WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Robing 0:00:00.600 --> 0:00:03.400 From Hollywood to you, Thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:10.400 Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.680 --> 0:00:12.959 Seacrest with You, seits me on vacation. Tany is here 0:00:13.080 --> 0:00:15.800 on his Thursday May thirtie. Good morning in the back 0:00:15.880 --> 0:00:16.919 room ring. 0:00:18.280 --> 0:00:19.479 I did a. 0:00:19.480 --> 0:00:22.680 Pretty good night's sleep last night, and I woke up 0:00:22.680 --> 0:00:24.279 and I thought it was time to go, and it 0:00:24.360 --> 0:00:26.000 was not time to go. It's like that great feeling 0:00:26.040 --> 0:00:29.040 of wow. I feel like I got all my sleep 0:00:29.080 --> 0:00:32.080 and I still had another hour to go. Oh my gosh, 0:00:32.640 --> 0:00:34.760 went out, turned on the coffee machine before I brushed 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:36.000 my teeth and washed my face. 0:00:36.280 --> 0:00:38.599 Robed it. I never robe it. I robed it. 0:00:39.200 --> 0:00:42.560 Okay, if you're not robing it, you are not. 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:43.680 I'm living. 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:46.519 I don't usually robe it. I don't like the skirt 0:00:46.560 --> 0:00:48.000 feeling on my legs. 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:49.479 Oh my gosh. 0:00:49.720 --> 0:00:53.800 To me, there's no greater joy in life than getting 0:00:53.840 --> 0:00:56.360 home at the end of the day, taking off my 0:00:56.400 --> 0:00:59.200 clothes and robing you rub it night. I robe every 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:02.400 single night, but I do it after I shower. So 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:05.320 I shower and then I robe, and I robe all 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:06.600 up until I go to bed. 0:01:06.720 --> 0:01:09.520 Remember the shirts that were made for women that I 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:11.119 didn't know, and I bought called E Turn. 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:13.679 Remember I bought to me Turned. 0:01:14.840 --> 0:01:16.199 I can't say I remember that. 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:18.360 Remember, I'm so excited. 0:01:18.400 --> 0:01:21.120 I had these these black and white T shirts that 0:01:21.160 --> 0:01:24.959 were so cozy, comfortable around the arms that a big 0:01:25.120 --> 0:01:27.000 drop at the arm pit. Yeah, And I was like, 0:01:27.040 --> 0:01:29.039 these are super great sleep shirts. 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:30.440 Yeah. 0:01:30.480 --> 0:01:32.959 It turns out what they were they were open around 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:35.880 the arm pit because they were made for women. And 0:01:35.959 --> 0:01:39.520 I didn't know that they were designed primarily I guess 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:42.280 not for me. But I loved him so much. That's 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:44.119 what I wear. That to me's more comfortable than robing. 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:45.440 I wear those shirts. 0:01:45.440 --> 0:01:47.360 You're not getting the right robe to robin. 0:01:48.120 --> 0:01:51.600 Wrong ros off morning signals versus evenings. 0:01:51.800 --> 0:01:56.120 Oh, there's no greater joy on the weekend then getting 0:01:56.120 --> 0:02:01.000 out of bed robing it making your coffee, getting back 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:03.560 in bed, sipping your Oh my, it's like a blanket. 0:02:03.560 --> 0:02:05.760 It's like a blank Do you have terry clothing? 0:02:06.360 --> 0:02:06.560 No? 0:02:06.680 --> 0:02:10.919 My robing feels like a very delicious blanket. 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:11.760 Yeah, like a cloud. 0:02:12.320 --> 0:02:14.680 It is this, Oh I think I can picture it? 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:15.120 Yes? 0:02:15.880 --> 0:02:18.320 Is it light blue? Is it cotton? Candy collar? 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:21.000 It's white, it's just is cotton kenny pink? 0:02:21.080 --> 0:02:22.800 No, 'tis not. It's just plain white. 0:02:22.800 --> 0:02:24.440 Aren't you robed? You and your wife robber around. I 0:02:24.480 --> 0:02:25.280 am not a rober. 0:02:25.560 --> 0:02:25.760 Yeah. 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:27.400 I have given her a robe in the past. I 0:02:27.440 --> 0:02:29.440 don't think she's worn it much. Not really a rob. 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:30.960 Oh my gosh, you guys are I know. 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:33.400 Robbie's not a rober either. I wish Robbie was a 0:02:33.480 --> 0:02:34.760 Rober like me, but he's not. 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:36.160 No Robbie the rover. 0:02:36.400 --> 0:02:37.359 Robbie's not a rover. 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:38.639 And I love. 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:41.760 I'm telling you, if you come over to my house 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:46.440 and it's like seven pm, I will be. 0:02:46.480 --> 0:02:49.200 In that robe. You just you'll see me in that. 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:50.560 I'm not coming over with your house with you in 0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:54.880 a robe, Like, what is wrong? Ruby, MICHAELA rovers you robe? 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:56.919 I am, but I'm not like a full time rover. 0:02:57.040 --> 0:02:58.640 I only do it like here and there or like 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:02.040 on vacation. Especially vacation is a different thing. 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:04.240 It's all the same. Imagine that at home. 0:03:04.320 --> 0:03:08.720 It's not I don't vacation when I robe it home. 0:03:08.919 --> 0:03:15.080 Yes, you will start on Canoby. 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:16.280 I should get you my robe. I think you'll feel differently. 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:22.480 Look, he's on the phone. Ruby, on the phone. 0:03:22.520 --> 0:03:27.360 This guy Berry's instructor calls Robbie Roby in class. 0:03:27.000 --> 0:03:30.000 Because he knows he's trying to get it into robing. Yes, 0:03:30.600 --> 0:03:32.840 oh well that's how. That's what we do. This is 0:03:32.880 --> 0:03:33.280 our job. 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:37.040 Good morning. I didn't do today. I'm gonna celebrate some 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:39.200 of these schools. Last day at school. Celebrate you guys 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:43.520 this morning, this hour, it's your last day. Congratulations, last 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:47.360 day at school. Can I hear Beverly Hills Unified. 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:51.240 You did it, You did it, you made it. You 0:03:51.320 --> 0:03:53.320 never thought what happened to here? It is you did it. 0:03:54.440 --> 0:04:04.240 It's a Corona Norco, Corona Norco. Last day's today, Riverside 0:04:04.280 --> 0:04:10.520 breaking up this morning, the last dayside, San Bernardino, Good morning, 0:04:10.600 --> 0:04:17.320 San Bernadino. Congratulations you guys, your last day today, San Marino, 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:22.960 San Marino, last day of school today. They know, okay, 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:27.800 this is no Walnut Valley, last day of school today, 0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:38.920 Valle Walt william S Hart School District, Santa Clarita, last 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:39.600 day school today. 0:04:39.839 --> 0:04:42.440 Rita baby hot out there? 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:44.640 All right? 0:04:44.680 --> 0:04:46.560 Well, I mean it really is a big deal, a 0:04:46.560 --> 0:04:50.159 big accomplishment, So be proud of yourself and celebrate it too. 0:04:50.680 --> 0:04:52.200 I I you know, I love, I have ever seen 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:54.960 the you sad the yard signs where people say proud 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:55.880 parent of a graduate. 0:04:56.000 --> 0:04:56.960 Yeah, I just love that. 0:04:57.120 --> 0:04:59.800 I almost want to stop and knock and go. Can 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:01.680 I congratulate you? Because that's a big deal, But that 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:02.960 would be like why am I at your door? 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:03.240 Yeah? 0:05:03.240 --> 0:05:04.600 You should just honk and be like conrash. 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:07.880 Maybe I'll do that for social media, right, knock on 0:05:07.880 --> 0:05:09.680 people's doors and congratulate when I see the sign and 0:05:09.720 --> 0:05:10.280 we'll post it. 0:05:11.440 --> 0:05:12.440 No, maybe do. 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:18.760 It stick to the coffee shops director, Okay, what are 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:19.240 we doing today? 0:05:19.240 --> 0:05:20.839 We're Ryan chores. That's what I want to tell you about. 0:05:20.839 --> 0:05:23.839 So thank you for the pumping circumstance. Ryan's rose. She 0:05:23.920 --> 0:05:26.280 found this really inappropriate text from one of her best 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:28.240 friends to her husband, and she'd thinks something is going 0:05:28.240 --> 0:05:30.000 on with her husband or her best friend behind her back. 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:30.960 It's bad, bad, bad. 0:05:31.240 --> 0:05:33.680 It's at seven point forty, uh, Tanya, while we were 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:34.520 sleep last night. 0:05:34.560 --> 0:05:35.080 What happened? 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:36.000 Well, i'll tell you. 0:05:36.080 --> 0:05:39.240 Things got back to normal for Southwest Airlines after more 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:42.200 than thirteen hundred flights were delayed yesterday due to a 0:05:42.240 --> 0:05:46.800 widespread technology issue. Additional areas in Disneyland will be temporarily 0:05:46.880 --> 0:05:50.359 unavailable this summer as construction crews work on projects in 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:54.760 New Orleans Square and Critter Country. Davy Crockett's Explore Canoes 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:58.599 attraction will close starting July eighth, and Walgreens is joining 0:05:58.680 --> 0:06:02.039 other retailers and cutting prices across the board to lure 0:06:02.080 --> 0:06:05.920 backshoppers turned off by high prices. Prices are dropping immediately 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:09.120 on more than fifteen hundred items. And that's what happened overnight. 0:06:09.360 --> 0:06:11.320 I got your morning hacket if you if you're going 0:06:11.360 --> 0:06:15.760 camp in this summer's gonna keep the mosquitoes away. And 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:17.600 I feel like we talked about it before, but it's 0:06:17.600 --> 0:06:19.120 always good to remind her this time of year. 0:06:19.880 --> 0:06:22.240 To Tanya, before we go any further, we need to 0:06:22.240 --> 0:06:23.080 have a house meeting. 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:25.120 Have you ever had one of these? 0:06:26.320 --> 0:06:28.159 Have I ever had one of these house meeting? 0:06:29.320 --> 0:06:30.320 A skunk at your house? 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:33.360 I have. I've had squirrels in my wall and I've 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:35.720 had a skunk somewhere in the house. We've had to 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:38.920 call for the skunk remover to skunk. 0:06:39.000 --> 0:06:39.440 Okay. 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:42.039 So it's not so easy because when I lived in 0:06:42.080 --> 0:06:44.200 an apartment, if I had a skunk, I'd call my 0:06:44.279 --> 0:06:46.200 landlord and be like, hey, there's a skunk and figure 0:06:46.240 --> 0:06:46.479 it out. 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:48.679 And they would do it. When you live in a house, 0:06:48.839 --> 0:06:51.359 it's very different situation. The skunk is your problem. 0:06:51.480 --> 0:06:53.640 Where tell us about when did you start smelling the skunk? 0:06:53.720 --> 0:06:56.400 So we didn't smell and we saw him so. 0:06:56.120 --> 0:06:57.200 Sunny, then you're good. 0:06:57.480 --> 0:06:58.719 No, no, no, sonny. 0:06:58.720 --> 0:07:03.520 Our dog was like losing her mind, like barking outside 0:07:03.520 --> 0:07:05.600 the window, and Robby and I go and we look 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:07.840 out there and we're like, oh my gosh, we've never 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:10.280 seen a skunk this close in person. It was kind 0:07:10.280 --> 0:07:12.680 of like in the sidewalk in front of our house. 0:07:12.680 --> 0:07:14.080 And am I taller than a skunk? 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:15.480 Way taller? 0:07:15.600 --> 0:07:17.520 It's like probably the size of your hand, no, actually 0:07:17.560 --> 0:07:19.240 the side of your arm, the size of your arm. 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:21.920 And it looked like it was hurt, like it looked 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:23.760 like maybe it had been run over, and like it 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:26.120 was because it was going so slow, like it was 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:27.440 moving at like a snail's pace. 0:07:27.760 --> 0:07:28.760 But it's a skunks. 0:07:29.120 --> 0:07:31.200 But it's a skunk and we know that they go fast. 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:33.040 So we're like, Okay, this skunk is injured. What do 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:34.320 we do because he's like. 0:07:34.520 --> 0:07:36.280 We should help the skunk, but what if we get sprayed? 0:07:36.440 --> 0:07:40.760 Correct, So cut to the skunk ends up somehow moving 0:07:40.840 --> 0:07:42.640 and like, now he's in our doorway, he's on like 0:07:42.680 --> 0:07:44.120 our doormat in front of our front door. 0:07:44.200 --> 0:07:45.560 He really needs a band aid. 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:50.640 So Robbie calls the La County Animal Services to tell them, hey, 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:52.440 we have the skunk and they were like, well, how 0:07:52.480 --> 0:07:53.640 injured is the skunk. 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:55.120 And He's like, I don't know. I'm not like going up. 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:57.920 And giving him an inspection, right, And they were like, 0:07:57.960 --> 0:08:01.040 because what they do is they come and they euthanize 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:03.480 to kind of like if they get run over by 0:08:03.520 --> 0:08:04.800 cars and stuff, to kind of put them out of 0:08:04.800 --> 0:08:07.080 their misery. Then you have to call La Sanitation to 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:09.000 come and remove the body. And Robbie was like, well, 0:08:09.000 --> 0:08:10.920 we don't want to kill the skunk. The skunk seems 0:08:10.920 --> 0:08:13.480 to be moving and fine. 0:08:12.920 --> 0:08:13.760 It's kind of cartoony. 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:15.200 So then we gave up that route. 0:08:15.280 --> 0:08:18.640 So then we're like at work, we come home from work, 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:20.640 the skunk is now in our. 0:08:20.560 --> 0:08:23.560 Backyard because the skunk's making skunk at home. 0:08:23.880 --> 0:08:25.720 Yes, and Sonny is actually the skunk. 0:08:25.800 --> 0:08:27.240 I overheard the call like they're not going to do 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:28.240 anything with me. I'm good. 0:08:28.400 --> 0:08:31.160 Yeah, So we started now we named him pepe pepe 0:08:31.200 --> 0:08:34.080 le Pume and now he's in our backyard and we 0:08:34.080 --> 0:08:35.920 can't let Sonny out to go potty. 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:39.560 Because we're living in your backyard. He's healing, yes, and 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:40.360 he's not sprayed. 0:08:40.520 --> 0:08:41.400 He has not sprayed. 0:08:41.520 --> 0:08:42.000 This is good. 0:08:42.000 --> 0:08:43.760 Maybe he knows that you're trying to help out. He's 0:08:43.760 --> 0:08:44.320 not gonna spray. 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:46.400 So then I got the phone number to this guy 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:49.000 who comes to your house, collects this skunk and then 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:51.439 releases them off the ninety one freeway in Orange County. 0:08:51.559 --> 0:08:52.560 Is this just a random dude? 0:08:52.600 --> 0:08:55.720 This is some random dude, because apparently it's illegal, Like 0:08:55.760 --> 0:08:57.719 you can't advertise that. 0:08:57.880 --> 0:09:00.439 Because they're lets him by the freeway. 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:02.800 Yeah, I don't know. You're not supposed to like move 0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:03.679 animals like that. 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:07.120 I remember I had gerbils, and my gerbils had babies 0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:08.600 and I let them go in the church parking lot 0:09:08.640 --> 0:09:09.959 and everybody was like, oh my gosh, you. 0:09:09.880 --> 0:09:12.600 Can't do that right right, But now we've lost the 0:09:12.640 --> 0:09:15.720 skunk went to some shrubbery and now we've lost We've 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:16.360 lost Pete. 0:09:17.600 --> 0:09:21.120 But that's okay. Maybe he's gone out back into the wild. 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:24.559 I smelled a little skunky smell on my way to 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:26.960 work this morning, so I know Pepe is still around. 0:09:27.679 --> 0:09:31.120 That is a really interesting thing. 0:09:31.600 --> 0:09:33.760 Yeah, you're trying to do but I love that you 0:09:33.800 --> 0:09:35.240 guys are trying to do the right thing here. 0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:37.760 Well, I know, because we're like, he's not injured to 0:09:37.800 --> 0:09:39.760 the like. I guess the point that they come is 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:43.280 if you know when car car misery. 0:09:43.400 --> 0:09:45.760 Yeah, but we're like this guy that's picking up animals 0:09:45.760 --> 0:09:48.320 and taken to the freeway, Like, when does he decide 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:49.600 that's going to be his side hustle. 0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:51.880 I know, I don't think it's a side hustle. I 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:53.800 think it's because of this issue. Like a lot of 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:57.559 people have these animals and they'll call, you know, like County. 0:09:57.559 --> 0:09:59.240 They didn't want to euthanize the animal. 0:09:59.000 --> 0:10:00.760 But they don't know what to do. Well, they call 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:04.760 herb correct. I don't even know his name, Herbs the 0:10:05.000 --> 0:10:05.920 skunk Rescuer. 0:10:06.320 --> 0:10:06.760 Yeah. 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:08.960 How wild though, And then I saw Chrissy Teagan on 0:10:08.960 --> 0:10:11.320 her Instagram story they have a skunk at their house too, 0:10:11.360 --> 0:10:12.640 am I going on her pet based. 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:15.319 I don't know how close you guys live there. Ye, 0:10:15.320 --> 0:10:16.079 he's roaming around. 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:20.480 Yeah, Well, thanks for being sweet to Pep bang Man, 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:23.360 Good morning. Hack is next how to keep Mosquitoes away 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:26.160 from your skunk, I mean your FM headlines with Tanya 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:27.199 rad Well. 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:30.160 Yeah, more than seventy closed ninety nine cents only stores 0:10:30.160 --> 0:10:33.160 across So Cow will reopen as Dollar Tree locations as 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:36.520 part of a massive acquisition by the discount chain. Character 0:10:36.600 --> 0:10:40.920 and parade performers at Disneyland are officially unionized. Federal labor 0:10:40.960 --> 0:10:43.720 officials have certified the results of an election that took 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:47.120 place earlier this month. South Fay police departments are forming 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:50.200 a task force to stop people from recklessly riding e 0:10:50.240 --> 0:10:53.280 bikes and motorcycles. And who has the most over the 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:57.200 top fans? 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But she found this like 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:24.600 really inappropriate text and it was from her best friend. 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:26.839 One of her best friends to her husband. 0:11:29.000 --> 0:11:32.200 Yeah, I would, I just can't picture it. 0:11:32.480 --> 0:11:33.600 Well, we need to find out what was in the 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:37.080 text and then all the why there let's coming out 0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:37.640 in a second. 0:11:38.600 --> 0:11:40.520 Uh, let's grab our password. 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:45.760 Contestant for Disneyland tickets, Arianna and Urlita, Ariana of our 0:11:45.800 --> 0:11:46.559 lead ticket morning. 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:52.080 Oh my god, how you doing in shuck? My heart 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:52.800 is like racing. 0:11:53.200 --> 0:11:55.000 Oh but that's been listening. 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:56.840 To y'all since I was like a teenager, and I'm 0:11:57.600 --> 0:11:59.920 I'm thirty four with children now, so it's, oh my. 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:03.760 Gosh, that's crazy town. I can't. 0:12:04.200 --> 0:12:07.000 I mean, it's amazing. But think of how much you've accomplished. 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:09.240 My enter child right now, and I'm not going to 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:11.800 adult right now. Okay, So if I sound a little sunky, 0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:12.960 it's my excitement. 0:12:13.200 --> 0:12:14.679 All right, Well, you're getting it done. And how many 0:12:14.720 --> 0:12:15.199 kids you got? 0:12:16.200 --> 0:12:16.800 I have three? 0:12:17.080 --> 0:12:17.320 Wow? 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:18.120 Wow? 0:12:18.520 --> 0:12:20.400 And you start when you're a teenager listeners on. 0:12:20.400 --> 0:12:23.880 Kiss at that Yeah, with my mom. So it's this tradition. 0:12:23.960 --> 0:12:25.880 And now my little one. You can always hear my 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:31.840 little six year old, she's always like kids every morning. 0:12:32.120 --> 0:12:33.160 So that's great. 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:36.000 Okay, So let's try and get you these Disneyland tickets. 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:38.640 For your kids. It's called password. All right. 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:41.240 Have you heard a speaked password before? It's where the 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:45.680 our producer marked is that I don't know cringey voice. 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:50.000 So it's no, no, I'm not agreeing with you, but I mean, yeah, 0:12:50.000 --> 0:12:51.560 I kind of have an idea of the game. 0:12:52.360 --> 0:12:56.000 So here's all. So all of us here in the 0:12:56.080 --> 0:12:58.400 room and everybody listening is going to know the password. 0:12:58.440 --> 0:12:58.719 You will not. 0:12:58.760 --> 0:13:00.600 We'll put you on hold. You will not hear the password. 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:03.720 We will give you one word clues. Those clues should 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:09.559 trigger the password. It's a word, okay, so hold on. 0:13:09.480 --> 0:13:10.480 One second and here we go. 0:13:10.559 --> 0:13:13.040 It's pretty Yeah, it's kind of fun actually, because we're 0:13:13.720 --> 0:13:14.640 often terrible at it. 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:16.640 Hold on, all right, speech for your song? 0:13:16.880 --> 0:13:25.600 I am the password is popsicle? Why the ding? So 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:28.880 that's how it is on the show. You don't answer 0:13:28.880 --> 0:13:33.400 the question in the creepy voice. Sorry, all right, Ariana, 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:35.480 here we go. Are you ready? 0:13:36.520 --> 0:13:36.720 Yeah? 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:39.720 Uh? 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:41.000 Tany you want to start? 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:41.360 Sure? 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:43.440 Frozen. 0:13:49.280 --> 0:13:51.120 I don't know why I'm thinking Elsa and Anna? 0:13:51.240 --> 0:13:52.800 Yeah, exactly, That's what I was thinking too. Is the 0:13:52.880 --> 0:14:03.680 terrible clue? Uh terrible? Clearly had one creamsickle? 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:04.719 You? 0:14:05.160 --> 0:14:09.239 I scream no, what Tanya. 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:12.800 Yes, yes, it's popsicle, she said, she said popsicle. 0:14:13.480 --> 0:14:17.800 She said popsicle. Why the look of terror on your face? 0:14:18.040 --> 0:14:21.520 Because the word is popsicle. You can't say creamsicle. You 0:14:21.520 --> 0:14:23.240 can't know the word in the clue. 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:25.280 I didn't I use creamsickle. 0:14:24.800 --> 0:14:28.760 Sickle sickle. It's like, if the word is you can't 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:30.240 say like I brown. 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:34.600 Are right, well, we have a little problem. 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:36.960 She just shouldn't suffer from your mistake. 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:43.080 Okay, excuse me, word assistant. Hold on, Ariana, Hold on 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:43.960 one second, All right. 0:14:43.960 --> 0:14:46.800 Man, I mean yeah, she should win the tickets. She's 0:14:46.840 --> 0:14:49.720 gonna get the ticket. Hold on, y'all, it's creamsickle. I 0:14:49.720 --> 0:14:54.280 didn't say popsicle, Ariana. They're being very nickpicky here this morning. 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:56.360 Anyone would agree. 0:14:56.840 --> 0:15:00.000 Uh, I'm gonna you get the tickets. You won, clearly, 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:02.120 good job, you're a very good player. 0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:03.000 Password. 0:15:03.400 --> 0:15:05.440 Congratulations, you're going to Disneyland. You got a four pack 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:05.800 of tics. 0:15:05.840 --> 0:15:07.800 My god, my face got so hot right now. 0:15:08.360 --> 0:15:09.680 Yay, you did it. 0:15:09.840 --> 0:15:13.600 Gonna cry. I mean, I have three kids. I'm like 0:15:13.640 --> 0:15:16.040 stuttering here, so it's like, I'm so thankful. 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:17.640 My god, you're so welcome. 0:15:17.640 --> 0:15:21.400 We appreciate your loyalty for generations listening to Kiss. 0:15:21.600 --> 0:15:25.160 Yeah crying, Oh my godness, my daughter's birthday this Friday. 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:30.480 So what's oldest? It's Alicia, Alicia, and what's the six 0:15:30.520 --> 0:15:32.320 year old? The things kiss f M. 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:36.200 Yes, her name is Juliet. 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:39.360 Juliet and oh so good. Well, thank you to the 0:15:39.400 --> 0:15:42.520 fam for listening. You guys enjoyed Disneyland. 0:15:42.720 --> 0:15:43.160 You're with me. 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:44.800 We love you, we love you. 0:15:45.360 --> 0:15:49.000 Thank you for you have fun and you know you're 0:15:49.000 --> 0:15:50.080 one of our best contestants. 0:15:50.080 --> 0:15:51.080 You got it after two. 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:56.920 Clues, Creamsicle, what were you going to say? I was 0:15:56.920 --> 0:15:58.920 gonna say dessert summer. 0:15:59.680 --> 0:16:03.840 It would have taken to the next point. No, you would. 0:16:04.000 --> 0:16:07.720 She's not gonna get it after frozen summer Dessert. 0:16:07.800 --> 0:16:10.600 Who agrees with me? Ryan broke the rules? 0:16:11.160 --> 0:16:13.840 Well, I wanted her to win. You clearly didn't. 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:15.920 No, I wanted her to win. But she can win 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:16.360 the right way. 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:19.280 Well, cream Sickle, if the word were. 0:16:21.880 --> 0:16:26.160 Chaps lipstick, you couldn't say red stick. 0:16:27.360 --> 0:16:30.200 Well, if I did, I would fire me because that's 0:16:30.200 --> 0:16:33.120 a terrible clue. All right, let's come back with Raquel 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:35.280 from Running Mommies. Have you heard about this group? In 0:16:35.320 --> 0:16:37.880 Boyle Heights. They created a safe space for moms to 0:16:38.040 --> 0:16:40.640 run on the east side because there was like an 0:16:40.680 --> 0:16:41.280 issue with that. 0:16:41.360 --> 0:16:43.600 So we'll tell you the story coming up here. 0:16:43.640 --> 0:16:48.680 In just the second Raquel Roman and other Latina moms 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:52.200 started at Running Mummies m a m s with a 0:16:52.240 --> 0:16:55.160 plan to create a welcoming space for mothers to run 0:16:55.160 --> 0:16:55.960 for exercise. 0:16:56.040 --> 0:16:56.800 It's great. 0:16:57.840 --> 0:17:00.880 So they have been frustrated and they they put their 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:05.240 running feet down and said we're doing something about it. 0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:09.680 Their first meetup was at the LA State Historic Park 0:17:10.160 --> 0:17:13.720 with only ten runners and they've created this running club 0:17:13.760 --> 0:17:20.320 now called Running Mommy's m Amis and Raquel Ramond in 0:17:21.400 --> 0:17:24.399 Bowl Heights is joining us now. So Raquel, tell us 0:17:24.960 --> 0:17:28.000 what inspired you to create the running club there out 0:17:28.040 --> 0:17:30.520 in Boyle Heights. 0:17:30.040 --> 0:17:35.240 Hi ran. We were inspired by our children. We were 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:38.320 new mothers and we wanted to have a safe space 0:17:38.520 --> 0:17:43.040 for not just ourselves, but for other mothers, new mothers 0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:49.040 that were runners and were returning back from eternity and 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:55.520 we're experiencing sometimes postpartum depression, and so we wanted to 0:17:55.560 --> 0:17:58.160 create a safe space to welcome all new mothers. 0:17:58.320 --> 0:18:02.080 And so in the past, you would, I mean the 0:18:02.200 --> 0:18:04.280 roads are dangerous, there's not a good place to do it. 0:18:05.680 --> 0:18:08.560 You would be bothered, right, You get cat. 0:18:08.359 --> 0:18:14.840 Calls, yes, cat calls. Sometimes the pavements aren't even and 0:18:14.920 --> 0:18:17.720 so that makes it even harder. When you have a stroller, 0:18:18.720 --> 0:18:21.920 you could trip because an accident. So there is lots 0:18:21.960 --> 0:18:25.000 of dangerous and the cat calls, and so running in 0:18:25.040 --> 0:18:28.520 a pack with other women just trade a safer environment 0:18:28.640 --> 0:18:29.240 for everybody. 0:18:29.640 --> 0:18:32.240 And what do you do about the road hazards? How 0:18:32.280 --> 0:18:33.040 do you fix those? 0:18:34.680 --> 0:18:37.359 So we run in a pack, so when you're in 0:18:37.400 --> 0:18:40.679 a larger group, you call more attention. We were a 0:18:40.680 --> 0:18:45.000 safety vest, we have past shirts. We also we're very 0:18:45.080 --> 0:18:47.480 familiar with our local streets. Now we run out of 0:18:47.640 --> 0:18:51.080 La Historic Park. We also when the training we go 0:18:51.119 --> 0:18:53.719 to Griffith Park and so there's a lot of areas 0:18:53.760 --> 0:18:55.639 where we're able to run safely. 0:18:55.280 --> 0:18:55.760 In a group. 0:18:56.119 --> 0:18:58.000 And the running club as I was reading here, ages 0:18:58.040 --> 0:19:02.000 eighteen to over sixty. 0:19:01.080 --> 0:19:07.240 Yes, we have. Since we started, we've recruited nieces, grandmothers. 0:19:07.240 --> 0:19:10.520 My own mother goes and joins us, and so it's 0:19:10.600 --> 0:19:14.879 multi generational. Our kids are running with us. Younger women 0:19:14.960 --> 0:19:19.280 are getting motivated by their by their older aunts, older sisters, 0:19:19.320 --> 0:19:23.280 and so it's it's a great space for community, not 0:19:23.320 --> 0:19:26.520 only because it's women, but it's multi generational. 0:19:26.920 --> 0:19:27.800 So it's a running club. 0:19:27.840 --> 0:19:31.000 It's on the East side Boil Heights, and it's now 0:19:31.000 --> 0:19:33.440 officially in nike La Running Club. 0:19:33.480 --> 0:19:36.480 They've been recognized. How can tell me? 0:19:36.760 --> 0:19:39.840 I don't know the answer to this, So I'm curious 0:19:40.160 --> 0:19:42.200 how has it helped with postpartum depression? 0:19:42.240 --> 0:19:46.560 The running, Well, it creates community. You're able to come 0:19:46.760 --> 0:19:49.919 together with other women, uh and talk about the issues 0:19:50.000 --> 0:19:53.800 you're you're facing as a new time, first time mom. 0:19:54.880 --> 0:19:59.240 We could talk about breastfeeding, we could talk about cipher changes, 0:19:59.520 --> 0:20:05.320 we and moving, especially moving and running releases, endorsements. So 0:20:05.520 --> 0:20:10.560 movement just helps in the healing of dealing with postpartum depression. 0:20:10.680 --> 0:20:13.720 I'm looking at a photo of you, Rachel with your mom. 0:20:13.840 --> 0:20:16.720 How awesome is it to get cardio in exercise with 0:20:16.760 --> 0:20:18.440 your mom? 0:20:18.840 --> 0:20:22.960 Yeah, we were doing it quite often every weekend. Right now, 0:20:23.040 --> 0:20:26.120 we're a little busy. The school years coming to an end, 0:20:26.400 --> 0:20:28.720 and so I've been super busy. So once a month 0:20:28.840 --> 0:20:32.879 is now the time when we get together and or 0:20:32.920 --> 0:20:36.119 she comes to running Mommies and runs with not just me, 0:20:36.240 --> 0:20:37.880 but all the other moms in the group. 0:20:38.359 --> 0:20:38.800 That's great. 0:20:38.800 --> 0:20:41.400 You can check them out look at at running Dot 0:20:41.600 --> 0:20:45.479 Mommy's m a m I ask on Instagram, what a 0:20:45.560 --> 0:20:48.440 great story in the neighborhood out there in What Heights. 0:20:48.440 --> 0:20:50.560 Thank you for listening to us and thank you for 0:20:50.640 --> 0:20:52.800 calling in to share. I hope you continue to grow 0:20:52.840 --> 0:20:54.199 the club and everybody sticks with it. 0:20:55.080 --> 0:20:57.880 Thank you everyone, Thank you Ryan, take. 0:20:57.640 --> 0:20:59.920 Care you too, Bye. 0:21:00.680 --> 0:21:03.480 I think you can join right because I'm looking to 0:21:03.520 --> 0:21:07.639 get people coming from all over to join San Diego Ventura, 0:21:07.840 --> 0:21:09.159 So if you want to join that and get out 0:21:09.240 --> 0:21:14.159 to Running Mummies out there on the east side one of. 0:21:14.200 --> 0:21:16.440 Two point seven. It is Kiss. 0:21:16.240 --> 0:21:20.280 FM, So Systney's out of vacation, Tanya and I here. 0:21:20.480 --> 0:21:22.520 We're getting into Ryan's roses right now. 0:21:23.440 --> 0:21:28.720 Dear Ryan, Sisney and Tanya, I found a super inappropriate 0:21:28.760 --> 0:21:32.840 text one of my best friends to my husband. They 0:21:32.920 --> 0:21:37.040 both say like they're both covering for each other. They 0:21:37.240 --> 0:21:41.760 both say it was just a funny mistake. She has 0:21:41.840 --> 0:21:45.080 a bad feeling about it. Nicolette coming on with us 0:21:45.160 --> 0:21:47.520 right now and fuller to Nicolette, thank you for reaching out. 0:21:47.520 --> 0:21:49.200 We're going to try and do our best work here. 0:21:50.160 --> 0:21:51.359 What the text says, Ye. 0:21:52.400 --> 0:21:55.160 So I saw a text come in from my friend Aaron, 0:21:55.200 --> 0:21:58.000 and I thought it was weird that she was texting him, 0:21:58.240 --> 0:22:00.520 you know, so I just read it. We're all friends, 0:22:00.680 --> 0:22:03.159 and I don't I don't think I can say what 0:22:03.240 --> 0:22:06.119 it's said over the radio. But it had to do 0:22:06.200 --> 0:22:09.479 with things she wants him to do to her when 0:22:09.520 --> 0:22:12.640 they're together next and so, you know, I confronted him, 0:22:12.640 --> 0:22:15.720 I said, you know, what is this? And he seems stunned, 0:22:15.720 --> 0:22:17.359 but I couldn't tell if it was because he was 0:22:17.359 --> 0:22:21.000 busted or if he was just legitimately confused. So we 0:22:21.119 --> 0:22:24.360 called her together and she was super embarrassed. She said 0:22:24.359 --> 0:22:27.840 she'd been seeing a guy also named Alex and that's 0:22:27.880 --> 0:22:30.600 really close to my husband's name. And you know, it 0:22:31.000 --> 0:22:34.760 was a total accident. But I want so desperately to 0:22:34.800 --> 0:22:36.520 believe them, but I just don't. 0:22:37.000 --> 0:22:39.639 Well, I got a couple issues here. Why are they 0:22:39.640 --> 0:22:41.320 even texting at all? I mean, I could be a 0:22:41.320 --> 0:22:44.320 funny mistake. How could them talking about what they want 0:22:44.359 --> 0:22:46.639 to do to each other then next time, as if 0:22:46.640 --> 0:22:48.480 they've had the first time I've seen each other. How 0:22:48.560 --> 0:22:50.520 is that a funny mistake in any shape? 0:22:51.960 --> 0:22:52.200 Well? 0:22:52.280 --> 0:22:54.760 Exactly, And you know her excuse is that she meant 0:22:54.800 --> 0:22:58.679 to send it to this other guy. But I just 0:22:58.800 --> 0:23:01.520 I don't trust this situation. I really don't. 0:23:01.760 --> 0:23:03.280 And why don't you believe them? 0:23:04.880 --> 0:23:08.199 Well, I know them both really well and obviously, and 0:23:08.240 --> 0:23:10.720 I thought for years that he might have a little 0:23:10.720 --> 0:23:13.600 thing for her, And you know, I've seen the way 0:23:13.600 --> 0:23:15.399 he looks at her when she's in a swimsuit. He 0:23:15.440 --> 0:23:18.360 kind of looks her up and down. And she has 0:23:18.359 --> 0:23:21.920 a reputation for going after unavailable guys, including a few 0:23:21.920 --> 0:23:25.359 married guys in her past, and so I don't know. 0:23:25.400 --> 0:23:27.240 And then I also I went on her social media. 0:23:27.640 --> 0:23:29.840 I looked through what the people she's following. I don't 0:23:29.920 --> 0:23:32.920 see any evidence of anyone named Alex on her social 0:23:32.920 --> 0:23:38.200 media anywhere. So it's just all makes me feeling very unsure. 0:23:38.560 --> 0:23:41.959 Nicolette in Fullerton says she found inappropriate texts from one 0:23:42.000 --> 0:23:45.119 of her best friends to her husband about hey, next 0:23:45.160 --> 0:23:46.560 time we're together, I want to do this to you 0:23:46.680 --> 0:23:51.439 kind of stuff, and she's like, well, oh, that was 0:23:51.440 --> 0:23:53.040 a mistake. I meant to send it to another guy. 0:23:53.600 --> 0:23:57.200 But then she goes on to say it was very awkward, 0:23:57.680 --> 0:24:01.639 seemed like they were caught and this woman has a 0:24:01.680 --> 0:24:06.600 reputation of going after unavailable men. So all of the 0:24:08.000 --> 0:24:08.920 signs here. 0:24:10.240 --> 0:24:12.120 Not good, not good at all. 0:24:12.960 --> 0:24:14.760 Not good. Nikola, how long you been married? 0:24:16.200 --> 0:24:19.199 We've been married for gosh nine years now and we 0:24:19.240 --> 0:24:20.040 have two children. 0:24:22.720 --> 0:24:27.960 Well, here we go. Be prepared for what this might 0:24:28.280 --> 0:24:28.719 look like. 0:24:29.520 --> 0:24:32.679 It doesn't sound good, So Nicola, I need you to 0:24:32.680 --> 0:24:34.440 say round, you have my permission to call? 0:24:34.480 --> 0:24:35.560 And then your husband's name. 0:24:36.760 --> 0:24:40.480 Okay, do you have my permission to call? 0:24:42.680 --> 0:24:45.920 We're gonna do it right now. Be very quiet, Let's 0:24:45.920 --> 0:24:46.800 see what we can find out. 0:24:46.920 --> 0:25:01.240 Good luck, Thank you. Hello? 0:25:01.840 --> 0:25:02.000 Hi? 0:25:02.160 --> 0:25:02.720 Is this Alan? 0:25:04.160 --> 0:25:04.720 Yeah? 0:25:04.960 --> 0:25:07.800 Hi, I'm calling from Blueing Flowers. We're currently serving your 0:25:07.840 --> 0:25:10.840 area and we're offering a free dozen roses to whoever 0:25:10.960 --> 0:25:12.760 you like this morning. Is there anyone you'd like to 0:25:12.800 --> 0:25:13.240 send them to? 0:25:15.480 --> 0:25:15.520 What? 0:25:16.520 --> 0:25:19.280 They're totally free, no cash, no credit card, nothing, and 0:25:19.320 --> 0:25:21.800 we can deliver these roses by New Today. Is there 0:25:21.800 --> 0:25:22.840 someone you'd want to send them to? 0:25:24.560 --> 0:25:24.840 Wait? 0:25:25.600 --> 0:25:28.760 So you this is the service that sends free rosen 0:25:28.880 --> 0:25:29.280 to people. 0:25:29.560 --> 0:25:31.720 Yeah, it's a promotion we're running this week just to 0:25:31.840 --> 0:25:37.360 increase word of mouth, and you were randomly selected. I see, Yeah, 0:25:37.440 --> 0:25:39.119 So is there someone you'd like to send them to. 0:25:42.520 --> 0:25:44.240 Sure you can send them to Angela. 0:25:44.920 --> 0:25:45.400 Angela? 0:25:46.800 --> 0:25:47.560 Yeah, Angela? 0:25:47.960 --> 0:25:54.280 Okay? And what would you like to put on the note. 0:25:54.400 --> 0:25:56.760 To Angela? Have a great day, love Brad. 0:25:57.800 --> 0:25:58.680 Okay. 0:25:59.119 --> 0:26:01.200 Oh but your name isn't Brad. 0:26:03.640 --> 0:26:05.840 Yeah, I know her name is and Angela either. 0:26:06.040 --> 0:26:08.800 It's like a code name. We use Stull names. 0:26:08.800 --> 0:26:09.080 Aaron. 0:26:09.119 --> 0:26:10.080 But don't put that on there. 0:26:11.320 --> 0:26:12.880 Okay, got it, So I'll just put Angela. 0:26:13.600 --> 0:26:13.879 Okay. 0:26:14.760 --> 0:26:17.720 Yeah, Alan, your voice is being broadcast on the radio. 0:26:19.280 --> 0:26:22.240 Alan, that's your name, right. I need you to know 0:26:22.280 --> 0:26:25.160 that your voice is here. My name is Ryan. 0:26:25.200 --> 0:26:28.000 Have Tanya with you. Your your voice is here on the radio. 0:26:28.400 --> 0:26:30.359 We have your wife on the line with us. Now, 0:26:30.560 --> 0:26:32.680 do you want to explain the code names? You want 0:26:32.720 --> 0:26:38.959 to explain the code names, the code names, the code 0:26:39.119 --> 0:26:41.280 names you use, code names. 0:26:43.960 --> 0:26:46.119 My wife's on the line, Nicol. 0:26:46.880 --> 0:26:50.880 Yes, so let me be really slow and clear. You're 0:26:50.920 --> 0:26:54.480 on the air sending flowers to your code lover Angela 0:26:54.640 --> 0:26:59.480 from Brad cover Up Operation Nicolette found an inappropriate text 0:27:00.520 --> 0:27:06.680 to you from another woman, your friend and her friend saying, 0:27:06.680 --> 0:27:08.640 next time we made up, we should you know this 0:27:08.680 --> 0:27:14.240 stuff should happen. Her real name is Aaron. Her real 0:27:14.320 --> 0:27:16.160 name is Aaron. Okay, well what what what? 0:27:16.160 --> 0:27:17.680 What are you doing? What's going on here? 0:27:19.800 --> 0:27:19.960 Well? 0:27:20.440 --> 0:27:22.800 Nothing, This is like between me and my wife. 0:27:23.480 --> 0:27:28.919 No, it's between Angela brad and and us and us. 0:27:29.760 --> 0:27:35.560 You that doesn't mean anything, so just. 0:27:35.480 --> 0:27:36.680 So we're all on the same page. 0:27:36.720 --> 0:27:43.119 The text, the text you found Nicolette was from Aaron, right, yes, okay, Alan, 0:27:43.480 --> 0:27:45.760 what's going on? You're having an affair with Aaron? It's clear, 0:27:45.920 --> 0:27:47.360 there's all kinds of evidence here. 0:27:47.520 --> 0:27:49.520 And not having an affair with Aaron? 0:27:49.800 --> 0:27:51.760 Why is she texting you to do things with you 0:27:51.800 --> 0:27:52.760 the next time you're together. 0:27:54.000 --> 0:27:56.000 We've talked about that. That was just a mistake. 0:27:57.200 --> 0:27:58.360 It's not a mistake, bro. 0:27:58.480 --> 0:28:00.760 You just sent her roses under a coat name like 0:28:00.920 --> 0:28:02.200 literally two seconds ago. 0:28:03.560 --> 0:28:04.440 Are you? 0:28:06.240 --> 0:28:07.240 I am not cheating? 0:28:07.280 --> 0:28:08.119 You up? On you? 0:28:08.520 --> 0:28:11.359 And why do you have a cover up operation going on? 0:28:12.960 --> 0:28:15.800 It's it's just a fun joke that we have. It's 0:28:15.840 --> 0:28:16.640 not a big deal. 0:28:17.240 --> 0:28:19.520 It's a huge deal, dude. 0:28:21.880 --> 0:28:23.480 This is between me and my wife. 0:28:24.040 --> 0:28:27.600 It's not your wife called us and Aaron's involved. So 0:28:27.760 --> 0:28:30.159 it's not you and your wife, it's you, your wife 0:28:30.240 --> 0:28:31.080 Aaron and. 0:28:30.960 --> 0:28:34.240 Now us is Aaron on the phone too. 0:28:35.000 --> 0:28:37.000 She's not, but she could be. She could be listening 0:28:37.000 --> 0:28:39.400 to this. So, Alan, why don't you just tell your 0:28:39.400 --> 0:28:41.640 wife what's going on. If this is a crazy, little fun, 0:28:41.720 --> 0:28:43.000 cute game, then explain the game. 0:28:44.360 --> 0:28:48.600 Yeah, please, it's it's not like it's there are rules 0:28:48.680 --> 0:28:50.960 or anything. I call her a angela and she calls 0:28:50.960 --> 0:28:57.240 me brad. It's it's why do you play. 0:28:57.000 --> 0:28:59.760 Names with another woman? And what's wrong with you? 0:28:59.800 --> 0:28:59.960 Alan? 0:29:00.120 --> 0:29:01.120 How are you not seeing this? 0:29:02.640 --> 0:29:07.400 I don't see how that having pet names is a problem. 0:29:07.600 --> 0:29:08.880 Okay, I can't with you. 0:29:10.360 --> 0:29:13.360 Having pet names with another woman, sending inappropriate text back 0:29:13.440 --> 0:29:15.240 and forth, and you're married to Nicolett and you think 0:29:15.280 --> 0:29:16.760 that's nomina issue. 0:29:16.760 --> 0:29:18.200 It's not technically cheating. 0:29:18.440 --> 0:29:21.120 Oh my god, you're such a narcissist. It's so alarming. 0:29:22.560 --> 0:29:27.400 That was pretty accurate description, Alan. Your wife has a 0:29:27.440 --> 0:29:30.800 problem with it. This is a problem, your delusion. 0:29:30.920 --> 0:29:32.520 Let me talk to my wife about it. 0:29:33.760 --> 0:29:35.520 You're welcome to talk to about She's right here. I 0:29:35.560 --> 0:29:36.120 suggest you. 0:29:36.080 --> 0:29:39.920 Do no in private on the radio. 0:29:40.160 --> 0:29:42.160 Okay, but what are you by technically cheating? 0:29:42.400 --> 0:29:44.840 Are you when you say not technically cheating, you're cheating, 0:29:44.840 --> 0:29:48.880 But not technically cheating means that simple. 0:29:50.000 --> 0:29:51.120 Dude, you got to. I think you got a real 0:29:51.120 --> 0:29:51.760 problem to work on. 0:29:51.800 --> 0:29:53.760 He's not like physically cheating. 0:29:54.040 --> 0:29:56.320 They'll take you off the air. Alan nicolect good luck. 0:29:57.560 --> 0:29:59.240 He's got pet names with another woman. They're talk about 0:29:59.240 --> 0:30:03.800 inappropriate things, and he thinks it's fine. Let me bring 0:30:03.840 --> 0:30:07.040 in Beatrice here from West La. Beatrice, good morning and 0:30:07.080 --> 0:30:11.840 thank you for listening. So to recap what happened, Nicolette 0:30:11.840 --> 0:30:14.400 and Alan were on the phone. She had found a 0:30:14.840 --> 0:30:18.120 text from her one of her best friends named Aaron, 0:30:18.840 --> 0:30:20.840 to her husband that said, Hey, next time we're together, 0:30:20.920 --> 0:30:24.840 let's do this to each other. She called her out 0:30:24.880 --> 0:30:26.120 on it and she said, oh, that was a mistake. 0:30:26.120 --> 0:30:28.719 I meant to go to another guy. Then we get 0:30:28.800 --> 0:30:33.920 Haim on the phone. He sends the roses to Angela, 0:30:34.640 --> 0:30:36.840 whose real name is Aaron. But he says, we have 0:30:36.880 --> 0:30:40.080 these code names. So I'm gonna say love Brad even 0:30:40.120 --> 0:30:42.960 though it's allan. So he's got a text from her. 0:30:43.480 --> 0:30:46.239 He's sending her red roses with code names, and then 0:30:46.280 --> 0:30:48.320 he tells his wife he's not technically cheating. 0:30:48.360 --> 0:30:52.080 It's just a fun game. They have what world like? 0:30:52.280 --> 0:30:53.480 What world? 0:30:53.840 --> 0:30:58.680 Literally, it's this is quintessential narcissism. 0:30:58.800 --> 0:31:02.480 Right there because he's he's saying, it's no big deal, 0:31:02.600 --> 0:31:04.840 there's nothing going on, and I'm not technically. 0:31:04.520 --> 0:31:07.640 Cheating because in his mind, he hasn't physically crossed the lines. 0:31:08.400 --> 0:31:11.160 It hasn't cheated. Yeah, so he believes that. 0:31:11.080 --> 0:31:13.520 And then he will stand on that hill until the 0:31:13.560 --> 0:31:15.600 day he dies, all right, Beatrice. 0:31:16.200 --> 0:31:19.680 Yeah, yes, yeah, I heard it all. So first off, 0:31:19.840 --> 0:31:23.360 Brad and Angela, what was that for Brad and Angelina? 0:31:23.600 --> 0:31:24.760 Is that what they were going for? 0:31:26.240 --> 0:31:29.200 Think of that? Maybe I didn't cross my mind. 0:31:30.240 --> 0:31:33.400 Look what happened, Look what happened to them? One hundred percent, 0:31:33.680 --> 0:31:35.920 this guy is a loser. He's cheating on his wife, 0:31:36.480 --> 0:31:39.920 and yeah, the fact that he's doing it with her 0:31:40.120 --> 0:31:46.400 best friend, I just feel awful for her. It's heartbreaking. 0:31:46.440 --> 0:31:48.920 It's I almost feel like it's almost worse in a 0:31:48.920 --> 0:31:51.400 way to have a betrayal from your best friend than 0:31:51.760 --> 0:31:54.480 your head. I mean, they're both equally bad, but one 0:31:54.560 --> 0:31:59.360 hundred percent, he's scum. He's stepping out on her and yeah, 0:31:59.360 --> 0:31:59.680 and this. 0:31:59.680 --> 0:32:02.160 Is this, it's bad behavior and it's only gonna get worse. 0:32:02.440 --> 0:32:03.920 And the friend is not a friend, and the friend's 0:32:04.000 --> 0:32:06.000 keeping this from her friend, doing this behind her back 0:32:06.080 --> 0:32:06.920 as it came. 0:32:06.720 --> 0:32:13.720 As oh, awful, awful. They're both horrible, horrible, disgusting people. 0:32:14.640 --> 0:32:17.600 And the text that Aaron sent certainly implies that they're 0:32:17.600 --> 0:32:19.800 having an affair. It certainly implies that one. 0:32:19.800 --> 0:32:22.920 Hundred percent, one hundred percent, and who knows how long 0:32:22.960 --> 0:32:24.720 it's been going on for to like get to that 0:32:24.760 --> 0:32:27.440 point of coming up with code names. That's not something 0:32:27.440 --> 0:32:28.880 you like do like right away. 0:32:29.400 --> 0:32:33.800 So maybe, well we wish that Nicolette gets to the 0:32:33.800 --> 0:32:38.479 bottom of it in piece. Maybe you take away from 0:32:38.520 --> 0:32:43.520 this that your relationship isn't so bad, like maybe you're 0:32:43.560 --> 0:32:46.360 doing all right right, but it's just maybe that's the thing. 0:32:46.400 --> 0:32:50.080 Maybe it's not so bad because that's pretty bad, right, 0:32:50.200 --> 0:32:53.120 So maybe you want to lock down on the love 0:32:53.240 --> 0:32:55.760 that you've got because you heard that, because you're not 0:32:55.800 --> 0:32:56.520 in that situation. 0:32:56.560 --> 0:32:57.480 That's a bad situation. 0:32:57.880 --> 0:32:59.640 Yeah, well that's not really the best lens. 0:33:01.080 --> 0:33:04.040 I'm trying. I'm trying to have full the glass. 0:33:04.080 --> 0:33:06.200 Mm hmm as soon as you're trying to do. But 0:33:06.240 --> 0:33:07.880 it's it's not I think I think you. 0:33:07.920 --> 0:33:10.200 Might walk away from listening to Ryan's Rosie one. I'm 0:33:10.200 --> 0:33:12.840 all right, that's a tough one. 0:33:13.920 --> 0:33:18.040 It's not really not doing doing what I think you 0:33:18.120 --> 0:33:18.720 wanted to do. 0:33:18.760 --> 0:33:21.800 Not doing me do. Huh, it's not doing to do 0:33:22.000 --> 0:33:22.120 what do? 0:33:22.200 --> 0:33:23.320 I don't understand what that means. 0:33:23.720 --> 0:33:27.040 Like you're trying to create like a glimmer of hope 0:33:27.040 --> 0:33:27.400 out of this. 0:33:27.480 --> 0:33:28.880 But I feel like you don't want to view your. 0:33:28.760 --> 0:33:31.640 Relationship through a lens of this horrible couple that has 0:33:31.680 --> 0:33:33.760 like a narcissist man that's trying to convince his wife 0:33:33.760 --> 0:33:36.000 that he's not cheating, he's not physically touching somebody else. 0:33:36.200 --> 0:33:38.120 That's what I'm saying. I'm saying, Hey, if you've got 0:33:38.120 --> 0:33:39.800 a good relationship, be grateful today. 0:33:41.800 --> 0:33:43.000 Okay, that's good. We got there. 0:33:43.680 --> 0:33:44.640 That's what I've been saying. 0:33:44.720 --> 0:33:45.800 That's not what you said before. 0:33:45.840 --> 0:33:47.000 That's exactly how I said it. 0:33:48.400 --> 0:33:51.000 All right, Tanya, if we want to get into examining 0:33:51.000 --> 0:33:56.120 each other's cabases, we sure can. It's going out inside 0:33:56.120 --> 0:33:59.480 of your head. I mean, it's you bet you better 0:33:59.560 --> 0:34:02.520 know something. But well, when in between Hosy and Taylor Swift, 0:34:02.560 --> 0:34:04.160 you say you know you got a lot going on 0:34:04.240 --> 0:34:06.800 in your head out of the blue. No, I was 0:34:06.800 --> 0:34:08.440 just talking about I talk with my hands. I move 0:34:08.480 --> 0:34:09.839 my hands in the air when I talk I. 0:34:09.800 --> 0:34:12.480 Know, but you mentioned this earlier in the week, like 0:34:12.520 --> 0:34:13.520 you were talking about. 0:34:13.280 --> 0:34:15.120 It, and actually I mentioned a lot of things. 0:34:15.160 --> 0:34:18.360 My fiance was listening and he was like laughing because 0:34:18.680 --> 0:34:20.440 you were saying, how you have all these voices in 0:34:20.440 --> 0:34:23.880 your head? And he had the same He thought exactly 0:34:23.960 --> 0:34:26.600 what I had said right after that, which was which 0:34:26.680 --> 0:34:28.640 was let's let's dissect that, let's talk about it. 0:34:28.719 --> 0:34:29.440 Put a pin in it. 0:34:29.560 --> 0:34:31.000 Oh, no, he wants to host this show. 0:34:31.280 --> 0:34:33.840 No, no, He was just saying like he was listening, 0:34:33.880 --> 0:34:35.600 and he was very much enjoying it, which I thought 0:34:35.600 --> 0:34:36.040 was cute. 0:34:36.120 --> 0:34:37.720 It's really nice if family listens. 0:34:37.840 --> 0:34:38.560 I think so too. 0:34:39.040 --> 0:34:40.399 Uh if people think I. 0:34:40.320 --> 0:34:43.480 Have some Italian in me, I got asked all the time, 0:34:43.480 --> 0:34:45.080 you got a little Italian in you? 0:34:45.280 --> 0:34:46.239 Yeah, I could see that. 0:34:46.520 --> 0:34:48.279 It's only because I used my hands so much to. 0:34:49.040 --> 0:34:53.759 Interesting, because it's talking with If I didn't speak, my 0:34:53.840 --> 0:34:54.720 hands would speak. 0:34:54.960 --> 0:34:56.040 Yeah, my hands do speak. 0:34:56.120 --> 0:34:57.560 I like to talk with my hands a lot too. 0:34:58.080 --> 0:35:04.000 What was it you you know you do you do 0:35:04.080 --> 0:35:05.560 like a fanning motion when you talk. 0:35:05.680 --> 0:35:06.080 Yeah, I do. 0:35:06.920 --> 0:35:09.480 I do a lot of it from the elbow, right right, 0:35:09.560 --> 0:35:12.560 right right. Anyway, this is radio, so that probably is audio. Platform. 0:35:12.640 --> 0:35:14.640 So you're not seeing any of that, but you got 0:35:14.640 --> 0:35:17.200 to be comfortable. Somebody say, let's talk about the voices. 0:35:16.880 --> 0:35:17.520 In your head. 0:35:19.400 --> 0:35:20.920 Well, we said we'd put a pin in it. So 0:35:20.920 --> 0:35:22.040 I'm like, did not? 0:35:22.320 --> 0:35:22.799 You did? 0:35:22.920 --> 0:35:28.759 And you said, okay, vacation. I think it's so nice. 0:35:28.800 --> 0:35:31.120 That's what we're here for. We're here to help each 0:35:31.120 --> 0:35:32.080 other examine. 0:35:32.440 --> 0:35:37.200 And the thing is I do forget, like listen ready, 0:35:38.560 --> 0:35:40.520 I forget that they're on buttons on a lot of times. 0:35:40.400 --> 0:35:41.040 When we're talking. 0:35:41.280 --> 0:35:42.280 Oh gotcha. 0:35:43.160 --> 0:35:45.279 Anyway, all right, let's go. You've a trending report. I 0:35:45.320 --> 0:35:47.320 want to get to it at least DoD So, Joe Kelly, 0:35:47.360 --> 0:35:49.719 have you seen this guy? Sistney and Tanya think it's 0:35:49.719 --> 0:35:50.520 my dappelganger. 0:35:50.600 --> 0:35:51.759 He is your doppelganger. 0:35:51.840 --> 0:35:55.319 Well, it's his jersey night, so I want to get one. Yeah, 0:35:55.760 --> 0:35:59.080 walk around like the short unathletic Joe Kelly, we got 0:35:59.080 --> 0:36:02.239 your tickets to go see the Dogs play coming up, Rube. 0:36:02.239 --> 0:36:03.279 It's not meant to be that. 0:36:05.680 --> 0:36:07.439 I will say you have better hair than him. 0:36:08.120 --> 0:36:10.719 Oh really, I've not looked at his hair. 0:36:10.800 --> 0:36:13.280 Also, i'd argue that you're pretty athletic. 0:36:13.920 --> 0:36:15.840 I'd like this argument. You're trying to make a comeback 0:36:15.880 --> 0:36:17.360 from the voices in my head scenario. 0:36:18.360 --> 0:36:20.520 I'm really not. I'm just being honest. 0:36:20.760 --> 0:36:23.200 Okay, Joe is six to one. 0:36:23.480 --> 0:36:28.200 Dang, Yeah, all right, let's go. Okay. Shane Mitchell. Okay, 0:36:28.280 --> 0:36:30.920 So Shane Mitchell. We know her from Pretty Little Liars. 0:36:30.920 --> 0:36:33.719 She's the founder and CEO of Bays. She has been 0:36:33.760 --> 0:36:38.080 in a relationship with Matt Babbel since twenty seventeen. Okay, 0:36:38.800 --> 0:36:42.080 they've been together for seven years. They have two kids together. 0:36:42.480 --> 0:36:43.360 Wow. Good. 0:36:43.480 --> 0:36:46.719 But they're still very far away from getting married. And 0:36:46.800 --> 0:36:51.000 so Shaye was doing an interview and Jenna Bush asked her. 0:36:51.160 --> 0:36:54.759 She incorrectly referred to him as Shay's husband before she 0:36:54.840 --> 0:36:58.279 corrected herself to say partner instead, and she said, I've 0:36:58.280 --> 0:37:00.520 manifested quite a few things in my life and getting 0:37:00.560 --> 0:37:03.239 married was never something that was right for me. I 0:37:03.280 --> 0:37:06.080 think for the both of us, everything works so smoothly. 0:37:06.440 --> 0:37:09.960 We're awesome partners in life, and so it got me thinking, 0:37:10.000 --> 0:37:14.120 if your great partners in life, why not get married? 0:37:14.200 --> 0:37:16.600 She's why, if your great partners in life, why do 0:37:16.680 --> 0:37:19.560 you need that? But that's got it figured out. Why 0:37:19.560 --> 0:37:21.160 do you need that? Why do you have to say, well, 0:37:21.160 --> 0:37:22.560 if you're doing that anyway. 0:37:22.320 --> 0:37:26.040 Do this, because I think she has not expressed that 0:37:26.120 --> 0:37:29.200 she has. Like some people don't want to get married 0:37:29.320 --> 0:37:32.240 because let's say they grew up in a divorce household, 0:37:32.239 --> 0:37:34.120 so they don't believe in marriage, or. 0:37:34.160 --> 0:37:35.680 They've just seen destructive marriages, or. 0:37:35.680 --> 0:37:37.960 They've seen destructive marriages. But I guess that would be 0:37:38.760 --> 0:37:41.520 Like my question is if maybe do you think by 0:37:41.520 --> 0:37:45.120 getting married that it's going to not go as well 0:37:45.160 --> 0:37:46.960 as it has been going for the last seven. 0:37:46.800 --> 0:37:49.000 Years, Like maybe maybe she believes it could be cursed 0:37:49.040 --> 0:37:52.640 if she does. Is My point is this, we on 0:37:52.680 --> 0:37:56.640 the outside should not have any opinion. Well, if it 0:37:56.680 --> 0:37:59.719 works for a couple, it works, Like why why do 0:37:59.800 --> 0:38:02.919 we have to raise the question? Well, if you just raised, 0:38:02.920 --> 0:38:05.600 which is, if they're together, why not get married? Like 0:38:05.760 --> 0:38:09.040 why even have that conversation? To me, that shouldn't exist because. 0:38:08.719 --> 0:38:12.520 To me, I think knowledge is power and sharing information 0:38:12.600 --> 0:38:15.640 and knowledge and maybe something that's working for her. If 0:38:15.640 --> 0:38:18.680 she shares that story and that journey, then maybe other 0:38:18.680 --> 0:38:21.040 people who feel that way can relate and be like okay, 0:38:21.080 --> 0:38:22.919 maybe because I think a lot of people do feel 0:38:22.920 --> 0:38:25.880 pressured to get married or that are going through that, 0:38:25.920 --> 0:38:28.480 and if Shay were to open up about why she 0:38:28.560 --> 0:38:32.640 doesn't want to per se, then maybe those people will 0:38:32.640 --> 0:38:35.080 be able to gain some knowledge from her insight. That's 0:38:35.120 --> 0:38:37.239 all not really an opinion, but more just like I 0:38:37.280 --> 0:38:39.279 want to ask questions because I just want to know. 0:38:40.480 --> 0:38:41.720 I think you and I are going to have different 0:38:41.760 --> 0:38:43.680 views on this. I did discover something that the name 0:38:43.719 --> 0:38:45.600 of your autobiography is going to be called. 0:38:45.680 --> 0:38:46.520 It got me thinking. 0:38:47.320 --> 0:38:49.880 I got me thinking, It got. 0:38:49.640 --> 0:38:54.160 Me thinking, you know, it gets me think, got me thinking, all. 0:38:54.120 --> 0:38:56.920 Right, one eight hundred five to one O two seven 0:38:57.080 --> 0:38:58.680 Here at Kiss. 0:38:58.480 --> 0:39:01.640 FM, Veronic is on the line. 0:39:02.320 --> 0:39:08.160 Oh she heard us talking about silent retreat. I've only 0:39:08.160 --> 0:39:11.080 seen it in the movies. I've only seen it one movie, Eat, Pray, Love, 0:39:11.880 --> 0:39:14.920 and that movie reruns in places where I catch it 0:39:15.000 --> 0:39:18.720 every season. Yeah it does, and I don't mind it. Actually, 0:39:19.320 --> 0:39:21.719 but I thought to myself, just as an exercise could 0:39:21.760 --> 0:39:24.080 if we were invited to a silent retreat, could we 0:39:24.120 --> 0:39:24.440 do it? 0:39:24.719 --> 0:39:25.120 I could not. 0:39:25.920 --> 0:39:29.319 I can't do I find I find this urge. I 0:39:29.320 --> 0:39:32.160 was in a parking lot yesterday and I really spoke. 0:39:32.280 --> 0:39:35.600 I just had a conversation with someone I was walking 0:39:35.680 --> 0:39:38.200 by I had the conversation. They didn't respond so much, 0:39:38.520 --> 0:39:40.200 but I how's. 0:39:40.000 --> 0:39:43.640 Your how are you? How's your day going? Beautiful? Yeah, 0:39:43.840 --> 0:39:45.160 I just like to talk to people. 0:39:45.320 --> 0:39:47.440 I don't know what is this person like on their 0:39:47.440 --> 0:39:48.640 way into the grocery store. 0:39:48.680 --> 0:39:49.400 I don't know what it is. 0:39:49.400 --> 0:39:51.839 Maybe because it's a big city, people get afraid at 0:39:51.880 --> 0:39:55.400 strangers talking to them sometimes. I sometimes I'm not I 0:39:55.400 --> 0:39:58.040 don't want anything. I'm just like saying hi. Yeah, I'm 0:39:58.120 --> 0:40:01.480 asking sell anything. I don't want to touch anything. I 0:40:01.560 --> 0:40:03.560 just don't see your car. I just want to say hi. 0:40:03.920 --> 0:40:05.200 Right, But we're also jaded. 0:40:06.160 --> 0:40:12.400 I like it. Veronica, Hi, Ryan. So you're speaking today, 0:40:12.400 --> 0:40:16.560 but normally you're not. Huh. 0:40:16.680 --> 0:40:18.239 You know it's just a few days out of every 0:40:18.320 --> 0:40:19.520 year that I go silent. 0:40:20.239 --> 0:40:23.400 You go silent a few days out of every year. 0:40:24.880 --> 0:40:26.399 Probably for a week every year. 0:40:26.600 --> 0:40:29.640 Yeah, En tell me why. 0:40:31.600 --> 0:40:34.319 Ooh. Well, the very first one I went to was 0:40:34.320 --> 0:40:37.040 because I was trying to find peace within myself about 0:40:38.120 --> 0:40:41.839 transitioning to having a lot of dietary restrictions, and so 0:40:42.040 --> 0:40:45.080 I was just looking for ways to manage that. But 0:40:45.120 --> 0:40:48.640 ever since then, it's because I love the relaxation and 0:40:48.880 --> 0:40:50.400 the surrender to quiet. 0:40:51.640 --> 0:40:54.320 Where do you do it? 0:40:55.320 --> 0:40:59.040 I go to different retreat centers around California, different goods 0:40:59.080 --> 0:40:59.840 retreat centers. 0:41:00.120 --> 0:41:03.480 And after you finished, how many days? 0:41:04.560 --> 0:41:07.359 I prefer ten or twelve day retreats. 0:41:07.480 --> 0:41:10.239 I saw the movie. So after you do how is 0:41:10.280 --> 0:41:13.400 your body reset? Because what from what I read and understand, 0:41:13.400 --> 0:41:16.280 Although I could never do it, it does really reset 0:41:16.440 --> 0:41:18.320 your whole body. 0:41:19.640 --> 0:41:21.960 Okay, you could totally do it. If I can do it, 0:41:22.000 --> 0:41:25.719 you can do it and body. I mean it's like 0:41:25.760 --> 0:41:29.719 a cleanse. They feed you really simply but really delicious, 0:41:30.480 --> 0:41:36.000 handmade food made with love. I'm both rested and exhausted 0:41:36.160 --> 0:41:38.200 from just sitting all day and meditating. 0:41:39.200 --> 0:41:40.600 Yeah, that's the thing. Like what do you do with 0:41:40.680 --> 0:41:41.120 your time? 0:41:43.680 --> 0:41:46.200 Sit for an hour, take a fifteen minute break and 0:41:46.239 --> 0:41:47.200 walk around. 0:41:46.880 --> 0:41:49.319 Sit all other people you high five? Do? 0:41:49.320 --> 0:41:49.640 Do you like? 0:41:49.719 --> 0:41:51.080 Work out at nod. 0:41:52.560 --> 0:41:57.400 Working out's not allowed? Eye contacts not allowed? 0:41:58.880 --> 0:42:00.719 Well, Tany's like that's some times around here. 0:42:01.320 --> 0:42:04.640 What yeah, right, I'm like miss eye contact. 0:42:04.440 --> 0:42:07.800 But she doesn't blink. I guess it is the opposite. Yeah, 0:42:07.840 --> 0:42:09.920 all right, so you do it. It's good for you. 0:42:10.760 --> 0:42:12.640 It is amazing that you can do. I think anytime 0:42:13.000 --> 0:42:15.000 you I love what you did to me. The message 0:42:15.040 --> 0:42:16.480 here is like you had to do something. Maybe it 0:42:16.520 --> 0:42:21.000 was for your health, to manage your dietary restrictions, and 0:42:21.080 --> 0:42:24.200 so you look from within to reset yourself, and you 0:42:24.280 --> 0:42:24.600 did it. 0:42:24.680 --> 0:42:26.480 I love that. That's great. Good for you. 0:42:27.600 --> 0:42:31.359 Oh, thank you. Yeah, it's an amazing experience. The first 0:42:31.360 --> 0:42:34.279 retreat I went to was tibetan Buddhist retreat, and the 0:42:35.400 --> 0:42:38.160 content of the retreat was so loving, like they just 0:42:38.200 --> 0:42:40.680 taught us about compassion for ourselves and each other the 0:42:40.719 --> 0:42:43.759 whole time, and I was cut after that. I came 0:42:43.800 --> 0:42:46.320 out of it just seeing the world with a new perspective. 0:42:46.920 --> 0:42:48.319 My gosh, you're relaxing me. 0:42:48.520 --> 0:42:51.200 But I know, honestly, ten to twelve days is so. 0:42:51.280 --> 0:42:54.600 I couldn't even make it till ten to twelve am. 0:42:55.160 --> 0:42:57.359 Yeah, well we all have some goals here. Well, thank 0:42:57.400 --> 0:42:59.520 you Roanka for sharing that story. I appreciate. I'm glad 0:42:59.520 --> 0:43:03.040 you're on the right path there. Yeah, we need more 0:43:03.080 --> 0:43:05.000 compassion for ourselves, wouldn't it be great? 0:43:05.160 --> 0:43:07.160 Yeah? I have zero compassion for myself. 0:43:07.280 --> 0:43:11.479 Yeah, I have loath She relaxed us, though. I wonder 0:43:11.480 --> 0:43:12.880 how we would be after that. I wonder how the 0:43:12.920 --> 0:43:14.560 show would be if we all went to a seven 0:43:14.640 --> 0:43:16.879 day retreat, take a week off, come back. 0:43:16.920 --> 0:43:17.560 How would this show? 0:43:17.600 --> 0:43:19.200 Would the pace of this show be because it's a 0:43:19.239 --> 0:43:21.200 lot of coming up, Yeah, it'd have to be a 0:43:21.280 --> 0:43:21.759 lot of Uh. 0:43:24.320 --> 0:43:26.160 I really do want to try and do it one 0:43:26.239 --> 0:43:26.960 day till noon. 0:43:28.080 --> 0:43:31.279 I remember when I moved here to Los Angeles and 0:43:31.400 --> 0:43:33.200 I was just I was so excited to be able 0:43:33.200 --> 0:43:36.880 to afford splitting a bedroom of rent with somebody. 0:43:37.000 --> 0:43:38.080 Oh yeah. 0:43:38.120 --> 0:43:43.560 And as I worked longer and longer and got more jobs. 0:43:44.239 --> 0:43:46.440 The first home I ever owned was an apartment, was 0:43:46.480 --> 0:43:48.360 a kind of minium, and I bought that and I 0:43:48.440 --> 0:43:51.160 was so excited to have that kind of is life change, 0:43:51.200 --> 0:43:53.399 but it comes with responsibilities, and you're a little nervous 0:43:53.440 --> 0:43:55.360 when you're buying something on your own for the first 0:43:55.360 --> 0:43:58.399 time and you've never done it. So there's a new 0:43:58.520 --> 0:44:02.719 movement that I mean, Ruby, you and your family, your. 0:44:02.600 --> 0:44:04.759 Sisters talked about this a little bit. Did you call it? 0:44:04.840 --> 0:44:06.880 Did you call it what it's called housing, spousing or 0:44:06.880 --> 0:44:08.040 houses before spouses? 0:44:08.200 --> 0:44:10.080 No, we didn't have a name for it. But a 0:44:09.719 --> 0:44:12.719 few years ago my sisters and I actually considered this. 0:44:13.120 --> 0:44:16.080 We even talked to a loan officer got preapproved and everything. 0:44:16.080 --> 0:44:18.319 We never really you know, ended up doing it, but 0:44:18.480 --> 0:44:20.000 we thought about it because none of us were in 0:44:20.040 --> 0:44:22.759 a position to you know, we were either single or 0:44:22.800 --> 0:44:26.200 not ready to move in with our significant others, and 0:44:26.239 --> 0:44:28.200 so we're like, why not buy a home together? You know, 0:44:28.440 --> 0:44:30.319 it's really hard to buy a house on your own 0:44:30.400 --> 0:44:33.200 now because of you know, the rise of housing costs. 0:44:33.880 --> 0:44:36.960 So we're just like, and also, why burn red if 0:44:37.000 --> 0:44:38.879 you can start to build an asset or some. 0:44:38.880 --> 0:44:41.200 Apt exactly, And that was kind of the idea. 0:44:41.560 --> 0:44:44.920 They're calling it houses before spouses, the movement. 0:44:45.200 --> 0:44:47.040 Yeah, all right, I want to hear more. 0:44:47.160 --> 0:44:50.160 Yeah, and they're encouraging you know, younger people, millennials, gen 0:44:50.239 --> 0:44:53.800 zers to partner with friends or family members to become 0:44:53.560 --> 0:44:57.640 homeowners instead of going the traditional route and waiting for marriage. 0:44:57.920 --> 0:45:01.480 There's even a real estate agency that fully dedicates themselves 0:45:01.560 --> 0:45:05.279 to you know, basically helping out friends who want to 0:45:05.320 --> 0:45:07.640 go into home ownership together. 0:45:07.880 --> 0:45:10.200 This was something that we didn't even consider. 0:45:10.600 --> 0:45:13.520 I mean, the big apartment that we got, I told 0:45:13.560 --> 0:45:16.359 you about it olver in Santa Monica after I lived 0:45:16.520 --> 0:45:19.520 with Tanaz. We put five of us shared rent, five 0:45:19.560 --> 0:45:22.200 people shared rent, and it was like a townhouse, right vibe. 0:45:22.400 --> 0:45:24.160 But never did we think, hey, let's buy this thing. 0:45:24.560 --> 0:45:27.000 We all lived together, we paid rent, we burnt that cash, 0:45:27.480 --> 0:45:28.640 anything like getting it that. 0:45:29.000 --> 0:45:31.000 I mean, I wish we I kind of wish we did. 0:45:31.200 --> 0:45:31.440 I know. 0:45:31.840 --> 0:45:34.840 And that's what everybody's saying too, like I wish nobody 0:45:34.880 --> 0:45:38.080 regrets buying something earlier on in life. 0:45:38.120 --> 0:45:39.040 It's just, oh my gosh. 0:45:39.080 --> 0:45:41.000 Back in those days, if we could have purchased that, 0:45:41.080 --> 0:45:42.160 we would all done fine. 0:45:42.280 --> 0:45:44.120 But if you think about it, if you got a 0:45:44.160 --> 0:45:47.280 couple people in on it, you probably could have afforded 0:45:47.280 --> 0:45:50.719 it all together and then shared the us sold it whatever. 0:45:50.800 --> 0:45:53.479 However, many years later, why why were. 0:45:53.400 --> 0:45:54.120 We so naive? 0:45:54.440 --> 0:45:54.719 I know? 0:45:54.760 --> 0:45:56.600 Why don't we have this kind of skill set to 0:45:56.640 --> 0:45:57.640 think about these things? 0:45:57.760 --> 0:45:58.080 I know? 0:45:58.640 --> 0:46:00.919 My mom tried to tell me this twenty years ago. 0:46:01.160 --> 0:46:02.279 She did. She did. 0:46:02.400 --> 0:46:05.439 My mom really tried to get me to do. 0:46:05.360 --> 0:46:06.440 This with friends. 0:46:08.239 --> 0:46:10.560 I don't know exactly specifically who, but she was just 0:46:10.600 --> 0:46:14.480 like very much about do not rent, let's figure out asap, 0:46:14.760 --> 0:46:17.439 how to buy, let's figure it out going, Yeah, going 0:46:17.520 --> 0:46:18.200 with friends? 0:46:18.680 --> 0:46:18.920 Do it? 0:46:20.840 --> 0:46:23.400 Uh? Reb Now you are buying with your fiance. 0:46:23.640 --> 0:46:24.720 We're moving this weekend. 0:46:24.920 --> 0:46:25.680 Yeah, you're moving this. 0:46:25.640 --> 0:46:28.520 Weekend, So you're doing, uh, what are you? What do 0:46:28.560 --> 0:46:29.360 you call in your movement? 0:46:30.560 --> 0:46:34.560 I don't know, just finances exactly. 0:46:34.560 --> 0:46:35.880 Wait, are you guys buying Did you buy it? 0:46:35.960 --> 0:46:36.040 No? 0:46:35.960 --> 0:46:38.920 No, no, we're not buying rent a printing. Okay, yeah, 0:46:38.960 --> 0:46:41.320 we got a house together. But I love the idea 0:46:41.400 --> 0:46:43.600 of houses before spouse's though. 0:46:43.600 --> 0:46:46.120 I'm glad you brought that up well. As I said, 0:46:46.760 --> 0:46:50.480 I need minerals or something. After a Ryan's roses Thursday, 0:46:50.600 --> 0:46:53.520 you know, you feel a little like dehydrated almost, because 0:46:53.520 --> 0:46:54.520 it does take a lot out of it. 0:46:54.560 --> 0:46:57.040 Got takes a lot of takes a lot of this. 0:46:57.920 --> 0:46:59.880 I don't know when I after I do the show, 0:47:00.080 --> 0:47:02.600 it's physical to me, like I feel a little I'm 0:47:02.600 --> 0:47:05.880 a little tired of drained. It's not a non physical 0:47:06.440 --> 0:47:08.200 I guess. I try to explain it to my friends, 0:47:08.200 --> 0:47:09.600 They're like, why are you tired after doing the radio? 0:47:09.640 --> 0:47:10.719 Because you get wound up. 0:47:10.880 --> 0:47:11.600 I get wound up. 0:47:11.840 --> 0:47:14.320 It's like doing a It's kind of doing a presentation 0:47:14.360 --> 0:47:16.600 if you had to do a presentation at work every 0:47:16.640 --> 0:47:17.680 day for four hours. 0:47:18.160 --> 0:47:21.840 It's the similar. I think it's the similar energy output. 0:47:22.040 --> 0:47:24.600 It is and even though it's not like actual fighting 0:47:24.640 --> 0:47:27.000 like we're not really fighting. I feel like we do 0:47:27.560 --> 0:47:30.640 disagree often, and when you're trying to prove a point, 0:47:30.760 --> 0:47:33.160 it does like rattle you up inside. 0:47:33.200 --> 0:47:36.640 I wouldn't even I wouldn't even use negative words like 0:47:36.719 --> 0:47:39.359 disagree in fighting. Okay, well I would use I would 0:47:39.440 --> 0:47:40.800 use positive words like debating. 0:47:41.160 --> 0:47:44.600 Oh great, wow, like that perspective chain. 0:47:44.800 --> 0:47:46.840 I think that shifts the whole mood. And now I 0:47:46.840 --> 0:47:50.080 don't feel toxic when you yes, like you say toxic words. 0:47:50.239 --> 0:47:50.439 Right. 0:47:50.480 --> 0:47:53.200 Well, debating is actually even better because when you're debating, 0:47:53.360 --> 0:47:55.520 you do you get like very energetic about it. 0:47:55.520 --> 0:47:56.960 You're passionate about your side. 0:47:57.320 --> 0:47:59.200 Do you want to do some an tomorrow? Yeah, you 0:47:59.200 --> 0:48:01.840 want to debate again? I love to make your debate. 0:48:02.360 --> 0:48:06.360 We're out of debating time today. So much debation going 0:48:06.400 --> 0:48:10.799 on here in this room. Mark, So much debation. I 0:48:10.800 --> 0:48:12.880 wonder what kind of debation was going on in the backroom. 0:48:13.600 --> 0:48:15.280 And we missed a lot with the mic coffee. 0:48:15.320 --> 0:48:17.080 It smells like Pacha mama back here? 0:48:17.719 --> 0:48:19.560 Did patcha mama beans did? But coffee beans? 0:48:19.600 --> 0:48:19.799 Come? 0:48:20.640 --> 0:48:22.920 Are you guys making fresh brewery grinding beans back there? 0:48:22.920 --> 0:48:23.279 What's going on? 0:48:23.320 --> 0:48:24.440 Beca everything? 0:48:24.640 --> 0:48:25.080 What'd you do? 0:48:25.480 --> 0:48:28.440 My entire coffee on me on the floor and. 0:48:28.400 --> 0:48:29.960 You're wearing cream. 0:48:30.040 --> 0:48:32.960 Yeah, but my pants are black, so that works. Nice? Nice? 0:48:33.160 --> 0:48:33.400 Is it? 0:48:33.440 --> 0:48:35.400 Is it actually my favorite bean of coffee or is 0:48:35.440 --> 0:48:36.480 it a generic coffee? 0:48:36.760 --> 0:48:40.040 It was actually the office coffee, which is then. 0:48:39.960 --> 0:48:41.200 It does not smell like Pacha Mama. 0:48:41.480 --> 0:48:42.080 I know, I know. 0:48:43.520 --> 0:48:44.479 You going. 0:48:46.480 --> 0:48:48.480 I'm just telling you a coffee. If you're a coffee person, 0:48:48.560 --> 0:48:51.359 that the bean is going to change your life. All right, 0:48:51.360 --> 0:48:53.719 we got to go. Then you know what happens not 0:48:53.880 --> 0:48:56.520 us next see you tomorrow. Thanks for listening. 0:48:56.719 --> 0:48:59.920 Bye, Thanks for listening So on Air with Ryan Seacrest. 0:49:00.280 --> 0:49:02.640 Make sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.