1 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: All right, Welcome to Episode one forty Bobby Cast with 2 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:10,560 Speaker 1: Janet Cramer. That's a good number. I like that, like 3 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: for you or just in general, just like in general, 4 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: for you, for life, for like good well three, but 5 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: you know what that is. I mean, you know what 6 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 1: that comes from. Not wait, yes, I do where Mr 7 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 1: Roger documentary. Yes, that's what I was like. I was 8 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: watching it. Did you like that documentary? I loved it, Okay, 9 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 1: I did. I didn't finish it, but I wanted to 10 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: be more about his life. Um that's where I was disappointed. 11 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 1: I think it was two hyped up for me and 12 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 1: everyone's like, you're going to cry, and I was like, 13 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: I didn't. I wanted to be more about like him 14 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 1: and like his upbringing and stuff like that. Not so 15 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:46,479 Speaker 1: much about the show. I was okay with the direction 16 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: of it. You were, yeah, because he really did a 17 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: lot as a show when they were showing for me, 18 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 1: I'm totally let me do this commercial. I'm gonna come 19 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: back to this. No, no, no, you're good like squirrel. 20 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 1: I do want to talk about sleep number for a second, 21 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 1: because here's the deal with me too, have like I 22 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 1: do this show from my house and I have three 23 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 1: sleep number beds, but with them so long that I 24 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: keep getting new ones and just move them up to 25 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: all the guest rooms. Uh, you want to have more energy, 26 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,679 Speaker 1: you're less brain fog, or just sleep better. You're pregnant, 27 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: so the bed matters you spend I tell you that 28 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: you spend more than half your life in bed. Having 29 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: the mattress is the most important thing. That's the biggest 30 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: investment that you should do. To hear the best commercial, 31 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: no one ever does a commercial lines she's like Nail, 32 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:28,399 Speaker 1: I'm like the new Sleep number three sixty smart bed 33 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 1: helps everyone from parents to pro athletes. Listen. It's all 34 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 1: about just listen. You feel better if if you are better, 35 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: if you're if you're more well, you just you perform 36 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: better at work. Invest in a good bed. So many 37 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: couples disagree on mattress firmness and sleep number beds. Let 38 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 1: you choose your ideal firmness on each side. So whatever's 39 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: right for you go in now. Let me suggest to 40 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: see the newest Sleep number three sixty smart bed. It's 41 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 1: your competitive edge. From Sleep Numbers, the official sleep and 42 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: Wellness partner of the NFL. You'll only find sleep number 43 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:59,559 Speaker 1: at one of the fifties, Sleep number stores nationwide, visits 44 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 1: sleep numb dot com, slash bones, and find the one 45 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: nearest to you. Just to the documentary, just for a second, 46 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: I thought, because that show was a bit before me, 47 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: just a bit before you. I don't remember much of 48 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:12,399 Speaker 1: it as a kid. I mean I didn't watch it either. 49 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: My brother used to cry, so it was older watched 50 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: he's older. But whenever they would show on the Mr. 51 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: Rogers documentary, whenever real life things would happen, like the 52 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: assassination of Bobby Kennedy, and he would go, want to go, hey, listen, 53 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 1: you may hear you may hear the word assassination. Like 54 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: he was tackling really tough subjects for kids. Yeah. Do 55 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: you know what's sad though, this day and age, if 56 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: there was a show like that, you can't have a 57 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 1: middle aged dude. That's so sad. It's like he actually 58 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: loved these kids, Like he wasn't that we know of, 59 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: you know, pedophile or whatever. But I'm like, in this 60 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 1: day and age, you're like, yeah, yeah, it's just so sad. 61 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: Like that's where like, well, that's where my head went first. 62 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 1: I was like, in this day and age that we're 63 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: probably gonna have a show like that, unless it's like Mr. Wiggles, 64 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: But then anyone it's like three grown men. That's even worse. Yeah, 65 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:06,799 Speaker 1: she's two and a half. She'll be three in January, 66 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 1: and then the baby boys do in November. How excited 67 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: was Mike to have a boy? Honestly, he was okay 68 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 1: having a girl. I really wanted another girl. But he's 69 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 1: so pomped now and now I'm really excited. I just 70 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 1: at first and picture myself as a boy mom, but 71 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: now I'm like beyond them and so excited. And the 72 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:27,359 Speaker 1: clothes are so cute for boys. But what about he's 73 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: a ballplayer, like doesn't doesn't even want to, you know, 74 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:33,640 Speaker 1: he does. He's scared because how do I say this? 75 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: He's afraid that he might do the same things in 76 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: his upbringing that the cycle. The cycle, he's afraid of. 77 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 1: The cycle. He's afraid of because I mean his dad. 78 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: You know, not that his dad was bad. His dad's amazing, 79 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: but you know, there are certain things that let him 80 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 1: down certain paths because of how he was raised, and 81 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: he's afraid that that might happen again. But I'm like, 82 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 1: this is where you get to break the cycle. And 83 00:03:57,160 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: that hopefully won't happen. And now you'll know it's okay 84 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: if you know he does come to you and you 85 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: can he can be honest with you and you won't 86 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: get mad at him. And so, and Jenna has a 87 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 1: podcast called wine Down w h I n E where 88 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: you guys, is it right? It's w H I n 89 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 1: E wind Down, Um Jenna Grammar and it's an unhearted 90 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 1: as well as yours, and it's I'm so open book 91 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: about everything in my life. So that's why I wanted 92 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: to do a podcast. And Mike's my co host on there, 93 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: and we just we talked about it all, but we 94 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 1: have fun too, like we're not all about like, oh 95 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 1: you know, we don't only talk about affairs. We don't 96 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 1: only talk about that stuff, but we we tackle the 97 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: subjects that are hard to talk about. So how does 98 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: he do with that? He did not want to talk 99 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:39,040 Speaker 1: about it at all in the very beginning. I mean 100 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 1: it's been two years he's been out with everything, so 101 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:47,160 Speaker 1: I mean, as the perpetrator, like he didn't ever want 102 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 1: to talk about it ever. I mean, he wanted to 103 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: sleep underneath the rug. And for me, it's like there's 104 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: how I've Ever, how I've always dealt with things in 105 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: my life is there's gotta be a reason for the 106 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:02,279 Speaker 1: that was caused in my life. So if I know 107 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 1: I'm not the only person so selfishly like, it helps 108 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 1: me when I reach out and talk about these things 109 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 1: because there's other people that's like, oh my gosh, my 110 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: husband too, or this happened to me, and it's I 111 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: don't feel as alone. So when he did start slowly 112 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 1: starting to talk about it, I would send him messages 113 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 1: and be like, look like this helped this person hearing 114 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 1: like the guy's perspective or what maybe the husband could 115 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 1: have been thinking, and he's like, wow, I didn't know 116 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: that that could like be like that. So it's been 117 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 1: and it's been really good for us. Yeah. Yeah, I 118 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 1: mean there's times when it's triggering, but at the same time, 119 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:36,599 Speaker 1: again like keeping the objective of we know why we're 120 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 1: doing this to try to help people, and just talk 121 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: about well, again, we know we're not experts, we're not therapists, 122 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 1: Like we do not have it figured out, I mean 123 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:47,160 Speaker 1: at all, But does anybody ever have figured out I've 124 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: determined now at this age in my life that no 125 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 1: one really knows what they're doing, and some people just 126 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: fake it better and they make you feel more insecure 127 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: about yourself because they're faking it so well. But really 128 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 1: nobody knows. No, you don't know. And like there's things 129 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 1: that happen all the time where I still get triggered, 130 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 1: I still get upset with them. We still have to 131 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: you know, and it could happen again, and then I 132 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:05,159 Speaker 1: have to make my decision what I'm going to do then, 133 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 1: And so it's just a cycle, and I'm just trying 134 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: to learn every day. You've You've been my confident for this. 135 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 1: I guess two months probably way before I even accepted 136 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 1: the Dancing with the Stars. Well, yeah, you wanted to know, 137 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:20,599 Speaker 1: like what it like, what it really was? Is it 138 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: really four hours of dancing? You know? It's not? Oh no, 139 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 1: it's like, how do I break it to you? I 140 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 1: feel bad complaining about it because it's such a cool thing. 141 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 1: And I also people don't understand. They think it's just fun. 142 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 1: It's not fun. It's really hard work. It's so it's 143 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,280 Speaker 1: so hard, but you feel complaining, like, oh, I'm having 144 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 1: a hard time on Dancing with the Stars. It's like 145 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 1: I understand that, but everyone else is not going to 146 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 1: understand that they haven't done the show because it's hard, 147 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:49,359 Speaker 1: and it's hard when you don't know how to even learn, 148 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: like you're learning to learn that's been don't even know 149 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: how to like count? Yeah, I didn't need that. I 150 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 1: was like, I don't understand this. What and when only 151 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 1: one on our show that has a job, oh will Yeah, 152 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 1: like a full time everyday job, like the other guys 153 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: have like things they do. But there are a lot 154 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 1: of creatives. That's true. That So every day I'm in 155 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: here five six seven hours a day and then I 156 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: go dance five six seven hours a day. I try 157 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 1: to eat. Yeah, I get a little fried. I'm trying 158 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: to be a little run down. Are you forgetting the steps? No, 159 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: my problem isn't forgetting steps. My problem is actually because 160 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: I want to learn all the steps and I'm such 161 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: a linear guy. Does she teach you the entire dance 162 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 1: all at once or now? Uh? We do blocks. She's 163 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 1: tried all everything with me. She's trying. She gets so 164 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 1: frustrated at me, and she gets no. No, she doesn't 165 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: get mad at me. Sometimes she'll be like, hey, but 166 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 1: it's for my like it's really for my own good 167 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 1: do you like that she's hard or do you want 168 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 1: her to be softer? No, I just want consistency. If 169 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 1: she's always hard, that means when she's softer, she says 170 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 1: it's good, it means it's really good. As long as 171 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 1: anything in my life is given to me consistently, I 172 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 1: can gauge the good or bad based on what the 173 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 1: consistent path is. So if she's always hard and she 174 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: doesn't go, oh, you're doing great all the time, well 175 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: she does finally say that it's good, it really means 176 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: it's good, and that's even currency. Yeah, what do you 177 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: think your biggest challenges the mental? It's not Listen, I'm 178 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: the first one there. I'm the last one to leave. 179 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 1: I know you are because in my text thir day, 180 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: I was I was quoting your book. I didn't think 181 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: you got it. Probably you're you're like I am. I 182 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:38,439 Speaker 1: was like, no, I'm talking about your book fight grind repeat, 183 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 1: that's yes. I didn't know that at first. It's I 184 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 1: I really beat myself up when I can't get it right, 185 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:47,960 Speaker 1: which is not fair because I'm not supposed to get 186 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 1: it right yet, and I'm just like, I'm so stupid, 187 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 1: And then I don't even dance to the music. I'm 188 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: trying to dance with the steps sometimes remember so many steps. Well, 189 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:00,040 Speaker 1: you have the hardest dance. That's what everybody says. I 190 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: don't know the difference. It's hard. I was. That was 191 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 1: my lowest score. Both. I don't think we can say 192 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 1: what it is yet you can't either. I'm saying I 193 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,559 Speaker 1: don't think so. But it was by far my lowest score. 194 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 1: I had the hardest time with that dance. And to 195 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:15,839 Speaker 1: know that you got that first, I was like, oh God, why, 196 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 1: because I think you're going to do good. With like 197 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: a frame position, you'll do good. I think, and like 198 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:23,959 Speaker 1: something where you're like posture, maybe even you're going to 199 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 1: be good. Regardless, I think there's a good shot I 200 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 1: go home the first. You're not going home. We're not honestly. 201 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:32,319 Speaker 1: If you're saying that, though, then you're gonna like you're 202 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: putting it out there, putting out that I don't believe that. 203 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: You don't believe in that. I don't believe it because 204 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 1: I'm saying it, because I'm saying what I would truly 205 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 1: feel that it's going to happen. I also don't believe 206 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 1: I'm right now I'm drinking a ferra. I don't believe 207 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 1: it's gonna pull up outside. Well, okay, what's I believe 208 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: Our mindset affects our actions. I just I disagree with you. 209 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: I just think if you like, yes, a Ferrari isn't 210 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: going to show up because that's not realistic and it's 211 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:55,959 Speaker 1: so hard. But I don't believe it's so hard to 212 00:09:55,960 --> 00:10:00,160 Speaker 1: ferrari outside. That's not realistic. You're you don't have any 213 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 1: you don't have a dealer right now for a Ferrari. 214 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 1: Right now, you're on Dancing with the Stars, So that's 215 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:08,959 Speaker 1: more realistic. I believe that if I show up yes, 216 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:11,200 Speaker 1: and I put in the work yes, and every day 217 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:13,199 Speaker 1: I get a few percent better, that I'm going to 218 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:15,680 Speaker 1: be on a trajectory to continue to improve. I'm going 219 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 1: to learn to learn. I like that. That's what I believe. 220 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: That's great. I also believe I could go home the 221 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 1: first week. That win the whole thing. Anyone could go 222 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 1: home the first week. There's the reality that, yes, you can. 223 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 1: I think that my story, your story good, Well, you 224 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: you go there, you know what I mean. That's the thing. 225 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 1: A lot of people don't go there. They don't show 226 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 1: the insides, and you want people want to get to 227 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 1: know you, like my story is the story of the 228 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: people that listen to my show and listen to this 229 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 1: and so well, and I feel like I'm idol too, 230 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: Like you gave out and I was like that was awesome. 231 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 1: I remember texting. I was like, like, that's good, Like 232 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:49,720 Speaker 1: you broke down those walls for people that don't know you, 233 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 1: like I know you. And then I saw that and 234 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 1: I was like, that's that's Bobby. When you were on 235 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 1: the show. How was the cast together, Like we guys closer? No, 236 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 1: it takes a couple of weeks. It definitely takes a 237 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 1: couple of weeks to like kind of get each other's 238 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 1: and some were close and somewhere, you know, it's just 239 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 1: it's hard. Did you have a best cast friend? Lori 240 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 1: and I were really close Hernandez she was the gymnast, 241 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 1: the cute little gymnasts ended up actually winning. But but 242 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 1: then you become so you become friends, like third three 243 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 1: or four weeks, and then then it comes to the 244 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 1: end and you're like, it's like church, can't everybody goes away? No? 245 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 1: I was like, no, I don't want to, Like I 246 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:30,440 Speaker 1: need to like I want to beat you now, mean 247 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 1: like yeah, then you get like super competitive. I already 248 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:34,719 Speaker 1: want to see them all fail and because I want 249 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:38,079 Speaker 1: to win. It's cut. But I mean sometimes like you're 250 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:39,560 Speaker 1: in the back and you're like, oh, they just missed 251 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 1: a step. Darn, Like what a bummer. That's competition time. Yeah, 252 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:47,680 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. It's like it's it's work. You know, it's business. 253 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 1: You gotta go out there and kill it. And you're 254 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: gonna do great. I'm so excited. I'm coming. It's going 255 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 1: to be so great. But I just think people don't 256 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:57,439 Speaker 1: understand the mental game of Dancing with the Stars. There's 257 00:11:57,480 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 1: so much because we're those people. The majority of them 258 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: are not dancers, the majority, and there are a couple 259 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 1: of that are really good. It's so annoying. Are the 260 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:08,199 Speaker 1: dancers well that's not fair. One of the girls is 261 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 1: probably better than the pro dancers because she danced with 262 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 1: Janet Jackson for a long time. So that's just that 263 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 1: that drives me crazy. And they're like, well it's different 264 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 1: because it's not like I've never done ballroom. Doesn't matter. 265 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 1: You know how to move the same thing with like 266 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 1: some of the gymnasts and figure skaters where I'm like, 267 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 1: you you get it, like that's how you like. Your 268 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 1: life was skating and moving and having strong legs like 269 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 1: glob would always be like stronger, stronger legs. And I'm like, 270 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:33,560 Speaker 1: this is what I don't know what that means. I'm 271 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 1: pointing my leg out and that's what I know. So 272 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 1: how else do you want me to make it stronger? 273 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 1: I'm tightening as hard as I can and it's just 274 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:44,559 Speaker 1: I didn't. I don't understand. Because a girl, her name 275 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:47,319 Speaker 1: is Alexis Wryne. She's like an Instagram she has like 276 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 1: twelve men and followers, but she had ten years of 277 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 1: dance about so it's like, even though they come in 278 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:54,719 Speaker 1: as not dancers, So it's frustrating to drink of the 279 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:59,080 Speaker 1: sparkling water. It just bothers me because I'm the lead. 280 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 1: Me and Nikki as of the comedian or the least, 281 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 1: we have zero training with the only two though they 282 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:07,319 Speaker 1: have none. That just drives me crazy. It shouldn't be 283 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:09,839 Speaker 1: that way, it's all you know, But she can tell 284 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 1: she's super funny and no one else is as funny 285 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 1: as she is, and she can use that on TV 286 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 1: and no one's as charming and funny as you two, 287 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: so it's like you're the you're the guy version. She's 288 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 1: funnier than I wouldn't watched her do comedy last night. 289 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 1: I think, oh I saw that because you start to 290 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 1: get trauma bonding and and I don't know and amber 291 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 1: Rose trauma bonded together because you're just in this bubble 292 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 1: and you suck at something and it's you're sad and mad, 293 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:38,199 Speaker 1: so you're finding people and he's like, who else is 294 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 1: sad and mad and depressed in this nex? And we're 295 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:44,959 Speaker 1: both like writers, we write different things in ways. But 296 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:46,839 Speaker 1: I went on and watched her do comedy last night. 297 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 1: Did she said club was really hard on it too. 298 00:13:49,040 --> 00:13:51,080 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she's with your partner. So here's what's funny 299 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 1: about that. So Gleb comes to the and I met Glad. 300 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 1: Doesn't remember me, but I for sure met him because 301 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 1: we were doing a show music show together. He was 302 00:13:57,840 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 1: with you Maryland or one of the two. And so 303 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 1: that was a bad concert, by the way, is the terrible, 304 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 1: the worst worst ever, so bad. It's so bad. But 305 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,439 Speaker 1: so Glad came out and gloves Russian Us and doesn't 306 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: understand nothing wrong with you hacked my phone over hand out. 307 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 1: We were just we went to her show because he 308 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 1: doesn't get her comedy sometimes because she's super American and 309 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:28,200 Speaker 1: in your face and dirty a little bit. And so 310 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 1: he comes to the show and she has a joke 311 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 1: like you care, I'm not running the joke. Basically, the 312 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 1: joke is somebody that this is not gonna be funny. 313 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 1: But it's like if you point your finger at things 314 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 1: in a picture, your douchebag, and so that that doesn't 315 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 1: do the joke justice. I don't want to run her joke. Well, 316 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 1: and he's like, what is wrong with pointing finger and picture? 317 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 1: And so he's like asked, and it's so sweet and awesome, 318 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 1: but he doesn't. He just doesn't get it. But we 319 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: wouldn't get Russian here. We go over to Russia and 320 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 1: we go to a comedy clubs, we wouldn't get their 321 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 1: jokes either, But that's like what glove does, point a lot, 322 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 1: and so he probably felt like insecure. Well yeah, yeah, 323 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 1: well that's good. It's good to find someone that you 324 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 1: can connect with. Because Amber and I connected and everyone 325 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 1: would think, you know, Amber Rose, she's this beautiful um 326 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: you know, she was a stripper. Actually that's how she 327 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 1: got famous. You would think that she would be very 328 00:15:21,080 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 1: confident and go out there and dance. She was so 329 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 1: shy and she had a really really really hard time 330 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 1: and everyone's like, no one understood like how she couldn't 331 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 1: do it. She's like, I'm just not that person to 332 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 1: come out there and you know, do this kind of dancing. 333 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 1: So it wasn't which was just crazy to me. But 334 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 1: we you know, again it's the mental and not feeling 335 00:15:39,040 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 1: good enough, and she hated it a lot of childhood. 336 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 1: I'm not good enough. That comes well, I mean just 337 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 1: ripping out of you. I mean we all have it, 338 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 1: but then when you do something like this, it just 339 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 1: comes out like tenfold. I was just like sucking everything. 340 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 1: My dad was right, I'm not good enough. I should 341 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 1: just quit life. That's funny, because are you doing the 342 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 1: Family Feud? The new version? Yeah, it airs on Stay 343 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 1: Before Your That was the funniest night ever. Really, I 344 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 1: just got invited to do it. Oh gosh, do it, 345 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 1: but I don't have here's this EPI. So you know, 346 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 1: I have a deal with a dealish thing with ABC 347 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 1: where I'm doing a lot of stuff with a lot 348 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 1: of projects with them. And it was Idol and Miss 349 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 1: America and Dancing with the Stars and there are other things. 350 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 1: And so I was talking to the vice president. He's like, hey, 351 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:27,920 Speaker 1: come do family feud. And I said, listen, Rob, that's awesome. 352 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 1: I don't have family like like you know, like I 353 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 1: don't have a family like married, and my mom's not alive. 354 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 1: I don't know my dad, like I don't have a family. 355 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:37,240 Speaker 1: And so if you could do like a country music 356 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 1: family or like my show radio show family, and he 357 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 1: was like, all right, all right, we should do that. 358 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 1: And so because I kind of hit him with but 359 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 1: I did get invited. I don't know if I'm still 360 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 1: invite because don't have a family. But it does seem 361 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 1: like a lot of fun. You should do it. What's 362 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 1: that like? The fun? Oh my gosh, I had the 363 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 1: greatest time ever went on with you. So it was me, 364 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 1: my husband, Mike, my aunt Susan, uncle Rore, and then 365 00:16:59,880 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 1: my brother. We had so much. But I was again 366 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:09,240 Speaker 1: I'm very competitive, so I was very strategic. Oh yeah, 367 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 1: I was like, if I don't hit this buzzard before 368 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:13,240 Speaker 1: Gary Bucy, I'm never going to live that one down. 369 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:15,879 Speaker 1: So it was we had a great time. Was he nuts. 370 00:17:16,400 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 1: He's Gary Bucy, He's all over the place. But he 371 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 1: was the nicest man ever. I mean, he came in, 372 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:23,400 Speaker 1: he went went sat in our green room and didn't 373 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:26,680 Speaker 1: leave and just sat and talked and he was awesome. 374 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 1: I saw I went to the comedy store last night 375 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 1: and I saw I was going to watch Nikki. But 376 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 1: then Tom Arnold did a set which remind me is 377 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 1: Gary was terrible. It was always bad. He didn't tell jokes. 378 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 1: He just came out and like Gary Bucy did, just 379 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 1: went on and on, no jokes for like twenty five 380 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:46,159 Speaker 1: minutes because just drunk. No, I think he was just 381 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 1: Tom Arnold and Dan Cooke popped out. So you live 382 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 1: out here now and you go back and forth. Well, 383 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 1: I'm we're building in Nashville, are you? So we'll be 384 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:55,879 Speaker 1: full time next year. Take a year though, to build. 385 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 1: So I'm so excited to get out of here, are you? So? 386 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 1: What's the differ in Nashville to you? In in Nashville 387 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 1: Los Angeles? As there's so much um? First of all 388 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 1: real estate. When I was even looking to buy house 389 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:10,120 Speaker 1: out here, I was like, I can't afford anything. It's 390 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:12,640 Speaker 1: so expensive out here. You can have so much more Nashville, 391 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:14,359 Speaker 1: but then more so is just how I want to 392 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 1: raise Jolie and the baby boy. It's just, you know, 393 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:20,680 Speaker 1: I was Midwest and I want Jolie to be able 394 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:22,400 Speaker 1: to ride her bike to her friend's house, and here 395 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 1: I'd be like, no, you're not driving your bike to 396 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:26,719 Speaker 1: your friends use pretty crazy, Like it's just the schools 397 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:29,400 Speaker 1: are better, just a better and mean, I think there's 398 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 1: a lot of things to do in l A. And 399 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:32,880 Speaker 1: I think, you know, I'm not saying it's not good 400 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:35,160 Speaker 1: to raise kids out here, but just for us personally, 401 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:37,640 Speaker 1: that's just how we want to raise our kids in Nashville. 402 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 1: I'm totally I'm gonna squirrel on you for a second 403 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 1: whenever next time Amy gets sick or leaves and you 404 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 1: should come filling for her. You're so good, thanks, babe, 405 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:48,919 Speaker 1: like unexpect Mike, right, would you agree with me? Like 406 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 1: unexpectedly really good? Thank here. I've really enjoy it. I 407 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 1: mean it's been like I've had so much fun with 408 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:58,159 Speaker 1: my podcasts like the Boss too on the Mic and 409 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:02,399 Speaker 1: not and like I'm like dick Way, like like you 410 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 1: own it. It's really you're really good at this. Yeah, 411 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:06,920 Speaker 1: And I'm in the Radio Hall of Fame and my 412 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 1: voice cracking. Really happy to know because I just I've 413 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:14,119 Speaker 1: I've been so enjoyed doing the podcast. It's been a 414 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 1: lot of fun and I want to get more into this. 415 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 1: So if Amy's ever out, dude, I'm your fill in anytime. 416 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 1: What are you doing musically? God, I've had such a 417 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 1: struggle with this. Um, I'm putting on an EP next year. 418 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: I got dropped a year and a half ago from 419 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 1: Warner Brothers, which bothers me in the sense that there 420 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 1: are guys on that label that still have not taught 421 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 1: had songs that that I whatever, but they're still giving 422 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:41,160 Speaker 1: them a chance. So it's like, why why don't why 423 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 1: don't we get the ten chances we isn't the women? Yeah, 424 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 1: go ahead, And why are you asking me why? The 425 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:54,199 Speaker 1: answer is because it's not fair. No, No, you're right, 426 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:56,879 Speaker 1: but nothing's fair. No, life isn't fair. I get that. 427 00:19:57,000 --> 00:20:00,280 Speaker 1: But there's an easy formula that exists right now, and 428 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 1: it's plug in another dude that looks and sounds exactly 429 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:05,200 Speaker 1: the same. And these dudes, though, here's the thing about 430 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:10,159 Speaker 1: them is and after you know, friendlies buddies that are 431 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:12,479 Speaker 1: dude artists that have a hit song and can't get 432 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:14,200 Speaker 1: a second one, or it's really hard because it's about 433 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:16,879 Speaker 1: the song, not the artist anymore. And I totally disagree 434 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,639 Speaker 1: with you. If there is a guy that if we 435 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:22,400 Speaker 1: if a girl saying one of these hit songs, maybe 436 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:24,080 Speaker 1: harder I've but I'm talking about for the guys in 437 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:28,040 Speaker 1: this cycle, the and the Michael Raid, the Jordan Davis 438 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 1: that these guys are and I am friends like with Jordan's. Yeah, 439 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 1: But to the listener, it's just another good song from 440 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 1: another dude. They don't know the difference. They don't know 441 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:38,120 Speaker 1: the difference. There's no difference. There's no like, there's no 442 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 1: making an artist like a Blake or the unfair thing 443 00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:44,360 Speaker 1: that happens to females is that you have to go 444 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:47,720 Speaker 1: in with a super identity. These guys don't. But well 445 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 1: that's the thing, like we had that like I you know, 446 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,639 Speaker 1: we were we had sponsorships, we had things that we 447 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 1: were doing. And because you know, they always blame me 448 00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:57,160 Speaker 1: too that I had my feet in different things? Well 449 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,200 Speaker 1: is that? Why is that so bad? I feel like women, 450 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:01,879 Speaker 1: I feel like men have a hard time having their 451 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 1: eggs in different baskets, but as women, we can. We 452 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:06,959 Speaker 1: can do those things and still thrive in other areas. 453 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:10,400 Speaker 1: But it's just frustrating when a guy you can have 454 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 1: all the chances in the world. And I actually made 455 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 1: more for the label, but yet they dropped me. I'm 456 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 1: not better at all. Uns I would be better too, 457 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:21,840 Speaker 1: but there's list people want the easiest way to keep 458 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:24,359 Speaker 1: making money without risking well, and that's the thing. It's like, oh, 459 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 1: you look at the charts. Okay, the girls aren't working. 460 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:28,640 Speaker 1: I mean, look at Carrie. She she just didn't get 461 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 1: a number one. It's she didn't get How many years 462 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,880 Speaker 1: has that been? And so, which is why I decided 463 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:38,080 Speaker 1: to do And I've got a lot of pushback from 464 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 1: doing this show. I was talking a lot, and I 465 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:42,639 Speaker 1: don't talk about a lot because I'm just trying not 466 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:46,240 Speaker 1: to show people that, you know, because he cares about 467 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 1: what I'm going through with the stupid radio show, that 468 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,720 Speaker 1: people have real problems. But the reason I wanted to 469 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,879 Speaker 1: do this show with all the female artists wasn't to 470 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 1: go Sun weekends. Right. Yeah, but it's on AD and 471 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,199 Speaker 1: it gets a lot of a lot of spins. The 472 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:03,159 Speaker 1: the purpose of it was a practical purpose. It was 473 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,119 Speaker 1: Let's take the female artists they are already on the 474 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,880 Speaker 1: chart and continue playing them and boost their spins because 475 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:11,159 Speaker 1: as they move up the chart, other stations look at them, 476 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 1: add them, play them more to the chart game. You 477 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,719 Speaker 1: would certain spot you get played by more stations, so 478 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,120 Speaker 1: I can help them move up a bit. I can 479 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:21,399 Speaker 1: also for sake of the brand and say, hey, listen, 480 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:23,680 Speaker 1: you guys are nuts. Look at all these awesome artists, 481 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:25,400 Speaker 1: and I can play stuff from five years ago, twelve 482 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 1: years ago, twenty years ago, while highlighting new artists as well. 483 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 1: So it was kind of a three pronged approach at it. 484 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 1: But really it was about getting people on the charts 485 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:36,280 Speaker 1: and moving them up and if their success that creates 486 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 1: more opportunity. Success creates opportunity. I mean, you played damn 487 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 1: It one time and it charted well. Media, But you 488 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:45,560 Speaker 1: know what I mean, like how cool? I mean, your 489 00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:51,720 Speaker 1: power is huge, your admit it at times, it's huge. 490 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 1: You move the needle for people. There are a lot 491 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 1: of things that can affect things. I just want to 492 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 1: be the voice again. It's and to me, it's not 493 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 1: even about women. It's about fairness, and you know life 494 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:05,160 Speaker 1: it's not fair. But I think that if guying. I don't. 495 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:08,639 Speaker 1: I wouldn't care if it was female. I want to. 496 00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,040 Speaker 1: I just want everybody be heard the same. It's not 497 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 1: even eight or it's not even nine to I just 498 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 1: think there should be something to the fact of, hey, 499 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,480 Speaker 1: why can't the best song just win? Regard its like 500 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: in a job like or or. This is what I 501 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,600 Speaker 1: think too. So this the EP that I'm putting out 502 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 1: next year. There's I feel like it's a great song. 503 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:32,679 Speaker 1: I've sent it to a few radio people that they 504 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: said they've loved it, But I'm like, it won't even 505 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 1: get the light of day unless there's like a dude 506 00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:39,479 Speaker 1: on it. I feel like, now a girl can't work 507 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:41,440 Speaker 1: unless the guys attached to it. Yeah, I don't know. 508 00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:43,119 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know if that's the case. I 509 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:46,359 Speaker 1: know that you know it's tough, and I'm I'm just 510 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 1: playing Devil's advocate here because I obviously putting female acts 511 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:55,280 Speaker 1: on my tours trying. I'm like, I'm trying, um, but 512 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 1: unless you have a good promo team, and it's not 513 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 1: even get to me or the high up. It's about 514 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:05,760 Speaker 1: getting to the people that are running stations and like 515 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 1: Detroit Sacramento and he But here's the deal though, So 516 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 1: now it's like, okay, I'm thirty five. I'll be thirty 517 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,919 Speaker 1: five in December, thirty five. Female, I have to just 518 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 1: do my my way because there's the chances of me 519 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:22,439 Speaker 1: getting signed again would be null. But and that's again 520 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,160 Speaker 1: that's reality. But it's okay. I'm still going to fight 521 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:26,439 Speaker 1: for it. I'm still going to try. I'm still going 522 00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:29,239 Speaker 1: to do my thing. I'm still gonna, you know, go 523 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,520 Speaker 1: out and sing some songs for people that want to 524 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,200 Speaker 1: hear it. I'm still going to write from the heart 525 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 1: because this is the best crap I've written. It really is. 526 00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:44,480 Speaker 1: It's I mean, it's it's it says something. And when 527 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,239 Speaker 1: is the happening. I'm recording in October and releasing it 528 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 1: early next year. I mean, I'm losing my freaking voice 529 00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:53,639 Speaker 1: because you're grinded. You're fin some allergy. So good now 530 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:58,359 Speaker 1: you're doing so good allergy crap. Hey, congratulations on what 531 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:03,360 Speaker 1: you just played that sold out show your hometown. Oh yeah, 532 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 1: it's cool, the one the theater that you never into. 533 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 1: I I mean I got I got teary eyed on 534 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,399 Speaker 1: that post. Those are like, that's what you that's what 535 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 1: you've been fighting for. Yeah, I feel that awesome. If 536 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,199 Speaker 1: you're listening. On my Instagram, I posted a picture of 537 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:22,640 Speaker 1: me in the theater in Little Rockets is a pretty 538 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,360 Speaker 1: good ze theater. I've never been able to sell out. 539 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,240 Speaker 1: You're like, you're killing it. Well, So that being said, 540 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 1: when I was a kid, there was a field trip 541 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:32,359 Speaker 1: that was there and I couldn't afford tickets to go 542 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:33,879 Speaker 1: on this field trip, so I just act like I 543 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 1: was sick and miss school. And so the first time 544 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 1: I ever got to in the theater was actually when 545 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 1: I played it. It was pretty cool. Yeah, it's cool. 546 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 1: I soaked it up a little bit. I mean you 547 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 1: should have. You should. They just stood there for like 548 00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,439 Speaker 1: five minutes and just been like yeah, and you know 549 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 1: what I kind of did because they wouldn't stopt cheering. 550 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:50,880 Speaker 1: It was awesome. Yeah, it's awesome. They wouldn't stop cheering 551 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 1: for me, and I was and I felt uncomfortable, and 552 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 1: I was like, screwed. I'm not gonna fee uncofortable anymore. 553 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 1: Does that feel that when we have our voids? No, 554 00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:01,399 Speaker 1: it's a temporary feel like I'm searching for someone to 555 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 1: kind of fill the donut hole. Inside of my body. 556 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:05,879 Speaker 1: Is it the someone or is it is it a 557 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,920 Speaker 1: person or is it you still have to fill yourself. 558 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:10,679 Speaker 1: I think I'm pretty good with me now. I do 559 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 1: for the first time ever in my whole life. That's huge. Yeah, 560 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:16,119 Speaker 1: I feel like you're looking for the other half or 561 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,199 Speaker 1: the third or the other two thirds or whatever it 562 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,439 Speaker 1: is that that I feel like I kind of have 563 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:22,959 Speaker 1: someone that's Are you ready for it? Yeah? I am 564 00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:24,880 Speaker 1: now for the first time. You're ready for love ever? 565 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:29,440 Speaker 1: First time? But for the owl? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 566 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:33,199 Speaker 1: without a doubt. Bob. Yeah, it's crazy. I know for 567 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:35,240 Speaker 1: the first time, I feel like that every kind of 568 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:38,880 Speaker 1: getting like terry eye. That's huge, that's amazing. If that's 569 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 1: a big growth in the last year or so. So 570 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,280 Speaker 1: did you go to therapy? Yes, but I also went 571 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 1: you've heard on site. Oh I've been there like three times. 572 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it is like changes your miles. Ad Cox 573 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 1: is a genius. I was already I was going in 574 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:57,400 Speaker 1: a good direction. I've been working on myself. I did. 575 00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,199 Speaker 1: I don't know what I did. I did by myself 576 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:05,040 Speaker 1: for day your phone and um, I left and I 577 00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:07,560 Speaker 1: didn't leave a different person, but I left with like 578 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,960 Speaker 1: better tools and knowledge, and you know, how did you 579 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,480 Speaker 1: just try to situations come? It's not knowing how to 580 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 1: get through them, it's it's knowing that they're going to 581 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:19,399 Speaker 1: come and how you're going to deal with it, because 582 00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:21,080 Speaker 1: you never get right. There's no such thing is right. 583 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:23,640 Speaker 1: There's just not a right. There's just not right anymore. 584 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,800 Speaker 1: It's the tools, and it's so great if anyone is, like, 585 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,199 Speaker 1: on site is such an amazing place. There's a they 586 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,639 Speaker 1: have living centered healing trauma. I went for learning how 587 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:33,960 Speaker 1: to Love Yourself Michael and I went there for a 588 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,200 Speaker 1: couple of therapy, I mean for three, I mean it's 589 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 1: it's incredible place. And I had a couple of friends, 590 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 1: right friends ish um that had said, hey, you should go. Um. 591 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,280 Speaker 1: The first one was Dave Heywood from Lady and Belle Me. 592 00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:47,879 Speaker 1: It's like, dude, you're kind of like me. You know, 593 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:51,679 Speaker 1: we're kind of we have we're creating, but we're also running. 594 00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,440 Speaker 1: You know, you should go. He's like, can change my life. 595 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 1: And then the last the person who really convinced me 596 00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:00,160 Speaker 1: was Tyler Hubbard. And we had not been on good 597 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 1: terms for years really, yeah, and so because we had 598 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:04,679 Speaker 1: both popped off about each other, and then we're just like, 599 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 1: screw it. Oh and then we got good again and 600 00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 1: we're having coffee after Yeah, and he was like I 601 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 1: didn't know that. He's like, dude, you gotta go. And 602 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:15,960 Speaker 1: so what was it that you guys didn't like connect? 603 00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 1: It wasn't that we didn't connect. I got irritated at 604 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:22,520 Speaker 1: him because he was he went on satellite, was bashing 605 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:26,120 Speaker 1: me for putting billboards up. What is And then it's 606 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 1: just all trivial I said trivial things about them, you know, 607 00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:31,400 Speaker 1: he said. But we were both like, oh, I thought 608 00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:33,640 Speaker 1: you had a thing with Kip. We did, we got 609 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 1: we we Kip and are great. Yeah, same thing. We 610 00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 1: just like, hey, let's just get together as humans to 611 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:40,960 Speaker 1: talk about this. Yeah, that's something that's the best way 612 00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 1: to do it. Just communicate your problems and kept and 613 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,280 Speaker 1: I went in for like two hours. First of all, 614 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 1: you got yelled at each other. Then you go, oh, 615 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 1: we're kind of the same, and you go, you actually 616 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:55,720 Speaker 1: kind of like each other. I kind of like you. Yeah, 617 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:59,240 Speaker 1: and in a different way. Yeah, in a different way. 618 00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:03,200 Speaker 1: Like I never not been a fan of Casey her music. 619 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,120 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's so good. I think I misread 620 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:10,600 Speaker 1: her early she hates me. I'm pretty I'm pretty convinced 621 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:12,239 Speaker 1: she hates me, but I think that's just how she is. 622 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:16,800 Speaker 1: I misread her. I acted inappropriately because I misread her. No, 623 00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:20,320 Speaker 1: of course not, and I did not. And then I 624 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,280 Speaker 1: apologized to her and I was like, hey, listen, I 625 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 1: think I messed up. I think that well, she's not 626 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:30,200 Speaker 1: like the like warmest, and neither am I though, because 627 00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 1: I'm so insecure, people will go, man, want to dick, 628 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 1: But really I'm just like shy and in the corner 629 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:35,280 Speaker 1: because I don't think he wants to talk to me. 630 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,160 Speaker 1: And I shouldn't have projected onto her. Well, and then 631 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 1: I and what I do now is I project that 632 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:43,200 Speaker 1: she's a you know, not nice because she's not warm 633 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,160 Speaker 1: with me. Well, just because I'm warm and she's not 634 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 1: doesn't mean she's not a lovely person, right, and so, 635 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:51,480 Speaker 1: but we're good I have. I saw her at the 636 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:52,760 Speaker 1: A C M S. And I said, hey, are you 637 00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:56,680 Speaker 1: goodt You're like yeah, we uh like send messages occasionally, 638 00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,200 Speaker 1: like she'll comment on something I put on instant story. 639 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:00,760 Speaker 1: I'll coming on her and be like it's great, I 640 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:03,240 Speaker 1: play your songs. Is there anyone you're beefing with now, 641 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't have time. And I'm 642 00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 1: also I'm an adult man now and I'm not so 643 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:10,720 Speaker 1: insecure on my job anymore. I've got to prove anything. 644 00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:13,640 Speaker 1: I think. I used to feel like everybody hated me 645 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 1: said to prove things and that I wasn't scared, and 646 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:17,480 Speaker 1: I would just what kind of girl do you want? 647 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,360 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. I think that's too open up a question. 648 00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 1: I think, like I love someone that's confident just because 649 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:30,000 Speaker 1: my job is weird. Your job's hard. I mean, you're 650 00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 1: the Ryan Seacrest and it's weird, and then you know 651 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:36,280 Speaker 1: they're Do you hate getting that word? By the way, 652 00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,160 Speaker 1: I didn't mean to say that. Yeah, we're different. I 653 00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 1: mean you're different, but you you both work. We work hard, 654 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 1: real hard, and we're easy to stomach. You know, we're 655 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:52,960 Speaker 1: both pretty safe to Yeah, well, what's one thing? Like? 656 00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:55,640 Speaker 1: I feel like you've done everything from touring to love 657 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 1: how you just switched it over to me and now 658 00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 1: you go ahead of it? My boy? Anyway? Go ahead? No, 659 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, you have the book, the podcast, the tour, 660 00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 1: the comedy, this, that everything, what what else do you 661 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:11,040 Speaker 1: want to do is it just settled down? Not just 662 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,520 Speaker 1: that I think it's not even settled down to me, 663 00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:17,280 Speaker 1: it's have a partner. This is breaking my heart right now. 664 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 1: You guys don't understand. Like, for as long as I 665 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 1: feel like I've known you, like that is amazing. I 666 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,520 Speaker 1: just want someone to The loneliest I get is when 667 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 1: I get to do something cool and have nobody to 668 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,960 Speaker 1: share it with. I know someone who wants to share 669 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 1: it with you. Well I doesn't. I'm not dating anybody 670 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 1: in the industry. Why maybe not an artist because I 671 00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 1: just saw what happened to Lindsay. I love her, She's awesome, 672 00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:47,520 Speaker 1: which wasn't fair to hurt at all. Yeah, it sucked. 673 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:53,160 Speaker 1: I just I don't hate that love her so but 674 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,160 Speaker 1: it sucked. And I don't want to see that to 675 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 1: happen anybody else. So I can't. I can't do that 676 00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:01,840 Speaker 1: unless I just buy a country format and I mean, 677 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 1: you're you're on your way to send you EP and 678 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 1: think you but you know, I hate even though it's good, 679 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 1: you know, I hate when you send me music and 680 00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:11,040 Speaker 1: I tell you like I know it's why I didn't. 681 00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 1: I was like, can I send you music? And you're 682 00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 1: like I mean you can, but I don't know. I'm like, well, 683 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:18,760 Speaker 1: but your word means a lot. But I go music 684 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:20,800 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna listen. I'm gonna be like, it's good 685 00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:23,480 Speaker 1: what you mean to do? Like and even saying there's 686 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:25,240 Speaker 1: I don't something. I want you to do something, but 687 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,080 Speaker 1: it's just it's do you like it or you don't 688 00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:28,720 Speaker 1: like because if you don't like it, okay, cool. I don't. 689 00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:30,320 Speaker 1: He doesn't like that one and he's got the ear. 690 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:32,280 Speaker 1: I don't want to be in that place. I'm just 691 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 1: one one year your friend, but I'm one year. If 692 00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 1: you sent me a joke, I'd be like, that's stupid 693 00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:38,680 Speaker 1: or that's funny, or like if you sent me like 694 00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:41,320 Speaker 1: your dance that was good, if I didn't think it 695 00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:45,480 Speaker 1: was good, I'd be like, you have some work to do. Yeah, 696 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:47,880 Speaker 1: I just don't. I don't. I don't think music from 697 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 1: from you, and you're a friend. I don't think for 698 00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:54,040 Speaker 1: any of my friends early, even Dirk's who I'm probably 699 00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,960 Speaker 1: closest to. So when I send you like the produced 700 00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 1: produced like done, don't listen. Casey sent me her before 701 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:03,320 Speaker 1: it came out, and I wouldn't listen. And I'm that's 702 00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:11,440 Speaker 1: probably gonna play it. That's no, you'll get played, okay, okay, 703 00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:15,280 Speaker 1: whatever you get played. And it's not always just about 704 00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:19,200 Speaker 1: getting played anymore. It's finding other avenues for people to 705 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 1: find it. You know, so, and I know that. So 706 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,080 Speaker 1: that's I mean, you know that. What do you think about? 707 00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 1: The radio is dying? They've always said that TV has 708 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:33,800 Speaker 1: also been dying, or just I don't think about radio. 709 00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 1: To me, isn't just coming to the FM air waves. 710 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:38,960 Speaker 1: Maybe if you go, but even then it's not for 711 00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,840 Speaker 1: a long time. But radio to me is where's on 712 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:45,760 Speaker 1: my phone and what's in my car? What's in like radio? 713 00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:48,760 Speaker 1: To me isn't just going to a transmitter. This is radio. 714 00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:51,960 Speaker 1: To me, what we're doing, Yeah, anything that people can 715 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:56,080 Speaker 1: consume is radio. So my version of it's different than 716 00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,120 Speaker 1: if you asked some fifty year old dude in Madison, Wisconsin, 717 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 1: who's been really doing radio? You know, it's all live. 718 00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 1: Radio to me is actually we're in an audio revolution, 719 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:09,359 Speaker 1: if anything, what audio evolutions. Look at your podcast, you're 720 00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:12,319 Speaker 1: doing radio anyone. You can find anything you want to 721 00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,960 Speaker 1: hear about it does no matter what your hobbyists. You 722 00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:17,600 Speaker 1: love the Simpsons, you love Rubber Duckies, my Little Pony, 723 00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:20,399 Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars podcast, What Doesn't Matter. There's something 724 00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 1: for everyone, and that to me is amazing because that's radio. 725 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:30,239 Speaker 1: I love it. So I feel the opposite, you know 726 00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:31,759 Speaker 1: I feel. And also I just think, if you're good, 727 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:34,479 Speaker 1: people find you. It's it. Eventually, people find you. Whatever 728 00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,680 Speaker 1: you're doing, your podcast people, he grows because you guys 729 00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:39,440 Speaker 1: do a good job. Thanks. Yeah, we're excited about it. 730 00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:41,719 Speaker 1: I really like, I really do enjoy it. So we 731 00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:44,880 Speaker 1: need to do a radio show together one day, and 732 00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:46,600 Speaker 1: we're doing a radio sho right now. You've been pretty 733 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:51,080 Speaker 1: much taking this one over. Okay, So your podcast is 734 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:54,759 Speaker 1: called wind Out. You can find me there at Cramer Girl. 735 00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:58,480 Speaker 1: I got an EP next year, baby coming in November. 736 00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:00,640 Speaker 1: I have a mom's and baby's bo so I'm excited 737 00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,239 Speaker 1: to I haven't seen that on your story. Mom's in 738 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,359 Speaker 1: Baby's Box. I came up with this idea. I don't 739 00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:08,480 Speaker 1: like buying things for myself. I always end up just 740 00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 1: buying something for Jolie. But I came up with this 741 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:13,960 Speaker 1: idea for a mom's and babes. So there's three boxes. 742 00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,840 Speaker 1: There's a mom and baby box where products for the 743 00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:18,840 Speaker 1: baby and the mom. And then there's a toddler box, 744 00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,000 Speaker 1: so for mom and toddler, and then there's just a 745 00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,880 Speaker 1: mom box. If there's mom's out there that I just want, 746 00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:28,239 Speaker 1: you know, nice skin masks and ice RUMs and for 747 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:30,120 Speaker 1: the mom to relax. And how do they get them? 748 00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:34,880 Speaker 1: Moms and babes box dot com, Babes Babes, Moms and 749 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:38,879 Speaker 1: babes box dot com. Yeah, I look at that, Look 750 00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 1: at us, Look at us, go look at us. Go 751 00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 1: mah am I dying, it's fading, huh fast. I should 752 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:49,759 Speaker 1: stop talking. Jana, you are awesome. You You're gonna do 753 00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:52,040 Speaker 1: so good on David Stars. I'm excited to see. I'm 754 00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:54,560 Speaker 1: excited to watch you, and I'm excited to see. I 755 00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:57,759 Speaker 1: like this this Bobby now that I didn't love old 756 00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 1: Bobby and hear this, that'll be this This Bobby be 757 00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:04,960 Speaker 1: old Bobby. And if it ever stopped, we keep growing. 758 00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,480 Speaker 1: That's amazing. And if it ever stops, and I'm proud 759 00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:10,040 Speaker 1: of you, as I'm real proud of you, it's appreciate 760 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:11,680 Speaker 1: that I come back to Nashville. Move back to Nashville, 761 00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 1: all right. Episode one forty with Jane Kramer. As I 762 00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:19,960 Speaker 1: go through puberty. Uh yeah, thank you. Following at Cramer Girl, 763 00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:25,400 Speaker 1: Thanks Janna