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Speaker 1: Jewbles dirty little secret?

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Speaker 2: Hello? Hello, Hey you have a dirty little secret? Hi? Yes,

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Speaker 2: I do. Sweet? What is it?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 1: I am married and I have been texting someone kind

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Speaker 1: of in secret from my husband, and yeah, that's my

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Speaker 1: dirty little secret, like.

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Speaker 2: On the side. Yes, So basically you've started having an affair,

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Speaker 2: kind of an emotional.

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Speaker 4: Affair, an emotional yeah, just texting. Do you think you're

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Speaker 4: going to take it farther? Well?

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Speaker 1: See, the problem is is that he's my husband's brother.

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Speaker 4: Wait, so you're texting your husband's brother.

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Speaker 2: Why?

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Speaker 1: I you know, I mean I feel bad about it,

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Speaker 1: but you know, I don't know just started and I

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Speaker 1: don't know how to stop it.

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Speaker 2: How did it start?

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Speaker 1: Just casual texting?

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Speaker 4: And then it got kind of a little.

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Speaker 1: Bit deeper as time went on, and now it's just

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Speaker 1: it's just never ending.

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Speaker 4: So who started with the first flirtation?

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Speaker 1: So he did, but I didn't recognize that it was flirting.

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Speaker 1: And then it just kept going on and then I

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Speaker 1: was like, oh, let me, let me try and flirt back.

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Speaker 4: And now it's just strictly flirting. Girl'd be careful. Comes

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Speaker 4: over for Thanksgiving? Oh, I know it's gonna be awkward.

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Speaker 4: Turkey is not the only thing stuff? Oh, Nina, what

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Speaker 4: she's playing with fire? I'm sure it makes you feel good,

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Speaker 4: but you're playing with fire? Yeah, yeah, I know, I know.

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you for telling us your dirty little secret

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Speaker 2: and good luck.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: Yep.

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Speaker 2: How what's up is the jubil shows? Dirty little secret?

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Speaker 3: You have one?

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Speaker 5: I do have a dirty little secret?

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Speaker 2: Sweet? What is it?

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Speaker 5: So? I have been sleeping with my older brothers, officially Beyonce.

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Speaker 2: Whoa yeah, how did that? Yeah start?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? So they have been dating for almost five years,

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Speaker 5: and we started about almost two years ago. She and

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Speaker 5: I just started eating really close, especially after three years.

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Speaker 5: She was just getting really close to my brother, so

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Speaker 5: I figured, you know, she was probably gonna get the ring.

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Speaker 5: So then I started hanging.

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Speaker 4: Out with her more.

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Speaker 3: And she was the first person I ever came out

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Speaker 3: to as by and it was really amazing and she

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Speaker 3: was really receptive of it, which was surprising. We're both

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Speaker 3: from really strong religious background families, and it just felt

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Speaker 3: amazing to have an ally in the family, and so

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Speaker 3: I saw her as definitely in the inner circle, I guess.

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Speaker 3: But it took not long after me coming out to

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Speaker 3: her that we started going to LBGQ plus community inclusive

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Speaker 3: and organizations. And after one drag brunch she kissed me

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Speaker 3: and I thought it was like a funny thing, and

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Speaker 3: she's like a really physical person, so I was just,

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Speaker 3: you know, I just didn't think anything of it. But

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Speaker 3: then that obviously like led to a few other things,

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Speaker 3: and before I knew it, we were doing more than kissing. Whoa,

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Speaker 3: And you know it in my guilt really set in

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Speaker 3: when I saw he bought the ring.

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Speaker 5: So yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Wow, Well, thank you for telling us your dirty little

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Speaker 2: secret and good luck.

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Speaker 5: Thanks guys, love the show. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you one what's your dirty little Secret?