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Speaker 1: Welcome back to another episode of Good Mom's Love Flowers.

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Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Mela, and I'm already high. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm here trying to act not high.

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Speaker 1: I'm like mentally, I almost forgot that I was higher,

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Speaker 1: but then you just reminded me, and I'm high.

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Speaker 2: I guess what we're gonna do and get more hard.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to get hygien.

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Speaker 3: If you're just tuning in, this is a show where

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Speaker 3: we talk about cannabis, comment on current events, and talk

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Speaker 3: high thoughts.

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Speaker 2: Yep, that's what we do.

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Speaker 1: We get high and we just let all the high

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Speaker 1: things come that come to mind, just let them flow.

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Speaker 1: You know, sometimes when you get high and all those

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Speaker 1: crazy questions that come to your head inside your head,

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Speaker 1: you don't tell anybody because you're like, is this stupid?

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Speaker 1: It probably is, But here we say it out loud

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Speaker 1: because you're probably thinking the same shait with things.

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Speaker 3: So I want to fully encourage you to get high

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Speaker 3: with us. So pause, pause the video, Go grab your weed,

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Speaker 3: roll up with us, because it's gonna get it's gonna

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Speaker 3: get a little foggy in here.

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Speaker 2: I want to solicit to the people, but not solicit.

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Speaker 2: That's maybe the wrong word.

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Speaker 1: I want to ask the people, could you does any

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Speaker 1: if any artists out there?

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Speaker 2: I think we need to have like a roll up

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Speaker 2: theme song, like rolling with the weed, rolling.

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Speaker 3: Up, I get ha ha, that's progressive, rolling with the hommies, Rolanda.

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Speaker 4: Can you can you insert that right?

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 1: Can you do this rolling with the homemade?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do it, because that's so that's like clueless.

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Speaker 1: It's like lash and it's rolling and we're with our homie.

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Speaker 1: Or it could be like it's seven pm Friday, we

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Speaker 1: do have.

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Speaker 2: We we could use Lizzie. We actually she talks about

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Speaker 2: us getting high.

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Speaker 3: That's true, Okay, with that good smoking on my good mom,

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Speaker 3: listen to good Mom, smoking on that good bomb, listening

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Speaker 3: to good.

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Speaker 1: Moms, even though she thought she said smoking on that

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Speaker 1: good bomb, because we're smoking that good bomb and I

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Speaker 1: got that good bomb.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Well let me go ahead, and are you

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Speaker 2: want to roll today? Sure? Pass me that backwood true

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Speaker 2: rat baby.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but first I want to show you how beautifully

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Speaker 3: prepared your rolling experience.

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Speaker 2: It's like tarcouterie of weed. We have cannabis.

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Speaker 4: I feel like Vana White.

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Speaker 3: We have this beautiful, sacred, feminine flower. I believe this

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Speaker 3: is a hybrid as I'm hoping, because this is my

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Speaker 3: preferred choice of cannabis. And over to the riot, we

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Speaker 3: have beautiful, ethically sourced from nature rose petals mixed with

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Speaker 3: just a little dash of lavender, because lavender is soothing

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Speaker 3: and calming and rose is a heart opener, and when

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Speaker 3: you mix this with motherflower, it is quite quite delectable experience.

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Speaker 1: And then to bring the flavors together, we've actually paired

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Speaker 1: it with a deliciously robust hand tobacco rolled backwood, just

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Speaker 1: to keep keep the urban in it. We want to

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Speaker 1: keep it classy, we want to keep it soft and feminine,

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Speaker 1: but just so we have just enough masculine, just so

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Speaker 1: we let bitches.

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Speaker 2: Know not to be We're not to be fucked we

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Speaker 2: fucked with. It's the balance you need, the masculine and

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Speaker 2: the feminine, and.

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Speaker 1: This is how we balance it in our backwood. We

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Speaker 1: get the backwood for the masculine, and then we get

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Speaker 1: the flowers for the soft, and then we combine them

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Speaker 1: together and we soak car saliva in it because that's

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Speaker 1: the God's nectar, and together and we pair it with

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Speaker 1: a weed drink, and so.

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Speaker 3: For the haters who are hating on my Backwood intake.

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Speaker 3: That is the reason I didn't know it was until

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Speaker 3: this very moment, but I knew it. My body intrinsically

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Speaker 3: knew it.

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Speaker 2: Did you know Backwoods was made in the Dominican Republic?

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Speaker 2: Interesting really backwards.

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Speaker 1: We're available to come through some taste testing and some ingredients.

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Speaker 1: We've been We've offered ourselves many times. We've solicited ourselves

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Speaker 1: to Backwoods to fly us out Dominican Republic so that

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Speaker 1: we can show you the flavors potential that you have.

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Speaker 1: So I think maybe didn't get the email the last

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Speaker 1: four So just collar.

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Speaker 3: And again we're smoking the true wraps because the traps

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Speaker 3: are my new fave because I don't have to do

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Speaker 2: They just come out ready to row.

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Speaker 1: And you know what, this year we're in the second half.

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Speaker 1: It's all about more money, less work. So baby, thank

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Speaker 1: you for this already perfectly cut, smooth brown Dominican Republic.

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Speaker 2: To back overall.

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Speaker 4: Let me get this together for us.

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Speaker 1: You would think we would still from any point we

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Speaker 1: would get a lighter in here, but no, never gonna happen.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, we have our matches. So it's been

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Speaker 2: up to my lovely love.

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Speaker 3: Oh what's been up? Well, I've just been enjoying my

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Speaker 3: life like it's golden, doing a lot of nude tanning,

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Speaker 3: trying to get my color up. I'm not sure if

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Speaker 3: it's working, because bitch still looks pretty fucking light.

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Speaker 1: We're going about to be on our way to colored

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Speaker 1: up sunshine Caribbean, closer to the equator, away from the

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Speaker 1: ghettowness so soon. I can't wait to get sun kissed.

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Speaker 1: And I I'm an avid baither like, I believe that

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Speaker 1: for the health of your whole body, you need to

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Speaker 1: be naked in the sun at least like a thousand

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Speaker 2: I believe so. I believe so.

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Speaker 3: I think that it's really important for people to get

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Speaker 3: actually naked, and not just their bathing suit.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you think it's just a small piece of

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Speaker 1: clothing and it doesn't make a difference, But removing that

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Speaker 1: small piece of clothing really really activates something inside. I

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Speaker 1: think charge you super charged through your nipples and your vagina.

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Speaker 1: If you haven't tried Yoni charging, definitely she gets some

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Speaker 1: yony bathing in the Next time you're in a private

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Speaker 1: place and you but be careful, will get burned.

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Speaker 3: And for those who don't know what a yoni is

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Speaker 3: or what yoni bathing is, your yonie is.

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Speaker 2: Your volva noviovagina. And when you yoni bathe, you do

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Speaker 2: something like this. Step one, this.

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Speaker 1: Is the yoni bathing song. We don't know what they're saying,

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Speaker 2: Step one, they make the stallion. Step two, you lay back.

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Speaker 1: And if you might need a friend to help you,

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Speaker 1: you just and this would be the sun here just

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Speaker 1: beaming down straight direct sunlight to the kuchi. Just so

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Speaker 1: you know, the inner thigh can get some color, and

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Speaker 1: the inner laby is the iner and out of labias

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Speaker 1: can get full sun blast. Because this is how you activate. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so say this is the sun and she's gonna charge up.

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Speaker 1: These lights we have in here are actually from the sun,

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Speaker 1: So this is equivalent.

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Speaker 2: I'm showing you how. I hope, I hope you realize

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Speaker 1: If you're not on YouTube, what the fuck are you doing?

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Speaker 1: That's the only way you're going to see this intricate

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Speaker 1: move on how exactly?

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Speaker 2: Don't tell me I never taught you anything.

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Speaker 1: We're actually going to offer a workshop on this before

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Speaker 1: the end of the summer. It's called the Yoni Sunshine Class.

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Speaker 1: We'll all gather around a body of water, probably a pool,

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Speaker 1: and we don't give them too much in Okay, sorry,

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Speaker 1: you got to you gotta find out. We've already gave

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Speaker 1: Fay the pussy fairies on the way.

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Speaker 2: But there's more to that.

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Speaker 3: But that's step one. That's the tip of the Yonie

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Speaker 3: Sunshine Iceberg.

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Speaker 1: I love good moms with flowers, and we always have

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Speaker 1: We always have really good tips because we're smart, I mean,

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Speaker 2: And we actually do it in our real life. You know,

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Speaker 2: I'd really be putting my pussy up to the sunlight.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, that's what I've been doing.

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Speaker 3: Actually too, I've been doing some Yoni bathing out there

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Speaker 3: in the backyard. I've been doing some nude hooping.

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Speaker 1: I love this because this reminds me of like an

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Speaker 1: Instagram bio, Like I teach women how to nude, how

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Speaker 1: to how to yoni bathe, nude hooping, and how to

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Speaker 1: have the best self confidence of their life. And for

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Speaker 1: five hundred dollars a month, you can know how to

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Speaker 1: bathe too.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what?

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Speaker 3: Because I was we were looking I was looking at

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Speaker 3: at another girl's retreat and she had all this intricate

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Speaker 3: she she had all the healers or the facilitators that

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Speaker 3: had such interesting job like just job descriptions. Because now

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Speaker 3: we're in the age of like audas can just make

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Speaker 3: whatever the fuck else, whatever whatever you want up.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the age of audacity, or you could do

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Speaker 1: whoever the fuck you want.

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Speaker 3: And I kind of was like, well, shit, if that's

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's I think it's it's.

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Speaker 3: That line between like are you actually doing this versus

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Speaker 3: and that's where the the line of audacity becomes a

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Speaker 3: little bit of just fuckery. But and then I was like, well,

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Speaker 3: the bitch, maybe she is. Maybe she does she does

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Speaker 3: do this, so why can't she be called that?

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Speaker 4: I may you everyone.

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Speaker 1: I feel like the next time I'm like in a

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Speaker 1: restaurant and someone's choking and they need the high look

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Speaker 1: and move, I'm like, move out of my way. I'm

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Speaker 1: a first aid kid, I know tattoo art. I'm a

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Speaker 1: last check. I'm I'm a fucking sexologist and I'm trauma informed.

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Speaker 1: Please get out the way.

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Speaker 3: I think my I think the title I'm working towards

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Speaker 3: right now is I'm a hoop priestress. I think that's

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Speaker 3: I'm a I know, I like the hoop priestress.

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Speaker 1: A hoop priestress, okay, so not priestess priestress. So it's

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Speaker 1: like a combination of seamstress, no hooper, and a priest.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, you had it right, Okay, it was priestess.

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Speaker 2: I'm just high. I told Atlanta that I wanted to

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Speaker 2: be the the poop priestess.

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Speaker 1: I told Orlanta I wanted to be the pleasure priestess,

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Speaker 1: and he said, it sounds like I'm selling pussy on

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Speaker 1: the internet. So he killed my dreams immediately before you

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Speaker 1: even got it on the bio.

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Speaker 2: It's so interesting people's perspective. That word. That word means

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Speaker 2: a lot of different things to people.

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Speaker 1: Pussy, your priestess, pleasure, Oh, pleasure, I'm sorry if my pleasure.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was here in busy man, Yeah, I know pleasure.

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Speaker 3: I think pleasure gets an interesting wrap people in their mind.

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Speaker 2: It's so interesting, you know.

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Speaker 1: I think particularly yeah, particularly for women and particularly for moms.

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Speaker 1: It's like saying like happiness, pleasure, joy or like or

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Speaker 1: like trigger words like we're not supposed to use them,

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Speaker 1: Like why would you be happy and that be a priority,

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Speaker 1: And why would priority prioritizing your pleasure be your priority?

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Speaker 1: Because your priority should be your kids and if it's

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Speaker 1: not your kids, then you're a fucked up person. And

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Speaker 1: if you want to prioritize pleasure, it also like for

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Speaker 1: some reason implies that you're just like you don't take

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Speaker 1: Like so whether it's sharing information like that maybe you

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Speaker 1: Emotional cheating is cheating to me, like cheating is cheating,

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Speaker 3: But I do have questions as to why you felt

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Speaker 3: That to me, I don't want to say it's cheating.

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Speaker 3: Is it's just like your nigga can't have no female

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Speaker 3: like feeling of lackness or I deserve you know. It's like,

440
00:21:57,920 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 3: that's why it's so important, I think the work that

441
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 3: we do with women, because that's where I really feel

442
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:07,000
Speaker 3: it's rooted in a lot of it is our distrust

443
00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:09,959
Speaker 3: for women is the center of that whole dynamic and

444
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 3: men men too. But yes, but for all, I can't worry.

445
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 3: I can't do anything about that, do you.

446
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:16,520
Speaker 2: Know what I mean?

447
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 1: No, I never ever want to operate in a relationship

448
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 1: where I'm like, I'm so paranoid about you leaving me

449
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,399
Speaker 1: or potentially doing something fucked up that I want to

450
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:31,320
Speaker 1: cut you off from all potential friendships, all potential interactions.

451
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:32,920
Speaker 1: If you dance on the dance floor with the bitch,

452
00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:35,639
Speaker 1: if you're having small talk, then I'm cutting you with

453
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,879
Speaker 1: my eyes from across the room. Like I don't desire

454
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 1: that for myself, and I know women like historically in relationships,

455
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 1: people are like, well that I'm in a relationship now,

456
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:44,879
Speaker 1: and that's how you that's the.

457
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 4: Way to be respectful.

458
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,960
Speaker 1: It's like cutting yourself off from half of the entire

459
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,679
Speaker 1: population by the opposite sex is not a way of

460
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:55,760
Speaker 1: like an ode to loving someone, it's it's asking for trouble, honestly,

461
00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:58,119
Speaker 1: because you're going to start. It's just like locking a

462
00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 1: teenage girl in her room and telling her she can't

463
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 1: do shit. She's gonna fucking sneak out and then she's

464
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,080
Speaker 1: gonna start drinking and she's gonna act and ask and

465
00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 1: get pregnant early.

466
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 2: It's like taking away the thing.

467
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 4: And so it's like like.

468
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 1: That that fucking forbidden fruit theory, you know, and so

469
00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:15,440
Speaker 1: I don't believe in that. And it's like, yeah, trust,

470
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 1: we have to trust each other, you know, Like you

471
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 1: have to trust you're the person you're dating, and you

472
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 1: have to trust your the they have discernment and decisions,

473
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:24,120
Speaker 1: and that goes a long way.

474
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:26,400
Speaker 4: Who are we choosing as partners?

475
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 2: You know?

476
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 1: Because if I have to worry about you when you

477
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 1: fucking turn the corner and niggat, I got time, I

478
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:33,320
Speaker 1: can hardly keep up with the shit I gotta keep

479
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 1: up with.

480
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 2: Now, I got to worry about what you're doing around

481
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 2: the corner, like.

482
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 3: And the trust also goes And to just further talk

483
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:44,679
Speaker 3: about that aspect is like trusting that even if your

484
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 3: man did have a friend who crossed the line at

485
00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:50,120
Speaker 3: some point that he would have the discernment to put

486
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 3: a boundary in that relation, in that relationship, And that's

487
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 3: where I think a lot of women don't trust their men.

488
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:56,639
Speaker 3: It's like, he might not do it, but is he

489
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:59,120
Speaker 3: actually going? Is he going to continue the friendship because

490
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:01,400
Speaker 3: he feels like he has the discernment to like navigate

491
00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 3: the relationship even though she's crossed the line. And it's like,

492
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 3: how do you feel about that? Do you think that

493
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 3: he should in that instance? Should a man totally discard

494
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 3: of that friendship now because he's had to he's had

495
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 3: to check this woman, or and now she's gonna now

496
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 3: she's gonna respect the bounds of his relationship. Or does

497
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 3: he just ignore it and just like carry on like

498
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 3: nothing exists, or does he actually discard the relationship?

499
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:29,840
Speaker 2: I guess is the alternative.

500
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm not what would you want? I'm not

501
00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,199
Speaker 4: a fan of you know, I'm a big fan of you.

502
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 1: Make the decision so I can see how you move,

503
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:38,120
Speaker 1: and then I will make the decision if I want

504
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:39,879
Speaker 1: to fuck with you. But I'm also the type of

505
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 1: person who I'm always leaning towards cutting people off. I

506
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 1: feel you, I feel like it's just lower, like lower

507
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 1: potential for accidents to happen, which is probably not the

508
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:55,400
Speaker 1: best route either. But then to even make it even

509
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 1: in more intricate, do you believe and what if they

510
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 1: have had sex before you, but they have maintained a friendship,

511
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 1: do you trust and can you trust it they can

512
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 1: cease that sexual relationship and still have the platonic relationship

513
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:11,199
Speaker 1: despite the fact that they've crossed that line before or

514
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 1: is it.

515
00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:12,439
Speaker 4: Easier to fall into that.

516
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:15,400
Speaker 2: I say yes, because I've done that, because I can

517
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 2: do it. If I can do a nigga, you could

518
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 2: do it.

519
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 4: But I will let niggas do it well.

520
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 3: And that back to the person you've chosen and if

521
00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 3: you trust that person and the other person and how

522
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 3: they respect that relationship and what your I guess rules

523
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:34,679
Speaker 3: around that look like in your relationship too. So some

524
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 3: people are like, I don't want to do I don't

525
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:38,880
Speaker 3: want to be with someone who has exes as friends.

526
00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 2: That's my non negotiable. That's it. That's like no, a

527
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:42,879
Speaker 2: no for me.

528
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 1: Well, that's probably because Johnny said that was his sister

529
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:48,880
Speaker 1: and he was actually fucking her and so he lied

530
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 1: to you for five years And now you have scars,

531
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:52,479
Speaker 1: and now you're like, I'm never dating someone who has

532
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,359
Speaker 1: any female friends or your fucking sister from up the street, Pooky,

533
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,160
Speaker 1: who you know for ten years, is not your fucking.

534
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 4: Sister Pooky, And so I'm a hard no for that.

535
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 1: So then it's like carrying that wound into every other

536
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:06,119
Speaker 1: relationship that maybe not have anything to personally actually do

537
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,399
Speaker 1: with that person, and maybe you'll miss out on a

538
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: great relationship because they're not willing to release that friendship,

539
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,719
Speaker 1: you know, or like you know, you can't. I do

540
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 1: believe like you can't come into somebody's life and be like,

541
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 1: cut that bitch off, cut that bitch off is me,

542
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I don't believe in

543
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 1: like rearranging someone's life, like I want to supplement it.

544
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 1: But if this relationship is so important to you, I'm

545
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 1: just going to watch you, nigga, and watch this bitch

546
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 1: very closely, and I'm going to tell you how like

547
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 1: whether or not I'm going to be in the scenario

548
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 1: because I feel like women we know, and I like

549
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 1: if it depends on how you interact with the woman

550
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 1: interacts with you, and how they interact with each other.

551
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 3: So yeah, yeah, I believe that you can tell a

552
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 3: lot by how the woman interacts with you, and also

553
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 3: you can tell a lot even by your partner. He

554
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 3: might not even be Epsen no good, but he keeps

555
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 3: them separate. He keeps them separate just because he doesn't

556
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 3: want to deal with it. But he wants to keep

557
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,920
Speaker 3: his friendship. But he also wants to keep his bitch. Then,

558
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 3: but that keeps them separate even though his intentions are

559
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 3: not in malice necessarily, And that's where shit gets fucked

560
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 3: up too.

561
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 1: Well, maybe they that man also has trauma from a woman,

562
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,399
Speaker 1: you know, being super jealous, and so he's like, I

563
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 1: don't even want to play into this. But then that's

564
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 1: the that's the worst thing to do is keep it

565
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 1: separate because then it feels like he has something to hide.

566
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 1: And you know what, I think a big conversation with

567
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,159
Speaker 1: this is because I'm really like going deep in my

568
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 1: mind about it. But it's like it's the crazy that

569
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 1: women possess in their head, that it's the thoughts, because

570
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: my thoughts would be like nope, like I can I

571
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 1: can have one notion and I can turn a wheel

572
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 1: all the way in that direction quickly, and I'm like, no,

573
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 1: too much of a liability, don't want it. I'm ever

574
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 1: gonna ask you not to talk to her. I'm just

575
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 1: gonna stop talking to both the motherfuckers, you know what

576
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:44,360
Speaker 1: I mean.

577
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 3: So I feel I but they're gonna do what they're

578
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,360
Speaker 3: gonna do, regardless of whatever it is you'r you think

579
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 3: or feel. That's what my that's where that's where it

580
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,400
Speaker 3: comes down to my mind. It's like, yes you can.

581
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 3: It's I think it's important to express how you feel,

582
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 3: share your boundaries. Watch, but ultimately, nigga's gonna do what

583
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 3: niggas want to do.

584
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 1: And my biggest thing this has always protected me, baby,

585
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: the way my God is set up in this motherfucking

586
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 1: witch intuition. Nigga, good luck if you can get past that,

587
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:16,880
Speaker 1: past this bitch for ninety days, if you can get

588
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: past this witchy intuition and God's given me the gifts

589
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 1: of bitch, look to your right, honey, there's God won't

590
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: even let me be in the dark too long because

591
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 1: he'd be.

592
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 2: Like, oops, oops, bitch, your niggas cheating. I could be

593
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 2: turning the channel and be like, is this nigga cheating?

594
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 2: It's true.

595
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 1: It's like like somehow the ring camera is on your

596
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 1: cell phone, never logged in, Like this is the way

597
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 1: my luck is, Like not even luck.

598
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 2: When you're supposed to know some shit, you'll be knowing.

599
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 1: Sometimes bitch has been turning the other cheek because they

600
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: want to keep that man most.

601
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 2: Of the time. Most of the time. But yes, okay,

602
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 2: I have a question.

603
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 1: So if your man had an emotionally cheating relationship but

604
00:28:55,960 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: it was only via phone, they never physically done it anything,

605
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: But maybe they're having a little bit of inappropriate conversation.

606
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: Maybe there's some nudes being top. But baby, I never

607
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 1: touched her. It's only you. Was just talking. I was

608
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 1: just talking. I wasn't going to do nothing. I was

609
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: just flirting. It didn't mean shit, Like I've never touched her.

610
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 1: Are you going to proceed in that relationship?

611
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 2: No? No, no, now I can't. I can't anymore because

612
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 2: now you're a liar. I've moved. I've in twenty twenty three.

613
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 3: I like, oh my last bit of toxic insecurity.

614
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 2: And I hung it there and I said no, thank Yeah.

615
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 1: Okay, after that relationship, you could have done one or

616
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 1: two things. You could have taken that scar with you

617
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 1: and that fucking terrible person and then move into the

618
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 1: next relationship and say cut off every bit you ever met,

619
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 1: including your mama, because you I know this scenario, you

620
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 1: know what I mean.

621
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 4: And then you could have just been, like you know,

622
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 4: bitter because of it.

623
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:50,959
Speaker 1: And I can see why a lot of women are,

624
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: because it's happened a lot of times.

625
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 2: But I just know better, and I knew better.

626
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 3: I know better, and I just would rather us have

627
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 3: to battle there are things in our relationship then that

628
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 3: that's not what I It's not something I care to battle.

629
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 2: Early on, middle on, I don't care.

630
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 3: I don't care to battle it well because there's already

631
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 3: gonna be especially early on, I don't care to battle it.

632
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: There's already so much shit to battle, like the government,

633
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: like health insurance, you know, like how are we going

634
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: to have a house with these prices? There's so much

635
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: to battle, Like you snore, you get on my fucking nerves.

636
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 1: Now we gotta add on this other bitch. I can't

637
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 1: control that. That's too much. Yeah, you're right, Like I

638
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 1: think people really do need to, uh just take an

639
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 1: itemized look at where where do you have energy?

640
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 4: For?

641
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:36,600
Speaker 2: For real?

642
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: Like with all the things going on in the world.

643
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 1: Do I have energy to work past this? And that's

644
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 1: another thing, at this big age, at this big ass age,

645
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 1: especially in this time where everybody's open and everybody's fucking

646
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 1: poly and everybody's transparent and honest from the internet, telling

647
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: everybody in the stories every single detail about their life

648
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 1: that nobody mother fucking ask for.

649
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 2: And this time, why fucking lie?

650
00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: Why make an agreement with another an adult and be like,

651
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: I only want you, baby. I'm not gonna stick my

652
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: stupid penis and no other bitch, nor am I gonna

653
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: taxt flirty.

654
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 2: I just want you.

655
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 4: Why make that agreement?

656
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 1: If you know you want to stick your dick in

657
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 1: another bitch and you want to text flirty.

658
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 2: Just tell them, just don't make the agreement. Nine times

659
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Speaker 2: on the ten, people are gonna be old.

660
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Speaker 3: I think people go into the relationship with the good intentions,

661
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,719
Speaker 3: even those people, They go in thinking they can do it,

662
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Speaker 3: and then something creeps back in that little itch, that

663
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 3: little text from that bitch that you didn't block, or

664
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 3: whatever it is, and insecurity pops up because you're dating

665
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Speaker 3: this beautiful queen and you can't believe it, like whatever

666
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Speaker 3: it might be, Like those things happen. I think that's

667
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Speaker 3: where men like it's. Yes, I believe that too. I

668
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 3: think there's a large population of men that just need

669
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Speaker 3: to leave fucking women alone because you know where you're

670
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Speaker 3: at and you know it ain't here. And I think

671
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 3: there's another population of men that have the best intentions

672
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Speaker 3: and go in with true and a true hope to

673
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Speaker 3: be faithful.

674
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Speaker 2: And then.

675
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Speaker 1: I think this is learning lesson that the Straits should

676
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Speaker 1: take from the gaye what the gays, the man on

677
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Speaker 1: man relationships and all my like mos, Oh, the Straits

678
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 1: need to learn from the gays in this regard because

679
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Speaker 1: most male male relationships, you know from my research from

680
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Speaker 1: reality TV and my gay homeboys, I think most of them,

681
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Speaker 1: I mean not most of them.

682
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Speaker 4: I feel like a lot of them have open relationships.

683
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 1: Because they already they're already working within the nature of

684
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:31,959
Speaker 1: themselves niggas. So as a man, I don't think men

685
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 1: really expect their niggative full time be like monogamous. I

686
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: think there are obviously faithful, loyal, man on male relationships

687
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Speaker 1: that are successful, but a lot of the times it

688
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 1: comes with the exception of they're probably maybe you know,

689
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Speaker 1: falling around here and there.

690
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 3: Because they know men well, their sex drive is together.

691
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 3: I can't even imagine what that kind of energy generates.

692
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 2: It. It generates a lot of fucking.

693
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Speaker 1: And because they've accepted that, you know, and the problem

694
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Speaker 1: with heterosexual sexual relationships is or refuse to give women

695
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Speaker 1: the option to fuck o their niggas too. They want

696
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Speaker 1: to have the sole option to and utilize, utilize their

697
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Speaker 1: utilized they testicles and they seemen as an excuse to

698
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Speaker 1: fuck everybody. But we also have some disosterone and we'd

699
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 1: be liking to fuck too, And if you gave us

700
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 1: equal rights, you'd probably get what you want to. But

701
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 1: a lot of guys have ego and they refuse to

702
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Speaker 1: let women have the same the same privilege.

703
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 2: M So basically we should all be Polly.

704
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 1: No, I don't believe in polly okay.

705
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 2: But I do just want to make sure understood what

706
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Speaker 2: I mean. I'm just saying we should we should be

707
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Speaker 2: taken from the games.

708
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Speaker 1: We're the I'm just saying, if you're going to be cheating,

709
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 1: you might as well take that from the gaze and

710
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 1: just be honest and open about it, because what's the

711
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 1: point of dragging something along?

712
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 4: And like, okay, for instance, well do you.

713
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 2: Think most women want to be open, because that's the thing.

714
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 1: No, I don't think most women want you, but I

715
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: think women would rather have the option versus being led on.

716
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 1: Like we have friends. You know we're taking women, but

717
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:09,800
Speaker 1: we do have friends who are still in the dating pool.

718
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:11,799
Speaker 4: Bless their hearts. Let's say a prayer for them.

719
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Speaker 1: Dear God, please put your grace on all of our

720
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:16,920
Speaker 1: single friends.

721
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 2: I was just there, girl, I feel you.

722
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Speaker 3: I I've only been newly indoctrined into the secret society

723
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 3: of healed men and healing men and me.

724
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Speaker 1: And I know a lot of us are still out

725
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 1: there in the streets. And I know it's a dirty

726
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 1: dog place. It's like the post apopalytic dating world. And

727
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 1: I know it's hard out here. But God, I would

728
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Speaker 1: just like to put your healthy relationship juice on all

729
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Speaker 1: of the women, Lord, all of our friends, because it

730
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 1: is hard out here, and we have enough to deal with, Okay,

731
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 1: enough enough in the politicals and all the things. There's

732
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 1: so many things to deal with. Lord, for the just

733
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 1: bless our sisters. Bless them, Bless the single sisters with

734
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:54,800
Speaker 1: healthy love.

735
00:34:54,760 --> 00:35:04,359
Speaker 3: Healthy love, healthy relationships, good sex, safety, safety, safety, delicious, juicy, wet, nasty, sex.

736
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 4: Regulated, nervous.

737
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 3: So the one that you cry because you're happy, not because

738
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 3: you're sad because that nigga cheated on you and you

739
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 3: let him fuck by accident.

740
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 2: You're stressed because why does this feel so good? He

741
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 2: ain't fucked at once?

742
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:15,360
Speaker 1: And let the intuition speak to them Lord, and so

743
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 1: they waste less time with fuck niggas and more time

744
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 1: with niggas that don't want to waste their timesha.

745
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 2: Amen.

746
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 1: So speaking of my single sisters, I've witnessed it just

747
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 1: watching friends date and I've seen niggas.

748
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 2: Just straight up lie, just straight up be fake.

749
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 1: And it's so strange to me, Like why I have

750
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Speaker 1: friends who offered non monogamous options.

751
00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 2: Hey, you're one of them. I'm one of them. Hey,

752
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 2: non monogamy is here.

753
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 1: I know about it. I did a lot of research.

754
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:50,360
Speaker 1: I ask a lot of friends if this is the

755
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 1: option you'd like to take. I'm open to what this

756
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:54,840
Speaker 1: looks like. And then here's this other option that you

757
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 1: probably can't obtain because you're not honest with yourself for

758
00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 1: others and you haven't got to that level of maturity,

759
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 1: and it's called monogamy. Do you want this one, or

760
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 1: do you want this one? The level where you can

761
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 1: maybe work your way up to here and nine times.

762
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,279
Speaker 2: Understand the starter pack. It's a starter pack where you

763
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 2: know what niggas do.

764
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:09,320
Speaker 4: They want to be advanced.

765
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: They want to skip the work and they want to

766
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 1: say I'm advanced, I can do that, and then they

767
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 1: take the monogamy pack, and then you know what you do?

768
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:17,800
Speaker 2: You fuck it up because you're stupid.

769
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:20,879
Speaker 1: Instead of just knowing what level you could read at

770
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 1: and going to the beginner.

771
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 2: If you can't read good, it's okay to start where

772
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 2: you're at. Start where you're at.

773
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 1: You don't need to go to the advanced book. You

774
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 1: don't have to read Kill a Mockingbird. Just read something

775
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 1: basic like The Babysitters Club. I don't know Nancy drew

776
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 1: fourth grade reading level. The point is, stop with the madness,

777
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: stop with the lying, cheating, bullshit.

778
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Speaker 4: Black women, we don't have time.

779
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 3: We have to stop making time because we do have time.

780
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Speaker 3: We've got to stop making this. This is not even blackman,

781
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:57,279
Speaker 3: this is all women. You gotta stop making the time.

782
00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:59,800
Speaker 3: We keep saying we don't have time, but somehow time

783
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 3: coming up, and we keep making it.

784
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 1: Like bitch, go to pilates, Go to pilates, go to

785
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 1: the park, go talk shit with your homegirl, and just

786
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 1: go over there. Don't go to that niggas house because

787
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:11,720
Speaker 1: you want to get some Get that rose.

788
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:15,840
Speaker 2: I need that rose back my charger. I needed a

789
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 2: new charger, That's what it is.

790
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 1: I I never replaced mine, and I'm just like, what

791
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 1: the fuck? I just realized what have I been doing?

792
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 1: You know, I got this other one that's a mushroom.

793
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 2: I don't like that one. I like it, you know why.

794
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 1: I haven't meaning to create this in real life, but

795
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 1: we need like a diet vibrator, like a light, a

796
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 1: vibrator light.

797
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 2: They have those ye are so intense. It's the different

798
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:39,280
Speaker 2: settings this light to light.

799
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 1: To intend the light should be the light on the

800
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Speaker 1: intents should be like it should be, should go even lighter.

801
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 3: Well where the zappie's sissy world. You want to get

802
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 3: zapped and I don't want to get sap. That's what

803
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 3: the rose does, zapsy. That's why it goes from zero

804
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 3: to one hundred and bitches are passing out.

805
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:58,279
Speaker 1: You know, you gotta put a barrier between it. You

806
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 1: gotta put like a sheet and then the vibrant.

807
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 2: What you do really, I ary interesting, like.

808
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 4: A towel and then the vibrator.

809
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,840
Speaker 1: I've never done that, yeah, because it's just it's but

810
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 1: if you're a vappy bitch, you might not like that.

811
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, might be like, what the fuck is this?

812
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:15,399
Speaker 3: I think I finally have unzapped myself. I was really

813
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:18,280
Speaker 3: scared for a while. I thought that I totally zapped

814
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Speaker 3: it off.

815
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:22,320
Speaker 1: The sheet is like the condom for the for the vibrator.

816
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 1: It's the only time condoms are good, the protection.

817
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 2: That's true.

818
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Speaker 1: Speaking of sex, I discovered a new porn site that

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Speaker 1: you might want to look into. What is it Ebony Galore?

820
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Speaker 2: Is that it Ethony Galore?

821
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Speaker 4: Oh?

822
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Speaker 2: I like that name already and all the good black porns.

823
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Speaker 2: So it's not like the other one.

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827
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we can endorse them for real.

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Speaker 3: So is it like all black porn, like even from

829
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Speaker 2: It's like that type of vibe. I'm just wondering, because

831
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Speaker 2: that's how it works. I think they just.

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Speaker 1: Pull Why why I don't know if it's basis from.

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Speaker 3: The I'm telling Orlandos shaking his head because he don't

834
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Speaker 3: have the fun I'm talking about specifically.

835
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Speaker 2: New porn site? Do you have ninety I was wondering

836
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Speaker 2: because I don't want that.

837
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Speaker 3: I get annoyed when I see old You've had so

838
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Speaker 3: much more fucking that's happened since then.

839
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Speaker 2: Why do we have to watch thank from nineteen ninety

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Speaker 2: it's and I thought you were I thought you were

842
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Speaker 2: seeking no.

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844
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Speaker 3: And if you are going new porn because that's where

845
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846
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Speaker 4: Yeah, so apparently it's dated.

847
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Speaker 1: If anybody in the comments has any input on what

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Speaker 2: it's hard off there be a gatekeeper.

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Speaker 3: I searched free I've searched free porn actually not that

853
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854
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855
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Speaker 3: It was all paid. It was like just ads ads ads.

856
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Speaker 3: I was like, there's nothing here. But I know that

857
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Speaker 3: some people have secret links like Ebony Galore that have

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Speaker 2: It was just this. It's all the same over on

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Speaker 2: You're welcome.

868
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Speaker 3: Well anyway, guys, thank you for joining us for another

869
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Speaker 3: episode of Good Mom's.

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Speaker 1: Love Flowers, where we get high and we smoke flowers

871
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Speaker 1: and we talk shit, talk gos shit. If you have

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Speaker 3: episode description where you can send in advice questions, where

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Speaker 3: you can send in hoarries so you can spill the

879
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Speaker 3: tea with us. If you have anything you want to

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Speaker 3: share anonymously, which I know you do. I want to

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Speaker 3: know and you want it to be shared anonymously because

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Speaker 3: that's your kink or is it my kink? I don't know,

883
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Speaker 3: but yeah, click the link and you can do that

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Speaker 3: and what else.

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Speaker 2: We're going on retreat seven retreats next year.

886
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Speaker 1: So if you want to come join the magic and

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Speaker 1: you know, get the fuck out of this country and

888
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Speaker 1: take a break, because you deserve a break, come to

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Speaker 1: the Good Vibe Retreat. Go to the link in this bio.

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Speaker 1: Go to the link right here and click it and

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Speaker 1: come hang with you girls.

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Speaker 2: That's it, that's all I got. All right, well, we

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Speaker 2: love you, Bye bye.