1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: What's up, guys, And welcome to another episode of Bachelor 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: Happy Hour. I've got my guy Joe here with me 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: co hosting today. What's up, Jeb? What's up? What's up? 4 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 1: Glad to be back. I don't know why I just said, 5 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: what's up with you? Like you're feeling yourself? It's like 6 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: nineteen ninety nine? What's up? What's up? For everyone doing? No? 7 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 1: I'm doing good? How are you good? Good? From now on, 8 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 1: you have to come on. Anytime you come on, you 9 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: have to say what's up? What's up? That's my new thing. 10 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: How are you feeling? Tonight? Was up Phoenix? And and 11 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 1: speaking of Phoenix, the reason why he's saying that you 12 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:39,520 Speaker 1: can hear the laughter in the background because our guests, 13 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: we're very excited to have them today. I've met one 14 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: of them. I this is my first time talking to 15 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 1: the other. And Joe. You haven't met our guests either, 16 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:50,559 Speaker 1: have you? No, I haven't met too many people in 17 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 1: the Bachelor world, probably because I was ing on the 18 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: shelf for a day, so you know, I think that's 19 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: what it is. Would you like to introduce our guests 20 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 1: to our Bachelor Happy Hour listeners? I would love to 21 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: everyone welcome, Ari and Lauren. What's up? I like that? 22 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: That was good. We're so excited to have you guys 23 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 1: on the podcast today. We have a lot of questions 24 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 1: we need to catch up with you guys. Um, so 25 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:22,040 Speaker 1: we're just going to get right into it. Listen. When 26 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 1: we were prepping to have you guys on the podcast, 27 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: it really dawned on us that you guys have gone 28 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: from fiance to husband to wife to parents all in 29 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:36,680 Speaker 1: one year. That's a lot. Alright, My first question, are 30 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:43,400 Speaker 1: you okay? Yeah? Yeah, we're living our best life. It's awesome. 31 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: You guys look so happy. I mean, what have you 32 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: learned throughout this year, because you've had so many milestones 33 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 1: come about, Like, what's been the biggest change and challenge 34 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: for you guys? Had People make it look so much 35 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 1: easier than it is. You guys make it look easy. Yeah, 36 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: I mean, seriously, I'm sure we do, but it is 37 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: not easy. The only time we, you know, we get 38 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: to film a lessie and the happy parts of parenting, 39 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: you know, is when we can actually have her phone 40 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 1: in her hand. The other time, you know, our phones 41 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: on the on the table or whatever because we're cleaning 42 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: up poop or trying to rock a screaming baby. Do 43 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:30,360 Speaker 1: you guys do you guys sleep? Like yeah, oh yeah, great. 44 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: That's like the one thing that um, I will say 45 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: is that Alessie is like a great sleeper. She sleeps 46 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: like twelve hours a night. Oh geez, that sounds like 47 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 1: a dream. We don't have kids, but I know that 48 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: a sleeping baby is like, besides a healthy baby, a 49 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: sleeping baby is like right there at the top of 50 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:52,519 Speaker 1: the list. Yeah, that's what you know. Oh yeah, sleep 51 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: is a necessity those first two weeks when you're sleep deprived, though, 52 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: it's it's hard. I mean, it's hard not to be grumpy. 53 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: And yeah, we had a hard time the first year 54 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:05,640 Speaker 1: we go through it. What was that feeling like the 55 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 1: first time you held your baby, you know, because everyone 56 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 1: says that's like, you know, it's like the first time 57 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 1: you ever felt that kind of love. I guess it 58 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: wasn't really like that for me, like obviously before I 59 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: saw her, but it was kind of bizarre to me 60 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 1: because I didn't know her yet. Yeah, I think for 61 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:27,799 Speaker 1: it was more or less. Um for that was how 62 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 1: it felt for me, because I think for a for 63 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 1: a guy, you know, you're you obviously aren't going through 64 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: the pregnancy, and you don't really feel like as attached 65 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 1: as you do when you see her for the first time. Yea, 66 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: And I think for Lauren, you know, she'd been carrying 67 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 1: her for so long, it just was a different it 68 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: was a different feeling. Yeah. I think I kind of 69 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: made up in my mind what I thought she was 70 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: gonna look like and what she was going to act like, 71 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 1: and then when I first met her, it didn't really 72 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 1: feel like those things matched up. So I had to 73 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: kind of get to know her after that. Well, Lauren, 74 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 1: you were probably exhausted. You were like, I made a moment. Actually, 75 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: we had a great time. We had a great time 76 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: in the hospital, Lauren was. Yeah, Lauren was. We had 77 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 1: a blast. I mean, I mean, obviously it's for me 78 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 1: then for but um, you know, we were kind of 79 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,799 Speaker 1: rolling around in wheelchairs and just like having a blast. 80 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: And I was afraid they were going to kick me 81 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,559 Speaker 1: out of the hospital because I wasn't far enough along. 82 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 1: So I started pushing Ari around in a wheelchair to 83 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: put myself into labor again. Oh my gosh, fine, Ari, 84 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: did you did you watch the baby like come out 85 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:47,799 Speaker 1: of the Yes? Private party going into the whole experience. 86 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, heck no, I'm gonna stay 87 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 1: like rap by your face. Yeah, I'm just like not 88 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 1: going to watch. But you know, it's actually really fascinating 89 00:04:56,440 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: and something that I highly recommend to any like new parents, 90 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: like new dads, because it's just it's just such a 91 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:07,719 Speaker 1: miracle and it's just so cool to witness what Lauren 92 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: can actually do with her body. And um, yeah, it was. 93 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 1: It was. It was gnarly. It was so cool. Okay, 94 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 1: I have to ask because and I wish you could 95 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 1: see my face right now, Like I I hear the 96 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: joy ari in your voice, but but describing it, I'm like, 97 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I cannot believe it. One day. This 98 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 1: is what I'm gonna happen. My guy's perspective, I'm like, 99 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: it's gnarly, sounds like he's like coolretzels. I just learned. 100 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:37,280 Speaker 1: And Lauren, tell me if you did this. I just 101 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 1: learned that you can participate in the delivery of your 102 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 1: baby and you can or something like you can have 103 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 1: a mirror down there so you can watch the whole thing. 104 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 1: Did you do that? No? I did not want to 105 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 1: see it. I didn't let our friend take pictures down there. 106 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 1: I don't want to see that like that at all. Ever. Yeah, 107 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 1: I'm with you, girl. I mean I mortified when I 108 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 1: heard that, just like, yeah, okay, so we I feel 109 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: like we the reason, the reason Joe and I keep 110 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: poking y'all about the pregnancy and the baby, obviously because 111 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: we're excited for you guys as parents, but also before 112 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 1: we started talking to you, I was saying how I 113 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: don't feel well and I am a person who thinks 114 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,600 Speaker 1: they're pregnant every single month, but this time I really 115 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: think that I might be. I was saying, I don't 116 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 1: feel well, and Joe said, I'm I'm making him nervous 117 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: to where he thinks he's pregnant now, so that's why 118 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 1: he's asking you so many questions too. Definitely do it 119 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: in the correct order, then, I mean, at least you 120 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 1: got married first. Yeah yeah, yeah, okay, so outside of 121 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 1: your parents your new parents. But in addition to everything 122 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: else that happened between fiance, husband, wife, parents, Lauren, you 123 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: also moved to Arizona. So tell us how life is 124 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: in Arizona for you guys. Honestly, life in Arizona right 125 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 1: now is blur probably the last year, and it was 126 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 1: really my first year. But we love it here. It's beautiful. 127 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 1: The weather's finally getting a little bit more bearable so 128 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: we can go outside. But the summer was rough here 129 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 1: with the new baby, I didn't really get to go 130 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: outside too much. You probably don't want to go outside. 131 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 1: I mean it feels like you're living on the sun 132 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: for a few months. Is it true that you can 133 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 1: crack an egg on the ground in the summer and 134 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: it cooks? Yeahs you ever tried it? It's crazy? But 135 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: I mean the thing is, yeah, like Laurence said, I 136 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 1: think last year we went to twelve different countries, so 137 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: we traveled a ton, and we traveled a lot during 138 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 1: even the winter months when it was nice in Arizona. 139 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 1: So I think this is kind of our first going 140 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: to be our first winter, which is kind of why 141 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: everyone moves to Arizona. But she likes it. She's used 142 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: to moving around a lot, so she's pretty adaptable to 143 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: any place. I feel like, yeah, I was living in 144 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 1: Jazz before and I was kind of ready to move 145 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: somewhere else. I like doing that kind of thing. Twelve 146 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 1: different countries, which was your favorite? You gotta have a favorite, 147 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 1: and I want to hear the worst talk. We always 148 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 1: say Iceland. We always see Iceland. It's a favorite, favorite, 149 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 1: first place we went to as a couple, like right 150 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 1: after the show, so it kind of holds a special 151 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 1: place in our heart. But it was such a unique area. 152 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 1: I mean, it felt like we were on the moon. 153 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: It was. It's just really pretty there and different, so 154 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: different than any other place I've ever been to. Could 155 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: you see the northern lights? We just miss that kind 156 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 1: of time. Oh, I got a good story. Yeah. Lauren's like, oh, 157 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 1: I'd love to go see the northern lights. So we 158 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 1: got in our rent a car in the in the 159 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 1: middle of the night and we drove like far away 160 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 1: from the town. There where a two hour drive to 161 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 1: the middle of nowhere. And then I was scared to 162 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 1: get out of the car dark. I was like, I 163 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 1: can't get out really, So we turned around and went back. 164 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 1: It's saw nothing. So you drove to the middle of 165 00:08:56,200 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 1: nowhere in the darkness, you don't even know if you're 166 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 1: still in Iceland. You don't even go She's like, I'm 167 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 1: so scared that something's going to come out and get us. 168 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:09,559 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't think there's really any predators around here. No, 169 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 1: Iceland's pretty safe. No, that sounds like the beginning of 170 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 1: a horror movie. I'm with you, Lauren, like you needed 171 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: to stay in the car and go back home. Okay. 172 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: Least favorite country, Oh man, I don't want to down 173 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 1: on anyone's country, Sweeten. Is that where you're Sweden? No? 174 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: Is it that where you wait? Is that where you're from? 175 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 1: Because otherwise I choked. I was like, otherwise I choke 176 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: with so much I thought she was gonna say that 177 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: was the worst country. My bad. Let's let's take that out. Yeah, No, 178 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,439 Speaker 1: you're good, You're good. Yeah. China. I heard China's a 179 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: little rough, but you know, yeah, nobody from China's culture 180 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: maybe they are. Okay, I want to talk to you 181 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: guys about this because Lauren, we've never spoken, but I 182 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 1: have spoken about you actually with Ari before I knew 183 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 1: it was you. Okay, you want you want to take 184 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 1: take us back in time a bit, because the first 185 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:12,559 Speaker 1: time I met Ari, it was during we were on 186 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: the road to Winter Games, Okay, and we had a blast. Okay, 187 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 1: it was it not we had so much fun. So 188 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 1: we're in the middle of nowhere. Could have been Iceland 189 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 1: from the way the way it was looking, and we 190 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:25,680 Speaker 1: had nothing to do but eats me Ari and Jojo 191 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 1: eat and drink, and so we're having such a good time. 192 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:30,959 Speaker 1: And so Ari just really started opening up to us 193 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 1: and talking to us, and Jojo and I are listening, 194 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 1: and so this is also Ari season was the first 195 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 1: time I got to watch a season and had no um, 196 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 1: yeah like names. I don't want to know names. Yes, 197 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:48,559 Speaker 1: So it was one and two. That's how we were 198 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:51,080 Speaker 1: referring to things. And I'm just listening to him talk 199 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:55,439 Speaker 1: about um the season, and I and Jojo and I 200 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: look at each other and we were like, you know, 201 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:02,200 Speaker 1: we really think you like that number two. That number two, 202 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 1: I think that's who you need to be with. And 203 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 1: at the time, we didn't know it was you. So 204 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:09,559 Speaker 1: it's it's funny that we knew that and we were 205 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 1: holding onto that secret and then come to find out, 206 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 1: you guys are it is number two. Number two was 207 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 1: the one, and now you guys are happy, you know, 208 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 1: married parents. I'm dating number three. So and don't make 209 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:27,600 Speaker 1: a weird job. It's all right, you know, it's the 210 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 1: Bachelor World. That's what we signed up for. It no 211 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 1: but I remember like thinking about Winner Games and I 212 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 1: was like, oh, you know, if I go to Winter Games, 213 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: I can probably see Lawrence producer and then maybe like 214 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 1: see how she's doing, you know. I was like, that 215 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:45,319 Speaker 1: was my whole motivation for actually going to Winner Games. Really, well, 216 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 1: you didn't share that piece of information with us, all right, 217 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 1: we didn't know that. I'm I'm sitting here thinking Jojo 218 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: and I should take credit for like really saying, you know, 219 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 1: you got to follow your heart and go and go 220 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 1: with what you know. You know, Honestly, it was a 221 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 1: really good It was really good for me to go 222 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 1: there and to talk to you guys, because it's really 223 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 1: hard if you if you're not a lead, to really 224 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 1: understand everything, you know, from the beginning to the end 225 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 1: and sort of what you go through. So like chatting 226 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: with you girls was really helpful and it actually gave 227 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 1: me a lot of clarity, and um, yeah, I was 228 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 1: definitely lost at that point and really questioning how the 229 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 1: show ended. And I'm really happy how it turned out now, obviously, 230 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 1: but yeah, at the time, it was just you felt 231 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 1: like this enormity of pressure and then you also just 232 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 1: want to make people happy in a way like that 233 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: sounds kind of crazy, but at the end of the 234 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 1: day of true life. So it was cool to talk 235 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 1: to you and to kind of get your guys's opinions 236 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 1: and and then you guys were like, no, we were 237 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:50,680 Speaker 1: really solid with our choice. And I was like, you 238 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 1: were like, um, do you feel like this? We were like, 239 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 1: now you should feel like that, are ye. Let's talk 240 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 1: about everything about you know, like who you sent home 241 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:01,559 Speaker 1: and like when you're up late at night and you're 242 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:03,960 Speaker 1: thinking about like the whole scenario, like do you ever 243 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 1: feel like you questioned your decision? And your girls are 244 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:11,599 Speaker 1: like both like no, no, we're getting was like I 245 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 1: would have ended up with Robbie. Yeah. Yeah. She was 246 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 1: not happy about that. But you know what was great 247 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 1: is that because we didn't have a vested interest in it, 248 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 1: we really could give you listen to what you were saying, 249 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 1: and just give you our opinion without knowing anything. And 250 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 1: so from what we were hearing, it was like, Hey, 251 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:33,839 Speaker 1: you really got to pursue this other relationship. So I'm 252 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 1: happy that we had that moment. I'm happy that it 253 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: all worked out for everybody. At the end of the day, Yeah, 254 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 1: for sure, So what the wedding. Your wedding looked beautiful 255 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:46,439 Speaker 1: by the way. Okay, you guys were smart because you 256 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 1: did it in the wintertime in Hawaii where we went 257 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 1: to Mexico in August, so we were dying and so 258 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:56,119 Speaker 1: we're all of our guests. So you guys were smart 259 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:58,679 Speaker 1: in doing it in the wintertime in a hot place. 260 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 1: But how soon after the finale, because things, like we said, 261 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 1: everything has moved really fast for you guys, how soon 262 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 1: after the finale did you start the wedding planning process? 263 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 1: M what do you think? Pretty pretty soon? Actually, we 264 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:17,680 Speaker 1: actually wanted to get married sooner than than when we did. 265 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 1: Our initial plan was October. Yeah, we were so we 266 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: were so funny, like we when we were together during 267 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 1: Happy Couple. After the show, we just kind of wanted 268 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 1: to fast forward everything. We wanted to get married, we 269 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 1: want to have babies. We wanted to do it all 270 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 1: like right away. And I don't know what why we 271 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 1: felt that need to like rush it, but I think 272 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 1: we just were like so looking forward to our future 273 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 1: that we just wanted that future to be like then 274 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 1: if that makes any sense, Yeah, you know, you know 275 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 1: why wait? Yeah, so we started planning pretty quick. I 276 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 1: would say like, I don't know, it was right honestly, 277 00:14:55,960 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 1: like two months. I think, yeah, that's awesome. Though, that's encouraged. 278 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 1: I like to hear that you guys, how did it 279 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 1: feel to take your baby back to your wedding venue? 280 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 1: So it was really cool to take her to our 281 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 1: wedding venue. But it's obviously very different traveling with an infant. Yeah, 282 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 1: I think we had this big expectation to go back 283 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 1: to Maui and just to kind of relive that whole 284 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 1: week and kind of do the things that we did. 285 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 1: But then it's just, you know, it's a lot harder 286 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:28,800 Speaker 1: traveling with a four month old. So we we still 287 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: went to the venue and chucked it out, and I 288 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 1: thought that was pretty cool. It was just as pretty 289 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 1: as I remember it, and it was cool to show 290 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 1: Lessie the place. It's fun. I have a question, why 291 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: did you guys do a joint bachelor bachelorette party? Coming 292 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 1: from you know, you know, when you know a guy 293 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 1: gets married, he always I always like wanted a big 294 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 1: bachelor party Vegas and you know, the whole thing. But 295 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 1: this curious. I think we just thought it would be 296 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 1: fun because as corny as this sounds, were each other's 297 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 1: best friends. So no, that is corny, but I understand. 298 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 1: I definitely understand that because that's how I feel with Kendall. 299 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 1: We really are best friends. But every time I say it, 300 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 1: I am like, God, am I so fucking corny? But no, 301 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 1: it is. I get that. So you're never had been 302 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 1: to Vegas sort of in her adult life? Oh really? 303 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 1: And I didn't want to like go there on a 304 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 1: bachelor party and however not experience it. I don't know. Well, 305 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 1: I think we both wanted our bachelor and bachelorette parties 306 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 1: in the same place. Anyway, Yeah, exactly fun. Are there 307 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 1: any like crazy stories to come out from that from 308 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:37,160 Speaker 1: you guys doing it together? I don't know if we 309 00:16:37,240 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 1: can share. Oh yes, god, police, come on, this is wait? 310 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 1: Who did it? Who was it? Was it because of 311 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 1: lorn or because of Ari or your love pranking? Ari 312 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 1: and I did a really good strippers stripper escort suckers joking. 313 00:16:57,280 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 1: Oh it sounds it sounds like y'all had a good time. 314 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 1: It sounds like it was worth it to have a 315 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:04,120 Speaker 1: joint bachelorette party or bachelor and bachelorette party. Okay, also 316 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 1: in Vegas, you guys had a second wedding. Talk to 317 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 1: us about that. Where did that come from? You guys 318 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 1: are crazy? So we all so we always talked about 319 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 1: just a loping because wedding planning got kind of stressful. 320 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:20,400 Speaker 1: To be honest, wedding planning is that's a lot. Yeah, 321 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:22,239 Speaker 1: we're like, why don't we just quit this and go 322 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:25,200 Speaker 1: lope in Vegas? And we thought seriously about it while 323 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: we were planning our Hawaii wedding and then Ari had 324 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: to go back there for a PF Chang's event and 325 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, your parents are coming with us, our 326 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 1: daughters with us, we might as well just do our 327 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 1: second wedding. It would be fun. So that's what we did. Yeah. 328 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: So it was so random because we did this appearance 329 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 1: and Montel Jordan was there. What's this do? Yeah? Right, 330 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:53,359 Speaker 1: and he's like the coolest guy. Yeah, and so he's like, 331 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:56,439 Speaker 1: we were just joking about like having to leave the 332 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 1: leave this event because we have to go hurry up 333 00:17:58,800 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 1: and get married as we gotta put the baby down 334 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 1: by six thirty as parents, and he's like, well, you know, 335 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:12,119 Speaker 1: he's like, I'm an ordained minister, so I'll marry you guys. 336 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,640 Speaker 1: And I was like, no way, and he's like, yeah, 337 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 1: I'll go with you. So him and his wife Kristen 338 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:19,160 Speaker 1: jumped in the car and then they came with us 339 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 1: to the Little White Chapel just and we didn't even 340 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:25,479 Speaker 1: really plan it, like we called a Little White Chapel 341 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:28,720 Speaker 1: like that morning, so it was all sort of spur 342 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 1: of the moment. Really cool. Wait, so Montell Jordan married. 343 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:38,880 Speaker 1: We don't know this. Yeah. I was really disappointed though, 344 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:43,040 Speaker 1: because his his whole you know, he gave a really eloquent, 345 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 1: like really great, you know speech, but then he never 346 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 1: really incorporated. Okay, guys, and now this is how we 347 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 1: do it. I really wanted me too. I was like 348 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 1: hanging on a cliff, like, all right, is he gonna 349 00:18:56,280 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 1: sayt hell he's after that or he's an ordained minister. 350 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get Kisime. That is. I am slightly jealous. Okay, 351 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, Brian, we're gonna go to Vegas and go 352 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 1: find Montell Jordan. I have Montell's number. You can just stop. 353 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 1: Are you killing me? Okay, we'll talk off the air. 354 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:25,359 Speaker 1: Everybody waits seconds thrown off. He's really tall too, right, yeah, guy, 355 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:33,159 Speaker 1: Montell's six six eight, he stood God all right? Or 356 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 1: keep going? No? No, no, wait, how does it start off? 357 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 1: It's Friday? That and not come on wait, that's an 358 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:44,840 Speaker 1: INSANCT song. It's Friday. No, the party's here on the 359 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 1: west side. Yeah, so I reached for my forty and 360 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 1: to give it up, designated driver got the keys to much. 361 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:58,040 Speaker 1: Come on, Lauren, I don't know. It feels so good 362 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 1: in my hood something because I, y'all, I haven't way 363 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:08,440 Speaker 1: too much fun. I'm so glad that you broke. Did 364 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:11,120 Speaker 1: y'all put on Instagram or any type of social media 365 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,239 Speaker 1: that Montell Jordan married you? Because I feel like I'm 366 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:18,159 Speaker 1: missing Yes, I know, everyone missed status. So they're like, 367 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 1: who's that tall, really good looking black guy marrying those 368 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:30,119 Speaker 1: those two really white people? Was he dressed like the right? 369 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 1: We got there and I was like, hey, Elvis, you 370 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:36,680 Speaker 1: mind sitting this one out? Is it the same chapel? 371 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 1: Is that the same chapel that's in the Hangover? I 372 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 1: don't know movie? Oh yeah, is it okay? I thought so? 373 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:46,560 Speaker 1: I think it is like the famous one, the little one, 374 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 1: and that's where like, um, pretty Spears got married at 375 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:54,199 Speaker 1: one time and did Jonas and the did y'all know 376 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,879 Speaker 1: the Bachelor filmed there? You guys, Oh yeah they did. 377 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:59,480 Speaker 1: They said that they did film there, But you guys 378 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 1: did it right? It seems like no. I wanted to 379 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:04,879 Speaker 1: Elope as well. And um I told my mother in 380 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:06,960 Speaker 1: law that Brian and I wanted to Elope and she said, 381 00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:09,639 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, that sounds lovely. She didn't know what 382 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 1: it meant, and then when she found out what it meant, 383 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 1: she got upset. So Kendna want to get married in 384 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 1: every country? She told me, like, do like a little 385 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:22,679 Speaker 1: tour and we get married in every country in the 386 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 1: traditional way. Yeah, we're probably not going to, but I 387 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,880 Speaker 1: actually think it's a cool idea. It is kind of cool. Yeah, 388 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 1: like actually gold like to do the tradition of wherever 389 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 1: you know, Israel or m So. I actually heard a 390 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:43,879 Speaker 1: rumor or spread a rumor that y'all have another baby 391 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:46,479 Speaker 1: on the way. I don't know where that came. So 392 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:49,719 Speaker 1: you've heard it too. People are asking me. I'm like, 393 00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 1: what do I look fatter a lot of things, But 394 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,160 Speaker 1: I honestly, if you want to, Because of we talked 395 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 1: about this on the podcast, everything you guys have been 396 00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 1: doing is accelerated, so it would only fall in love 397 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:03,119 Speaker 1: the baby number two is on the way, That is true, 398 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:07,160 Speaker 1: But no, definitely not putting that off for a little while. Yeah, 399 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 1: I think after having one baby, you're like, Okay, let's 400 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 1: slow it down a little bit. No, I mean, I 401 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,160 Speaker 1: think that's fair that you guys are taking your time 402 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 1: when it comes to that. I never understand how people 403 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 1: can do it like twins, Brian wants twins or you know, 404 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,679 Speaker 1: eleven months apart. I just it's it's wild to me, 405 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:25,920 Speaker 1: but you know, more power to them. How many kids 406 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,080 Speaker 1: do you want to have? Do you have a number? 407 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:32,680 Speaker 1: We started out one four, Yeah, and now I'm okay 408 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 1: with one. We'll probably maybe two. We'll have another one 409 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 1: in a couple of years. Yeah, yeah, I think that's 410 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,320 Speaker 1: kind of But I don't know. If we get a 411 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:46,919 Speaker 1: wild hair, maybe three. But I don't know. How did 412 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 1: y'all come up with a baby's name? Pretty name? Well, 413 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 1: at first we thought it was a boy, and so 414 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: we obsessed over finding a boy's name for a month 415 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:59,159 Speaker 1: and a half. Finally decided, and then the day that 416 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 1: we decided on the name, we found out that it 417 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:05,320 Speaker 1: was actually a girl. So what was the boy's name? Well, 418 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:08,880 Speaker 1: I can't say, oh, really, okay, that's fair, that's fair. 419 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: I thought maybe it was like a lesson. So I 420 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 1: looked up like every girl's name online and I was 421 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 1: reading them to Ari for like two days straight, and 422 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 1: finally I came across Lessia and I was like, what 423 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:21,600 Speaker 1: do you think of that one? And he's like, what 424 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,879 Speaker 1: if we dropped the A? And then we both just 425 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,200 Speaker 1: thought that it sounded pretty, So that's what we did. 426 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 1: M It is a really really pretty name. It is. Um. Yeah, 427 00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:35,679 Speaker 1: I'm actually jealous. I kind of want that name. I 428 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 1: don't think that they would mind if you named your 429 00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:40,280 Speaker 1: baby Lessie. Yeah. I think that's when it might get 430 00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:45,520 Speaker 1: a little weird. Um for a boy, would be funny 431 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,119 Speaker 1: if we named him Harrison. But Lauren was on board 432 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 1: of that. Well, you know, Harrison as a first name. 433 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:53,800 Speaker 1: You know, that's what No, I think that's great. We 434 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 1: actually had Carly and Jade on the podcast, and Carly, um, 435 00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 1: we suggested the name Harrison for her, so oh, yeah, 436 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,639 Speaker 1: there you go. I like Harrison and he married you, 437 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:06,639 Speaker 1: so I mean it makes sense. Harrison. Shut up, But 438 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 1: you can't let the kids call him Harry. Why Harry, Well, 439 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:14,080 Speaker 1: Harry's a popular name Harry Styles. If I can't see, 440 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 1: I don't know Harry Styles is like the most popular guy. 441 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 1: I have to think about what the kids are gonna say, right, Like, 442 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:22,200 Speaker 1: when you name your child, you have to think what 443 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:23,919 Speaker 1: are the kids going to call him at school? What 444 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,679 Speaker 1: are they going to tease him at Harry's Harry exactly? 445 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:31,160 Speaker 1: That'll sing the kid crying home that I know. I'm 446 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 1: telling you. Do you think I think about this? I mean, 447 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,119 Speaker 1: I don't have children, but when I do, I always 448 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 1: think about when they get older and they're old enough 449 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:44,480 Speaker 1: to start googling stuff and figuring out who their parents are. 450 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 1: I'm worried personally about them seeing me on the show. 451 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 1: Do you guys think about that? Um? I haven't really 452 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:55,440 Speaker 1: thought about that too much yet. Yeah, I mean either, 453 00:24:55,920 --> 00:25:01,200 Speaker 1: I mean, obviously it'll be there. Yeah. I don't want 454 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,360 Speaker 1: my children to look at me on TV or YouTube 455 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:07,120 Speaker 1: or wherever it's going to be and me saying get 456 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 1: the fuck out, you know what I mean? Yeah? Well, 457 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:13,399 Speaker 1: I mean you should have thought about that. You know what. 458 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 1: They shouldn't have brought an ex girlfriend. Yeah, don't bring 459 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 1: a ratchet ex girlfriend up to the show. Anyways, we're digressing. 460 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:27,360 Speaker 1: Um no, but I do think about that. Would you 461 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 1: let her be on the show? Oh that's a hard one, right. Honestly, 462 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:35,040 Speaker 1: I kind of think we're both in the same boat 463 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:38,240 Speaker 1: on this one, and we want her to do whatever 464 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 1: she feels passionate about doing. But it would be hard 465 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,040 Speaker 1: for us to let her go through that because I 466 00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:46,160 Speaker 1: think it was a little traumatizing for us. Yeah. I'm 467 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:50,639 Speaker 1: so traumatized for sure too. No, I get that, I 468 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 1: get it. But you're a success story, so you know, yeah, 469 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 1: you know, things happen, it's all it's all a part 470 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:59,560 Speaker 1: of your journey, yeah, being a success story. Ari, do 471 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:03,119 Speaker 1: you have any advice for Peter and Lauren his winner? 472 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 1: And then for him, I think the only advice we 473 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,159 Speaker 1: can really offer is just for tell him that he 474 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,760 Speaker 1: needs to follow his heart and not listen to other 475 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:18,520 Speaker 1: people because he knows himself best. It's like that's a 476 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 1: good advice. Are y'all going to watch it? Oh? Yeah? Sorry? 477 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:27,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah. Brian's a big fan of the show too, 478 00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 1: so he's he's all into Do you guys get anxiety 479 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 1: when you watch it? Because I do, and I was, 480 00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:37,040 Speaker 1: I mean, may not want to watch it anymore? But no, 481 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 1: we're far enough removed from it now that we don't 482 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 1: really get anxiety. Joe, does your anxiety ex didn't beyond 483 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,680 Speaker 1: episode two? Or is it just for the first one. 484 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:48,200 Speaker 1: It's funny because I was I never really I didn't 485 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:51,199 Speaker 1: really watch the show, but I watched because I was 486 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 1: going through the process. I started watching our season, and 487 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,560 Speaker 1: I was just like freaking out every time I watched him. 488 00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,480 Speaker 1: I can't do any of this, but yeah, I mean 489 00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:02,560 Speaker 1: I still get anxiety when I watched that first night. 490 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:06,720 Speaker 1: I think it just really went bad for me. Well 491 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,920 Speaker 1: in the best way, in the best way. Send me 492 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:15,919 Speaker 1: Home's true, that's true, Laurie. Do you still Laurie? Laurie? Oh? 493 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 1: Is that what people call y'all? I guess it's just 494 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:22,679 Speaker 1: just rolled it just it just rolled off. Um, Lauren, 495 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:24,679 Speaker 1: do you still talk to any of the girls from 496 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,240 Speaker 1: your season? Are you close from them? I do? Yeah? 497 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 1: With him? I mean, who are you close with them? Um? 498 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 1: I talked to Jackie, Jenna, Michael, mariektently. Lauren. You name 499 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:45,400 Speaker 1: those people and I have no idea who they are. Joe. 500 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 1: The word girls that didn't end up at the end, mostly, 501 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 1: but you know what, that's Honestly, I get that. I 502 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,119 Speaker 1: always Joe and I have I think it was Joe 503 00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:56,880 Speaker 1: and I having that conversation about how or somebody else. 504 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 1: I don't know how the people who go sometimes, the 505 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:02,159 Speaker 1: people who go home the first, like sooner, are the 506 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,520 Speaker 1: cooler ones versus the ones who stay longer. That's right. Yeah, 507 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,040 Speaker 1: like maybe like they're not they're not like as good TV, 508 00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,359 Speaker 1: but they're really good friends, you know. I don't know. 509 00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:13,680 Speaker 1: That was kind of my experience too, so I understand that. Yeah. 510 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,679 Speaker 1: Oh NCN too, I love her. Oh yeah, see it 511 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:20,119 Speaker 1: wasn't she at your bachelorette party. Yeah, I'm gonna get 512 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 1: the details from her. I'm gonna get the crazy. I'm 513 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:23,919 Speaker 1: gonna ask her to tell me what happened crazy, and 514 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:25,760 Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about it next week on the podcast. 515 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 1: All Right, you guys, anything else exciting happening? I mean, 516 00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:34,639 Speaker 1: I thought you were going to do a baby announcement, 517 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:38,080 Speaker 1: So since you aren't, or you're whole keeping that to 518 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:42,560 Speaker 1: yourself for about little Harrison, what's next hare you guys? 519 00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:48,440 Speaker 1: Little hair Um, Well, we're just living our normal life 520 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 1: over here. We're doing we're building a house. We're starting 521 00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 1: to build houses. And flip houses together. Oh yeah, I'm 522 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:58,720 Speaker 1: working on a couple other projects. It'll come out next year. 523 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,400 Speaker 1: Anything else exciting happening? Then? What's happening in our lives? 524 00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:06,440 Speaker 1: Would you guys do a show? Would you guys do 525 00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:08,719 Speaker 1: a house flipping show? I mean that seems to be 526 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:12,320 Speaker 1: popular and you guys are both interested in that. Yeah, 527 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 1: I think that. Yeah, Okay, you heard it here first. Guys. Yeah, 528 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 1: we're just um, I don't know, we're just like we 529 00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 1: have so many things going on, like random things. But yeah, 530 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 1: I got my broker's license, so I'll probably be opening 531 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 1: a brokerage. I'll do your real estate here in Arizona. 532 00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 1: Lauren starting a clothing line that she's been working on. Yeah, 533 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:39,800 Speaker 1: and then what else? Just raising our little daughter? Are 534 00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 1: you still racing? You know? I did. I only did 535 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 1: one race this year, and I just kind of backed 536 00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 1: it down for because I knew it'd be tough to 537 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 1: travel with Lessie to all the races. But I'll probably 538 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 1: do more next year. That's not really my main focus anymore. 539 00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 1: I mean I would say real estate it's my main focus. 540 00:29:57,960 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 1: But if someone offers me a ride, then I would 541 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,960 Speaker 1: jump in the car just because it's fun. I think, 542 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 1: does that worry you, Lauren, that he's racing and now 543 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:07,920 Speaker 1: you have the baby, because I would it would freak 544 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:14,360 Speaker 1: me out. Not I've actually been in the truck with 545 00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:17,160 Speaker 1: him before and it's just like a big steel cage, 546 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 1: so I think he's pretty protected in there. Yeah. She's 547 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:23,320 Speaker 1: like yeah, She's like, he's good. He doesn't do it 548 00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:24,880 Speaker 1: that often, so I don't have to worry about it 549 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 1: too much. Well, that's good, Lauren. Is your clothing line 550 00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:31,800 Speaker 1: going to be for adults or for children? It will 551 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:35,240 Speaker 1: be for adults initially. Okay, oh initially? What kind of 552 00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:39,720 Speaker 1: clothes is it? Like sportswear or dresses or um, it's 553 00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:43,280 Speaker 1: more like lifestyle dresses and like fun tops and skirts 554 00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 1: and stuff like that. That's awesome. Okay, you'll have to 555 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:50,240 Speaker 1: send it to me so I can instagram. Wait, I 556 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 1: have a question. Can you explain to me your experience 557 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 1: on Long Island medium? That was super interesting? I actually 558 00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 1: we were asked if we were interested in doing it, 559 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 1: and I immediately said yes and Ari immediately said no, 560 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 1: So we obviously went skeptic. Yeah, so I did a 561 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:12,920 Speaker 1: medium show. I did, Uh, Tyler, you did, Tyler Henry yeah, 562 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:15,760 Speaker 1: they never did. Yeah, they yeah, just never got aired. 563 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 1: But yeah, because I'm a skeptic, Like, listen, if you 564 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:22,720 Speaker 1: I think if you could talk to the dead, um, 565 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 1: I just think you can't. I just don't think it's possible. 566 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:30,640 Speaker 1: But no, no, did this one? How did it go? Like? What? 567 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 1: What did she say? Are you allowed to tell? Yeah? Yeah, 568 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 1: so they aired it, um what a week ago? Yeah, 569 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 1: we haven't seen yet. But there were just so many 570 00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,960 Speaker 1: details that she knew about me that really just kind of, 571 00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 1: I don't know, made me believe right away. Oh yeah, 572 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:52,960 Speaker 1: she was really focused on convincing ari. I think. Yeah, 573 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 1: I feel bad because we went there because Lauren was 574 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 1: really wanted to get a reading, and then she was 575 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:01,120 Speaker 1: just like her energy was apparently apparently the people in 576 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:03,120 Speaker 1: the room talking to her were all focused on me, 577 00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:10,360 Speaker 1: except for your grandfather too. Yeah she said he was shy. 578 00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 1: I just but there were things that she said. You know, 579 00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:16,240 Speaker 1: she'd be like, in your destroyer on the right hand side, 580 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:19,640 Speaker 1: you have a tray full of coins from other countries 581 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:21,480 Speaker 1: that you don't plan on spending it, but you just 582 00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:25,280 Speaker 1: have it there to have it there? Would she know that? Okay? Really? 583 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,520 Speaker 1: See does anybody else know that that. She would like, 584 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,040 Speaker 1: you can't Lauren, didn't even know that. But if you 585 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:34,760 Speaker 1: look at my destroyer boom, it's right there. One thing 586 00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:36,960 Speaker 1: that really freaked me out, and she's like, is your 587 00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,720 Speaker 1: daughter's room colder than every other room in your house? 588 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 1: And I was like, yes, She's like, that's because your 589 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:45,720 Speaker 1: grandfather's spirits are in there watching over her, not the children. 590 00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 1: I would see. I don't think I could handle that. 591 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I think my curiosity would get the best 592 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:54,520 Speaker 1: of me and I'd want to do it. But if 593 00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:57,320 Speaker 1: she said something that was like the coins or the 594 00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 1: coldness of the room, I mean, do you turn up 595 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:04,400 Speaker 1: the heat now, Lessie's room and what's happening there? You 596 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 1: gotta turn up the heat, so push him out. I can't. 597 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,680 Speaker 1: I can't come back later. I can't. I can't handle that. 598 00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:13,520 Speaker 1: Or I would say if if she was saying someone 599 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:14,920 Speaker 1: was talking to someone, I would be like, can you 600 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:16,800 Speaker 1: ask them to speak up so maybe I could hear. 601 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,400 Speaker 1: I just but Joe, you've done it. How was it 602 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:22,440 Speaker 1: for you? Ah? It was. It was difficult for me. 603 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,000 Speaker 1: But I'm a I'm a huge skeptic, so I feel 604 00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:27,720 Speaker 1: like anything that you could find about me, you just 605 00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:29,960 Speaker 1: find that on the internet and then figure it out. 606 00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:33,120 Speaker 1: Did he tell you anything deep? Like what um she 607 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 1: told Ri? No, Like if she would have said, like, 608 00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:39,920 Speaker 1: you have you know, purples, I don't have purple socks. 609 00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 1: I don't know why I'm using that as an example. 610 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 1: But if like she's like, you have purple socks in 611 00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,000 Speaker 1: your middle drawer and I went in there and I 612 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:48,280 Speaker 1: had like purple socks, I'd be like, I believe, I'm 613 00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:51,520 Speaker 1: a believer. But that didn't happen. And I don't have 614 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:55,880 Speaker 1: purple socks. I have like white and gray socks. I 615 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,480 Speaker 1: don't know where this is going. Just no one listened 616 00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:01,680 Speaker 1: to me anymore. Listen. I mean, I think, well, let 617 00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,800 Speaker 1: me ask you guys this after both having already know 618 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:06,280 Speaker 1: how Joe feels, but after having this experience, would you 619 00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:10,279 Speaker 1: suggest other people do it? I would? I mean, I 620 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,040 Speaker 1: felt I got a lot out of it. I think 621 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:18,360 Speaker 1: that my grandfather's relationship like it was something that was 622 00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 1: really important to me growing up. He was a huge 623 00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,359 Speaker 1: role model, and he's sort of what led me into 624 00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:26,400 Speaker 1: my racing career. My dad was always sort of tentative 625 00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:29,279 Speaker 1: when it came to that, but he was always supported me, 626 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:32,640 Speaker 1: and I felt like when he passed away, there was 627 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:34,600 Speaker 1: a lot that I wanted to tell him that I 628 00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:36,879 Speaker 1: didn't get to tell him. And I feel like when 629 00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,200 Speaker 1: I was racing, I was always trying to sort of 630 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:41,480 Speaker 1: prove my worth to him because he was that kind 631 00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 1: of figure in my life. So it was really cool 632 00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:48,480 Speaker 1: to listen to what she had to say and that 633 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 1: he was there, you know, in all the moments in 634 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,120 Speaker 1: my life, like like on our wedding day, I was 635 00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,719 Speaker 1: wearing his watch and she said that he was there, 636 00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:59,360 Speaker 1: he was proud of me. And so there's just a 637 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:01,960 Speaker 1: lot of things I really took from that conversation that 638 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,400 Speaker 1: was really cool for me. That's really special that you 639 00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:07,839 Speaker 1: had that I would have lost it all right, Yeah, 640 00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:09,760 Speaker 1: like I would have. That would have really made me emotional. 641 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:11,839 Speaker 1: But I'm really happy that you got that experience. I'm 642 00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:13,200 Speaker 1: gonna have to I'm gonna have to see if I 643 00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:16,040 Speaker 1: can apply to UM the show to be on the show. 644 00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,400 Speaker 1: At this point, you need to. You need to. It's crazy. 645 00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:21,640 Speaker 1: It is pretty cool. Okay, you guys, it's been so 646 00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:23,560 Speaker 1: great talking to you. But we can't let you go 647 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,120 Speaker 1: without playing a little game with you. We're a game 648 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 1: called guess who it's the mommy and daddy addition. Obviously 649 00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:33,600 Speaker 1: mom first, daddy, Oh, mom versus daddy addition. And so 650 00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:35,000 Speaker 1: the way this is going to work is we're going 651 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,440 Speaker 1: to say a statement or a question and then you 652 00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:39,239 Speaker 1: have to say who is more likely to do it? 653 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,239 Speaker 1: Mommy or daddy? Wait? Is that what a Listen? What 654 00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:53,240 Speaker 1: is she going to call you? Is it gonna be daddy, dad, papa, pop, mom, mama, dad, mom, mama, mommy, 655 00:35:53,360 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 1: whatever whatever she can say? Yeah, Okay, first question, who 656 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:04,160 Speaker 1: had a feeling Lauren was pregnant? First? Mommy or daddy? Well, 657 00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:08,280 Speaker 1: daddy definitely me. Really, I was like, you're creating meatballs 658 00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:12,879 Speaker 1: at eleven am? This Yeah, she was in denial. Oh 659 00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,399 Speaker 1: my gosh, meatballs at eleven am. Come on, Lauren, you knew, 660 00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:20,799 Speaker 1: you knew. I think I could possibly be pregnant. It's 661 00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:23,359 Speaker 1: just a weird thought. She was like crushing red meat 662 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:27,799 Speaker 1: for like four days, or you were like, let's have steak. 663 00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:29,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, we had it last night. What's wrong? And 664 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:33,520 Speaker 1: just wake up A lot's meatballs? Okay? Okay, who was 665 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:40,080 Speaker 1: more nervous about the labor Mommy or daddy? My mommy? 666 00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,759 Speaker 1: I mean wouldn't you be Yeah, I mean sense, it 667 00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:44,839 Speaker 1: makes sense. The person's coming out of her, not you. 668 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 1: So for sure, who does a lessie resemble more mommy 669 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:54,640 Speaker 1: or daddy? Everyone says me? Everyone says Ari, But I 670 00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:58,279 Speaker 1: think she looks like me. Did you put up a 671 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:01,480 Speaker 1: baby picture at one point? Mm hmm yeah, so I 672 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:02,960 Speaker 1: would have said Ari, and then you put up a 673 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 1: baby picture and I was like, okay, no, Lauren. Yeah, 674 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:08,799 Speaker 1: she looks a lot like my baby pictures. But she 675 00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:13,319 Speaker 1: definitely has Ari's eyes and that's her color. Then that's 676 00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:15,560 Speaker 1: why they say Aria. I feel like if you you 677 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:19,560 Speaker 1: can tell from someone's eyes, yeah, that's who they look like. Yeah, okay, 678 00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 1: who changes more diapers? Mommy or daddy? I'm gonna say 679 00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:26,839 Speaker 1: fifty fifty? Yeah that's pretty even. Oh that's so good 680 00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:35,480 Speaker 1: you guys. How is that? By the way, Yeah, it's 681 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,759 Speaker 1: a pit stop. I tried to tire myself. I mean, Ari, 682 00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,279 Speaker 1: did you ever change a diaper? If you guys change 683 00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:45,479 Speaker 1: a diaper before your baby? Actually the first diaper change 684 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:53,440 Speaker 1: was Sean's Samuel Sean's baby. Okay, who takes more photos 685 00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 1: of a lessie? Oh gosh, ah, she's gonna be a 686 00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:02,839 Speaker 1: daddy's girl, for sure, we all are. I feel like, 687 00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:10,960 Speaker 1: who would install who would install a tracking device? Whoa 688 00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:18,600 Speaker 1: mama bears worried about everything? That's my job, that's true. 689 00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:24,000 Speaker 1: Do you have a tracking She bettered out, I'm up 690 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:32,319 Speaker 1: on the bachelor tracker butt right back home? Who will 691 00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:38,160 Speaker 1: spoil a Lessie more? I feel like we both will? Yeah, 692 00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,279 Speaker 1: I don't know. We don't know who's going to be 693 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:45,600 Speaker 1: the discipline and to give the discipline because that's tough. Yeah, 694 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:49,200 Speaker 1: we thought it would be me, but I'm pretty soft. Yeah. 695 00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:53,160 Speaker 1: Who would you're figuring out? Who would use a Lessie 696 00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:56,160 Speaker 1: as an excuse for being late? And who wrote these questions? 697 00:38:56,280 --> 00:39:01,160 Speaker 1: Definitely definitely, she goes and now that she's had a Lessie, 698 00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:03,520 Speaker 1: now Lessie's like, oh she was so tough. I couldn't 699 00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:07,240 Speaker 1: job the house stop it. Who knows all the words 700 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:12,560 Speaker 1: and dance moves to Baby Sharks? Really we were just 701 00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:14,360 Speaker 1: singing it before we got on the phone with you. 702 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Well, who knows all the words and 703 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:18,520 Speaker 1: dance moves to? This is how we do it? By 704 00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:26,160 Speaker 1: Montell Jordan's definitely daddy. Who will be more of a disciplinarian? 705 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,640 Speaker 1: Oh that's what we were just talking about. We don't know. 706 00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:33,439 Speaker 1: I think I think Lauren. I think Lauren too. Yeah, 707 00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:37,239 Speaker 1: I'm convinced that's the tracking device. And the reason why 708 00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:39,959 Speaker 1: I think this is because she is when it comes 709 00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,799 Speaker 1: to the dogs like, I'm just like, they're fine, and 710 00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:47,120 Speaker 1: you're and she's like, get in your call because I 711 00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:48,960 Speaker 1: have to put the baby back to sleep when they 712 00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:54,480 Speaker 1: wake her up. They're always in trouble. Yeah, okay. And 713 00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:56,799 Speaker 1: who's the first one to wake up early to feed 714 00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:02,799 Speaker 1: a lessie? Oh, mommy, for sure, Mommy, sure, I think 715 00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,319 Speaker 1: I did get in the beginning. Now, I tried. I 716 00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,839 Speaker 1: tried as much to participate, but as a guy, there's 717 00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:11,000 Speaker 1: only so much you can do. You don't have the milk. Okay, 718 00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:14,279 Speaker 1: here's a hero's a real dark one who will be 719 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:17,480 Speaker 1: the one who will be the one to break the 720 00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:22,840 Speaker 1: news about Santa to a lessie. Neither of us. No, 721 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:24,920 Speaker 1: we're gonna the kids at school. We're going to keep 722 00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:28,200 Speaker 1: her in denial until she's like in her twenties. Well, 723 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:31,960 Speaker 1: she's probably gonna end up on the Bachelor. I still 724 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,920 Speaker 1: remember the person who told me Santa Claus wasn't real. 725 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:38,080 Speaker 1: I remember her first and last name, it's a traumatizing thing. 726 00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:46,160 Speaker 1: So remember when I found out, I asked Olivia. When 727 00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:48,920 Speaker 1: I found out, I asked my mom. I'm like, so 728 00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:51,080 Speaker 1: this you mean to tell me the Easter bunny isn't 729 00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:52,880 Speaker 1: real either? And she goes, well, if you think a 730 00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,760 Speaker 1: giant bunny hops around and goes to the house, the house. 731 00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:59,640 Speaker 1: And I was like, Okay, I get it, I get it. 732 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,520 Speaker 1: I've good to see you now, man, very very I 733 00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:06,560 Speaker 1: love your mom. That's hilarious. All right, Well, thank you 734 00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:09,600 Speaker 1: Ari and Lauren for calling in and chatting with us. Yeah, 735 00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,400 Speaker 1: it's been fun, you guys. Thank you. I wish we 736 00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 1: could have done this in person. Next time. Next time 737 00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:16,759 Speaker 1: we got to meet up and let's do that Vegas, 738 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:19,520 Speaker 1: because you guys sound like a lot of fun in Vegas. 739 00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:26,080 Speaker 1: Sounds good, dude, Thank you guys. All right, thank thank 740 00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:30,359 Speaker 1: you so much. Thank you. Okay, you guys, we've been 741 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,399 Speaker 1: doing this podcast for a few months now, and it's 742 00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:36,680 Speaker 1: come to my attention that I I need to get 743 00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:39,440 Speaker 1: some things off my chest, and so we're going to 744 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:42,200 Speaker 1: have this new segment called Rachel's Rant. Now, that doesn't 745 00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,880 Speaker 1: mean that I'm always going to be ranting about contestants. 746 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,560 Speaker 1: Or things that have happened in batter Nation. Sometimes it's 747 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:52,200 Speaker 1: just things that have bothered me in life, in pop culture. 748 00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:55,360 Speaker 1: Maybe it's sports, maybe it's some big headline news. I 749 00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,880 Speaker 1: don't know, something that just has me in a tizzy 750 00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,759 Speaker 1: this week. So in the spirit of Rachel's rant, here 751 00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,920 Speaker 1: we go. Oh I'm ready for this. So I wish 752 00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:08,480 Speaker 1: I could actually refer to it because the girl actually 753 00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:13,760 Speaker 1: blocked me on social media. But this week I had 754 00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:17,520 Speaker 1: someone right on. I posted an interview that I did 755 00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:21,960 Speaker 1: with Extra or Extra with Robert Pattinson, and I was 756 00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:24,080 Speaker 1: really proud of this interview. It is my first time 757 00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,239 Speaker 1: doing a press junket. I was really happy to have 758 00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:29,360 Speaker 1: this opportunity and it's something that I've been working towards. 759 00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,719 Speaker 1: So I am not a person who gets flustered or 760 00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:37,160 Speaker 1: bothered by people writing negative or even positive things on 761 00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,360 Speaker 1: social media. But this one got me because this is 762 00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,319 Speaker 1: a reoccurring thing for US Bachelor Nation folks. But do 763 00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:45,800 Speaker 1: you read all these cameras? No? But I saw this one, Okay, 764 00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:48,080 Speaker 1: so you do read a little bit. But oh yeah, yeah, yeah, 765 00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:49,880 Speaker 1: I read a little bit because sometimes I like to respond, 766 00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:52,399 Speaker 1: but I do. If you're not reading I don't believe 767 00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,440 Speaker 1: people who say they don't read anything. I don't read anything, 768 00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:56,960 Speaker 1: okay except for you, Joe, but lying because I do, 769 00:42:57,239 --> 00:43:05,800 Speaker 1: especially brand go ahead, no rant no. But so this 770 00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,520 Speaker 1: this person, this girl writes on my page and she says, 771 00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:11,960 Speaker 1: aren't you a lawyer? Didn't you used to be a lawyer. 772 00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 1: I am so sick of influencers taking jobs when people 773 00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:19,320 Speaker 1: who go to school, get a degree, work really hard 774 00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:22,560 Speaker 1: to have these roles and they don't get these type 775 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,920 Speaker 1: and we can't get these type of jobs because influencers 776 00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:28,520 Speaker 1: are taking over for them, are over these jobs. And 777 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:33,160 Speaker 1: I wrote back and I said, sis, I am so sorry. 778 00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:36,359 Speaker 1: I said something about I am sorry that you've got 779 00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,520 Speaker 1: this crab mentality, you know, where you're always trying to 780 00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:40,520 Speaker 1: pull people down when they when they make it to 781 00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:43,680 Speaker 1: the top. It's it's really big in black culture. Um 782 00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:47,040 Speaker 1: she was black, So I I and then I just 783 00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,759 Speaker 1: go off about it. But my biggest thing was you 784 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,719 Speaker 1: have no idea. People see you as a bachelorette or 785 00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,920 Speaker 1: grocery store Joe, and they have no idea what your 786 00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,799 Speaker 1: journey was to get there. So it bothers me that 787 00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:01,080 Speaker 1: you think that I'm just an influencer, as if my 788 00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:03,400 Speaker 1: life started three years ago when I walked out of 789 00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:05,799 Speaker 1: a limousine on National TV. I was thirty one when 790 00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:07,760 Speaker 1: I did that, so I was living thirty one years before. 791 00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:11,759 Speaker 1: You have no idea what my resume is, my job, experienced, 792 00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:14,080 Speaker 1: my background that got me to sit in that seat 793 00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:17,880 Speaker 1: and conduct that interview for extra little did this personnel 794 00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:21,280 Speaker 1: that in college, That's exactly what I did. I worked 795 00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:25,240 Speaker 1: for the sports information department, where I was writing magazine articles, 796 00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:29,120 Speaker 1: articles on the internet, and I was interviewing athletes in 797 00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:32,600 Speaker 1: all different sports. Plus my legal skills give me the 798 00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:34,600 Speaker 1: background to be able to interview people because I have 799 00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:37,000 Speaker 1: to do depositions and I'm in court and all of 800 00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:38,880 Speaker 1: that stuff, and it takes a skill. It takes a 801 00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:40,839 Speaker 1: skill to interview people. It's not easy. It's not just 802 00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:42,719 Speaker 1: oh my god, I got popular in the Bachelor, so 803 00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,319 Speaker 1: now I could interview so right, because everybody would be 804 00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:48,960 Speaker 1: doing it. Everybody would be interviewing people. And or just 805 00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:51,960 Speaker 1: because you went to school for it doesn't necessarily mean 806 00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:55,640 Speaker 1: that you're entitled to have that job. Sometimes people take, 807 00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,719 Speaker 1: you know, a non traditional path into how they get 808 00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:02,440 Speaker 1: to a career, but it just really offended me. And 809 00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:05,000 Speaker 1: she's not the first one. There have been multiple people 810 00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:06,879 Speaker 1: who are like, oh my gosh, you quit your job 811 00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:10,279 Speaker 1: just to be famous because I'm doing interviewing somebody, that 812 00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,600 Speaker 1: means I want to be famous. No, like this is 813 00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:14,560 Speaker 1: you have no idea what my background is, or how 814 00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:17,440 Speaker 1: or what I did to get here, or the previous 815 00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:19,520 Speaker 1: jobs that I've had. Just because you see me on 816 00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,160 Speaker 1: the Bachelorette or The Bachelor, they think that that's when 817 00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:25,440 Speaker 1: your life started. So that really I feel like I 818 00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:28,439 Speaker 1: actually calmed down a bit. Ye right, I wouldn't seem 819 00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:32,160 Speaker 1: pregnant anymore. You want to know what I would have 820 00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,960 Speaker 1: responded to that? What would you have said? Ha ha, 821 00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:41,280 Speaker 1: well a h a, look at me, I'm interviewing Batman. 822 00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:43,719 Speaker 1: Well you know what I did do? I guess I 823 00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:46,160 Speaker 1: wasn't forthcoming, So she wrote me back. I don't remember 824 00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:49,520 Speaker 1: what she said, and then I said, Okay, okay, you 825 00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:52,520 Speaker 1: seem really mad. I'm gonna go pick up my microphone 826 00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:55,520 Speaker 1: and conduct another interview, or something something to that effect. 827 00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:56,960 Speaker 1: I gotta excuse me, I gotta go pick up my 828 00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,680 Speaker 1: microphone and conduct another interview. Got it. That's probably what 829 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:03,400 Speaker 1: probably got me blocked. But I just think that, you know, 830 00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:06,520 Speaker 1: you shouldn't be so quick to judge somebody in regards 831 00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:09,480 Speaker 1: to because they're on TV or they're an influencer, which 832 00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:13,839 Speaker 1: I hate being titled as an influencer more than that. 833 00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:16,560 Speaker 1: It's the worst, as if people you don't have anything 834 00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:18,799 Speaker 1: more than being on TV. There's nothing more to you 835 00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:21,480 Speaker 1: than being on TV. Me, no, no, that's pretty much 836 00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:26,520 Speaker 1: all I um, yeah, no, it's there's nothing more aggravating 837 00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:29,000 Speaker 1: than that. But at the same time, I look at 838 00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:33,520 Speaker 1: it like, hey, I have to deal with that because 839 00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:36,759 Speaker 1: this is the life that I chose to live, you know, 840 00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,120 Speaker 1: in a sense, I mean, you don't have to deal 841 00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:42,960 Speaker 1: with it. But I'm just like I heard an interview 842 00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,880 Speaker 1: once with jay z Um and it was about I 843 00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:49,120 Speaker 1: forgot what rapper it was about, and this rapper kept 844 00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:51,759 Speaker 1: going at him and going at him, and the interviewer 845 00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:54,640 Speaker 1: asked jay z like, why don't you what do you 846 00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:56,239 Speaker 1: have to say about this? And he was just like, 847 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:00,960 Speaker 1: I don't even know who that is, yeah, because he's 848 00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:04,520 Speaker 1: not on my level. So very true. That's how I 849 00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:06,960 Speaker 1: like it, and I guess I do for the most part. 850 00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:09,040 Speaker 1: You know, I don't go believe me if I wanted everybody, 851 00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:10,920 Speaker 1: I would be exalted. I wouldn't have time to be 852 00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:15,120 Speaker 1: here today. But I guess I just feel like people 853 00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:18,359 Speaker 1: we do invite people into our lives going on reality TV. 854 00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:22,959 Speaker 1: So it doesn't bother me when people give insight like that. 855 00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,920 Speaker 1: As far as oh, maybe they comment on my relationship 856 00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:29,239 Speaker 1: or maybe friendships that I have in vagination, or maybe 857 00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:31,560 Speaker 1: things that have to do with love or stuff like that. 858 00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:33,680 Speaker 1: That doesn't bother me because I put myself out there 859 00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,760 Speaker 1: like that. But what I'm doing now, I just feel 860 00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:41,160 Speaker 1: like it's really not your place to sum up my 861 00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:45,000 Speaker 1: entire life in the last three years that I think 862 00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:47,640 Speaker 1: that's what really gets to me is I worked hard 863 00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:51,760 Speaker 1: to be where I was before I even stepped onto 864 00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:55,920 Speaker 1: your television screen. So it really bothers me that people just, 865 00:47:56,800 --> 00:48:00,480 Speaker 1: I guess, just want to simplify who I am to 866 00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:03,279 Speaker 1: just being the bat on The Bachelor and then the Bachelor. Yeah. No, 867 00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,040 Speaker 1: I know that's annoying, especially after you know, seeing it 868 00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:08,560 Speaker 1: so many times. I mean, I I for seven years, 869 00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,239 Speaker 1: I woke up at one thirty in the morning to 870 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:13,800 Speaker 1: go to work and work. I worked over ten hours 871 00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:18,120 Speaker 1: a day, six days a week for seven years. Yeah, 872 00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:23,040 Speaker 1: and it sucked. It's I'm an influencer. So I feel like, 873 00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:26,759 Speaker 1: unless you call yourself an influencer, you shouldn't be We 874 00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:30,200 Speaker 1: shouldn't be titled as influencers, right, Like, there are influencers 875 00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:32,120 Speaker 1: and that's fine, and that's what they do. Yeah, but 876 00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:34,279 Speaker 1: if I'm not calling myself that, please don't call me 877 00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:36,920 Speaker 1: that just because we were on TV. I agree, I agree. 878 00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:40,319 Speaker 1: I don't like that word anyways. Do you I don't 879 00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:42,560 Speaker 1: like it? Do you give U something you want to 880 00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:49,160 Speaker 1: rant about? Okay, Joe's rant, what can I rant about? 881 00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:52,719 Speaker 1: I for? So for me, what I'm going to rant 882 00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:55,400 Speaker 1: about today is I just watched the documentary on Netflix 883 00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:59,520 Speaker 1: about Bill Gates and it talks about how eight hundred 884 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:04,560 Speaker 1: children die every day from diarrhea. You know, there's four 885 00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:08,239 Speaker 1: billion people that can't go to the bathroom the way 886 00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:11,640 Speaker 1: we go to the bathroom in this country, four billion 887 00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:15,359 Speaker 1: billion with a bee. I mean, the sanitation problem in 888 00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:19,279 Speaker 1: the world is heartbreaking. So for me, I try to 889 00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:21,600 Speaker 1: put it in perspective. After I watched that, It's like 890 00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:28,319 Speaker 1: I can't listen to people or myself complain about Instagram 891 00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:33,720 Speaker 1: photos or the fact that my smoothie was nine dollars 892 00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:36,920 Speaker 1: that I didn't like the way it tasted. Yeah, So 893 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,880 Speaker 1: for me, I'm just trying to realize that. You know, 894 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:44,200 Speaker 1: there's people in the world that have real fucking issues, 895 00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:48,480 Speaker 1: and I'm not one of them. So I'm just happy 896 00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:51,239 Speaker 1: to be here. That's my thing. Damn, he just put 897 00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:54,719 Speaker 1: my ramp to I'm one of those people. I'm one 898 00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:57,160 Speaker 1: of those people. No, it's easy to know, but it 899 00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,560 Speaker 1: is easy to get upset. Listen, after you were you 900 00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:01,960 Speaker 1: were messing with but you wore the lead and you've 901 00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:03,799 Speaker 1: been in the spotlight for a long time. This is 902 00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:07,080 Speaker 1: what you do now you're in entertainment. I'm totally messing 903 00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:08,719 Speaker 1: with you. I just had to. I was like, no, 904 00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:10,359 Speaker 1: I know, but I want to make myself. I want 905 00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:12,600 Speaker 1: to make myself sound more mature, So just fucking let 906 00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:16,080 Speaker 1: me go. Okay, here's my ring off. When I was going, okay, 907 00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:18,680 Speaker 1: I was killing it. I was about to really just 908 00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:22,680 Speaker 1: smash that day home. Listen, what you said is real 909 00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:24,640 Speaker 1: and it's serious. And now I want to go watch 910 00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:27,240 Speaker 1: this documentary and I encourage everybody else to watch it too. 911 00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:30,120 Speaker 1: But we need to be reminded about that. You are right. 912 00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:34,200 Speaker 1: Sometimes you can be so involved or just self absorbed 913 00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:36,800 Speaker 1: and involved in what's going on in your little world 914 00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:39,240 Speaker 1: and not realize that there are problems that are bigger 915 00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:43,040 Speaker 1: than you and there are four billion people out here. 916 00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:46,920 Speaker 1: What was the four billion people that can't go to 917 00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:49,280 Speaker 1: the washroom the way like we do? I mean there's 918 00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:52,640 Speaker 1: little things we take for credit. And Nigeria there's little 919 00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:54,920 Speaker 1: girls that have I mean they have to go to 920 00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:58,360 Speaker 1: the bathroom in groups or they'll get ready, Like that's 921 00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:01,879 Speaker 1: a fact I can't even and I can't even fathom that. 922 00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:05,520 Speaker 1: So you're right, like these little insipid things that we 923 00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:09,440 Speaker 1: get upset about or complain about, there are bigger issues 924 00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:12,040 Speaker 1: out there. And thank you Joe for that reminder. You're 925 00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:18,600 Speaker 1: welcome you this kind of guy. Am What can I say? Okay, Joe, 926 00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:22,920 Speaker 1: I literally my face hurts from laughing so hard at 927 00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,600 Speaker 1: the things that are the nonsense that we've been talking 928 00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:28,040 Speaker 1: about on this podcast. But it's been a good one. 929 00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:30,560 Speaker 1: It's great to have Ari and Lauren to talk to them, 930 00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:32,880 Speaker 1: so we want to thank them for coming on. Thank 931 00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:36,080 Speaker 1: you Joe, thank you for coming on and being my 932 00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:39,280 Speaker 1: co host. Of course, love hanging out with Rachel. Always 933 00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:42,360 Speaker 1: a good time. Em Bachelination. We had a good time today. 934 00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:45,120 Speaker 1: I hope you guys had a good time and thank 935 00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:48,560 Speaker 1: you so much for listening. As always, next week, you guys, 936 00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:51,080 Speaker 1: we will be talking to Bibby, who will be sharing 937 00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:54,200 Speaker 1: with us her journey about wellness and all the things 938 00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:56,680 Speaker 1: that she's grateful for and what she's learned from her 939 00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:59,560 Speaker 1: bachelor experience. And in the meantime, you can get all 940 00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,640 Speaker 1: the latest bats ornews on bachelornation dot com right now. 941 00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:05,480 Speaker 1: Got something you want to share, well, you can do that. 942 00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,720 Speaker 1: You can email us at happy hour at batchelnation dot com, 943 00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:11,839 Speaker 1: or you can visit batchelnation dot com and click podcasts. 944 00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:14,319 Speaker 1: You have a really nice voice, very easy to listen to.