1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,279 Speaker 1: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: Rod and Karen are hot. 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 2: Welcome to Vigilante eighties. So don't you ask me. 4 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 3: I'm hungry. My body's auntsy, y'all ripped through your fucking pantry, 5 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 3: peeling off like a Zandy examine my orchestra. Grandy said, 6 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 3: when I'm old enough, I'll be all there. I can 7 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 3: be your niggas, markets can be washed up, pussy fix 8 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 3: your panties. 9 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:21,240 Speaker 2: I'm missing the markets. You're getting fucked. Uh. 10 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 3: You ain't heard nothing harder since Daddy Kane. Take it 11 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 3: in vain like it just couldn't. He's the pain lightning 12 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 3: both hit your body. You throw out the rain, not 13 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 3: a cloud in sight, just the shit that I write. 14 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 3: Strong enough to stand in front of a traveling freight train. 15 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:35,200 Speaker 1: Is you train? 16 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 3: Hey? Welcome to the Blackout Tips podcast with your host 17 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 3: Rod Ed Karen, and we're in the house on a 18 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 3: Saturday morning, which means it's feedback time. So you guys 19 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:48,520 Speaker 3: should all know the drill because it's the same time. 20 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 3: It's the same thing every time. Right. You can go 21 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 3: to the Blackout tips dot com vote in the post, 22 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 3: leave comments. We read all that stuff today. You can 23 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 3: go on iTunes leave us five star reviews. If we 24 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:05,199 Speaker 3: like them, we'll read those on the show as well. 25 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 3: Let us know what country you're from. We'll look that up. 26 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:11,120 Speaker 3: And because it's by country code, leave us five star 27 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 3: reviews on Stitcher, we read those. You can donate to 28 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 3: the show the blackoutips dot com. Right there on the 29 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:19,960 Speaker 3: right hand side, there's a donate feature. We read all 30 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 3: the people that donate. No matter how much they donate, 31 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 3: we give y'all a shout out, doesn't matter the amount. 32 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 3: And what else can they do? Oh, and you can 33 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 3: leave voicemail. Seven O four five five to seven zero 34 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 3: one eighty six is the voicemail line. Feel free to 35 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 3: leave voicemails throughout the week, and if they are under 36 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 3: three minutes, we play them on the show. If the 37 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 3: other three minutes, we may or may not play them, 38 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 3: or if we're not feeling them, we'll just stop them 39 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 3: in the middle. 40 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you don't stay on topic. 41 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, if you don't stay on topic, as Karen 42 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 3: as I said, we will definitely cut that bullshit out too. 43 00:01:56,920 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 3: The official weapon of the show is an unofficial sport, 44 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 3: a bullet ball. 45 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: Extreme women. Let me rephrase that not that you don't 46 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: stay on topic, because you know, people need voicemail. They 47 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: talk about various different things. Not that if you talk 48 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: about ship that we hadn't talked about doing the course 49 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: of the week. 50 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:13,799 Speaker 3: Yeah, keep it relevant to the show, is what Karen 51 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 3: saying here, guys, and I think that's that's not a 52 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 3: lot to ask. Keep it relevant to the show. All right. 53 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 3: Let's first give a shout out to all the people 54 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 3: that donated to the show this week. We put my 55 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 3: music for everybody. Where is it at there go? I 56 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 3: dedicate this song to depression. 57 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 4: Today's a new day. 58 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 3: That's right. We appreciate you guys donating this week. 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We will wonder 86 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 1: what happened to you Harmon you hit in the back 87 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: of the church. 88 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 3: Yep, thanks Gabriel. Lynn Wood see, thank you very much 89 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 3: for your recurrent donation. Lynn Wood m. 90 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 2: The official old black man named show eight might be 91 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 2: seven years old. 92 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 3: I don't know. Cedric W thank you very much. Entertained. 93 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, and put out this. And if you seven, baby, 94 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 1: you need to ask your mama's permission before you listen 95 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 1: to this show. I just want you to know that. 96 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 3: Well it name like Lynnwood, he ain't gonta ask nobody permission. 97 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 1: For anything else right, he came out grown U. 98 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 3: Chandra G Yes, Chandra G Yes. 99 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 2: Thank you to Wanna J recurring donation. Thank you very much. Yes, 100 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 2: I hope I'm pronouncing this right. 101 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 3: Yonie or Yoan, can't tell which one it is exactly, 102 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 3: but yon A, thank you very much for your returring donation, 103 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:53,480 Speaker 3: I mean for your one time donation. 104 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 5: Thank you. 105 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 3: Calvin in Well, appreciate you. Calvin. I'm glad you're managing 106 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,279 Speaker 3: that mc donald's. I heard you think about opening up 107 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:05,239 Speaker 3: a new franchise on the on the corner of the street. 108 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:07,279 Speaker 1: Good luck, good luck. We'll support your. 109 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:10,279 Speaker 3: Gerard L. Thank you very much for your current donation. 110 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 3: Girard Terry W recurrent donator. People this week right, a lot. 111 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 1: Of first time people, says I'm going I had never 112 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 1: heard some of these names both. Damian Jackson, who I 113 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: am for real? Thank you for your current donations. 114 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 3: Jason F. New donator. 115 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 1: I believe, yes, the new members classes is getting fool. 116 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 1: We might have to expand into the U and put 117 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 1: it in two classes. Not to bad this up. 118 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 3: Conrad gonna have to teach him up good right, But uh, 119 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 3: that's everybody for the donations. 120 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:47,720 Speaker 2: Let the music play us out. 121 00:05:43,279 --> 00:06:15,039 Speaker 4: You see, this is what I do. 122 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: Good. 123 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 4: It's like sound. 124 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 1: Right now hate. 125 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:41,239 Speaker 3: Alright, alright, uh now let's get to uh. The people 126 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 3: that left five star views ites had one person I 127 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 3: just randomly found this left us one from Canada. 128 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 5: Cool. 129 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 3: Oh wait, no, no, no, no, no, no, just oh what 130 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 3: am I talking about? Will in Toronto? Did I read 131 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 3: this day walking You know, I don't remember since we 132 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:00,080 Speaker 3: started doing No, it's not yeah, it's only March. This 133 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 3: is yesterday, it says, loving the Walking Dead reviews as usual. 134 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 3: Kind of glad the reviews on Wednesdays now because it's 135 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 3: cool to look forward to at the end of the week. 136 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 3: So I guess justin getting his education on was a 137 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 3: good thing for all of us, peace y'all. 138 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: I guess it was a lot of people like it. 139 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: Like it on Wednesdays. 140 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I know at the time we do it 141 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 3: at like seven, so more people able to probably make 142 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 3: it and get home, sit down and listen to it 143 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 3: live as opposed to have it to catch it on 144 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 3: the on the itu. 145 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: True. 146 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 3: But yeah, man, you know, we love doing Walking Dead 147 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 3: reviews and I'm glad that people enjoy them. 148 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 1: Yes, not a good time with this week. That was 149 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 1: very fun. 150 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:46,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, Tebele was, you know, as always excellent guests. 151 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 3: Uh, let's see then we got some reviews from last week. 152 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 3: Kay Woods eighty nine says Karen and Rod love it. 153 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 3: Five stars. I started listening to podcasts really heavy last summer, 154 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 3: working third shift and having a family. I listened in 155 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 3: the morning on iTunes. Your show keeps me laughing and engage. 156 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 3: Every episode reminds me of family, playing space, talking trash. 157 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 3: Keep up the great work and continue touching topics the 158 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 3: mainstream won't touch much. Success and God bless Thank you 159 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 3: very much. Kwood, thank you. Sweedy Ye Simplify says overall appreciation. 160 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 2: Five stars. Grassia's poor tut show me are you do? 161 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 3: I stay at Pasar ltmfo men try try budget, try Bajaba. 162 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. You might have to google the English 163 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:37,079 Speaker 1: to translate that. 164 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:37,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. 165 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 2: I can't copy and paste from our tunes, so I 166 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 2: don't know. 167 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: Okay, so we hope it's good. But if it's not, 168 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 1: you gave us five stars, so we'll take. 169 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:50,320 Speaker 3: That late to the game. Ravenous Ravens says, of course, 170 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:52,839 Speaker 3: five stars. I just recently came across this podcast. I've 171 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 3: heard good things about it from a lot of podcasts. 172 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 3: I listened to Whiskey Wine and Moonshine, What's the tea, 173 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 3: breakfast for dinner, the read, et cetera. Three what right? Yeah, 174 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 3: but I kept putting it off. My entire life is 175 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:10,439 Speaker 3: consumed by podcast. That was my mistake because Karen and 176 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 3: Rod are really cool, smart and funny. Also, I appreciate 177 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 3: the fact that episodes are incredibly long because I listened 178 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 3: to it while I detangle, wash and braid my hair. 179 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 2: It takes, it makes, It makes wash day much less 180 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,959 Speaker 2: depressing and dreadful. Love them, Love the pod. 181 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: Oh whatever can help you get through washing? Watching Press Day? 182 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:32,079 Speaker 3: Mm hmm, that's cool. She just said watch day, She 183 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 3: said Press. What's you talk about? 184 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 1: Press? 185 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 3: She watched? 186 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 2: She watches d Tangles and brais it? 187 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 1: Oh? But then, yeah, you got a long time. I'm 188 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 1: sorry about Press. I mean just just just watching Braid Day. 189 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:48,719 Speaker 3: Love this podcast. Ways to donate listening while driving to work. Right. 190 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:50,560 Speaker 3: I used to listen to this every single day, but 191 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 3: my schedule got a bit busier. Please believe that I 192 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 3: make time for they walking though. I'll even turn off 193 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 3: the TV and skip out on soccer games. 194 00:09:57,840 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 5: For it. 195 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 2: Best thing on the show so far. Justin cracks me 196 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 2: the hell up. 197 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 3: Kind of strange though I finally went to the website 198 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 3: to donate earlier. 199 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 2: He doesn't look like what you think he would. Still 200 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:09,559 Speaker 2: my dude, though. 201 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 3: Ps ps, you guys should do that deal with Amazon 202 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:16,320 Speaker 3: where you get a kickback from all purchases as long 203 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 3: as long as you allow linked to Amazon in your site. 204 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 3: All the other podcasts do it, and you would get 205 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 3: so much extra cash every month, just saying, I'm sure 206 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 3: people would love to help out more and that requires 207 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 3: our most zero effort. They walking forever, honestly, mass So 208 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 3: many people do the Amazon thing. Yeah, thank you, yep, 209 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 3: you're right, my bad an, thank you. Yeah. So many 210 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 3: people do the uh, so many people do the iPod 211 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 3: I mean, do the Amazon thing. I don't want to 212 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 3: just be another podcast that does it and some of 213 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 3: our friends. 214 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 1: Doing and shit, we don't want to cut into you know, 215 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:53,199 Speaker 1: I mean their money that they're making off of that. 216 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 3: Also, whatever happened to food Stamp b Star Star bitches, 217 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 3: Well we did. We read food Stamp bitches. I think 218 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 3: you're thinking about you got me fucked up, which I 219 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 3: need to read and I'm gonna read it soon as 220 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 3: Karen watch it on Empire. Yep, that was the deal, 221 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 3: and she hasn't watched any of you guys. I've almost 222 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 3: finished the present episode. Pharmatist says this is hands down 223 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 3: my favorite podcast. Riding Karen on my family in my 224 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:18,079 Speaker 3: head and their relationship is an inspiration to me. They 225 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 3: are a great team. I enjoy and look forward to 226 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 3: their free shows Sunday through Wednesday. When my fix couldn't 227 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 3: be satisfied with free shows, I gladly became a Premium 228 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 3: member while I was able to enjoy my second favorite show, 229 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 3: Boss D Sports whereing Justin as a flair of ratchet pleasantries. Ah. 230 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:37,680 Speaker 3: I appreciate the time they take to produce long podcast 231 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 3: episodes as they get me through my work nights and 232 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 3: during errands, but from wh safety and my safety of others, 233 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 3: I try to avoid listening to them at the gym, 234 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 3: especially while on the treadmill. I highly recommend listening to 235 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 3: this podcast. Queue up the great work, Riding Carro. I 236 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:53,599 Speaker 3: will continue to be an avid listener. Thank you, Pharmatist, 237 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 3: Thank you Missus. TCC says hilarious podcast five stars. This 238 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 3: podc cast makes my workday go by faster. I'm laughing 239 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:04,439 Speaker 3: all day and in a great mood after tuning in. 240 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:08,319 Speaker 3: Rob and Karen are insanely funny. Keep the Epps coming, 241 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:12,839 Speaker 3: Thank you, Sweetie. Always a good episode from Love and 242 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 3: Our Phone four. I started listening last year to suggestion 243 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 3: to one of my friends, mainly on long runs because 244 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 3: the episodes are the perfect length. It's so entertaining. I 245 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 3: recently introduced my husband to the show and he loves it. 246 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 3: We binge listening to Carl days he's been together without 247 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 3: the kids. Three esclamation points. The show has everything. It's 248 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:35,320 Speaker 3: funny and opinionated and makes no apologies for it. Hey, 249 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:36,080 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. 250 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 1: I do what I want to see one I want 251 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 1: with no apologies. 252 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:47,439 Speaker 3: Rod and Karen have great chemistry, and Karen's laugh is infectious. 253 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 3: Not to mention all the great podcasts I've been put 254 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 3: onto since listening Keep the Episodes coming, guys, it's great. 255 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 1: You're very, very welcome, and we constantly we have a 256 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 1: long list of people that we want to bring back 257 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 1: and new people that we plan on reaching out to, 258 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:06,679 Speaker 1: and a lot of it is like because we list 259 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 1: is so many podcasts we can't get around and everybody. 260 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 1: So some people Roger needs to listen to and I've approved, 261 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 1: and probably some people that he's heard that I've never 262 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:17,960 Speaker 1: heard of. So yeah, our goal is to introduce you 263 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 1: guys to as many different podcasts as possible to let 264 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:22,479 Speaker 1: you guys know what There is a variety of podcasts 265 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 1: out there that you might love outside of us. 266 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 3: Barba Fettuccini says best podcast ever Five Stars. I was 267 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 3: walking down the street and listening to your show, and 268 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 3: unbeknownst to me, my laughter actually prevented me from being 269 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 3: stopped by the police, because even though I'm a big 270 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:39,959 Speaker 3: black man, they figured anyone, even a large darkie who 271 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 3: giggles like a Japanese school who giggles like a Japanese 272 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 3: school girl, cannot be a threat. Last night, your podcast 273 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 3: saved my life. Hashtag black Lives Matter. 274 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 1: Thank you. 275 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 3: That would be a lars. Oh God, it's time to 276 00:13:57,120 --> 00:14:00,720 Speaker 3: beat this nigga up. Oh never mind, let them go. 277 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 1: It looks too happy. 278 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, Rod and Karen Rock Five Stars by p s 279 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:10,600 Speaker 3: t R y C chx M A Pastry Chicks. 280 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:10,679 Speaker 1: MA. 281 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 3: I don't know their content and perspective on current events. 282 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 3: I thought provoking and often laugh out loud hilarious. Wall 283 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 3: Alert is the best addition to their regular segments. Just 284 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 3: listen to Rod read the comments. Also like that even 285 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 3: though I am often late to listen to the episodes, 286 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 3: they include feedback from the chat room during the show, 287 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 3: so I feel like I'm still in on the ratchet 288 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 3: Nick Tree and sing that aganst Thanks for all that 289 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:39,880 Speaker 3: you do and I'll eventually catch up to listen live 290 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 3: one of these days. Well, thank you for listening, and 291 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 3: you know, whether you catch up or not, we appreciate that. 292 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 3: Divided P says beyond funny five stars, Rod and Karen 293 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 3: are amazing. I love all the content. Every episode keeps 294 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 3: me engaged and waiting on the next. Thanks Divided P. 295 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 3: Thank you all these reviews, man, this is so good. 296 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 3: Last week we ain't really get none. I was like, oh, 297 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 3: these niggas hate us. 298 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 1: Now, No, it's not bad. A lot of times I 299 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 1: think for sometimes it's like, hey, don't get the reviews 300 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 1: this week, Ali one, So I thank you for everybody 301 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: that's making them for last week. 302 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 3: Delta Girl twenty nine says, welcome to the club, Queen 303 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 3: Karen four stars, Hey, I love, love, love tvg WT. 304 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 3: The synergy between Rider Karen is truly authentic, and can 305 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 3: I just say Karen's laugh is so infectious. I really 306 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 3: enjoyed your episode talking about Karen's big chop. Welcome to 307 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 3: the club, girl, you look so beautiful. Yum oh sorry, 308 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 3: everything's an Empire song for me. I don't care who knows. 309 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 3: Go up down, up down, up down, up down, up 310 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 3: down up down, shake a fast. 311 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 2: Shaking fansh looking like a bag of money. Karen, you 312 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 2: need to get in on this. You can't truly enjoy 313 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 2: these jokes. 314 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, I'm gonna sit down and binge watch. 315 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: I guess my goal over the weekend. 316 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 3: Just the kind of song make a woman love a man, Karen, Okay, anyway, 317 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 3: but you always did anyway. It is only enhanced exponentially, 318 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 3: and may you truly enjoy your natural hair journey. I 319 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 3: just want to add that I love the love between 320 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 3: Rider Karen. It is bonifid and the real deal, and 321 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 3: it just shines through everything the two of you do together. 322 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 3: Keep up to good work you too. We shall Delta. 323 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 1: Girl twenty nine shall thank you. 324 00:16:25,320 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 3: Great daily podcast by article Ice oh six wait, no 325 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 3: Arctic Ice oh six. I first heard y'all on Project 326 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 3: Fandom on the Walking Dead podcast and decide to check 327 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 3: y'all out. 328 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 2: Oh that's caring then, because I've never been on Walking Dead. 329 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 1: Dude. I yes, I love doing that with them. I 330 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 1: do that with them, and periodically I come on and 331 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 1: strain the strain. It's about time for that start up. 332 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 1: So I always have a good time with Nina and 333 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 1: John That's a Flame crew. 334 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love them. This podcast is hilarious. It makes 335 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 3: my workday go by and me and my wife stopped 336 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 3: down for group of tails. You guys are cutting it 337 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 3: to my football podcast, but they will be. Just have 338 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 3: to fall back. Great show guys. Hashtag bulletball extreme. Yes, 339 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:14,879 Speaker 3: hey man, look, football season is off right now, right, 340 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:18,480 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. Take your time. It'll be 341 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 3: back in a few months. 342 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 2: Enjoy these show right. 343 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 3: Episode eight ninety nine Krispy Klean Krispy Krean Club five 344 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:29,879 Speaker 3: Stars by CSD eight two o four. Good episode. As always, 345 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 3: I'm entertained with Karen speaks on in women's issues. I 346 00:17:33,080 --> 00:17:35,240 Speaker 3: didn't have to grow up seeing the hair thing played 347 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 3: out at home because all my sisters had long hair. 348 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:40,679 Speaker 3: But I saw it still, I learned I only scraped 349 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 3: the tip of the iceberg regarding the ir irrational importance 350 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:47,159 Speaker 3: we placed on hair glad to hear Ambers getting it 351 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 3: in again and it's still doing her thing. Monique, Yeah, Monique, 352 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 3: han't these people learn anything from Brian Williams, Bill o'readley 353 00:17:56,040 --> 00:18:00,080 Speaker 3: to the countless others caught light, I mean exaggerating. Good 354 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:02,920 Speaker 3: to know the ratchetivity is still alive and Welfare Entertainment. 355 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,120 Speaker 2: We ain't heard the last of this back and forth. 356 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 3: But as my mother used to say to us when 357 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:09,399 Speaker 3: we got in trouble, well somebody line and I know 358 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 3: that much. 359 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:15,719 Speaker 1: Oh thank you everybody. We thank you for all the 360 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:18,920 Speaker 1: filesty views. You guys definitely made up for last week. 361 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:21,359 Speaker 1: So we want to tell everybody thank you. 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Sugar Bay right saying I'm 426 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 3: torn on the monique issue. On one hand, we know 427 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,200 Speaker 3: that in order to get ahead in most jobs, you 428 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 3: need to play some kind of politics. To be seen 429 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 3: as a team player or leader. You've got to attend 430 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:28,920 Speaker 3: the company outings once in a while to participate. People 431 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:31,160 Speaker 3: want to feel like you're engaged. I'm not saying it's right, 432 00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:35,120 Speaker 3: but we've all had those shitty jobs job reviews where 433 00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 3: they rank how agreeable you are and how you get 434 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 3: along with others. On the other hand, she's definitely paying 435 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 3: the price for being too black quote unquote, She's paying 436 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:46,360 Speaker 3: the price for being too outspoken about black self love 437 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 3: and black empowerment. 438 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 2: It breaks my heart that we aren't allowed to have pride. 439 00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:53,199 Speaker 3: In ourselves before white folks see it as threatening or arrogant. 440 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:56,439 Speaker 3: Lee Daniels threw Monique under a tractor trailer and then 441 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 3: proceeded the land and playing on her don't call yourself 442 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:00,880 Speaker 3: my fucking friend, and then go. 443 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 2: On national television and say that shit. 444 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:05,800 Speaker 3: And yes, I know Monique wrote and that's saying quoted him, 445 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,360 Speaker 3: but there were better ways to respond to that. There 446 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 3: seems to be a good deal of resentment between those two. 447 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:14,560 Speaker 3: And he went on Don Lemon's show, I feel with trading, 448 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 3: I'm not Monique. That's an assholes move. Sounds like he 449 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:19,880 Speaker 3: and Monique are actually pissed at each other and both 450 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 3: took the gloves off. I wish Monique, Well, we're all 451 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 3: trying to strive and thrive in a world designed to 452 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:28,639 Speaker 3: beat us into submission. I'm gonna be real with sugar Baby. 453 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:31,919 Speaker 3: I can't really uh by the way I do not 454 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:39,119 Speaker 3: feel uh, I feel one what do you call it? Paternalistic? 455 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 3: Or like what you call somebody sugar babe? Like I'm 456 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 3: like I don't call anybody stuff like like listen, listen, 457 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:49,439 Speaker 3: sweet Tits, you know what I mean, but that's her 458 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:55,160 Speaker 3: screen name anyway. But yes, sugar babe, I feel like, uh, 459 00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 3: you you hit the nail on the head. Like it's 460 00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:00,239 Speaker 3: a complicated situation. But that's about the best I can 461 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,760 Speaker 3: sum it up. Is it just completely feels icky and 462 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 3: I and from Lee daniels perspective, I would say I 463 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 3: can kind of understand why he feels betrayed because at 464 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 3: the time he was like, an Oscar is the big 465 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,200 Speaker 3: thing for me, and it's a big thing for everyone 466 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 3: involved with this film. You seem to be the most 467 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:27,440 Speaker 3: likely person to be to achieve that level. So we 468 00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:29,120 Speaker 3: need you on board. 469 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 2: Selling yourself because you'll really be selling all of us. 470 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:33,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're selling the whole brand. 471 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 3: Yeah. And because Monique was like I don't believe in that, 472 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:38,879 Speaker 3: I feel like he's he had an issue with it, 473 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:39,359 Speaker 3: cause it's. 474 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 1: Like, well, you're not a team player. 475 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:44,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, But you would like to think that after Lee 476 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 3: Daniels has been nominated and had major success that he 477 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 3: would move on from that, like I'm done with it. 478 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:55,640 Speaker 3: I'm successful. Like it was a disagreement, but who gives 479 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,439 Speaker 3: a fuck now, But it seems like he's still low 480 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 3: key holding on to it while trying to pretend that 481 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:02,159 Speaker 3: he's not right. 482 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 1: And it sounds like, because what's what's weird about the 483 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 1: whole situation. Everybody's like, I'm not mad, but fuck this nigga. 484 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 1: I'm not mad, but fuck this bitch. I'm not mad, y'all. 485 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,360 Speaker 1: I'm not mad, y'all. I'm not mad, y'all. But y'all 486 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:14,919 Speaker 1: sticking to the fingers up at each other with your 487 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:17,919 Speaker 1: comments and your slender is, you know, post back and 488 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: forth and going on these shows and making these outlets 489 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,040 Speaker 1: like instead of, like people say, instead of picking up 490 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,160 Speaker 1: a phone call, I guarantee you y'all got each other's 491 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 1: phone numbers, instead of picking up a phone call and 492 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:31,720 Speaker 1: hashing it out, you're kind of hashing it out in public. Right, 493 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: But yet everybody says nobody has a problem and everybody 494 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,920 Speaker 1: quote unquote respects the other person. I don't know. These 495 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 1: comments and the way y'all going back quart you know, 496 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 1: it shows y'all have issues. 497 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, they talk like people that haven't talked to each other, 498 00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 3: even though they say, you know, no, no, nah. 499 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:50,840 Speaker 2: We're friends and everything's great. 500 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:53,639 Speaker 3: Nothing to see her, right, It's like, yeah, but you 501 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 3: don't sound like that right. 502 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,320 Speaker 1: You sound kind of hurt, even though you say you 503 00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:57,880 Speaker 1: not hurt. 504 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:00,920 Speaker 3: The pole of this episode was does it even matter 505 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:04,000 Speaker 3: what this pole is about? Yes? No, I'll write in 506 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:07,640 Speaker 3: my answer below yes. Fifty six percent of people said 507 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 3: it does matter what the polo is about. Forty percent 508 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,200 Speaker 3: said no, it doesn't really matter what the polo is about, 509 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,639 Speaker 3: and I'll write in my answer below. Four percent of 510 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,680 Speaker 3: people said they write there and say below. The case 511 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:20,879 Speaker 3: start says, I voted yes, but really don't give a 512 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:22,960 Speaker 3: shit as long as Rod promises to take a deep 513 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:26,080 Speaker 3: side after reading this. I do like the polls sometimes. 514 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 3: Cava Donna says the side field poll a poe literally 515 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:34,479 Speaker 3: about nothing. 516 00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 2: Well, we falling into the abyss. 517 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 3: First you watrolled out of the five star rule, and 518 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:40,120 Speaker 3: now this it's official. 519 00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:42,680 Speaker 2: We've broken Rod. Carol hugged this man extra hard. 520 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 3: He needs it. Look, man, y'all be writing responsors to do. 521 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 2: I as shit to do with the post. 522 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 3: I figured, why not just give y'all chance to essay 523 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:52,000 Speaker 3: about whatever the fuck y'all want to know? Mike and 524 00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 3: London says no, because I'm always a couple of weeks behind, 525 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,159 Speaker 3: so I'm always answering the poll before I've heard the episode. 526 00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:01,159 Speaker 3: You son of a bitch, Mike, so I often have 527 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:04,359 Speaker 3: no idea what the poe is actually about. That's my life, Mike. 528 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,640 Speaker 1: That's irresponsible to shit dog. Stop voting in the poll. 529 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 1: You're fucking up my science, damn say, and listen to 530 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 1: it first. 531 00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:13,399 Speaker 3: Listen to it first. 532 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 1: Man, You don't take a fucking geometry test and then 533 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 1: be like, oh, I can't wait until we have. 534 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,359 Speaker 2: This lesson in the chapter. 535 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 3: You do the work first. 536 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:23,920 Speaker 2: You can always go and vote in the post retroactively, Mike. 537 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, you won't lose points. I promise you won't lose points, 538 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 1: but we don't get mad. 539 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:29,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, stop being a dick man. 540 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:31,840 Speaker 1: Now, I'm gonna have to disregard your opinion when I 541 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 1: see it this ship and assume you don't listen to 542 00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:34,200 Speaker 1: the episodes. 543 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 3: See what I'm saying, y'alla me. No, sugar Bab just 544 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:53,000 Speaker 3: puts buzz buzz buzz, which I'm assuming is I'm assuming 545 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 3: that's what she means. 546 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, apparently I site won't let you lead to be 547 00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:58,280 Speaker 1: morticons I. 548 00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 3: Guess now, because that's by the way she would have left. 549 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:05,199 Speaker 3: We had episode eight ninety eight, The Big Chop We 550 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 3: had some comments on this one. This one Karen cut 551 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 3: her hair and talked about that, and Amber pe was 552 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 3: on the show. She was from Black, Sexy, Geeky and Mental, 553 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,600 Speaker 3: and uh, you know, it was a great episode. 554 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:15,719 Speaker 5: Man. 555 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,600 Speaker 3: I really enjoyed amberb and all you know, so it 556 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,040 Speaker 3: was cool. It's been a while since we caught up 557 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 3: with it. Yeah, Jim says, congrats from the Big chopcre 558 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,359 Speaker 3: you look great and I hope you enjoy the natural 559 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 3: hair journey. Make sure you post pics of you rocking 560 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,520 Speaker 3: those big earrings. Also, Rod, I think it's really great 561 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 3: that you are so supporter of Karen's decision and going 562 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,280 Speaker 3: with her to get her new accessories to set off 563 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 3: her new look. 564 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,440 Speaker 2: That support is so critical, and it's great that. 565 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,640 Speaker 3: You both can be on the journey together. I love 566 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 3: Black Love, Thanks Jim. 567 00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 1: Thank you, sweetie. That that means a lot. Yes, I got, yeah, 568 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:53,040 Speaker 1: I got is like I love them though. 569 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,359 Speaker 3: Prince Laurn says, I watched this free cast for the 570 00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 3: episode and knew something was different about Careen from the beginning. 571 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,199 Speaker 3: I didn't notice her hair because she usually has to 572 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:04,960 Speaker 3: pull back for the headphone. However, I did notice that 573 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,439 Speaker 3: her lipstick and makeup was on motherfucking fleet, keep stutting 574 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,120 Speaker 3: on them. Boom Rod hit the nail on the head 575 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,119 Speaker 3: discussing dudes ownership of their woman's appearance. It reminds me 576 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 3: of that Cidey crow Ford untouched picks that were released 577 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,159 Speaker 3: a few weeks ago. It turned out the pigs were 578 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 3: photoshopped to make her look worse than she actually does. 579 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 3: Cindy took that as an opportunity to promote a positive 580 00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 3: body image, but her husband was not having it. He 581 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,400 Speaker 3: put a picture of Cindy on Instagram to make sure 582 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:34,560 Speaker 3: everyone knew his wife still looks like a supermodel. He 583 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:36,800 Speaker 3: couldn't let the story slide because he was so worried 584 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 3: about what her perceived image would say about him. 585 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 1: Wow, I believe that because I just give it a 586 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:47,360 Speaker 1: real A lot of men are very, very very petty 587 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 1: when it comes to their women, and they feel like 588 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,719 Speaker 1: you need to be clean at all times, you need 589 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:54,560 Speaker 1: to be presibling at all times, and a lot of 590 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 1: this go to why did you did you marry your 591 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 1: wife because you loved her and you loved her as 592 00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,920 Speaker 1: she was, or it's one of those things where like 593 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:09,960 Speaker 1: you said, we'll considered property you're concern more concerned about 594 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:14,520 Speaker 1: what other people said about her than how you feel 595 00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:18,720 Speaker 1: about her, which is two different things right there. Yeah, 596 00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 1: you know, and and to me, that's very very sad. 597 00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 1: And now that goes to ownership. And like I said, 598 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 1: you don't have sex with her, with with with her hair. 599 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 1: You know, It's just I don't know. I'm just baffled 600 00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 1: a lot of times. Because it's funny though, because when 601 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 1: you talk to a lot of men, they'll say that 602 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 1: shit don't matter, but it does matter because you do 603 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 1: shit like this. 604 00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, and so he took another picture of her, which 605 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 3: was her at the side of a like a pool, 606 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 3: like a normal woe laying down. Well, no, she still 607 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 3: looks like a supermodel. I mean, I don't think. I 608 00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 3: don't think it'll let me link to the picture necessary, 609 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 3: let me see what are my options here? 610 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:05,920 Speaker 1: Okay, So this is the one that was photo quote 611 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:06,680 Speaker 1: unquote photoshop. 612 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,360 Speaker 3: They said, yeah, it won't let me. Oh, let me see. 613 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 3: I don't think it'll show. It won't show you guys, 614 00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:15,040 Speaker 3: this picture, I don't think in the chat room. But 615 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:16,640 Speaker 3: if you click on the link, you can see it. 616 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 3: He put this picture on his Instagram basically to say no, no, no, no, no, guys, 617 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 3: just that that photoshop picture made her look worse than 618 00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:28,400 Speaker 3: she really is. She's still fine. So even though she 619 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:31,040 Speaker 3: was trying to prove a point, he had to prove 620 00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 3: his point, which is, my wife's still bad. Don't don't 621 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 3: be thinking she don't look good. Guys, don't think she 622 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,600 Speaker 3: she doesn't. She has an age, she does. She still 623 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 3: looks way better than anybody else at this age. 624 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 1: And I'm sorry for and I miss maybe me and 625 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:46,239 Speaker 1: I might be wrong by saying this, but man, they 626 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:48,400 Speaker 1: think like that, you're very shallow. And as much as 627 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 1: men claim that women are shallow and women are into 628 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 1: image and women care, some of you guys gets more 629 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,680 Speaker 1: of a fucked than women do about their images. So yeah, 630 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:59,960 Speaker 1: you guys care too. Yeah So, And like I said, 631 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 1: I think the biggest problem I have is funny how 632 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 1: you know a lot of dudes are very hard on 633 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 1: that that you know that shit is gay, But why 634 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 1: you can concerned about how other men feel about your 635 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 1: goddamn woman. 636 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's I don't know, man, that's that's unfortunate 637 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,200 Speaker 3: because I do think a lot of men do put 638 00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,760 Speaker 3: a lot of stock in how people feel about that woman, right, 639 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 3: And you know, if for any reason people don't like 640 00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 3: how your woman looks, addresses or does something, it's like, well, 641 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,080 Speaker 3: that's a reflection on me, so you know, I have 642 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 3: to address it. 643 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,719 Speaker 1: Right And and I know people joke about that trophy 644 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 1: wife shit, but that shit is real, Like it's people 645 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:43,160 Speaker 1: out there. They literally they marry a woman to be 646 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,120 Speaker 1: a trophy wife, like literally, you have to keep a 647 00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,239 Speaker 1: certain image, keep a certain look, keep a certain way, 648 00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 1: be a certain way, like I married you for this 649 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:54,520 Speaker 1: reason only. And that's sad because not to say that 650 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 1: there can't be loved there. And in some instance it 651 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:58,720 Speaker 1: really is loved there and that might just be that 652 00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:02,600 Speaker 1: woman in her personality, but for a lot of times 653 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:06,960 Speaker 1: it's not. Is hey, I can't take you know, you 654 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 1: out unless you fit this stereotype of fit this image 655 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 1: and shit like that, and that's very very sad, yep. 656 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:18,800 Speaker 2: But yeah, just let her, you know, I mean. 657 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 3: And she was trying to make a point, which is 658 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 3: even worse because you know what I mean, she was 659 00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:25,600 Speaker 3: making the exact opposite point about hey, it's more than 660 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,560 Speaker 3: just our bodies and it's okay to age and bah, 661 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:31,160 Speaker 3: and then this dude's like, no, fuck that shit. People 662 00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 3: are walking around here thinking, my wife ugly. 663 00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:35,720 Speaker 1: Right, what the fuck is wrong with you? And then 664 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:41,120 Speaker 1: you have people like Madonna going around here showing pictures 665 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,240 Speaker 1: of herself and stuff like that, and it's one of 666 00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,320 Speaker 1: those things where she's almost doing the opposite. She don't 667 00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 1: want to accept that she's getting old. So people are like, 668 00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:50,960 Speaker 1: but you old, Like, we're not clowning you because you're old. 669 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:55,000 Speaker 1: We clowning you because you're dancing in here like you're fifteen. 670 00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,120 Speaker 1: And people go, no, no, no, no, no, you know 671 00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 1: you look crazy. 672 00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:04,440 Speaker 3: Yep. So we also had Teresa write in I just 673 00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:06,760 Speaker 3: wanted to tell care that I love her new hair. 674 00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:09,680 Speaker 3: I cannot think of a more adult description. But the 675 00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:14,000 Speaker 3: photos you all posted you look absolutely adorable. You must 676 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:16,640 Speaker 3: be having so much fun access rising with new earrings, 677 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:17,080 Speaker 3: et cetera. 678 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 2: My mom is not gone natural in many years. 679 00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 3: She had an afro when I was really little, then 680 00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:27,040 Speaker 3: went to a Jerry Carroll natural and nar relaxes up, 681 00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 3: keep seeing more simple. 682 00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 2: But what do I know? I just have really curly 683 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:32,160 Speaker 2: hair type three. 684 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 3: B Oh. There's types of the shit. Unfortunately for most 685 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:40,280 Speaker 3: women anyway, Many men don't have rods and my husband's 686 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:44,400 Speaker 3: attitude about hair, which is silly get it together, fellas. Yeah, man, 687 00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:48,680 Speaker 3: I don't. Yeah, I think I'm gonna stop trying to 688 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:50,840 Speaker 3: say that. It doesn't seem like a big deal to me, 689 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 3: but it doesn't. And I know it sounded repetitive, but 690 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,960 Speaker 3: I don't really see why people get so much up 691 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 3: in arms about that shit, right. 692 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,560 Speaker 1: And it's one thing that I do love so much 693 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:07,240 Speaker 1: about you, because you know, one thing about it is 694 00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:09,160 Speaker 1: that for a lot of men. You know that when 695 00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:11,480 Speaker 1: I get my hair done like this this, well, men 696 00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:15,080 Speaker 1: and women are completely different. A lot of men, uh, 697 00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:17,359 Speaker 1: like you said, if they get that number one, get 698 00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,239 Speaker 1: that number one cut. That's how they've been doing the 699 00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:21,839 Speaker 1: fifty five years, and fuck it ain't gonna change. Women 700 00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,040 Speaker 1: not completely different. I might want it loan tomorrow, I 701 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:25,839 Speaker 1: might want it short the next week. I might want 702 00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 1: it press and curve. I might feel like a weed 703 00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:29,279 Speaker 1: the next day. Fuck it, I do not know how 704 00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,960 Speaker 1: I feel. It's like, however I feel is whatever I 705 00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:35,360 Speaker 1: go with. And it's one of those things where you 706 00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:36,919 Speaker 1: know what, and maybe this is just men. I'm gonna 707 00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,239 Speaker 1: keep it real. A lot of dudes end up talking 708 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:42,560 Speaker 1: to them, talking themselves out of pussy because you're concerned 709 00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:46,279 Speaker 1: about superficial shit, like like, she would fuck you, but 710 00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,640 Speaker 1: you too concern about her hair. You know she would 711 00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 1: fuck you, but you too concern about superficial shit that 712 00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,920 Speaker 1: don't matter. Why the fuck doesn't matter. You know your 713 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:57,000 Speaker 1: wife loves you. She comes in with a haircut off, 714 00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:58,760 Speaker 1: you get a goddamn mattitude. That's what you ain't getting 715 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:01,440 Speaker 1: that motherfucking blow jobs, you know. It's like it's like, 716 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,279 Speaker 1: you talk your way out of it, and at the 717 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 1: end of the day, the happier your wife is, the 718 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,000 Speaker 1: more she will fuck you. The half of your girlfriend is, 719 00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,640 Speaker 1: the more pussy you get, the more blowjobs you get, 720 00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:12,600 Speaker 1: the most she might want them to bang you in 721 00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:14,600 Speaker 1: the cot next time. You don't know what kind of 722 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:16,799 Speaker 1: surprise she might have in store for you, But you 723 00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:18,720 Speaker 1: fucking talk your way out of it because you're concerned 724 00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 1: about superficial bullshit. 725 00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:25,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I mean even even that superficial like I 726 00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:26,759 Speaker 3: don't do it because I'm like, I'm gonna get so 727 00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 3: much pussy because I didn't say shit no, And I'm 728 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 3: like I don't even want people like because I used 729 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:34,839 Speaker 3: to kind of think like that too, as far as like, man, 730 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,040 Speaker 3: these dudes are so stupid they talk themselves out of 731 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:39,640 Speaker 3: what blah blah, but like, honestly, good good, I'm glad 732 00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:43,239 Speaker 3: you do let people know what kind of ignorance is 733 00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:45,800 Speaker 3: in your heart so that they can make informed decisions 734 00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:47,960 Speaker 3: to not deal with your ass. Like right, we don't 735 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:50,960 Speaker 3: need y'all in the genie pool anyway, so you know, 736 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:54,359 Speaker 3: at least let somebody have their eyes open and be like, yo, 737 00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:57,239 Speaker 3: this dude makes me feel like shit about you know, 738 00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:00,400 Speaker 3: my parents and how I behave and how I dress, 739 00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:02,239 Speaker 3: and I don't want to be with somebody like that. 740 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,960 Speaker 3: You know, there's nothing better than than people, you know, 741 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,279 Speaker 3: hanging themselves with their own rope like that. 742 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 5: Right. 743 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:12,440 Speaker 1: And it's funny though, how society always want a woman 744 00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:15,239 Speaker 1: to compromise for her man. But it's never a man 745 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 1: compromisable a woman. It's always she got to give up 746 00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:20,040 Speaker 1: how she looks, She got to give up how she feels, 747 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 1: She got to give up everything about herself. She got 748 00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:25,560 Speaker 1: to strip herself of her identity and everything has to 749 00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:28,279 Speaker 1: be fucking pre approved to a goddamn husband, Like she 750 00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 1: was not an individual person before she met your ass. 751 00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, and it definitely doesn't go the other 752 00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 3: way around, you know, like men don't necessarily feel out 753 00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:40,359 Speaker 3: this pressure to look good for their woman, like right, 754 00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:43,960 Speaker 3: you know, there's like there's not a there's like I 755 00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:47,279 Speaker 3: grew a beard. I get asked stuff like, man, how'd 756 00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:49,600 Speaker 3: you go that beard? Or man, I wish I could 757 00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:51,759 Speaker 3: go my beard like you man, I got beard envy. 758 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:53,959 Speaker 3: What I've never been asked is what does your wife 759 00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:58,399 Speaker 3: think about your beard? Is she gonna be okay with that? 760 00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:03,359 Speaker 3: Like so I don't think that you know that necessarily 761 00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:07,600 Speaker 3: floats flows both ways. Oh hold on, let me get wavy, 762 00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,399 Speaker 3: calm up out of here. Yeah he want to go 763 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,799 Speaker 3: all right, man, you have a good one, brou But yeah, 764 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:16,680 Speaker 3: you know, I think a lot of people feel like, 765 00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:22,040 Speaker 3: you know, they need to, you know, uh, regulate the 766 00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,280 Speaker 3: looks of the person like they're a child or something. 767 00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,560 Speaker 3: But you're not my child, you know. I do agree 768 00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:29,279 Speaker 3: that there's a certain level, like when you have a 769 00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:32,200 Speaker 3: kid or something where you're like, all right, you can't wear. 770 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:34,160 Speaker 2: Rain boots to a funeral, you know what I mean? 771 00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:37,200 Speaker 1: Like I don't need you to put some ears out. 772 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, no flip flops in the snow, whatever the fuck 773 00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:41,600 Speaker 3: it is, you know what I mean, I can get that. 774 00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:43,239 Speaker 1: Right because you know, it's kind of kind of kind 775 00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:44,840 Speaker 1: of clinde bit of consequences behind that. 776 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, but you know, if we're just gonna be 777 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:51,439 Speaker 3: like I need you to have whatever the fuck like, hey, 778 00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:52,920 Speaker 3: I want you to have. 779 00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,400 Speaker 2: You know you you want to cut your hair short. 780 00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:57,840 Speaker 3: I'm not going to stand in the way or some 781 00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,040 Speaker 3: shit like that because the end of the day, it 782 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:00,799 Speaker 3: doesn't really matter. 783 00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:01,080 Speaker 5: Man. 784 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:05,080 Speaker 3: I feel like everyone has their lines. It's just as 785 00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:05,840 Speaker 3: not one of mine. 786 00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,520 Speaker 1: So right, and that I say, And that's one thing 787 00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:11,439 Speaker 1: I can say. I look because I we'll talk about 788 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:13,680 Speaker 1: later on. But yeah, it's just the responses and things 789 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 1: like that. But we'll talk about once we get to 790 00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,080 Speaker 1: the end of this. All the feedback on head not defeed, 791 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:18,960 Speaker 1: all the feedback to feedback about this, we go ahead. 792 00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:22,759 Speaker 3: Karen's haircut is so fly, says Natasha P. You do 793 00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:26,040 Speaker 3: have the perfect head shape. The rocket sharp TWA. That's 794 00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:29,279 Speaker 3: tenuiny fro. I'd like to give you with some of 795 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,240 Speaker 3: my favorite natural hair related products if that's okay, okay, 796 00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,840 Speaker 3: hey man. The address the blackout tells dot Com slash about. 797 00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,479 Speaker 3: It's in the about section. Mel that shit on, man, Well, 798 00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:40,000 Speaker 3: definitely take a look at it. 799 00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:40,239 Speaker 5: Man. 800 00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:44,680 Speaker 3: Sugar Bab says, congrats on the new dude, Karen Bella. 801 00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,279 Speaker 3: I can't wait to see I can't wait to get 802 00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:51,160 Speaker 3: glimpses of your new hair journey. Do keep us posted 803 00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:53,840 Speaker 3: when you can and if you want to, Rod, kudos 804 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,160 Speaker 3: for being a supportive husband. I know you're surprised by 805 00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,279 Speaker 3: all the accolades you're getting as a result of this, 806 00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:01,360 Speaker 3: but trust us is rare that men support women cutting 807 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:03,359 Speaker 3: all their hair. All much love to you both. 808 00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:06,240 Speaker 2: I'm taking y'all's word for it. 809 00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:09,440 Speaker 1: It is like like it because Rogerick is just himself 810 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:13,279 Speaker 1: and Roger has never really cared. But a lot of 811 00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:15,279 Speaker 1: dudes do, you know, as much as dude try to 812 00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:17,719 Speaker 1: pretend to act like they don't care, a lot of 813 00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,160 Speaker 1: dudes do. And you do have a lot of dudes 814 00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:22,680 Speaker 1: and have the same attitude as Roger. But apparently it's 815 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:26,040 Speaker 1: rare because most women are like, let you cut your 816 00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:31,000 Speaker 1: hair and say, motherfucker, I'm not his kid, I'm grown 817 00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:33,399 Speaker 1: will and Toronto says, about to go leave a couple 818 00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:40,480 Speaker 1: of bees on these that jackasses Instagram writing damn now, yeah, 819 00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:41,680 Speaker 1: the bees is fun man. 820 00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:47,920 Speaker 3: I've been leaving bees on people's Facebook, Twitter, everywhere. You friends, 821 00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,880 Speaker 3: foes like y'all can catch these bees. Don't fuck with me? 822 00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:56,080 Speaker 3: Should encourage should encouraging someone to commit suicide be a crime? 823 00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:59,400 Speaker 3: We talked about a story where a girl was accused 824 00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,879 Speaker 3: of charged with a crime because her friend was gonna 825 00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:06,759 Speaker 3: kill himself. He was in a car with I guess 826 00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:09,839 Speaker 3: a hose going into it for carbon monoxide from the tailpipe, 827 00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:12,360 Speaker 3: killing himself, and he got out the car. He texted 828 00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:13,839 Speaker 3: her and then she told him get back in the car, 829 00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:15,600 Speaker 3: so then she got charged with a crime. 830 00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,720 Speaker 2: So, should encourage someone to commit suicide be a crime? 831 00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:23,040 Speaker 3: Yes? Forty two percent of people say yes. Got to 832 00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:24,959 Speaker 3: take away a couple percent because I'm sure Mike voted 833 00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:28,319 Speaker 3: in his ass didn't even know what we're talking about. 834 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:31,680 Speaker 3: Said yes, but not if they have a terminal illness. 835 00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:35,280 Speaker 3: So like, if you have something where you're gonna die anyway, 836 00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:39,000 Speaker 3: and I say I support you killing yourself, I encourage 837 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:40,440 Speaker 3: you to do it, then that's then that's. 838 00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 1: Not a crime if you want to do that, And no, it. 839 00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 3: Should not be a crime. Eighteen percent of people think 840 00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:48,000 Speaker 3: it shouldn't be a crime. I'm gonna be honest, I 841 00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:49,680 Speaker 3: don't know where I stand on this one. I thought 842 00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:51,360 Speaker 3: about it long and hard, and I still don't know 843 00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,080 Speaker 3: where I was standing, because like, in a way, I'm like, 844 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:57,360 Speaker 3: why should it be a crime. It's ultimately that person 845 00:40:57,400 --> 00:40:59,360 Speaker 3: has to make the decision. But then I feel like 846 00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:02,040 Speaker 3: there's got to be a slippery slope in there somewhere 847 00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:03,759 Speaker 3: where people do shit like going the internet and go 848 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:07,440 Speaker 3: just kill yourself, and then it's like Jesus Christ, obviously 849 00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:10,520 Speaker 3: I don't support that, you know, but at the I 850 00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:10,880 Speaker 3: don't know. 851 00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:12,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. 852 00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:14,040 Speaker 2: I still don't know what to standard. It's complicated. 853 00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:18,440 Speaker 1: It is very complicated. But my thing particular situation, Yeah, 854 00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:20,239 Speaker 1: she should be trying to fit the crime. I think 855 00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:22,600 Speaker 1: she should be because not at any time he was 856 00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:26,440 Speaker 1: showing distress, he was showing that he was mentally dealing 857 00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:29,920 Speaker 1: with something, and not anytime that you call the authorities 858 00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:33,239 Speaker 1: or inform anybody. And you don't want situations where people 859 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:36,080 Speaker 1: just purposely go in and just talk people into killing themselves. 860 00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:38,680 Speaker 1: You want people to be held accountable, right like, in 861 00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,480 Speaker 1: my opinion, you want people to be held accountable, you know, 862 00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:44,640 Speaker 1: and this is what he wasn't sick. He wasn't he 863 00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:48,439 Speaker 1: wasn't like on his last will and death anything like that. 864 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,160 Speaker 3: So but how is. 865 00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:54,640 Speaker 2: What am I being accountable for? I didn't make him 866 00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:55,000 Speaker 2: do it? 867 00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:57,120 Speaker 1: No, you didn't, but not at any time that you 868 00:41:57,320 --> 00:41:59,000 Speaker 1: actually assist and get him help. 869 00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:01,799 Speaker 2: Right, And I guess my question is why should that 870 00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:02,360 Speaker 2: be on me? 871 00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,480 Speaker 3: Why should that burden be on anybody to get somebody 872 00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:07,640 Speaker 3: else help If they determined to kill themselves, they're gonna 873 00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:07,920 Speaker 3: do it. 874 00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:09,040 Speaker 1: That's true too. 875 00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:09,719 Speaker 6: You know. 876 00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:11,440 Speaker 3: It's like if I saw you about to jump off 877 00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:15,239 Speaker 3: a bridge and I just drove by, like, or if 878 00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:18,880 Speaker 3: I just said, Trump, if you're gonna jump down, should. 879 00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:23,359 Speaker 1: I get charge of the crime. I'm like, I said, 880 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:24,680 Speaker 1: I'm I'm just I don't know. 881 00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,200 Speaker 3: To me, it just feels like this really gray area 882 00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:30,480 Speaker 3: where I'm like, the whole situation is fucked up. I 883 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:34,680 Speaker 3: can't imagine myself saying or doing some shit like that, right, 884 00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,759 Speaker 3: But I also can't imagine. 885 00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:41,480 Speaker 1: No. And I guess I guess in my mind, I 886 00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:45,320 Speaker 1: completely disagree with you because in this in this instance, this, 887 00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:47,480 Speaker 1: like I said, it's not like he was sick and dying. 888 00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:50,360 Speaker 1: This is somebody who is obviously going through something with it. 889 00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,440 Speaker 1: That's the case. Why do we have these services that 890 00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:54,560 Speaker 1: help people. These services are here for a reason, But. 891 00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:57,240 Speaker 3: Those services are trained, Like right, right. 892 00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:00,000 Speaker 1: Right, that's my point. That trained you. She was not true, 893 00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:02,479 Speaker 1: she was not the person talking to her to him 894 00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:04,879 Speaker 1: was not trained. But that was his friend, that's who 895 00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:09,359 Speaker 1: he texted, right, But at any time. My problem is, 896 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:13,480 Speaker 1: at any time for the care of your friend, did it? 897 00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:17,640 Speaker 1: You didn't have any concern in your heart to contact anybody? 898 00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:20,400 Speaker 1: And those assholes and people just don't care. So people 899 00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:21,440 Speaker 1: need to be held accountable. 900 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,680 Speaker 3: I feel like she's a bad I feel like what 901 00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:26,480 Speaker 3: she did was fucked up, right. I don't know that 902 00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:28,680 Speaker 3: it's a crime. I don't know that we should legislate 903 00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:31,080 Speaker 3: this is a crime. I don't know that that that 904 00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,600 Speaker 3: that I mean, maybe the president has already been set. 905 00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:36,680 Speaker 2: It just feels like it's so fucked up. 906 00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:38,839 Speaker 3: And I do think it's fucked up, and I don't 907 00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:41,839 Speaker 3: agree with it, But like should she do a year 908 00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:47,799 Speaker 3: in prison? Should she get should she get I don't know, 909 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:51,320 Speaker 3: Like you know what I mean, Like, is this basically 910 00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:56,000 Speaker 3: like assistant homicide or accessory to homicide. 911 00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:59,360 Speaker 1: Like what now now now that part I don't know, Like, 912 00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,680 Speaker 1: like I said, that's something that the courts would have 913 00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:04,120 Speaker 1: to set a president in. But I do think there's 914 00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:06,880 Speaker 1: some type of punishment. I don't this cannot go unpunished 915 00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:07,440 Speaker 1: in my life. 916 00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,720 Speaker 3: What about like if a song had like like Eminem 917 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,480 Speaker 3: when he would rap and be like kill yourself. 918 00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:15,200 Speaker 1: But see that's completely different Eminem. It's not directly talking 919 00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:17,920 Speaker 1: to this person. This this person didn't text Eminem and 920 00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:19,960 Speaker 1: be like hey, Eminem'm about to fill No, it's not 921 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,080 Speaker 1: the same. This is somebody that she had a relationship 922 00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:24,360 Speaker 1: with us. She called and she said, hey, no he 923 00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:24,839 Speaker 1: text her. 924 00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,239 Speaker 2: She texted back right, get back in the. 925 00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:30,080 Speaker 1: Car, right, and and and and and that's the thing 926 00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:32,239 Speaker 1: you know when people when you start talking about that, 927 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:36,480 Speaker 1: no music is irrelevant to this particular conversation. This, this 928 00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,400 Speaker 1: is the one person talk to and texting another person 929 00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,600 Speaker 1: and and and doing someone in a conversation. Nothing flagged 930 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,919 Speaker 1: and something might be wrong. Nothing flagged where you would say, 931 00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:49,520 Speaker 1: hey dog, I need to get you help something, you know, 932 00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:52,160 Speaker 1: like like it was just disregard for life and my 933 00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:54,480 Speaker 1: maybe I'm I'm looking at it from it was just 934 00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:57,080 Speaker 1: disregard of life, you know, like I said, yes, if 935 00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:59,760 Speaker 1: somebody's something to take their life, there is absolutely possitively 936 00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:01,680 Speaker 1: nothing thing that you could do. Please don't get me 937 00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:04,839 Speaker 1: wrong about that. But at the same time, you do 938 00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:08,000 Speaker 1: have people that are professionally trained that could help this person. 939 00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:12,000 Speaker 1: This is not somebody come in and say, hey, you know, 940 00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:14,680 Speaker 1: I'm on my dining bed or anything like that. And 941 00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:18,720 Speaker 1: I guess in my mind, because there's too many evil 942 00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:21,320 Speaker 1: people out there in the world that needs to be accountability, 943 00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:23,520 Speaker 1: they need to gotta be that. To me, you can't. 944 00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:27,160 Speaker 1: You can't just have people doing this, disregarding, ignoring people, 945 00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:28,919 Speaker 1: having people there on the side of the road because 946 00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:32,040 Speaker 1: nobody wanted, nobody had the heart to contact to call somebody. 947 00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,400 Speaker 1: But like, hey, this person, I think my problem is 948 00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:37,799 Speaker 1: that not at any time did she inform or tell 949 00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:40,680 Speaker 1: anybody that he might need help. And that's the problem. 950 00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:42,799 Speaker 1: If she would have did that, I'm like, Okay, yeah, 951 00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:45,120 Speaker 1: you are an asshole, but at least you got him 952 00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:47,680 Speaker 1: help and he still died. Okay, there's nothing you can 953 00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:48,560 Speaker 1: do about that. 954 00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,880 Speaker 3: All right, I'll read some of the comments. I don't like, 955 00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:54,239 Speaker 3: I said, I don't feel that strongly one way or other. 956 00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:57,399 Speaker 3: Lashawanna says that little girl was evil. I'm glad she's 957 00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:00,640 Speaker 3: being charged. Maybe he might have killed himself anyway, but 958 00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,440 Speaker 3: her encouraging him to continue in the act has to 959 00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:06,279 Speaker 3: be answered to. I'm not removing his responsibility in the act. 960 00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:09,520 Speaker 3: He made a choice, but he had. But has she 961 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:11,560 Speaker 3: kept her mouth shut or reached out to someone to 962 00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:15,720 Speaker 3: help him, he might still be here. Capita Donna says 963 00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:18,840 Speaker 3: assisted suicide for the termity ill is a gray area 964 00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:22,399 Speaker 3: for me. My religious upbringer says suicide is wrong because 965 00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:24,840 Speaker 3: you're ultimately playing god, but it also drives me to 966 00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:28,520 Speaker 3: want to Levier Payne, having seen the suffering of the 967 00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:31,040 Speaker 3: terminally ill, I can understand if they want to just 968 00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:34,759 Speaker 3: hurry it up already. Fortunately, there's no theological QUAGMND for 969 00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,959 Speaker 3: this teenager and the guest the race story. That kid, 970 00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:41,480 Speaker 3: that little kid is pure evil tormenting another kid to 971 00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:43,080 Speaker 3: the point of suicide for entertainment. 972 00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:45,000 Speaker 1: Well, I don't think she tormented on It wasn't like 973 00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:48,719 Speaker 1: a bullied situation. They were friends, you know. 974 00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:51,200 Speaker 3: And I guess in my mind maybe I'm adding a 975 00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,560 Speaker 3: bunch of shit because I just feel like they probably 976 00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:55,799 Speaker 3: talked about this before. He probably says something he wanted 977 00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:59,960 Speaker 3: to do. Maybe she was being supported. She in her mind, 978 00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:03,160 Speaker 3: I'm being supportive. He wants to end his life and 979 00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:06,760 Speaker 3: I'm not here to tell him he can't. Blah blah blah. 980 00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:10,560 Speaker 3: Maybe that's what she was doing. And she's still a teenager, 981 00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:13,399 Speaker 3: and that's just not a good age to be making 982 00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:16,400 Speaker 3: a lot of decisions and shit, Like I don't know, 983 00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:17,560 Speaker 3: I guess. I just feel like. 984 00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,560 Speaker 2: I don't know it's gonna come down all on her, 985 00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:23,280 Speaker 2: like you killed your friend. 986 00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:26,640 Speaker 1: No, I don't believe that she killed him. I'm not 987 00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:29,359 Speaker 1: saying that yet, and I think for me, I hope. 988 00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:32,160 Speaker 3: But we got two people saying she's evil, pure evil. 989 00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:36,000 Speaker 3: The first two responses, they don't. There's no sympathy towards her. 990 00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:39,600 Speaker 3: It's she fucking might as well the pull the trigger. 991 00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:43,400 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. I guess maybe that's the distinction. 992 00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:47,399 Speaker 3: I feel like there might be some responsibility in there, 993 00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:49,239 Speaker 3: but I don't know how. I don't know how you 994 00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:54,040 Speaker 3: legislated legally. I don't know what what you do with this, Like, right, 995 00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:56,799 Speaker 3: what do you charge her with? What much time does 996 00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:57,560 Speaker 3: she get? What? 997 00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:00,800 Speaker 1: And that's what we're agreeing on. I don't think it 998 00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:03,439 Speaker 1: should be unpunished, and that's my thing. No, I don't 999 00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:07,120 Speaker 1: think that, uh, her goal was for him to die, 1000 00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:08,719 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I don't think her whole 1001 00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:10,440 Speaker 1: purpose excuse me. 1002 00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:11,799 Speaker 3: What's for that? 1003 00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,000 Speaker 1: But but but when they have a have a track 1004 00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:19,040 Speaker 1: record of you communicating extensively with him and not at 1005 00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:22,839 Speaker 1: any point in time did you inform anybody. And I'm 1006 00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:24,480 Speaker 1: not trying to funny. I hope I have friends that 1007 00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:27,759 Speaker 1: care more about me than than the then and would 1008 00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:30,720 Speaker 1: actually call to get me some help. Maybe that maybe 1009 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:32,400 Speaker 1: the way I look at like, if that was me, 1010 00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:35,719 Speaker 1: I would want somebody to hey down, not on one call, 1011 00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:38,239 Speaker 1: contact somebody like maybe that's just me. I wouldn't want 1012 00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:40,759 Speaker 1: you to do that because I might kill myself too. 1013 00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:45,160 Speaker 3: Yes, it's a voluntary manslaughter, is what she's been charged with, 1014 00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:50,920 Speaker 3: because he was trying to kill himself in the car. 1015 00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:54,000 Speaker 3: And you know, everybody's like, if she really loved him, 1016 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:56,359 Speaker 3: why didn't she you know, say or do something more 1017 00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:59,560 Speaker 3: than what she did. But like I said, at that age, 1018 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:02,360 Speaker 3: I can see you believe in that love is supporting 1019 00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:06,360 Speaker 3: that person, you know, Like I, no, no, no, he 1020 00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:07,200 Speaker 3: wants to do this. 1021 00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:10,920 Speaker 2: We're you know, those people that make suicide pacts. 1022 00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:16,359 Speaker 3: You know, I don't know, man, she just seems kind 1023 00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:19,239 Speaker 3: of complicated, you know. 1024 00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:24,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, And like I said, and I guess everybody feels differently, 1025 00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:25,920 Speaker 1: Like I said, I. 1026 00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:28,880 Speaker 3: Just know, Well, no, I don't feel differently on the 1027 00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:31,480 Speaker 3: fact that I think what she did was fucked up, right, 1028 00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:34,080 Speaker 3: I don't know that it's a crime, is what I'm saying. 1029 00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:37,360 Speaker 3: I think it's like her lawyer says, she did not 1030 00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:39,359 Speaker 3: know what to do when she heard that he wanted 1031 00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:40,040 Speaker 3: to kill himself. 1032 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:41,880 Speaker 2: This is a tragedy, but it's not a crime. 1033 00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:47,680 Speaker 3: So you know, I don't know. 1034 00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:49,800 Speaker 1: But then my thing is, where's the accountability? 1035 00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:54,800 Speaker 3: Like and here's what she said after Carter wrote to 1036 00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:57,960 Speaker 3: a friend about her exchanges with Conrad. She's saying he 1037 00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:00,480 Speaker 3: was scared and didn't want to abandon his family. She 1038 00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:02,839 Speaker 3: said his death was my fault. He got out of the car, 1039 00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:04,640 Speaker 3: told to get back in because I knew he would 1040 00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:06,239 Speaker 3: do it all over again the next day. 1041 00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:10,040 Speaker 1: So, you know, like I said, I don't feel like 1042 00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:14,480 Speaker 1: what she's saying is, oh, you fat piece of shit, 1043 00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:15,480 Speaker 1: kill yourself. 1044 00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:16,120 Speaker 3: I hate you. 1045 00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:16,480 Speaker 1: You know that. 1046 00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:20,239 Speaker 3: I feel like she thinks she's helping him, Like you're 1047 00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:23,920 Speaker 3: in pain, you're suicidal, You're gonna take your life no 1048 00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:27,440 Speaker 3: matter what. Just do it. And if that's what you're 1049 00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:29,040 Speaker 3: gonna do, then just do it. 1050 00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:30,880 Speaker 1: Is this a coming? Is this something that they have 1051 00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:33,600 Speaker 1: done before? Like like sounds like it. I mean, it 1052 00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:37,000 Speaker 1: sounds like this wasn't a thing. This wasn't new to her, 1053 00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:41,520 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. She and and like you said, 1054 00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:42,839 Speaker 1: people do have training. 1055 00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:44,880 Speaker 3: And shit, she don't got that training, correct, you know, 1056 00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:49,040 Speaker 3: she's not a suicide prevention person. And I think a 1057 00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:51,399 Speaker 3: lot of times people look it's like, well, I reached 1058 00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:54,200 Speaker 3: out to the people I love and not everybody knows 1059 00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:56,600 Speaker 3: how to handle this shit, and especially at this age. 1060 00:50:56,640 --> 00:51:01,040 Speaker 1: And it's just right because he struggled. 1061 00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:03,120 Speaker 3: With depression and had tried in the past to kill himself. 1062 00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:08,640 Speaker 3: That's what they're saying. So you know, I don't know, man, 1063 00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:12,560 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't feel as strongly about her 1064 00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:14,480 Speaker 3: needing to go to jail everybody else, you know. 1065 00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:18,200 Speaker 1: Like, and my thing is like I don't know, and 1066 00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:20,480 Speaker 1: I wouldn't even say jail time, but I don't know. 1067 00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:23,120 Speaker 1: It's like some accountability. 1068 00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 3: I mean, she gonna feel accountable for this for the 1069 00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:27,759 Speaker 3: rest of her life. It's not like she brushed this 1070 00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:30,160 Speaker 3: off like fuck him, I'm glad he dead, Like she's 1071 00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:34,439 Speaker 3: like it was a burden on everybody, and I don't 1072 00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:36,360 Speaker 3: know what to do. I just know he was determined 1073 00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:38,879 Speaker 3: to do it, so you know, at some point it's 1074 00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:40,480 Speaker 3: just like, I guess, just do it. 1075 00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:41,719 Speaker 2: Well, I can't stop. 1076 00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:44,200 Speaker 1: You, That's true. And you know you can't just keep 1077 00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:47,240 Speaker 1: calling me and texting me and fucking putting a burden 1078 00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:52,040 Speaker 1: on me as like the untrained person that. 1079 00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:54,879 Speaker 3: You can do this with. You know, I don't know. 1080 00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:57,560 Speaker 3: I don't even like I think one of the things 1081 00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,800 Speaker 3: that we've gotten in the world is that when suicide 1082 00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:02,919 Speaker 3: said to touch a topic, that we feel like there's 1083 00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:05,480 Speaker 3: a way to prevent it. And when people kill themselves, 1084 00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:08,080 Speaker 3: we always have like you know, it's Twitter and all this. 1085 00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:10,200 Speaker 3: If you just talk to somebody and if you just 1086 00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:13,200 Speaker 3: tell them this and just let them know that they're loved, 1087 00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:15,480 Speaker 3: and I mean, I do want to do that, But 1088 00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:19,799 Speaker 3: even with all that, you can't always make somebody do 1089 00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:21,440 Speaker 3: what you want to do. They don't want to be 1090 00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:23,600 Speaker 3: Now what do you do about that? 1091 00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:24,759 Speaker 1: Right? You know? 1092 00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:27,920 Speaker 2: I don't know, you know, it just you know, I 1093 00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:29,480 Speaker 2: feel like you're. 1094 00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:32,400 Speaker 1: Kind of damning two kids, cause because one is already 1095 00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:34,640 Speaker 1: gone now, and it's like, well, someone needs to pay, 1096 00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:38,200 Speaker 1: and I don't feel like she needs to pay necessarily. 1097 00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:40,920 Speaker 3: I feel like she probably cared about this dude, and 1098 00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:44,000 Speaker 3: she lost them to trying to you know, using the 1099 00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:47,920 Speaker 3: wrong method or to you know, not knowing what to 1100 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:48,839 Speaker 3: do the right thing. 1101 00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:56,680 Speaker 1: That's true. Okay. From from that perspective, that's more understanding it. 1102 00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:58,680 Speaker 1: It sounds like this is something that they've been going 1103 00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,279 Speaker 1: back and forth with full wiles. She figured out that 1104 00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:03,480 Speaker 1: you know, he's gonna text me tomorrow, we're gonna go 1105 00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:06,040 Speaker 1: through this process over and over and over again. Or 1106 00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:08,040 Speaker 1: maybe it's just something he'll quote unquote get over. And 1107 00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:11,920 Speaker 1: that's the mistake that people make about these situations is 1108 00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:14,880 Speaker 1: that this issue was actually bigger than her. The issue 1109 00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:17,160 Speaker 1: was like, it's a lot of people that knew this 1110 00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:20,960 Speaker 1: that came in contact with him, so collectively, nobody recognized 1111 00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:23,759 Speaker 1: that there needed to be some professional help for assistance. 1112 00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:26,520 Speaker 2: Maybe they had gotten it, maybe they hadn't. 1113 00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:29,160 Speaker 3: Maybe you know, maybe he wouldn't go I don't know, 1114 00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:31,960 Speaker 3: I don't know there mustn't be more to the story 1115 00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:36,239 Speaker 3: if he had tried this several times, parents, like, there 1116 00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:40,560 Speaker 3: must be other people involved that know something. Correct, It 1117 00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:43,200 Speaker 3: doesn't sound like it was a huge secret. No, it 1118 00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:44,880 Speaker 3: just sounds like he was determined to do it at 1119 00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:48,120 Speaker 3: some point. But anyway, I'm sorry messing up cap down 1120 00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:50,880 Speaker 3: to the point. But like I said, you see the 1121 00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,080 Speaker 3: first two comments, she's evil, you know what I'm saying. 1122 00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:57,560 Speaker 3: And I'm like, wow, that's already kind of jumping right 1123 00:53:57,600 --> 00:54:01,279 Speaker 3: into the black or white, you know, like she she 1124 00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:03,040 Speaker 3: need to go to jail to type. And I'm like, 1125 00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:04,240 Speaker 3: I don't know that she's evil. 1126 00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:06,880 Speaker 1: She fucked up, she's a teenager. 1127 00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:08,440 Speaker 3: She you know, she might've. 1128 00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:10,480 Speaker 2: Fucked up, But I don't know that she is evil, 1129 00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:11,279 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. 1130 00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:14,440 Speaker 3: She probably doesn't want this dude dead any more than 1131 00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:16,520 Speaker 3: he wanted to be dead. But she also don't want 1132 00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:19,440 Speaker 3: him feeling like he gotta suffer. And for some people, 1133 00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:21,320 Speaker 3: life feels like suffering all the time. 1134 00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:22,000 Speaker 1: Correct. 1135 00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:24,000 Speaker 3: Now, for a lot of us, we can't relate to it. 1136 00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:25,880 Speaker 3: We don't have those chemical and balances, we don't have 1137 00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,759 Speaker 3: that depression, we don't have that fight, that struggle that 1138 00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:32,160 Speaker 3: other people have. So it's easy for us. I feel 1139 00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:34,240 Speaker 3: like it's almost us coming from a place of privilege 1140 00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,399 Speaker 3: on something like just tell that nigga to keep living, 1141 00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:37,520 Speaker 3: he'll be all right. I don't know. 1142 00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:40,439 Speaker 1: Sometimes it ain't that simple because I've been deeply depressed before, 1143 00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:44,200 Speaker 1: and it's not that simple, uh, to tell somebody to 1144 00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:47,239 Speaker 1: just get over it, you know, right, So it's not 1145 00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:49,239 Speaker 1: that couldn't dry And I do understand what you know, 1146 00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:51,440 Speaker 1: what you're saying from that perspective, and it's one of 1147 00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:53,879 Speaker 1: those things where once your mind gets to the point 1148 00:54:53,880 --> 00:54:57,040 Speaker 1: where you're in that particular space and area, for some 1149 00:54:57,120 --> 00:54:59,520 Speaker 1: people they never come out of, and for some people 1150 00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:00,960 Speaker 1: that's very hard to get them out of. 1151 00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:02,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I would like to think that we will all 1152 00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:05,360 Speaker 3: be our best selves and be a great support system 1153 00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:08,359 Speaker 3: and safety net for that shit. But I can see 1154 00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:09,120 Speaker 3: people fucking up. 1155 00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:09,359 Speaker 5: Man. 1156 00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:12,840 Speaker 3: Anyway, That little kid is pure evil. Tore me in 1157 00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:15,399 Speaker 3: another kid to the point of suicide for entertainment. See 1158 00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:17,160 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. That wasn't in an undergo at all. 1159 00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:19,879 Speaker 3: That kind of evil can only be from a hunt. 1160 00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:22,840 Speaker 3: In my Papa Woul verse, the Voice the Spawn of 1161 00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:28,200 Speaker 3: Yaku Carrier of ninety nine diseases, corruptions, and infidelities. But 1162 00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:32,239 Speaker 3: as eugenics elites and brainwise sodomites, why would you care 1163 00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:34,560 Speaker 3: what this blue eyed devil did to corrupt the minds 1164 00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:37,160 Speaker 3: of a child. Think my brother, now, my brother. I'm 1165 00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,440 Speaker 3: off to sell these beanie pis and incests on the 1166 00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:45,960 Speaker 3: quarter and mastered my one twenty lessons. Sugar Babe says, 1167 00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:47,520 Speaker 3: I believe in the right to go out on your 1168 00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:49,719 Speaker 3: own turns if that's what you want to do. I 1169 00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:52,400 Speaker 3: can't imagine being forced to live with the degenerative disease 1170 00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:54,759 Speaker 3: that robs you your mental faculties, or to watch your 1171 00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:58,240 Speaker 3: body with away and being constant pay That's not living, 1172 00:55:58,680 --> 00:55:59,520 Speaker 3: that's sad. Ride. 1173 00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:03,720 Speaker 1: You're right, that young girl is evil personified. Not everyone who. 1174 00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:07,040 Speaker 3: Considers suicide wants to die right there. Some do, but 1175 00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:08,960 Speaker 3: it's often a cry for help. She should have at 1176 00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:12,919 Speaker 3: least let her parents know they didn't have a suicide pack. 1177 00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:15,520 Speaker 2: He shared as painful yearning with her. 1178 00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:18,120 Speaker 3: And she just egged the mam versus saying, let's see 1179 00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:20,640 Speaker 3: if you can get some help. This bitch did went 1180 00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:23,040 Speaker 3: ahead and built a public tride on social media for 1181 00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:25,919 Speaker 3: this dude. Her heart has made a fucking stone. Yeah, 1182 00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:30,360 Speaker 3: like I said, I don't know that. I think she's evil. Man, Like, 1183 00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:34,120 Speaker 3: I think teenagers at that age that's the worst age 1184 00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:36,120 Speaker 3: to probably ask somebody, should I kill myself? 1185 00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:38,480 Speaker 1: Right? But because they're so silcient in and wrapped in their 1186 00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:40,839 Speaker 1: own world like all of us, was that you don't 1187 00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:42,959 Speaker 1: care about other people in their life. But I don't 1188 00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:46,640 Speaker 1: want to rope her into saying what that means she 1189 00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:48,600 Speaker 1: didn't care and that she was evil. 1190 00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:50,120 Speaker 3: I think she did care about this, dude. 1191 00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:51,480 Speaker 1: I do believe that. 1192 00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:53,239 Speaker 3: I really do think she cared. I just don't think 1193 00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:55,080 Speaker 3: she knew how to help him. And then she said 1194 00:56:55,640 --> 00:56:57,600 Speaker 3: what she thought was the best help, which was go 1195 00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:01,320 Speaker 3: ahead and ended, which you know, which as adults, I 1196 00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:02,440 Speaker 3: don't think any of us would have. 1197 00:57:02,360 --> 00:57:03,120 Speaker 1: Said, right. 1198 00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:07,200 Speaker 3: But I don't know. So, Yeah, it should be criminal 1199 00:57:07,239 --> 00:57:09,480 Speaker 3: act as much as you're telling someone to go kill 1200 00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:12,880 Speaker 3: someone else. I live with the roommate once who told 1201 00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:15,839 Speaker 3: me she had taking pills because she was tired of living. 1202 00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:18,200 Speaker 3: I was twenty one. I got up, called a cab 1203 00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:20,480 Speaker 3: to take her to the hospital and promptly gave call 1204 00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:23,200 Speaker 3: her strange parents. She was living and never spoke to 1205 00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:25,920 Speaker 3: me again for calling her parents. I was unmoved. It 1206 00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:28,120 Speaker 3: could be viewed a selfish move on my part, because 1207 00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:29,880 Speaker 3: in no way am I letting you die my presence. 1208 00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:31,640 Speaker 3: Go die somewhere else if that's what you really want 1209 00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:33,560 Speaker 3: to do, and if I could do it over again, 1210 00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:35,440 Speaker 3: I would do the same thing. There are secrets, and 1211 00:57:35,480 --> 00:57:38,400 Speaker 3: there are secrets. That's not a secret, that's a burden. 1212 00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:40,640 Speaker 3: I'm not here to discourage people who want to excise 1213 00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:42,640 Speaker 3: the right to die, but I feel pretty offul for 1214 00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:45,280 Speaker 3: the rest of my life if I willfully encourage your 1215 00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:48,680 Speaker 3: ass to die, not notify your peeps. I agree, and 1216 00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:52,080 Speaker 3: I think she's gonna feel bad. Honestly, I don't necessarily 1217 00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:55,680 Speaker 3: believe in hell, but I hope she gets used infections 1218 00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:57,400 Speaker 3: the very itchy cord every day for the rest of 1219 00:57:57,400 --> 00:57:57,720 Speaker 3: her life. 1220 00:57:57,760 --> 00:57:58,440 Speaker 1: She's Lord. 1221 00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:05,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, here's the thing I will say, though, Uh, 1222 00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:11,200 Speaker 3: reaching out to somebody is definitely a sign that you 1223 00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:14,600 Speaker 3: don't that you might not want to do it. And 1224 00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:20,400 Speaker 3: the fact that she didn't feel like, let's continue to fight, 1225 00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:23,439 Speaker 3: you know, you need to continue to fight to live. 1226 00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:26,720 Speaker 3: That does say something about everything, but that could just 1227 00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:30,200 Speaker 3: be because they had so many conversations and she was 1228 00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:33,920 Speaker 3: worn down and she's not mentally ready to handle that. 1229 00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:36,920 Speaker 1: Kind of a child. I don't want to say a child. 1230 00:58:36,640 --> 00:58:40,400 Speaker 3: But eighteen is a child because we say that ship 1231 00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:42,240 Speaker 3: when we talk about kids going to college for the 1232 00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:44,720 Speaker 3: n C double A. We say that shit about kids 1233 00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:46,840 Speaker 3: when they fuck up. We say that shit about Mike Brown, 1234 00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:49,520 Speaker 3: We say that, like, eighteen is a kid. Just because 1235 00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:51,800 Speaker 3: you're a white girl doesn't make you not a kid. 1236 00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:54,760 Speaker 1: It's not a good age. I don't think it's a 1237 00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:56,880 Speaker 1: good age to judge the decision she made. 1238 00:58:56,720 --> 00:58:59,920 Speaker 2: That night as the be all end all to her 1239 00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:02,120 Speaker 2: correct I. 1240 00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:03,360 Speaker 3: Really just think she fucked up. 1241 00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:03,520 Speaker 1: Man. 1242 00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:05,240 Speaker 3: Maybe she didn't think he would do it. She could 1243 00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:07,200 Speaker 3: have also been trying that tough love shit with like 1244 00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,400 Speaker 3: well just do it then, because you think they're not 1245 00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:12,760 Speaker 3: gonna do it right because and then you think that'll 1246 00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:14,680 Speaker 3: shake them out of it, like, oh, I can't do it. 1247 00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:16,760 Speaker 2: I do want to live, and maybe that motherfuckers like 1248 00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:17,680 Speaker 2: I don't want to live. 1249 00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:20,840 Speaker 3: Jim says. I voted yes in the poll because I 1250 00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:23,800 Speaker 3: consider encouraging someone to commit suicide and assisted suicide for 1251 00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:26,440 Speaker 3: those terminally ill, it's two different things. It can be 1252 00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:29,440 Speaker 3: very fine, hard to define line but I think there 1253 00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:32,480 Speaker 3: is one. I think there is one. Even professionals who 1254 00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:35,280 Speaker 3: assist terminally ill people should not be encouraging them to die. 1255 00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:37,840 Speaker 3: They should be providing safe assistance and piecing out for 1256 00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:40,200 Speaker 3: folks who have made the decision on their own, and 1257 00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:42,840 Speaker 3: not saying, oh, yeah, you should definitely kill yourself. It 1258 00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:44,760 Speaker 3: will only get worse. He'll let me help you. The 1259 00:59:44,880 --> 00:59:48,120 Speaker 3: terminally ill people seem like an especially vulnerable population. So yeah, 1260 00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:51,840 Speaker 3: anyone who encourages or coers is someone to take their life. Shit. 1261 00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:53,960 Speaker 2: Definitely have to face law, face the law. 1262 00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:57,440 Speaker 3: Chris Laurent says, I got to say yes because I 1263 00:59:57,520 --> 01:00:00,680 Speaker 3: believe that she was coercing he'll to commit suicide, not 1264 01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:04,840 Speaker 3: encouraging him. It would be different if he was staunch 1265 01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:07,320 Speaker 3: on killing himself, but he wasn't. All of his last 1266 01:00:07,360 --> 01:00:09,680 Speaker 3: messages were about him not wanting to do it. I 1267 01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:12,600 Speaker 3: would not be surprised the original idea suicide was planted 1268 01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:14,960 Speaker 3: by her. I read a few articles about the girl, 1269 01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:18,800 Speaker 3: and she is a complete sociopath. What she had several 1270 01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:22,720 Speaker 3: anti suicide support groups and started charity after she coerced 1271 01:00:22,760 --> 01:00:27,120 Speaker 3: him to kill himself. I don't know. I feel like 1272 01:00:27,200 --> 01:00:30,840 Speaker 3: we might be I don't know, we might be reading 1273 01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:34,760 Speaker 3: this wrong. I mean differently, I don't think that I 1274 01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:37,960 Speaker 3: think we gotta go further to prove coercion. I think 1275 01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:41,160 Speaker 3: coercion is more like I don't want to kill myself. 1276 01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:42,080 Speaker 3: Kill yourself. 1277 01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:48,520 Speaker 1: Yes, you need, yeah, but I don't know. 1278 01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:51,480 Speaker 3: Maybe if they didn't care about each other, because it's 1279 01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:54,840 Speaker 3: like her ex boyfriend and shit, I don't know. I 1280 01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:58,040 Speaker 3: just don't feel that strong about it. Teresa says in 1281 01:00:58,120 --> 01:01:00,840 Speaker 3: this case, she wasn't supporting his choice. She coerced him, 1282 01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:04,880 Speaker 3: then she played sad to get sympathy for losing her 1283 01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:08,040 Speaker 3: ex boyfriend slash friend. I believe that people who are 1284 01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:10,000 Speaker 3: terminally ill should had an option to end them their 1285 01:01:10,040 --> 01:01:13,640 Speaker 3: lives in their all terms. With people with severe With 1286 01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:16,080 Speaker 3: people with severe mental illness, it's a huge gray area. 1287 01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:20,080 Speaker 3: Mental anguish could be just debilitating this physical pain, except 1288 01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:23,640 Speaker 3: the alleviation of the pain that is uncertain. So would 1289 01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:27,080 Speaker 3: y'all consider his depression because I just read that article 1290 01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:28,800 Speaker 3: that said he was depressed and had tried to kill 1291 01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:32,400 Speaker 3: himself before. I mean, I feel like it's a leap 1292 01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:35,120 Speaker 3: to say she and she implanted that idea. That's a 1293 01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:38,840 Speaker 3: leap to say she encouraged. It is a leap. If 1294 01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:43,440 Speaker 3: he had done these things before without her being involved, 1295 01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:47,960 Speaker 3: why say she was the person who made him do it? 1296 01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:48,320 Speaker 1: You know? 1297 01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:54,280 Speaker 3: Especially that also takes away the idea of depression being 1298 01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:58,560 Speaker 3: a serious thing that people have to deal with. If 1299 01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:02,560 Speaker 3: he's been dealing with depression before her and after her, 1300 01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:04,560 Speaker 3: and during dealing with her, and shit, it could just 1301 01:02:04,680 --> 01:02:07,320 Speaker 3: be that he has this fight that he's gonna have 1302 01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:09,440 Speaker 3: to fight no matter what, no matter who's involved in 1303 01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:15,960 Speaker 3: his life. So mental anguish can be just asking someone 1304 01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:18,560 Speaker 3: to carry on through that could be considered cruel, but 1305 01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:20,200 Speaker 3: I stopped short of saying it should be in the 1306 01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:24,000 Speaker 3: same way as terminally ill. Yeah, I guess, I guess. 1307 01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:26,440 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know what the distinction is. Like, 1308 01:02:28,840 --> 01:02:31,880 Speaker 3: I don't feel like it's my place to tell somebody. Yeah, no, 1309 01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:35,120 Speaker 3: you can kill yourself, Kyle says, I read a few 1310 01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:37,840 Speaker 3: blog posts. I can only like, I can only tell 1311 01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:39,640 Speaker 3: you that you mean a lot to me, and I 1312 01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:42,320 Speaker 3: don't want to see that happen. Correct, And maybe that's 1313 01:02:42,400 --> 01:02:44,880 Speaker 3: me being selfish, putting my knees above yours. I can 1314 01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:47,880 Speaker 3: only tell you I don't want you to not be here. 1315 01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:49,320 Speaker 1: Right, that's how I feel. 1316 01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:51,200 Speaker 2: That's the only way, that's the only way I can 1317 01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:51,760 Speaker 2: express it. 1318 01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:57,360 Speaker 3: But if we're being truthful, that's me being selfish, because 1319 01:02:57,360 --> 01:02:59,800 Speaker 3: that's not even about you anymore. That's about me wanting 1320 01:02:59,840 --> 01:03:02,680 Speaker 3: you to be here from my experience as well, and 1321 01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:04,520 Speaker 3: believing that that will. 1322 01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:10,400 Speaker 2: Somehow make your experience in life better too. 1323 01:03:10,760 --> 01:03:13,360 Speaker 1: That's true. And also it's coming from a place of Hey, 1324 01:03:13,560 --> 01:03:15,320 Speaker 1: I know that there are other people out there that 1325 01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:19,160 Speaker 1: need and support and depend on you and love you 1326 01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:20,120 Speaker 1: outside of just me. 1327 01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:24,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I've never had suicidal level depression, so I'm 1328 01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:26,600 Speaker 3: also speaking from a place of privilege when I. 1329 01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:29,000 Speaker 2: Say like, no, no, no, it's gonna just stick around 1330 01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:29,680 Speaker 2: it to get better. 1331 01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:33,880 Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm only just hoping. I just don't 1332 01:03:33,920 --> 01:03:35,600 Speaker 3: want you to go, because I feel like that's giving 1333 01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:39,320 Speaker 3: up one hundred percent of a chance for anything positive 1334 01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:41,680 Speaker 3: to happen, and I'm hoping that positive things can happen. 1335 01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:42,560 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1336 01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:46,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. And I guess from just from my 1337 01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:50,560 Speaker 1: perspective from being in like a deep dark hole periods 1338 01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:53,760 Speaker 1: of my life and just mentally baltaning things, that it 1339 01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:58,200 Speaker 1: is hard to come out of those places. And you know, 1340 01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:01,479 Speaker 1: for some people, they do need encouragement, and those people 1341 01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:04,600 Speaker 1: dare to says, hey, you know, you're not alone, I'm 1342 01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:06,520 Speaker 1: here for you, and things like that, they help pull 1343 01:04:06,640 --> 01:04:10,840 Speaker 1: them out of that. But for some people they don't 1344 01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:11,520 Speaker 1: want to come out. 1345 01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:12,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1346 01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:15,000 Speaker 2: I mean, and then you know, you might have to 1347 01:04:15,080 --> 01:04:18,080 Speaker 2: get medicine, you might have to talk to therapists. 1348 01:04:18,120 --> 01:04:20,040 Speaker 1: It's a lot, you know, it can be work, a 1349 01:04:20,080 --> 01:04:21,160 Speaker 1: whole lot of work, you know. 1350 01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:25,320 Speaker 3: So, like I said, I know how I feel about it, 1351 01:04:25,360 --> 01:04:28,240 Speaker 3: and I know how I feel about people killing themselves, 1352 01:04:28,280 --> 01:04:30,440 Speaker 3: and I don't want them to do it. But I 1353 01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:32,720 Speaker 3: also know that I'm not the I don't get to 1354 01:04:32,840 --> 01:04:35,400 Speaker 3: say yeah or nay, Like it doesn't really matter what 1355 01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:37,360 Speaker 3: I think. At the end of the day, it's what 1356 01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:41,440 Speaker 3: they want to do. Kyle says. I read a few 1357 01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:43,560 Speaker 3: blog posts from people who have tried to commit suicide, 1358 01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:45,280 Speaker 3: and a lot of them say that they're glad they 1359 01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:47,600 Speaker 3: failed and regretted trying to kill themselves. So to me, 1360 01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:49,919 Speaker 3: it sounds like the young man was having secondthods until 1361 01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:51,360 Speaker 3: he was convinced to go back in the car by 1362 01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:53,560 Speaker 3: the girl. Now, I may be biased because a lot 1363 01:04:53,560 --> 01:04:55,720 Speaker 3: of people try to commit suicide have an undertake the 1364 01:04:56,240 --> 01:04:58,959 Speaker 3: middal illness and as somebody who has a close family 1365 01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:01,080 Speaker 3: member with a mental illness, I believe they should put 1366 01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:04,320 Speaker 3: her ass under the prison that or have Beyonce said 1367 01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:09,200 Speaker 3: to be high to her Instagram. Yeah, got pretty serious. 1368 01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:12,400 Speaker 1: And now they'll stinker to death. But before we move 1369 01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:17,240 Speaker 1: on past the big chop, it's been an interesting week 1370 01:05:17,240 --> 01:05:20,440 Speaker 1: because this week is my first full week back at 1371 01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:23,959 Speaker 1: work since I got my hair cut. And it's been fun. 1372 01:05:24,040 --> 01:05:26,240 Speaker 1: And I know we were joking about it when we 1373 01:05:26,240 --> 01:05:28,640 Speaker 1: went to go see a lady play basketball today. But 1374 01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:31,680 Speaker 1: for a lot of people either they was ooh, I 1375 01:05:31,800 --> 01:05:33,960 Speaker 1: like your hair. Either they just act like nothing happened. 1376 01:05:34,320 --> 01:05:36,920 Speaker 1: Other people come into the room and say something. Then 1377 01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:39,600 Speaker 1: they felt like a relief. So I don't know if 1378 01:05:39,640 --> 01:05:41,600 Speaker 1: they thought I was gonna be like getting mad and 1379 01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:43,520 Speaker 1: getting nasty or anything like that. 1380 01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:44,840 Speaker 3: Who thought this? 1381 01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:49,400 Speaker 1: No one said something coworkers at work like I would 1382 01:05:49,400 --> 01:05:51,040 Speaker 1: be coming, and you know a lot of people said, oh, 1383 01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:53,040 Speaker 1: it's pretty how some people they just wouldn't say anything, 1384 01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:55,560 Speaker 1: like they would just act like nothing happened, and then 1385 01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:58,280 Speaker 1: somebody else would come in the room and say something, 1386 01:05:58,360 --> 01:06:01,240 Speaker 1: and then they would feel relieved, like okay, we can 1387 01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:04,600 Speaker 1: talk about your hair, you know, and then we moved on. 1388 01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:06,640 Speaker 1: So it's been a fun round. I got so many 1389 01:06:07,080 --> 01:06:11,360 Speaker 1: compliments and things like that. And I've said it before, 1390 01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:13,360 Speaker 1: but I want to say this again. I think everybody 1391 01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:15,720 Speaker 1: it meant a lot to me. To see all the 1392 01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:19,920 Speaker 1: photos of people's kids and photos of the family and 1393 01:06:20,120 --> 01:06:24,360 Speaker 1: husbands and wives and all the pictures they riterated met 1394 01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:29,000 Speaker 1: a lot was very encouraging. I feel so so loved 1395 01:06:29,080 --> 01:06:32,760 Speaker 1: and just so welcomed, Like I can't explain it. It's 1396 01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:35,120 Speaker 1: just a happy place to be right now, and just 1397 01:06:35,200 --> 01:06:37,840 Speaker 1: a loving support for my husband means the world to me. 1398 01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:43,840 Speaker 3: Episode eight ninety nine, Krispy Kreen Club Karate Karen discussed 1399 01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:49,720 Speaker 3: Karen's coworkers reactions to her do. Jim says, it's never 1400 01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:52,000 Speaker 3: not funny to me to hear Rod type out his 1401 01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:55,320 Speaker 3: comment on ball alert, I cackle that. How does it 1402 01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:56,440 Speaker 3: feel well played? 1403 01:06:56,480 --> 01:06:56,640 Speaker 5: Sir? 1404 01:06:58,320 --> 01:06:58,600 Speaker 1: Capa? 1405 01:06:58,640 --> 01:07:01,680 Speaker 3: Donna says, oh, guess the right. The section was filled 1406 01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:03,840 Speaker 3: with oh the guest. The race section was filled with 1407 01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:07,520 Speaker 3: classic ratchet. But let's focus on the three stories about 1408 01:07:07,600 --> 01:07:12,600 Speaker 3: school and college, all right? Number one? All of the 1409 01:07:12,720 --> 01:07:15,120 Speaker 3: negroes who guess white on that ass whooping guess the 1410 01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:17,480 Speaker 3: race story. Need to revoke that black car beating your 1411 01:07:17,560 --> 01:07:19,520 Speaker 3: kid and sending them to school with an offensive and 1412 01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:22,480 Speaker 3: misspelled sign on her that just schemes galaxy. That just 1413 01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:27,920 Speaker 3: screams galaxy grasshoppers. Oh two, and that special needs principal 1414 01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:30,400 Speaker 3: man listen, that evil Manna's love of torture and those 1415 01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:34,800 Speaker 3: kids is beyond disturbing. The reason she only got suspension 1416 01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:38,680 Speaker 3: in CAM immediately is the double edged sword of tenure. 1417 01:07:40,000 --> 01:07:43,000 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she didn't get she didn't get fired, she 1418 01:07:43,120 --> 01:07:46,200 Speaker 3: got Yeah, just the suspension. The same functions that protect 1419 01:07:46,280 --> 01:07:50,160 Speaker 3: teachers from being immediately fired for teaching your kid evolution 1420 01:07:50,400 --> 01:07:53,720 Speaker 3: or comparative religion is the same protection that allows this 1421 01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:59,080 Speaker 3: spawn of yakoub abused to abuse the vulnerable children. She 1422 01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:01,160 Speaker 3: was the worst. She was like a villain in a 1423 01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:04,920 Speaker 3: bag in a movie. What they record? You know, all 1424 01:08:05,040 --> 01:08:08,320 Speaker 3: bad movies had that part where I hate this ship, 1425 01:08:08,480 --> 01:08:12,720 Speaker 3: but they always like have a microphone. They broadcast the 1426 01:08:12,800 --> 01:08:16,679 Speaker 3: bad guys confession like live and Ship, and then everybody 1427 01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:19,400 Speaker 3: realized they're a bad person. Was like all of your 1428 01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:20,160 Speaker 3: own foods. 1429 01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:26,559 Speaker 7: I was behind everything. I killed Joe Mom, I raped 1430 01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:32,920 Speaker 7: the dogs. I was the one who burned all the children. 1431 01:08:32,840 --> 01:08:36,200 Speaker 3: Like, oh, is this right? 1432 01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:40,640 Speaker 2: And it's like, well, guess what you just told everybody 1433 01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:41,639 Speaker 2: that you're the bad. 1434 01:08:41,479 --> 01:08:44,000 Speaker 3: Guy, Martin Luther King. You just got served. This is 1435 01:08:44,040 --> 01:08:45,320 Speaker 3: the end of Selma, like. 1436 01:08:48,400 --> 01:08:50,320 Speaker 1: I always have to do that ship and and and 1437 01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:53,000 Speaker 1: it felt like that because she was just like, you're 1438 01:08:53,120 --> 01:08:54,960 Speaker 1: all stupid retards. 1439 01:08:55,360 --> 01:08:58,240 Speaker 3: Come up to the front and say you retarded, you 1440 01:08:58,360 --> 01:08:59,760 Speaker 3: retarded targe like. 1441 01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:04,559 Speaker 1: This is Haavening Frank in real life. 1442 01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:07,960 Speaker 3: What an idiot? Now that they're gonna cut she should 1443 01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:12,240 Speaker 3: be charged with assistant suicide. Yes, yeah, even if none 1444 01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:13,280 Speaker 3: of the kids, he'll kill them. 1445 01:09:13,479 --> 01:09:15,120 Speaker 1: You No, you need to be charged anyway. 1446 01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:17,519 Speaker 3: The Christian College fir and the dude for exposing the 1447 01:09:17,560 --> 01:09:21,120 Speaker 3: biggot dean again. Like I said, I'm not surprised. And 1448 01:09:21,240 --> 01:09:23,519 Speaker 3: if that group will tell about old girl getting in 1449 01:09:23,560 --> 01:09:27,560 Speaker 3: there with D'Angelo back in the heyday of voodoo, that 1450 01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:30,800 Speaker 3: slice of devil's pie must have been worthy. Since she 1451 01:09:30,960 --> 01:09:34,840 Speaker 3: left girlfriend wet with since the Clinton since his left 1452 01:09:34,880 --> 01:09:38,800 Speaker 3: girlfriend wet since the Clinton administration. Right, he got that 1453 01:09:38,880 --> 01:09:42,720 Speaker 3: old chicken grease because she got one more again. She 1454 01:09:42,920 --> 01:09:46,080 Speaker 3: writing about an encounter from my freshman year in college. 1455 01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:49,240 Speaker 3: She definitely got a Jones in her bones. Now back 1456 01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:53,240 Speaker 3: to that Black Messiah before a brother Clock's out. Will 1457 01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:55,439 Speaker 3: and Toronto says, loving my fucking ass off car and 1458 01:09:55,560 --> 01:09:59,679 Speaker 3: killing me with the weed segment, y'all might gotta add 1459 01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:01,640 Speaker 3: we there is a season on the future lists like 1460 01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:06,280 Speaker 3: a good podcast. No No Sugar Base says, I don't 1461 01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:08,040 Speaker 3: care what y'all say. I ain't mad at old girl 1462 01:10:08,080 --> 01:10:10,559 Speaker 3: for trying to get with di'angelo. Under other circumstances, I'd 1463 01:10:10,560 --> 01:10:12,639 Speaker 3: be trying to get with the Black Messiah back then. 1464 01:10:13,160 --> 01:10:15,400 Speaker 3: I would have gladly gotten high off of his love 1465 01:10:15,560 --> 01:10:20,519 Speaker 3: fans herself. AJJ Engineer says, over the past few weeks, 1466 01:10:20,600 --> 01:10:23,160 Speaker 3: y'all have been skipping over fucking with black people because 1467 01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:25,800 Speaker 3: the stories covered did have us fucked with. I was 1468 01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:28,320 Speaker 3: actually beginning to miss the segment until today. I still 1469 01:10:28,400 --> 01:10:30,320 Speaker 3: enjoyed the theme show on, but that was about it. 1470 01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:32,920 Speaker 3: We've been getting fucked too much. We've been getting too 1471 01:10:33,000 --> 01:10:35,880 Speaker 3: fucked with Karen Rodd. I had to rewind the radio 1472 01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:37,800 Speaker 3: host about three different times to really hear what she 1473 01:10:37,880 --> 01:10:40,160 Speaker 3: had to say. Maybe I'm wanted the dumb cluts she 1474 01:10:40,280 --> 01:10:42,800 Speaker 3: was talking about, But hold up, this lady is a 1475 01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:45,559 Speaker 3: Tea Party member. This is the same Tea Party that says, 1476 01:10:45,640 --> 01:10:47,759 Speaker 3: don't tread on me and give me back my rights, 1477 01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:50,519 Speaker 3: but didn't have anything to say on many of the 1478 01:10:50,600 --> 01:10:52,680 Speaker 3: events that happened between black folks and the police in 1479 01:10:52,760 --> 01:10:56,480 Speaker 3: twenty fourteen, you know, where people actually had their constitutional 1480 01:10:56,560 --> 01:10:58,960 Speaker 3: rights taken away. This is the same Tea Party that 1481 01:10:59,040 --> 01:11:03,000 Speaker 3: elects tear r politicians based upon their level of hatred 1482 01:11:03,040 --> 01:11:05,679 Speaker 3: of Congress right, the same tea party that wants guns 1483 01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:08,080 Speaker 3: for everybody, but it's okay with police gunning down young 1484 01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:11,160 Speaker 3: black kids holding toy pistols and bb guns. Once a 1485 01:11:11,240 --> 01:11:13,200 Speaker 3: person says Tea Party, I find it hard to listen 1486 01:11:13,280 --> 01:11:15,920 Speaker 3: to anything that comes out of their mouth. That group 1487 01:11:16,080 --> 01:11:19,519 Speaker 3: is walking and talking contradiction. Fuck that bitch, her shitty 1488 01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:22,479 Speaker 3: radio show and the sponsors who supported I'll leave it 1489 01:11:22,600 --> 01:11:24,400 Speaker 3: on the compliment and say that, of course I love 1490 01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:27,160 Speaker 3: the show, but I also very very happy how the 1491 01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:29,320 Speaker 3: show gets better and better day after day. We got 1492 01:11:29,400 --> 01:11:32,559 Speaker 3: the week. I will gladly be renewing my premium membership 1493 01:11:32,600 --> 01:11:36,760 Speaker 3: this year. Peace y'all, Thank you, sweetie, Thanks AJ. That 1494 01:11:36,880 --> 01:11:40,080 Speaker 3: woman was a piece of shit, though the worst Ansie 1495 01:11:40,160 --> 01:11:42,439 Speaker 3: David says Rod, what kind of pole is this? 1496 01:11:43,439 --> 01:11:43,880 Speaker 1: The pole? 1497 01:11:43,920 --> 01:11:46,479 Speaker 3: Who do I believe? Between Monique and Lee Daniels? Why 1498 01:11:46,560 --> 01:11:50,040 Speaker 3: didn't you have an answer of who cares well? I 1499 01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:52,160 Speaker 3: try to leave you niggas from Lee waye. Y'all always 1500 01:11:52,200 --> 01:11:55,280 Speaker 3: fuck it up. So I decided to keep. I almost 1501 01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:57,880 Speaker 3: put that on there, and I decided to nope, because 1502 01:11:57,920 --> 01:12:00,760 Speaker 3: one y'all lying, If you don't care, don't vote in 1503 01:12:00,760 --> 01:12:04,000 Speaker 3: the pole. That would be the other option. I just 1504 01:12:04,040 --> 01:12:06,559 Speaker 3: think it's a publicity stunt for her new independent movie, 1505 01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:11,480 Speaker 3: Caring On with You. I will be celebrating kk KKK Dad, chrispy. 1506 01:12:11,280 --> 01:12:15,519 Speaker 1: Kreme y'all as we actually went to Creepy Kream that night. 1507 01:12:17,200 --> 01:12:22,080 Speaker 3: Mm hmmm. So the poll, who do you believe Monique 1508 01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:27,200 Speaker 3: or Lee Daniels? The results fifty four percent believe Lee Daniels, 1509 01:12:27,240 --> 01:12:30,720 Speaker 3: forty six Monique, Man, that was close, real close. Her 1510 01:12:30,800 --> 01:12:31,840 Speaker 3: keen lion rights in. 1511 01:12:32,680 --> 01:12:39,080 Speaker 2: She deal with all night. She going hard ride. She 1512 01:12:39,320 --> 01:12:40,400 Speaker 2: loved a spotlight. 1513 01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:46,360 Speaker 6: She made that thing go drip drop drip drip, pity drop, 1514 01:12:46,920 --> 01:12:52,360 Speaker 6: drip drop. I do my thing like drip drop drip drip, 1515 01:12:52,439 --> 01:12:54,719 Speaker 6: pity drop drip drop. 1516 01:12:56,360 --> 01:13:00,519 Speaker 3: Funny how time fly anyway Prince Lawrence says it's becoming 1517 01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:02,760 Speaker 3: one of the situations where it might not matter who 1518 01:13:02,840 --> 01:13:05,240 Speaker 3: is right because it's so messy. I tend to side 1519 01:13:05,280 --> 01:13:07,679 Speaker 3: with Monique because Lee Daniels is not making any sense. 1520 01:13:08,080 --> 01:13:10,000 Speaker 3: Even if Daniels is telling the truth, it is still 1521 01:13:10,080 --> 01:13:12,439 Speaker 3: fucked up. He is not really denying anything. The Monique 1522 01:13:12,479 --> 01:13:14,880 Speaker 3: is saying she didn't play the game correctly and she 1523 01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:17,200 Speaker 3: is getting punished. Oh and I went back and listening 1524 01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:19,360 Speaker 3: her accept the speech. She just mad. He just mad 1525 01:13:19,400 --> 01:13:22,599 Speaker 3: because she didn't mention him. I also want to speculate 1526 01:13:22,680 --> 01:13:24,280 Speaker 3: that Lee Dames may have been one of the people 1527 01:13:24,360 --> 01:13:27,960 Speaker 3: Monique was talking about Quban being HERUAACP Image Award. 1528 01:13:28,560 --> 01:13:28,960 Speaker 1: He did. 1529 01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:31,680 Speaker 3: I can see it, man, especially after he said that 1530 01:13:31,720 --> 01:13:35,080 Speaker 3: shit about getting called to sell out. I've been so 1531 01:13:35,200 --> 01:13:37,559 Speaker 3: intrigued by this story because, yeah, by the way, that's 1532 01:13:37,600 --> 01:13:40,160 Speaker 3: another reason I didn't make Who cares? If you don't care, 1533 01:13:40,240 --> 01:13:42,840 Speaker 3: don't voting the pole. But nigga, y'all care. Even that 1534 01:13:42,920 --> 01:13:44,439 Speaker 3: person that just said they didn't care. You love a 1535 01:13:44,479 --> 01:13:45,559 Speaker 3: comment because you do care. 1536 01:13:46,400 --> 01:13:48,639 Speaker 1: It's okay to care, y'all. It's okay. 1537 01:13:49,720 --> 01:13:52,519 Speaker 3: It doesn't mean you care as much as like who 1538 01:13:52,600 --> 01:13:54,840 Speaker 3: wins the next election. You just care a little bit, 1539 01:13:55,920 --> 01:14:00,080 Speaker 3: all right. I care about kim Ka and Kanye and 1540 01:14:00,200 --> 01:14:05,519 Speaker 3: Amber Rose and fucking Chris Brown and a bunch of shit. 1541 01:14:05,600 --> 01:14:07,040 Speaker 2: I care about all this shit, guys. 1542 01:14:07,200 --> 01:14:07,519 Speaker 3: I care. 1543 01:14:08,240 --> 01:14:10,360 Speaker 1: It's not a lot of him and Cant in the box, Yeah, 1544 01:14:10,360 --> 01:14:11,519 Speaker 1: all of them. I care. Love mo. 1545 01:14:13,200 --> 01:14:14,760 Speaker 3: Like, it's not it's not. It's not the end of 1546 01:14:14,800 --> 01:14:17,400 Speaker 3: the world to care. I'm not gonna miss a meal, 1547 01:14:17,960 --> 01:14:20,600 Speaker 3: not gonna not go to work. But I care, all right, 1548 01:14:20,640 --> 01:14:22,960 Speaker 3: I care a little bit, and I care about this 1549 01:14:23,000 --> 01:14:26,400 Speaker 3: shit a little bit. So he goes on to say 1550 01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:29,360 Speaker 3: they got famous doing O way. I noticed that a 1551 01:14:29,400 --> 01:14:31,320 Speaker 3: lot of black actors in Hollywood didn't get that start 1552 01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:35,400 Speaker 3: by acting. Okay, oh, hond On. I have been sawing 1553 01:14:35,439 --> 01:14:37,080 Speaker 3: Tree by the story because it has made me think 1554 01:14:37,160 --> 01:14:39,600 Speaker 3: so much about black actresses and actors in Hollywood. I 1555 01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:41,599 Speaker 3: noticed that a lot of black actors in Hollywood didn't 1556 01:14:41,640 --> 01:14:44,200 Speaker 3: get that start by acting. They got famous doing something else. 1557 01:14:44,200 --> 01:14:46,960 Speaker 3: The Supreme boarder into acting, Monique, Eddie Murphy, Will Smith, 1558 01:14:47,280 --> 01:14:51,679 Speaker 3: Jamie Foxx, Kevin Hart are just a few. Yeah, common 1559 01:14:52,560 --> 01:14:55,320 Speaker 3: I understand why Kevin and Monique feel like they don't 1560 01:14:55,360 --> 01:14:58,000 Speaker 3: need to go to bend over backwards for these movie studies. 1561 01:14:58,439 --> 01:15:00,160 Speaker 3: They were at the top of their profession before when 1562 01:15:00,200 --> 01:15:04,720 Speaker 3: they started landing roles. Even when you are constant professionals 1563 01:15:04,800 --> 01:15:07,960 Speaker 3: like Denzel or everyone that worked on Salma, Hollywood will 1564 01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:09,439 Speaker 3: find a way to shit on you. They did their 1565 01:15:09,479 --> 01:15:12,240 Speaker 3: best acknowledged Salma in all I mean not to not 1566 01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:15,519 Speaker 3: acknowledge Somealm at all. And Sony wants to stop promoting 1567 01:15:15,560 --> 01:15:17,640 Speaker 3: Denzel movies. I can't imagine how tough it is to 1568 01:15:17,680 --> 01:15:21,360 Speaker 3: be a young, aspiring black actor or actress mm hmm. 1569 01:15:21,520 --> 01:15:23,439 Speaker 1: Just so a lot of them do plays and just 1570 01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:27,840 Speaker 1: stay out there in that genre and don't even I 1571 01:15:27,880 --> 01:15:30,160 Speaker 1: mean because it's still acting, but they don't go to 1572 01:15:30,280 --> 01:15:31,960 Speaker 1: like big movies. Because it's a lot of people that 1573 01:15:32,080 --> 01:15:35,559 Speaker 1: do performing plays that will actually be great in acting. 1574 01:15:35,720 --> 01:15:37,840 Speaker 1: But a lot of times because that plays it is 1575 01:15:38,000 --> 01:15:40,400 Speaker 1: it's small circuits. And that has a lot to do 1576 01:15:40,520 --> 01:15:44,679 Speaker 1: with why people underestimated the amount of money with Tyler 1577 01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:47,040 Speaker 1: Perry because that play crowd people ignore it, and why 1578 01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:49,320 Speaker 1: your Mama Sugar added part three. People go with what 1579 01:15:49,439 --> 01:15:51,840 Speaker 1: the fuck is this? But it makes money? And those 1580 01:15:51,840 --> 01:15:54,480 Speaker 1: people were rolled asses out to the movie theaters. 1581 01:15:54,560 --> 01:15:59,800 Speaker 3: And honestly, man, I just I support I support Monique's 1582 01:15:59,800 --> 01:16:01,840 Speaker 3: point of viewing this just because I love how pro 1583 01:16:01,920 --> 01:16:02,519 Speaker 3: black she is. 1584 01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:03,320 Speaker 1: Me too. 1585 01:16:03,439 --> 01:16:06,200 Speaker 3: You shouldn't have to be ashamed of wiking black stuff, man, 1586 01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:08,560 Speaker 3: It's not It's not like you saying I don't like 1587 01:16:08,640 --> 01:16:10,920 Speaker 3: white people. I don't like white stuff. It's okay to 1588 01:16:11,000 --> 01:16:15,680 Speaker 3: be positive about your own self identification and and and 1589 01:16:15,840 --> 01:16:17,840 Speaker 3: be proud of It's okay to be proud to get 1590 01:16:17,880 --> 01:16:20,840 Speaker 3: in the Image Award. It's okay to be more proud 1591 01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:22,960 Speaker 3: to get an Image Award than an Oscar. It's your 1592 01:16:23,040 --> 01:16:25,800 Speaker 3: fucking decision, you know what I mean, it's your mind 1593 01:16:25,880 --> 01:16:27,719 Speaker 3: if that's the thing that you're like. Look, I'm glad 1594 01:16:27,760 --> 01:16:31,640 Speaker 3: I was recognized by my peers and by people, uh 1595 01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:36,240 Speaker 3: you know who the movie was designed to to to 1596 01:16:36,520 --> 01:16:37,840 Speaker 3: to like cater to. 1597 01:16:38,800 --> 01:16:41,439 Speaker 2: I understand, you know. I don't think there's anything negative 1598 01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:41,880 Speaker 2: about that. 1599 01:16:42,240 --> 01:16:44,880 Speaker 1: You know, there's nothing wrong with being proud of of 1600 01:16:45,000 --> 01:16:48,400 Speaker 1: b ET Awards and w a CP Awards. There's nothing 1601 01:16:48,479 --> 01:16:51,280 Speaker 1: wrong with with with with that if you choose to, 1602 01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:53,400 Speaker 1: because it's just one of those things where you know, 1603 01:16:53,560 --> 01:16:56,719 Speaker 1: because in our world and our society, white is the default. 1604 01:16:56,880 --> 01:17:00,200 Speaker 1: So you know, what we're expected to when people ask 1605 01:17:00,320 --> 01:17:02,479 Speaker 1: us about let's say, what kid rock Aboy the Sweet 1606 01:17:02,520 --> 01:17:06,160 Speaker 1: Home Alabama. Most people know what the fuck that is. 1607 01:17:06,640 --> 01:17:09,280 Speaker 1: Even if they don't like the shit, you know, you're 1608 01:17:09,320 --> 01:17:12,919 Speaker 1: not asked to explain or you're not you know, questioning 1609 01:17:12,960 --> 01:17:14,800 Speaker 1: a challenge on why do you even fuck with it? 1610 01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:17,720 Speaker 1: But when it comes to our stuff, you know, we're 1611 01:17:18,280 --> 01:17:21,320 Speaker 1: shamed for loving stuff. This actual catered towards us. It's 1612 01:17:21,320 --> 01:17:22,360 Speaker 1: like there's a problem with that. 1613 01:17:22,920 --> 01:17:28,400 Speaker 3: Right episode nine hundred, Mothers at Work, we got comments. 1614 01:17:28,479 --> 01:17:30,760 Speaker 3: Aj the engineer says can grasp on nine hundred, y'all 1615 01:17:30,800 --> 01:17:33,600 Speaker 3: can't wait for the thousandth show. Thank you, thank you. 1616 01:17:33,960 --> 01:17:36,479 Speaker 3: Prince Ron said straight up, fuck that woman that mistreated 1617 01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:38,280 Speaker 3: work in Moms and is now trying to be friends 1618 01:17:38,320 --> 01:17:40,720 Speaker 3: because she has a child. Those who lack empathy are 1619 01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:42,400 Speaker 3: the worst people in the world, and I will never 1620 01:17:42,479 --> 01:17:45,960 Speaker 3: side with them. It reminds me of the politicians that 1621 01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:49,640 Speaker 3: become in favor of LGBT rights only after one of 1622 01:17:49,720 --> 01:17:52,920 Speaker 3: their kids comes out. They are being self serving, but 1623 01:17:53,040 --> 01:17:56,640 Speaker 3: we are supporting them and giving them credit for evolving. 1624 01:17:56,760 --> 01:17:59,559 Speaker 3: Fuck that this does not make up for her purposely 1625 01:17:59,600 --> 01:18:02,479 Speaker 3: putting working moms through hell because she didn't want to 1626 01:18:02,520 --> 01:18:05,120 Speaker 3: be bothered. I hope she is successful with her new business, 1627 01:18:05,120 --> 01:18:07,080 Speaker 3: which helps working moms, but she will forever be a 1628 01:18:07,120 --> 01:18:11,360 Speaker 3: dirt bad bitch in my book. Jesus. No, Well, damn 1629 01:18:12,200 --> 01:18:15,080 Speaker 3: them like you really feel personalron I will say, yeah, 1630 01:18:15,240 --> 01:18:17,400 Speaker 3: I do think it's fucked up that people require that, 1631 01:18:17,479 --> 01:18:20,120 Speaker 3: but I realized that that's a human thing. A lot 1632 01:18:20,160 --> 01:18:21,960 Speaker 3: of people don't have empathy until they can kind of 1633 01:18:22,000 --> 01:18:22,960 Speaker 3: see what's going. 1634 01:18:22,840 --> 01:18:25,040 Speaker 1: On, right, because it's not required of them. 1635 01:18:25,439 --> 01:18:29,519 Speaker 3: Yeah, Capa Donna says, congrats on the nine hundred show, guys, 1636 01:18:29,600 --> 01:18:32,400 Speaker 3: but I'm not surprised that the female CEO couldn't give 1637 01:18:32,400 --> 01:18:35,240 Speaker 3: a damn about her fellow women in technology until she 1638 01:18:35,320 --> 01:18:37,960 Speaker 3: had a bambino of her own. Hell, the CEO of 1639 01:18:38,080 --> 01:18:41,559 Speaker 3: Yahoo really said fuck them bitches when she outreach right 1640 01:18:41,680 --> 01:18:44,960 Speaker 3: bed remote working across the company while providing no daycare 1641 01:18:45,040 --> 01:18:45,840 Speaker 3: for her employees. 1642 01:18:46,080 --> 01:18:46,320 Speaker 5: Wow. 1643 01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:49,720 Speaker 3: In Silicon Valley, this is almost unheard of for a 1644 01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:53,680 Speaker 3: company the size of Yahoo in twenty fifteen, even my 1645 01:18:53,880 --> 01:18:57,639 Speaker 3: Rinke Dink tech firm. Unless people work remotely, nobody put 1646 01:18:57,680 --> 01:19:00,800 Speaker 3: the help desk and receptionist. Nobody but the help deskin 1647 01:19:00,880 --> 01:19:04,040 Speaker 3: receptionist goes to the home office unless clients are showing up. 1648 01:19:04,600 --> 01:19:09,280 Speaker 3: Marissa Mayer her reasoning to summarize, since she could afford 1649 01:19:09,400 --> 01:19:13,360 Speaker 3: a stay at home nanny and y'allhoo build her in office, wait, 1650 01:19:13,439 --> 01:19:15,800 Speaker 3: build her and own in office daycare for her kids, 1651 01:19:16,120 --> 01:19:18,120 Speaker 3: why can't these hosts pay a babysitter and get that 1652 01:19:18,160 --> 01:19:21,599 Speaker 3: asked to work by seven for those project meetings. Then again, 1653 01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:25,080 Speaker 3: that woman fired a senior VP over the phone. So no, 1654 01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:28,480 Speaker 3: I'm not surprised because we're bred in a society, particularly 1655 01:19:28,560 --> 01:19:32,320 Speaker 3: in business, to have patriarchal almost randying the writer, not 1656 01:19:32,439 --> 01:19:35,280 Speaker 3: the dude in the Senate who ordered his equally nutty 1657 01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:40,320 Speaker 3: father worldview where a women are either brood mares or 1658 01:19:40,360 --> 01:19:44,880 Speaker 3: sexist robots, and b making money comes before your family 1659 01:19:45,080 --> 01:19:49,759 Speaker 3: and your life. Again caring wisdom through Country Twain. Note, 1660 01:19:50,320 --> 01:19:54,120 Speaker 3: I know TVGW, I know the TBGWT fanbase and the 1661 01:19:54,200 --> 01:19:57,840 Speaker 3: host are smart enough to differentiate between and Ran the 1662 01:19:57,880 --> 01:20:00,519 Speaker 3: writer and Ran Paul the nutty band. 1663 01:20:00,360 --> 01:20:02,280 Speaker 2: Troop libertarian from Kentucky. 1664 01:20:03,080 --> 01:20:05,400 Speaker 3: I mean bad to pay libertarian, I said, band troop 1665 01:20:06,520 --> 01:20:10,200 Speaker 3: that right, Yeah, the nutty bad bad to pay libertarian 1666 01:20:10,240 --> 01:20:14,120 Speaker 3: from Kentucky. Those though honestly not much of a difference 1667 01:20:14,160 --> 01:20:17,360 Speaker 3: since Ran Paul and his dad quote that woman like 1668 01:20:17,880 --> 01:20:20,320 Speaker 3: their ten year olds at a Sunday school Eastern Paget. 1669 01:20:20,680 --> 01:20:22,720 Speaker 3: Did you guys read how Ron Paul said that the 1670 01:20:22,800 --> 01:20:29,880 Speaker 3: only reason why is the CBC the Black Hawkers votes 1671 01:20:29,920 --> 01:20:34,360 Speaker 3: against military spending is because they want welfare checks one 1672 01:20:35,320 --> 01:20:37,000 Speaker 3: with black people. Not that I need to say anything, 1673 01:20:37,040 --> 01:20:41,439 Speaker 3: but stay woke. Nah, don't really didn't really see that. 1674 01:20:41,520 --> 01:20:43,759 Speaker 3: I mean, I've written Ryan paul Off as a racist 1675 01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:47,880 Speaker 3: a long time ago. Oh, so to me, it's not surprising. 1676 01:20:48,840 --> 01:20:52,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, as much as they try to act like everything 1677 01:20:52,200 --> 01:20:54,880 Speaker 1: is all good, Yeah, some of the politives besieged could 1678 01:20:54,880 --> 01:20:56,080 Speaker 1: give a fuck about black people. 1679 01:20:56,320 --> 01:21:01,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, well not is it Ron? Either way? One of them, 1680 01:21:03,680 --> 01:21:05,760 Speaker 3: Ron Paul had them race his ass papers with his 1681 01:21:05,920 --> 01:21:08,280 Speaker 3: name on it. That people were like, he just didn't know, like, 1682 01:21:08,360 --> 01:21:09,519 Speaker 3: get the fuck out of my face. 1683 01:21:10,400 --> 01:21:11,479 Speaker 1: And then you know his. 1684 01:21:11,680 --> 01:21:16,200 Speaker 3: Son, you know, at least he spoke out on Ferguson. 1685 01:21:16,320 --> 01:21:19,439 Speaker 3: But I don't trust him. I don't trust him. I 1686 01:21:19,479 --> 01:21:20,360 Speaker 3: don't trust him. 1687 01:21:20,400 --> 01:21:20,439 Speaker 4: No. 1688 01:21:21,600 --> 01:21:24,559 Speaker 3: Do you think super had missus sucking famous dicks? Yes, 1689 01:21:24,680 --> 01:21:27,760 Speaker 3: she was clearly was feeding. No, she's just liberated. She 1690 01:21:29,200 --> 01:21:34,200 Speaker 3: had given a went on Instagram talking about how as 1691 01:21:34,200 --> 01:21:37,000 Speaker 3: a grown woman she likes to suck dick and nobody 1692 01:21:37,000 --> 01:21:38,439 Speaker 3: can stop her and all this ship. 1693 01:21:38,520 --> 01:21:42,640 Speaker 2: But she is married, so she's supposed to be on 1694 01:21:42,760 --> 01:21:44,200 Speaker 2: a one dick limit according to. 1695 01:21:46,040 --> 01:21:48,600 Speaker 3: Courting to her husband, and I was like, you know, 1696 01:21:49,040 --> 01:21:52,200 Speaker 3: to me, she sounds like an addict, like she just 1697 01:21:52,320 --> 01:21:56,160 Speaker 3: misses some good, famous dick sucking. I'm not saying she's 1698 01:21:56,200 --> 01:21:58,640 Speaker 3: a bad person for that, but I don't think she 1699 01:21:58,800 --> 01:22:02,680 Speaker 3: really was I to speak about women's liberation. I think 1700 01:22:02,720 --> 01:22:05,240 Speaker 3: she was saying that I'm trying to suck some dicks 1701 01:22:05,400 --> 01:22:07,519 Speaker 3: and uh, it's been a while and I miss it. 1702 01:22:08,560 --> 01:22:13,920 Speaker 2: So, yes, she clearly was feeding. Or no, she's just liberated. No, 1703 01:22:14,120 --> 01:22:15,040 Speaker 2: she's just liberated. 1704 01:22:15,080 --> 01:22:18,920 Speaker 3: Twenty three percent, which means seventy eight seventy seven percent 1705 01:22:18,920 --> 01:22:21,599 Speaker 3: of you guys said, hey, she is feeling to suck 1706 01:22:21,680 --> 01:22:25,280 Speaker 3: some famous dick. Only one comment because y'all was scared. 1707 01:22:25,880 --> 01:22:29,679 Speaker 3: Prince Lauren says, without a doubt, she misses sucking famous dicks, 1708 01:22:30,160 --> 01:22:33,760 Speaker 3: but more importantly, she misses those famous buttholes. Now she 1709 01:22:33,920 --> 01:22:36,880 Speaker 3: only has one buttole to thrash, and that is not enough. 1710 01:22:37,439 --> 01:22:40,200 Speaker 3: I completely understand why her husband doesn't get don't give 1711 01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:43,080 Speaker 3: half any complaints. She sucks the soul out that nigga 1712 01:22:43,120 --> 01:22:48,559 Speaker 3: anytime he gets upset and he forgets what day it is. Also, 1713 01:22:48,640 --> 01:22:50,400 Speaker 3: I need her to stop trying to put herself under 1714 01:22:50,439 --> 01:22:52,639 Speaker 3: the sexual freedom on brother. She is trying to revise 1715 01:22:52,720 --> 01:22:54,800 Speaker 3: the history of why people have a negative image of her. 1716 01:22:55,120 --> 01:22:56,920 Speaker 3: It wasn't really the sex. It was more about how 1717 01:22:56,960 --> 01:22:59,720 Speaker 3: messy she was about putting people's names in these streets, right. 1718 01:23:00,520 --> 01:23:05,400 Speaker 3: That's that. That's that revisionist history where it's like I 1719 01:23:05,600 --> 01:23:09,360 Speaker 3: stood up for a woman's right to suck any dick 1720 01:23:09,479 --> 01:23:13,000 Speaker 3: that she wants, and you guys are trying to say 1721 01:23:13,880 --> 01:23:18,320 Speaker 3: the patriarch is coming down on me. I'm a martyr here, Like, 1722 01:23:18,360 --> 01:23:21,679 Speaker 3: wait a minute, didn't you suck all these people dicks 1723 01:23:21,760 --> 01:23:25,559 Speaker 3: and then write a book about it and fucking ruin 1724 01:23:25,640 --> 01:23:27,640 Speaker 3: their marriages and put their business on the street. Now, 1725 01:23:27,680 --> 01:23:30,760 Speaker 3: I'm not saying those people were good people, but I'm 1726 01:23:30,800 --> 01:23:34,000 Speaker 3: definitely saying it doesn't make you a hero either. It's 1727 01:23:34,040 --> 01:23:36,120 Speaker 3: okay for people to be like, I don't know, superhead, 1728 01:23:36,120 --> 01:23:39,040 Speaker 3: you seem kind of messy. She was taking pictures of 1729 01:23:39,120 --> 01:23:42,000 Speaker 3: niggas sleeping on her couches and shit and posting up 1730 01:23:42,040 --> 01:23:48,480 Speaker 3: social media. Like, I'm not saying she's a bad person necessarily, 1731 01:23:48,840 --> 01:23:51,800 Speaker 3: but she ain't the hero of the story either. It's 1732 01:23:51,920 --> 01:23:54,679 Speaker 3: like she's a martyr for you know, women's liberation either. 1733 01:23:56,760 --> 01:23:59,320 Speaker 3: And I'm sure she still does catch it from fucking 1734 01:23:59,439 --> 01:24:02,640 Speaker 3: assholes online that are about, you know, putting women in 1735 01:24:02,680 --> 01:24:04,559 Speaker 3: that place that are sexually free and all this shit. 1736 01:24:05,320 --> 01:24:07,160 Speaker 3: I mean, obviously that's got to be a huge part 1737 01:24:07,200 --> 01:24:10,040 Speaker 3: of her the backlash to her, of course, but a 1738 01:24:10,200 --> 01:24:13,640 Speaker 3: lot of the backlashes on some like self inflicted. Come on, 1739 01:24:13,800 --> 01:24:15,400 Speaker 3: why are you putting your business out here like this? 1740 01:24:16,880 --> 01:24:18,519 Speaker 3: And why are you putting these other people business out 1741 01:24:18,520 --> 01:24:23,599 Speaker 3: here like this? Episode nine on one, Sweet ass Biscuits, 1742 01:24:23,680 --> 01:24:27,720 Speaker 3: where we have Fonte of fig Exchange and Justin on 1743 01:24:28,280 --> 01:24:30,120 Speaker 3: to review Walking Dead, and then we talked about a 1744 01:24:30,120 --> 01:24:33,439 Speaker 3: bunch of other stuff. Aj the engineer says, great recap, y'all. 1745 01:24:33,520 --> 01:24:35,840 Speaker 3: It was cool here Frante's opinion on the episode. But 1746 01:24:35,920 --> 01:24:38,680 Speaker 3: I did keep singing all you nigga should swim as 1747 01:24:38,720 --> 01:24:43,679 Speaker 3: he talked. I had a couple of questions regarding Carl's 1748 01:24:43,720 --> 01:24:46,960 Speaker 3: EMO girlfriend. Is his girlfriend? It's kind of assuming for that. 1749 01:24:47,360 --> 01:24:49,120 Speaker 3: Do you think that the girl inside that house that 1750 01:24:49,280 --> 01:24:51,680 Speaker 3: Carl saw is a first. Oh that that was the 1751 01:24:51,720 --> 01:24:54,160 Speaker 3: girl inside the house that Carl saw is the first 1752 01:24:54,280 --> 01:24:57,719 Speaker 3: entered the gates of Alexandria, Because just a bit quickly, 1753 01:24:58,000 --> 01:25:01,080 Speaker 3: I think that girl has a route she takes to 1754 01:25:01,200 --> 01:25:04,040 Speaker 3: get to it from Alexandria. Do y'all think she's just 1755 01:25:04,080 --> 01:25:07,040 Speaker 3: a teenager doing some random wondering because she's not used 1756 01:25:07,080 --> 01:25:09,320 Speaker 3: to her new surroundings, or does she have some. 1757 01:25:09,439 --> 01:25:12,639 Speaker 2: Kind of dark plan one? I think that was her too. 1758 01:25:13,120 --> 01:25:15,800 Speaker 3: I think she has a dark one. The fact that 1759 01:25:15,920 --> 01:25:19,360 Speaker 3: comic said will fight got me thinking again about Noah's 1760 01:25:19,400 --> 01:25:22,960 Speaker 3: town and where those terrible people might be lurking. Now 1761 01:25:23,080 --> 01:25:25,400 Speaker 3: that the group is further north, do you think we'll 1762 01:25:25,400 --> 01:25:30,040 Speaker 3: see more types of weather? I don't know, man, I 1763 01:25:30,120 --> 01:25:32,479 Speaker 3: mean I don't know enough. 1764 01:25:32,360 --> 01:25:36,160 Speaker 2: About the weather in that Virginia to know much difference. 1765 01:25:37,280 --> 01:25:40,920 Speaker 3: Like, I don't know, maybe see snow possibility, I don't 1766 01:25:40,960 --> 01:25:42,240 Speaker 3: know we had much snow in Georgia. 1767 01:25:43,160 --> 01:25:43,519 Speaker 1: You don't. 1768 01:25:43,720 --> 01:25:46,120 Speaker 3: As I'm writing this feedback, I see Rogers Live tweet 1769 01:25:46,120 --> 01:25:48,479 Speaker 3: the Empire Bruh Rod. Come on, man, how good was 1770 01:25:48,520 --> 01:25:49,519 Speaker 3: Andre this episode? 1771 01:25:50,240 --> 01:25:50,400 Speaker 5: Oh? 1772 01:25:50,439 --> 01:25:54,360 Speaker 3: He was so good? Oh nigga that. 1773 01:25:55,960 --> 01:25:57,240 Speaker 1: Oh you're so good? 1774 01:25:58,479 --> 01:26:03,000 Speaker 3: Eight to ten, eight to ten, eight to ten, every day. 1775 01:26:04,479 --> 01:26:05,519 Speaker 3: I'm gonna take care of it. 1776 01:26:05,600 --> 01:26:07,080 Speaker 2: Andre just gonna take care of it. 1777 01:26:07,160 --> 01:26:09,400 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna be okay. I just tell him about 1778 01:26:09,400 --> 01:26:11,200 Speaker 3: to love a guinea. I give it away, I just 1779 01:26:11,320 --> 01:26:12,439 Speaker 3: give it to it comes, don fix. 1780 01:26:12,600 --> 01:26:13,120 Speaker 1: I can fix this. 1781 01:26:13,920 --> 01:26:18,800 Speaker 3: Oh he was so good man that that dude. Give 1782 01:26:18,880 --> 01:26:24,880 Speaker 3: him the Emmy. Now to Roger p Kinson finally got 1783 01:26:25,600 --> 01:26:28,160 Speaker 3: she finally got somebody on that to bounce off of. 1784 01:26:28,320 --> 01:26:30,640 Speaker 3: They need to have a scene because I call a 1785 01:26:30,680 --> 01:26:33,720 Speaker 3: crazy personality three thousand, So they have a scene where 1786 01:26:34,200 --> 01:26:38,200 Speaker 3: three thousand and cookie in the same room. Oh, that'll 1787 01:26:38,280 --> 01:26:41,640 Speaker 3: be so good man. And like, why did he go 1788 01:26:41,800 --> 01:26:43,639 Speaker 3: man it so fast? I mean it's like he threw 1789 01:26:43,720 --> 01:26:46,839 Speaker 3: his medicine out that morning and that nigga was crazy 1790 01:26:46,960 --> 01:26:50,200 Speaker 3: by noon. Like, is that how fast it works? I 1791 01:26:50,240 --> 01:26:51,360 Speaker 3: thought that shit builds up. 1792 01:26:51,479 --> 01:26:54,439 Speaker 1: He must have missed several doses. My understanding was it 1793 01:26:54,520 --> 01:26:57,400 Speaker 1: builds up a tolerance like you have like a couple 1794 01:26:57,479 --> 01:27:01,439 Speaker 1: of days before, whereas all this nigga went batship by noon. 1795 01:27:01,560 --> 01:27:04,680 Speaker 2: It was like he missed one pill and showed up 1796 01:27:04,720 --> 01:27:05,000 Speaker 2: the work. 1797 01:27:05,080 --> 01:27:05,400 Speaker 5: It was like. 1798 01:27:07,120 --> 01:27:14,280 Speaker 3: The ship. It was the best he was. I was 1799 01:27:14,320 --> 01:27:16,360 Speaker 3: worried as hell when that elevator stopped with all them 1800 01:27:16,400 --> 01:27:20,080 Speaker 3: on still on the inside. Me too. Uh, there was 1801 01:27:20,120 --> 01:27:23,519 Speaker 3: so many dam bars dropped this episod Nigga when he 1802 01:27:23,680 --> 01:27:25,559 Speaker 3: souplex the basketball rack. 1803 01:27:25,960 --> 01:27:26,080 Speaker 5: Bro. 1804 01:27:28,120 --> 01:27:31,920 Speaker 3: Oh my, this nigga body slam the basketball rack. 1805 01:27:33,000 --> 01:27:33,120 Speaker 1: Oh. 1806 01:27:33,280 --> 01:27:35,240 Speaker 2: When the security laid him out, he's laid on the 1807 01:27:35,320 --> 01:27:36,160 Speaker 2: table like Jesus. 1808 01:27:36,240 --> 01:27:40,160 Speaker 3: He put both his arms up there. I was like, okay, okay, baby, okay, 1809 01:27:41,160 --> 01:27:44,920 Speaker 3: Oh this is I love Andre Now. I was worried 1810 01:27:44,920 --> 01:27:47,200 Speaker 3: as hell when that elevator stopped with all them inside 1811 01:27:47,240 --> 01:27:49,120 Speaker 3: that so many bars dropped this episode. I might have 1812 01:27:49,200 --> 01:27:50,960 Speaker 3: to watch it again. Piece of y'all have a good weekend, 1813 01:27:51,080 --> 01:27:56,880 Speaker 3: yep card missing out just as sucking up. Everybody needs 1814 01:27:56,880 --> 01:27:59,360 Speaker 3: to be on this ship. I can't stretch it enough. 1815 01:27:59,439 --> 01:28:01,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get get caught up so we can do 1816 01:28:01,200 --> 01:28:03,760 Speaker 1: the book club with the with the Nick jew and 1817 01:28:04,040 --> 01:28:06,240 Speaker 1: Lenner brothers. So we caet. So for those of you 1818 01:28:06,760 --> 01:28:10,200 Speaker 1: that have not read the second book book Club, you 1819 01:28:10,320 --> 01:28:12,040 Speaker 1: have months now, but apparently but you're gonna have a 1820 01:28:12,080 --> 01:28:14,320 Speaker 1: little bit longer and then we'll be reviewing that. 1821 01:28:14,680 --> 01:28:18,439 Speaker 2: Eight episodes in and it's got ratings records. 1822 01:28:18,640 --> 01:28:19,639 Speaker 3: Is risen every week. 1823 01:28:19,920 --> 01:28:21,840 Speaker 1: Right, it's almost it's almost just as high as The 1824 01:28:21,880 --> 01:28:22,360 Speaker 1: Walking Dead. 1825 01:28:22,680 --> 01:28:26,960 Speaker 3: This is crazy. I love it. Andre, are gonna fix this, 1826 01:28:27,680 --> 01:28:32,040 Speaker 3: make it okay. I bought a left guinea. He said 1827 01:28:32,080 --> 01:28:35,200 Speaker 3: that ship tried to slide that ship in. I bought 1828 01:28:35,200 --> 01:28:41,000 Speaker 3: a love guinea anyway, Will and Toronto said another dope review. Man, 1829 01:28:41,040 --> 01:28:43,080 Speaker 3: I was laughing my ass off when Carol walked out 1830 01:28:43,120 --> 01:28:46,240 Speaker 3: of that door looking like Martha Stewart. Angela and Angela 1831 01:28:46,360 --> 01:28:49,920 Speaker 3: Lansbury matched up. She's selling that image hard to these 1832 01:28:50,000 --> 01:28:53,439 Speaker 3: Alexandria folks. She's playing them like a fiddle. Can't wait 1833 01:28:53,520 --> 01:28:55,840 Speaker 3: till Glenn get a layer, get a get the laden 1834 01:28:55,920 --> 01:28:59,479 Speaker 3: palls on that punk ass dude one episode in and 1835 01:28:59,560 --> 01:29:01,960 Speaker 3: I already can't stand his ass. Yeah eight In or 1836 01:29:02,000 --> 01:29:02,760 Speaker 3: whatever his name is. 1837 01:29:02,880 --> 01:29:03,040 Speaker 1: OK. 1838 01:29:03,479 --> 01:29:03,680 Speaker 5: You know. 1839 01:29:05,520 --> 01:29:07,519 Speaker 1: Glennon, don't fuck him up. You never fuck him up. 1840 01:29:07,600 --> 01:29:11,439 Speaker 3: Darryl, Yeah, Daryl didn't want to fuck around either. Yeah. 1841 01:29:12,720 --> 01:29:14,679 Speaker 2: Christopher White says, really good episode. 1842 01:29:14,840 --> 01:29:17,160 Speaker 3: The Walking Dead recap was funny while still hitting all 1843 01:29:17,160 --> 01:29:20,360 Speaker 3: the important parts of the show. Fonte Is before was 1844 01:29:20,400 --> 01:29:22,719 Speaker 3: a great guest, and it was cool that Justin don't 1845 01:29:22,800 --> 01:29:26,120 Speaker 3: know how to act around company and was his usual 1846 01:29:26,240 --> 01:29:31,800 Speaker 3: ratchetrself true. Oh that is true. And the poll was 1847 01:29:32,479 --> 01:29:36,439 Speaker 3: his being Carson a serious presidential candidate? Yes or no? 1848 01:29:37,080 --> 01:29:41,599 Speaker 3: Ninety one percent of the audience says no. Nine percent 1849 01:29:41,640 --> 01:29:46,120 Speaker 3: of y'all actually thinks he is. Here's some commentary. Capital 1850 01:29:46,160 --> 01:29:48,240 Speaker 3: Donna says, let's keep it a hundred. Being Carson is 1851 01:29:48,280 --> 01:29:51,400 Speaker 3: the long jockey of the mouth of the GOP. He's 1852 01:29:51,439 --> 01:29:53,920 Speaker 3: an embarrassment to our community. How can a black man 1853 01:29:54,040 --> 01:29:57,400 Speaker 3: of his education and background possibly believe half the stupid 1854 01:29:57,439 --> 01:30:00,519 Speaker 3: crafty that he says. He's a homophobe or yo Mama, 1855 01:30:00,560 --> 01:30:04,080 Speaker 3: minorities and completely clueless about economics, foreign policy, and just 1856 01:30:04,200 --> 01:30:06,639 Speaker 3: everything a president needs to understand to lead this nation. 1857 01:30:07,160 --> 01:30:10,599 Speaker 3: And well he's black, and despite saying fuckery, it's several 1858 01:30:10,640 --> 01:30:13,240 Speaker 3: times smarter than anyone else in the GOP. So no, 1859 01:30:13,360 --> 01:30:15,720 Speaker 3: he's not going to become a major player in the primaries, 1860 01:30:16,040 --> 01:30:17,920 Speaker 3: but he will be making that book deal by the 1861 01:30:18,000 --> 01:30:19,840 Speaker 3: end of the year talking about all that he learned 1862 01:30:19,920 --> 01:30:22,799 Speaker 3: running for president, which will be little more than crappy 1863 01:30:22,920 --> 01:30:25,760 Speaker 3: right wing talking points from nineteen eighty six. But hey, 1864 01:30:26,040 --> 01:30:28,479 Speaker 3: he learned something. He's the go to pull up your 1865 01:30:28,520 --> 01:30:30,840 Speaker 3: pants negro since Bill Cobley couldn't seem to keep his 1866 01:30:30,960 --> 01:30:34,960 Speaker 3: pants out in the front drugged keep his pants on 1867 01:30:35,120 --> 01:30:38,400 Speaker 3: in front of drug women since nineteen sixty three. This 1868 01:30:38,600 --> 01:30:41,719 Speaker 3: is too long, but I really can't stand these handkerchief heads, 1869 01:30:42,080 --> 01:30:47,679 Speaker 3: buck dancing Toms. The Coons come buck dancing God, Tom's 1870 01:30:47,720 --> 01:30:51,679 Speaker 3: a conservative king makers march out every year. They keep 1871 01:30:51,800 --> 01:30:55,040 Speaker 3: presenting these clowns as bizarro Obama. The problem is that 1872 01:30:55,120 --> 01:30:57,320 Speaker 3: most of these guys are, one way or another, complete 1873 01:30:57,360 --> 01:31:00,479 Speaker 3: training wrecks. Herm McCain had to not so seek side 1874 01:31:00,520 --> 01:31:03,240 Speaker 3: piece that was an admitted coward. Alan West had was 1875 01:31:03,280 --> 01:31:06,120 Speaker 3: completely loomed. The possible rapist Michael Steele was just too 1876 01:31:06,240 --> 01:31:08,280 Speaker 3: nice and sensible that the Republicans chased him out of 1877 01:31:08,360 --> 01:31:11,720 Speaker 3: GOP and on the MSNBC. The only Republican black guy 1878 01:31:11,760 --> 01:31:13,760 Speaker 3: who could pull the in pete person of colored votes 1879 01:31:14,200 --> 01:31:16,360 Speaker 3: is possibly Colin Powell, the only member of the Bush 1880 01:31:16,360 --> 01:31:20,080 Speaker 3: administration most sane people, kind of sort of life, and 1881 01:31:20,200 --> 01:31:22,679 Speaker 3: he pretty much abandoned the party after all the fight 1882 01:31:23,240 --> 01:31:27,519 Speaker 3: their fight over doma. Uh yeah, well, honestly, Colin Powell 1883 01:31:28,080 --> 01:31:31,240 Speaker 3: said he was an independent like he was a little like, hey, 1884 01:31:31,320 --> 01:31:34,960 Speaker 3: I work for them niggas, but that ain't Ben Carson, 1885 01:31:35,200 --> 01:31:38,679 Speaker 3: or as I call him, Doctor Judas, is a clown, 1886 01:31:39,160 --> 01:31:42,920 Speaker 3: a side show attraction, a anti racism deflection shield for 1887 01:31:43,000 --> 01:31:45,840 Speaker 3: the full board bigotry in the Republican Party, no different 1888 01:31:45,840 --> 01:31:48,800 Speaker 3: than Bobby Jendo or Ted Cruz. It's sad that such 1889 01:31:48,800 --> 01:31:51,920 Speaker 3: an accomplished man would let these devils clown him like 1890 01:31:52,000 --> 01:31:54,200 Speaker 3: this and tarnish his own legacy just for a couple 1891 01:31:54,240 --> 01:31:57,559 Speaker 3: of coins from Ruper Murdoch, man Capper Donnah get more 1892 01:31:57,560 --> 01:32:01,080 Speaker 3: and more militant man calling white people devils and all 1893 01:32:01,160 --> 01:32:02,040 Speaker 3: kinds of shit lately. 1894 01:32:02,640 --> 01:32:05,120 Speaker 1: Everything we need to check on you. 1895 01:32:05,320 --> 01:32:07,880 Speaker 3: Yes, your manager coming down on you hard or something. Brother, 1896 01:32:08,160 --> 01:32:11,080 Speaker 3: Just calm down a little bit, Jesus christ. 1897 01:32:10,920 --> 01:32:13,200 Speaker 1: Man, stay off the corners. 1898 01:32:13,520 --> 01:32:20,439 Speaker 3: Man got once it got written up. Prince Lawn says, 1899 01:32:20,520 --> 01:32:23,840 Speaker 3: hell no, he is not a serious contender. Conservatives will 1900 01:32:23,920 --> 01:32:27,200 Speaker 3: let him build some fame up now, but will strike 1901 01:32:27,320 --> 01:32:31,000 Speaker 3: his ass down during the primaries. There is no way 1902 01:32:31,120 --> 01:32:33,080 Speaker 3: they are going to let a black man rough president 1903 01:32:33,200 --> 01:32:35,360 Speaker 3: on their ticket. It does not matter how good of 1904 01:32:35,400 --> 01:32:37,919 Speaker 3: a job he's doing pretending to be stupid in these interviews. 1905 01:32:40,400 --> 01:32:42,920 Speaker 3: He will not pull in any minority votes because he 1906 01:32:42,920 --> 01:32:45,400 Speaker 3: has already came out to conservative on too many issues, 1907 01:32:45,880 --> 01:32:47,600 Speaker 3: but he will do a good job as being the 1908 01:32:47,680 --> 01:32:50,240 Speaker 3: newest black guy that shipped on black people for a living. Yeah. 1909 01:32:50,240 --> 01:32:52,120 Speaker 3: I had a couple. I have my friends on the 1910 01:32:52,200 --> 01:32:55,240 Speaker 3: Wing Night List, mostly white dudes. Okay, only white dudes, 1911 01:32:55,240 --> 01:32:58,160 Speaker 3: and Chris I mean, and he said, And one of 1912 01:32:58,200 --> 01:33:00,400 Speaker 3: them was like, I don't see white people vote for 1913 01:33:00,400 --> 01:33:02,040 Speaker 3: being Carson. I say, he's a joke, and they were like, 1914 01:33:02,479 --> 01:33:04,680 Speaker 3: he's a joke. House said, man, just look up his 1915 01:33:04,760 --> 01:33:09,680 Speaker 3: record on racing and and and LGBT issues. And they 1916 01:33:09,720 --> 01:33:14,600 Speaker 3: were like, I mean, but he was a surgeon, and 1917 01:33:14,720 --> 01:33:18,679 Speaker 3: I trust a neurosurgeon that could uh separate conjoined twins 1918 01:33:18,760 --> 01:33:21,000 Speaker 3: more than I couch. A community organized And I was like, 1919 01:33:22,640 --> 01:33:26,040 Speaker 3: what does being a neurosurgeon have to do with being 1920 01:33:26,080 --> 01:33:31,679 Speaker 3: a president? Community organized is way better fucking uh experience 1921 01:33:31,760 --> 01:33:32,519 Speaker 3: for being president. 1922 01:33:33,360 --> 01:33:34,680 Speaker 1: Secondly, the communities. 1923 01:33:34,920 --> 01:33:35,120 Speaker 8: Yeah. 1924 01:33:35,160 --> 01:33:36,439 Speaker 3: So I was like, well, this showed me what he 1925 01:33:36,520 --> 01:33:39,960 Speaker 3: said about race or whatever. And I said, no, I'm 1926 01:33:40,040 --> 01:33:43,600 Speaker 3: not doing it right. He's not even serious enough for 1927 01:33:43,680 --> 01:33:45,640 Speaker 3: me to go google and argue this shit over you. 1928 01:33:46,520 --> 01:33:47,400 Speaker 1: I know what he said. 1929 01:33:47,560 --> 01:33:50,720 Speaker 3: You can easily google what he said, right, Okay, I 1930 01:33:50,840 --> 01:33:53,720 Speaker 3: know off the top of my head. He compared Obamacare 1931 01:33:53,760 --> 01:33:57,000 Speaker 3: to fucking slavery and said it was the same thing. 1932 01:33:58,000 --> 01:34:01,719 Speaker 3: Get the fuck out of here, vote for this nigga anyway. 1933 01:34:02,640 --> 01:34:05,000 Speaker 3: One thing I saw last year was these young new 1934 01:34:05,080 --> 01:34:08,880 Speaker 3: niggas are hop hopping in on the Carson bandwagon. They 1935 01:34:08,920 --> 01:34:11,720 Speaker 3: were citing being Carson just because he is homophobic. They 1936 01:34:11,760 --> 01:34:14,400 Speaker 3: were pretty much saying Black people are comprising their faith, 1937 01:34:14,600 --> 01:34:17,519 Speaker 3: just compromising their face just so they could support Obama, 1938 01:34:17,640 --> 01:34:20,240 Speaker 3: but they themselves refused to do so, and Being Carson 1939 01:34:20,360 --> 01:34:23,080 Speaker 3: is the man they support. It was all good until Ferguson. 1940 01:34:23,160 --> 01:34:25,320 Speaker 3: The other events happened. Yep, he had several statements on 1941 01:34:25,400 --> 01:34:29,599 Speaker 3: Ferguson too, basically blaming the black community for that shit. 1942 01:34:30,320 --> 01:34:32,679 Speaker 3: I saw them niggas complaining about Obama was not saying 1943 01:34:32,800 --> 01:34:38,240 Speaker 3: enough when Ben Carson hadn't said shit or or was 1944 01:34:38,400 --> 01:34:41,200 Speaker 3: on they ass every day every day until they admitted 1945 01:34:41,240 --> 01:34:42,840 Speaker 3: that I was on the ass every day till the 1946 01:34:42,840 --> 01:34:46,320 Speaker 3: admitted carto what Carso was really about? Oh, he said 1947 01:34:46,400 --> 01:34:50,040 Speaker 3: some shit about Ferguson, basically the black community and get 1948 01:34:50,080 --> 01:34:53,120 Speaker 3: a shit together. Nothing due to that racist ass police 1949 01:34:53,160 --> 01:34:56,400 Speaker 3: force that we actually have documented evidence of their racism. Now, 1950 01:34:56,960 --> 01:35:02,720 Speaker 3: by the way, news flash, America. That's pretty much every 1951 01:35:02,760 --> 01:35:07,120 Speaker 3: police department. It's not just one row police department. Every 1952 01:35:07,120 --> 01:35:12,280 Speaker 3: police department where you find a uh well mostly white 1953 01:35:12,320 --> 01:35:14,519 Speaker 3: police force. Police in the community, they don't live in 1954 01:35:17,000 --> 01:35:19,000 Speaker 3: excuse me, you gonna see ship like that. 1955 01:35:19,200 --> 01:35:21,840 Speaker 1: That's the problem. They don't live in it, so that 1956 01:35:22,080 --> 01:35:24,960 Speaker 1: it's a separation and disconnect between them in the community. 1957 01:35:25,160 --> 01:35:27,800 Speaker 1: And that's why here, uh they got hot. But the 1958 01:35:28,680 --> 01:35:32,160 Speaker 1: the police chief here was like, hey, motherfuckers, y'all get 1959 01:35:32,160 --> 01:35:34,080 Speaker 1: out y'all cars to walk around these communities, like he 1960 01:35:34,280 --> 01:35:37,240 Speaker 1: forced the officers to go into these communities and get 1961 01:35:37,280 --> 01:35:40,560 Speaker 1: to know the people that have functions that communicate. He 1962 01:35:40,800 --> 01:35:44,120 Speaker 1: was like, the problem is that it's a separation. And 1963 01:35:44,280 --> 01:35:49,760 Speaker 1: your job is not to just put down your fist 1964 01:35:49,800 --> 01:35:52,639 Speaker 1: of authority. Your job is also to protect and serve 1965 01:35:52,720 --> 01:35:55,160 Speaker 1: the people too, which is always lost in the calls 1966 01:35:55,640 --> 01:35:58,200 Speaker 1: where you go where you're supposed to protect and serve, 1967 01:35:59,280 --> 01:36:02,880 Speaker 1: to go where we supposed to you know, disallowed, yes, 1968 01:36:03,920 --> 01:36:07,800 Speaker 1: but also protect and served the people of the community. 1969 01:36:08,479 --> 01:36:12,040 Speaker 1: And that's very frustrating and that's why, well, people don't 1970 01:36:12,280 --> 01:36:14,439 Speaker 1: feel like they're protected and served. How can they take 1971 01:36:14,479 --> 01:36:15,919 Speaker 1: you seriously and take your organization. 1972 01:36:16,120 --> 01:36:19,080 Speaker 3: Seriously, seriously, Yeah, you represent a threat to me and 1973 01:36:19,200 --> 01:36:22,040 Speaker 3: my community, and you're supposed to be our people that 1974 01:36:22,120 --> 01:36:25,160 Speaker 3: we trust to come handle shit, you know, not to mention. 1975 01:36:27,040 --> 01:36:29,880 Speaker 2: You know, I'll go into it further, probably tomorrow when 1976 01:36:29,920 --> 01:36:32,280 Speaker 2: we actually go some more into this. 1977 01:36:32,439 --> 01:36:36,160 Speaker 3: But I told you so. This is why people listen 1978 01:36:36,200 --> 01:36:36,599 Speaker 3: to the show. 1979 01:36:37,400 --> 01:36:37,560 Speaker 5: You know. 1980 01:36:37,720 --> 01:36:40,080 Speaker 3: I sat on here probably for about thirty minutes to 1981 01:36:40,160 --> 01:36:43,360 Speaker 3: an hour and just broke down how deep the shit 1982 01:36:43,520 --> 01:36:48,479 Speaker 3: gets with criminalizing black people as a source of revenue 1983 01:36:48,520 --> 01:36:52,880 Speaker 3: for cities, right, and none of this Ferguson shit has 1984 01:36:53,000 --> 01:36:57,920 Speaker 3: surprised me at all. And shout out to Eric Holder, 1985 01:36:58,040 --> 01:37:02,360 Speaker 3: shout out to President Obama for being the first, the 1986 01:37:02,640 --> 01:37:07,200 Speaker 3: first people to actually make the connection and very and 1987 01:37:07,360 --> 01:37:08,960 Speaker 3: like put it out there in the public, like you 1988 01:37:09,120 --> 01:37:14,000 Speaker 3: see this shit now, Like you can't pretend you don't 1989 01:37:14,000 --> 01:37:14,280 Speaker 3: see it. 1990 01:37:14,920 --> 01:37:15,080 Speaker 5: You know. 1991 01:37:15,479 --> 01:37:16,960 Speaker 2: That's what I appreciated about them. 1992 01:37:17,439 --> 01:37:20,960 Speaker 1: Study stat statistics. You fuckers can't acue that, and if 1993 01:37:21,040 --> 01:37:22,200 Speaker 1: you do, you sound dumb. 1994 01:37:22,800 --> 01:37:26,400 Speaker 3: Always, I say, if you follow the fucking money, you'll 1995 01:37:26,439 --> 01:37:31,719 Speaker 3: see that this isn't just about racism. We have monetized racism. 1996 01:37:32,640 --> 01:37:36,519 Speaker 3: We need it now. America needs racism because it's a 1997 01:37:36,640 --> 01:37:40,280 Speaker 3: source of income for our privatized prisons, for our over 1998 01:37:40,400 --> 01:37:45,479 Speaker 3: militarized police, you know, for the judicial system where court 1999 01:37:45,560 --> 01:37:48,679 Speaker 3: costs on every ticket. Well, they're right, they're writing tickets 2000 01:37:48,760 --> 01:37:53,519 Speaker 3: for motherfuckers walking funny being mostly black people getting the tickets, 2001 01:37:54,760 --> 01:37:57,639 Speaker 3: you know, like that. This is the cost of business, 2002 01:37:57,800 --> 01:38:03,720 Speaker 3: your Mike Brown's life, Tamrror Right's life, this is the 2003 01:38:03,840 --> 01:38:08,040 Speaker 3: cost of business. They are collateral damage. They are just 2004 01:38:08,200 --> 01:38:12,960 Speaker 3: what happens when you're policing a war zone quote unquote. 2005 01:38:13,000 --> 01:38:16,919 Speaker 3: And yeah, and by war zone, I mean the police 2006 01:38:17,040 --> 01:38:20,200 Speaker 3: are at war with the community in very many ways 2007 01:38:20,240 --> 01:38:24,320 Speaker 3: what I civil rights with our humanity. So yeah, that's 2008 01:38:24,360 --> 01:38:30,080 Speaker 3: what happens, all right, sugar bas said I'd vote in 2009 01:38:30,160 --> 01:38:33,599 Speaker 3: a damn a dog before that clown. 2010 01:38:37,280 --> 01:38:39,200 Speaker 1: Mm hmm, you okay with that, buddy? 2011 01:38:39,479 --> 01:38:41,200 Speaker 2: Get choked up? Hold on, I gotta play some music 2012 01:38:41,320 --> 01:38:41,599 Speaker 2: or something. 2013 01:38:41,640 --> 01:38:46,479 Speaker 3: This is killing sorry, everybody, got Let me play some 2014 01:38:46,560 --> 01:38:49,640 Speaker 3: music for y'all because you're getting choked up. Here's some 2015 01:38:50,479 --> 01:38:57,200 Speaker 3: best of Empire here. Why don't you guys enjoy? Uh uh, 2016 01:38:58,439 --> 01:38:59,160 Speaker 3: I want to love. 2017 01:38:59,080 --> 01:38:59,920 Speaker 6: You by just. 2018 01:39:10,320 --> 01:39:15,400 Speaker 1: Pay by kissing bad taking dail. 2019 01:39:15,479 --> 01:39:17,559 Speaker 4: I guess an. 2020 01:39:19,600 --> 01:39:20,439 Speaker 1: You got him? 2021 01:39:20,520 --> 01:39:23,280 Speaker 3: Kids, get coming down and give it. 2022 01:39:23,439 --> 01:39:28,080 Speaker 4: Shure b to shure you w lin start. 2023 01:39:28,520 --> 01:39:35,599 Speaker 3: Hippy, come in love me, Oh child, you you make 2024 01:39:35,720 --> 01:39:36,479 Speaker 3: me crazy. 2025 01:39:38,160 --> 01:39:41,240 Speaker 1: I need you writing next to me. 2026 01:39:42,320 --> 01:39:45,240 Speaker 3: We're gonna go away while we're still like. 2027 01:39:47,680 --> 01:39:54,559 Speaker 1: Wel t read love and the never be, don't living 2028 01:39:54,760 --> 01:39:57,880 Speaker 1: inside kids and the look a stick? 2029 01:39:59,479 --> 01:40:03,559 Speaker 3: No, all right, got a cough drop. See if this works. 2030 01:40:05,240 --> 01:40:07,840 Speaker 3: Kyle says, Nah, he need to get rid of that 2031 01:40:07,920 --> 01:40:11,640 Speaker 3: little bit of facial hair he has. That's true. He 2032 01:40:11,720 --> 01:40:15,200 Speaker 3: ain't smooth and where is he? Where is his planing? 2033 01:40:15,240 --> 01:40:18,280 Speaker 3: Hermon Kane had a plan No, not nine for I 2034 01:40:18,280 --> 01:40:20,800 Speaker 3: would do Ben. I would rather do hermon Kine part two, 2035 01:40:20,960 --> 01:40:23,599 Speaker 3: the Ben Carson part one won't. 2036 01:40:25,600 --> 01:40:31,000 Speaker 2: He was adorable, non threatening because we knew that Nigga wasn't. 2037 01:40:30,840 --> 01:40:35,720 Speaker 3: Gonna be president. Plus Ben needs to get some base 2038 01:40:35,800 --> 01:40:38,200 Speaker 3: in his voice. I don't want my president to sound 2039 01:40:38,280 --> 01:40:41,320 Speaker 3: like good Weekend? Oh he does? 2040 01:40:41,400 --> 01:40:41,600 Speaker 1: How that? 2041 01:40:41,800 --> 01:40:42,040 Speaker 3: Really? 2042 01:40:42,680 --> 01:40:48,240 Speaker 1: I'm being Carson, man, I'm gonna say that when I 2043 01:40:48,360 --> 01:40:49,680 Speaker 1: came on Anything New. 2044 01:40:50,640 --> 01:40:55,000 Speaker 3: Obama can't explain man, okay, like what is wrong with you? 2045 01:40:56,600 --> 01:40:56,720 Speaker 1: Uh? 2046 01:40:58,439 --> 01:41:04,679 Speaker 3: Oh my god, that dude is uh let's see uh. 2047 01:41:07,040 --> 01:41:08,760 Speaker 2: Here, let me see I can find a clipping him 2048 01:41:08,800 --> 01:41:10,160 Speaker 2: talking because it's so good. 2049 01:41:11,520 --> 01:41:15,080 Speaker 1: Being Carson stands by Nazi Germany slavery comparisons. 2050 01:41:19,479 --> 01:41:21,720 Speaker 9: It was pretty stunning to me when you said this. 2051 01:41:22,200 --> 01:41:25,479 Speaker 9: The comparison has been widely reported about the United States 2052 01:41:25,560 --> 01:41:28,280 Speaker 9: and Nazi Germany. I'm gonna play the clip and then 2053 01:41:28,320 --> 01:41:30,479 Speaker 9: I want you to explain, doctor Carson. 2054 01:41:30,680 --> 01:41:31,519 Speaker 5: What you meant. 2055 01:41:33,920 --> 01:41:35,559 Speaker 3: Very much like Nazi Germany. 2056 01:41:35,960 --> 01:41:38,040 Speaker 10: And I know you're not supposed to say Nazi Germany, 2057 01:41:38,160 --> 01:41:41,280 Speaker 10: but I don't care about political correctness. You know, you 2058 01:41:41,520 --> 01:41:46,520 Speaker 10: had a government using its tools to intimidate the population. 2059 01:41:47,240 --> 01:41:50,360 Speaker 10: We now live in a society where people are afraid 2060 01:41:50,760 --> 01:41:54,400 Speaker 10: to say what they actually believe. And it's because of 2061 01:41:54,479 --> 01:41:59,719 Speaker 10: the PC police, it's because of the politicians, because of news. 2062 01:42:00,680 --> 01:42:06,520 Speaker 10: It's all of these things are combining to stifle people's conversation. 2063 01:42:08,000 --> 01:42:10,000 Speaker 9: All right, So you got to explain that, because when 2064 01:42:10,000 --> 01:42:12,639 Speaker 9: I heard the comparison of the United States of America, 2065 01:42:12,680 --> 01:42:15,320 Speaker 9: the greatest country in the world, the greatest country ever 2066 01:42:15,360 --> 01:42:18,439 Speaker 9: in a Nazi Germany, I said, what is he talking about? 2067 01:42:20,479 --> 01:42:25,280 Speaker 11: Well, see, what you were doing is allowing words to 2068 01:42:25,439 --> 01:42:28,639 Speaker 11: affect you more than listening to what was actually being. 2069 01:42:30,040 --> 01:42:33,920 Speaker 9: The great I greatly admire you and what you've done 2070 01:42:34,200 --> 01:42:36,280 Speaker 9: over the years. But to make the comparison of the 2071 01:42:36,400 --> 01:42:40,639 Speaker 9: United States and Nazi Germany, that just struck an awful tone. 2072 01:42:42,920 --> 01:42:48,719 Speaker 11: Well, Nazi Germany experienced something horrible. The people in Nazi 2073 01:42:48,840 --> 01:42:52,400 Speaker 11: Germany largely did not believe in what Hitler was doing. 2074 01:42:52,560 --> 01:42:54,720 Speaker 3: But did they say anything, of course not. They kept 2075 01:42:54,760 --> 01:42:55,439 Speaker 3: their mouths shut. 2076 01:42:55,960 --> 01:42:58,599 Speaker 11: And there's some very important lessons to be learned there, 2077 01:42:58,960 --> 01:43:03,160 Speaker 11: the fact that our man is using instruments of government 2078 01:43:03,320 --> 01:43:09,479 Speaker 11: like the irs to Yeah, but you know. 2079 01:43:09,640 --> 01:43:11,920 Speaker 3: Go ahead, you know, why do I think he's a joke? Guys, 2080 01:43:12,000 --> 01:43:14,719 Speaker 3: what's wrong with Rod? I'm crazy? 2081 01:43:17,600 --> 01:43:17,880 Speaker 5: You are? 2082 01:43:20,200 --> 01:43:21,160 Speaker 2: Raddy Gatson says. 2083 01:43:21,240 --> 01:43:23,559 Speaker 3: One thing that struck me out about doctor carson comments 2084 01:43:23,640 --> 01:43:25,360 Speaker 3: is the underlying notion that you should be able to 2085 01:43:25,400 --> 01:43:27,960 Speaker 3: discriminate against gays because they chose to be that way, 2086 01:43:28,439 --> 01:43:30,400 Speaker 3: but that you shouldn't be able to discriminate against blacks 2087 01:43:30,439 --> 01:43:33,760 Speaker 3: because they can't change skin color. While racism and homophobia 2088 01:43:33,840 --> 01:43:37,479 Speaker 3: can be internalized, they are largely external phenomena. Lots of 2089 01:43:37,600 --> 01:43:40,519 Speaker 3: harmful stuff comes from prejudice and classification that comes from 2090 01:43:40,560 --> 01:43:43,960 Speaker 3: outside the person. No amount of being an acceptable black 2091 01:43:44,080 --> 01:43:47,400 Speaker 3: or good gay will change that. What's more, the othering 2092 01:43:47,439 --> 01:43:50,120 Speaker 3: of homosexuality, the notion that you can't be straight unless 2093 01:43:50,160 --> 01:43:52,439 Speaker 3: you are one hundred percent head of sexual the not 2094 01:43:52,560 --> 01:43:56,600 Speaker 3: one drop of seamen rule question mark is likely the 2095 01:43:56,720 --> 01:43:59,960 Speaker 3: reason thohy, some folks must might reclassify themselves as gay 2096 01:44:00,120 --> 01:44:02,120 Speaker 3: after sexual experiences in trauma in prison. 2097 01:44:03,000 --> 01:44:06,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's definitely not because Ben Carson so understanding. 2098 01:44:07,160 --> 01:44:07,559 Speaker 1: Correct. 2099 01:44:08,040 --> 01:44:09,720 Speaker 3: All right, let's get to the voicemails. 2100 01:44:11,600 --> 01:44:14,800 Speaker 8: Hey, riding Karen, it's just data. I dis fascinated listen 2101 01:44:14,920 --> 01:44:19,160 Speaker 8: to the Big Chop and just wanted to congratulate Karen 2102 01:44:19,240 --> 01:44:21,479 Speaker 8: on becoming, you know, part of Team Natural. 2103 01:44:22,479 --> 01:44:23,479 Speaker 12: When I saw the title of. 2104 01:44:23,479 --> 01:44:25,880 Speaker 8: The show, I was like, I wondered I had to 2105 01:44:25,960 --> 01:44:28,240 Speaker 8: do with natural hair, But it could do that, it 2106 01:44:28,280 --> 01:44:32,000 Speaker 8: could be anything. But yeah, it's just a couple of comments. 2107 01:44:32,600 --> 01:44:36,160 Speaker 8: Actually I didn't really get as many comments, I think 2108 01:44:36,240 --> 01:44:39,360 Speaker 8: because I kind of did The Natural a little bit later, 2109 01:44:39,600 --> 01:44:42,280 Speaker 8: But my sister didn't when it was still fairly new. 2110 01:44:42,920 --> 01:44:44,679 Speaker 5: And yeah, she felt like she got more. 2111 01:44:44,640 --> 01:44:48,840 Speaker 8: Negative comments from actually black people, you know, than white people. 2112 01:44:49,080 --> 01:44:52,519 Speaker 8: And one guy even asked her to Karen, you know 2113 01:44:52,560 --> 01:44:55,080 Speaker 8: about like, well, oh what does your husband think about this? 2114 01:44:55,479 --> 01:44:57,600 Speaker 8: Or you know whatever, I can imagine her husband, I 2115 01:44:57,720 --> 01:45:02,320 Speaker 8: happy with did it. She said something like, yeah, he 2116 01:45:02,439 --> 01:45:04,479 Speaker 8: used to wrung his fingers through my hair and now 2117 01:45:04,600 --> 01:45:09,080 Speaker 8: he passed it or what or whatever. So yeah, people 2118 01:45:09,160 --> 01:45:11,400 Speaker 8: used to have a lot of just like off you know, 2119 01:45:11,520 --> 01:45:14,679 Speaker 8: the cuff comments about what you're doing your own hair. 2120 01:45:15,400 --> 01:45:16,519 Speaker 13: For me at school. 2121 01:45:18,439 --> 01:45:21,439 Speaker 8: I'm in graduate school and so people never I kindergard 2122 01:45:21,479 --> 01:45:23,600 Speaker 8: school and after hair, but people never knew me was 2123 01:45:23,720 --> 01:45:27,160 Speaker 8: like my parent hair. And I kind of caught people 2124 01:45:27,200 --> 01:45:29,040 Speaker 8: off guard when I came back from like the Christmas 2125 01:45:29,080 --> 01:45:33,439 Speaker 8: break and had my hair straightened. And I mean, yeah, 2126 01:45:33,720 --> 01:45:35,920 Speaker 8: I liked I like my hair straight as well, but 2127 01:45:36,400 --> 01:45:38,240 Speaker 8: I really didn't know how to take the comments of 2128 01:45:38,400 --> 01:45:40,920 Speaker 8: some people, you know, saying like oh, your hair is 2129 01:45:40,960 --> 01:45:44,759 Speaker 8: so pretty or it's so nice, like you know, you should, 2130 01:45:45,160 --> 01:45:47,519 Speaker 8: you know, do that more often or something. So that 2131 01:45:47,680 --> 01:45:49,560 Speaker 8: kind of offended me and feel like, oh, you know, 2132 01:45:49,680 --> 01:45:54,120 Speaker 8: it's my curly hair, not nice, you know. But also 2133 01:45:54,200 --> 01:45:55,519 Speaker 8: too though. I mean, I learned even when I was 2134 01:45:55,600 --> 01:45:59,200 Speaker 8: younger that white people, of course it's not as much 2135 01:45:59,240 --> 01:46:03,960 Speaker 8: of a stigma with our natural hair, but even white 2136 01:46:04,000 --> 01:46:07,360 Speaker 8: people who don't have quote unquote curly hair, they have 2137 01:46:07,600 --> 01:46:11,080 Speaker 8: wavy hair. But like I learned the cheerleading in Canda, 2138 01:46:11,160 --> 01:46:13,280 Speaker 8: They'll get up and they'll will you know, they watched 2139 01:46:13,280 --> 01:46:15,760 Speaker 8: her every day and they will flat iron it every day. 2140 01:46:15,840 --> 01:46:19,200 Speaker 8: So even like, you know, people who quote unquote has 2141 01:46:19,240 --> 01:46:22,040 Speaker 8: this straight hair, their hair is not straight. It's like 2142 01:46:22,120 --> 01:46:23,680 Speaker 8: got a little bit of wave too it. So I 2143 01:46:23,720 --> 01:46:26,160 Speaker 8: don't know, you know what it is about this whole 2144 01:46:28,240 --> 01:46:30,559 Speaker 8: straight is the best because even people who you think 2145 01:46:30,680 --> 01:46:33,880 Speaker 8: have like straight bone hair still have a little bit 2146 01:46:33,920 --> 01:46:39,280 Speaker 8: of waves or possibly curl to it. And but yeah, 2147 01:46:39,360 --> 01:46:42,040 Speaker 8: I can't remember growing up, and it was kind of ironic, 2148 01:46:42,320 --> 01:46:46,000 Speaker 8: you know, with actually growing up feeling like I wanted 2149 01:46:46,160 --> 01:46:49,400 Speaker 8: to have the curly hair and you know, and then like, actually, 2150 01:46:49,439 --> 01:46:51,560 Speaker 8: well you do have curly hair. You just been straining me, 2151 01:46:51,760 --> 01:46:54,960 Speaker 8: you know, since you were tend. But also though, just 2152 01:46:55,040 --> 01:46:58,720 Speaker 8: to kind of wrap it up, guys, I also heard 2153 01:46:59,000 --> 01:47:02,040 Speaker 8: I saw this article that Canton, the you know, HBCU, 2154 01:47:02,479 --> 01:47:07,240 Speaker 8: it's actually for their NBA program, has made it or outlawed. 2155 01:47:07,320 --> 01:47:10,599 Speaker 8: I guess you could say that students in this program 2156 01:47:10,680 --> 01:47:14,920 Speaker 8: cannot have dress and cannot have corn roads because I 2157 01:47:14,960 --> 01:47:17,280 Speaker 8: guess they feel like they're going to go into business 2158 01:47:17,360 --> 01:47:19,960 Speaker 8: and so they need to look quote unquote corporate I 2159 01:47:20,120 --> 01:47:22,559 Speaker 8: just kind of wanted to know what you guys, how 2160 01:47:22,640 --> 01:47:25,720 Speaker 8: you thoughtself about it. I personally am against it. I 2161 01:47:25,840 --> 01:47:29,240 Speaker 8: feel like, okay, you know, you can suggested or just 2162 01:47:29,360 --> 01:47:31,200 Speaker 8: keep it real with people like, hey, you know, if 2163 01:47:31,240 --> 01:47:34,040 Speaker 8: you have to start hair style, unfortunately, you know you 2164 01:47:34,160 --> 01:47:36,200 Speaker 8: might not be taking it seriously, but hey, it's you know, 2165 01:47:36,240 --> 01:47:38,200 Speaker 8: it's still your decision to wear your hair where you 2166 01:47:38,280 --> 01:47:40,680 Speaker 8: want to wear it. I just feel like once we 2167 01:47:40,760 --> 01:47:45,040 Speaker 8: start impuming these rules to conform to you know, the 2168 01:47:45,160 --> 01:47:48,120 Speaker 8: white man's whatever, you know, I just feel like we 2169 01:47:48,280 --> 01:47:52,519 Speaker 8: just give it even more fuel to undermine, you know, 2170 01:47:52,680 --> 01:47:56,519 Speaker 8: our culture and just what we are as you know, 2171 01:47:56,680 --> 01:47:59,400 Speaker 8: just regular people with our you know, our hair or 2172 01:47:59,479 --> 01:48:03,800 Speaker 8: how we dres our names and whatever else. But yeah, guys, 2173 01:48:03,880 --> 01:48:07,560 Speaker 8: love the show, and row, could you say again on 2174 01:48:07,600 --> 01:48:10,160 Speaker 8: the show what your Spotify name is? I would love 2175 01:48:10,280 --> 01:48:13,040 Speaker 8: to follow different pay lists and stuff you use on 2176 01:48:13,080 --> 01:48:19,000 Speaker 8: the show. But all right, guys, agreen congraticating and as. 2177 01:48:19,479 --> 01:48:22,880 Speaker 3: All right cool. I believe my Spotify name is rod 2178 01:48:23,000 --> 01:48:28,519 Speaker 3: space tvg w T and that's you know, yeah, just 2179 01:48:29,160 --> 01:48:32,280 Speaker 3: follow me on that. Carol, were you gonna say something? 2180 01:48:32,280 --> 01:48:33,400 Speaker 3: I saw you writing stuff down? 2181 01:48:33,520 --> 01:48:38,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, First of all, uh, just in general. I 2182 01:48:39,000 --> 01:48:44,040 Speaker 1: think sometimes because black people have always been criticized and 2183 01:48:44,200 --> 01:48:47,920 Speaker 1: picked upon for many, many many years about the natural hair, 2184 01:48:48,360 --> 01:48:50,840 Speaker 1: people have a tendency to forget that all white people 2185 01:48:50,880 --> 01:48:55,240 Speaker 1: don't have straight hair, and some of the and a 2186 01:48:55,360 --> 01:48:59,040 Speaker 1: lot of white people hair is course like ours. It's 2187 01:48:59,080 --> 01:49:03,200 Speaker 1: just it's just differently. But course it's just meaning the curliness, 2188 01:49:03,280 --> 01:49:06,439 Speaker 1: the tightness, how your hair just naturally curls, you know, 2189 01:49:06,720 --> 01:49:09,280 Speaker 1: just comes out of your scalp, and like she say, 2190 01:49:09,400 --> 01:49:12,000 Speaker 1: a lot of white women go through that process of 2191 01:49:13,000 --> 01:49:17,200 Speaker 1: flat ironing and you know, doing all kinds of things 2192 01:49:17,400 --> 01:49:20,320 Speaker 1: anything just to get your hair out of its natural curl. 2193 01:49:20,760 --> 01:49:20,920 Speaker 5: You know. 2194 01:49:21,080 --> 01:49:24,559 Speaker 1: I just think for a lot of society, having curly 2195 01:49:24,760 --> 01:49:28,200 Speaker 1: hair is almost frowned upon, you know, like what's wrong? 2196 01:49:28,240 --> 01:49:30,479 Speaker 1: Why doesn't your hair grow straight? So people will spend 2197 01:49:30,520 --> 01:49:32,479 Speaker 1: a lot of money, a lot of time, and things 2198 01:49:32,560 --> 01:49:35,479 Speaker 1: like that. And the sad part of battle is that, yes, 2199 01:49:35,560 --> 01:49:38,080 Speaker 1: black women are given a hard time, but white women 2200 01:49:38,120 --> 01:49:40,840 Speaker 1: are giving a hard time too if they don't fit 2201 01:49:40,920 --> 01:49:43,320 Speaker 1: the stereotype even though they're white, and even though yes, 2202 01:49:43,439 --> 01:49:47,840 Speaker 1: white women still have privilege, but they're also criticized. And 2203 01:49:48,200 --> 01:49:52,840 Speaker 1: just women period are criticized and put down because you're 2204 01:49:52,920 --> 01:49:56,240 Speaker 1: not the model. You know, you don't have the blond 2205 01:49:56,320 --> 01:49:58,559 Speaker 1: hair and the blue eyes. You know, you don't fitish 2206 01:49:58,560 --> 01:50:02,560 Speaker 1: certain stereotype. But when it comes to black people, we 2207 01:50:02,760 --> 01:50:07,639 Speaker 1: get even criticized even harder because it's like, well, something 2208 01:50:07,840 --> 01:50:09,600 Speaker 1: is wrong with you. Then you have to deal with 2209 01:50:09,640 --> 01:50:12,000 Speaker 1: the fact that, you know, society has always looked at 2210 01:50:12,000 --> 01:50:13,920 Speaker 1: black people and still do as less than, are not 2211 01:50:14,040 --> 01:50:19,519 Speaker 1: equal to, And so to me, I think that's just 2212 01:50:19,600 --> 01:50:22,200 Speaker 1: a problem with society in the way society is designed. 2213 01:50:22,800 --> 01:50:25,280 Speaker 1: And I also I do think it's funny how you know, 2214 01:50:25,439 --> 01:50:27,160 Speaker 1: a lot of people feel like when it comes to 2215 01:50:27,280 --> 01:50:31,080 Speaker 1: your hair, like they have like you become property. You know, 2216 01:50:31,640 --> 01:50:34,760 Speaker 1: to people in general, you know about your hair and 2217 01:50:34,840 --> 01:50:37,559 Speaker 1: how it looks and things like that. And it's sad 2218 01:50:37,680 --> 01:50:41,240 Speaker 1: because years ago you couldn't do the things that you 2219 01:50:41,280 --> 01:50:42,760 Speaker 1: could do now with hair. Now you can do so 2220 01:50:42,880 --> 01:50:46,080 Speaker 1: much more with black hair in this natural stage, when 2221 01:50:46,200 --> 01:50:48,560 Speaker 1: years ago you couldn't do that. And also when she 2222 01:50:48,680 --> 01:50:52,680 Speaker 1: was talking about in corporate America ten to fifteen years ago, 2223 01:50:52,880 --> 01:50:57,360 Speaker 1: if you walked in certain office spaces, you better not 2224 01:50:57,439 --> 01:50:59,519 Speaker 1: coming there with no dread locks, no corn rows. You 2225 01:50:59,600 --> 01:51:02,479 Speaker 1: may not come there with no twisting the locks, you know, 2226 01:51:02,560 --> 01:51:04,160 Speaker 1: and if people will walk your ass right on out 2227 01:51:04,200 --> 01:51:06,840 Speaker 1: there like nigga, you don't belong here. But I think 2228 01:51:06,920 --> 01:51:11,479 Speaker 1: as time, you know, has chains and people have moved on, 2229 01:51:11,600 --> 01:51:15,000 Speaker 1: you still have some some areas of corporate America. They 2230 01:51:15,040 --> 01:51:17,560 Speaker 1: still ain't trying to hear that, you know, And I 2231 01:51:17,640 --> 01:51:21,240 Speaker 1: think it's sad that did they want, Like, it's sad 2232 01:51:21,320 --> 01:51:25,000 Speaker 1: because it's like there's something wrong with the way your 2233 01:51:25,120 --> 01:51:27,840 Speaker 1: hair naturally grows. There's something wrong with that, and there's 2234 01:51:27,920 --> 01:51:29,719 Speaker 1: nothing wrong with the way making that you girls. 2235 01:51:29,960 --> 01:51:32,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, one of the problems I have with HBCUs is 2236 01:51:32,560 --> 01:51:35,160 Speaker 3: that the culture can be too conservative for my taste 2237 01:51:36,120 --> 01:51:39,280 Speaker 3: as a person that is more forward thinking, a little 2238 01:51:39,320 --> 01:51:44,320 Speaker 3: bit more challenging to the status quo, not necessarily from 2239 01:51:44,360 --> 01:51:48,360 Speaker 3: the old school, not very religious. My values don't necessarily 2240 01:51:48,479 --> 01:51:51,800 Speaker 3: job with that. So I don't think someone should have 2241 01:51:51,920 --> 01:51:53,719 Speaker 3: to cut their hair to be in your business school. 2242 01:51:55,520 --> 01:51:58,040 Speaker 3: The same like, I think that's already teaching a lesson 2243 01:51:58,120 --> 01:52:00,519 Speaker 3: that black people are inferior, need to confor warm and 2244 01:52:01,439 --> 01:52:03,320 Speaker 3: you know, I think that's teaching people not to be 2245 01:52:03,439 --> 01:52:09,160 Speaker 3: a leader. You know, my school didn't have that requirement. 2246 01:52:10,479 --> 01:52:13,879 Speaker 3: But I disagree with Hapten doing that, and I wouldn't 2247 01:52:13,880 --> 01:52:16,680 Speaker 3: want to go there if that was a requirement, you know, 2248 01:52:18,439 --> 01:52:22,240 Speaker 3: and you know, and they're conservative about different things, you know, sex, 2249 01:52:23,040 --> 01:52:26,479 Speaker 3: they can be very conservative about that, drinking stuff like that. 2250 01:52:26,680 --> 01:52:28,840 Speaker 2: Not that that's necessarily different from other schools or maybe 2251 01:52:28,840 --> 01:52:29,080 Speaker 2: you go to. 2252 01:52:29,120 --> 01:52:32,960 Speaker 3: Many private institutions, you go to miny religious institutions, is 2253 01:52:33,040 --> 01:52:33,600 Speaker 3: that way, but. 2254 01:52:34,040 --> 01:52:35,240 Speaker 1: It's not all of them, but a lot. 2255 01:52:35,320 --> 01:52:38,120 Speaker 3: I mean, some of the big you know b YU 2256 01:52:39,439 --> 01:52:41,800 Speaker 3: you know, does that, and we consider them like a 2257 01:52:41,840 --> 01:52:44,280 Speaker 3: big time school. So it's not like an exclusive only 2258 01:52:44,360 --> 01:52:48,240 Speaker 3: the black schools, but uh, it is something that culturally, 2259 01:52:48,360 --> 01:52:50,519 Speaker 3: I was always more progressive than the school I went to. 2260 01:52:52,439 --> 01:52:55,400 Speaker 2: You know that being said, it was cool to be 2261 01:52:55,520 --> 01:52:56,760 Speaker 2: included in a culture. 2262 01:52:56,479 --> 01:52:59,880 Speaker 3: That was mostly my own and I could completely relate 2263 01:52:59,920 --> 01:53:01,680 Speaker 3: to when there was a sense of empowerment there that 2264 01:53:01,760 --> 01:53:05,439 Speaker 3: I couldn't just get anywhere. But I'm not somebody that's 2265 01:53:05,439 --> 01:53:08,040 Speaker 3: just gonna tell you well, no, no, no, HBCUs are 2266 01:53:08,080 --> 01:53:12,040 Speaker 3: perfect and everybody else can suck a dick like Noah. 2267 01:53:12,320 --> 01:53:14,960 Speaker 3: They had some flaws too, and I'm sure if I 2268 01:53:14,960 --> 01:53:16,599 Speaker 3: would have went to another university, I would have found 2269 01:53:16,600 --> 01:53:17,160 Speaker 3: flaws there too. 2270 01:53:17,200 --> 01:53:19,400 Speaker 2: It's just can you find what best fits you and 2271 01:53:19,520 --> 01:53:21,640 Speaker 2: if you can suit you, if you can deal with it. 2272 01:53:22,640 --> 01:53:27,800 Speaker 12: Next Verice Mail, Hey, guys, A Tower just wanted to say, happy, 2273 01:53:27,960 --> 01:53:32,519 Speaker 12: nine hundred episodes, good shots, guys, nine episodes of greatness 2274 01:53:32,720 --> 01:53:36,439 Speaker 12: or whatever amount of shows you want to consider the 2275 01:53:36,840 --> 01:53:39,360 Speaker 12: good ones that I consider them all good. 2276 01:53:41,880 --> 01:53:44,400 Speaker 5: I just want to say I really love the show. 2277 01:53:44,640 --> 01:53:51,400 Speaker 5: I know my feedback has been terrible for most of 2278 01:53:51,439 --> 01:53:54,360 Speaker 5: the time I've been on the scene and the seedback 2279 01:53:54,520 --> 01:53:57,360 Speaker 5: and everything, but I just want to say I appreciate 2280 01:53:57,439 --> 01:54:01,000 Speaker 5: your show. You know, I'm like an advance angelis about 2281 01:54:01,040 --> 01:54:04,599 Speaker 5: your show. I tell anyone who I can't and about 2282 01:54:04,640 --> 01:54:07,160 Speaker 5: your show and like, you know, yeah, listen to the show. 2283 01:54:07,200 --> 01:54:10,439 Speaker 5: It's fucking hilarious. I tell people about my job. Don't worry, 2284 01:54:10,520 --> 01:54:12,639 Speaker 5: I'm not going to get fired over it, because it's 2285 01:54:12,720 --> 01:54:15,920 Speaker 5: not like some corporate job where everyone's upside and we'll 2286 01:54:16,000 --> 01:54:19,360 Speaker 5: get all sended. I was like, come on, listen to 2287 01:54:19,439 --> 01:54:22,920 Speaker 5: this show, those black eyed Tips. It's fucking hilarious. And 2288 01:54:23,560 --> 01:54:25,679 Speaker 5: you know, I hope more people listen to your show, 2289 01:54:25,760 --> 01:54:29,360 Speaker 5: and I hope more people will, you know, start buying 2290 01:54:29,479 --> 01:54:33,960 Speaker 5: premium and you accomplishated goal. I mean, you've done nine 2291 01:54:34,000 --> 01:54:36,680 Speaker 5: hundred shows, so keep it up. 2292 01:54:37,240 --> 01:54:43,600 Speaker 3: Later boom, thanks, I appreciate it. Man, we do definitely 2293 01:54:43,720 --> 01:54:47,560 Speaker 3: a milestone and you know glad we were able to 2294 01:54:47,600 --> 01:54:48,240 Speaker 3: get here so far. 2295 01:54:51,480 --> 01:54:52,760 Speaker 4: I also rode. 2296 01:54:52,480 --> 01:54:55,200 Speaker 14: Karon, this is Audi. I'm golling to tell you. I 2297 01:54:55,320 --> 01:54:57,920 Speaker 14: love you guys. I'm new to your podcast, but I 2298 01:54:58,040 --> 01:55:01,000 Speaker 14: think it's really funny. A lot of following your the 2299 01:55:01,240 --> 01:55:04,640 Speaker 14: uh Morning Jones. I heard about you then listening to 2300 01:55:05,480 --> 01:55:08,520 Speaker 14: Omani show The Morning Jones, and I started following you 2301 01:55:08,640 --> 01:55:11,600 Speaker 14: on Twitter, and uh, I just want to say that 2302 01:55:12,040 --> 01:55:15,080 Speaker 14: mother show and uh that's pretty much all I got. 2303 01:55:15,200 --> 01:55:17,960 Speaker 14: Kind of netive. I did really know what I want 2304 01:55:18,040 --> 01:55:20,560 Speaker 14: to say this, but yeah, I love the show man. 2305 01:55:20,680 --> 01:55:21,160 Speaker 12: Keep it up. 2306 01:55:23,240 --> 01:55:26,520 Speaker 1: Oh man, thank you already, thank you very much. 2307 01:55:27,080 --> 01:55:28,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I know I show it's kind of different 2308 01:55:28,720 --> 01:55:31,160 Speaker 3: than Morning Jones. You know, it's not about sports and stuff. 2309 01:55:33,000 --> 01:55:36,880 Speaker 3: You know, it's about a bunch of stuff. So make 2310 01:55:36,920 --> 01:55:40,040 Speaker 3: sure that you uh do that, you know what I mean. 2311 01:55:40,560 --> 01:55:45,320 Speaker 3: So we'll appreciate everybody does that follow us and listen 2312 01:55:45,400 --> 01:55:49,800 Speaker 3: to us and whatnot. Got to read these emails phone 2313 01:55:49,840 --> 01:55:52,040 Speaker 3: lines or open seven O four five five seven zero 2314 01:55:53,360 --> 01:55:56,280 Speaker 3: seven O four five five seven zero one eight six, 2315 01:55:57,400 --> 01:55:59,920 Speaker 3: Uh keep money right, So on my own big chop 2316 01:56:00,080 --> 01:56:03,839 Speaker 3: in the future, Oh lot roda, Miss and Karen Episode 2317 01:56:03,880 --> 01:56:07,160 Speaker 3: eight ninety eight was ironic to me because I'm thinking 2318 01:56:07,200 --> 01:56:10,360 Speaker 3: of my own big chop. I've come to a realization 2319 01:56:11,160 --> 01:56:12,920 Speaker 3: that I'm going to have to shave my head pretty 2320 01:56:12,960 --> 01:56:15,560 Speaker 3: soon because I'm thinning at the top. Hold on, I 2321 01:56:15,640 --> 01:56:18,680 Speaker 3: got a phone roll. Hey, you're on with the Black 2322 01:56:18,720 --> 01:56:19,240 Speaker 3: ou Tips. 2323 01:56:20,360 --> 01:56:22,160 Speaker 13: Hey, Ry, Hey, Karen', Leslie, Matt. 2324 01:56:22,200 --> 01:56:23,000 Speaker 14: How are you guys? 2325 01:56:23,640 --> 01:56:24,000 Speaker 3: Leslie? 2326 01:56:24,160 --> 01:56:24,760 Speaker 1: How you doing? 2327 01:56:25,760 --> 01:56:28,760 Speaker 13: I'm doing good. First, I wanted to congratulate you like 2328 01:56:28,840 --> 01:56:32,080 Speaker 13: everyone else has on your nine hundredth episode. It's you know, 2329 01:56:32,240 --> 01:56:35,920 Speaker 13: awesome milestone and just at testament to the amazing work 2330 01:56:35,960 --> 01:56:38,680 Speaker 13: that you guys do. And I know how much work 2331 01:56:38,760 --> 01:56:40,680 Speaker 13: and time you guys put into it, and just you know, 2332 01:56:40,720 --> 01:56:44,360 Speaker 13: we all really appreciate it, and I'm just an awe 2333 01:56:44,520 --> 01:56:50,480 Speaker 13: So that's that's just awesome and congratulations. But secondarily, I 2334 01:56:50,560 --> 01:56:53,240 Speaker 13: wanted to just chat with Miss Karen and Queen Karen, 2335 01:56:53,280 --> 01:56:55,760 Speaker 13: as I like to refer to her real quick about 2336 01:56:55,840 --> 01:56:59,240 Speaker 13: her her big chop, and just let her know how 2337 01:56:59,320 --> 01:57:03,800 Speaker 13: appreciative as I am personally about her sharing her decision 2338 01:57:03,960 --> 01:57:08,040 Speaker 13: with us and the things that she's gone through before 2339 01:57:08,320 --> 01:57:12,200 Speaker 13: and afterwards. I think a lot of times, while obviously 2340 01:57:12,280 --> 01:57:15,880 Speaker 13: it's a very personal choice, the stigma of making the 2341 01:57:15,960 --> 01:57:20,520 Speaker 13: decision sometimes makes us quiet about it. And it's been 2342 01:57:20,640 --> 01:57:23,280 Speaker 13: really great to hear you talking so openly about it. 2343 01:57:23,360 --> 01:57:25,160 Speaker 13: And I know you guys share so much of your life, 2344 01:57:25,200 --> 01:57:28,960 Speaker 13: and I just appreciate you, you know, sharing this part 2345 01:57:29,000 --> 01:57:33,200 Speaker 13: as well. It's really powerful and it says a lot 2346 01:57:33,720 --> 01:57:37,120 Speaker 13: to all of us out here holding you down on 2347 01:57:37,200 --> 01:57:38,360 Speaker 13: the female end of things. 2348 01:57:38,560 --> 01:57:39,960 Speaker 1: And I also. 2349 01:57:41,360 --> 01:57:43,720 Speaker 13: Would say there's a unique thing with black women in 2350 01:57:43,760 --> 01:57:46,840 Speaker 13: their hair and especially deciding to go natural, that you know, 2351 01:57:46,920 --> 01:57:50,960 Speaker 13: we're not just receiving messages from you know, media and 2352 01:57:51,360 --> 01:57:53,680 Speaker 13: business and all of these other things that tell us 2353 01:57:53,720 --> 01:57:54,320 Speaker 13: to conform. 2354 01:57:54,400 --> 01:57:56,800 Speaker 5: But I have found that older. 2355 01:57:56,600 --> 01:58:00,200 Speaker 13: Generations of black women is another big pressure point for 2356 01:58:00,440 --> 01:58:03,880 Speaker 13: us in making this decision. You know, when I went natural, 2357 01:58:04,000 --> 01:58:06,160 Speaker 13: my mom said to me, well, what are you going 2358 01:58:06,240 --> 01:58:06,760 Speaker 13: to do with it? 2359 01:58:07,800 --> 01:58:10,080 Speaker 12: Mm hmm, Like ask me that question. 2360 01:58:10,200 --> 01:58:12,000 Speaker 13: I was like, well, I'm just gonna let it do 2361 01:58:12,160 --> 01:58:14,520 Speaker 13: whatever it wants to do. Like I don't need to 2362 01:58:14,600 --> 01:58:17,640 Speaker 13: do anything, but I do know that you know that 2363 01:58:17,880 --> 01:58:22,480 Speaker 13: generational transition from needing it to look done quote unquote 2364 01:58:22,600 --> 01:58:26,000 Speaker 13: or have something done to it. It's definitely a big 2365 01:58:26,080 --> 01:58:30,640 Speaker 13: pressure too. So and the last thing that I appreciated 2366 01:58:30,720 --> 01:58:34,440 Speaker 13: about your sharing your story is your acknowledgement that it's 2367 01:58:34,520 --> 01:58:38,440 Speaker 13: a personal decision and a decision to relax your hair 2368 01:58:38,760 --> 01:58:42,200 Speaker 13: or to wear weaves or to go natural. It's okay, 2369 01:58:42,440 --> 01:58:45,720 Speaker 13: whatever decision you make for yourself, whatever works for you. 2370 01:58:47,200 --> 01:58:49,880 Speaker 13: And I like it not so much too. There was 2371 01:58:49,920 --> 01:58:53,320 Speaker 13: a big push, you know, when feminism was really taking off, 2372 01:58:53,400 --> 01:58:56,720 Speaker 13: where people would be looking down on stay at home 2373 01:58:56,800 --> 01:58:59,400 Speaker 13: moms for example, like, oh, you're not a feminist because 2374 01:58:59,400 --> 01:59:02,280 Speaker 13: you stay at home. It's like, no, the whole feminism 2375 01:59:02,360 --> 01:59:04,280 Speaker 13: thing was supposed to be that we have a choice 2376 01:59:04,680 --> 01:59:06,640 Speaker 13: to do whatever we want. And so I hope that 2377 01:59:06,720 --> 01:59:09,120 Speaker 13: people see the natural hair movement the same way, that 2378 01:59:09,240 --> 01:59:12,440 Speaker 13: it's not about you being forced to do something, but 2379 01:59:12,560 --> 01:59:15,360 Speaker 13: that you have the option to do whatever works for you. 2380 01:59:16,280 --> 01:59:21,400 Speaker 1: M correct, Well, I agree, I agree to. 2381 01:59:22,960 --> 01:59:24,880 Speaker 13: Anyways. That's all I wanted to say. And just again, 2382 01:59:24,920 --> 01:59:27,840 Speaker 13: thanks again Karen for sharing your story. I don't even 2383 01:59:27,960 --> 01:59:30,160 Speaker 13: think you realize how powerful it is and how many 2384 01:59:30,200 --> 01:59:33,040 Speaker 13: of us are speaking to when you share all all 2385 01:59:33,080 --> 01:59:37,320 Speaker 13: of your experiences and you look fucking beautiful and gorgeous, 2386 01:59:37,440 --> 01:59:40,120 Speaker 13: and that's all I have to say. So you guys 2387 01:59:40,160 --> 01:59:40,919 Speaker 13: have an app. 2388 01:59:41,200 --> 01:59:46,640 Speaker 1: One of the Thank you Sweetie, Leslie. All right, well bye, sweetie. 2389 01:59:47,640 --> 01:59:50,560 Speaker 3: Can you believe we were just fussing on my Facebook 2390 01:59:50,560 --> 01:59:53,800 Speaker 3: page a couple of weeks ago each other. I'm I'm 2391 01:59:53,840 --> 01:59:56,800 Speaker 3: toldal she was gonna I say, you can't get rid 2392 01:59:56,840 --> 01:59:59,800 Speaker 3: of me. So no, y'all go, y'all go together. I'm 2393 01:59:59,800 --> 02:00:03,880 Speaker 3: not tell them, yeah, go ahead. 2394 02:00:03,800 --> 02:00:10,080 Speaker 1: And I think for me, I'm not gonna said. I 2395 02:00:10,160 --> 02:00:14,520 Speaker 1: think for me, the whole transition is actually easy. It's 2396 02:00:14,600 --> 02:00:17,320 Speaker 1: it might sound weird, but it's actually easier and more 2397 02:00:17,400 --> 02:00:19,560 Speaker 1: frame sharing it with you guys. It's weird as that 2398 02:00:19,720 --> 02:00:24,880 Speaker 1: may sound, because like, for me, sharing it with you guys, 2399 02:00:25,800 --> 02:00:29,120 Speaker 1: let me know that I wasn't alone. I never really 2400 02:00:29,160 --> 02:00:32,560 Speaker 1: thought I was alone. But yeah, guys, so many of 2401 02:00:32,640 --> 02:00:38,640 Speaker 1: my coworkers unnatural, and I never knew like a lot 2402 02:00:38,720 --> 02:00:41,320 Speaker 1: of them have been natural for years, but their hair 2403 02:00:41,960 --> 02:00:45,760 Speaker 1: looked like it was relaxed, like it was still straight 2404 02:00:46,080 --> 02:00:48,160 Speaker 1: or however us that like it almost like that some 2405 02:00:48,320 --> 02:00:49,960 Speaker 1: of them, like their hair almost didn't go through a 2406 02:00:50,000 --> 02:00:53,840 Speaker 1: transformation because some people went through and I've team before 2407 02:00:53,880 --> 02:00:56,320 Speaker 1: how they had the two textured hair and they just 2408 02:00:56,480 --> 02:01:00,560 Speaker 1: let their relax hair just grow out. And so for 2409 02:01:00,680 --> 02:01:03,120 Speaker 1: some people it's been a slow process so they never 2410 02:01:03,240 --> 02:01:05,480 Speaker 1: lost their length. A lot of women they just kept 2411 02:01:05,520 --> 02:01:07,120 Speaker 1: good care of it and things like that. To now 2412 02:01:07,240 --> 02:01:10,720 Speaker 1: they just all their hairs all natural. And so I 2413 02:01:10,800 --> 02:01:13,240 Speaker 1: had a lot of my black coworkers kind of come 2414 02:01:13,640 --> 02:01:15,800 Speaker 1: up and I almost joined the Secret Club. They came 2415 02:01:15,920 --> 02:01:17,600 Speaker 1: to my desk and was like, Hey, I want you 2416 02:01:17,600 --> 02:01:19,600 Speaker 1: to know I've been natural for two years. 2417 02:01:19,960 --> 02:01:20,160 Speaker 3: You know. 2418 02:01:20,520 --> 02:01:23,040 Speaker 1: You know. It's like I was like, you know, his 2419 02:01:23,200 --> 02:01:25,640 Speaker 1: a handshake and some shape butter and some black soap. 2420 02:01:26,000 --> 02:01:27,960 Speaker 1: You know, thank you for joining the crew girl. You 2421 02:01:28,040 --> 02:01:30,000 Speaker 1: know that's kind of how it felt. So I felt like, oh, 2422 02:01:30,280 --> 02:01:33,880 Speaker 1: you know, And it was not they were never shamed 2423 02:01:33,920 --> 02:01:35,440 Speaker 1: or anything like that, but it was just something that 2424 02:01:35,520 --> 02:01:38,000 Speaker 1: they did was not opened about and didn't talk about. 2425 02:01:38,080 --> 02:01:40,400 Speaker 1: And because a lot of them didn't get the big chop, 2426 02:01:40,880 --> 02:01:43,320 Speaker 1: it wasn't obvious. Like when I came in, it was like, 2427 02:01:43,600 --> 02:01:46,800 Speaker 1: oh okay. And it was funny though, because most black 2428 02:01:46,840 --> 02:01:50,000 Speaker 1: people was like, yeah, you're going natural. You know, most 2429 02:01:50,040 --> 02:01:52,920 Speaker 1: white people say, oh, I like your cut, you know so. 2430 02:01:53,160 --> 02:01:55,920 Speaker 1: That's kind of the difference between almost the two responses. 2431 02:01:56,280 --> 02:01:58,120 Speaker 1: And some of them may have known I was going natural. 2432 02:01:58,160 --> 02:02:00,480 Speaker 1: They just seem that got a hair cut, you know so. 2433 02:02:01,440 --> 02:02:04,560 Speaker 1: And it's just funny though, when you talk and communicate 2434 02:02:04,600 --> 02:02:08,320 Speaker 1: with people. I think that because the way society shames 2435 02:02:08,400 --> 02:02:10,400 Speaker 1: women and people feel like they have property over you 2436 02:02:10,480 --> 02:02:12,560 Speaker 1: and your body and your hair on social media and. 2437 02:02:12,640 --> 02:02:14,960 Speaker 3: Things like that, y'all should be a shame. Now y'all 2438 02:02:15,000 --> 02:02:18,680 Speaker 3: do have those big flapping vagina libs. That's a pretty 2439 02:02:18,720 --> 02:02:21,680 Speaker 3: shameful thing. I mean to get mad at everybody that. 2440 02:02:23,680 --> 02:02:31,400 Speaker 1: No, no, it don't hell's won't you, And it scared 2441 02:02:31,400 --> 02:02:33,520 Speaker 1: all of them in the way, and they just get 2442 02:02:33,560 --> 02:02:36,920 Speaker 1: the running because oh lord, they they they they over there, 2443 02:02:37,040 --> 02:02:38,440 Speaker 1: just a flapping away, and I don't want know what 2444 02:02:38,520 --> 02:02:42,400 Speaker 1: to do, and then making me feel uncomfortable. All those 2445 02:02:42,600 --> 02:02:46,080 Speaker 1: over rids and the universes I would there talking to 2446 02:02:46,160 --> 02:02:47,240 Speaker 1: each other. We don't know what to do. 2447 02:02:47,480 --> 02:02:52,920 Speaker 3: It's a lot of work. So they go on to say, 2448 02:02:53,120 --> 02:02:54,880 Speaker 3: I've come to the realization that I'm going to have 2449 02:02:54,960 --> 02:02:56,800 Speaker 3: to shave my head pretty soon because it's standing at 2450 02:02:56,840 --> 02:02:58,920 Speaker 3: the top and I'm not going to be walking around 2451 02:02:59,240 --> 02:03:01,800 Speaker 3: with a call to sad a twenty five. I'm holding 2452 02:03:01,880 --> 02:03:03,800 Speaker 3: back on shaving it all off because a lot of 2453 02:03:03,840 --> 02:03:06,400 Speaker 3: women like my hair when I don't cut it down 2454 02:03:06,480 --> 02:03:09,720 Speaker 3: for a month and curls up anyways to the main, 2455 02:03:09,920 --> 02:03:12,520 Speaker 3: to the more important and beautiful choppe no offense, future 2456 02:03:12,560 --> 02:03:17,040 Speaker 3: ball beater brother. I I went and saw your pictures 2457 02:03:17,080 --> 02:03:20,360 Speaker 3: that Karen. They are beautiful, like like Layla. I had 2458 02:03:20,440 --> 02:03:22,760 Speaker 3: a lady friend do the big chop about two years ago, 2459 02:03:23,280 --> 02:03:25,000 Speaker 3: and I was sort of taking it back the first 2460 02:03:25,080 --> 02:03:27,560 Speaker 3: time I saw her because it was such a shock. 2461 02:03:27,680 --> 02:03:29,440 Speaker 3: The more I was around her, the more I came 2462 02:03:29,520 --> 02:03:32,120 Speaker 3: to love it at any woman that has the natty. 2463 02:03:32,240 --> 02:03:34,480 Speaker 3: I don't know if you be up for it, since 2464 02:03:34,520 --> 02:03:36,560 Speaker 3: you don't like messing around with your head, boss lady, 2465 02:03:36,840 --> 02:03:39,200 Speaker 3: but I think you look good with some bantu knots 2466 02:03:39,440 --> 02:03:42,400 Speaker 3: and when it grows out. I love you, guys and 2467 02:03:42,520 --> 02:03:43,360 Speaker 3: your black love. 2468 02:03:43,880 --> 02:03:45,840 Speaker 1: Thank you, because it's one of those things where I 2469 02:03:45,960 --> 02:03:49,120 Speaker 1: don't know because because everything is so new, I don't 2470 02:03:49,160 --> 02:03:50,960 Speaker 1: know where I'm gonna go, like if that makes sense, 2471 02:03:51,000 --> 02:03:53,160 Speaker 1: Like I just don't know because now I'm to the 2472 02:03:53,200 --> 02:03:57,320 Speaker 1: point where I'm gonna let it grow and we go 2473 02:03:57,400 --> 02:03:59,280 Speaker 1: to the side from there. As well as that may sound, 2474 02:03:59,360 --> 02:04:01,600 Speaker 1: so everbody gonna be going through the process with me 2475 02:04:01,680 --> 02:04:03,600 Speaker 1: because I just don't know what I want to do 2476 02:04:03,760 --> 02:04:07,000 Speaker 1: or where I want to go, you know. But one 2477 02:04:07,080 --> 02:04:11,080 Speaker 1: thing I can't say this is beautiful about black women's 2478 02:04:11,160 --> 02:04:15,720 Speaker 1: natural hair. It's actually very diverse. You can flat iron it, 2479 02:04:15,880 --> 02:04:20,200 Speaker 1: you can twist it, you can do cornrows, you can 2480 02:04:20,600 --> 02:04:24,040 Speaker 1: do dreads. You know you could do twist. You know 2481 02:04:24,160 --> 02:04:29,080 Speaker 1: you can do so dreadlocks. You can do so many 2482 02:04:29,840 --> 02:04:34,440 Speaker 1: different things with your hair. It's just amazing what our 2483 02:04:34,600 --> 02:04:37,440 Speaker 1: hair that people have a tendency to frown upon, can 2484 02:04:37,560 --> 02:04:41,000 Speaker 1: do so many different things. And it's just one of 2485 02:04:41,040 --> 02:04:44,280 Speaker 1: those things where if anything else, I just want on 2486 02:04:44,400 --> 02:04:47,720 Speaker 1: women out there just to love their hair, be it 2487 02:04:47,800 --> 02:04:50,560 Speaker 1: their natural hair, be it their relax hair, whatever, wherever 2488 02:04:50,640 --> 02:04:53,320 Speaker 1: your hair is, love it. That's all my ass is 2489 02:04:53,360 --> 02:04:55,960 Speaker 1: that you love your hair and love you, you know, 2490 02:04:56,080 --> 02:04:59,080 Speaker 1: because for me, a lot of it has. It might 2491 02:04:59,120 --> 02:05:03,000 Speaker 1: sound weird because when talking to Morgan and Rodney today, 2492 02:05:03,080 --> 02:05:05,040 Speaker 1: Morgan and said she listened to the show and the 2493 02:05:05,120 --> 02:05:06,680 Speaker 1: big I think the biggest thing for me is that 2494 02:05:06,800 --> 02:05:11,240 Speaker 1: I've always had confidence you guys, but honestly doing this 2495 02:05:11,360 --> 02:05:15,200 Speaker 1: since I can't, it's almost giving me more confidence, you know, 2496 02:05:15,600 --> 02:05:18,640 Speaker 1: because I get up in the morning, you know, I 2497 02:05:18,800 --> 02:05:21,920 Speaker 1: all my hair, I put on my ear rings. You know, 2498 02:05:22,120 --> 02:05:24,960 Speaker 1: I'm putting on lip gloss, you know. And so it's 2499 02:05:25,000 --> 02:05:26,840 Speaker 1: just one of these things where and Roger know me. 2500 02:05:26,960 --> 02:05:29,440 Speaker 1: I barely will know that lip girss and lipstick or 2501 02:05:29,520 --> 02:05:34,160 Speaker 1: anything like that. But it's it's almost like I almost 2502 02:05:34,240 --> 02:05:36,640 Speaker 1: want to take better care of myself. I'm always taken 2503 02:05:36,720 --> 02:05:41,240 Speaker 1: care of myself, a better care of myself. And I 2504 02:05:41,360 --> 02:05:44,440 Speaker 1: think it's just caused me to branch out and just 2505 02:05:44,520 --> 02:05:48,080 Speaker 1: to be bold and do things that I've never done before. 2506 02:05:48,200 --> 02:05:49,600 Speaker 1: And I know if people go but there's no but 2507 02:05:49,640 --> 02:05:53,480 Speaker 1: a simple haircut. Yeah, But like you say, I got 2508 02:05:53,680 --> 02:05:56,040 Speaker 1: my ears appears and my coworker was like, oh, your 2509 02:05:56,080 --> 02:05:59,080 Speaker 1: ears are pears because I never wore ear rings, you know. 2510 02:05:59,320 --> 02:06:02,720 Speaker 1: So it's just me to branch out and to try 2511 02:06:02,880 --> 02:06:04,800 Speaker 1: more things and getting colors. 2512 02:06:05,280 --> 02:06:05,440 Speaker 5: You know. 2513 02:06:05,560 --> 02:06:07,680 Speaker 1: I've seen all kinds of color lip gloss that I 2514 02:06:07,760 --> 02:06:10,240 Speaker 1: want to go buy and stuff like that, and so 2515 02:06:10,480 --> 02:06:14,320 Speaker 1: it's for me, it's just a freeing experience. Is I'm 2516 02:06:14,400 --> 02:06:17,440 Speaker 1: learning how to I love myself, but learning how to 2517 02:06:17,520 --> 02:06:20,920 Speaker 1: love myself even the more, and learning how to say that. 2518 02:06:21,880 --> 02:06:24,080 Speaker 1: I know I'm flya old, but that's okay. I know, 2519 02:06:24,320 --> 02:06:28,440 Speaker 1: not perfect, but that's okay. I know, you know, my 2520 02:06:29,560 --> 02:06:32,080 Speaker 1: who I am might not be quote unquote the standard 2521 02:06:32,160 --> 02:06:35,080 Speaker 1: definition of beauty, but that's all right, you know. And 2522 02:06:35,320 --> 02:06:37,120 Speaker 1: just getting to the point in my life where I 2523 02:06:37,280 --> 02:06:38,960 Speaker 1: and I think a lot of it is that with 2524 02:06:39,080 --> 02:06:41,480 Speaker 1: me being older too, because I'm thirty six, I'm almost 2525 02:06:41,520 --> 02:06:44,240 Speaker 1: forty years old. For the first time in my life, 2526 02:06:44,320 --> 02:06:46,720 Speaker 1: I've gotten to the point where I just don't give 2527 02:06:46,840 --> 02:06:50,760 Speaker 1: a flat fuck anymore. And that's very hard for a 2528 02:06:50,840 --> 02:06:52,800 Speaker 1: lot of women to get to in their lives. They 2529 02:06:52,880 --> 02:06:55,840 Speaker 1: always let somebody else dictate for them what they should do, 2530 02:06:55,960 --> 02:06:58,080 Speaker 1: what they should wear, how they should act. Like everybody 2531 02:06:58,200 --> 02:07:00,200 Speaker 1: has always has an input in what you do when 2532 02:07:00,200 --> 02:07:00,600 Speaker 1: your life. 2533 02:07:00,600 --> 02:07:04,840 Speaker 3: But you you know, think embracing more of yourself is 2534 02:07:04,920 --> 02:07:08,720 Speaker 3: always like a good you know, it's a good gateway 2535 02:07:08,800 --> 02:07:10,600 Speaker 3: to a bunch of other stuff. 2536 02:07:10,520 --> 02:07:10,680 Speaker 1: You know. 2537 02:07:11,440 --> 02:07:13,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, and like you just you care about yourself and 2538 02:07:14,040 --> 02:07:17,120 Speaker 3: you know you want your natural self to be your 2539 02:07:17,160 --> 02:07:20,200 Speaker 3: best representative, so it will make sense. 2540 02:07:20,680 --> 02:07:24,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, So it's been a wonderful free expand everybody was 2541 02:07:24,520 --> 02:07:27,560 Speaker 1: just saying that, you know, you look good, you look beautiful. 2542 02:07:27,680 --> 02:07:30,840 Speaker 1: You know, you're just more confident because I and I 2543 02:07:30,920 --> 02:07:33,200 Speaker 1: could just feel it from the inside out, you know, 2544 02:07:33,800 --> 02:07:37,240 Speaker 1: and it's just a very, very freeing feel. Like a 2545 02:07:37,320 --> 02:07:39,480 Speaker 1: lot of my coworkers was like, I bet you you 2546 02:07:39,600 --> 02:07:41,240 Speaker 1: feel free. I was like yeah, and you know, and 2547 02:07:41,320 --> 02:07:48,600 Speaker 1: it was amazing also, like you know what slave to 2548 02:07:48,680 --> 02:07:52,320 Speaker 1: hair because a lot of my coworkers want to get 2549 02:07:52,360 --> 02:07:54,560 Speaker 1: their haircut like this. I can. You know, have you 2550 02:07:54,640 --> 02:07:58,200 Speaker 1: ever been like free? And you go back and it's 2551 02:07:58,200 --> 02:08:00,440 Speaker 1: almost like I'm out of jail and I'm went back 2552 02:08:00,480 --> 02:08:02,920 Speaker 1: and I'm going you could be free too. All you 2553 02:08:03,000 --> 02:08:05,200 Speaker 1: gotta do is walk out to door. Ain't nobody holding you? 2554 02:08:05,320 --> 02:08:07,360 Speaker 1: They go, no, I want to walk out to door. 2555 02:08:07,640 --> 02:08:08,640 Speaker 1: But I'm glad you're free. 2556 02:08:08,800 --> 02:08:12,160 Speaker 3: I just feel like all the other the other women 2557 02:08:12,600 --> 02:08:15,680 Speaker 3: must be looking at you like people look at free 2558 02:08:15,800 --> 02:08:17,760 Speaker 3: slaves or something. They're talking about you free now and 2559 02:08:17,800 --> 02:08:18,480 Speaker 3: shit like you. 2560 02:08:19,000 --> 02:08:21,120 Speaker 1: And for some of them, and some of them I 2561 02:08:21,240 --> 02:08:23,360 Speaker 1: know that this is not for them, But for some 2562 02:08:23,560 --> 02:08:26,560 Speaker 1: of them, just talking to her, I could tell that 2563 02:08:26,720 --> 02:08:29,000 Speaker 1: the attitude about hear it's like mine they just don't 2564 02:08:29,040 --> 02:08:30,000 Speaker 1: give a fuck about it. 2565 02:08:30,520 --> 02:08:33,720 Speaker 3: You know, maybe they just kind of identify with the 2566 02:08:33,800 --> 02:08:36,880 Speaker 3: bravery of a change. I think people like seeing change, 2567 02:08:36,920 --> 02:08:39,440 Speaker 3: and then it reminds people how scared they are changed 2568 02:08:39,480 --> 02:08:42,120 Speaker 3: and how and some people how much they want to change, 2569 02:08:42,200 --> 02:08:44,840 Speaker 3: you know, Corec. It's kind of like, good for you. 2570 02:08:45,000 --> 02:08:46,960 Speaker 3: I just think, you know, it's one of those like 2571 02:08:47,040 --> 02:08:49,200 Speaker 3: it's a big change no matter how people look at it. 2572 02:08:49,360 --> 02:08:49,920 Speaker 1: So correct. 2573 02:08:51,440 --> 02:08:54,800 Speaker 3: All right, let's uh get to this email. I think 2574 02:08:54,840 --> 02:08:56,760 Speaker 3: I forgot to read this on the last time. Robert 2575 02:08:56,840 --> 02:08:59,680 Speaker 3: Wright saying I love your show. What's up? Guys, just 2576 02:08:59,760 --> 02:09:01,240 Speaker 3: want to drop you a line say how much I 2577 02:09:01,400 --> 02:09:03,160 Speaker 3: enjoy your show. I tried to leave a couple of 2578 02:09:03,160 --> 02:09:05,360 Speaker 3: five star reviews on iTunes, but I was having problems. 2579 02:09:05,600 --> 02:09:08,040 Speaker 3: I stumbled upon your podcast by mistake, and it was 2580 02:09:08,080 --> 02:09:10,760 Speaker 3: the best accident that has ever happened to me. And 2581 02:09:10,840 --> 02:09:13,440 Speaker 3: then I heard your hashtag day Walker episode review and 2582 02:09:13,480 --> 02:09:15,720 Speaker 3: I was like, fuck, yeah. It is so hard to 2583 02:09:15,800 --> 02:09:18,440 Speaker 3: find people who watch The Walk it dead, especially black folks. 2584 02:09:18,800 --> 02:09:21,720 Speaker 3: I know y'all tired of hearing about Northwest, but I 2585 02:09:21,840 --> 02:09:25,080 Speaker 3: agree with y'all. People are ridiculous. And your episode about 2586 02:09:25,120 --> 02:09:27,800 Speaker 3: Jessica Williams was spot on. Women can be the masters 2587 02:09:27,840 --> 02:09:30,040 Speaker 3: of their own fate, but it seems society doesn't want 2588 02:09:30,080 --> 02:09:32,600 Speaker 3: them to be. And lastly, I love the fact that 2589 02:09:32,680 --> 02:09:35,840 Speaker 3: y'all are black, married couple doing this podcast. There aren't 2590 02:09:35,880 --> 02:09:39,040 Speaker 3: too many images or voices of black love in the media, 2591 02:09:39,320 --> 02:09:41,240 Speaker 3: so I'm proud that you guys are holding it down. 2592 02:09:41,520 --> 02:09:43,840 Speaker 1: I know this email is late, but better late than never. 2593 02:09:44,760 --> 02:09:47,000 Speaker 1: Please keep doing what you're doing. Long, live, long, and 2594 02:09:47,080 --> 02:09:50,160 Speaker 1: prosper Oh thank you, sweetee, thank you man. 2595 02:09:50,920 --> 02:09:52,720 Speaker 3: And that was before spot died that they wrote that 2596 02:09:53,440 --> 02:09:56,440 Speaker 3: allf Young said episode nine hundred Moms Work. It's been 2597 02:09:56,480 --> 02:09:58,360 Speaker 3: a while since I got it, you guys. I'm watching 2598 02:09:58,400 --> 02:10:00,440 Speaker 3: the Ferguson Mayor's press conferences. I write this. 2599 02:10:00,840 --> 02:10:02,760 Speaker 2: I wish I could work a job just finding people 2600 02:10:02,840 --> 02:10:03,640 Speaker 2: lawyers to fight. 2601 02:10:03,560 --> 02:10:06,480 Speaker 3: All these co violations. I have to agree with Karen 2602 02:10:06,520 --> 02:10:08,400 Speaker 3: and say that, being a single dad, I could not 2603 02:10:08,560 --> 02:10:11,520 Speaker 3: afford daycare for my youngest child when I was working, 2604 02:10:11,600 --> 02:10:13,640 Speaker 3: and the job I worked didn't care about letting me 2605 02:10:13,720 --> 02:10:15,400 Speaker 3: out in time to pick the other two kids up 2606 02:10:15,440 --> 02:10:17,800 Speaker 3: from school. Seeing what a lot of women are going 2607 02:10:17,840 --> 02:10:20,720 Speaker 3: through firsthand, it's hard to get a good job, find 2608 02:10:20,760 --> 02:10:23,680 Speaker 3: a significant other and plenty of other things. When you're 2609 02:10:23,920 --> 02:10:26,720 Speaker 3: when you put your family first. For that reason, I'm 2610 02:10:26,720 --> 02:10:28,880 Speaker 3: looking to start in my own home based daycare my 2611 02:10:29,000 --> 02:10:31,480 Speaker 3: thirteen year old who tries to listen to you guys 2612 02:10:31,560 --> 02:10:33,920 Speaker 3: with me, but out a letter says, HI, keep up 2613 02:10:33,960 --> 02:10:34,400 Speaker 3: to go work. 2614 02:10:34,800 --> 02:10:37,360 Speaker 1: Tell your baby I say hi to, and just tell 2615 02:10:37,400 --> 02:10:39,280 Speaker 1: them when she get of age, We'll still be here. 2616 02:10:39,200 --> 02:10:44,800 Speaker 3: For yeah, said Shana Hey Karen and Rod Queen Karen, 2617 02:10:45,400 --> 02:10:48,280 Speaker 3: thanks for sharing your Black Girl Truth episode eight ninety 2618 02:10:48,320 --> 02:10:49,720 Speaker 3: eight and Girl you Look good. 2619 02:10:50,040 --> 02:10:50,320 Speaker 1: Thank you. 2620 02:10:50,680 --> 02:10:52,880 Speaker 3: I was also raised in the South, and growing up, 2621 02:10:52,960 --> 02:10:55,680 Speaker 3: with the exception of a few dudes with locks, I 2622 02:10:55,840 --> 02:10:59,120 Speaker 3: didn't know anyone who had natural hair. Relaxes. Relaxes were 2623 02:10:59,160 --> 02:11:02,320 Speaker 3: just normalized. It wasn't until I went to school at 2624 02:11:02,360 --> 02:11:04,680 Speaker 3: FAMU that I saw so many other black women with 2625 02:11:04,840 --> 02:11:08,720 Speaker 3: natural hair. I always envy them. I am also lazy 2626 02:11:08,760 --> 02:11:12,480 Speaker 3: as hell. I was your classic relaxing with a ponytail girl, 2627 02:11:12,880 --> 02:11:15,120 Speaker 3: and I envied them because their hair was so beautiful. 2628 02:11:15,360 --> 02:11:17,160 Speaker 3: But I was scared to disappoint my mother and I 2629 02:11:17,280 --> 02:11:19,480 Speaker 3: was really sensitive, so I wasn't sure I can handle 2630 02:11:19,560 --> 02:11:20,200 Speaker 3: the criticism. 2631 02:11:20,840 --> 02:11:24,080 Speaker 2: But after college, my lazy girl took over I realized that. 2632 02:11:24,200 --> 02:11:26,040 Speaker 3: It made no sense for me to spend all this 2633 02:11:26,200 --> 02:11:28,280 Speaker 3: time and money getting my hair relaxed, only to wear 2634 02:11:28,280 --> 02:11:29,080 Speaker 3: it in a ponytail. 2635 02:11:29,120 --> 02:11:31,640 Speaker 2: Most of the time, I'm not attached to my hair. 2636 02:11:31,520 --> 02:11:35,320 Speaker 3: At all, so I dig the big chop. Even still, 2637 02:11:35,760 --> 02:11:37,360 Speaker 3: it was the first time in my I did the 2638 02:11:37,400 --> 02:11:38,520 Speaker 3: big chop. Sorry, and I did. 2639 02:11:38,680 --> 02:11:38,960 Speaker 1: I did. 2640 02:11:39,480 --> 02:11:42,040 Speaker 3: Even still, it was my first time in my life 2641 02:11:42,120 --> 02:11:45,160 Speaker 3: that I could remember when I learned what my natural 2642 02:11:45,240 --> 02:11:49,120 Speaker 3: hair texture really was. I enjoyed put I even put 2643 02:11:49,160 --> 02:11:52,120 Speaker 3: on I even put on my most feminine outfit out 2644 02:11:52,160 --> 02:11:55,760 Speaker 3: of fear that my family would think I look boyish. Thankfully, 2645 02:11:56,160 --> 02:11:58,040 Speaker 3: I have learned how to have a lack of fuck 2646 02:11:58,080 --> 02:12:00,320 Speaker 3: since then. And in the queer care I was just 2647 02:12:00,320 --> 02:12:02,840 Speaker 3: talking about that, and in the queer community there's less 2648 02:12:03,640 --> 02:12:04,600 Speaker 3: pressure to conform. 2649 02:12:05,520 --> 02:12:05,680 Speaker 1: Now. 2650 02:12:05,960 --> 02:12:08,720 Speaker 3: I've had a mohawk, a little afro, a big afro, 2651 02:12:09,040 --> 02:12:12,040 Speaker 3: and no hair and I love it all. But Karen, 2652 02:12:12,080 --> 02:12:16,400 Speaker 3: as a fellow memory, a fellow member of Lazy Girls United, Yes, 2653 02:12:17,640 --> 02:12:20,080 Speaker 3: let me give you some advice if I may. Our 2654 02:12:20,200 --> 02:12:23,040 Speaker 3: natural sisters, although we love them, are very opinionated about 2655 02:12:23,120 --> 02:12:25,280 Speaker 3: natural hair. They will tell you all this shit you 2656 02:12:25,360 --> 02:12:27,360 Speaker 3: need to do, and everyone will tell you something different, 2657 02:12:27,640 --> 02:12:29,520 Speaker 3: but they don't know the joys of naps and extra 2658 02:12:29,600 --> 02:12:30,360 Speaker 3: sleep in the morning. 2659 02:12:30,720 --> 02:12:32,520 Speaker 2: I hope you have been enjoyed this. By the way, 2660 02:12:32,840 --> 02:12:35,240 Speaker 2: I have find that one product that works for you. 2661 02:12:35,440 --> 02:12:37,400 Speaker 3: Yes, one, and it doesn't have to be nuts and 2662 02:12:37,440 --> 02:12:40,200 Speaker 3: berries and mao and avocado either. Just find that one 2663 02:12:40,880 --> 02:12:42,000 Speaker 3: product so you can be. 2664 02:12:42,800 --> 02:12:45,280 Speaker 2: About this wash and go life and get that extra sleep. 2665 02:12:45,760 --> 02:12:48,080 Speaker 3: And Rod, I know you don't like congratulations for not 2666 02:12:48,200 --> 02:12:50,360 Speaker 3: being a dick of a husband, but your words. 2667 02:12:52,040 --> 02:12:52,440 Speaker 5: I like that. 2668 02:12:52,520 --> 02:12:56,800 Speaker 3: Everybody knows. Everybody's like, all right, man, I'm about to 2669 02:12:56,840 --> 02:13:01,600 Speaker 3: congratulate you, so keep it cool, all right, But your 2670 02:13:01,640 --> 02:13:03,880 Speaker 3: words were really powerful. Saying I don't want to stand 2671 02:13:03,920 --> 02:13:05,480 Speaker 3: in your way as more than saying I love you 2672 02:13:05,640 --> 02:13:07,960 Speaker 3: no matter what. And even though you were just a 2673 02:13:08,040 --> 02:13:10,200 Speaker 3: pair of hands in the shopping trip, there's something to 2674 02:13:10,280 --> 02:13:12,280 Speaker 3: the idea taking the journey with Karen. My dad did 2675 02:13:12,320 --> 02:13:14,960 Speaker 3: the same for my mother, who went natural after fifty 2676 02:13:15,680 --> 02:13:18,080 Speaker 3: Before I go, can I say that I love those 2677 02:13:18,200 --> 02:13:20,840 Speaker 3: moments when Karen just gets to speak freely. Karen, you 2678 02:13:20,960 --> 02:13:23,560 Speaker 3: are so delightfully honest, and there is something so refreshing 2679 02:13:23,600 --> 02:13:26,080 Speaker 3: about it. Most of us rarely take the opportunity to 2680 02:13:26,200 --> 02:13:29,000 Speaker 3: just speak our peace without thinking twice. And when Karen 2681 02:13:29,120 --> 02:13:31,800 Speaker 3: does it, what comes out is so insightful. It's one 2682 02:13:31,800 --> 02:13:33,640 Speaker 3: of the reasons I love the show Until next time. 2683 02:13:34,400 --> 02:13:37,280 Speaker 1: Oh thank you. And you know what, I with that 2684 02:13:37,400 --> 02:13:39,040 Speaker 1: girl too, because I have to tell you, like I 2685 02:13:39,160 --> 02:13:41,600 Speaker 1: get a relax it be all curling pretty. People will 2686 02:13:41,640 --> 02:13:45,040 Speaker 1: see it on Saturday and by the Tinna walking Dead, 2687 02:13:45,120 --> 02:13:46,920 Speaker 1: come on that shit be flatty, be pushed back in 2688 02:13:46,960 --> 02:13:48,960 Speaker 1: the pony tail light because I was like, I guess, 2689 02:13:49,040 --> 02:13:53,240 Speaker 1: no fucks, I'm not gonna curl it. I'm not hopings 2690 02:13:53,480 --> 02:13:54,080 Speaker 1: behind it. 2691 02:13:55,720 --> 02:14:00,280 Speaker 3: Nope, I don't think I read this one. Did I 2692 02:14:00,360 --> 02:14:04,520 Speaker 3: recke Karen, Queen of the podcast ad libs, what's going on, guys, 2693 02:14:04,560 --> 02:14:06,400 Speaker 3: another week of great material. I know you guys have 2694 02:14:06,520 --> 02:14:09,440 Speaker 3: an audio play going with Shatout Doll Productions, but I'm 2695 02:14:09,440 --> 02:14:12,600 Speaker 3: gonna need a mashup of Karen's ad libs, Hot the 2696 02:14:13,120 --> 02:14:15,840 Speaker 3: Yes and old Shit bring me life, but real quick, 2697 02:14:15,880 --> 02:14:17,920 Speaker 3: got to break out the nerve real quick. I know 2698 02:14:18,040 --> 02:14:21,720 Speaker 3: you guys are Adrian didn't know what a polar vrotex was. Actually, 2699 02:14:21,800 --> 02:14:24,800 Speaker 3: it's a natural occurrent phenomenon that happens when a cold 2700 02:14:24,840 --> 02:14:28,080 Speaker 3: piece of polar low breaks away and moves away from 2701 02:14:28,080 --> 02:14:31,280 Speaker 3: the low. Some scientists believe that climate changes CAUs and 2702 02:14:31,360 --> 02:14:33,760 Speaker 3: this to happen. More often it's evidence of thin and 2703 02:14:34,000 --> 02:14:36,520 Speaker 3: icing the North Pole. Okay, nerve remember over anyway, have 2704 02:14:36,600 --> 02:14:39,520 Speaker 3: a great weekend, Brian p unofficial weather man of the show. 2705 02:14:40,760 --> 02:14:42,800 Speaker 1: Thanks, thank you, sweetie. 2706 02:14:42,920 --> 02:14:46,080 Speaker 3: All right, let's get back to this. Anthony H. Says 2707 02:14:46,320 --> 02:14:48,000 Speaker 3: episode eight ninety nine. I just wanted to say that 2708 02:14:48,120 --> 02:14:50,880 Speaker 3: Karen had me in tears multiple times this episode. Keep 2709 02:14:51,000 --> 02:14:53,960 Speaker 3: up to good work, Karen. Get your Burning Cross donuts, eol. 2710 02:14:55,240 --> 02:14:57,400 Speaker 3: We did go get some donuts at night, Yes we did. 2711 02:14:57,880 --> 02:15:01,120 Speaker 3: TVGWT is the movement, will right, saying, Sir Rod and 2712 02:15:01,240 --> 02:15:05,080 Speaker 3: Queen Cairn, what's up y'all? Great shows as usual. 2713 02:15:05,240 --> 02:15:07,280 Speaker 1: Happy to say that I finally signed up for premium 2714 02:15:07,280 --> 02:15:09,080 Speaker 1: and I am now delivered. 2715 02:15:10,720 --> 02:15:13,720 Speaker 2: From the bondage of less content. Once I found out 2716 02:15:13,800 --> 02:15:14,560 Speaker 2: that y'all are. 2717 02:15:14,480 --> 02:15:17,040 Speaker 3: A low key part of the eugenics elite, I said, shit, 2718 02:15:17,760 --> 02:15:21,880 Speaker 3: I definitely got a subscribe to the TVGWT doctrine. Now 2719 02:15:21,920 --> 02:15:24,560 Speaker 3: that I'm premium, there's a few suggestions I want to 2720 02:15:24,560 --> 02:15:27,080 Speaker 3: make for the podcast so the moste movement can really 2721 02:15:27,160 --> 02:15:30,400 Speaker 3: hit the masses, adding a segment detailing ass eating at 2722 02:15:30,400 --> 02:15:33,440 Speaker 3: two hundred dollars days could be the Haymaker and sed 2723 02:15:33,520 --> 02:15:37,720 Speaker 3: TVGWT hit the podcast orbit loll fuck with y'all. 2724 02:15:38,400 --> 02:15:40,040 Speaker 1: Twitter does that greatly every day. 2725 02:15:41,360 --> 02:15:44,480 Speaker 3: Jokes aside, keep doing the damn thing, y'all. I'm gonna 2726 02:15:44,560 --> 02:15:46,840 Speaker 3: keep supporting what y'all doing. Prost you care for the 2727 02:15:46,960 --> 02:15:50,680 Speaker 3: new do yas Honey, the first Lady of the church 2728 02:15:50,720 --> 02:15:55,880 Speaker 3: should always look on points Z snaps Rod my man, 2729 02:15:56,000 --> 02:15:59,160 Speaker 3: props to you for how you handle them. Twitter trolls man, 2730 02:15:59,240 --> 02:16:00,640 Speaker 3: the ship you and Bo want to be seeing on 2731 02:16:00,800 --> 02:16:03,640 Speaker 3: daily and some next level shit. Anyways, y'all, I'm out, 2732 02:16:03,720 --> 02:16:06,920 Speaker 3: Stay up Peace, Will in Toronto. Thanks Will. Who's the 2733 02:16:07,040 --> 02:16:08,839 Speaker 3: dude that left the five star of you on iTunes? 2734 02:16:08,880 --> 02:16:11,760 Speaker 3: It's Canada too, Yes, thank you sweetie. Appreciate you, Will 2735 02:16:12,640 --> 02:16:15,640 Speaker 3: and uh yeah, man, don't you know Twitter's just Twitter? 2736 02:16:15,760 --> 02:16:15,920 Speaker 7: Man. 2737 02:16:18,160 --> 02:16:20,200 Speaker 3: People gonna song gonna be crazy every day. 2738 02:16:20,240 --> 02:16:22,400 Speaker 2: You just got get used to it every day. Big 2739 02:16:22,520 --> 02:16:24,840 Speaker 2: fan Adrian right seeing Hi, Rob and Karen. 2740 02:16:25,400 --> 02:16:27,720 Speaker 3: I have been listening to your podcast for a few 2741 02:16:27,800 --> 02:16:30,280 Speaker 3: months now and I wanted to finally write and tell 2742 02:16:30,360 --> 02:16:32,680 Speaker 3: you thank you because of your awesome podcast. I've been 2743 02:16:32,720 --> 02:16:35,840 Speaker 3: introduced to so many wonderful podcasts. I love your content 2744 02:16:35,920 --> 02:16:38,720 Speaker 3: and your point of view on your podcast, Karen, you 2745 02:16:38,800 --> 02:16:40,760 Speaker 3: are so awesome to me, and I love your accent. 2746 02:16:41,520 --> 02:16:43,240 Speaker 2: It makes me want to come drink sweet tea on 2747 02:16:43,320 --> 02:16:43,760 Speaker 2: the porch and. 2748 02:16:43,879 --> 02:16:44,440 Speaker 3: Just talk with you. 2749 02:16:44,760 --> 02:16:46,879 Speaker 1: Oh we can do that on Eliminated. I don't care. 2750 02:16:47,200 --> 02:16:49,160 Speaker 3: I don't know why people will hate on your accent, 2751 02:16:49,240 --> 02:16:51,640 Speaker 3: but I love it. But not just your accent, but 2752 02:16:51,720 --> 02:16:57,160 Speaker 3: your perspective issues, especially your perspective on issues, especially the 2753 02:16:57,240 --> 02:16:59,520 Speaker 3: ones you are passionate about. When you start to go 2754 02:16:59,600 --> 02:17:01,720 Speaker 3: on around, I just sit back with a Black Power 2755 02:17:01,760 --> 02:17:04,280 Speaker 3: fits in the air because they are always so real. 2756 02:17:05,240 --> 02:17:08,320 Speaker 3: Rob the second time to call me Rob, Rob. I 2757 02:17:08,440 --> 02:17:11,840 Speaker 3: love your perspective as well, but what I love most 2758 02:17:12,160 --> 02:17:14,920 Speaker 3: is your views on women and their issues. I've noticed 2759 02:17:14,920 --> 02:17:16,959 Speaker 3: that you always let Karen finish her thought and will 2760 02:17:17,000 --> 02:17:19,240 Speaker 3: stop yourself from talking with you and Kar or any 2761 02:17:19,320 --> 02:17:24,240 Speaker 3: female guess speak at the same time. I try to 2762 02:17:24,560 --> 02:17:25,920 Speaker 3: That's part of being a good host. 2763 02:17:26,760 --> 02:17:28,959 Speaker 1: I try to remember, not just for women, for anybody 2764 02:17:29,040 --> 02:17:31,720 Speaker 1: talking really, but I try to remember, you know, as 2765 02:17:31,720 --> 02:17:34,440 Speaker 1: an audience member, what I would want to hear. 2766 02:17:34,720 --> 02:17:36,240 Speaker 2: And I don't like when I hear a lot of 2767 02:17:36,280 --> 02:17:37,360 Speaker 2: back and forth yelling over. 2768 02:17:37,360 --> 02:17:40,680 Speaker 3: On top of each other, it really makes for bad podcast, 2769 02:17:40,760 --> 02:17:44,480 Speaker 3: makes for a bad show. Typically we have guests that 2770 02:17:44,600 --> 02:17:47,480 Speaker 3: do that shit. I try to let them get that 2771 02:17:47,600 --> 02:17:50,920 Speaker 3: point across. If they like really railroad and boguard people 2772 02:17:51,040 --> 02:17:53,480 Speaker 3: and whatnot, do we just want to write them back 2773 02:17:53,520 --> 02:17:56,600 Speaker 3: because that's just not that's not a good show, you 2774 02:17:56,680 --> 02:18:00,680 Speaker 3: know what I mean? I think sound quality above all. 2775 02:18:02,200 --> 02:18:05,800 Speaker 3: And then the other thing too is you know, I 2776 02:18:06,080 --> 02:18:08,760 Speaker 3: I those are things I want to work on to 2777 02:18:08,879 --> 02:18:12,480 Speaker 3: be a better host. Is you know, knowing when to 2778 02:18:12,640 --> 02:18:15,120 Speaker 3: jump in and make a joke, to cut somebody off, 2779 02:18:16,640 --> 02:18:20,320 Speaker 3: when to let people keep going. And you know, this 2780 02:18:20,400 --> 02:18:23,400 Speaker 3: show is Karen's as well, and I don't want to 2781 02:18:23,480 --> 02:18:27,360 Speaker 3: monopolize or you know, change her the topic and change 2782 02:18:27,400 --> 02:18:30,880 Speaker 3: her point every time she's talking, or cut her off, 2783 02:18:31,120 --> 02:18:32,960 Speaker 3: like when is it my turn to jump in and speak? 2784 02:18:33,400 --> 02:18:34,760 Speaker 3: You know, I listen to a lot of shows, and 2785 02:18:34,959 --> 02:18:36,160 Speaker 3: you know, like I said, it's one of my big 2786 02:18:36,200 --> 02:18:39,040 Speaker 3: pet peeves is people that just don't let each other speak. 2787 02:18:39,560 --> 02:18:41,400 Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, because I want to hear your thought 2788 02:18:41,480 --> 02:18:43,600 Speaker 1: process on the here why you did it? I want 2789 02:18:43,600 --> 02:18:45,240 Speaker 1: to hear and my thing is that I wanted to 2790 02:18:45,320 --> 02:18:47,480 Speaker 1: be a natural conversation. 2791 02:18:47,800 --> 02:18:51,000 Speaker 3: Right, and so sometimes I just you know, let it 2792 02:18:51,120 --> 02:18:55,160 Speaker 3: go all in and out, you know, because she has 2793 02:18:55,240 --> 02:18:57,280 Speaker 3: her own point of view, and you know, I'm listening 2794 02:18:57,360 --> 02:19:00,360 Speaker 3: as well as y'all. And sometimes I, you know, even 2795 02:19:00,400 --> 02:19:02,800 Speaker 3: when I disagree, I need her to get the entire 2796 02:19:02,879 --> 02:19:05,000 Speaker 3: point out because I don't want to jump in and 2797 02:19:05,200 --> 02:19:09,360 Speaker 3: like this so or whatever. You know, you know, it's 2798 02:19:09,400 --> 02:19:12,000 Speaker 3: just a respect thing, really, and I think everybody should 2799 02:19:12,040 --> 02:19:14,280 Speaker 3: be If you host the podcast, you need to be 2800 02:19:14,320 --> 02:19:15,160 Speaker 3: working on this shit too. 2801 02:19:15,200 --> 02:19:17,520 Speaker 2: If you want to be a good host, you need 2802 02:19:17,560 --> 02:19:19,560 Speaker 2: to be working on this. It's not just about you. 2803 02:19:19,720 --> 02:19:22,160 Speaker 3: It's not just about cutting people off and getting your 2804 02:19:22,200 --> 02:19:25,640 Speaker 3: opinion out there. It should be about everybody participating to 2805 02:19:25,720 --> 02:19:31,039 Speaker 3: the conversation. Correct. See, I know you aren't the only 2806 02:19:31,120 --> 02:19:33,520 Speaker 3: man that holds your view, but in the age of 2807 02:19:33,520 --> 02:19:36,080 Speaker 3: the Internet, fuck boy, you start to think that men 2808 02:19:36,240 --> 02:19:38,840 Speaker 3: like you do not exist, right. Shit. I started to 2809 02:19:38,879 --> 02:19:42,920 Speaker 3: think shit, Yeah, like there's a lot of shit when 2810 02:19:42,959 --> 02:19:45,920 Speaker 3: we did, like talked about ray Rice and it's not 2811 02:19:46,080 --> 02:19:49,199 Speaker 3: just the Internet, but just being like owned the ship 2812 02:19:49,320 --> 02:19:52,560 Speaker 3: with just like a couple other people. That was like, yeah, 2813 02:19:52,720 --> 02:19:55,560 Speaker 3: I think it's throne to be hitting you women, you and. 2814 02:19:55,720 --> 02:20:00,000 Speaker 1: Chris and Fenom and Aaron like it was about place. 2815 02:20:00,560 --> 02:20:03,640 Speaker 1: It may have been ten of y'all on that boat, right. 2816 02:20:03,720 --> 02:20:05,920 Speaker 3: And you just but you just don't even realize that 2817 02:20:06,800 --> 02:20:09,280 Speaker 3: you're in that big of a minority until people come 2818 02:20:09,320 --> 02:20:12,080 Speaker 3: out to woodwork when hit the fan like this, and 2819 02:20:12,760 --> 02:20:16,680 Speaker 3: that was one of those times. But yeah, I don't Yeah, 2820 02:20:16,800 --> 02:20:19,920 Speaker 3: I don't really think my views necessarily controversial. I just 2821 02:20:20,040 --> 02:20:30,160 Speaker 3: apply the same logic to most things race, sexuality, orientation, gender. 2822 02:20:30,320 --> 02:20:32,880 Speaker 2: It doesn't seem very complex because they're all kind of about. 2823 02:20:33,720 --> 02:20:36,560 Speaker 3: There are a lot of the issues and biases and 2824 02:20:36,600 --> 02:20:40,560 Speaker 3: bigotry overlaps, So to me, it's not very like, oh, 2825 02:20:40,840 --> 02:20:42,600 Speaker 3: it was so deep for me to figure out that 2826 02:20:42,800 --> 02:20:48,160 Speaker 3: this is blah blah blah, Like no, you know, so, yeah, 2827 02:20:48,200 --> 02:20:49,960 Speaker 3: I know this is long, but I wanted to genuinely 2828 02:20:50,000 --> 02:20:51,800 Speaker 3: thank you for putting our quality product and use your 2829 02:20:51,800 --> 02:20:54,600 Speaker 3: proptform to expose listeners to other podcasts, no problem, Adrian, 2830 02:20:55,240 --> 02:20:57,960 Speaker 3: and and I hope I'm pronouncing that right. And the 2831 02:20:58,040 --> 02:21:01,520 Speaker 3: other thing too that I would add is just really 2832 02:21:01,600 --> 02:21:04,359 Speaker 3: our opinion. So it's not like we gotta go back. 2833 02:21:04,200 --> 02:21:07,200 Speaker 1: And like, oh, I hope I get this right right 2834 02:21:07,280 --> 02:21:09,360 Speaker 1: because a lot, a lot of times, and that's one 2835 02:21:09,400 --> 02:21:12,000 Speaker 1: thing when we're talking about the noise Izzie gaze and 2836 02:21:12,000 --> 02:21:14,600 Speaker 1: when talking about not if and shit, people's acted like 2837 02:21:14,680 --> 02:21:16,840 Speaker 1: we'll flip fopping in our opinion. But that's not so, 2838 02:21:17,320 --> 02:21:19,920 Speaker 1: like we're very very consistent, like this is not a fake, 2839 02:21:20,040 --> 02:21:22,800 Speaker 1: this is not pretending. We'll not giving you our quote 2840 02:21:22,840 --> 02:21:25,160 Speaker 1: unquote hot takes, like this is really how we feel. 2841 02:21:25,200 --> 02:21:27,720 Speaker 1: You ask me today, tomorrow, next week, next year, most 2842 02:21:27,800 --> 02:21:29,360 Speaker 1: like it's going to be the same. You know, people 2843 02:21:29,440 --> 02:21:32,120 Speaker 1: grow involved in change and I will say, hey, you know, 2844 02:21:32,240 --> 02:21:34,880 Speaker 1: my opinion or that may have changed, you know by then, 2845 02:21:34,959 --> 02:21:36,960 Speaker 1: But you know, it's just one of those things where 2846 02:21:38,280 --> 02:21:40,760 Speaker 1: you know, so many people are so fake and not 2847 02:21:41,040 --> 02:21:44,039 Speaker 1: real on social media and just speaking out in general. 2848 02:21:44,520 --> 02:21:46,800 Speaker 1: And I also think because most people following you on 2849 02:21:46,840 --> 02:21:48,840 Speaker 1: Twitter day funding because your jokes. So when you start 2850 02:21:48,840 --> 02:21:51,039 Speaker 1: talking about serious stuff, people take that as a joke too, 2851 02:21:51,080 --> 02:21:52,800 Speaker 1: and you're like, nah, nigga, this is I already feel. 2852 02:21:53,280 --> 02:21:55,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I just I'll just say our opinion is all 2853 02:21:56,000 --> 02:21:58,680 Speaker 3: one hundred out in our own And that's one of 2854 02:21:58,720 --> 02:22:00,560 Speaker 3: the reasons I show I think is good. One of 2855 02:22:00,600 --> 02:22:02,480 Speaker 3: the other reason I think I Show It's good is 2856 02:22:02,520 --> 02:22:05,600 Speaker 3: because we talk about topics that people don't necessarily want 2857 02:22:05,600 --> 02:22:08,680 Speaker 3: to talk about. We talk about nuanced We stay in 2858 02:22:08,720 --> 02:22:11,600 Speaker 3: the gray area. Sometimes it's not always a hot take. 2859 02:22:12,080 --> 02:22:14,160 Speaker 3: I'm not saying that there's not things we don't feel 2860 02:22:14,879 --> 02:22:18,680 Speaker 3: passionately about, but a lot of times, you know, we're 2861 02:22:18,760 --> 02:22:23,800 Speaker 3: kind of like passionately in the middle. But you know, 2862 02:22:24,240 --> 02:22:26,600 Speaker 3: like like the like we talked about suicide today, Like 2863 02:22:27,520 --> 02:22:29,840 Speaker 3: I know a lot of people that you know, company 2864 02:22:29,920 --> 02:22:32,039 Speaker 3: line on suicide is you just tell people not. 2865 02:22:32,080 --> 02:22:32,400 Speaker 1: To do it. 2866 02:22:32,520 --> 02:22:34,280 Speaker 2: And I don't know that that's real or not, like 2867 02:22:34,879 --> 02:22:35,600 Speaker 2: and I don't know how to. 2868 02:22:35,560 --> 02:22:37,160 Speaker 3: Feel about it. All I can do is be honest 2869 02:22:37,200 --> 02:22:39,680 Speaker 3: about it. I'm not gonna fuss to anybody one way 2870 02:22:39,760 --> 02:22:43,480 Speaker 3: or the other. But like, you know, and Karen disagreed, 2871 02:22:43,680 --> 02:22:46,160 Speaker 3: and and and but but it's real. It's not like 2872 02:22:47,160 --> 02:22:49,520 Speaker 3: all right, man, we had some hot radio today. So 2873 02:22:50,280 --> 02:22:52,600 Speaker 3: I feel, you know, I feel like that shit all matters. 2874 02:22:52,640 --> 02:22:54,320 Speaker 3: And those are the things that people are responding to 2875 02:22:54,400 --> 02:22:56,840 Speaker 3: when they when they say they like the show Man. 2876 02:22:58,160 --> 02:23:00,360 Speaker 3: But thank y'all, you know, thank you for listening. Last 2877 02:23:00,560 --> 02:23:05,480 Speaker 3: emails from Yolanda says dear Rev rod mannon you were 2878 02:23:05,520 --> 02:23:11,959 Speaker 3: hilarious on twin That was a great episode. Signed Semen devotee. Yeah, 2879 02:23:12,600 --> 02:23:15,560 Speaker 3: I appreciate you for listening. Man, I had fun on twelve. 2880 02:23:17,280 --> 02:23:19,240 Speaker 3: If you haven't listened yet, I was on a good 2881 02:23:19,280 --> 02:23:22,080 Speaker 3: and terrible show last week on the Coach Lit the 2882 02:23:22,120 --> 02:23:23,000 Speaker 3: podcast Network. 2883 02:23:23,080 --> 02:23:23,600 Speaker 1: Two parts. 2884 02:23:23,879 --> 02:23:25,640 Speaker 3: It was a two part of the first part, if 2885 02:23:25,680 --> 02:23:27,320 Speaker 3: you want to hear what I think about Empire, you 2886 02:23:27,320 --> 02:23:30,800 Speaker 3: should go there because we talked about Empire in detail, 2887 02:23:30,840 --> 02:23:33,840 Speaker 3: even though that wasn't on the docket. But I was like, 2888 02:23:33,959 --> 02:23:35,720 Speaker 3: I finally got two people I gotta talk about it 2889 02:23:35,800 --> 02:23:38,360 Speaker 3: with since Justin and Karen will watch it. And then 2890 02:23:39,400 --> 02:23:41,560 Speaker 3: the second part was How to Get Away with Murder Finale. 2891 02:23:41,680 --> 02:23:44,960 Speaker 3: We recapped that so and you know, I mean, I 2892 02:23:45,040 --> 02:23:48,000 Speaker 3: think everybody loved when Mail and Siege came on the 2893 02:23:48,080 --> 02:23:50,000 Speaker 3: show last year and. 2894 02:23:50,040 --> 02:23:51,600 Speaker 2: We definitely got to have a back so and I'll 2895 02:23:51,680 --> 02:23:52,240 Speaker 2: email them. 2896 02:23:52,640 --> 02:23:55,040 Speaker 3: But you know, if you want to hear me at 2897 02:23:55,120 --> 02:23:58,959 Speaker 3: cut a Food with those ladies, man, check them out, 2898 02:23:59,000 --> 02:24:01,480 Speaker 3: because like I said that, that was some good conversation. 2899 02:24:03,360 --> 02:24:05,040 Speaker 3: And I already posted some of the other stuff that 2900 02:24:05,120 --> 02:24:07,039 Speaker 3: we've done this week. In the last couple of weeks 2901 02:24:07,520 --> 02:24:10,600 Speaker 3: on the website, I did a new like guest appearances post. 2902 02:24:11,240 --> 02:24:13,920 Speaker 3: So anytime you need more rid of care, maybe you're 2903 02:24:13,959 --> 02:24:15,720 Speaker 3: not a premium person. You just want to hear more 2904 02:24:15,760 --> 02:24:18,200 Speaker 3: of us on different topics. You want to hear Carrod 2905 02:24:18,240 --> 02:24:19,480 Speaker 3: on the walk and Dad, you want to hear me 2906 02:24:19,600 --> 02:24:22,040 Speaker 3: talk about scandal. Those are places you can go to 2907 02:24:22,120 --> 02:24:24,960 Speaker 3: hear that stuff because you know, we don't always have 2908 02:24:25,160 --> 02:24:28,560 Speaker 3: and share the same interest and talk about the same stuff, 2909 02:24:28,720 --> 02:24:30,480 Speaker 3: but you know that's a good place, so you can 2910 02:24:30,480 --> 02:24:34,160 Speaker 3: get some bonus stuff. Man, all right, we'll be back tomorrow, tim. 2911 02:24:34,200 --> 02:24:36,480 Speaker 1: Let me talk about the stuff we got sent. 2912 02:24:36,920 --> 02:24:40,040 Speaker 3: Oh man, our girl, girl David, who we've been wondering, 2913 02:24:40,120 --> 02:24:43,680 Speaker 3: like where she's been. She sent us a whole bunch 2914 02:24:43,760 --> 02:24:48,680 Speaker 3: of cool treats in foreign language that we couldn't even read. 2915 02:24:49,720 --> 02:24:51,880 Speaker 1: And with delicious. We have kept through them all but 2916 02:24:51,879 --> 02:24:52,280 Speaker 1: they're good. 2917 02:24:52,480 --> 02:24:56,119 Speaker 3: And she gave us a handwritten letter that basically said 2918 02:24:56,200 --> 02:24:59,560 Speaker 3: that you know, she had been struggling with some bullshit 2919 02:24:59,800 --> 02:25:05,080 Speaker 3: at word and like had to leave the country and 2920 02:25:05,160 --> 02:25:07,920 Speaker 3: go back to London, which is sad because she was 2921 02:25:08,080 --> 02:25:12,640 Speaker 3: enjoying it so much there in Korea. And she sent 2922 02:25:12,760 --> 02:25:15,000 Speaker 3: us a bunch of snacks and like gave us ideas 2923 02:25:15,040 --> 02:25:16,560 Speaker 3: of how to eat them and stuff, and we've been 2924 02:25:16,640 --> 02:25:21,000 Speaker 3: eating them up, and you know, you know, we definitely 2925 02:25:21,640 --> 02:25:24,320 Speaker 3: had missed her, but we kept her company for the 2926 02:25:24,440 --> 02:25:26,760 Speaker 3: last two years, and she wrote us this nice handwritten 2927 02:25:26,840 --> 02:25:29,360 Speaker 3: letter that I don't know if she wanted us to 2928 02:25:29,400 --> 02:25:31,040 Speaker 3: read on the ARA not, so I'm not going to. 2929 02:25:32,280 --> 02:25:35,560 Speaker 3: But you know, man, thank you so much, girl Davis. 2930 02:25:35,640 --> 02:25:38,400 Speaker 3: We love you and we appreciate the gift. 2931 02:25:38,520 --> 02:25:38,720 Speaker 1: Man. 2932 02:25:38,840 --> 02:25:41,800 Speaker 3: We definitely been eating up those snacks and we're gonna 2933 02:25:41,800 --> 02:25:43,520 Speaker 3: try that stuff with rice that you sent us to. 2934 02:25:44,760 --> 02:25:47,400 Speaker 3: So yeah, we'll be back tomorrow ten am ish. I 2935 02:25:47,440 --> 02:25:48,920 Speaker 3: don't know what time we're gonna do the show, and 2936 02:25:49,000 --> 02:25:52,039 Speaker 3: then I think also tomorrow we should be on in Sandy. 2937 02:25:52,160 --> 02:25:57,520 Speaker 3: Check for movie trailers with reviews with Chris. So until tomorrow, 2938 02:25:57,640 --> 02:25:59,200 Speaker 3: I love you, Na,