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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 3: Thursday, almost to the end of a week that actually

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Speaker 3: looked like Los Angeles this week.

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Speaker 2: I looked up and I saw sky.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, sunshine, clouds or haze or marine.

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Speaker 2: I saw sky and I heard birds. I heard It's

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Speaker 2: been nice.

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Speaker 3: It really has been all right. I was busy at

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Speaker 3: the printer this morning. Sisney was out there. I was

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Speaker 3: out there and that song ended, so I had to

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Speaker 3: come back.

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Speaker 4: I'm still dealing with it. It's super annoying. It'll print

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Speaker 4: me like.

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Speaker 3: Fing initializing, initializing and initialized already.

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Speaker 4: Well, the one that I was using was getting jammed,

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Speaker 4: and then I had to take the paper out.

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Speaker 3: ID it's starting your day off like that? Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 3: speak of starting your day off. Something strange happened to

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Speaker 3: me this morning. I've been trying to grab an early workout.

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Speaker 3: Good for you, and in the interest of time, I

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Speaker 3: can't go home and shower, so I shower at the gym.

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Speaker 3: Yeah with that, well, I didn't realize it because no

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Speaker 3: one really has commented before on this. I guess I

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Speaker 3: make a lot of noises and moans when I'm soaping

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Speaker 3: ew in the shower?

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Speaker 2: Do you make noises when he shower?

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Speaker 5: Literally?

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Speaker 2: Zero make noises I moan when I eat.

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Speaker 4: Like if I'm eating a really good sushi meal, Like

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Speaker 4: I moan in the shower.

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Speaker 2: Ah okay, yeah, you probably wash your legs like.

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Speaker 6: I make zero noise in the shower.

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Speaker 2: No, I might even sing. I didn't even realize.

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Speaker 3: So if I reached out and washed my knees and stuff,

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Speaker 3: I go, oh, like.

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Speaker 6: That, you wash your knees.

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Speaker 7: I do?

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Speaker 2: I have dairy clean knees shook scrub ye. Uh so.

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Speaker 3: But the reason I bring this up is that there

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Speaker 3: was a guy another guy in the locker room, and

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Speaker 3: he's like, you all right in there.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know what to see.

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Speaker 8: You had fallen and couldn't get up.

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Speaker 3: No, He's like, it's just because of the moaning. And

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Speaker 3: I was like, ah, yeah, I'm all right, you know,

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Speaker 3: I said, good bro. So I don't know if anybody

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Speaker 3: else makes noises when you lean over to clean yourself,

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Speaker 3: but you might and not realize it until that guy

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Speaker 3: the gym calls you out on it.

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Speaker 4: I think I just make like moan noises in life.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes you're sure to put your socks on like.

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Speaker 8: Things like that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I do a lot in the workout class.

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Speaker 2: I sigh, A lot. Yeah that sounds like a negative thing.

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Speaker 2: That's sign. That's just life I've gotten. So what do

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Speaker 2: we got today?

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Speaker 3: We've got a thousand dollars, start paying bills, got a

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Speaker 3: Ryan's Roads is coming shall we are very good? That's

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Speaker 3: the problem with my hair. I got ready at the

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Speaker 3: gym and I used their community gel.

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Speaker 9: Oh.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's not bad, it's not great good. I know.

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Speaker 6: I always forget the deodorant and have to use the lesson.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, if you're coming straight from the gym, you get

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Speaker 4: what you get, like if you're at home with.

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Speaker 8: Your hair dryer.

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Speaker 2: Community jail and jail is not. It's made it curly.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 8: I like it though.

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Speaker 6: It's nice to have a little different.

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Speaker 2: Sarah, good morning. How you doing.

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Speaker 10: Hi, good morning, I'm doing well. How are you doing?

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Speaker 2: We are doing well. So you and your husband are

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Speaker 10: Yes, we're so excited, but obviously a little stressed with

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Speaker 10: this housing market. My husband and I we got married

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Speaker 10: in November, so we're just really thrilled to start a

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Speaker 10: new life together and buy a house, which has been exciting,

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Speaker 10: really exciting, but the stressful part in where I need

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Speaker 10: you guys to kind of chime in for me, is

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Speaker 10: my husband is so insistent on a big backyard.

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Speaker 8: Yes, we're mine.

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Speaker 10: Well, we're looking in the La suburbs, and you know,

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Speaker 10: there's really just not a ton of houses out there

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Speaker 10: I don't really I don't really need a vard. I've

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Speaker 10: never really lived with one. So even though we're excited

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Speaker 10: to go see these houses, we end up fighting about

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Speaker 11: Of a house.

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Speaker 10: So I don't know what to do with this. You know,

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Speaker 10: it's already stressful enough, and then we're fighting about, you know,

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Speaker 2: So did he grow up with the backyard? Is that

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Speaker 2: where it's coming from?

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Speaker 9: I think so he did.

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Speaker 10: And I wonder if it's like that's his picture of

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Speaker 10: like a perfect house. But he's lived in La long

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Speaker 10: enough to know that that's not super common.

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Speaker 12: It's like a guy thing.

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Speaker 4: I think, it's like I need my land, like this

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Speaker 4: Lafe space.

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Speaker 8: I get it.

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Speaker 4: So if you can get a house that has a

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Speaker 4: like a big backyard, then it's almost like this, like

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Speaker 4: you've made it type of vibe.

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Speaker 2: You know, like, well, what.

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Speaker 3: Is the compromise to this? Do you see a path

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Speaker 3: to compromise?

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Speaker 10: You know, I want I want to help him with

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Speaker 10: his dream house and my compromise. I'm willing to kind of,

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Speaker 10: especially with the housing market as it is, take something

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Speaker 10: that's kind of a right now, a newly married couple house.

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Speaker 10: But he's not really willing to compromise. So I don't

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Speaker 4: You trick him, Oh, here's no, but it's not like well,

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Speaker 4: you guys know, like a lie or anything. You find

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Speaker 4: a house that you love that's got everything right. Maybe

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Speaker 4: it's turnkey and whatever, but yes, the yard is a

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Speaker 4: little bit smaller, but you take him to it and

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Speaker 4: you have him fall in love with the house, and

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Speaker 4: then maybe just by seeing the house, he's going to

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Speaker 4: compromise for the smaller backyard. But you have to you

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Speaker 4: have to physically get him to those houses. They can't

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Speaker 4: just be like on red Fin and you're showing him

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you're going to win this one. I

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Speaker 3: don't see him falling on the sword for it.

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Speaker 8: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 10: Okay, okay, yeah, and you're right. We've been trading Redsin emails.

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Speaker 9: So see when he keeps my vision.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you need to get him there.

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Speaker 4: Don't even tell him what's happening to be like, hey, mate,

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Speaker 4: me for lunch tomorrow and at whatever place and then

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Speaker 4: go have lunch and then after lunch you go take

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Speaker 10: Thank you so much. I love this idea. I'm going

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Speaker 10: to do it.

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Speaker 2: Good luck.

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Speaker 3: Just this call makes me think I should call into

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Speaker 3: this show for advice sometimes. Why I don't know. I

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Speaker 3: just listening to you guys give advice. Y'all are all

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Speaker 3: on the same page on that. Thank you very much, Sarah,

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Speaker 3: Good luck and congratulations.

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Speaker 2: Take care. But bye, f R Crest. Can you guys

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Speaker 2: come here for Zach? Zach? Good morning. How you doing?

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Speaker 2: Hey you Ryan, I'm pretty good, Zach. Your girlfriend is

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Speaker 2: too competitive for you? Is that why you're calling?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, she's It's it's pretty insane sometimes when we play

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Speaker 9: like video games together or whatever, like Mario Party or something,

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Speaker 9: she like smacks the control out of my hand. And

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Speaker 9: we thought about, you know, starting a sport.

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Speaker 2: Together, like what sport pickleball.

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Speaker 9: Tennis, tennis, to particulous.

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Speaker 3: The old school one yeah, yeah, but you know, I'm

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Speaker 3: a little too worried that she's gonna be very competitive.

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Speaker 2: And it could drive it could cause issues. I will

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Speaker 5: So.

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Speaker 3: I played a game of backgammon over the weekend and

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Speaker 3: I got beat twice. And I did not handle it well.

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Speaker 3: I didn't feel I didn't I didn't feel good after.

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Speaker 2: I was like bumbling. I was down on my.

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Speaker 3: I stn't like I don't see anything. I just like

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Speaker 3: felt my whole body chemistry felt off because of it.

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Speaker 3: Schooled it twice and then has to say that's twice.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, I know I was here for both.

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Speaker 3: I got it, fine, move on or food, but like, hey,

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Speaker 3: you know it's uh, it's not.

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Speaker 12: Well, make you feel better beating her?

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Speaker 4: Then?

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Speaker 8: What that would make you feel good?

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Speaker 3: I was not even close. Like that's why I got like,

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Speaker 3: really beaten would be one thing. If I was beaten

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Speaker 3: twice and it was close. I don't know how to

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Speaker 3: play backgammon.

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Speaker 2: I guess, well, that's okay.

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Speaker 12: You don't have to hear good at other things.

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Speaker 8: A great cook, you're a good DJ.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we had a spinning competition.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how to play.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so oh, Zach what do you do from here?

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Speaker 9: I'm just should I talk to her and just let

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Speaker 9: her know, like, hey, you can't be too competitive.

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Speaker 3: I think competitive is fine, but hitting like your joystick

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Speaker 3: your seems like crossing the line, right, I mean, I

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Speaker 3: like a healthy competition, but why don't you just do

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Speaker 3: it in the spirit of this is fun, Like it's

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Speaker 3: fun for us to do.

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Speaker 2: Let's keep it fun, you.

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Speaker 8: Know, I think?

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Speaker 4: So, Yeah, I'm down to start this new sport with you,

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Speaker 4: but you have to promise that it's just not going

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Speaker 4: to get too competitive.

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Speaker 2: Almost be real and good luck.

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Speaker 3: Zach, thank you. I mean, I'm told that you can't

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Speaker 3: call him joysticks anymore.

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Speaker 8: Why not?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, why not? Mark, Well, they used to

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Speaker 2: actually be sticks back in the day. Now they're controllers

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Speaker 2: without sticks, just buttons. Oh but no one's upset that

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Speaker 2: I said joystick. I don't think it's offensive. I just

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Speaker 2: think it's dated. Oh what so what I mean that

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Speaker 2: was and the nineties nostalgia's in. Yeah, it actually is

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Speaker 2: all right, but get my Atari five oh or my whatever.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I mean fun competition is great. When it gets to

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Speaker 3: be like she's shoving him in the controller.

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Speaker 8: I want to go back to why you really were

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Speaker 8: bummed that.

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Speaker 3: You because I'm like, wait, you think I would add

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Speaker 3: no shot at back camp.

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Speaker 2: I should be able to play backgammon. I don't know

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Speaker 2: how to play eat it though. I don't ask me. Tony,

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Speaker 2: you get competitive with Robbie.

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Speaker 6: You know, I say no, but when we play games,

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Speaker 6: I get very heated.

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Speaker 12: I think you're a competitive person, but I'm.

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Speaker 6: Also pretty like I'm better at him than most sport.

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Speaker 2: That makes it much easier.

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Speaker 6: Yeahs most of the time.

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Speaker 2: And do you say anything afterwards?

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Speaker 3: Let me grab Stacia. Stacia, Yes, good morning.

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 13: Good morning?

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Speaker 5: I'm how about yourself?

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Speaker 2: We're doing great. So you have a question here?

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Speaker 3: How do you say no to a bachelore rep party

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Speaker 13: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So so you just don't want to go?

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Speaker 13: Okay, it's I mean, I'm I'm not okay. Let me

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Speaker 13: high school. She's getting married and it's like really nice

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Speaker 13: I was like, how much are you willing to spend?

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Speaker 11: Such and such place is too far for me.

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Speaker 13: To go, or I don't have the money for that,

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Speaker 13: or but really it's just like I don't know any

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Speaker 13: do you have to day?

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Speaker 2: Now we got that all up.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, I can't say that her person so much like

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Speaker 2: That's not much. That's failing great, well.

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Speaker 6: Really sixty percent, that's just really great for diploma.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe I was failing when I was in school.

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Speaker 8: Okay, so let's say, do you have the day of seven.

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Speaker 12: Do you have the dates already? No?

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Speaker 13: No, no, They're like, when are you available?

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Speaker 3: But if you if this person is a six, for

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Speaker 2: You need to know so much if you don't care,

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Speaker 4: Just sit back, sit back, and let them all on

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Speaker 3: Go great word conflict, A conflict, You have a conflict.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 3: Sit back. This person's a six. You're all this time

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Speaker 4: But you know what, you would have a great time

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Speaker 4: with all these strangers you never know.

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Speaker 2: That's all right, Sit back.

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Speaker 3: And just prep the text conflict, good luck, Thank you

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Speaker 2: If it's a six, why are you worried so much?

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Speaker 3: If the person's a nine, then I get it you

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Speaker 2: But who cares even even eight?

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Speaker 4: But bachelor parties are just so such a fun, free

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Speaker 12: She was like, oh my gosh, I can't believe this.

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Speaker 2: You RVP.

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Speaker 12: And then I was like, yeah, she's coming.

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Speaker 4: Nobody knew her, and she was fantastic.

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Speaker 8: We had a great time with.

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Speaker 2: I planned one too, I planned my sisters.

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Speaker 5: It was fun.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, I'm sure you didn't know everybody, but you probably

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Speaker 3: No I knew ever before we do anything else. These

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Speaker 2: Oh cons of am I having in my purse ring?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 9: You may?

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Speaker 2: You may just carry that at all times.

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Speaker 3: Yes, so TikTok saying that it helps lock in moisture

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Speaker 3: What do you think would you put diaper rash cream

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Speaker 4: Yes, diaper rash like specific diper rash like the.

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Speaker 2: No diaper rash expert.

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Speaker 3: So the I would my pragmatic brain woul go if

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Speaker 6: Rack, and it's safe for my face, me too, anywhere

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's not safe. It can really irritate your skin

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Speaker 3: Anything that's gonna make a ZiT worse, I'm out.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So another one of these TikTok trends that's circulating and

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Speaker 6: But I do think this is probably good for you

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Speaker 4: I saw a man walking barefoot on Ventura Boulevard the

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Speaker 2: this is where athletes foot and fungus.

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Speaker 8: Lives on something.

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Speaker 2: Cut your foot, open the glass. Yeah, little glass. I

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Speaker 2: was a little piece of green glass broken up somewhere. No, no,

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Speaker 2: The oat zempic Weight loss drink.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, is everywhere?

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Speaker 2: All right? Let me tell you what is is it?

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Speaker 3: Drink consisting of half a cup of rolled oats, one

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Speaker 3: It claims to help people lose up to forty pounds

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Speaker 2: Okay, well that's not safe.

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Speaker 3: Is it safe to lose forty pounds in two months? Well,

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Speaker 4: Would be losing the forty pounds in two months? I

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Speaker 3: Let's say you lost ten. I'd be down to try

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Speaker 3: if I lost ten, but in.

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Speaker 6: Two months is a little bit more literally just healthy

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Speaker 3: Like the is not getting the scope of nutrients that

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Speaker 3: one hundred and forty coss. Not an adequate meal replacement,

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Speaker 3: but if you are trying to cut down on calories

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Speaker 3: throughout the course of the day, it might keep you

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Speaker 3: full snacking on less bad things or like last night,

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Speaker 3: I was hungry. So last night I finished my dinner

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Speaker 3: and then I went into the fridge and I got berries,

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Speaker 3: and I didn't have any almond butter, so I made

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Speaker 3: my own. I crushed up with a spoon a bunch

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Speaker 3: of like almonds. I put it under paper towel and

459
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Speaker 3: crushed them all up and start them with coconut oil

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Speaker 3: because they didn't have almond butter. And I drizzled that

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Speaker 3: over berries. And I didn't need to do it, but

462
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Speaker 3: I wanted to do it. And maybe oats would have

463
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Speaker 3: been better than all of that late at night.

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Speaker 2: But it's very good. Have you ever made Have you

465
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Speaker 2: ever done that? Anybody ever done that?

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Speaker 3: If you don't have like a butter, like a enough butter,

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Speaker 3: take the rush it up and stirring cocon oil.

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Speaker 12: Topsize is oats every day here, it's impressive.

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Speaker 3: So those are TikTok trends that are popular and circulating

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Speaker 3: right now.

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Speaker 2: Olive oil in your ears.

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Speaker 3: The olive oil is supposed to soften the wax and

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Speaker 3: make it easier to clean out. It is safe, but

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Speaker 3: be careful. Don't put too much olive oil in your ears.

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Speaker 3: That could cause an issue in your brain.

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Speaker 4: I've always been curious about the when they do the

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Speaker 4: candle and like they suck out.

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Speaker 2: I've done that all the wax.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, do that regularly because we've hadphones in all the

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Speaker 3: time for this show.

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Speaker 12: Well, I have an abrasion in my ear right now,

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Speaker 12: so I'm gonna.

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Speaker 2: Hold Yeah, you're all gets your aqua for it? On

484
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Speaker 2: are with Ryan's becrust.

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Speaker 3: Why don't two point seven kiss FM? It's time for

486
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Speaker 3: Ryan's roses. If you think something's going on behind your

487
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Speaker 3: back and you want peace of mind, that's what this is.

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Speaker 3: So Haley and Granada Hills reaches out and she goes

489
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Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm being paranoid, but my husband

490
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Speaker 3: came back from a work trip and I look down

491
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Speaker 3: and he had a pair of knee burns on his body.

492
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Speaker 3: Whoah burns on his body? Now, you don't get knee

493
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Speaker 3: burns on your body unless something has happened. I mean,

494
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Speaker 3: just to me, you normally get your knee burns, Tony.

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Speaker 6: I mean sometimes if I jump after sunny like and

496
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Speaker 6: my knee burns, my knees run across the carpet. Yeah, yeah,

497
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Speaker 6: get rug burns.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I don't get like knee burns, but I can understand like,

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Speaker 4: like my knees almost like getting bruised from being on

501
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Speaker 4: the ground so much with the kids.

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Speaker 3: I think if you were to get down on this

503
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Speaker 3: floor and look at the like the exact spot and

504
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Speaker 3: where the knees burned, this is a problem.

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Speaker 2: That's what she's saying. This is a problem.

506
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Speaker 3: The guy went on a work trip. He's not running

507
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Speaker 3: around with his dog on his knees.

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Speaker 6: Oh right, The work trip doesn't throw it a little.

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Speaker 2: What does he do for work?

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Speaker 3: Well, that's why she's here. So she just doesn't know.

511
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Speaker 3: Am I being paranoid or is something going on? But

512
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Speaker 3: he comes back with rugburns on his knees.

513
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Speaker 2: Knee burns.

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Speaker 3: Hayley, good morning, Thank you for reaching out. So I

515
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Speaker 3: agree with you. I don't think you've been paranoid. I

516
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Speaker 3: think this is a real issue. I mean, you to

517
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Speaker 3: get rugburn on your knees, that's pretty intense.

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Speaker 2: What did he say that, like why they were.

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Speaker 14: There, Well, he said he had a work trip in

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Speaker 14: Vegas and when he came home. He came home, he

521
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Speaker 14: like had no actual reasoning for it, Like I noticed it,

522
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Speaker 14: and he just goes, oh, that's so weird, huh. I

523
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Speaker 14: have no idea. And then a few minutes later he

524
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Speaker 14: comes back and he goes, oh, you know what, I think,

525
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Speaker 14: I know what it is. It was I had to

526
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Speaker 14: pack my suitcase and I had to kneel down on

527
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Speaker 14: the floor for a long time. And that's how I'm not.

528
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Speaker 3: But kneeling down on the floor and rugburn are different actions.

529
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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 3: The red would go away after and we're both knees

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Speaker 3: equally as rugburned.

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Speaker 14: Yes, absolutely, Yeah.

533
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Speaker 2: It's painful and to get there, you've got to it

534
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Speaker 2: takes a lot.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, absolutely, So it just didn't That didn't make sense

536
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Speaker 14: to me at all. And I'm still trying to not

537
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Speaker 14: be so paranoid about it. But you know, like I

538
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Speaker 14: have just this history with like my dad, she did

539
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Speaker 14: on my mom and I'm pregnant and I just want

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Speaker 14: to make sure that I'm not just being but overemotional.

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Speaker 5: There.

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Speaker 12: It is the history.

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Speaker 3: I don't think you've been paranoid, but we are going

544
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Speaker 3: to make the call to your husband here. Can you

545
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Speaker 3: hold on one second?

546
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Speaker 14: Yes?

547
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Speaker 2: How long you've been married?

548
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Speaker 14: Two years?

549
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Speaker 2: Hold tight?

550
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Speaker 3: Ryan's rose is the call we're coming into that. We

551
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Speaker 3: need to get this Ryan's roses called done. Here's what

552
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Speaker 3: you should be thinking about. Haley's married two years, her

553
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Speaker 3: husband goes away on a work trip and he comes

554
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Speaker 3: back with rugburn on both his knees.

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Speaker 4: It's questionable, it's not great. And what makes you such

556
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Speaker 4: an expert on rugburns?

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Speaker 2: Just rug burns? I mean, I've had rugburns on the knee.

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Speaker 2: You're very aware of how I've.

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Speaker 3: Had I've had I've had rugburns. Haven't you had rugburns

560
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Speaker 3: on your back before?

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Speaker 2: Too? Like you just know they're painful.

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Speaker 3: I think anybody that was, you know, growing up camping

563
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Speaker 3: like I out in the athletic, out in the wild.

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Speaker 3: You get a rugburn here and there, painful and it

565
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Speaker 3: stings too.

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Speaker 2: You just don't eat. It takes a lot of friction

567
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Speaker 2: to get a rugburn. It's not a bruise. He said.

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Speaker 3: It was pressing his knees while he's down packing. It's

569
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Speaker 3: not like I. I do it all the time.

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Speaker 2: I don't get rugg Why do you do it all

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Speaker 2: the time I've packed my clothes after travel.

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Speaker 8: Oh, I thought you.

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Speaker 4: Got rugburns on your knees all the time in case

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Speaker 4: all the time, down on my knees and on the floor.

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Speaker 3: I don't get rugburn from it. A mean, I packed

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Speaker 3: a lot of suitcases in my deck.

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Speaker 2: Put on a bench on your back, Haley.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna call them. I don't think you've been paranoid?

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Speaker 3: What to find out? How got the rug burns? He

580
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Speaker 3: says it was because he was kneeling downpacking a suitcase.

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Speaker 3: I don't buy that a second.

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Speaker 2: I just don't.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, So could you.

584
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Speaker 2: Say, Ryan, you my permission to call, and then his name?

585
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Speaker 14: Go ahead, Ryan, you absolutely have my permission to call Jared.

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Speaker 2: So be very quiet.

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Speaker 3: We are going to find out if he sends the

588
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Speaker 3: roses to you, or maybe he's thinking about someone else

589
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,240
Speaker 3: and that gives us the information we need.

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Speaker 2: We don't know, so good luck and here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hi is this Jared?

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Speaker 13: Hi?

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Speaker 2: My name is Rita.

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Speaker 12: I'm calling from Paradise. Arrangements. How are you doing this morning?

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Speaker 9: Good?

597
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Speaker 8: I'm good.

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Speaker 4: We're actually in La based flower company deliver all over La,

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Speaker 4: even parts of OC. We're offering a promotion today if

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Speaker 4: you're interested. It's a free dozen red roses that you

601
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Speaker 4: can send to anybody that you'd like.

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Speaker 2: Oh, they're absolutely free.

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Speaker 4: I don't need cash from you, credit card info or

604
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Speaker 4: anything like that. We're just trying to promote our business.

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Speaker 4: It's something we do about once a month, and you

606
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Speaker 4: can send them to anybody that you'd like and they

607
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Speaker 4: can receive them by lunchtime today.

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Speaker 5: What's the catch.

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Speaker 12: Refers to friends and family.

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Speaker 4: If you like our arrangements, come back as a customer

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Speaker 4: one day, leave a Yelp review any of those things.

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Speaker 5: That's it. Yep, yeah, sure. You don't need a credit card, right, Nope,

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Speaker 5: I do not.

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Speaker 12: We can start with the name of the person you

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Speaker 12: want to send to.

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Speaker 5: All right, fine, So her name is Terry.

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Speaker 12: Okay A T E R R E.

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Speaker 5: T E R I T E.

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Speaker 4: R I okay, And what would you like to put

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Speaker 4: on the card for Terry.

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Speaker 5: Let's do so. We make a great team.

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Speaker 12: We make a eight team.

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Speaker 3: Jared, your voice is being on the radio. Can you

624
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Speaker 3: tell us who Terry is and the team you're talking about?

625
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 3: Got your wife, Haley on the phone. This is the

626
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Speaker 3: question that's on her mind. Thank you for staying on

627
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:12,200
Speaker 3: with this. Who is Terry?

628
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Speaker 5: You gotta be kidding me.

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Speaker 2: Your wife is on the line.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Terry is my supervisor.

631
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Speaker 2: And what else is Terry to you?

632
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Speaker 5: That's it?

633
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 2: That's it.

634
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Speaker 3: You're gonna send her roses. Terry Roses will make a

635
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 3: great team. Just supervisor. That's it.

636
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Speaker 5: Don't tell me what the hell is going on.

637
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, look, I'm gonna tell you what's going on.

638
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 3: Haley is concerned. She thinks you're cheating on her. You

639
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:46,399
Speaker 3: come back from a Vegas work trip with rugburn on

640
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 3: both knees. Takes a lot of friction to have rugburn.

641
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Speaker 3: So were you with Terry?

642
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 5: No, Terry's like sixty years old. My wife knows that.

643
00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 2: Well, who were you with in Las Vegas?

644
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Speaker 5: This is ridiculous. I've already discussed this with my wife.

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Speaker 14: There's that doesn't make any sense, Jared. It still doesn't

646
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 14: make sense. Nobody thinks that your excuse is real. Nobody

647
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 14: gets rug burned from packing the suitcase. It just doesn't happen.

648
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Speaker 14: You're lying, and I just want to know what it is.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, listen, The real reason is that I got

650
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Speaker 5: I got into a fight with Paul. That that is

651
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Speaker 5: the reason.

652
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Speaker 2: On your knees?

653
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Speaker 14: What Paul?

654
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Speaker 11: Who?

655
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 5: I said something I shouldn't have and he shoved me

656
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Speaker 5: as I was walking away and I landed on my knees.

657
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Speaker 5: That's burned from that?

658
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Speaker 14: Like what you weren't wearing pants or what what I did?

659
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 14: Like that doesn't make any sense?

660
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 5: No, no, no no, they were just really thin and

661
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 5: they ripped. And why didn't.

662
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Speaker 14: Oh, hey, if this was true, why didn't you just

663
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Speaker 14: like say that that doesn't This still doesn't make sense

664
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Speaker 14: to me. Why do you just tell me?

665
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Speaker 5: Because Paul is technically he's above me, and I didn't

666
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Speaker 5: want you to think I was putting my job at

667
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Speaker 5: risk by you know, frash talking to him or mouthing

668
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Speaker 5: off to him, so I just didn't say anything.

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Speaker 14: Okay, Well then what about what about where are those pants?

670
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Speaker 14: I didn't see any rippants from like your trip coming

671
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Speaker 14: back in the suitcase?

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Speaker 15: Like what happened to them?

673
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Speaker 5: Because I threw him out? I didn't even bring him home?

674
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Speaker 5: Like what.

675
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 14: That's no, I don't this is not adding up. This

676
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 14: is still you're actually just making me more upset because

677
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 14: it is.

678
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 5: Not because you're paranoid. You're a paranoid.

679
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I think, Jared, why your mind goes

680
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 3: to this and why you don't have security in your marriage?

681
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 14: Well he should know. I've told him. You know, dare

682
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 14: you know my dad?

683
00:29:58,080 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 15: You know my mom?

684
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 14: He left us. It has created like the biggest rift

685
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 14: in our family. And you knew that I had a

686
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 14: trust issue with this kind of stuff. And what you're thinking,

687
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 14: I don't know, because you're lying to me right now.

688
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 14: I can tell you're lying to me. This just doesn't

689
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 14: that that doesn't make sense, Like how someone could push

690
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 14: you and you fall and you get a rugburn. That

691
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 14: still doesn't add up to me, Jared, I just don't

692
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 14: know what else to say, Like, I don't I don't trust,

693
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 14: I don't trust your answer.

694
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 15: I don't know how.

695
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 5: To calm you or to make you feel more secure.

696
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 14: Well, if you would actually tell me what the truth

697
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 14: is like honestly, I don't even care if you are

698
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 14: cheating on me. I just want to know. At this point,

699
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 14: I'm just fed up with all the lying and everyone

700
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 14: lying to me. And I really really need someone to

701
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 14: just tell me the truth. So can you please just

702
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 14: tell me the truth?

703
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 5: That is the truth. I love you. I am asked

704
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 5: at Terry is sixty years old. I've been working with

705
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 5: her for what six years? Seven years now? There's no

706
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 5: that's not true that I'm not with Terry someone else. No,

707
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 5: I'm not with anybody else. I'm with you, Haley. I

708
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 5: am with my wife.

709
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 3: Hey, look, Hailey, we're gonna let you go. I got it.

710
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 3: It doesn't add up to me either. And you know

711
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,000
Speaker 3: your husband, if he's not telling the truth, you've got

712
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 3: to continue to chip away at what's happening here, what

713
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 3: he's covering up. And good luck to you, Hailey. All right,

714
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 3: at a lot of observations on that one. We'll come

715
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 3: back eight hundred and five to one or two seven.

716
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 3: Follow this for a second. In your relationship, do you

717
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 3: ever have that insecurity? And then you start second guessing

718
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 3: your partner's being honest or faithful, And then you start

719
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 3: thinking maybe being paranoid and reading into things too much.

720
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 3: But then that paranoia it may not be paranoia. It

721
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 3: maybe actually the fact something's going on. But do you

722
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 3: trust yourself to think it's not paranoia. Do you follow

723
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 3: your heart and try and investigate it? What do you do?

724
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 3: Because we can't create the narratives, we can be paranoid.

725
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 3: It's a trap to fall into. I don't think Haley,

726
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 3: who thought she might have been being paranoid, it was

727
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 3: being paranoid. Her husband is lying. So the dude goes

728
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 3: away on a work trip. He comes back with rugburn

729
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 3: on both knees.

730
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 2: Lies it.

731
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 3: The first questioning from his wife says that he was

732
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 3: down on his knee, pack in his suitcase and got

733
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 3: the rugburn. Then we get him on for Ryan's Rose.

734
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 3: He goes, okay, but I lied about that. Truth is

735
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 3: I got into a fight with Paul.

736
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 2: Why didn't you just tell your wife?

737
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 3: I guess Paul's a manager at work and they go

738
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 3: to a physical fight. First of all, we didn't even

739
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 3: pursue that. I know you did a physical fight with

740
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 3: somebody at work to your manager.

741
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 4: We say, like, hemouthed off to him, and then Paul

742
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:51,120
Speaker 4: got mad and pushed it.

743
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 3: Then he dragged him across the casino. No, yeah, you

744
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 3: got rugburn.

745
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 2: On his knees. Dude, like, what's that so true?

746
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 8: Tell your wife that?

747
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 2: So he's lying.

748
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 3: I'm gonna I'm gonna tell you. I think he's I

749
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 3: think he's cheating. Oh, he's lying.

750
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 2: I think he's cheating.

751
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 3: And she also, to her credit, good on Haley, She's like, dude,

752
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 3: you're I know you're lying.

753
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 2: Let me She said that.

754
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 12: She's like, right, I can tell when you're lying.

755
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 2: I can tell you're lying. I can tell when you're lying.

756
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 3: And she was right. He sounded like a liar. He

757
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 3: sent the roses to Terry, we make a great team,

758
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 3: so that that's somebody that he works with, supervisor. I

759
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 3: don't know if it's Terry's cheating with, but somebody like

760
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 3: you don't get rug burns on your knees.

761
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 4: And he technically lied three times because the first time

762
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:43,400
Speaker 4: she asked him he said, I don't know, I don't know.

763
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 4: I have no idea, And then he came back and

764
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 4: gave it the suitcase story.

765
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 3: Lizabeth, we're in a bubble here where we all like

766
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 3: are listening together. What'd you hear?

767
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 15: Yeah, I'm right there with you. I just hear lie

768
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 15: after lie after lie. Like first, like you said, he

769
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 15: just denying everything, had no idea what happened. Then he

770
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 15: was on his knees packing his suitcase, Like who does that?

771
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 5: And then.

772
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 15: Like getting in a fight, even if you were pushed

773
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 15: onto your knees, like you'd get rugburns if you were

774
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 15: on your knees for a while. You know, I think

775
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 15: he's absolutely sleeping with the boss sixty years old or not,

776
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 15: or maybe sleeping with the guy that supposedly pushed him

777
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 15: to the ground.

778
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 8: Wow.

779
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 2: So let's say Haley gets to the bottom of it.

780
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 2: What does she do?

781
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 5: Now?

782
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 2: What do you doing?

783
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 9: She needs, she.

784
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 15: Needs to figure out what she wants in life, and

785
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 15: she honestly needs to go to therapy. If she has

786
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 15: trusted she's like this, she's clearly drawn to the wrong

787
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 15: type of people. She definitely doesn't even need this stress.

788
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 8: She's pregnant.

789
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:44,280
Speaker 12: The trust issues are not going to go away.

790
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 11: No, she's got to work on it.

791
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 2: And she's got those issues from you know, her parents,

792
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 2: right her dad trauma.

793
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 3: All right, Well that's called Ryan's Roses. Lizabeth, thank you

794
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 3: very much for listening to it. With Ryan's Crest, Ryan's

795
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 3: Seacrest with you Sis and Tanya in the back room

796
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 3: is one of my favorite parts. You can't tell I'm

797
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 3: boring them or they just really relaxed listening to the show.

798
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,319
Speaker 12: It's not either's doing nothing back there.

799
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 3: Why no, they're busy every time, and I put up

800
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 3: to be fair, You're right, I just throw the microphone

801
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 3: on and they're actually like answering phones and pulling up

802
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 3: computer screens and getting us preparation for something like, for example,

803
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:29,760
Speaker 3: thank you for getting Josh on hold back room, and Josh,

804
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 3: thank you for thinking that.

805
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:34,839
Speaker 11: How are you, Josh, I'm doing okay. Thank you for

806
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 11: taking a call. A big fan of the show.

807
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 3: Thanks bro, I appreciate that. So you're can you need

808
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 3: some advice or guidance about your girlfriend?

809
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 5: I do.

810
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 11: Yeah, So my girlfriend just moved across the country to

811
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 11: live with me. We've been dating for aunt nine months.

812
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,439
Speaker 11: We went on vacation, we did a long distance thing,

813
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 11: we visited, and honestly, I mean, I hate the strong word,

814
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 11: but I guess I strongly disliked the way things are

815
00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:58,239
Speaker 11: living with her right now.

816
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 3: And you'd like you now live together and you don't

817
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,720
Speaker 3: like living with her.

818
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 11: Correct, Yeah, So there's some circumstances though, I mean, and

819
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 11: I kind of just need your advice and and see

820
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 11: if you've heard of somebody having this issue. Before, but

821
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:16,920
Speaker 11: it's been about three months and she's she's currently she's

822
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 11: still looking for a job and doesn't have a car,

823
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 11: so it's just always in the house. And it's tough

824
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 11: because if we had our own support groups and we're

825
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 11: in our own cities, that would be different. But she

826
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 11: moved out here for me, and it's just it's no breaks.

827
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:32,880
Speaker 11: It's one hundred percent of us. She's always the apartment,

828
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 11: doesn't really clean up after herself sometimes too, which is

829
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,840
Speaker 11: kind of frustrating. It's just basically we moved in together

830
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 11: and and since she's not working and it's never out

831
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:43,280
Speaker 11: of the house, I'm.

832
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:44,879
Speaker 2: Just you can't stand we're kind of in a rough

833
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 2: patch here. Yeah, is this like a different person from

834
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 2: who you thought she was?

835
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 11: I mean, I wouldn't say totally different, but I mean

836
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 11: I didn't expect that she would live this way. I

837
00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 11: think the job thing is really was holding us back here,

838
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 11: and you know, at least have a conversation about go ahead, sorry.

839
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 3: Is no Is it about her not having something of

840
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 3: her own to go do? Or is it about her

841
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 3: just being around too often? Try and figure out what's

842
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 3: at the route?

843
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 11: Sure? So, I mean I do like her a lot.

844
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 11: I want us to work out, But I think it's

845
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 11: just a rough patch. I mean, I think it's more.

846
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 11: I think things would be different if she had her own,

847
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 11: her own job and had stuff to do out here.

848
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:31,320
Speaker 2: Sure, did she move from her place to yours?

849
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 5: Correct?

850
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 11: Yeah, she moved to the apartment.

851
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 2: Now she moved across the country.

852
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 11: Correct.

853
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, bron, you got to come have a little patience.

854
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 2: In the words of guns and Roses, wow, rock guns,

855
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 2: And I think I had a lot of patience.

856
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean it's in about three months and and

857
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 11: but every time I pick up the topic, it just

858
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 11: kind of leads to her feeling bad and done her.

859
00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 2: Luck, but trying to find a job or something to do.

860
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 4: Maybe you got it's going to do some more things.

861
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:07,399
Speaker 4: Out of the house, go for a hike, get out,

862
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:14,839
Speaker 4: do a picnic, you know, pic Like, maybe you guys

863
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 4: are just on top of each other because you're not

864
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 4: getting out of the house.

865
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 8: No.

866
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:21,240
Speaker 3: I think what I'm Josh, what I'm trying to feel

867
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 3: for both of you, is it's not fair to evaluate

868
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 3: this until she finds her her purpose, her navigation, her job.

869
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 3: Then you can make a decision. Then you can decide

870
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 3: if you guys work, but that's going to take some

871
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:34,840
Speaker 3: fair evaluation moment.

872
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:36,359
Speaker 12: That's going to take some time.

873
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 6: He can help her, he can, he can help her

874
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,760
Speaker 6: try to get a job and focus and talk about

875
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 6: it and encourage her.

876
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 2: A little more, just a little more time, patience.

877
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 3: If again, I'm trying to be on both sides of this,

878
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 3: I do think you can evaluate this only when it's

879
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 3: fair to evaluate this.

880
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 2: I know this is not what you want to hear.

881
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 2: I can tell the job thing.

882
00:38:57,040 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 4: Is one thing, but I think the conversation about her

883
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:02,479
Speaker 4: messing is and all that that can be fixed right now,

884
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 4: you know, sure, can we can have a conversation about that,

885
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 4: be like, hey, we got to clean up a little

886
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:08,480
Speaker 4: bit more.

887
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 11: I mean, how long is long enough to wait?

888
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 9: Though?

889
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:12,839
Speaker 6: How long has it been?

890
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 3: Well?

891
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:13,759
Speaker 8: How much do you love?

892
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 11: Three months? And I like her a lot?

893
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,759
Speaker 3: But well I like her a lot, careful with that

894
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 3: L word, not the other one.

895
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 2: And she hears that.

896
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 11: It's three months now here.

897
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Speaker 7: So.

898
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 2: You heard what we think? Good luck?

899
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:33,479
Speaker 8: Good luck?

900
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 2: And see I can't figure if he just isn't.

901
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 4: Into it, he's not into it.

902
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 3: If he said I like her a lot, well, bro,

903
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 3: if you love her, just wait and let's evaluate in

904
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 3: a minute.

905
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 12: He's having what is it? Buyers are more than this?

906
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 3: Sounds like he was he was not happy with our guidance,

907
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 3: you like, get rit of her. Yeah, he was looking

908
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 3: for one of us to say, oh, bro, yeah, you're right,

909
00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:03,760
Speaker 3: it's sorry, all right, Oh but let's have a picnic anyway.

910
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 3: That sounds nice.

911
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 8: On air with a Ryan Seacret.

912
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 2: All right, Sis, So what's going on with your flowers

913
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:12,720
Speaker 2: being stolen?

914
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 8: Well, there is.

915
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:15,879
Speaker 2: And I mean I don't know her name.

916
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:18,240
Speaker 4: Even if I did, I don't think I would say it,

917
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:22,320
Speaker 4: But there is a woman in my neighborhood. She seems

918
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 4: like a very nice woman. And I have seen her

919
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 4: on a walk. I see her walks all the time.

920
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 4: But you know, like with all the rain, we've gotten

921
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 4: so many flowers. Yes, yes, and they're blooming everywhere, and

922
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:36,719
Speaker 4: they look so beautiful, vibrant, vibrant.

923
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:38,840
Speaker 12: Everyone's lawns look so nice.

924
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:42,319
Speaker 4: And so I noticed the other day that she was

925
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 4: on her walk and she had a bunch of like

926
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:46,560
Speaker 4: she was holding a bunch of flowers like in her hand.

927
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 12: And I didn't think anything of it.

928
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 4: Then the next day, or maybe it was a few

929
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 4: days later, I saw her again on her walk and

930
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 4: actually saw her clipping flowers.

931
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 2: With a clipper, with a clippers.

932
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 4: She premeditated the clip, yes, and then I saw it

933
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 4: again on my camera, like my ring camera. She actually

934
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:09,360
Speaker 4: clipped them from my She took some lavender from my

935
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:12,720
Speaker 4: front lawn.

936
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 2: Is abundant and it's sealing.

937
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:17,319
Speaker 8: You know, it's fine, it is.

938
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:19,920
Speaker 3: It is what principal. So I mean, let's just talk

939
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 3: principle here. She's taking your beauty, your your flowers, your garden,

940
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 3: your landscaping.

941
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:26,120
Speaker 2: Like what if it were your tomatoes?

942
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:27,960
Speaker 3: I beat like, whoa, I don't get so many tomatoes

943
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:29,880
Speaker 3: all the time, so it can't take my tomatoes lavender?

944
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:32,680
Speaker 4: Really no different, fine, I know, but I just think

945
00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 4: it's like it's essentially.

946
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 12: It's yeah, trespassing and stealing.

947
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 4: I just feel like I think she's doing what we

948
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 4: all have thought of wanting to do, because I'm almost

949
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 4: like Yolo else me either not on their own.

950
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:48,839
Speaker 2: You all thought about it.

951
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 3: No, I've thought about going into people's bathrooms and ping.

952
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:52,240
Speaker 3: But I don't.

953
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:55,439
Speaker 4: I don't, but I know, I you know, I drive

954
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 4: the same path to go pick up the kids from

955
00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 4: school every day, and I passed.

956
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:00,399
Speaker 2: By always into their yard.

957
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 4: But I passed by so many overflown bushes onto what

958
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 4: it is the street? You know, would they would they

959
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 4: really miss all these hydranges. I'm like, no, I could

960
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 4: go there and just clip a few. And I'm like,

961
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 4: I'm kind of thinking this lady's got a good But to.

962
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 2: This lady you seemingly nice.

963
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 3: All you had to do is knock on Systney's door

964
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:20,879
Speaker 3: and she would more than likely give you a.

965
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:22,760
Speaker 6: Pair of clippers in a back wants to be bothered.

966
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 3: No one wants to knock, no for anything, Because you're

967
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:28,319
Speaker 3: a knock. You think somebody's wrong, Like yeah, you're hit

968
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 3: the floor and hide.

969
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:32,279
Speaker 6: Yes, yes, I I don't really care.

970
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 4: Because like the lavender is like kind of like at

971
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 4: the bottom, but like I have a rose bush that's

972
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:38,319
Speaker 4: kind of closer to my front doors, Like what's going

973
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 4: to stop her from coming?

974
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:40,920
Speaker 3: Like, oh my, I think we shouldn't take a sign

975
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:43,399
Speaker 3: that says no trespassing and put it everywhere and she'll

976
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 3: know who she is no trespassing or clipping herbs.

977
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 8: I just think it was kind of funny.

978
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 3: I think it is trespassing, but uh, now I know

979
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 3: not to knock on your door for something.

980
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 2: Aybody knock on your door recently?

981
00:42:57,719 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 6: No, nobody knocks on the door.

982
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 3: On the doors anymore. No, No, all right, well to

983
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 3: a woman listening? If it is serendipitous, Systey's not home

984
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:06,240
Speaker 3: right now, so clear.

985
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:11,759
Speaker 8: On air with Ryan Seacret, let me.

986
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 3: Jump to Bellflower for a second. Jessica, good morning in Bellflower.

987
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 3: How are you feeling?

988
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 2: Good morning, I'm good at doing well.

989
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 3: Thank you. So is it true you're getting back with

990
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:23,240
Speaker 3: your ex?

991
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 7: Yes, I'm getting back with my ex. We were together

992
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:30,439
Speaker 7: for We've been together for eight years, so we broke up.

993
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:31,799
Speaker 8: For one And.

994
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 2: What are you worried about getting back with your ex?

995
00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 7: I don't know. I'm just worried about, like what if

996
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,040
Speaker 7: he was I just want to know if he was

997
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 7: dating other people.

998
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 15: But I don't know why I should ask him.

999
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 7: What do you guys think I should do?

1000
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 2: Why are you getting back with your ex?

1001
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 10: Because he's working on him.

1002
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:54,840
Speaker 7: So we had broken up because he was so toxic.

1003
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 7: He wouldn't let me out with with my friends or

1004
00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 7: anything like that. So I told him he had to

1005
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 7: fix himself, you know, like where.

1006
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 3: Is he made progress working on himself to fix himself

1007
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:03,839
Speaker 3: or stuff like that.

1008
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:05,360
Speaker 11: He said he's.

1009
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 7: Gonna trust me now that I could go out.

1010
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:07,840
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1011
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 15: I guess you just have some securities with himself.

1012
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:11,720
Speaker 12: How long has it been.

1013
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 9: For what?

1014
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 2: Since you guys have been broken.

1015
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 5: Up for a year?

1016
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 2: Do you believe his words or do you need to

1017
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 2: see action?

1018
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 15: I think I need to see actions, honestly.

1019
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 7: But do you guys think I should ask him if

1020
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 7: he was dating someone else?

1021
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:29,239
Speaker 2: Yes?

1022
00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 3: Or what was he doing in the breakup?

1023
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 2: In the break ahead?

1024
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:38,359
Speaker 3: So you want to know if he saw someone else

1025
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 3: when you were officially broken up in that year, I mean.

1026
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 8: Kind of like for safety reasons, you kind.

1027
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:43,799
Speaker 7: Of need to know, yeah, because you just never know,

1028
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,319
Speaker 7: like what if we're all somewhere one day and then

1029
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 7: out of a you know, some crazy groages goes up

1030
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Speaker 7: to us.

1031
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 9: You know, I don't know, I'm.

1032
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 2: A different safety But yes, okay, Tanya, go.

1033
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 6: Ahead, Okay. So this is what I did, and I

1034
00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 6: think I think it was the path at least resistance.

1035
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 6: I wanted to know and I wanted to know details,

1036
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 6: But after that I did not bring it up again.

1037
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 6: I did not want to keep bringing it up. I

1038
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 6: didn't want to keep holding it over his head. It

1039
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 6: was a fresh start. When we decided to get back together,

1040
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:17,200
Speaker 6: it was this is a fresh start. I'm not gonna

1041
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 6: because I was I when I asked him about it,

1042
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 6: I was so fixated on it, and that was like

1043
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:23,359
Speaker 6: going down a toxic path.

1044
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 8: So I asked.

1045
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 6: I wanted to know. And then after I found out

1046
00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 6: and he told me everything, I said, that's it. We're

1047
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:33,319
Speaker 6: moving on. This is a fresh start, and that's it.

1048
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:35,560
Speaker 6: You can't keep holding it over their head because that's

1049
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 6: what I was.

1050
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 2: Doing for a little bit.

1051
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:38,319
Speaker 9: Yeah.

1052
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,280
Speaker 7: Right now, I feel like I'm going crazy just thinking

1053
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 7: about it.

1054
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:43,840
Speaker 6: You know, if you don't know, then it's going to

1055
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 6: eat at you cause you so it's.

1056
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 2: Fair to ask.

1057
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 3: You got to decide how you're going to handle it

1058
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 3: if he says yes. And I also think if you're

1059
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:51,759
Speaker 3: getting back together with him, give him the benefit of

1060
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 3: the doubt and let him show you he's changed.

1061
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 2: Let's go.

1062
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 5: Let's go.

1063
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:57,319
Speaker 7: Heay, thank you, guys, that's what I wanted to do.

1064
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 3: Go for it, prepared for the answer of yes and

1065
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:04,680
Speaker 3: how you're going to respond to that. But let's see, bro,

1066
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 3: you you said you made it yourself better and you've improved.

1067
00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 2: Let's see that. Let's go play ball.

1068
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 7: Yeah right, all right, thank you guys so much.

1069
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna ask.

1070
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 8: You good luck.

1071
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 3: See it's easy to say that, but I if i'm Abigail, oh,

1072
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 3: I'm not ready.

1073
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 12: Here, yeah, careful what you wish for?

1074
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 2: Because then a ready oh, I wouldn't be ready. I

1075
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:24,600
Speaker 2: would what if he's.

1076
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 12: Like, yeah, I hooked up with twenty girls.

1077
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 2: I don't think i'd want to ask that question. Sinn'ty.

1078
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 12: I'm with you. I almost am like ignorance is bliss, bliss.

1079
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 2: I don't want to know.

1080
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:36,840
Speaker 6: There's really two sides of the fence with it, because

1081
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:38,759
Speaker 6: I'm with her, because it would eat at me if

1082
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 6: I didn't ask and I didn't know, it would just

1083
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 6: but to.

1084
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:42,919
Speaker 4: Me it was just more is like if we're gonna

1085
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:44,759
Speaker 4: get back together, then fresh start from there.

1086
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 2: I don't need to turn the page.

1087
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 12: Yeah, I don't need to know what happened, and he.

1088
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 4: Doesn't know what need to happen with me, because then

1089
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:52,280
Speaker 4: I don't want to share my side.

1090
00:46:52,719 --> 00:47:00,799
Speaker 3: Ah, exactly, Abigail, I'm no, no, no, we gave her I

1091
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:01,280
Speaker 3: think of advice.

1092
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 1: Hopefully she still listening on air with a Ryan Seacrest,

1093
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:12,800
Speaker 1: Why don't you point seven Kiss FM Tomorrow we shall

1094
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 1: do it again, and dare I say it?

1095
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:22,799
Speaker 3: Tomorrow is finally Friday, Right, I have a good Thursday, guy.

1096
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make

1097
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:28,320
Speaker 2: sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow