Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2: Seacrest with You, seits me on vacation. Tany is here
Speaker 2: on his Thursday May thirtie. Good morning in the back
Speaker 2: room ring.
Speaker 1: I did a.
Speaker 2: Pretty good night's sleep last night, and I woke up
Speaker 2: and I thought it was time to go, and it
Speaker 2: was not time to go. It's like that great feeling
Speaker 2: of wow. I feel like I got all my sleep
Speaker 2: and I still had another hour to go. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: went out, turned on the coffee machine before I brushed
Speaker 2: my teeth and washed my face.
Speaker 1: Robed it. I never robe it. I robed it.
Speaker 3: Okay, if you're not robing it, you are not.
Speaker 1: I'm living.
Speaker 2: I don't usually robe it. I don't like the skirt
Speaker 2: feeling on my legs.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 4: To me, there's no greater joy in life than getting
Speaker 4: home at the end of the day, taking off my
Speaker 4: clothes and robing you rub it night. I robe every
Speaker 4: single night, but I do it after I shower. So
Speaker 4: I shower and then I robe, and I robe all
Speaker 4: up until I go to bed.
Speaker 2: Remember the shirts that were made for women that I
Speaker 2: didn't know, and I bought called E Turn.
Speaker 1: Remember I bought to me Turned.
Speaker 3: I can't say I remember that.
Speaker 1: Remember, I'm so excited.
Speaker 2: I had these these black and white T shirts that
Speaker 2: were so cozy, comfortable around the arms that a big
Speaker 2: drop at the arm pit. Yeah, And I was like,
Speaker 2: these are super great sleep shirts.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: It turns out what they were they were open around
Speaker 2: the arm pit because they were made for women. And
Speaker 2: I didn't know that they were designed primarily I guess
Speaker 2: not for me. But I loved him so much. That's
Speaker 2: what I wear. That to me's more comfortable than robing.
Speaker 2: I wear those shirts.
Speaker 3: You're not getting the right robe to robin.
Speaker 1: Wrong ros off morning signals versus evenings.
Speaker 4: Oh, there's no greater joy on the weekend then getting
Speaker 4: out of bed robing it making your coffee, getting back
Speaker 4: in bed, sipping your Oh my, it's like a blanket.
Speaker 1: It's like a blank Do you have terry clothing?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 4: My robing feels like a very delicious blanket.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like a cloud.
Speaker 1: It is this, Oh I think I can picture it?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 1: Is it light blue? Is it cotton? Candy collar?
Speaker 2: It's white, it's just is cotton kenny pink?
Speaker 3: No, 'tis not. It's just plain white.
Speaker 1: Aren't you robed? You and your wife robber around. I
Speaker 1: am not a rober.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I have given her a robe in the past. I
Speaker 1: don't think she's worn it much. Not really a rob.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, you guys are I know.
Speaker 4: Robbie's not a rober either. I wish Robbie was a
Speaker 4: Rober like me, but he's not.
Speaker 1: No Robbie the rover.
Speaker 3: Robbie's not a rover.
Speaker 1: And I love.
Speaker 4: I'm telling you, if you come over to my house
Speaker 4: and it's like seven pm, I will be.
Speaker 3: In that robe. You just you'll see me in that.
Speaker 2: I'm not coming over with your house with you in
Speaker 2: a robe, Like, what is wrong? Ruby, MICHAELA rovers you robe?
Speaker 7: I am, but I'm not like a full time rover.
Speaker 7: I only do it like here and there or like
Speaker 7: on vacation. Especially vacation is a different thing.
Speaker 3: It's all the same. Imagine that at home.
Speaker 2: It's not I don't vacation when I robe it home.
Speaker 4: Yes, you will start on Canoby.
Speaker 3: I should get you my robe. I think you'll feel differently.
Speaker 1: Look, he's on the phone. Ruby, on the phone.
Speaker 4: This guy Berry's instructor calls Robbie Roby in class.
Speaker 1: Because he knows he's trying to get it into robing. Yes,
Speaker 1: oh well that's how. That's what we do. This is
Speaker 1: our job.
Speaker 2: Good morning. I didn't do today. I'm gonna celebrate some
Speaker 2: of these schools. Last day at school. Celebrate you guys
Speaker 2: this morning, this hour, it's your last day. Congratulations, last
Speaker 2: day at school. Can I hear Beverly Hills Unified.
Speaker 1: You did it, You did it, you made it. You
Speaker 1: never thought what happened to here? It is you did it.
Speaker 2: It's a Corona Norco, Corona Norco. Last day's today, Riverside
Speaker 2: breaking up this morning, the last dayside, San Bernardino, Good morning,
Speaker 2: San Bernadino. Congratulations you guys, your last day today, San Marino,
Speaker 2: San Marino, last day of school today. They know, okay,
Speaker 2: this is no Walnut Valley, last day of school today,
Speaker 2: Valle Walt william S Hart School District, Santa Clarita, last
Speaker 2: day school today.
Speaker 3: Rita baby hot out there?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 2: Well, I mean it really is a big deal, a
Speaker 2: big accomplishment, So be proud of yourself and celebrate it too.
Speaker 2: I I you know, I love, I have ever seen
Speaker 2: the you sad the yard signs where people say proud
Speaker 2: parent of a graduate.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just love that.
Speaker 2: I almost want to stop and knock and go. Can
Speaker 2: I congratulate you? Because that's a big deal, But that
Speaker 2: would be like why am I at your door?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: You should just honk and be like conrash.
Speaker 2: Maybe I'll do that for social media, right, knock on
Speaker 2: people's doors and congratulate when I see the sign and
Speaker 2: we'll post it.
Speaker 1: No, maybe do.
Speaker 4: It stick to the coffee shops director, Okay, what are
Speaker 4: we doing today?
Speaker 2: We're Ryan chores. That's what I want to tell you about.
Speaker 2: So thank you for the pumping circumstance. Ryan's rose. She
Speaker 2: found this really inappropriate text from one of her best
Speaker 2: friends to her husband, and she'd thinks something is going
Speaker 2: on with her husband or her best friend behind her back.
Speaker 1: It's bad, bad, bad.
Speaker 2: It's at seven point forty, uh, Tanya, while we were
Speaker 2: sleep last night.
Speaker 1: What happened?
Speaker 3: Well, i'll tell you.
Speaker 4: Things got back to normal for Southwest Airlines after more
Speaker 4: than thirteen hundred flights were delayed yesterday due to a
Speaker 4: widespread technology issue. Additional areas in Disneyland will be temporarily
Speaker 4: unavailable this summer as construction crews work on projects in
Speaker 4: New Orleans Square and Critter Country. Davy Crockett's Explore Canoes
Speaker 4: attraction will close starting July eighth, and Walgreens is joining
Speaker 4: other retailers and cutting prices across the board to lure
Speaker 4: backshoppers turned off by high prices. Prices are dropping immediately
Speaker 4: on more than fifteen hundred items. And that's what happened overnight.
Speaker 2: I got your morning hacket if you if you're going
Speaker 2: camp in this summer's gonna keep the mosquitoes away. And
Speaker 2: I feel like we talked about it before, but it's
Speaker 2: always good to remind her this time of year.
Speaker 1: To Tanya, before we go any further, we need to
Speaker 1: have a house meeting.
Speaker 3: Have you ever had one of these?
Speaker 1: Have I ever had one of these house meeting?
Speaker 3: A skunk at your house?
Speaker 2: I have. I've had squirrels in my wall and I've
Speaker 2: had a skunk somewhere in the house. We've had to
Speaker 2: call for the skunk remover to skunk.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 4: So it's not so easy because when I lived in
Speaker 4: an apartment, if I had a skunk, I'd call my
Speaker 4: landlord and be like, hey, there's a skunk and figure
Speaker 4: it out.
Speaker 3: And they would do it. When you live in a house,
Speaker 3: it's very different situation. The skunk is your problem.
Speaker 1: Where tell us about when did you start smelling the skunk?
Speaker 3: So we didn't smell and we saw him so.
Speaker 1: Sunny, then you're good.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, sonny.
Speaker 4: Our dog was like losing her mind, like barking outside
Speaker 4: the window, and Robby and I go and we look
Speaker 4: out there and we're like, oh my gosh, we've never
Speaker 4: seen a skunk this close in person. It was kind
Speaker 4: of like in the sidewalk in front of our house.
Speaker 1: And am I taller than a skunk?
Speaker 3: Way taller?
Speaker 4: It's like probably the size of your hand, no, actually
Speaker 4: the side of your arm, the size of your arm.
Speaker 4: And it looked like it was hurt, like it looked
Speaker 4: like maybe it had been run over, and like it
Speaker 4: was because it was going so slow, like it was
Speaker 4: moving at like a snail's pace.
Speaker 1: But it's a skunks.
Speaker 4: But it's a skunk and we know that they go fast.
Speaker 4: So we're like, Okay, this skunk is injured. What do
Speaker 4: we do because he's like.
Speaker 1: We should help the skunk, but what if we get sprayed?
Speaker 4: Correct, So cut to the skunk ends up somehow moving
Speaker 4: and like, now he's in our doorway, he's on like
Speaker 4: our doormat in front of our front door.
Speaker 1: He really needs a band aid.
Speaker 4: So Robbie calls the La County Animal Services to tell them, hey,
Speaker 4: we have the skunk and they were like, well, how
Speaker 4: injured is the skunk.
Speaker 3: And He's like, I don't know. I'm not like going up.
Speaker 4: And giving him an inspection, right, And they were like,
Speaker 4: because what they do is they come and they euthanize
Speaker 4: to kind of like if they get run over by
Speaker 4: cars and stuff, to kind of put them out of
Speaker 4: their misery. Then you have to call La Sanitation to
Speaker 4: come and remove the body. And Robbie was like, well,
Speaker 4: we don't want to kill the skunk. The skunk seems
Speaker 4: to be moving and fine.
Speaker 1: It's kind of cartoony.
Speaker 3: So then we gave up that route.
Speaker 4: So then we're like at work, we come home from work,
Speaker 4: the skunk is now in our.
Speaker 2: Backyard because the skunk's making skunk at home.
Speaker 3: Yes, and Sonny is actually the skunk.
Speaker 1: I overheard the call like they're not going to do
Speaker 1: anything with me. I'm good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So we started now we named him pepe pepe
Speaker 4: le Pume and now he's in our backyard and we
Speaker 4: can't let Sonny out to go potty.
Speaker 2: Because we're living in your backyard. He's healing, yes, and
Speaker 2: he's not sprayed.
Speaker 3: He has not sprayed.
Speaker 1: This is good.
Speaker 2: Maybe he knows that you're trying to help out. He's
Speaker 2: not gonna spray.
Speaker 4: So then I got the phone number to this guy
Speaker 4: who comes to your house, collects this skunk and then
Speaker 4: releases them off the ninety one freeway in Orange County.
Speaker 1: Is this just a random dude?
Speaker 4: This is some random dude, because apparently it's illegal, Like
Speaker 4: you can't advertise that.
Speaker 1: Because they're lets him by the freeway.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. You're not supposed to like move
Speaker 3: animals like that.
Speaker 2: I remember I had gerbils, and my gerbils had babies
Speaker 2: and I let them go in the church parking lot
Speaker 2: and everybody was like, oh my gosh, you.
Speaker 4: Can't do that right right, But now we've lost the
Speaker 4: skunk went to some shrubbery and now we've lost We've
Speaker 4: lost Pete.
Speaker 2: But that's okay. Maybe he's gone out back into the wild.
Speaker 4: I smelled a little skunky smell on my way to
Speaker 4: work this morning, so I know Pepe is still around.
Speaker 1: That is a really interesting thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're trying to do but I love that you
Speaker 2: guys are trying to do the right thing here.
Speaker 4: Well, I know, because we're like, he's not injured to
Speaker 4: the like. I guess the point that they come is
Speaker 4: if you know when car car misery.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we're like this guy that's picking up animals
Speaker 2: and taken to the freeway, Like, when does he decide
Speaker 2: that's going to be his side hustle.
Speaker 4: I know, I don't think it's a side hustle. I
Speaker 4: think it's because of this issue. Like a lot of
Speaker 4: people have these animals and they'll call, you know, like County.
Speaker 3: They didn't want to euthanize the animal.
Speaker 1: But they don't know what to do. Well, they call
Speaker 1: herb correct. I don't even know his name, Herbs the
Speaker 1: skunk Rescuer.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: How wild though, And then I saw Chrissy Teagan on
Speaker 4: her Instagram story they have a skunk at their house too,
Speaker 4: am I going on her pet based.
Speaker 1: I don't know how close you guys live there. Ye,
Speaker 1: he's roaming around.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, thanks for being sweet to Pep bang Man,
Speaker 2: Good morning. Hack is next how to keep Mosquitoes away
Speaker 2: from your skunk, I mean your FM headlines with Tanya
Speaker 2: rad Well.
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Speaker 1: On air with a Ryan Seacret, I.
Speaker 2: Were playing password for your Disneyland tickets and the Ryan's roses.
Speaker 2: A lot of people asking what time it's at seven forty.
Speaker 2: I know some people have never heard it that are
Speaker 2: listening this morning. So Ryan's Roses seventy forty. You'll see
Speaker 2: what we're talking about here. But she found this like
Speaker 2: really inappropriate text and it was from her best friend.
Speaker 1: One of her best friends to her husband.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would, I just can't picture it.
Speaker 2: Well, we need to find out what was in the
Speaker 2: text and then all the why there let's coming out
Speaker 2: in a second.
Speaker 1: Uh, let's grab our password.
Speaker 2: Contestant for Disneyland tickets, Arianna and Urlita, Ariana of our
Speaker 2: lead ticket morning.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, how you doing in shuck? My heart
Speaker 5: is like racing.
Speaker 1: Oh but that's been listening.
Speaker 5: To y'all since I was like a teenager, and I'm
Speaker 5: I'm thirty four with children now, so it's, oh my.
Speaker 1: Gosh, that's crazy town. I can't.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's amazing. But think of how much you've accomplished.
Speaker 5: My enter child right now, and I'm not going to
Speaker 5: adult right now. Okay, So if I sound a little sunky,
Speaker 5: it's my excitement.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, you're getting it done. And how many
Speaker 1: kids you got?
Speaker 8: I have three?
Speaker 5: Wow?
Speaker 9: Wow?
Speaker 1: And you start when you're a teenager listeners on.
Speaker 5: Kiss at that Yeah, with my mom. So it's this tradition.
Speaker 5: And now my little one. You can always hear my
Speaker 5: little six year old, she's always like kids every morning.
Speaker 1: So that's great.
Speaker 2: Okay, So let's try and get you these Disneyland tickets.
Speaker 1: For your kids. It's called password. All right.
Speaker 2: Have you heard a speaked password before? It's where the
Speaker 2: our producer marked is that I don't know cringey voice.
Speaker 5: So it's no, no, I'm not agreeing with you, but I mean, yeah,
Speaker 5: I kind of have an idea of the game.
Speaker 1: So here's all. So all of us here in the
Speaker 1: room and everybody listening is going to know the password.
Speaker 1: You will not.
Speaker 2: We'll put you on hold. You will not hear the password.
Speaker 2: We will give you one word clues. Those clues should
Speaker 2: trigger the password. It's a word, okay, so hold on.
Speaker 1: One second and here we go.
Speaker 2: It's pretty Yeah, it's kind of fun actually, because we're
Speaker 2: often terrible at it.
Speaker 3: Hold on, all right, speech for your song?
Speaker 1: I am the password is popsicle? Why the ding? So
Speaker 1: that's how it is on the show. You don't answer
Speaker 1: the question in the creepy voice. Sorry, all right, Ariana,
Speaker 1: here we go. Are you ready?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 9: Uh?
Speaker 1: Tany you want to start?
Speaker 2: Sure?
Speaker 3: Frozen.
Speaker 5: I don't know why I'm thinking Elsa and Anna?
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, That's what I was thinking too. Is the
Speaker 1: terrible clue? Uh terrible? Clearly had one creamsickle?
Speaker 8: You?
Speaker 1: I scream no, what Tanya.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, it's popsicle, she said, she said popsicle.
Speaker 1: She said popsicle. Why the look of terror on your face?
Speaker 3: Because the word is popsicle. You can't say creamsicle. You
Speaker 3: can't know the word in the clue.
Speaker 1: I didn't I use creamsickle.
Speaker 3: Sickle sickle. It's like, if the word is you can't
Speaker 3: say like I brown.
Speaker 1: Are right, well, we have a little problem.
Speaker 3: She just shouldn't suffer from your mistake.
Speaker 1: Okay, excuse me, word assistant. Hold on, Ariana, Hold on
Speaker 1: one second, All right.
Speaker 2: Man, I mean yeah, she should win the tickets. She's
Speaker 2: gonna get the ticket. Hold on, y'all, it's creamsickle. I
Speaker 2: didn't say popsicle, Ariana. They're being very nickpicky here this morning.
Speaker 3: Anyone would agree.
Speaker 2: Uh, I'm gonna you get the tickets. You won, clearly,
Speaker 2: good job, you're a very good player.
Speaker 1: Password.
Speaker 2: Congratulations, you're going to Disneyland. You got a four pack
Speaker 2: of tics.
Speaker 5: My god, my face got so hot right now.
Speaker 1: Yay, you did it.
Speaker 5: Gonna cry. I mean, I have three kids. I'm like
Speaker 5: stuttering here, so it's like, I'm so thankful.
Speaker 1: My god, you're so welcome.
Speaker 2: We appreciate your loyalty for generations listening to Kiss.
Speaker 5: Yeah crying, Oh my godness, my daughter's birthday this Friday.
Speaker 1: So what's oldest? It's Alicia, Alicia, and what's the six
Speaker 1: year old? The things kiss f M.
Speaker 5: Yes, her name is Juliet.
Speaker 2: Juliet and oh so good. Well, thank you to the
Speaker 2: fam for listening. You guys enjoyed Disneyland.
Speaker 1: You're with me.
Speaker 5: We love you, we love you.
Speaker 2: Thank you for you have fun and you know you're
Speaker 2: one of our best contestants.
Speaker 1: You got it after two.
Speaker 4: Clues, Creamsicle, what were you going to say? I was
Speaker 4: gonna say dessert summer.
Speaker 1: It would have taken to the next point. No, you would.
Speaker 1: She's not gonna get it after frozen summer Dessert.
Speaker 3: Who agrees with me? Ryan broke the rules?
Speaker 1: Well, I wanted her to win. You clearly didn't.
Speaker 3: No, I wanted her to win. But she can win
Speaker 3: the right way.
Speaker 1: Well, cream Sickle, if the word were.
Speaker 4: Chaps lipstick, you couldn't say red stick.
Speaker 2: Well, if I did, I would fire me because that's
Speaker 2: a terrible clue. All right, let's come back with Raquel
Speaker 2: from Running Mommies. Have you heard about this group? In
Speaker 2: Boyle Heights. They created a safe space for moms to
Speaker 2: run on the east side because there was like an
Speaker 2: issue with that.
Speaker 1: So we'll tell you the story coming up here.
Speaker 2: In just the second Raquel Roman and other Latina moms
Speaker 2: started at Running Mummies m a m s with a
Speaker 2: plan to create a welcoming space for mothers to run
Speaker 2: for exercise.
Speaker 1: It's great.
Speaker 2: So they have been frustrated and they they put their
Speaker 2: running feet down and said we're doing something about it.
Speaker 2: Their first meetup was at the LA State Historic Park
Speaker 2: with only ten runners and they've created this running club
Speaker 2: now called Running Mommy's m Amis and Raquel Ramond in
Speaker 2: Bowl Heights is joining us now. So Raquel, tell us
Speaker 2: what inspired you to create the running club there out
Speaker 2: in Boyle Heights.
Speaker 10: Hi ran. We were inspired by our children. We were
Speaker 10: new mothers and we wanted to have a safe space
Speaker 10: for not just ourselves, but for other mothers, new mothers
Speaker 10: that were runners and were returning back from eternity and
Speaker 10: we're experiencing sometimes postpartum depression, and so we wanted to
Speaker 10: create a safe space to welcome all new mothers.
Speaker 2: And so in the past, you would, I mean the
Speaker 2: roads are dangerous, there's not a good place to do it.
Speaker 1: You would be bothered, right, You get cat.
Speaker 10: Calls, yes, cat calls. Sometimes the pavements aren't even and
Speaker 10: so that makes it even harder. When you have a stroller,
Speaker 10: you could trip because an accident. So there is lots
Speaker 10: of dangerous and the cat calls, and so running in
Speaker 10: a pack with other women just trade a safer environment
Speaker 10: for everybody.
Speaker 2: And what do you do about the road hazards? How
Speaker 2: do you fix those?
Speaker 10: So we run in a pack, so when you're in
Speaker 10: a larger group, you call more attention. We were a
Speaker 10: safety vest, we have past shirts. We also we're very
Speaker 10: familiar with our local streets. Now we run out of
Speaker 10: La Historic Park. We also when the training we go
Speaker 10: to Griffith Park and so there's a lot of areas
Speaker 10: where we're able to run safely.
Speaker 11: In a group.
Speaker 2: And the running club as I was reading here, ages
Speaker 2: eighteen to over sixty.
Speaker 10: Yes, we have. Since we started, we've recruited nieces, grandmothers.
Speaker 10: My own mother goes and joins us, and so it's
Speaker 10: multi generational. Our kids are running with us. Younger women
Speaker 10: are getting motivated by their by their older aunts, older sisters,
Speaker 10: and so it's it's a great space for community, not
Speaker 10: only because it's women, but it's multi generational.
Speaker 1: So it's a running club.
Speaker 2: It's on the East side Boil Heights, and it's now
Speaker 2: officially in nike La Running Club.
Speaker 1: They've been recognized. How can tell me?
Speaker 2: I don't know the answer to this, So I'm curious
Speaker 2: how has it helped with postpartum depression?
Speaker 10: The running, Well, it creates community. You're able to come
Speaker 10: together with other women, uh and talk about the issues
Speaker 10: you're you're facing as a new time, first time mom.
Speaker 10: We could talk about breastfeeding, we could talk about cipher changes,
Speaker 10: we and moving, especially moving and running releases, endorsements. So
Speaker 10: movement just helps in the healing of dealing with postpartum depression.
Speaker 2: I'm looking at a photo of you, Rachel with your mom.
Speaker 2: How awesome is it to get cardio in exercise with
Speaker 2: your mom?
Speaker 10: Yeah, we were doing it quite often every weekend. Right now,
Speaker 10: we're a little busy. The school years coming to an end,
Speaker 10: and so I've been super busy. So once a month
Speaker 10: is now the time when we get together and or
Speaker 10: she comes to running Mommies and runs with not just me,
Speaker 10: but all the other moms in the group.
Speaker 1: That's great.
Speaker 2: You can check them out look at at running Dot
Speaker 2: Mommy's m a m I ask on Instagram, what a
Speaker 2: great story in the neighborhood out there in What Heights.
Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us and thank you for
Speaker 2: calling in to share. I hope you continue to grow
Speaker 2: the club and everybody sticks with it.
Speaker 10: Thank you everyone, Thank you Ryan, take.
Speaker 1: Care you too, Bye.
Speaker 2: I think you can join right because I'm looking to
Speaker 2: get people coming from all over to join San Diego Ventura,
Speaker 2: So if you want to join that and get out
Speaker 2: to Running Mummies out there on the east side one of.
Speaker 1: Two point seven. It is Kiss.
Speaker 2: FM, So Systney's out of vacation, Tanya and I here.
Speaker 1: We're getting into Ryan's roses right now.
Speaker 2: Dear Ryan, Sisney and Tanya, I found a super inappropriate
Speaker 2: text one of my best friends to my husband. They
Speaker 2: both say like they're both covering for each other. They
Speaker 2: both say it was just a funny mistake. She has
Speaker 2: a bad feeling about it. Nicolette coming on with us
Speaker 2: right now and fuller to Nicolette, thank you for reaching out.
Speaker 1: We're going to try and do our best work here.
Speaker 1: What the text says, Ye.
Speaker 12: So I saw a text come in from my friend Aaron,
Speaker 12: and I thought it was weird that she was texting him,
Speaker 12: you know, so I just read it. We're all friends,
Speaker 12: and I don't I don't think I can say what
Speaker 12: it's said over the radio. But it had to do
Speaker 12: with things she wants him to do to her when
Speaker 12: they're together next and so, you know, I confronted him,
Speaker 12: I said, you know, what is this? And he seems stunned,
Speaker 12: but I couldn't tell if it was because he was
Speaker 12: busted or if he was just legitimately confused. So we
Speaker 12: called her together and she was super embarrassed. She said
Speaker 12: she'd been seeing a guy also named Alex and that's
Speaker 12: really close to my husband's name. And you know, it
Speaker 12: was a total accident. But I want so desperately to
Speaker 12: believe them, but I just don't.
Speaker 2: Well, I got a couple issues here. Why are they
Speaker 2: even texting at all? I mean, I could be a
Speaker 2: funny mistake. How could them talking about what they want
Speaker 2: to do to each other then next time, as if
Speaker 2: they've had the first time I've seen each other. How
Speaker 2: is that a funny mistake in any shape?
Speaker 8: Well?
Speaker 12: Exactly, And you know her excuse is that she meant
Speaker 12: to send it to this other guy. But I just
Speaker 12: I don't trust this situation. I really don't.
Speaker 1: And why don't you believe them?
Speaker 12: Well, I know them both really well and obviously, and
Speaker 12: I thought for years that he might have a little
Speaker 12: thing for her, And you know, I've seen the way
Speaker 12: he looks at her when she's in a swimsuit. He
Speaker 12: kind of looks her up and down. And she has
Speaker 12: a reputation for going after unavailable guys, including a few
Speaker 12: married guys in her past, and so I don't know.
Speaker 12: And then I also I went on her social media.
Speaker 12: I looked through what the people she's following. I don't
Speaker 12: see any evidence of anyone named Alex on her social
Speaker 12: media anywhere. So it's just all makes me feeling very unsure.
Speaker 2: Nicolette in Fullerton says she found inappropriate texts from one
Speaker 2: of her best friends to her husband about hey, next
Speaker 2: time we're together, I want to do this to you
Speaker 2: kind of stuff, and she's like, well, oh, that was
Speaker 2: a mistake. I meant to send it to another guy.
Speaker 2: But then she goes on to say it was very awkward,
Speaker 2: seemed like they were caught and this woman has a
Speaker 2: reputation of going after unavailable men. So all of the
Speaker 2: signs here.
Speaker 3: Not good, not good at all.
Speaker 1: Not good. Nikola, how long you been married?
Speaker 12: We've been married for gosh nine years now and we
Speaker 12: have two children.
Speaker 1: Well, here we go. Be prepared for what this might
Speaker 1: look like.
Speaker 2: It doesn't sound good, So Nicola, I need you to
Speaker 2: say round, you have my permission to call?
Speaker 1: And then your husband's name.
Speaker 12: Okay, do you have my permission to call?
Speaker 1: We're gonna do it right now. Be very quiet, Let's
Speaker 1: see what we can find out.
Speaker 9: Good luck, Thank you. Hello?
Speaker 13: Hi?
Speaker 3: Is this Alan?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Hi, I'm calling from Blueing Flowers. We're currently serving your
Speaker 6: area and we're offering a free dozen roses to whoever
Speaker 6: you like this morning. Is there anyone you'd like to
Speaker 6: send them to?
Speaker 8: What?
Speaker 6: They're totally free, no cash, no credit card, nothing, and
Speaker 6: we can deliver these roses by New Today. Is there
Speaker 6: someone you'd want to send them to?
Speaker 9: Wait?
Speaker 13: So you this is the service that sends free rosen
Speaker 13: to people.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a promotion we're running this week just to
Speaker 6: increase word of mouth, and you were randomly selected. I see, Yeah,
Speaker 6: So is there someone you'd like to send them to.
Speaker 13: Sure you can send them to Angela.
Speaker 6: Angela?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Angela?
Speaker 6: Okay? And what would you like to put on the note.
Speaker 13: To Angela? Have a great day, love Brad.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 6: Oh but your name isn't Brad.
Speaker 13: Yeah, I know her name is and Angela either.
Speaker 9: It's like a code name. We use Stull names.
Speaker 8: Aaron.
Speaker 13: But don't put that on there.
Speaker 6: Okay, got it, So I'll just put Angela.
Speaker 9: Okay.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Alan, your voice is being broadcast on the radio.
Speaker 1: Alan, that's your name, right. I need you to know
Speaker 1: that your voice is here. My name is Ryan.
Speaker 2: Have Tanya with you. Your your voice is here on the radio.
Speaker 2: We have your wife on the line with us. Now,
Speaker 2: do you want to explain the code names? You want
Speaker 2: to explain the code names, the code names, the code
Speaker 2: names you use, code names.
Speaker 13: My wife's on the line, Nicol.
Speaker 2: Yes, so let me be really slow and clear. You're
Speaker 2: on the air sending flowers to your code lover Angela
Speaker 2: from Brad cover Up Operation Nicolette found an inappropriate text
Speaker 2: to you from another woman, your friend and her friend saying,
Speaker 2: next time we made up, we should you know this
Speaker 2: stuff should happen. Her real name is Aaron. Her real
Speaker 2: name is Aaron. Okay, well what what what?
Speaker 1: What are you doing? What's going on here?
Speaker 8: Well?
Speaker 13: Nothing, This is like between me and my wife.
Speaker 2: No, it's between Angela brad and and us and us.
Speaker 12: You that doesn't mean anything, so just.
Speaker 1: So we're all on the same page.
Speaker 2: The text, the text you found Nicolette was from Aaron, right, yes, okay, Alan,
Speaker 2: what's going on? You're having an affair with Aaron? It's clear,
Speaker 2: there's all kinds of evidence here.
Speaker 13: And not having an affair with Aaron?
Speaker 2: Why is she texting you to do things with you
Speaker 2: the next time you're together.
Speaker 13: We've talked about that. That was just a mistake.
Speaker 1: It's not a mistake, bro.
Speaker 4: You just sent her roses under a coat name like
Speaker 4: literally two seconds ago.
Speaker 12: Are you?
Speaker 13: I am not cheating?
Speaker 9: You up? On you?
Speaker 1: And why do you have a cover up operation going on?
Speaker 13: It's it's just a fun joke that we have. It's
Speaker 13: not a big deal.
Speaker 1: It's a huge deal, dude.
Speaker 13: This is between me and my wife.
Speaker 2: It's not your wife called us and Aaron's involved. So
Speaker 2: it's not you and your wife, it's you, your wife
Speaker 2: Aaron and.
Speaker 13: Now us is Aaron on the phone too.
Speaker 2: She's not, but she could be. She could be listening
Speaker 2: to this. So, Alan, why don't you just tell your
Speaker 2: wife what's going on. If this is a crazy, little fun,
Speaker 2: cute game, then explain the game.
Speaker 13: Yeah, please, it's it's not like it's there are rules
Speaker 13: or anything. I call her a angela and she calls
Speaker 13: me brad. It's it's why do you play.
Speaker 1: Names with another woman? And what's wrong with you?
Speaker 13: Alan?
Speaker 1: How are you not seeing this?
Speaker 13: I don't see how that having pet names is a problem.
Speaker 1: Okay, I can't with you.
Speaker 2: Having pet names with another woman, sending inappropriate text back
Speaker 2: and forth, and you're married to Nicolett and you think
Speaker 2: that's nomina issue.
Speaker 13: It's not technically cheating.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you're such a narcissist. It's so alarming.
Speaker 2: That was pretty accurate description, Alan. Your wife has a
Speaker 2: problem with it. This is a problem, your delusion.
Speaker 13: Let me talk to my wife about it.
Speaker 1: You're welcome to talk to about She's right here. I
Speaker 1: suggest you.
Speaker 13: Do no in private on the radio.
Speaker 1: Okay, but what are you by technically cheating?
Speaker 2: Are you when you say not technically cheating, you're cheating,
Speaker 2: But not technically cheating means that simple.
Speaker 1: Dude, you got to. I think you got a real
Speaker 1: problem to work on.
Speaker 3: He's not like physically cheating.
Speaker 2: They'll take you off the air. Alan nicolect good luck.
Speaker 2: He's got pet names with another woman. They're talk about
Speaker 2: inappropriate things, and he thinks it's fine. Let me bring
Speaker 2: in Beatrice here from West La. Beatrice, good morning and
Speaker 2: thank you for listening. So to recap what happened, Nicolette
Speaker 2: and Alan were on the phone. She had found a
Speaker 2: text from her one of her best friends named Aaron,
Speaker 2: to her husband that said, Hey, next time we're together,
Speaker 2: let's do this to each other. She called her out
Speaker 2: on it and she said, oh, that was a mistake.
Speaker 2: I meant to go to another guy. Then we get
Speaker 2: Haim on the phone. He sends the roses to Angela,
Speaker 2: whose real name is Aaron. But he says, we have
Speaker 2: these code names. So I'm gonna say love Brad even
Speaker 2: though it's allan. So he's got a text from her.
Speaker 2: He's sending her red roses with code names, and then
Speaker 2: he tells his wife he's not technically cheating.
Speaker 1: It's just a fun game. They have what world like?
Speaker 1: What world?
Speaker 3: Literally, it's this is quintessential narcissism.
Speaker 2: Right there because he's he's saying, it's no big deal,
Speaker 2: there's nothing going on, and I'm not technically.
Speaker 4: Cheating because in his mind, he hasn't physically crossed the lines.
Speaker 3: It hasn't cheated. Yeah, so he believes that.
Speaker 4: And then he will stand on that hill until the
Speaker 4: day he dies, all right, Beatrice.
Speaker 11: Yeah, yes, yeah, I heard it all. So first off,
Speaker 11: Brad and Angela, what was that for Brad and Angelina?
Speaker 11: Is that what they were going for?
Speaker 1: Think of that? Maybe I didn't cross my mind.
Speaker 11: Look what happened, Look what happened to them? One hundred percent,
Speaker 11: this guy is a loser. He's cheating on his wife,
Speaker 11: and yeah, the fact that he's doing it with her
Speaker 11: best friend, I just feel awful for her. It's heartbreaking.
Speaker 11: It's I almost feel like it's almost worse in a
Speaker 11: way to have a betrayal from your best friend than
Speaker 11: your head. I mean, they're both equally bad, but one
Speaker 11: hundred percent, he's scum. He's stepping out on her and yeah,
Speaker 11: and this.
Speaker 2: Is this, it's bad behavior and it's only gonna get worse.
Speaker 2: And the friend is not a friend, and the friend's
Speaker 2: keeping this from her friend, doing this behind her back
Speaker 2: as it came.
Speaker 11: As oh, awful, awful. They're both horrible, horrible, disgusting people.
Speaker 2: And the text that Aaron sent certainly implies that they're
Speaker 2: having an affair. It certainly implies that one.
Speaker 11: Hundred percent, one hundred percent, and who knows how long
Speaker 11: it's been going on for to like get to that
Speaker 11: point of coming up with code names. That's not something
Speaker 11: you like do like right away.
Speaker 2: So maybe, well we wish that Nicolette gets to the
Speaker 2: bottom of it in piece. Maybe you take away from
Speaker 2: this that your relationship isn't so bad, like maybe you're
Speaker 2: doing all right right, but it's just maybe that's the thing.
Speaker 2: Maybe it's not so bad because that's pretty bad, right,
Speaker 2: So maybe you want to lock down on the love
Speaker 2: that you've got because you heard that, because you're not
Speaker 2: in that situation.
Speaker 1: That's a bad situation.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's not really the best lens.
Speaker 1: I'm trying. I'm trying to have full the glass.
Speaker 3: Mm hmm as soon as you're trying to do. But
Speaker 3: it's it's not I think I think you.
Speaker 2: Might walk away from listening to Ryan's Rosie one. I'm
Speaker 2: all right, that's a tough one.
Speaker 4: It's not really not doing doing what I think you
Speaker 4: wanted to do.
Speaker 3: Not doing me do. Huh, it's not doing to do
Speaker 3: what do?
Speaker 1: I don't understand what that means.
Speaker 4: Like you're trying to create like a glimmer of hope
Speaker 4: out of this.
Speaker 3: But I feel like you don't want to view your.
Speaker 4: Relationship through a lens of this horrible couple that has
Speaker 4: like a narcissist man that's trying to convince his wife
Speaker 4: that he's not cheating, he's not physically touching somebody else.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I'm saying, Hey, if you've got
Speaker 2: a good relationship, be grateful today.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's good. We got there.
Speaker 1: That's what I've been saying.
Speaker 3: That's not what you said before.
Speaker 1: That's exactly how I said it.
Speaker 2: All right, Tanya, if we want to get into examining
Speaker 2: each other's cabases, we sure can. It's going out inside
Speaker 2: of your head. I mean, it's you bet you better
Speaker 2: know something. But well, when in between Hosy and Taylor Swift,
Speaker 2: you say you know you got a lot going on
Speaker 2: in your head out of the blue. No, I was
Speaker 2: just talking about I talk with my hands. I move
Speaker 2: my hands in the air when I talk I.
Speaker 4: Know, but you mentioned this earlier in the week, like
Speaker 4: you were talking about.
Speaker 1: It, and actually I mentioned a lot of things.
Speaker 4: My fiance was listening and he was like laughing because
Speaker 4: you were saying, how you have all these voices in
Speaker 4: your head? And he had the same He thought exactly
Speaker 4: what I had said right after that, which was which
Speaker 4: was let's let's dissect that, let's talk about it.
Speaker 3: Put a pin in it.
Speaker 1: Oh, no, he wants to host this show.
Speaker 4: No, no, He was just saying like he was listening,
Speaker 4: and he was very much enjoying it, which I thought
Speaker 4: was cute.
Speaker 1: It's really nice if family listens.
Speaker 3: I think so too.
Speaker 1: Uh if people think I.
Speaker 2: Have some Italian in me, I got asked all the time,
Speaker 2: you got a little Italian in you?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I could see that.
Speaker 1: It's only because I used my hands so much to.
Speaker 4: Interesting, because it's talking with If I didn't speak, my
Speaker 4: hands would speak.
Speaker 1: Yeah, my hands do speak.
Speaker 3: I like to talk with my hands a lot too.
Speaker 1: What was it you you know you do you do
Speaker 1: like a fanning motion when you talk.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do.
Speaker 2: I do a lot of it from the elbow, right right,
Speaker 2: right right. Anyway, this is radio, so that probably is audio. Platform.
Speaker 2: So you're not seeing any of that, but you got
Speaker 2: to be comfortable. Somebody say, let's talk about the voices.
Speaker 1: In your head.
Speaker 3: Well, we said we'd put a pin in it. So
Speaker 3: I'm like, did not?
Speaker 1: You did?
Speaker 4: And you said, okay, vacation. I think it's so nice.
Speaker 4: That's what we're here for. We're here to help each
Speaker 4: other examine.
Speaker 2: And the thing is I do forget, like listen ready,
Speaker 2: I forget that they're on buttons on a lot of times.
Speaker 1: When we're talking.
Speaker 3: Oh gotcha.
Speaker 2: Anyway, all right, let's go. You've a trending report. I
Speaker 2: want to get to it at least DoD So, Joe Kelly,
Speaker 2: have you seen this guy? Sistney and Tanya think it's
Speaker 2: my dappelganger.
Speaker 3: He is your doppelganger.
Speaker 2: Well, it's his jersey night, so I want to get one. Yeah,
Speaker 2: walk around like the short unathletic Joe Kelly, we got
Speaker 2: your tickets to go see the Dogs play coming up, Rube.
Speaker 1: It's not meant to be that.
Speaker 3: I will say you have better hair than him.
Speaker 1: Oh really, I've not looked at his hair.
Speaker 3: Also, i'd argue that you're pretty athletic.
Speaker 1: I'd like this argument. You're trying to make a comeback
Speaker 1: from the voices in my head scenario.
Speaker 3: I'm really not. I'm just being honest.
Speaker 1: Okay, Joe is six to one.
Speaker 4: Dang, Yeah, all right, let's go. Okay. Shane Mitchell. Okay,
Speaker 4: So Shane Mitchell. We know her from Pretty Little Liars.
Speaker 4: She's the founder and CEO of Bays. She has been
Speaker 4: in a relationship with Matt Babbel since twenty seventeen. Okay,
Speaker 4: they've been together for seven years. They have two kids together.
Speaker 1: Wow. Good.
Speaker 4: But they're still very far away from getting married. And
Speaker 4: so Shaye was doing an interview and Jenna Bush asked her.
Speaker 4: She incorrectly referred to him as Shay's husband before she
Speaker 4: corrected herself to say partner instead, and she said, I've
Speaker 4: manifested quite a few things in my life and getting
Speaker 4: married was never something that was right for me. I
Speaker 4: think for the both of us, everything works so smoothly.
Speaker 4: We're awesome partners in life, and so it got me thinking,
Speaker 4: if your great partners in life, why not get married?
Speaker 2: She's why, if your great partners in life, why do
Speaker 2: you need that? But that's got it figured out. Why
Speaker 2: do you need that? Why do you have to say, well,
Speaker 2: if you're doing that anyway.
Speaker 4: Do this, because I think she has not expressed that
Speaker 4: she has. Like some people don't want to get married
Speaker 4: because let's say they grew up in a divorce household,
Speaker 4: so they don't believe in marriage, or.
Speaker 1: They've just seen destructive marriages, or.
Speaker 4: They've seen destructive marriages. But I guess that would be
Speaker 4: Like my question is if maybe do you think by
Speaker 4: getting married that it's going to not go as well
Speaker 4: as it has been going for the last seven.
Speaker 2: Years, Like maybe maybe she believes it could be cursed
Speaker 2: if she does. Is My point is this, we on
Speaker 2: the outside should not have any opinion. Well, if it
Speaker 2: works for a couple, it works, Like why why do
Speaker 2: we have to raise the question? Well, if you just raised,
Speaker 2: which is, if they're together, why not get married? Like
Speaker 2: why even have that conversation? To me, that shouldn't exist because.
Speaker 4: To me, I think knowledge is power and sharing information
Speaker 4: and knowledge and maybe something that's working for her. If
Speaker 4: she shares that story and that journey, then maybe other
Speaker 4: people who feel that way can relate and be like okay,
Speaker 4: maybe because I think a lot of people do feel
Speaker 4: pressured to get married or that are going through that,
Speaker 4: and if Shay were to open up about why she
Speaker 4: doesn't want to per se, then maybe those people will
Speaker 4: be able to gain some knowledge from her insight. That's
Speaker 4: all not really an opinion, but more just like I
Speaker 4: want to ask questions because I just want to know.
Speaker 2: I think you and I are going to have different
Speaker 2: views on this. I did discover something that the name
Speaker 2: of your autobiography is going to be called.
Speaker 1: It got me thinking.
Speaker 3: I got me thinking, It got.
Speaker 1: Me thinking, you know, it gets me think, got me thinking, all.
Speaker 2: Right, one eight hundred five to one O two seven
Speaker 2: Here at Kiss.
Speaker 1: FM, Veronic is on the line.
Speaker 2: Oh she heard us talking about silent retreat. I've only
Speaker 2: seen it in the movies. I've only seen it one movie, Eat, Pray, Love,
Speaker 2: and that movie reruns in places where I catch it
Speaker 2: every season. Yeah it does, and I don't mind it. Actually,
Speaker 2: but I thought to myself, just as an exercise could
Speaker 2: if we were invited to a silent retreat, could we
Speaker 2: do it?
Speaker 1: I could not.
Speaker 2: I can't do I find I find this urge. I
Speaker 2: was in a parking lot yesterday and I really spoke.
Speaker 2: I just had a conversation with someone I was walking
Speaker 2: by I had the conversation. They didn't respond so much,
Speaker 2: but I how's.
Speaker 1: Your how are you? How's your day going? Beautiful? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just like to talk to people.
Speaker 3: I don't know what is this person like on their
Speaker 3: way into the grocery store.
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is.
Speaker 2: Maybe because it's a big city, people get afraid at
Speaker 2: strangers talking to them sometimes. I sometimes I'm not I
Speaker 2: don't want anything. I'm just like saying hi. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 2: asking sell anything. I don't want to touch anything. I
Speaker 2: just don't see your car. I just want to say hi.
Speaker 3: Right, But we're also jaded.
Speaker 1: I like it. Veronica, Hi, Ryan. So you're speaking today,
Speaker 1: but normally you're not. Huh.
Speaker 8: You know it's just a few days out of every
Speaker 8: year that I go silent.
Speaker 1: You go silent a few days out of every year.
Speaker 8: Probably for a week every year.
Speaker 1: Yeah, En tell me why.
Speaker 8: Ooh. Well, the very first one I went to was
Speaker 8: because I was trying to find peace within myself about
Speaker 8: transitioning to having a lot of dietary restrictions, and so
Speaker 8: I was just looking for ways to manage that. But
Speaker 8: ever since then, it's because I love the relaxation and
Speaker 8: the surrender to quiet.
Speaker 1: Where do you do it?
Speaker 8: I go to different retreat centers around California, different goods
Speaker 8: retreat centers.
Speaker 2: And after you finished, how many days?
Speaker 8: I prefer ten or twelve day retreats.
Speaker 2: I saw the movie. So after you do how is
Speaker 2: your body reset? Because what from what I read and understand,
Speaker 2: Although I could never do it, it does really reset
Speaker 2: your whole body.
Speaker 8: Okay, you could totally do it. If I can do it,
Speaker 8: you can do it and body. I mean it's like
Speaker 8: a cleanse. They feed you really simply but really delicious,
Speaker 8: handmade food made with love. I'm both rested and exhausted
Speaker 8: from just sitting all day and meditating.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the thing. Like what do you do with
Speaker 1: your time?
Speaker 8: Sit for an hour, take a fifteen minute break and
Speaker 8: walk around.
Speaker 1: Sit all other people you high five? Do?
Speaker 9: Do you like?
Speaker 1: Work out at nod.
Speaker 8: Working out's not allowed? Eye contacts not allowed?
Speaker 1: Well, Tany's like that's some times around here.
Speaker 3: What yeah, right, I'm like miss eye contact.
Speaker 2: But she doesn't blink. I guess it is the opposite. Yeah,
Speaker 2: all right, so you do it. It's good for you.
Speaker 2: It is amazing that you can do. I think anytime
Speaker 2: you I love what you did to me. The message
Speaker 2: here is like you had to do something. Maybe it
Speaker 2: was for your health, to manage your dietary restrictions, and
Speaker 2: so you look from within to reset yourself, and you
Speaker 2: did it.
Speaker 1: I love that. That's great. Good for you.
Speaker 8: Oh, thank you. Yeah, it's an amazing experience. The first
Speaker 8: retreat I went to was tibetan Buddhist retreat, and the
Speaker 8: content of the retreat was so loving, like they just
Speaker 8: taught us about compassion for ourselves and each other the
Speaker 8: whole time, and I was cut after that. I came
Speaker 8: out of it just seeing the world with a new perspective.
Speaker 1: My gosh, you're relaxing me.
Speaker 3: But I know, honestly, ten to twelve days is so.
Speaker 3: I couldn't even make it till ten to twelve am.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well we all have some goals here. Well, thank
Speaker 2: you Roanka for sharing that story. I appreciate. I'm glad
Speaker 2: you're on the right path there. Yeah, we need more
Speaker 2: compassion for ourselves, wouldn't it be great?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I have zero compassion for myself.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have loath She relaxed us, though. I wonder
Speaker 2: how we would be after that. I wonder how the
Speaker 2: show would be if we all went to a seven
Speaker 2: day retreat, take a week off, come back.
Speaker 1: How would this show?
Speaker 2: Would the pace of this show be because it's a
Speaker 2: lot of coming up, Yeah, it'd have to be a
Speaker 2: lot of Uh.
Speaker 3: I really do want to try and do it one
Speaker 3: day till noon.
Speaker 2: I remember when I moved here to Los Angeles and
Speaker 2: I was just I was so excited to be able
Speaker 2: to afford splitting a bedroom of rent with somebody.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah.
Speaker 2: And as I worked longer and longer and got more jobs.
Speaker 2: The first home I ever owned was an apartment, was
Speaker 2: a kind of minium, and I bought that and I
Speaker 2: was so excited to have that kind of is life change,
Speaker 2: but it comes with responsibilities, and you're a little nervous
Speaker 2: when you're buying something on your own for the first
Speaker 2: time and you've never done it. So there's a new
Speaker 2: movement that I mean, Ruby, you and your family, your.
Speaker 1: Sisters talked about this a little bit. Did you call it?
Speaker 2: Did you call it what it's called housing, spousing or
Speaker 2: houses before spouses?
Speaker 7: No, we didn't have a name for it. But a
Speaker 7: few years ago my sisters and I actually considered this.
Speaker 7: We even talked to a loan officer got preapproved and everything.
Speaker 7: We never really you know, ended up doing it, but
Speaker 7: we thought about it because none of us were in
Speaker 7: a position to you know, we were either single or
Speaker 7: not ready to move in with our significant others, and
Speaker 7: so we're like, why not buy a home together? You know,
Speaker 7: it's really hard to buy a house on your own
Speaker 7: now because of you know, the rise of housing costs.
Speaker 2: So we're just like, and also, why burn red if
Speaker 2: you can start to build an asset or some.
Speaker 1: Apt exactly, And that was kind of the idea.
Speaker 2: They're calling it houses before spouses, the movement.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, I want to hear more.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and they're encouraging you know, younger people, millennials, gen
Speaker 7: zers to partner with friends or family members to become
Speaker 7: homeowners instead of going the traditional route and waiting for marriage.
Speaker 7: There's even a real estate agency that fully dedicates themselves
Speaker 7: to you know, basically helping out friends who want to
Speaker 7: go into home ownership together.
Speaker 1: This was something that we didn't even consider.
Speaker 2: I mean, the big apartment that we got, I told
Speaker 2: you about it olver in Santa Monica after I lived
Speaker 2: with Tanaz. We put five of us shared rent, five
Speaker 2: people shared rent, and it was like a townhouse, right vibe.
Speaker 2: But never did we think, hey, let's buy this thing.
Speaker 2: We all lived together, we paid rent, we burnt that cash,
Speaker 2: anything like getting it that.
Speaker 1: I mean, I wish we I kind of wish we did.
Speaker 9: I know.
Speaker 4: And that's what everybody's saying too, like I wish nobody
Speaker 4: regrets buying something earlier on in life.
Speaker 1: It's just, oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: Back in those days, if we could have purchased that,
Speaker 2: we would all done fine.
Speaker 4: But if you think about it, if you got a
Speaker 4: couple people in on it, you probably could have afforded
Speaker 4: it all together and then shared the us sold it whatever.
Speaker 3: However, many years later, why why were.
Speaker 1: We so naive?
Speaker 8: I know?
Speaker 2: Why don't we have this kind of skill set to
Speaker 2: think about these things?
Speaker 1: I know?
Speaker 3: My mom tried to tell me this twenty years ago.
Speaker 1: She did. She did.
Speaker 3: My mom really tried to get me to do.
Speaker 1: This with friends.
Speaker 4: I don't know exactly specifically who, but she was just
Speaker 4: like very much about do not rent, let's figure out asap,
Speaker 4: how to buy, let's figure it out going, Yeah, going
Speaker 4: with friends?
Speaker 7: Do it?
Speaker 1: Uh? Reb Now you are buying with your fiance.
Speaker 3: We're moving this weekend.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're moving this.
Speaker 2: Weekend, So you're doing, uh, what are you? What do
Speaker 2: you call in your movement?
Speaker 7: I don't know, just finances exactly.
Speaker 3: Wait, are you guys buying Did you buy it?
Speaker 9: No?
Speaker 7: No, no, we're not buying rent a printing. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 7: we got a house together. But I love the idea
Speaker 7: of houses before spouse's though.
Speaker 2: I'm glad you brought that up well. As I said,
Speaker 2: I need minerals or something. After a Ryan's roses Thursday,
Speaker 2: you know, you feel a little like dehydrated almost, because
Speaker 2: it does take a lot out of it.
Speaker 1: Got takes a lot of takes a lot of this.
Speaker 2: I don't know when I after I do the show,
Speaker 2: it's physical to me, like I feel a little I'm
Speaker 2: a little tired of drained. It's not a non physical
Speaker 2: I guess. I try to explain it to my friends,
Speaker 2: They're like, why are you tired after doing the radio?
Speaker 3: Because you get wound up.
Speaker 1: I get wound up.
Speaker 2: It's like doing a It's kind of doing a presentation
Speaker 2: if you had to do a presentation at work every
Speaker 2: day for four hours.
Speaker 1: It's the similar. I think it's the similar energy output.
Speaker 4: It is and even though it's not like actual fighting
Speaker 4: like we're not really fighting. I feel like we do
Speaker 4: disagree often, and when you're trying to prove a point,
Speaker 4: it does like rattle you up inside.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't even I wouldn't even use negative words like
Speaker 2: disagree in fighting. Okay, well I would use I would
Speaker 2: use positive words like debating.
Speaker 3: Oh great, wow, like that perspective chain.
Speaker 2: I think that shifts the whole mood. And now I
Speaker 2: don't feel toxic when you yes, like you say toxic words.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 4: Well, debating is actually even better because when you're debating,
Speaker 4: you do you get like very energetic about it.
Speaker 3: You're passionate about your side.
Speaker 1: Do you want to do some an tomorrow? Yeah, you
Speaker 1: want to debate again? I love to make your debate.
Speaker 2: We're out of debating time today. So much debation going
Speaker 2: on here in this room. Mark, So much debation. I
Speaker 2: wonder what kind of debation was going on in the backroom.
Speaker 2: And we missed a lot with the mic coffee.
Speaker 7: It smells like Pacha mama back here?
Speaker 1: Did patcha mama beans did? But coffee beans?
Speaker 5: Come?
Speaker 2: Are you guys making fresh brewery grinding beans back there?
Speaker 1: What's going on?
Speaker 3: Beca everything?
Speaker 1: What'd you do?
Speaker 6: My entire coffee on me on the floor and.
Speaker 1: You're wearing cream.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but my pants are black, so that works. Nice? Nice?
Speaker 9: Is it?
Speaker 2: Is it actually my favorite bean of coffee or is
Speaker 2: it a generic coffee?
Speaker 6: It was actually the office coffee, which is then.
Speaker 1: It does not smell like Pacha Mama.
Speaker 11: I know, I know.
Speaker 8: You going.
Speaker 2: I'm just telling you a coffee. If you're a coffee person,
Speaker 2: that the bean is going to change your life. All right,
Speaker 2: we got to go. Then you know what happens not
Speaker 2: us next see you tomorrow. Thanks for listening.
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