,240
Speaker 1: for working their dealers. You probably ain't got the greatest job, yo, damnself.

947
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,839
Speaker 1: Because people who really be making money for real, for real,

948
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 1: a lot of them people be humble, right, and they've

949
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 1: been there so they get it, and they used to

950
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 1: be broke so they get it. And you know what,

951
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, Like, I have a friend that

952
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 1: she still works in retail. It mean the people who

953
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: just started touching a little bit of money, they think

954
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 1: that they above they getting a little bag. I have

955
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 1: a friend back home and she works retail part time,

956
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 1: but like her, nigga has money, but she just works

957
00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:00,320
Speaker 1: part time because she's like the money that he gives me,

958
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 1: I want to say that. So she goes to work

959
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 1: every now and then just so she can have some

960
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:06,120
Speaker 1: money coming in, and she used that for her bills

961
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 1: and stuff. But all the bread that he's giving her,

962
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 1: she just be stacking that shit up, right, stacking that

963
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:12,719
Speaker 1: shit because she doesn't need a nine to five necessarily,

964
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 1: but she still wants to have her own money coming in.

965
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 1: So like a lot of times, y'all be seeing people

966
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:20,000
Speaker 1: at these y'alls not even knowing if y'all play big bank,

967
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 1: take little bank, they'll eat all your shit up, you know.

968
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 1: So I just wanted to touch on that topic real

969
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:27,880
Speaker 1: quick because it just really bothered me because I always

970
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,480
Speaker 1: see men being like, oh, you thirty five and you

971
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 1: a bottle with I mean's wrong. I definitely do feel

972
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 1: like if you're a certain age and you're still working

973
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 1: in a club and you don't have now a plan, right,

974
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 1: you don't have anything that you that you're working adamantly

975
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 1: working towards. I do feel like that is a problem

976
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:49,280
Speaker 1: because being a bartender or a waitress, that's not a career.

977
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 1: It's not an occupation, you know what I mean. I

978
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:54,920
Speaker 1: feel like that's just a hustle, right, You're supposed to

979
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 1: utilize it as a hustle. You're supposed to be making

980
00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:59,959
Speaker 1: your money, stacking your bread up and putting it towards

981
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:03,439
Speaker 1: something more meaningful then just working in the club. Because

982
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:05,319
Speaker 1: I will say, I mean, I do know girls who

983
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: have been working in the club for years and years

984
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 1: and years and years and years and they still working

985
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:11,799
Speaker 1: in the club and they still ain't doing shit working

986
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 1: in the club. Now, you're definitely supposed to have an

987
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 1: end goal. But I feel like that's what anything even

988
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 1: if you work in these nine to five unless it's

989
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 1: like a major career to me, until you're making six

990
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: figures and up, that's when you could be like, Okay,

991
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 1: I'm okay with this job and this is my career. Yeah,

992
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 1: but anything less than that, if you're making like fifty

993
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 1: sixty thousand dollars a year, you should always have a

994
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 1: goal to be like, okay, am I either moving up

995
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,879
Speaker 1: in this job or what's my next move to do better? Yeah?

996
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, once you hit that

997
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 1: six figure mark, that's understandable because that's when you're in

998
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:40,440
Speaker 1: a certain percentage. You know what I'm saying, You're not

999
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,879
Speaker 1: living like the average American right. So, but unless until

1000
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 1: you hit that six figure mark, I feel like you

1001
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 1: should always be working on something bigger and better. I agree.

1002
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:51,359
Speaker 1: So it's like everybody across the board, it doesn't matter

1003
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 1: if you have a nine to five bartend or whatever.

1004
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 1: One just stop judging people into it shouldn't even matter.

1005
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,160
Speaker 1: Like I literally never be giving a fuck about what

1006
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 1: another beach got going on in her mother fucking bank

1007
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 1: account and her hockey. But people love to be like, oh, bitch,

1008
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 1: you know I've seen her here and this is where

1009
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 1: she working. I'm like, well, I'll see people do that

1010
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 1: all the time. I'm like, so what does that mean? Though?

1011
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:17,800
Speaker 1: People are so fucking weird? Mind y'all want? Okay, so

1012
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into so yeah, let us know how

1013
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 1: y'all feel about bartending, and you know how how y'all

1014
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 1: feel about older you know people, men and women bartending. Right,

1015
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna get into dubb b a A.

1016
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:35,279
Speaker 1: This is actually dress topics. So I'm gonna let you

1017
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 1: bring this one. Oh okay, it's a little embarrassing, is it.

1018
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:40,880
Speaker 2: It is?

1019
00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:44,279
Speaker 1: I feel like ears, yeah, we do, because we had

1020
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 1: to talk about our experiences and what we did and

1021
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:51,359
Speaker 1: help the ladies. Do we how I mean we got

1022
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:56,759
Speaker 1: a help? Well? Okay, well I was online and I

1023
00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 1: was just reading like different little articles just be like

1024
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 1: I can see, you know, brush up on different little things,

1025
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 1: and you know, I've seen something that basically say, you know,

1026
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:09,399
Speaker 1: you're getting free sky you having sex with your men,

1027
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 1: and then you start to feel a little rumble and

1028
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:17,800
Speaker 1: you're telling me, oh, I know, do you stop in

1029
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 1: the middle of six? In the middle of that when

1030
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 1: I six? Because I guess y'all just kind of doing

1031
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 1: for a play and all that shit. So do you

1032
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 1: stop and do you get up and go use the

1033
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 1: bathroom or do you just not want to ruin the

1034
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,839
Speaker 1: mood and ruin the moment and you're just like, okay,

1035
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 1: you look it. I'm just trying to hold this she

1036
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: in okay, So let me tell y'all type of bit

1037
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:35,960
Speaker 1: I am, because I think I said this on the

1038
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 1: past episodes before. I don't care how long me and

1039
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 1: a nigga been together. I don't fart in front of

1040
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 1: my niggas. I don't shit in front of my me either.

1041
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's not I can be the most

1042
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 1: comfortable with you in the world, Like honestly, I barely

1043
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:50,399
Speaker 1: even fart and do that shit in front of my friends, Like, yeah,

1044
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:52,279
Speaker 1: I will if I absolutely have to, like if it

1045
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,799
Speaker 1: slips out or something, but I don't. I really don't

1046
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 1: even feel like I can think about it, Like I

1047
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 1: don't even feel comfortable farting in front of like my sister,

1048
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: Like I'm just not. I don't do that. I don't

1049
00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:04,360
Speaker 1: know when he comes to like partying it around my

1050
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:08,360
Speaker 1: friends and I don't be caring. We friends, Yeah, we're friends,

1051
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:12,919
Speaker 1: but I ain't gonna be just farting around you all day, yeah,

1052
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 1: like if I can, but I'm but for me, I

1053
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 1: ain't about to just be farten up for thorm. But

1054
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 1: if I gotta let one, yeah, but that's you. But

1055
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 1: I'm saying for me personally, the only time I will

1056
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 1: openly admit that I did something like if you could smell,

1057
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,040
Speaker 1: I'll be like, ooh my bad, I just farted or

1058
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 1: something up. So that's just for me. I'm trying to

1059
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:36,799
Speaker 1: figure out relax. I do not be but I don't

1060
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:38,399
Speaker 1: do that in front like most of the time, I'll

1061
00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:39,840
Speaker 1: like I'll tell you like, oh, I'm about to go

1062
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:41,520
Speaker 1: to the bathroom or something like that, but I don't

1063
00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:43,760
Speaker 1: actually do it in front of people. But I've always

1064
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 1: been that way because I be embarrassed. Bitch, you definitely

1065
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 1: be farting bro Well, of course I'm a human. But

1066
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is I don't do that in front

1067
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 1: of you like often I don't, like, if I can

1068
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:56,440
Speaker 1: help it, I'm going to get up and I'm going

1069
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:59,319
Speaker 1: to walk away. That's just me. But I'm never one

1070
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:01,880
Speaker 1: hundred percent comfortable in front of people, Like it's uncomfortable

1071
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 1: for me. Personally, Yeah, I feel like farting in front

1072
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 1: of people should be kind of uncomfortable. Yeah so, but anyways,

1073
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:09,879
Speaker 1: back to the topic, like, I don't far in front

1074
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:12,319
Speaker 1: of my nigga's period. Yeah, me either, So I don't

1075
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:15,880
Speaker 1: care if we've been together ten years, you never I lied, actually,

1076
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:19,640
Speaker 1: because if I got a fart and we laying it be,

1077
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 1: I'm going I'm getting under cover, I'm getting up. I'm

1078
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:25,800
Speaker 1: just like, you got a hold your booty sheet open,

1079
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 1: you gotta lift it up so the you just sleep out, okay,

1080
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:33,640
Speaker 1: but that you don't know you're farting, right, Yeah, so

1081
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 1: that don't count. I'm talking about yeah shit because it betrailed.

1082
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:43,400
Speaker 1: So actually, there, it depends how bad the fart is,

1083
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:45,840
Speaker 1: because I the thing is though, because this is what

1084
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:48,840
Speaker 1: you're giving up though. If you hold in that fart,

1085
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:51,800
Speaker 1: you can't you're not gonna have an orgasm because you know,

1086
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:54,400
Speaker 1: when you have an orgasm, you're kind of pushing. So

1087
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:57,880
Speaker 1: if you push, you're gonna fart. Yeah. So my thing is,

1088
00:51:57,960 --> 00:51:59,919
Speaker 1: I've held in a fart while I was being sex

1089
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 1: active and I just could not because I was just

1090
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:06,319
Speaker 1: focused on holding that fucking farting. But if you get

1091
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:09,480
Speaker 1: up and go to the bathroom. You one one in

1092
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:12,680
Speaker 1: the moment, and two it's like, yo, you don't want

1093
00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 1: your booty it smell like fart because then you got

1094
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:17,920
Speaker 1: to try to hurry up and wash. Yeah, you know

1095
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 1: that a little far that little far air it dude

1096
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:24,320
Speaker 1: that if you got a sheet, you gotta definitely like

1097
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 1: that ass and not just with no toilet pap. But

1098
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 1: you need to get a wife. You need you gotta

1099
00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:33,839
Speaker 1: STI you gotta stick your little pinking that far air

1100
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 1: be lingering. Oh my god, that is so sad. So

1101
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 1: yeah that I mean that has happened to me before.

1102
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 1: But I will say that's not something that just happens

1103
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:45,200
Speaker 1: to me. Off, it doesn't happen all I be having

1104
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:47,400
Speaker 1: to like fart in the middle of six, but I

1105
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:49,799
Speaker 1: mean when it, when it has happened, I just hold

1106
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 1: it very awkward, I hold it, hold it in. I'll

1107
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:57,600
Speaker 1: be I'll be trying to switch pose so I cannot

1108
00:52:57,719 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 1: let out no fart during side I can't. You gotta

1109
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:03,439
Speaker 1: do what you gotta do. Bro to good. I push

1110
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 1: it's gonna no, it's not okay. Let me show you,

1111
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:10,799
Speaker 1: gotta let me show you the difference though, because when

1112
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:15,719
Speaker 1: you a solid part sounds like this, okay, a loud

1113
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:19,160
Speaker 1: part is like but when you fart during sex, it's

1114
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 1: gonna sound like in between. So it's gonna be like this.

1115
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 1: But that's why the perfect time to let it out

1116
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 1: is when your say no, that's gonna be even working.

1117
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:37,840
Speaker 1: But why does her ship? Why does her weep smell

1118
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:46,400
Speaker 1: like ship? Bro? You cannot fart during sex, No, it don't.

1119
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 1: I've definitely farted during sex, and a nigga did not know. Bro,

1120
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:53,000
Speaker 1: I'm putting it on tell you that you know. But

1121
00:53:56,640 --> 00:54:00,959
Speaker 1: how you know? Because he couldn't. How do you know, bitch?

1122
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:04,279
Speaker 1: That's how I know? You don't know what he was

1123
00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 1: smelling back there? No, I was laying down. We was

1124
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:13,280
Speaker 1: fucking missionary. Oh I know that wind was monkey, bitch,

1125
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:18,800
Speaker 1: I don't care missionary. And I was like, you know,

1126
00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:22,400
Speaker 1: so the water you spread your cheeks, the quieter the parties.

1127
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 1: To think about it, it's your cheeks that makes the noise.

1128
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:40,840
Speaker 1: Exactly your cheeks is would make I think it's the butthole. No,

1129
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: but I'm telling you well, it be the cheeks together

1130
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 1: that make the Next time, just doing experiment. Next time

1131
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:53,279
Speaker 1: you have the barty. Even if you just hold your

1132
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:58,360
Speaker 1: booty cheeks open, a whole one open. I promised you,

1133
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: it's just gonna like a balloon people to hear you.

1134
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:04,160
Speaker 1: I don't know if I believe you that, but I'm

1135
00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 1: not swear to God, bro' I promise. And if you

1136
00:55:07,800 --> 00:55:10,400
Speaker 1: do that during the nigga not go now. But what

1137
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:14,760
Speaker 1: if it? I mean, damn, y'r forks be that funky bitch.

1138
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 1: I'm just sparks steink. They do stink. What I mean,

1139
00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 1: I feel like if y'all, some people have like parts

1140
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 1: that be like, okay, extra yes, that extra funky. That

1141
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:27,320
Speaker 1: means that you got a ship exactly. But if you

1142
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 1: just got a little gag okay, I see it shouldn't

1143
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:34,120
Speaker 1: smell that bad in the room already probably smell like six.

1144
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 1: We all know, listen, be honest, pushing all tart pussy,

1145
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 1: y'all just left the club. Okay, I can see it.

1146
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:50,840
Speaker 1: That's all right, y'all know I'm not lying, y'all. Pussy

1147
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 1: don't have to No, I don't feel like pussy be

1148
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:56,640
Speaker 1: I don't feel like six stinks, but I definitely feel

1149
00:55:56,680 --> 00:56:02,120
Speaker 1: like sex has a smell. The meeting of two Private

1150
00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 1: balls have a smell. All that shit got a smell,

1151
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 1: so it's like, especially two of y'all sweat shit. I mean,

1152
00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:12,400
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just feel like if you let

1153
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:15,719
Speaker 1: out a little hard, it's mixed in with the rest

1154
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:18,760
Speaker 1: of the smell. Well, Dragon's advice is to open your cheeks.

1155
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:20,800
Speaker 1: My advice is just to hold it in or just

1156
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:23,319
Speaker 1: be kissing that nigga too while you for he gonna

1157
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 1: be south to strass. What how am I supposed to

1158
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:30,480
Speaker 1: kiss him? Man, and hold my cheeks open? That's a lot, bro.

1159
00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 1: I gotta spread a multi tag. I gotta spread my check.

1160
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: You only need one hand to spread the cheek, so

1161
00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:42,240
Speaker 1: you him I cannot hold need one hand to spread

1162
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 1: the cheek, need to use the other hand to play

1163
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 1: with the balls, and need to be kissing him gonna

1164
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:50,840
Speaker 1: be that's too much work. And then me, let me

1165
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:52,960
Speaker 1: tell you something. My ass is heavy, so if I

1166
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 1: try to hold it open with one hand, the inside

1167
00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:57,880
Speaker 1: of my cheeks still gonna be touching. I'm not gonna

1168
00:56:57,920 --> 00:57:00,040
Speaker 1: know it. I would think my chicks are spread and

1169
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:10,359
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, you go here your work that long,

1170
00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:22,080
Speaker 1: sporty bro, I'm telling you, I'm not trusted. I'm telling you, bro,

1171
00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 1: I have did think she's a full proof. Okay, so

1172
00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 1: I've done that. She's so many times Larry let us.

1173
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:31,080
Speaker 1: I even do that ship when I be alone because

1174
00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:34,480
Speaker 1: I don't want to hit them. Okay, So I wonder

1175
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 1: if gods do that too? Do they know the spread?

1176
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:40,920
Speaker 1: Will you think niggas be fucking and fartantuck and they

1177
00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:45,040
Speaker 1: think niggas being Oh my godstely, because I mean, do

1178
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 1: we ever really be behind him? How you know for yourself?

1179
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:59,000
Speaker 1: Definitely be back. I'll be back there. Nigga got a

1180
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 1: fart while you're eating his ass and he trying to

1181
00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:02,400
Speaker 1: hold it eat and then he's mine. He's like, bro,

1182
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 1: because I know I don't have the fork while eating

1183
00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 1: my eggs. I've never had to. I have, but I didn't.

1184
00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 1: I prepare my booty whole. I gotta prepare my boy,

1185
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 1: I do. She Yeah, so it's like I can't. I

1186
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:14,880
Speaker 1: definitely don't have to fart when I know I'm about to,

1187
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 1: but it's very rare. I have to fart during sex.

1188
00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:20,600
Speaker 1: I'll say that because I don't know. When I go

1189
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:22,400
Speaker 1: out to eat, I don't we go to dinner. I'm

1190
00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:24,720
Speaker 1: not eating no heavy dinner. I'm not doing all that.

1191
00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:28,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get me a be preparing your body for sea, Yeah,

1192
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 1: because I'll get I mean, I'm preparing it for Let

1193
00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:32,720
Speaker 1: me if a nigga take me out to eat and

1194
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:35,000
Speaker 1: I get a salmon and it look a like vegetable

1195
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:37,560
Speaker 1: on the side, you know what's going down. You're gonna

1196
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 1: have to fark no, because when you eat salmon and

1197
00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 1: like vegetables, my my body will burn that shit up.

1198
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 1: I'm not probably gonna have shit till the next morning, right,

1199
00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:52,440
Speaker 1: But if I eat some heavy like regggrice, rice and

1200
00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:57,120
Speaker 1: mac and cheese, that shit coming. And then I'm drinking

1201
00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 1: on top of that, I'm not gonna make it, but

1202
00:58:58,800 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 1: I keep it real. Lighting salmon and no broccoli make

1203
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 1: you far. No, I'm talking about if I know, I'm about,

1204
00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:08,439
Speaker 1: if I know I am about the fuck you eat broccoli? Yeah,

1205
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 1: but you have to realize I eat a lot of

1206
00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 1: vegetables anyway, so my body is like when I started

1207
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 1: eating healthy again. It's last time I was real real

1208
00:59:16,560 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 1: gasty because I hadn't ate vegetables on a while. But

1209
00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:21,439
Speaker 1: I usually eat vegetables on the regular, So my body

1210
00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:22,920
Speaker 1: is accustomed to them, so when I go out to

1211
00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 1: eating vegetables, it ain't nothing. So anyways, let us know

1212
00:59:26,040 --> 00:59:31,920
Speaker 1: how y'all feel about let us know the the stink situation.

1213
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 1: I'm telling y'all this shit work. Just how is the

1214
00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:36,880
Speaker 1: booty cheek open? All that booty cheek open? Okay? So

1215
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:40,440
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into the bops h the week the

1216
00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 1: bot eight first, you can go first, Okay. So I

1217
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:48,120
Speaker 1: got two bops this week? Actually, do I have two

1218
00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 1: or do I have three? Yeah? I have two. So

1219
00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 1: my first bop of the week Doja Cat released. Y'all know,

1220
00:59:55,040 --> 00:59:57,880
Speaker 1: I'm a huge Doja Cat fan, and honestly, when I

1221
00:59:57,920 --> 00:59:59,560
Speaker 1: met her on the Red carpet and I interviewed her,

1222
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 1: it made me like her even more. She's super dope

1223
01:00:02,320 --> 01:00:04,800
Speaker 1: and she's witty and she's funny, and the girl just

1224
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:08,440
Speaker 1: makes fucking bomb music. She is. She's an artist, bro,

1225
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:12,680
Speaker 1: she's talented, and we're just not getting that anymore, like

1226
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:15,240
Speaker 1: and we have that in her, So shout out to

1227
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:17,880
Speaker 1: Doja Cat. She has a new song called Rules and

1228
01:00:18,160 --> 01:00:22,040
Speaker 1: the Fire like that song too. Bro, The shit is fired.

1229
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:24,320
Speaker 1: Don't play. Don't what she said? Don't play, Mam pussy

1230
01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 1: be open, like, don't fucking play with her. If you

1231
01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 1: wanna fuck, give me some money, like she was saying

1232
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:31,440
Speaker 1: all that realize shit, like we don't gotta play these

1233
01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:34,160
Speaker 1: fucking games. Really follow my rules and we can make

1234
01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:36,640
Speaker 1: this shit. It's easy. I like that song too, and

1235
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 1: she I like the message of the song. You know

1236
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:41,920
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, So shout out to Doja cat rules.

1237
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 1: That's a good song. Second, this is only the girls

1238
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:49,600
Speaker 1: second song that I've heard, and I'm sold. I'm a

1239
01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:51,720
Speaker 1: fan because her first song was so hard and I

1240
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:53,360
Speaker 1: was rooting for her to come out with another song

1241
01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 1: that was good. Ruby Rose she got another had Now

1242
01:00:56,920 --> 01:00:59,040
Speaker 1: y'all know I love Ruby Rose because she had that song.

1243
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:01,120
Speaker 1: Uh could have fuck your friend, but I heard he

1244
01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:03,880
Speaker 1: got a big mouth. So Ruby Rose got another song

1245
01:01:04,000 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 1: called hit Your Dance and she sampled the song what

1246
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:13,960
Speaker 1: happened to that boy? Yeah? Yeah, So it was produced

1247
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:15,760
Speaker 1: by Hitman, and y'all know how I feel about no

1248
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 1: hit not hit Man, hit Maker. Y'all know how I

1249
01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:20,960
Speaker 1: feel about hit Maker and O. G. Parker. I feel

1250
01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:23,320
Speaker 1: like I don't fuck with what's his name? What's his

1251
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:27,080
Speaker 1: real name? What's hit maker real name? Young Bird. Oh yeah,

1252
01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:28,720
Speaker 1: I don't fuck with you. As y'all know, I don't

1253
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:30,640
Speaker 1: fuck with Young Bird, but I love hit Makers. It's

1254
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:33,160
Speaker 1: the same person, I know, but I don't fuck with

1255
01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:36,040
Speaker 1: Young Bird and I fuck with hit Makers. It's the same.

1256
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:38,360
Speaker 1: But we we already talked about this in the past

1257
01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:41,120
Speaker 1: episode and we explained how it's really not the same person.

1258
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:43,800
Speaker 1: So I don't fuck with Young Bird, but I fuck

1259
01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:46,600
Speaker 1: with hit Maker. And Ruby Rose got another banger. So

1260
01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:52,280
Speaker 1: Ruby Rose hit your dance and dojah cat rules. Oh

1261
01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:54,480
Speaker 1: I did have another one. I'm sorry this is my

1262
01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 1: last one. And maybe Style you got a new song.

1263
01:01:58,040 --> 01:02:00,640
Speaker 1: It's a bounce called song called Ride or Die, and

1264
01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:03,960
Speaker 1: it's fine. I like that song too. Yeah, Megie said,

1265
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 1: selling to the damn thing. Like the girls just came

1266
01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 1: out with the box this week. They came out swinging,

1267
01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:10,840
Speaker 1: and Meg sounds good on a bounce song. A lot

1268
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:12,680
Speaker 1: of times rappers will trying to do a bounce song

1269
01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:15,600
Speaker 1: and they don't sound right, but Meg definitely sound good.

1270
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:17,960
Speaker 1: So shout out to my three girls. Those are my

1271
01:02:18,000 --> 01:02:22,480
Speaker 1: bops of the week this week. Okay, my bop of

1272
01:02:22,560 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 1: the week, what's not really abop? I guess I would

1273
01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:30,320
Speaker 1: say I like Kane's album, Surprisingly I do, Okay, I

1274
01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 1: like a few of the songs on there, maybe only

1275
01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:35,400
Speaker 1: like three of the songs he I didn't listen. Don't

1276
01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 1: you have to listen to I don't support Kanye. I know,

1277
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:40,320
Speaker 1: I kind of figured that's why you were rolling your eyes. No,

1278
01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:42,080
Speaker 1: I mean, but I used to be a big Kanye fan.

1279
01:02:42,160 --> 01:02:44,000
Speaker 1: But I haven't listened to any of his any of

1280
01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:47,960
Speaker 1: his work since Pablo was it The Life of Pablo?

1281
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:50,440
Speaker 1: Was that his last album? No, that wasn't his life

1282
01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:52,880
Speaker 1: His last album was Ye I think, but I haven't

1283
01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:56,439
Speaker 1: listened or supported or bought anything since the Life of Pablo. Yeah,

1284
01:02:56,440 --> 01:03:00,120
Speaker 1: I was now with like streaming services or what if

1285
01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 1: you're technically not buying the album, you least mean too

1286
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:05,800
Speaker 1: because you pay for the service. Is still supportive. I mean,

1287
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:10,240
Speaker 1: it is supporting it back what I'm just saying, it's

1288
01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:11,760
Speaker 1: not the same as like back in the day when

1289
01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 1: we used to have to actually buy that. Yeah, I mean,

1290
01:03:14,200 --> 01:03:17,080
Speaker 1: I mean technically, but I just don't. That's just me personally.

1291
01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:20,160
Speaker 1: I don't expect other people. I don't say. His album

1292
01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:22,120
Speaker 1: was called Jesus Is King. I think it's like a

1293
01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:24,640
Speaker 1: cool little album. You know, he trying to show a

1294
01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:27,600
Speaker 1: different little side of himself since he started doing the

1295
01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:29,880
Speaker 1: Sunday Service. And I think it's a I think it's

1296
01:03:29,880 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 1: a cool little album. You know. It's definitely not one

1297
01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:34,480
Speaker 1: of his best albums, but I think he got a

1298
01:03:34,520 --> 01:03:36,640
Speaker 1: few vibes on there. So yeah, shout out to Kanye.

1299
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:39,880
Speaker 1: Somebody said, what's the because somebody said Kanye was using

1300
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 1: God to ex was exploring Jesus and the religion for money.

1301
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:45,520
Speaker 1: And somebody was like, well, what's the difference between what

1302
01:03:45,680 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 1: Kanye is doing what your past to do. And I said,

1303
01:03:49,200 --> 01:03:51,240
Speaker 1: I do agree with that. I do agree. I just

1304
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:52,680
Speaker 1: feel like people a lot of the times too. I

1305
01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:55,120
Speaker 1: just feel like sometimes people just like like to be

1306
01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:58,480
Speaker 1: hard on Kanye because it's Kanye, right, you know what

1307
01:03:58,520 --> 01:04:00,080
Speaker 1: I mean. I think people like to give him a

1308
01:04:00,640 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 1: hard time. Sometimes I don't like him because he not

1309
01:04:03,560 --> 01:04:05,640
Speaker 1: My thing with him is he's not solid and he

1310
01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:09,320
Speaker 1: switched up too much. And I like consistent people. I

1311
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:13,440
Speaker 1: like when people see growth, and honestly, he's a Gemini.

1312
01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:17,160
Speaker 1: So it's like his music is just not good anymore

1313
01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:20,200
Speaker 1: to me personally, you know, Like the Kanye I fell

1314
01:04:20,240 --> 01:04:22,760
Speaker 1: in love with the the Kanye now is just not good. Well,

1315
01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 1: I would absolutely have to say to me, his last

1316
01:04:25,120 --> 01:04:28,480
Speaker 1: solid project was My Dark Twisted Fantasy, and that wasn't

1317
01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 1: like twenty twelve. Yeah, so yeah, I mean, but this

1318
01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:35,560
Speaker 1: this album was, it was cool. It was. It has

1319
01:04:35,560 --> 01:04:39,040
Speaker 1: a few bops on so well, shout out to Mr.

1320
01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:41,520
Speaker 1: I didn't feel like going through each one, so yeah,

1321
01:04:41,600 --> 01:04:43,360
Speaker 1: I mean a lot of people I was. I've been

1322
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:46,800
Speaker 1: on Twitter a lot lately as well, and I saw

1323
01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:48,840
Speaker 1: a lot of people tweeting aboudy saying good things. So

1324
01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:50,440
Speaker 1: I mean, if you've listened to the album, then you

1325
01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:53,840
Speaker 1: know you have some good little songs on there. So okay, Well,

1326
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:59,680
Speaker 1: shout out to Mr Kardashian or whatever so as always

1327
01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:02,560
Speaker 1: them of the week. European Wax Center, shout out to

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Speaker 1: Kamika at Howell Mill and Edgewood. Mention poor minds or

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Speaker 1: Make sure y'all keep up on your waxing in the

1331
01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:13,880
Speaker 1: winter months, fall months, because you don't want to just

1332
01:05:13,920 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 1: wait till it gets hot again, because you're gonna have

1333
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:18,760
Speaker 1: them bumps. And I honestly, I was at the club

1334
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:20,440
Speaker 1: the other day and I lifted up my arm and

1335
01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 1: this girl literally asked, and she was like, why your

1336
01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:25,280
Speaker 1: armpits so light? I said, because I wax. I used

1337
01:05:25,360 --> 01:05:27,680
Speaker 1: my armpits and my pussy used to be black as fuck. Y'all.

1338
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I've been waxing for like almost

1339
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:32,320
Speaker 1: four years at this point, and my underarms and my

1340
01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:34,720
Speaker 1: pussy is so light. Yeah, So y'all make sure y'all

1341
01:05:34,720 --> 01:05:36,920
Speaker 1: go take advantage of those discounts that we got for you.

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Speaker 1: They use them discount yes, and always shout out to

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Speaker 1: She's actually doing a giveaway right now, so y'all make

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Speaker 1: sure y'all go check her out on Instagram and go

1349
01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 1: win you a week or some s. What else we got,

1350
01:06:02,320 --> 01:06:08,400
Speaker 1: litt Dred, You got anything? Oh? Fuck? I forgot? Yeah?

1351
01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:11,040
Speaker 1: Do the questions, girl, We are gonna do questions. Yeah.

1352
01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:13,760
Speaker 1: You just let me close the shit or that, okay,

1353
01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:19,560
Speaker 1: So I'll start cause I got it open. Oh shit,

1354
01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:26,280
Speaker 1: I did have it open. Okay, Oh wait, is this

1355
01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:30,560
Speaker 1: the one? I'm sorry, y'all. Hold on, Okay, sorry, y'all

1356
01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:32,320
Speaker 1: had to make sure I was reading the right one. Okay.

1357
01:06:32,680 --> 01:06:35,080
Speaker 1: It says, Hey, y'all, you can call me Breezy, no

1358
01:06:35,200 --> 01:06:39,080
Speaker 1: real names. Please love the podcast. And I need help.

1359
01:06:39,440 --> 01:06:41,600
Speaker 1: So I'm about to break up with my boyfriend because

1360
01:06:41,600 --> 01:06:44,600
Speaker 1: he's not motivated or doing enough with his life. We're

1361
01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:47,280
Speaker 1: both on the verge of thirty. However, I have two

1362
01:06:47,360 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 1: degrees and I'm working on my third, and I work

1363
01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:52,120
Speaker 1: a full time job. Okay, Sis, shout out to you

1364
01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:56,320
Speaker 1: for that. Meanwhile, he barely has his associates. I don't

1365
01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 1: think I'm better than him because of education, but it

1366
01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:01,680
Speaker 1: does bother me that he's so chill about everything when

1367
01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:04,760
Speaker 1: he's not even working at the moment. Oh no, Like

1368
01:07:04,880 --> 01:07:06,919
Speaker 1: it'd be different if he had a good paying job,

1369
01:07:07,080 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 1: then I wouldn't even trip about school. But if you're

1370
01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:12,400
Speaker 1: not in school and not working, then you gotta go anyway,

1371
01:07:12,560 --> 01:07:14,480
Speaker 1: I'm about to break up with him. Just want to

1372
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:17,520
Speaker 1: advice on where I can meet dudes with money. I'm dead,

1373
01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 1: so let me finish. Just want to advice on where

1374
01:07:24,760 --> 01:07:26,560
Speaker 1: I can find dudes with money who will spend it

1375
01:07:26,640 --> 01:07:29,320
Speaker 1: on me. Feel like I deserve some pampering and I

1376
01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:31,880
Speaker 1: want to be catered to. I don't do clubs, and

1377
01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:33,960
Speaker 1: since I was in a relationship, I don't know where

1378
01:07:33,960 --> 01:07:37,240
Speaker 1: to meet guys. Help me out here, ladies, please and thanks. Breezy.

1379
01:07:37,480 --> 01:07:39,600
Speaker 1: Did she say where she lives? No, she didn't say

1380
01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:42,080
Speaker 1: where she lives. So how we gonna help you out? Okay, Well,

1381
01:07:42,120 --> 01:07:44,040
Speaker 1: first let me say this. Let me say this to

1382
01:07:44,120 --> 01:07:46,440
Speaker 1: all the ladies out here, because I feel like sometimes

1383
01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:48,120
Speaker 1: we are not mad. No no, no, no, no, no,

1384
01:07:48,200 --> 01:07:50,000
Speaker 1: no no no, no, not even that, because there's nothing

1385
01:07:50,040 --> 01:07:52,880
Speaker 1: wrong with this question. And I'm absolutely gonna answer your question, sister.

1386
01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:55,680
Speaker 1: But let me let me make this clear. I don't

1387
01:07:55,760 --> 01:07:58,760
Speaker 1: want me andre to ever come off wrong like we're

1388
01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:01,280
Speaker 1: gold diggers or we go out seeking these type of men.

1389
01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:04,960
Speaker 1: That's not what happens. We just end up always with

1390
01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:07,800
Speaker 1: men that have money, and we don't date men who

1391
01:08:07,840 --> 01:08:10,160
Speaker 1: don't have money, but we don't seek it, but we

1392
01:08:10,240 --> 01:08:15,200
Speaker 1: don't be looking right. But I will say this, I

1393
01:08:15,360 --> 01:08:17,720
Speaker 1: feel like you don't have to seek a man with money,

1394
01:08:17,800 --> 01:08:19,360
Speaker 1: or you don't have to go out looking for men

1395
01:08:19,439 --> 01:08:21,800
Speaker 1: with money, because that's when it comes off a little

1396
01:08:21,880 --> 01:08:25,720
Speaker 1: desperate and thirsty, and it just looks it just kind

1397
01:08:25,760 --> 01:08:27,960
Speaker 1: of feels like men can feel that, you know. I'm like,

1398
01:08:28,479 --> 01:08:32,200
Speaker 1: if you go to like an all white bar where

1399
01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:34,280
Speaker 1: white men are, they're smoking cigars, and you're the only

1400
01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:36,400
Speaker 1: black woman in there, it's kind of obvious what you're

1401
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:39,479
Speaker 1: doing there. So I never have been one of those girls.

1402
01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:41,920
Speaker 1: I mean, and that does work for some women, you know,

1403
01:08:42,000 --> 01:08:44,479
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that it doesn't, but I've never been

1404
01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:46,040
Speaker 1: that type of girl to be like, oh, let me

1405
01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:47,840
Speaker 1: go to this far to try to pick up rich men,

1406
01:08:47,920 --> 01:08:50,160
Speaker 1: because that's never worked for me. That's never worked for me,

1407
01:08:50,240 --> 01:08:51,599
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But I might go live.

1408
01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:55,640
Speaker 1: I went to Fellowship. It's a cigar lounge out here,

1409
01:08:55,960 --> 01:09:00,639
Speaker 1: and I'm bet an antisthesiologist, really I did. He was cute,

1410
01:09:00,640 --> 01:09:02,000
Speaker 1: you know, but he was just kind of nerdy. He

1411
01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:04,040
Speaker 1: wasn't my type, but he was you know. I was like, Damn,

1412
01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:06,320
Speaker 1: this is probably where the girls need to go. So

1413
01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:08,960
Speaker 1: the girls in Atlanta, y'all hit up Fellowship and trying

1414
01:09:08,960 --> 01:09:10,600
Speaker 1: to go pull y'all some cause honestly, there was a

1415
01:09:10,640 --> 01:09:12,000
Speaker 1: lot of men in there that looked like, you know,

1416
01:09:12,120 --> 01:09:14,679
Speaker 1: they had something going on. But anyway, sorry to answer

1417
01:09:14,720 --> 01:09:17,120
Speaker 1: your question. Keep sorry, I had to edit that out

1418
01:09:17,160 --> 01:09:20,360
Speaker 1: because I accidentally said your name girl. So anyway, it's

1419
01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:23,439
Speaker 1: breezy to answer your question. I feel like the first

1420
01:09:23,479 --> 01:09:25,400
Speaker 1: step is what you need to do, is what you've

1421
01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:29,080
Speaker 1: already done. You've already raised the standard for yourself, so

1422
01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:31,080
Speaker 1: you've already taken the first step in what you need

1423
01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:32,800
Speaker 1: to do. You know what I'm saying, right, So, I

1424
01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:34,560
Speaker 1: feel like it doesn't matter who you date, cause I

1425
01:09:34,600 --> 01:09:36,640
Speaker 1: say this all the time. You can be dating a

1426
01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:39,000
Speaker 1: man who is making eighty thousand dollars a year, or

1427
01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:41,519
Speaker 1: you can be dating a man who makes eighty million

1428
01:09:41,600 --> 01:09:44,759
Speaker 1: dollars a year, and the man who makes eighty thousand

1429
01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:46,840
Speaker 1: can trick off on you more than a man, cause

1430
01:09:47,120 --> 01:09:50,320
Speaker 1: you can't force a man to do what he doesn't

1431
01:09:50,320 --> 01:09:52,040
Speaker 1: wanna do. If a man wants to spend his money

1432
01:09:52,080 --> 01:09:54,160
Speaker 1: on you, he's gonna do that no matter how much

1433
01:09:54,240 --> 01:09:56,320
Speaker 1: money he makes. Yeah, so I mean the women to

1434
01:09:56,439 --> 01:09:58,439
Speaker 1: understand that. First of all, you can have a nigga

1435
01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:00,560
Speaker 1: that has a hundred million do in the back and

1436
01:10:00,600 --> 01:10:03,160
Speaker 1: he don't give you a goddamn thing. So that's what

1437
01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:05,800
Speaker 1: I think a lot of ladies need to understand, because

1438
01:10:05,840 --> 01:10:07,920
Speaker 1: a man can spoil you and he just can have

1439
01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:09,720
Speaker 1: a regular job, right, you know what I'm saying. So

1440
01:10:09,920 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 1: I think it's all about letting it be known what

1441
01:10:12,439 --> 01:10:16,719
Speaker 1: you want, you know, off top, and how you present yourself,

1442
01:10:17,080 --> 01:10:19,200
Speaker 1: like like we talked about in that episode before, Like

1443
01:10:19,560 --> 01:10:21,320
Speaker 1: I don't wear jeans on dates because I know the

1444
01:10:21,360 --> 01:10:23,600
Speaker 1: girls were laughing at that, but I don't because I

1445
01:10:23,680 --> 01:10:25,519
Speaker 1: need to. I need to let you know, like I'm

1446
01:10:25,560 --> 01:10:27,360
Speaker 1: coming dressed up to the tea. You're gonna see my

1447
01:10:27,479 --> 01:10:29,920
Speaker 1: hair as laid, You're gonna see my makeup, nails up.

1448
01:10:30,200 --> 01:10:33,360
Speaker 1: I look like I'm expensive today. And that's when niggas

1449
01:10:33,400 --> 01:10:35,479
Speaker 1: be like, Okay, you know what, I gotta step my

1450
01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:37,360
Speaker 1: shit up when I with her, you know what I'm saying.

1451
01:10:37,720 --> 01:10:40,479
Speaker 1: So now to the point to where like when I

1452
01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:42,080
Speaker 1: like the other day, I was telling y'all, like I

1453
01:10:42,120 --> 01:10:43,800
Speaker 1: told my nigga, I'm gonna get my nails done. He

1454
01:10:43,840 --> 01:10:45,800
Speaker 1: cashed out me to go get my shit done, you know,

1455
01:10:45,920 --> 01:10:48,040
Speaker 1: because niggas know it's a bill to be fine. So

1456
01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:50,800
Speaker 1: I feel like it's what you exude, so you don't

1457
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:53,920
Speaker 1: and then I see your picture. Girl, you cute. You fine,

1458
01:10:53,960 --> 01:10:56,120
Speaker 1: You're not gonna have no problem finding no man. You

1459
01:10:56,320 --> 01:10:59,240
Speaker 1: just have to exude that. And I tell my friend

1460
01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:02,040
Speaker 1: this all the time because she always goes out with men,

1461
01:11:02,479 --> 01:11:04,280
Speaker 1: and she used to be that girl. She she evene

1462
01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:06,320
Speaker 1: made a lot of fucking money in her life, like

1463
01:11:06,560 --> 01:11:08,720
Speaker 1: this should have made a lot of money. And she

1464
01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:11,040
Speaker 1: was always that girl that was taking care of niggas.

1465
01:11:11,400 --> 01:11:13,400
Speaker 1: So now when she goes out on days, she'd be like, yeah,

1466
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:15,360
Speaker 1: I used to take care of niggas, but I'm not

1467
01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 1: doing that shit no more. I want to be taken

1468
01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:19,200
Speaker 1: care of. But I'm like, bro, stop telling niggas that

1469
01:11:19,240 --> 01:11:21,599
Speaker 1: you used to take care of niggas. Period. Yeah. Stop,

1470
01:11:21,640 --> 01:11:24,880
Speaker 1: don't don't say that. Stop you know, don't even tell

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01:11:24,920 --> 01:11:26,639
Speaker 1: them that period. You just need to be sit there

1472
01:11:27,120 --> 01:11:29,160
Speaker 1: and be like yeah, okay, and just get to know

1473
01:11:29,280 --> 01:11:32,240
Speaker 1: people and see and see what does what they say first,

1474
01:11:32,600 --> 01:11:34,760
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And if they say something like, oh,

1475
01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:36,519
Speaker 1: I don't do this, then that's you be like, oh,

1476
01:11:36,960 --> 01:11:38,479
Speaker 1: well I'm used to this and this is what I

1477
01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:40,800
Speaker 1: usually do. Right, And now y'all can figure out if

1478
01:11:40,880 --> 01:11:43,200
Speaker 1: y'all compatible and y'all can figure out y'all compatible. So

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01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:45,640
Speaker 1: I feel like there's no you can't just go to

1480
01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:48,320
Speaker 1: a certain There's not like one club or one bar

1481
01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:51,000
Speaker 1: or one place that you can go and find the

1482
01:11:51,080 --> 01:11:53,160
Speaker 1: man and owe all the men with money are there.

1483
01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:56,640
Speaker 1: I mean there is. I mean there are places like

1484
01:11:56,760 --> 01:12:00,640
Speaker 1: that go to that wealthy men frequent, but that's not

1485
01:12:00,760 --> 01:12:03,000
Speaker 1: how we get down. So we can't give you advice

1486
01:12:03,080 --> 01:12:06,439
Speaker 1: on that. Yeah we can. I mean I just feel like, honestly,

1487
01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:09,479
Speaker 1: for me, majority of the time in the past, when

1488
01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:12,040
Speaker 1: I've dated guys who have money, like I either ran

1489
01:12:12,200 --> 01:12:15,479
Speaker 1: into them on some like just genuine I'm out, or

1490
01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:18,639
Speaker 1: I'm working and I've ran into niggas because I've worked

1491
01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:20,360
Speaker 1: at a lot of clubs and stuff, so you know

1492
01:12:20,439 --> 01:12:22,960
Speaker 1: what I mean. So I would run into niggas, meet

1493
01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:27,160
Speaker 1: niggas in the club, or I would meet people through

1494
01:12:27,200 --> 01:12:29,719
Speaker 1: my friends, like say, my friend might know the person

1495
01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:31,599
Speaker 1: I know somebody who know his first day, like, oh,

1496
01:12:31,640 --> 01:12:33,759
Speaker 1: I think that you will be a good match today

1497
01:12:33,840 --> 01:12:36,200
Speaker 1: this guy like I think you his type, or all

1498
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:38,160
Speaker 1: these niggas seeing you out with me one day and

1499
01:12:38,200 --> 01:12:40,680
Speaker 1: he was like he want to fuck. That's how I've

1500
01:12:40,760 --> 01:12:43,360
Speaker 1: met a lot of guys that I've my biggest My

1501
01:12:43,479 --> 01:12:45,720
Speaker 1: biggest thing that I've gotten in with money from has

1502
01:12:45,720 --> 01:12:49,400
Speaker 1: always been through a friend. Yeah, same like friend, or

1503
01:12:49,520 --> 01:12:53,080
Speaker 1: like I said, i've met them myself. Are you know?

1504
01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:56,919
Speaker 1: Also too, I'm not gonna lie like me. Media presents

1505
01:12:57,000 --> 01:12:59,360
Speaker 1: and stuff like that too, don't hurt like niggas will.

1506
01:12:59,600 --> 01:13:01,960
Speaker 1: Especially back when the algorithms and things like that was

1507
01:13:02,000 --> 01:13:04,360
Speaker 1: different on Instagram. It was easier for your pictures to

1508
01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:06,479
Speaker 1: pop up on the explore page and a lot of

1509
01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:08,920
Speaker 1: niggas with like blue Chicks. Then she used to slide

1510
01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:11,040
Speaker 1: in my DMS seven of the day. So I mean,

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01:13:11,360 --> 01:13:13,560
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, but I'll say this for like you know,

1512
01:13:13,720 --> 01:13:18,280
Speaker 1: for you, I would say, just go out. You'll meet people.

1513
01:13:18,640 --> 01:13:20,840
Speaker 1: And the thing is if you know your friends, if

1514
01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 1: they work at certain places or you know that they

1515
01:13:23,360 --> 01:13:25,840
Speaker 1: have friends that may don't tell your friends to be

1516
01:13:25,880 --> 01:13:27,840
Speaker 1: hooking you up and let them know what you're looking for.

1517
01:13:28,439 --> 01:13:30,719
Speaker 1: Your friends know what you like. Let me tell you something.

1518
01:13:31,520 --> 01:13:33,680
Speaker 1: The best people to hook you up, honestly for me

1519
01:13:33,960 --> 01:13:35,960
Speaker 1: is my friends, because my friends know what I like

1520
01:13:36,400 --> 01:13:39,080
Speaker 1: and they know what the fuck I expect. Every time

1521
01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:41,080
Speaker 1: my friends have hooked me over, somebody end up being

1522
01:13:41,160 --> 01:13:44,000
Speaker 1: like a cool little situation. Yeah, I'm out. She was

1523
01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:46,800
Speaker 1: in a relationship for a long time, girl, fuck you,

1524
01:13:49,600 --> 01:13:59,400
Speaker 1: Fuck you for that really, honestly, I mean situation. Y'all

1525
01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:02,040
Speaker 1: need to listen to her. She was in love, she

1526
01:14:02,240 --> 01:14:05,200
Speaker 1: was head over here. I wouldn't get her to spend time.

1527
01:14:05,280 --> 01:14:07,439
Speaker 1: Would be the same for a fucking life. So I

1528
01:14:07,479 --> 01:14:09,280
Speaker 1: would say, get your friends and hook you up. Fine,

1529
01:14:09,360 --> 01:14:11,320
Speaker 1: tell your friends to hook you up with a friend.

1530
01:14:11,920 --> 01:14:15,519
Speaker 1: And that always works for me personally. Okay, So good luck, sister,

1531
01:14:15,760 --> 01:14:17,720
Speaker 1: And definitely I think you're doing the right decision with

1532
01:14:18,120 --> 01:14:20,720
Speaker 1: leaving that man alone, because I'm sorry he broke and

1533
01:14:20,800 --> 01:14:22,680
Speaker 1: it's always a good decision to leave it broke me.

1534
01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:24,880
Speaker 1: Good line. If you don't have the ambition that I

1535
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:27,160
Speaker 1: don't need you around, if you don't have a fund,

1536
01:14:27,760 --> 01:14:31,639
Speaker 1: we don't need your period. Okay, so what's the next question. Okay,

1537
01:14:31,800 --> 01:14:35,559
Speaker 1: So the next question is it says advice. It's from

1538
01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:39,559
Speaker 1: Tea Bill. She said, Hey, y'all, Okay, I was kind

1539
01:14:39,600 --> 01:14:41,439
Speaker 1: of involved with a guy who has an on and

1540
01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:44,639
Speaker 1: off girlfriend, Like literally, if he with her, he doesn't

1541
01:14:44,640 --> 01:14:47,200
Speaker 1: talk to me and vice versas. A few weeks ago,

1542
01:14:47,280 --> 01:14:49,679
Speaker 1: I decided I can't do it anymore because I can't

1543
01:14:49,680 --> 01:14:52,920
Speaker 1: come stick into no beach period and plus I be

1544
01:14:53,000 --> 01:14:55,160
Speaker 1: feeling like I got to wait my turn to have him.

1545
01:14:55,760 --> 01:14:58,000
Speaker 1: But now I guess he is not with her at

1546
01:14:58,080 --> 01:15:00,599
Speaker 1: all anymore and be hitting me up. Damn. Every day

1547
01:15:00,920 --> 01:15:03,760
Speaker 1: he's blocked, he calls privy or he's me up on

1548
01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:06,720
Speaker 1: social media. No and stop. But I think I'm over it.

1549
01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:12,040
Speaker 1: But what but I'm not? M Okay, what should I do?

1550
01:15:12,680 --> 01:15:14,559
Speaker 1: Go back to fucking with him or leave it alone?

1551
01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:16,560
Speaker 1: I think you should leave his ass alone to be

1552
01:15:16,640 --> 01:15:18,400
Speaker 1: yourn ease, because I feel like at the end of

1553
01:15:18,439 --> 01:15:21,479
Speaker 1: the day, you were option b Yeah, pretty much because

1554
01:15:21,479 --> 01:15:24,160
Speaker 1: you said he you said that was his girlfriend, so

1555
01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:26,519
Speaker 1: whenever he would be fucking with her, he wouldn't talk

1556
01:15:26,560 --> 01:15:29,400
Speaker 1: to you. But that's his girlfriend, so and you're not

1557
01:15:29,520 --> 01:15:31,800
Speaker 1: the girlfriend, right, so I feel like he already had

1558
01:15:31,840 --> 01:15:34,160
Speaker 1: made he's a choice. And then yeah, they not together

1559
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:37,320
Speaker 1: right now for whatever reason, but get back together. And

1560
01:15:37,439 --> 01:15:39,760
Speaker 1: you don't know why they're not together. At the same time,

1561
01:15:39,920 --> 01:15:41,880
Speaker 1: she maybe she got him blocked and she not fucking

1562
01:15:41,920 --> 01:15:44,320
Speaker 1: with him right because niggas loves to lie, so the

1563
01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:46,559
Speaker 1: meaning that she might want his ass back he gonna

1564
01:15:46,600 --> 01:15:49,080
Speaker 1: dub you again and leave right because I feel like

1565
01:15:49,880 --> 01:15:53,080
Speaker 1: sometimes situations be like, you know, nigga have a girlfriend

1566
01:15:54,040 --> 01:15:56,519
Speaker 1: and they be good and then they meet somebody and

1567
01:15:56,680 --> 01:15:59,000
Speaker 1: shit happens. You can't help who you connect with. But

1568
01:15:59,600 --> 01:16:02,320
Speaker 1: for to be completely ignoring you and trying to be

1569
01:16:02,439 --> 01:16:04,280
Speaker 1: back and forth and the only time he fucks with

1570
01:16:04,360 --> 01:16:07,280
Speaker 1: you is when him and his girl aren't good. That's

1571
01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:09,519
Speaker 1: the ship I don't like. Don't fuck with me just

1572
01:16:09,600 --> 01:16:11,920
Speaker 1: because you and your bitch arguing right now, if you're

1573
01:16:11,920 --> 01:16:13,720
Speaker 1: gonna talk to me and we're gonna be friends or

1574
01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:16,360
Speaker 1: whatever we got going on, because I don't judge people's situation.

1575
01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:18,439
Speaker 1: So if you're gonna fuck with somebody who needs to

1576
01:16:18,479 --> 01:16:22,000
Speaker 1: fuck with them, period, not just when the person that

1577
01:16:22,080 --> 01:16:23,960
Speaker 1: they really want to fuck with not fucking with them.

1578
01:16:24,240 --> 01:16:26,680
Speaker 1: So I would say, sister, fuck that nigga. Send him

1579
01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:28,680
Speaker 1: to the car, because like I said, you don't want

1580
01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:31,400
Speaker 1: to be it's never. You don't want to never come

1581
01:16:31,479 --> 01:16:33,599
Speaker 1: seconds And yeah, you don't want to make a nigga

1582
01:16:33,680 --> 01:16:36,479
Speaker 1: feel like like he can have you whenever he wants you.

1583
01:16:37,040 --> 01:16:39,439
Speaker 1: That's not cool, you know what I'm saying. Like, like

1584
01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:41,519
Speaker 1: I said, it was his girlfriend so he got the

1585
01:16:41,600 --> 01:16:48,920
Speaker 1: money girl, you know, because you ain't tell us that part,

1586
01:16:49,120 --> 01:16:51,519
Speaker 1: so you know, maybe you may know you should have

1587
01:16:51,560 --> 01:16:57,200
Speaker 1: added that if it's beneficial to fuck with him, put

1588
01:16:57,320 --> 01:16:59,800
Speaker 1: you out burning for the right and it's just nothing

1589
01:16:59,840 --> 01:17:02,960
Speaker 1: but dicking dates and send them to the curb. But yeah,

1590
01:17:03,000 --> 01:17:05,599
Speaker 1: I say, but if you but if your feelings are involved,

1591
01:17:05,640 --> 01:17:07,439
Speaker 1: you don't want to do that to yourself. Honestly, If

1592
01:17:07,439 --> 01:17:09,160
Speaker 1: your feelings are involved with this man and you know

1593
01:17:09,240 --> 01:17:11,280
Speaker 1: it's best to cut him off, then just leave him

1594
01:17:11,280 --> 01:17:13,679
Speaker 1: alone as was. But like obviously her feelings involved, because

1595
01:17:13,720 --> 01:17:15,920
Speaker 1: if they wasn't, she would have been pity. Yeah, I

1596
01:17:15,920 --> 01:17:18,000
Speaker 1: would say cut him off because, like I said, I

1597
01:17:18,200 --> 01:17:20,760
Speaker 1: hate when like if a nigga has a girlfriend, don't

1598
01:17:20,760 --> 01:17:22,160
Speaker 1: fuck with me when she's mad at you. If you

1599
01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:23,600
Speaker 1: if you're gonna talk to me, then it needs to

1600
01:17:23,640 --> 01:17:25,960
Speaker 1: be like a consistent whatever we're doing. You know what

1601
01:17:25,960 --> 01:17:27,720
Speaker 1: I'm saying. You just told us the beast. If you

1602
01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:30,439
Speaker 1: don't want me, then don't talk to me. God had

1603
01:17:30,560 --> 01:17:35,400
Speaker 1: him free, y'all said, man, and don't talk to me,

1604
01:17:36,400 --> 01:17:44,200
Speaker 1: So it ain't It's okay though everybody anyways, I'm just

1605
01:17:44,400 --> 01:17:47,160
Speaker 1: everybody can't do everything Damn, I forgot somebody told me

1606
01:17:47,200 --> 01:17:48,880
Speaker 1: to sing a song and I forgot what it was

1607
01:17:49,320 --> 01:17:52,519
Speaker 1: good anyways, but yeah, that was the advice for the week.

1608
01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:55,000
Speaker 1: Make sure y'all always email us if you have any questions,

1609
01:17:55,520 --> 01:17:58,559
Speaker 1: email us at ask poor Monds at gmail dot com.

1610
01:17:59,240 --> 01:18:02,679
Speaker 1: And we have a se guests on our episode. Next week,

1611
01:18:03,800 --> 01:18:06,840
Speaker 1: we'll have Carla from Ship I'm thirty podcasts and make

1612
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:09,759
Speaker 1: sure y'all check that out. Shout out to a little Carla.

1613
01:18:09,840 --> 01:18:11,400
Speaker 1: We also did the episode with her, so make sure

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01:18:11,439 --> 01:18:15,040
Speaker 1: y'll check out on her Yeah podcast. Will make sure

1615
01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:18,080
Speaker 1: you check out the ship our thirty podcasts, and we'll

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01:18:18,120 --> 01:18:20,000
Speaker 1: see y'all next week. By Mine