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Speaker 2: say something was unusual, I might celebrate it. I remember

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Speaker 2: Teresa at her wedding. I think her hair had its

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Speaker 2: it's happened to me, Oh my god, corpse skeletor corpse bride, Like,

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Speaker 2: I get it, I know it.

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Speaker 1: So I definitely don't.

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Speaker 2: Want to comment negatively on anyone's appearance, but I want

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Speaker 2: to comment on people's appearance. Is changing so drastically in

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty six, more than I think we've ever seen.

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Speaker 2: So very few of you were old enough to remember

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Speaker 2: the movie Death Becomes Her. But it was I think

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Speaker 2: it was Goldie Haunt. It might have been Jessica Lang,

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Speaker 2: It was like three major actresses and they were all

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Speaker 2: competing with each other with plastic surgery. The show Feud

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Speaker 2: by Ryan Murphy, which was about I think it was

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Speaker 2: but it was about that, like years ago, them competing

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Speaker 2: but like did they tape their face and all that stuff?

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Speaker 2: So it's always been different versions of it. Now people

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Speaker 2: have way more resources, you know, I'm gonna get into

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Speaker 2: So I think that's the real reason for the commenting

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Speaker 2: if the playing field were level, Like if a woman

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Speaker 2: But the disparity seems so great because there are so

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Speaker 2: many tactics now. And what I'm getting at is the

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Speaker 2: and they were getting everything they could get, and their

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Speaker 2: faces started falling off. As they got older, their faces

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Speaker 2: some cases it doesn't land, and there are fifty shades

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Speaker 2: not going to comment on anyone's appearance because if someone

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Speaker 2: through something. When you get older, you're also not eating

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Speaker 2: It's different hormonally, it's different energy, it's different everything, Like

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Speaker 2: you realize that? So when I see someone's appearance, you

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Speaker 2: Body dysmorphia is an illness like someone who looks painfully thin.

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Speaker 2: There might there's something probably going on metabolically, hormonally, mentally, emotionally, divorce,

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Speaker 2: whatever it is, you know, financial problems, a death in

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Speaker 2: the family. I really do want to be less judgmental

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Speaker 2: And I said to her, people do it like I've

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, like people are doing it not

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Speaker 1: So that is a disease, but that is a fact.

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Speaker 2: So you're seeing people look different, like they're saying, there's

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Speaker 2: But now we're seeing as a result of that and

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Speaker 1: So there's a whole thing.

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Speaker 2: I didn't see them before and after picture because I

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Speaker 2: I don't know. People criticized Bradley Cooper for a while

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Speaker 2: think people liked it. Jim Carrey looks very different now.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes someone looks very different and it could be good.

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Speaker 2: It's just different. Like years ago, Jennifer Gray from Dirty

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Speaker 2: You are trying to get rolls, get noticed. You're in

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Speaker 2: Tea Leaf is an office that people wearing leggings all

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Speaker 2: them like that, And I love Coffee Bean. I'm those

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Speaker 2: like it's a different life there, and not everyone lives

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Speaker 2: industry has changed as we know it. I know actresses

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Speaker 2: that won't date someone close to their age because it's

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Speaker 2: we think we are. That's why a lot of older

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Speaker 2: which is not true. It makes them look older, but

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Speaker 2: So in that town it's so aggressive. And so Jim

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Speaker 1: Vain like many other people.

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Speaker 2: And so I guess he got work, but people like

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Speaker 2: He wouldn't look like the same Jim Carrey anyway, because

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Speaker 2: he's twenty thirty years older. We're not like frozen in time.

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Speaker 2: It's not Austin Powers frozen in the fucking ice block

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Speaker 1: Did she age? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: When Sex and the City came back, they were like,

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Speaker 2: Sarah Jessica Parker is celebrated for having her grayes out

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Speaker 2: need to do what you want. So Jim Carrey would

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Speaker 1: And it happens quickly and frankly. He's the judge. He

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Speaker 2: And so people are loving that her face looks young,

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Speaker 2: her body looks different, So something happened. She did something,

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Speaker 2: these people become more successful and their comedians, they're allowed

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Speaker 2: It wasn't humorous. Amy Schumer has lost a lot of

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Speaker 2: I just think there's a disparity and it brings up

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Speaker 2: And it's a Macadamian nut milk beverage, which means it's

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Speaker 2: But anyway, we have chickpea pasta, califlower pizza, lentil crisps,

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Speaker 2: like low car rice, and I know many of you

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Speaker 2: the calories of rice. Same thing with pasta. These things

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Speaker 2: there's so much access to things that we didn't have

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Speaker 2: when we were younger. But yes, it was more real

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Speaker 2: food and things taste good. That's what's crazy too, Like

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Speaker 2: lower calorie, lower car lower whatever.

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Speaker 2: I'm just telling you that we have access to so

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Speaker 2: much more now than you did then. So people are

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Speaker 2: like they're just teed up to look different than we

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Speaker 2: were years ago. So in beverages too, Listen, I created

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Speaker 2: the first ever low calorie margarita.

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