1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,239 Speaker 1: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: Rod and Karen are. 3 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:08,559 Speaker 2: Hot three cell phones and I still don't ever call him. 4 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:11,800 Speaker 3: Why would I call him? Bitch? You know? On Balling 5 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 3: spending money and make it bounce back like. 6 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 2: Spalding got a new nigga and he sayd he from 7 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:20,760 Speaker 2: New Orleans and he ain't talking money? Why why the 8 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:22,920 Speaker 2: fuck you talking all my bitches? 9 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 3: Bass? 10 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 2: See Allma Dhama's flossy rap against a Rasha man. You 11 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 2: know on Salcy, I got a white dude at Boston. 12 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 2: He went up allday, bitch y'all take it calls no 13 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 2: small talk. 14 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 3: Hey, welcome to the Blackouts his podcast. Your host Rod 15 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 3: ed Karen. 16 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 2: We are in the house on a Saturday Saturday morning, 17 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 2: so that means for all you people that been feeding, 18 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 2: we put out another this too Much for Me and 19 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 2: BOSSI Thursday night. 20 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 3: Yep, so you got that, uh boss to eat. 21 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 2: We popped that off from the way we were on 22 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 2: Where's My forty Acres? Both episodes of that is out 23 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 2: If you guys been so long since we've been on there, 24 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 2: we had to blow the dust off of our Skype connection. 25 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 3: But you know what, we made it and I love, dude. 26 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 4: I'm so glad we got for real. 27 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:19,479 Speaker 5: Man. 28 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:21,679 Speaker 3: It was it was that was so that was so cool. Man, 29 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 3: back to the old school. 30 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 5: I know. 31 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 6: We got to work schedules out and get them over here. 32 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:29,319 Speaker 2: We got everything butfore locals out there everything else. And yeah, 33 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 2: I definitely got to ask them to come back on 34 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:34,199 Speaker 2: the show man, and yeah it was so much fun. 35 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:39,960 Speaker 2: And yeah, so it's time to do feedback and and 36 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 2: that means you do oh yeah, ship man, I'm doing 37 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 2: so much stuff, y'all. We did a nerd off me 38 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 2: Chris and Aaron did a nerd off yesterday. Man, like, 39 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 2: oh boy, I tell you, and I saw get Out, 40 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 2: which is gonna lead the league in most black women 41 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 2: taking they son us to the movies per theater. That's 42 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 2: gonna that's gonna be a lot. It's gonna be Auntie time. Uh, 43 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 2: they're gonna auntie some little black boys down up and 44 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 2: get out. It's gonna be so many underage kids getting 45 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 2: exposed to rate it are cussing because. 46 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 3: The cautionary tale of messing with these white women's at 47 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 3: any right. 48 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 2: Man, go see get Out. Though it's really good, man, 49 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 2: I've been hearing. I'm shocked it's so good. I'm shocked 50 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 2: it's getting good reviews because I feel like white people, 51 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 2: as of yet late, have been so sensitive and so 52 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 2: anti anything that says white people might be a little 53 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 2: fucked up that I thought it would get terrible reviews. 54 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 2: But it's getting great reviews, so I thought it was 55 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 2: gonna be bad. Because the reviews were so good, I 56 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,639 Speaker 2: was like, well, obviously this ship is whack, but no 57 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 2: white people think they like it, or either that or 58 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 2: they or white people more walked in on give them 59 00:02:56,440 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 2: credit for at any rate. I'm sure I find somebody 60 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 2: to review it with because Karen refused to see it 61 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,639 Speaker 2: at any rate. This is about you, guys. The Feedback 62 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 2: Show is the show we talked about all the people 63 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 2: that sent in feedback and let us know how they 64 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 2: you know, how they feel about the things that we said, 65 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:19,079 Speaker 2: and how we felt about how they felt and all 66 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 2: that good stuff. You can do feedback by either wait 67 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 2: did I say the official webinar show is an. 68 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 3: Unoficial sport stream. 69 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 2: Okay, you can leave feedback by leaving us five star 70 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 2: reviews on iTunes and Stitcher. We got one on Stitcher 71 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 2: and a like four or five on iTunes. 72 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 3: Today. 73 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 2: You can leave us voicemails as long as as three 74 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 2: minutes or less. Seven O four five five seven zero 75 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 2: one A six is the voicemail line. 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Gone to Conrad's new member class. 97 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 6: You start graduating from folks. Mmm. 98 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 3: Some of y'all done them, been outs and out in 99 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 3: the society and helping us out. 100 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 2: We appreciate y'all. Bred Nick Gospel, Renaatee M. Recurring donator, 101 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 2: Thank you very much, Pete B. Recurring donator. Olivia from Chicago. 102 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 3: You guys know Olivia. 103 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 2: Anthony van D recurring donator. 104 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 3: Reado Ma C. Recurring donator, Thank you very much. readA 105 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:46,559 Speaker 3: many Oh black Woman. Nick Z revert recurrent donator, Thank you, NICKGA. 106 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 3: Monica B. 107 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 2: Recarring donator, Thank you, Monica. We got a one time 108 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 2: donation from Devin C. Who says, Rob and Karen just 109 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 2: just want to put something in the collection. Play for 110 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:00,840 Speaker 2: all the awareness and enjoy you bring it into my life. 111 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:04,799 Speaker 2: I love this space that you I created for blackness 112 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 2: of meeting different perspectives. 113 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 3: Thanks for all you do and the amazing content. Thank 114 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 3: you you. Connor Kay recurring donator, Thank you, Connor. Katie G. 115 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 2: Recarry donator, Thank you, Katie. Jason J with the recurring 116 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 2: donation from Way Downtown. Adam SH recurring donator. And that's 117 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,280 Speaker 2: everybody else, all right, thank you? 118 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 6: Play me out. 119 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 3: Taylor Girls. 120 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 6: Popping like a man gonna come. Don't be a dump 121 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 6: gums on the mat, shoes in a bad don't ask 122 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:37,840 Speaker 6: for a tap, money, money, money, all I'm. 123 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 5: Seeing attap that my six stop I ain't doing with 124 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 5: the countain coming them gums likes. 125 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 6: Do get that We're ta run it through a chad 126 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 6: life for a chapter on the couch. I can get 127 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 6: a second dapt cooking them tax. I'm just like them. 128 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 3: Some tell her man, I can steal hearn man. She 129 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:58,040 Speaker 3: ain't think I can. 130 00:06:58,279 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 6: She ain't think I can. 131 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 3: I can still her man, I can steal her man. 132 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 3: She ain't think I can. Shint think I can't popping. 133 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 3: That's my song for when I go out with MyoD 134 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 3: at friends. 135 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 6: Where am I man? Asked a vision? 136 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 3: WHI coming from the Taylor girls? I don't know where 137 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 3: they're from? 138 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 6: To be hof this, I hope y'all make a safe 139 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 6: trip back to. 140 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 4: Your to where you came from? 141 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 3: M Taylor girls? 142 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 5: Uh? 143 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 3: What is Z? Of course? 144 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 2: Because because of course and they were still your man. Okay, 145 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 2: of course we have five star reviews on iTunes. Still 146 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 2: a Fan the sequel five stars my best listener ever. 147 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 3: Ninety nine. 148 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 2: I had to write another review of after listening to 149 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 2: Saturday Show. The Black Autist is a great podcast. Why 150 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 2: because as the right mix of funny and serious, delivered 151 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 2: with sincerity, Rider car and speaks from the heart and 152 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 2: not a political agenda, which makes hearing their opinion easy 153 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 2: to take even if you don't agree. 154 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 3: But then who wouldn't agree with common sense? Thank you? 155 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 2: That's what I ask all the time when people say 156 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 2: I don't agree with you on certain things, and I'm. 157 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 3: Like, I know, it's because it's the way I eat 158 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 3: kit Cats. 159 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 2: But it's fine, Mike Tyson, kitt Mike Tyson kit Cats 160 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 2: five stars by speaking of it right, but it looks 161 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 2: like I aspire, it says. I learned so much listening 162 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 2: to Karen and the husband Rod through this podcast. Not 163 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 2: only are they hilarious, insightful and passionate in a genuine way, 164 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 2: not Madonna addressing her child way she keeps taking its 165 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:43,599 Speaker 2: addressing the little black girls up. Man, I'll be like 166 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 2: part of me think you just did this for the ground. 167 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 3: Come on with Donna. They have also recruited me into 168 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 3: the KitKat terrorist lifestyle. Yes, I can't tell you how 169 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 3: much I've grown as a person in the new ways. 170 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 2: I think it analyzed things a situation for myself now 171 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 2: through just listening to y'all. Though I still try to 172 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 2: share the podcast with as many people as I can. 173 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 2: I gotta be careful who I invite. The lotion only 174 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 2: lasts on some people for so long. 175 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:12,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know. That's the worst. 176 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 2: Man, When you think of somebody cool and then you 177 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 2: keep talking, and the more you talk, the more you realize, like, oh, 178 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 2: they starting to get ashy. 179 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 6: You look like, where are these ash flakes come from? 180 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 4: Oh shit, I got to run. 181 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like certain types of thinking I just kind of 182 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 3: left behind. 183 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 2: And I don't attribute to just like difference of opinion 184 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:34,679 Speaker 2: or that's just how some people think about it, Like 185 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,959 Speaker 2: I don't certain shit. I can't do that with so 186 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 2: you know, you know, like people that still Missjender Kaitlyn 187 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 2: Jenner because they don't agree with her. But to see 188 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 2: how that would be the fucked up if they did 189 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 2: that to like Laverne Cox or Janet Mark or somebody 190 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:52,439 Speaker 2: like that. 191 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,679 Speaker 3: And you look at my face and right, yeah, like 192 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:57,320 Speaker 3: people like shit like that, I just had. 193 00:09:57,200 --> 00:09:59,199 Speaker 2: To leave behind a long time ago man, like I 194 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 2: don't like that ship, and I'd rather just not even 195 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:04,199 Speaker 2: debate it with you because you're gonna spend too much 196 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:07,559 Speaker 2: time trying to defend yourself rather than be like, okay, 197 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 2: I can see how that would be, like a white 198 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:13,200 Speaker 2: person Collin Stacy dash and nigger because they don't agree 199 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:16,199 Speaker 2: with her, you know, like, yeah, that's cool, but you 200 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:18,559 Speaker 2: can't be saying that shit, you know, right. 201 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:21,679 Speaker 6: That's why certain conversations I just opt out of. 202 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:24,959 Speaker 5: I literally just opt out of because it's almost like, 203 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 5: especially once you get so old, you almost see where 204 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 5: certain conversations are going, and you're like, before we get 205 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 5: to the end of this conversation, let's not waste our 206 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 5: time because I'm gonna be reasonable, you're not. I'm still 207 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 5: gonna be reasonable, gonna hit you with facts after why 208 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 5: you don't get mad, and then you're gonna start calling 209 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:46,679 Speaker 5: me names. So let's eliminate all that because you realize 210 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:48,959 Speaker 5: that you're the quote unquote not gonna persuade me or 211 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 5: sway me. And when people run out of things in 212 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 5: a quote unquote argument, they just go start going to 213 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 5: name you stupid, you dumb, and ain't got time for that, 214 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 5: why even. 215 00:10:57,320 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 4: Go through that conversation. Let's just nip this in the bud, 216 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 4: but we even. 217 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:06,079 Speaker 3: Go down this road, Yeah, it's yeah. And sometimes you 218 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 3: can just see it coming with some people. 219 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, like you just see it coming before it even happened, 220 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 2: when you're like, uh, yeah, I'd rather I'd rather not deal. 221 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 3: With it, you know. 222 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:20,439 Speaker 5: Yeah, And sometimes not all the time, but sometimes that 223 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 5: mean people that might have good intentions you can swip 224 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 5: up with the rest of them sometimes because you like, 225 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 5: I've had this conversation. 226 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 6: Too many times with these same formatic questions and you 227 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 6: might not mean no. 228 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:33,559 Speaker 5: Harm, but a lot of times I don't got time 229 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 5: to feel to the see who's crazy and who not. 230 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, And like you know, it's like that, like 231 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 2: you hope that people are cool and stuff, but then 232 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:44,720 Speaker 2: certain times and. 233 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 3: People don't have their ways. 234 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 2: They're learning there, some people are trying to improve and 235 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 2: get better, and some people sometimes you just hadn't thought 236 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 2: about certain. 237 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 3: Shit, right, because that's what privilege is. You take it, 238 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 3: you take shit for granted. 239 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,679 Speaker 2: But but then every once in a while you just 240 00:11:57,720 --> 00:12:00,560 Speaker 2: have a moment, well I'm just like, yeah, I can 241 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 2: see how certain people just not ready to be listening 242 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 2: to a show like Guys, no matter how funny it is, 243 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:07,680 Speaker 2: no matter how honest it is, and all that shit. 244 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:11,199 Speaker 2: People don't want to let go of the idea that 245 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 2: they are, that they're not right quote unquote all the time, 246 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 2: or that they're not acting right all the time. 247 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 3: Sometimes you're wrong, and sometimes you just have to you 248 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 3: know better, so you do better, you know right. 249 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 5: And I've grown and evolved the same thing with you. 250 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:26,600 Speaker 5: You've grown and evolved, And it's just one of those 251 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 5: things where it's just a process, and you know, it's 252 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:36,559 Speaker 5: one of the things where you can have fruitful and 253 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 5: valuable conversations across social media. But it's one of the 254 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 5: things where both sides have got to be willing to 255 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 5: have that conversation. If only one side is that's when 256 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 5: you run out, that's where you run. 257 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 6: Through the problem in and let's say nine eight time, 258 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 6: let's say eight times out of ten. 259 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 4: Most people don't want to have that conversation. 260 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 3: Yep. 261 00:12:57,000 --> 00:13:02,559 Speaker 2: Back to these five star reviews. Though, oh wait, I 262 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 2: don't think I even finished this personal so on. I 263 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 2: can't tell you how much I've grown as a person 264 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:09,199 Speaker 2: in the ways that make me think that Oh yeah, 265 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:11,439 Speaker 2: gotta be careful. I invite the louction only last so 266 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:14,559 Speaker 2: long on some people for so long. Yeah, lotion on 267 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 2: the last on some people for so long. Sorry for 268 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 2: the long rating, but the review was long overdue. Thanks again, 269 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 2: it wasn't long. Thanks again for all that you do 270 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:26,240 Speaker 2: for my fiance. And I couldn't recommend a better podcast. 271 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:26,959 Speaker 3: Oh thank you. 272 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 2: Much needed podcast. This is from ad for W nine 273 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 2: jg x TV. G WT podcast is entertaining, funny and 274 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:42,079 Speaker 2: relevant in today's world. If you're looking for coverage of 275 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 2: news and current events without the usual double standard, this 276 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 2: is for you. I make sure I listen to them 277 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 2: every day. My only complaint is that I can't purchase 278 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 2: premium content yet. I hope this is helpful. First of all, 279 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:57,199 Speaker 2: it is helpful, Mariano. I saw you put your name 280 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 2: at the end. Yeah, it's very helpful for leave first, 281 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 2: and you know, hey, hopefully one day you can get 282 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:03,959 Speaker 2: premium man. 283 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 3: And that's the way to put on it for free. 284 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 6: Like you know, everybody came forward. 285 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:11,080 Speaker 5: So if you go on, well, I'm I'm coming to church, 286 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 5: you know, eat, eating, eating the world and all that 287 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 5: good great stuff. 288 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:16,920 Speaker 4: But I can't putting one on This is a good 289 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 4: way to spread the word. It's absolutely possibly. 290 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 3: Free of charge, exactly, so thank you. Back to the 291 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 3: five star reviews. 292 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 2: Last one, this is from Leaky eighty two, says a 293 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 2: seat at the Table five stars. 294 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 3: I'm so fed by this show. 295 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 2: With the ways of the world, I can turn to 296 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 2: this show to get fed with news and current events. 297 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 2: This is my first and probably only podcast review. This 298 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 2: show is so important that my daily to my daily 299 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 2: routine and self care. Rod is the conversations I have 300 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 2: with my brother and father. Karen is the conversations I 301 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 2: have with my mom and best friends. As a black 302 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 2: woman trying to just live, I often find myself. 303 00:14:56,680 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 3: Yelling yes, Karen. Rod even broke down my entire education. 304 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 2: I didn't even realize it until he talked about his experience, 305 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 2: from the gangs to the laughter to the advocacy of sister. 306 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 3: It's so full. 307 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 2: Ps Kar's laugh alone. It's like a big booby hug 308 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 2: from your grandmother. I'll hear you, buddy, I'm hearing here 309 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 2: on that. Thank you, Leaky yatty two and everybody y'all 310 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 2: still left five star reviews on iTunes this week, and 311 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 2: we got one on Stitcher and it's from Will in Toronto. 312 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 3: Five stars. Tip in with a five star review. 313 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 2: This review is just a thank you for my gateway 314 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 2: into so many great black podcasts. I've grown a lot 315 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 2: through your show and the community you build, along with 316 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 2: a ton of other podcasts in their communities. 317 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 3: Y'all are great, and I wish you are a sussess 318 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 3: in the world peace. 319 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know that's the other thing too, man, I 320 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 2: think the podcast is a good vehicle for growth. 321 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 5: I know. 322 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 3: That's how like I try to remember that and not 323 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 3: be too judgmental of folks. 324 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 2: I mean, I think part of the problem is that 325 00:15:57,080 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 2: some of these things that are just opinions and academic 326 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 2: exercises really do have real life effects, and they really 327 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 2: reinforce a lot of the bigotry and ship that people 328 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 2: face that you might not even be thinking about because 329 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 2: you're not in that group necessarily. And sometimes even when 330 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 2: you're in the group, you can still I mean, look 331 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 2: at Kaitlyn Jenner, even when she even though she is 332 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 2: a trans woman, she supported a candidate and a party 333 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 2: that is trans antagonistic as all get out right. So 334 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 2: it's not like, you know, and there's black people that 335 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 2: you know they listen to our show, but then you 336 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 2: know you still can harbor anti blackness under the guise 337 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 2: of even when you think you're being protective, sometimes you're 338 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 2: actually being anti black. 339 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 3: Sometimes you have to unlearn those behaviors. 340 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 2: We're very open and honest about how we have developed 341 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 2: and learned shit over the years. 342 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 3: It's not like every day I just was like, I'm woke, nigga, 343 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 3: I was already perfect. Y'all need to catch up, you know. 344 00:16:57,320 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 6: So I used to ignorant train Yeah I'm saying I'm 345 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:04,120 Speaker 6: still ignorant. 346 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:07,639 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, Like knowing yourself and developing and learning more 347 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 2: and stuff, that's all just part of the human life cycle. 348 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 2: So I feel like, what in a lot of these cases, 349 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:18,439 Speaker 2: what happens is people are listening and they're learning stuff 350 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:22,360 Speaker 2: and challenging things that maybe they didn't know. And I'm 351 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 2: glad that our place, our podcast can be a vehicle 352 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 2: for that because podcasts in general have been a vehicle 353 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 2: for that for my own life, where I didn't know 354 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:33,640 Speaker 2: anything about trans anything. 355 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:34,399 Speaker 5: Uh. 356 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:38,159 Speaker 2: And I listened to Keith and the Girl and you know, uh, 357 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:43,680 Speaker 2: Lauren was on there telling his story and I was like, Okay, 358 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 2: I'm I've never heard of this, and I watched Lauren 359 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 2: develop and and and then I watched kind of the 360 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 2: awareness and the science around it and discussion of it 361 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 2: developed through through the years. 362 00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 3: So it's not like I felt like I just understood 363 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 3: this shit is. 364 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:04,159 Speaker 2: I just think a lot of what we try to 365 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:09,600 Speaker 2: promote here is about empathy and understanding and not coddling, 366 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:13,120 Speaker 2: but just like understanding so that you can then. 367 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 3: Go out into the world with a. 368 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 2: More i don't know, like more of a focus on 369 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 2: like what you really want out of life, you know. 370 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 2: But yeah, We've been very fortunate to have some some 371 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 2: dope listeners, man, and I'm glad that people are saying 372 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:33,919 Speaker 2: that they you know, uh, you know. I Like one 373 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 2: of the best compliments I think I got was when 374 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:38,880 Speaker 2: we went to Awesome kind of people were like, man, 375 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 2: a couple of guys are like. 376 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 3: Man, listening to you showed me how to show love 377 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 3: to black women. 378 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:48,159 Speaker 2: And I was like that, Like that was like that 379 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 2: one that that was something where I was like, that's 380 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:55,200 Speaker 2: that's dope because if that's a positive influence to put 381 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 2: out into the culture, that's something we can use, you know, 382 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:01,159 Speaker 2: because I try not to think of I show tangibly 383 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 2: like that, Like, I don't think we got this mean 384 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:05,959 Speaker 2: listeners and they gonna think this. And I don't think 385 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:08,160 Speaker 2: everybody that listens agrees with us, and I don't think 386 00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:13,160 Speaker 2: everybody that I don't think everybody follows me on Twitter 387 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,200 Speaker 2: agrees with everything I say and shit like that. So 388 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:18,159 Speaker 2: but but when you hear people say stuff like that, 389 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:20,680 Speaker 2: it's like, you know what, man, that's dope. Cause our 390 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 2: If that's a legacy to leave behind, that's what I'd 391 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:26,880 Speaker 2: rather leave here. All right, let's get to these comments. 392 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 2: Thirteen eighty five, Learning While Black. We had the feedback 393 00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 2: show and we talked about, you know, school. We got 394 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:36,720 Speaker 2: to a lot of conversations, but one of them was 395 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 2: about school being a black kid and. 396 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:42,480 Speaker 3: How our experience is different and stuff. 397 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:47,640 Speaker 2: Marcus says, rod fd y'all still got school's name after 398 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:48,399 Speaker 2: him me. 399 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 3: Wait a minute, I went to a. 400 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:53,160 Speaker 2: School named not to do so true to be black 401 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 2: in America, there's so much day to day racism that 402 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 2: you must numb yourself too. Feels like you lose a 403 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 2: part of yourself just to get by. I work in 404 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:03,879 Speaker 2: education to see exactly what you mean in the way the. 405 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 3: Students of color are treated. 406 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 2: I do my best to avoid contributing to the mistreatment 407 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 2: and advocate for our students whenever possible, But it's depressing 408 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:14,920 Speaker 2: to see how intentionally messed up the system is and 409 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:18,880 Speaker 2: how some teachers approach dealing with our students in particular, Yes, 410 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 2: some in my feelings, because I'm currently dealing with one 411 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:21,879 Speaker 2: white teacher. 412 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 3: Coworker who has profiling all of. 413 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:26,160 Speaker 2: Our students as criminals and I have to constantly fight 414 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:29,159 Speaker 2: her on it without losing my shit. Yeah that's the 415 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 2: other thing, man. Like, it's been proven that when black 416 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 2: kids have black teachers, they do better. But I think 417 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 2: it's because those teachers see those kids as extensions of 418 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 2: themselves and they see people. Yeah that's all I mean, Like, yeah, 419 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,480 Speaker 2: they like a family member, Like you can see you 420 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:50,359 Speaker 2: know a kid that acts like this. You know a 421 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:53,199 Speaker 2: kid who is quote unquote bad, but it doesn't make 422 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 2: him a bad kid. You know a kid that like 423 00:20:56,680 --> 00:21:01,160 Speaker 2: where another teacher might see kid being a smart mouth, 424 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:04,400 Speaker 2: you may see that kid as precocious, where another kid 425 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 2: see where a teacher may see a kid as being belligerent, 426 00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 2: you see that kid as being a great debater. Like 427 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 2: there's it's just a difference, and within the school system, 428 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:18,680 Speaker 2: which is a place where a lot of white women 429 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:25,280 Speaker 2: went to earn money post slavery. So you have people 430 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 2: that truly fundamentally believe that black children were inferior and 431 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:36,240 Speaker 2: that that you know, and and many that resented having 432 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:38,840 Speaker 2: to take that job. By the way, So because it 433 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:40,760 Speaker 2: was like I couldn't get hired at the white school. 434 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:44,119 Speaker 2: There's a new education opportunity opening up, but it's a 435 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 2: job at a black school. I guess I'll go teach 436 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 2: these colored kids. But the disdain that they harbored via slavery, 437 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 2: that didn't go away. So you know, you're relying on 438 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 2: a person that fundamentally thinks you are dumber than them 439 00:21:56,680 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 2: and incapable of being equal to them, and especially mentally. 440 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:05,920 Speaker 2: They're not teaching your kids the same way. They're not 441 00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,160 Speaker 2: giving your kids the patience they deserve. They're not treating 442 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,439 Speaker 2: your kids the way they treat their kids. They wouldn't 443 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:13,359 Speaker 2: send their kid to your school, to the same school 444 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 2: where your kid goes like that was a huge hurdle 445 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:18,880 Speaker 2: to overcome a society, and I mean that shit still 446 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,960 Speaker 2: lingers on. So yeah, you know, within the context of 447 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 2: the school system, you do have black kids that get 448 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 2: looked at it as criminals and shit like that, and 449 00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:29,159 Speaker 2: you have to prove quote unquote your way out of 450 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 2: that that default setting of well, the kid's not gonna 451 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 2: be shit he's black, you know. Or she's black, she's 452 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:37,159 Speaker 2: not gonna be shit. Now you gotta come in and 453 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:42,879 Speaker 2: overachieve just to get respect. But for real, thank you 454 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 2: both for the show, for cultivating the audience that you have, 455 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 2: and for providing a needed outlet for people like myself 456 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:50,399 Speaker 2: who struggle to find a reason to keep giving the 457 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:51,480 Speaker 2: damn in this crazy world. 458 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 3: Love to you both forever for that. Thank you. 459 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 5: Thank you. 460 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was the other thing I was thinking too 461 00:22:56,560 --> 00:23:00,159 Speaker 2: with that FDR shit man, and like how like that's 462 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:02,399 Speaker 2: why I don't worry about tradition, man, Like people that 463 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,440 Speaker 2: talk about tradition normally, when they bring that up, it's 464 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 2: literally to cover up the fact that they're wrong today, 465 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:13,159 Speaker 2: because it's like they was wrong then and now the 466 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 2: only reason they want to keep some shit going is 467 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 2: because it happened a long time ago, and it's like 468 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 2: that has nothing to do with today. Like if you 469 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:24,120 Speaker 2: can't make a reason why this tradition still needs to continue, 470 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,280 Speaker 2: then it's probably some bullshit, right, you know. You know 471 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,520 Speaker 2: what else the tradition Robert bed for Forest having a statue, 472 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like, it's a lot of 473 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 2: traditions that's really just about some away to couch and 474 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,520 Speaker 2: keep just really fucked up stuff around. 475 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:45,120 Speaker 3: While calling it something else. 476 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 5: You know. 477 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 2: Sugar Bag says Jamaicans are the Americans of the Caribbean 478 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:54,399 Speaker 2: of not just fun, loud, annoying, not knowing much or 479 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:57,679 Speaker 2: caring about anyone else. I totally get other Caribbean people's 480 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 2: annoyance at always being ided as Jamaican. They're tired of 481 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 2: the bumber clock disrespect. Signed a Jamaican who never gets 482 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 2: asked if they are from another Caribbean country. 483 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,440 Speaker 3: I didn't know you was from Jamaica, sugar babe, okay, 484 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:17,120 Speaker 3: or should I say the girl them sugar babe? Oh shit? 485 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:23,880 Speaker 3: Oh I did that just now? That's terrible? Uh done? 486 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 3: A character? 487 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 2: Do you feel discriminated against a Did you ever feel 488 00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:31,640 Speaker 2: discriminated against the school because of your race? 489 00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:32,639 Speaker 5: Yes? Or no? 490 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:33,760 Speaker 3: Eighty five percent? 491 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:37,399 Speaker 2: Yes, So they had at least one experience or something 492 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,359 Speaker 2: where it was like, I think this is happening to 493 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:41,920 Speaker 2: me because I'm black. And the thing is when you're 494 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:45,879 Speaker 2: a kid, like that's some shit that that realization is 495 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 2: just it's a painful moment when you realize, like, but 496 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 2: so this shit isn't just something we learned about during 497 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 2: Black History Month, Like y'all really still own this this shit? 498 00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:57,879 Speaker 5: You know? 499 00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:01,199 Speaker 3: Fifteen percent said no, So, I don't know. Maybe they 500 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,439 Speaker 3: was white? Uh ty ty do. 501 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 2: You says I didn't vote. I thought maybe that should 502 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:10,080 Speaker 2: be a third option of I'm white. I thought about that, 503 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:13,920 Speaker 2: but I was like, I was like, maybe, you know, 504 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 2: a white person might have had some experience where they felt, 505 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 2: you know, maybe they went to a black school and 506 00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:18,879 Speaker 2: they felt something happened to them. 507 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 3: I don't know. 508 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,680 Speaker 2: You know, I can't speak to everybody's face. So if not, no, 509 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 2: you know, if you're white and it didn't happen to you, 510 00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 2: then you will be in the note. 511 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 3: Wow, man, we had a whole lot. 512 00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:34,280 Speaker 2: Of comments on this episode right chim thirteen eighty six, 513 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 2: when we were joined by our girl Ray Sani to 514 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:42,520 Speaker 2: discuss uh, well, we basically discussed Beyonce Serenda the whole 515 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:47,399 Speaker 2: just three straight hours of Beyonce and Serena, and the 516 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,159 Speaker 2: episode was called While they scared of b B and 517 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:55,480 Speaker 2: Serena MOUs Lem scroll down. All right, so silver Back 518 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,280 Speaker 2: says Twitter acting up with the character limit. Shit, we 519 00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 2: should get some extra characters for fair everywhere. Anyway, blackster read. 520 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:06,399 Speaker 3: A let me just drop this right here, Lord, I 521 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 3: got this. 522 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:09,720 Speaker 2: MLK fan waving at say that again, went up to 523 00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:14,760 Speaker 2: TBGWT pulpit speaking about taking our chains off in regard 524 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 2: it in regards to reaching our goals. 525 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 3: And becoming fulfilled. 526 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,400 Speaker 2: That segment had me more motivated than when RG three 527 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,680 Speaker 2: saw Kendrick Lamar perform at the Grammy Stake. 528 00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 5: You can. 529 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:26,640 Speaker 3: Welcome and may, I say. 530 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 2: On a side note, Ray Sni is the chilliest powerful 531 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 2: get for a guest piece. 532 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:31,840 Speaker 4: We love her. 533 00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, we go way back. We love some ray Man 534 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,440 Speaker 2: so yeah good. Anytime she wants to come out, she's 535 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:41,640 Speaker 2: you know, open door. Jay says, I think I can 536 00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,080 Speaker 2: help Ray would get the be High thing as a 537 00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 2: car carrying member since nineteen ninety six. When I see 538 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:50,200 Speaker 2: a fellow black woman like yourself critique and Beyonce, I 539 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 2: wonder if we live in the same country, do you 540 00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:54,240 Speaker 2: really think there is an upside to it? 541 00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 3: How does this help black women win? 542 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 2: Like you said she is one of a kind, which 543 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,800 Speaker 2: is a shame because we are such a beautiful, entirely 544 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 2: group of women. The comments are usually pretty unnecessary and 545 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,920 Speaker 2: generally patty. Then I think it's a way to get attention. Look, 546 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,680 Speaker 2: I'm not like the rest of these black women. On contrary, 547 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,359 Speaker 2: as far as your Twitter mentions go, you really didn't 548 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:16,159 Speaker 2: know how Fury felt about be sure you did? You 549 00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:18,680 Speaker 2: mentioned her, You mentioned his over the top comment, so 550 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 2: you knew he was a super fan. Yeah, you just 551 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 2: felt this unshakable urge or apply to his tweet right now. 552 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 2: First of all, that that tweet, that that comment right 553 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:35,040 Speaker 2: there is straight up like I felt like I felt, 554 00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:39,399 Speaker 2: I felt the energy, buzz, I felt the pollen coming 555 00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,240 Speaker 2: off of that tweet, that comment, just. 556 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:47,439 Speaker 5: Because I can truly say that for some people, they 557 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:52,199 Speaker 5: make comments and they are unaware how everybody feels. 558 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:56,680 Speaker 6: And she might not follow him or anything. 559 00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,480 Speaker 5: Like that, might not know like I know, because you know, 560 00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 5: I listened to the show and things like that, but 561 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:02,000 Speaker 5: everybody don't know. 562 00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:04,200 Speaker 3: Well, those are cold things. I don't know that she 563 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:05,880 Speaker 3: responded to something he said. 564 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,720 Speaker 2: It sounded like she tweeted something and then he found 565 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:13,560 Speaker 2: it and then he retweeted it and basically signal boosted 566 00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 2: it so that her mentions will get run through. 567 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 3: That happens on Twitter too. 568 00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:21,399 Speaker 2: Now I'm not saying, you know, I mean when you 569 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:24,960 Speaker 2: tweet something, technically you are tweeting it because you do 570 00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,159 Speaker 2: want some visibility to it. It's not I mean, it 571 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,440 Speaker 2: is social media. Your account's not private. You do want 572 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 2: people to see it. I'm not so I'm not knocking 573 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:36,480 Speaker 2: that that could happen with any tweet, but I doubt 574 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,440 Speaker 2: that she knew the backlash is gonna be like that. 575 00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:42,720 Speaker 2: I think also it does a disservice sometimes when that 576 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:46,320 Speaker 2: backlash happens to people that aren't talking that much shit, 577 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 2: because then they use that to justify that, like, oh, 578 00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 2: you guys are all crazy sick of fans and that's why. 579 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 2: And and the thing for me, more importantly than the 580 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 2: be hot thing and the response and shit it you, 581 00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 2: the be hou thing is something that's very convenient and 582 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 2: a great way to skateegoat black women. That's one of 583 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,680 Speaker 2: the reason I like it is because a lot of 584 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:17,600 Speaker 2: times they say people whenever someone says something fucked up 585 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:21,760 Speaker 2: about Beyonce, even if it's just something that every person 586 00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:23,320 Speaker 2: who is just not a. 587 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:26,719 Speaker 3: Hater would be like, that's a fucked up thing to say, right. 588 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:30,720 Speaker 2: They throw everybody into that shit, and I think certain 589 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,840 Speaker 2: people's objections to want to They don't want to be 590 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 2: involved in like a group thing, or they don't want 591 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,800 Speaker 2: to be considered like a sick a fan or a 592 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 2: fanatic of this person, so they'll kind of either let 593 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:45,960 Speaker 2: that shit slide or they'll have to preface it with I'm. 594 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 3: Not even a Beyonce fan. And it's like, in a way, 595 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 3: it does. 596 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:54,040 Speaker 2: In my opinion, an overall like residual damage to the 597 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 2: point because it's like, well, let me state that I 598 00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,120 Speaker 2: the woman that is the big a black woman star, 599 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 2: and I'm the planet earth. 600 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:03,959 Speaker 3: I'm not even a big fan of her. 601 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,840 Speaker 2: It's like, so are you saying that when you're talking 602 00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 2: about everybody or is it just ending up with I'm 603 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 2: a black woman and I have to disavow Beyonce so 604 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,920 Speaker 2: that I will get some sort of respect from for 605 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 2: my opinion. And the thing is if a person not 606 00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 2: respecting your opinion because you like Beyonce or you would 607 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,959 Speaker 2: say something to defend Beyonce, they're not respecting your opinion 608 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 2: as a black woman. 609 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,920 Speaker 3: Anyway, you know what I mean. Like, it's like you 610 00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:30,640 Speaker 3: have to pay it. 611 00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 2: At the altar of like, oh, I'm not a I'm 612 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 2: not like these other niggas, Like you have to pay 613 00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 2: that toll before you can even say your opinion. And 614 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 2: to be honest, most of the time, the shit that 615 00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:46,440 Speaker 2: can go unsaid because it would Matthew the biggest Beyonce 616 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,240 Speaker 2: fan of the world, or if you hated her. Some 617 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 2: of the shit is just racism. So it's just like, well, 618 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 2: that was a racist or mean thing to say about Beyonce. 619 00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 2: I shouldn't have to qualify my statement. It's just fucked up, 620 00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:00,880 Speaker 2: you know. So I think that's what's up. But I 621 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,760 Speaker 2: don't think uh, like I said from the way she 622 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:06,360 Speaker 2: described it, I don't think Ray tweeted anything at fury. 623 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 2: I think he found her tweet, which is something people do. 624 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 2: I try not to do that shit. Really, you gotta 625 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 2: say something real fucked up for me to be like retweet, man, 626 00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:17,280 Speaker 2: what the fuck you talking about or whatever, because I've 627 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 2: been on the receiving end of that. That shit is 628 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,680 Speaker 2: not fun to be honest, especially when you think you 629 00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:24,920 Speaker 2: said something that wasn't that controversial. I forget what Ray's 630 00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:29,040 Speaker 2: comment was, but you know, and I've seen people do 631 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:32,480 Speaker 2: what Jay described. I just don't know if that's what 632 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 2: Ray did, right. But I've seen people like, you know, 633 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 2: I've seen black women due they're like you bitches listen 634 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 2: dancing the single latest, but Beyonce got a man, get 635 00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,120 Speaker 2: your life together or whatever, and it's just like you 636 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:50,080 Speaker 2: want people to fucking be mad, and then you're gonna 637 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:53,080 Speaker 2: turn around and say it's it's like that meme I 638 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,520 Speaker 2: created kick a hornets Nest and then you running away 639 00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 2: from the hornessness talking about I'm the real victim here, 640 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:03,560 Speaker 2: Like I think sometimes people do that ship. I don't know, yeah, 641 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,720 Speaker 2: I don't think that that's what Ray did, But thank 642 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:10,080 Speaker 2: you for writing then, Jay, and I do understand. I 643 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:14,240 Speaker 2: do speak what you laying down. Okay, I just do 644 00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:16,960 Speaker 2: not sting Ray. It's all I'm saying, you know. Plus 645 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,640 Speaker 2: Ray is from Brooklyn and she'll sting back, and then 646 00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 2: I don't want to have some type of third party 647 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 2: beef going through our podcast. Just uh, it's just it's 648 00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 2: just not my not my want, okay, So please, you 649 00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:35,080 Speaker 2: know last day I needed her in my face on 650 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,080 Speaker 2: Facebook talking. 651 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:38,800 Speaker 3: About our fans. What does she tweets something about our 652 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 3: fans and she gonna call him the blackout Tip the 653 00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:42,640 Speaker 3: tip Hive. 654 00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 4: Really good son. 655 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:48,800 Speaker 3: We don't need that from Ray. 656 00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:54,520 Speaker 2: Okay, Keeping mind, Harlem had a tough week just with 657 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:58,280 Speaker 2: Jim Jones and and and Cameron beef and stuff. 658 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:01,920 Speaker 3: It was a lot. Okay, have some empathy, okay for 659 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:02,760 Speaker 3: what they're going. 660 00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:08,000 Speaker 2: Through up there in a time of crisis. Please, Ari says, yes, 661 00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:11,120 Speaker 2: Karen fucked that much. I get so tired of all 662 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 2: these white tears. I live for the moments when Karen 663 00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:18,760 Speaker 2: goes off regard to miscellaneous white nonsense. After this dreadful election, 664 00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,280 Speaker 2: I have been giving white women the extra hard side 665 00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 2: out because it's ridiculous how they didn't give a damn 666 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,600 Speaker 2: about us in the voting booth, but now they want 667 00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:27,760 Speaker 2: to march and what safety pins and be allies and 668 00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,240 Speaker 2: constantly remind us not all white women. 669 00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:32,960 Speaker 3: Fuck out of here. I ain't river see the girl. 670 00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 2: I feel you, And she also added normally I love 671 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:38,800 Speaker 2: white people news because Karen never knows who these people are. 672 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 2: But if I can avoid hearing about Crusty the clown, 673 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:45,720 Speaker 2: I'm good. Well, too bad, as long as there's white 674 00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,640 Speaker 2: people news on this show. I'm gonna be doing that 675 00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 2: y'all man too. Ah didn't do that to the country, 676 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:56,560 Speaker 2: and y'all don't deserve relaxing news until y'all have paid 677 00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:56,960 Speaker 2: the toe. 678 00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:01,840 Speaker 3: Sorry Shay Shade, or it could be che cha right. 679 00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:02,760 Speaker 5: Uh. 680 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:06,600 Speaker 2: These basic ass beckons can't stand that beyond a black 681 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:10,439 Speaker 2: girl from Houston, it's great. Great, then they can greater 682 00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,960 Speaker 2: than they can ever hope to be. They are choking 683 00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:15,560 Speaker 2: on their white tiars. Let's not forget she kept her 684 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 2: first pregnancy quiet and niggas claim she wasn't pregnant. 685 00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:21,680 Speaker 3: Top of that list is Wendy Williams, but she wasn't alone. 686 00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:23,560 Speaker 3: Wendy Williams is so problematic. 687 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:27,600 Speaker 2: Now Beyonce is sharing her pregnancy with us so haters 688 00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:30,680 Speaker 2: can drop being fucking corny and she's doing too much 689 00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,919 Speaker 2: and this tacky fucked these holes and they stupid ass shit. 690 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 2: They can't They can sit behind their keyboards and ride 691 00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:40,239 Speaker 2: her coattails to get their names out there. But at 692 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:42,359 Speaker 2: the end of the day, Beyonce is on another level 693 00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:45,400 Speaker 2: and don't know nothing about these base They basic asses. 694 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,800 Speaker 2: Keep toiling Queen. Sorry for that rant, but these beacons 695 00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:51,920 Speaker 2: are just so extra right now. Thanks Queen Karen and 696 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:53,880 Speaker 2: Ride for a safe space for us to just be. 697 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,360 Speaker 2: I don't have the words express my appreciation. 698 00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:58,399 Speaker 3: Karen. Thank you for the pep talk and not hide 699 00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:01,319 Speaker 3: in our light. I needed to hear that I appreciate you. Hey, 700 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:04,839 Speaker 3: ray Sonny, great show. Love y'all like cook food, HUDs 701 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 3: and kisses. Thank you. 702 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:12,279 Speaker 2: Falcons Diva says this episode was the goat first care 703 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 2: uplifting ray Sonny blessed my soul. I was in my 704 00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:18,680 Speaker 2: car yelling yes, yes, yes, like it was a church. 705 00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 2: It brought tears in my eyes and warm through my heart. 706 00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:26,640 Speaker 2: Then then and then the comment stopped. Then she replied 707 00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,080 Speaker 2: back to her comment, said, Okay, I got so excited 708 00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:33,319 Speaker 2: I mistakenly here in it and posted prematurely anyho. Then 709 00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:36,080 Speaker 2: the entire episode was about Beyonce and Serene. I got 710 00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:39,200 Speaker 2: my entire life to this episode. Ray Sonny is such 711 00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:42,800 Speaker 2: a delight. Thank you so much for such a good episode. 712 00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:45,760 Speaker 2: Shoot almost typed my entire comment and caps. 713 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:49,319 Speaker 3: I was so lit after this episode. That's all I'm 714 00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:49,799 Speaker 3: talking about. 715 00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:50,080 Speaker 6: Man. 716 00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,200 Speaker 3: I love that. Yeah, raised one of my favorite people. 717 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,720 Speaker 3: Man so's She's brilliant. 718 00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 7: Man. 719 00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 2: You know if you're on a podcast app or something. 720 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:01,880 Speaker 2: Man search her name because she's on you know, a 721 00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:05,399 Speaker 2: lot of different podcasts all over the plane and check 722 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:05,719 Speaker 2: her out. 723 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:09,800 Speaker 3: Man, she's like adulte thinker, you know what I mean. So, 724 00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:11,640 Speaker 3: like that's why, that's why I. 725 00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:13,439 Speaker 2: Hate to see I mean, Jay, I know you didn't 726 00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:16,440 Speaker 2: mean nothing, body, but I hate to see people like 727 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:18,239 Speaker 2: I don't want to see people try to be like, 728 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:22,200 Speaker 2: well she said this because I'm like, she's exploring the world, 729 00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:24,520 Speaker 2: thinking about ship the way we are, Like it's just 730 00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:28,279 Speaker 2: you know, and there and it and just because uh, 731 00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:32,680 Speaker 2: there's just nuance and everything. So you know, like she 732 00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:35,080 Speaker 2: don't gotta be a she don't got to be under 733 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:37,480 Speaker 2: high with us. Okay, but it doesn't mean I'm a 734 00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:38,160 Speaker 2: stinger to death. 735 00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:40,960 Speaker 3: It's what I'm saying. Unless she say something bad about 736 00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:43,480 Speaker 3: Beyonce and I see it, then it's our home. 737 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:48,360 Speaker 6: And I don't think you weird says you got friends behind. 738 00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:51,640 Speaker 3: I will listen. I will disavow that girl, like like 739 00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:53,040 Speaker 3: we never met. 740 00:36:54,000 --> 00:37:00,680 Speaker 2: Girl, just think about it, get mad just thinking about it? 741 00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:09,880 Speaker 2: Any Oh man, it's sad because I'm serious. Really, if 742 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:12,840 Speaker 2: you think about it, I've had to fix your wounds. 743 00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:13,040 Speaker 3: Back. 744 00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:14,120 Speaker 6: I got your back. 745 00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:15,480 Speaker 5: Uh. 746 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 2: Oh, that's how mestic Facebook is. Every time somebody says 747 00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:22,399 Speaker 2: something mean by Beyonce, it'd be in my feet. 748 00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,680 Speaker 3: I'll be like, why are you doing this? No, I 749 00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:25,680 Speaker 3: can't help myself. 750 00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:30,560 Speaker 2: Trina says, I'm wondering if this is my was my birthday? 751 00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:33,480 Speaker 2: Because this episode was all about me? Can you have 752 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:34,600 Speaker 2: B status for me? 753 00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:38,279 Speaker 3: Girl? You have B status for me? A girl? I 754 00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:39,879 Speaker 3: felt like a Van triloquist. 755 00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:42,839 Speaker 2: I'm so sick of white people, especially white women, trying 756 00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:43,840 Speaker 2: to police our bodies. 757 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 3: The jealousy is so real. 758 00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,680 Speaker 2: White women have force fed Black women to swallow white 759 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:48,480 Speaker 2: standards of beauty. 760 00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 3: It started with our hair all the way down to 761 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:51,160 Speaker 3: our thighs. 762 00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:54,360 Speaker 2: And now you have these black goddesses, Arena and Beyonce 763 00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:57,200 Speaker 2: showing the world what true black beauty is. And these 764 00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:59,959 Speaker 2: white women are losing that collective minds, but they're showing 765 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,759 Speaker 2: of that collective asses at the same time. As a 766 00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:05,600 Speaker 2: side note, Ray Sinney has such a beautiful voice. It's 767 00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:09,719 Speaker 2: so pleasing to the ears. I hope she comes back. Yeah, 768 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:13,880 Speaker 2: it's you know, she does have a very unique voice. 769 00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,320 Speaker 2: You know, get a lot of shorties in there. You 770 00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:18,920 Speaker 2: don't really hear a lot of shorties anymore. 771 00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:23,120 Speaker 3: You know, old school. I appreciate it. Uh it's a throwback. 772 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:24,080 Speaker 5: Uh. 773 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,799 Speaker 3: Nappy Chulo says, I'm in the same boat. 774 00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:31,640 Speaker 2: The way people attack Beyonce make me intentionally staying just 775 00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:35,360 Speaker 2: as a reaction to people's usual hatred of black women. However, 776 00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,640 Speaker 2: I have attacktic. I've been testing out, and we should 777 00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,640 Speaker 2: come back to slander with whole tep techniques. Example, the 778 00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:44,040 Speaker 2: response to Becky's article was Beyonce over the top. First, 779 00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:47,480 Speaker 2: we must discuss this angle saxon word top. You see, 780 00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:51,160 Speaker 2: this refers to the uppermost point of it. This refers 781 00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:53,840 Speaker 2: to the uppermost point of a thing, which applies a limit, 782 00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,640 Speaker 2: and like the universe, Beyonce is limitless. 783 00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:57,919 Speaker 3: Therefore, your question is moot. 784 00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:02,000 Speaker 2: It makes no sense, y'all say, And then I say 785 00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:05,000 Speaker 2: at the bottom two, you know what, that's dope. Maybe 786 00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,480 Speaker 2: we should try that. I've been trying this thing where 787 00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,959 Speaker 2: I just treat white people the way they treat black people. 788 00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:14,640 Speaker 2: Like today, I was saying how people think I'm racist 789 00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:18,319 Speaker 2: against white people, but some of my best friends were white, 790 00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:22,840 Speaker 2: so I don't know what they're talking about. And somebody 791 00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:25,080 Speaker 2: was like, have you ever let white people in your house. 792 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,279 Speaker 2: I was like, yes, if I pay them to clean 793 00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:31,040 Speaker 2: and cook and stuff, yes, saying those are some of 794 00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:32,080 Speaker 2: my best friends. 795 00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:35,440 Speaker 3: Okay, the whites love me, all right. We have a 796 00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:37,320 Speaker 3: terrific relationship me and the whites. 797 00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:42,640 Speaker 2: Eve says, I became an official Beyonce staying at the Yonce. 798 00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:44,840 Speaker 3: That album changed my life. 799 00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:48,839 Speaker 2: Every single basic that comes for Beyonce is so mad 800 00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,560 Speaker 2: that Beyonce is everything that they're not while they're home 801 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:54,560 Speaker 2: angry typing their lose ass think pieces. Beyonce is whenning. 802 00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:57,040 Speaker 2: And the same goes for Serena. It was clear that 803 00:39:57,120 --> 00:40:00,759 Speaker 2: the faux feminists who wrote that hit so Serena had 804 00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:02,919 Speaker 2: a personal act to ground with Serena because she didn't 805 00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:06,279 Speaker 2: mention no, not one other athlete who posed in the 806 00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:07,680 Speaker 2: same magazine the Serena did. 807 00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:10,360 Speaker 3: Yo. I forgot to mention that there were other not 808 00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:11,920 Speaker 3: just other athletes, there were other. 809 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:15,200 Speaker 2: Tennis players, right, so they she didn't all the other 810 00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,760 Speaker 2: women that play tennis that posed that was cool. 811 00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:19,960 Speaker 3: Only Serena need to be called out. 812 00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:21,800 Speaker 6: Ugh, how do you? 813 00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:25,680 Speaker 3: I can they not see? I just how would you? 814 00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:28,040 Speaker 2: I just wouldn't hit sitting on a piece like that 815 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:31,279 Speaker 2: because I know I'm playing myself, but of course she 816 00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:34,680 Speaker 2: couldn't help it. Uh did she write a piece on 817 00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:37,880 Speaker 2: saryf Pova or that other blonde tennis player who stays losing. 818 00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:41,560 Speaker 2: These writers aren't even trying to hide their veiled racism 819 00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:43,640 Speaker 2: anymore if you take a look at the people who 820 00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,640 Speaker 2: write the articles that are always the basicus of Becky's 821 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:50,400 Speaker 2: Beyonce and Serena are the queens of their area, and 822 00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:55,360 Speaker 2: Hayen Nash Darth Bakeast can't stand it. Stay mad, aj 823 00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:59,400 Speaker 2: the Engineer says, Ray bay Sani has always been one 824 00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:00,960 Speaker 2: of my favorite guy and I'm happy to hear she 825 00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:03,880 Speaker 2: has another podcast in the works. I'll admit my feelings 826 00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:06,319 Speaker 2: towards Beyonce weren't that strong in the past. Pretty much 827 00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:08,680 Speaker 2: I didn't care whether her music existed or not. Those 828 00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:10,399 Speaker 2: feelings have changed over the years. I have to seeing 829 00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 2: all the black women who've been uplifted by Beyonce's music. 830 00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:16,000 Speaker 2: I really enjoy seeing my timeline fill up when it's 831 00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,680 Speaker 2: beyonceing Black Girl Time, and it's been infuriating its hell 832 00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:22,040 Speaker 2: reading these opinion pieces from white women, I really enjoy 833 00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 2: hearing the perspective, caring and Ray had this episode and 834 00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:26,640 Speaker 2: I can't wait for those twins to arrive. 835 00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:28,640 Speaker 3: Peace y'all. Yeah. 836 00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:30,719 Speaker 2: One of the things that also sucks about it is 837 00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:37,560 Speaker 2: people will, like I think people often don't believe. They 838 00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:41,120 Speaker 2: just don't believe black women when they say stuff like, well, 839 00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:43,960 Speaker 2: you know, I get attack for having its opinion or 840 00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:48,359 Speaker 2: it's hypocritical because this everything black women do. They'll try 841 00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,600 Speaker 2: to copy it, but then they'll diss us for doing it. 842 00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:53,160 Speaker 2: But it's just like if you pay attention, it's like 843 00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:56,240 Speaker 2: it's so hard to unsee, like you have to basically 844 00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,399 Speaker 2: be willfully ignorant to not see some of this shit 845 00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,400 Speaker 2: where you're like, yo, that is pretty fun sucked up 846 00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:05,040 Speaker 2: that you know, Beyonce has a pregnancy announcement and it's it's. 847 00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:06,120 Speaker 3: Trash over the time? 848 00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:09,680 Speaker 2: Mother Why why motherhood is overrated anyway as a concept 849 00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:13,160 Speaker 2: and all this shit, And then you know some other 850 00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:16,520 Speaker 2: woman does a similar thing and she's white and it's like, 851 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:20,080 Speaker 2: you will not believe how great this picture is and 852 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,840 Speaker 2: it changed my life and we should celebrate motherhood and 853 00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:29,840 Speaker 2: stop and you're like, what happened? Oh, sis, have you 854 00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:31,400 Speaker 2: ever been to tag about to be high before? 855 00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:35,839 Speaker 3: Yes? No, Nigga, I'm in the hive. Ah uh. 856 00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:40,040 Speaker 2: Yes, four percent of our audience has been a tag 857 00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:43,680 Speaker 2: about to be high before I would say I'm sorry, 858 00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:45,800 Speaker 2: but I wouldn't really need to know on the individual 859 00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:47,200 Speaker 2: basis what the fuck you said. 860 00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:49,719 Speaker 4: Right, because if you said some function, I'm like you that, 861 00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:50,640 Speaker 4: I'm not even gonna lie. 862 00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:52,200 Speaker 3: Some of y'all play too much, right. 863 00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:54,600 Speaker 6: Some of y'all, like you said time and is everything 864 00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:56,400 Speaker 6: the second people come out and be like. 865 00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:58,880 Speaker 5: Oh shit, and here you come, flicking your ass and 866 00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:02,160 Speaker 5: just up up or pick me Twitter and people were like, 867 00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:03,959 Speaker 5: I put the fuck out of here, Joe, I gotta 868 00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:04,719 Speaker 5: you know, I gotta here. 869 00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:06,200 Speaker 6: But nah, as of now, I don't. 870 00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:08,000 Speaker 4: Feel bad for you, So. 871 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:10,960 Speaker 3: I would have to see guys sorry. 872 00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:11,840 Speaker 5: Uh. 873 00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:15,439 Speaker 2: And then no, never been attacked, I'm in that group. 874 00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:20,000 Speaker 2: I've never been attacked either, but well it used to 875 00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,880 Speaker 2: be in that group. And that's forty one percent of 876 00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:26,040 Speaker 2: our artists that hasn't even been attacked by the behiveh uh. 877 00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:29,040 Speaker 3: Fifty of our audience. Nigga, I am in the hive. 878 00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:33,040 Speaker 2: That's me now, So I have done some attacking, Okay, 879 00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:37,000 Speaker 2: I won't lie. Sometimes I see these these pieces I 880 00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:39,560 Speaker 2: just straight up go up and y'all mentions like what 881 00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:44,759 Speaker 2: had happened? Is you need to apologize? You know, cause 882 00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:46,799 Speaker 2: it's it's a graduating it's a gradual thing. 883 00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:47,320 Speaker 5: You know. 884 00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:50,640 Speaker 2: A year ago, two years ago, three years ago, maybe 885 00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:54,160 Speaker 2: I would have just said no. But now we buzzing 886 00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:58,640 Speaker 2: on these niggas. Oh, the sugar Babe said, no, you 887 00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:02,960 Speaker 2: walcome to the club because you was like, how you 888 00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,720 Speaker 2: find all these Beyonce articles? 889 00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:07,640 Speaker 3: And you was like, why ain't nobody telling me about. 890 00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 2: This picture with her posing with the middle fingers and 891 00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:15,000 Speaker 2: her pregnancy clothes? And I said, why don't you have 892 00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:19,359 Speaker 2: the Beyonce topic already saved on your Apple news out. 893 00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:21,080 Speaker 6: I didn't know that was the thing. 894 00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:21,880 Speaker 4: I will get on it. 895 00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,879 Speaker 3: Oh you still ain't did it? But you and high 896 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:31,640 Speaker 3: okay alone, Okay, you still ain't did it. 897 00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:38,480 Speaker 2: It's been almost twenty four hours. You wonder why I'm 898 00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:39,359 Speaker 2: finding all this news? 899 00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:39,640 Speaker 3: Huh? 900 00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:46,520 Speaker 2: Added to the feed, sugar Base says, I'm a car 901 00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:50,200 Speaker 2: can't remember who is always information for? When Beyonce said so, 902 00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,160 Speaker 2: my hobden makes me go on Instagram report people as 903 00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:56,920 Speaker 2: spam for abusive talking shit about bee or Blue and 904 00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:59,880 Speaker 2: Serena and FYI, there's a committee meeting in March. The 905 00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,240 Speaker 2: yay out as chief Officer of the High The Trump 906 00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:05,560 Speaker 2: thing was the nailing the coffin. Miss Tina would be 907 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,839 Speaker 2: obvious choice, but she's family. We need an unrelated person 908 00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:11,880 Speaker 2: whose stand up is fervent to the point of crazy. 909 00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:12,960 Speaker 3: Suggestions welcome. 910 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:21,000 Speaker 2: I mean probably uh, Furi and Crystals. I mean that 911 00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:27,399 Speaker 2: would be my choice. I mean, you know, maybe elect them. Yeah, 912 00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:28,920 Speaker 2: that's that's why my choice. 913 00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,080 Speaker 3: You know. John Man trying to slide in now, so 914 00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:32,680 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I really love her. 915 00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:35,080 Speaker 2: Uh the way she was addressed to the All Star Game, 916 00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:37,239 Speaker 2: John Man, if you don't get your racist dick ass 917 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,920 Speaker 2: out of here, apologize first. 918 00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:42,960 Speaker 3: John there was apologized. 919 00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:48,480 Speaker 2: Apologize, Oh clan penis talking about some looking beyond say 920 00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:50,239 Speaker 2: I want to wear that when she get done? Man, 921 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:53,800 Speaker 2: how about you apologize for being the racist and have 922 00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:58,400 Speaker 2: racist penis. We're also potentially looking at Adele hosting the 923 00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:02,120 Speaker 2: White Woman Have Stardom brunch. While while at her concert 924 00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:04,640 Speaker 2: in Montreal last year, she spent almost five minutes lamenting 925 00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:06,719 Speaker 2: that she missed seeing Beyonce and concert in New York 926 00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:08,680 Speaker 2: sign lead up to Montreal. 927 00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:16,040 Speaker 3: BIHI, thank you. We'll take that an advisement, all right, may. 928 00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:19,799 Speaker 2: Locks enough for luff Igus was an episode we had well, 929 00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:22,400 Speaker 2: we discussed Milton Popadopolis and a bunch of other stuff, 930 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:25,239 Speaker 2: and we had seven comments, a lot of comments this week. 931 00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:28,560 Speaker 2: Let me scroll down to see what you guys had 932 00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:32,239 Speaker 2: to say about what we had to say. Me me, oh, wait, no, 933 00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:36,320 Speaker 2: even further down, hold on, okay, yeah, yeah, Memi, Mimi 934 00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:38,719 Speaker 2: says here and Rod mis pronounced this horrible man's last 935 00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:41,359 Speaker 2: name throughout the story had me cackling at six thirty 936 00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:43,080 Speaker 2: am at the breakfast table, loving it. 937 00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:45,160 Speaker 3: Let this man's reputation burn the smitheren. 938 00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:49,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the thing, man, A person like him just 939 00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:53,920 Speaker 2: wants his name out there, so you really can't get it. Like, 940 00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:56,000 Speaker 2: I just don't want to feed into his shit, So 941 00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:57,440 Speaker 2: I don't want to call him by the right name 942 00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:59,960 Speaker 2: or put his shit in our show notes and shit 943 00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:01,520 Speaker 2: like that. And I know it's Patty, and I know 944 00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:04,400 Speaker 2: it probably ain't even gonna help or her anything, but 945 00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:07,480 Speaker 2: fuck that man. I'm gonna be calling him a silo 946 00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:15,719 Speaker 2: Petophilis the whole time. Ali says, I was in my 947 00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:18,520 Speaker 2: car driving it almost fell out when he called them 948 00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:19,840 Speaker 2: maylockx lo L. 949 00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:26,480 Speaker 3: Thank you konfushus. You know our boy Blake Dante, he 950 00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:31,640 Speaker 3: was on the show not too not too long ago. 951 00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:35,239 Speaker 2: Royan Seacrest works like he doesn't have white privilege. That 952 00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:42,240 Speaker 2: Aaron Carter song and situation U might be the whitest 953 00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:46,040 Speaker 2: thing ever in the history of a segment. The cheese 954 00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:49,120 Speaker 2: might have been thrown to him instead of off the table. 955 00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:51,200 Speaker 2: Love you guys, thank you so much for having me 956 00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:53,040 Speaker 2: on last week. Hey, thank you for coming on. 957 00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:56,279 Speaker 6: You welcome baby. And he does work like I don't 958 00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:58,279 Speaker 6: never know if I'm gonna work again, So you're like. 959 00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:01,400 Speaker 3: Shit, I'm taking all the job, Farrer says Rod. You 960 00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:02,239 Speaker 3: already know what it is. 961 00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:05,680 Speaker 2: Mar and Miko Yanni spent the one on one interview 962 00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,160 Speaker 2: basically big in each other. Mars said he didn't agree 963 00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:10,600 Speaker 2: with him on certain issues, but they spent the majority 964 00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:12,320 Speaker 2: of its our lamenting widey liberals. 965 00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:14,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what they do. Like, that's the thing for 966 00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:17,600 Speaker 3: both of their brands. It helps them to make people 967 00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:20,040 Speaker 3: on the left mad because y'all not y'all. 968 00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:22,160 Speaker 2: I'm sorry to say that a lot of people keep 969 00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:25,960 Speaker 2: tuning in to his bullshit like there ain't no other choice. 970 00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:29,759 Speaker 3: But we'll see, because I mean, the guess he booking now. 971 00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:32,800 Speaker 2: I'm like, maybe he getting desperate because these motherfuckers have 972 00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:37,800 Speaker 2: no credibility and they're just on there to be contrarians 973 00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:42,440 Speaker 2: and say stupid shit, and he's he's playing the middle, 974 00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:43,960 Speaker 2: as if there's some type of. 975 00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:50,560 Speaker 3: Value in being like this guy's opinion. 976 00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:53,560 Speaker 2: Is as valid as Larry Wilmore's opinion and they both 977 00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:56,200 Speaker 2: deserve to be on my platform. He thinks that's a positive, 978 00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:58,279 Speaker 2: and I think that's a negative. We just see the 979 00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:02,640 Speaker 2: world differently. But look, if he want to have uh 980 00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:08,799 Speaker 2: uh mellow patronis on the show, that's what he can do. Uh. 981 00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:13,480 Speaker 2: Shannon says, when you said director Barry Jenkins in the 982 00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:15,560 Speaker 2: middle of fucking with black people, my hard skipped to beat, 983 00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:18,000 Speaker 2: I face palmed at all the Moonlight's greatness flash before 984 00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:19,960 Speaker 2: my eyes. I thought I was gonna have to say 985 00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,360 Speaker 2: goodbye to it forever. I was so happy when that 986 00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:25,920 Speaker 2: story has zero fuck ability. Be careful, I drive while. 987 00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:26,200 Speaker 3: Listening to this. 988 00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:28,520 Speaker 2: That movie is so amazing. You know what I'm saying, 989 00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:30,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna not be careful. I'm gonna keep you on 990 00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:34,520 Speaker 2: your toes, pay attention to the road. Evie E says, 991 00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:38,200 Speaker 2: I think that Michael Fluffalophagus is a joke and just 992 00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:40,520 Speaker 2: says provocative things to get attention. I don't even think 993 00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:43,040 Speaker 2: he believes half the things he says. What makes it 994 00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:43,680 Speaker 2: even worse? 995 00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:47,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's you know, Edie. I'm with you. I'm with you. 996 00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:49,840 Speaker 3: Like a lot of people think that shit makes it harmless, 997 00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:52,600 Speaker 3: and I'm like, no, that makes the shit way worse. 998 00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:54,120 Speaker 3: You're that's diabolical. 999 00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:58,440 Speaker 2: Bit Yeah, Like, if not that, it's not that I 1000 00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:01,840 Speaker 2: think it's quote unquote good, but if someone fundamentally believes 1001 00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:03,360 Speaker 2: some bullshit, at least. 1002 00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:06,160 Speaker 3: There's a they have some level of integrity. 1003 00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:08,680 Speaker 2: Well, I'm like, I don't fuck with this person at all, 1004 00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:10,879 Speaker 2: but they honestly believe this fucked up thing. 1005 00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:13,400 Speaker 3: This dude don't. I don't even think he believes it. 1006 00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:15,000 Speaker 3: It's just like, what can I say? What can I say? 1007 00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:17,359 Speaker 3: Why would you give somebody like that a platform? It's 1008 00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:18,000 Speaker 3: so stupid. 1009 00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:22,520 Speaker 2: So she goes on to Bill Mark and just go 1010 00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:24,640 Speaker 2: straight to hell for giving that douchebag of platform. 1011 00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:25,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that. 1012 00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,480 Speaker 2: This hall started weeks ago for us on the show 1013 00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:31,680 Speaker 2: being like Bill Martin shit, and and now he's done 1014 00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:32,520 Speaker 2: everything he can to. 1015 00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:33,919 Speaker 3: Prove that true. 1016 00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:42,359 Speaker 2: Bill Maher and Mario Wait, Marlow Casophagus can I can 1017 00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:44,520 Speaker 2: both go to the edge of the flat earth and 1018 00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:48,359 Speaker 2: jump off of it side Kyrie Irving, that's one really 1019 00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:51,360 Speaker 2: dark knight and the pole was easy. It was should 1020 00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:53,719 Speaker 2: cover girl fired James Charles. He was the person that 1021 00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,440 Speaker 2: said that shit about going to Africa. 1022 00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:57,440 Speaker 3: He's gonna get a bowler. 1023 00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:03,680 Speaker 2: Well, yes, I don't care, and no, no, two point 1024 00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:07,759 Speaker 2: three percent and no, I don't care. Forty eight percent 1025 00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:09,080 Speaker 2: of y'all said, y'all don't even. 1026 00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:13,480 Speaker 3: Care, and half of y'all said, yeah, God, just fire's ass. Yeah, 1027 00:51:13,840 --> 00:51:15,239 Speaker 3: I don't you know, I don't know. 1028 00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:18,120 Speaker 5: There's too many other people you can have right, it 1029 00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:20,360 Speaker 5: ain't problematic, and that you don't have to defend. 1030 00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:23,600 Speaker 2: I feel like people just feel like an attachment to 1031 00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:28,359 Speaker 2: I just feel like people feel like a white people 1032 00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:31,560 Speaker 2: specifically feel an attachment to the idea of having a job, 1033 00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,279 Speaker 2: so they feel like nothing a person does and says 1034 00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:36,520 Speaker 2: it should ever lose them a job to where if 1035 00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:38,360 Speaker 2: you're black, you know they're getting a job is already 1036 00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:41,719 Speaker 2: a rigged system to gear towards helping. 1037 00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:42,320 Speaker 3: White folks anyway. 1038 00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:45,080 Speaker 2: So it's like, why the fuck would I covet your 1039 00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:47,279 Speaker 2: ability to get a job. You're laying on your feet 1040 00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:50,080 Speaker 2: way quicker than if a black person lost a job, Like, 1041 00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:51,960 Speaker 2: have you looked at the unemployment rates? What are you 1042 00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:55,160 Speaker 2: talking about? Like you fucked up an opportunity with some 1043 00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:57,960 Speaker 2: shit you shouldn't have said. It happens, and I won't 1044 00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:01,480 Speaker 2: feel bad for you, like people treat that shit like 1045 00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,040 Speaker 2: like he came online and when you know what, man, 1046 00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:08,960 Speaker 2: I think people. I'm just sick of people persecuted me 1047 00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:10,320 Speaker 2: as a gay man and got fired. 1048 00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:12,280 Speaker 3: You know it's not the same. That's not what happened. 1049 00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:12,759 Speaker 2: It's not. 1050 00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:17,960 Speaker 3: Q Becky at marsh Blossom says, Okay, So I just. 1051 00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:20,719 Speaker 2: Listened to Oh I'm sorry this episode thirteen eighty eight, 1052 00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:21,640 Speaker 2: Laby your lipstick. 1053 00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:24,840 Speaker 3: Okay, So I just listened to the segment where Karen 1054 00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:26,800 Speaker 3: says she changed her mind on a period party. 1055 00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:31,200 Speaker 2: I'm literally crying. Your thoughts are so touching and inspirational, Karen. 1056 00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:35,400 Speaker 2: Women really need knowledge and to know their body is fine. 1057 00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:38,719 Speaker 2: I come from a house where if I ever brought 1058 00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:40,640 Speaker 2: up that I was on my period and their men. 1059 00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:41,120 Speaker 3: And my family. 1060 00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:44,000 Speaker 2: The reaction was discussed, or don't talk about that, yuck, 1061 00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:46,880 Speaker 2: or I don't need to know that, even if it 1062 00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:49,919 Speaker 2: was relevant to the conversation regarding like why you can't 1063 00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:50,440 Speaker 2: go swimming. 1064 00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:53,560 Speaker 3: It takes some time to unlearn that shame that men 1065 00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:56,640 Speaker 3: in my life taught me and so many other women. 1066 00:52:56,840 --> 00:53:00,359 Speaker 3: I love you, caring, I'm so happy you changed your mind. Oh, oh, 1067 00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:04,160 Speaker 3: thank you. That's what I'm talking about, man, because. 1068 00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,880 Speaker 8: I realized I can't speak for everybody, but I realized 1069 00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:10,320 Speaker 8: that you can be like I said, you can be 1070 00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:13,640 Speaker 8: tarnished as a child on how you view your body. 1071 00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:17,279 Speaker 8: And it's a lot of adults and grown women who 1072 00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:20,320 Speaker 8: view their bodies is dirty, view their bodies as nasty, 1073 00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:23,280 Speaker 8: view their bodies as less than. 1074 00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:26,080 Speaker 6: And they passed that traditional to their daughters. 1075 00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:29,320 Speaker 5: You know, it's a lot of men who live in 1076 00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:33,160 Speaker 5: homes with women and hope with girls where they don't 1077 00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:39,239 Speaker 5: go by sanitation napkins, they don't go by pantyliners, they 1078 00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:41,440 Speaker 5: don't go by anything. 1079 00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:42,879 Speaker 4: Dealing with a woman that don't go by dosh. 1080 00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:45,239 Speaker 5: You don't want to purchase anything dealing with the women, 1081 00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:46,600 Speaker 5: even though you live in the house with the women. 1082 00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:49,120 Speaker 6: And even though you fucking fucking woman, you don't purchase 1083 00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:51,240 Speaker 6: these things. You have women that don't. 1084 00:53:51,040 --> 00:53:53,520 Speaker 5: Talk to their husbands about their periods or any of 1085 00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:55,799 Speaker 5: them don't talk to them about cramps or And that's 1086 00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:57,480 Speaker 5: unrealistic because the man is. 1087 00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:59,480 Speaker 6: Also a fucking part of the household too. 1088 00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,120 Speaker 5: He should also be involved. He should sit down with 1089 00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:04,680 Speaker 5: his daughter and talk about it. But I think not 1090 00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:06,799 Speaker 5: only do women have hang ups me like she said, 1091 00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:09,520 Speaker 5: men have hang ups too. When men are taught women 1092 00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:11,880 Speaker 5: are dirty, women are nasty. We don't talk about periods. 1093 00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:15,120 Speaker 5: That's something you don't understand. You can, you can learn 1094 00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:18,360 Speaker 5: if you choose to. But most men opt out of 1095 00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:19,640 Speaker 5: that conversation her period. 1096 00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:21,080 Speaker 6: Go get your mama and. 1097 00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:23,719 Speaker 4: You're like dog, you an adult too. 1098 00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:26,920 Speaker 6: I mean your daughter to be able to talk to 1099 00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:28,960 Speaker 6: you too, you know, mama can't get it. 1100 00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:30,959 Speaker 5: Hey, daddy, can you run to the store real quick 1101 00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:33,600 Speaker 5: and or go to the soul with your daughter and 1102 00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:34,319 Speaker 5: be like, you know. 1103 00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:37,200 Speaker 6: Let's see what kind we're gonna get, or that's something 1104 00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:38,439 Speaker 6: your mama handles. 1105 00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:40,160 Speaker 5: You know, Because no matter what people say, it's a 1106 00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:43,839 Speaker 5: lot of people that, in my opinion, need to break 1107 00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:45,400 Speaker 5: the tradition of gender roles. 1108 00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:47,200 Speaker 6: A lot of people have gender. 1109 00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:51,760 Speaker 5: Roles ingrained into their souls, and it's gonna take everything 1110 00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:54,080 Speaker 5: to break to a tradition. Even though you're a quote 1111 00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:58,359 Speaker 5: unquote open minded, even though you support LGBTQ, even though 1112 00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:02,120 Speaker 5: you support transgender, deep down in your soul, there's certain 1113 00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:05,719 Speaker 5: things that you feel only a man should do, and 1114 00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:09,080 Speaker 5: you feel only a woman should do, and that is 1115 00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:12,359 Speaker 5: deep rooted in a lot of people, and that ship 1116 00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:13,320 Speaker 5: has got to be broken. 1117 00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:17,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I'm not here for gender roles, gender bagels, 1118 00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:23,440 Speaker 2: gender biscuits, whether it's like just jender cornber head. 1119 00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:29,719 Speaker 3: Even I don't mess with any of them. They got 1120 00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:30,560 Speaker 3: a lot of cars. 1121 00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:32,600 Speaker 6: I don't discriminate. 1122 00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:36,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just think also, I mean, I just think 1123 00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:39,040 Speaker 2: it's so silly to shame women out of that shit 1124 00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:42,520 Speaker 2: because but I mean, we're such a puritanical society, but 1125 00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:46,600 Speaker 2: you can just I think so much happens and so 1126 00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:49,920 Speaker 2: much of our societies hatred and shit like that towards 1127 00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:53,200 Speaker 2: women stems from just an early age, and we just 1128 00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:57,360 Speaker 2: pass it down into these little girls like you. Nasty 1129 00:55:57,520 --> 00:55:59,719 Speaker 2: you are going to grow up and be a nasty thing. 1130 00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:01,600 Speaker 3: You are going to be you should be. 1131 00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:05,279 Speaker 2: A shame keep your legs closed, keep your you know, 1132 00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:07,719 Speaker 2: like just so like it's so much shame attached to 1133 00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:11,840 Speaker 2: just being a woman, and we just consider it normal, 1134 00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:16,239 Speaker 2: you know, And we definitely don't pass that down to 1135 00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:19,640 Speaker 2: boys in the same way. I'm not saying everybody's out 1136 00:56:19,680 --> 00:56:22,360 Speaker 2: here like gung ho, every boy can just fuck anybody, 1137 00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:26,320 Speaker 2: but it's a lot more common that people are like 1138 00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:28,880 Speaker 2: it's okay for a boy to be you know, like 1139 00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:33,080 Speaker 2: sexually aggressive, It's okay for a boy to be Like 1140 00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:35,400 Speaker 2: it's almost like something's wrong with a boy who's not 1141 00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:37,439 Speaker 2: out here just trying to fuck girls. 1142 00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:41,759 Speaker 6: Because you feel like something wrong because you ain't going 1143 00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:42,320 Speaker 6: out the pussy. 1144 00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:44,960 Speaker 2: And even like with humor, Like we diffuse a lot 1145 00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:47,800 Speaker 2: of shit with humor, right because like boys laugh and 1146 00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:50,480 Speaker 2: joke about jacking off and trying to get laid and 1147 00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:53,520 Speaker 2: smell my finger and shit, and it's like these nasty 1148 00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:59,160 Speaker 2: but somewhat it takes the seriousness out of the whole thing, 1149 00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:02,880 Speaker 2: as opposed to you must open your legs and choose 1150 00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:05,959 Speaker 2: the right one to let into the tunnel of God 1151 00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:08,920 Speaker 2: or whatever. It's like the pressure is so much more 1152 00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:10,880 Speaker 2: on girls in that respect, and I think part of 1153 00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:15,360 Speaker 2: that stems from like the solemn seriousness of you have 1154 00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:18,240 Speaker 2: a you're now having a cycle, and we have to 1155 00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:22,000 Speaker 2: like you have to start looking at the world. You're like, 1156 00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:25,400 Speaker 2: it's a terrible place now, and it's sad, but I mean, 1157 00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:27,480 Speaker 2: in the world can be a terrible place, but it's 1158 00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:30,480 Speaker 2: just kind of sad that that's the way it's seen 1159 00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:34,160 Speaker 2: as opposed to like, welcome to the beginning of womanhood, 1160 00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:37,760 Speaker 2: welcome to the You now have the ability. 1161 00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:42,400 Speaker 3: To create life inside of you. You now have you know, 1162 00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:46,080 Speaker 3: like like you're now starting to mature. 1163 00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:48,520 Speaker 2: You know, like it's a it's not a positive, it's 1164 00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:50,920 Speaker 2: it's just seen as a bad thing, right, And. 1165 00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:55,080 Speaker 5: Even with that, that's why you still have some grown 1166 00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:59,720 Speaker 5: women who still feel like any because sex quote unquote 1167 00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:01,240 Speaker 5: is considered. 1168 00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:01,760 Speaker 4: Dirty and nasty. 1169 00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:04,479 Speaker 5: So for a lot of women, they don't even enjoy sex. 1170 00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:07,000 Speaker 5: They've never had an orgasm. And you know, we don't 1171 00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:08,960 Speaker 5: even do oral sex. You know, we just put your 1172 00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:10,880 Speaker 5: penis in my vagina and that's all we gonna do. 1173 00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:12,960 Speaker 5: We're not doing any of the other stuff because I 1174 00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:15,960 Speaker 5: don't want to be considered quote unquote nasty. So the 1175 00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:18,760 Speaker 5: only time we fuck is for, you know, to reproduce, 1176 00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:20,840 Speaker 5: and if we're not fucking reproduced, what the fuck. 1177 00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:21,320 Speaker 4: Are we're fucking for. 1178 00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:23,520 Speaker 5: And a lot of women buy that, A lot of women, 1179 00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:25,480 Speaker 5: a lot of men quote unquote say they want that, 1180 00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:27,800 Speaker 5: but they don't want that because when they do get that, 1181 00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:30,480 Speaker 5: it's a problem because I want to fuck you outside 1182 00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:32,600 Speaker 5: of we're just trying to make a baby. But she's like, Nope, 1183 00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:33,920 Speaker 5: this is what I've been taught, this is what I've 1184 00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:35,280 Speaker 5: been told. I don't want to be dirty, I don't 1185 00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:37,240 Speaker 5: want to be nasty. I don't want you to think. 1186 00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:40,920 Speaker 4: I'm some skink a whole or sweat No no, no, no, no, 1187 00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:41,120 Speaker 4: no no. 1188 00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:44,240 Speaker 5: And it causes a lot of problems because she has 1189 00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:49,360 Speaker 5: her sexual desires have been suppressed because society has taught 1190 00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:52,240 Speaker 5: her you are not supposed to have these sexual desires. 1191 00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:54,520 Speaker 4: You are not supposed to want your pussy age. 1192 00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:56,600 Speaker 5: You're not supposed to want to suck a dick, you're 1193 00:58:56,640 --> 00:58:58,640 Speaker 5: not supposed to want to have anal sex. You're not 1194 00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:01,040 Speaker 5: supposed to want to do these If you've desired to 1195 00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:04,040 Speaker 5: do these things, there's something wrong with you, not the 1196 00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:06,240 Speaker 5: fact that these desires are. 1197 00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:11,240 Speaker 6: Normal, and to go leave further, Like I've heard my 1198 00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:12,920 Speaker 6: some of my. 1199 00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:16,920 Speaker 5: Uncles, like family members, like when some of their daughters 1200 00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:20,840 Speaker 5: got their periods, they cried, you know, and it was 1201 00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:23,640 Speaker 5: like they cried because I think for the first time 1202 00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:28,280 Speaker 5: the realization that their daughters, you know, were actually adults, 1203 00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:29,840 Speaker 5: not adults as far as. 1204 00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:32,520 Speaker 3: Age, yeah, but going they were in their in adulthood, right, And. 1205 00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:34,800 Speaker 5: That's the first time I ever even heard of that, 1206 00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:37,480 Speaker 5: like a man just getting emotional. 1207 00:59:37,480 --> 00:59:41,120 Speaker 2: About you know, because because subconsciously men know how fucked 1208 00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:42,920 Speaker 2: up the world is for women. Even the men that 1209 00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:47,040 Speaker 2: that perpetrate that shit still know the world is fucked 1210 00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:49,400 Speaker 2: up for women's while so many men are like, you know, 1211 00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:51,360 Speaker 2: they talk down on women and all this shit and 1212 00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:53,200 Speaker 2: what women need to do and all this, and then 1213 00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:56,280 Speaker 2: they have a daughter, and it's not even that that 1214 00:59:56,440 --> 01:00:00,280 Speaker 2: tune necessarily changes, but the reality of the worl like 1215 01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:03,120 Speaker 2: they're overprotective of their daughter because of how fucked up 1216 01:00:03,440 --> 01:00:05,400 Speaker 2: they are and how fucked up they know the world 1217 01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:06,600 Speaker 2: is and can. 1218 01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:07,320 Speaker 3: Be towards women. 1219 01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:10,280 Speaker 2: I mean, it's all cyclical, but you know, back to 1220 01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:12,480 Speaker 2: the point, I think a lot of that shit starts 1221 01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:17,440 Speaker 2: from just the inception of you know, having a mestro cycle, 1222 01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:22,080 Speaker 2: you know, like just like boom, and now all this 1223 01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:25,320 Speaker 2: pressure is on this girl, you know. And like I said, 1224 01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:30,680 Speaker 2: I'm sure it's not for everybody. I'm sure not, you know, 1225 01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:33,760 Speaker 2: every persons different. I just didn't see the big deal 1226 01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:36,919 Speaker 2: of people coming down on that one woman for having 1227 01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:37,400 Speaker 2: a party. 1228 01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:40,800 Speaker 3: And I really think the world would be a better 1229 01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:41,479 Speaker 3: place if. 1230 01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:45,120 Speaker 2: We got to the point where coming into womanhood could 1231 01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:47,960 Speaker 2: be celebrated the same way they're coming into manhood is celebrated, 1232 01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:51,560 Speaker 2: you know, right, because we definitely have you know, these 1233 01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:54,600 Speaker 2: coming of age parties and ideas and stuff for men 1234 01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:57,560 Speaker 2: that you know, it's like coming into manhood is a 1235 01:00:57,600 --> 01:01:01,040 Speaker 2: big ass like yeah, you made it welcome, you know, 1236 01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:02,720 Speaker 2: a big ass pat in the back. 1237 01:01:02,560 --> 01:01:03,479 Speaker 3: And it stays with people. 1238 01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:09,400 Speaker 2: And also another reason I think, you know, like a 1239 01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:14,800 Speaker 2: kind of a celebration or something would be better for 1240 01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:19,360 Speaker 2: coming into womanhood, it's because a lot it seemed like 1241 01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:21,120 Speaker 2: we don't talk enough, and then a lot of these 1242 01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:24,400 Speaker 2: people end up stupid. So then we have schools, and 1243 01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:27,280 Speaker 2: we have politicians, and we have like religious people that 1244 01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:32,080 Speaker 2: they capitalize on the fact that you will feel sexually repressed, 1245 01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:34,400 Speaker 2: that you will feel nasty, that you are supposed to 1246 01:01:34,400 --> 01:01:38,600 Speaker 2: feel bad. They capitalize on that to keep people ignorant 1247 01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:41,040 Speaker 2: and to keep this cycle going to where it's like, 1248 01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:44,640 Speaker 2: how do we make it so people won't discuss these 1249 01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:47,760 Speaker 2: things in school while they won't have a scientific approach 1250 01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:49,760 Speaker 2: to it. And part of it is by making it 1251 01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:52,400 Speaker 2: not fun, Like does just make it as fucked up 1252 01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:55,680 Speaker 2: as possible so that you'll be so ashamed you want 1253 01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:58,480 Speaker 2: embarrassed even of what your body's doing that you have 1254 01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:01,320 Speaker 2: no control over. But we'll make you so embarrassed of it. 1255 01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:03,720 Speaker 2: You won't be curious, you won't ask questions, you won't 1256 01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:05,960 Speaker 2: want to know. You know, we're not going to talk 1257 01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:07,840 Speaker 2: to you about when it's okay to have sex on 1258 01:02:07,960 --> 01:02:10,720 Speaker 2: your you know, once you have a cycle. 1259 01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:14,600 Speaker 3: We're not going to talk about you know, the intricacies 1260 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:18,840 Speaker 3: of pregnancy and birth control. And we're like, we're just 1261 01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:20,400 Speaker 3: not gonna talk about any of it because I mean, 1262 01:02:20,800 --> 01:02:21,680 Speaker 3: it's so shameful. 1263 01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:23,480 Speaker 2: You should be ashamed, you know. I think all that 1264 01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:25,920 Speaker 2: shit stems from that. And I don't think I mean, 1265 01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:27,800 Speaker 2: we're just a couple of people on the podcast. I 1266 01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:29,720 Speaker 2: don't think this idea is gonna like catch you own 1267 01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:33,480 Speaker 2: or nothing, but it just seemed very like and I 1268 01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:35,120 Speaker 2: don't know that this is even the right solution. I 1269 01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:39,200 Speaker 2: just think we just seem so negative towards one gender's 1270 01:02:39,600 --> 01:02:43,240 Speaker 2: coming of age compared to the other. And there's no 1271 01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:45,080 Speaker 2: way that that doesn't affect people for the rest of 1272 01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:47,560 Speaker 2: their lives. It's just no way, you know, because you're 1273 01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:50,720 Speaker 2: that's a shit that han' at thirteen got some people 1274 01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:54,160 Speaker 2: fucked up in they fifty sixty eighty, like, that's an 1275 01:02:54,200 --> 01:02:55,240 Speaker 2: impressionable time. 1276 01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:58,880 Speaker 3: And I think the way we react to things, it 1277 01:02:59,000 --> 01:02:59,840 Speaker 3: changes a lot, man. 1278 01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:02,360 Speaker 2: So try to be positive, man, Try to be a 1279 01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:04,720 Speaker 2: positive influence on people, man, right, And it's. 1280 01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:10,880 Speaker 6: Hard to unlearn things. And I think that when you 1281 01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:13,800 Speaker 6: talk about we'll talk about period parties. 1282 01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:16,080 Speaker 5: I can only speak for me, but a lot of 1283 01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:21,440 Speaker 5: it is that the visceral reaction is based off of 1284 01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:24,920 Speaker 5: things that happen to you, not the reality that it 1285 01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:27,600 Speaker 5: could be better, not the reality that's not trying funny. 1286 01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:30,960 Speaker 5: Your experience was just fucked up, and they could be 1287 01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:33,560 Speaker 5: positive experience, and they could be great experiences. 1288 01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:38,720 Speaker 6: And it doesn't have to be this sad, dreadful, somber moment. 1289 01:03:38,840 --> 01:03:42,400 Speaker 5: You know, some girls can I can't get their periods 1290 01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:47,640 Speaker 5: and be open and be honest and be free about it, 1291 01:03:47,880 --> 01:03:51,800 Speaker 5: versus all of a sudden the first conversation is or 1292 01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:53,360 Speaker 5: bring up babies in my house when you might not 1293 01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:55,760 Speaker 5: even understand what the fuck fucking is or a benj 1294 01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:58,080 Speaker 5: it is. That's kind of almost the first thing that's 1295 01:03:58,160 --> 01:04:01,320 Speaker 5: kind of implied when and you're going, what, I don't 1296 01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:03,360 Speaker 5: even know what the hell is happening with my fucking body? 1297 01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:04,680 Speaker 6: What are you talking about here? 1298 01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:07,520 Speaker 5: Particularly, like I said, I can't speak for everybody else, 1299 01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:09,440 Speaker 5: but I still my people at nine years old, so 1300 01:04:09,640 --> 01:04:12,160 Speaker 5: a lot of a lot of concepts. I had new 1301 01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:14,160 Speaker 5: idea what was happening, knew, but I did what was 1302 01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:16,560 Speaker 5: going on, And for me, it actually just came on 1303 01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:18,600 Speaker 5: in the middle of my sleep, like I just woke 1304 01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:19,280 Speaker 5: up one day. 1305 01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:20,200 Speaker 6: Was like, what the fuck is this? 1306 01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:21,680 Speaker 3: Mm hmm. 1307 01:04:23,760 --> 01:04:27,160 Speaker 2: All right, back to the comments, U d Ramsey pH 1308 01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:30,320 Speaker 2: Done says, oh my god, lady o lipstick is a 1309 01:04:30,400 --> 01:04:33,160 Speaker 2: big note for me. Hashtag white men are always poking 1310 01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:37,280 Speaker 2: around in the for jj ah, Nick Ju says he oh, 1311 01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:40,560 Speaker 2: nick j Hey, Heyble's another great show. 1312 01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:42,120 Speaker 3: You all are killing it as usual. 1313 01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:42,439 Speaker 9: Karen. 1314 01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:44,240 Speaker 2: When you told your period story, I just wanted to 1315 01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:46,840 Speaker 2: drive to you and hug you for hours. Oh My 1316 01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:49,120 Speaker 2: mom started her when she was almost nineteen. 1317 01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:51,640 Speaker 3: I was eleven. We hadn't talked. 1318 01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:53,560 Speaker 2: About it because she thought she had time. I thought 1319 01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:56,520 Speaker 2: I was dying. I was so traumatized. I hate the 1320 01:04:56,520 --> 01:04:59,400 Speaker 2: stigma society has on periods and the shame that surrounds it. 1321 01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:02,320 Speaker 2: Dad said, you know, you can have a baby now, 1322 01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:04,560 Speaker 2: and that was the extent of my birds and bees talk. 1323 01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:09,320 Speaker 3: I'm also now teen. Period party, ay, welcome to the party. 1324 01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:14,200 Speaker 3: More to marry, y'all. It's a thing that should be celebrated. 1325 01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:20,280 Speaker 3: So save still. Okay, abrupt transition, but yes, save still. 1326 01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:22,440 Speaker 2: I've been hesitant to speak about her because I can 1327 01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:24,880 Speaker 2: only imagine as a woman in her field. With her visibility, 1328 01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:27,960 Speaker 2: she catches a lot of flack in general, she's so whack. 1329 01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:31,280 Speaker 2: Though I don't think anyone deserves harassment at allever. She 1330 01:05:31,480 --> 01:05:34,439 Speaker 2: just seems to want validation for her whiteness and maybe 1331 01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:36,400 Speaker 2: a bit bitter she doesn't appear white enough. 1332 01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:39,480 Speaker 3: She has to tell everyone that she's white slash mixed. 1333 01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:42,840 Speaker 2: I'm always wary about racial women who lead with black 1334 01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:45,720 Speaker 2: girls don't like me. I venture to guest is probably 1335 01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:48,880 Speaker 2: not because you're white. Sist any who love you both down, 1336 01:05:49,360 --> 01:05:52,400 Speaker 2: keep doing what you do. Thank you, Nick Jill, thank you. 1337 01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:55,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. I man, Like I said, I. 1338 01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:59,320 Speaker 2: Don't want to add to that woman's burden, but she really, 1339 01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:02,920 Speaker 2: she just does. She's very frustrating because she does that 1340 01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:06,560 Speaker 2: thing which she clearly doesn't ever speak about race unless 1341 01:06:06,640 --> 01:06:08,240 Speaker 2: it's to tell black people we ain't shit. 1342 01:06:08,360 --> 01:06:11,080 Speaker 3: And it's just like what am I supposed to think 1343 01:06:11,120 --> 01:06:11,280 Speaker 3: of you? 1344 01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:15,080 Speaker 2: You know, like these white people are never going to 1345 01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:18,240 Speaker 2: accept you at face value, so you spend all this 1346 01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:20,680 Speaker 2: time on the internet talking about how black people ain't 1347 01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:23,160 Speaker 2: shit so that you can become their little mascot man. 1348 01:06:23,240 --> 01:06:25,720 Speaker 2: But that ain't no way to live life, you know. 1349 01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:28,320 Speaker 2: And I'm sorry that black people hurt your feelings. I'm so, 1350 01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:31,280 Speaker 2: I really am sorry that black people hurt your feelings. 1351 01:06:31,280 --> 01:06:34,880 Speaker 2: I'm sorry you've heard push but people are human and 1352 01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:36,280 Speaker 2: they're gonna have pushback to some of. 1353 01:06:36,320 --> 01:06:37,120 Speaker 3: The shit you're saying. 1354 01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:40,160 Speaker 2: And maybe you should examine their humanity and why the 1355 01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:43,120 Speaker 2: fuck they think you're wrong rather than turning off. I'm 1356 01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:45,400 Speaker 2: the real victim and black people are so rude to me. 1357 01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:51,640 Speaker 2: Maybe you should look at yourself, man, because Yeah, she's 1358 01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:57,000 Speaker 2: just she's she's a She's not she's a trip Noir 1359 01:06:57,280 --> 01:07:01,520 Speaker 2: Dynamite says those Will Smith puns were good stuff. You 1360 01:07:01,640 --> 01:07:03,760 Speaker 2: damn there got all the will Smith hits. The sixty 1361 01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:06,280 Speaker 2: threes of Separation plun was my favorite of the bunch. 1362 01:07:06,680 --> 01:07:08,880 Speaker 2: Had that doctor board at Will Smith, that would have 1363 01:07:08,920 --> 01:07:11,320 Speaker 2: been a lot of men in black at Will's funeral. 1364 01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:16,919 Speaker 2: Tunkey face emoji, keep them puns coming going, I will, 1365 01:07:17,480 --> 01:07:24,200 Speaker 2: I will. That's good though, Jay Wright saying only a 1366 01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:26,680 Speaker 2: white man would think of that bullshit. I swear they 1367 01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:28,480 Speaker 2: always try to come up with some shit to try 1368 01:07:28,480 --> 01:07:29,840 Speaker 2: and shame women about their bodies. 1369 01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:32,400 Speaker 3: I read about this story the other day on Facebook. 1370 01:07:32,440 --> 01:07:36,560 Speaker 2: I was like, really, HC says, I was concerned that 1371 01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:40,240 Speaker 2: Malo and Kyrouci stories colliding in the same episode with 1372 01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:43,400 Speaker 2: disrupt the space time continuum, or at least result in 1373 01:07:43,720 --> 01:07:46,600 Speaker 2: a four hour long episode of you two calling them 1374 01:07:46,680 --> 01:07:50,680 Speaker 2: all the names, except that on Yeah I'm Caring. 1375 01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:54,720 Speaker 3: Didn't get any Karujie chain hatend. 1376 01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:57,520 Speaker 2: On the name and I'm glad because she was talking 1377 01:07:57,520 --> 01:08:00,440 Speaker 2: about being beat up by Chris Brown and getting restrain 1378 01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:00,840 Speaker 2: in order. 1379 01:08:01,480 --> 01:08:03,960 Speaker 3: Just didn't feel like the time to be making fun 1380 01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:07,080 Speaker 3: of that lady's name, not this time, not just time, 1381 01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:09,160 Speaker 3: not just time. I can't get her. 1382 01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:11,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't promise you with the next story. 1383 01:08:11,880 --> 01:08:17,000 Speaker 2: Oh god, Max says, did you really say a twenty 1384 01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:19,080 Speaker 2: million dollar go fund me for a wedding doctor? 1385 01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:19,519 Speaker 3: Please? 1386 01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:24,360 Speaker 2: I don't know what that dead sister was thinking. Really 1387 01:08:24,439 --> 01:08:26,880 Speaker 2: dark Knight says, Hi ridy queen carry this nonsense? Will 1388 01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:28,560 Speaker 2: say it still really has me fucked with. 1389 01:08:29,040 --> 01:08:31,800 Speaker 3: Doesn't she have any girlfriends, black ones that could pull 1390 01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:33,320 Speaker 3: her to the sign and tell her what's up? She 1391 01:08:33,479 --> 01:08:35,320 Speaker 3: now reminds me of gop wack Chick. 1392 01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:38,120 Speaker 2: I think she feels like a hero to some folks, 1393 01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:40,760 Speaker 2: white ones when she talks bad about black people. I 1394 01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:42,639 Speaker 2: think that if she took a look around to see 1395 01:08:42,640 --> 01:08:44,920 Speaker 2: who's dapping her up, it might give her a pause. 1396 01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:48,599 Speaker 3: Then again, she might be cool with that, right. Yeah, 1397 01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:52,479 Speaker 3: That's how I'm thinking the latter, because that's. 1398 01:08:52,400 --> 01:08:54,320 Speaker 2: One of the things I think about. Man, Like certain 1399 01:08:54,360 --> 01:08:58,080 Speaker 2: should I say if the wrong people are bigging it up? 1400 01:08:58,200 --> 01:09:01,519 Speaker 2: I started, I'm like, maybe I'm wrong, Like, I don't 1401 01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:03,080 Speaker 2: think a lot of people have that in them, but 1402 01:09:03,880 --> 01:09:06,800 Speaker 2: I definitely have that in me. I'm like, like, if 1403 01:09:06,840 --> 01:09:08,479 Speaker 2: I said some shit and all of a sudden, all 1404 01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:11,120 Speaker 2: the whotep niggas start just retweeting it. I'm like, oh, 1405 01:09:11,360 --> 01:09:13,400 Speaker 2: I shouldn't have said, let me delete that, let me 1406 01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:16,320 Speaker 2: question this, Like these niggas are never write I'm not 1407 01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:17,280 Speaker 2: happy because they're on my. 1408 01:09:17,400 --> 01:09:19,120 Speaker 3: Side today, Like that's wrong. 1409 01:09:20,720 --> 01:09:22,640 Speaker 2: Also, it hurt me to my soul to look on 1410 01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:25,160 Speaker 2: Google and see that w NBA player who complained about 1411 01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:28,759 Speaker 2: lesbian's and the WNBA was black. Come on, sis, nobody 1412 01:09:28,840 --> 01:09:30,200 Speaker 2: knows who the hell you are, and this is a 1413 01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:32,040 Speaker 2: way to get people to buy your book. I'm here 1414 01:09:32,080 --> 01:09:36,120 Speaker 2: to tell you nobody gonna buy that shit girl by Yeah, 1415 01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:37,960 Speaker 2: I know she's gonna throw all this and everybody about 1416 01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:39,960 Speaker 2: to look at that book. Like I don't want to 1417 01:09:40,040 --> 01:09:42,519 Speaker 2: read about if I don't want to watch the w NBA, 1418 01:09:42,880 --> 01:09:44,320 Speaker 2: I'm definitely not reading about it. 1419 01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:48,599 Speaker 3: That's like who was her? Like who was a fan base? 1420 01:09:48,840 --> 01:09:51,640 Speaker 2: Oh maybe that's it people that hate the WNBA and 1421 01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:53,960 Speaker 2: certainly want to read about how I hate it, And 1422 01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:57,920 Speaker 2: it's like that's not how this works. Like, you you 1423 01:09:58,320 --> 01:10:00,680 Speaker 2: hate something popular, if you're gonna, if you gonna, if 1424 01:10:00,680 --> 01:10:03,519 Speaker 2: you gotta go to hate route to sale books, hate 1425 01:10:03,560 --> 01:10:07,040 Speaker 2: something that people everybody hates that's popular. 1426 01:10:07,320 --> 01:10:10,040 Speaker 3: Then AJ the engineer. 1427 01:10:09,760 --> 01:10:12,400 Speaker 2: Says, I promise, y'all, I had just gotten done with 1428 01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:14,760 Speaker 2: another Black folks need to do this conversation with my 1429 01:10:14,840 --> 01:10:17,080 Speaker 2: friends before listening to this episode. 1430 01:10:18,120 --> 01:10:19,519 Speaker 3: They didn't see anything wrong. 1431 01:10:19,320 --> 01:10:24,040 Speaker 2: With Oregano skid steals comments and agreed that she said 1432 01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:26,760 Speaker 2: some things black folks quote unquote needed to hear. Then 1433 01:10:26,800 --> 01:10:29,160 Speaker 2: they told me that I can't gloss over things and 1434 01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:31,559 Speaker 2: just blame white people. I told them to hold my drink. 1435 01:10:32,360 --> 01:10:34,120 Speaker 2: They gave me a bunch of reasons why stuff is 1436 01:10:34,160 --> 01:10:36,280 Speaker 2: wrong with the black community. Pretty much was a discussion 1437 01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:38,000 Speaker 2: of black folks would mean to me and that needs 1438 01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:38,360 Speaker 2: to stop. 1439 01:10:38,680 --> 01:10:40,519 Speaker 3: I told them that their experiences. 1440 01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:42,240 Speaker 2: Were valid, but any moment in time, white people were 1441 01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:44,880 Speaker 2: fucking things up way more. Also made the comment that 1442 01:10:44,960 --> 01:10:47,360 Speaker 2: white folks mean this can be dangerous and deadly. I 1443 01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:49,680 Speaker 2: honestly can't stand the criticism of the black community from 1444 01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:51,640 Speaker 2: other black people when we have Trumps and. 1445 01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:58,280 Speaker 3: Migos on TV. I really appreciate this podcast and the community. 1446 01:10:58,680 --> 01:11:00,960 Speaker 3: And he didn't say migos guys. I tried to change it. 1447 01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:05,840 Speaker 2: Oh, I really appreciate this podcast in the community around 1448 01:11:05,920 --> 01:11:08,800 Speaker 2: it because it reaffirms how many different types of black 1449 01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:11,559 Speaker 2: people are out there, how badass we all are black 1450 01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:12,320 Speaker 2: and three. 1451 01:11:13,640 --> 01:11:17,200 Speaker 3: Piece y'all thanks AJ and yeah man, that sucks. 1452 01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:17,439 Speaker 5: Man. 1453 01:11:18,120 --> 01:11:20,920 Speaker 2: That's the thing about anti blackness and white supremacy and shit, 1454 01:11:20,960 --> 01:11:22,320 Speaker 2: it's in a lot of It's in all of us. 1455 01:11:23,479 --> 01:11:25,200 Speaker 2: This is this is in all of us, man, And 1456 01:11:25,560 --> 01:11:27,880 Speaker 2: there are black people that really accept that shit. And 1457 01:11:28,520 --> 01:11:30,479 Speaker 2: there's places you can go where they really passed that 1458 01:11:30,600 --> 01:11:31,320 Speaker 2: down everybody. 1459 01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:33,880 Speaker 3: Uh, the poe was easy. 1460 01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:36,479 Speaker 2: Chris Brown, dangerous juice bag or just a kid making 1461 01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:43,720 Speaker 2: mistakes one hundred percent said dangerous juice Bag. I know 1462 01:11:43,800 --> 01:11:48,960 Speaker 2: it's so very rare. Pole no comment, so a kid. 1463 01:11:50,479 --> 01:11:50,840 Speaker 3: The poet. 1464 01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:53,320 Speaker 2: And then the last episode thirteen eighty nine, the Junk 1465 01:11:53,360 --> 01:11:56,479 Speaker 2: the cons Or. We recapped The Walking Dead with our girl, 1466 01:11:56,600 --> 01:11:59,920 Speaker 2: miss Smart, and we had two comments. 1467 01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:02,599 Speaker 3: D Ramsey pH Done says Rod, you know how good? 1468 01:12:02,680 --> 01:12:05,880 Speaker 3: And you know good? And darn well Richard's playing was basic. 1469 01:12:06,360 --> 01:12:09,719 Speaker 2: Daryl beat that ass and told him if she even sneezing, 1470 01:12:10,080 --> 01:12:13,280 Speaker 2: it's on and Pop locking listen. I feel what you're 1471 01:12:13,320 --> 01:12:16,559 Speaker 2: trying to say. I do, But just because of playing basic, 1472 01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:18,840 Speaker 2: don't make it not good. I ain't say the shit 1473 01:12:19,000 --> 01:12:21,040 Speaker 2: was elaborate. I just said it was a good plan. 1474 01:12:21,560 --> 01:12:23,280 Speaker 2: And if your ass was the first one on the 1475 01:12:23,360 --> 01:12:25,360 Speaker 2: firing squad like you, was gonna be the one. 1476 01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:28,240 Speaker 3: They backed to death. If the Kingdom get fucked up, 1477 01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:30,880 Speaker 3: you damn right, I'll kill that old lady and set 1478 01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:32,960 Speaker 3: up to die Thick. I give a fuck. 1479 01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:35,760 Speaker 2: I'm surprised Richard ain't just left yet. But that's the 1480 01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:37,840 Speaker 2: only bad part of his plan. I don't be like, well, 1481 01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:39,680 Speaker 2: what these other niggas talking about? But I guess he 1482 01:12:39,840 --> 01:12:44,280 Speaker 2: just realized that wherever he goes, the motherfucking u Savior 1483 01:12:44,360 --> 01:12:45,599 Speaker 2: is gonna be pop following. 1484 01:12:45,720 --> 01:12:49,479 Speaker 3: So but yeah, mm mm hm. 1485 01:12:49,600 --> 01:12:52,400 Speaker 2: Dog, y'all gonna stop hating on Richard dog he I mean, 1486 01:12:52,800 --> 01:12:54,680 Speaker 2: just imagine, if you watch this show you didn't know 1487 01:12:54,760 --> 01:12:56,880 Speaker 2: who Carol was, you'd be like, yeah, set her old 1488 01:12:56,960 --> 01:13:00,000 Speaker 2: ass up. Fuck I care about zeke on this old Lady. 1489 01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:05,120 Speaker 2: Three favorite scenes from this episode. One Carolyn Darryl reunite, 1490 01:13:05,160 --> 01:13:08,560 Speaker 2: but he lied. Two Darryl put Morgan van Jones in 1491 01:13:08,720 --> 01:13:10,080 Speaker 2: check ass in check. 1492 01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:15,479 Speaker 3: But Darrel, all lies matter. They're not bad people just 1493 01:13:15,479 --> 01:13:18,719 Speaker 3: because they voted for Trump. Rick and the Thunder. 1494 01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:21,120 Speaker 2: Now I want to see Morgan van Jones on CNN 1495 01:13:21,240 --> 01:13:26,560 Speaker 2: arguing and shit with that stick. Oh no, the cheesemaker 1496 01:13:26,680 --> 01:13:30,680 Speaker 2: told me that some of these people voted for Trump, but. 1497 01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:31,519 Speaker 5: They're still good. 1498 01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:36,719 Speaker 2: Rick and the thunder don't Walker asked aka winslow battle. 1499 01:13:37,280 --> 01:13:40,320 Speaker 3: Yeah that was yeah, Rick got fucked up. 1500 01:13:41,840 --> 01:13:45,880 Speaker 2: Last week, mister Swisher right saying we're about to get 1501 01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:49,880 Speaker 2: flashbacks of Rosie's past or were about to hear about 1502 01:13:49,920 --> 01:13:50,559 Speaker 2: her hostes. 1503 01:13:50,360 --> 01:13:52,880 Speaker 3: And dreams, and you know what that means. I believe 1504 01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:55,519 Speaker 3: her death will facilitate Carroll's return to the killing game. 1505 01:13:55,600 --> 01:13:56,160 Speaker 3: Love the show. 1506 01:13:57,160 --> 01:13:59,120 Speaker 2: I wonder if Carrol was even close to Rosie to 1507 01:13:59,280 --> 01:14:01,719 Speaker 2: like that, she even know if she gets killed. 1508 01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:05,439 Speaker 5: I don't think she was tight with my It's one 1509 01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:07,360 Speaker 5: of the things she knew of Rosita. But I don't 1510 01:14:07,400 --> 01:14:08,760 Speaker 5: think they were type like that. 1511 01:14:09,439 --> 01:14:10,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think only. 1512 01:14:11,800 --> 01:14:14,200 Speaker 2: Well low Ki man, It's it's not really a prediction, 1513 01:14:14,360 --> 01:14:16,160 Speaker 2: but I mean they've set it up. It could happen, 1514 01:14:16,640 --> 01:14:18,559 Speaker 2: low key. I think the death of Daryl might bring 1515 01:14:18,680 --> 01:14:21,680 Speaker 2: Carol back, and they have they do. They do have 1516 01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:25,320 Speaker 2: Daryl leaving the Kingdom right heading the Hilltop, so it's 1517 01:14:25,400 --> 01:14:27,720 Speaker 2: possible he could be spotted, right, And I. 1518 01:14:27,720 --> 01:14:30,080 Speaker 6: Don't know if he's really going where he said. 1519 01:14:29,880 --> 01:14:34,559 Speaker 3: He's really going right, So who knows? And the Poe 1520 01:14:34,800 --> 01:14:38,920 Speaker 3: was with a new group betrayed race group Yes with 1521 01:14:39,000 --> 01:14:44,360 Speaker 3: no Care no, no, okay fifty seven fifty seven percent 1522 01:14:44,439 --> 01:14:48,280 Speaker 3: say yes and forty three percent say nope. Let's close, 1523 01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:49,760 Speaker 3: Paul uh. 1524 01:14:49,840 --> 01:14:52,719 Speaker 2: Let's get into these voicemails, which this week I actually 1525 01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:53,840 Speaker 2: didn't get the pre screen, so. 1526 01:14:53,840 --> 01:14:56,639 Speaker 3: I hope nobody was up to know bullshit. We'll find 1527 01:14:56,680 --> 01:14:59,840 Speaker 3: out in a second Live on the L All right, 1528 01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:01,400 Speaker 3: why and Karen. 1529 01:15:01,280 --> 01:15:03,720 Speaker 6: And this is I V E. 1530 01:15:04,560 --> 01:15:07,040 Speaker 1: I noticed you have someone named E v E, which 1531 01:15:07,120 --> 01:15:08,880 Speaker 1: is really close to my name, so I'm gonna be 1532 01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:12,760 Speaker 1: I v E. So you think differentiate. It would be 1533 01:15:12,880 --> 01:15:15,479 Speaker 1: so bombed if you guys play my voicemail because I 1534 01:15:15,640 --> 01:15:19,320 Speaker 1: put some of my friends onto your show as well 1535 01:15:19,360 --> 01:15:21,200 Speaker 1: as This is Me. I'm calling for this is Me. 1536 01:15:21,640 --> 01:15:24,599 Speaker 1: This last episode, it really did hit me in the gut. 1537 01:15:24,760 --> 01:15:29,160 Speaker 1: I cried like a baby. It was just so sad 1538 01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:33,479 Speaker 1: to see, you know, my father died. But anyway, I 1539 01:15:33,600 --> 01:15:35,360 Speaker 1: just want to thank you guys for putting me onto 1540 01:15:35,439 --> 01:15:37,960 Speaker 1: the show. I love your show. I love listening to 1541 01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:40,000 Speaker 1: you guys. Thank you for everything you do. 1542 01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:45,240 Speaker 3: By bye, oh bye baby. First of all, me and 1543 01:15:46,560 --> 01:15:48,640 Speaker 3: honor that you are joined this too much. 1544 01:15:48,960 --> 01:15:51,840 Speaker 4: I said, yeah, that was for you and Bossy mm uh. 1545 01:15:52,000 --> 01:15:55,519 Speaker 2: And then secondly, thank you for putting your friends onto 1546 01:15:55,560 --> 01:16:01,599 Speaker 2: the show. Uh so, Friz well, friends of IVY, welcome 1547 01:16:01,640 --> 01:16:05,400 Speaker 2: to the party. Okay, better late than the next voicemail. 1548 01:16:09,560 --> 01:16:14,559 Speaker 7: Hello Ron, Hello Karen, This is Rue aka Kinky hot 1549 01:16:14,640 --> 01:16:15,759 Speaker 7: Crow on Twitter. 1550 01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:17,160 Speaker 3: This is Rue. 1551 01:16:17,760 --> 01:16:23,320 Speaker 7: Uh shortly for the long time back again. Just gonna 1552 01:16:23,360 --> 01:16:26,280 Speaker 7: say thank you all this week for all the content 1553 01:16:26,640 --> 01:16:29,880 Speaker 7: that was awesome. I guess I'm one of the ones 1554 01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:35,040 Speaker 7: that enjoy uh you're the walking Dad recap. This week 1555 01:16:35,280 --> 01:16:38,800 Speaker 7: was junk, the junk, the cons or my mother would 1556 01:16:38,800 --> 01:16:40,920 Speaker 7: say to junkin ass people with all that junk on the. 1557 01:16:40,960 --> 01:16:41,519 Speaker 3: Floor, get it. 1558 01:16:42,560 --> 01:16:45,800 Speaker 7: I enjoyed your guests. That was cool and smart is 1559 01:16:45,920 --> 01:16:46,360 Speaker 7: very good. 1560 01:16:46,560 --> 01:16:46,680 Speaker 5: Uh. 1561 01:16:46,840 --> 01:16:48,080 Speaker 7: You know I'm gonna prey for her. 1562 01:16:48,280 --> 01:16:48,439 Speaker 3: You know. 1563 01:16:48,600 --> 01:16:51,439 Speaker 7: Handbag struggle is real. You know your person, It's like 1564 01:16:51,960 --> 01:16:54,479 Speaker 7: it's a part of you and when you miss it, 1565 01:16:54,600 --> 01:16:57,479 Speaker 7: you missing you missing like like if you like missing 1566 01:16:57,600 --> 01:17:00,640 Speaker 7: like your boo or something like, you're missing it like 1567 01:17:00,920 --> 01:17:03,840 Speaker 7: it has everything. So Karen broke it down to you 1568 01:17:03,920 --> 01:17:06,560 Speaker 7: what we all carry but you know, handbag, you know, 1569 01:17:06,640 --> 01:17:10,560 Speaker 7: pocketbook struggle is like everything for me. I carry like 1570 01:17:11,680 --> 01:17:14,360 Speaker 7: all of what Karen said, and like a copy of 1571 01:17:14,479 --> 01:17:17,560 Speaker 7: the like what is it the Constitution? You know that 1572 01:17:17,680 --> 01:17:20,439 Speaker 7: I got from the ACOU. I donated a one time, 1573 01:17:20,560 --> 01:17:22,240 Speaker 7: you know, and they were like, hey, we want you 1574 01:17:22,320 --> 01:17:24,080 Speaker 7: to see you again. I'm like, nah, I'm good. I 1575 01:17:24,200 --> 01:17:26,680 Speaker 7: just wanted the Constitution just in case I have to 1576 01:17:26,840 --> 01:17:28,760 Speaker 7: you know, read it or hit somebody with it, you know, 1577 01:17:29,000 --> 01:17:31,439 Speaker 7: because it's real out hear in Trump's America. You know, 1578 01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:33,200 Speaker 7: that's what Trump's America. 1579 01:17:33,080 --> 01:17:33,720 Speaker 3: Do to you, man. 1580 01:17:34,360 --> 01:17:36,840 Speaker 7: So I just wanted to say that, and I enjoyed it. 1581 01:17:37,080 --> 01:17:41,080 Speaker 7: And this was a good explanation of just gonna say, 1582 01:17:41,160 --> 01:17:44,400 Speaker 7: you know, Richard, you're dick, not even a going you're 1583 01:17:44,479 --> 01:17:46,760 Speaker 7: you're you're you're horrible setting up people like that. And 1584 01:17:46,840 --> 01:17:49,800 Speaker 7: you guys called it, you know, ingenious playing. Yeah, but 1585 01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:53,080 Speaker 7: that's that's a that's a that's horrible. That's a horrible move. 1586 01:17:53,240 --> 01:17:57,360 Speaker 7: But I guess because you know, we miss Carol, you 1587 01:17:57,439 --> 01:17:59,880 Speaker 7: know we's gonna riot, it's gonna be something, you know. 1588 01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:03,880 Speaker 7: So his ass whooping was apt. So and Gabe, I 1589 01:18:03,960 --> 01:18:07,880 Speaker 7: guess you redeem yourself Okay, you know, I guess you 1590 01:18:07,960 --> 01:18:11,200 Speaker 7: weren't really gonna kill anybody, you know, all right, whatever, 1591 01:18:11,320 --> 01:18:14,120 Speaker 7: But this was a good episode and it was a 1592 01:18:14,240 --> 01:18:18,680 Speaker 7: good recap. This episode y'all had and good guests and 1593 01:18:18,760 --> 01:18:21,880 Speaker 7: good everything. So this is me and love you both, 1594 01:18:22,240 --> 01:18:24,759 Speaker 7: love miss Mitt, love everything, and I'm gone. 1595 01:18:24,600 --> 01:18:28,920 Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you. Oh. 1596 01:18:29,120 --> 01:18:33,240 Speaker 2: Also, I will say this, the fucked up part of 1597 01:18:33,320 --> 01:18:35,759 Speaker 2: Richard's plan was that he told Darrell too much information. 1598 01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:38,800 Speaker 2: So I'll give y' all that, like you probably should 1599 01:18:38,800 --> 01:18:41,080 Speaker 2: have just said, my plan is to kill these savors 1600 01:18:41,120 --> 01:18:44,360 Speaker 2: on the road and lead them into a trap or 1601 01:18:44,400 --> 01:18:46,120 Speaker 2: something and then they'll come make us fight or something. 1602 01:18:46,120 --> 01:18:48,640 Speaker 2: He should have said something like that, says, tell him 1603 01:18:48,680 --> 01:18:50,240 Speaker 2: there are a lot of that information led to him 1604 01:18:50,280 --> 01:18:53,639 Speaker 2: finding out that Carol was alive. And then Darrel ain't 1605 01:18:53,680 --> 01:18:56,680 Speaker 2: never gonna, you know, side with you against Carol. That 1606 01:18:56,800 --> 01:19:00,000 Speaker 2: was that's stupid, all right, last. 1607 01:19:03,439 --> 01:19:06,160 Speaker 9: Yo, Right, Sarah, this is a drow in the a. 1608 01:19:08,080 --> 01:19:10,519 Speaker 9: I just saw y'all automatic payment go through for the 1609 01:19:10,760 --> 01:19:12,800 Speaker 9: for the Freeman. Then I just want to say I 1610 01:19:12,880 --> 01:19:17,080 Speaker 9: appreciate the good y'all put out on consistent base, you know, 1611 01:19:17,960 --> 01:19:21,000 Speaker 9: I appreciate the thing to tell on the family because 1612 01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:26,400 Speaker 9: you know, fifteen thousands definitely affordable for everybody. I just 1613 01:19:26,479 --> 01:19:29,840 Speaker 9: wanted to let y'all know that I will be moving 1614 01:19:29,920 --> 01:19:33,000 Speaker 9: to the Dalla for the first area or so instead 1615 01:19:33,000 --> 01:19:34,720 Speaker 9: of drow from the A. It's gonna be drove from 1616 01:19:34,760 --> 01:19:40,839 Speaker 9: the deep, but definitely I will definitely want to Charlotte, 1617 01:19:40,840 --> 01:19:43,560 Speaker 9: So get hope. Man, I just just played ball and 1618 01:19:44,400 --> 01:19:47,920 Speaker 9: that's why. And Atlanta from the last Saturday. For man, 1619 01:19:48,320 --> 01:19:51,320 Speaker 9: it was all right, I'm gonna miss the Camaradery, but 1620 01:19:52,120 --> 01:19:55,160 Speaker 9: I want to let y'all know I appreciate tell and 1621 01:19:55,360 --> 01:19:56,880 Speaker 9: you know, one damn I had to get out to 1622 01:19:56,960 --> 01:19:58,840 Speaker 9: try to be like to chop it up, you know, 1623 01:19:59,520 --> 01:20:04,639 Speaker 9: you know what. I'm all right, Oh Man, thank you Joe. 1624 01:20:05,520 --> 01:20:07,599 Speaker 2: And yeah, we're gonna definitely make that happen. I'm gonna 1625 01:20:07,600 --> 01:20:11,559 Speaker 2: talk to Justin Well his arms hurt, but by the time, 1626 01:20:12,200 --> 01:20:14,360 Speaker 2: hopefully he'll be playing soon because we're gonna definitely make 1627 01:20:14,400 --> 01:20:16,280 Speaker 2: it happen. Before you go to the d Man, we 1628 01:20:16,320 --> 01:20:18,920 Speaker 2: don't want you to have to travel that far to 1629 01:20:18,960 --> 01:20:21,599 Speaker 2: come and see us. But yeah, we're gonna make that happen. 1630 01:20:21,680 --> 01:20:25,640 Speaker 2: Dog So and I got your calendar too. I just 1631 01:20:25,760 --> 01:20:27,759 Speaker 2: been lazy I gotta mail it. I'm a mail it today. 1632 01:20:28,760 --> 01:20:30,599 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for your support, bro, it means 1633 01:20:30,640 --> 01:20:34,400 Speaker 2: a lot to us, sincerely, So yeah. 1634 01:20:34,280 --> 01:20:35,760 Speaker 3: We're gonna make it. We're gonna make it happen. 1635 01:20:35,840 --> 01:20:36,040 Speaker 6: Dog. 1636 01:20:37,040 --> 01:20:39,360 Speaker 3: We got a bunch of emails. So actually, let me. 1637 01:20:41,120 --> 01:20:45,080 Speaker 2: Create the next session now, because I didn't know if 1638 01:20:45,120 --> 01:20:46,880 Speaker 2: it was gonna be a two session show or not 1639 01:20:47,080 --> 01:20:50,720 Speaker 2: in a second. Uh, And then when it's time, we'll 1640 01:20:50,800 --> 01:20:55,800 Speaker 2: switch over to that session and I'll let me start 1641 01:20:55,840 --> 01:20:57,759 Speaker 2: these emails. All right, cool, I've credited. 1642 01:20:58,720 --> 01:21:00,679 Speaker 3: All right, let's go to this one. 1643 01:21:00,960 --> 01:21:05,040 Speaker 2: This is from Minerva A eight four to three, who 1644 01:21:05,120 --> 01:21:07,200 Speaker 2: says a message of thanks from a nerve of AA 1645 01:21:07,320 --> 01:21:07,720 Speaker 2: four to three. 1646 01:21:08,280 --> 01:21:10,519 Speaker 3: Dear Roding Karen, I've been listening to your show for 1647 01:21:10,560 --> 01:21:11,360 Speaker 3: a couple of years now. 1648 01:21:11,360 --> 01:21:14,200 Speaker 2: I was introduced through listening to Twin and hair Rod 1649 01:21:14,320 --> 01:21:16,880 Speaker 2: calling every so often. From that, I find your show, 1650 01:21:18,439 --> 01:21:20,400 Speaker 2: But first I balked it. Oh wait, no, I read 1651 01:21:20,479 --> 01:21:21,160 Speaker 2: this one last week. 1652 01:21:21,960 --> 01:21:23,559 Speaker 3: Okay, all right, cool, cool, all right. 1653 01:21:24,040 --> 01:21:26,439 Speaker 2: Go back and do another one, all right, nerd geek 1654 01:21:26,520 --> 01:21:30,439 Speaker 2: Ninja says, Hey, Rod and Karen, I hope this gets 1655 01:21:30,520 --> 01:21:32,040 Speaker 2: in before the feedback show starts. 1656 01:21:32,080 --> 01:21:34,720 Speaker 3: Well, guess what it did not, but it got in 1657 01:21:34,880 --> 01:21:35,639 Speaker 3: before this one did. 1658 01:21:36,280 --> 01:21:36,360 Speaker 5: Uh. 1659 01:21:36,600 --> 01:21:39,280 Speaker 2: It's a mind nerd geek ninja on Instagram and Twitter. 1660 01:21:39,640 --> 01:21:41,960 Speaker 2: Haven't call her written in In quite a while. I've 1661 01:21:41,960 --> 01:21:43,440 Speaker 2: been busy revamping. 1662 01:21:43,080 --> 01:21:44,960 Speaker 3: My life and taking notes from all the people who 1663 01:21:45,000 --> 01:21:45,519 Speaker 3: inspire me. 1664 01:21:45,960 --> 01:21:48,080 Speaker 2: You and Karen being a monks though, So I just 1665 01:21:48,160 --> 01:21:51,200 Speaker 2: wanted to stop and show y'all some love for everything 1666 01:21:51,280 --> 01:21:53,639 Speaker 2: you do, even when I'm behind on episodes. I love 1667 01:21:53,720 --> 01:21:55,880 Speaker 2: seeing that y'all are up on the ending, which I'll 1668 01:21:55,920 --> 01:21:57,760 Speaker 2: love up to on the Instagram and the Twitter. I 1669 01:21:57,880 --> 01:22:02,000 Speaker 2: love your new hair color, Karen. Thank you guys for 1670 01:22:02,080 --> 01:22:05,680 Speaker 2: all your inspirational us inspiration. Really, today's my birthday and 1671 01:22:05,720 --> 01:22:07,960 Speaker 2: I'll check it first of all, have happy belated birth 1672 01:22:09,400 --> 01:22:11,560 Speaker 2: and I'm happy some of my long time goal to 1673 01:22:11,800 --> 01:22:13,360 Speaker 2: check some of my long time goals off the list. 1674 01:22:13,439 --> 01:22:15,120 Speaker 2: Last year I started my duella business. 1675 01:22:15,640 --> 01:22:17,639 Speaker 3: Oh well, I'm know I'm pronouncing that wrong. I'm sorry. 1676 01:22:18,439 --> 01:22:18,880 Speaker 3: Up again. 1677 01:22:19,000 --> 01:22:22,120 Speaker 2: I'm promoting my art work more, agregating confidence in what 1678 01:22:22,280 --> 01:22:25,120 Speaker 2: I create, and I started a podcast this year. And 1679 01:22:25,280 --> 01:22:27,720 Speaker 2: I've had the idea for over three years. I just 1680 01:22:27,760 --> 01:22:33,080 Speaker 2: didn't have the confidence. Hey with us dope, congratulations. Sometimes 1681 01:22:33,200 --> 01:22:35,000 Speaker 2: my inner Charlie Brown will pop up and say, what 1682 01:22:35,120 --> 01:22:38,160 Speaker 2: a rider car are just so inspirational that they'll inspire 1683 01:22:38,240 --> 01:22:40,880 Speaker 2: mediocre people to do things that they have no business doing. 1684 01:22:41,640 --> 01:22:45,160 Speaker 2: Then my inner karent says, do you baby, you should 1685 01:22:45,240 --> 01:22:47,800 Speaker 2: believe in yourself and then she goes on a rant 1686 01:22:47,800 --> 01:22:49,920 Speaker 2: about black women and self love that leads to another 1687 01:22:50,000 --> 01:22:52,280 Speaker 2: rant about Agent ooris president, why you can't start a 1688 01:22:52,360 --> 01:22:53,160 Speaker 2: damn podcast? 1689 01:22:54,520 --> 01:22:56,360 Speaker 3: Love you guys, Thank you again. Emon. 1690 01:22:58,120 --> 01:23:01,960 Speaker 2: Well, oh, and then well, if you have the Nerd 1691 01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:04,800 Speaker 2: Geting Ninja podcast on Instagram. Okay, so you got nerd. 1692 01:23:04,960 --> 01:23:07,240 Speaker 2: The name of the podcast is Nerd Getting Ninja. All right, cool, 1693 01:23:07,240 --> 01:23:12,040 Speaker 2: I'm gonna add it to my rotation. And also, uh, 1694 01:23:13,040 --> 01:23:15,640 Speaker 2: if we inspire mediocre black people to go out and 1695 01:23:15,800 --> 01:23:19,680 Speaker 2: do things that have no business doing, Uh, that's really that. 1696 01:23:19,880 --> 01:23:21,800 Speaker 3: That's the best compliment we can have for the show. 1697 01:23:23,320 --> 01:23:26,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, get y'all ass out there and get all the 1698 01:23:26,640 --> 01:23:30,360 Speaker 2: credit for being mediocre, get more credit than you deserve. 1699 01:23:30,600 --> 01:23:31,920 Speaker 3: That's that's that's equality. 1700 01:23:32,880 --> 01:23:36,920 Speaker 2: Queen Sugar is from Gwen high Ridy Karen, Hope you 1701 01:23:36,960 --> 01:23:38,720 Speaker 2: guys are doing well. I really wanted to let you 1702 01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:40,559 Speaker 2: know that I enjoy listening to the show and standing 1703 01:23:40,560 --> 01:23:43,280 Speaker 2: the forum on the latest issues. I love your recaps 1704 01:23:43,360 --> 01:23:45,040 Speaker 2: of This is Us. I don't know if you can 1705 01:23:45,200 --> 01:23:46,960 Speaker 2: if you watch the show or not, but I would 1706 01:23:47,000 --> 01:23:49,160 Speaker 2: love it if you could reconsider doing a recap of 1707 01:23:49,240 --> 01:23:51,200 Speaker 2: Queen Sugar. It's one of the greatest shows. Okay, well, 1708 01:23:51,240 --> 01:23:53,080 Speaker 2: thanks again for a great podcast. 1709 01:23:53,200 --> 01:24:01,200 Speaker 3: Love Gwen. I can't remember. I remember, like Karen, I 1710 01:24:01,320 --> 01:24:03,479 Speaker 3: was waiting up, caring to catch up for a long time. 1711 01:24:04,360 --> 01:24:07,960 Speaker 3: But you know how she is, guys, you know it's. 1712 01:24:07,800 --> 01:24:11,160 Speaker 4: Just probably do well you can do find somebody else. 1713 01:24:11,160 --> 01:24:11,400 Speaker 6: I don't. 1714 01:24:12,720 --> 01:24:14,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought Karen was gonna be in for the 1715 01:24:15,000 --> 01:24:17,040 Speaker 2: long ride with me on this one, y'all, and she 1716 01:24:17,200 --> 01:24:18,479 Speaker 2: let us all down, really. 1717 01:24:19,960 --> 01:24:23,680 Speaker 3: Running for you, for you. I love Queen Sugar. I 1718 01:24:23,840 --> 01:24:27,000 Speaker 3: just you know, I just didn't. I mean, I definitely know. 1719 01:24:27,120 --> 01:24:30,360 Speaker 2: We won't be doing an episode by episode review, I 1720 01:24:30,360 --> 01:24:32,280 Speaker 2: don't think, because I think it comes on around the 1721 01:24:32,320 --> 01:24:34,320 Speaker 2: same time as Walking Dead if I'm not mistaken. 1722 01:24:37,040 --> 01:24:39,679 Speaker 3: But uh yeah, if I did a review, it'll probably 1723 01:24:39,680 --> 01:24:40,720 Speaker 3: be off season. I don't know. 1724 01:24:40,880 --> 01:24:42,560 Speaker 2: Sometimes I just watch stuff and I don't review it 1725 01:24:42,600 --> 01:24:46,559 Speaker 2: because you know, we're not necessarily a TV show review podcast. 1726 01:24:46,680 --> 01:24:50,240 Speaker 2: And it also, you know, when I review stuff like 1727 01:24:50,320 --> 01:24:52,679 Speaker 2: I take notes and I watch it more than once 1728 01:24:52,760 --> 01:24:55,120 Speaker 2: and all that stuff, And sometimes I just want to 1729 01:24:55,120 --> 01:24:56,720 Speaker 2: sit back and relax and enjoy a show. 1730 01:24:56,760 --> 01:25:00,479 Speaker 3: And I love Queen Sugar, But like I said, said. 1731 01:25:00,439 --> 01:25:03,639 Speaker 2: I didn't want to just review it alone at the time, 1732 01:25:03,760 --> 01:25:06,920 Speaker 2: and I didn't want to do an. 1733 01:25:06,520 --> 01:25:09,759 Speaker 3: Episode by episode review either, So I mean, but it's still. 1734 01:25:09,560 --> 01:25:11,479 Speaker 2: One of my favorite shows, and I'm caught all the 1735 01:25:11,520 --> 01:25:15,920 Speaker 2: way up and I watch it. So all right, let's 1736 01:25:15,920 --> 01:25:20,160 Speaker 2: see what else you got here. You guys really need 1737 01:25:20,280 --> 01:25:23,439 Speaker 2: to get on caring more about watching stuff. Okay, I'm 1738 01:25:23,479 --> 01:25:23,960 Speaker 2: not the one that. 1739 01:25:25,080 --> 01:25:28,519 Speaker 6: Don't waste your time right now, y'all got to you 1740 01:25:28,680 --> 01:25:28,960 Speaker 6: just be in. 1741 01:25:29,000 --> 01:25:33,720 Speaker 3: That playing game, ignoring y'all needs your fans. You am 1742 01:25:33,800 --> 01:25:35,320 Speaker 3: the right saying thank you. 1743 01:25:35,479 --> 01:25:37,400 Speaker 2: I've been meeting to write you both for some time, 1744 01:25:37,479 --> 01:25:39,719 Speaker 2: and yeah, I always find myself, for one reason or another, 1745 01:25:39,800 --> 01:25:42,280 Speaker 2: unable to put down how grateful I am to both 1746 01:25:42,320 --> 01:25:44,120 Speaker 2: of you for everything you do on your podcast. I 1747 01:25:44,200 --> 01:25:46,400 Speaker 2: started listening to y'all after the election, and like most 1748 01:25:46,520 --> 01:25:49,200 Speaker 2: of white liberal America, I was frozen by fear and 1749 01:25:49,240 --> 01:25:51,439 Speaker 2: the hatred that I saw come out of the election 1750 01:25:51,680 --> 01:25:54,880 Speaker 2: of he who must not be named AKA are white 1751 01:25:55,080 --> 01:25:58,679 Speaker 2: man and I can, and I was seeking to find 1752 01:25:58,720 --> 01:26:01,639 Speaker 2: ways to be a better alline pomp accomplished to people 1753 01:26:01,840 --> 01:26:04,439 Speaker 2: and accomplished to people of color. I happened upon the 1754 01:26:04,560 --> 01:26:07,240 Speaker 2: Interracial John, which I also listened to, and then I 1755 01:26:07,600 --> 01:26:09,160 Speaker 2: heard them talk about how amazing the. 1756 01:26:09,160 --> 01:26:11,680 Speaker 3: Blackout Tests podcast was. Well, you know, we loved Drew 1757 01:26:11,760 --> 01:26:14,640 Speaker 3: and Leslie's all reciprocal over here. 1758 01:26:15,479 --> 01:26:17,320 Speaker 2: The first episode I listened to captured me, and I 1759 01:26:17,400 --> 01:26:19,680 Speaker 2: haven't stopped listening, although I'm not able to listen to 1760 01:26:19,720 --> 01:26:21,479 Speaker 2: each episode, to try to listen to them as often 1761 01:26:21,520 --> 01:26:24,320 Speaker 2: as a can. As a white queer clergy person, I 1762 01:26:24,400 --> 01:26:26,280 Speaker 2: thought I was already a good aue lot of people 1763 01:26:26,320 --> 01:26:28,040 Speaker 2: of color, Yet I hadn't taken time to listen to 1764 01:26:28,120 --> 01:26:31,280 Speaker 2: honest thoughts about the news, racism, and life from black 1765 01:26:31,320 --> 01:26:34,040 Speaker 2: and brown voices. When I first started listening to y'all, 1766 01:26:34,280 --> 01:26:35,960 Speaker 2: I had to do a lot of checking my own 1767 01:26:36,000 --> 01:26:38,840 Speaker 2: white fragility, my own white tears hell. I didn't even 1768 01:26:38,840 --> 01:26:41,080 Speaker 2: know what white fragility was. To hear the truth of 1769 01:26:42,240 --> 01:26:44,560 Speaker 2: what y'all were saying. I'm not always good at it, 1770 01:26:44,640 --> 01:26:46,439 Speaker 2: but I keep trying all of this to say thank you, 1771 01:26:46,560 --> 01:26:48,759 Speaker 2: thank you for your wisdom, intelligence, and no whole bar's 1772 01:26:48,760 --> 01:26:52,280 Speaker 2: approach to the news and expression of your perception of perspectives. 1773 01:26:52,800 --> 01:26:55,960 Speaker 2: Rod thank you for continually presenting different sides to issues 1774 01:26:56,000 --> 01:26:58,760 Speaker 2: that I never have thought about. The ease at which 1775 01:26:58,760 --> 01:27:01,800 Speaker 2: you present different perspectives challenges me to see things that 1776 01:27:01,920 --> 01:27:04,800 Speaker 2: are often blinded to because of my white privilege. Your 1777 01:27:04,840 --> 01:27:08,080 Speaker 2: love of nerd culture, honoring supporting women's voices, and quick 1778 01:27:08,160 --> 01:27:11,439 Speaker 2: wit puns never cease to amaze me. Karen, Thank you 1779 01:27:11,560 --> 01:27:14,120 Speaker 2: for so passionate. First of all, thank you back, appreciate it. 1780 01:27:14,280 --> 01:27:17,360 Speaker 3: Thank you, Karen. Thank you for so passionately expressing my 1781 01:27:17,439 --> 01:27:18,519 Speaker 3: own thoughts and beliefs. 1782 01:27:19,240 --> 01:27:22,880 Speaker 2: You've talked about anger that fuels your passion for speaking 1783 01:27:22,920 --> 01:27:25,959 Speaker 2: out and support a black women, the LGBTQI a community, 1784 01:27:26,479 --> 01:27:30,920 Speaker 2: and those most marginalized, And for those reasons and more, 1785 01:27:31,160 --> 01:27:33,599 Speaker 2: I so appreciate your wisdom and feel honored to learn 1786 01:27:33,640 --> 01:27:36,160 Speaker 2: from you. To ease at what you laugh, admit to 1787 01:27:36,240 --> 01:27:38,280 Speaker 2: not knowing things, and simply just don't give a fuck 1788 01:27:38,280 --> 01:27:41,280 Speaker 2: about certain aspects of white culture helped me continue laughing, 1789 01:27:41,400 --> 01:27:43,559 Speaker 2: learning and challenges me to re examine what it means 1790 01:27:43,600 --> 01:27:46,880 Speaker 2: to be white. A white ally for racial justice because 1791 01:27:46,920 --> 01:27:49,000 Speaker 2: of y'all in the podcast. I've been more vocal in 1792 01:27:49,080 --> 01:27:51,960 Speaker 2: my own communities by supporting black and brown artists, challenging 1793 01:27:51,960 --> 01:27:54,680 Speaker 2: systemic racism, and working the dismant of white supremacy. 1794 01:27:55,280 --> 01:27:55,400 Speaker 6: Yo. 1795 01:27:55,520 --> 01:27:58,560 Speaker 2: That's dope, it has more, she has more hold on. 1796 01:27:58,600 --> 01:28:03,920 Speaker 2: I gotta go to the next session real quick, right 1797 01:28:04,000 --> 01:28:05,160 Speaker 2: back on with that. 1798 01:28:05,560 --> 01:28:06,800 Speaker 6: Oh, thank you baby. 1799 01:28:07,640 --> 01:28:10,160 Speaker 5: You know, a lot of times it's the little things 1800 01:28:10,200 --> 01:28:13,519 Speaker 5: that count, and a lot of changes don't happen instantly. 1801 01:28:15,320 --> 01:28:16,920 Speaker 5: And when it comes to a lot of this stuff, 1802 01:28:18,000 --> 01:28:20,240 Speaker 5: it's very it's human nature, and it's very hard to 1803 01:28:20,360 --> 01:28:22,320 Speaker 5: self check because self check. 1804 01:28:22,360 --> 01:28:24,479 Speaker 6: More mean it being that you were wrong. 1805 01:28:24,840 --> 01:28:27,640 Speaker 5: You don't know always know the answers, the things you 1806 01:28:27,720 --> 01:28:30,960 Speaker 5: were taught were wrong. You know, things have been instilled 1807 01:28:30,960 --> 01:28:33,080 Speaker 5: in you ain't right. And that's very, very hard for 1808 01:28:33,240 --> 01:28:36,840 Speaker 5: people to come to the realization that it's some shit 1809 01:28:37,040 --> 01:28:40,599 Speaker 5: that you believe that just ain't right. People don't want 1810 01:28:40,640 --> 01:28:44,240 Speaker 5: to reject something that they have always deemed as correct. 1811 01:28:44,800 --> 01:28:48,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's emotional because like you had that moment 1812 01:28:48,400 --> 01:28:51,559 Speaker 2: of being like I was wrong about something, and everybody, 1813 01:28:52,040 --> 01:28:56,200 Speaker 2: how seriously you take that moment is predicated upon a 1814 01:28:56,280 --> 01:29:00,200 Speaker 2: lot of shit, you know, especially when someone's telling you 1815 01:29:00,439 --> 01:29:03,840 Speaker 2: that you're not the center in universe, or you didn't 1816 01:29:03,880 --> 01:29:06,120 Speaker 2: have it as hard as you think, or there are 1817 01:29:06,160 --> 01:29:09,240 Speaker 2: people that are having things worse than you or more 1818 01:29:09,320 --> 01:29:11,320 Speaker 2: deserving than you, or there are people that you just 1819 01:29:12,120 --> 01:29:14,400 Speaker 2: take for granted and shit like people no one likes 1820 01:29:14,439 --> 01:29:19,000 Speaker 2: hearing that shit, you know, like, and I think almost 1821 01:29:19,240 --> 01:29:21,960 Speaker 2: all the time, people's first reaction is wrong, you know, 1822 01:29:22,320 --> 01:29:23,920 Speaker 2: because that's your first reaction. 1823 01:29:24,080 --> 01:29:26,720 Speaker 3: And I think also sometimes you look back and. 1824 01:29:28,200 --> 01:29:31,040 Speaker 2: You feel shame yep, because it's like I'm a shame 1825 01:29:31,280 --> 01:29:35,200 Speaker 2: of where I was compared to where I am now. 1826 01:29:35,840 --> 01:29:39,120 Speaker 2: But I try to not worry about that because you 1827 01:29:39,160 --> 01:29:42,519 Speaker 2: know a lot of people you know, feel like, you know, 1828 01:29:42,680 --> 01:29:46,000 Speaker 2: guilt and shame are like the best weapon is to 1829 01:29:46,040 --> 01:29:48,920 Speaker 2: get people to change and to do the right by people. 1830 01:29:48,960 --> 01:29:52,519 Speaker 2: And they're not wrong, they often are. But I think 1831 01:29:52,640 --> 01:29:58,280 Speaker 2: to have the resilience, the vigilance to keep on caring 1832 01:29:58,320 --> 01:30:00,880 Speaker 2: about people, it can't just be shame and get like 1833 01:30:01,000 --> 01:30:06,639 Speaker 2: because that's also yeah, like that's also patriarchal. Like it's 1834 01:30:06,720 --> 01:30:10,360 Speaker 2: also a reflection of pity and looking down on somebody, 1835 01:30:10,920 --> 01:30:14,120 Speaker 2: and that's that's not really equality either, you know, it's 1836 01:30:14,200 --> 01:30:18,120 Speaker 2: not seeing everybody as the same, but seeing everybody as 1837 01:30:18,200 --> 01:30:22,479 Speaker 2: worthy of an equal, you know, seeing seeing everybody as 1838 01:30:22,640 --> 01:30:25,920 Speaker 2: having something to add to this, to this, to this life, 1839 01:30:26,120 --> 01:30:29,439 Speaker 2: you know. So I think that's a hard place to 1840 01:30:29,520 --> 01:30:32,880 Speaker 2: reach for a lot of people. Also, I don't know 1841 01:30:33,000 --> 01:30:39,640 Speaker 2: that i'm particularly uh necessarily gifted in any way that 1842 01:30:39,760 --> 01:30:43,360 Speaker 2: I have necessarily earned. I just feel like I'm I 1843 01:30:43,560 --> 01:30:46,080 Speaker 2: just have a lot of empathy, but I can't turn 1844 01:30:46,160 --> 01:30:48,800 Speaker 2: it off. So it's not like I wake up and 1845 01:30:48,840 --> 01:30:50,760 Speaker 2: I'm like, well, let me figure a way out that 1846 01:30:51,200 --> 01:30:53,760 Speaker 2: this is wrong. It's like I just certain ship. 1847 01:30:54,000 --> 01:30:55,360 Speaker 3: It's just the way I see the world. And I'm 1848 01:30:55,400 --> 01:30:57,320 Speaker 3: sure I'm wrong on ship too. 1849 01:30:57,439 --> 01:30:59,960 Speaker 2: Sometimes I just don't know better or whatever, like because 1850 01:31:00,080 --> 01:31:04,639 Speaker 2: everybody's like that, but certain shit is just like, especially 1851 01:31:04,720 --> 01:31:07,559 Speaker 2: being a person that's black in America, I just kind 1852 01:31:07,600 --> 01:31:09,679 Speaker 2: of come back to that and I'm like, what about 1853 01:31:09,800 --> 01:31:13,360 Speaker 2: this situation makes me think about my situation? And that's 1854 01:31:13,439 --> 01:31:17,040 Speaker 2: normally how I navigate the world. So, you know, as 1855 01:31:17,080 --> 01:31:22,040 Speaker 2: a person that you said is on the spectrum LGBTQ. 1856 01:31:22,360 --> 01:31:22,600 Speaker 6: I A. 1857 01:31:24,400 --> 01:31:26,759 Speaker 2: As somebody like I'm sure you had your and especially 1858 01:31:26,760 --> 01:31:29,040 Speaker 2: a clergy woman like I'm sure you had your moments 1859 01:31:29,160 --> 01:31:31,720 Speaker 2: or you like, yeah, this is fucked up, Like this 1860 01:31:31,880 --> 01:31:35,000 Speaker 2: is only happening to me because you know, because I'm 1861 01:31:35,080 --> 01:31:37,680 Speaker 2: queer in some way, this is like, this is only 1862 01:31:37,800 --> 01:31:40,760 Speaker 2: happening to like And so I just think about that 1863 01:31:40,960 --> 01:31:44,920 Speaker 2: feeling when I'm navigating the world, and I think about 1864 01:31:46,000 --> 01:31:47,960 Speaker 2: other people, and I don't want them to have to 1865 01:31:48,000 --> 01:31:49,519 Speaker 2: feel like I feel, and I don't want to make 1866 01:31:49,560 --> 01:31:52,720 Speaker 2: them feel that way if I can help it, you know, 1867 01:31:52,960 --> 01:31:55,320 Speaker 2: cause I don't. I mean, some people just don't have 1868 01:31:55,439 --> 01:31:57,920 Speaker 2: a thing, you know. Some people aren't a woman, some 1869 01:31:58,040 --> 01:32:02,720 Speaker 2: people aren't LGBTQ, some people aren't whatever, you know, like 1870 01:32:02,800 --> 01:32:05,000 Speaker 2: wherever they're at, they're just like, I'm not any of 1871 01:32:05,080 --> 01:32:09,080 Speaker 2: these things. So the whole concept is foreign to them. 1872 01:32:09,280 --> 01:32:09,479 Speaker 6: You know. 1873 01:32:09,720 --> 01:32:15,320 Speaker 3: They just can't imagine how anybody else feels about something. 1874 01:32:15,360 --> 01:32:16,080 Speaker 3: But I just can't. 1875 01:32:17,800 --> 01:32:19,800 Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to live a life where I didn't 1876 01:32:19,840 --> 01:32:23,040 Speaker 2: think about other people. And I don't know, you know, 1877 01:32:23,200 --> 01:32:26,240 Speaker 2: when I hear how colde and callous people are towards 1878 01:32:26,320 --> 01:32:28,639 Speaker 2: other people, it just, I don't know, it just makes 1879 01:32:28,680 --> 01:32:31,920 Speaker 2: you I don't know, Like I don't think the world 1880 01:32:32,000 --> 01:32:35,519 Speaker 2: can all be on the same shit at the same time. 1881 01:32:35,640 --> 01:32:37,360 Speaker 3: But some of this stuff is just. 1882 01:32:37,479 --> 01:32:42,200 Speaker 2: Like, man, you really don't recognize how harmful what you're 1883 01:32:42,280 --> 01:32:45,720 Speaker 2: saying and doing this, and you definitely don't realize how 1884 01:32:47,160 --> 01:32:49,280 Speaker 2: easy it is to undo some of this shit. 1885 01:32:49,360 --> 01:32:50,920 Speaker 3: Some of this shit is not like people say, you 1886 01:32:51,000 --> 01:32:52,840 Speaker 3: have to do work, and it's hard work. Soon as 1887 01:32:52,840 --> 01:32:54,559 Speaker 3: shit not even hard work, like to. 1888 01:32:54,600 --> 01:32:58,120 Speaker 2: Be honest, soon as shit is like if you honestly 1889 01:32:58,160 --> 01:32:59,760 Speaker 2: didn't give a fuck, you could just let it go. 1890 01:33:00,840 --> 01:33:03,400 Speaker 2: Like it's so much easier to let like you free 1891 01:33:03,479 --> 01:33:06,120 Speaker 2: yourself when you let certain shit go, too, cause I 1892 01:33:06,160 --> 01:33:11,720 Speaker 2: feel like anytime you're oppressing somebody, then you also are 1893 01:33:12,240 --> 01:33:15,519 Speaker 2: oppressing yourself. Like if we all connected, then the shit 1894 01:33:15,600 --> 01:33:18,559 Speaker 2: that we do to other people comes back to us 1895 01:33:18,640 --> 01:33:20,680 Speaker 2: somehow too, and it has an effect on us. So 1896 01:33:21,880 --> 01:33:26,160 Speaker 2: you know, like, even if there's a hierarchy in it, 1897 01:33:26,760 --> 01:33:31,000 Speaker 2: you victimize yourself when you limit yourself to being whatever 1898 01:33:31,040 --> 01:33:32,000 Speaker 2: it is you think you are. 1899 01:33:32,160 --> 01:33:35,400 Speaker 3: You know, like, oh, I am a man and that 1900 01:33:35,560 --> 01:33:36,639 Speaker 3: makes me better than women. 1901 01:33:36,760 --> 01:33:39,200 Speaker 2: Well, in a lot of ways, I just restricted my 1902 01:33:39,360 --> 01:33:42,360 Speaker 2: parts of myself that I to whatever I think is 1903 01:33:42,400 --> 01:33:46,120 Speaker 2: a woman thing I can't do, you know, So now 1904 01:33:46,120 --> 01:33:50,720 Speaker 2: I've restricted my own shit to limit my worldview in 1905 01:33:50,880 --> 01:33:53,040 Speaker 2: order to push down on somebody else. So I don't know, 1906 01:33:53,080 --> 01:33:55,200 Speaker 2: I think about shit like that all the time. But 1907 01:33:56,600 --> 01:34:01,559 Speaker 2: I do appreciate you enjoying the show goes on. As 1908 01:34:01,600 --> 01:34:04,160 Speaker 2: a side note, when I hear Sylvester's do you want 1909 01:34:04,200 --> 01:34:06,760 Speaker 2: to funk? I often grown embrace myself for terrible news 1910 01:34:06,840 --> 01:34:09,599 Speaker 2: to come through my speakers. Yet this feeling has awakened 1911 01:34:09,640 --> 01:34:12,639 Speaker 2: me in me in recognition that this must be similar, 1912 01:34:12,800 --> 01:34:15,280 Speaker 2: not the same, but similar to what many black and 1913 01:34:15,320 --> 01:34:18,200 Speaker 2: brown folks feel. In the fucking with Black people segment, 1914 01:34:19,720 --> 01:34:22,439 Speaker 2: I never thought about that, right, Yeah, some bullshit about 1915 01:34:22,439 --> 01:34:24,920 Speaker 2: to happen, right, Yeah, it's gallows human man. 1916 01:34:25,160 --> 01:34:27,280 Speaker 3: You get your fun way you can. And then then 1917 01:34:27,320 --> 01:34:29,560 Speaker 3: we go into the segment about how terrible the world is. 1918 01:34:29,960 --> 01:34:30,880 Speaker 6: I know, it's one thing when you. 1919 01:34:35,000 --> 01:34:36,120 Speaker 3: That's how good that song is. 1920 01:34:36,439 --> 01:34:38,439 Speaker 2: Every time to come on, I'll be jamming, I'll be 1921 01:34:38,520 --> 01:34:41,800 Speaker 2: forgetting that soon as the end, I gotta be like, listen. 1922 01:34:41,600 --> 01:34:46,559 Speaker 3: Guys, it's still bad. No one go outside. 1923 01:34:48,600 --> 01:34:52,560 Speaker 2: I also appreciate you continually bringing up the intersectionality between race, sexuality, 1924 01:34:52,600 --> 01:34:55,639 Speaker 2: and gender identity, because that as a white queer person 1925 01:34:56,080 --> 01:34:59,280 Speaker 2: eye privilege that queer people of color aren't given this evidence. 1926 01:35:00,080 --> 01:35:02,960 Speaker 2: When I think about queer icons, often it is only 1927 01:35:03,040 --> 01:35:05,040 Speaker 2: white people who are mentioned, and yet it was strong 1928 01:35:05,160 --> 01:35:08,360 Speaker 2: black drag queens and strong black transgender women that propelled 1929 01:35:08,400 --> 01:35:12,320 Speaker 2: our movement for equal whites forward. And writing this letter, 1930 01:35:12,520 --> 01:35:14,960 Speaker 2: I had to research the song y'all playing at the 1931 01:35:14,960 --> 01:35:16,880 Speaker 2: beginning of the l G T qu I a news 1932 01:35:16,960 --> 01:35:20,400 Speaker 2: segment and I discovered, huh, I don't know anything about Sylvester, 1933 01:35:20,640 --> 01:35:22,680 Speaker 2: which made me smile even more when I discovered the 1934 01:35:22,720 --> 01:35:24,559 Speaker 2: song was done by a black cheer artists, and then 1935 01:35:24,560 --> 01:35:27,000 Speaker 2: I thought, of course they would pick something fabulous like 1936 01:35:27,080 --> 01:35:28,200 Speaker 2: that for the intro song. 1937 01:35:29,080 --> 01:35:32,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, man, after everybody, uh, listen everything. 1938 01:35:32,760 --> 01:35:36,040 Speaker 5: But you have to remember, though, Sylvester not because of 1939 01:35:36,080 --> 01:35:39,200 Speaker 5: our age. Sevester is he's a lot older, so you know, 1940 01:35:39,400 --> 01:35:42,200 Speaker 5: generations before us may have known about it in. 1941 01:35:42,240 --> 01:35:44,840 Speaker 6: Our generation, but you it might be a gap, right. 1942 01:35:45,280 --> 01:35:47,200 Speaker 3: It just felt like, as soon as that song come on, 1943 01:35:47,320 --> 01:35:52,240 Speaker 3: you like that it is a black gay man, and I. 1944 01:35:52,280 --> 01:35:56,240 Speaker 6: Can just tell like this don't from the singing voice. 1945 01:35:56,240 --> 01:35:58,240 Speaker 3: As soon as it gets there they had something. 1946 01:35:59,479 --> 01:36:04,400 Speaker 5: I was like, get it, Sevester, Well, baby, I'm glad 1947 01:36:04,479 --> 01:36:08,000 Speaker 5: you were did your research, and honey, you're welcome. 1948 01:36:07,800 --> 01:36:09,519 Speaker 6: And your life will be fair change. 1949 01:36:09,560 --> 01:36:11,120 Speaker 3: And it was my dad and my brother to put 1950 01:36:11,160 --> 01:36:11,840 Speaker 3: me onto that song. 1951 01:36:12,080 --> 01:36:15,760 Speaker 2: At my brother's cook at his house. He was playing 1952 01:36:15,840 --> 01:36:17,720 Speaker 2: that and I was like, and we played and my 1953 01:36:17,880 --> 01:36:19,320 Speaker 2: uncle too was dancing Carlos. 1954 01:36:19,439 --> 01:36:19,600 Speaker 5: It was. 1955 01:36:19,640 --> 01:36:23,360 Speaker 3: We played that song about fifteen times, like play it again. 1956 01:36:29,880 --> 01:36:32,160 Speaker 5: The thing about that song, I'm not even gonna lie. 1957 01:36:33,160 --> 01:36:34,920 Speaker 5: I don't even know if I've ever heard the whole. 1958 01:36:34,760 --> 01:36:36,759 Speaker 4: Song, because I'm pretty sure it just repeats itself. 1959 01:36:37,720 --> 01:36:39,880 Speaker 2: We have heard the whole song, but that was that 1960 01:36:40,120 --> 01:36:42,400 Speaker 2: that one day when they played it about fifteen times 1961 01:36:42,400 --> 01:36:42,760 Speaker 2: in a row. 1962 01:36:42,960 --> 01:36:44,479 Speaker 3: Okay, like play again. 1963 01:36:50,120 --> 01:36:52,280 Speaker 2: We white queer people are indebted to the work that 1964 01:36:52,439 --> 01:36:54,600 Speaker 2: queer people of color a doe and still do on 1965 01:36:54,720 --> 01:36:56,840 Speaker 2: behalf of our fight for equal rights. And I'm deeply 1966 01:36:56,920 --> 01:36:58,880 Speaker 2: houted to do the rest of justice. Uh to work, 1967 01:36:58,960 --> 01:37:01,879 Speaker 2: do the work of justice. Besides, in all of my ramblings, 1968 01:37:01,920 --> 01:37:03,640 Speaker 2: I hope to make this clear, I appreciate both of you, 1969 01:37:03,760 --> 01:37:06,519 Speaker 2: your work, the intentional conversations y'all are having, and the 1970 01:37:06,600 --> 01:37:09,599 Speaker 2: way you infuse him your laughter and truth within each show. 1971 01:37:10,280 --> 01:37:12,040 Speaker 2: Y'all are giving me the opportunity to think about all 1972 01:37:12,080 --> 01:37:13,920 Speaker 2: the ways I can and should speak out for black 1973 01:37:14,000 --> 01:37:16,560 Speaker 2: brown folks and are challenging me to educate myself for 1974 01:37:16,640 --> 01:37:19,160 Speaker 2: the betterment of all people. Y'all, challenging me as a 1975 01:37:19,200 --> 01:37:21,920 Speaker 2: progressive white clergy person to come out for justice and 1976 01:37:22,080 --> 01:37:25,000 Speaker 2: use my faith perspective in ways that bringing healing, not 1977 01:37:25,120 --> 01:37:27,920 Speaker 2: additional pain and torment. Y'all have been a part of 1978 01:37:28,000 --> 01:37:29,840 Speaker 2: my own mental healing in these past several months, and 1979 01:37:29,880 --> 01:37:31,280 Speaker 2: I just wanted to share my gratitude. 1980 01:37:31,439 --> 01:37:32,600 Speaker 3: Oh thank you. 1981 01:37:33,760 --> 01:37:38,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's dope, especially the part about coming out for justice, man, 1982 01:37:39,120 --> 01:37:44,240 Speaker 2: Like that's a real thing, y, Yeah, because there's a 1983 01:37:44,360 --> 01:37:47,640 Speaker 2: lot I think there's a lot of people that know 1984 01:37:47,920 --> 01:37:50,519 Speaker 2: better and they know when something's fucked up, but they 1985 01:37:50,560 --> 01:37:54,360 Speaker 2: don't want to say anything because it's gonna be awkward. 1986 01:37:55,320 --> 01:37:59,200 Speaker 2: You might lose your social standing. You know, you might 1987 01:37:59,320 --> 01:38:02,679 Speaker 2: lose some friends, you know, like that shit it sucks. 1988 01:38:02,800 --> 01:38:07,400 Speaker 2: Like I definitely understand that, man, But I don't know, man, 1989 01:38:07,560 --> 01:38:11,000 Speaker 2: something in me I would feel and like I said, 1990 01:38:11,080 --> 01:38:13,439 Speaker 2: I don't feel like I'm on ten all the time, 1991 01:38:13,560 --> 01:38:15,840 Speaker 2: Like it's not like here comes Rod. 1992 01:38:15,960 --> 01:38:18,479 Speaker 3: People love me for the most part, but. 1993 01:38:19,160 --> 01:38:21,360 Speaker 2: You know, I am the kind of person that you 1994 01:38:21,439 --> 01:38:23,800 Speaker 2: know would be like, yeah, man, well this is why 1995 01:38:23,880 --> 01:38:26,800 Speaker 2: that's a little messed up or you know, and I 1996 01:38:26,920 --> 01:38:29,160 Speaker 2: normally make it into a joke like it's normally not 1997 01:38:29,360 --> 01:38:30,920 Speaker 2: some you know. 1998 01:38:31,600 --> 01:38:35,559 Speaker 3: Listen, brothers, everyone sit down, turn that music off. It's 1999 01:38:35,680 --> 01:38:37,680 Speaker 3: time for me to teach y'all it's not like that. 2000 01:38:38,240 --> 01:38:40,960 Speaker 3: But like you know, like if I'm somewhere and. 2001 01:38:42,760 --> 01:38:44,640 Speaker 2: I use an example often, but like I was a 2002 01:38:44,840 --> 01:38:47,840 Speaker 2: MT and he's a white dude, okay, And I'm telling 2003 01:38:47,880 --> 01:38:50,599 Speaker 2: y'all that now, because if we were playing against the race, 2004 01:38:50,720 --> 01:38:52,720 Speaker 2: y'all will probably say black for this next thing that 2005 01:38:52,760 --> 01:38:53,040 Speaker 2: he did. 2006 01:38:53,600 --> 01:38:54,760 Speaker 3: So we were playing. 2007 01:38:54,560 --> 01:38:57,080 Speaker 2: Basketball, and we were on the sideline and we were 2008 01:38:57,160 --> 01:38:59,840 Speaker 2: talking and some girl was on the track, which is 2009 01:38:59,880 --> 01:39:02,240 Speaker 2: a head over the top of the basketball court, and 2010 01:39:02,360 --> 01:39:04,920 Speaker 2: she was walking and he didn't even know her. 2011 01:39:05,040 --> 01:39:06,080 Speaker 3: And she was a very. 2012 01:39:05,960 --> 01:39:11,160 Speaker 2: Attractive looking lady, you know, which obviously most of the 2013 01:39:11,280 --> 01:39:14,840 Speaker 2: guys who looked up there noticed. Now there's a certain 2014 01:39:14,920 --> 01:39:17,360 Speaker 2: level of politeness you're on stare, you don't like try 2015 01:39:17,439 --> 01:39:20,600 Speaker 2: to you know, like she's she's exercising, she's not you know, 2016 01:39:20,680 --> 01:39:23,200 Speaker 2: she's doing her she's not worried about anybody. 2017 01:39:23,720 --> 01:39:25,800 Speaker 3: She doesn't keep that body in shape. For none of 2018 01:39:25,800 --> 01:39:29,280 Speaker 3: the niggas on that basketball court. Okay, so she's walking 2019 01:39:29,400 --> 01:39:30,519 Speaker 3: or whatever, and. 2020 01:39:32,439 --> 01:39:35,479 Speaker 2: You know it's and like, I think we both noticed 2021 01:39:35,560 --> 01:39:38,640 Speaker 2: at the same time, and you know we're wait, she 2022 01:39:38,720 --> 01:39:41,519 Speaker 2: can't hear us. We're way across, like we're probably fifty 2023 01:39:41,680 --> 01:39:43,479 Speaker 2: sixty feet away, I don't know, a long way away. 2024 01:39:43,960 --> 01:39:46,760 Speaker 2: And he was like, oh, you see old girl up there. 2025 01:39:46,800 --> 01:39:49,280 Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, man, yeah, she's beautiful or whatever, 2026 01:39:49,600 --> 01:39:53,519 Speaker 2: and he was like yeah, hey, hey girl, Hey hey, 2027 01:39:54,840 --> 01:39:57,760 Speaker 2: and I'm I'm like, what are you doing And he's like, 2028 01:39:58,439 --> 01:40:00,559 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to get get a I'm gonna try 2029 01:40:00,560 --> 01:40:00,840 Speaker 2: to get that. 2030 01:40:00,960 --> 01:40:01,960 Speaker 3: No, hey girl, let me get you. 2031 01:40:02,000 --> 01:40:05,479 Speaker 2: I said, hey, man, if you're doing that to impress me, 2032 01:40:06,640 --> 01:40:09,320 Speaker 2: you don't need to do that, I said, because she's 2033 01:40:09,400 --> 01:40:11,760 Speaker 2: not gonna give you her number that way. 2034 01:40:11,880 --> 01:40:14,200 Speaker 3: No one does that. No, no, let me stop the 2035 01:40:14,360 --> 01:40:17,400 Speaker 3: exercise I had planned at the gym. I pay a. 2036 01:40:17,439 --> 01:40:20,320 Speaker 2: Membership to to come all the way downstairs with this 2037 01:40:20,439 --> 01:40:23,120 Speaker 2: guy who yelled at me a girl. 2038 01:40:23,640 --> 01:40:25,040 Speaker 3: I'm like, that's not gonna work. 2039 01:40:25,439 --> 01:40:27,760 Speaker 2: So you're now so now I know you're just doing 2040 01:40:27,840 --> 01:40:30,720 Speaker 2: it cause we both find her attractive and you want 2041 01:40:30,760 --> 01:40:32,879 Speaker 2: to be like you sall try to holler. 2042 01:40:32,720 --> 01:40:34,400 Speaker 3: At that girl, and I'm like, you don't need to 2043 01:40:34,520 --> 01:40:35,240 Speaker 3: do that for me. 2044 01:40:36,080 --> 01:40:39,000 Speaker 2: I was like, and then so he right, he immediately 2045 01:40:39,040 --> 01:40:41,519 Speaker 2: got a little bit defensive, which is as people I 2046 01:40:41,600 --> 01:40:44,360 Speaker 2: want to do. It is very much like, well, I mean, 2047 01:40:44,439 --> 01:40:46,040 Speaker 2: I'm just saying I'm just trying to holler. 2048 01:40:46,160 --> 01:40:49,479 Speaker 3: Man. I was like, but you're not really trying to holler. 2049 01:40:49,520 --> 01:40:52,240 Speaker 2: I was like that that's not the appropriate place to 2050 01:40:52,320 --> 01:40:55,240 Speaker 2: even try to get at some girl. And that's definitely 2051 01:40:55,320 --> 01:40:57,360 Speaker 2: not the way. I was like, that has like, what 2052 01:40:57,520 --> 01:41:03,360 Speaker 2: is zero percent chance of working? Like, so he was like, well, man, 2053 01:41:03,520 --> 01:41:05,200 Speaker 2: you know, I just I don't mean nothing about it. 2054 01:41:05,240 --> 01:41:07,840 Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, but imagine you hear she just 2055 01:41:07,960 --> 01:41:10,639 Speaker 2: came to work out. She don't care about this shit 2056 01:41:10,760 --> 01:41:13,120 Speaker 2: like you just yelled at her. I was like, she 2057 01:41:13,240 --> 01:41:14,559 Speaker 2: might not come back to this gym. 2058 01:41:14,880 --> 01:41:15,519 Speaker 3: She might say. 2059 01:41:15,560 --> 01:41:17,880 Speaker 2: It's so much shit that women go through on a 2060 01:41:18,000 --> 01:41:19,920 Speaker 2: day to day basis, you know, just the fact that 2061 01:41:20,040 --> 01:41:22,840 Speaker 2: you put on like yoga pants and come to a 2062 01:41:22,960 --> 01:41:25,400 Speaker 2: YMCA and know people gonna probably look at your ass 2063 01:41:25,720 --> 01:41:28,200 Speaker 2: or whatever the fuck, you know, like just to be 2064 01:41:28,320 --> 01:41:31,720 Speaker 2: comfortable in that, like in your workout clothes and it's 2065 01:41:31,760 --> 01:41:33,920 Speaker 2: gonna be somebody up there like she wearing them them 2066 01:41:34,000 --> 01:41:36,559 Speaker 2: pants so I could show up my dick. 2067 01:41:36,720 --> 01:41:38,320 Speaker 3: Basically, I'm like, you. 2068 01:41:38,360 --> 01:41:40,600 Speaker 2: Know, it's just fucked up, you know. And I was 2069 01:41:40,680 --> 01:41:44,080 Speaker 2: joking with him, like, you know, like dog, like you 2070 01:41:44,200 --> 01:41:45,080 Speaker 2: look stupid right now. 2071 01:41:45,120 --> 01:41:47,160 Speaker 3: This is corny. Don't do that, you know, like it's jokes. 2072 01:41:47,200 --> 01:41:48,160 Speaker 3: But I'm serious too. 2073 01:41:49,560 --> 01:41:52,800 Speaker 2: So all that to say, like at that point until 2074 01:41:52,840 --> 01:41:54,879 Speaker 2: you could have been like rob you on some bullshit. 2075 01:41:54,880 --> 01:41:57,000 Speaker 3: I don't fuck with him no more. I mean, that 2076 01:41:57,040 --> 01:41:59,479 Speaker 3: would have just been what it was. I think he 2077 01:41:59,479 --> 01:42:01,519 Speaker 3: would have signed stupid when he explained to people why 2078 01:42:02,000 --> 01:42:03,880 Speaker 3: or he could do what he did, which was like, man, 2079 01:42:03,920 --> 01:42:06,519 Speaker 3: you're right, my bad, I see what you're saying. And 2080 01:42:06,600 --> 01:42:09,639 Speaker 3: then that was it. It took less than five minutes 2081 01:42:09,680 --> 01:42:14,080 Speaker 3: to have that conversation. And he's never done it around 2082 01:42:14,120 --> 01:42:14,679 Speaker 3: me since. 2083 01:42:14,760 --> 01:42:16,560 Speaker 2: I don't know if he stopped doing all together, but 2084 01:42:16,600 --> 01:42:20,479 Speaker 2: he definitely hasn't done that shit around me. But yeah, 2085 01:42:20,520 --> 01:42:23,680 Speaker 2: you have to quote unquote come out, you know. And 2086 01:42:23,800 --> 01:42:25,880 Speaker 2: this isn't even like, I mean, it's a serious issue. 2087 01:42:25,920 --> 01:42:28,680 Speaker 2: Street harassment is serious, but this isn't even as like 2088 01:42:29,840 --> 01:42:35,040 Speaker 2: polarizing with guys I think, as like racism might be 2089 01:42:35,240 --> 01:42:38,200 Speaker 2: with white folks. Or something like, you know, certain shit 2090 01:42:38,360 --> 01:42:40,160 Speaker 2: is very like, we'll get you up out of our 2091 01:42:40,280 --> 01:42:44,120 Speaker 2: life because you not on board with this shit. I 2092 01:42:44,200 --> 01:42:47,600 Speaker 2: think being against street harassment can be polarizing, but I 2093 01:42:47,640 --> 01:42:50,200 Speaker 2: don't think it's as polarizing as you know, hey man, 2094 01:42:50,240 --> 01:42:52,920 Speaker 2: what you just said was racist because white folks just like, 2095 01:42:53,000 --> 01:42:53,600 Speaker 2: they hit the R. 2096 01:42:53,640 --> 01:42:54,680 Speaker 3: Word and they just go off. 2097 01:42:54,880 --> 01:42:58,400 Speaker 2: So yeah, it's a certain level of bravery that ask 2098 01:42:58,439 --> 01:43:03,400 Speaker 2: to come with with with being willing to call that 2099 01:43:03,439 --> 01:43:06,000 Speaker 2: shit out. And there's a certain amount of sacrifice because 2100 01:43:06,000 --> 01:43:08,360 Speaker 2: you gotta be willing to get rid of these connections 2101 01:43:08,600 --> 01:43:11,960 Speaker 2: or to let people know you're not gonna back down 2102 01:43:12,000 --> 01:43:16,680 Speaker 2: on this principle. Uh and and and and they're you know, 2103 01:43:16,800 --> 01:43:19,240 Speaker 2: I appreciate the people that do that ship because not 2104 01:43:19,360 --> 01:43:23,120 Speaker 2: everybody got that in them. You know, people judge a lot, 2105 01:43:23,200 --> 01:43:25,360 Speaker 2: people talk shit, big shit on the internet and all that, 2106 01:43:25,560 --> 01:43:29,439 Speaker 2: but the vast majority of people don't have that in them. 2107 01:43:29,640 --> 01:43:34,640 Speaker 3: I know I have that confrontation thing in me, uh 2108 01:43:34,760 --> 01:43:36,680 Speaker 3: for good and bad. I know I have it in me. 2109 01:43:37,320 --> 01:43:40,800 Speaker 3: But I I I reckon because I do have it 2110 01:43:40,880 --> 01:43:41,040 Speaker 3: in me. 2111 01:43:41,120 --> 01:43:43,840 Speaker 2: I recognize how many people don't, and they just keep 2112 01:43:43,960 --> 01:43:46,080 Speaker 2: letting shit slide. The amount of people I know who 2113 01:43:47,240 --> 01:43:49,880 Speaker 2: they have friends that are racist or big at it 2114 01:43:50,240 --> 01:43:53,439 Speaker 2: or hotel or whatever the fuck, and they just keep 2115 01:43:53,520 --> 01:43:55,640 Speaker 2: them in their lives because they don't have the wherewithal 2116 01:43:55,760 --> 01:43:59,000 Speaker 2: to tell them you're wrong, and because you're wrong on 2117 01:43:59,080 --> 01:44:02,280 Speaker 2: this and because it's so fucked up, we can't, I 2118 01:44:02,360 --> 01:44:06,160 Speaker 2: can't kick it with you like they'll that other person 2119 01:44:06,200 --> 01:44:09,439 Speaker 2: will always have the control in that relationship because they 2120 01:44:09,479 --> 01:44:11,960 Speaker 2: know you're not willing to sacrifice it. But yet the 2121 01:44:12,040 --> 01:44:15,800 Speaker 2: people that claim the liberal bubbule is ah blah blah blah, 2122 01:44:16,200 --> 01:44:18,760 Speaker 2: those people cut off anyone that disagrees with them. 2123 01:44:19,080 --> 01:44:22,679 Speaker 3: Heart beat, you know, I mean LGBTQ people can't go home, 2124 01:44:23,920 --> 01:44:25,320 Speaker 3: you know what I mean? How many people can't? 2125 01:44:25,439 --> 01:44:25,600 Speaker 5: You know? 2126 01:44:25,720 --> 01:44:28,800 Speaker 2: You they interracially. You can't bring your boyfriend or girlfriend home, 2127 01:44:29,280 --> 01:44:33,040 Speaker 2: your husband and wife can't, you know, like those people 2128 01:44:33,360 --> 01:44:37,200 Speaker 2: never have a problem being outspoken and kicking us out 2129 01:44:37,240 --> 01:44:39,960 Speaker 2: of their their groups and shit, they never have a problem. 2130 01:44:40,640 --> 01:44:44,559 Speaker 2: So anyway, that's why, that's why I was saying when 2131 01:44:44,560 --> 01:44:46,720 Speaker 2: you got to come out, just that was a good 2132 01:44:47,080 --> 01:44:48,080 Speaker 2: That was a big point. 2133 01:44:47,880 --> 01:44:51,160 Speaker 3: You brought out, uh Rod. I heard you mention several 2134 01:44:51,200 --> 01:44:52,519 Speaker 3: times about being an atheist all. 2135 01:44:52,680 --> 01:44:54,559 Speaker 2: I would in no way want to impose my own 2136 01:44:54,560 --> 01:44:57,400 Speaker 2: spiritual beliefs upon y'all or even for them, even in 2137 01:44:57,439 --> 01:44:58,320 Speaker 2: the form of a blessing. 2138 01:44:58,800 --> 01:44:59,800 Speaker 3: You know that I'm sending to you. 2139 01:45:00,120 --> 01:45:02,280 Speaker 2: Just know that I'm sending you good vibes like and laughter, 2140 01:45:02,400 --> 01:45:05,800 Speaker 2: and I wish that uh you find moments of rest, 2141 01:45:05,880 --> 01:45:08,760 Speaker 2: renewal time for yourselves individually and tying together nurture and 2142 01:45:08,880 --> 01:45:11,800 Speaker 2: nurse in your own spirits. Thanks again, I'll be listening 2143 01:45:12,120 --> 01:45:15,240 Speaker 2: laughing right alongside your other devoted fans Amber, Thank you, 2144 01:45:15,320 --> 01:45:19,479 Speaker 2: Ambra and Uh. As far as people that you know 2145 01:45:19,600 --> 01:45:22,160 Speaker 2: pray or bless you or whatever to me, I don't 2146 01:45:22,200 --> 01:45:22,920 Speaker 2: get offended by that. 2147 01:45:23,040 --> 01:45:26,000 Speaker 3: I know some people do, but I'm not. 2148 01:45:27,200 --> 01:45:27,320 Speaker 5: Uh. 2149 01:45:27,720 --> 01:45:29,360 Speaker 3: And it's not like I'm saying this because I want 2150 01:45:29,400 --> 01:45:31,360 Speaker 3: to avoid the stereotype. I just literally am not. 2151 01:45:31,439 --> 01:45:34,840 Speaker 2: I'm just not an angry atheist type person. So like, 2152 01:45:34,960 --> 01:45:36,920 Speaker 2: I like, I don't like I don't sit around being 2153 01:45:37,000 --> 01:45:41,560 Speaker 2: like you motherfuckers the church. Oh, Like nothing happened to 2154 01:45:41,680 --> 01:45:43,840 Speaker 2: me to be like you know, like I wasn't. I 2155 01:45:43,880 --> 01:45:47,120 Speaker 2: don't have some I don't know, like I didn't grow 2156 01:45:47,240 --> 01:45:50,759 Speaker 2: up in the church enough to be like really attached 2157 01:45:50,760 --> 01:45:53,960 Speaker 2: to it like like that anyway, not that I never 2158 01:45:54,080 --> 01:45:57,160 Speaker 2: did anything in church, but just I never I wasn't 2159 01:45:57,200 --> 01:46:00,360 Speaker 2: one of those people that found my social self in church, 2160 01:46:01,200 --> 01:46:02,920 Speaker 2: like I don't have church friends and shit like that. 2161 01:46:04,200 --> 01:46:08,479 Speaker 2: And then uh, I also never had a thing, so 2162 01:46:08,920 --> 01:46:10,439 Speaker 2: you know, it was like, oh and then the teacher, 2163 01:46:10,880 --> 01:46:14,400 Speaker 2: the preacher uh slapped me, and I was like, fuck 2164 01:46:14,520 --> 01:46:17,120 Speaker 2: church and fuck everybody in it. And secretly I'm gonna 2165 01:46:17,120 --> 01:46:19,960 Speaker 2: come back one day because I'm angry and just wait 2166 01:46:20,040 --> 01:46:21,000 Speaker 2: till the anger goes down. 2167 01:46:21,120 --> 01:46:24,320 Speaker 3: Like it's not even like that. I just really, uh, 2168 01:46:25,880 --> 01:46:27,479 Speaker 3: for lack of a better to, I just really don't 2169 01:46:27,520 --> 01:46:29,160 Speaker 3: think a lot of that's bullshit. 2170 01:46:31,280 --> 01:46:35,880 Speaker 2: Without without trying to without trying to take shots, I 2171 01:46:36,080 --> 01:46:39,320 Speaker 2: just really be like, there's no way, uh, this shit 2172 01:46:39,479 --> 01:46:43,280 Speaker 2: happened this way, Like you know what I mean. It's 2173 01:46:43,320 --> 01:46:45,200 Speaker 2: like if I read a Harry Potter book and somebody 2174 01:46:45,320 --> 01:46:47,400 Speaker 2: was like this real, I'll be like, come on, man, 2175 01:46:47,960 --> 01:46:50,200 Speaker 2: you know you ain't flying no room and play fucking 2176 01:46:50,240 --> 01:46:52,400 Speaker 2: quit his dog, Like why you making this up? 2177 01:46:52,680 --> 01:46:54,679 Speaker 3: That's how I feel about the battle. For the most part, 2178 01:46:54,760 --> 01:46:57,000 Speaker 3: I like nigga, oh, Bernie Bush was talking to you 2179 01:46:57,160 --> 01:46:57,960 Speaker 3: dog for real. 2180 01:46:58,439 --> 01:47:00,640 Speaker 2: I'm just supposed to believe it. Okay, all right, No, 2181 01:47:00,800 --> 01:47:02,200 Speaker 2: I'm the fool. Nah, I'm stupid. 2182 01:47:02,400 --> 01:47:05,600 Speaker 5: Huh. And the thing is, I'm not an atheist, but 2183 01:47:05,840 --> 01:47:09,040 Speaker 5: I do see the hypocrisy and or that's religion. 2184 01:47:09,520 --> 01:47:13,120 Speaker 6: So you know, I'm like, hey, d'all, hey, I could 2185 01:47:13,160 --> 01:47:16,360 Speaker 6: see why you think it's crazy. 2186 01:47:16,880 --> 01:47:19,400 Speaker 5: It's crazy to me too, you know, I can understand 2187 01:47:19,479 --> 01:47:23,439 Speaker 5: why people outside could be like were a man died 2188 01:47:24,080 --> 01:47:25,559 Speaker 5: and rose for the day in three days? 2189 01:47:25,640 --> 01:47:27,080 Speaker 4: Word, like, I could see. 2190 01:47:27,240 --> 01:47:32,320 Speaker 5: I completely understand the reality why people think that it 2191 01:47:32,439 --> 01:47:33,160 Speaker 5: doesn't make sense. 2192 01:47:33,400 --> 01:47:37,200 Speaker 2: So yeah, I mean if and honestly, if somebody want 2193 01:47:37,240 --> 01:47:39,640 Speaker 2: to like pray or bless me, I don't know who 2194 01:47:39,720 --> 01:47:40,040 Speaker 2: would be. 2195 01:47:41,360 --> 01:47:41,680 Speaker 3: I don't know. 2196 01:47:41,680 --> 01:47:43,960 Speaker 2: I always find it weird when people are like, don't 2197 01:47:44,040 --> 01:47:46,479 Speaker 2: pray for me and shit like that. I'm like, all right, 2198 01:47:46,880 --> 01:47:49,120 Speaker 2: thoughts and prayers, what you mean by that? I'm like, 2199 01:47:50,000 --> 01:47:52,559 Speaker 2: if you don't believe in it, then what they're doing 2200 01:47:52,720 --> 01:47:55,439 Speaker 2: is harmless, you know, And what if it is true, 2201 01:47:55,680 --> 01:47:58,360 Speaker 2: It's like, like, say, it's a point one percent chance. 2202 01:47:58,840 --> 01:48:01,200 Speaker 2: That's some thoughts and prayers. It's gonna keep me from 2203 01:48:01,240 --> 01:48:04,160 Speaker 2: getting hit by a call today, I'll take them. I mean, 2204 01:48:04,320 --> 01:48:08,400 Speaker 2: then you know, even like what I'm gonna reject to help? 2205 01:48:08,600 --> 01:48:11,040 Speaker 2: Like if you think that's helping, I don't know. There's 2206 01:48:11,040 --> 01:48:12,439 Speaker 2: a lot of shit I don't know about. 2207 01:48:12,200 --> 01:48:15,000 Speaker 3: In this world. Maybe maybe I just don't understand. 2208 01:48:15,160 --> 01:48:18,240 Speaker 2: Maybe it really is out there. So anyway, I always 2209 01:48:18,240 --> 01:48:19,760 Speaker 2: feel like people are being dicks when they do that. 2210 01:48:20,920 --> 01:48:22,960 Speaker 2: You know, it's like, hey, guys going to the hospital. 2211 01:48:23,479 --> 01:48:25,080 Speaker 2: Well the thoughts and prayers fuck you? 2212 01:48:25,240 --> 01:48:25,400 Speaker 5: Man? 2213 01:48:25,520 --> 01:48:27,760 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm like, yo, who touched you? Brother? 2214 01:48:28,120 --> 01:48:28,560 Speaker 5: Like? What is? 2215 01:48:30,000 --> 01:48:32,920 Speaker 3: Yeah? Like we did a preacher bankrupt your ass? Did 2216 01:48:32,960 --> 01:48:34,000 Speaker 3: you give them all the times? 2217 01:48:34,120 --> 01:48:34,160 Speaker 5: Like? 2218 01:48:34,240 --> 01:48:38,479 Speaker 3: Why are you so angry? Thirteen eighty six, My girl Ray? 2219 01:48:39,080 --> 01:48:43,120 Speaker 3: This is by Jody. First of all, I've been crushing 2220 01:48:43,200 --> 01:48:44,439 Speaker 3: on Ray for years now. 2221 01:48:45,000 --> 01:48:47,479 Speaker 2: Not only has she taught me, she's inspired me to 2222 01:48:47,560 --> 01:48:49,000 Speaker 2: learn more and speak up for myself. 2223 01:48:49,439 --> 01:48:51,880 Speaker 3: Create that page. You earned it. I support you, girl. 2224 01:48:52,000 --> 01:48:55,720 Speaker 3: You gotta faan in me. Cas motivational speech also got 2225 01:48:55,800 --> 01:48:57,960 Speaker 3: me following in love and this is loosely quoted. 2226 01:48:58,040 --> 01:49:01,960 Speaker 2: But don't let them dim your light, bitch, Yes, all 2227 01:49:02,200 --> 01:49:04,160 Speaker 2: the life, I got it all. 2228 01:49:04,520 --> 01:49:05,519 Speaker 3: I just love this show. 2229 01:49:06,080 --> 01:49:08,599 Speaker 2: I adopted y'all was my cool auntie and uncle because 2230 01:49:08,680 --> 01:49:11,040 Speaker 2: y'all have a young enough to not be too far 2231 01:49:11,160 --> 01:49:13,840 Speaker 2: removed from everything that's going on, but have enough years 2232 01:49:13,880 --> 01:49:15,439 Speaker 2: on you to have so much wisdom. 2233 01:49:15,920 --> 01:49:19,000 Speaker 3: I take what y'all say so much to heart. My 2234 01:49:19,160 --> 01:49:19,720 Speaker 3: favorite show. 2235 01:49:19,960 --> 01:49:24,880 Speaker 2: No other show gets me like this one, Rod Carre, 2236 01:49:25,000 --> 01:49:27,720 Speaker 2: you guys are the best. I had one suggestion, though, 2237 01:49:28,280 --> 01:49:31,840 Speaker 2: y'all should have snatched up Ray. I love Marshall, I 2238 01:49:31,960 --> 01:49:34,479 Speaker 2: love Miss Sandry. I loved Ray when she was on 2239 01:49:34,640 --> 01:49:37,360 Speaker 2: with Sandry. But the black gull Tips feature and Ray 2240 01:49:37,439 --> 01:49:40,800 Speaker 2: has a certain ring to it. I will have abandoned 2241 01:49:40,880 --> 01:49:43,760 Speaker 2: all my other podcasts. What else would I need? But 2242 01:49:43,920 --> 01:49:46,880 Speaker 2: it's probably smart because I probably wouldn't focus on much else. 2243 01:49:50,040 --> 01:49:52,400 Speaker 2: Once again, you guys are the best. Rod Care as 2244 01:49:52,439 --> 01:49:55,160 Speaker 2: well as Ray, will always have a devout fan in me. 2245 01:49:55,400 --> 01:49:57,000 Speaker 2: Love Jody Jenki's in the group. 2246 01:49:57,120 --> 01:50:01,720 Speaker 3: Thank you, Thank you all. Yeah, man, we love Ray too. 2247 01:50:02,000 --> 01:50:05,040 Speaker 2: And uh, I don't know how it would just snatcher 2248 01:50:05,200 --> 01:50:08,839 Speaker 2: up from somebody else. You know, she got her own agency. 2249 01:50:08,880 --> 01:50:12,800 Speaker 3: Man, I can't be out here, you know, you know, 2250 01:50:12,920 --> 01:50:17,599 Speaker 3: disrupting the flow. M uh. Plus Also, I mean, uh 2251 01:50:19,240 --> 01:50:22,120 Speaker 3: the I feel like Ray is gonna be a big, 2252 01:50:22,280 --> 01:50:24,400 Speaker 3: big feel me big one day. We all gonna be like. 2253 01:50:24,520 --> 01:50:28,679 Speaker 2: I can't believe she was slumming coming on this damn show. Yep, 2254 01:50:29,000 --> 01:50:30,479 Speaker 2: she's almost messed to her whole career. 2255 01:50:32,320 --> 01:50:34,880 Speaker 3: Mm hmmm. They gonna find out she hate white women? 2256 01:50:35,120 --> 01:50:35,479 Speaker 3: Then what. 2257 01:50:38,400 --> 01:50:40,479 Speaker 2: Y'all are so on point about the Beyonce hete This 2258 01:50:40,560 --> 01:50:43,640 Speaker 2: is from Joe from California. Rod and Karen, thank you 2259 01:50:43,720 --> 01:50:45,960 Speaker 2: for articulating while we as black folks don't need to 2260 01:50:45,960 --> 01:50:47,640 Speaker 2: go out of our way to put down Beyonce and, 2261 01:50:47,680 --> 01:50:49,240 Speaker 2: by extension, our black female. 2262 01:50:48,960 --> 01:50:51,080 Speaker 3: Celebrities that exhibit excellence. 2263 01:50:51,160 --> 01:50:53,280 Speaker 2: You both had a great discussion with Ray Sonny about 2264 01:50:53,320 --> 01:50:56,040 Speaker 2: the ridiculous amount of hate be has received for doing 2265 01:50:56,080 --> 01:50:57,760 Speaker 2: the same thing white celebrities have done. 2266 01:50:58,840 --> 01:50:59,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, no doubt. 2267 01:51:00,240 --> 01:51:00,920 Speaker 9: You know what, man. 2268 01:51:01,080 --> 01:51:05,160 Speaker 2: Also, there's a lot of black celebrities that give people 2269 01:51:05,200 --> 01:51:07,479 Speaker 2: plenty of reason to hate on them. You just focus 2270 01:51:07,560 --> 01:51:10,519 Speaker 2: on them, you know, Like every time you get mad 2271 01:51:10,560 --> 01:51:13,080 Speaker 2: at Beyonce, go check Shade Steals, Timeline. 2272 01:51:13,280 --> 01:51:15,320 Speaker 3: Just be like, oh no, you can get it. 2273 01:51:16,000 --> 01:51:18,799 Speaker 2: Beyonce be out here like I'm against these trans laws, 2274 01:51:19,240 --> 01:51:22,200 Speaker 2: and I'm like, we gonna be mad at that, you 2275 01:51:22,240 --> 01:51:23,880 Speaker 2: know what i mean? Remember when they wanted her to 2276 01:51:23,920 --> 01:51:26,040 Speaker 2: cancel her concert or some shit like it Just. 2277 01:51:27,600 --> 01:51:30,479 Speaker 3: People doing the most to make it about you know. 2278 01:51:30,920 --> 01:51:34,479 Speaker 2: Meanwhile, saying person probably got like Madonna and ay Avatar. Anyway, 2279 01:51:35,320 --> 01:51:37,240 Speaker 2: I would admit I wasn't a fan of Beyonce's music 2280 01:51:37,320 --> 01:51:39,519 Speaker 2: until twenty thirteen her self titled album. 2281 01:51:39,880 --> 01:51:42,120 Speaker 3: Also, I didn't become a huge fan until lemonth age 2282 01:51:42,240 --> 01:51:44,400 Speaker 3: last year. Yes, I used to be in the camp 2283 01:51:44,560 --> 01:51:46,960 Speaker 3: she can't really singing well. But you know what, even 2284 01:51:47,040 --> 01:51:48,320 Speaker 3: back in my ignorant. 2285 01:51:48,000 --> 01:51:49,680 Speaker 2: Days, you never catch me going out of my way 2286 01:51:49,720 --> 01:51:52,400 Speaker 2: to tweet or post that shit. I knew Beyonce was 2287 01:51:52,439 --> 01:51:55,080 Speaker 2: one of the world's best entertainers and deserved nothing but praise. 2288 01:51:55,200 --> 01:51:57,320 Speaker 3: Also, the tones of white singers. 2289 01:51:57,040 --> 01:52:00,280 Speaker 2: With questionable voice talent, and they are never criticized about 2290 01:52:00,280 --> 01:52:02,680 Speaker 2: the same people who attacked Beyonce in the media. As 2291 01:52:02,720 --> 01:52:04,479 Speaker 2: a black person, I didn't see a reason for us 2292 01:52:04,520 --> 01:52:06,439 Speaker 2: to pile on where plenty of white people are doing 2293 01:52:06,479 --> 01:52:09,559 Speaker 2: it and going way beyond what's reasonable. Regardless, I'm killed 2294 01:52:09,600 --> 01:52:12,280 Speaker 2: in my ways. I recognize how talented Beyonce truly is, 2295 01:52:12,360 --> 01:52:14,639 Speaker 2: and she's doing it while being unapologetically black. 2296 01:52:15,040 --> 01:52:17,120 Speaker 3: Love the show, Take Care Joe from California. 2297 01:52:18,320 --> 01:52:22,679 Speaker 2: Glad you came around each one, teach one, uh Luke 2298 01:52:22,720 --> 01:52:26,120 Speaker 2: writes in episode thirteen eighty six, Thanks for this episode. 2299 01:52:26,160 --> 01:52:28,280 Speaker 2: You guys are always on point despite the topic. I'm 2300 01:52:28,320 --> 01:52:30,400 Speaker 2: not a Beyonce super fan, but I did listen to 2301 01:52:30,439 --> 01:52:31,680 Speaker 2: the entire Lemonade. 2302 01:52:31,320 --> 01:52:32,640 Speaker 3: Album and it's a masterpiece. 2303 01:52:33,120 --> 01:52:35,120 Speaker 2: Plus it was it was so well thought out and 2304 01:52:35,160 --> 01:52:38,639 Speaker 2: executed perfectly with the Lemonade video. Sadly, I wasn't expecting 2305 01:52:38,680 --> 01:52:40,439 Speaker 2: her to win any of the big Grammys, but glad 2306 01:52:40,479 --> 01:52:41,240 Speaker 2: that Adele. 2307 01:52:41,000 --> 01:52:41,760 Speaker 3: Spoke up for her. 2308 01:52:41,880 --> 01:52:45,760 Speaker 2: Overall, I hope she never appear on the Grammys again 2309 01:52:45,840 --> 01:52:48,120 Speaker 2: if she is not, even if she's nominated. 2310 01:52:48,520 --> 01:52:50,320 Speaker 6: That's what a lot of people like your mammy and 2311 01:52:50,400 --> 01:52:51,280 Speaker 6: mama talking about dad. 2312 01:52:51,360 --> 01:52:55,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, right, what's the point of even going like yeah, 2313 01:52:55,320 --> 01:52:57,040 Speaker 5: I mean, but you want to be acknowledged. 2314 01:52:57,080 --> 01:52:58,919 Speaker 6: My thing is that you want to be acknowledged among. 2315 01:52:58,760 --> 01:52:59,760 Speaker 4: Your peers like that. 2316 01:53:00,200 --> 01:53:04,439 Speaker 2: I think also like she has what she has a 2317 01:53:04,479 --> 01:53:07,160 Speaker 2: lot of Grammys too, So it's like you can go 2318 01:53:07,360 --> 01:53:09,679 Speaker 2: up there and win Grammys. 2319 01:53:11,240 --> 01:53:14,240 Speaker 3: And not win the Grammy of the Album of the 2320 01:53:14,360 --> 01:53:16,880 Speaker 3: Year and it still counts on the resume, and. 2321 01:53:18,800 --> 01:53:20,439 Speaker 2: You know, and I would understand her she didn't want 2322 01:53:20,439 --> 01:53:23,000 Speaker 2: to do it as well, But I mean, the way 2323 01:53:23,040 --> 01:53:26,400 Speaker 2: I see it, is like she almost making a spectacle 2324 01:53:26,520 --> 01:53:31,160 Speaker 2: of the fact that they're doing this. Like at this point, 2325 01:53:32,320 --> 01:53:34,760 Speaker 2: it's becoming pretty apparent that they got some type of 2326 01:53:34,840 --> 01:53:37,559 Speaker 2: grudge against her that they don't have for other people, 2327 01:53:37,600 --> 01:53:39,240 Speaker 2: and they have a bar that's higher for her than 2328 01:53:39,240 --> 01:53:43,080 Speaker 2: they have for other people. And I don't know Beyonce's 2329 01:53:43,080 --> 01:53:46,360 Speaker 2: long term aspiration, So this may be a thing where 2330 01:53:46,479 --> 01:53:48,920 Speaker 2: she's like, I'm not gonna do this shit now because 2331 01:53:50,000 --> 01:53:51,960 Speaker 2: i have a plan where twenty years from now, I'm 2332 01:53:51,960 --> 01:53:54,120 Speaker 2: gonna do the kind of album that will win a Grammy. 2333 01:53:54,240 --> 01:53:56,840 Speaker 3: So I don't, you know, I don't know, Uh. 2334 01:53:58,600 --> 01:54:01,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know the question that she do because 2335 01:54:01,200 --> 01:54:04,640 Speaker 2: she's every time people do, yeah, every time people do 2336 01:54:04,680 --> 01:54:06,680 Speaker 2: it's always like some shit pops up like a week 2337 01:54:06,760 --> 01:54:09,040 Speaker 2: later and you're like, oh, that's what that meant. Oh, 2338 01:54:09,160 --> 01:54:11,160 Speaker 2: oh okay, I don't know why people were so mad, 2339 01:54:11,320 --> 01:54:14,160 Speaker 2: you know. On the side note concerned the multiple categories. 2340 01:54:14,200 --> 01:54:16,360 Speaker 2: Other than Irvan, the last black female artist to win 2341 01:54:16,400 --> 01:54:18,880 Speaker 2: a Rock Grammy was Tina Turner, and she won Record 2342 01:54:18,920 --> 01:54:21,360 Speaker 2: of the Year. Also, Jennet Jackson was nominated in the 2343 01:54:21,439 --> 01:54:24,040 Speaker 2: rock category for a Black Cat but did not win. 2344 01:54:24,439 --> 01:54:27,240 Speaker 2: Love Listening to You guys. Luke the Music Nerd, Thanks Luke, 2345 01:54:27,439 --> 01:54:33,080 Speaker 2: thank you, bad appreciate you. Marissa Wrightes saying from The Bronx. 2346 01:54:33,160 --> 01:54:36,440 Speaker 2: Marissa from The Bronx episode thirteen eighty six, while they're 2347 01:54:36,440 --> 01:54:38,320 Speaker 2: scared of being Serena, dear Rod and Karen. 2348 01:54:38,400 --> 01:54:40,840 Speaker 3: For some reason, I feel like it's Groundhog's Day because 2349 01:54:40,880 --> 01:54:43,120 Speaker 3: we just had this discussion of these. 2350 01:54:43,040 --> 01:54:45,920 Speaker 2: Tired, unremarkable white women that I think pieces on Beyonce 2351 01:54:46,080 --> 01:54:48,600 Speaker 2: and now Serena. If we are going to have executive 2352 01:54:48,680 --> 01:54:51,400 Speaker 2: orders out every five minutes, how about stop white people, 2353 01:54:51,480 --> 01:54:55,280 Speaker 2: white women writing about Black women. For at least most 2354 01:54:55,320 --> 01:55:00,400 Speaker 2: of our lifetimes, is being preached to have motherhood, our hood. 2355 01:55:00,480 --> 01:55:02,520 Speaker 2: Pregnancy is nothing short of God's blessing. 2356 01:55:02,560 --> 01:55:06,240 Speaker 3: A miracle. This a miracle that when women the last. 2357 01:55:06,080 --> 01:55:08,840 Speaker 2: Twenty five years started a pushback on that one side 2358 01:55:08,880 --> 01:55:10,480 Speaker 2: of you of being a mother by speaking of the 2359 01:55:10,600 --> 01:55:14,560 Speaker 2: cons such as speaking of infertility, miscarriagters, Beyonce had one 2360 01:55:14,640 --> 01:55:17,839 Speaker 2: postpart and depression, the physical stress of pregnancy and delivery, 2361 01:55:17,880 --> 01:55:20,040 Speaker 2: that group didn't want to hear it. Yet, when black 2362 01:55:20,080 --> 01:55:22,560 Speaker 2: mothers such as Michelle Obama and Beyonce speak out about 2363 01:55:22,560 --> 01:55:25,600 Speaker 2: the joys of motherhood, it's no, y'all black ass be 2364 01:55:25,720 --> 01:55:29,960 Speaker 2: quiet your black women, your black women, no joy for 2365 01:55:30,080 --> 01:55:33,800 Speaker 2: you in any way, which leads me to this idiot 2366 01:55:33,840 --> 01:55:37,120 Speaker 2: writing about Serena and calling her SI shoot soph core porn. 2367 01:55:37,600 --> 01:55:40,560 Speaker 3: For one, Serena is in a one piece bathing suit 2368 01:55:40,880 --> 01:55:41,160 Speaker 3: when that. 2369 01:55:41,200 --> 01:55:45,240 Speaker 2: Swimsuit issue has had women topless and coveted body plane. 2370 01:55:45,680 --> 01:55:49,760 Speaker 2: Yet this mediocre Mattie comes for Serena. She tried to 2371 01:55:49,840 --> 01:55:52,000 Speaker 2: claim she's against objectification of women. 2372 01:55:52,160 --> 01:55:54,440 Speaker 3: Liar. If that was the case, why not asked why. 2373 01:55:54,360 --> 01:55:58,520 Speaker 2: Sports Illustrated, a magazine about athletes and sports, even has 2374 01:55:58,560 --> 01:56:00,840 Speaker 2: a swim suit edition every year fifty years in the 2375 01:56:00,920 --> 01:56:03,560 Speaker 2: first place. Of course, she didn't ask that because it 2376 01:56:03,680 --> 01:56:07,040 Speaker 2: was never about objectified women, but her insecure ass being 2377 01:56:07,120 --> 01:56:11,360 Speaker 2: threatened by Serena's bold, thick, sexy confidence. Serena and Venus 2378 01:56:11,440 --> 01:56:15,160 Speaker 2: have been subjected to being called men managed gorilla steroid 2379 01:56:15,200 --> 01:56:18,520 Speaker 2: users for twenty years. They show confidence as black women, 2380 01:56:18,600 --> 01:56:22,360 Speaker 2: and it's a problem. Hello there, Hello, There were two 2381 01:56:22,880 --> 01:56:26,280 Speaker 2: other whole ass women tennis players also in that same 2382 01:56:26,400 --> 01:56:29,720 Speaker 2: swimsuit edition, and yet the writer didn't call them out. 2383 01:56:29,840 --> 01:56:31,600 Speaker 3: Of course, not those white. 2384 01:56:31,440 --> 01:56:35,280 Speaker 2: Women got self esteem issues, inferiority complexes, and don't want 2385 01:56:35,360 --> 01:56:38,120 Speaker 2: a black woman who they feel are beneath them to. 2386 01:56:38,400 --> 01:56:39,600 Speaker 3: Feel good about ourselves. 2387 01:56:39,680 --> 01:56:43,640 Speaker 2: These hoes need to write those think pieces on that 2388 01:56:43,760 --> 01:56:47,920 Speaker 2: fifty three percent that gave us President crested the clown anyways, 2389 01:56:48,400 --> 01:56:51,120 Speaker 2: don't mean to ramble you and Karen keep being great. 2390 01:56:52,040 --> 01:56:52,320 Speaker 6: Thank you. 2391 01:56:52,920 --> 01:56:53,320 Speaker 3: Ps. 2392 01:56:53,760 --> 01:56:56,600 Speaker 2: There needs to be an executive order against people who 2393 01:56:56,640 --> 01:56:59,920 Speaker 2: eat kick cast like Hoodlah. 2394 01:57:00,720 --> 01:57:04,560 Speaker 3: We were doing so good, Marissa Maverissa from the Bronx. 2395 01:57:04,600 --> 01:57:06,560 Speaker 3: I thought we was I thought we was tight. I 2396 01:57:06,640 --> 01:57:08,200 Speaker 3: didn't all. 2397 01:57:09,600 --> 01:57:11,840 Speaker 2: I said, I'm gonna find Marissa from the Bronx. We're 2398 01:57:11,840 --> 01:57:13,680 Speaker 2: gonna follow each other on Twitter. We're gonna be friends. 2399 01:57:13,960 --> 01:57:16,720 Speaker 2: And he had to ruin it with your kick cat slander. 2400 01:57:16,920 --> 01:57:18,720 Speaker 2: I finished reading this, but it's so sad. 2401 01:57:19,960 --> 01:57:21,880 Speaker 3: Uh. People who he kick casts like you Ride. 2402 01:57:21,920 --> 01:57:24,120 Speaker 2: Everybody knows you put a kick cast apart and eat 2403 01:57:24,120 --> 01:57:26,840 Speaker 2: the size, then peel off the legs and eat them. Okay, 2404 01:57:26,960 --> 01:57:29,560 Speaker 2: that's me, but still we need to protect the country 2405 01:57:29,960 --> 01:57:30,840 Speaker 2: from kick cats. 2406 01:57:30,920 --> 01:57:33,920 Speaker 3: Say this like you Ride, Can and Queen Mother get 2407 01:57:34,000 --> 01:57:37,560 Speaker 3: him together la fast for the sake of America. Love y'all. 2408 01:57:37,720 --> 01:57:47,000 Speaker 3: Verissa from the Bronx. I'm not I'm never changing it now. Y'all. 2409 01:57:47,080 --> 01:57:48,960 Speaker 3: Y'all are messed up fighting me on this. 2410 01:57:49,800 --> 01:57:51,400 Speaker 5: We got some kit casts. I didn't even get to 2411 01:57:51,440 --> 01:57:54,520 Speaker 5: eat the last kick cast. The ghost got them all 2412 01:57:54,600 --> 01:57:56,120 Speaker 5: the candies you paid for some reason. 2413 01:57:56,360 --> 01:58:00,600 Speaker 3: Well you'll see what happened to kit cats list bolls deep. 2414 01:58:01,920 --> 01:58:08,840 Speaker 3: Oh lord, what did Justin do is a question? Oh lord, 2415 01:58:10,840 --> 01:58:11,760 Speaker 3: rhyme over reason. 2416 01:58:14,560 --> 01:58:15,800 Speaker 6: I can say something to Justin. 2417 01:58:16,040 --> 01:58:18,400 Speaker 2: Thanks for the prime, just from Dion who said, just 2418 01:58:18,480 --> 01:58:21,000 Speaker 2: renew my premium and shit, y'all be grinding. 2419 01:58:21,080 --> 01:58:25,080 Speaker 3: Thanks for the content. Thank you appreciate that renewer. 2420 01:58:25,160 --> 01:58:25,320 Speaker 5: Man. 2421 01:58:25,640 --> 01:58:26,080 Speaker 3: That's the thing. 2422 01:58:26,160 --> 01:58:29,000 Speaker 2: I get an email every time somebody renews something or 2423 01:58:29,800 --> 01:58:32,320 Speaker 2: well also every time people can sol the mispayment. But 2424 01:58:33,880 --> 01:58:36,040 Speaker 2: you know, one of the things that I love about 2425 01:58:36,080 --> 01:58:38,440 Speaker 2: the premium thing is I get those emails first thing 2426 01:58:38,480 --> 01:58:41,480 Speaker 2: in the morning, and a lot of times it reminds 2427 01:58:41,560 --> 01:58:43,800 Speaker 2: me like, you know, because you can let she can 2428 01:58:43,880 --> 01:58:49,400 Speaker 2: get you now, issues, problems, people's opinions, people talking shit, 2429 01:58:49,680 --> 01:58:52,080 Speaker 2: people that think you got like the world at your 2430 01:58:52,120 --> 01:58:56,360 Speaker 2: feed all that kind of shit, and you know the 2431 01:58:56,480 --> 01:58:59,160 Speaker 2: random people that haven't take issue with something and you know, 2432 01:58:59,360 --> 01:59:02,960 Speaker 2: troll you or write shit in or whatever. But one 2433 01:59:03,000 --> 01:59:05,360 Speaker 2: thing those emails reminds me every day is I love 2434 01:59:05,840 --> 01:59:07,640 Speaker 2: like there's a lot of people on this earth that 2435 01:59:07,720 --> 01:59:10,440 Speaker 2: appreciate that we hear, that we do what we do. 2436 01:59:11,040 --> 01:59:14,240 Speaker 2: They appreciate our voices, and they pay to support that. 2437 01:59:15,120 --> 01:59:18,040 Speaker 2: And you know, no matter how many it is that 2438 01:59:18,240 --> 01:59:21,560 Speaker 2: day or whatever like like, that's one of my favorite 2439 01:59:21,560 --> 01:59:22,960 Speaker 2: things in the day is looking at my phone and 2440 01:59:23,000 --> 01:59:25,760 Speaker 2: being like, yo, people still give a fuck about us. 2441 01:59:26,480 --> 01:59:28,600 Speaker 2: And that's something I never really felt at a job 2442 01:59:28,760 --> 01:59:33,120 Speaker 2: that I had. Well, I got a check every two weeks. Yeah, 2443 01:59:35,080 --> 01:59:40,360 Speaker 2: we'll ah wait, Amy writes in thought this was funny, 2444 01:59:40,440 --> 01:59:41,160 Speaker 2: cure the great work. 2445 01:59:41,240 --> 01:59:46,680 Speaker 3: Love you and Karen so much. Oh it was. 2446 01:59:47,280 --> 01:59:50,280 Speaker 2: It was a video that dude that did you see 2447 01:59:50,320 --> 01:59:52,760 Speaker 2: the dude that that that that tried to tackle that 2448 01:59:52,880 --> 01:59:55,960 Speaker 2: Confederate flag he ran up on him. 2449 01:59:56,640 --> 01:59:58,560 Speaker 3: All right, hold on, let me see why I put 2450 01:59:58,560 --> 02:00:04,760 Speaker 3: it in chat guys. This shit is precious though. It 2451 02:00:04,920 --> 02:00:05,920 Speaker 3: was a person that. 2452 02:00:08,480 --> 02:00:10,960 Speaker 2: That, like, I guess they were having a Confederate flag 2453 02:00:11,720 --> 02:00:16,160 Speaker 2: what we were calling protests or something. And by the way, 2454 02:00:16,320 --> 02:00:18,600 Speaker 2: best part of this clip is at the bottom of 2455 02:00:18,600 --> 02:00:22,800 Speaker 2: it said Renews, whom to speak at COFC arrested for 2456 02:00:23,080 --> 02:00:27,000 Speaker 2: removing Confederate flag in twenty fifteen. Right, so that's at 2457 02:00:27,040 --> 02:00:29,320 Speaker 2: the bottom of the current news report, that's what they're 2458 02:00:29,360 --> 02:00:32,520 Speaker 2: talking about. And then they're at this flag protest where 2459 02:00:32,520 --> 02:00:36,160 Speaker 2: they're showing this like this group of people that are 2460 02:00:36,400 --> 02:00:38,480 Speaker 2: I don't know, rallying, I guess protesting. 2461 02:00:38,520 --> 02:00:40,720 Speaker 3: I don't even know what they do when they like, 2462 02:00:40,840 --> 02:00:44,120 Speaker 3: what is that? What are y'all doing? Racism? 2463 02:00:44,480 --> 02:00:44,720 Speaker 5: Yay? 2464 02:00:45,320 --> 02:00:45,920 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? 2465 02:00:46,120 --> 02:00:48,760 Speaker 2: Like, just thought we'd get our signs out to let 2466 02:00:48,840 --> 02:00:51,880 Speaker 2: people know in explicit terms that we are down with 2467 02:00:51,960 --> 02:00:56,680 Speaker 2: this sism. And so Blackdale, I guess, got fed up 2468 02:00:56,880 --> 02:00:59,520 Speaker 2: and just tried to like fucking spear tackle this. 2469 02:01:01,280 --> 02:01:05,320 Speaker 3: This uh way this flag out of somebody's. 2470 02:01:04,960 --> 02:01:11,480 Speaker 6: Hand in twenty fifteen. Oh yeah, you can see what's 2471 02:01:11,520 --> 02:01:15,320 Speaker 6: happening right now. Did you see it in twenty fifteen? 2472 02:01:16,080 --> 02:01:22,200 Speaker 6: Oh it was delayed? Okay, yeah, twenty fifteen. 2473 02:01:22,960 --> 02:01:29,000 Speaker 3: Oh yo, he's superman. That mother's fucking police barrier. Well 2474 02:01:29,720 --> 02:01:35,000 Speaker 3: oh man, but yeah that was good. So I thought 2475 02:01:35,000 --> 02:01:37,840 Speaker 3: it was funny as well. Mm hmmm. 2476 02:01:39,280 --> 02:01:41,880 Speaker 2: Uh that white dude was holding none of that flag 2477 02:01:41,960 --> 02:01:44,120 Speaker 2: with deal like well like racism. 2478 02:01:44,320 --> 02:01:48,400 Speaker 3: He was just holding out. He was onto a like sism. 2479 02:01:49,000 --> 02:01:52,480 Speaker 2: Oh he's like I got to Habit, episode thirteen eighty nine, 2480 02:01:52,560 --> 02:01:55,600 Speaker 2: The Junk The Cons just five at b case Spidery, 2481 02:01:55,600 --> 02:01:57,240 Speaker 2: who says, love the show. 2482 02:01:57,880 --> 02:02:00,280 Speaker 3: I think y'all were a little harsh on them. The 2483 02:02:00,320 --> 02:02:03,320 Speaker 3: cons speech patterns. Have a theory that maybe they're just. 2484 02:02:03,360 --> 02:02:06,880 Speaker 2: A group of autistic adults who decided to stick together. 2485 02:02:07,440 --> 02:02:09,840 Speaker 2: Maybe that's just a stretch, but that's what I believe. 2486 02:02:11,000 --> 02:02:13,480 Speaker 2: You know what, man, I don't know enough about autism 2487 02:02:13,760 --> 02:02:18,000 Speaker 2: to know. What I don't know enough about autism, is 2488 02:02:18,040 --> 02:02:19,560 Speaker 2: that how autistic people talk. 2489 02:02:19,720 --> 02:02:20,440 Speaker 3: I don't know. 2490 02:02:21,080 --> 02:02:24,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sort of ignorant to that. So I'm gonna 2491 02:02:24,080 --> 02:02:29,320 Speaker 2: just stay away from making any jokes about this because yeah, 2492 02:02:29,480 --> 02:02:32,920 Speaker 2: I'm gonna just stay away from that with Nope, Nope, 2493 02:02:33,040 --> 02:02:34,160 Speaker 2: not gonna fall into that trap. 2494 02:02:35,760 --> 02:02:36,480 Speaker 3: So I don't know. 2495 02:02:36,840 --> 02:02:38,560 Speaker 2: So I don't even know if you're joking a series. 2496 02:02:38,640 --> 02:02:41,520 Speaker 2: To be honest, I legitimately don't know enough. 2497 02:02:42,520 --> 02:02:42,880 Speaker 3: He says. 2498 02:02:42,960 --> 02:02:45,200 Speaker 2: We will we find out that backstory, probably not the 2499 02:02:45,320 --> 02:02:48,760 Speaker 2: Walking Dad tends to not go into everybody's backstory anyway. 2500 02:02:48,920 --> 02:02:51,000 Speaker 2: Can't wait to see how Rick and the gang find 2501 02:02:51,120 --> 02:02:53,960 Speaker 2: guns for the Junk to cons. Yeah, I don't know 2502 02:02:54,000 --> 02:02:56,360 Speaker 2: why they talk like that, man like, And it was 2503 02:02:56,480 --> 02:03:00,320 Speaker 2: like they all talk like that too, so I don't 2504 02:03:00,360 --> 02:03:02,320 Speaker 2: know it was it was on some other ship. 2505 02:03:02,440 --> 02:03:07,400 Speaker 3: Man won't want more now, Like what, nigga use your words? 2506 02:03:07,560 --> 02:03:08,880 Speaker 5: What is this now? 2507 02:03:08,920 --> 02:03:12,200 Speaker 2: Niggas turned the cave in? It's been two years. Wish 2508 02:03:12,240 --> 02:03:14,200 Speaker 2: I would turn to a cave in that fast. 2509 02:03:14,320 --> 02:03:17,720 Speaker 3: I took all this time learning this hard ass language 2510 02:03:17,760 --> 02:03:18,240 Speaker 3: of English. 2511 02:03:18,920 --> 02:03:20,960 Speaker 6: For real, Compared to the rest of the world, English 2512 02:03:21,080 --> 02:03:22,200 Speaker 6: is the hardest language to learn. 2513 02:03:22,320 --> 02:03:23,920 Speaker 3: Literally, you know what that is. 2514 02:03:24,120 --> 02:03:26,320 Speaker 2: That's two years in the world without to that red 2515 02:03:26,360 --> 02:03:29,120 Speaker 2: squiggly line. That's what happened to the world. 2516 02:03:30,440 --> 02:03:32,440 Speaker 6: Don't correct have no. 2517 02:03:32,600 --> 02:03:38,520 Speaker 3: Red squiggly lines. It's gonna be chaos, y'all. 2518 02:03:38,600 --> 02:03:40,440 Speaker 2: Just see what my Twitter was looking like without the 2519 02:03:40,520 --> 02:03:46,480 Speaker 2: red squiggly line. And he told racism am bad. It 2520 02:03:46,600 --> 02:03:48,520 Speaker 2: was like, oh, what's wrong with Rod today? 2521 02:03:50,760 --> 02:03:54,840 Speaker 3: All right? Uh Saturday Feedback, not my TV house. This 2522 02:03:55,000 --> 02:03:55,640 Speaker 3: is from. 2523 02:03:57,080 --> 02:03:59,040 Speaker 7: Uh D. 2524 02:03:59,640 --> 02:04:01,240 Speaker 3: All right, Hey rider Carron. 2525 02:04:01,240 --> 02:04:03,480 Speaker 2: I've been listening to you guys almost every day for 2526 02:04:03,600 --> 02:04:05,160 Speaker 2: what feels like my entire life. 2527 02:04:05,760 --> 02:04:07,000 Speaker 3: Your show is the daily. 2528 02:04:06,840 --> 02:04:08,560 Speaker 2: Dose of blackness that makes me feel like I'm in 2529 02:04:08,600 --> 02:04:10,200 Speaker 2: a room full of black people while I'm at my 2530 02:04:10,280 --> 02:04:13,560 Speaker 2: white ass job. Lord knows I need this podcast now 2531 02:04:13,640 --> 02:04:17,000 Speaker 2: more than ever, despite your occasional New York slander. Yes, sir, 2532 02:04:17,040 --> 02:04:19,919 Speaker 2: and I'm dad ass from Brooklyn b and your questionable 2533 02:04:19,960 --> 02:04:20,640 Speaker 2: eating habits. 2534 02:04:21,000 --> 02:04:23,920 Speaker 3: I eat my grits with cheese, butter and syrup. To 2535 02:04:28,520 --> 02:04:29,960 Speaker 3: come on, man, I'm gonna strow up in my mouth. 2536 02:04:29,960 --> 02:04:32,000 Speaker 3: I can't be saying stuff like that without trigger warning. 2537 02:04:33,800 --> 02:04:35,560 Speaker 3: Know what you just did to the rest of all 2538 02:04:35,640 --> 02:04:38,040 Speaker 3: the people that listen to this show, man, that's disgusting. 2539 02:04:39,120 --> 02:04:40,840 Speaker 3: I shouldn't even read the rest of this email. Who 2540 02:04:40,920 --> 02:04:44,880 Speaker 3: knows what use she said? And you got the nerve 2541 02:04:44,960 --> 02:04:46,520 Speaker 3: to look down on me for the kick. 2542 02:04:46,600 --> 02:04:48,840 Speaker 2: You better not if I read any kit cast landing 2543 02:04:48,840 --> 02:04:55,840 Speaker 2: in this motherfucking email after you just said that, muh. 2544 02:04:55,920 --> 02:04:58,920 Speaker 3: So and I personally don't eat kit cass, but I 2545 02:04:59,000 --> 02:05:01,959 Speaker 3: will have to defer to the way the white men attended. 2546 02:05:03,160 --> 02:05:10,240 Speaker 2: Damn it, what are you doing, Derek. We allow people 2547 02:05:10,280 --> 02:05:13,040 Speaker 2: to use this email address the contact show. 2548 02:05:13,720 --> 02:05:17,680 Speaker 3: We don't. We don't love this in Trump's America. It's 2549 02:05:18,080 --> 02:05:25,040 Speaker 3: this terrorism. This is terrorism and that's why New York sucks, y'all. 2550 02:05:25,040 --> 02:05:28,360 Speaker 2: And I talked to people and your dirty ass high 2551 02:05:28,440 --> 02:05:31,760 Speaker 2: rent city that's the problem. You don't get to eat 2552 02:05:31,840 --> 02:05:34,200 Speaker 2: kit cats because the roaches in the rats just crawl 2553 02:05:34,320 --> 02:05:35,280 Speaker 2: off with your kit cats. 2554 02:05:36,200 --> 02:05:37,400 Speaker 4: That's what happens. 2555 02:05:39,160 --> 02:05:42,440 Speaker 3: To batter to visit. You too busy jacking it on 2556 02:05:42,520 --> 02:05:45,960 Speaker 3: the subway to eat your kid cats? Right? 2557 02:05:46,520 --> 02:05:46,920 Speaker 6: What is that? 2558 02:05:46,960 --> 02:05:48,800 Speaker 2: How y'all eat your kid cats? Just stick a decole 2559 02:05:48,840 --> 02:05:51,480 Speaker 2: little in them first and then you eat the rest. 2560 02:05:52,920 --> 02:05:56,960 Speaker 2: Disgusting anyway, Let the white man tell you how to 2561 02:05:57,000 --> 02:05:57,880 Speaker 2: eat his kid cats. 2562 02:05:57,960 --> 02:05:58,680 Speaker 3: Shaking my head. 2563 02:06:00,760 --> 02:06:02,360 Speaker 2: One of the reasons I love your show so much 2564 02:06:02,480 --> 02:06:03,680 Speaker 2: is I get to see you and care and give 2565 02:06:03,680 --> 02:06:05,280 Speaker 2: an end depth look to the way you look, at 2566 02:06:05,520 --> 02:06:05,960 Speaker 2: the way. 2567 02:06:05,840 --> 02:06:07,880 Speaker 3: You think and how you react to certain news the 2568 02:06:07,920 --> 02:06:08,680 Speaker 3: stories that you cover. 2569 02:06:09,120 --> 02:06:11,520 Speaker 2: You are never afraid to be to stand by your 2570 02:06:11,560 --> 02:06:14,880 Speaker 2: morals or give intimate details about your childhood, inner cels 2571 02:06:14,920 --> 02:06:18,560 Speaker 2: and your beautiful relationship. You always keep an open mind 2572 02:06:18,640 --> 02:06:20,560 Speaker 2: and willing to change the point of view when you're 2573 02:06:20,720 --> 02:06:23,160 Speaker 2: compelled to. This forces listeners to do the same in 2574 02:06:23,280 --> 02:06:25,920 Speaker 2: certain situations. Until about a week ago, I used to 2575 02:06:25,920 --> 02:06:27,960 Speaker 2: be a fan of Bill Maher and your recent podcast, 2576 02:06:28,040 --> 02:06:29,720 Speaker 2: and you criticize the show and his points of view 2577 02:06:29,800 --> 02:06:31,840 Speaker 2: really made me reflect and why I was a fantas 2578 02:06:31,880 --> 02:06:34,040 Speaker 2: show in the first place. I definitely feel like I 2579 02:06:34,080 --> 02:06:38,080 Speaker 2: would set aside his islamophobic views, his hands on, his 2580 02:06:38,200 --> 02:06:41,160 Speaker 2: hands off reporch towards black issues, and his obsession to 2581 02:06:41,280 --> 02:06:44,360 Speaker 2: wage his holy war against PC culture. But after having 2582 02:06:44,400 --> 02:06:49,680 Speaker 2: Tammy Lauren on and Micheline Metropolis, Ah yes, yes, Michelin 2583 02:06:49,760 --> 02:06:53,400 Speaker 2: Metropolis on his show so far this season, I think 2584 02:06:53,480 --> 02:06:54,920 Speaker 2: it's really turned me off for good. 2585 02:06:55,040 --> 02:06:55,160 Speaker 6: Yo. 2586 02:06:55,280 --> 02:06:56,160 Speaker 3: He also had. 2587 02:06:57,840 --> 02:07:01,480 Speaker 2: Pierced Warion on there too, man Like, he don't like that. 2588 02:07:02,160 --> 02:07:05,640 Speaker 2: That's if you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything, 2589 02:07:05,800 --> 02:07:07,920 Speaker 2: man Like. That's that's how I feel about dude. Like 2590 02:07:08,560 --> 02:07:10,320 Speaker 2: he had a spark where he started, man, but just 2591 02:07:10,480 --> 02:07:11,440 Speaker 2: the time caught up with. 2592 02:07:11,520 --> 02:07:13,520 Speaker 6: Him and he just change. 2593 02:07:13,840 --> 02:07:14,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 2594 02:07:14,120 --> 02:07:16,080 Speaker 6: He just a format. 2595 02:07:16,320 --> 02:07:18,240 Speaker 2: He's just a relic, man, you know what I mean? 2596 02:07:18,400 --> 02:07:21,720 Speaker 2: Like like, and I'm not saying like I mean he'll 2597 02:07:21,720 --> 02:07:23,680 Speaker 2: be able to do that show forever. He gonna he 2598 02:07:23,760 --> 02:07:26,640 Speaker 2: can die doing that show because like the show format 2599 02:07:26,720 --> 02:07:27,400 Speaker 2: has worked out. 2600 02:07:27,480 --> 02:07:29,640 Speaker 3: He got the guest. I mean, it's auto pallette at 2601 02:07:29,680 --> 02:07:30,080 Speaker 3: this point. 2602 02:07:30,240 --> 02:07:33,720 Speaker 2: But as far as that ship like providing any like 2603 02:07:33,880 --> 02:07:36,040 Speaker 2: refreshing new points of view, it's a rap. 2604 02:07:36,960 --> 02:07:38,680 Speaker 3: He done have the same point of view his whole 2605 02:07:38,800 --> 02:07:39,400 Speaker 3: time on the air. 2606 02:07:39,440 --> 02:07:42,600 Speaker 2: He doesn't evolve on any issues. He gets hostile with 2607 02:07:42,680 --> 02:07:47,040 Speaker 2: anyone that has any thing that uh that calls him out, 2608 02:07:47,440 --> 02:07:50,760 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like he's just yeah, he's 2609 02:07:50,800 --> 02:07:52,600 Speaker 2: just a regular as white dude. I don't know nothing, 2610 02:07:52,720 --> 02:07:56,120 Speaker 2: nothing special about that dude. But now I have unsolvable 2611 02:07:56,200 --> 02:07:58,920 Speaker 2: problemstuff having to find another white man to watch, one 2612 02:07:59,480 --> 02:08:00,440 Speaker 2: to watch on TV. 2613 02:08:01,360 --> 02:08:02,560 Speaker 6: Baby, there's plenty of I not here. 2614 02:08:02,640 --> 02:08:04,960 Speaker 3: I promise you, yeah, how you Yeah, he said to 2615 02:08:05,080 --> 02:08:06,960 Speaker 3: us solve a problem like, man, I don't know how 2616 02:08:07,000 --> 02:08:12,400 Speaker 3: you gonna get that one dog. I don't know, man, Hopefully, yeah, 2617 02:08:12,440 --> 02:08:16,680 Speaker 3: I don't know. Hopefully cob Hill or Jason, John Oliver 2618 02:08:19,080 --> 02:08:23,520 Speaker 3: d occasion, maybe John Stewart coming back, John Stewart coming back, 2619 02:08:23,560 --> 02:08:27,680 Speaker 3: and one of these white men gonna save us. We 2620 02:08:27,800 --> 02:08:30,640 Speaker 3: can share somebody clips on YouTube, we can do something something. 2621 02:08:31,440 --> 02:08:33,440 Speaker 3: In the meantime, I guess I'll have to double up 2622 02:08:33,440 --> 02:08:35,400 Speaker 3: on listening to you and care. Hopefully you guys make 2623 02:08:35,440 --> 02:08:38,320 Speaker 3: your way up north sometime soon, since there's no way 2624 02:08:38,360 --> 02:08:40,880 Speaker 3: in hell I'll leave in my liberal bubble to go 2625 02:08:41,040 --> 02:08:43,520 Speaker 3: visit you down to Trump's America. Well, yeah, because you 2626 02:08:43,520 --> 02:08:47,080 Speaker 3: won't be having no fucking syrup and butter and cheesey. 2627 02:08:47,120 --> 02:08:50,120 Speaker 3: Your grips out here, I know that much. Best wishes 2628 02:08:50,280 --> 02:08:54,640 Speaker 3: real time with the migos. Thanks man uh. 2629 02:08:54,840 --> 02:08:57,760 Speaker 2: And the last one is from Monica C who says 2630 02:08:58,200 --> 02:09:02,720 Speaker 2: fear of a circle planet. Hey, Hey, Rod and Karen. 2631 02:09:03,120 --> 02:09:05,880 Speaker 2: The episode with Ray Sonny was so good. I've been 2632 02:09:05,960 --> 02:09:08,200 Speaker 2: a fan of hers on Twitter ever since I heard 2633 02:09:08,800 --> 02:09:12,680 Speaker 2: her on the show. I think with Alex English, oh yeah, 2634 02:09:12,760 --> 02:09:13,080 Speaker 2: we had. 2635 02:09:13,000 --> 02:09:14,520 Speaker 3: Them all together one time. It was dope. 2636 02:09:15,080 --> 02:09:17,800 Speaker 2: I love Rai's approach to the stupid Yes I said 2637 02:09:17,840 --> 02:09:21,160 Speaker 2: it empathetic articles or think pieces or whatever they were 2638 02:09:21,160 --> 02:09:22,320 Speaker 2: about Beyonce and Serena. 2639 02:09:22,400 --> 02:09:23,720 Speaker 3: She was so logical and really. 2640 02:09:23,640 --> 02:09:26,240 Speaker 2: Cut things down to the basics of that stupidity. A 2641 02:09:26,360 --> 02:09:29,120 Speaker 2: valiant effort, because all I can do is curse under 2642 02:09:29,160 --> 02:09:32,880 Speaker 2: my breakfast. I walked up Columbus Avenue becoming anger and 2643 02:09:32,960 --> 02:09:36,600 Speaker 2: anger at white people, white women, specifically, FYI, Columbus Avenue 2644 02:09:36,640 --> 02:09:38,800 Speaker 2: equal up a west Side man had an equal White 2645 02:09:38,840 --> 02:09:40,680 Speaker 2: Landia equals Sometimes I really hate. 2646 02:09:40,480 --> 02:09:41,000 Speaker 3: Where I work. 2647 02:09:42,400 --> 02:09:45,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll say this too, man, Like Ray's goodly good 2648 02:09:45,640 --> 02:09:49,320 Speaker 2: at like dissecting shit like that, so you know, like 2649 02:09:49,440 --> 02:09:52,080 Speaker 2: she'll be asking questions, but she's just working out to 2650 02:09:52,320 --> 02:09:56,480 Speaker 2: like why it's funny or why it's fucked up or what. 2651 02:09:56,800 --> 02:09:58,800 Speaker 2: But and a lot of comedians do that, you know, 2652 02:09:59,120 --> 02:10:01,560 Speaker 2: just I think this is in an nature like they 2653 02:10:01,720 --> 02:10:04,320 Speaker 2: just they just break shit down to the simplest elements 2654 02:10:04,400 --> 02:10:06,200 Speaker 2: to get to whatever that truth. 2655 02:10:06,120 --> 02:10:06,520 Speaker 1: Is, you know. 2656 02:10:07,760 --> 02:10:09,840 Speaker 2: So it's kind of cool when we have comedians on 2657 02:10:09,880 --> 02:10:12,120 Speaker 2: the show, and I listen to comedians podcasts and stuff, 2658 02:10:12,480 --> 02:10:15,000 Speaker 2: because I like hearing that process live a lot of times. 2659 02:10:15,040 --> 02:10:17,000 Speaker 2: And sometimes you get to the funny, sometimes you get 2660 02:10:17,000 --> 02:10:20,480 Speaker 2: to the wrong truth, and sometimes the whole thing blows 2661 02:10:20,600 --> 02:10:23,920 Speaker 2: up and you don't find anything. But uh, those it 2662 02:10:24,040 --> 02:10:26,280 Speaker 2: makes the discussion worthwhile. In my opinion, It's much more 2663 02:10:26,320 --> 02:10:28,280 Speaker 2: interesting than, you know, than bullshit. 2664 02:10:28,960 --> 02:10:29,320 Speaker 6: Correct. 2665 02:10:29,880 --> 02:10:31,840 Speaker 2: Anyway, Ray is so smart and funny. It's a joy 2666 02:10:31,880 --> 02:10:33,560 Speaker 2: to here on the show. I also love her on 2667 02:10:33,600 --> 02:10:36,480 Speaker 2: Two Dope Queens. Like Hart said, I'm not a Beyonce 2668 02:10:36,680 --> 02:10:39,240 Speaker 2: fan because I just don't listen to much contemporary music 2669 02:10:39,320 --> 02:10:41,640 Speaker 2: at all, but I stand out at her performances, especially 2670 02:10:41,640 --> 02:10:42,880 Speaker 2: when it makes white people angry. 2671 02:10:43,000 --> 02:10:44,040 Speaker 3: Oh so all of them Okay. 2672 02:10:44,880 --> 02:10:47,400 Speaker 2: Karen definitely saved a life with her resounded reminder for 2673 02:10:47,480 --> 02:10:49,080 Speaker 2: women to shine our lights on ourselves. 2674 02:10:49,160 --> 02:10:49,800 Speaker 3: Thank you, Karen. 2675 02:10:50,920 --> 02:10:53,280 Speaker 2: Lastly, I just wanted to say, fear of circles aka 2676 02:10:54,320 --> 02:10:55,920 Speaker 2: triple phobia is real. 2677 02:10:56,640 --> 02:10:57,080 Speaker 3: Ray, if you. 2678 02:10:57,200 --> 02:10:59,920 Speaker 2: Listening, pay no mind to Ride. I stand in support. 2679 02:11:00,480 --> 02:11:02,040 Speaker 2: I don't remember what had happened. 2680 02:11:02,160 --> 02:11:06,400 Speaker 3: I believe that I believe her, but I think she 2681 02:11:06,560 --> 02:11:08,080 Speaker 3: was talking shit about my kit cast and I just 2682 02:11:08,120 --> 02:11:08,440 Speaker 3: lost it. 2683 02:11:08,520 --> 02:11:12,240 Speaker 2: Guys, Okay, like I'm a human too. If you come 2684 02:11:12,280 --> 02:11:13,560 Speaker 2: with a kit casts, I don't know what I'm gonna 2685 02:11:13,560 --> 02:11:15,880 Speaker 2: say about you. So just let's just try to stay 2686 02:11:15,880 --> 02:11:16,680 Speaker 2: away from that topic. 2687 02:11:16,760 --> 02:11:19,680 Speaker 3: Okay. Kit cat phobia is real too. How about that. 2688 02:11:21,160 --> 02:11:24,800 Speaker 2: My best My best friend has it and I've seen 2689 02:11:24,920 --> 02:11:27,840 Speaker 2: her be paralyzed with fear of circle patterns on packages, 2690 02:11:28,240 --> 02:11:30,200 Speaker 2: even peacocks with full tail display. 2691 02:11:30,400 --> 02:11:33,880 Speaker 3: I sympathize and empathized. All right, guys, be good. 2692 02:11:34,040 --> 02:11:38,760 Speaker 2: I love you Monica at Manti Cast, Thank you. I 2693 02:11:38,800 --> 02:11:42,520 Speaker 2: don't know what can be done about the circle phobia thing. 2694 02:11:42,800 --> 02:11:45,160 Speaker 2: That's you know, that seemed like one of those things 2695 02:11:45,200 --> 02:11:47,120 Speaker 2: will Probably not enough people have it for them to 2696 02:11:47,240 --> 02:11:48,200 Speaker 2: like make some drugs. 2697 02:11:48,360 --> 02:11:50,919 Speaker 5: I don't know what enough people do and they feel ashamed, 2698 02:11:51,000 --> 02:11:52,800 Speaker 5: but they don't want to come out that people might 2699 02:11:52,840 --> 02:11:53,600 Speaker 5: think something wrong with me. 2700 02:11:54,320 --> 02:11:56,840 Speaker 3: True yeah, I'm glad I ain't got that shit. 2701 02:11:56,960 --> 02:11:59,000 Speaker 2: That's how would I ever play basketball? I would I 2702 02:11:59,000 --> 02:11:59,919 Speaker 2: even look at basketball. 2703 02:12:00,200 --> 02:12:02,840 Speaker 3: I don't know how it works. Uh, this finally sounds 2704 02:12:02,880 --> 02:12:03,440 Speaker 3: really ignorant. 2705 02:12:03,480 --> 02:12:06,240 Speaker 2: All right, guys, we'll be back tomorrow. Uh, and we 2706 02:12:06,360 --> 02:12:09,680 Speaker 2: have a new guest tomorrow. Jay will be the guest 2707 02:12:10,480 --> 02:12:14,400 Speaker 2: who I have literally, uh promised to have on the 2708 02:12:14,480 --> 02:12:19,800 Speaker 2: show for years at this point. She Uh, she's a 2709 02:12:19,960 --> 02:12:21,960 Speaker 2: woman who's in the first of all, she's on the 2710 02:12:22,000 --> 02:12:24,800 Speaker 2: West Coast, so it's gonna be seven am her time. 2711 02:12:24,840 --> 02:12:27,960 Speaker 3: But she was cool with it. But she's really like 2712 02:12:28,040 --> 02:12:35,280 Speaker 3: in the like boxing. She has a podcasts called punch 2713 02:12:35,400 --> 02:12:36,760 Speaker 3: In Morning Punching. 2714 02:12:37,440 --> 02:12:37,560 Speaker 5: Uh. 2715 02:12:38,320 --> 02:12:41,320 Speaker 3: She's written for uh black Sports Online. 2716 02:12:43,000 --> 02:12:46,520 Speaker 2: She uh, she just she is a cool last person. Man, 2717 02:12:46,600 --> 02:12:49,920 Speaker 2: we've been quote unquote Twitter friends for years, so it 2718 02:12:50,040 --> 02:12:51,840 Speaker 2: was just one of those like she brought it up 2719 02:12:51,840 --> 02:12:53,360 Speaker 2: the other day and I said, you know what, damn it, 2720 02:12:53,960 --> 02:12:55,960 Speaker 2: let me drop everything I'm doing to make this shit 2721 02:12:56,080 --> 02:12:58,400 Speaker 2: happen now before I forget, because. 2722 02:12:58,160 --> 02:13:01,280 Speaker 3: I feel like I be owing people appearances on the 2723 02:13:01,320 --> 02:13:01,920 Speaker 3: show for years. 2724 02:13:02,280 --> 02:13:04,200 Speaker 4: It's a long list. I got to go back through 2725 02:13:04,240 --> 02:13:06,600 Speaker 4: the list so we can do some people. 2726 02:13:06,480 --> 02:13:07,480 Speaker 6: That need to be on the show. 2727 02:13:07,720 --> 02:13:10,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, she has a website, bad culture dot net, 2728 02:13:10,840 --> 02:13:13,200 Speaker 2: and yeah she talks about boxing and all kinds of stuff. 2729 02:13:13,240 --> 02:13:14,320 Speaker 3: Man, she's a really cool person. 2730 02:13:14,440 --> 02:13:16,640 Speaker 2: So we'll be talking to her in the morning guys 2731 02:13:16,760 --> 02:13:19,960 Speaker 2: at ten am. So until then, I love you, I 2732 02:13:20,040 --> 02:13:20,440 Speaker 2: love you too. 2733 02:13:20,720 --> 02:13:20,800 Speaker 5: Wh