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Speaker 1: like that since I got it too. All right, I

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Speaker 1: I think prayer helps us in so many ways. But

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Speaker 1: but it is true. So since everything is expected to

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Speaker 1: human beings. So since we're all human beings, whether you're

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, you said you had an amazing weekend.

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Speaker 1: So come on, Steve. We're starting with you as always,

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Speaker 1: what happened the weekend if you went to the Okavanga Delta,

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Speaker 1: damn oh jam, that's what it was. I said, no, soft,

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Speaker 1: uh here's another situation. Pasted the winning number of last

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Speaker 1: all right, Last night, guys, was the season premiere, finally

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Speaker 1: finally of Power. Uh. We're not going to do a

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Speaker 1: you to know. Well, let's ask it this way. Hotel

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Speaker 1: fifty cent to change the opening theme song, No Big,

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Speaker 1: we loved Big rich Town by Joe. That may let

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Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, yeah, Now Trey Songs is doing it

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Speaker 1: nothing against it, But we like the original song with Joe. Yes,

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Speaker 1: No Jay, it's the same song. It's just fifty it's

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Speaker 1: Nobody nobody's wait, do you hear the song? We are

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Speaker 1: the MTV VMAs are tonight in Newark, New Jersey. We

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Speaker 1: want to give a big, big shout out to Missy Elliott.

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Speaker 1: Tonight she will receive the Video Vanguard Award. Uh. Missy

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Speaker 1: think it's real big that they're having it up there

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Speaker 1: in New Ork. So big up to Nework, New Jersey. Man,

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Speaker 1: all them cold people up there, right on. Corey Booker,

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Speaker 1: Yeah it's up. Huh what's up from New Jersey? And

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Speaker 1: she yeah, okay, yeah see that when people start claiming

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00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 1: this city. Oh when something good? Yeah, what's up? Queen?

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Speaker 1: All right? Other performers on them, ain't you what I'm

427
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 1: you know? You shot yourself out, trying to help you out.

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Speaker 1: What's up, Tommy. Other performers include Big Sean Her, Normandy

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Speaker 1: and Taylor Swift or Normandy and Taylor Swift, also Little

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00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 1: nos X and Lizzo. Yes, Taylor Swift bed not saying

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00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 1: that Earth Wind and Fire REMI September, September, She's moved on.

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00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 1: I'm sure. Yeah, she has a brand new album. She's

433
00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 1: just dropped it Friday, Okay. And Some of the presenters

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Speaker 1: include members of the US women's national soccer team, Billy Ray, Cyrus,

435
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Speaker 1: iced Tea, John travolt To, Kiki Palmer, Megan v Stallion okay, uh, Rick,

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00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 1: Rick Ross, and Salt and Pepper Okay. M MTV VMA's tonight.

437
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 1: All right, you're listening show? All right? So Steve you here, Jay,

438
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 1: he's back, feeling pretty good today, kicking cancer's butt, which

439
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 1: is what we love. Yeah. Yeah, but he's here today. Yeah,

440
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 1: he's here today not only tell us that he's feeling

441
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 1: well and he's good and everything, but today he's also

442
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 1: here to tell us, Steve, I think the whole room

443
00:33:55,960 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 1: is going to be shocked by this and everyone listening. Uh.

444
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 1: While he might need a wife, what listen to me? Man. Yeah,

445
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 1: don't mark us down nowhere. But my life is. My

446
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 1: life is not together. Let me tell you why, Steve.

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00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 1: I looked at my kitchen drawer. I've got one damn

448
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:22,359
Speaker 1: fork I have, Steve. I have three spoons. A wife

449
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 1: wouldn't let this happen. I have a butcher knife that's dull.

450
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 1: All my cups are from Papa John's. I don't have

451
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 1: a My life is gone to hell. I don't have

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00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: a can opener. I have a wine opener with the

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00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:41,919
Speaker 1: two arms. One arm is broken, Steve, I need help, Okay, Yeah,

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00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:47,800
Speaker 1: I have some soft teams from six months ago. That

455
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 1: is still softest bread I have. Get this now. I

456
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 1: have ketchup, musland and honey, but the annual condiment and packs.

457
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 1: That's all I got. I might have to do this, Steve.

458
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:09,280
Speaker 1: I have something in my refrigerator. I have no idea

459
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: what it is. I don't even know what that is.

460
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 1: It's in there, been there for a while. I have

461
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:22,720
Speaker 1: one pillar. It's flat. Two sheets. You need two sheets

462
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 1: that are mitche matched, all right. I have one white,

463
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 1: one blue, one red. I just have towels. I washed

464
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: in the shower and I just dry off with towels.

465
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 1: I have no face cloths, none at all I have, Steve,

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00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 1: I have no toilet paper, I have no wet white,

467
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: I have no dog. You need a wife, boy. Okay,

468
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 1: you ain't got no wet white. You no ties? Yeah, yeah,

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00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:57,240
Speaker 1: you already ain't got no faceto? What you wi yourself?

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00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:05,919
Speaker 1: Here to nicety. You don't have to laundry. You need

471
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 1: to burn. All you need to do. You need to burn.

472
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:18,879
Speaker 1: You take all your towels on, all your all, your

473
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:26,320
Speaker 1: bought it anything that burning. I have a bunch of soap,

474
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:30,760
Speaker 1: shampoos and conditioners and mouthwash. Basketball got him from hotels.

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00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 1: So funny the way you need your wife. Jake. It's

476
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 1: time to come on in. Yeah, come on in, Come on, Jake,

477
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: ask how you gotten that one? Damn four? All right, wow, Jake,

478
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 1: can't can't wait for the wedding. All right? Thank you?

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00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: Coming up in thirty four after the hour, Steve Harvey's

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Speaker 1: top fifty R and B singers from the last fifty years.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're sing Steve Harvey Morning Show. Today

482
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Speaker 1: is music Monday. So Steve, there was a music poll.

483
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 1: It was trending on social media while you were out

484
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 1: on Vaca, and the question was who are the top

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Speaker 1: R and B artist slash singers from the last fifty

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Speaker 1: years five zero fifty years. So Steve, people are commenting

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Speaker 1: saying they wanted to hear who was on your list,

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00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: because of course everyone knows you know music and you

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Speaker 1: have you know, such an afi they had on this list.

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Speaker 1: That was a question did they go from from fifty

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Speaker 1: on up? And they just made a collection of them,

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Speaker 1: just a collection of R and B singers and it

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00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:40,320
Speaker 1: was some singers from now too, you know. So people

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00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,399
Speaker 1: were like, who is that? Who is that? So you

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Speaker 1: know from now your list? Yeah, just because i want no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: just give me some examples, give me some examples. So

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Speaker 1: and I ain't gonna share them up, but I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: tell the truth. Well from now, okay, let's throw Johnny

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Speaker 1: Gill out there, great singer Johnny Gill can say oh yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: what he's singing the theme song to Power that's why? Yes,

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00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: all right, here we go, come on, come on, let's go. Now,

502
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: this this ain't this is without me giving it no thought.

503
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna miss some people. Yeah, and I'm just

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00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 1: try to give you the top ones Retha Franklin. Yes, yeah, what, Yes,

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Speaker 1: you gotta put the diva of all divas on that.

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Speaker 1: Cannot have this list? Okay, then Quitney is the greatest

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00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:52,840
Speaker 1: female vocalist of all times. H Then you got to

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Speaker 1: put Anita Bake on that, because no female singer has

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00:38:56,960 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: meant more to me song wise than an need A Baker. Now,

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00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 1: y'all ain't gonna understand this, but trust me, I know

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Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. That damn shod day. Yeah, what

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00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 1: you want to feel, But that heifer right there set

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Speaker 1: the toe. Is it a crime that I still won't

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Speaker 1: you and I won't you to won't me? Took? Let's

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00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: get Phyllis him on the list. Yeah. Now on this

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00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: list you want to talk best female artists. If you

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00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 1: want to go current, you could put Mary J. Blige

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Speaker 1: on that list, the queen of your pop soul. Yeah. Now, come,

519
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 1: you're still digging around in now you're in some trouble.

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00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:50,959
Speaker 1: Now you gotta start putting it not now, we gotta

521
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 1: start lacing it with al Green, with very white. You

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00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 1: got to come in there with Pebo Bryson. Yeah, you

523
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 1: got to come in there with King Luther to come

524
00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 1: up in there and you gotta and and and you

525
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 1: gotta set it down, Marvin Gate. See now were full

526
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 1: time not playing right right right now, you're set right

527
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Speaker 1: and and and and you're looking at vocalists like, come on, Steve, lady,

528
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 1: you got who Eddie Vert the greatest male lead tylor

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00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 1: with Ron Ashley of any group of all time, not

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00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:41,400
Speaker 1: to mention the vocal skills of Maurice White and Philip Bathing.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah here were You must not forget about

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00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:48,800
Speaker 1: the awesome and incredible soulful sound or the one and

533
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 1: owner Frankie Beverly. Hi, let's go back to the ladies.

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00:40:55,280 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 1: Let me see you Shaka con quit playing? Yes, these

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00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 1: help us all blow you out the water. Come on,

536
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:10,400
Speaker 1: mess around with these grown ass women. Sang it ye

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Speaker 1: knock your socks off. Gladdus night got to put here.

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00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 1: We come down. We're talking album sales. We're talking about

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00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: best vocals of all Gladdus is a crush shaw. Yeah,

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00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:29,399
Speaker 1: come on, full blown crush shaw. We come come on

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Speaker 1: and tomorrow I help. How many idead you say, Tommy?

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00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: How many seventeen eighteen? You sit? Ron Osley? Then you

543
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 1: added some people you didn't say Taylor Si did not

544
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 1: say you got eighteen. You're not gonna sit here in

545
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 1: ain't say eighteen. People go to Steve Harvey FM on

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00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 1: Instagram post you're comments on Steve's list Part two coming

547
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: up tomorrow. Coming up next though, it's the nephew with

548
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: Today's praying phone call. That's right after this. You're listening

549
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:02,280
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning. Coming up at the top of the hour,

550
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:05,400
Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today.

551
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 1: Subject my best friend is just trying to help out.

552
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:14,320
Speaker 1: But right now, Nephew Tommy is here with today. Hey, Shirley, Yes, Steve.

553
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 1: Now y'all surprised me with this list, uh huh. But

554
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 1: tomorrow to get off in y'all back. You mean the

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00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 1: greatest R and B singers and artists. Yeah, fifty, I'm

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00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 1: gonna do my own fifty. Well, people want to hear

557
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: your opinion. They do. Tommy's idea about seventeen eighteen okay,

558
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,399
Speaker 1: but I'll tell you what though, you let me put

559
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:46,960
Speaker 1: together saying what get us wait to us? Somebody knew

560
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:54,399
Speaker 1: Day was adamant about Taylor Smith, Taylor Swift being Johnny Guil. Yeah,

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00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 1: Johnny Gil, I can accept him. Yes, Yes, of course

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00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 1: I can accept Johnny gil can you said Bobby? Of course? No,

563
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 1: it was it just me. You can't just no Bobby Brown, No, Bobby.

564
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 1: They don't know. No, how about fantation. I love you stylings,

565
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 1: but not as a single though. He's a performer and

566
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 1: a stylish but not a single. He's gonna get this, okay.

567
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 1: So you're going on vocals and lyrics. Yeah, the truth

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00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 1: and you see it? Got it? All right? Come on,

569
00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be lying. Look, I'm not feelna lie call

570
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 1: were friend. We just ain't the who I like this?

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00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 1: What about? Okay? Well what about baby ja ja? We

572
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 1: gotta get to the nephew. We gotta yeah, all right,

573
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 1: look nephew is here with today's praying phone call. What

574
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 1: you got for us? Nap? Fix to ten? Six to ten?

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00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:00,400
Speaker 1: That's it right there, six to ten. Let's go, kid though, Hello,

576
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:03,360
Speaker 1: hello's trying to speak your Latrenda? Please, this is Latrenda.

577
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 1: Who is this? Hey? You work at the Tame with

578
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 1: Shap Yes? I do? Who is this? Okay? Was you there?

579
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:12,920
Speaker 1: Did you work last Wednesday? Like from six to I

580
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 1: guess six to close? Yeah? I work every Wednesday? Yeah? Who?

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00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 1: Who is this. Hey, my name is Ralph and I basically, uh,

582
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,239
Speaker 1: you know, looked around to try and get your phone. Numb.

583
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 1: I got a bit of a complaint. Rout. Wait wait

584
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:28,960
Speaker 1: wait wait wait, you're calling me with a complaint on

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00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:31,359
Speaker 1: my cell phone. Who gave you my number? I've done

586
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 1: the research to get your number, man, And what I'm

587
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 1: calling you about is, while I was in there at

588
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 1: getting a sandwich and eating, I'm realizing that you came

589
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 1: out of the bathroom without washing your hands, and which

590
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:44,320
Speaker 1: First of all, you need to be calling the corporate

591
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:46,719
Speaker 1: headquarters if you got a complaint, or you call that

592
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,919
Speaker 1: eight hundred number on the back of your receipt. Don't

593
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:51,360
Speaker 1: be calling my cell phone. Whoever gave your gave you

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00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 1: myself one. I'm a whoof day. Hey, listen, listen. The

595
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 1: problem is is that you're coming out not washing your hands. No, No,

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00:44:57,840 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 1: the problem I don't never come out and not wash

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00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:02,600
Speaker 1: my hand. First of all, I'm working I've been working

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00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 1: out for three years. Okay, be coming to me with

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00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:07,320
Speaker 1: no books that I hadn't came out and I washed

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00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 1: my hand. I guess you ain't been washing your hands

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00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 1: for no three years and you you're coming out, is

602
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:16,359
Speaker 1: you know unsanitizing this way you're treating people. Don't First

603
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,400
Speaker 1: of all, don't be calling my phone talking behind. I

604
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 1: ain't washed my hands, like I said. I've been there

605
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,280
Speaker 1: three years. I've been employer of the month six times.

606
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: Don't be coming to me with a none of this book.

607
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 1: I don't like how you employ the money. You must

608
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 1: be the nasty employer of the month because you're coming

609
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 1: out you're not washing your head. I saw you scratch

610
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 1: your head there and you ain't putting on I always

611
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 1: for gloves on my hand. You ain't my gloves on.

612
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 1: We don't know who the hell you think you are.

613
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:45,839
Speaker 1: But don't be calling my phone with this. You need

614
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 1: to be calling headquarters if you gotta complaint. I tell

615
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 1: you what I'm gonna call headquarters. I'm coming at a

616
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 1: mall to see if you're gonna be up in there

617
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 1: with some gloves on, or you're gonna come out there

618
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:57,399
Speaker 1: out of the bathroom again with the same thing. Come

619
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Speaker 1: on up there. I'm gonna be there from six to close,

620
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Speaker 1: sixty cloths, and I bet you if you come up

621
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Speaker 1: to tomorrow, I'm gonna make it sandwich. You'all you're gonna

622
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:07,919
Speaker 1: do what I'm gonna make it sandwich out. Show who

623
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Speaker 1: you think you're talking to? Yo. You said your name

624
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:13,239
Speaker 1: was round right? Let me calling my phone with this, Hey,

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00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:15,360
Speaker 1: let me tell you something. All I'm saying to you

626
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Speaker 1: is this right here. If I come up in there

627
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Speaker 1: tomorrow and find out you ain't got them gloves, oh

628
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 1: you're mes frod, I get you whoop all right, you're

629
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: gonna with mine. You're gonna want sixty ten. I'm gonna

630
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: be up there from six to ten, and I ain't

631
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 1: gonna call nobody. Ain't calling my brothers, my cousin, my

632
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:32,800
Speaker 1: uncle or nothing. I'm anahoop by myself. Excuse me? You

633
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 1: gonna you you're gonna try to take on them, man,

634
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna whoop your by myself. That's what I said.

635
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 1: You need to get you a little name. Sit behind

636
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,839
Speaker 1: in the bathroom and wash your hands and keep doing them.

637
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 1: Put on your hand because you don't be coming up

638
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 1: some people food like that. Bring your gown up there

639
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 1: six to ten. You know where I work? Sixty ten,

640
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna whoop y'all. Who you think you're talking to.

641
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 1: I don't even know who you are, but I'm gonna

642
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 1: know y'all tomorrow. I'm gonna know you tomorrow. Bring your

643
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 1: showing up there stakes six ten and I'm gonna walk, y'all.

644
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 1: I'm coming up to tomorrow. Come on, don't I'm going

645
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 1: up to tomorrow. Matter of fact, I'm gonna show you

646
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 1: how to be sanitized. I'm gonna be what some gloves on?

647
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 1: Do you hear me? You're gonna be mine? And you

648
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 1: steady talking about woman, let's a little bring you up there.

649
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:25,919
Speaker 1: We're gonna see who's gonna get there? Who? What kind

650
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 1: of man is you? Anyways? To be talking about fighting?

651
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 1: A walk? You want? And you are? What what you

652
00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 1: call me? Um? Te ik you? I'm coming up to

653
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: them see you tomorrow? Is you gonna is? You're gonna

654
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 1: be ready when I get up there? What kind of

655
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,560
Speaker 1: you anyway? Yah? Carla France, I'm about you gonna fight

656
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 1: female y'all with some hand washing. Bring y'all frick and

657
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you what it is. Sixty ten. I'm

658
00:47:55,960 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 1: gonna be here, matter of fact. I'm gona be there

659
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 1: at five forty five. Bring your sup for five o'clock again,

660
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:04,799
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna whoop yall who thirty two. I don't

661
00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna talk to Frank up for tomorrow. Sixty two.

662
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 1: He's gonna see, you're gonna see what's up. I got

663
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 1: one of more friends to say to you for her

664
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:15,359
Speaker 1: come up to tomorrow. I don't you got to say,

665
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 1: I don't care. I'm gonna whoop, yo, say that I

666
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 1: got one more fend listen to me. What do you listen? What? What?

667
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 1: Nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Who you

668
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:34,719
Speaker 1: you say? Who? Hey? This is nephew Timmy from the

669
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 1: Steve harveyt Morning Show. You just got franked by your

670
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 1: co workers? Man? You man see man, y'all got me. Man,

671
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: I's like sixty two in tomorrow. I got something for her.

672
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 1: She's gonna have to watch her back every hour, every

673
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:52,440
Speaker 1: hour on the hour. I got something for her. I

674
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:54,800
Speaker 1: ain't gonna hurt her, but I'm definitely gonna do it

675
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 1: in tomorrow. Believe that was you ready though? I was like,

676
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 1: hell yeah, I was gonna whoop. Man. You don't even

677
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 1: know what you had a store for you. You're going

678
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 1: to y'all is gonna pull me off. And that probably

679
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't have been enough. Either. Hey, I got one more

680
00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:12,960
Speaker 1: thing to ask you, baby girl. What is the baddest

681
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:16,760
Speaker 1: radio station in the land. You already know, Steve Harvey

682
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:25,840
Speaker 1: Morning Shot. Okay, little droppers, you know, a couple of

683
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 1: drops are stupid for y'all this morning on top of

684
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:29,400
Speaker 1: the rest of it. But that's that's that's all I

685
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 1: want to do. Drop, sprinkle my stupid were here and

686
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 1: there wherever y'all need it. That's what I'm here for. Wow, well,

687
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 1: you sprinkle a lot of it. That's all I gotta

688
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 1: stay sprinkle. I'm gonna sprinkle something Friday and Saturday. But

689
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 1: there's the Blues and Jazz Supper Club that's this weekend,

690
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 1: this Labor Day weekend coming case, y'all don't know this

691
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: this Friday, this Saturday, just to buy soul. I got

692
00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 1: folk shows, baby too, Friday to Saturday. Yeah, little little blues,

693
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 1: little jazz, little supper and a little Tommy. He gets mad,

694
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:02,360
Speaker 1: Steve when Jas plays the harmonica. He thinks Jay is

695
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:06,560
Speaker 1: trying to take it. But he thinks Jay is trying

696
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:17,600
Speaker 1: to take a shine. They don't come to rehearsal. I'm done,

697
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 1: finish up, nephew, I'm done. But that's the Blues Jazz.

698
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 1: I'll be there this weekend Friday and Saturday, two shows.

699
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:25,040
Speaker 1: Friday too, said he got a few tickets left, but

700
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 1: I'm just about out. Does that what I be doing?

701
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 1: Little blues, little jazz, little supple, and I even might

702
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 1: have Jay come out and play a harmonica. Take us out, Jake.

703
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,719
Speaker 1: Thank you, all right, Nephew, thank you. Up next, it's

704
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter, subject my best friend is just trying

705
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: to help out. We'll get into it right after this. Lord,

706
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show time now for

707
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:57,840
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex,

708
00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 1: parenting and more, please please submit your Strawberry Letter to

709
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. All right,

710
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 1: we could be reading your letter live on the air,

711
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:11,319
Speaker 1: just like we're gonna be reading this one right here,

712
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 1: right now today. Yeah, buggal up, hold on tight, we

713
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 1: got it for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter, subject,

714
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 1: my best friend is just trying to help out. Dear

715
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:25,239
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I've been married to my husband for eight

716
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:27,480
Speaker 1: years and we have a five year old and a

717
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 1: two year old daughter. My husband has five other kids,

718
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 1: not including the two we have together. Yes, I know

719
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 1: this is a lot of kids. However, I want to

720
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 1: try for another baby next year. I am thirty two

721
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:43,839
Speaker 1: and he is forty, and he says he is too

722
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:47,239
Speaker 1: old to have more kids. I don't have a son

723
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 1: and would like to try for a son. I always

724
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 1: told him I wanted to have three children. We don't

725
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:56,759
Speaker 1: have sex because he says he doesn't want to get

726
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 1: me pregnant, and if we do have sex, he buys

727
00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:02,719
Speaker 1: me the Plan pill to avoid any possible pregnancies. I

728
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:06,279
Speaker 1: even asked if we can adopt, and he still said no.

729
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 1: I am starting to resent my husband and this is

730
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:14,720
Speaker 1: causing a strain on our relationship because I want another baby.

731
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 1: We are financially stable enough to have another baby. I

732
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:22,279
Speaker 1: confide it and my best friend, who happens to be

733
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 1: a man, and he offered me his sperm. As you know,

734
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 1: he would donate the sperm and sex would not be involved.

735
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 1: When I told my husband about my best friend's offer,

736
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 1: he flipped out and was highly upset. He said that

737
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 1: would be committing a sin, breaking the vows of marriage,

738
00:52:40,640 --> 00:52:43,320
Speaker 1: and he would not accept the baby as his child.

739
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:46,319
Speaker 1: He also said he would divorce me if I even

740
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:49,160
Speaker 1: brought it up again. I think it is very unfair

741
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:51,800
Speaker 1: because he won't give me another baby. It's my body

742
00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 1: and if I want another baby, I should be able

743
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 1: to get pregnant and have another baby. Am I wrong here?

744
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 1: Please help? Well? You know you're both wrong, and I'll

745
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:07,400
Speaker 1: tell you why. You for going to another man outside

746
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:11,279
Speaker 1: of your marriage to get another baby. I mean, that's

747
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 1: not the way you do it. And of course your

748
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:15,719
Speaker 1: husband is wrong for just shutting you out, not even

749
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:20,000
Speaker 1: hearing of your requests, for being so mean and close

750
00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: minded about you. You're his wife. He should be, you know,

751
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 1: compassionate and understanding as to how you feel. I get

752
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 1: that he already has five children in addition to the

753
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:35,880
Speaker 1: two daughters that you guys have together. But you have

754
00:53:36,040 --> 00:53:38,400
Speaker 1: to talk, and you should have talked to each other

755
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 1: before you got here to this place. He's only forty,

756
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:47,479
Speaker 1: and while he may he may say that's too old,

757
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 1: it's not too old. I think it's just that he

758
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 1: is tired of having kids. Seven kids you said it

759
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:56,760
Speaker 1: in a letter. That's a lot of kids by anyone standards.

760
00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:59,319
Speaker 1: Seven kids is a lot of kids. You say your

761
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:02,120
Speaker 1: financial stable enough to have a lot of kids, to

762
00:54:02,239 --> 00:54:06,800
Speaker 1: have more kids. But you know, if your husband doesn't

763
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:08,920
Speaker 1: want to have kids, you guys have to be on

764
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 1: the same page as far as it's concerned. You, on

765
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 1: the other hand, are only thirty two, you're still young enough.

766
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 1: You're you're you're perfectly within your rights to want more

767
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 1: children and to try for a boy if that's what

768
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:22,880
Speaker 1: you want, But you can't do it with this husband

769
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:25,720
Speaker 1: because he's not interested. You guys have a major issue

770
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 1: in your marriage. I don't see how you can come

771
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:31,080
Speaker 1: to an agreement or a compromise. I really don't. He

772
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 1: doesn't want any more children. He doesn't want any more children.

773
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:39,719
Speaker 1: You do. Period, Okay, period? You hear? I think I

774
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 1: can confidently say this that if you do have another child,

775
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 1: it won't be with your current husband unless you trick

776
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:49,799
Speaker 1: him or trap him or something like that. And if

777
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 1: you go to your best friend and get his sperm,

778
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:57,880
Speaker 1: you're going to be done with this marriage. This marriage

779
00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:01,360
Speaker 1: is practically over anyway, because as of your husband's rules,

780
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 1: he doesn't want another kid you do, He won't accept

781
00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: the baby as his own. If you have another one.

782
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:09,799
Speaker 1: He doesn't want to adopt. You have no options here?

783
00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 1: You have no options here, Steve, Well, surely I have

784
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 1: different take on this. I believe that she does have options,

785
00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 1: and I'll tell you why as soon as y'all ask

786
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:25,800
Speaker 1: me why, Steve. She's been married to her husband for

787
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 1: eight years and they got a five year old and

788
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:34,240
Speaker 1: a two year old together. They both girls. My husband

789
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 1: has five other kids, not including the other the two

790
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 1: we have together. Now, let's stop right here. Here go

791
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 1: the whole damn problem right here. It's them five other

792
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 1: damn kids. This is the reason he's struggling with another one.

793
00:55:54,880 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 1: So don't take it personal. It ain't you. It's still

794
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 1: damn other ones. That's where the problem come in. We

795
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 1: don't know where they strolled all out at. They could

796
00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 1: be citywide, statewide, countrywide, they may be global international. We

797
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 1: don't know, but there's a lot of money. Now, if

798
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 1: he foughty, I'm a solman. He started having kids around

799
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:36,640
Speaker 1: twenty eighteen. Maybe that means he's still paying child support.

800
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:43,719
Speaker 1: That's why he don't want no more kids. See, y'all

801
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:47,840
Speaker 1: may be financially stable, but that child support choking homie,

802
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 1: that's your problem right there. Now. You say, yes, I

803
00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 1: know that's a lot of kids, but you want to

804
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 1: try for another one because you're thirty two, and he

805
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:58,959
Speaker 1: fought it. He say too old to have more kids.

806
00:56:59,320 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 1: That's not true. You can have more kids path forty

807
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:04,239
Speaker 1: and you don't got a boy, and you want a boy.

808
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:08,600
Speaker 1: And always you always told him you wanted three kids.

809
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:11,840
Speaker 1: And now y'all ain't having sex because he said he

810
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:13,879
Speaker 1: don't want to get me pregnant if we do have sex.

811
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 1: He buy me to plan beat peel to avoid any

812
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:22,240
Speaker 1: possible pregnancy. And you take the damn peep. But just man,

813
00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 1: make buying a peal, making you take it? Standing there,

814
00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:29,480
Speaker 1: watch you swallowing. This ain't no marriage. All right, hang

815
00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:33,120
Speaker 1: onto that thought, Steve, Um, we have more. We'll have

816
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:35,240
Speaker 1: part two of your response when we come back at

817
00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:38,560
Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters subject my

818
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 1: best friend is just trying to help out here. Okay,

819
00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:46,320
Speaker 1: we'll get back into it right after this. You're listening show,

820
00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:49,960
Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry Letters subject my

821
00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:54,480
Speaker 1: best friend is just trying to help out. Yeah, you

822
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:56,840
Speaker 1: got this husband you've been married to. Y'all got two

823
00:57:56,960 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 1: kids when he got five other kids. You want another

824
00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 1: baby because you want to try for a boy. You

825
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 1: thirty two, he forty. He said he too old and

826
00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 1: had kids. You told him when y'all got married, y'all

827
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:08,880
Speaker 1: want to have three kids. He say he ain't having it,

828
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:11,440
Speaker 1: and y'all don't hardly have sex because he don't want

829
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:13,800
Speaker 1: to get you pregnant. Then when you do have sex,

830
00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:16,720
Speaker 1: he buy peal to Plan B pill and make you

831
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 1: take it to avoid any possible pregnancy. You asked this food,

832
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:27,720
Speaker 1: could you adopt and he still said no. I'm starting

833
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:30,280
Speaker 1: to resent your my husband. It is causing a strain

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Speaker 1: under your relationship because you want another baby. Now you

835
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:37,800
Speaker 1: say you financially stable. Now here's the problem. You wun't

836
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Speaker 1: till your best friend, who happens to be a maid.

837
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:47,880
Speaker 1: He offered his sperm. Let's stop right here. Anybody got

838
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 1: problem with this? Hill En will offer spern moost Man.

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Speaker 1: I know it's willing to offer sperm. I don't. That's

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Speaker 1: where the term sperm donor came from, by the fact

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Speaker 1: we like giving it up so much. We'll give it

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Speaker 1: to people we don't know. We don't even have to

843
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:20,920
Speaker 1: care about you. We have extra we want to donate

844
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Speaker 1: it to you. Now, your damn best friend, who is

845
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Speaker 1: a man, then told you that he'll offer you his sperm.

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Speaker 1: And then you said in the letter, as you know,

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Speaker 1: he would donate the sperm and sex would not be involved. Lady,

848
00:59:36,440 --> 00:59:40,280
Speaker 1: that's what he said, but her best friend because he's

849
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Speaker 1: attracted to you, And now he's so attracted to you,

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Speaker 1: he said, I don't need my sperm. He's been wanting

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Speaker 1: to say this all alone. This just the topic that

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00:59:52,520 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 1: then came up. And you said, as you know, he

853
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 1: would donate the sperm and sex would not be involved. Well,

854
01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:03,440
Speaker 1: sex might not be involved, but you're gonna have to

855
01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 1: get that sperm though. Hello church, say man, man might

856
01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 1: not have that, but you gotta get it, and you

857
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:18,080
Speaker 1: can't leave it where it is. To have it got

858
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Speaker 1: to come out. Hello man, how you think we're gonna

859
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 1: get it out of the little house he lived? You

860
01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:34,080
Speaker 1: serious right now? Now, I'm dead serious. Something got to happen.

861
01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:36,960
Speaker 1: You stop all this. He we don't have to have sex.

862
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 1: We're gonna have something now. Then your crazy ass went

863
01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:47,880
Speaker 1: in the house told your husband about your best friend's offer.

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01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:55,479
Speaker 1: Your husband flipped, was holly upset. He said this would

865
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:58,960
Speaker 1: be committing a sin sound like to me because he

866
01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:01,240
Speaker 1: really show what you mean. But he want to donate

867
01:01:01,280 --> 01:01:03,600
Speaker 1: some sperm because your husband got a real good idea

868
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 1: of what donating sperm me. You'd be breaking the vials

869
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:10,520
Speaker 1: of the marriage because all he says all seas you

870
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:14,240
Speaker 1: having sex or getting that sperm donated some kind of way,

871
01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:17,960
Speaker 1: and said he would not accept the child as his.

872
01:01:18,200 --> 01:01:23,320
Speaker 1: Hell it ain't. It ain't his baby, it's your best

873
01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:27,640
Speaker 1: friend's baby. He also said he divorced you if you

874
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:30,880
Speaker 1: brought it up again. Now you think it's very unfair

875
01:01:30,880 --> 01:01:33,200
Speaker 1: because he won't give me another baby. It's my body

876
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:34,960
Speaker 1: and if I want another baby, I should be able

877
01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:37,080
Speaker 1: to get pregnant to have a baby. Lady, you are

878
01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:41,040
Speaker 1: one percent correct. Now, Shirley said this right here. It

879
01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 1: won't be with this dude right here. Unless you just

880
01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:46,400
Speaker 1: go on and have sex with your husband and quit

881
01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:50,720
Speaker 1: taking that damn peel, then you're gonna have a baby.

882
01:01:51,400 --> 01:01:56,240
Speaker 1: Then what he gonna do? But then guess what, No

883
01:01:56,400 --> 01:01:58,720
Speaker 1: nobody really want to have a baby with somebody that

884
01:01:58,840 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 1: don't want a baby. But it happens all the time,

885
01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 1: and you can act like some women and go, well,

886
01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:10,680
Speaker 1: he'll grow to love the child. He might, but he

887
01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:14,880
Speaker 1: might quit loving you though, because he will be resembling

888
01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:17,880
Speaker 1: because he has sold all his wilos with all these

889
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:20,560
Speaker 1: other chicks that got the five other kids. Now he

890
01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 1: want to shut it down, and you haven't told him

891
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:25,680
Speaker 1: you won't three. You should be able to get pregnant

892
01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:28,480
Speaker 1: and have a baby, but Shirley's right, probably won't be

893
01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:32,680
Speaker 1: with this dude. Right here? Am I wrong here? Please help? Well,

894
01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 1: if you want to have another baby and he don't,

895
01:02:35,200 --> 01:02:37,640
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to go have another baby. And you

896
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:41,640
Speaker 1: do have the right, but I think you told your

897
01:02:41,760 --> 01:02:45,880
Speaker 1: husband you wanted three kids in the beginning. Now somewhere

898
01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:49,120
Speaker 1: along the line it's child sport whooping his ass. He

899
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 1: won't see it, so now he is issuing ultimatum. But

900
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:57,800
Speaker 1: the biggest mistake you made was this sperm donor conversation

901
01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:01,440
Speaker 1: with your husband, because now he got a platform to

902
01:03:01,600 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 1: stand on that ain't got nothing to do with the

903
01:03:03,680 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 1: pregnancy or the baby. Now, he didn't use this divorce

904
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:12,240
Speaker 1: to really shut you down. It's a cold, tricky pulling

905
01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:16,440
Speaker 1: on you, but it's working because you don't wrote in

906
01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:21,439
Speaker 1: a letter. So I don't know what to tell you, man,

907
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:24,680
Speaker 1: But it don't look like you'll be having a baby

908
01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:28,720
Speaker 1: with your husband. And don't leave your husband for your

909
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:34,280
Speaker 1: best friend, please, and do not take your best friend

910
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:37,960
Speaker 1: spurn and your lung is some sperms like you don't

911
01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:43,240
Speaker 1: must that's all. You hold me some spurs, all right?

912
01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:48,280
Speaker 1: Looking all right? Steve? Thank you. You can post your

913
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Speaker 1: comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram and Facebook at

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01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:56,520
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM. God, I've forget to check out the

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on Demanding now coming up forty six

916
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Speaker 1: after the hour. The hashtag chicken sandwich wars Popeyes versus

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01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:10,960
Speaker 1: Chick fil A, Oh my goodness, trending all weekend. We'll

918
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:13,800
Speaker 1: talk about it right after this. You're listening to the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Show. Okay, Steve. Popeyes release their new chicken

920
01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 1: sandwich nationwide. Okay, so now for some reason it's Popeyes

921
01:04:24,480 --> 01:04:27,560
Speaker 1: versus the Chick fil At chicken sandwich. They're in a

922
01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:34,520
Speaker 1: big war. Now. Everyone has been debating over whose combination

923
01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:38,920
Speaker 1: of bun, chicken and pickles makes the best sandwich. The

924
01:04:39,080 --> 01:04:41,440
Speaker 1: memes are out of control on social media about the

925
01:04:41,520 --> 01:04:46,440
Speaker 1: chicken sandwich war. It's like the best we've ever seen Okay,

926
01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:49,800
Speaker 1: our very own Jay Anthony Brown was in a meme

927
01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:52,960
Speaker 1: using one of his scenes as a band director in

928
01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:59,600
Speaker 1: the movie Drumline. Okay, tell us about a Jay the

929
01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:01,880
Speaker 1: band up there directing the band and I turned around

930
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:04,439
Speaker 1: and dude, you know to cover the mouse. I think

931
01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:11,120
Speaker 1: Popeyes use that against churches, so against use it against

932
01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:15,320
Speaker 1: Its crazy. It's crazy. I'm out of the country, so

933
01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:25,360
Speaker 1: I haven't seen it. Go ahead. I have not had

934
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:34,480
Speaker 1: the Popeyes chickens chicken sand Who who's chicken sandwiches? I

935
01:05:34,600 --> 01:05:37,600
Speaker 1: haven't had Popeyes chicken sandwich. So let me just start

936
01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:48,960
Speaker 1: right there. I have Hey, lord, Lord, I don't see

937
01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 1: how you can beat that sandwich. Yeah, I'm gonna get involved,

938
01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:59,360
Speaker 1: but I don't see how you can beat that sandwich.

939
01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 1: Not Jay was talking about it. Off Jay, what do

940
01:06:04,160 --> 01:06:07,360
Speaker 1: you say? Hope? You hope? I just hope there's many

941
01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:09,520
Speaker 1: people who are standing in line and get a damn

942
01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:12,880
Speaker 1: chicken sandwich will be the same people standing in line

943
01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:19,320
Speaker 1: to vote. Come on, yeah, yeah, yeah, and get a

944
01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:22,160
Speaker 1: damn chicken salmon stand in line to vote? How about

945
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:28,880
Speaker 1: standing pta meets? How about that? Yeah? I mean, seriously, man,

946
01:06:29,080 --> 01:06:35,360
Speaker 1: if we are took the voting of judges and senators

947
01:06:35,440 --> 01:06:41,400
Speaker 1: and congressmen. Yes, and and and and all these county commissioners.

948
01:06:42,560 --> 01:06:45,640
Speaker 1: If we took that as seriousness, this we could actually change.

949
01:06:47,680 --> 01:06:50,280
Speaker 1: There's a lot of yeah, yeah, y'all want to do

950
01:06:50,440 --> 01:06:54,240
Speaker 1: chicken wards, Let's do some voting, let's make some local election.

951
01:06:54,320 --> 01:06:59,960
Speaker 1: But yeah, a current ball. Don't even know who that's

952
01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:04,880
Speaker 1: senators and representatives. One, no idea. What were you saying, Tommy,

953
01:07:05,560 --> 01:07:07,680
Speaker 1: I said, Papas threw a curveball and say you can

954
01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:09,760
Speaker 1: get chicken over here on Sunday if you want to

955
01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:16,400
Speaker 1: say when you get out of church. All right, listen.

956
01:07:16,520 --> 01:07:18,640
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, guys uh

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Speaker 1: trending sports Talk, The Indianapolis Coats quarterback Andrew Luck announced

958
01:07:23,480 --> 01:07:27,160
Speaker 1: his retirement, and Coats fans booed him. We'll talk about

959
01:07:27,200 --> 01:07:34,919
Speaker 1: a junior coming up right after this. You're listening to show. Wow,

960
01:07:35,240 --> 01:07:37,680
Speaker 1: we got to talk about this junior. Junior is here

961
01:07:37,720 --> 01:07:41,120
Speaker 1: with sports talk. What is going on in the NFL?

962
01:07:41,600 --> 01:07:45,800
Speaker 1: H disey, I have no idea that Tony o'brown helmet issue.

963
01:07:46,200 --> 01:07:49,080
Speaker 1: He got denied a second time. Then all of a sudden,

964
01:07:49,160 --> 01:07:54,840
Speaker 1: now we have h Indian quarterback Andrew Luck retiring at

965
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:59,560
Speaker 1: twenty nine, in the middle of his prime. He just retired.

966
01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:01,040
Speaker 1: He just I've been just saying I can't do it.

967
01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:03,760
Speaker 1: He said he's mentally fatigued. He has a lot of

968
01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:08,200
Speaker 1: physical injuries, like his ankles are swollen, shoulders, calf injuries,

969
01:08:08,240 --> 01:08:11,320
Speaker 1: and even a lacerated kidneys. And he says he's had

970
01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:14,120
Speaker 1: blood in his Yearine so, and then they don't even

971
01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:20,639
Speaker 1: can in the aplace. The fans booed him at the game. Yeah,

972
01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:22,880
Speaker 1: they booed him at the game when playing against the Bears.

973
01:08:22,960 --> 01:08:25,680
Speaker 1: They just up and started booming. But I understand why

974
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:28,120
Speaker 1: the fans is booming, You do, because they super Bowl

975
01:08:28,200 --> 01:08:31,400
Speaker 1: chances went out the window. Oh that's it. So their

976
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:34,000
Speaker 1: new quarterback now is gonna be Kobe prict let's stay

977
01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:35,840
Speaker 1: backup quarterback. Now he's gonna have to be the guy.

978
01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:43,479
Speaker 1: But at so the Indianapolis coach fans are buoying because

979
01:08:43,520 --> 01:08:48,479
Speaker 1: their Super Bowl chances have gone out the window. So

980
01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:54,080
Speaker 1: they would rather have the super Bowl chance has remained, right,

981
01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:57,000
Speaker 1: and let this guy's chance of having a long healthy

982
01:08:57,160 --> 01:09:02,000
Speaker 1: lighting out on earth. You think that super Bowl ring

983
01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:06,040
Speaker 1: supersedes his living a long healthy life. To play with

984
01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:09,600
Speaker 1: his kids. He only twenty nine. You know, man, you

985
01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:12,639
Speaker 1: can't boot. Football is a violent sport. Man. I don't

986
01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:17,360
Speaker 1: think people understand what these guys, how all of them

987
01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:22,480
Speaker 1: play injured week after week after week, and how damaging

988
01:09:22,760 --> 01:09:26,920
Speaker 1: this game is to them. You know, we've talked about concussions.

989
01:09:27,320 --> 01:09:30,880
Speaker 1: Will Smith did a movie about it. This stuff is real,

990
01:09:31,080 --> 01:09:34,439
Speaker 1: man in the NFL, and I applaud a guy who

991
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:36,960
Speaker 1: wants to live longer more than he wants to play

992
01:09:37,040 --> 01:09:41,880
Speaker 1: the game of football. And you should be stealthy. You know,

993
01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:45,920
Speaker 1: he wanted to play. They says his retirement was emotional,

994
01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:51,000
Speaker 1: and fans start boring that's crazy, yeah, and no damn sense.

995
01:09:51,880 --> 01:09:53,280
Speaker 1: So what you want him do you? You want to

996
01:09:53,320 --> 01:09:57,439
Speaker 1: wait till he can't walk right right right? And the

997
01:09:57,479 --> 01:09:59,360
Speaker 1: coach Ta're gonna let him keep his twenty four point

998
01:10:01,920 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 1: on his contract? Yeah, yeah, he still had time on

999
01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:09,120
Speaker 1: his contract. But you could see when that press conference, Uh,

1000
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:12,200
Speaker 1: he thanked his wife and his family and he said that, Steve,

1001
01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:15,519
Speaker 1: he said that verbatim, that the NFL just long term

1002
01:10:15,560 --> 01:10:18,439
Speaker 1: doesn't provide him let him live the life that he

1003
01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:21,080
Speaker 1: wants to live, and live a lifestyle that he wants

1004
01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:24,200
Speaker 1: to have. And you know, getting beat up every Sunday

1005
01:10:24,680 --> 01:10:27,360
Speaker 1: and it was right. And you think that wasn't a

1006
01:10:27,479 --> 01:10:30,240
Speaker 1: hard decision for him to make to quit the game.

1007
01:10:30,640 --> 01:10:34,040
Speaker 1: He loves you know, you know, but you know a

1008
01:10:34,080 --> 01:10:37,920
Speaker 1: lot of these play comedians. Yeah, I know comedians. They

1009
01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:40,200
Speaker 1: got out of the game because they just couldn't handle

1010
01:10:40,280 --> 01:10:43,080
Speaker 1: them bad sex they was having. I know comedians that

1011
01:10:43,160 --> 01:10:45,200
Speaker 1: should get out of the game now, Steve, They should

1012
01:10:45,240 --> 01:10:54,040
Speaker 1: get out right. Yeah, you up on stage and you

1013
01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:59,120
Speaker 1: ain't getting no damn last the game. Get after the

1014
01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:02,200
Speaker 1: audience member is uncomfortable you up there, You ain't getting

1015
01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:06,360
Speaker 1: no laughs. They squammling on, trying not to make eye contact.

1016
01:11:07,680 --> 01:11:10,439
Speaker 1: To come back, come back there and try to talk

1017
01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:12,160
Speaker 1: to the rest of us. We don't know what the

1018
01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:21,880
Speaker 1: tech ain't laughing laughing men rough out there? Yeah, it was.

1019
01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:26,679
Speaker 1: It was rough out there for you. Yeah, I gotta

1020
01:11:26,800 --> 01:11:31,400
Speaker 1: standing over. Wow, man, how much time did you do?

1021
01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:40,519
Speaker 1: Seem like wasn't no laughs left in the room. Yeah,

1022
01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:48,679
Speaker 1: tough crowd. They ain't the type of all really asking everybody.

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01:11:49,000 --> 01:11:53,280
Speaker 1: You know, something going on? Man, It just don't seem

1024
01:11:53,360 --> 01:11:58,880
Speaker 1: like they get to jokes and get them get mine. Hey,

1025
01:11:59,040 --> 01:12:00,640
Speaker 1: how you expect me now to go up here and

1026
01:12:00,720 --> 01:12:05,439
Speaker 1: say something though, Wow, I don't have to bring this up. Well,

1027
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Speaker 1: thanks you guys. Coming up. More music, more fun, more ignorance.

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Speaker 1: You know, we got it all right here on the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after

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Speaker 1: six eight four twenty eight twenty five. Now, y'all, I

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Speaker 1: gotta tell you something. What Steve, We really went into

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Speaker 1: recovery mode from the problems they were having in the

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Speaker 1: dr and we found a solution that worked out even

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Speaker 1: better than the original place we had. And I kid

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Speaker 1: you not. My girl is celebrating her birthday after Morgan

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01:13:23,920 --> 01:13:27,200
Speaker 1: came back and told her what it was about. She said, Steve,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do my birthday and can Ko. I said, Coo,

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Speaker 1: it's the ten, it's the opening night. Were gonna jam.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna turn it up. You know, I ain't doing

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Speaker 1: nothing that's whacked bogus, nothing like that. It's gonna be

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Speaker 1: real exciting. When we come back. I'm gonna let the

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Speaker 1: crew tell you what they did and what we gonna

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Speaker 1: do this year, because the crew was there last year.

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Speaker 1: Ye talk about it when we come back. Steve Harvey's

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Speaker 1: saying it soul dot com right now or one eight

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Speaker 1: hundred six eight four eight one eight six eight four

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Speaker 1: twenty eight, twenty five, we'll be back with most you're

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Speaker 1: listening to morning show. All right, So, Steve, the Sandy

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Speaker 1: Soul Festival not to be outdone. This year. We are

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Speaker 1: going to can Coon, Mexico the Columbus Day weekend. I

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Speaker 1: can't wait. We had so much fun last year we had, Yes,

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Speaker 1: Sandy Soul. What did you enjoy most about it? Oh?

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Speaker 1: My god. First of all, I enjoyed the people. I

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01:14:29,880 --> 01:14:32,840
Speaker 1: love hanging hanging out with our listeners. They're they're just

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Speaker 1: wonderful people. They love the show. They're so friendly and personable.

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Speaker 1: I love that aspect of it, getting to you know,

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Speaker 1: just commune with our listeners. We had so much. We

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01:14:42,560 --> 01:14:45,439
Speaker 1: just had a great time with them. What about you calling?

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Speaker 1: Oh well? I love the fact that every night, you know,

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Speaker 1: we had the parties and the events and the concerts

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Speaker 1: and then the after parties. You know how all the listeners.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all saw everybody circling around me

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01:14:56,200 --> 01:14:59,599
Speaker 1: when I was dancing, they looked forward to that every

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01:15:01,560 --> 01:15:06,280
Speaker 1: that I was a star dance floor, right, and you're

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Speaker 1: celebrating your birthday too, of celebrating her. Yeah, libras were celebrating.

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Speaker 1: You know what I love about this whole thing though,

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01:15:14,080 --> 01:15:17,439
Speaker 1: It's nothing like seeing black people on vacation across the

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Speaker 1: water because when you soon as you pull up, you

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01:15:20,120 --> 01:15:25,320
Speaker 1: know how to talk to everybody in there. What's up? Many?

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Speaker 1: We finished start this thing right now, going to the bar.

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Speaker 1: I'll be there and fire and we drop this lug

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Speaker 1: at y'all whole damn weekend. Yeah, we have great. Yes,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna started off on that Friday morning. I'm gonna

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01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:49,479
Speaker 1: do a master class, a vault master class. It all,

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01:15:49,520 --> 01:15:52,439
Speaker 1: it's all in the package. Just anybody wants to come

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Speaker 1: and join me. I'm gonna do somewhat of a uh well,

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01:15:57,560 --> 01:15:59,240
Speaker 1: I was saying, I was gonna say a Q and A,

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01:15:59,320 --> 01:16:02,120
Speaker 1: but it's most me. Just gonna be sharing with you

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Speaker 1: some of the things I learned on vacation this year

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01:16:06,000 --> 01:16:10,920
Speaker 1: about motivation, about life, about inspiration, about accomplishing your dreams.

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Speaker 1: Everybody I know wants to be happy and successful. I've

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01:16:14,240 --> 01:16:17,799
Speaker 1: learned so much over the years, but I really became

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Speaker 1: a new me out there on that boat this year,

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01:16:20,520 --> 01:16:22,720
Speaker 1: and I want to share that with people so you

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01:16:22,800 --> 01:16:25,480
Speaker 1: can use some of these things I've learned and incorporated

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01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:30,120
Speaker 1: in your life. After that, skip all this, the cigar line,

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01:16:30,880 --> 01:16:34,120
Speaker 1: climbing rolls from Cigars with your boy. We got real

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Speaker 1: rollers on deck, we got all the drinks that go

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Speaker 1: with it. Yeah, and one of my favorite events was

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Speaker 1: hosting the Sand and Soul version of Showtime and their

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Speaker 1: polym is involved, buoying is involved, just like it was

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Speaker 1: last year. I'm sorry down here and said you could say,

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Speaker 1: but we found out you could. Steve Harvey saying thesoul

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01:17:06,479 --> 01:17:09,040
Speaker 1: dot Com, y'all come on and join this man got

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Speaker 1: it straight out at Steve Harvey saying, thesoul dot Com

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Speaker 1: eight six eight four twenty eight twenty five operators are

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Speaker 1: standing back. All right, we'll be back with more and

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Speaker 1: our last break of the day at forty nine minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour. Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, Steve, here we are last break

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Speaker 1: of the day. It's been a good Monday. It's been

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Speaker 1: a good Monday. Yeah, welcome back Jay. Yeah, and wow,

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Speaker 1: Jay's thinking about getting married again. I mean that was good,

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01:17:40,439 --> 01:17:43,439
Speaker 1: and I love itself. That was bit. He thought that

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01:17:43,640 --> 01:17:49,080
Speaker 1: several times. I said, yes, said I need a wife something.

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01:17:49,960 --> 01:17:52,400
Speaker 1: How are you gonna get a wife without getting married? Okay,

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01:17:55,600 --> 01:17:57,680
Speaker 1: there's a way that you can do it without that,

1117
01:17:59,040 --> 01:18:03,000
Speaker 1: let me know anyway. All right, Steve, So time for

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Speaker 1: you now to leave us with some closing remarks, like

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Speaker 1: you always do, some good ones. As you know. I

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Speaker 1: was thinking the other day because this year my vacation

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01:18:15,520 --> 01:18:18,360
Speaker 1: was more spiritual than it's ever been. And I kid

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01:18:18,439 --> 01:18:21,280
Speaker 1: you not to keep saying it, but God really really

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01:18:21,720 --> 01:18:24,360
Speaker 1: opened up my eyes to a lot of things. And

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Speaker 1: I have no problem sharing it, man, And I've learned

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Speaker 1: so much that I'm kind of aggravated at myself a

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01:18:32,920 --> 01:18:36,439
Speaker 1: little bit that I didn't take the time to sit

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Speaker 1: down and really let his presence speak to me the

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Speaker 1: way I did this year. I'm kind of aggravated at

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01:18:45,720 --> 01:18:49,640
Speaker 1: myself that I didn't do this years ago. And I

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01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:52,320
Speaker 1: found out real quick that I was wasting a lot

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Speaker 1: of time being mad at myself, because how many times

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Speaker 1: have you seen it in your life? If I only

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01:18:59,120 --> 01:19:03,400
Speaker 1: knew then what I know now, but you know what

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01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:07,080
Speaker 1: I had to come to terms with, I just wouldn't

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01:19:07,120 --> 01:19:11,840
Speaker 1: have taken this information and appreciated it the same way.

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01:19:12,600 --> 01:19:14,479
Speaker 1: And I think all of us when we sit back

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Speaker 1: and people ask us questions like if you could change anything,

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Speaker 1: what would you change in your life? Or if you

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Speaker 1: were talking to your twenty year old self, what would

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Speaker 1: you say to your twenty year old self. I don't

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01:19:26,080 --> 01:19:29,240
Speaker 1: mind answering that question what would I say to my

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Speaker 1: twenty year old self? But the question is often asked,

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Speaker 1: if you could change anything, what would you change? Well,

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01:19:40,280 --> 01:19:42,320
Speaker 1: I knew a lot of stuff in my life that

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Speaker 1: lasted a lot longer than I wanted to. I didn't

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Speaker 1: think I needed to live in a car for three

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Speaker 1: years after I learned what he was teaching me. It

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01:19:54,360 --> 01:19:59,040
Speaker 1: took three years for me to get it. I didn't

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01:19:59,680 --> 01:20:04,919
Speaker 1: think that I needed to get divorced, but after getting divorced,

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Speaker 1: I learned what he was trying to teach me. Because

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Speaker 1: because what you gotta understand is behind, and I've said

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Speaker 1: this several times before, behind every moment of adversity, there's

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Speaker 1: a lesson and there's a blessing. And so all the

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Speaker 1: experiences that I've had in my life have led to

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Speaker 1: some incredible lessons and some incredible blessings. Now, the lessons

1156
01:20:29,040 --> 01:20:32,160
Speaker 1: you don't like them all the time, because being disciplined

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01:20:32,240 --> 01:20:36,880
Speaker 1: nobody likes that. But the blessings you do like. But

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01:20:37,040 --> 01:20:41,799
Speaker 1: in every last one of those lessons, if I stayed

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Speaker 1: the course and paid attention, that was always a blessing behind.

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Speaker 1: So I can't change anything that's ever happened to me

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Speaker 1: because that's how I became experienced. That's how you've become experienced.

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Speaker 1: That's why you know what you know. That's why you

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01:21:00,600 --> 01:21:03,920
Speaker 1: can cope with what you can cope with. A lot

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Speaker 1: of people complain about the hardships that they've had in

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01:21:07,600 --> 01:21:11,240
Speaker 1: their life. For what people sometimes don't look at is

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01:21:11,280 --> 01:21:14,120
Speaker 1: that in spite of those hardships. I mean, look at you.

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01:21:14,520 --> 01:21:18,160
Speaker 1: You survived every last one of them. Not one of

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Speaker 1: them took you out because you still him. So instead

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Speaker 1: of steady reminiscenting and talking about how hard you'dn't had it,

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Speaker 1: why don't you show some gratitude for the fact that

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Speaker 1: he bought you through it. And I promise you you're

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Speaker 1: stronger for it. You get stronger because you've been challenged,

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Speaker 1: you got you get tougher because you get you've been

1174
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Speaker 1: whipped on. You know things because you are now experienced.

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Speaker 1: You know how to fight because you've been beat You

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01:21:52,640 --> 01:21:58,360
Speaker 1: know how to get up because you kept getting knocked down. Man.

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Speaker 1: Ain't that amazing? Man? And that sometimes you have to

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Speaker 1: realize that you got to go through some things to

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Speaker 1: end up with some things. I just would not be

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Speaker 1: the person I am today, and you would not be

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01:22:13,600 --> 01:22:16,559
Speaker 1: the person that you are today had you not gone

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01:22:16,600 --> 01:22:19,439
Speaker 1: through what you're going through. I guess what I got

1183
01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:22,080
Speaker 1: that you was uncomfortable with the fact that you didn't

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01:22:22,120 --> 01:22:26,439
Speaker 1: meet your father or your mom passed early. I got

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01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:30,400
Speaker 1: you uncomfortable with the fact that you were adopted. I'm

1186
01:22:30,600 --> 01:22:33,120
Speaker 1: got that you're uncomfortable with the fact that you had

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01:22:33,160 --> 01:22:36,200
Speaker 1: to go through falster care. I got you uncomfortable with

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01:22:36,320 --> 01:22:39,400
Speaker 1: all of that, But ain't you still here? Though it

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01:22:39,560 --> 01:22:43,120
Speaker 1: didn't break you. But see, if you don't move past

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Speaker 1: the lesson, if you keep going over the lesson, you'll

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01:22:48,479 --> 01:22:52,200
Speaker 1: never make yourself available for the blessing. I had to

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Speaker 1: go through this, and then I went through that. You

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Speaker 1: keep going over the lesson. I can't leave the Lord,

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Speaker 1: let me get a die. Then I never met my

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Speaker 1: mother and father. I got that. I can't believe they

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Speaker 1: put me in foster? Can they muster didn't want me

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Speaker 1: understand all of that. But when you get through saying

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Speaker 1: all of that, have you ever thought that just maybe

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Speaker 1: in there it made you a little bit stronger, made

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Speaker 1: you a little bit tougher, made your little bit wiser,

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01:23:25,720 --> 01:23:29,240
Speaker 1: made you a little bit more experience, And in that

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01:23:30,640 --> 01:23:36,160
Speaker 1: that is the blessing. So quick complaining and talking about

1203
01:23:36,240 --> 01:23:41,760
Speaker 1: the lesson and focus, because behind every moment of adversity

1204
01:23:42,040 --> 01:23:46,479
Speaker 1: there is a lesson and a blessing. So now we

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01:23:46,760 --> 01:23:49,519
Speaker 1: can't none of us change what happened to us. It

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01:23:49,680 --> 01:23:52,320
Speaker 1: probably shouldn't want to, because we wouldn't be who we

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Speaker 1: are today. Those are my closing remarks today ain't never

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Speaker 1: drop the mic done, have yourself a great we can't

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Speaker 1: I know it's Monday Back For all Steve Harvey contests,

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