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Speaker 3: Joy you know you love you.

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Speaker 6: Come come on, you think that, Uh huh, I sure

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Speaker 6: will a good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice,

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Speaker 6: Come on now, digny if you will, one and only

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Speaker 6: Steve Harvey got a radio show, you know, one of

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Speaker 6: the things about being successful. And I was sharing this

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Speaker 6: just the other day with a young man and he

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Speaker 6: asked me. He said, hey, man, I just don't see

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Speaker 6: just don't see how, man, it would kill me to

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Speaker 6: thousand times I've heard it, you know, And my life is,

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Speaker 6: you know, not too different from a lot.

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Speaker 1: Of people's lives.

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Speaker 6: There's a lot of people out there that rise early.

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Speaker 6: And I just sit there, man, because I mean, first

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Speaker 6: of all, I'm grateful to be able to have a job.

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Speaker 6: I'm so grateful to be able to do one and

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Speaker 6: know it's work and it's difficult at times, but I mean,

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Speaker 1: You know you got it. You know you can't ask

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Speaker 1: God for nothing any give it to you then be

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Speaker 1: mad that you got it. Don't make no sense.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 6: The problem with asking God for stuff is a lot

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Speaker 6: of times we ask it for stuff we don't really

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Speaker 6: And I ask for this now along the way, I've

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Speaker 6: gotten far more than.

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Speaker 1: I asked for. I want you to do.

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Speaker 6: Understand that, and you know that's His grace at work

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Speaker 6: in my life. But I get up early and I

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Speaker 6: is not walking up to you. Nobody walks up to

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Speaker 6: then with a lifestyle though, where you can you know,

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Speaker 6: And I ask everybody man to think about this scenario

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Speaker 6: But now you spent two thirds of your life one

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Speaker 6: Do something super productive for the development of yourself and

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Speaker 6: I need to chill. I need to smoke one. Uh Oh,

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Speaker 6: Let's say you spend two hours at Happy I do

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Speaker 6: Then when you get off, instead of driving straight home,

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Speaker 6: group of people that get together. Network for business, not

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Speaker 6: Then when you go home, instead of chilling drinking one,

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Speaker 1: Every minute of that.

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Speaker 6: No human being has more than twenty four hours a day,

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Speaker 1: But if you care about every single minute.

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Speaker 7: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Moore Show.

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Speaker 8: Ladies and gentlemen, Boys and girls, let me have your

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Speaker 8: divided attention. This is my very wide opening for the morning.

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Speaker 8: Want you to have a great time. Come on and

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but that ain't working right now, so welcome to

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Speaker 6: Ain't no need of doing the same thing. It's a

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Speaker 6: new day, new chance, new opportunity, man, let's make the

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Speaker 1: God is good. Yeah. Years.

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Speaker 6: Man, gratitude affects your altitude all the time, but it's

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Speaker 1: You got to get it together, baby. That's the world

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Speaker 1: we live in today.

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Speaker 6: Charlton Strawberry calling for real Mouth of the South, junior

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Speaker 5: Yeah, happened to me.

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Speaker 3: I like that.

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Speaker 9: See like you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes they ain't got no cheerleader. Cheer for yourself. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: Like Snoop Dogg said, I don't want to thank you.

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Speaker 7: I want to thank me last, but not least.

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Speaker 9: I want to thank me.

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Speaker 7: Believe in yourself, love yourself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So tell you what's on your mind today.

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Speaker 7: I just said, are you feeling pretty good today?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Yeah, sound good that.

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Speaker 6: I feel good every day, you know, whatever it is,

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Speaker 6: whatever it is, you know, some days have some few

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Speaker 6: more challenges in it than others.

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Speaker 1: And but I survived all of.

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Speaker 6: Them so far. This too shall pass, that's for sure. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: And I'm expecting great things that happen in my life. Man,

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Speaker 6: Gratitude check Yesterday, I really did hand it through a

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Speaker 3: And I don't know me man, And I'm the one

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Speaker 11: Come get the medicine. Come come, come, get the medicine

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Speaker 3: I'm not finna go back and forth arguing with you. Man,

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Speaker 3: I you're gonna need some more medicine. They gonna come

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Speaker 11: Permanent new residence. I swear to God, you're gonna be

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Speaker 3: it this that's my tally from the Steve Hobby Morning Shows.

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Speaker 3: You just got pranked by your sister. Bring hello? Who

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Speaker 3: is this? Hey man? Hey class, This nephew telling me

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Speaker 11: Man boy you you oh you need say too so much.

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Speaker 11: I don't believe this, she said. Man, they broke in

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Speaker 3: Oh man? Hey man, man, ask you something? What is

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Speaker 3: if that boke in my house is listening, you come

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Speaker 3: If they listening, then come on back over the mouth. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: right right now. Bring y'all boy, y'all roll for that. Nephew,

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Speaker 7: All right, Thank you, ne for you. Coming up next,

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Speaker 1: Hey, this is your boy and nephew Tommy.

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Speaker 7: Well, it's time for Steve's favorite segment. It's called Ask

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Speaker 7: sexual desire. He's called me a lightweight and said I'll

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Speaker 7: left to find someone else that is up to the challenge.

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Speaker 7: I hate it when he says stuff like that. Do

441
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Speaker 7: you think he's just joking.

442
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Speaker 1: Well, let's go over a couple of minutes.

443
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Speaker 3: For that.

444
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Speaker 1: First of all, the seventy four and last too long.

445
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Speaker 6: In medication, he's lost feeling in certain areas, So the

446
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 6: last and long is don't worry. He done lost a

447
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 6: lot of fear, he knows, so don't worry about that.

448
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 6: That all that hours and all that. Yeah, you know,

449
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 6: you know you need to pick up pay you a lightweight.

450
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:15,400
Speaker 6: I need to give somebody else. And the other thing

451
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Speaker 6: you said was you forty nine and he's seventy four

452
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Speaker 6: and he look your age.

453
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Speaker 7: Now hold up, you're not going for he's athletic and energetic.

454
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Speaker 6: She says, he's seventy four and he look your age. Ah,

455
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Speaker 6: what he's seventy four and you look his age?

456
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Speaker 1: I think about that. See, I'll just say that, well

457
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Speaker 1: I looks at all of it.

458
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Speaker 6: When you asked me something, we'll here problems because he

459
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 6: might not be all that athletic and energetic. Just your

460
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Speaker 6: ass is older than forty nine physically, and maybe that's

461
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Speaker 6: what the problem is. Maybe you thinking he more than

462
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Speaker 6: he really is because you ain't what you say you are.

463
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 6: Let the church say, man, let's sometimes the answer is

464
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Speaker 6: in your own damn question.

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Speaker 7: I believe her.

466
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Speaker 6: Maybe she ain't athletics. She ought to get athletics. She

467
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,840
Speaker 6: would be more like forty nine, most forty nine. Your

468
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:16,919
Speaker 6: women still got it.

469
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Speaker 1: So she ain't.

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Speaker 6: Well he's seventy four. Well you got medication that increases

471
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 6: his that's viagra, that's what that is.

472
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Speaker 7: It increases your s What else?

473
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Speaker 6: What are it taking once again. If you have something else, sir,

474
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 6: please write in this show. This became another second man

475
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 6: because yesterday some dude took a shot.

476
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Speaker 7: Yeah, a strawberry letter, Yes, a.

477
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Speaker 1: Shot, and he wasn't going through that pain no more. Okay,

478
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Speaker 1: all right.

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Speaker 7: This one's from We're moving on. This one's from Delisa

480
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Speaker 7: in Chicago. She says, I'm a single female in my

481
00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,640
Speaker 7: late twenties and I'm a bartender. I met a new

482
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Speaker 7: guy in the bar. He was handsome and friendly and

483
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 7: always tipped.

484
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 7: He asked me on a date and we really hit

486
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Speaker 7: it off. He lives in an upscale building with a doorman,

487
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:12,160
Speaker 7: and he drives a very nice car. I asked him

488
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Speaker 7: where he works, and he says he's a kept man

489
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Speaker 7: and his sugar mama lives in the suburbs. She's unhappily

490
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Speaker 7: married and very rich. He said he sees her only

491
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Speaker 7: twice a month and gets paid well. He asked me

492
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Speaker 7: if I had a problem with it, and I'm trying

493
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Speaker 7: to have an open mind, is this a deal breaker?

494
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Speaker 6: Well, he not finn to be yours. You know, you

495
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 6: can date him if you want to, you and your

496
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:35,199
Speaker 6: late twin you can date him.

497
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Speaker 1: If you want to.

498
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Speaker 6: He told you he's a kept man. He not finna

499
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Speaker 6: be yours, and he not finn to be unkept. So

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Speaker 6: now you're not gonna get him. Let me explain some

501
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 6: t when a man open up and tell you that

502
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Speaker 6: it's for one reason and one reason only, to.

503
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Speaker 1: See if you were willing to go along with it.

504
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Speaker 6: He ain't got nothing invested in you, he ain't in

505
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Speaker 6: love with you, so now he just want to see

506
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:03,880
Speaker 6: if you want to go along with it. You part

507
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 6: of the other part of the game. I can have

508
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 6: a woman that being a kept man, and I can

509
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 6: and I can get with this little young fine thing.

510
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Speaker 6: And you're finna be the young fine thing. And if

511
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Speaker 6: you go along with it, that's it. Is it a

512
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 6: deal breaker? Do you want to share your man? He

513
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 6: ain't your man anyway, but do you want to share

514
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 6: him with somebody else?

515
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 4: Yeah?

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00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not finna get a husband out of this here, jiggerlows,

517
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Speaker 1: All right, get lonely too, All right, here we go.

518
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Speaker 7: You're gonna love this name. Steve bertel burtail bertel in

519
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 7: burtell says, I'm a married man and I've been having

520
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 7: sex with my pastor's wife for about three weeks wet

521
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:56,239
Speaker 7: a date before either of us got married. She's got

522
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Speaker 7: the best skills of any woman I've ever been with.

523
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,920
Speaker 7: I made up all kinds of lies about the pastors,

524
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 7: so my wife wouldn't want to join the church, but

525
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:09,680
Speaker 7: she did anyway, and she dragged me to the church

526
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 7: with her. I knew it would only be a matter

527
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 7: of time before the first lady got under my skin

528
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 7: because we can't resist each other. I lovely wife, but

529
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 7: the pastor's wife and I have so much chemistry. How

530
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 7: can I get her out of my system?

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Speaker 1: You can't? So you can't. You gotta stop seeing her?

532
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 1: But you can't? What see you see?

533
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 7: No?

534
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 1: See?

535
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,640
Speaker 6: His question is, ladies, listen to the question, how can

536
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 6: I get her out of my system?

537
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:43,879
Speaker 4: Uh?

538
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:44,160
Speaker 6: Huh?

539
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 1: He'd asked you nothing about know how could I stop

540
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 1: seeing her?

541
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Speaker 6: Couse?

542
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 1: The answer is simple, don't go over there no more.

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00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 6: See Now he trying to make it like it's more

545
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 6: complicated than that. It's not, dog, it's not well, you

546
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 6: quit you like?

547
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,640
Speaker 7: What what is he gonna tell his wife about the church?

548
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 7: Tell his wife church about why they're leaving the church?

549
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:08,640
Speaker 2: Yeah?

550
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 6: No, his wife gonna find out no, he gotta quit

551
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,919
Speaker 6: going over to see her. His wife gonna find out.

552
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 6: Let me tell you something about you need to go

553
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:22,920
Speaker 6: to hell if you are screwing another woman and that

554
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 6: woman comes around your wife gonna know it.

555
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you keep keep putting it in the face

556
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 1: if you want to partner.

557
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:35,400
Speaker 7: All right, thank you, Cellos, Steve Harbin Martin show Man.

558
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 7: Would you rather on a cold winter day enjoy a

559
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 7: bowl of hot chili or a bowl of gumbo?

560
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 1: Junior?

561
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Speaker 6: Better eat that hot chili as soon as it gets

562
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 6: cold for the hospital chili's chili or something.

563
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 9: I want the gumbo to gumbo hot?

564
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, why your ass steal any cold climbs? You need

565
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: to take your.

566
00:28:57,880 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 9: Told you this is not about sick.

567
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: Man, it is if it get cold enough.

568
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 6: This is how I do right here, I've learned more

569
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 6: about sick of selling menia than I have never known

570
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 6: in my life.

571
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 1: Hanging my little home at Junior right now, though you

572
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 1: got the best phone call. Still, don't nobody call better

573
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 1: than you do?

574
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 4: Though?

575
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 1: Hello?

576
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 7: Hey all right now?

577
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, this is how it goes. Hey,

578
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: Junior was having it. You're doing it. You're doing well?

579
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:37,280
Speaker 6: Him in hold up dog hanging that dog click, because

580
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 6: I don't want to be the one on the phone

581
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 6: that he last talked to because all in the criminal investigation,

582
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 6: you know, they're looking at his phone. No see they

583
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 6: looking at his phone log and they looking at her

584
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 6: the last phone call.

585
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: Now I'm down to the police station. What did he say?

586
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 3: You know?

587
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 4: Now?

588
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 1: You crazy?

589
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 6: Twenty eight hours when they they always want to talk

590
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 6: to the last person that talked to him.

591
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 1: I seen that on for.

592
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:12,720
Speaker 7: Hours, murder investigator, you had a crisis.

593
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 1: I'm not finna be the last one.

594
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 7: Up right up, all right, it's time for something funny,

595
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 7: Steve H. We want you to try and help people

596
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 7: get their next job simply by crying. Okay, I'm going

597
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 7: to tell you what this is all about. It says

598
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 7: breaking out some tears may help you land your next job.

599
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 7: During a job interview, you definitely want them to remember you,

600
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 7: and it turns out a few tears just might do

601
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 7: the trick. While you may think that crying during the

602
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 7: interview process would blow your chances of getting a job,

603
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 7: there are some people who say it actually works. Wonders.

604
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 6: So okay, well let's go there. Okay, we're in a

605
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 6: job interview you and call interviewing me. And so let's

606
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 6: go and let's start the interview. Let's start the interview you.

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00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 7: Well, good morning, mister Harvey. How are you today?

608
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 1: How was you Harvey?

609
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 6: Missus Strawberry, mister Miles, thank you for having me such

610
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 6: an opportunity.

611
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 4: All right, So, mister Harvey, let's get start. I wanted

612
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 4: to ask you what exactly what makes you qualify for

613
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 4: this job? Well, having had several jobs before that gave

614
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:31,719
Speaker 4: me the experience of exact thing that you folks are

615
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 4: looking for. It's pretty much made me qualified. And you know,

616
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 4: everybody that I've ever worked with have always said I

617
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 4: was really just overqualified.

618
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 7: Here, let me ask you something on mister Harvey. Why

619
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 7: did you leave your last job?

620
00:31:51,280 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 1: Oh god, it's so difficult that you bought this up?

621
00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, oh god, I was.

622
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 1: I was up there for sixteen years, and really, I

623
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 1: don't they just came in and they just closed it.

624
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 1: I mean they just shut the shut the doors. I

625
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 1: was in the parking lot when it had happened. I

626
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 1: was standing there in Shane, I got Jane.

627
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 7: Put the Jane over the door, crying, mister Harvey, No, no.

628
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 1: Not, I'm not going. It was just Jane the Doorko interview. Happy,

629
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: let me jump in here.

630
00:32:56,280 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 4: Okay, just before they were all I wanted to ask you,

631
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 4: mister Harvey. You know, a job like this, you're going

632
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 4: to be working with a lot of people. You're going

633
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 4: to be doing a lot of interacting. H you know,

634
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 4: how do you do you have the skills set to

635
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 4: actually interact with other people?

636
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 1: Yeah?

637
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 6: Excuse me, Yeah, I'm interacted with quich for having a damn.

638
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 6: It doesn't take much, we see. Yeah, I interact with

639
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 6: people from time to time. You know, it's just talking

640
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 6: about it sort of gets me.

641
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: You know, I'm fine, I'm fine with other people.

642
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 7: Well, mister Harvey, this is a sales position we're looking

643
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 7: to hire you for, and we just want to make

644
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:50,479
Speaker 7: sure that you're the right person. As Thomas mentioned earlier,

645
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 7: you have the right qualifications for this position. You have

646
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 7: to interact with people, you have to sell our product,

647
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 7: and you know, people by you first before they even

648
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 7: buy the product. So I just want to make sure

649
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:09,879
Speaker 7: that that you know. This little crying thing I hear,

650
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 7: it's it's not really.

651
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 1: Just I don't cry. I got a question for you.

652
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,720
Speaker 1: I don't just cry. You know all the time, sounds

653
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:28,759
Speaker 1: like you do. I'm out of work. I'm crying because

654
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: I'm out of work.

655
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:31,320
Speaker 7: Yeah, there's no crying at work.

656
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:32,359
Speaker 3: I don't want.

657
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 9: I don't not hear yet.

658
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:35,840
Speaker 5: How do you harm me?

659
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 1: I can stop you cry. Two of you want? What

660
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 1: are your strengths?

661
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 7: Let's talk about something positive in.

662
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Speaker 1: I can absolutely together. That's one of my structures. I

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Speaker 1: promise you I care if you just hired me.

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Speaker 9: There's a journey job holds the DC.

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Speaker 1: It is like instant.

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Speaker 6: If not one of them, just say you're hired, Hockey

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Speaker 6: begin to show you just sitting here in the eighteenth interview.

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Speaker 1: This is the third level. This is supposed to be it.

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Speaker 1: I was told by your supervisor then it would would.

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Speaker 9: Even be inured.

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Speaker 1: Here I am, and we're still talking.

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Speaker 9: You got no job?

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Speaker 7: Well, this is that's why it's called a process, mister Harvey.

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Speaker 1: A process.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, follow the interview process.

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Speaker 1: Suffer Jesus Jesus.

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Speaker 9: Hire So he'll stop.

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Speaker 4: Please, Well, let's let's evaluate. Miss Shirley Strawberry Carlor. Do

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Speaker 4: you think we have the right person for the job.

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Speaker 4: How about we let this person sell themselves in thirty.

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Speaker 1: Seconds to us. Okay, yeah sounds good.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it's hard be Could you sell yourself for thirty

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Speaker 4: seconds to us?

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Speaker 1: Please? Okay, you need a moment, you want to go out.

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Speaker 7: Just let me know in thirty seconds, okay, and you

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Speaker 7: can start now and now.

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Speaker 6: And I believe that I'm extremely qualified, but this position

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Speaker 6: due to the fact that I'm probably the most experienced

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Speaker 6: candidate that you'll meet from time to time. I've also

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Speaker 6: discovered that I have several traits that this company's lacking,

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Speaker 6: and I can be a most fulfilling factor in developing

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Speaker 6: the app to loot direction of your firm and your company.

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Speaker 6: I will be but in asset, and that is why

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Speaker 6: I think I should have the job.

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Speaker 7: Okay, all right, right, no tears.

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Speaker 9: Okay.

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Speaker 7: If you're asked me, I would say he's hired.

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Speaker 10: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show at the

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Speaker 10: Salvation Army. Love gives beyond situation and season. While lights

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Speaker 10: are sparkling and temperatures are dropping, you can be the

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Speaker 10: difference for a family in need right in your local community.

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00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:27,720
Speaker 10: Your donation puts presents under the tree today and food

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Speaker 10: on the table all year long, warm hearts and homes

704
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Speaker 10: beyond the Christmas season by donating twenty five dollars a

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Speaker 10: month at Salvation ARMYUSA dot org. Help a neighbor in

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Speaker 10: need through the holidays and beyond.

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Speaker 7: All right, guys, it is time for another round of

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Speaker 7: would you rather? Okay, okay, would you rather since it's wintertime,

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Speaker 7: would you rather do it in thirty two degree weather?

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Speaker 1: Or would you do it?

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Speaker 7: Rather do it in one hundred degree weather?

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Speaker 1: We don't rather do it? That would rather be?

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Speaker 7: Just do it? Give me, junior, what was that?

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Speaker 1: I would rather do it? Okay?

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Speaker 7: What is it?

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with that. That hunted that heat? So okay,

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Speaker 1: he's trying to say, so if it's twenty in that

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Speaker 1: thirty two, it's a little a lot more effort required.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that cold, boy, eh, you got men got a

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Speaker 6: special problem in that cold?

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Speaker 1: Do something? Yeah, yeah, that probably ain't gonna have.

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Speaker 6: I'm tall, right, so I'm telling you right now it's

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Speaker 6: certain things you can't even cool air. I can't hit

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Speaker 6: certain parts of you. Gotta be like a turtle in

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Speaker 6: a shell.

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Speaker 5: Going onund here, it's cold, all right, So.

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Speaker 7: One hundred one hundred degrees that's super hot.

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Speaker 12: That's all right. Sorry, we deal with that. We can

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Speaker 12: just none rolling hot? Yeah, just rest Yeah, cut that

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Speaker 12: ceiling fan off.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you something, Shelly, Why you think it

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Speaker 1: ain't that many eskimos? How many eskimos? Is it out

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Speaker 1: hard to find the ass every nine?

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Speaker 7: Then?

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Speaker 1: How many eskimos? About eleven hondred ain't nothing home black,

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Speaker 1: ain't no black eskimo?

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Speaker 6: All right? Movie we had eleven thousand lived in Garden

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Speaker 6: Valley projects.

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 7: Keeping with that same kind of theme, would you rather

741
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Speaker 7: cuddle in the morning or would you rather cuddle at night?

742
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Speaker 4: Huh?

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Speaker 7: I know, I know how men are with the cuddling situation.

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Speaker 1: Cutting, Get off me.

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Speaker 5: Your degree?

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Speaker 1: Why do we have a keen size dead? If we're

747
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Speaker 1: not gonna use this, get on your.

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Speaker 7: Sad Junior. Han't heard from you on this one.

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Speaker 1: I'm not cutting what now?

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Speaker 3: What? What?

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Speaker 1: We just got through touching?

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Speaker 9: Touch the mope?

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Speaker 6: What you and you have to cut off some time

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Speaker 6: because it's a requiredments.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I try to. I try to make her hot.

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 7: Good morning. This is Shirley Strawberry and Tims. The season

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Speaker 7: for happiness and love and giving and family. Happy Holidays

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Speaker 7: from the Steve Harvey Moore Ring shot all right, Steve,

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Speaker 7: go ahead.

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Speaker 3: Well, now.

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Speaker 1: What you're about to hear.

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Speaker 6: It's pure comedic genius, but I must lay a disclaimer.

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Speaker 6: This is going to be a little edgy. It's gonna

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Speaker 6: ruffle a couple of feathers. So I'm just letting you

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Speaker 6: know this. This is j Anthony Brown. He asked me

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Speaker 6: do it, and I kind of got an idea. I

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Speaker 6: don't know exactly what it is, but I'm in support

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Speaker 6: of comedy. Yeah, but I'm saying we're doing this with

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Speaker 6: a disclaimer that no one can call us and say

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Speaker 6: nothing about it. I don't know exactly what he's gonna do,

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Speaker 6: but he could ruffle some feathers, ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 9: J Anthony Brown, All right, what I'm what I'm about

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Speaker 9: to do right now?

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Speaker 13: Every year, a lot of people, good people you know,

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Speaker 13: meaning good have quanza parties.

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Speaker 1: Now, yes, I don't think it's a lot of people.

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Speaker 1: You can go ahead. You must be trying to build

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Speaker 1: this Junke up in trying to build it up.

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Speaker 13: It's not a lot of quan How about people have

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Speaker 13: a quanza party and don't a lot of people come?

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Speaker 9: And they wonder why people don't come.

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Speaker 7: What I have is.

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Speaker 13: Suggestions to get more people to your Quanza party.

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Speaker 9: Number one, offer a free dog. Get there. Anybody who

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Speaker 9: will show up.

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Speaker 1: One size fit all.

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Speaker 9: You learn it.

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Speaker 13: Everybody that shows that Kwanza party, you get a free

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Speaker 13: bean pile. If you don't like mean, give a sweet potato.

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Speaker 13: If everybody don't like me, I like, I love this

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Speaker 13: one is really good. This is really really good.

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Speaker 9: If you have a Kwanza party, Steve, you can demonstrate

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Speaker 9: what I mean by this.

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Speaker 13: Do not have more than two velosifying brothers or sisters

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Speaker 13: at your party.

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Speaker 1: You don't want more than two in there. You don't

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Speaker 1: want to, you know, brothers.

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Speaker 6: Let me say this about this time, this period that

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Speaker 6: we partake of in this a questrious moment, a history

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Speaker 6: of fouling or the gratuatrichness and the barbariousness of what.

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Speaker 1: These holidays are too. That's why we celebrate quonsa.

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Speaker 14: But I dare say, though, brother, you don't want if

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Speaker 14: we hold that titulate the situation, knowing that it is

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Speaker 14: far regarically not a capability of scientific split. Let let

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Speaker 14: me interject some sensibility into this conversation.

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Speaker 9: Okay, you don't want a whole bunch of them.

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Speaker 13: At your party. Okay it hands up the move number five.

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Speaker 13: Ease up, this is very important.

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Speaker 1: Ease up, you know what.

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Speaker 9: Ease up me right up on the incense and sage.

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Speaker 1: Okay, because the black of my nose is burning.

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Speaker 5: How my shoes there?

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Speaker 1: Like I got a headache? Notious too much?

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Speaker 7: My greens tastes like saves.

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Speaker 9: Number two?

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Speaker 1: You want number seven?

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Speaker 13: You want to play something other than the Lion King, Anne,

819
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Speaker 13: This is vandpoint. The African drummers don't have to play

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Speaker 13: all night long, Okay, they don't.

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Speaker 9: Shirley Dinner and last but not.

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Speaker 1: Last.

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Speaker 9: Don't tell nobody it's a quiz about it.

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Speaker 1: Just tell them.

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Speaker 9: Okay, I have.

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Speaker 7: To tell him something you can.

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Speaker 5: I'm having a bottle.

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Speaker 7: I'm having a party, all right. Listen coming up like

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Speaker 7: j for the nephew went today. Frank phone call that's

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Speaker 7: coming up.

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Speaker 5: Right after this cornpress spell like.

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Speaker 7: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up

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Speaker 7: at the top of the hour. Write about four minutes after.

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Speaker 7: It's my strawberry letter for today. The subject it's time

835
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Speaker 7: for a change. But right now the nephew is here

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Speaker 7: with today's prank phone call. What you got for it, neph.

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Speaker 1: It is time for a prank call.

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Speaker 15: All right, all minds clear, heads, bowed eyes, clothes. You

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Speaker 15: prayed for a job, That's what you did. You prayed

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Speaker 15: for a job, cat dog.

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Speaker 1: If you would hello, I'm trying to reach a Carolyn,

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Speaker 1: Please hi, Carolyn. Listen. My name is Lawrence. Lawrence.

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Speaker 4: I actually go to the same church you do. I

844
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Speaker 4: saw you last Sunday where you stood up in the

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Speaker 4: church and I heard that you were talking about you're

846
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Speaker 4: going through some bad times or your job supposedly got

847
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Speaker 4: rid of the department that you're in, and you now

848
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Speaker 4: seek a new type of work.

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Speaker 1: Am I right?

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Speaker 4: Yes, just just work period, because you're looking for a

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Speaker 4: new occupation. And you I was there when you asked

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Speaker 4: everybody to pray for you. Have you Have you found

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Speaker 4: anything yet?

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Speaker 16: I haven't. I've been praying up. We prayed again today.

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Speaker 16: I asked for the church's prayers again today. And I

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Speaker 16: know everything's gonna work out, because you know he said

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Speaker 16: you take one step, you're gonna take too.

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Speaker 1: That's right, And I know it's going to happen.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 1: Well, listen, I think I may be able to be

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Speaker 1: of some help to you.

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Speaker 4: I actually own my own company, and I'm thinking that

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Speaker 4: you could be the perfect person for a position that

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Speaker 4: I have available. Uh now, what what type of work

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Speaker 4: would you doing in the past. Give me some of

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Speaker 4: your job qualifications.

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Speaker 16: I'm an executive secretary, administrative assistant, anything like that.

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Speaker 3: Where is the meed? Uh?

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Speaker 16: Even take the arm star shorthand I want to do

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Speaker 16: it all. If you just said what you need and

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Speaker 16: I can do church out your executives to come through

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Speaker 16: the office, anything that's needed, travel expenses, That's what I do.

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Speaker 2: Okay, good at too?

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Speaker 1: What type of hours are you used.

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Speaker 16: To working nine to five from I'll come in at hey,

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Speaker 16: I'll if I'm be coming at eight, I'm coming even

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Speaker 16: earlier if you used to coming earlier.

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Speaker 1: Are you opposed to working at night?

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Speaker 3: No, I don't know.

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Speaker 16: I'm working at night. I mean, it just it just depends,

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Speaker 16: you know, right not Urgus can't be choosing. I ask

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Speaker 16: and it's being given to me. Okay, well, what kind

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Speaker 16: of looking.

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Speaker 4: At I have a I have an offer for you

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Speaker 4: that it would be Thursday, Friday and Saturday night.

886
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:29,400
Speaker 1: You will only be working three days a week for me.

887
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:32,640
Speaker 16: Okay, No, I'm just you know, I was looking for

888
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 16: separate female hours a female days, any like full time.

889
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:39,320
Speaker 4: I will family well today, right right right, I understand,

890
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:43,400
Speaker 4: But listen, I think the actual amount will suffice for that. Now,

891
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:46,720
Speaker 4: I'm going to offer you seven hundred and fifty dollars

892
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:50,120
Speaker 4: per night for three nights a week. That's that's two

893
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 4: thousand and fifty dollars for for for those three days

894
00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 4: for one week.

895
00:48:57,200 --> 00:49:00,800
Speaker 1: Sure line, seven hundred and fifty dollars.

896
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 16: A night, and you're making around two.

897
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 4: You're making a week, man, And if you do the

898
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 4: math on that, that that adds up to about nine

899
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:11,839
Speaker 4: thousand dollars.

900
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 1: Four months.

901
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 3: For you to be true.

902
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 16: But now I put it in his hands. I turned

903
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 16: it over that we started. I did it, and you

904
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 16: turned on seven hundred fifty dollars a night. Okay, I

905
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:27,480
Speaker 16: mean what I'm doing books, you know, because I did

906
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:28,319
Speaker 16: the accountant too.

907
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:29,759
Speaker 1: Well, let me say this now.

908
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:31,479
Speaker 4: The reason why I say it's at night is because

909
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 4: I own a nightclub and and you would be working

910
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:37,839
Speaker 4: at the night club for me. So you will put

911
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 4: in about four or five hours every night and for

912
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:44,440
Speaker 4: three nights a week like I stayed at Thursday, Friday, Saturday.

913
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 4: And and of course I'll pay you seven hundred and fifty.

914
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 4: Matter of fact, I'll actually pay you your first two

915
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 4: weeks in advance.

916
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 3: And I need that.

917
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 4: I'm sure you you know you've you've lost your balance.

918
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 4: You need to get back on your feet and everything.

919
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 16: Yes, yes, yes, okay, so exactly really that you know

920
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 16: I'll be doing it because I'm sure, Like I said,

921
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 16: I can do office work. I'm good. That's not counting.

922
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 16: You tell me a quick front door. I can keep

923
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 16: your books going right.

924
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:13,960
Speaker 4: Well, no, not necessarily. I don't need you to work

925
00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 4: the front door. I'm actually going to have you in

926
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:21,400
Speaker 4: the club working. Okay, So I mean, how are you

927
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:23,920
Speaker 4: how's your physical condition? Are you able to get around?

928
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:25,839
Speaker 4: And you don't get tired quick?

929
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 13: Do you?

930
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:26,320
Speaker 7: No?

931
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 1: Are you in good physical shape?

932
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:31,000
Speaker 16: Yes, I'm gonna really good shave, don't get got quick

933
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 16: at all. You need to do something like do you

934
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 16: able to bad tenders or something and work to the

935
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 16: bad and make sure the money and nobody stealing money

936
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 16: from you or something.

937
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:39,839
Speaker 1: No, no, no, you're not at the bar either.

938
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:41,920
Speaker 4: See because what I'm gonna do now, have you ever

939
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:45,239
Speaker 4: done anything like, you know, anything close to dance or

940
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:45,880
Speaker 4: anything like that?

941
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 1: Have you done that in the past.

942
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 16: I do a little ballet when I was younger. Uh

943
00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:55,520
Speaker 16: drest I mean, and he had goat every once in

944
00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 16: a while. You know, you do a litle dancing here

945
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 16: and there.

946
00:50:57,719 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: Okay, don't it's the problem moving around.

947
00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 4: Okay, well, that's good to see. What what I wanted

948
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:03,719
Speaker 4: you to do is I want you to do a

949
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 4: little bit of dancing in the club something.

950
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 16: You have something like ballroom dancing or something, and I

951
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:11,920
Speaker 16: don't know how to do the bathroom dance, so I

952
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 16: can't work with nobody.

953
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:13,880
Speaker 3: On that stuff like that.

954
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:17,799
Speaker 4: No, I'm not asking you to do any uh ballroom

955
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 4: dance and anything like that. What I need you to do,

956
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 4: I want you to dance on the pole.

957
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 1: On the pole. See, I have a strip club. I

958
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 1: want you to dance on the pole.

959
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 3: The res dancing a par well.

960
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:35,840
Speaker 1: Actually I own the Silk Stocking, which is a strip club.

961
00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:37,840
Speaker 16: I love a ship stocker.

962
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:44,839
Speaker 11: Do you mind?

963
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 16: I am brank my part and body. You can put

964
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:49,360
Speaker 16: that listen.

965
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:56,359
Speaker 3: ROOMA But don't you want to make this money?

966
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:58,320
Speaker 1: I got seven hundred and fifty dollars a night for you.

967
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:01,800
Speaker 16: I don't something I'll tell you right now. You're in

968
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:05,240
Speaker 16: a parad you can purch that par shoves a band.

969
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:08,360
Speaker 16: You have no business calling me a dot. No bars

970
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 16: on my partner, Ian, nobody the church.

971
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:12,640
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get you a job. Baby. They told

972
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 1: me that you was in need of a job.

973
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:15,320
Speaker 9: So I'm just trying to mean that.

974
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 16: I'm not mean that kind of jam. I'm not meaning

975
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:18,960
Speaker 16: my grounds. I'm taking out my bear.

976
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 3: I'm runs some brought wind bear or bars on my bear.

977
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 16: Paris want you.

978
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:24,839
Speaker 1: Okay, what if I bumped up to a thousand dollars?

979
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 16: I two three five thousand dollars. I'm taking my drowns

980
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 16: out the.

981
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 9: I want that poet.

982
00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:33,759
Speaker 16: You know you ain't gonna see my.

983
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 3: Check in church and let me pray.

984
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 16: I said, you need to be calling me talking about

985
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 16: your guys.

986
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:44,080
Speaker 1: When I say you at church next Sunday.

987
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 16: Church, I said, don't you come back to me? I

988
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 16: said nothing to me because if that's r.

989
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 4: But I'm gonna come and ask you and win dale.

990
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 4: Will you get your butt on the pole man?

991
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:54,319
Speaker 6: Come?

992
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 16: I went bad, I'm a whip you.

993
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 1: Well, let me say this to you. Are you listening

994
00:52:58,640 --> 00:52:58,840
Speaker 1: to me?

995
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:01,600
Speaker 16: I don't listen to you. I'm hanging up.

996
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 1: I will wait just a.

997
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:07,040
Speaker 4: Minute, Carolyn, I want to say this. This is his nephew,

998
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 4: Timmy from the studio off in morning show. You just

999
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 4: got prank my, your cousin Ravenam.

1000
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:28,840
Speaker 16: I need some money you talked about.

1001
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 1: Give it? Tell me give it? You got her right,

1002
00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:39,000
Speaker 1: That's all I want to know that I get it.

1003
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 6: I don't care if you jumping up to three five

1004
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:49,160
Speaker 6: thousand thousand, well call him.

1005
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 5: Screaming at hard to get on the pole.

1006
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't know no ballroom damn.

1007
00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:56,759
Speaker 3: But I can learn.

1008
00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:59,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I did a little.

1009
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 3: You like.

1010
00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:08,360
Speaker 1: A little bitter little drill. I was a drill. Major.

1011
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 1: I'm going to drill too.

1012
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:15,320
Speaker 4: You know that.

1013
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 9: Don't pay seven hundred fifty dollars.

1014
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 1: Majorrection know I type eighty some words I do shorthanded,

1015
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 1: eighty some words of a minute. Who do that?

1016
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:29,920
Speaker 2: Oh?

1017
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 3: I can take it?

1018
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:33,799
Speaker 1: Oh man, you could type eighty eight words a minute. Man,

1019
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 1: I took typeing in school. I'm typed thirty four words.

1020
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 9: A minute, full of mistakes angle tag more than that,

1021
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 9: but they be spelled.

1022
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 6: Bro, every dog I'm talking about man, And you remember

1023
00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:47,840
Speaker 6: the slogan you had to type to touch all the

1024
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:50,839
Speaker 6: cues over the yellow some moon.

1025
00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 1: The brown fox jumped over the lazy dog's back. Yeah.

1026
00:54:56,600 --> 00:55:01,399
Speaker 6: Wow, the quick brown fox jumped over the lazy dogs back.

1027
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 6: That made you touch all the keys thirty forwards A minute.

1028
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 9: For me k L Thank you guys.

1029
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:16,000
Speaker 7: All right, coming up next Strawberry Letters subject it's time

1030
00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 7: for a change. We'll get into it right after this.

1031
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 1: Hey, this is your boy nephew, Tommy.

1032
00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:23,520
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1042
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Speaker 7: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. Time now for today's

1043
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 7: Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex,

1044
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:02,839
Speaker 7: parenting and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letters Steve HARVEYFM

1045
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 7: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

1046
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:10,000
Speaker 7: reading your letter live. That's for you, Jay on the air,

1047
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:12,640
Speaker 7: like we're doing this one right here, right now. Never know,

1048
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:13,160
Speaker 7: it could be.

1049
00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:16,440
Speaker 4: Yours could be Buckle up and hold on tight. We

1050
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:18,600
Speaker 4: got it to you here. It is a strawberry letter.

1051
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 7: Subject It's time for a change. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm

1052
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:25,880
Speaker 7: a board certified registered nurse, and I was raised in

1053
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 7: public housing by my aunt because my mother had me

1054
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 7: when she was sixteen. After I graduated from high school,

1055
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 7: I found out my aunt was sleeping with my boyfriend,

1056
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:39,040
Speaker 7: so I beat her up and spent time in juvenile detention.

1057
00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:41,800
Speaker 7: From that point on, I was told that I wouldn't

1058
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:44,799
Speaker 7: amount to anything. I beat the odds and I got

1059
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:47,840
Speaker 7: a nursing degree. I'm thirty years old and I just

1060
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:50,840
Speaker 7: bought my first house not far from where I grew up.

1061
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:53,839
Speaker 7: All of my female friends from high school are still

1062
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:56,399
Speaker 7: fighting over the same men and working two and three

1063
00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 7: jobs to pay the bills. We still have house parties

1064
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:02,200
Speaker 7: and go on the vacations, but I usually pay most

1065
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:06,120
Speaker 7: of the expenses when we plan anything. I have been

1066
00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:09,680
Speaker 7: dating the same guy for ten years, and I'm really

1067
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:13,000
Speaker 7: proud of the man he's become I've been patient with

1068
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:15,839
Speaker 7: him while he completes his degree, but I don't think

1069
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 7: he's taking classes right now. When I evaluate where I

1070
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 7: am and who I associate with, I get sad. At work,

1071
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:26,200
Speaker 7: I'm a different person. I get to talk to the

1072
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 7: other shift nurses and doctors, and it's a different world

1073
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:32,960
Speaker 7: than what I live. And when I go home, my

1074
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:36,720
Speaker 7: boyfriend loves to say I'm different and I talk proper.

1075
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,640
Speaker 7: When I'm at work, I am aware that I'm two

1076
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:42,479
Speaker 7: different people, and I enjoy the progressive side of life

1077
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 7: more so than the one I grew up in. The

1078
00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:48,600
Speaker 7: more I hang with my girls on the weekend and

1079
00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:51,360
Speaker 7: we drink till three am, the more I know that

1080
00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 7: I'm growing them. I'm ready to walk away from everything

1081
00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:58,760
Speaker 7: that's familiar in my life. But I can't do this anymore.

1082
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:02,440
Speaker 7: Am I being a sellout if I pull away from

1083
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 7: my friends? Am I supposed to keep waiting for my

1084
00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 7: boyfriend to get himself all the way together? Is there

1085
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:10,360
Speaker 7: a way to distance myself respectfully?

1086
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 10: Wow?

1087
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:13,959
Speaker 7: If anyone needs a change in their life, I would

1088
00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 7: say it would be you. And those of us who

1089
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 7: have lived and have some experience at life. We will

1090
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 7: definitely tell you that the one constant in life is

1091
00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 7: change and we can't avoid it because it's going to

1092
00:58:25,480 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 7: happen whether we want it to or not. And guess

1093
00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:31,360
Speaker 7: what what you're feeling and what you're going through right now,

1094
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:35,200
Speaker 7: that's a good thing. You distance yourself by trying new things,

1095
00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:39,320
Speaker 7: different things, and staying busy. That's how you do it respectfully.

1096
00:58:39,640 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 3: And you can say no.

1097
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:42,960
Speaker 7: It's okay to say no if you don't want to

1098
00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 7: do stuff with them like hanging out and drinking till

1099
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:48,760
Speaker 7: three a m. You know that's not what you do anymore.

1100
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 7: Change means growth, and you already said that you are

1101
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:55,360
Speaker 7: out growing them. You feel it, you see it, and

1102
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:58,400
Speaker 7: that's okay. Trust me. You will not be the first

1103
00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:00,920
Speaker 7: one to get a new circle of friends, and it's

1104
00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:03,400
Speaker 7: nothing wrong with that. You should accept and embrace it

1105
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 7: where it's taking you. This is your path, now, your journey.

1106
00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:09,400
Speaker 7: You're on your journey. You're not a sellout, and don't

1107
00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 7: let them try to make you think you're a sellout

1108
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:14,440
Speaker 7: because you want to move up and move on and

1109
00:59:14,560 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 7: move differently. They just don't want you to outshine them,

1110
00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:21,280
Speaker 7: all right, that's where that hate would be coming from.

1111
00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:24,400
Speaker 7: You're thirty. Now, what is your man doing besides putting

1112
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 7: you down? Talking about you talk proper and you're different.

1113
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 7: Now you said he's not even in school taking classes,

1114
00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 7: so you have no idea when or if he's going

1115
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 7: to finish. I say, stop wasting your time. Go ahead

1116
00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:41,440
Speaker 7: and live your life. Please, don't waste any more of

1117
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:44,240
Speaker 7: your time with your hating friends. You have to pay

1118
00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:48,040
Speaker 7: for everything with them anyway. What is that about that

1119
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 7: says to me that they're users letting you pay for everything?

1120
00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:54,280
Speaker 7: That's not right? So if they don't appreciate the change

1121
00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 7: in you, that doesn't ignite like something in them to

1122
00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 7: be better, I think there are plenty other people out

1123
00:59:59,880 --> 01:00:03,320
Speaker 7: there that will. I just say, go on, live your life,

1124
01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:03,960
Speaker 7: be great.

1125
01:00:04,400 --> 01:00:09,800
Speaker 6: Steve, all right, the subject is this time for a chain.

1126
01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:14,440
Speaker 6: Let me say this about Shirley's response. Every single word

1127
01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:19,400
Speaker 6: Shirley Strawberry just said was one thousand percent through period.

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01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:21,200
Speaker 1: There's no.

1129
01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:26,600
Speaker 6: Getting around what she told you. Nothing like this, but

1130
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:30,800
Speaker 6: sometimes you have to hear it a different way. Now,

1131
01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 6: what Shirley did was she told you exactly right. I

1132
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 6: hope you hear that because she told you almost in

1133
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 6: a way where your new better and more improved side

1134
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:44,760
Speaker 6: could understand and take it in.

1135
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 1: So, since Shirley has so eloquently.

1136
01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:52,360
Speaker 6: Done that for the new, improved, new you, I'm gonna

1137
01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:55,760
Speaker 6: talk to you as to oh you, so you can

1138
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 6: get both sides. You can pick which one you not.

1139
01:00:58,200 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 6: I want you to understand. I'm gonna say the exact same.

1140
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 6: Ain't thank Shirley just said. But we're gonna take the

1141
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:05,400
Speaker 6: other route. Let's break the letter down.

1142
01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:06,000
Speaker 1: Here we go.

1143
01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:10,200
Speaker 6: I'm a board certified registered nurse. I was raised in

1144
01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 6: public housing by my aunt because my mother had me.

1145
01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 1: When she was sixteen.

1146
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:17,200
Speaker 6: After I graduated from high school, I found out my

1147
01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:19,080
Speaker 6: mon was sleeping with my boyfriend, so I beat her

1148
01:01:19,120 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 6: up and I had to spend time in juvenile detention.

1149
01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 1: Okay, great, let's break this down.

1150
01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:26,200
Speaker 6: Your mama had you ally, you moved here with your aunt.

1151
01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:30,080
Speaker 6: Your aunt was you know, tricky. You found out she

1152
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:32,400
Speaker 6: slept with your boyfriend. You whooped your aunt ass.

1153
01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:38,160
Speaker 1: Yep, this is what happened. That sums it up.

1154
01:01:38,520 --> 01:01:40,800
Speaker 6: Now you jumped on her real good because you got

1155
01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 6: charges pressed and now you done went down to juvie.

1156
01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 6: Now you were told that you would never amount to anything,

1157
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:53,080
Speaker 6: and then you beat the odds you got out. You

1158
01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 6: rows above your circumstances. You did exactly that. You have

1159
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:01,400
Speaker 6: a nursing degree, thirty years old, and you just bought

1160
01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 6: your first house not far from where I grew up.

1161
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:10,360
Speaker 1: That was the mistake. Huh. You bought your first house

1162
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:12,520
Speaker 1: not far from where you grew up.

1163
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 6: That was your first mistake, because now it has kept

1164
01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:22,200
Speaker 6: you too close to your past. And I hate to

1165
01:02:22,320 --> 01:02:25,320
Speaker 6: tell y' all this, but the antig in the hood,

1166
01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:28,400
Speaker 6: you got to keep it real. The real answer should be,

1167
01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 6: you got to keep it moving.

1168
01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 7: I'll bang on a state with why. Yeah, hang on,

1169
01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:37,880
Speaker 7: we'll have part two of your response coming up at

1170
01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:41,440
Speaker 7: twenty three minutes after today's Strawberry letter subject it's time

1171
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:43,920
Speaker 7: for a change. We'll get back into it right after this.

1172
01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:47,240
Speaker 7: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1173
01:02:50,240 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 1: Hey, this is your boy nephew.

1174
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:53,920
Speaker 4: Tell me. Entering a new year is the perfect time

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01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:57,680
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01:02:57,840 --> 01:03:00,600
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01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:03,480
Speaker 4: foot reins, giving you the ability to stop threats in

1178
01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:08,240
Speaker 4: their tracks without deadly force. Bernard is legaling off fifty states.

1179
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:10,960
Speaker 4: No background checks, no permits, and the ship's right to

1180
01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:13,920
Speaker 4: your door. Visit Berner dot com slash Timmy for an

1181
01:03:13,960 --> 01:03:18,440
Speaker 4: exclusive ten percent discount. That's BYRNA dot com slash Tommy

1182
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:20,400
Speaker 4: for your ten percent discount.

1183
01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 7: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

1184
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:27,000
Speaker 7: The subject it's time for a change.

1185
01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:30,400
Speaker 6: Young girl who's thirty year old woman is writing this

1186
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:32,919
Speaker 6: letter had a very similar pass to a lot of people.

1187
01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 6: Her mother was young when she had a that's not

1188
01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:39,120
Speaker 6: a problem or sin. Are you raised by your aunt?

1189
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:41,760
Speaker 6: And then you found out when you graduate from.

1190
01:03:41,640 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 1: High school you' aren't was sleeping with your born friend.

1191
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:44,960
Speaker 1: So you beat that ad.

1192
01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:47,560
Speaker 6: You had spend some time down in Julie, and from

1193
01:03:47,600 --> 01:03:49,960
Speaker 6: that point on you was told you wasn't amount to anything.

1194
01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:52,480
Speaker 1: And then you did what so many of us have done.

1195
01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 1: You beat the odds. You got a nursing degree, You're

1196
01:03:55,680 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 1: thirty years old, you just bought your first house. Here's

1197
01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:00,200
Speaker 1: a problem. Not far from Ala.

1198
01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:03,720
Speaker 6: I grew up right around them, very same people that

1199
01:04:03,840 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 6: said you would never amount to anything. All your female

1200
01:04:08,040 --> 01:04:10,600
Speaker 6: friends from high school are still fighting over the same

1201
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:11,959
Speaker 6: inn and working two at.

1202
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:13,480
Speaker 1: Three jobs to pay the bills.

1203
01:04:14,600 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 6: All my female friends from high school are still fighting

1204
01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 6: over the same men and working two three jobs.

1205
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:22,400
Speaker 1: Pay the bills. I'm gonna save my next statement.

1206
01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:25,600
Speaker 6: We still have house parties, go on vacations, but I

1207
01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 6: usually pay most of the expenses when we plan anything.

1208
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:31,920
Speaker 1: Shirley said it this way. You need a new group

1209
01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:32,520
Speaker 1: of friends.

1210
01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:37,120
Speaker 6: Why is your ass trying to hang on to something

1211
01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 6: that is not providing a benefit to you. You know why,

1212
01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:44,160
Speaker 6: because you are suffering from what so many people use

1213
01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 6: as an emotion that has turned out to be the

1214
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 6: most useless emotion in the world, and it is called guilt.

1215
01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:55,000
Speaker 6: Stop suffering from guilt because it's a useless emotion. It

1216
01:04:55,200 --> 01:04:59,040
Speaker 6: serves nobody any purpose except the person who's applying the guilt,

1217
01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:01,959
Speaker 6: and the guilt is being applied by your friends since

1218
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:03,720
Speaker 6: they can't afford to do nothing you can.

1219
01:05:03,840 --> 01:05:06,000
Speaker 1: You got to pay for it. You need some new

1220
01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:10,920
Speaker 1: damn friends. Here we go, but I usually pay for

1221
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:11,840
Speaker 1: most of dispensive.

1222
01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 6: I have been dating the same guy for ten years,

1223
01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:17,800
Speaker 6: and I'm really proud of the man he's become. I've

1224
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:20,080
Speaker 6: been patient with him while he completes his agreement. I

1225
01:05:20,080 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 6: don't think he's taking classes right now. And when I

1226
01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:25,080
Speaker 6: elevate where I am and who I associate with, I

1227
01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 6: get sad. You are now sad with where you've gotten yourself,

1228
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:35,720
Speaker 6: because where you've gotten remains to stay too close to

1229
01:05:35,880 --> 01:05:40,160
Speaker 6: where you're from. Once again, the antig in the hood

1230
01:05:40,240 --> 01:05:42,520
Speaker 6: of you got to keep it real, the antig is

1231
01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:45,800
Speaker 6: really you got to keep it moving so you have time.

1232
01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:48,800
Speaker 6: Try to stay true to your roots. When your roots

1233
01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:53,920
Speaker 6: is sick, your roots are poisoned. Your root is gonna

1234
01:05:54,240 --> 01:05:59,320
Speaker 6: hinder and thraught the development of your growth as a

1235
01:05:59,440 --> 01:06:03,480
Speaker 6: plant because you're trying to stay true to your roots. Well,

1236
01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:06,800
Speaker 6: your roots ain't moving, They ain't any good salt, they

1237
01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:10,160
Speaker 6: ain't being fertilized or nothing. Now you got the same

1238
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:14,600
Speaker 6: guy for ten years. You proud of the man he's become,

1239
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 6: but you don't think he in classes right, You don't

1240
01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 6: even know what he's doing. So now your association, if

1241
01:06:20,840 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 6: you continue to associate, you remember the saying association brings

1242
01:06:23,960 --> 01:06:27,400
Speaker 6: on participation. If you keep hanging with them, guess what

1243
01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 6: you keep doing what them is doing? So now you're

1244
01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:32,160
Speaker 6: throwing house parties and.

1245
01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:36,600
Speaker 1: You drink it. What what's the benefit.

1246
01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:40,600
Speaker 6: At work? I'm a different person. I get to talk

1247
01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:42,840
Speaker 6: to the other shift nurses. Oh, you get to talk

1248
01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:47,680
Speaker 6: with people who are like minded. Oh okay, you could

1249
01:06:47,720 --> 01:06:50,200
Speaker 6: talk to other shift nurses and doctors. And it's a

1250
01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:52,439
Speaker 6: different world than when I live in. When I go home,

1251
01:06:53,080 --> 01:06:55,360
Speaker 6: that's because you brought your home in the wrong place.

1252
01:06:57,800 --> 01:06:59,280
Speaker 6: You now, you ain't got to keep it real, You

1253
01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 6: got to keep it moving. And this is not an

1254
01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:04,600
Speaker 6: anti hood statement, because all the great things in my

1255
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:08,480
Speaker 6: life is from the hood. I couldn't stay there and

1256
01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:12,560
Speaker 6: elevate at the same time. So Number one, you need

1257
01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:15,200
Speaker 6: to think about that. My boyfriend loves to say I'm

1258
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:18,400
Speaker 6: different than I talk proper when I'm at work. I'm

1259
01:07:18,440 --> 01:07:21,800
Speaker 6: aware that I'm two different people, and I enjoy the progressive.

1260
01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:23,360
Speaker 1: Side of my life more than one. I grew up here.

1261
01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:25,760
Speaker 6: It's because you this time for you to grow up

1262
01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:29,880
Speaker 6: and to move on. Some people are in your life

1263
01:07:29,960 --> 01:07:32,600
Speaker 6: for a season. There are a lot of people in

1264
01:07:32,680 --> 01:07:36,520
Speaker 6: your life that are seasonal people. Everybody come with you

1265
01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:39,280
Speaker 6: can't go with you. You've got to stop trying to

1266
01:07:39,360 --> 01:07:42,240
Speaker 6: hang on to your past when it's thwarting your future.

1267
01:07:43,280 --> 01:07:46,160
Speaker 6: You can't keep hanging out with what you used to

1268
01:07:46,280 --> 01:07:49,920
Speaker 6: be when God has something clearly he wants you to be.

1269
01:07:51,120 --> 01:07:52,880
Speaker 1: But you have the power of choice.

1270
01:07:53,040 --> 01:07:55,240
Speaker 6: So hanging on to what you used to be is

1271
01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:58,360
Speaker 6: prohibiting you from fully reaching the potential.

1272
01:07:58,000 --> 01:07:58,920
Speaker 9: Of what you could be.

1273
01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:02,720
Speaker 6: I'm not ready to walk away from everything that's familiar

1274
01:08:02,800 --> 01:08:06,440
Speaker 6: in my life. Then cool, stay down, thwart your growth,

1275
01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:09,680
Speaker 6: continue not to grow, go to house parties, drank to

1276
01:08:09,760 --> 01:08:12,200
Speaker 6: three o'clock in the morning. They the man that ain't

1277
01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:15,160
Speaker 6: moving forward. That's tripping on you because you different and

1278
01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:17,639
Speaker 6: you enjoy the difference. But you ain't ready to walk

1279
01:08:17,680 --> 01:08:21,040
Speaker 6: away from everything that's familiar with you. If you stay

1280
01:08:21,120 --> 01:08:23,120
Speaker 6: in your comfort zone, that's where you're gonna fail.

1281
01:08:24,840 --> 01:08:26,400
Speaker 7: That's true. Say that again.

1282
01:08:26,560 --> 01:08:29,200
Speaker 6: If you stay in your comfort zone, that's where you

1283
01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:34,360
Speaker 6: will fail. Success is not in your comfort zone. It's

1284
01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:39,040
Speaker 6: on the other side. And if you want to be successful,

1285
01:08:39,280 --> 01:08:42,200
Speaker 6: you got to get out your comfort zone and prepare

1286
01:08:42,280 --> 01:08:43,920
Speaker 6: yourself to get uncomfortable.

1287
01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:49,000
Speaker 1: Am I being a sellout? If I pull out from

1288
01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:49,760
Speaker 1: my friend? Hell?

1289
01:08:49,880 --> 01:08:53,639
Speaker 6: Now, you ain't being a sellout. It's called moved out. Yeah,

1290
01:08:55,160 --> 01:08:57,640
Speaker 6: you ain't nonna sell out. You moved out. Am I

1291
01:08:57,800 --> 01:09:00,880
Speaker 6: supposed to keep waiting for my boyfriend get himself all

1292
01:09:00,920 --> 01:09:04,439
Speaker 6: the way together? Is that way to distance myself respectfully. No,

1293
01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:07,720
Speaker 6: the way you just yourself respectfully is that you you

1294
01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:13,479
Speaker 6: stop hanging with them. Stop, lady, you know them nothing.

1295
01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:18,280
Speaker 6: They're going to say. Keep it real to you. They

1296
01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:19,679
Speaker 6: gonna say you a sellout.

1297
01:09:20,680 --> 01:09:20,840
Speaker 10: All.

1298
01:09:20,920 --> 01:09:23,840
Speaker 6: You can stay there and regret it the rest of

1299
01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:26,439
Speaker 6: your life, or you can go and move on and

1300
01:09:26,520 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 6: see what God has for you.

1301
01:09:28,880 --> 01:09:32,600
Speaker 1: You ain't finna be less black ws.

1302
01:09:32,360 --> 01:09:37,120
Speaker 7: Coming Today's Struwberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram

1303
01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:40,639
Speaker 7: and Facebook. Check out the Pop Struberry Letter podcast on demand.

1304
01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:43,240
Speaker 7: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1305
01:09:45,920 --> 01:09:47,200
Speaker 1: Hey, this is boyd Nephew.

1306
01:09:47,280 --> 01:09:49,599
Speaker 4: Tell me. Entering a new year is the perfect time

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Speaker 4: foot reins, giving you the ability to stop threats in

1310
01:09:59,280 --> 01:10:03,800
Speaker 4: their tracks without deadly forced Bernard is legaling off fifty stations,

1311
01:10:03,880 --> 01:10:06,519
Speaker 4: no background checks, no permits, and the ship's right to

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1315
01:10:16,360 --> 01:10:20,280
Speaker 7: Well, uh, Jay is here. We're so happy when you're

1316
01:10:20,320 --> 01:10:22,840
Speaker 7: here with us. Jay, that means you're healthy and good.

1317
01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:26,760
Speaker 7: Uh and and Jay, I don't know where you find

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Speaker 7: the time, but apparently you've written another book book. What

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Speaker 7: is this your age?

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Speaker 3: That?

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Speaker 1: I mean.

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Speaker 5: Love that love?

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Speaker 9: I love it. But this is this is my newest book.

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Speaker 9: This is my newest book. The name of the book

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Speaker 9: is is very catchy. You'll catch on this.

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Speaker 13: Sometimes ken folks ain't well for damn or you can

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Speaker 13: use the S word. That's the title of.

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Speaker 7: One more Time.

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Speaker 13: Sometimes ken folks ain't worth for damn or you can

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Speaker 13: use the s work. So that's that's the title of

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Speaker 13: the book. And there's several chapters in there that everybody

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Speaker 13: who has kin folks can relate to.

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Speaker 9: In this my new book calls sometimes kin folks say,

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Speaker 9: what damn it?

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Speaker 13: You can use the for a chapter one, just because

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01:11:24,080 --> 01:11:26,439
Speaker 13: you got a big house, they think they can show.

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Speaker 9: Up and stay for free.

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Speaker 1: That's chapter one, Oh man.

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Speaker 13: That that that chapter two, I kind of get into

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Speaker 13: some personal stuff that they think your house is storage.

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01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:41,880
Speaker 13: Let me put something in your garage for a couple

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Speaker 13: of days. I mean it's been in the eight months now,

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Speaker 13: it ain't moved. You know, it's the old good. I

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Speaker 13: don't even know what it is myself. I ain't live

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Speaker 13: it up.

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Speaker 9: I don't know that.

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Speaker 13: Chapter three, Okay, this is if you have a big house. Ah,

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01:11:57,439 --> 01:11:59,920
Speaker 13: ken folks get confused in my new book. Sometimes can

1349
01:12:00,040 --> 01:12:02,320
Speaker 13: folking with for damn? And you can use the S word.

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01:12:02,800 --> 01:12:05,639
Speaker 13: They think they think you're the daddy.

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Speaker 9: What they don't.

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01:12:06,400 --> 01:12:12,680
Speaker 13: Understand is you're the granddaddy, not the daddy'd Yeah, some

1353
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Speaker 13: of those problems personal.

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Speaker 9: This is personal. Some of those problems you need to

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01:12:17,479 --> 01:12:21,600
Speaker 9: go to the daddy, not the granddaddy. You need to

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Speaker 9: go right to the daddy.

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Speaker 13: Okay, Oh listen, chapter if you my book, My new

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01:12:27,760 --> 01:12:30,479
Speaker 13: book calls sometimes ken folks are with for damn or

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01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:31,599
Speaker 13: you can use the S word.

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Speaker 9: You think you're a bad guy if you don't babysit.

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Speaker 9: I don't babysit. Okay.

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Speaker 5: I smoke things.

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Speaker 9: I do things that around kids.

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Speaker 13: And and when you come back, he's gonna have a

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01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:48,639
Speaker 13: whole different attitude if you leave him here.

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Speaker 9: Okay, Henna, he gonna be little, he's gonna be hungry,

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Speaker 9: he's gonna be sleeping.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna come pick up a little.

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Speaker 5: You're gonna do what you do in my new book.

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Speaker 9: In my new book.

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Speaker 13: Sometimes can't puggle with a dam or you can use

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Speaker 13: the S word. They think you are finance coming in.

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01:13:14,360 --> 01:13:18,000
Speaker 13: That's my book. That's several chapters in the NFBL soon.

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01:13:18,520 --> 01:13:20,360
Speaker 13: Sometimes can't pull it with dam, but you can use

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01:13:20,360 --> 01:13:21,719
Speaker 13: the S word. Check it out on a new book.

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01:13:21,800 --> 01:13:23,800
Speaker 7: Yet that's gonna be a best seller.

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Speaker 2: It's no.

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Speaker 7: He love. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:34,280
Speaker 7: Go small with your goals. Seventy five percent of people

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01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:37,320
Speaker 7: make at least one resolution a year, but a new

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01:13:37,400 --> 01:13:40,840
Speaker 7: survey found that respondents would rather kick off their goals

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01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:44,960
Speaker 7: gradually than jump in head first. Almost half of those

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01:13:45,040 --> 01:13:48,599
Speaker 7: surveyed also said they'd rather concentrate on long term goals,

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01:13:48,840 --> 01:13:51,479
Speaker 7: with twenty seven percent saying they wanted to focus on

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01:13:51,600 --> 01:13:55,640
Speaker 7: short term ones. So, Steve, you're a motivational speaker. You

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Speaker 7: motivate people all the time. What do you think should

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01:13:59,280 --> 01:14:02,120
Speaker 7: people continue you to make big resolutions at the first

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01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:05,080
Speaker 7: of the year or should they go small with their goals?

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Speaker 6: I disagree with that one thousand percent. I don't understand.

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01:14:09,000 --> 01:14:13,639
Speaker 6: There's no winning in small. There's no winning in small.

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01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:16,760
Speaker 6: I mean, look, what they're trying to say is but

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01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:20,520
Speaker 6: everything they're saying is preparing you for failure. It's assuming

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01:14:20,640 --> 01:14:22,880
Speaker 6: that ain't no need of you thinking big because you

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01:14:22,920 --> 01:14:25,360
Speaker 6: ain't gonna get big. Now that, right, there is a

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01:14:25,479 --> 01:14:30,560
Speaker 6: negative connotation to me. You know, remember this, aim for

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01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:34,960
Speaker 6: the moon. In case you miss, you'll still be amongst

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01:14:35,000 --> 01:14:38,439
Speaker 6: the stars. But if you aiming for the fire hydrant,

1398
01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:41,240
Speaker 6: then you miss, you down in the damn dirt. See

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01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:44,760
Speaker 6: that's the problem with people passing out advice to people.

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Speaker 6: I'm just against small thinking because it costs you no

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01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:51,920
Speaker 6: more to think big than it does to think small.

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01:14:52,760 --> 01:14:56,320
Speaker 6: If you say Volkswagon and Rose Royce, it don't take

1403
01:14:56,479 --> 01:15:01,400
Speaker 6: no more energy, right, it's Votswagon is Rose Royce. Man, y'all,

1404
01:15:01,680 --> 01:15:06,280
Speaker 6: don't let people convince you to take the small approach,

1405
01:15:07,080 --> 01:15:11,519
Speaker 6: because then all you can ever get is small results.

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01:15:12,439 --> 01:15:14,759
Speaker 6: I'm just not a proponent that. Now, what they're trying

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01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:18,960
Speaker 6: to say is, don't disappoint yourself. You go to it

1408
01:15:19,240 --> 01:15:20,240
Speaker 6: and you don't get it.

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01:15:22,240 --> 01:15:25,880
Speaker 7: Expectation, it's just so high.

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01:15:25,960 --> 01:15:30,400
Speaker 1: Back to me, I just don't like you manage your expectations.

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01:15:33,360 --> 01:15:33,559
Speaker 10: See.

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01:15:33,720 --> 01:15:35,639
Speaker 1: Now, look, either you don't be a person of faith

1413
01:15:35,760 --> 01:15:36,439
Speaker 1: or you ain't.

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01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:41,080
Speaker 10: Give people advice though, how to think big and how

1415
01:15:41,200 --> 01:15:45,040
Speaker 10: to not be not to hold themselves back with that

1416
01:15:45,200 --> 01:15:48,640
Speaker 10: type of thinking if you've never okay, here'll set that

1417
01:15:48,760 --> 01:15:49,920
Speaker 10: kind of goal for yourself.

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01:15:50,040 --> 01:15:50,599
Speaker 4: You know what I mean.

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01:15:51,000 --> 01:15:54,600
Speaker 1: Well, here's here's a deal. Here's something I learned, and

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01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:56,080
Speaker 1: I taught this to myself.

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Speaker 6: It is impossible to think an impossible thought. That's not possible.

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01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:12,280
Speaker 6: It is possible to think an impossible thought. Well, okay,

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01:16:12,439 --> 01:16:13,479
Speaker 6: then how did you think it?

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01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:13,760
Speaker 1: Though?

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01:16:14,800 --> 01:16:19,360
Speaker 6: If it's impossible, how did you think it? And that's

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01:16:19,400 --> 01:16:22,400
Speaker 6: what you've got to incorporate into your thinking. Man, it

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01:16:22,520 --> 01:16:25,320
Speaker 6: is impossible to think about you tell somebody, man, I

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01:16:25,400 --> 01:16:27,920
Speaker 6: had this crazy idea. Man, I don't see how. I

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01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:30,160
Speaker 6: know you don't see how, but I'm telling you I

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01:16:30,479 --> 01:16:34,600
Speaker 6: saw it. And that's how. Imagination is given to you.

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Speaker 6: And what we don't realize as people is that our

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01:16:37,600 --> 01:16:41,519
Speaker 6: imagination is given to us by God. God places what

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01:16:41,680 --> 01:16:46,519
Speaker 6: he has for you in your imagination. Albert Einstein once said,

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01:16:46,600 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 6: imagination is everything. It's the preview to life's coming attractions.

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Speaker 6: That's just a fact. So what God does is he

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01:16:56,200 --> 01:16:59,440
Speaker 6: places the life he has for you in your imagination.

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01:17:00,000 --> 01:17:03,160
Speaker 6: The problem we have is we tell our imagination to

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01:17:03,280 --> 01:17:05,840
Speaker 6: the wrong people. Because if you want to kill a

1439
01:17:05,880 --> 01:17:09,560
Speaker 6: big dream, tell it to a small minded person. And

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01:17:09,920 --> 01:17:13,200
Speaker 6: all of us have done that. God has shown us

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01:17:13,280 --> 01:17:16,280
Speaker 6: something incredible in our imagination. We took it to our

1442
01:17:16,360 --> 01:17:18,680
Speaker 6: friends and loved ones and they shot it down. I

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01:17:18,760 --> 01:17:21,680
Speaker 6: don't see how you gonna do that. Well, I know

1444
01:17:21,880 --> 01:17:25,160
Speaker 6: you don't see it because God didn't show it to you.

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01:17:25,880 --> 01:17:29,760
Speaker 6: He showed it to me. And I'm gonna trust on

1446
01:17:29,920 --> 01:17:33,600
Speaker 6: that fact. Right there. If I thought small, there's no

1447
01:17:33,760 --> 01:17:37,640
Speaker 6: way I get here today. All you got to do

1448
01:17:37,800 --> 01:17:39,880
Speaker 6: is start thinking big. Does a book I recommend to

1449
01:17:39,920 --> 01:17:44,080
Speaker 6: everybody by David Schwartz David Schultz, The Magic of Thinking Big.

1450
01:17:44,360 --> 01:17:47,280
Speaker 6: Go buy that book. It's all written off. All self

1451
01:17:47,320 --> 01:17:49,719
Speaker 6: help books have written off concepts of the Bible. Anyway,

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01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:52,160
Speaker 6: a man is as he thinks. If you think you're small,

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01:17:52,200 --> 01:17:53,360
Speaker 6: you're fit to be small.

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Speaker 7: I love it, all right, Thank you, you are a

1455
01:17:57,560 --> 01:17:58,679
Speaker 7: motivational speaker.

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Speaker 2: Good morning.

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Speaker 7: This is Shirley Strawberry and Tims the season for happiness

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01:18:04,560 --> 01:18:09,400
Speaker 7: and love and giving and family, Happy Holidays from the

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Speaker 7: Steve Harvey Morning Shows. All right, so do you guys

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Speaker 7: love spicy food.

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Speaker 1: I like, yeah.

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01:18:15,920 --> 01:18:16,719
Speaker 5: I don't like hot.

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01:18:16,920 --> 01:18:18,160
Speaker 7: I don't like hot hot hot.

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01:18:18,200 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 1: I like that, and there's a difference.

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01:18:19,760 --> 01:18:23,519
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah. According to a survey by Frank's Red

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Speaker 7: Hot Sauce, people who like things hot see themselves as

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01:18:28,080 --> 01:18:30,439
Speaker 7: hot and more attractive than others.

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01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:35,160
Speaker 1: Is that true? See, I see myself as spicy. I

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01:18:35,200 --> 01:18:40,720
Speaker 1: don't see that. I think I'm spicy. I don't know hot.

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Speaker 1: I don't think. I think I'm very spicy.

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Speaker 10: I don't like my food where I can't enjoy it.

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01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:51,200
Speaker 10: You know, if it's too hot hot, you know it's spicy.

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01:18:51,520 --> 01:18:53,479
Speaker 10: Now I'm married to a man from New Orleans, so

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01:18:53,800 --> 01:18:56,559
Speaker 10: everything has to be spicy.

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01:18:56,640 --> 01:18:59,240
Speaker 1: I mean spicy ice cream, I mean everything.

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01:19:00,080 --> 01:19:01,800
Speaker 3: You know, you.

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01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:04,800
Speaker 7: Never know when the water is now, I'd be like,

1478
01:19:06,360 --> 01:19:08,160
Speaker 7: everything has to be spicy.

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Speaker 3: I'm me.

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01:19:10,240 --> 01:19:11,320
Speaker 7: Does he think he's hot?

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01:19:12,080 --> 01:19:13,800
Speaker 3: Okay, well he just sees us.

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01:19:14,280 --> 01:19:15,439
Speaker 7: He just proved our point.

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01:19:15,479 --> 01:19:16,639
Speaker 5: Then the point of the story.

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01:19:16,720 --> 01:19:17,439
Speaker 3: He just proved it.

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01:19:17,520 --> 01:19:20,599
Speaker 7: The survey also showed that the hot people see themselves

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Speaker 7: as adventurous, creative, and confident too. So does that describe

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01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:30,240
Speaker 7: Tosh absolutely junior hot or spicy?

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01:19:30,760 --> 01:19:34,200
Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm spicy I'm spicy, you know. I can't

1489
01:19:34,800 --> 01:19:35,000
Speaker 1: like that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I like spicy foods, you know, but because you

1491
01:19:37,840 --> 01:19:39,240
Speaker 6: gotta have flavor into spicy.

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01:19:39,360 --> 01:19:42,320
Speaker 1: Yes, that best thing. I like that hot with my

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01:19:42,400 --> 01:19:44,600
Speaker 1: mop on. Fine, give me some water. I'm not doing that.

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01:19:44,760 --> 01:19:45,439
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that.

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01:19:45,880 --> 01:19:48,599
Speaker 7: But you're supposed to drink milk, they say, not even whatever.

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Speaker 7: All right, thank you you, and you're coming up more

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Speaker 7: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show at thirty three minutes after.

1498
01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:55,439
Speaker 7: We'll play around him. Would you rather? Right after this?

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Speaker 7: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. I'm not

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Speaker 7: all in one place. All right, guys, it is time

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Speaker 7: for another round of would you rather? Okay, okay, would

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01:20:32,160 --> 01:20:35,560
Speaker 7: you rather? Since it's wintertime, would you rather do it

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01:20:35,760 --> 01:20:37,599
Speaker 7: in thirty two degree weather?

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01:20:38,800 --> 01:20:39,479
Speaker 1: Or would you do it?

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01:20:39,760 --> 01:20:41,800
Speaker 7: Rather do it in one hundred degree weather?

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01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:43,240
Speaker 1: Would you rather do it?

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01:20:44,720 --> 01:20:45,120
Speaker 2: Just do it?

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01:20:45,160 --> 01:20:45,920
Speaker 7: Excuse me, junior?

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01:20:46,000 --> 01:20:46,360
Speaker 6: What was that?

1518
01:20:46,520 --> 01:20:48,120
Speaker 1: I'd rather do it? Okay?

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01:20:48,200 --> 01:20:49,240
Speaker 3: What is.

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01:20:51,000 --> 01:20:55,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with that? That hunt that heat? Okay,

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01:20:56,280 --> 01:20:57,639
Speaker 1: he's trying to say, so if it's.

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Speaker 6: A lot more effort required, Yeah, get that cold, boy,

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01:21:04,640 --> 01:21:13,479
Speaker 6: you got men got a special problem in that cold. Yeah, yeah,

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01:21:13,680 --> 01:21:24,880
Speaker 6: that probably ain't gonna happen. Certain I'm telling you right now.

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01:21:24,920 --> 01:21:28,320
Speaker 6: It's certain things. You can't even cool air can't hit

1526
01:21:28,439 --> 01:21:32,400
Speaker 6: certain partsies. You be like a turtle in a shell.

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Speaker 5: Around going on here.

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01:21:41,200 --> 01:21:45,280
Speaker 7: It's cold, all right, So one hundred but one hundred

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01:21:45,320 --> 01:21:46,479
Speaker 7: degrees that's super hot.

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Speaker 1: That's all right. That's sorry, we deal with that. Were

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01:21:49,000 --> 01:21:55,960
Speaker 1: just none wronging hot? Yeah? Just rest and cut that

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01:21:56,080 --> 01:21:56,880
Speaker 1: center fan off.

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Speaker 6: Let me ask you something, why you think it ain't

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Speaker 6: that many eskimos?

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01:22:03,200 --> 01:22:05,439
Speaker 1: How many eskimos? Is it out hard to find a

1536
01:22:05,479 --> 01:22:06,599
Speaker 1: ass every nine?

1537
01:22:06,680 --> 01:22:06,840
Speaker 15: Then?

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01:22:07,120 --> 01:22:13,880
Speaker 1: How many eskimos? Lem? Honey, nothing home black and no

1539
01:22:14,080 --> 01:22:14,839
Speaker 1: black eskimo?

1540
01:22:19,000 --> 01:22:19,320
Speaker 2: All right?

1541
01:22:20,320 --> 01:22:24,120
Speaker 1: Movie, we had eleven thousand lived in Garden Valley projects.

1542
01:22:27,080 --> 01:22:30,320
Speaker 7: All right, keeping with that same kind of theme, would

1543
01:22:30,360 --> 01:22:33,720
Speaker 7: you rather cuddle in the morning or would you rather

1544
01:22:33,840 --> 01:22:39,240
Speaker 7: cuddle at night? I know, I know how men are

1545
01:22:39,360 --> 01:22:40,759
Speaker 7: with the cuddling situation.

1546
01:22:41,840 --> 01:22:46,080
Speaker 1: Cuddling to get off me. I'm not.

1547
01:22:48,840 --> 01:22:49,519
Speaker 5: Under a degree.

1548
01:22:51,479 --> 01:22:53,760
Speaker 1: Why do we have a king size bed if we're

1549
01:22:53,800 --> 01:22:56,599
Speaker 1: not gonna use the spread? Get on your.

1550
01:22:58,240 --> 01:23:04,040
Speaker 7: My side, Junior. Haven't heard from you on this one.

1551
01:23:05,160 --> 01:23:06,000
Speaker 1: I'm not cutting it?

1552
01:23:07,200 --> 01:23:09,720
Speaker 3: What now? What? What?

1553
01:23:10,080 --> 01:23:10,880
Speaker 5: We just got through?

1554
01:23:10,960 --> 01:23:12,720
Speaker 1: Touching? Touch the more?

1555
01:23:13,720 --> 01:23:13,760
Speaker 3: What?

1556
01:23:14,000 --> 01:23:16,200
Speaker 1: June? You have to cut off some time because it's

1557
01:23:16,240 --> 01:23:17,439
Speaker 1: a required.

1558
01:23:21,240 --> 01:23:21,800
Speaker 10: He has to.

1559
01:23:21,960 --> 01:23:22,240
Speaker 3: Steve.

1560
01:23:22,439 --> 01:23:24,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I try to. I try to make her hot.

1561
01:23:26,720 --> 01:23:27,080
Speaker 2: All right.

1562
01:23:28,000 --> 01:23:30,160
Speaker 7: We'll be back to close out the show at forty

1563
01:23:30,240 --> 01:23:32,280
Speaker 7: nine minutes after the hour, and we'll get some closing

1564
01:23:32,360 --> 01:23:35,040
Speaker 7: remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.

1565
01:23:35,920 --> 01:23:37,400
Speaker 1: Lots people, this is Kirk Franklin.

1566
01:23:37,479 --> 01:23:38,599
Speaker 7: Hey, this is Shaka Kahan.

1567
01:23:38,680 --> 01:23:39,120
Speaker 2: What's going on?

1568
01:23:39,240 --> 01:23:40,320
Speaker 9: This is your boy Kevin Hart.

1569
01:23:40,320 --> 01:23:41,600
Speaker 10: Hey, this is Chloe Kardashian.

1570
01:23:41,720 --> 01:23:43,439
Speaker 1: This is your boy, Sandy Entertainer.

1571
01:23:43,560 --> 01:23:44,799
Speaker 7: This is your line to Adams.

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01:23:45,000 --> 01:23:47,040
Speaker 6: Good morning, This is your man, Steve Harvey. Have a

1573
01:23:47,080 --> 01:23:50,240
Speaker 6: happy end, a safe holiday. From The Steve Harvey Morning Show.