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Speaker 2: like Luterian, where did you bring me?

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Speaker 3: Thanks for watching, guys. Today's episode is brought to you

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Speaker 3: by Boost Mobile. Most people spend their whole lives looking

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Speaker 3: for somebody who truly knows them, who truly gets them.

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Speaker 3: These two were born with that. They came up together,

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Speaker 3: trained together, became two of the most recognized women in

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Speaker 3: the history of professional wrestling, two time Divas Champions, WWE

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Speaker 3: Hall of Famers, reality TV stars, entrepreneurs, mothers, and now

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Speaker 3: they are back in the ring for what they say

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Speaker 3: is the final time.

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Speaker 2: It is the final fru.

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Speaker 4: Nikki and Bribella.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, Hello, Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 3: One of the reasons I'm so excited today. I've never

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Speaker 2: Oh really, you're about to get weirded out.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm so excited her.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm excited about that because I I have questions,

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Speaker 3: because I think your life experience is so much different

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, yes, I mean even something as simple

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Speaker 1: So I feel like at a young age, having those

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Speaker 4: Oh, got it?

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Speaker 3: But there has to be another side to that, these

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well your parents did a great job. Yes, what

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Speaker 2: I'm in different classes. Really, I think you need that

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Speaker 1: My mom was like, oh okay, and then instantly you

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Speaker 3: So that's great advice though, then, yeah, is to let

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Speaker 3: It's not a thing you think women are.

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Speaker 2: Now, yes, but not that yes now because this is

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Speaker 4: But I mean then totally.

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Speaker 1: And this is before social media when we got into it.

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Speaker 2: But your fans yes, well and Nikki and I.

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Speaker 1: It's funny because it goes back to yes, we were

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Speaker 2: And we'd always watch the wrestling, like the pay per views. Well,

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Speaker 2: even how we got drawn to Hooters was crazy, and

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Speaker 2: we were like when we heard that, we were like

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Speaker 4: Well, and so we didn't even know what you were

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no. We got like big padded bras

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Speaker 2: It was like why I look back and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: Well then we saw a couple of years you know,

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Speaker 2: You showed up and.

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Speaker 1: You you actually had no idea what was going to happen.

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Speaker 1: But in our heads were like, Okay, I'm Breezy for Sheazy,

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Speaker 2: So you know we're going to show up, We're gonna

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Speaker 2: But it was ever done that before they wrestled each other,

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Speaker 2: I literally was just prepared, I guess to do it.

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Speaker 2: You would just down for web down. And then when

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Speaker 2: and like then they're like cut a promo and your sister,

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Speaker 2: I'm like what It was way different, way different. I

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Speaker 2: They're like what was that? It was just crazy, But

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Speaker 1: We were just like, Okay, that was weird. But she

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Speaker 1: she was like, listen, they can get like that like

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Speaker 1: She's like, we can fight out to one of the

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Speaker 1: And so we went to mcdonne and Georgia, which is

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Speaker 1: so fun. We were watching everyone train. They were kind

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Speaker 4: Calling at the same time, oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's you know, we saw from day one

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Speaker 2: worlds collide like everything we ever wanted growing up as kids.

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Speaker 2: We're like, it's here, and it's crazy. We've been hooked

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Speaker 2: it's the most magical place ever. There's nothing like it

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Speaker 4: And you still love it.

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Speaker 2: I still still love it. Last night watching a Madison

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Speaker 2: I'm like, see, this is what I love. This is

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Speaker 2: what I meant. It's a circus. I love it.

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Speaker 3: It's so what does this moment feel like that that

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Speaker 4: It's like a it's a big pivot, it's a big

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Speaker 2: It is huge life tit or sweet. It's one of those.

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Speaker 2: We knew we had one more run in us and

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Speaker 2: we really wanted our kids to see us two. But

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Speaker 1: It feels different and you're you know, getting in the

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Speaker 1: But for her and I, we've always wanted to go

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Speaker 2: Well and it hits like for me, I was actually

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Speaker 2: only going to have so many more of these moments left.

438
00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:46,479
Speaker 2: I go, is it not crazy how fast life has

439
00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:51,520
Speaker 2: gone by? When I think of us starting twenty three, Like,

440
00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:56,160
Speaker 2: it just seems like I never would have thought twenty

441
00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:59,240
Speaker 2: years would have gone by this fast. Yeah, And I

442
00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:01,919
Speaker 2: just it kind of hits me different to think that

443
00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,960
Speaker 2: when this is done, it's not just because like, oh,

444
00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:08,199
Speaker 2: it's just a career. I'm like, no, it's life, it's age,

445
00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:11,160
Speaker 2: it's a new era. It's just that time.

446
00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:13,400
Speaker 3: It's interesting when I'm hearing you tell a story because

447
00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:15,960
Speaker 3: I think a lot of women, like you know, age

448
00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,479
Speaker 3: is a thing for a lot of women, especially when

449
00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:20,919
Speaker 3: you're in a pivot. Yeah, it's gonna be scary, Like

450
00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:23,000
Speaker 3: what do I do next? Am I gonna be okay?

451
00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,439
Speaker 3: In this next phase? Are all the things I'm planning?

452
00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,840
Speaker 3: Going to work out? What is the next phase of

453
00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:31,919
Speaker 3: my life look like? Or just even struggling with getting

454
00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:34,800
Speaker 3: you know, getting older right and not being twenty three anymore?

455
00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:37,159
Speaker 2: Like I try not to fall into certain insecurities, but

456
00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:39,720
Speaker 2: when you're like wrestling half naked on TV, it's like

457
00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:42,520
Speaker 2: you can't help it. And a birth child and actually

458
00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:46,760
Speaker 2: birth the child. Yeah, it's like you know, well, it's.

459
00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:48,760
Speaker 1: Even like last night, I'm like, am I wrinkles showing?

460
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:50,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, do I am I dressed like a mom?

461
00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:52,320
Speaker 1: Before we're like going out, We're like, no.

462
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:54,479
Speaker 2: We look hot for forty two. You need to stop this.

463
00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:57,240
Speaker 2: You can't tell you know. That's where age can be

464
00:20:57,320 --> 00:21:00,119
Speaker 2: like a little difficult. But also what's great is what

465
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,439
Speaker 2: I've realized having you is we get to be so present,

466
00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:06,720
Speaker 2: which is so important, especially for us women when we're

467
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,600
Speaker 2: hitting these different eras and it's about age. It's so

468
00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:13,159
Speaker 2: important to stay like present because then we're gonna look

469
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 2: at photos of us now in ten years.

470
00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,840
Speaker 4: And be like, I appreciate that more sure.

471
00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:20,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, why didn't.

472
00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:22,960
Speaker 1: I look at so many photos from my twenties and

473
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:25,879
Speaker 1: I remember being in my twenties those photos, not happy

474
00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:26,240
Speaker 1: with them.

475
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:27,360
Speaker 4: Why do we do that?

476
00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:30,240
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, And I'm like mad at myself. I

477
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:32,240
Speaker 2: buy smaller in jeans. Who cares?

478
00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:33,119
Speaker 4: Everybody does that?

479
00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,879
Speaker 3: I think everyone does that, and then you see it

480
00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:37,400
Speaker 3: later and you go, god.

481
00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:38,680
Speaker 2: I was I looked good?

482
00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:41,600
Speaker 4: Yeah? Pet was tight?

483
00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:45,960
Speaker 2: I miss I miss I like no circles under my

484
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:48,760
Speaker 2: ead Like wow, oh my god?

485
00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:51,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, does it feel like the end of an era

486
00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:54,200
Speaker 3: for you guys like that, does I mean is there

487
00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:55,360
Speaker 3: sadness in that too?

488
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:55,560
Speaker 5: Is?

489
00:21:55,720 --> 00:22:00,760
Speaker 2: Oh? Bit sure? Because I mean the Bellet Twins raised

490
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 2: us like that's we became them, which is crazy, but

491
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 2: we grew up in this industry and when that door closes,

492
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:11,720
Speaker 2: it's that's going to be crazy because all the especially

493
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:13,560
Speaker 2: the past eight years, it's always been like when are

494
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,480
Speaker 2: you making the comeback? And what are the Beli Twins

495
00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:18,320
Speaker 2: getting back in the ring? And when this door shuts,

496
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:21,960
Speaker 2: that will no longer be a question anymore. Right, It'll

497
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 2: be behind you, It'll be behind us.

498
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 4: Right.

499
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:24,879
Speaker 2: That's kind of wild.

500
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think too it just shows you, you

501
00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:31,119
Speaker 1: know that life like we're just we're getting to that

502
00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 1: point of getting older, but in a different way, like

503
00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:38,200
Speaker 1: where it's like you can really let go of something

504
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:40,639
Speaker 1: and be like Okay, onto the next chapter, and you

505
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 1: start to realize your book is having a lot of chapters,

506
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 1: be having happy hour talking about premenopause.

507
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:53,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, you retirees, I'm sure there's a lot still on

508
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 3: your list of things to do.

509
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 2: That's the one thing with that. Our goal is at

510
00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 2: fifty to be retired from like social media world that

511
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:04,400
Speaker 2: is our goal. By then we want to be off

512
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 2: everything and strictly be in our entrepreneur era where it

513
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 2: doesn't matter about the face of it. We just feel

514
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 2: like it's a great place to disconnect. But I mean

515
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 2: the Nicky and Bree show, our podcasts, like we've been

516
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 2: eight years.

517
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:21,119
Speaker 4: Now, Wow has it been a year?

518
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 2: And it's like our bread and butter, and we love

519
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 2: it and we love the people we get to have

520
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 2: conversations with and all the things we get to learn

521
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 2: and where we get to take it. We've been taking

522
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:34,479
Speaker 2: it to events that will continue on and that's become

523
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 2: really our thing. And we're wine makers and we love

524
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,160
Speaker 2: wine making like we really really.

525
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 1: Do and love wine too, and oh yeah we It

526
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 1: was funny because just being on the road, I was like,

527
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,119
Speaker 1: our wine brand's thriving and really busy right now. But

528
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,439
Speaker 1: yesterday I'm like in makeup and I'm like, oh gosh,

529
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 1: my lawyers like can you sign this? We need this

530
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:56,119
Speaker 1: license for this state. And I just started to realize

531
00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 1: I'm like my emails like keeping up on everything.

532
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,359
Speaker 2: I was just like, oh, really, she probably apologized to

533
00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 2: me for the past year of all the times you

534
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:07,640
Speaker 2: gave me hardship on like, oh my gosh, you don't

535
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,640
Speaker 2: get back to this quick enough. You don't do this,

536
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,360
Speaker 2: so it's something you were gone like so no, no, no,

537
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 2: it was not what we've been doing. You heard her?

538
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 4: Do you? Guys?

539
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:21,399
Speaker 2: Really we're Lucy and Ethel do you?

540
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 4: But is there moments where we physically.

541
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 2: Thought when we were younger but then we stopped? Don't?

542
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 3: Well, not physically, but I mean like really, like is

543
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:33,160
Speaker 3: your banter like always light like that?

544
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 4: Like if she gets on your nerves, is it a

545
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:35,920
Speaker 4: light banter?

546
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,159
Speaker 2: Or do you ever have I mean we've had a

547
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 2: few homes which I feel like now it's like text

548
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,360
Speaker 2: exchange and then we we've become bigger.

549
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 3: People because I can't imagine you guys really like tying

550
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 3: each other, like if you've got I don't know if

551
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:51,479
Speaker 3: there's ever a separation, if there's ever a distance in

552
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,679
Speaker 3: between you or do you not let that happen?

553
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 2: No?

554
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 1: We do, because I feel like sometimes I know we

555
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,720
Speaker 1: both need the break, but sometimes I can get overwhelmed

556
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:04,199
Speaker 1: really easy for break second day well I know, but

557
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 1: still and like she can the chaos are going, going

558
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,639
Speaker 1: and going, and I'm like I need to go to

559
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 1: my garden and I'm just like I need a time out.

560
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 3: You look like from each other or just from something

561
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 3: going on, because I.

562
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 1: Feel like we're so busy all the time and you

563
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 1: work together to yes, so I feel you need our space.

564
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:25,199
Speaker 2: How do we're good at that?

565
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 4: Though?

566
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:28,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're laughing at me because I'm not because I'm single,

567
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 2: only because I'm single.

568
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 4: How does that go? How's that going?

569
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 2: Well? I mean not great? Well. The good thing is

570
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 2: I love being single.

571
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 4: I love like tell me why.

572
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 2: I just love my space. I love how I do

573
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 2: my routines. I love my aesthetic of my home now

574
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 2: of just like it's me and my son. I just

575
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 2: love all the things. And I couldn't imagine someone in

576
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:02,439
Speaker 2: that space now. And I love like the peacefulness of

577
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 2: it dating just at times, you know, I think it's

578
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 2: because I'm busy and my son's five, so I'm like

579
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,160
Speaker 2: in it as a mom. It just seems like it's

580
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 2: so much like it's added to the list. It's like

581
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,439
Speaker 2: not a fun thing. It's just like this is like

582
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 2: another thing. But it's also probably because I haven't met

583
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,920
Speaker 2: the person who's made me like want to make space

584
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:24,200
Speaker 2: for that. Yeah. That on the other hand. It just

585
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,440
Speaker 2: seems like it's slim pickens out there. If you want,

586
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 2: like a man man.

587
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 4: Like, are you trying to put any effort into it?

588
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 4: Is it's not a priority for you. I guess that

589
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:32,959
Speaker 4: right now.

590
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, you haven't really put effort into it. I haven't,

591
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 2: but I keep my eyes open. Last thing, will did

592
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 2: you pick for her?

593
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:40,680
Speaker 4: Oh?

594
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 2: I yeah, I want to. We're at the bar and

595
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 2: I saw someone and is shoe into the restrooms so

596
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 2: she can make like a walk back to like look

597
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 2: at him, and she was, oh, yeah, he's I'm like right,

598
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 2: So we made eye contact and then he came over

599
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: and he starts talking and then the one of the

600
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:59,159
Speaker 2: first things he says, he's like, yeah, I moved from

601
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 2: this place. There was all these divorces with their own

602
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 2: baggage of kids or made it like kids. It's like

603
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 2: with their kids, Like I'm going to take on that baggage. Yeah.

604
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 2: I was like, I literally kicked her on the table. Yeah.

605
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:12,120
Speaker 2: We're like, I'm like, why would he say?

606
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 1: What a weird thing to say? But I was like,

607
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 1: thank you for that wasting our time?

608
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:20,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, like bye, And I loved it because as

609
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:22,239
Speaker 2: we were walking out his friend who was with him goes,

610
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:23,439
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, Beli twins.

611
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:23,640
Speaker 5: Hey.

612
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 2: We're like hey, and I'm like, I can't wait for

613
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 2: his friend to film in about the divorcee with I.

614
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 1: Felt bad And I'm like, you're in here dissing divorces.

615
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 1: You're talking about the miners. Like, I'm like, Nicole, no, oh, no,

616
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 1: I knew, Yeah I.

617
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 2: Wasn't you know what I mean?

618
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 3: Do you get involved in each other's relationships.

619
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 2: It's hard because she's my husband's trying to push me

620
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:50,160
Speaker 2: out more just so she could live through me. Yeah.

621
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 1: I want to be your wing woman, of course. But

622
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 1: my husband's really great with her, like she's our third

623
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 1: Week's amazing. We're about to go where April eleven will

624
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: be celebrating our well twelve years of marriage, which is awesome. Yeah,

625
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 1: and so I've been really blessed.

626
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:10,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's incredible. She's lucky. She's a man man, but

627
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 2: he has empathy and he can be sensitive but not

628
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,360
Speaker 2: too sensitive. Well, sometimes you guys can be a little sensitive,

629
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,880
Speaker 2: but well they animals in the planet because you get

630
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,639
Speaker 2: so tough and then the poor guy can get super sensitive.

631
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:28,920
Speaker 2: But wow, but I always tell her, I go girl,

632
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 2: you're so lucky because I'm seeing that's out there, which

633
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 2: I know there's great men out there. I just don't

634
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:36,880
Speaker 2: think it's the right time for you. I just want

635
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 2: a cow He doesn't have to look like a cowboy,

636
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 2: but I need like a man, like a cowboy, you

637
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 2: know what I mean.

638
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 4: You're a wrestler, so you need a guy.

639
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 2: Make me feel feminine. Yes, yeah, so you need to

640
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 2: have rugged hands, not a better manicure than me. You

641
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 2: need to just I.

642
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 4: Don't know, you know, I know she knows everything.

643
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 2: She knows everything.

644
00:28:57,760 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 3: What is that like when she's going through a hard

645
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 3: time or even through like divorce, watching your sister go

646
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 3: through that, what is that like?

647
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 2: Oh? That was that was very hard on me.

648
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: And it's because I become the protector and I.

649
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 4: Can be It's funny you say it was hard on me.

650
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 2: Oh did I?

651
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 4: Yeah?

652
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 2: Because yeah, because it was.

653
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sure I.

654
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 1: Felt like I could and that we go back to

655
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: that twin thing where I felt like I could feel

656
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 1: a lot of what she was going through, the anxieties,

657
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 1: the sadness, all the stuff. So I felt like it

658
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 1: lays on me as well because I can feel that,

659
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 1: and then I can be like a huge bitch. So

660
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 1: like then I become that protector bitch and then that

661
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 1: takes a lot of energy to you know, have to

662
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: fight all the fights.

663
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 2: I know, she was like in hard like I like

664
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 2: and her therapy because yeah, you know I did. I

665
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 2: deled up on my.

666
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:45,720
Speaker 4: Well.

667
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,959
Speaker 1: And also we're in business together, so that it's like

668
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: I wanted her to step away to concentrate on him.

669
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 2: She let me disconnect from everything, just focus on my

670
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 2: son and myself.

671
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: Right, But you know then I took on a lot

672
00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: and I'm still you know, a mom and a wife

673
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 1: and like so yeah, it was it was hard.

674
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 2: It was a lot, but it was fine. You know,

675
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 2: it's good. We both grew from it. We did, thank god.

676
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 3: That's interesting that you probably both grow from what the other.

677
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:20,200
Speaker 3: Like every experience that you have, for you grow from.

678
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 5: Right.

679
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 1: For sure, yesterday's like you seem like the oldest, and

680
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 1: I go, yeah, because I got so much wisdom from

681
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 1: all her mistakes.

682
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 2: Honestly, she's so lucky. I learned from all of them.

683
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 3: Do you have a look at her marriage and and

684
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:39,239
Speaker 3: try to figure out what she's doing right or what

685
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 3: she did right or maybe with the.

686
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 2: Picked say if she picked right, I shouldn't have picked

687
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 2: for passion and sexiness. I'm not saying that Brian's passion

688
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 2: that was great. Meaning you guys connected off of museums

689
00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 2: and earthly things at first, Like you know what it

690
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 2: was is we built a friendship first, Yes, and exactly

691
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 2: good way to put it.

692
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 4: That's a better way to put it.

693
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 2: Yes, And I think two.

694
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 1: I I mean, I'll say I went through a bad

695
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 1: breakup before meeting him, and in that breakup, what I

696
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 1: realized were all the things I didn't want in a man,

697
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 1: and so I became super picky. And and I didn't

698
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: apologize for being super picky. And I just I think,

699
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 1: you know, having boundaries and sticking to what I knew.

700
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 2: I also looked to.

701
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 1: It was like when I was dating and getting serious,

702
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 1: I was looking at men of like would they be

703
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: a good father too? Like it was more than just like, oh,

704
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 1: this fun dating thing. I was looking beyond it all.

705
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:41,719
Speaker 1: And so but I do I feel like you need

706
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 1: to have a friendship and really get deep with someone

707
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 1: before you take it to the next level.

708
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 2: Well, I thought I had that.

709
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 4: What have you learned about yourself? Well, like if you

710
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 4: were to do it again, what would you.

711
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,239
Speaker 2: I The one thing I've learned is I think your

712
00:31:57,360 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 2: time slow down, yeah, and just really dissect the red flag,

713
00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 2: like when if you trust your gut. I think I've

714
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 2: learned that more than anything, Like your instinct is always right.

715
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 2: You can't fix anyone. I think we go into things

716
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 2: and right and we just want to fix them and

717
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 2: we hear him or hear or him or hurt whatever

718
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 2: it is, but like we want to fix them, and

719
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 2: it's like we can't fix them. They have to want

720
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 2: to fix themselves. And if you already like that from

721
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 2: the beginning, it's just not going to work. And those

722
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 2: are the things I think I've learned the most. Took

723
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 2: me a few times, but now I've realized, like, whatever

724
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 2: it is in the beginning, that is what it is,

725
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 2: and that's what it's going to be. And so if

726
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 2: you like it, go with it, but don't.

727
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 1: Not everyone's perfect in relationship, Like there's no perfect relationship.

728
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 1: So I think too looking at people's weaknesses in a

729
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 1: relationship and being able to be like can I marry that,

730
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 1: like right, because it's not like it ever fully goes away.

731
00:32:56,760 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 2: Right, And having no expectations expectations I mean, that's just

732
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 2: setting yourself up for failure. And that's whether like it's

733
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 2: in your dreams and goals or in a relationship. But

734
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 2: I just feel expectations really set yourself up for failure.

735
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 3: But we should have some expectations, right, we should expect

736
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:15,479
Speaker 3: what we need.

737
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 4: And I don't know.

738
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 2: I agree, right, Like, I feel like you have to

739
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 2: see that in the beginning idea, you.

740
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 4: Can't with the potential and that what it is.

741
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 2: I'd always fall in love with the potential, and I

742
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 2: mean one was one of my loves was just like

743
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 2: timing in life wasn't right the other ones. Yeah, the

744
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 2: potential wasn't just wasn't happened.

745
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 4: But you seem okay, so good.

746
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I've learned so much in life, and

747
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 2: I think I've just accepted that. You know, this is

748
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 2: just me. I've been on this roller coaster for so long.

749
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 2: But you bounce well, be I bounce back well. And

750
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 2: I have to give my sister so much credit that

751
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 2: her letting me disconnect for three months and me just

752
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:08,319
Speaker 2: taking it straight on mentally and physically, and like when

753
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:09,879
Speaker 2: I went through it mentally and I had a great

754
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 2: team behind me too. That was really protecting me too

755
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 2: and with me every day, talking to me. My life

756
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 2: coach scepted in even more so. It's like your support

757
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 2: group is so important. But I took sugar and alcohol

758
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 2: out of my diet anything that changes the mood. I

759
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 2: wanted to feel everything for three months and just heal

760
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 2: it and go through it. What do you mean, like

761
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 2: like after when my divorce was going on, I just

762
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:36,399
Speaker 2: wanted to take it all.

763
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 4: You cut out sugar, cut out.

764
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 2: Sugar, alcohol. I was mainly drinking bone broth. I have

765
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 2: the nutrients in my body so high.

766
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 3: Wow.

767
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 2: Because even like she was picking about the music she

768
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 2: was listening.

769
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, so you were in like self care mode.

770
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it would be like full gospel. Like if

771
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 2: I wasn't hearing the word of God, I don't want

772
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 2: to hear anything.

773
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:56,400
Speaker 5: Wow.

774
00:34:56,600 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 2: Yeah. I went deep and honestly I had hard, hard

775
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:04,359
Speaker 2: nights and just like this is my life. I mean

776
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:05,800
Speaker 2: I left all the way, had I loss. It looked

777
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 2: really good. Never we'll get back there ever again. And

778
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, how does that happen?

779
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 4: Yeah?

780
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 2: But but you didn't sit in that.

781
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:16,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, You're not somebody that sits in it. And no,

782
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 3: like just even from what you're telling me. I could

783
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:22,839
Speaker 3: hear that you like, did you were working through it?

784
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 2: Working through it?

785
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 4: Yeah?

786
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:26,839
Speaker 2: Well, it's you know, life is a constant work. And

787
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 2: I've been working on myself very strong for what the

788
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 2: past I want to say, maybe eight years where really

789
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:35,400
Speaker 2: and I realized that this is why we always have

790
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 2: to do the work on ourselves, because we get into

791
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 2: moments like this and we know how to handle them.

792
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 2: Doesn't mean they're not going to be hard, but we're

793
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 2: going to know how to get through them. We're not

794
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 2: going to be victims. We're going to get there and

795
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,399
Speaker 2: we're going to cleanse this pain out of us. We're

796
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:48,879
Speaker 2: going to get through it, and we're going to grow

797
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 2: stronger and survive.

798
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,799
Speaker 3: That's interesting though, because I've never really heard somebody talk

799
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:57,839
Speaker 3: about getting through whether it's divorced or loss or any

800
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 3: type of grief period in their life by actually like detoxy.

801
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 2: Yeah right, they got to detox.

802
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 4: It and and it does what to you what is

803
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 4: you're just you.

804
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:09,839
Speaker 2: Know, our soul holds on to things right, and you're

805
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 2: just so clean and pure and you're just taking it

806
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 2: in so purely. Well, I think it helps with the

807
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 2: energy too, and the energy and you know, you sit,

808
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 2: you sit there and you you process things. Different things

809
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 2: become so clear and feeling, just like.

810
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:27,800
Speaker 4: Giving up sugar.

811
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:31,320
Speaker 1: And we'll just think too, if you consume too much sugar,

812
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:33,839
Speaker 1: too much alcohol, how you feel. And then if you're

813
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 1: going through a hard moment in your life, it's just

814
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 1: the downward spiral. And I think that's how people hit

815
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 1: rock bottom. It's like there, it's you know, it's too

816
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: many bad things going on physically mentally, and I think,

817
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 1: you know, and I think the way Nikki handled the

818
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 1: situation and did it it was it was actually really

819
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 1: inspiring to watch and I was like wow, to think, like, oh,

820
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: cleansing your body physically mentally, it's going to what's help

821
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:03,480
Speaker 1: you heal faster. And also her clarity on just the

822
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 1: whole situation, and I think that's, you know, sometimes we

823
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 1: don't see the real clarity, like you know, she's like,

824
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 1: this happened for a reason and let's get to the

825
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 1: bottom of it.

826
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 2: And taking my own accountability too. It's better to be

827
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:18,760
Speaker 2: in high frequency. When you go the other path, people

828
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 2: just get in a darker place. I wasn't gonna let

829
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 2: myself get in a dark hole.

830
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:22,800
Speaker 4: Wow.

831
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:27,320
Speaker 2: And I'm a mom, and my son he was first.

832
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 2: And because how I was raised and the things I saw,

833
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:32,759
Speaker 2: I was like, my son could see what he saw

834
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 2: that one day, but never again will he ever see

835
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 2: anything like that. And I will never let him even

836
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 2: be in a situation like that. Yeah and so, and

837
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:46,279
Speaker 2: I didn't want that these the moments of divorce to

838
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 2: affect the rest of his life. And we co parent

839
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 2: beautifully and I get so many compliments on how happy

840
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:55,319
Speaker 2: and loving my son is. You would never think he

841
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 2: came from a divorce family at all. And I have

842
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 2: to say I was so happy, and it was these

843
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 2: are the things that I saw, Like there was this

844
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 2: moment where I had my hardest night ever, because you know, divorce,

845
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:11,919
Speaker 2: you haven't to do a public hard like the people

846
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 2: just write headlines and there's no fact checking, so it's

847
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 2: you know, you can't like fall into that stuff. But

848
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:21,399
Speaker 2: it was like probably like the heaviest time through it all,

849
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 2: and I just remember like falling to my knees and

850
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 2: just like praying so hard, like God, I just need

851
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 2: to know that You're here with me, that no matter

852
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 2: what happens, I'll be okay. And the next morning I

853
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 2: woke up. I do the same routine, open up the

854
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 2: same drapes every day, make my coffee. The brightest double

855
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:41,759
Speaker 2: rainbow just facing my home, no rain, no nothing, And

856
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 2: it was the most breath taking double rainbow I've ever

857
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 2: seen in my life. And even the sunrise was the

858
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 2: brightest we've ever had in Napa Valley. Like you have

859
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:53,839
Speaker 2: to see the video of it. It's incredible. When I

860
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:56,239
Speaker 2: googled it, like the meaning double rainbow is always like

861
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 2: a sign from God, and it was just crazy. That

862
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 2: was literally that next early morning.

863
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 4: You asked for it, Pray for that.

864
00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, And if you do think about nature, they tell

865
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 1: us like when there's a storm, a rainbow comes, like

866
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 1: just you gotta push through.

867
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 4: It's so true, you know, you push through everything.

868
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 3: Even even hearing that because I had I had a

869
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:17,359
Speaker 3: backcar accident maybe like six years ago, and it took

870
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 3: me so long just to drive again.

871
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 4: To think that you broke your neck, I know, and

872
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 4: got back in the ring after.

873
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,840
Speaker 2: That seven months later. I think it is that I

874
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 2: set a record like crazy.

875
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 4: Does that And it probably changed both of you that moment.

876
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:36,719
Speaker 4: Does you do not have like.

877
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 2: This on a solo run? She was like, it's my time, I'm.

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Speaker 3: No, I mean no, but does it change how you

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Speaker 1: What I then saw her taking this double T move

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Speaker 1: So yeah, definitely you do. I feel like you're more

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Speaker 2: But we're also built different, like her and I. I

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Speaker 2: don't know, very fearless, very always have been.

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Speaker 4: You just get back on the horse.

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Speaker 2: Just get back on the horse.

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Speaker 1: We know what you know what it is, we know

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Speaker 2: It's also weird your body, like you're intuition tells you.

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Speaker 2: Like when I broke my neck and they were trying

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Speaker 2: to tell me my career was sent. Nothing in me

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899
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Speaker 2: it's not, and they're like, no, yeah, you're never wrestling again.

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Speaker 2: I was like, no, yes, I will it. Just nothing

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904
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905
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Speaker 2: which wasn't great, and I had to step back and

906
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Speaker 2: then step back for quite you know, a few years.

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Speaker 2: But then I got pregnant, and now I mean, I'll

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Speaker 5: Hi, this is Julie, and this is a question for

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Speaker 5: the both of you. I've been dating someone for two

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Speaker 5: years and I always feel like I'm competing with his brother.

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Speaker 5: They're not twins, but they're incredibly close. And I always

947
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Speaker 5: feel like number two, how do you love someone fully

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Speaker 5: when they already have a person who knows them better

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Speaker 2: Could Ooh that give me goosebumps. Yeah that, because this

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Speaker 2: is so what we deal with, and this Brian would

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Speaker 2: be granted. Yes, yeah, my husband said. What he realized

953
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Speaker 2: is that he'll always make a joke saying if he

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Speaker 2: and my sister were drowning, I'd go save my sister first,

955
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Speaker 2: which I'm like, no, I wouldn't. I just probably let

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Speaker 2: us all drown. But I feel I know, yeah, so

957
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 2: we are well find away for all of you. Yeah,

958
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 2: like come on, no, Brian.

959
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but what my husband said is great, and how

960
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 1: he looks at it is one. We become a family,

961
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:34,320
Speaker 1: and it's so nice to have your tribe. And also

962
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 1: he's like the things that Nicole gives you. My husband

963
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 1: doesn't drink, so he's like, I see how much you

964
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 1: love to go wine tasting or go get a fun

965
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:45,360
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966
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,640
Speaker 1: fun to me. He's like, but you get to enjoy

967
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: that with your sister, and it's in good company and

968
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Speaker 1: it's with family. So he's really looked at a relationship

969
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Speaker 1: and actually has seen that my sister is such a

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00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:58,880
Speaker 1: positive because he doesn't have to force himself to go

971
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 1: do these things. It's like, you go, you go do

972
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 1: that with Nicole, and he knows how much I love it.

973
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have fun, and I don't know, maybe that's

974
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Speaker 1: what's made her marriage.

975
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Speaker 2: So yeah, And I know where I need to have

976
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 2: boundaries too, and I respect that. I know when they

977
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Speaker 2: say they're gonna get tacos, I know it consists of

978
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Speaker 2: a lot of other things to make sure not to

979
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 2: go over. Yeah, I go, we're gonna get tacos today

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00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 2: for lunch. And again me, I'm like, all right, see

981
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 2: y'all tomorrow. She'll just drop by. Yeah.

982
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 1: But I do think it's important too to have the conversation,

983
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Speaker 1: Like I've definitely had a conversation with my husband, like

984
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:35,160
Speaker 1: does it bother you how close Nicole and I are

985
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Speaker 1: or like that sometimes she just stops by or and

986
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Speaker 1: so I do think it's important to of course, I

987
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Speaker 1: who called in I would say, like you you should

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Speaker 1: talk to them, yeah, and just say listen, like I

990
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Speaker 1: would like our time here, and I respect your time there.

991
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 1: But it's important to have boundaries and just to have

992
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Speaker 1: an open conversation about it.

993
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Speaker 2: And I rarely do it when Brian's there on drop him.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't care though, unless it Yeah, but I respect it.

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Speaker 4: It's that your cold taco night walking.

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Speaker 2: We love these tacos, but I know when they want

997
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Speaker 2: to walk and go get tacos. I know what they're

998
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 2: doing before that was sex and tacos. Yeah, getting sex

999
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Speaker 2: and getting tacos. It's like, you guys are so weird.

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Speaker 2: But I guess you have two kids. I just walk

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Speaker 1: Well we've had to and I finally were like, because

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Speaker 2: So now it's you figured it out and talk about

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Speaker 2: and I don't complain, and I know Talco tuesdays and

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm really proud that I'm and I hate

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Speaker 1: Know, when I was in my twenties, really throughout my

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1041
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Speaker 1: trying new moves. Yeah, and so it's been like really

1042
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Speaker 2: And so I'm proud of myself.

1044
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Speaker 1: I challenge myself and I've been I was in the

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Speaker 1: step behind that curtain before you walk out, I'm like

1048
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Speaker 1: I want to vomit. Yeah, it's good to have that feeling,

1049
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:34,399
Speaker 1: you know. I'm like, okay, like we're a lie.

1050
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Speaker 2: Yeah. For me, I'm proud of my achievements, but most

1051
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Speaker 2: of all, I'm so proud of the life that I've

1052
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:43,400
Speaker 2: made and all the things I've overcome. I look at

1053
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 2: my home and I look at my son, and I

1054
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:46,759
Speaker 2: get it to see the things I get to do

1055
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Speaker 2: for my son, which I'm like Hey, this isn't normal

1056
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Speaker 2: for a kid. You get like you never wait line,

1057
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Speaker 2: like you need to know that times are gonna have

1058
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Speaker 2: to wait in line. But I look at my life

1059
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Speaker 2: and I'm just like, wow, I did that, and I've

1060
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:03,319
Speaker 2: overcome so much, and I just I think that's why

1061
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 2: I'm in such a great place and I'm just so happy.

1062
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Speaker 2: Like my son was just with me here for the

1063
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Speaker 2: past few days, and even getting like a VIP tour

1064
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Speaker 2: the Statue of Liberty. I was like, whoa, it's because

1065
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Speaker 2: your mom. Hey, she took some moms for twenty years.

1066
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Speaker 2: I'm looking at like the VIP treatment we're getting. I

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Speaker 2: just those are the moments where I'm like most proud of.

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Speaker 4: Well, you guys should be proun o.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, congratulations, Thanks Yeah twins in real life?

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Speaker 2: Yeah baby, Hey everyone, I'm free, I'm Nikki, I'm We're

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Speaker 2: of Bellatwins right in real life.

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