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Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, Chip, Hi, Happy December. This is crazy. We

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Speaker 1: say this every month and every week and every podcast.

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Speaker 1: I feel but we're like, how is time going by?

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Speaker 2: So my parents warned me.

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Speaker 1: When you get older, Well, it is crazy. It is December,

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Speaker 1: and we actually missed you guys on like last week.

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Speaker 1: I guess that was it was day after Thanksgiving Black Friday.

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Speaker 1: We took the week off, and we're trying to be

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Speaker 1: a lot better about that and really appreciate you guys

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Speaker 1: loving the replays or favorite episodes that we post during

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Speaker 1: that time. Sometimes it's actually kind of fun. I get

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Speaker 1: messages from listeners and they're like, how did I miss

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Speaker 1: this one? Like they haven't they had missed it somehow

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Speaker 1: or hadn't heard that topic. So I do like to

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Speaker 1: bring some of my favorite episodes back around anyway. But

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Speaker 1: mostly Chip and I are just trying to be more

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Speaker 1: conscious of everything that we say to you all, which

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Speaker 1: is managed, you know, trying to live what we talk about,

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Speaker 1: which is just managing you know, stress levels and finding

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Speaker 1: balance in your life, and also just not completely you know,

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Speaker 1: negating what your body is telling you, like listening to

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Speaker 1: yourself a little bit more. So I do feel like

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Speaker 1: we've done a bit of a better job of not

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Speaker 1: killing ourselves and using this podcast as a platform to

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Speaker 1: connect with you guys and also you know, spread some

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Speaker 1: of the things that we're learning about and love to

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Speaker 1: talk about and grow together and all of those things.

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Speaker 1: But that also includes having boundaries, which is really really interesting.

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Speaker 2: Well, especially at this point of the year too. It's like,

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Speaker 2: not only do we need to respect our own but

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Speaker 2: we need to respect the boundaries of you listeners too,

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Speaker 2: because it is like the holiday season and we're a

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Speaker 2: little distracted and trying to connect with family and all

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Speaker 1: So well, we just wanted content to be good too,

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Speaker 1: So true that too, I want to just be fun

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Speaker 1: in it in But anyway, we missed you guys last

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Speaker 1: week and it's to be back today. And I hope

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Speaker 1: that everyone had a great Thanksgiving holiday. Did you have

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Speaker 1: a good holiday? Tip? I really haven't even thought here.

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Speaker 2: It was really chill. I Mark and I just first

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Speaker 2: or some other like larger obligations. So Mark and I

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Speaker 2: just like made a big Thanksgiving feast at my house.

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Speaker 2: I've never cooked a turkey before in my life, and

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Speaker 2: I got to tell you how that go. I knocked

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Speaker 2: it out of the fucking part.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't believe it, and it will, you know, because

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Speaker 2: it's like it seems like it's going to be a

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I believe in yourself. I believe.

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Speaker 2: That turkey can't find it. But I will tell you

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Speaker 2: it is weird. It is weird the first time you

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Speaker 2: out and then pull this turkey out and it's like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: start like rubbing butter all over it and basically fisting

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Speaker 1: Have paid to a turkey.

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Speaker 2: This is the gross. It's so gross, and at a

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Speaker 2: certain point you're just like, give me more salt.

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Speaker 1: What did you did you like make a gagging noise

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Speaker 2: Well, this is the other weird thing for those of

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Speaker 2: what the giblets are, but the giblets are giblets. No,

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Speaker 2: Mean it is spelled with a G, so you could

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Speaker 2: be right, but my family's alway said giblets. So they're

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Speaker 1: Why do they even give you that bag?

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Speaker 2: Well, because people use it for like you can chop

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Speaker 2: and you can use the turkey like if you're gonna don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how you can use the turkey neck,

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Speaker 2: don't know. I ziplock and threw it.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I thought when you said that it was just

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Speaker 1: you and Mark, you were going to tell us that

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Speaker 1: you guys went to Olive Garden because you posted about

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Speaker 1: that the other day, and I was thinking, was that

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Speaker 1: their Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 2: No, that was his birthday?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well you know I went bag bigspender daddy.

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Speaker 2: Whoa, Well that was his second birthday dinner. We did

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Speaker 2: another one I surprised. Well, this also happened over Thanksgiving break,

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Speaker 1: Oh I heard about this, Yes, it was real fun.

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Speaker 1: And then he took him to Olive Gardens.

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Speaker 2: And then I'll hear that garden. Let him get the

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Speaker 1: Oh you're like, oh, you can eat baby bread.

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Speaker 2: Sticks in salad. It's such a trick too, because I mean,

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Speaker 2: I love the olive garden, but the bread sticks aren't

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Speaker 2: it's been a while, okay a while, and I can

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Speaker 2: Like they're only good the first time fresh, you know,

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Speaker 2: They were frozen and then baked in the store. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I can't even tell you the last time I went

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Speaker 2: Here, I just wanted to break out in the hives

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Speaker 1: I can't. I know, I don't do three saying that

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Speaker 1: You know, what is the word things that I can eat?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, because I don't do gluten and I don't

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Speaker 1: not like a superstickler. I'm not gonna completely like die

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, and there's not one that's that conveniently located

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Speaker 1: thanksgetting to temptation. But I have to drive by every

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Speaker 2: Did you I mean you could eat the salad except

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Speaker 2: your request. Oh okay, yes, So did your family come

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Speaker 1: My parents came to town and we had Thanksgiving at

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all day it was just fun. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: There you go, there, you go, get paid, holidays, getting

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Speaker 2: up shopping. You need that money, honey.

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Speaker 1: Also, like though, our world shuts down about mid December,

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Speaker 1: and so it's like when gigs are coming in in November,

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Speaker 1: working a lot, but it's been great and really fun.

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Speaker 1: And I'll talk about that in another time because I

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Speaker 2: Glad I didn't say a name.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I think I actually slept a couple of

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Speaker 1: that's not a full Christmas movie because it's not about

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Speaker 1: Christmas specifically, but it is and it's about but it's

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Speaker 1: about love and there's all these different relationships. And I

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Speaker 1: also just love British people, right zoo. I think I

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Speaker 1: must have been one in a past life because I'm

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Speaker 1: so drawn to British people.

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Speaker 2: Well, and it's it's on It's on Netflix now and

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Speaker 2: I just added it because I haven't seen it in forever.

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Speaker 2: Oh really, So I added it to my cue so

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Speaker 2: I could watch it again.

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Speaker 1: It makes me so happy. I could watch it over

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Speaker 1: and over and over.

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Speaker 2: You know. I love it like it's a wonderful life.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, It's just a classic. It's okay, It's a

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Speaker 2: total classic. Yeah, I just saw this is not going

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Speaker 2: to be funny. And I don't know why I'm telling

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Speaker 2: it on the podcast, but I just got sent this

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Speaker 2: like little video and it was this kid. He's British

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Speaker 2: go figure and I'm obsessed with him and he's talking.

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Speaker 2: He gets in the car, he's got like his little

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Speaker 2: tie on. He gets in the car from school and

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Speaker 2: he's telling his mom that he got a classic role

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Speaker 2: in the Christmas play. It just made me think of

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Speaker 2: it because of what you said classic.

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Speaker 1: And she's like, oh my god, well what did you get?

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Speaker 1: Is it Jesus? And he's like no, and he's like

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Speaker 1: got this like shit eating grin on his face. He's

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Speaker 1: so happy. And she goes, well, is it the Three

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Speaker 1: Wise Men? And he's like no, guess again. Like he's

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Speaker 1: like so excited to tell her though he's like so antsy.

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Speaker 1: She goes for one more and he was like no,

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Speaker 1: and she's like okay, like really ideas here, man, I

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Speaker 1: have no idea. What is it? And he looks at

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Speaker 1: her and it's like he's telling her the biggest like

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Speaker 1: win of his life and he goes doorholder number three.

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Speaker 1: It's a true classic, and he's dead serious. Like he

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Speaker 1: thinks that he got awarded. Deep he's like telling her

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Speaker 1: that he's gonna have to wear brown because he thinks

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Speaker 1: I think he thinks he has to dress as a

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Speaker 1: door Like he's so confused. But it's the cutest video ever.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'll post it on my Instagram closer to Christmas.

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Speaker 1: But I just think it's so funny and like what

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Speaker 1: and the mom is like, oh my god, Milo, you

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Speaker 1: have to be so excited. It just made me also

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Speaker 1: think like life is truly how we look.

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Speaker 2: At it one hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: He thinks that he's about to go take over the

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Speaker 1: world because he's doorholder number three. It's like, you're not

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Speaker 1: Jesus bro, Like he did not get a good part.

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Speaker 2: You're not even a wise man.

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Speaker 1: You're not even a candy cake.

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Speaker 2: You're not a snowflake or a tree. Is a doorholder

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Speaker 2: like a person holding the door open.

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Speaker 1: He said, he opens the door for the wise man

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Speaker 1: when they walk up.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing.

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Speaker 1: Well basically his creative Yeah, she like basically made up

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Speaker 1: something because they probably didn't have any other roles.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean maybe he had gone to school being

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Speaker 2: like there's forty seven of us and there's only thirty rolls,

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Speaker 2: I might not get cast and he got.

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Speaker 1: Cassed and then he got the doorholder. So anyway, whatever

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Speaker 1: life gives you lemons, you know, make lemonade that he

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Speaker 1: shirt it. I mean, he's so excited. It's like the joy,

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Speaker 1: the pure joy that he's putting out for being doorholder

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Speaker 1: number three is how on top of it well right,

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Speaker 1: and it's just like when kids have a British accent.

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Speaker 1: It's even cuter. I mean it's the best. So anyway,

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Speaker 1: let's all channel Milo as we go into December, and

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Speaker 1: we have different roles and hopefully they're as big as

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Speaker 1: his role as doorholder number three. But as you guys,

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Speaker 1: I said, you guys can always email us at the

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Speaker 1: edge at velvet edge dot com. You can always hit

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Speaker 1: me up on Insta. I'm at Velvet.

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Speaker 2: Edge, Chip, I'm at Chip door should c H I

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Speaker 2: P D O R S c H.

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Speaker 1: As you guys go into the weekend, then you're living

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Speaker 1: on the edge. I hope you always remember.

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Speaker 2: Too as casual. Bye bye