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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show, Julia is on the phone

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Speaker 2: today and she's been with her husband John for three years,

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Speaker 2: but now she thinks he might be being unfaithful. So

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Speaker 2: we're going to see if we can find out if

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Speaker 2: he is. We try to catch him in a few minutes.

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Speaker 2: But first, Julia, what's going on? Why do you think

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Speaker 2: your husband's cheating?

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Speaker 3: You know, we've been together for you know, like three

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Speaker 3: years now, We've been marriage for three years at least,

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Speaker 3: I've been been together for much longer. But I just

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Speaker 3: I've noticed lately we've just been arguing like constantly, like

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Speaker 3: dis fickering. I just feel like we're not really connecting.

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Speaker 3: And he's never around, He's always at work. He never

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Speaker 3: really has the time to even prioritize me like wee,

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Speaker 3: and we never spend time together. We never even actually talk.

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Speaker 3: And I just feel like something's off. You know, you

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Speaker 3: just know, it's like an instinct where you just have

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Speaker 3: a feeling that something's not right. And what I what

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Speaker 3: I worry about is he's he's a super close relationship

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Speaker 3: with my sister Aaron. So John and my sister Aaron

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Speaker 3: have been friends forever, And.

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Speaker 1: Do you think it's a sister, your sister.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I hate to say that, Yes, I think it's

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Speaker 3: I think it's my sister. They text constantly, like I've said,

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Speaker 3: they they were friends before we even got together, and

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Speaker 3: it just it feels all so suspicious to me. It

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Speaker 3: just doesn't feel right.

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Speaker 4: That's quite a leap, though, to assume that it's your

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Speaker 4: sister spending time with him.

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Speaker 1: I mean, are they just good friends?

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Speaker 4: I mean I text with my friends all the time,

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Speaker 4: you know, even ones that are dudes in relationships, but

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Speaker 4: we're just friends. Is there anything else other than texting?

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Speaker 4: But listen, your gut always listened to it. But is

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Speaker 4: there anything else that you've seen that makes you feel

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Speaker 4: like for sure this is happening.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like, well, I hang out all the time,

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Speaker 3: Like he's get lunch lunch with her, they get coffee.

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Speaker 3: Not too long ago, we got together for my mom's

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Speaker 3: birthday party and they hung out the entire time. You know,

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Speaker 3: they had these cute little jokes back and forth.

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Speaker 4: You know, have they always done this though, like ever

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Speaker 4: since y'all kind of like started.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I noticed that they were I didn't

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Speaker 3: notice it because I felt like he made time for me. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you know, I felt like it was a normal balance

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Speaker 3: of you know, they were friends, but now it just

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Speaker 3: it just feels excessive.

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Speaker 1: Is your sister sketchy? Do you trust her at this point?

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Speaker 3: I don't. I don't know. I think it's just I

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Speaker 3: don't know who to trust.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's such a tough position. Are there any other

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Speaker 1: things that have happened to make you think he might

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Speaker 1: be cheating?

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Speaker 3: I just think that, you know, he's working really late,

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Speaker 3: like all the time. He won't even come home for dinner,

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Speaker 3: which I think is super strange. Like before we had

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Speaker 3: a pretty normal routine. Okay, and you know he's he's

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Speaker 3: just been weird. He doesn't he just doesn't. I don't know,

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Speaker 3: he's not affectionate. We just don't do anything together. We

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Speaker 3: don't he doesn't make we don't go on dates, we

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Speaker 3: don't do anything. It's we're just not we're not intimate.

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Speaker 1: Did you say anything to him about it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I did bring it up. I just I basically

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Speaker 3: said that I felt like he was making more time

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Speaker 3: for her than me, and it turned into this giant argument.

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Speaker 1: Like, how did it turn into an argument? Was he

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Speaker 1: super defensive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was defense. He was basically didn't say it

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Speaker 3: out right, but he's basically saying like I'm crazy, you know.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, there's usually a red flag when you confront

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Speaker 2: somebody about that kind of behavior.

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Speaker 1: So we'll see.

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Speaker 2: I mean, maybe in this case it's just because it's

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Speaker 2: your sister, you know, but also that still shouldn't be

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Speaker 2: something that somebody makes you feel like you're.

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Speaker 1: Crazy for sure.

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Speaker 4: But don't you think that like a person would want

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Speaker 4: to make their person feel better, Yeah, comfortable in a situation,

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Speaker 4: so when they can get defensive so quickly, or especially

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Speaker 1: Go to the crry.

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Speaker 2: But no matter what, if you have that feeling, you

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Speaker 2: have that feeling, if they do care about you, they

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Speaker 2: shouldn't make you feel crazy for But we'll see if

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Speaker 2: we can figure it out. You already told us what

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Speaker 2: grocery store he's awards card member at, So we'll do

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Speaker 2: the usual and we'll play a song, come back, and

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Speaker 2: then call him and pretend to be from the grocery

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Speaker 2: store and say that he's this month's big winner of

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Speaker 2: thirty six long stim red roses to be delivered anywhere

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Speaker 2: he wants in the entire country to anybody that he wants,

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Speaker 2: and we'll see if he sends those flowers to you

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Speaker 2: or to somebody else. Okay, all right, yeah, we'll play

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Speaker 2: a song. Come back and get your to catch acheater.

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Speaker 1: Next, it's time.

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Speaker 5: To Catch a Cheater only on.

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Speaker 1: The Jubile Show.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater and

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Julia is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and she thinks that her husband of three years name John,

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Speaker 2: might be cheating on her. So in a minute, we're

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Speaker 2: gonna call him and pretend to be from the grocery

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Speaker 2: store that he's awards card member at and say that

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Speaker 2: he's this month's big winner of thirty six long stim

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Speaker 2: red roses delivered to anybody that he wants, and we'll

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Speaker 2: see if he if he buys that load of crap,

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Speaker 2: and if he wants the flowers, and we'll see who

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Speaker 2: he sends them to, if he sends them to his

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Speaker 2: wife or to somebody else. But first, Julia, why don't

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Speaker 2: you tell everybody what the situation is.

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Speaker 3: So my husband and four years John, and he's been

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Speaker 3: busy at work, he's never home. He always has excuses.

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Speaker 3: I think that he might be cheating with my sister

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Speaker 3: Aaron the text constantly. They were friends before we even met,

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Speaker 3: and he's just defensive and I'd sil likey, this doesn't

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Speaker 3: make time for me, and he spends time with her.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I think so.

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Speaker 1: We're here with you, Carl.

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Speaker 5: Really all right?

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Speaker 2: This is Jorbel calling from So. I was looking for

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Speaker 2: our rewards card member named John.

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Speaker 5: Uh, yeah, this is this is me.

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Speaker 1: Hi John.

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Speaker 2: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling to actually let you know the year, this

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Speaker 2: month's big winner. Congratulations, great win. Are what the flowers?

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Speaker 5: Flowers? I win flowers?

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Speaker 2: Oh maybe you don't know. Every single month we choose

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Speaker 2: one rewards card member, just totally random, who gets free

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Speaker 2: flowers delivered from our floral department to anywhere in the country,

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Speaker 2: anybody in the country, anywhere you want, absolutely free. You've

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Speaker 2: just won thirty six long stem red roses, a box

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Speaker 2: of chocolates, and a card to be delivered to anybody

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Speaker 2: that you want.

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Speaker 5: Thanks, Like, what's the catch? It's like, do you need

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Speaker 5: my info or something?

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Speaker 2: No catch at all, just our way of saying thank

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Speaker 2: you very much for shopping with us.

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Speaker 5: Uh, okay, I can send them more.

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Speaker 2: Ever, yes, you'll get confirmations of everything, so you know

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Speaker 2: it's absolutely free. If you know who you want to

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Speaker 2: send them to. I can take the information in just

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Speaker 2: a matter of minutes over the phone.

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Speaker 5: No, I think, Yeah, I know what I want to

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Speaker 5: that's fun.

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Speaker 2: What I would need would be the first and last

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Speaker 2: name of the person, anything you want to put on

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Speaker 2: the card, and then the address and like I said,

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Speaker 2: confirmations of all this.

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Speaker 5: Okay, her name is Aaron.

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Speaker 1: Anything you want to put on a card there too?

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Speaker 1: Good ol' eronah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like uh yeah, if you go out space, if

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Speaker 5: you can just say thanks for hearing me out and

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Speaker 5: letting me get some stuff off my chest. Yeah, I

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Speaker 5: think that'll work. It'll be a nice she'll appreciate that,

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Speaker 5: totally nice.

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Speaker 2: Great, yep, And I'll get to the address here in

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Speaker 2: just a second. First, I want to let you know

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Speaker 2: that your wife's on the phone. What Yes, this is

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Speaker 2: actually the Jubil Show. It's a radio show. My name

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Speaker 2: is Jubil.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm Nina. Hi, Hey, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Victoria, and your wife Julia is on the phone and

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Speaker 2: probably wondering who Aeron is.

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Speaker 3: Aaron is my sister, and you're sending flowers to her.

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Speaker 3: So my question to you is, why are you sending

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, Julia, this is so, this is exactly

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Speaker 5: why I'm sending her flowers and not you. We have it.

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Speaker 1: That's a man.

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Speaker 5: You guys gonna be involved in this. You really know me,

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Speaker 5: all right. So I'm sending Aaron flowers because I can

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Speaker 5: actually have conversations with her. We converse, we have dialogues,

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Speaker 5: it's an exchange of information. Anytime we talk, you just

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 5: So I would really feel geting these flowers right now

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Speaker 5: that they don't much love from you, you know what

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Speaker 5: I mean. I am not into your sister. She's just

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Speaker 5: the one friend I have in this family right now. Jesus, Julia,

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Speaker 5: this is exactly why, like this is our problem. Instead

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Speaker 5: of just asking me like straight up, like what's going on,

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Speaker 5: you get a bunch of radio strangers on the phone

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Speaker 5: and then have them like like lie about sending flowers

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Speaker 5: from a reward card, Like what is this? Why not

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Speaker 3: I've had I have talked to you about it and

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Speaker 3: then you got defensive. So this is exactly why I'm

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Speaker 3: doing it. It's because obviously this is a weird situation.

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Speaker 3: This is my sister.

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Speaker 5: Like I don't I don't.

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Speaker 3: Want accused either of you of this, but it feels

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Speaker 1: Right about it.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I have every right to say something

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Speaker 3: talk to you, because yeah, everything turns to.

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Speaker 5: An argument, you know, like I've been friends with her

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Speaker 5: before we even met. Dude, Like we're like you, I

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Speaker 5: am good friends with your sister. That's just something, you know.

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Speaker 5: I'm not into her like that though, It's like we've

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Speaker 5: known each other for years, like nothing's ever happened. I'm

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Speaker 5: into you, but like then, you know, you call strangers

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Speaker 5: and to moderate our arguments, which like just this is

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Speaker 5: like jumping the sharks, Like if you have we had

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Speaker 5: an issue.

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Speaker 1: Called we weren't taking the supposed to moderating anything. We're

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Speaker 1: just trying to catch you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, god, just like people in a fight. Like

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Speaker 5: great work, guys, really did your homework.

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Speaker 3: You did send flowers to my sister, like that's weird, man,

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Speaker 3: Like that doesn't make any sense. I don't if we

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Speaker 3: have problems, sure, but facts your first thought to send

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Speaker 3: even care if your friends are not. Like, if you

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Speaker 3: are into me and you do love me, then you would.

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Speaker 1: Send me flowers.

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Speaker 3: You wouldn't be sending them to my sister.

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Speaker 5: That's just weird. Did you see then? Did you listen

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Speaker 5: and you listen to the note that I sent her?

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Speaker 5: Like was there anything flirty? Like like just thank you

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Speaker 5: That's like sad. That's straight up sad, Like I'm not

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Speaker 5: even happy that that's the person I hunting flowers. Who

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Speaker 5: it's just like, you know, things are tough at home,

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Speaker 5: you know what I mean, Like come.

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Speaker 3: On, yeah, but what is she there for you for?

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Speaker 3: Like she's there for you. I don't know what that means.

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Speaker 3: That could mean so many things.

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Speaker 5: So I can talk with her about our issues, because

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Speaker 5: every time I talk with you about it and you just

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Speaker 5: the day. Your sister actually listens to me man, like,

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Speaker 5: she probably knows more about how I'm feeling about our

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Speaker 3: I guess want to feel good about this, and I

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Speaker 3: don't feel good about it. I just just feel like

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Speaker 5: Oh great, that's fine. Well, well, because you're not ever

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Speaker 5: going to listen to me, like, I'll talk to Aaron

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Speaker 5: listen to me and like empathize with me, and you

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Speaker 5: can hear it from her because you talk with her more.

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Speaker 5: Did you talk with me?

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Speaker 1: Absurd?

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Speaker 5: It's absurd? Listen, Julia, I am busy right now. I

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Speaker 5: am at work. When I get home, we can talk

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Speaker 5: about this, but I know it's just going to end

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Speaker 5: up being us yelling and you like having to leave

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Speaker 5: the house again. So you know what, Thanks for this,

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Speaker 5: This is great for us. Bye, guys, y'all suck.

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Speaker 1: Wow? Okay, he hung up.

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Speaker 4: I think the problems are a little bit deeper than Yeah,

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Speaker 4: we are qualified.

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Speaker 1: For definitely, Julie. I'm sorry, so sorry.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, guys. I was I don't even us.

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Speaker 4: I honestly don't think he's cheating, though, Julia but I

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Speaker 4: do see that there are clear problems.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean especially I mean even if your sister,

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Speaker 2: if he's confiding in her all that stuff, is she

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Speaker 2: talking to you about it too?

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Speaker 3: Or no? Not really?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm aware of any of this.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I get that he feels like

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Speaker 3: he doesn't that you can't talk to me. I mean

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Speaker 3: if we're arguing that, yeah, we're not being able to

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Speaker 3: talk to each other. So that's an issue. I'm assuming

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Speaker 3: she doesn't feel comfortable talking to me about, which.

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Speaker 1: Seems it is.

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Speaker 3: Also, it's so weird, it's like a weird.

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Speaker 4: Maybe when he comes home today, just listen, Yeah, just

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Speaker 4: listen to what he has to say, and then you

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Speaker 4: off of that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys are right, good luck let us know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. We can help it anyway, Okay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I appreciate you guys.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much, you too.

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