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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, Thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: Seacrest with You, seits me on vacation. Tany is here

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Speaker 2: on his Thursday May thirtie. Good morning in the back

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Speaker 2: room ring.

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Speaker 1: I did a.

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Speaker 2: Pretty good night's sleep last night, and I woke up

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Speaker 2: and I thought it was time to go, and it

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Speaker 2: was not time to go. It's like that great feeling

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Speaker 2: of wow. I feel like I got all my sleep

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Speaker 2: and I still had another hour to go. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 2: went out, turned on the coffee machine before I brushed

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Speaker 2: my teeth and washed my face.

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Speaker 1: Robed it. I never robe it. I robed it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, if you're not robing it, you are not.

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Speaker 1: I'm living.

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Speaker 2: I don't usually robe it. I don't like the skirt

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Speaker 2: feeling on my legs.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 4: To me, there's no greater joy in life than getting

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Speaker 4: home at the end of the day, taking off my

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Speaker 4: clothes and robing you rub it night. I robe every

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Speaker 4: single night, but I do it after I shower. So

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Speaker 4: I shower and then I robe, and I robe all

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Speaker 4: up until I go to bed.

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Speaker 2: Remember the shirts that were made for women that I

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Speaker 2: didn't know, and I bought called E Turn.

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Speaker 1: Remember I bought to me Turned.

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Speaker 3: I can't say I remember that.

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Speaker 1: Remember, I'm so excited.

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Speaker 2: I had these these black and white T shirts that

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Speaker 2: were so cozy, comfortable around the arms that a big

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Speaker 2: drop at the arm pit. Yeah, And I was like,

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Speaker 2: these are super great sleep shirts.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It turns out what they were they were open around

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Speaker 2: the arm pit because they were made for women. And

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Speaker 2: I didn't know that they were designed primarily I guess

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Speaker 2: not for me. But I loved him so much. That's

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Speaker 2: what I wear. That to me's more comfortable than robing.

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Speaker 2: I wear those shirts.

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Speaker 3: You're not getting the right robe to robin.

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Speaker 1: Wrong ros off morning signals versus evenings.

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Speaker 4: Oh, there's no greater joy on the weekend then getting

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Speaker 4: out of bed robing it making your coffee, getting back

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Speaker 4: in bed, sipping your Oh my, it's like a blanket.

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Speaker 1: It's like a blank Do you have terry clothing?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 4: My robing feels like a very delicious blanket.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like a cloud.

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Speaker 1: It is this, Oh I think I can picture it?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Is it light blue? Is it cotton? Candy collar?

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Speaker 2: It's white, it's just is cotton kenny pink?

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Speaker 3: No, 'tis not. It's just plain white.

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Speaker 1: Aren't you robed? You and your wife robber around. I

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Speaker 1: am not a rober.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I have given her a robe in the past. I

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Speaker 1: don't think she's worn it much. Not really a rob.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, you guys are I know.

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Speaker 4: Robbie's not a rober either. I wish Robbie was a

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Speaker 4: Rober like me, but he's not.

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Speaker 1: No Robbie the rover.

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Speaker 3: Robbie's not a rover.

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Speaker 1: And I love.

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Speaker 4: I'm telling you, if you come over to my house

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Speaker 4: and it's like seven pm, I will be.

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Speaker 3: In that robe. You just you'll see me in that.

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Speaker 2: I'm not coming over with your house with you in

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Speaker 2: a robe, Like, what is wrong? Ruby, MICHAELA rovers you robe?

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Speaker 7: I am, but I'm not like a full time rover.

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Speaker 7: I only do it like here and there or like

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Speaker 7: on vacation. Especially vacation is a different thing.

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Speaker 3: It's all the same. Imagine that at home.

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Speaker 2: It's not I don't vacation when I robe it home.

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Speaker 4: Yes, you will start on Canoby.

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Speaker 3: I should get you my robe. I think you'll feel differently.

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Speaker 1: Look, he's on the phone. Ruby, on the phone.

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Speaker 4: This guy Berry's instructor calls Robbie Roby in class.

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Speaker 1: Because he knows he's trying to get it into robing. Yes,

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Speaker 1: oh well that's how. That's what we do. This is

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Speaker 1: our job.

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Speaker 2: Good morning. I didn't do today. I'm gonna celebrate some

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Speaker 2: of these schools. Last day at school. Celebrate you guys

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Speaker 2: this morning, this hour, it's your last day. Congratulations, last

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Speaker 2: day at school. Can I hear Beverly Hills Unified.

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Speaker 1: You did it, You did it, you made it. You

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Speaker 1: never thought what happened to here? It is you did it.

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Speaker 2: It's a Corona Norco, Corona Norco. Last day's today, Riverside

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Speaker 2: breaking up this morning, the last dayside, San Bernardino, Good morning,

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Speaker 2: San Bernadino. Congratulations you guys, your last day today, San Marino,

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Speaker 2: San Marino, last day of school today. They know, okay,

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Speaker 2: this is no Walnut Valley, last day of school today,

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Speaker 2: Valle Walt william S Hart School District, Santa Clarita, last

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Speaker 2: day school today.

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Speaker 3: Rita baby hot out there?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean it really is a big deal, a

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Speaker 2: big accomplishment, So be proud of yourself and celebrate it too.

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Speaker 2: I I you know, I love, I have ever seen

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Speaker 2: the you sad the yard signs where people say proud

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just love that.

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Speaker 2: I almost want to stop and knock and go. Can

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Speaker 2: I congratulate you? Because that's a big deal, But that

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Speaker 2: would be like why am I at your door?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: You should just honk and be like conrash.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I'll do that for social media, right, knock on

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Speaker 2: people's doors and congratulate when I see the sign and

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Speaker 2: we'll post it.

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Speaker 1: No, maybe do.

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Speaker 4: It stick to the coffee shops director, Okay, what are

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Speaker 4: we doing today?

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Speaker 2: We're Ryan chores. That's what I want to tell you about.

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Speaker 2: So thank you for the pumping circumstance. Ryan's rose. She

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Speaker 2: found this really inappropriate text from one of her best

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Speaker 2: friends to her husband, and she'd thinks something is going

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Speaker 2: on with her husband or her best friend behind her back.

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Speaker 1: It's bad, bad, bad.

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Speaker 2: It's at seven point forty, uh, Tanya, while we were

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Speaker 1: What happened?

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Speaker 3: Well, i'll tell you.

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Speaker 4: Things got back to normal for Southwest Airlines after more

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Speaker 4: than thirteen hundred flights were delayed yesterday due to a

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Speaker 4: widespread technology issue. Additional areas in Disneyland will be temporarily

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Speaker 4: unavailable this summer as construction crews work on projects in

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Speaker 4: New Orleans Square and Critter Country. Davy Crockett's Explore Canoes

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Speaker 4: attraction will close starting July eighth, and Walgreens is joining

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Speaker 4: other retailers and cutting prices across the board to lure

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Speaker 4: backshoppers turned off by high prices. Prices are dropping immediately

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Speaker 4: on more than fifteen hundred items. And that's what happened overnight.

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Speaker 2: I got your morning hacket if you if you're going

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Speaker 2: camp in this summer's gonna keep the mosquitoes away. And

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Speaker 2: I feel like we talked about it before, but it's

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Speaker 2: always good to remind her this time of year.

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Speaker 1: To Tanya, before we go any further, we need to

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Speaker 1: have a house meeting.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever had one of these?

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Speaker 1: Have I ever had one of these house meeting?

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Speaker 3: A skunk at your house?

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Speaker 2: I have. I've had squirrels in my wall and I've

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Speaker 2: had a skunk somewhere in the house. We've had to

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Speaker 2: call for the skunk remover to skunk.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 4: So it's not so easy because when I lived in

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Speaker 4: an apartment, if I had a skunk, I'd call my

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Speaker 3: And they would do it. When you live in a house,

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Speaker 3: it's very different situation. The skunk is your problem.

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Speaker 1: Where tell us about when did you start smelling the skunk?

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Speaker 3: So we didn't smell and we saw him so.

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Speaker 1: Sunny, then you're good.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, sonny.

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Speaker 4: Our dog was like losing her mind, like barking outside

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Speaker 4: the window, and Robby and I go and we look

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Speaker 4: out there and we're like, oh my gosh, we've never

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Speaker 4: seen a skunk this close in person. It was kind

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Speaker 4: of like in the sidewalk in front of our house.

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Speaker 1: And am I taller than a skunk?

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Speaker 4: It's like probably the size of your hand, no, actually

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Speaker 4: And it looked like it was hurt, like it looked

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Speaker 1: But it's a skunks.

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Speaker 4: But it's a skunk and we know that they go fast.

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Speaker 4: So we're like, Okay, this skunk is injured. What do

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Speaker 4: we do because he's like.

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Speaker 1: We should help the skunk, but what if we get sprayed?

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Speaker 4: Correct, So cut to the skunk ends up somehow moving

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Speaker 4: and like, now he's in our doorway, he's on like

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Speaker 1: He really needs a band aid.

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Speaker 4: So Robbie calls the La County Animal Services to tell them, hey,

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Speaker 4: we have the skunk and they were like, well, how

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Speaker 3: And He's like, I don't know. I'm not like going up.

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Speaker 4: And giving him an inspection, right, And they were like,

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Speaker 4: to kind of like if they get run over by

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Speaker 4: their misery. Then you have to call La Sanitation to

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Speaker 4: come and remove the body. And Robbie was like, well,

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Speaker 4: we don't want to kill the skunk. The skunk seems

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Speaker 4: to be moving and fine.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of cartoony.

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Speaker 3: So then we gave up that route.

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Speaker 4: So then we're like at work, we come home from work,

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Speaker 4: the skunk is now in our.

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Speaker 2: Backyard because the skunk's making skunk at home.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and Sonny is actually the skunk.

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Speaker 1: I overheard the call like they're not going to do

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Speaker 1: anything with me. I'm good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So we started now we named him pepe pepe

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Speaker 4: le Pume and now he's in our backyard and we

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Speaker 4: can't let Sonny out to go potty.

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Speaker 2: Because we're living in your backyard. He's healing, yes, and

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Speaker 2: he's not sprayed.

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Speaker 3: He has not sprayed.

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Speaker 1: This is good.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he knows that you're trying to help out. He's

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Speaker 2: not gonna spray.

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Speaker 4: So then I got the phone number to this guy

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Speaker 4: who comes to your house, collects this skunk and then

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Speaker 4: releases them off the ninety one freeway in Orange County.

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Speaker 1: Is this just a random dude?

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Speaker 4: This is some random dude, because apparently it's illegal, Like

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Speaker 4: you can't advertise that.

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Speaker 1: Because they're lets him by the freeway.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. You're not supposed to like move

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Speaker 2: I remember I had gerbils, and my gerbils had babies

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Speaker 2: and I let them go in the church parking lot

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Speaker 2: and everybody was like, oh my gosh, you.

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Speaker 4: Can't do that right right, But now we've lost the

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Speaker 4: skunk went to some shrubbery and now we've lost We've

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I would, I just can't picture it.

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Speaker 2: Contestant for Disneyland tickets, Arianna and Urlita, Ariana of our

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, how you doing in shuck? My heart

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Speaker 5: is like racing.

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Speaker 5: Kiss at that Yeah, with my mom. So it's this tradition.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So let's try and get you these Disneyland tickets.

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Speaker 1: For your kids. It's called password. All right.

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Speaker 2: Have you heard a speaked password before? It's where the

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Speaker 5: So it's no, no, I'm not agreeing with you, but I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: So here's all. So all of us here in the

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Speaker 1: You will not.

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Speaker 2: We'll put you on hold. You will not hear the password.

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Speaker 2: We will give you one word clues. Those clues should

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Speaker 2: It's pretty Yeah, it's kind of fun actually, because we're

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Speaker 3: Hold on, all right, speech for your song?

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Speaker 1: I am the password is popsicle? Why the ding? So

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Speaker 1: that's how it is on the show. You don't answer

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Speaker 1: Tany you want to start?

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 3: Frozen.

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Speaker 5: I don't know why I'm thinking Elsa and Anna?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, That's what I was thinking too. Is the

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Speaker 1: terrible clue? Uh terrible? Clearly had one creamsickle?

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Speaker 1: I scream no, what Tanya.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, it's popsicle, she said, she said popsicle.

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Speaker 3: Because the word is popsicle. You can't say creamsicle. You

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Speaker 1: I didn't I use creamsickle.

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Speaker 1: Are right, well, we have a little problem.

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Speaker 3: She just shouldn't suffer from your mistake.

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Speaker 2: Man, I mean yeah, she should win the tickets. She's

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Speaker 2: Uh, I'm gonna you get the tickets. You won, clearly,

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Speaker 1: Password.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations, you're going to Disneyland. You got a four pack

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Speaker 1: My god, you're so welcome.

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Speaker 2: We appreciate your loyalty for generations listening to Kiss.

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Speaker 5: Yeah crying, Oh my godness, my daughter's birthday this Friday.

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Speaker 1: So what's oldest? It's Alicia, Alicia, and what's the six

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Speaker 1: You're with me.

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Speaker 5: We love you, we love you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for you have fun and you know you're

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Speaker 1: You got it after two.

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Speaker 4: Clues, Creamsicle, what were you going to say? I was

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Speaker 1: It would have taken to the next point. No, you would.

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Speaker 1: She's not gonna get it after frozen summer Dessert.

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Speaker 3: Who agrees with me? Ryan broke the rules?

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Speaker 1: Well, I wanted her to win. You clearly didn't.

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Speaker 3: No, I wanted her to win. But she can win

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Speaker 1: Well, cream Sickle, if the word were.

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Speaker 2: Well, if I did, I would fire me because that's

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Speaker 10: Hi ran. We were inspired by our children. We were

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Speaker 10: we're a little busy. The school years coming to an end,

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Speaker 10: and so I've been super busy. So once a month

447
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Speaker 10: is now the time when we get together and or

448
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Speaker 10: she comes to running Mommies and runs with not just me,

449
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Speaker 10: but all the other moms in the group.

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Speaker 1: That's great.

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Speaker 2: You can check them out look at at running Dot

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Speaker 2: Mommy's m a m I ask on Instagram, what a

453
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Speaker 2: great story in the neighborhood out there in What Heights.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us and thank you for

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Speaker 2: calling in to share. I hope you continue to grow

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Speaker 2: the club and everybody sticks with it.

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Speaker 10: Thank you everyone, Thank you Ryan, take.

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Speaker 1: Care you too, Bye.

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Speaker 2: I think you can join right because I'm looking to

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Speaker 2: get people coming from all over to join San Diego Ventura,

461
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Speaker 2: So if you want to join that and get out

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Speaker 2: to Running Mummies out there on the east side one of.

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Speaker 1: Two point seven. It is Kiss.

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Speaker 2: FM, So Systney's out of vacation, Tanya and I here.

465
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Speaker 1: We're getting into Ryan's roses right now.

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Speaker 2: Dear Ryan, Sisney and Tanya, I found a super inappropriate

467
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Speaker 2: text one of my best friends to my husband. They

468
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Speaker 2: both say like they're both covering for each other. They

469
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Speaker 2: both say it was just a funny mistake. She has

470
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Speaker 2: a bad feeling about it. Nicolette coming on with us

471
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Speaker 2: right now and fuller to Nicolette, thank you for reaching out.

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Speaker 1: We're going to try and do our best work here.

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Speaker 1: What the text says, Ye.

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Speaker 12: So I saw a text come in from my friend Aaron,

475
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Speaker 12: and I thought it was weird that she was texting him,

476
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Speaker 12: you know, so I just read it. We're all friends,

477
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Speaker 12: and I don't I don't think I can say what

478
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Speaker 12: it's said over the radio. But it had to do

479
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Speaker 12: with things she wants him to do to her when

480
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:12,640
Speaker 12: they're together next and so, you know, I confronted him,

481
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Speaker 12: I said, you know, what is this? And he seems stunned,

482
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Speaker 12: but I couldn't tell if it was because he was

483
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Speaker 12: busted or if he was just legitimately confused. So we

484
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Speaker 12: called her together and she was super embarrassed. She said

485
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Speaker 12: she'd been seeing a guy also named Alex and that's

486
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Speaker 12: really close to my husband's name. And you know, it

487
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Speaker 12: was a total accident. But I want so desperately to

488
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Speaker 12: believe them, but I just don't.

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Speaker 2: Well, I got a couple issues here. Why are they

490
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Speaker 2: even texting at all? I mean, I could be a

491
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Speaker 2: funny mistake. How could them talking about what they want

492
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Speaker 2: to do to each other then next time, as if

493
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Speaker 2: they've had the first time I've seen each other. How

494
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Speaker 2: is that a funny mistake in any shape?

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Speaker 8: Well?

496
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Speaker 12: Exactly, And you know her excuse is that she meant

497
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Speaker 12: to send it to this other guy. But I just

498
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Speaker 12: I don't trust this situation. I really don't.

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Speaker 1: And why don't you believe them?

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Speaker 12: Well, I know them both really well and obviously, and

501
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Speaker 12: I thought for years that he might have a little

502
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Speaker 12: thing for her, And you know, I've seen the way

503
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Speaker 12: he looks at her when she's in a swimsuit. He

504
00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:18,360
Speaker 12: kind of looks her up and down. And she has

505
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Speaker 12: a reputation for going after unavailable guys, including a few

506
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Speaker 12: married guys in her past, and so I don't know.

507
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Speaker 12: And then I also I went on her social media.

508
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Speaker 12: I looked through what the people she's following. I don't

509
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Speaker 12: see any evidence of anyone named Alex on her social

510
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Speaker 12: media anywhere. So it's just all makes me feeling very unsure.

511
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Speaker 2: Nicolette in Fullerton says she found inappropriate texts from one

512
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Speaker 2: of her best friends to her husband about hey, next

513
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Speaker 2: time we're together, I want to do this to you

514
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Speaker 2: kind of stuff, and she's like, well, oh, that was

515
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Speaker 2: a mistake. I meant to send it to another guy.

516
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Speaker 2: But then she goes on to say it was very awkward,

517
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Speaker 2: seemed like they were caught and this woman has a

518
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Speaker 2: reputation of going after unavailable men. So all of the

519
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Speaker 2: signs here.

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Speaker 3: Not good, not good at all.

521
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Speaker 1: Not good. Nikola, how long you been married?

522
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Speaker 12: We've been married for gosh nine years now and we

523
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Speaker 12: have two children.

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Speaker 1: Well, here we go. Be prepared for what this might

525
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Speaker 1: look like.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't sound good, So Nicola, I need you to

527
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Speaker 2: say round, you have my permission to call?

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Speaker 1: And then your husband's name.

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Speaker 12: Okay, do you have my permission to call?

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Speaker 1: We're gonna do it right now. Be very quiet, Let's

531
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Speaker 1: see what we can find out.

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Speaker 9: Good luck, Thank you. Hello?

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Speaker 13: Hi?

534
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 3: Is this Alan?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

536
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 6: Hi, I'm calling from Blueing Flowers. We're currently serving your

537
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 6: area and we're offering a free dozen roses to whoever

538
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Speaker 6: you like this morning. Is there anyone you'd like to

539
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 6: send them to?

540
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Speaker 8: What?

541
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 6: They're totally free, no cash, no credit card, nothing, and

542
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Speaker 6: we can deliver these roses by New Today. Is there

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Speaker 6: someone you'd want to send them to?

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Speaker 9: Wait?

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Speaker 13: So you this is the service that sends free rosen

546
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Speaker 13: to people.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a promotion we're running this week just to

548
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Speaker 6: increase word of mouth, and you were randomly selected. I see, Yeah,

549
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Speaker 6: So is there someone you'd like to send them to.

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Speaker 13: Sure you can send them to Angela.

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Speaker 6: Angela?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Angela?

553
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Speaker 6: Okay? And what would you like to put on the note.

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Speaker 13: To Angela? Have a great day, love Brad.

555
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Speaker 3: Okay.

556
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Speaker 6: Oh but your name isn't Brad.

557
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 13: Yeah, I know her name is and Angela either.

558
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 9: It's like a code name. We use Stull names.

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Speaker 8: Aaron.

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Speaker 13: But don't put that on there.

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Speaker 6: Okay, got it, So I'll just put Angela.

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Speaker 9: Okay.

563
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, Alan, your voice is being broadcast on the radio.

564
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Speaker 1: Alan, that's your name, right. I need you to know

565
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,160
Speaker 1: that your voice is here. My name is Ryan.

566
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Speaker 2: Have Tanya with you. Your your voice is here on the radio.

567
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Speaker 2: We have your wife on the line with us. Now,

568
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Speaker 2: do you want to explain the code names? You want

569
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Speaker 2: to explain the code names, the code names, the code

570
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 2: names you use, code names.

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Speaker 13: My wife's on the line, Nicol.

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Speaker 2: Yes, so let me be really slow and clear. You're

573
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Speaker 2: on the air sending flowers to your code lover Angela

574
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Speaker 2: from Brad cover Up Operation Nicolette found an inappropriate text

575
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Speaker 2: to you from another woman, your friend and her friend saying,

576
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:08,640
Speaker 2: next time we made up, we should you know this

577
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 2: stuff should happen. Her real name is Aaron. Her real

578
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,160
Speaker 2: name is Aaron. Okay, well what what what?

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? What's going on here?

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00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 8: Well?

581
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 13: Nothing, This is like between me and my wife.

582
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:28,919
Speaker 2: No, it's between Angela brad and and us and us.

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00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 12: You that doesn't mean anything, so just.

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Speaker 1: So we're all on the same page.

585
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 2: The text, the text you found Nicolette was from Aaron, right, yes, okay, Alan,

586
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 2: what's going on? You're having an affair with Aaron? It's clear,

587
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:47,360
Speaker 2: there's all kinds of evidence here.

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00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 13: And not having an affair with Aaron?

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00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 2: Why is she texting you to do things with you

590
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 2: the next time you're together.

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Speaker 13: We've talked about that. That was just a mistake.

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Speaker 1: It's not a mistake, bro.

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Speaker 4: You just sent her roses under a coat name like

594
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 4: literally two seconds ago.

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Speaker 12: Are you?

596
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 13: I am not cheating?

597
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 9: You up? On you?

598
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 1: And why do you have a cover up operation going on?

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Speaker 13: It's it's just a fun joke that we have. It's

600
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Speaker 13: not a big deal.

601
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 1: It's a huge deal, dude.

602
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Speaker 13: This is between me and my wife.

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00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 2: It's not your wife called us and Aaron's involved. So

604
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 2: it's not you and your wife, it's you, your wife

605
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 2: Aaron and.

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00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 13: Now us is Aaron on the phone too.

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Speaker 2: She's not, but she could be. She could be listening

608
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Speaker 2: to this. So, Alan, why don't you just tell your

609
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 2: wife what's going on. If this is a crazy, little fun,

610
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 2: cute game, then explain the game.

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00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 13: Yeah, please, it's it's not like it's there are rules

612
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 13: or anything. I call her a angela and she calls

613
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Speaker 13: me brad. It's it's why do you play.

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00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 1: Names with another woman? And what's wrong with you?

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00:28:59,800 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 13: Alan?

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Speaker 1: How are you not seeing this?

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Speaker 13: I don't see how that having pet names is a problem.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I can't with you.

619
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 2: Having pet names with another woman, sending inappropriate text back

620
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Speaker 2: and forth, and you're married to Nicolett and you think

621
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Speaker 2: that's nomina issue.

622
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Speaker 13: It's not technically cheating.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you're such a narcissist. It's so alarming.

624
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 2: That was pretty accurate description, Alan. Your wife has a

625
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 2: problem with it. This is a problem, your delusion.

626
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 13: Let me talk to my wife about it.

627
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: You're welcome to talk to about She's right here. I

628
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 1: suggest you.

629
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Speaker 13: Do no in private on the radio.

630
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Speaker 1: Okay, but what are you by technically cheating?

631
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Speaker 2: Are you when you say not technically cheating, you're cheating,

632
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 2: But not technically cheating means that simple.

633
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Speaker 1: Dude, you got to. I think you got a real

634
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 1: problem to work on.

635
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 3: He's not like physically cheating.

636
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Speaker 2: They'll take you off the air. Alan nicolect good luck.

637
00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 2: He's got pet names with another woman. They're talk about

638
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 2: inappropriate things, and he thinks it's fine. Let me bring

639
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 2: in Beatrice here from West La. Beatrice, good morning and

640
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 2: thank you for listening. So to recap what happened, Nicolette

641
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,400
Speaker 2: and Alan were on the phone. She had found a

642
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 2: text from her one of her best friends named Aaron,

643
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 2: to her husband that said, Hey, next time we're together,

644
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 2: let's do this to each other. She called her out

645
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 2: on it and she said, oh, that was a mistake.

646
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,719
Speaker 2: I meant to go to another guy. Then we get

647
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 2: Haim on the phone. He sends the roses to Angela,

648
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 2: whose real name is Aaron. But he says, we have

649
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 2: these code names. So I'm gonna say love Brad even

650
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 2: though it's allan. So he's got a text from her.

651
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,239
Speaker 2: He's sending her red roses with code names, and then

652
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 2: he tells his wife he's not technically cheating.

653
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 1: It's just a fun game. They have what world like?

654
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 1: What world?

655
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 3: Literally, it's this is quintessential narcissism.

656
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 2: Right there because he's he's saying, it's no big deal,

657
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 2: there's nothing going on, and I'm not technically.

658
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 4: Cheating because in his mind, he hasn't physically crossed the lines.

659
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 3: It hasn't cheated. Yeah, so he believes that.

660
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 4: And then he will stand on that hill until the

661
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 4: day he dies, all right, Beatrice.

662
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 11: Yeah, yes, yeah, I heard it all. So first off,

663
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 11: Brad and Angela, what was that for Brad and Angelina?

664
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Speaker 11: Is that what they were going for?

665
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Speaker 1: Think of that? Maybe I didn't cross my mind.

666
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 11: Look what happened, Look what happened to them? One hundred percent,

667
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 11: this guy is a loser. He's cheating on his wife,

668
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 11: and yeah, the fact that he's doing it with her

669
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 11: best friend, I just feel awful for her. It's heartbreaking.

670
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 11: It's I almost feel like it's almost worse in a

671
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 11: way to have a betrayal from your best friend than

672
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 11: your head. I mean, they're both equally bad, but one

673
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 11: hundred percent, he's scum. He's stepping out on her and yeah,

674
00:31:59,360 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 11: and this.

675
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 2: Is this, it's bad behavior and it's only gonna get worse.

676
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 2: And the friend is not a friend, and the friend's

677
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 2: keeping this from her friend, doing this behind her back

678
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 2: as it came.

679
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 11: As oh, awful, awful. They're both horrible, horrible, disgusting people.

680
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 2: And the text that Aaron sent certainly implies that they're

681
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 2: having an affair. It certainly implies that one.

682
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 11: Hundred percent, one hundred percent, and who knows how long

683
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 11: it's been going on for to like get to that

684
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 11: point of coming up with code names. That's not something

685
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 11: you like do like right away.

686
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 2: So maybe, well we wish that Nicolette gets to the

687
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:38,479
Speaker 2: bottom of it in piece. Maybe you take away from

688
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 2: this that your relationship isn't so bad, like maybe you're

689
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 2: doing all right right, but it's just maybe that's the thing.

690
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 2: Maybe it's not so bad because that's pretty bad, right,

691
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 2: So maybe you want to lock down on the love

692
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 2: that you've got because you heard that, because you're not

693
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 2: in that situation.

694
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 1: That's a bad situation.

695
00:32:57,880 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's not really the best lens.

696
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 1: I'm trying. I'm trying to have full the glass.

697
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 3: Mm hmm as soon as you're trying to do. But

698
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 3: it's it's not I think I think you.

699
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 2: Might walk away from listening to Ryan's Rosie one. I'm

700
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 2: all right, that's a tough one.

701
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 4: It's not really not doing doing what I think you

702
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:18,720
Speaker 4: wanted to do.

703
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 3: Not doing me do. Huh, it's not doing to do

704
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 3: what do?

705
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 1: I don't understand what that means.

706
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 4: Like you're trying to create like a glimmer of hope

707
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 4: out of this.

708
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 3: But I feel like you don't want to view your.

709
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 4: Relationship through a lens of this horrible couple that has

710
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 4: like a narcissist man that's trying to convince his wife

711
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 4: that he's not cheating, he's not physically touching somebody else.

712
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I'm saying, Hey, if you've got

713
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 2: a good relationship, be grateful today.

714
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 3: Okay, that's good. We got there.

715
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 1: That's what I've been saying.

716
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 3: That's not what you said before.

717
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 1: That's exactly how I said it.

718
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 2: All right, Tanya, if we want to get into examining

719
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 2: each other's cabases, we sure can. It's going out inside

720
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 2: of your head. I mean, it's you bet you better

721
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 2: know something. But well, when in between Hosy and Taylor Swift,

722
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 2: you say you know you got a lot going on

723
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 2: in your head out of the blue. No, I was

724
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 2: just talking about I talk with my hands. I move

725
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:09,839
Speaker 2: my hands in the air when I talk I.

726
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 4: Know, but you mentioned this earlier in the week, like

727
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 4: you were talking about.

728
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 1: It, and actually I mentioned a lot of things.

729
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:18,360
Speaker 4: My fiance was listening and he was like laughing because

730
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 4: you were saying, how you have all these voices in

731
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 4: your head? And he had the same He thought exactly

732
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 4: what I had said right after that, which was which

733
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 4: was let's let's dissect that, let's talk about it.

734
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 3: Put a pin in it.

735
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 1: Oh, no, he wants to host this show.

736
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:33,840
Speaker 4: No, no, He was just saying like he was listening,

737
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 4: and he was very much enjoying it, which I thought

738
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 4: was cute.

739
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:37,720
Speaker 1: It's really nice if family listens.

740
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 3: I think so too.

741
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:40,399
Speaker 1: Uh if people think I.

742
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 2: Have some Italian in me, I got asked all the time,

743
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 2: you got a little Italian in you?

744
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, I could see that.

745
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,279
Speaker 1: It's only because I used my hands so much to.

746
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 4: Interesting, because it's talking with If I didn't speak, my

747
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:54,720
Speaker 4: hands would speak.

748
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, my hands do speak.

749
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 3: I like to talk with my hands a lot too.

750
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: What was it you you know you do you do

751
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 1: like a fanning motion when you talk.

752
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do.

753
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 2: I do a lot of it from the elbow, right right,

754
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 2: right right. Anyway, this is radio, so that probably is audio. Platform.

755
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 2: So you're not seeing any of that, but you got

756
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 2: to be comfortable. Somebody say, let's talk about the voices.

757
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: In your head.

758
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 3: Well, we said we'd put a pin in it. So

759
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 3: I'm like, did not?

760
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 1: You did?

761
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 4: And you said, okay, vacation. I think it's so nice.

762
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 4: That's what we're here for. We're here to help each

763
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 4: other examine.

764
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 2: And the thing is I do forget, like listen ready,

765
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 2: I forget that they're on buttons on a lot of times.

766
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 1: When we're talking.

767
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:42,280
Speaker 3: Oh gotcha.

768
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:45,279
Speaker 2: Anyway, all right, let's go. You've a trending report. I

769
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 2: want to get to it at least DoD So, Joe Kelly,

770
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 2: have you seen this guy? Sistney and Tanya think it's

771
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 2: my dappelganger.

772
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 3: He is your doppelganger.

773
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 2: Well, it's his jersey night, so I want to get one. Yeah,

774
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 2: walk around like the short unathletic Joe Kelly, we got

775
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 2: your tickets to go see the Dogs play coming up, Rube.

776
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 1: It's not meant to be that.

777
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:07,439
Speaker 3: I will say you have better hair than him.

778
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 1: Oh really, I've not looked at his hair.

779
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:13,280
Speaker 3: Also, i'd argue that you're pretty athletic.

780
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:15,840
Speaker 1: I'd like this argument. You're trying to make a comeback

781
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 1: from the voices in my head scenario.

782
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 3: I'm really not. I'm just being honest.

783
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 1: Okay, Joe is six to one.

784
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 4: Dang, Yeah, all right, let's go. Okay. Shane Mitchell. Okay,

785
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 4: So Shane Mitchell. We know her from Pretty Little Liars.

786
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 4: She's the founder and CEO of Bays. She has been

787
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 4: in a relationship with Matt Babbel since twenty seventeen. Okay,

788
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 4: they've been together for seven years. They have two kids together.

789
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 1: Wow. Good.

790
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 4: But they're still very far away from getting married. And

791
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 4: so Shaye was doing an interview and Jenna Bush asked her.

792
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:54,759
Speaker 4: She incorrectly referred to him as Shay's husband before she

793
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 4: corrected herself to say partner instead, and she said, I've

794
00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 4: manifested quite a few things in my life and getting

795
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 4: married was never something that was right for me. I

796
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 4: think for the both of us, everything works so smoothly.

797
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 4: We're awesome partners in life, and so it got me thinking,

798
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 4: if your great partners in life, why not get married?

799
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 2: She's why, if your great partners in life, why do

800
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 2: you need that? But that's got it figured out. Why

801
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 2: do you need that? Why do you have to say, well,

802
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 2: if you're doing that anyway.

803
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 4: Do this, because I think she has not expressed that

804
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 4: she has. Like some people don't want to get married

805
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:32,240
Speaker 4: because let's say they grew up in a divorce household,

806
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 4: so they don't believe in marriage, or.

807
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 1: They've just seen destructive marriages, or.

808
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 4: They've seen destructive marriages. But I guess that would be

809
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 4: Like my question is if maybe do you think by

810
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 4: getting married that it's going to not go as well

811
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 4: as it has been going for the last seven.

812
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 2: Years, Like maybe maybe she believes it could be cursed

813
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 2: if she does. Is My point is this, we on

814
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 2: the outside should not have any opinion. Well, if it

815
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 2: works for a couple, it works, Like why why do

816
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,919
Speaker 2: we have to raise the question? Well, if you just raised,

817
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 2: which is, if they're together, why not get married? Like

818
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 2: why even have that conversation? To me, that shouldn't exist because.

819
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 4: To me, I think knowledge is power and sharing information

820
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 4: and knowledge and maybe something that's working for her. If

821
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 4: she shares that story and that journey, then maybe other

822
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 4: people who feel that way can relate and be like okay,

823
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:22,919
Speaker 4: maybe because I think a lot of people do feel

824
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 4: pressured to get married or that are going through that,

825
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 4: and if Shay were to open up about why she

826
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 4: doesn't want to per se, then maybe those people will

827
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 4: be able to gain some knowledge from her insight. That's

828
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 4: all not really an opinion, but more just like I

829
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,279
Speaker 4: want to ask questions because I just want to know.

830
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:41,720
Speaker 2: I think you and I are going to have different

831
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 2: views on this. I did discover something that the name

832
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 2: of your autobiography is going to be called.

833
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 1: It got me thinking.

834
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 3: I got me thinking, It got.

835
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:54,160
Speaker 1: Me thinking, you know, it gets me think, got me thinking, all.

836
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 2: Right, one eight hundred five to one O two seven

837
00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 2: Here at Kiss.

838
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 1: FM, Veronic is on the line.

839
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 2: Oh she heard us talking about silent retreat. I've only

840
00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 2: seen it in the movies. I've only seen it one movie, Eat, Pray, Love,

841
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 2: and that movie reruns in places where I catch it

842
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,720
Speaker 2: every season. Yeah it does, and I don't mind it. Actually,

843
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 2: but I thought to myself, just as an exercise could

844
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 2: if we were invited to a silent retreat, could we

845
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 2: do it?

846
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 1: I could not.

847
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:29,319
Speaker 2: I can't do I find I find this urge. I

848
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 2: was in a parking lot yesterday and I really spoke.

849
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 2: I just had a conversation with someone I was walking

850
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 2: by I had the conversation. They didn't respond so much,

851
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 2: but I how's.

852
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 1: Your how are you? How's your day going? Beautiful? Yeah,

853
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 1: I just like to talk to people.

854
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 3: I don't know what is this person like on their

855
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 3: way into the grocery store.

856
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:49,400
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is.

857
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:51,839
Speaker 2: Maybe because it's a big city, people get afraid at

858
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 2: strangers talking to them sometimes. I sometimes I'm not I

859
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 2: don't want anything. I'm just like saying hi. Yeah, I'm

860
00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 2: asking sell anything. I don't want to touch anything. I

861
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 2: just don't see your car. I just want to say hi.

862
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 3: Right, But we're also jaded.

863
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 1: I like it. Veronica, Hi, Ryan. So you're speaking today,

864
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 1: but normally you're not. Huh.

865
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 8: You know it's just a few days out of every

866
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 8: year that I go silent.

867
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 1: You go silent a few days out of every year.

868
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:26,399
Speaker 8: Probably for a week every year.

869
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, En tell me why.

870
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,319
Speaker 8: Ooh. Well, the very first one I went to was

871
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 8: because I was trying to find peace within myself about

872
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:41,839
Speaker 8: transitioning to having a lot of dietary restrictions, and so

873
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 8: I was just looking for ways to manage that. But

874
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 8: ever since then, it's because I love the relaxation and

875
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:50,400
Speaker 8: the surrender to quiet.

876
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:54,320
Speaker 1: Where do you do it?

877
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 8: I go to different retreat centers around California, different goods

878
00:40:59,080 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 8: retreat centers.

879
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 2: And after you finished, how many days?

880
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:07,359
Speaker 8: I prefer ten or twelve day retreats.

881
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:10,239
Speaker 2: I saw the movie. So after you do how is

882
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:13,400
Speaker 2: your body reset? Because what from what I read and understand,

883
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:16,280
Speaker 2: Although I could never do it, it does really reset

884
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:18,320
Speaker 2: your whole body.

885
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 8: Okay, you could totally do it. If I can do it,

886
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 8: you can do it and body. I mean it's like

887
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 8: a cleanse. They feed you really simply but really delicious,

888
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 8: handmade food made with love. I'm both rested and exhausted

889
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 8: from just sitting all day and meditating.

890
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the thing. Like what do you do with

891
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 1: your time?

892
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 8: Sit for an hour, take a fifteen minute break and

893
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:47,200
Speaker 8: walk around.

894
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:49,319
Speaker 1: Sit all other people you high five? Do?

895
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 9: Do you like?

896
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 1: Work out at nod.

897
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 8: Working out's not allowed? Eye contacts not allowed?

898
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 1: Well, Tany's like that's some times around here.

899
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 3: What yeah, right, I'm like miss eye contact.

900
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:07,800
Speaker 2: But she doesn't blink. I guess it is the opposite. Yeah,

901
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 2: all right, so you do it. It's good for you.

902
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 2: It is amazing that you can do. I think anytime

903
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 2: you I love what you did to me. The message

904
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:16,480
Speaker 2: here is like you had to do something. Maybe it

905
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 2: was for your health, to manage your dietary restrictions, and

906
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 2: so you look from within to reset yourself, and you

907
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 2: did it.

908
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 1: I love that. That's great. Good for you.

909
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:31,359
Speaker 8: Oh, thank you. Yeah, it's an amazing experience. The first

910
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:34,279
Speaker 8: retreat I went to was tibetan Buddhist retreat, and the

911
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 8: content of the retreat was so loving, like they just

912
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,680
Speaker 8: taught us about compassion for ourselves and each other the

913
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:43,759
Speaker 8: whole time, and I was cut after that. I came

914
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Speaker 8: out of it just seeing the world with a new perspective.

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Speaker 1: My gosh, you're relaxing me.

916
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Speaker 3: But I know, honestly, ten to twelve days is so.

917
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Speaker 3: I couldn't even make it till ten to twelve am.

918
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Speaker 2: Yeah, well we all have some goals here. Well, thank

919
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Speaker 2: you Roanka for sharing that story. I appreciate. I'm glad

920
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 2: you're on the right path there. Yeah, we need more

921
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 2: compassion for ourselves, wouldn't it be great?

922
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 3: Yeah? I have zero compassion for myself.

923
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have loath She relaxed us, though. I wonder

924
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Speaker 2: how we would be after that. I wonder how the

925
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Speaker 2: show would be if we all went to a seven

926
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Speaker 2: day retreat, take a week off, come back.

927
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Speaker 1: How would this show?

928
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Speaker 2: Would the pace of this show be because it's a

929
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Speaker 2: lot of coming up, Yeah, it'd have to be a

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Speaker 2: lot of Uh.

931
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Speaker 3: I really do want to try and do it one

932
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Speaker 3: day till noon.

933
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Speaker 2: I remember when I moved here to Los Angeles and

934
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Speaker 2: I was just I was so excited to be able

935
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Speaker 2: to afford splitting a bedroom of rent with somebody.

936
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah.

937
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Speaker 2: And as I worked longer and longer and got more jobs.

938
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Speaker 2: The first home I ever owned was an apartment, was

939
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Speaker 2: a kind of minium, and I bought that and I

940
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Speaker 2: was so excited to have that kind of is life change,

941
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:53,399
Speaker 2: but it comes with responsibilities, and you're a little nervous

942
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 2: when you're buying something on your own for the first

943
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:58,399
Speaker 2: time and you've never done it. So there's a new

944
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:02,719
Speaker 2: movement that I mean, Ruby, you and your family, your.

945
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Speaker 1: Sisters talked about this a little bit. Did you call it?

946
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Speaker 2: Did you call it what it's called housing, spousing or

947
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 2: houses before spouses?

948
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Speaker 7: No, we didn't have a name for it. But a

949
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Speaker 7: few years ago my sisters and I actually considered this.

950
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Speaker 7: We even talked to a loan officer got preapproved and everything.

951
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:18,319
Speaker 7: We never really you know, ended up doing it, but

952
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 7: we thought about it because none of us were in

953
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Speaker 7: a position to you know, we were either single or

954
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Speaker 7: not ready to move in with our significant others, and

955
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 7: so we're like, why not buy a home together? You know,

956
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:30,319
Speaker 7: it's really hard to buy a house on your own

957
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 7: now because of you know, the rise of housing costs.

958
00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 2: So we're just like, and also, why burn red if

959
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:38,879
Speaker 2: you can start to build an asset or some.

960
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 1: Apt exactly, And that was kind of the idea.

961
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 2: They're calling it houses before spouses, the movement.

962
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, I want to hear more.

963
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 7: Yeah, and they're encouraging you know, younger people, millennials, gen

964
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,800
Speaker 7: zers to partner with friends or family members to become

965
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Speaker 7: homeowners instead of going the traditional route and waiting for marriage.

966
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Speaker 7: There's even a real estate agency that fully dedicates themselves

967
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 7: to you know, basically helping out friends who want to

968
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 7: go into home ownership together.

969
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 1: This was something that we didn't even consider.

970
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 2: I mean, the big apartment that we got, I told

971
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:16,359
Speaker 2: you about it olver in Santa Monica after I lived

972
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 2: with Tanaz. We put five of us shared rent, five

973
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 2: people shared rent, and it was like a townhouse, right vibe.

974
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 2: But never did we think, hey, let's buy this thing.

975
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 2: We all lived together, we paid rent, we burnt that cash,

976
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 2: anything like getting it that.

977
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I wish we I kind of wish we did.

978
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Speaker 9: I know.

979
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Speaker 4: And that's what everybody's saying too, like I wish nobody

980
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 4: regrets buying something earlier on in life.

981
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:39,040
Speaker 1: It's just, oh my gosh.

982
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 2: Back in those days, if we could have purchased that,

983
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 2: we would all done fine.

984
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 4: But if you think about it, if you got a

985
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:47,280
Speaker 4: couple people in on it, you probably could have afforded

986
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 4: it all together and then shared the us sold it whatever.

987
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:53,479
Speaker 3: However, many years later, why why were.

988
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 1: We so naive?

989
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 8: I know?

990
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 2: Why don't we have this kind of skill set to

991
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 2: think about these things?

992
00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 1: I know?

993
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:00,919
Speaker 3: My mom tried to tell me this twenty years ago.

994
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:02,279
Speaker 1: She did. She did.

995
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:05,439
Speaker 3: My mom really tried to get me to do.

996
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 1: This with friends.

997
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 4: I don't know exactly specifically who, but she was just

998
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:14,480
Speaker 4: like very much about do not rent, let's figure out asap,

999
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,439
Speaker 4: how to buy, let's figure it out going, Yeah, going

1000
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 4: with friends?

1001
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 7: Do it?

1002
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,400
Speaker 1: Uh? Reb Now you are buying with your fiance.

1003
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:24,720
Speaker 3: We're moving this weekend.

1004
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're moving this.

1005
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 2: Weekend, So you're doing, uh, what are you? What do

1006
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:29,360
Speaker 2: you call in your movement?

1007
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 7: I don't know, just finances exactly.

1008
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:35,880
Speaker 3: Wait, are you guys buying Did you buy it?

1009
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 9: No?

1010
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 7: No, no, we're not buying rent a printing. Okay, yeah,

1011
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:41,320
Speaker 7: we got a house together. But I love the idea

1012
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 7: of houses before spouse's though.

1013
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 2: I'm glad you brought that up well. As I said,

1014
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 2: I need minerals or something. After a Ryan's roses Thursday,

1015
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 2: you know, you feel a little like dehydrated almost, because

1016
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 2: it does take a lot out of it.

1017
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 1: Got takes a lot of takes a lot of this.

1018
00:46:57,920 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 2: I don't know when I after I do the show,

1019
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 2: it's physical to me, like I feel a little I'm

1020
00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 2: a little tired of drained. It's not a non physical

1021
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,200
Speaker 2: I guess. I try to explain it to my friends,

1022
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:09,600
Speaker 2: They're like, why are you tired after doing the radio?

1023
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 3: Because you get wound up.

1024
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:11,600
Speaker 1: I get wound up.

1025
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:14,320
Speaker 2: It's like doing a It's kind of doing a presentation

1026
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 2: if you had to do a presentation at work every

1027
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 2: day for four hours.

1028
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:21,840
Speaker 1: It's the similar. I think it's the similar energy output.

1029
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 4: It is and even though it's not like actual fighting

1030
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 4: like we're not really fighting. I feel like we do

1031
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 4: disagree often, and when you're trying to prove a point,

1032
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 4: it does like rattle you up inside.

1033
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 2: I wouldn't even I wouldn't even use negative words like

1034
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:39,359
Speaker 2: disagree in fighting. Okay, well I would use I would

1035
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:40,800
Speaker 2: use positive words like debating.

1036
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 3: Oh great, wow, like that perspective chain.

1037
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 2: I think that shifts the whole mood. And now I

1038
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 2: don't feel toxic when you yes, like you say toxic words.

1039
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:50,439
Speaker 1: Right.

1040
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 4: Well, debating is actually even better because when you're debating,

1041
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:55,520
Speaker 4: you do you get like very energetic about it.

1042
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:56,960
Speaker 3: You're passionate about your side.

1043
00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 1: Do you want to do some an tomorrow? Yeah, you

1044
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:01,840
Speaker 1: want to debate again? I love to make your debate.

1045
00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:06,360
Speaker 2: We're out of debating time today. So much debation going

1046
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:10,799
Speaker 2: on here in this room. Mark, So much debation. I

1047
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:12,880
Speaker 2: wonder what kind of debation was going on in the backroom.

1048
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:15,280
Speaker 2: And we missed a lot with the mic coffee.

1049
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 7: It smells like Pacha mama back here?

1050
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 1: Did patcha mama beans did? But coffee beans?

1051
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 5: Come?

1052
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 2: Are you guys making fresh brewery grinding beans back there?

1053
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:23,279
Speaker 1: What's going on?

1054
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 3: Beca everything?

1055
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 1: What'd you do?

1056
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 6: My entire coffee on me on the floor and.

1057
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 1: You're wearing cream.

1058
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, but my pants are black, so that works. Nice? Nice?

1059
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 9: Is it?

1060
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 2: Is it actually my favorite bean of coffee or is

1061
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 2: it a generic coffee?

1062
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 6: It was actually the office coffee, which is then.

1063
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:41,200
Speaker 1: It does not smell like Pacha Mama.

1064
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 11: I know, I know.

1065
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:44,479
Speaker 8: You going.

1066
00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 2: I'm just telling you a coffee. If you're a coffee person,

1067
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:51,359
Speaker 2: that the bean is going to change your life. All right,

1068
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:53,719
Speaker 2: we got to go. Then you know what happens not

1069
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 2: us next see you tomorrow. Thanks for listening.

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Speaker 1: Bye, Thanks for listening So on Air with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 1: Make sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.