WEBVTT - Yoni Sun Bathing & New Bae 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:04.240 Welcome back to another episode of Good Mom's Love Flowers. 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:11.600 I'm Erica and I'm Mela, and I'm already high. Yeah, 0:00:11.640 --> 0:00:12.959 I'm here trying to act not high. 0:00:12.960 --> 0:00:15.880 I'm like mentally, I almost forgot that I was higher, 0:00:15.880 --> 0:00:17.279 but then you just reminded me, and I'm high. 0:00:17.320 --> 0:00:19.759 I guess what we're gonna do and get more hard. 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:20.800 I wanted to get hygien. 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:24.799 If you're just tuning in, this is a show where 0:00:25.079 --> 0:00:29.280 we talk about cannabis, comment on current events, and talk 0:00:29.440 --> 0:00:30.120 high thoughts. 0:00:32.440 --> 0:00:35.160 Yep, that's what we do. 0:00:35.840 --> 0:00:38.040 We get high and we just let all the high 0:00:38.040 --> 0:00:40.840 things come that come to mind, just let them flow. 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:42.479 You know, sometimes when you get high and all those 0:00:42.520 --> 0:00:44.400 crazy questions that come to your head inside your head, 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:46.159 you don't tell anybody because you're like, is this stupid? 0:00:46.560 --> 0:00:48.320 It probably is, But here we say it out loud 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:50.200 because you're probably thinking the same shait with things. 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:51.720 So I want to fully encourage you to get high 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:55.280 with us. So pause, pause the video, Go grab your weed, 0:00:55.640 --> 0:00:58.800 roll up with us, because it's gonna get it's gonna 0:00:58.800 --> 0:00:59.800 get a little foggy in here. 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:03.640 I want to solicit to the people, but not solicit. 0:01:03.640 --> 0:01:04.480 That's maybe the wrong word. 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:07.800 I want to ask the people, could you does any 0:01:07.880 --> 0:01:08.840 if any artists out there? 0:01:08.840 --> 0:01:10.080 I think we need to have like a roll up 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:14.800 theme song, like rolling with the weed, rolling. 0:01:14.640 --> 0:01:21.920 Up, I get ha ha, that's progressive, rolling with the hommies, Rolanda. 0:01:21.959 --> 0:01:23.640 Can you can you insert that right? 0:01:23.840 --> 0:01:24.080 Sure? 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:26.479 Can you do this rolling with the homemade? 0:01:28.600 --> 0:01:33.560 Yeah, let's do it, because that's so that's like clueless. 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:37.399 It's like lash and it's rolling and we're with our homie. 0:01:37.800 --> 0:01:40.600 Or it could be like it's seven pm Friday, we 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:41.080 do have. 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:44.119 We we could use Lizzie. We actually she talks about 0:01:44.200 --> 0:01:45.200 us getting high. 0:01:45.120 --> 0:01:48.320 That's true, Okay, with that good smoking on my good mom, 0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:52.920 listen to good Mom, smoking on that good bomb, listening 0:01:53.000 --> 0:01:53.720 to good. 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:55.560 Moms, even though she thought she said smoking on that 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:58.040 good bomb, because we're smoking that good bomb and I 0:01:58.040 --> 0:01:58.840 got that good bomb. 0:01:59.600 --> 0:02:03.520 Mm hmm. Well let me go ahead, and are you 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:07.320 want to roll today? Sure? Pass me that backwood true 0:02:07.440 --> 0:02:08.040 rat baby. 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:10.720 Okay, but first I want to show you how beautifully 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:13.280 prepared your rolling experience. 0:02:13.760 --> 0:02:17.560 It's like tarcouterie of weed. We have cannabis. 0:02:17.720 --> 0:02:19.959 I feel like Vana White. 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:24.840 We have this beautiful, sacred, feminine flower. I believe this 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:28.280 is a hybrid as I'm hoping, because this is my 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:32.200 preferred choice of cannabis. And over to the riot, we 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:37.520 have beautiful, ethically sourced from nature rose petals mixed with 0:02:37.760 --> 0:02:41.160 just a little dash of lavender, because lavender is soothing 0:02:41.200 --> 0:02:43.919 and calming and rose is a heart opener, and when 0:02:43.960 --> 0:02:49.800 you mix this with motherflower, it is quite quite delectable experience. 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:52.960 And then to bring the flavors together, we've actually paired 0:02:52.960 --> 0:02:59.160 it with a deliciously robust hand tobacco rolled backwood, just 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:02.880 to keep keep the urban in it. We want to 0:03:02.919 --> 0:03:05.320 keep it classy, we want to keep it soft and feminine, 0:03:05.400 --> 0:03:07.840 but just so we have just enough masculine, just so 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:08.919 we let bitches. 0:03:08.639 --> 0:03:10.720 Know not to be We're not to be fucked we 0:03:10.880 --> 0:03:14.000 fucked with. It's the balance you need, the masculine and 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:14.920 the feminine, and. 0:03:14.800 --> 0:03:16.720 This is how we balance it in our backwood. We 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:19.560 get the backwood for the masculine, and then we get 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:22.519 the flowers for the soft, and then we combine them 0:03:22.520 --> 0:03:26.359 together and we soak car saliva in it because that's 0:03:26.400 --> 0:03:29.320 the God's nectar, and together and we pair it with 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:32.639 a weed drink, and so. 0:03:32.639 --> 0:03:35.120 For the haters who are hating on my Backwood intake. 0:03:35.240 --> 0:03:37.320 That is the reason I didn't know it was until 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:40.120 this very moment, but I knew it. My body intrinsically 0:03:40.160 --> 0:03:40.520 knew it. 0:03:43.800 --> 0:03:45.920 Did you know Backwoods was made in the Dominican Republic? 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:49.720 Interesting really backwards. 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:54.400 We're available to come through some taste testing and some ingredients. 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:57.960 We've been We've offered ourselves many times. We've solicited ourselves 0:03:58.040 --> 0:04:01.680 to Backwoods to fly us out Dominican Republic so that 0:04:01.800 --> 0:04:04.600 we can show you the flavors potential that you have. 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:07.560 So I think maybe didn't get the email the last 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:09.360 four So just collar. 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:13.120 And again we're smoking the true wraps because the traps 0:04:13.120 --> 0:04:14.960 are my new fave because I don't have to do 0:04:15.120 --> 0:04:15.720 any work. 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:18.440 They just come out ready to row. 0:04:18.920 --> 0:04:21.359 And you know what, this year we're in the second half. 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:25.440 It's all about more money, less work. So baby, thank 0:04:25.480 --> 0:04:30.560 you for this already perfectly cut, smooth brown Dominican Republic. 0:04:30.120 --> 0:04:30.880 To back overall. 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:33.440 Let me get this together for us. 0:04:34.600 --> 0:04:37.080 You would think we would still from any point we 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:41.279 would get a lighter in here, but no, never gonna happen. 0:04:41.360 --> 0:04:44.520 No, no, no, we have our matches. So it's been 0:04:44.640 --> 0:04:46.400 up to my lovely love. 0:04:48.320 --> 0:04:55.200 Oh what's been up? Well, I've just been enjoying my 0:04:55.279 --> 0:04:59.359 life like it's golden, doing a lot of nude tanning, 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:02.120 trying to get my color up. I'm not sure if 0:05:02.160 --> 0:05:04.840 it's working, because bitch still looks pretty fucking light. 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:08.520 We're going about to be on our way to colored 0:05:08.600 --> 0:05:12.400 up sunshine Caribbean, closer to the equator, away from the 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:16.159 ghettowness so soon. I can't wait to get sun kissed. 0:05:17.120 --> 0:05:22.920 And I I'm an avid baither like, I believe that 0:05:23.320 --> 0:05:25.520 for the health of your whole body, you need to 0:05:25.520 --> 0:05:30.719 be naked in the sun at least like a thousand 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:31.480 hours a year. 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:33.880 I believe so. I believe so. 0:05:34.240 --> 0:05:36.080 I think that it's really important for people to get 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:39.720 actually naked, and not just their bathing suit. 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:41.520 I'm telling you think it's just a small piece of 0:05:41.560 --> 0:05:43.960 clothing and it doesn't make a difference, But removing that 0:05:44.040 --> 0:05:48.480 small piece of clothing really really activates something inside. I 0:05:48.520 --> 0:05:52.400 think charge you super charged through your nipples and your vagina. 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:55.880 If you haven't tried Yoni charging, definitely she gets some 0:05:55.960 --> 0:05:57.800 yony bathing in the Next time you're in a private 0:05:57.800 --> 0:06:01.240 place and you but be careful, will get burned. 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:05.000 And for those who don't know what a yoni is 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:07.920 or what yoni bathing is, your yonie is. 0:06:09.960 --> 0:06:14.479 Your volva noviovagina. And when you yoni bathe, you do 0:06:14.560 --> 0:06:20.720 something like this. Step one, this. 0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:23.240 Is the yoni bathing song. We don't know what they're saying, 0:06:23.279 --> 0:06:23.960 but it sounds right. 0:06:25.279 --> 0:06:29.080 Step one, they make the stallion. Step two, you lay back. 0:06:30.720 --> 0:06:32.720 And if you might need a friend to help you, 0:06:32.720 --> 0:06:38.120 you just and this would be the sun here just 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:42.279 beaming down straight direct sunlight to the kuchi. Just so 0:06:42.400 --> 0:06:44.640 you know, the inner thigh can get some color, and 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:48.120 the inner laby is the iner and out of labias 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:51.400 can get full sun blast. Because this is how you activate. Okay, 0:06:51.480 --> 0:06:56.040 so say this is the sun and she's gonna charge up. 0:06:56.200 --> 0:06:58.479 These lights we have in here are actually from the sun, 0:06:58.560 --> 0:06:59.680 So this is equivalent. 0:07:00.600 --> 0:07:05.800 I'm showing you how. I hope, I hope you realize 0:07:05.839 --> 0:07:06.680 the importance in this. 0:07:07.279 --> 0:07:09.120 If you're not on YouTube, what the fuck are you doing? 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:11.600 That's the only way you're going to see this intricate 0:07:11.640 --> 0:07:13.280 move on how exactly? 0:07:15.120 --> 0:07:16.760 Don't tell me I never taught you anything. 0:07:17.080 --> 0:07:19.080 We're actually going to offer a workshop on this before 0:07:19.120 --> 0:07:22.440 the end of the summer. It's called the Yoni Sunshine Class. 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:26.720 We'll all gather around a body of water, probably a pool, 0:07:27.120 --> 0:07:28.880 and we don't give them too much in Okay, sorry, 0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:31.080 you got to you gotta find out. We've already gave 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:32.800 Fay the pussy fairies on the way. 0:07:32.840 --> 0:07:33.880 But there's more to that. 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:37.440 But that's step one. That's the tip of the Yonie 0:07:37.640 --> 0:07:38.680 Sunshine Iceberg. 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:40.840 I love good moms with flowers, and we always have 0:07:40.920 --> 0:07:45.640 We always have really good tips because we're smart, I mean, 0:07:45.720 --> 0:07:46.680 know stuff. 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:49.960 And we actually do it in our real life. You know, 0:07:51.080 --> 0:07:53.240 I'd really be putting my pussy up to the sunlight. 0:07:53.800 --> 0:07:54.880 So yeah, that's what I've been doing. 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:57.160 Actually too, I've been doing some Yoni bathing out there 0:07:57.200 --> 0:07:59.200 in the backyard. I've been doing some nude hooping. 0:07:59.880 --> 0:08:01.680 I love this because this reminds me of like an 0:08:01.760 --> 0:08:05.480 Instagram bio, Like I teach women how to nude, how 0:08:05.520 --> 0:08:08.760 to how to yoni bathe, nude hooping, and how to 0:08:08.760 --> 0:08:11.280 have the best self confidence of their life. And for 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:13.440 five hundred dollars a month, you can know how to 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:14.080 bathe too. 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:14.560 Do you know what? 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:16.720 Because I was we were looking I was looking at 0:08:17.080 --> 0:08:19.600 at another girl's retreat and she had all this intricate 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:21.320 information and I was like, that's so interesting. And then 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:23.840 she she had all the healers or the facilitators that 0:08:23.920 --> 0:08:25.640 were going to be at the retreat, and they all 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:30.160 had such interesting job like just job descriptions. Because now 0:08:30.160 --> 0:08:32.360 we're in the age of like audas can just make 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:35.040 whatever the fuck else, whatever whatever you want up. 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:37.679 Welcome to the age of audacity, or you could do 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:38.560 whoever the fuck you want. 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:41.520 And I kind of was like, well, shit, if that's 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:44.280 really what she does, like she should be able to 0:08:44.320 --> 0:08:44.920 say it, right. 0:08:45.200 --> 0:08:46.480 I mean, it's I think it's it's. 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:48.440 That line between like are you actually doing this versus 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:50.440 do you actually do Like I'm not really doing this, 0:08:50.520 --> 0:08:53.480 and that's where the the line of audacity becomes a 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:58.320 little bit of just fuckery. But and then I was like, well, 0:08:58.360 --> 0:09:00.400 the bitch, maybe she is. Maybe she does she does 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:02.079 do this, so why can't she be called that? 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:03.559 I may you everyone. 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:05.200 I feel like the next time I'm like in a 0:09:05.200 --> 0:09:07.040 restaurant and someone's choking and they need the high look 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:08.600 and move, I'm like, move out of my way. I'm 0:09:08.600 --> 0:09:11.559 a first aid kid, I know tattoo art. I'm a 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:14.880 last check. I'm I'm a fucking sexologist and I'm trauma informed. 0:09:14.880 --> 0:09:15.760 Please get out the way. 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:17.640 I think my I think the title I'm working towards 0:09:17.679 --> 0:09:22.080 right now is I'm a hoop priestress. I think that's 0:09:22.120 --> 0:09:25.800 I'm a I know, I like the hoop priestress. 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:31.720 A hoop priestress, okay, so not priestess priestress. So it's 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:37.240 like a combination of seamstress, no hooper, and a priest. 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:40.480 No, no, no, you had it right, Okay, it was priestess. 0:09:40.760 --> 0:09:43.280 I'm just high. I told Atlanta that I wanted to 0:09:43.280 --> 0:09:45.040 be the the poop priestess. 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:47.280 I told Orlanta I wanted to be the pleasure priestess, 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:48.760 and he said, it sounds like I'm selling pussy on 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:51.679 the internet. So he killed my dreams immediately before you 0:09:51.679 --> 0:09:52.640 even got it on the bio. 0:09:53.040 --> 0:09:56.680 It's so interesting people's perspective. That word. That word means 0:09:56.679 --> 0:09:58.000 a lot of different things to people. 0:09:58.080 --> 0:10:01.520 Pussy, your priestess, pleasure, Oh, pleasure, I'm sorry if my pleasure. 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:05.640 Yeah, I was here in busy man, Yeah, I know pleasure. 0:10:05.760 --> 0:10:08.920 I think pleasure gets an interesting wrap people in their mind. 0:10:09.080 --> 0:10:10.960 It's so interesting, you know. 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:16.200 I think particularly yeah, particularly for women and particularly for moms. 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:20.720 It's like saying like happiness, pleasure, joy or like or 0:10:20.800 --> 0:10:23.079 like trigger words like we're not supposed to use them, 0:10:23.120 --> 0:10:25.559 Like why would you be happy and that be a priority, 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:28.600 And why would priority prioritizing your pleasure be your priority? 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:30.480 Because your priority should be your kids and if it's 0:10:30.520 --> 0:10:33.160 not your kids, then you're a fucked up person. And 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:35.240 if you want to prioritize pleasure, it also like for 0:10:35.280 --> 0:10:37.679 some reason implies that you're just like you don't take 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:39.280 it and you don't take anything serious. 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:42.400 You don't take anything anything seriously, no discipline. But mostly 0:10:42.440 --> 0:10:47.000 I feel like the word pleasure is is grossly. 0:10:46.520 --> 0:10:50.480 Linked to something overtly sexual. 0:10:50.920 --> 0:10:55.520 Which it can be, but also why is overtly sexual 0:10:55.520 --> 0:11:01.280 and negative connotation? Like I even think about like this 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:03.280 is probably not the best example, but this is what 0:11:03.400 --> 0:11:07.840 came to mind. Like for instance, okay, like like obviously 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:09.760 nobody ever wants to hear their parents have sex, right, 0:11:10.240 --> 0:11:14.079 but like, uh, in the case like in our households, 0:11:14.080 --> 0:11:16.360 if that has happened, or if there's anything you know, 0:11:16.440 --> 0:11:19.080 any mention of sex growing up, you're like every it 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:22.240 like shuts down any conversation instead of it being like, of. 0:11:22.200 --> 0:11:23.640 Course I'm having sex with your dad. 0:11:23.760 --> 0:11:25.600 We love each other, and it's if this is what 0:11:25.800 --> 0:11:27.000 this is, what's married people. 0:11:26.840 --> 0:11:28.040 Do, it becomes perverse. 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:30.440 Yes, it becomes reverse when it's there's nothing really perverse 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:32.840 about making love and creating and like being in love 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:35.479 and being in union with someone. It's actually a beautiful, 0:11:35.800 --> 0:11:39.040 enlightening thing that could be like, you know, very divine, 0:11:39.360 --> 0:11:43.000 but from small children we are. We're in doctrine into 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:45.920 this idea that indulging in sex and pleasure in that 0:11:45.960 --> 0:11:50.600 way is perverse, even if it's in like a healthy manner. 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:52.920 You have the. 0:11:52.840 --> 0:11:56.360 Reprogram the world over weed speaking a pleasure. Baby, You 0:11:56.360 --> 0:11:57.720 ready for this motherfucking backway. 0:11:57.840 --> 0:12:00.160 I'm ready. You wrote it so quickly and beautiful. Look 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:03.319 at it. It's manifests for the world. Oh wait, actually 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:08.880 I brought something for that, like my Pallo baby. 0:12:08.880 --> 0:12:11.839 Manifest with us at the Good Vibe Retreat. If you 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:14.199 haven't already signed up for the Good Vibe Retreat, now 0:12:14.320 --> 0:12:16.640 is the time to manifest with us. Put your energy 0:12:16.679 --> 0:12:18.920 and intention to joining us next year and one of 0:12:18.920 --> 0:12:23.560 our seven retreats in a Caribbean hot, warm, yony sunshining place. 0:12:23.800 --> 0:12:28.000 Where you too can have personal matches, expert advice from 0:12:28.080 --> 0:12:30.800 us and weed with us. 0:12:33.679 --> 0:12:43.400 Thank you, you're welcome. Wait can we lately hmm, there 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:43.960 we go. 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:49.880 Yeah, lesson to cleanse the weed because we don't know 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:53.280 whose hands this cannabis has passed through. So we just 0:12:53.520 --> 0:12:58.000 ask that the most High Mother Nature that she cleansed 0:12:58.000 --> 0:12:59.839 this weed for us so that we can ingest it 0:12:59.840 --> 0:13:06.320 in system beautifully, easefully, that it creates inspiration, abundance and 0:13:07.600 --> 0:13:08.840 energy in our bodies. 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:16.160 Amen, Lord knows I need energy now, time for this backward. 0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:23.000 So the other day, I was having a conversation with 0:13:23.720 --> 0:13:27.120 my Mayan's and we were talking about my man. 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:29.880 What was that I saw you did? 0:13:30.040 --> 0:13:30.240 Oh? 0:13:30.280 --> 0:13:36.320 Speaking of your man, I noticed a hard lotch on Instagram. 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:37.240 La la la la la. 0:13:38.320 --> 0:13:43.480 We'll talk about that on Patreon. But anyway, I was, yesked, 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:48.840 I was talking with my man about emotional cheating. And 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:53.080 you know, as I'm designing my relationship because I feel 0:13:53.120 --> 0:13:56.720 like I'm in such an interesting point because it's early on, 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:58.480 and like I feel like this is where we can 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:04.480 really kind of create the the I guess the terms 0:14:04.480 --> 0:14:08.360 and agreements of how we view our the negotiation right 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:12.000 now in the negotiation period, in the negotiation redlining. 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:13.239 Yeah, well also. 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:14.680 Like sitting and really thinking, like what do I want 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:16.319 this to feel? Like if I have a partner that's 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:20.160 really open to being really designing it with me, Like 0:14:20.200 --> 0:14:23.240 what is it that I actually want? Anyway, So we're 0:14:23.280 --> 0:14:28.280 talking about emotional cheating, and it's like we had we 0:14:28.360 --> 0:14:34.000 had like conflicting views, not really conflicting so much, just 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:37.200 little nuances that I had never even considered about, just 0:14:37.240 --> 0:14:40.120 like what emotional cheating actually means to me? Because most 0:14:40.160 --> 0:14:42.160 of the time, I think as women, we view emotional 0:14:42.240 --> 0:14:46.920 cheating as like either someone is like sending nudes, someone 0:14:47.040 --> 0:14:51.520 is confiding in your relation in the relationship, send sending 0:14:51.600 --> 0:14:57.920 news or or or emotionally divulging information about the person 0:14:58.000 --> 0:15:01.280 you're in a relationship with, or just sharing information that 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:03.080 maybe your partner doesn't even know about you. 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:09.000 Like so whether it's sharing information like that maybe you 0:15:09.040 --> 0:15:10.640 were sharing with someone else that I don't know about you. 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:16.000 Like imagine if like Orlando were to share something super 0:15:16.080 --> 0:15:17.440 vulnerable about. 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:20.040 His childhood that he has yet to ever share with you. 0:15:20.120 --> 0:15:22.440 But like I'm going through something right now, I'm super depressed, 0:15:22.440 --> 0:15:23.720 but you haven't expressed that to me. 0:15:24.160 --> 0:15:25.120 Is that emotional cheating? 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:27.280 Hell yeah, that's cheating. 0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:30.000 Emotional cheating is cheating to me, like cheating is cheating, 0:15:30.000 --> 0:15:32.240 is cheating, and cheating, I think that I would have 0:15:32.280 --> 0:15:32.880 a problem with that. 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:35.280 What about you? 0:15:35.400 --> 0:15:39.920 Well, so, okay, well my first reaction was that, and 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:44.680 I think that that is, like, I think that's how 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:47.400 most people, most women feel, I think emotional cheating. There 0:15:47.400 --> 0:15:50.160 also needs to be some sort of like underlining, maybe 0:15:50.160 --> 0:15:53.200 not even underlining. Maybe it's very overt. Sexual tension needs 0:15:53.200 --> 0:15:56.200 to exist because you can have a girlfriend, like like 0:15:56.280 --> 0:15:59.040 your partner could have a friend that's a woman that 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:02.800 there is really tonic and be sharing vulnerable things with 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:05.560 and it's just some women would be like, that's still 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:10.760 emotional cheating, and other women might say that's not emotional cheating. 0:16:10.800 --> 0:16:13.160 But I do have questions as to why you felt 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:14.720 you needed to share this with her and not me. 0:16:15.160 --> 0:16:16.920 Well, I think it's really sticky when you say the 0:16:16.960 --> 0:16:22.720 part about the about the sexual tension, right, because the 0:16:22.760 --> 0:16:25.400 part about that is no one nobody's ever going to 0:16:25.480 --> 0:16:28.520 be honest about that. If you're a relationship and your nigga, 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:31.800 your bitch catches you having in a like deep set, Like. 0:16:31.800 --> 0:16:34.080 But I think the sexual tension would be probably you 0:16:34.120 --> 0:16:36.600 would be you would be able to identify it. 0:16:37.000 --> 0:16:38.800 Yes, but the nigga's deny, deny, deny. 0:16:38.960 --> 0:16:39.520 I mean, but you could. 0:16:39.560 --> 0:16:40.880 I mean, I'm just saying, like, if you're looking at 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:44.160 someone's phone and this person says there's this is my friend, 0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:46.680 usually there's you could read between the lines and see 0:16:46.720 --> 0:16:47.560 that there's something different. 0:16:47.640 --> 0:16:49.440 But yeah, no, you're right, I understand that too. 0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:52.880 If that doesn't exist, how do you actually know if 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:56.840 there's sexual tension without them expressing it or you witnessing it. 0:16:56.880 --> 0:16:58.720 I mean, I agree, you definitely witness it. I can 0:16:58.720 --> 0:17:01.920 smell sexual tension from a mile away. Don't fucking play 0:17:01.960 --> 0:17:05.440 with me. Yeah, I think it's it's tricky, It could 0:17:05.440 --> 0:17:09.119 become tricky. Where did you draw the line? Like, what 0:17:09.160 --> 0:17:09.919 are your thoughts on that? 0:17:13.640 --> 0:17:16.040 I felt like, So when I was thinking about my 0:17:16.080 --> 0:17:21.040 partner divulging something personal to a friend, a female friend 0:17:21.080 --> 0:17:22.879 that he hasn't divulged to me, how that would make 0:17:22.920 --> 0:17:24.840 me feel? I don't think I would. I would not 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:28.520 consider that emotional cheating per se. I feel like every 0:17:28.560 --> 0:17:32.520 person has their own right to share parts of themselves 0:17:32.600 --> 0:17:35.119 that they want with other people. I would more so 0:17:35.240 --> 0:17:38.159 want to understand why you didn't feel comfortable sharing that 0:17:38.160 --> 0:17:40.160 with me, Like what about our relationship dynamic? 0:17:40.560 --> 0:17:40.800 Is that? 0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:43.800 Or maybe like you needed to share that first so 0:17:43.840 --> 0:17:45.840 that you knew how to share it with me later 0:17:45.880 --> 0:17:48.159 than Okay, then maybe I understand that. But there is 0:17:48.200 --> 0:17:50.119 a level of like I do want you to be 0:17:50.200 --> 0:17:52.359 like I'm your lover, hold me and best friend, like Nigga, 0:17:52.359 --> 0:17:54.840 you tell me everything. Why would you share this with 0:17:54.880 --> 0:17:58.159 her not with me? Intentionally keep this from me with 0:17:58.280 --> 0:18:00.600 no planned sharing. 0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:00.720 It with me. 0:18:02.640 --> 0:18:05.800 That to me, I don't want to say it's cheating. 0:18:05.880 --> 0:18:10.840 I don't think it's cheating. It's just troublesome. I feel 0:18:10.840 --> 0:18:13.600 like it creates trouble. It can create trouble and a 0:18:13.680 --> 0:18:18.280 dynamic and whether or not, because then I thought, okay, well, 0:18:18.280 --> 0:18:23.280 like my man is fine, Like I'm fine. I think 0:18:23.320 --> 0:18:26.280 that the men in my life that are my friends 0:18:26.960 --> 0:18:28.520 a lot nine times out of ten, a lot of 0:18:28.560 --> 0:18:31.720 times we're human. If I made a pass or I 0:18:31.760 --> 0:18:33.240 actively pursued. 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:35.000 One of my male friends in my life, would they 0:18:35.080 --> 0:18:40.359 fuck me? Probably? And vice versa. So then like where 0:18:40.400 --> 0:18:41.200 do you draw the line? 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:43.080 Is it's just like your nigga can't have no female 0:18:43.119 --> 0:18:46.520 friends because he's fine and women can't control themselves, and 0:18:46.760 --> 0:18:48.320 if they were left to their own devices and he 0:18:48.359 --> 0:18:49.919 pursued them, they might fuck them. So they're really not 0:18:49.960 --> 0:18:52.800 friends or are they just humans that share attraction and 0:18:52.840 --> 0:18:55.560 you can't really so you're supposed to not have friendships 0:18:55.600 --> 0:18:58.919 with any woman that or male that could potentially be 0:18:58.920 --> 0:19:00.320 attracted to your finance. 0:19:00.320 --> 0:19:02.400 Which then it gets sticky. No, I don't think that's 0:19:02.400 --> 0:19:05.399 realistic at all. I don't and I think men have 0:19:05.600 --> 0:19:07.680 operated in the way like niggas don't want no nigga 0:19:07.680 --> 0:19:09.280 wants to be your friend. I dot times I've heard 0:19:09.280 --> 0:19:11.040 that niggas don't want to be your friend. I'm like, 0:19:11.119 --> 0:19:17.680 but I have a good personality. I'm really funny, and 0:19:18.520 --> 0:19:22.439 it's true a lot of times niggas do have ulterior motives, 0:19:22.480 --> 0:19:25.399 but sometimes they don't. But also I think that men 0:19:26.280 --> 0:19:30.520 underestimate and are a little bit slow, so they or 0:19:30.520 --> 0:19:34.160 maybe they're not just acting slow, they sometimes miss when 0:19:34.240 --> 0:19:35.679 women have ulterior And. 0:19:35.720 --> 0:19:37.879 That's what I said to him too, I said women. 0:19:38.160 --> 0:19:41.280 I think women don't trust men's discernment with their female 0:19:41.280 --> 0:19:45.080 friends because they often play either play dumb or they 0:19:45.200 --> 0:19:49.760 actually are stupid, or women are just really koi and 0:19:49.800 --> 0:19:51.800 we just know we understand the coin is the women, 0:19:51.840 --> 0:19:54.520 and understand the koi and flirting are sometimes one and 0:19:54.560 --> 0:19:55.520 the same, and. 0:19:55.520 --> 0:19:57.880 Women are women? Are we we? 0:19:58.960 --> 0:20:01.720 When I say wait, I mean we operate on a 0:20:01.800 --> 0:20:04.440 level and I know like women sometimes will I think 0:20:04.480 --> 0:20:07.600