1 00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This episode is brought to you by Snappall want to 2 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: know another Snapple fact? The first hot air balloon passengers 3 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: were a sheep, a duck, and a rooster. 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:11,800 Speaker 2: Ridiculous. 5 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 1: Check out snapple dot com to find ridiculously flavored Snapple 6 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: near you. 7 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 3: I listened to The Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 8 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 3: Rod and Karen are hot. 9 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 4: I felt mortified, but she didn't seem to notice. She 10 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 4: didn't know who I was. She was so nice, encouraging, 11 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 4: and curious. Nothing about her was caddy or disengaged or 12 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 4: straight up mean. She asked me what I did, and 13 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:36,839 Speaker 4: we got to talking about the Internet. I had been 14 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 4: dealing with a lot of harassment on social media at 15 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:41,159 Speaker 4: the time, and we bonded over how awful people can be, 16 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 4: you know, classic girl talk. 17 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 5: She showed me her Twitter matches, which were a. 18 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 4: Whole another level, like nothing I've ever seen her experience, 19 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:52,239 Speaker 4: a constant stream of I wish you'd get rape or 20 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 4: I wish someone would murder you. And she hadn't even 21 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 4: done anything that day. Though there was some genuine, well 22 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 4: meaning critique mixed, then, it was pretty us drowned out 23 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 4: by the awful name calling, sometimes. 24 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:04,320 Speaker 5: In the exact same tweet. 25 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 4: I remembered vividly how I felt after my Anderson Live appearance, 26 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 4: when hordes or strangers descended on all my public accounts, 27 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 4: attacking me from every side. 28 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:15,119 Speaker 5: My stomach sank. If she had a. 29 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 4: Good time as I did, she would probably go home 30 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 4: and look me up and she would think I was 31 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 4: a two face jerk. I couldn't leave without coming clean. Listen, 32 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 4: I said, can I be totally honest with you? I 33 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:28,039 Speaker 4: took a deep breath. 34 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:30,400 Speaker 5: I've never been a fan of yours. 35 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 4: This is not usually the kind of thing you hear 36 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 4: from someone you just met, or really from anyone, so 37 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 4: I imagine she was a little confused, though maybe she 38 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 4: gets it all the time. I went on, I mean, 39 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 4: I've been pretty vocal about not liking you, but you 40 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 4: seem cool, and I don't feel good about some of 41 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 4: the things I've said, so I feel like I need 42 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 4: to be honest with you. If you go online and 43 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 4: look me up, you'll probably find me talking about how 44 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 4: much girl sucks. She was gracious, I mean, as you 45 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 4: could as much as you could be in that situation. 46 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 5: She thanked me for telling her that. 47 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 4: She said she understood the criticisms, and she was really 48 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 4: trying and expand her worldview and understand her privilege. We 49 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 4: exchanged numbers and left on a good note. Then later 50 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 4: that night, she texted me something along the lines of, Wow, 51 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 4: so you really hate me? You hate me a lot. 52 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 4: I felt so bad. I explained that I didn't hate her, 53 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 4: but I never thought i'd meet her, and when you 54 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 4: don't have to think about the real human behind the 55 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 4: celebrity gossip, it's easy to get caught up in the drama. Then, 56 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:25,240 Speaker 4: because I felt that I learned an important lesson that night, 57 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 4: I asked Lena if she would be okay with me 58 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,360 Speaker 4: writing about the experience for my tumbler, and she agreed. 59 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 4: Writing about it forced me to ask myself why I 60 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 4: had such deep problems with this woman. Though some of 61 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 4: my issues were with her work were valid, I had 62 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 4: to admit that many of my critiques were rooted in 63 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 4: my own insecurities about my career and if I were 64 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 4: being honest, I'd spent most of twenty twelve developing a 65 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:48,079 Speaker 4: pitch for HBO that was ultimately rejected as two network. 66 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 4: I'd wondered if that meant not enough boobs Personally, I 67 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 4: had always been self conscious about my body. I no 68 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:57,519 Speaker 4: doubt would have sobbed my way through an on screen 69 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 4: second base, much less a scene where Adam He's on 70 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:01,239 Speaker 4: hand in the shower. 71 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:03,079 Speaker 5: I was easy. 72 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,839 Speaker 4: It was easier to dismiss her work, which will had 73 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 4: positive effects like usually advancing body positivity, movement, and awareness 74 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 4: of reproductive rights, than to say I was intimidated and 75 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 4: a little jealous. 76 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,359 Speaker 5: Hey, welcome to the Black Autist Podcast. 77 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:19,920 Speaker 4: I'm your host, Rod joined us always on my co 78 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 4: host Karen, and we're live on a Sunday night. Ready 79 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 4: to do some podcasts and find us on Spotify, Okay, 80 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 4: exclusively on Spotify. Check us out there. We appreciate everybody 81 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 4: takes the time out to do it. The official weapon 82 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 4: of the show is an unofficial sport, a bulletball extreme. 83 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 4: The excerpt that I started to show off with today 84 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 4: is well that escalated quickly by Francesca Ramsey, Great book. 85 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 5: And it was specifically. 86 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 4: About this part where she met Lena Dunham after years 87 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 4: and years I don't know years and years, but after 88 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 4: at least a couple of years of shitting on Leana 89 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 4: Dunham's work, you know, not as her soul earnings or 90 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 4: anything like that. But you know what I like about 91 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 4: Friends book is is very much about both sides of 92 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 4: the game, which is there's things people do that can 93 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:18,160 Speaker 4: be critiqued, and then there's the fact that we are 94 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 4: always holding up a mirror to ourselves when we do that, 95 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 4: most people, I would set in my estimation, most people 96 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 4: do not like to look into that mirror. And that's 97 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 4: one of the reasons we obsessed with the celebrity. That's 98 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 4: one of the reason we obsessed with we keep making 99 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 4: these distinctions rich people are evil and not and I'm 100 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 4: not being since I'm not rich, I'm a good person. 101 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 4: So you know, Yeah, if you look at almost every 102 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 4: time someone attacks or comes at a group that they 103 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:51,239 Speaker 4: don't belong in and talk about how they're the horrible, 104 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 4: worst thing wrong with the world, it's always because they're 105 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 4: not in that group, you know what I mean? 106 00:04:56,200 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 5: Like almost always it's you know, man, fat people, those 107 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:01,280 Speaker 5: fast you's out of. 108 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 4: Control, Well, you're probably not fat, Like it's more than 109 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 4: likely that's the reason you're talking so recklessly, is that 110 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 4: you don't see that person as a person anymore. And 111 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 4: of course there are people within groups that have either 112 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:18,280 Speaker 4: self hate or straight up jealousy you're doing your thing 113 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 4: bigger than I can do my thing, and I don't 114 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 4: like it. 115 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 5: I don't like I don't like it for a second. 116 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 4: And I think whenever people are confronted by those moments 117 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 4: of self reflection, most people dodge them. And I think 118 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 4: that's a really, really bad thing. It took friend having 119 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 4: to meet Leana done them for her to like have 120 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 4: that self reflection about it, because I think when you 121 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 4: kind of like getting these trends of shitting on people, 122 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 4: especially on the internet, even if it's like I'm just 123 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:59,599 Speaker 4: trying to be criticism blah blah blah, there's a culture 124 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 4: to it, and you attract the people. 125 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:02,359 Speaker 5: Who belong in that culture. 126 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:05,840 Speaker 4: And so if people know every time Lena Dunham comes 127 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 4: out with something, you're not gonna like it and you're 128 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:11,479 Speaker 4: gonna critique her, all of a sudden, you get said. 129 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 5: Everything she does. 130 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 4: She wakes up in the morning, takes a selfie, someone 131 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 4: send it to you and go and look at her hair, 132 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 4: this or whatever. You start crossing lines intellectually that I 133 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 4: think you don't think you're crossing, but you know when 134 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 4: you're talking why she gotta be naked all the time? Well, 135 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 4: any other time, your sex positive, any other time, your 136 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 4: body positive, all this other stuff. But suddenly with Lena Dunham, 137 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 4: you don't have to be anymore. We get to be 138 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:38,279 Speaker 4: the mean. 139 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 5: Person that we kind of have inside of us. 140 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 4: And then the next level, which I really love that 141 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 4: she took, which was like, maybe it was some of 142 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:50,359 Speaker 4: my own insecurity around my work because I want some 143 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 4: of the things she has. And as far as I'm concerned, 144 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 4: she was born on third base and got a home 145 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 4: and got credit for a home run and I didn't, 146 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:02,159 Speaker 4: you know, And I'm still struggling to get up to back. 147 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 4: So you know, there's a bit of that inside of me. 148 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 6: I know. 149 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 5: I used to talk about I. 150 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 4: Said that here on the show where I was like, 151 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 4: you know, I used to spend time on the show 152 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 4: where I would play like a clip from some other 153 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 4: show from somebody that whose work I didn't like or whatever, 154 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 4: and I had to stop myself and be like, cause 155 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 4: I remember what time. In this case, it was the 156 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 4: Breakfast Club and I was talking about, you know, some 157 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 4: shit Charlemagne had said that I thought was really fucked up. 158 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 4: It's not that I don't think it's fucked up anymore. 159 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 4: I do, but why am I spending my show playing 160 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 4: your show responding to your You're still leading my show. 161 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 5: You're still you're like so. 162 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 1: Many people don't understand that, because the thing is, if 163 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: I listen to your show, I want to hear your opinion. 164 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 1: I don't want to hear inception of what you thought 165 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 1: about what somebody else said. 166 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 4: Well, I mean some people do. Let's not let's not 167 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 4: get that wrong. People like that shit. Yes, there's a 168 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 4: lot of people that that like that and that that 169 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 4: do want to hear like they used to send the 170 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 4: stuff to me. Hey, Roan, what's your thoughts on this? Oh, 171 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 4: I know you're gonna talk about this, you know. So 172 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 4: it's not that they don't want to hear that. That's 173 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 4: not true at all. The thing is I don't want 174 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 4: to do it. So it's really like the show is 175 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 4: really about us. 176 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 5: What did we come. 177 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 4: Up with in our minds when we envision making this show. 178 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 4: I didn't envision it as checking up on the breakfast Club, 179 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 4: you know. But I think part of the reason it 180 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 4: had become that was because internally, there's just like these 181 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 4: people are ahead of me, and because they're ahead of me, 182 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:38,440 Speaker 4: I need to show people they shouldn't be ahead of me. 183 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 4: I'm I'm playing the game the different way and the 184 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 4: right way, you know. And I think that's an internal 185 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:45,679 Speaker 4: thing that comes. 186 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 7: Up and and and. 187 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 1: I'm going to I guess I'm gonna push back because 188 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 1: my thought process is they come to the show to 189 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 1: listen to us, and us are our opinions. And there 190 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: are some things that happen when we do talk about 191 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 1: what other people do. 192 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 7: So I'm not saying you don't do that at all. 193 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:07,679 Speaker 1: But I'm saying the whole basis and foundation of what 194 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 1: you do cannot be surrounded by somebody else and what 195 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 1: they do. They come to see you and your personality, 196 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:18,079 Speaker 1: what do you bring to the table, and if all 197 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: you bring to the table is shitting on other people, 198 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: in my opinion, I don't want to hear that, But 199 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 1: I know that those a lot of those podcasts are 200 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 1: very popular because that's what. 201 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 7: People want to hear. 202 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:30,679 Speaker 1: They want that mess now. I mean not trying to 203 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 1: be funct like like that's what they want. But when 204 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 1: you do that, you cater towards a specific group of people. 205 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 1: A lot of people are mean, a lot of people 206 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: are unhappy, a lot of people are sad, they're depressed, 207 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: and they feed and they eat off of everything, and 208 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 1: they constantly send you things and the second you opt out, 209 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 1: they eat you up because they were like, oh no, no, 210 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: you're supposed. 211 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 7: To be just like us. 212 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:54,680 Speaker 1: How can you opt out of not consuming this thing? 213 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 1: Because once you but like, just once you get on 214 00:09:58,320 --> 00:09:59,320 Speaker 1: the other side of it. 215 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 7: I've seen firsthands people opinion change. 216 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 1: I've seen firsthand people have more compassion, more empathy, more 217 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:09,319 Speaker 1: understanding once they get to a certain point because they 218 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:12,679 Speaker 1: understand what it feels like to be bombarded and berated 219 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 1: and and just nastiness just constantly poured in your direction. 220 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 7: No human being is designed for that. 221 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 1: But that's the way the Internet is designed, and that's 222 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:25,040 Speaker 1: the way social media is designed. I got to tell 223 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 1: you how I feel about this thing right now, which 224 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:31,079 Speaker 1: is fine, but it does not mean that me as 225 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:33,559 Speaker 1: a person, I just have to sit around and consume 226 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 1: all this negativity all the time. And some people check out, 227 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:40,840 Speaker 1: which is sometimes actually healthy. Some people don't, which is 228 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 1: sometimes unhealthy. It just depends on the person and the personality. 229 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 1: We've seen celebrities crack under this, and then we blame 230 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:51,600 Speaker 1: them for cracking because we're constantly pulling and pointing and 231 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 1: picking and and and and and and stabbing them. And 232 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:56,680 Speaker 1: then when they be like, hey, you're stabbing me, we 233 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 1: go no, no, you're supposed to let me push this 234 00:10:58,920 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: knife deeper into you. 235 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:03,320 Speaker 7: Because you deserved. It's why, because you have something I don't. 236 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think what's interesting is that it's because 237 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 4: of the mental separation we had with folks, because if 238 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:14,719 Speaker 4: this person was more than just like a person we 239 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 4: demonize a person that we demagogue, and that a lot 240 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 4: of times we give people too much power because we 241 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 4: start going this person represents everything bad, and it's like 242 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 4: they really don't. They're still just a human being trying 243 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 4: to make their way through the world. It doesn't mean 244 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 4: you have to be the fan, their friend, you have 245 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:36,200 Speaker 4: to like their work, It doesn't mean any of that. 246 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:39,079 Speaker 5: But it can just simply. 247 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 4: Mean that they're not the big bad wolf that you're 248 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 4: making them out to be. The fact that you could 249 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 4: sit down like the person that you created in your head, 250 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 4: You could never sit down at a dinner with them, right, 251 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:51,560 Speaker 4: the person you created in your head would never have 252 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 4: their feelings hurt by what you said, because they're just 253 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 4: a monster with no feelings. That has, you know, and 254 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 4: that happens so often, and it's such and it's I 255 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 4: would say, that is the common way people perceive other folks. 256 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 4: It's not some uncommon thing. People do not have empathy 257 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 4: in general. It's something that we have. It's like children, 258 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 4: and then it's just bred out of us. It's just 259 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 4: beating out of us. And then by the time you're 260 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 4: an adult, because you know what your own insecurities and 261 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 4: the protections your mind has tried to place around the world, 262 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 4: you make everyone into the villain. And so it's just 263 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 4: easier to be like, everyone's a villain or my best friend, 264 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 4: and there's no in between either I'm a stand for 265 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:34,839 Speaker 4: this celebrity and I hate this other one and all 266 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 4: that type of shit. And most of the most of 267 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 4: the times, it's just a person trying to create work 268 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:42,439 Speaker 4: to make sense of their world to them and whatever 269 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:45,959 Speaker 4: they've been through that you haven't, probably like your relationship 270 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 4: is different. And she said this wasn't an erasure of 271 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 4: her critiques of the woman's work. It wasn't like and 272 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 4: then everything I said about her was invalid, Like no, 273 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 4: she was like, and it was some valid criticism. I 274 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 4: think a big part of is that the average person 275 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:04,679 Speaker 4: will never understand because they're not gonna be popular enough 276 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 4: or targeted enough to understand. The amount of criticism that 277 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 4: is well meaning and constructive is almost always drowned out 278 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 4: by the amount of vitriol and insults. And part of 279 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 4: that is because of our culture of believing that once 280 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 4: someone has been quote unquote triggered, anything they do is allowed, 281 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 4: and so then we expect the target of that to 282 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 4: have no feelings. They can't be triggered, right, right, So, 283 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 4: for example, if I were to say something to you 284 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 4: that was inappropriate that you didn't like. 285 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 5: I called you a female and you didn't like that. 286 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 4: Right, if you was to take a hot iron and 287 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:50,840 Speaker 4: burn my face, I might miss the lesson of this 288 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:53,560 Speaker 4: is why Karen doesn't like to be called female. And 289 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 4: at the same time, you've been traumatized. So now you're 290 00:13:56,920 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 4: allowed to do this, and I'm not supposed to be 291 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:01,559 Speaker 4: able to the way that internet works, I'm supposed to 292 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 4: forget about the burdmark on my face. 293 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 5: Thank you so. 294 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 4: Much for correcting me right and letting me know that 295 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:11,680 Speaker 4: that was wrong and that's not a human response. 296 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:15,320 Speaker 1: Right, It's not a human response, and it's not realistic, 297 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 1: and I think a lot of people cannot wrap their 298 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 1: heads around. If I see somebody as a human being, 299 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 1: it does not mean I'm not gonna hold them accountable. 300 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 1: But because the way the internet works, if you say, yesday, 301 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 1: what they did was fucked up. Yes, these actions are 302 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: fucked up, but they're a human being. Everybody has all 303 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 1: these things that they come out with and they want 304 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 1: to jump in your shit like you're not holding them accountable. 305 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 1: You can hold somebody accountable and still say they are 306 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:43,160 Speaker 1: a human being. Those two things don't have to be 307 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 1: mutually exclusive, and for some reason people separate those two things. 308 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 7: They separate them when it comes to celebrities. Okay, you're celebrity. 309 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 1: So now because you're a celebrity, I can just do 310 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:55,800 Speaker 1: whatever I want to and you're not supposed to respond. 311 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 1: You're not supposed to look back, you're not supposed to 312 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 1: to blink. You're just supposed to stand there like a 313 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 1: statue and let me whoop the ship out of you. 314 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 1: When a lot of y'all will not deal with that 315 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 1: in your real lives. So why would you expect them 316 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 1: to do this? Just because they have money does not 317 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 1: mean they are not human. It does not mean they 318 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 1: don't you know, there's not form of humanity there. And 319 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: sometimes I think for some people they don't understand me 320 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 1: and you because I'm like, oh, that's the human beings. 321 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 7: But it was like, I hate that bitch. Okay, cool. 322 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:24,720 Speaker 1: I'm not saying you can't hate her, like, I'm not 323 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 1: saying you can't but understand that she is a human being. 324 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 4: Well, it's just easier to not think of people that way. 325 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 4: Like and like just the fact that you use Lena 326 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 4: Dunam as an example in the book people in the chat. 327 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 4: You know, she on her show, she had an episode 328 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 4: like this on you know, she was part of dismissing 329 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 4: Harold Parano's daughter when she which that story. This story 330 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 4: obviously takes place before that, obviously, but but it's like 331 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 4: it still has to be about her. The bigger concept 332 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:02,640 Speaker 4: is completely thrown away because people can't be reached through. 333 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 5: Empathy in that way. 334 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 4: That's why, like I said, in that book, I was 335 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 4: reading about the future of feelings and they was like, yeah, 336 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 4: it's almost pointless. In some like there was a guy 337 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 4: who made an argument like it's almost pointless to try 338 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 4: to teach people empathy because most people only have. 339 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 5: Empathy for people that look like them. 340 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 4: The same people that will never forgive Lena Dunham have 341 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 4: forgiven Kobe Bryant and think we need to move on, 342 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 4: and they warned his death. Come on, the same people 343 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 4: that Mike Tyson, if you really get down. Yeah, I 344 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 4: don't want to take it as far as our Kelly, 345 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 4: but I'm talking the people that because people that will 346 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 4: forgive R. 347 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 5: Kelly probably don't give a fuck about Lean Dunham. 348 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 4: But the kind of person that would be, like Mike 349 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 4: Tyson told little Boosie, Hi, That's what I'm talking about, 350 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 4: will go, Well, Mike Tyson, if you go, Mike Tyson 351 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 4: are convicted rapist? What are you doing applied to anything? 352 00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 4: Remember you're supposed to hate these motherfuckers. No, but Mike 353 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 4: Tyson's black. Mike Tyson's only a few degrees separate from 354 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 4: what I see as myself, So my world experience, I 355 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 4: will allow for him more I will allow for Kobe Bryant, Moore, 356 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:06,439 Speaker 4: I will allow for Prissette Michelle. I will allow for like. 357 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:10,920 Speaker 4: There's a certain level of like. The empathy stops when 358 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:13,239 Speaker 4: you can't see, and our world has trained us not 359 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 4: to see, right so the same people that are you know, 360 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 4: prison abolitionists bring up every time, every time someone's ever 361 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:23,160 Speaker 4: fucked up, you bring. 362 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 5: Hey, man, I might go see this movie. 363 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:26,920 Speaker 4: Did you know that that guy saw did this or 364 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:28,199 Speaker 4: said such and such an interview? 365 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:30,240 Speaker 5: That is basically how people operate. 366 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 4: So it's interesting that when someone like Fran has this 367 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 4: kind of a breakthrough or whatever in this chapter, the 368 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:41,920 Speaker 4: response is gonna be more about, like, knobs, just why 369 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:45,160 Speaker 4: you shouldn't even have did that, because it's you're now 370 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 4: I'm losing part of my group. You're leaving the group now, 371 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 4: and I had to get you back in line. You're 372 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 4: not like we need the company, the misery needs the company. 373 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:55,679 Speaker 4: You're not allowed to fucking be like, yeah, I'm not 374 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 4: on that shit. Like I I had a different experience. 375 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 4: I still stand by my critiques of the person's work. 376 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 4: But the stuff where I was body shaming her, the 377 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 4: stuff where I was you know, insulting, insulting her and 378 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 4: assuming a lot of stuff about her life that I 379 00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:11,359 Speaker 4: did not know, I'm gonna go ahead and drop that 380 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 4: shit and just stick to this is what I don't 381 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:15,720 Speaker 4: like about her work, or this is why I think 382 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:17,880 Speaker 4: she could improve, because at the end of the day, 383 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 4: I actually don't know this motherfucker. 384 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 7: Yes, and that is a fact. And it's also. 385 00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 1: I had a problem with Lena Dunham, the same problem 386 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:30,720 Speaker 1: that I had with Bernie, but it took me getting 387 00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 1: to Bernie to understand what the issue was with Leeda Dunham. 388 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 7: It was not her, it was her fans. 389 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 5: You know. 390 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:40,359 Speaker 1: It was like the people surrounded around her got on 391 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: my goddamn nerves. 392 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:42,359 Speaker 7: Across the internet. 393 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 1: He was like, if y'all beaches, don't go someone with 394 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:47,439 Speaker 1: this bullshit, and. 395 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:48,280 Speaker 5: It made me well what they're doing. 396 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:53,359 Speaker 1: Every time she did anything and people could ticked it, 397 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 1: it was like a hive. 398 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 7: They would come, don't y'all talk about huh. Don't y'all 399 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 7: talking about huh. 400 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:00,439 Speaker 1: It was like a white woman right right around all 401 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:02,439 Speaker 1: across the fucking time, like all the time, like like 402 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 1: she was perfect. 403 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:06,639 Speaker 7: And I was like, hey, you know, these critiques are valid. 404 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 1: You know, I wish y'all wouldn't stand like this, because 405 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:11,119 Speaker 1: what you're doing is that you're making a lot of 406 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:13,920 Speaker 1: people who actually don't give a fuck about her mad 407 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:18,360 Speaker 1: because y'all keep coming over here acting like, uh. 408 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 7: She's perfect, She's perfect. 409 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:21,320 Speaker 1: Don't go tique her, don't say nothing to wrong. It's okay, 410 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 1: she did this, It's okay she did that. 411 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:25,359 Speaker 7: And I'm like, it's not okay. And That's what a 412 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:26,200 Speaker 7: lot of my frustration. 413 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:28,399 Speaker 1: And like I say, I realize over time, oh, I 414 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 1: don't have a problem with her, like personally, don't care, 415 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 1: you know, but her fans made make this anger in 416 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 1: me because I was it was a white woman. I'm 417 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 1: just keeping ring. It was a white woman, and whiteness 418 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:43,640 Speaker 1: is always protected. Like this are my insecurity shining out, 419 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 1: and I didn't see that at this time. I was like, 420 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:49,680 Speaker 1: why don't black women get coveted like this? Why every 421 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,119 Speaker 1: time something happened to us, people don't go foot the 422 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:54,959 Speaker 1: bat and defend us, and and and and stand up 423 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 1: for us, and and and and and and and and 424 00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:00,240 Speaker 1: sing to the to the top of the mountains and 425 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 1: try to protect us. 426 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 7: We don't get that. And so these were. 427 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 1: My insecurities shining on these people that constantly defended her, 428 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:10,800 Speaker 1: and I had to realize the problem was never heard. 429 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 7: The problem is me. 430 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:15,880 Speaker 1: And once I realized that, I begin to back off. 431 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 7: I begin to be like, it's not that important. 432 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:22,920 Speaker 1: The things that she's doing because they don't actually directly 433 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 1: impact me. She has a fan base and they love her. 434 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 1: Let them love her. She has people to hate her, 435 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 1: Let them hate her. But as far as me as 436 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:36,720 Speaker 1: an individual person, I cannot allow the things that are 437 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:39,640 Speaker 1: within me to come out in that manner because for me, 438 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 1: my personality, that's not healthy. Because I began to be 439 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 1: mad every time her name was brought up, I begin 440 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:47,720 Speaker 1: to be angry whenever she spoke about. 441 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 7: Her, and then I had to learn it's not that important. 442 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 1: And I'm amazed, and I think some people will never 443 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:56,280 Speaker 1: get to the point when it comes to these celebrities. 444 00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:58,360 Speaker 1: At the end of the day, y'all, that anger you're 445 00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:02,360 Speaker 1: feeling is not that fucking port. It's not the energy 446 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,720 Speaker 1: and the time that you focused on them. You could 447 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:08,200 Speaker 1: take that energy and to focus it into something more positive. 448 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:09,879 Speaker 1: But a lot of people will never get to that 449 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:12,159 Speaker 1: point because if I begin to focus that energy on 450 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:15,400 Speaker 1: something more positive, guess what I got to focus on myself. 451 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:18,400 Speaker 1: I can't deflect my anger out on them. I can't 452 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: deflect my sadness and my depression or whatever it is. 453 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 1: I can't deflect my insecurities. I can't I can't dig 454 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 1: in me and all, and and you're striking a chord 455 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 1: on something close to my heart me. Lashing out is 456 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 1: a way of self protection, and that's a human nature thing, 457 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:39,000 Speaker 1: but people don't realize that's the root of where something 458 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:42,159 Speaker 1: is happening. And until you realize that, you're gonna go 459 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 1: through this, do this cycle, do this circle. Every time 460 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 1: they bought up your mad, You're anger, you're upset, they 461 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 1: got you, then they ain't come up. You fucked up 462 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 1: for a whole day. Why somebody you do not know? 463 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:55,359 Speaker 1: You don't know these people, y'all. You don't know these people. 464 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 1: You don't have a personal relationship with these people. You 465 00:21:57,080 --> 00:22:00,440 Speaker 1: would never smole. The average person will never ever see 466 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 1: this person. So why are you wasting this valuable energy 467 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,200 Speaker 1: in your life on them? Focus on your family and 468 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 1: your friends, your loved ones, positive things in your life, 469 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 1: things that if you poured your energy. 470 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 7: Could be more productive. 471 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:17,760 Speaker 1: But that's very hard for people to do because a 472 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 1: lot of people don't want to take that extra effort 473 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:21,919 Speaker 1: to look within themselves. They don't want to take the 474 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:24,760 Speaker 1: extra effort to do the things that they actually need 475 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:26,840 Speaker 1: to do to actually be a better human being. I'm 476 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 1: to the conclusion most people don't want to be a 477 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:29,399 Speaker 1: better person. 478 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 5: I actually, my goal is to. 479 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:34,119 Speaker 1: Be a better version of me every day. That's a 480 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 1: personal goal of mine. Easiest said than done. But I realized, oh, everybody, 481 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 1: everybody don't function like this. Everybody don't look. 482 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 7: At themselves and be like, oh, I'm fucked up here. 483 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:46,919 Speaker 1: You know, Oh I felt this way because of this 484 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 1: whatever it is, and. 485 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 7: That's just me. I. 486 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:54,879 Speaker 1: Once my eyes open up to that, I began to 487 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:58,400 Speaker 1: be like celebrities. Okay, they people too, Like, yes, what 488 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:02,360 Speaker 1: they do is messed up. You know, some of them 489 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 1: is messed up, and you can say this action was 490 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:09,359 Speaker 1: fucked up. But I cannot separate the humanity from that 491 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:10,160 Speaker 1: because I don't. 492 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:11,919 Speaker 7: Want anybody to separate my humanity from me. 493 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:12,480 Speaker 5: Yeah. 494 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,640 Speaker 4: I think what people hear and you can see from 495 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:16,920 Speaker 4: the chat is like, so I can't have a problem 496 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 4: with Leana Duneham. That's all they're hearing, right, I have 497 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 4: to let go of this grudge. No one's telling you 498 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 4: what to do. Nope, no one's telling you. 499 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:23,200 Speaker 5: What to do. 500 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:29,719 Speaker 4: It reminds me of actual therapy and the way that 501 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 4: therapy is portrayed by people online and the way that 502 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:37,400 Speaker 4: it actually is is so fucking different because therapists tell 503 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,280 Speaker 4: you shit you supposed to do. 504 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:39,880 Speaker 1: Right. 505 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 4: People online have this shit like where it's like this 506 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,400 Speaker 4: is what the world should do, this is how everyone 507 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:48,159 Speaker 4: else should change. But your therapist is gonna be like, 508 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:50,159 Speaker 4: I am responsible for the fact that you live in 509 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 4: this fucking world, and you're gonna come back and see 510 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:55,040 Speaker 4: me next week or next month or whatever how often 511 00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 4: you visit. And so here's some exercises for you. Because 512 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 4: the world's not gonna change how you navigate that world. 513 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:05,960 Speaker 4: The things you can control yourself, which is what you 514 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:07,800 Speaker 4: ultimately take responsibility for. 515 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 5: That is what they're talking about. 516 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:11,520 Speaker 4: So in the chat said we talking about Lean and 517 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:14,119 Speaker 4: Dunnam and like not really, that's the point. I don't know, 518 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 4: And like I said, it's it's like both points are 519 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 4: being made at the same time. Literally, like the point 520 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:24,120 Speaker 4: that most people can't let go of you say that name. 521 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 5: You know, Voldemort walked in the room. 522 00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 4: And then and then the bigger point that we're making, 523 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:30,920 Speaker 4: which is like we can insert any name. 524 00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:33,160 Speaker 5: It could be any name. 525 00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:37,200 Speaker 4: Pick a name, I use a personal experience, I said, 526 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 4: Charlamagne has started Like it. 527 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,560 Speaker 7: Doesn't matter, Like Kanye West. 528 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 5: There's a level of this. 529 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:47,120 Speaker 4: There's a level of control you give up in your 530 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 4: life when you when you apply so much focus to 531 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 4: these motherfuckers. Man, And at the end of the day, 532 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 4: like I said, you don't have to like them. This 533 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:58,680 Speaker 4: is not excusing their action. This isn't saying they're not problematic. 534 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 4: Blah blah blah. It's not saying that. But what she 535 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 4: but this is from friends on words. 536 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 5: It's like I was. 537 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:08,840 Speaker 4: Giving her too much, right, and some of the shit 538 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:10,919 Speaker 4: I was giving her was to avoid the way I 539 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:14,040 Speaker 4: felt about me. So some of the stuff I'm giving 540 00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 4: you is my show didn't get picked up, And part 541 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 4: of the vitriol I have for your show is that 542 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 4: my show doesn't exist. Part of the vitriol I have 543 00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:24,639 Speaker 4: for your career is that my career didn't take off 544 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:28,480 Speaker 4: the same way yet. And there's something so real and 545 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:31,240 Speaker 4: earnest about that, because that's the only real thing you 546 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:31,960 Speaker 4: can control. 547 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:33,960 Speaker 5: How do you feel about that? And what are you 548 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 5: gonna do to work on that? You know? 549 00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 4: Frean also has a part later in the book what 550 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:39,960 Speaker 4: She Taught, and I've read it on the show before. 551 00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 4: What she talked about how she was working out how 552 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 4: she was getting camera ready, how she was practicing, how 553 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 4: she had like bombed the SNL thing, but that didn't 554 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 4: stop her from working on her working on her writing 555 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:51,640 Speaker 4: and trying other stuff. 556 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,000 Speaker 5: That shit, right there is what it's about. 557 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:57,399 Speaker 4: Because cause you can do that, Like I could come 558 00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,760 Speaker 4: up here every day and write a list of motherfuckers 559 00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 4: I don't like, and we could talk about them every day, 560 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 4: and our show could be called you know, fuck the 561 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:05,639 Speaker 4: fuck them niggas over. 562 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 5: There, and every day there would be people in the chat. 563 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,119 Speaker 4: That would love to hear that shit and all that stuff, 564 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,359 Speaker 4: but it would never it would never make our show 565 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 4: the best show it could be. It would always still 566 00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 4: be beholden to these other motherfuckers. You know, there's times 567 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 4: where I used to feel insecure about our show to 568 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 4: the point where I would be like, man, we gotta 569 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 4: do this teven, we gotta talk about this this long, 570 00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:29,720 Speaker 4: we gotta move on to this topic, we gotta do that. 571 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 5: And now there's whole days when we. 572 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 4: Come well, I come in here and I'm like, yeah, 573 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 4: we didn't cover none of the topics. Because at the 574 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:37,640 Speaker 4: end of the day, was the most important is that 575 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:40,119 Speaker 4: we did something no one else would be able to 576 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:43,600 Speaker 4: do so. You know, people notice, now we have a guest, 577 00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:46,919 Speaker 4: sometimes we cover topics, sometimes we don't. If it's a 578 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 4: first time guest, the whole show might be a damn interview. 579 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,560 Speaker 4: If it's a friend, sometimes we'll throw out the whole 580 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 4: goddamn thing and we just talk about what they want 581 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,400 Speaker 4: to talk about, because at the end of the day, 582 00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:59,320 Speaker 4: there's no other show that's ever gonna do that. 583 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:00,320 Speaker 5: But if I was. 584 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 4: Saying we gotta be better than Blank, then I'm trying 585 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 4: to make their show. 586 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:04,920 Speaker 5: Now. 587 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 4: If I'm saying we have a certain we gotta live 588 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,160 Speaker 4: up to the expectations of the audience, in my head, 589 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 4: now I'm not making my show anymore. I'm making the show. 590 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 4: I'm making their show, you know. And I think that 591 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,000 Speaker 4: that's the bigger message that we're trying to get to. 592 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,680 Speaker 4: I don't give a fuck about Lena Dunham any more 593 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,159 Speaker 4: than I care about like Taylor Swift and shit like 594 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 4: obviously for the purposes of jokes and humor, you know, 595 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:29,680 Speaker 4: all that stuff, but in general, and I've been saying 596 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,560 Speaker 4: this for years, I just don't think it'll ever sink 597 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,040 Speaker 4: in when I say I don't really care about celebrity. 598 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:34,400 Speaker 7: Right. 599 00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:36,280 Speaker 4: One of the things I noticed when you said, like 600 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,680 Speaker 4: you upset that nobody goes up for black women the 601 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,639 Speaker 4: way they went up for Lena Dunnoman, And I'm like, Beyonce. 602 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 4: Beyonce is a perfect example of motherfucker that a black 603 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:49,640 Speaker 4: woman everybody goes up for says she perfect and will 604 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:51,640 Speaker 4: attack your ass if you say anything about her. 605 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 5: I don't think that's healthy, Like, I don't think that's 606 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,680 Speaker 5: a good thing because she's because we're taking. 607 00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:59,639 Speaker 4: Away her humanity so she can never like it's like 608 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:01,720 Speaker 4: she can ever have a day when she just being 609 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,879 Speaker 4: Beyonce out chilling because we have turned her into like 610 00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:08,639 Speaker 4: Queen Beyonce. We will kill you if you notice or 611 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,119 Speaker 4: say anything about her. And I'm like, that might not 612 00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:14,919 Speaker 4: even be her wishes. The way that we consider protecting 613 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:19,800 Speaker 4: is really projecting. It's like I'm projecting onto her myself, 614 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 4: so that I when I attack people, I'm really attacking 615 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:24,360 Speaker 4: her for in. 616 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:28,399 Speaker 5: My name, you know what I mean. So it's a 617 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:29,040 Speaker 5: level of. 618 00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,080 Speaker 4: Not saying all of it, because obviously there's a lot 619 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:34,720 Speaker 4: of it that is a you know, you do want 620 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 4: to protect this black woman, and she does have some 621 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,440 Speaker 4: unfair coverage and stuff. This is not to say all clearly, 622 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 4: but sometimes when you're attacking the fucking co owner the 623 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,600 Speaker 4: wife or the co owner of the Warriors, you're actually 624 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:50,640 Speaker 4: way out in left field with that, like you are 625 00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,960 Speaker 4: wrong in that case. It's like it's like it's not 626 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 4: two ways of view it. She is telling you don't 627 00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:00,880 Speaker 4: do this her representatives, I don't want this. We've decided 628 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:04,160 Speaker 4: she's not human anymore. You're an avatar. We don't care 629 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 4: what you want. We're just as uncaring as the people 630 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 4: we talk about attacking her when it comes out because 631 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 4: we've lost the humanity of it. And so any story 632 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,520 Speaker 4: where you see the humanity of a person, I think 633 00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:18,480 Speaker 4: is important because humanity is also the thing that means 634 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 4: someone can change, someone can grow this, someone can improve 635 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 4: you know that because people are gonna fuck up. 636 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:25,960 Speaker 5: Part of the reason some of these. 637 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:28,840 Speaker 4: People are big deals is because they fuck up so 638 00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:32,360 Speaker 4: publicly and we all see it. Like that's the thing 639 00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:36,400 Speaker 4: I noticed about people like her, like Lena Dunnam's in particular, 640 00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,800 Speaker 4: But it's not just hers. A lot of them is 641 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:42,960 Speaker 4: that they're superpowers that they get it wrong in front 642 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 4: of everybody, But that's really them too, like when they 643 00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 4: write it in that script, that's probably some shit they 644 00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,440 Speaker 4: said or did that was fucked up and they realized 645 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,400 Speaker 4: later like, oh, that was fucked up. Perfect people don't 646 00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 4: make good TV. Perfy people aren't very entertaining. It's the 647 00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 4: same reason these same motherfuckers will tune in too goddamn 648 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,959 Speaker 4: Real Housewives every week, knowing those women are fucked up 649 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,560 Speaker 4: as shit, and then be on the internet banging on 650 00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:11,040 Speaker 4: these fucking celebrities Like it's different. Like, let me tell you, 651 00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 4: if you are supporting I don't know, Kenya or some 652 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 4: shit like that from from Real Housewives of Atlanta as 653 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 4: some type of like Avatar or just entertainment, there's no 654 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:26,040 Speaker 4: difference between that and how people support these celebrities that 655 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:28,720 Speaker 4: are like, yeah, they said something fucked up, but you know, 656 00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:31,120 Speaker 4: I really like they movies or you know, yeah, but 657 00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 4: did you see when Little Busy did this other shit? 658 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:37,560 Speaker 4: They're they're supporting them the same way you support other 659 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 4: shit that's fouled. You just don't want to make allowances 660 00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:41,640 Speaker 4: for anyone else with yourself. 661 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 1: Yes, And I think for me when I made that statement, 662 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:47,240 Speaker 1: I wasn't even thinking about Beyonce. 663 00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 7: Yeah, Beyonce is. 664 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 1: A prime is a prime example of that. But for 665 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 1: the average person of average black women, you don't get that. 666 00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 4: I just want to go the average white woman don't 667 00:30:57,080 --> 00:31:00,160 Speaker 4: get that either. Lina Dunham's an extreme example. Yes, there's 668 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 4: a lot of white women get dragged all the time, 669 00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,400 Speaker 4: and plus especially by other white women and white men. 670 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 4: Like it's like white women are more protected than Black women, 671 00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 4: which is I think is obvious because as Malcolm X 672 00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:13,080 Speaker 4: will say, when black women are at least protected, But 673 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 4: that doesn't like black men are more protected than black women, Like, 674 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 4: it's not just that, it's she's an extreme example of that. 675 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:23,400 Speaker 7: Yes, you know what I mean. 676 00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,720 Speaker 1: Yes, she's a very extreme example. And uh, piggyback on 677 00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 1: what you said before. Yeah, no, more people are boring. 678 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,960 Speaker 1: You know what, the average person at home, nobody want 679 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 1: to watch your life because it's goddamn boring. You know 680 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,040 Speaker 1: what everybody talking about the housewives and the marriage is 681 00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 1: the breakup. 682 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:38,240 Speaker 7: People watch that shit. 683 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:40,000 Speaker 1: But you know what, people don't want to watch a 684 00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:41,520 Speaker 1: couple that's been married thirty five. 685 00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:42,280 Speaker 7: Years with no problems. 686 00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 1: That shit is boring as hell, and you don't want 687 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:45,640 Speaker 1: to watch it. 688 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, I just think I mean the stuff that it's 689 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:53,520 Speaker 4: just interesting to observe people and observe human because I 690 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:57,239 Speaker 4: still have a lot of I still have a lot 691 00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 4: of empathy for those for folks that are like this. 692 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 4: You know, whenever I have a friend that's like one 693 00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:06,040 Speaker 4: of these obsessive motherfuckers that you bring up a certain 694 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:07,960 Speaker 4: celebrity and they just got to go off, I don't 695 00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 4: stop and hey, listen, man, that's a human. 696 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 5: I just be like, Okay, this is their shit. 697 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 4: They can't help themselves, and I just fucking you know, 698 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,440 Speaker 4: wait for the next topic. Like, I don't have nothing 699 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,280 Speaker 4: really to say on it, because I think all the 700 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 4: celebrity shit is weird. 701 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 6: You know. 702 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 4: I think hating the Kardashians is weird as well as 703 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:26,560 Speaker 4: loving the Kardashians is weird. 704 00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:28,120 Speaker 5: We don't know them, you. 705 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:28,720 Speaker 7: Know what I mean. 706 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 4: Like the only thing you can love or hate of 707 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,560 Speaker 4: these people in some weird avatar that they've either created 708 00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:38,920 Speaker 4: or the media is created. So but yeah, and like 709 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:42,520 Speaker 4: I said, it's interesting how even talking about this, people 710 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:45,680 Speaker 4: immediately took it as a defense of Lena Dunne, which 711 00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:49,280 Speaker 4: is which you know, I can't imagine anything that would 712 00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:51,320 Speaker 4: bring us more full circle than. 713 00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 5: Missing the whole fucking point like that, you know what 714 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:53,800 Speaker 5: I mean? 715 00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:57,200 Speaker 4: Honestly, that's the exact point that she was trying to 716 00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 4: make right there. 717 00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:02,240 Speaker 1: And it is over and over and over again because 718 00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 1: people they don't they don't want to read between the lines. 719 00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:08,000 Speaker 7: They see red and then they go straight to whatever 720 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:08,680 Speaker 7: their points is. 721 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:10,880 Speaker 4: It's why the shit ain't never gonna change, right, you 722 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,360 Speaker 4: know That's why. But that's it gives me solid though, 723 00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:15,360 Speaker 4: So when I because when I, when I can be 724 00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:18,320 Speaker 4: honest and be like, y'all don't think prison abolition is 725 00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:19,520 Speaker 4: ever happening, and. 726 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 5: It's kind of a ridiculous goal. 727 00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,880 Speaker 4: This is why I can feel safe saying that if 728 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 4: you can't let go of hating a celebrity, it's no 729 00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 4: fucking way you letting go of some dude that shot 730 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 4: you killed, somebody you love, get. 731 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 5: The fuck out of my face. You can't let go 732 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:36,720 Speaker 5: of a fucking person. 733 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 7: You don't know, right and when your lifetime. 734 00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:42,600 Speaker 4: You can't let go of a social faux pop like, oh, 735 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:46,720 Speaker 4: this person says weird shit sometimes, or this person did 736 00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:48,920 Speaker 4: made a bad TV episode. 737 00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:50,240 Speaker 5: You can't let go of that. 738 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:53,440 Speaker 4: But I'm supposed to believe you can let go of 739 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,720 Speaker 4: the criminal justice system is No the fuck nigga's gonna 740 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:57,480 Speaker 4: stay locked up forever. 741 00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:29,120 Speaker 5: This is how it's gonna be where. All right, let's 742 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:29,879 Speaker 5: get into the show. 743 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:30,240 Speaker 6: Show. 744 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:35,120 Speaker 4: It's all kinds of stuff going on. Let's see what 745 00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:35,960 Speaker 4: should we start? 746 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:41,720 Speaker 5: Fuck? I don't want you know what? Sicily Tyson died. Yes, 747 00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:45,719 Speaker 5: I heard the age of ninety six. Man, she made 748 00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:47,480 Speaker 5: it a long time. 749 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 1: In nineteen twenty four, niggas, do y'all hear me? Nineteen 750 00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,320 Speaker 1: twenty folk, Yeah. 751 00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:56,799 Speaker 4: She had an Oscar nomination. In twenty thirteen, she got 752 00:34:56,800 --> 00:35:04,120 Speaker 4: a Tony Award Oscar nomination for Sharecropper's Right Wife and Sounder, 753 00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 4: and then a Tony Award in twenty thirteen. 754 00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:07,160 Speaker 5: At the age of eighty eight. 755 00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:09,320 Speaker 7: She broke so many barriers. 756 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,280 Speaker 5: You know what I mainly thought about. 757 00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:18,319 Speaker 4: Tyler Perry made sure you can say whatever you want 758 00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,239 Speaker 4: to Tyler Perry. He made sure this woman got her 759 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:25,200 Speaker 4: fucking things while she was still here on this earth. 760 00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:28,799 Speaker 7: Hen a whole studio, piece of his studio out there 761 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:29,279 Speaker 7: after her. 762 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,480 Speaker 4: I mean, in addition to like reviving her career, But 763 00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 4: it wasn't just about reviving her career. It was a 764 00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,800 Speaker 4: reverence that he held her with a reverence that comes 765 00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:41,680 Speaker 4: from our community like that that, Like I said, man's 766 00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 4: people are very complicated, like saying people hating Tyler Perry. 767 00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:48,959 Speaker 4: When he shared that video as she passed just him 768 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:52,880 Speaker 4: and just the flowers, he was bringing her like it 769 00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:55,040 Speaker 4: brought to his mind because I was like, she knew, 770 00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:58,320 Speaker 4: at least she knew, because in that case, it feels 771 00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:01,520 Speaker 4: like Tyler's almost the ambassador for the community. 772 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:03,080 Speaker 5: And so many of. 773 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:07,520 Speaker 4: Our stars are people that we end up applauding because 774 00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:11,200 Speaker 4: they didn't get the applause from when they deserved it. 775 00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:15,359 Speaker 4: They do they do lifelong legacies of work that go 776 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:18,239 Speaker 4: disregard it. And to see Tyler Perry be like, no, 777 00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:20,719 Speaker 4: not on my watch, I'm stopping that right here. 778 00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:21,680 Speaker 5: You amazing. 779 00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,319 Speaker 4: Anything I do, I'm gonna try to get you in 780 00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:28,680 Speaker 4: and you know whatever you need, you know, to shut 781 00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:31,400 Speaker 4: out the light and the And the thing is, after that, 782 00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 4: it wasn't like she exclusively worked for Tyler Perry. She 783 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:35,600 Speaker 4: was back, she was backing everything after that. 784 00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 7: She was going the rhyme magazines and shit. 785 00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:42,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, everybody was like, yeah, that's right, she's royalty. And 786 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 4: sometimes it takes that and so, uh, you know, it's 787 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,959 Speaker 4: sad when anyone passes, but she lived a very long life, 788 00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:50,480 Speaker 4: and it's kind of that thing where it's like, I'm 789 00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:55,400 Speaker 4: glad she knew she was appreciated as opposed to dying 790 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:57,279 Speaker 4: in obscurity. And then we had to do a bunch 791 00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:01,520 Speaker 4: of fucking you know tweets and you that are essentially like, man, 792 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:04,880 Speaker 4: she never got what she deserved. People never really understood. 793 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:06,719 Speaker 4: I wish people would have told her how great she 794 00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:08,799 Speaker 4: was she was alive. We didn't have to say that 795 00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:12,279 Speaker 4: for mss Tyson because she she definitely. 796 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:13,560 Speaker 5: Got her flowers while she was here. 797 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:15,960 Speaker 4: And I wish people could strive to do that because 798 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,560 Speaker 4: to me, like you said, those are the flowers, those 799 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:19,680 Speaker 4: are the positive things. 800 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 5: We could be focusing on. 801 00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,240 Speaker 6: So rest in peace. 802 00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:26,920 Speaker 4: Let's see, speaking of rest and peace, Toys or US 803 00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:28,920 Speaker 4: is going to close the last two remaining stores. 804 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:34,719 Speaker 7: Yeah, man as well, I mean I don't understand. 805 00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:40,160 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, basically you're obsolete now because literally everything 806 00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:42,560 Speaker 1: you have and that people can purchase online more. 807 00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:43,880 Speaker 5: Like toys were them. 808 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, And I hate to see it because the thing 809 00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,480 Speaker 7: about just be towards us. 810 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:54,600 Speaker 1: They never wanted to restructure because you know, a few 811 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,360 Speaker 1: years ago reading articles about it, you know, when they 812 00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:58,239 Speaker 1: were first found off for bankruptcy and they was going 813 00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:01,040 Speaker 1: through all the things, and they was saying that people 814 00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,120 Speaker 1: had went to them and were like, why don't you'll 815 00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,840 Speaker 1: throw birthday parties in here and allow the children to 816 00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:08,520 Speaker 1: play with your toys and shit like that, and they 817 00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:12,560 Speaker 1: just was like no. And then they were very unorganized. 818 00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,080 Speaker 1: It was hard to get around the stores. They was 819 00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,240 Speaker 1: like super mega stores. It was like they didn't really 820 00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:21,440 Speaker 1: want to adapt how they did things for the advancement 821 00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:24,400 Speaker 1: of technology, and like the Kodak, they got left behind 822 00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,960 Speaker 1: and just did not want to make the moves necessary 823 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:28,960 Speaker 1: to keep them alive. God, I think if they would 824 00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,560 Speaker 1: have made adjustments, they would have still been alive. 825 00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:33,279 Speaker 7: They may have been smaller, but they would have still 826 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:33,760 Speaker 7: been alive. 827 00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:38,880 Speaker 5: I don't know. The pandemic, man who knows, I don't 828 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:39,520 Speaker 5: you know? 829 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:42,680 Speaker 1: Maybe well maybe well maybe, I mean the pandemic might 830 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,759 Speaker 1: have took them out. But prior to the pandemic, I 831 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,960 Speaker 1: could have seen them hanging around with re with with 832 00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:50,600 Speaker 1: you know, just making some adjustments to. 833 00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:52,560 Speaker 5: What toy stores are still open? 834 00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:58,360 Speaker 7: Most of them are closed closed, ain't they? Toys? 835 00:38:58,440 --> 00:38:58,680 Speaker 5: Or US? 836 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:02,160 Speaker 7: Is closed mostly like your big, big big stores. Kmart 837 00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:03,759 Speaker 7: is no longer open. Yeah. 838 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:07,200 Speaker 1: I think Walmart literally is about it. And Walmart is 839 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:10,000 Speaker 1: not a toy store like they sell other shit. 840 00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:13,839 Speaker 4: They were like the last ones left. So I don't know, man, 841 00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:15,600 Speaker 4: I don't know what adjustment you can make if you 842 00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:19,200 Speaker 4: just sell toys, like, sell toys and then put some 843 00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:21,239 Speaker 4: lawnmowers in the front of that bitch and be like, 844 00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:25,200 Speaker 4: all right, so get your toys and your your appliances, 845 00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,759 Speaker 4: A you want to wash the machine to go with 846 00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:29,880 Speaker 4: them with that bike, Like, I don't. 847 00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:30,879 Speaker 5: Know what they could have did, man. 848 00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think all aside, Walmart and Target changed 849 00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:35,759 Speaker 1: the game, you know, because if you were around before 850 00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,680 Speaker 1: Walmart and Target kind of swept, which we were, you know, 851 00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:40,680 Speaker 1: it was one of those things. But the toy stores 852 00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:44,080 Speaker 1: was the jam. Like that's what people bought video gaming systems. 853 00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:47,960 Speaker 1: That's where a lot of people would buy there, put 854 00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,240 Speaker 1: their shit on lailway and ship like that and purchase 855 00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:53,319 Speaker 1: it later, you know. But as time went on and 856 00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,759 Speaker 1: everything kind of moved online, people didn't need the physical sor. 857 00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:58,879 Speaker 4: They had Yeah, they had toys, our rust and shit, 858 00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:01,479 Speaker 4: and like I said, these other places they just sell 859 00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:05,040 Speaker 4: more shit. Yeah, they sell like Target and Walmart. 860 00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:08,560 Speaker 5: You can get like a car battery and you know 861 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:09,560 Speaker 5: power rangers. 862 00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:11,920 Speaker 1: Come on, we can get we can get the baby, 863 00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:15,120 Speaker 1: a Daifer and a motorized play car. 864 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:15,719 Speaker 6: Yeah. 865 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:18,520 Speaker 5: So I think that's what they kind of got fucked over. 866 00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:22,840 Speaker 4: Like anyway, it's just means we getting older, man, you know, 867 00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:25,920 Speaker 4: but I didn't realize there was just only two left. 868 00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:31,200 Speaker 4: GM aims the n sell of gasoline, diesel, power cars, SUVs, 869 00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:32,799 Speaker 4: light trucks by twenty thirty five. 870 00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:35,160 Speaker 5: And that's why matters Whon's president. 871 00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:37,279 Speaker 1: Ye, they're getting in line with Biden, like they knew 872 00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:39,719 Speaker 1: when Biden won, they had a feel like he was 873 00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:43,920 Speaker 1: gonna win anyway, because even before I think he won, 874 00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:47,359 Speaker 1: they were announced in making changes and the just like, oh okay, 875 00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:50,000 Speaker 1: they think he's winning, and they're making these adjustments because 876 00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:52,400 Speaker 1: they want to be a and his good graces and 877 00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:54,080 Speaker 1: b they want to be on the receiving end of 878 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 1: the federal fundings and cuts they're gonna get for actually, 879 00:40:57,400 --> 00:40:59,600 Speaker 1: you know, pushing these things in advance. 880 00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:03,560 Speaker 7: Because something else with this too is. 881 00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,040 Speaker 1: That I hope when they do this they drop the 882 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,440 Speaker 1: price of vehicles, because what I realized now is that 883 00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,279 Speaker 1: cost of vehicles are high. The average car payment is 884 00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:14,239 Speaker 1: like over five hundred dollars a month, and everybody want 885 00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:18,040 Speaker 1: it on car slash suv hybrids, and. 886 00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:19,440 Speaker 7: So you cannot. 887 00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:21,359 Speaker 1: You know, years ago, you used to could find a 888 00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,520 Speaker 1: good ten thousand and nine thousand dollars, you know, eight 889 00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:28,440 Speaker 1: thousand dollar car. Now everything is literally twelve to fifteen 890 00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:31,280 Speaker 1: and up. So you're literally pricing people out of the market, 891 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 1: like the tourists and the and the and the in 892 00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,439 Speaker 1: some of these smaller vehicles. Some car companies just quit 893 00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:39,560 Speaker 1: making smaller vehicles like they was like, fucking, We're not 894 00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:42,920 Speaker 1: making anything small anymore, which is vehicles that I like. 895 00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:45,160 Speaker 1: You know, I like those smaller vesicles. They cheaper, you 896 00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:47,480 Speaker 1: can pay them off. Hey, a few hundred dollars a month. 897 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:48,959 Speaker 1: I can get this paid off in no time. 898 00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:49,799 Speaker 7: They make it. 899 00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:52,120 Speaker 1: Where you have to buy a fifteen to twenty to 900 00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:55,399 Speaker 1: thirty thousand dollars vehicle, which is fine if you can 901 00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:58,160 Speaker 1: afford it, but the average person can't afford that fucking 902 00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,360 Speaker 1: rent payment a month in a car and the car notes. 903 00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:03,520 Speaker 5: Yeah. 904 00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:08,000 Speaker 4: I think it's interesting too, because it just took Biden 905 00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:11,000 Speaker 4: being in line and then him being like, look, this 906 00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:14,520 Speaker 4: is a job creation program, not a job reduction program. 907 00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:21,200 Speaker 4: And this funding for these companies, it's a new employment 908 00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:24,960 Speaker 4: for citizen in the United States going through a downturn, 909 00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:30,239 Speaker 4: and so it's a future thing. And ultimately it is 910 00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:32,759 Speaker 4: a positive thing for the environment, even if it's not 911 00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:37,720 Speaker 4: enough by itself. But it's interesting because Republicans have taken 912 00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:40,840 Speaker 4: a tactic of saying Governor Greg Abbott has threatened to 913 00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:44,879 Speaker 4: sue Joe Biden over the hostile climate agenda. He says 914 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,400 Speaker 4: that will kill all jobs. Now he's a Texas governor. 915 00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:50,040 Speaker 4: What comes from Texas or right. 916 00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,160 Speaker 1: And also what was even fucked up is that under 917 00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,040 Speaker 1: the Obama administration, when they was trying to get a 918 00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:59,960 Speaker 1: lot of the shit done, they was like, hey, well 919 00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:03,239 Speaker 1: educate y'all for free, Like y'all know this ain't gonna 920 00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:03,759 Speaker 1: be around forever. 921 00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:05,960 Speaker 7: Them niggas refused. 922 00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:08,040 Speaker 1: Like so, it's not like they didn't come out there 923 00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:10,560 Speaker 1: and it was like, hey, y'all, this ship right here 924 00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:11,600 Speaker 1: can't last forever. 925 00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:14,440 Speaker 7: There's no way this shit can last forever. 926 00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:17,040 Speaker 1: This is why they constantly be drilling for all and 927 00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,600 Speaker 1: all this shit and tear down trees and fucking up 928 00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:23,360 Speaker 1: the ecosystem and shit like that because they don't care. 929 00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:26,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, So I just thought that was that was interesting 930 00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:30,920 Speaker 4: to see that they were already these big ass companies 931 00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:34,040 Speaker 4: are already like yep, no problem, like hit the switch, 932 00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:37,920 Speaker 4: like like it just takes somebody different being in charge. 933 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,719 Speaker 4: If Trump would have won reelection that before, it be 934 00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:44,080 Speaker 4: until we got a democratic president before they would even 935 00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:45,960 Speaker 4: consider this shit. They would be like, we would never 936 00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,040 Speaker 4: do it on our own. We would never do it 937 00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:50,359 Speaker 4: unless the government was gonna say we had to do it. 938 00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:52,560 Speaker 4: And suddenly the government says they has to do it, 939 00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:54,120 Speaker 4: and they're like, oh yeah, yeah, no problem. 940 00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:55,520 Speaker 5: It would switch it up right. 941 00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:56,759 Speaker 7: Which means that could have did it all the time. 942 00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:57,600 Speaker 7: They's gonna give a fuck. 943 00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,760 Speaker 4: Tory Lane seeks the right to publicly comment on Megan 944 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:05,040 Speaker 4: the Stallion case. Why I thought about this because a 945 00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:06,759 Speaker 4: lot of people said why. A lot of people say 946 00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:09,400 Speaker 4: he's gonna get himself in trouble. A lot of people 947 00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:14,520 Speaker 4: think it's a bad idea, and I don't necessarily disagree 948 00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:20,840 Speaker 4: with them, but considering the environment that we have, people 949 00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:24,840 Speaker 4: been defendatory Lanes without him saying a word. If he 950 00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:28,520 Speaker 4: said something, it will be even more defense of him, 951 00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:32,440 Speaker 4: Like they've been basically defending him with him leaking shit 952 00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:37,840 Speaker 4: and insinuations and blogs. I've heard men make up entire 953 00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:41,279 Speaker 4: fucking stories they don't know nothing that happened, and you 954 00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:44,360 Speaker 4: asked him about it, and they start speculating into like 955 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:48,040 Speaker 4: Megan the stallion was jumping him, beating him up in 956 00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:51,440 Speaker 4: his car, and he had to shoot her to defend 957 00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:55,640 Speaker 4: himself and save his life. Like even though there's supposed 958 00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:57,640 Speaker 4: to be video footage of this out here that I'm 959 00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,319 Speaker 4: sure you know, if that drops, that'll change a lot 960 00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:04,359 Speaker 4: of people's opinions. Even though we have her kind of 961 00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:05,480 Speaker 4: insinuating shit. 962 00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:07,680 Speaker 5: I know enough to know we don't know the whole story. 963 00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:10,920 Speaker 4: Obviously, I'm not stupid, and it's not a quarter log, 964 00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:11,760 Speaker 4: it's public opinion. 965 00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:12,359 Speaker 5: I get that. 966 00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:16,359 Speaker 4: But the way that people have like jump to his 967 00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:20,920 Speaker 4: defense just specifically because I gotta defend this dude, Like 968 00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:23,080 Speaker 4: you don't even really know him, you don't like his music. 969 00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:27,040 Speaker 4: It's just why not defend him, you know what I mean? 970 00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:30,000 Speaker 4: Like he must have had a good reason. He's a man. 971 00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:33,160 Speaker 4: Women are the emotional ones, you know. Look up to 972 00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:34,960 Speaker 4: death rights and domestic violence. 973 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:35,560 Speaker 6: Look up to death. 974 00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:38,200 Speaker 1: Not that women don't beat men, but you know what's 975 00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:40,000 Speaker 1: the statistic of women beat men to death? 976 00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:40,359 Speaker 6: Right? 977 00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:43,040 Speaker 4: Just look up to look up to when anyone tells 978 00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:47,680 Speaker 4: you something about women being not being too emotional on 979 00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:50,160 Speaker 4: and men being the logical people, just look up how 980 00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:54,360 Speaker 4: many times people use guns to kill their exes, their currents, 981 00:45:54,560 --> 00:46:01,399 Speaker 4: their people's families. Look up school shooters, look up workplace shooters, 982 00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:05,960 Speaker 4: look up mass shooters, you know, look up domestic violent statistics. 983 00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:08,360 Speaker 4: How often that happens, especially the women of color and 984 00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,799 Speaker 4: especially the black women. Look that shit up and then 985 00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:15,799 Speaker 4: think to yourself, now, who's emotional? Like, what do we 986 00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:18,600 Speaker 4: define as emotion? Because emotion, for the most part, means 987 00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:25,280 Speaker 4: emotions that men feel are valid and emotions that women 988 00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:25,960 Speaker 4: feel aren't. 989 00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:28,040 Speaker 5: And so when something like this happens. 990 00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:31,000 Speaker 4: Where a man is valid violent to a black woman 991 00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:35,359 Speaker 4: and it's a black man, it's a black man, that's 992 00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,360 Speaker 4: why we end up in these situations where people are like, 993 00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:39,680 Speaker 4: I don't know, kind of fifty to fifty, let's see 994 00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:42,080 Speaker 4: it out. When it's a black man, we jump to 995 00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:45,680 Speaker 4: that defense in our within the community all the goddamn time, 996 00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:47,919 Speaker 4: So I can see why he would being bolded enough 997 00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:51,359 Speaker 4: to be like, I need to speak because y'all gonna 998 00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:52,719 Speaker 4: believe whatever the fuck he say. 999 00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,919 Speaker 5: Anyway, Yes, it doesn't like he like. 1000 00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:58,719 Speaker 4: People been kind of wanting to believe him when he 1001 00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:01,719 Speaker 4: was just saying much if he just gets out he 1002 00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:05,040 Speaker 4: did a whole album like this shit is so egregious 1003 00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:08,520 Speaker 4: to me, it feels like, yeah, this dude is almost 1004 00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:11,840 Speaker 4: like gloating, you know, to me, that's how it feels. 1005 00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:15,040 Speaker 4: I don't know what happened, maybe I'm tripping, blah blah blah, 1006 00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,720 Speaker 4: but just the way that he been operating, it's like, damn, 1007 00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,120 Speaker 4: I know, if I was accused of doing something this 1008 00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:22,879 Speaker 4: fucking Hainus, I wouldn't be out here joking it off, 1009 00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:26,520 Speaker 4: laughing and bragging about it. Cause to me, that's kind 1010 00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,080 Speaker 4: of a serious fucking thing that accused me of, especially 1011 00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:29,920 Speaker 4: if I didn't do it. 1012 00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:32,279 Speaker 5: So it just seemed like super weird. 1013 00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:34,279 Speaker 4: But I'm not shocked that he wants to talk about it, 1014 00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,799 Speaker 4: And I wouldn't be shocked that he would believe that 1015 00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:42,040 Speaker 4: saying something would change how people feel, because quite too 1016 00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:45,839 Speaker 4: often that is what changes a dude says anything. How 1017 00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:48,400 Speaker 4: many people defended Bill Cosey how many people defended. 1018 00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:49,760 Speaker 5: R Kelly, how many people. 1019 00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:52,719 Speaker 4: Like there's still people to this day, Nate p Nate 1020 00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:56,840 Speaker 4: Parker to this day, to this day people it was 1021 00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,680 Speaker 4: a setup or you telling me a white jury would 1022 00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:00,680 Speaker 4: let black. 1023 00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:03,400 Speaker 5: Men off, Like, yeah, well, you know if. 1024 00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:09,960 Speaker 4: Penn State athlete in Pennsylvania, where we're gonna act like 1025 00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:13,400 Speaker 4: colleges don't have rape culture, we got like college institutions 1026 00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:16,240 Speaker 4: don't protect athletes, gonna act like athletes don't get off 1027 00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:19,839 Speaker 4: on sexual assault charges all the fucking time, if they 1028 00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:23,480 Speaker 4: even get prosecuted, Like okay, So those two things can't 1029 00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:26,000 Speaker 4: exist at the same time. Got it, Only one thing 1030 00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:29,319 Speaker 4: takes over because we want to believe black men in. 1031 00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:31,280 Speaker 5: These situations within the community. 1032 00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:34,440 Speaker 4: And so yeah, I wouldn't be shocked that he feels 1033 00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:38,040 Speaker 4: this way at all. In court documents rot about to 1034 00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:41,319 Speaker 4: pay six, his legal team claims the current order they have, 1035 00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:45,760 Speaker 4: which I believe have like a gag order issue November eighteenth, 1036 00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:48,799 Speaker 4: the significantly prejudicial to the twenty eight year old and 1037 00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:53,200 Speaker 4: jeopardize his right to a fair and judicial proceeding. Megan 1038 00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,600 Speaker 4: is not subject to the terms of the protective court order. 1039 00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,799 Speaker 4: In contrast to Lanes oh So it's not a gag 1040 00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:01,799 Speaker 4: order's a protective order. Yet that kind of happens when 1041 00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:10,239 Speaker 4: you shoot people. Like, yeah, she is, and legally he 1042 00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:12,520 Speaker 4: can't go back at her. So that's probably why. 1043 00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:13,200 Speaker 5: And she is. 1044 00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:17,279 Speaker 4: Because every time he leaks something, or every time she 1045 00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:20,160 Speaker 4: feels that he leaks something. I can't confirm the blogs 1046 00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:21,960 Speaker 4: are leaking his side of the story, but that's what 1047 00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:24,480 Speaker 4: it seemed like. She'll make a video every once in 1048 00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:26,160 Speaker 4: a while. One of them she said, bitch, you shot me, 1049 00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:28,319 Speaker 4: and my story not changing. Bitch you going to jail, 1050 00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:28,920 Speaker 4: she tweeted. 1051 00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,200 Speaker 5: She also previously caught him out over the summer, nearly 1052 00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:34,719 Speaker 5: a month after the Led shooting thing. 1053 00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:37,880 Speaker 4: Yes, this niggatory shot me, she alleged on Instagram Live 1054 00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:38,400 Speaker 4: you shot me? 1055 00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:40,840 Speaker 5: You got your publicist, Your people go into these. 1056 00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:44,640 Speaker 4: Blogs, line and shit, stop lying, wild lie and so yeah, 1057 00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:46,799 Speaker 4: they're using that to be like, it's not fair for 1058 00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:49,799 Speaker 4: him because he'll go to trial and people gonna say 1059 00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:51,840 Speaker 4: she was talking bad about him, so he must have 1060 00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:55,000 Speaker 4: did it, which is what I assume his lawyers would 1061 00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:55,479 Speaker 4: have to say. 1062 00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:56,839 Speaker 7: Of course, that's a job. 1063 00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,239 Speaker 5: Yeah, like I said, I could do that job. 1064 00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:02,600 Speaker 4: I think I could be the defense lawyer for somebody 1065 00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:03,880 Speaker 4: who did it. 1066 00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:06,200 Speaker 5: It seemed like an easy y'all. I know me and 1067 00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:07,759 Speaker 5: one said, it's a lot of paperwork. You got a 1068 00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:11,360 Speaker 5: file paperwork. But I don't know. I feel like this 1069 00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:12,520 Speaker 5: is a pretty easy job. 1070 00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:14,799 Speaker 4: It's just me couldn't dry. Maybe they make it look 1071 00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:19,480 Speaker 4: so easy. I don't understand. But yeah, I like, I 1072 00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:21,960 Speaker 4: don't get it. And of course you know, in my mind, 1073 00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:22,560 Speaker 4: I'm like, if you. 1074 00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:23,960 Speaker 5: Did it, you should probably shut the fuck up. But 1075 00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:24,440 Speaker 5: what do I know? 1076 00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:27,200 Speaker 4: I don't I've never done no crazy shit like this. No, sir, 1077 00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:30,080 Speaker 4: Meek Mill has deactivated his Instagram and Twitter. 1078 00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:35,400 Speaker 7: Okay, what happened, I don't know. 1079 00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:37,479 Speaker 5: I know he was on clubhouse talking shit. 1080 00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:40,440 Speaker 4: No that was going viral, so he called somebody to 1081 00:50:40,520 --> 00:50:41,960 Speaker 4: snitching all this type of shit. 1082 00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:46,960 Speaker 5: So yeah, I don't know. I don't know why he did. 1083 00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:48,680 Speaker 7: I said, you know, you know, I don't know. 1084 00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:49,520 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1085 00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:52,160 Speaker 4: He faced criticism after he did exchange of it of 1086 00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:55,920 Speaker 4: his with another Philadelphia native on Clubhouse when it went viral. 1087 00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:56,960 Speaker 6: Your dad is a rat, You. 1088 00:50:57,000 --> 00:51:00,440 Speaker 4: A pussy, Meek said to the speaker who disagreed, suggesting 1089 00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:03,000 Speaker 4: that black men don't uplift and support one another. You 1090 00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:05,239 Speaker 4: come from Delaware, bro, your pots is a wrap. You 1091 00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,520 Speaker 4: grew up in the suburbs. He laid apologize for the 1092 00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:10,000 Speaker 4: outbursts around the same time he faced backlash for a 1093 00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:12,560 Speaker 4: video that saw him give twenty dollars to kids selling 1094 00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:13,440 Speaker 4: water in Atlanta. 1095 00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:16,200 Speaker 5: So, yeah, I don't know, man. 1096 00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:22,000 Speaker 4: I think it's funny just all these people dealing with 1097 00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:25,920 Speaker 4: the sanctions the rest of us, So hopping off line 1098 00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,520 Speaker 4: probably a good idea. Maybe just need a break. 1099 00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:32,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's literally a good thing. Sometimes you actually just 1100 00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:33,359 Speaker 7: need that. 1101 00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:35,080 Speaker 5: Break and talking all that shit. 1102 00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:39,680 Speaker 4: Like clubhouse is souch a funny app because like people 1103 00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:44,160 Speaker 4: go there is they don't archive the audio, but people 1104 00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:46,880 Speaker 4: can record anything on their phones and share it, so 1105 00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:49,160 Speaker 4: it's not like it's really private. 1106 00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:50,839 Speaker 5: And then celebrities go on there. 1107 00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:54,360 Speaker 4: Most of the celebrities are having very informal conversations in 1108 00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:57,520 Speaker 4: a setting that is like it. 1109 00:51:57,480 --> 00:51:58,799 Speaker 5: Feels comfortable, but it's not. 1110 00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:01,600 Speaker 4: It's like a bunch of strangers are listening to talk, right, 1111 00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:04,520 Speaker 4: So yeah, when they say or do some wild shit 1112 00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:07,960 Speaker 4: like it's going viral and then a lot of people 1113 00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,640 Speaker 4: are literally just on there for that part of them. 1114 00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:13,360 Speaker 5: I'm not saying everybody there's people building community. 1115 00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:16,120 Speaker 4: There are people having a good time, there's people doing whatever, 1116 00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:19,120 Speaker 4: but a lot of it is kind of stargazing, and 1117 00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:21,640 Speaker 4: you hope it's. 1118 00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:21,920 Speaker 5: Like watching them. 1119 00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:23,919 Speaker 4: It's like people that don't like NASCAR when they watch 1120 00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:25,840 Speaker 4: a NASCAR race, you're hoping for a crash. 1121 00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:28,280 Speaker 5: Yes, that's kind of what's happening with You're hoping. 1122 00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:30,840 Speaker 4: You know what, there's no other room to go into 1123 00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:33,440 Speaker 4: a room, no other reason to go into a room 1124 00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:36,600 Speaker 4: with like Azela Banks, unless you're hoping for some shit 1125 00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:38,359 Speaker 4: to report back to everybody, right. 1126 00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:39,759 Speaker 1: And there'd be some of the same walk and he 1127 00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:42,600 Speaker 1: walks online talk about how these ces ain't shit, but 1128 00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:44,719 Speaker 1: sh they be the people, like five thousand people in 1129 00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:46,120 Speaker 1: the room as soon as they step in there. 1130 00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:48,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'm not I'm not surprised by it, but 1131 00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:53,359 Speaker 4: it's just interesting to see it all play Out's see 1132 00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:53,840 Speaker 4: what other. 1133 00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:54,760 Speaker 5: News we got here. 1134 00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:01,479 Speaker 4: Katie Carrick caught some heat for saying the GOP needs 1135 00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:02,560 Speaker 4: to be deprogrammed. 1136 00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:05,680 Speaker 7: Where's the lie? 1137 00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:07,280 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1138 00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:12,280 Speaker 4: Uh, She's getting slammed for saying Trump supporters should be deprogrammed. 1139 00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:15,960 Speaker 4: Paid six reports following an announcement by Jeopardy producers she 1140 00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:17,759 Speaker 4: will be making in the Parents. She went on Bill 1141 00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:21,439 Speaker 4: Mahershaw and spoke in favor of Trump's impeachment and Twitter band, 1142 00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:25,680 Speaker 4: Oh she betrayed the white folks. It's really bizarre, isn't 1143 00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:28,319 Speaker 4: it when you think about how a wall so many 1144 00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:30,000 Speaker 4: of those members of Congress have gotten. 1145 00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:33,200 Speaker 5: But I also think some of them. 1146 00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:35,200 Speaker 4: Are believing that garbage that they are being fed twenty 1147 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,080 Speaker 4: four to seven on the internet by that constituents. And 1148 00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:39,480 Speaker 4: they brought it, they brought it to this big lot. 1149 00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:42,400 Speaker 4: And the question is, how are we going to really 1150 00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:44,759 Speaker 4: almost deprogram these people who have signed up for the 1151 00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:45,839 Speaker 4: Code of Trump. 1152 00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:51,399 Speaker 1: Because other than that, it's gonna be impossible, Right, It's 1153 00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:53,799 Speaker 1: one of the things where and and and the thing 1154 00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:57,120 Speaker 1: about deprogram more unlearned, like but that that's a hard 1155 00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:58,680 Speaker 1: thing to do, is to unlearn this show. 1156 00:53:58,680 --> 00:53:59,839 Speaker 5: Honestly, I like the word deep. 1157 00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:02,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, deprogram actually sounds better. 1158 00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:03,680 Speaker 5: Because that's what you have to do with people that 1159 00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:05,759 Speaker 5: have been part of a cult. Yes, you do like 1160 00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:06,160 Speaker 5: this shit. 1161 00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:08,279 Speaker 4: Like I was listening to you with Queen and J 1162 00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:12,080 Speaker 4: great podcasts. Everyone should be listening. But they were talking 1163 00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:14,239 Speaker 4: about how they were on a panel where they talked 1164 00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:18,120 Speaker 4: about white supremacy being like people it was all black panel, 1165 00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:19,799 Speaker 4: it sounds like and some people are saying it's a 1166 00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:22,399 Speaker 4: mental illness, and of course they were, you know, they 1167 00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:24,319 Speaker 4: were like, no, it's not a mental illness. It's you 1168 00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:28,360 Speaker 4: know that like and you know, thinking about that conversation, 1169 00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:30,640 Speaker 4: which has been going on so long at this point, 1170 00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:34,600 Speaker 4: people use that, Well, it's not that I thought about it. 1171 00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:35,600 Speaker 5: I think it's both. 1172 00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:39,680 Speaker 4: I think it's a cultural it's a it's a societal 1173 00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:45,080 Speaker 4: concept and it it and it and people some people 1174 00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:48,480 Speaker 4: who have certain who are prone to certain type of 1175 00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:50,719 Speaker 4: things get drawn to it the same way. Coach still 1176 00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:55,680 Speaker 4: like it's like saying, it's like it's like trying to 1177 00:54:55,680 --> 00:55:01,920 Speaker 4: be like, well, David Koresh's coat was was obviously horribor 1178 00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:03,400 Speaker 4: and evil and have bad things. 1179 00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:06,759 Speaker 5: I agree, right, And then the people that signed up 1180 00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:07,520 Speaker 5: for that coat, what. 1181 00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:09,319 Speaker 4: They must have just believed in those things and they 1182 00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:11,200 Speaker 4: agreed and they wanted to do all that shit for him, 1183 00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:16,040 Speaker 4: And I'm like, yeah, but also, what would make you 1184 00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:18,800 Speaker 4: prone to believe in some ridiculous shit like that? 1185 00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:20,719 Speaker 5: We're probably talking about some. 1186 00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:24,040 Speaker 4: Underlying issues too, And that's where people get a little clammy. 1187 00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:27,200 Speaker 4: Because we wanted black and white and we really What 1188 00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:29,399 Speaker 4: really I think it comes down to is we want 1189 00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:32,320 Speaker 4: to really demean the people and not have to feel 1190 00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:35,319 Speaker 4: any type of empathy for him, right that I know 1191 00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:36,960 Speaker 4: as a black person, that's how I feel because I 1192 00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:40,360 Speaker 4: want to protect myself and I feel like my empathy 1193 00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:42,960 Speaker 4: in that case may not allow me to have full 1194 00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:45,880 Speaker 4: protection for myself. I don't ever want to empathize with 1195 00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:50,080 Speaker 4: a white supremacist because to me that person, I'm that 1196 00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:53,120 Speaker 4: person's target, right, just like empathizing with a tiger, and 1197 00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:56,480 Speaker 4: I'm a fucking you know, I'm a lamb in the woods, 1198 00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:58,760 Speaker 4: even though lambs don't be in the woods or the jones, 1199 00:55:58,920 --> 00:55:59,560 Speaker 4: you know, go. 1200 00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:00,920 Speaker 7: With you gonna get eight? 1201 00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:03,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, My point is like, why would I empathize with 1202 00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:04,440 Speaker 4: that person? 1203 00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:05,000 Speaker 6: You know? 1204 00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:06,360 Speaker 5: So I definitely understand. 1205 00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:11,120 Speaker 4: But from a clinical level, something it is something drawing 1206 00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:13,440 Speaker 4: these people to it that's not always as black and 1207 00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:16,640 Speaker 4: white as I can benefit from this white supremacy. 1208 00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:17,680 Speaker 5: Therefore, I believe it. 1209 00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:19,839 Speaker 4: We can see it with some of the black people 1210 00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:21,839 Speaker 4: that go over there. We'll be like, that's easy. Either 1211 00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:23,000 Speaker 4: a grifter or they're not. 1212 00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:23,319 Speaker 6: Well. 1213 00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:27,560 Speaker 4: We don't ever say, we don't ever say, oh yeah, 1214 00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:29,600 Speaker 4: they just think they're white and they're gonna benefit. Now 1215 00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:32,640 Speaker 4: we know, like that motherfucker wants some money or something 1216 00:56:32,680 --> 00:56:33,000 Speaker 4: like that. 1217 00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:35,400 Speaker 5: Or look at them, that's your crazy cousin from the 1218 00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:35,799 Speaker 5: cook guy. 1219 00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:39,120 Speaker 4: You know, june Bug was never right like, that's basically 1220 00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:41,399 Speaker 4: how we treat those folks. So I would imagine there's 1221 00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:44,319 Speaker 4: some of that in there as well. So it's kind 1222 00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:48,200 Speaker 4: of to me, it's kind of both. And when it 1223 00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:51,120 Speaker 4: comes to coach, deprogramming is the language they use for 1224 00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:55,200 Speaker 4: how you get someone out of that shit. Now, to me, 1225 00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:58,120 Speaker 4: is it worthwhile to do that shit? 1226 00:56:59,320 --> 00:56:59,520 Speaker 6: No? 1227 00:56:59,840 --> 00:57:02,839 Speaker 5: But only because these are not my family members. 1228 00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:06,080 Speaker 4: Right, I don't know these I don't care if Kleitus 1229 00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:08,799 Speaker 4: comes back to reality and gets out of the q 1230 00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:12,200 Speaker 4: N cold, I don't care about that because I'm never 1231 00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:14,600 Speaker 4: gonna fucking be around Cletis now. 1232 00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:15,399 Speaker 5: Look, maybe you. 1233 00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:18,760 Speaker 4: Know, sweet Kletis, your nice cousin you grew up with, 1234 00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:21,360 Speaker 4: and he wasn't always like this, and then he started 1235 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:22,520 Speaker 4: listening to Fox News. 1236 00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:23,880 Speaker 5: And went off the deep end. 1237 00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:26,760 Speaker 4: Maybe that's your story and that's something for you on 1238 00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:29,600 Speaker 4: your side to figure out, because I obviously don't have 1239 00:57:29,640 --> 00:57:33,160 Speaker 4: to be part of that process. So maybe deprogramming could 1240 00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:37,280 Speaker 4: have some effect on an individual level. But once again, 1241 00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:41,280 Speaker 4: why supremacy is also this system and so when you 1242 00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:44,840 Speaker 4: look at that system, it's like individually, whether or not 1243 00:57:44,960 --> 00:57:47,080 Speaker 4: y'all agree with it, how you got to that point 1244 00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:49,560 Speaker 4: not really my problem, you know. 1245 00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:51,280 Speaker 5: What I mean, maybe some of you can be saved, 1246 00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:52,560 Speaker 5: maybe not, I don't know. 1247 00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:54,200 Speaker 4: Every once in a while we read about when these 1248 00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:57,880 Speaker 4: motherfuckers that yeah you know, and I'm like, oh, good 1249 00:57:57,880 --> 00:57:58,600 Speaker 4: for them, I guess. 1250 00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:02,800 Speaker 5: But the point being, I'm not doing that work. 1251 00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:05,680 Speaker 4: I'm more interested in the work that can be done 1252 00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:09,080 Speaker 4: to circumvent the system and the people who support it. 1253 00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:12,360 Speaker 4: So it's not it doesn't have to be an either or, 1254 00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:15,400 Speaker 4: and I think for a lot of white people it's 1255 00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:18,240 Speaker 4: not an either or because they have the privilege of 1256 00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:19,800 Speaker 4: not being targeted by these people. 1257 00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:20,200 Speaker 7: Agreed. 1258 00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:22,720 Speaker 4: So Katie Cured can be like, yeah, these people are 1259 00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:26,520 Speaker 4: these people need deprogramming, these people need re education, these 1260 00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:27,720 Speaker 4: people need this, that and the other. 1261 00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:30,120 Speaker 5: And I can be like, they might need that, shit, 1262 00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:33,320 Speaker 5: they might not. I will not be talking to them. 1263 00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:36,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna be there to find out. And 1264 00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:43,320 Speaker 1: you know, I think for a for a lot of 1265 00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:45,600 Speaker 1: white people, like I said, because these are family members 1266 00:58:45,600 --> 00:58:47,120 Speaker 1: and their loved ones, so they have to have that 1267 00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:52,000 Speaker 1: compassion towards them. And so it's one of those things 1268 00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:54,800 Speaker 1: where she can say this and stand behind. 1269 00:58:54,520 --> 00:58:59,160 Speaker 7: It if she chooses to. But I'm like, he was not. 1270 00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:02,000 Speaker 1: It's not my response stability to actually reach out to them. 1271 00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:05,080 Speaker 1: It's not my responsibility to this. The system itself has 1272 00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:08,880 Speaker 1: got to change. If you really want this deprogramming to happen, 1273 00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:13,520 Speaker 1: the system itself has to not allow this to happen. 1274 00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:17,280 Speaker 1: If you want to actually deprogram these things, you need 1275 00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:21,480 Speaker 1: to hold Mitch mccollin notlge people responsible for holding shit up. 1276 00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:25,600 Speaker 1: You need to hold the people they're voted not to subpreene. 1277 00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:25,920 Speaker 5: I'm not. 1278 00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:31,959 Speaker 1: In peace Trump after insurrection, dig into their background, hold 1279 00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:35,080 Speaker 1: them accountable, like like like, if we really want to 1280 00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:40,640 Speaker 1: quote unquote deprogrammed the whole entire the structure has got 1281 00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:43,280 Speaker 1: to change. And if you're not willing to, if you're 1282 00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:46,280 Speaker 1: not willing to take America and attack it at its. 1283 00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:49,560 Speaker 7: Bones and the bones of America's white supremacy, that's what 1284 00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:50,280 Speaker 7: we walk around. 1285 00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:53,959 Speaker 4: Both things would need to be done at the same time. 1286 00:59:54,640 --> 00:59:59,160 Speaker 4: But the only thing I care about is the structural 1287 00:59:59,160 --> 01:00:00,840 Speaker 4: shit already. 1288 01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:03,800 Speaker 5: I've already just moved these people out of my life. 1289 01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:07,280 Speaker 4: So I mean, I'm sure that's easier for me to 1290 01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:10,560 Speaker 4: say because I always think about the people black people. 1291 01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:12,480 Speaker 4: I always think about the black people that do have 1292 01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:16,360 Speaker 4: white folks in their lives that have watched them change 1293 01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:19,280 Speaker 4: and be adjusted, bied, you know, that have watched them 1294 01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:23,920 Speaker 4: slip down this ladder and right, And I'm not going 1295 01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:27,360 Speaker 4: to discount them. I'm sure they do feel like, damn, 1296 01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:31,880 Speaker 4: like what happened? You weren't like this. There was a 1297 01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:33,960 Speaker 4: time you weren't like this, and it is I think 1298 01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:37,000 Speaker 4: it's hard for people to believe that there was ever 1299 01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:38,760 Speaker 4: a time when these white folks weren't like this. 1300 01:00:38,920 --> 01:00:43,000 Speaker 5: But the radicalization of white people is a real thing. 1301 01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:45,080 Speaker 5: We just don't talk about it. 1302 01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:48,240 Speaker 4: This is terrorism and they have been radicalized, and the 1303 01:00:48,280 --> 01:00:50,760 Speaker 4: Internet is helped do it. It's helped weaponize these people. 1304 01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:54,080 Speaker 4: Some of these people weren't like this before, even if 1305 01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:57,800 Speaker 4: they only had leanings inclinations, even if they just really 1306 01:00:57,880 --> 01:00:59,960 Speaker 4: weren't deep they were a political they didn't care. 1307 01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:03,040 Speaker 5: This shit is so much out there. 1308 01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:06,080 Speaker 4: I think people do a disservice when they dismiss it 1309 01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:09,600 Speaker 4: as a thing that we don't need to address on 1310 01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:13,080 Speaker 4: a like mental level, Like it needs to be addressed 1311 01:01:13,080 --> 01:01:15,320 Speaker 4: on a mental level as well as systemic. I don't 1312 01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:18,400 Speaker 4: want to do that work, but I won't disregard to 1313 01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:20,120 Speaker 4: people who are saying that work needs to be done, 1314 01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:21,720 Speaker 4: because it does need to be done. 1315 01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:25,880 Speaker 5: You know, like Jeopardy has a very conservative audience. 1316 01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:29,880 Speaker 4: Jeopardy has a very conservative audience, and they avoid talking 1317 01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:35,360 Speaker 4: about politics. Alex Trebek wasn't a conservative dude. And now 1318 01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:38,480 Speaker 4: they're worried that Katie coming out and saying this shit 1319 01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:43,120 Speaker 4: not too long before hosting Jeopardy, like if she'll get 1320 01:01:43,200 --> 01:01:47,880 Speaker 4: some backlash for it, she's sixty four or whatever. But 1321 01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:50,200 Speaker 4: my thing is, like, I'm just glad she said it. 1322 01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:53,000 Speaker 4: Fuck it, Like, then if she gets backlash, that sucks. 1323 01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:56,440 Speaker 4: But I'm sure you didn't get sixty four expecting no 1324 01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:59,440 Speaker 4: backlash for saying that shit. You Like, there's a lot. 1325 01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:02,720 Speaker 1: Around long enough, trust somebody has pushed back being a 1326 01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:04,120 Speaker 1: woman in the position that she is. 1327 01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:06,480 Speaker 7: Somebody has not like some ship that she has said. 1328 01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:09,240 Speaker 5: These people need to be confronted. Absolutely. 1329 01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:15,280 Speaker 4: Part of the reason I worry about people avoiding the 1330 01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:18,760 Speaker 4: bring up the fact that there there's there's mental challenges 1331 01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:24,760 Speaker 4: amongst this constituency is because I think we then just 1332 01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:27,880 Speaker 4: kind of ignore that it's happening, right, you know what 1333 01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:29,960 Speaker 4: I mean, on the end of we ignore what it. 1334 01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:36,320 Speaker 4: Like I said, the the thing about Amazon about her father, 1335 01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:38,600 Speaker 4: the documentary with her father wise Fox News. 1336 01:02:38,320 --> 01:02:41,120 Speaker 7: And I don't remember, but I don't know exactly what's. 1337 01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:43,840 Speaker 4: Watching her father go from a Democrat to a to 1338 01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:45,400 Speaker 4: a staunch Republican. 1339 01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:47,880 Speaker 7: And then back yes, and then back when they. 1340 01:02:47,800 --> 01:02:50,640 Speaker 4: Turned off Fox News and took all his little fucking like. 1341 01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:52,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, made it so he couldn't have access to it. 1342 01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:56,880 Speaker 4: Watching that happen in real time, well, you know, in 1343 01:02:56,960 --> 01:03:01,680 Speaker 4: documentary time, it was like, oh, there's a lot of 1344 01:03:01,720 --> 01:03:03,120 Speaker 4: people that are going through that. 1345 01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:05,280 Speaker 5: What the fuck is happening there? 1346 01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:07,840 Speaker 7: Radicalization of my father something like I. 1347 01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:11,680 Speaker 4: Don't remember, Okay, Yeah, So it's just it's just like 1348 01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:14,600 Speaker 4: I think it's I think we do ourselves a disservice 1349 01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:16,360 Speaker 4: to dismiss that out out of hand. 1350 01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:19,000 Speaker 5: I don't think it's the only problem. 1351 01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:20,480 Speaker 4: I think just the fact that we even asked a 1352 01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:23,240 Speaker 4: question to make it it's this or it's that, right, 1353 01:03:23,400 --> 01:03:25,360 Speaker 4: It's like, I don't know, it's probably a little bit 1354 01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:28,760 Speaker 4: of both, because everything in the world is a little 1355 01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:29,280 Speaker 4: bit of both. 1356 01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:32,320 Speaker 5: Nothing can be separated into black and white here. 1357 01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:35,720 Speaker 4: Everything is a little bit of something like this motherfucker 1358 01:03:35,760 --> 01:03:39,880 Speaker 4: got some problems. And also, because like I said, if 1359 01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:43,240 Speaker 4: you have a therapist and you say, I'm you know 1360 01:03:43,480 --> 01:03:45,160 Speaker 4: these this is the way I view the world, and 1361 01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:47,800 Speaker 4: white people are the best and blah blah blah, I'm 1362 01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:50,640 Speaker 4: a white supremacist, that therapist is probably gonna be like, 1363 01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:54,040 Speaker 4: here's some here's some lessons and some exercises for you 1364 01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:57,280 Speaker 4: to do. They're not gonna say, here's how we dismantle 1365 01:03:57,360 --> 01:03:59,840 Speaker 4: this system. They're gonna be like, here's some things for 1366 01:03:59,880 --> 01:04:03,000 Speaker 4: your mental health to get you back to a healthy place, 1367 01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:05,760 Speaker 4: because where you're at is an unhealthy place. So I 1368 01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:08,320 Speaker 4: think we're trying to answer two questions at the same time, 1369 01:04:08,520 --> 01:04:12,080 Speaker 4: like what is this individually so socially that is fucked 1370 01:04:12,160 --> 01:04:15,360 Speaker 4: up with a lot of these folks, and then also 1371 01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:20,800 Speaker 4: what is it societally or and what is it systemically 1372 01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:24,000 Speaker 4: that is empowering these folks to even believe in this shit? 1373 01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:27,760 Speaker 4: Because our country empowers people to believe in this shit. 1374 01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:30,200 Speaker 4: So it's an easy lot of believe. But I feel 1375 01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:32,080 Speaker 4: the same way about that shit as I feel about 1376 01:04:32,120 --> 01:04:35,640 Speaker 4: brothers that used to be cool and now they whole hoteps. 1377 01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:38,000 Speaker 5: Whole as Yeah, like you were not on this shit. 1378 01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:38,760 Speaker 5: What happened? 1379 01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:42,360 Speaker 4: You started watching doctor Umar videos and now you're in 1380 01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:45,320 Speaker 4: a whole different reality than what we used to share 1381 01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:48,440 Speaker 4: in college. And I know you, so I know you 1382 01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:51,400 Speaker 4: weren't like that. This isn't speculation of now. They were 1383 01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:53,800 Speaker 4: secretly like this the whole time. No, you weren't like this. 1384 01:04:54,520 --> 01:04:57,160 Speaker 4: You kept going down this rabbit hole. And a part 1385 01:04:57,240 --> 01:04:58,880 Speaker 4: of a big part of this where I really don't 1386 01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:02,360 Speaker 4: want to dismiss it the Internet. We still don't know 1387 01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:04,040 Speaker 4: what the fuck the ship is doing in our brain, 1388 01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:07,400 Speaker 4: and we should not dismiss the power of this ship 1389 01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:09,800 Speaker 4: because it's being used to program people. 1390 01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:12,840 Speaker 5: So I think the word d program is pretty app there. 1391 01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:17,000 Speaker 1: Yes, it's just a lot of things. A this has 1392 01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:20,440 Speaker 1: started years ago, since Russe Limbaugh. A lot of people 1393 01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:24,360 Speaker 1: underestimate how fucking powerful that man was. Like, he has 1394 01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:27,440 Speaker 1: been doing this ship for decades, and he was prior 1395 01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:28,120 Speaker 1: to the Internet. 1396 01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:29,840 Speaker 7: The same shit is on the Internet. 1397 01:05:29,920 --> 01:05:33,400 Speaker 1: He has been spouting that ship for decades, and white 1398 01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:34,840 Speaker 1: people have been listening to him. 1399 01:05:34,960 --> 01:05:35,760 Speaker 7: For fucking ever. 1400 01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:39,920 Speaker 1: So he's already sending He was sending those messages messages 1401 01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:43,240 Speaker 1: out for years, way before the prominence of Fox News 1402 01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:46,400 Speaker 1: and all that shit. So it's literally he was. He 1403 01:05:46,600 --> 01:05:49,680 Speaker 1: was some of the foundation of it, and it just 1404 01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:52,480 Speaker 1: went from AM radio to the Internet. 1405 01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:54,400 Speaker 7: The message hasn't changed. 1406 01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:55,320 Speaker 5: The TV, DON'TI TV. 1407 01:05:55,760 --> 01:05:56,360 Speaker 7: That's what I'm saying that. 1408 01:05:56,440 --> 01:06:00,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, it went from from from radio to TV to 1409 01:06:00,160 --> 01:06:02,360 Speaker 1: the Internet. Like that's kind of how it went because 1410 01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:05,000 Speaker 1: the Internet is almost like the final evolution of it. 1411 01:06:05,320 --> 01:06:07,280 Speaker 1: And but once it got into the Internet, it spread 1412 01:06:07,320 --> 01:06:09,720 Speaker 1: like Wi Fi. Because the thing about the Internet is quicker, 1413 01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:14,080 Speaker 1: it's faster, it's instant, right that there's no rules or 1414 01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:16,680 Speaker 1: regulations of what you can say. But you can't say that, 1415 01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:19,200 Speaker 1: you know, there's there's nothing that has to validate truth. 1416 01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:22,440 Speaker 1: There's there's nothing, there's no checks and balances, you know, 1417 01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:24,880 Speaker 1: because even with the radio, you can only do so 1418 01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:27,760 Speaker 1: much because of the FCC and all this shit. Liken, 1419 01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:30,560 Speaker 1: with TV, there's only so much you can do because 1420 01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:32,680 Speaker 1: it's like, hey, we only you know, you can do 1421 01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:35,400 Speaker 1: this and say this, but we still have some forms. 1422 01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:37,600 Speaker 7: Of federal regulation on these things. 1423 01:06:37,800 --> 01:06:40,880 Speaker 1: Once you step out of the regulations and to the unregulated. 1424 01:06:41,160 --> 01:06:42,840 Speaker 1: This is when you get to the point that you 1425 01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:45,600 Speaker 1: draw all these different groups together. And the thing is, 1426 01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:49,040 Speaker 1: I agree with what you're saying as far as there 1427 01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:52,160 Speaker 1: are people that are mentally ill in racist right combined 1428 01:06:52,600 --> 01:06:55,680 Speaker 1: like like combined, But there are some people that are 1429 01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:59,640 Speaker 1: just racist. And so the thing is you try to 1430 01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:02,280 Speaker 1: throw the mentally ill on top and you try to 1431 01:07:02,320 --> 01:07:05,160 Speaker 1: say everybody that's racist is mentally ill to cover up 1432 01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:07,400 Speaker 1: the fact that no, fucker, you're just racist. 1433 01:07:07,480 --> 01:07:08,960 Speaker 7: There's nothing wrong with you. 1434 01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:13,120 Speaker 1: You have your mind functions, well, you have good sense. 1435 01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:16,000 Speaker 7: If I give you a IQ test, you fucking pass it. 1436 01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:18,360 Speaker 7: There's nothing wrong with you. You just got damn racist. 1437 01:07:18,600 --> 01:07:20,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree completely like and like I said, that's 1438 01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:23,440 Speaker 4: why it get confused, because we're trying to tackle a 1439 01:07:23,520 --> 01:07:26,560 Speaker 4: battle that's being far on multiple fronts and then label 1440 01:07:26,600 --> 01:07:30,080 Speaker 4: and then asking a really simplistic question, you know, or 1441 01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:30,840 Speaker 4: what's which one? 1442 01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:31,080 Speaker 7: Is? 1443 01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:31,160 Speaker 1: It? 1444 01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:34,240 Speaker 5: Really like, it's all the shit, all of. 1445 01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:35,000 Speaker 6: It, none of it. 1446 01:07:35,080 --> 01:07:37,480 Speaker 4: None of it can be dismissed because it is invaded. 1447 01:07:38,080 --> 01:07:40,560 Speaker 4: If we're gonna say it's pervasive, then it's pervasive in 1448 01:07:40,640 --> 01:07:43,640 Speaker 4: every aspect. It can't just be pervasive when it's convenient. 1449 01:07:43,680 --> 01:07:47,360 Speaker 5: And I think another part that really makes people. 1450 01:07:47,120 --> 01:07:51,240 Speaker 4: Feel a certain way about that is that people see 1451 01:07:52,040 --> 01:07:56,760 Speaker 4: mental health stuff as empathetic and sympathetic and and like, 1452 01:07:56,920 --> 01:07:58,160 Speaker 4: so I have to. 1453 01:07:58,080 --> 01:08:00,000 Speaker 5: Feel bad for you. You did so. 1454 01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:02,840 Speaker 4: And you have a certain issues with your brain chemistry, 1455 01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:06,280 Speaker 4: and so I have to feel bad. Great example, when 1456 01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:10,600 Speaker 4: this weekend or this last week in the NFL, white 1457 01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:15,200 Speaker 4: dude Chad Whiller beat up his black girlfriend and told 1458 01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:17,360 Speaker 4: her to bow to him and then physically assaulted her 1459 01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:19,640 Speaker 4: and tried to kill her, try to kill her with 1460 01:08:19,800 --> 01:08:22,479 Speaker 4: surprised she was able to survive, like herself in the 1461 01:08:22,520 --> 01:08:27,439 Speaker 4: bathroom of call the police he went to, he got arrested, 1462 01:08:27,680 --> 01:08:30,080 Speaker 4: They let him out on bond. Then they just charged 1463 01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:32,240 Speaker 4: them with like three fela need they escalated some of 1464 01:08:32,320 --> 01:08:35,120 Speaker 4: the charges and stuff like that once the story went viral. 1465 01:08:35,479 --> 01:08:38,280 Speaker 5: You know, you take it. Take that how you want 1466 01:08:38,320 --> 01:08:38,719 Speaker 5: to take. 1467 01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:41,080 Speaker 4: It, because I have my beliefs to why the police 1468 01:08:41,160 --> 01:08:46,880 Speaker 4: escalated charges. But people were like, Okay, so this is 1469 01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:50,840 Speaker 4: clearly a hate crime. People aren't talking about. This is 1470 01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:54,280 Speaker 4: domestic violence is in the NFL. Why y'all don't care? 1471 01:08:54,320 --> 01:08:56,240 Speaker 4: Blah blah blah. You know, even though I did see 1472 01:08:56,240 --> 01:08:57,720 Speaker 4: a lot of people talking about it. I don't want 1473 01:08:57,760 --> 01:09:00,120 Speaker 4: to try to act like no one was talking about it. 1474 01:09:00,640 --> 01:09:05,080 Speaker 4: But one of the main things I noticed from that 1475 01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:10,360 Speaker 4: was his his I don't even want to call it 1476 01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:15,200 Speaker 4: excuse because it's probably true, but his explanation was, I 1477 01:09:16,479 --> 01:09:20,840 Speaker 4: take medicine for my you know, my mental health. I 1478 01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:24,120 Speaker 4: had either like bipolar or something like that. I had 1479 01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:27,120 Speaker 4: a manic episode. This was a result of that. And 1480 01:09:27,160 --> 01:09:30,679 Speaker 4: some people's mania is that strong where they think they're God, 1481 01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:33,240 Speaker 4: where they can be violent things of this nature. 1482 01:09:33,760 --> 01:09:35,560 Speaker 5: And Pete, I saw people. 1483 01:09:35,360 --> 01:09:38,519 Speaker 4: Who normally on mental health advocates normally understanding when fuck, 1484 01:09:38,600 --> 01:09:43,040 Speaker 4: that's just excuse, that's bullshit, blah blah blah. And I'm like, right, 1485 01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:47,080 Speaker 4: because it's very inconvenient right now to have to go, well, 1486 01:09:47,080 --> 01:09:49,040 Speaker 4: that is a thing that can happen, and that can 1487 01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:52,439 Speaker 4: be not really you, you know, and that you were in 1488 01:09:52,479 --> 01:09:55,760 Speaker 4: the throes of mania. And because what we look at 1489 01:09:55,840 --> 01:09:57,800 Speaker 4: it at on the internet, not what we look at it, 1490 01:09:57,920 --> 01:09:59,840 Speaker 4: what it has become is a get out of jail 1491 01:09:59,840 --> 01:10:03,200 Speaker 4: for Carr. I can be a horrible person, I can 1492 01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:05,639 Speaker 4: do terrible things to you, and then I pull out 1493 01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:07,519 Speaker 4: this card and go I have mental health issues, and 1494 01:10:07,560 --> 01:10:10,000 Speaker 4: then you're supposed to go, Okay, well that was your 1495 01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:13,479 Speaker 4: anxiety talking. I'm not gonna And it's like, no, anyone 1496 01:10:13,520 --> 01:10:17,120 Speaker 4: that has to live with that will tell you, like managing. 1497 01:10:16,720 --> 01:10:19,760 Speaker 5: It is part of my life. It's part of my life. 1498 01:10:19,800 --> 01:10:23,440 Speaker 4: I don't get to ever check out and be like, yeah, 1499 01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:26,960 Speaker 4: I know I did terrible things to you, but you 1500 01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:29,439 Speaker 4: know how it is mental health stuff, right, and then 1501 01:10:29,560 --> 01:10:31,120 Speaker 4: just dap up and it didn't happen. 1502 01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:34,400 Speaker 5: No, it happened, right. Their consequences for what happened. 1503 01:10:34,120 --> 01:10:36,559 Speaker 1: Right, and and and also the thing is that goes 1504 01:10:36,600 --> 01:10:41,519 Speaker 1: back to that accountability part. You can have mental illness 1505 01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:44,040 Speaker 1: and still be held accountable for your actions. 1506 01:10:44,200 --> 01:10:46,160 Speaker 7: Both why do they have to be separate? 1507 01:10:46,680 --> 01:10:48,840 Speaker 1: And the thing is people want to separate them, like 1508 01:10:48,880 --> 01:10:51,840 Speaker 1: you say, the purpose of separating them is to not 1509 01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:54,400 Speaker 1: hold the person accountable for their actions and literally saying 1510 01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:55,640 Speaker 1: you can do what you want to do. But the 1511 01:10:55,720 --> 01:10:58,920 Speaker 1: thing is when it comes to mental illness, and what 1512 01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:01,680 Speaker 1: frustrates a lot of black people is that this get 1513 01:11:01,760 --> 01:11:03,920 Speaker 1: out a free car only happens for a certain group 1514 01:11:03,920 --> 01:11:06,400 Speaker 1: of people. Everybody else is held accountable. We don't care 1515 01:11:06,400 --> 01:11:08,880 Speaker 1: about you being mental illness, you black or brown person, 1516 01:11:09,280 --> 01:11:12,240 Speaker 1: you know, you go to jail, you know. But the 1517 01:11:12,320 --> 01:11:14,719 Speaker 1: thing is that that rule needs to be across the board. 1518 01:11:14,720 --> 01:11:16,280 Speaker 1: If we're gonna have this rule forever. 1519 01:11:16,479 --> 01:11:20,200 Speaker 4: What we see it as a as a mitigating circumstance 1520 01:11:20,320 --> 01:11:26,200 Speaker 4: that should change the penalty for your actions. That's how 1521 01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:28,280 Speaker 4: it's treated in the court of law and kind of 1522 01:11:28,320 --> 01:11:29,559 Speaker 4: in the qurt of public opinion. 1523 01:11:29,920 --> 01:11:33,000 Speaker 5: But in the court of public opinion, what happens is how. 1524 01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:34,960 Speaker 4: The justice system rescinds it when they don't like a 1525 01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:37,320 Speaker 4: certain type of person. We were sending it when we 1526 01:11:37,320 --> 01:11:39,360 Speaker 4: don't like a certain type of person, in this case, 1527 01:11:39,360 --> 01:11:41,360 Speaker 4: a white man beating a black woman. We were sinding 1528 01:11:41,360 --> 01:11:43,880 Speaker 4: that shit, ain't no mental health, bitch, yr ass needs 1529 01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:46,320 Speaker 4: to go to prison, prison, and we don't care. 1530 01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:46,880 Speaker 5: What the fuck. 1531 01:11:47,479 --> 01:11:49,439 Speaker 4: When it was Kanye West, who was clearly in the 1532 01:11:49,479 --> 01:11:52,560 Speaker 4: throes of mania, nobody cares and he was saying ridiculous 1533 01:11:52,560 --> 01:11:56,639 Speaker 4: shit that was so antifactual, anti true, ahistorical. I remember 1534 01:11:56,680 --> 01:12:00,000 Speaker 4: people being upset with our show when I'd be like, yeah, 1535 01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:00,679 Speaker 4: that dudes. 1536 01:12:00,479 --> 01:12:03,479 Speaker 5: Clearly have a manic episode. No he believes this. 1537 01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:06,479 Speaker 4: I'm like, I don't know if you ever known someone 1538 01:12:06,520 --> 01:12:09,599 Speaker 4: with mania. They believe what they're saying at the time. 1539 01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:14,160 Speaker 5: It does. Some people believe they're God, literally God. That's 1540 01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:14,799 Speaker 5: not true. 1541 01:12:14,920 --> 01:12:17,519 Speaker 4: I am not in the throes of mania. I know 1542 01:12:17,600 --> 01:12:18,280 Speaker 4: that's not true. 1543 01:12:18,720 --> 01:12:20,960 Speaker 5: They they would take a lot of techtive tests and 1544 01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:21,920 Speaker 5: they would pass. 1545 01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:24,120 Speaker 1: It because they believe it. 1546 01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:25,879 Speaker 5: So he slavery was a choice. 1547 01:12:26,280 --> 01:12:28,800 Speaker 4: Hey man, he's also in the same And if you're 1548 01:12:28,800 --> 01:12:30,280 Speaker 4: talking about how he had to go off his mass 1549 01:12:30,360 --> 01:12:33,360 Speaker 4: to make a good album, which was not very good to. 1550 01:12:33,360 --> 01:12:33,960 Speaker 5: A lot of people. 1551 01:12:34,040 --> 01:12:38,479 Speaker 4: So maybe the maybe it's not the black and white 1552 01:12:39,360 --> 01:12:42,440 Speaker 4: catch all that people have. Maybe it's something more complicated 1553 01:12:42,479 --> 01:12:45,040 Speaker 4: where what you said is fucked up. 1554 01:12:45,720 --> 01:12:46,680 Speaker 5: What you said. 1555 01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:49,400 Speaker 4: Also may be a result or did may also be 1556 01:12:49,479 --> 01:12:51,000 Speaker 4: a result of his mental health issues. 1557 01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:52,360 Speaker 5: And I think that's why we get so. 1558 01:12:52,400 --> 01:12:54,920 Speaker 4: Stuck because we want it one way or the other. 1559 01:12:54,960 --> 01:12:58,080 Speaker 4: We won't block or unblocked, follow, unfollow, mute or unmute. 1560 01:12:58,560 --> 01:13:00,240 Speaker 5: That's just not how life is gonna. 1561 01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:02,920 Speaker 1: Work, right, And there is some great area to that, 1562 01:13:03,280 --> 01:13:06,360 Speaker 1: because the thing is you do need to have compassion 1563 01:13:06,400 --> 01:13:07,559 Speaker 1: because of their middle illness. 1564 01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:09,240 Speaker 7: But at the same time, it's. 1565 01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:11,439 Speaker 1: Not a get out of get out of jail free card, 1566 01:13:12,120 --> 01:13:15,200 Speaker 1: and that's the things it can't be one extreme to 1567 01:13:15,280 --> 01:13:17,720 Speaker 1: through the other extreme. We can go, Okay, we have 1568 01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:22,320 Speaker 1: compassion because there's something wrong here, or because you got 1569 01:13:22,360 --> 01:13:24,880 Speaker 1: your medication, or whatever the case may be. But at 1570 01:13:24,880 --> 01:13:28,120 Speaker 1: the same time we there needs to be some consequences. 1571 01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:31,320 Speaker 1: We need to maybe separate you from society, like something 1572 01:13:31,360 --> 01:13:34,080 Speaker 1: needs to happen every and every consequence may not need 1573 01:13:34,080 --> 01:13:36,160 Speaker 1: to be jailed, but that need that there needs to 1574 01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:38,200 Speaker 1: put in our society, particularly here in America, like go 1575 01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:39,519 Speaker 1: to jail, go to jail, go to jail. 1576 01:13:39,680 --> 01:13:40,679 Speaker 7: Everything might not need. 1577 01:13:40,520 --> 01:13:42,639 Speaker 5: To be sometimes and sometimes it gotta be jail. 1578 01:13:42,720 --> 01:13:46,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, now, sometimes it gotta be jail. Sometimes some people 1579 01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:48,080 Speaker 7: it might not need to be the extent of jail. 1580 01:13:48,520 --> 01:13:51,880 Speaker 4: We agree, Like I said, this conversation is very reflective 1581 01:13:51,920 --> 01:13:54,559 Speaker 4: of how I've been thinking about this ship for a 1582 01:13:54,600 --> 01:13:58,400 Speaker 4: while now. While I'm like, like the way people talk 1583 01:13:58,439 --> 01:14:02,400 Speaker 4: about stigmatizing mental illness and and I and I agree 1584 01:14:02,439 --> 01:14:05,960 Speaker 4: that there are stigmas around it and stuff all the time, 1585 01:14:06,280 --> 01:14:09,679 Speaker 4: you know, but partial part of that is how much 1586 01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:12,160 Speaker 4: we buy into it as the idea just get out 1587 01:14:12,200 --> 01:14:12,720 Speaker 4: of jail free. 1588 01:14:12,720 --> 01:14:14,439 Speaker 5: Guard. Part of that is. 1589 01:14:14,360 --> 01:14:19,720 Speaker 4: When we think we're allowing someone's mental health to overshadow 1590 01:14:19,760 --> 01:14:22,120 Speaker 4: what they do or what they say. And I'm like, 1591 01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:24,840 Speaker 4: if we would stop, if we would, if you really 1592 01:14:24,880 --> 01:14:26,120 Speaker 4: want to normalize. 1593 01:14:25,680 --> 01:14:29,000 Speaker 5: It, then we have to treat people like, hey, I. 1594 01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:31,000 Speaker 4: Understand you're dealing with this, you also have to be 1595 01:14:31,040 --> 01:14:36,599 Speaker 4: responsible so you so we can't just say you tried 1596 01:14:36,640 --> 01:14:40,960 Speaker 4: to storm the capital, but you also deal with some 1597 01:14:41,120 --> 01:14:44,599 Speaker 4: issues around mania, so we just gonna let it slide. 1598 01:14:44,680 --> 01:14:46,920 Speaker 5: No, you still are going to get in trouble for that. 1599 01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:49,800 Speaker 4: Like we can't just let that and and not and 1600 01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:52,519 Speaker 4: know not all of y'all are that. That's for the 1601 01:14:52,520 --> 01:14:54,599 Speaker 4: people that have a history that some of y'all are 1602 01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:57,880 Speaker 4: just like you said, racist, white supremacist, and your ass 1603 01:14:57,880 --> 01:14:59,519 Speaker 4: just got to go to jail too, Like it is 1604 01:14:59,640 --> 01:15:02,280 Speaker 4: like I think that's what fucks people up so bad, 1605 01:15:02,439 --> 01:15:04,280 Speaker 4: is that they want a catch all, even the way 1606 01:15:04,320 --> 01:15:07,200 Speaker 4: our justice system is, it's a catch alls twenty years, 1607 01:15:07,240 --> 01:15:10,040 Speaker 4: five years, six months, just but it's but that's not 1608 01:15:10,120 --> 01:15:12,360 Speaker 4: true and it doesn't work out that way, right, Like, 1609 01:15:12,439 --> 01:15:14,600 Speaker 4: once you actually get it put it in practice, you 1610 01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:17,080 Speaker 4: start seeing a lot of loopholes, a lot of well. 1611 01:15:16,960 --> 01:15:19,960 Speaker 5: This person had to extenuated circumstance. So we we want 1612 01:15:20,080 --> 01:15:22,439 Speaker 5: a lot for everything, but I don't think we can. 1613 01:15:22,560 --> 01:15:26,040 Speaker 4: I think individually, Yeah, individually is the only way you're 1614 01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:28,080 Speaker 4: gonna have to be able to interrogate this ship. Because 1615 01:15:28,520 --> 01:15:32,280 Speaker 4: some just like that fucking Capital insurrection. Some of the 1616 01:15:32,320 --> 01:15:34,600 Speaker 4: motherfuckers came up there with zip ties and guns and 1617 01:15:34,640 --> 01:15:37,479 Speaker 4: a plan, and some of the motherfuckers came in there 1618 01:15:37,520 --> 01:15:44,320 Speaker 4: to selfies, and some motherfuckers, uh really had no business 1619 01:15:44,320 --> 01:15:46,120 Speaker 4: being out there. You know, you can listen to their 1620 01:15:46,160 --> 01:15:48,800 Speaker 4: families talk. I know people don't like to have any 1621 01:15:48,800 --> 01:15:51,120 Speaker 4: sympathy and shit, right, but you listening to their families talking, 1622 01:15:51,200 --> 01:15:56,599 Speaker 4: it's like they're like, we had this person had been 1623 01:15:56,600 --> 01:15:59,280 Speaker 4: having issues for a very long time, and we basically 1624 01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:03,240 Speaker 4: lost them to these conspiracies and this white supremacy shit. 1625 01:16:03,840 --> 01:16:07,200 Speaker 4: And to me, I'm like, I hope you're just as 1626 01:16:07,360 --> 01:16:11,120 Speaker 4: anti white supremacy as I am then, because to me, 1627 01:16:11,240 --> 01:16:13,559 Speaker 4: that's the kind of thing that that lured your family 1628 01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:17,840 Speaker 4: member in because because they're attracted to that, and you know, 1629 01:16:17,920 --> 01:16:19,240 Speaker 4: we talk about white supremacy. 1630 01:16:19,280 --> 01:16:21,320 Speaker 5: But to me, I look at that shit like religion. 1631 01:16:21,439 --> 01:16:23,719 Speaker 4: There's a lot of people that are super religious because 1632 01:16:24,439 --> 01:16:28,840 Speaker 4: mental Kanye super religious drawn to religion. 1633 01:16:28,720 --> 01:16:30,479 Speaker 5: Because of that. That happens all the time. 1634 01:16:30,600 --> 01:16:33,160 Speaker 4: Like if we don't want to talk about it, or 1635 01:16:33,200 --> 01:16:35,160 Speaker 4: we just turn it into get out of jail free 1636 01:16:35,280 --> 01:16:37,879 Speaker 4: or good versus bad, then I feel like the discussions 1637 01:16:37,920 --> 01:16:40,600 Speaker 4: always end at the same place, which is telling a 1638 01:16:40,640 --> 01:16:42,519 Speaker 4: bunch of people not to say nothing, which I'm like, 1639 01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:44,280 Speaker 4: so then we just ignoring shit. 1640 01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:45,519 Speaker 7: Right, and I'm gonna keep it. 1641 01:16:45,600 --> 01:16:47,880 Speaker 1: Really, if you actually want to get deep, really really 1642 01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:50,559 Speaker 1: really deep, a lot of Americans compliant every time they 1643 01:16:50,600 --> 01:16:52,760 Speaker 1: taxes go up. We're gonna have to pay taxes regardless. 1644 01:16:52,920 --> 01:16:55,120 Speaker 1: But if you really want to fix this issue, a 1645 01:16:55,160 --> 01:16:57,240 Speaker 1: lot of people, particularly black and brown people, their donn 1646 01:16:57,360 --> 01:16:59,839 Speaker 1: list to get their family members help for these manias 1647 01:16:59,840 --> 01:17:02,439 Speaker 1: and for these issues where they can't get the medication, 1648 01:17:02,640 --> 01:17:04,479 Speaker 1: or if they get it, they can't afford the medication. 1649 01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:06,760 Speaker 1: They're on waiting lists to get into the hospitals and 1650 01:17:06,800 --> 01:17:07,400 Speaker 1: these places. 1651 01:17:07,479 --> 01:17:08,720 Speaker 7: So if we really want to. 1652 01:17:08,640 --> 01:17:10,920 Speaker 1: Fix this problem, and we really have this compassion that 1653 01:17:10,960 --> 01:17:13,600 Speaker 1: we claim, we have, raise people taxes so that you 1654 01:17:13,720 --> 01:17:16,640 Speaker 1: had enough money flooding into the system so that you 1655 01:17:16,680 --> 01:17:18,880 Speaker 1: could get these people the help that they needed. 1656 01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:22,800 Speaker 4: Like, we don't have social safety nets in America because 1657 01:17:22,800 --> 01:17:26,920 Speaker 4: we believe in capitalism so much so people like you know, 1658 01:17:27,040 --> 01:17:30,720 Speaker 4: often even the way that mental health is addressed onlines 1659 01:17:30,960 --> 01:17:32,639 Speaker 4: mostly from a privilege point of view. 1660 01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:34,240 Speaker 5: Because that's everybody. 1661 01:17:34,240 --> 01:17:38,080 Speaker 4: Everyone you're hearing is everybody that could afford therapy, everybody 1662 01:17:38,080 --> 01:17:41,479 Speaker 4: that could get help, everyone that got everyone that got 1663 01:17:41,560 --> 01:17:44,719 Speaker 4: lucked out, everyone that got a job. You're not hearing 1664 01:17:44,760 --> 01:17:46,839 Speaker 4: from that person that you see on the street talking 1665 01:17:46,840 --> 01:17:48,519 Speaker 4: to themselves or whatever. 1666 01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:51,840 Speaker 5: You're not hearing that person's not doing a panel, you 1667 01:17:51,840 --> 01:17:53,720 Speaker 5: know what I mean. So like even the way we 1668 01:17:53,800 --> 01:17:54,200 Speaker 5: hear it. 1669 01:17:54,160 --> 01:17:56,679 Speaker 4: Is very privileged, Like it's it's just a big ass 1670 01:17:56,720 --> 01:17:59,400 Speaker 4: problem that's not easy to solve and very difficult to 1671 01:17:59,439 --> 01:17:59,920 Speaker 4: talk about. 1672 01:18:00,280 --> 01:18:00,439 Speaker 1: You know. 1673 01:18:00,640 --> 01:18:02,880 Speaker 5: You just hope people come at it from a from 1674 01:18:02,880 --> 01:18:03,840 Speaker 5: a good point of view. 1675 01:18:03,880 --> 01:18:06,320 Speaker 4: But I feel like so many discussions on quote unquote 1676 01:18:06,360 --> 01:18:08,679 Speaker 4: our side of the table is about what you can't say, 1677 01:18:09,280 --> 01:18:11,959 Speaker 4: and not about where your heart is and what matters 1678 01:18:12,000 --> 01:18:15,200 Speaker 4: and what kind of solutions we can find and what 1679 01:18:15,280 --> 01:18:18,320 Speaker 4: the problem actually is. It's just so much about policing. 1680 01:18:18,800 --> 01:18:22,080 Speaker 4: Whether did you say this right? It's like I don't 1681 01:18:22,080 --> 01:18:24,599 Speaker 4: know if I said it right, but can you pick 1682 01:18:24,680 --> 01:18:26,800 Speaker 4: up what I'm saying? Do you see any merit in 1683 01:18:26,840 --> 01:18:29,320 Speaker 4: what the fuck I'm saying? Like that shit, that shit 1684 01:18:29,360 --> 01:18:32,760 Speaker 4: should matter. So, like I said, it's a hell of 1685 01:18:32,760 --> 01:18:36,439 Speaker 4: a nut to crack because you know, Katie Currit kind 1686 01:18:36,479 --> 01:18:39,920 Speaker 4: of hits on it where it's like deprogramming, and people, 1687 01:18:39,960 --> 01:18:42,080 Speaker 4: I know, people backlash that word. And I was just like, 1688 01:18:43,320 --> 01:18:45,960 Speaker 4: are y'all sure that some of these motherfuckers don't need 1689 01:18:46,439 --> 01:18:50,080 Speaker 4: some actual, like literal D programming, not like some figurative shit, 1690 01:18:50,160 --> 01:18:52,200 Speaker 4: but like some actual. 1691 01:18:51,880 --> 01:18:54,200 Speaker 1: D program You need to find out what the root 1692 01:18:54,280 --> 01:18:57,040 Speaker 1: calls because for a lot of them, it's very variations 1693 01:18:57,080 --> 01:18:59,120 Speaker 1: of why they feel like just like like, but the 1694 01:19:00,240 --> 01:19:02,840 Speaker 1: ita is the same, the variations in how they got there. 1695 01:19:03,200 --> 01:19:05,240 Speaker 7: Find out the variations and find out how to see. 1696 01:19:05,200 --> 01:19:06,160 Speaker 5: Some individual things. 1697 01:19:06,240 --> 01:19:09,759 Speaker 4: Yes, obviously, Yeah, Joe Conscious said. This sort of rhetoric 1698 01:19:09,840 --> 01:19:13,519 Speaker 4: from Carrick, which comes across as so condescending and elitist, 1699 01:19:13,840 --> 01:19:16,719 Speaker 4: underscores a the vibe between our media, which primarily resides 1700 01:19:16,760 --> 01:19:19,000 Speaker 4: in New York and Washington, probably where he's at, and 1701 01:19:19,040 --> 01:19:21,519 Speaker 4: the rest of the country, which is moderate to center 1702 01:19:21,600 --> 01:19:24,840 Speaker 4: right per multiple polls, And it's why the industry is 1703 01:19:24,880 --> 01:19:29,640 Speaker 4: so mistrusted and frowned upon he's a person getting. 1704 01:19:29,320 --> 01:19:31,160 Speaker 5: A check to exacerbate the problem. 1705 01:19:31,320 --> 01:19:33,640 Speaker 4: Yes, he's a person that gets a check to go 1706 01:19:33,720 --> 01:19:38,000 Speaker 4: on TV and hopefully come across that person who will 1707 01:19:38,040 --> 01:19:43,000 Speaker 4: be fascinated by these talking points, by this rhetoric, and 1708 01:19:43,040 --> 01:19:44,760 Speaker 4: to lead them further and further. 1709 01:19:44,520 --> 01:19:46,800 Speaker 5: Down a path to where they only listen to them. 1710 01:19:47,120 --> 01:19:49,800 Speaker 4: If you've ever taken a second even see something from 1711 01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:54,920 Speaker 4: Fox News, it's always is very weird, insular coat, like only. 1712 01:19:54,720 --> 01:19:55,559 Speaker 5: Listening to us. 1713 01:19:55,800 --> 01:19:59,160 Speaker 4: You can't trust nobody but us, your family is cut 1714 01:19:59,200 --> 01:20:01,920 Speaker 4: them off. Listen to the Daily where they were talking 1715 01:20:01,920 --> 01:20:03,679 Speaker 4: to some of these Q and on people. Because I've 1716 01:20:03,720 --> 01:20:06,360 Speaker 4: really when I tell y'all cut a lot of this 1717 01:20:06,360 --> 01:20:09,519 Speaker 4: shit off, I meant it. I didn't even know shit 1718 01:20:09,600 --> 01:20:12,000 Speaker 4: about Q and nine people, Like I didn't know shit 1719 01:20:12,080 --> 01:20:15,280 Speaker 4: about Q and q A nine for a long fucking 1720 01:20:15,320 --> 01:20:16,080 Speaker 4: time because I was. 1721 01:20:16,120 --> 01:20:18,160 Speaker 1: Just heard of, not trying funny, I just heard of 1722 01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:21,280 Speaker 1: that that recently, Like you know what I'm saying, because I'm. 1723 01:20:21,600 --> 01:20:23,800 Speaker 4: As big as it was. I just kept being like, 1724 01:20:23,880 --> 01:20:27,880 Speaker 4: that's white people. Shit is nothing good over there. Why 1725 01:20:27,920 --> 01:20:29,080 Speaker 4: would I even give a fuck? 1726 01:20:29,280 --> 01:20:29,400 Speaker 7: Right? 1727 01:20:29,640 --> 01:20:31,760 Speaker 5: And people go, well, all we do is talk to 1728 01:20:31,800 --> 01:20:33,640 Speaker 5: these white people. Well guess who ain't been reading none 1729 01:20:33,680 --> 01:20:33,880 Speaker 5: of it. 1730 01:20:33,960 --> 01:20:34,040 Speaker 1: Me. 1731 01:20:34,400 --> 01:20:36,600 Speaker 4: Come on, I don't read nothing about Trump people in 1732 01:20:36,600 --> 01:20:37,400 Speaker 4: the Midwest. 1733 01:20:37,520 --> 01:20:40,120 Speaker 5: I don't read nothing about econom anxiety. So I've been 1734 01:20:40,160 --> 01:20:42,080 Speaker 5: avoiding the shit for over four years. 1735 01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:42,679 Speaker 7: I don't care. 1736 01:20:43,080 --> 01:20:46,120 Speaker 4: But finally on the day they did a good episode 1737 01:20:46,439 --> 01:20:48,559 Speaker 4: and I said, let me listen and shit, and it 1738 01:20:48,680 --> 01:20:50,920 Speaker 4: was what the fuck happened to the q Andine people 1739 01:20:50,960 --> 01:20:54,120 Speaker 4: after they conspiracy that Trump was gonna overthrow the government 1740 01:20:54,160 --> 01:20:56,040 Speaker 4: on the inauguration day? What do they do now that 1741 01:20:56,160 --> 01:20:58,559 Speaker 4: we know for a fact it didn't happen, right, And 1742 01:20:58,600 --> 01:21:01,240 Speaker 4: so they're talking to these people and some are disillusioned, 1743 01:21:01,439 --> 01:21:06,000 Speaker 4: some are heard, some are upset something. There must be 1744 01:21:06,040 --> 01:21:09,000 Speaker 4: another step to the conspiracy that's gonna happen. And I 1745 01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:11,559 Speaker 4: was listening shit, and there's this one woman who. 1746 01:21:11,400 --> 01:21:13,559 Speaker 5: Was talking about how she lost her whole family. 1747 01:21:14,120 --> 01:21:17,720 Speaker 4: She cut off her whole friends and family for this. 1748 01:21:18,200 --> 01:21:20,960 Speaker 4: Because the reporter asked like, well, do you mind if 1749 01:21:21,000 --> 01:21:22,720 Speaker 4: I talk to your sister because you said that you 1750 01:21:22,760 --> 01:21:25,160 Speaker 4: and your sister haven't talked, and you know, I would 1751 01:21:25,160 --> 01:21:27,280 Speaker 4: like to see, like what's her experience. She was like, no, 1752 01:21:27,640 --> 01:21:30,599 Speaker 4: don't talk to her. And he was like, I mean, 1753 01:21:30,640 --> 01:21:32,960 Speaker 4: I'm not. I'm just gonna ask her about this specifically. 1754 01:21:33,080 --> 01:21:35,000 Speaker 4: She's like, Nope, don't even go talk to her. And 1755 01:21:35,040 --> 01:21:37,679 Speaker 4: I'm like, if you're telling me that's not a cult, 1756 01:21:37,840 --> 01:21:39,439 Speaker 4: I don't know what the fuck to tell you, right. 1757 01:21:39,680 --> 01:21:42,000 Speaker 7: But the thing is they can still bypass her and 1758 01:21:42,040 --> 01:21:42,439 Speaker 7: reach out. 1759 01:21:42,320 --> 01:21:46,240 Speaker 4: To because in our minds we think, well, it's white supremacy, 1760 01:21:46,320 --> 01:21:48,760 Speaker 4: all white people into it, or most white people into it, 1761 01:21:49,000 --> 01:21:52,479 Speaker 4: or if they're not into it, they tolerated her family. 1762 01:21:53,000 --> 01:21:55,439 Speaker 4: She is essentially like she cut her family off because 1763 01:21:55,439 --> 01:21:58,720 Speaker 4: they said this is too much, right, and she was like, 1764 01:21:58,840 --> 01:22:02,360 Speaker 4: fuck y'all in Trump is overthrown the government on the 1765 01:22:02,400 --> 01:22:05,000 Speaker 4: twentieth and that means I don't have friends or family 1766 01:22:05,640 --> 01:22:08,360 Speaker 4: who because they don't believe me, because they don't support me, 1767 01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:10,880 Speaker 4: then I just won't do it because the internet will 1768 01:22:10,920 --> 01:22:13,320 Speaker 4: be my friends and a message board will be my family. 1769 01:22:13,920 --> 01:22:16,040 Speaker 4: And that shit was I was just like, Yep, there's 1770 01:22:16,080 --> 01:22:19,760 Speaker 4: something wrong with that woman. In addition to what like 1771 01:22:19,840 --> 01:22:23,000 Speaker 4: her believing in white supremacy and in my opinion, being 1772 01:22:23,000 --> 01:22:25,280 Speaker 4: a white supremacist. I'm sure she wouldn't say herself that 1773 01:22:25,400 --> 01:22:27,640 Speaker 4: she was, but I think you can't believe in that 1774 01:22:27,720 --> 01:22:31,320 Speaker 4: Q shit without being one. But something is in addition 1775 01:22:31,400 --> 01:22:33,639 Speaker 4: to that, something is also wrong with you. 1776 01:22:33,720 --> 01:22:35,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, and also it's. 1777 01:22:35,280 --> 01:22:39,320 Speaker 1: One of those things to where they go to such 1778 01:22:39,479 --> 01:22:42,200 Speaker 1: extreme and a lot of people, even on the left 1779 01:22:42,320 --> 01:22:44,519 Speaker 1: do this. Like people look at that and they be like, well, 1780 01:22:44,520 --> 01:22:46,080 Speaker 1: I don't fit on empathy and sympathy for her by 1781 01:22:46,080 --> 01:22:46,919 Speaker 1: bye bye byeh. 1782 01:22:46,680 --> 01:22:49,559 Speaker 7: Okay, I get that. I get that, But sometimes people 1783 01:22:49,600 --> 01:22:50,439 Speaker 7: don't left do it too. 1784 01:22:50,479 --> 01:22:52,400 Speaker 1: They call off their friends, they call off their family, 1785 01:22:52,800 --> 01:22:56,840 Speaker 1: and their whole life revolves around everything that happens on 1786 01:22:56,880 --> 01:22:59,679 Speaker 1: the internet. And this is why for some people they're 1787 01:22:59,680 --> 01:23:03,280 Speaker 1: so hurt, they're so destroyed, and they're so distraught once 1788 01:23:03,320 --> 01:23:06,120 Speaker 1: it turns against them, because the internet will turn against 1789 01:23:06,120 --> 01:23:08,800 Speaker 1: you or either you go out there reaching for help 1790 01:23:09,080 --> 01:23:11,400 Speaker 1: and they're like, no, bitch, we don't want anything to 1791 01:23:11,439 --> 01:23:12,040 Speaker 1: do with you. 1792 01:23:12,040 --> 01:23:14,479 Speaker 7: Your loser or whatever it is may happen. 1793 01:23:14,680 --> 01:23:16,640 Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden, you're left alone and 1794 01:23:16,680 --> 01:23:19,639 Speaker 1: guess what, the people on the computer aren't there anymore. 1795 01:23:19,760 --> 01:23:21,880 Speaker 1: So then you have to deal with real life. So 1796 01:23:22,040 --> 01:23:24,160 Speaker 1: what is she going to do now? And that's the thing, 1797 01:23:24,560 --> 01:23:25,880 Speaker 1: it's not I mean, that's the thing. 1798 01:23:25,960 --> 01:23:29,320 Speaker 4: These tactics are well documented this point and you're right, 1799 01:23:29,400 --> 01:23:31,599 Speaker 4: it's not just a Republican conservative thing. 1800 01:23:32,280 --> 01:23:33,720 Speaker 5: But it's I don't know. 1801 01:23:33,800 --> 01:23:35,639 Speaker 4: When I hear people talk about this shit, my ears 1802 01:23:35,680 --> 01:23:38,080 Speaker 4: perk up and I pay attention because I don't feel 1803 01:23:38,120 --> 01:23:41,760 Speaker 4: like ignoring the shit or just writing it off is 1804 01:23:42,160 --> 01:23:43,880 Speaker 4: the smart thing to do, because I think the problem 1805 01:23:43,920 --> 01:23:47,519 Speaker 4: will keep growing as long as everyone's going, man, it 1806 01:23:47,560 --> 01:23:51,880 Speaker 4: ain't me or whatever, or man, you you just feel 1807 01:23:51,880 --> 01:23:54,120 Speaker 4: this way, like, nah, we should probably find out what 1808 01:23:54,120 --> 01:23:57,760 Speaker 4: the fuck is wrong and why this is growing, and 1809 01:23:57,800 --> 01:24:01,599 Speaker 4: why this isn't being fucking regulated like correct, because because 1810 01:24:01,840 --> 01:24:03,840 Speaker 4: to say, the other thing is if they would have 1811 01:24:04,160 --> 01:24:06,519 Speaker 4: regulated this ship when black people were complaining about this 1812 01:24:06,520 --> 01:24:09,200 Speaker 4: ship when social media started ten years ago, if they 1813 01:24:09,200 --> 01:24:12,000 Speaker 4: would have regulated it, then we would not have these 1814 01:24:12,000 --> 01:24:12,960 Speaker 4: problems now. 1815 01:24:13,640 --> 01:24:15,840 Speaker 5: But everyone just wrote the ship off. Man. 1816 01:24:15,960 --> 01:24:19,280 Speaker 4: It's it's amazing how many people just are like, it's 1817 01:24:19,320 --> 01:24:21,679 Speaker 4: not a big deal or it's just how they are. 1818 01:24:22,120 --> 01:24:24,800 Speaker 5: It's not it's not yeah, it's not freedom. 1819 01:24:24,439 --> 01:24:29,639 Speaker 1: Of speed, right, you know, So anyways, out. 1820 01:24:29,439 --> 01:24:31,439 Speaker 7: Of control to the to the point that they marched 1821 01:24:31,520 --> 01:24:32,240 Speaker 7: up to the capitol. 1822 01:24:32,520 --> 01:24:33,679 Speaker 5: Katie Curried got a point. 1823 01:24:33,720 --> 01:24:37,360 Speaker 4: I'm just saying, come on, deprogrammed these motherfuckers. You know 1824 01:24:37,439 --> 01:24:40,880 Speaker 4: you get offended by that terminology as a you know, 1825 01:24:41,000 --> 01:24:43,840 Speaker 4: then you probably either benefiting from the grift on these 1826 01:24:43,880 --> 01:24:47,400 Speaker 4: people or you know you, like me, you just wrote 1827 01:24:47,400 --> 01:24:50,599 Speaker 4: them off because I don't blame you, but still, somebody 1828 01:24:50,680 --> 01:24:51,439 Speaker 4: need to do this work. 1829 01:24:53,200 --> 01:24:59,240 Speaker 5: All right, Let's see what else happened. How long we've 1830 01:24:59,280 --> 01:25:01,080 Speaker 5: been talking hour and a half. 1831 01:25:01,200 --> 01:25:03,080 Speaker 4: Let me see what else we can talk about. Let's 1832 01:25:03,120 --> 01:25:04,280 Speaker 4: move to another segment. 1833 01:25:05,160 --> 01:25:06,120 Speaker 5: How about. 1834 01:25:08,880 --> 01:25:12,720 Speaker 4: I skipped coronavirus and the election news. Huh, let's do 1835 01:25:12,800 --> 01:25:13,360 Speaker 4: that tomorrow. 1836 01:25:13,840 --> 01:25:14,160 Speaker 7: We can. 1837 01:25:14,360 --> 01:25:16,040 Speaker 5: I don't feel like talking about this ship. 1838 01:25:16,280 --> 01:25:16,960 Speaker 7: We don't have to. 1839 01:25:17,360 --> 01:25:24,640 Speaker 4: Uh, let's do some do some guests the rights. All right, 1840 01:25:24,760 --> 01:25:27,920 Speaker 4: let's do some guests the rights. That will that'll make 1841 01:25:28,000 --> 01:25:32,639 Speaker 4: me feel good, make me feel good. Shoutut to Holly 1842 01:25:35,240 --> 01:25:36,880 Speaker 4: all rights music. 1843 01:25:39,360 --> 01:25:57,439 Speaker 6: Well time, Oh here we go, all right, right right, 1844 01:26:02,640 --> 01:26:03,120 Speaker 6: the race? 1845 01:26:07,800 --> 01:26:08,439 Speaker 5: Guess the race? 1846 01:26:08,520 --> 01:26:10,599 Speaker 4: Gay, We go all right, the globe, find different articles, 1847 01:26:10,720 --> 01:26:13,479 Speaker 4: and we guess the race of the people involved. Karen 1848 01:26:13,640 --> 01:26:20,519 Speaker 4: plays along as well as the chat room. Okay, shout 1849 01:26:20,520 --> 01:26:22,680 Speaker 4: out to white supremacist, because that's what we about to 1850 01:26:22,760 --> 01:26:25,639 Speaker 4: call out these all these names we about to call 1851 01:26:25,720 --> 01:26:32,360 Speaker 4: people in this segment selfish this morning fan slam influencer 1852 01:26:32,439 --> 01:26:37,080 Speaker 4: who insists Dubai holiday was a central work trip necessary 1853 01:26:37,160 --> 01:26:42,800 Speaker 4: for her mental health. This morning, fans have been left 1854 01:26:42,840 --> 01:26:47,560 Speaker 4: fuming at the fitness influencer Sheridan Mordieu, appeared on the 1855 01:26:47,600 --> 01:26:50,439 Speaker 4: show to insist that her Dubai holiday was an essential 1856 01:26:50,479 --> 01:26:54,680 Speaker 4: work trip necessary for her mental health. Hosts Philip Schofield 1857 01:26:54,800 --> 01:26:59,400 Speaker 4: and Holly Willoughby appeared to be equally unimpressed with Sheridan's claims, 1858 01:26:59,439 --> 01:27:02,400 Speaker 4: with hollyqu point out that the rules on travel have 1859 01:27:02,520 --> 01:27:04,000 Speaker 4: always been clear and have nothing to. 1860 01:27:04,040 --> 01:27:05,000 Speaker 5: Do with mental well being. 1861 01:27:06,120 --> 01:27:09,519 Speaker 4: That's that mental health catch all, man telling you man, 1862 01:27:09,960 --> 01:27:12,080 Speaker 4: it's that get out of jail free carve that's always 1863 01:27:12,120 --> 01:27:15,920 Speaker 4: been monetized on the internet, or not monetized commodified on 1864 01:27:16,000 --> 01:27:16,479 Speaker 4: the internet. 1865 01:27:17,280 --> 01:27:19,280 Speaker 5: Like that shit is a real hindrance. 1866 01:27:21,479 --> 01:27:24,240 Speaker 4: I cannot sometimes I cannot imagine what it's like being 1867 01:27:24,280 --> 01:27:26,720 Speaker 4: a therapist right now, because. 1868 01:27:26,479 --> 01:27:30,519 Speaker 5: Motherfuckers will really be like, not fuck what your job is. 1869 01:27:31,200 --> 01:27:34,080 Speaker 4: Like, we'll tweet about go get therapy, but then people 1870 01:27:34,120 --> 01:27:36,080 Speaker 4: tweet all the time the therapists told them some shit 1871 01:27:36,160 --> 01:27:39,560 Speaker 4: and they be on Twitter like Nope, come give me 1872 01:27:39,680 --> 01:27:41,840 Speaker 4: these likes and retweets and tell me the opposite of 1873 01:27:41,920 --> 01:27:45,200 Speaker 4: what therapist told me, like this shit is wild man, 1874 01:27:45,400 --> 01:27:48,080 Speaker 4: and then people that actually take it seriously are like, 1875 01:27:48,479 --> 01:27:51,200 Speaker 4: I didn't like it, but goddamn well my feelings was 1876 01:27:51,280 --> 01:27:53,960 Speaker 4: heard or you know it shit, Well, it's still a 1877 01:27:54,240 --> 01:27:58,599 Speaker 4: patient doctor relationship, you know, the same way I wouldn't 1878 01:27:58,600 --> 01:28:00,400 Speaker 4: expect some therapists to be on Twitter are telling me 1879 01:28:00,439 --> 01:28:02,880 Speaker 4: your business is interesting how we pull the thing. But 1880 01:28:03,439 --> 01:28:05,360 Speaker 4: the thing is your therapist knows more than we do 1881 01:28:05,439 --> 01:28:07,800 Speaker 4: on Twitter, of course, like you sat in that room 1882 01:28:07,840 --> 01:28:10,479 Speaker 4: with them for hours and they didn't give you that 1883 01:28:10,560 --> 01:28:13,680 Speaker 4: advice out of nowhere. It's just funny to listen to 1884 01:28:13,760 --> 01:28:17,680 Speaker 4: people on the internet and how our minds work, right, 1885 01:28:17,880 --> 01:28:19,920 Speaker 4: you know, Like if I said my therapist told me 1886 01:28:20,200 --> 01:28:24,160 Speaker 4: to do an exercise where I say hello to three 1887 01:28:24,200 --> 01:28:27,760 Speaker 4: people every day because I'm trying to overcome some other issue, right, 1888 01:28:28,160 --> 01:28:29,519 Speaker 4: And I go on Twitter and say, but I don't 1889 01:28:29,520 --> 01:28:31,679 Speaker 4: want to tell people hello, fuck people, people's terrible. 1890 01:28:32,040 --> 01:28:33,200 Speaker 5: People will co sign that. 1891 01:28:33,400 --> 01:28:36,040 Speaker 4: People will have my back. They don't know about fucking 1892 01:28:36,080 --> 01:28:38,879 Speaker 4: therapist or what we've been talking about. They will absolutely 1893 01:28:38,920 --> 01:28:40,479 Speaker 4: I can tell them that shit in a way that 1894 01:28:40,560 --> 01:28:43,439 Speaker 4: will be They will be like, Rod, you right, fuck therapy. 1895 01:28:43,560 --> 01:28:45,919 Speaker 5: Fuck your therapist, blah blah blah. 1896 01:28:46,160 --> 01:28:49,559 Speaker 4: Like I can't imagine, especially because of how it is online, 1897 01:28:49,600 --> 01:28:51,400 Speaker 4: like it's a get out of jail free card. 1898 01:28:51,960 --> 01:28:54,840 Speaker 5: Like, oh yeah, you may see me. 1899 01:28:56,000 --> 01:28:58,240 Speaker 4: You may have seen that I took my dig out 1900 01:28:58,280 --> 01:29:00,880 Speaker 4: and pissed on this neighbor's car from the reason, but y'all, 1901 01:29:01,400 --> 01:29:04,519 Speaker 4: I struggle from anxiety, and there will be people like guys, 1902 01:29:04,640 --> 01:29:05,280 Speaker 4: leave my alone. 1903 01:29:05,600 --> 01:29:06,639 Speaker 5: He suffers from anxiety. 1904 01:29:06,720 --> 01:29:08,960 Speaker 4: It's like, okay, so no one's taking up for the 1905 01:29:09,000 --> 01:29:12,559 Speaker 4: person who you get your motherfucking car piston? Have y'all 1906 01:29:12,600 --> 01:29:14,599 Speaker 4: walked out of the house with your car getting piston 1907 01:29:14,640 --> 01:29:16,400 Speaker 4: and being like, well, let me check what's going on 1908 01:29:16,520 --> 01:29:19,320 Speaker 4: with you mentally first before I delivered these hands, No 1909 01:29:19,400 --> 01:29:22,920 Speaker 4: one did nobody Anyway, she got to go on the 1910 01:29:22,920 --> 01:29:24,960 Speaker 4: whole vacation in a pandemic. 1911 01:29:25,280 --> 01:29:27,360 Speaker 5: Kicking off the show, Sheridan initially. 1912 01:29:27,000 --> 01:29:29,160 Speaker 4: Said that she had to travel to Dubai had a 1913 01:29:29,400 --> 01:29:31,679 Speaker 4: new year for work on her Shape Up with Shares 1914 01:29:31,760 --> 01:29:37,080 Speaker 4: Business Ship Up with Share Business, despite strict tear restrictions 1915 01:29:37,120 --> 01:29:40,040 Speaker 4: against leaving the country being in place due to coronavirus. However, 1916 01:29:40,120 --> 01:29:42,040 Speaker 4: when Phil pointed out that most of her fitness videos 1917 01:29:42,040 --> 01:29:44,760 Speaker 4: in Dubai were filmed inside her apartment, thus could have 1918 01:29:44,800 --> 01:29:46,879 Speaker 4: been made in the UK. She brought up the benefits 1919 01:29:46,920 --> 01:29:50,880 Speaker 4: that travel had on her mental health. Hearing he live 1920 01:29:50,960 --> 01:29:54,960 Speaker 4: by the swimming pool from Sunday Dubai. The twenty four 1921 01:29:55,080 --> 01:29:57,519 Speaker 4: year old fitness Fanatics said the reason I came out 1922 01:29:57,560 --> 01:29:59,840 Speaker 4: to Dubai was purely for business. I'm a personal trainer, 1923 01:30:00,000 --> 01:30:02,160 Speaker 4: lot of gyms of clothes, so basically I took my 1924 01:30:02,240 --> 01:30:04,320 Speaker 4: own live business over to Dubai and now I do 1925 01:30:04,520 --> 01:30:06,439 Speaker 4: things in my apartment. I used to do it in Britain, 1926 01:30:06,720 --> 01:30:08,320 Speaker 4: but now I do it in Dubai. It's so it's 1927 01:30:08,320 --> 01:30:11,760 Speaker 4: exactly the same. Phil interjected, is interesting you say you're 1928 01:30:11,760 --> 01:30:13,360 Speaker 4: doing it in your apartment. A lot of fitting and 1929 01:30:13,400 --> 01:30:16,120 Speaker 4: stuff could have been feeling in your garage and bolting. 1930 01:30:16,720 --> 01:30:18,200 Speaker 5: You don't have to be in duba to do that. 1931 01:30:18,800 --> 01:30:21,679 Speaker 4: And she changed her tune and said she has eleven 1932 01:30:22,000 --> 01:30:25,479 Speaker 4: five hundred followers on Instagram and twenty six hundred on 1933 01:30:25,560 --> 01:30:27,960 Speaker 4: her work Instagram. She said the main reason was for 1934 01:30:28,080 --> 01:30:30,879 Speaker 4: my own self, my mental health kind of thing. Obviously, 1935 01:30:31,120 --> 01:30:34,280 Speaker 4: during the second lockdown, I was really struggling. A lot 1936 01:30:34,320 --> 01:30:36,080 Speaker 4: of my clients depend on me. To bring the motivation 1937 01:30:36,200 --> 01:30:39,000 Speaker 4: and happiness. As the third lockdown was coming in, I thought, well, 1938 01:30:39,040 --> 01:30:40,880 Speaker 4: my mental health is suffering. I'm not going to start 1939 01:30:41,000 --> 01:30:42,439 Speaker 4: something new just sitting in the house. 1940 01:30:42,720 --> 01:30:44,759 Speaker 5: I had this idea, but I could not be bothered 1941 01:30:45,000 --> 01:30:45,919 Speaker 5: with my own struggles. 1942 01:30:45,960 --> 01:30:47,560 Speaker 4: I thought the only way I could was going to 1943 01:30:47,600 --> 01:30:49,280 Speaker 4: get out of this is if I get on a 1944 01:30:49,360 --> 01:30:52,320 Speaker 4: plane and for essential travel and go to Dubai. 1945 01:30:52,800 --> 01:30:55,360 Speaker 7: Well it's essential, even though you locked them stand in 1946 01:30:55,400 --> 01:30:55,759 Speaker 7: the house. 1947 01:30:56,280 --> 01:30:59,320 Speaker 5: Well you see these pictures girl. However, Holly hit back 1948 01:30:59,360 --> 01:31:01,360 Speaker 5: with the mental health was not a valid reason for travel. 1949 01:31:01,439 --> 01:31:04,040 Speaker 5: She was sympathetically reason. We speak about mental health on 1950 01:31:04,120 --> 01:31:04,680 Speaker 5: the program a. 1951 01:31:04,680 --> 01:31:07,480 Speaker 4: Lot, and how throughout all of this there's an extraordinary 1952 01:31:07,560 --> 01:31:09,800 Speaker 4: number of people suffering with their mental health. However, the 1953 01:31:09,920 --> 01:31:11,680 Speaker 4: rules on travel have nothing to do with mental health. 1954 01:31:11,720 --> 01:31:14,160 Speaker 4: It's purely based on work. That is the only reason 1955 01:31:14,240 --> 01:31:17,679 Speaker 4: you can go. And there are other influences, particularly fitness influencers, 1956 01:31:17,720 --> 01:31:19,320 Speaker 4: who are managing the work from here in the UK. 1957 01:31:19,840 --> 01:31:22,880 Speaker 5: Joe Wicks is a perfect example. Oh you're gonna bring 1958 01:31:23,000 --> 01:31:23,439 Speaker 5: up facts. 1959 01:31:25,080 --> 01:31:26,160 Speaker 7: You ain't trying to handle facts. 1960 01:31:28,160 --> 01:31:30,920 Speaker 5: Oh once that got to do with anything? 1961 01:31:31,080 --> 01:31:33,320 Speaker 7: Damn, Oh she don't know about to care about them. 1962 01:31:33,640 --> 01:31:34,559 Speaker 5: This is a morning show. 1963 01:31:35,400 --> 01:31:38,320 Speaker 4: Sheridan assisted that she had messages from young followers saying 1964 01:31:38,360 --> 01:31:40,639 Speaker 4: they felt anxious and depressed. So rather than wially oil 1965 01:31:40,640 --> 01:31:42,559 Speaker 4: and pity, she U was a loophole where you can 1966 01:31:42,960 --> 01:31:44,719 Speaker 4: go out for travel and that will. 1967 01:31:44,640 --> 01:31:45,800 Speaker 5: Increase people's mental health. 1968 01:31:46,680 --> 01:31:48,920 Speaker 4: Holly, question, do you think your pictures might add to 1969 01:31:49,000 --> 01:31:51,880 Speaker 4: people's mental health struggles? They'll be looking at your picks 1970 01:31:51,920 --> 01:31:54,280 Speaker 4: thinking I can't do that. Sheridan did admit it that 1971 01:31:54,360 --> 01:31:56,920 Speaker 4: sometimes she does feel guilty about the trip and is 1972 01:31:56,960 --> 01:31:59,480 Speaker 4: divided about whether or not she shared the pictures. 1973 01:31:59,600 --> 01:32:02,439 Speaker 5: Which is it's interesting because you don't have to share 1974 01:32:02,520 --> 01:32:04,720 Speaker 5: the pictures. You could go to. 1975 01:32:04,800 --> 01:32:06,920 Speaker 1: Duba I'm doing everything I'm supposed to do, but if 1976 01:32:07,000 --> 01:32:08,960 Speaker 1: I ever wild out, y'all ain't seeing shit. 1977 01:32:09,320 --> 01:32:11,640 Speaker 4: You could go to Dubai and live a very glamorous 1978 01:32:11,720 --> 01:32:14,960 Speaker 4: life and then still only share videos you working out 1979 01:32:15,000 --> 01:32:18,200 Speaker 4: in your apartment and go, yeah, y'all don't need to 1980 01:32:18,240 --> 01:32:20,080 Speaker 4: see me out here doing this now. 1981 01:32:20,200 --> 01:32:21,840 Speaker 5: Look, I'm not a jealous person. 1982 01:32:22,000 --> 01:32:25,240 Speaker 4: I would not be hating as on that as much 1983 01:32:25,280 --> 01:32:27,360 Speaker 4: as I'd be hating on you traveling in the pandemic. 1984 01:32:27,360 --> 01:32:28,960 Speaker 5: It wouldn't matter what the fuck you did for a living, 1985 01:32:28,960 --> 01:32:30,679 Speaker 5: I'd be like, the fuck are you doing? 1986 01:32:31,960 --> 01:32:34,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, like I thought we knew this was not safe, 1987 01:32:34,640 --> 01:32:37,120 Speaker 4: Like that's what I would be thinking. So I just 1988 01:32:37,160 --> 01:32:39,280 Speaker 4: wonder why she even needed to share them pics. 1989 01:32:39,320 --> 01:32:39,800 Speaker 5: That's wild. 1990 01:32:41,439 --> 01:32:45,040 Speaker 4: But yeah, Phil chuckling, if you go to Dubai and 1991 01:32:45,200 --> 01:32:47,479 Speaker 4: you don't post, then you have to absolutely know it's 1992 01:32:47,560 --> 01:32:49,479 Speaker 4: used to go in the first place. He also poked 1993 01:32:49,520 --> 01:32:51,160 Speaker 4: fun in the Influencer when a video of her riding 1994 01:32:51,200 --> 01:32:53,080 Speaker 4: and cam on the desert was played, asking whether that 1995 01:32:53,240 --> 01:32:57,000 Speaker 4: was essential work. While Holly said that Shared's attitude was 1996 01:32:57,080 --> 01:32:59,560 Speaker 4: not the spirit of lockdown Shared, it concluded, I just 1997 01:32:59,640 --> 01:33:01,799 Speaker 4: think that in the world where you can be anything, 1998 01:33:01,960 --> 01:33:03,760 Speaker 4: be kind and a lot of people forget about that. 1999 01:33:04,439 --> 01:33:07,360 Speaker 4: I love what you do when they do that, it's like, 2000 01:33:08,479 --> 01:33:08,720 Speaker 4: I know. 2001 01:33:08,760 --> 01:33:11,240 Speaker 5: I just did some ask soo shit, but y'all, let's 2002 01:33:11,280 --> 01:33:11,719 Speaker 5: be kind. 2003 01:33:13,240 --> 01:33:15,120 Speaker 4: I think in a world where we could be anything, 2004 01:33:15,240 --> 01:33:16,760 Speaker 4: I know, I just call you bitches to your face. 2005 01:33:17,040 --> 01:33:19,920 Speaker 4: But in a world where we can be anything, let's 2006 01:33:19,960 --> 01:33:24,439 Speaker 4: be kind. Okay, when I go low, you should go high. 2007 01:33:24,560 --> 01:33:25,240 Speaker 6: That's what I think. 2008 01:33:25,360 --> 01:33:29,519 Speaker 4: Michelle's right, But Holly was having none of it, bringing 2009 01:33:29,560 --> 01:33:31,800 Speaker 4: in the NHS heroes in the front line. Are you 2010 01:33:31,920 --> 01:33:34,360 Speaker 4: why when you say be kind when we see how 2011 01:33:34,400 --> 01:33:37,720 Speaker 4: stretched out the NHS is and the nurse is working really, 2012 01:33:37,800 --> 01:33:40,360 Speaker 4: really hard, and all they're saying is stay please, stay home, 2013 01:33:40,479 --> 01:33:42,600 Speaker 4: do the right thing and stay home. You're saying be 2014 01:33:42,800 --> 01:33:45,200 Speaker 4: cond Are you really being kind to them by encouraging 2015 01:33:45,280 --> 01:33:49,759 Speaker 4: others to travel by what you deem essential work sharing 2016 01:33:49,840 --> 01:33:52,920 Speaker 4: and argue I'm not trying to influence anyone to come out, 2017 01:33:53,479 --> 01:33:57,000 Speaker 4: before adding there's lots of other people in the soak 2018 01:33:57,080 --> 01:33:59,760 Speaker 4: city at the end as the interview wrapped up, So 2019 01:34:00,040 --> 01:34:01,880 Speaker 4: because I'm not out here by my it's other people 2020 01:34:01,920 --> 01:34:05,200 Speaker 4: that did it talking about I don't see y'all talking 2021 01:34:05,240 --> 01:34:07,760 Speaker 4: to them on your TV show. 2022 01:34:07,880 --> 01:34:10,519 Speaker 7: They're not famous, like you, don't nobody care what they're doing. 2023 01:34:11,120 --> 01:34:14,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, oh man, that is funny. 2024 01:34:14,320 --> 01:34:14,800 Speaker 6: Be kind? 2025 01:34:15,080 --> 01:34:19,639 Speaker 4: Okay of the viewer the segment left, some people are angry, 2026 01:34:19,720 --> 01:34:22,720 Speaker 4: flocking to Twitter to share reactions to her comments and 2027 01:34:22,840 --> 01:34:26,559 Speaker 4: praise the host for getting it the ship all right, 2028 01:34:26,640 --> 01:34:29,560 Speaker 4: Karen guessed the race of what is her name? Sharedan 2029 01:34:31,400 --> 01:34:36,559 Speaker 4: uhh shardan uh. 2030 01:34:38,960 --> 01:34:39,160 Speaker 7: More? 2031 01:34:39,240 --> 01:34:42,280 Speaker 4: Do Karen's going with the white Let's check the chat 2032 01:34:42,360 --> 01:34:46,559 Speaker 4: room see what they believe ultra white shit, unbelievable whiteness 2033 01:34:46,640 --> 01:34:48,720 Speaker 4: of being verified dumbass white. 2034 01:34:48,720 --> 01:34:49,639 Speaker 5: Where's yoga pants? 2035 01:34:49,680 --> 01:34:53,040 Speaker 4: Tollcituate her long flat back with a crack white uber 2036 01:34:53,120 --> 01:34:56,920 Speaker 4: white shit, added spread, added spread, a plague as business 2037 01:34:57,120 --> 01:35:00,360 Speaker 4: expense on an IRS sent her a check some heat 2038 01:35:00,439 --> 01:35:04,120 Speaker 4: heard emoji's white. I wasn't told I'm the manager, white troll. 2039 01:35:05,320 --> 01:35:07,920 Speaker 4: I wasn't told by I am the manager. White troll 2040 01:35:08,040 --> 01:35:11,439 Speaker 4: Level thirteen. White white women have to follow the rules too, 2041 01:35:11,560 --> 01:35:15,360 Speaker 4: since when right she was getting there Leana dunamone, Okay, huh, 2042 01:35:15,840 --> 01:35:18,799 Speaker 4: the correct answer is everyone got it correct. 2043 01:35:19,040 --> 01:35:20,479 Speaker 5: She is a white woman. 2044 01:35:27,320 --> 01:35:30,880 Speaker 4: Look at these snaps right eating eating a Bento box 2045 01:35:31,080 --> 01:35:37,240 Speaker 4: of burgers and like fried foods, beat side a pool 2046 01:35:37,400 --> 01:35:38,439 Speaker 4: side in a bikini. 2047 01:35:38,560 --> 01:35:42,080 Speaker 7: Yeah, that's not gonna go yeah, like like yeah, and 2048 01:35:42,120 --> 01:35:42,679 Speaker 7: it was a picture. 2049 01:35:42,760 --> 01:35:45,240 Speaker 5: Didn't have to put out lashat these two pictures of them. 2050 01:35:45,439 --> 01:35:49,160 Speaker 5: These white people were not amused. Holly looking like. 2051 01:35:52,560 --> 01:35:54,640 Speaker 7: I can't go nowhere, but you expect me to be 2052 01:35:54,720 --> 01:35:55,160 Speaker 7: cool with this? 2053 01:35:55,360 --> 01:35:56,760 Speaker 5: Look at Holly face. 2054 01:35:59,040 --> 01:36:02,040 Speaker 7: There was no she was not cackling that nothing, and feel. 2055 01:36:01,960 --> 01:36:04,559 Speaker 5: Like he was in mid yelling like what the fuck 2056 01:36:04,600 --> 01:36:05,360 Speaker 5: are you talking about? 2057 01:36:06,040 --> 01:36:09,560 Speaker 4: That's her working out an apartment using a chair in 2058 01:36:09,600 --> 01:36:11,960 Speaker 4: a water bottle, Like I said, some shit you could 2059 01:36:11,960 --> 01:36:13,760 Speaker 4: have did over here a water bottle. She probably got 2060 01:36:13,760 --> 01:36:17,880 Speaker 4: out of that the cabinet. That's her on the beat 2061 01:36:18,160 --> 01:36:20,960 Speaker 4: on the at the pool. This her the night life. 2062 01:36:22,000 --> 01:36:23,519 Speaker 1: Oh this shiit, she gonna suck run and get it, 2063 01:36:23,600 --> 01:36:25,679 Speaker 1: trying to trying to be trying to be off fabulous 2064 01:36:25,720 --> 01:36:26,280 Speaker 1: and ship. 2065 01:36:26,120 --> 01:36:27,160 Speaker 5: Hot girl summer for her. 2066 01:36:27,439 --> 01:36:27,759 Speaker 6: Okay. 2067 01:36:29,040 --> 01:36:31,720 Speaker 5: That's her on the rooftop of so or something. Yeah, 2068 01:36:31,880 --> 01:36:34,160 Speaker 5: like pool rooftop. 2069 01:36:33,880 --> 01:36:34,519 Speaker 6: Or some ship. 2070 01:36:34,760 --> 01:36:36,360 Speaker 7: Yeah, she was like, but other people here and there 2071 01:36:36,439 --> 01:36:38,200 Speaker 7: was like, we don't give a goddamn about them other people, 2072 01:36:38,240 --> 01:36:39,920 Speaker 7: don't you the one took this pic. 2073 01:36:40,200 --> 01:36:43,840 Speaker 5: I still can't get over it. You shared this, like 2074 01:36:43,960 --> 01:36:45,320 Speaker 5: you you know, you don't. 2075 01:36:45,160 --> 01:36:48,280 Speaker 7: Have nobody you decided to post this. 2076 01:36:48,560 --> 01:36:51,439 Speaker 4: You can have the same belief system and not share 2077 01:36:51,520 --> 01:36:57,760 Speaker 4: this ship. Okay, all right, all right, let's go to 2078 01:36:57,840 --> 01:37:02,040 Speaker 4: the next one. But man, that was just why such 2079 01:37:02,080 --> 01:37:03,080 Speaker 4: a self owned. 2080 01:37:03,840 --> 01:37:06,320 Speaker 7: People do it all the time though, yeah, all the. 2081 01:37:06,360 --> 01:37:10,160 Speaker 4: Time, and you know what it's I'd be remiss not 2082 01:37:10,280 --> 01:37:12,839 Speaker 4: to mention a lot of regular people are still traveling 2083 01:37:12,880 --> 01:37:15,240 Speaker 4: and doing shit, so you don't have to be an influence. 2084 01:37:15,280 --> 01:37:19,599 Speaker 5: Some people are not influencers. They just doing shit just today. 2085 01:37:20,479 --> 01:37:22,599 Speaker 4: I do think it's funny though, how that mental health 2086 01:37:22,600 --> 01:37:24,880 Speaker 4: shit was a catch all, because, like I said, we 2087 01:37:25,080 --> 01:37:27,360 Speaker 4: treat mental health is such a hard thing talking about 2088 01:37:27,400 --> 01:37:29,960 Speaker 4: because partially it's treated like a get out of jail 2089 01:37:30,000 --> 01:37:33,000 Speaker 4: free card. Yes, y'all, anything I want to do for 2090 01:37:33,080 --> 01:37:36,000 Speaker 4: my mental health has to be justified. It's like, well, 2091 01:37:36,080 --> 01:37:38,439 Speaker 4: other people struggle mental health, and still we know it's 2092 01:37:38,560 --> 01:37:42,000 Speaker 4: not safe to do what you just did. Correct doctors 2093 01:37:42,040 --> 01:37:44,519 Speaker 4: are advising against it, Like you know what else is 2094 01:37:44,560 --> 01:37:48,519 Speaker 4: bad for mental health? Getting COVID, spreading COVID. Like we 2095 01:37:48,640 --> 01:37:51,800 Speaker 4: are in a societal imperative moment right now. We need 2096 01:37:51,840 --> 01:37:55,800 Speaker 4: to sit the fuck down. Yeah I thought about that, 2097 01:37:56,040 --> 01:38:01,559 Speaker 4: but I just needed to trip, you know what I mean. 2098 01:38:01,600 --> 01:38:03,519 Speaker 4: It's like, oh, okay, well, I guess if you just 2099 01:38:03,640 --> 01:38:05,880 Speaker 4: need to trip. You know, it's so funny to the 2100 01:38:05,920 --> 01:38:08,840 Speaker 4: watch people that have talked about being triggered, that talk 2101 01:38:08,920 --> 01:38:11,639 Speaker 4: about like they talk bad about mental health, and people 2102 01:38:11,680 --> 01:38:14,600 Speaker 4: that talk about mental wellness beat us first. People that 2103 01:38:14,680 --> 01:38:17,400 Speaker 4: be like if I wear a mask, I ain't wanna 2104 01:38:17,439 --> 01:38:21,120 Speaker 4: lose you know, Like, okay, what you're having that ain't 2105 01:38:21,200 --> 01:38:23,960 Speaker 4: exactly a routine reaction to this shit. 2106 01:38:24,880 --> 01:38:25,479 Speaker 5: What about you? 2107 01:38:26,000 --> 01:38:26,599 Speaker 6: You know what I mean? 2108 01:38:26,760 --> 01:38:29,799 Speaker 4: Like, what's going on with you that you think crying 2109 01:38:30,080 --> 01:38:31,600 Speaker 4: and calling this shit slavery? 2110 01:38:32,439 --> 01:38:35,920 Speaker 5: It means that that's a possive. That's a very healthy 2111 01:38:36,960 --> 01:38:38,720 Speaker 5: mindset to have. When someone asks you to wear a 2112 01:38:38,800 --> 01:38:39,120 Speaker 5: mask so. 2113 01:38:39,160 --> 01:38:41,439 Speaker 1: You don't die or kill other people, right to them, 2114 01:38:41,520 --> 01:38:44,519 Speaker 1: that's a valid response. This is not a valid response. 2115 01:38:44,560 --> 01:38:47,400 Speaker 4: But subconsciously they bought into the ship too. It's a 2116 01:38:47,439 --> 01:38:48,559 Speaker 4: get out of jail free card. 2117 01:38:49,240 --> 01:38:53,120 Speaker 5: I have feelings now. My feelings count more than everybody else. 2118 01:38:54,120 --> 01:38:56,880 Speaker 4: A couple of arrested at the allegedly filming themselves having 2119 01:38:56,920 --> 01:39:01,599 Speaker 4: sex on a ferris wheel. No, South Carolina allegedly had 2120 01:39:01,640 --> 01:39:03,640 Speaker 4: sex on the ferris wheel and they were arrested at 2121 01:39:03,680 --> 01:39:06,560 Speaker 4: the Police foundal recording of the wild ride on a 2122 01:39:06,640 --> 01:39:07,200 Speaker 4: porn site. 2123 01:39:08,640 --> 01:39:11,120 Speaker 5: All about just saying this is what happened. 2124 01:39:11,120 --> 01:39:13,920 Speaker 4: When you get verified, right, come on, this is the 2125 01:39:13,960 --> 01:39:17,439 Speaker 4: America jail COVID wonts and you know what, there have. 2126 01:39:17,560 --> 01:39:19,840 Speaker 7: To be somebody jacking off to it going. Ain't that 2127 01:39:19,960 --> 01:39:22,360 Speaker 7: the convent cut right? 2128 01:39:22,439 --> 01:39:25,280 Speaker 1: Because people put chit on porn sites all the time. 2129 01:39:25,640 --> 01:39:28,720 Speaker 1: Somebody seen that it was like, I think I went 2130 01:39:28,760 --> 01:39:29,880 Speaker 1: to that festival last week. 2131 01:39:30,160 --> 01:39:31,320 Speaker 7: Were they having sex up there? 2132 01:39:32,600 --> 01:39:32,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? 2133 01:39:32,800 --> 01:39:33,439 Speaker 5: Who snitched? 2134 01:39:33,840 --> 01:39:34,519 Speaker 7: Somebody had to? 2135 01:39:34,720 --> 01:39:36,439 Speaker 5: Did you snitch? Because it was terrible, Like, well you 2136 01:39:36,560 --> 01:39:38,640 Speaker 5: jacking off? You're like, I can't jack to this. This 2137 01:39:38,800 --> 01:39:39,400 Speaker 5: is terrible. 2138 01:39:39,479 --> 01:39:41,800 Speaker 4: Oh my god, these people can't even fuck. I'm calling 2139 01:39:41,840 --> 01:39:42,839 Speaker 4: the goddamn FBI. 2140 01:39:43,520 --> 01:39:44,080 Speaker 6: They need to know. 2141 01:39:45,120 --> 01:39:48,000 Speaker 5: Healthy service kind of talked to y'all for a second. Yeah, 2142 01:39:48,600 --> 01:39:50,960 Speaker 5: I wont facial recognition on both of these people, right. 2143 01:39:51,360 --> 01:39:54,479 Speaker 4: Eric and Laurie Harmon, both thirty six, went for quite 2144 01:39:54,520 --> 01:39:57,920 Speaker 4: a spin while riding a glass gondola and one hundred 2145 01:39:57,920 --> 01:39:59,800 Speaker 4: and eighty seven feet in the air and the sky 2146 01:40:00,040 --> 01:40:03,040 Speaker 4: will and Motor Beach. Police said they found a video 2147 01:40:03,200 --> 01:40:06,519 Speaker 4: of the early January romp on popular porn sites. Another 2148 01:40:06,560 --> 01:40:08,879 Speaker 4: clip allegedly showed a couple having sex in the community 2149 01:40:08,960 --> 01:40:12,639 Speaker 4: pool in Orie County and committed other lute acts last month. 2150 01:40:13,120 --> 01:40:15,880 Speaker 5: Oh, you never have sex in the pool. That's just 2151 01:40:15,960 --> 01:40:18,880 Speaker 5: discussed in pre rona come on many. 2152 01:40:20,080 --> 01:40:24,320 Speaker 4: In that incident, Laurie Harmon was also accused of urinating 2153 01:40:24,400 --> 01:40:28,880 Speaker 4: on two vending machines. What they was, you know what, 2154 01:40:29,000 --> 01:40:31,439 Speaker 4: I don't want the King Shane, but they definitely was 2155 01:40:31,479 --> 01:40:33,679 Speaker 4: into some other ship machine dog. 2156 01:40:33,800 --> 01:40:35,439 Speaker 7: I mean, I just want to buy my chips. I 2157 01:40:35,439 --> 01:40:36,880 Speaker 7: don't need to know you, Karen. 2158 01:40:36,960 --> 01:40:39,200 Speaker 4: You can piss on someone's car as long as you 2159 01:40:39,320 --> 01:40:42,280 Speaker 4: are experiencing, you know, some some issue. 2160 01:40:42,439 --> 01:40:44,760 Speaker 1: I mean. I mean if I mean, if you bought 2161 01:40:44,840 --> 01:40:47,400 Speaker 1: the vendor machine it's yours, that's a whole different store. 2162 01:40:47,439 --> 01:40:48,839 Speaker 7: But this is a public vending machine. 2163 01:40:48,960 --> 01:40:52,400 Speaker 4: That's another thing too, Like how far the sex positivity go, 2164 01:40:53,040 --> 01:40:55,719 Speaker 4: because you could argue that this was, you know, their kink. 2165 01:40:56,840 --> 01:40:59,240 Speaker 4: And I would argue if you piss on the public 2166 01:40:59,320 --> 01:41:02,759 Speaker 4: vending machine and someone whooped your ass them was the breaks. 2167 01:41:04,640 --> 01:41:06,880 Speaker 1: I mean, because they you know, they didn't sign up 2168 01:41:06,920 --> 01:41:09,920 Speaker 1: for it, like like like if they were in on it, cool. 2169 01:41:10,479 --> 01:41:12,920 Speaker 1: But if I'm just buying some doridos and I look 2170 01:41:12,960 --> 01:41:15,240 Speaker 1: to the side and you're pissing, we might have we 2171 01:41:15,360 --> 01:41:18,320 Speaker 1: might have a conversation about this. I'm just saying, man, 2172 01:41:19,800 --> 01:41:23,080 Speaker 1: you're between the saw the machine and the snack machine. 2173 01:41:23,120 --> 01:41:24,000 Speaker 1: We might need to talk. 2174 01:41:24,120 --> 01:41:26,000 Speaker 5: This shit is not as black and white as people say. 2175 01:41:26,040 --> 01:41:27,880 Speaker 5: It's all I'm saying. It's funny to think about. 2176 01:41:28,040 --> 01:41:29,680 Speaker 4: If I'm in on it, cool, But if I am, 2177 01:41:30,000 --> 01:41:32,120 Speaker 4: you can't just walk up through me while I'm getting 2178 01:41:32,160 --> 01:41:34,679 Speaker 4: my lads and be like, the safe word is salt 2179 01:41:34,840 --> 01:41:35,680 Speaker 4: Vinega and. 2180 01:41:35,760 --> 01:41:39,479 Speaker 5: Then start pissing on the machine. He'll put this ball 2181 01:41:39,560 --> 01:41:42,880 Speaker 5: gag in. What, ma'am, I just want to get some hose, right, 2182 01:41:43,520 --> 01:41:45,200 Speaker 5: What is happening at this hotel? 2183 01:41:45,640 --> 01:41:48,160 Speaker 7: Like the safe word was that mountain? Dude you just purchased? 2184 01:41:48,280 --> 01:41:50,360 Speaker 7: You were like, I just I want a mountain. No, no, no, no, 2185 01:41:50,520 --> 01:41:52,599 Speaker 7: you bought the safe word the Frisky. 2186 01:41:52,920 --> 01:41:55,599 Speaker 4: The Frisky pair were arrested Saturday, each charger in dcent 2187 01:41:55,640 --> 01:41:59,920 Speaker 4: exposure and participating in preparation of obscene material. Laurie was 2188 01:42:00,040 --> 01:42:02,800 Speaker 4: also charged a malicious injury to personal property. So that 2189 01:42:02,920 --> 01:42:05,639 Speaker 4: what you get for pissing on them? The drink venom shit. 2190 01:42:07,240 --> 01:42:09,840 Speaker 4: She was at least sundown eighteen thousand dollars bond, her 2191 01:42:09,880 --> 01:42:13,280 Speaker 4: husband's least the same day, fourteen thousand dollars bond. 2192 01:42:13,320 --> 01:42:16,040 Speaker 5: They had that money, all right. Karen guess the races 2193 01:42:16,160 --> 01:42:20,280 Speaker 5: is too white. Karen thinks it's white people shit. All right, 2194 01:42:20,520 --> 01:42:25,719 Speaker 5: let's go anything involving pissed. I'm going white white. 2195 01:42:27,600 --> 01:42:30,799 Speaker 4: He'll billy humpers and as she as she flows white 2196 01:42:31,680 --> 01:42:32,240 Speaker 4: white shit. 2197 01:42:32,439 --> 01:42:32,639 Speaker 6: White? 2198 01:42:32,680 --> 01:42:37,000 Speaker 4: Did that pearl necklace. When your duck game, dick game isn't. 2199 01:42:36,800 --> 01:42:39,599 Speaker 5: Good enough on this song, got to go to six flags. 2200 01:42:39,680 --> 01:42:43,240 Speaker 4: White, Laurie not Harvey White, White, the Wild and Wonderful White, 2201 01:42:43,280 --> 01:42:44,360 Speaker 4: so West Virginia White. 2202 01:42:44,760 --> 01:42:45,720 Speaker 5: They were COVID boy. 2203 01:42:45,840 --> 01:42:49,439 Speaker 4: White used the porn earring earnings to buy her triple 2204 01:42:49,560 --> 01:42:57,160 Speaker 4: Z tits White, you use it. I do feel like 2205 01:42:57,360 --> 01:43:01,080 Speaker 4: aggressive fake titties is a white porn thing. 2206 01:43:01,160 --> 01:43:01,840 Speaker 5: I don't know why. 2207 01:43:02,120 --> 01:43:04,439 Speaker 4: The aggressive kind not just fake A lot of people have, 2208 01:43:05,080 --> 01:43:08,840 Speaker 4: you know, but the aggressive like is how much? 2209 01:43:08,880 --> 01:43:11,600 Speaker 5: How did you get skinned to cover that titties? They 2210 01:43:11,640 --> 01:43:14,600 Speaker 5: feel like a white man thing like they are into that. 2211 01:43:15,439 --> 01:43:17,040 Speaker 5: Uh you spit for Lou White? 2212 01:43:17,120 --> 01:43:22,439 Speaker 4: Oh god, door Pito's white, door Pitos White. She will 2213 01:43:22,640 --> 01:43:25,760 Speaker 4: suck your dick for meuth White, Oh my god, uh 2214 01:43:27,080 --> 01:43:31,880 Speaker 4: my hobby grass black. Okay, the correct answer is and 2215 01:43:32,080 --> 01:43:46,840 Speaker 4: everyone said white and everyone you got it white? Oh 2216 01:43:46,920 --> 01:43:50,960 Speaker 4: they did that, ship h unless you are married to 2217 01:43:51,120 --> 01:43:54,879 Speaker 4: the gourmet goober, you know, in which case. 2218 01:43:56,920 --> 01:43:57,519 Speaker 7: You are wrong. 2219 01:43:58,360 --> 01:43:58,640 Speaker 6: M h. 2220 01:44:13,320 --> 01:44:15,240 Speaker 5: It looked like they would probably have some you know, 2221 01:44:15,439 --> 01:44:19,400 Speaker 5: pretty good freaky white people's sex. You know, you hate 2222 01:44:19,439 --> 01:44:21,760 Speaker 5: that they you know that. It came down to all 2223 01:44:21,840 --> 01:44:23,280 Speaker 5: this but me too. 2224 01:44:24,000 --> 01:44:26,040 Speaker 1: I hope they wouldn't being too rough up there because 2225 01:44:26,080 --> 01:44:27,960 Speaker 1: they look like they do that sex well you like 2226 01:44:28,000 --> 01:44:29,240 Speaker 1: that is like that actually hurts? 2227 01:44:29,960 --> 01:44:31,759 Speaker 5: Do people sign can sick forms? 2228 01:44:31,840 --> 01:44:31,880 Speaker 1: Like? 2229 01:44:32,760 --> 01:44:33,040 Speaker 6: Come on? 2230 01:44:33,360 --> 01:44:35,720 Speaker 1: Like sometimes I watched that point, I'd be like you 2231 01:44:35,920 --> 01:44:39,559 Speaker 1: just I mean, is you literally trying to just jack 2232 01:44:39,600 --> 01:44:40,479 Speaker 1: himmel hood to death? Like? 2233 01:44:41,000 --> 01:44:41,800 Speaker 7: What is happening here? 2234 01:44:42,040 --> 01:44:43,320 Speaker 5: I don't know why white Horn. 2235 01:44:43,240 --> 01:44:43,600 Speaker 1: Is like that. 2236 01:44:44,000 --> 01:44:45,080 Speaker 7: I've never understood that. 2237 01:44:45,160 --> 01:44:47,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like, I like, I got a vagina 2238 01:44:47,160 --> 01:44:50,280 Speaker 1: and I'm like, uh my vagina don't want. 2239 01:44:50,120 --> 01:44:53,760 Speaker 7: To be beat to death. Yeah, it's very it's very 2240 01:44:53,920 --> 01:44:57,600 Speaker 7: like it's like right, it's like overly aggressive, like and 2241 01:44:57,720 --> 01:45:00,639 Speaker 7: I can't explain it, and I'm like, what is happening here? 2242 01:45:01,439 --> 01:45:01,920 Speaker 6: Oh? Man? 2243 01:45:02,000 --> 01:45:05,519 Speaker 4: All right, let's go to let's go to the bonus 2244 01:45:05,640 --> 01:45:09,640 Speaker 4: round of guess the race. Uh, let me go to 2245 01:45:09,680 --> 01:45:10,799 Speaker 4: my bonus round music. 2246 01:45:18,280 --> 01:45:29,479 Speaker 5: It's the race, It's time, it's time, last one. 2247 01:45:29,920 --> 01:45:33,240 Speaker 4: Let's see if Karen can complete the set and go 2248 01:45:33,360 --> 01:45:35,400 Speaker 4: a perfect three for three. 2249 01:45:36,920 --> 01:45:38,800 Speaker 5: Okay, she's two out of three. 2250 01:45:38,960 --> 01:45:42,160 Speaker 4: Of course, this is worth double the points, uh, double 2251 01:45:42,200 --> 01:45:46,240 Speaker 4: the racism in the bonus round. So you know, I 2252 01:45:46,400 --> 01:45:50,200 Speaker 4: know your nerves are probably afraid here. You know, the 2253 01:45:50,320 --> 01:45:52,599 Speaker 4: chat room is, for the most part, is two for two, 2254 01:45:53,200 --> 01:45:57,240 Speaker 4: except for uh goamet Goober's husband, who for some reason decided, 2255 01:45:59,200 --> 01:46:01,600 Speaker 4: you know, he wanted to be the smartest man in 2256 01:46:01,640 --> 01:46:03,759 Speaker 4: the world and be the only one to say black. 2257 01:46:04,560 --> 01:46:08,080 Speaker 4: And now look at you behind everybody hoping to get 2258 01:46:08,160 --> 01:46:09,280 Speaker 4: this last one correct. 2259 01:46:09,920 --> 01:46:10,680 Speaker 6: All right, here we go. 2260 01:46:11,160 --> 01:46:13,040 Speaker 3: Here is a story you just have to hear. Tonight, 2261 01:46:13,120 --> 01:46:16,840 Speaker 3: a teenage Kroger worker accused of scamming his employer out 2262 01:46:16,880 --> 01:46:20,040 Speaker 3: of nearly one million dollars, and Gwennett County Police say 2263 01:46:20,080 --> 01:46:22,120 Speaker 3: it only took him two weeks to do it a 2264 01:46:22,200 --> 01:46:24,120 Speaker 3: lot it allowed to know her walks us through how 2265 01:46:24,160 --> 01:46:26,000 Speaker 3: he did it and how he got caught. 2266 01:46:27,800 --> 01:46:30,519 Speaker 8: Gwennett County Police say that employee got away with stealing 2267 01:46:30,640 --> 01:46:33,120 Speaker 8: a lot of money from this Kroger into luth but 2268 01:46:33,240 --> 01:46:37,240 Speaker 8: says that's also what gave him away. Investigators say over 2269 01:46:37,320 --> 01:46:40,680 Speaker 8: a two week period in December, Trey Brown stole more 2270 01:46:40,720 --> 01:46:43,720 Speaker 8: than nine hundred and eighty thousand dollars from Kroger. The 2271 01:46:43,800 --> 01:46:46,280 Speaker 8: way he did it, police say he created more than 2272 01:46:46,400 --> 01:46:50,080 Speaker 8: forty non existent returns ranging from seventy five dollars to 2273 01:46:50,360 --> 01:46:51,880 Speaker 8: eighty seven thousand dollars. 2274 01:46:52,000 --> 01:46:55,080 Speaker 2: Investigators believe, as of right now, that mister Brown used 2275 01:46:55,160 --> 01:46:59,639 Speaker 2: the money that he stole to buy cars, clothing, shoes, 2276 01:47:00,080 --> 01:47:00,679 Speaker 2: and guns. 2277 01:47:00,920 --> 01:47:04,160 Speaker 8: A police report we obtained states Kroger's Loss Prevention found 2278 01:47:04,200 --> 01:47:07,560 Speaker 8: out Brown was allegedly using a lottery redemption code to 2279 01:47:07,640 --> 01:47:10,519 Speaker 8: type in the amount he wanted, then quote, the suspect 2280 01:47:10,640 --> 01:47:13,120 Speaker 8: will swipe his card and the money will deposit on 2281 01:47:13,200 --> 01:47:14,080 Speaker 8: to his debit card. 2282 01:47:14,200 --> 01:47:16,200 Speaker 2: The amount of money that mister Brown took was just 2283 01:47:16,320 --> 01:47:19,040 Speaker 2: excessive in this particular case, and obviously drew a large 2284 01:47:19,040 --> 01:47:23,080 Speaker 2: amount of attention to himself almost immediately, So it wasn't 2285 01:47:23,120 --> 01:47:25,080 Speaker 2: bi the crime of the century by any means as 2286 01:47:25,160 --> 01:47:26,719 Speaker 2: far as being able to get. 2287 01:47:26,560 --> 01:47:27,040 Speaker 6: Away with it. 2288 01:47:27,280 --> 01:47:29,960 Speaker 8: Gwennette County Police say they arrested Brown outside of his 2289 01:47:30,080 --> 01:47:33,040 Speaker 8: home last week and a large sum of money was returned. 2290 01:47:33,160 --> 01:47:36,040 Speaker 8: Brown is charged with theft by taking. Kroger told me 2291 01:47:36,120 --> 01:47:38,360 Speaker 8: in a statement they are not commenting at this time 2292 01:47:38,720 --> 01:47:40,760 Speaker 8: because this is an active investigation. 2293 01:47:41,280 --> 01:47:43,439 Speaker 3: You're gonna read more about how police say Brown pulled 2294 01:47:43,479 --> 01:47:45,800 Speaker 3: this off on eleven Alive dot Com. 2295 01:47:46,520 --> 01:47:48,719 Speaker 5: All right, Karen, guess the race of Trey Brown. 2296 01:47:49,760 --> 01:47:52,559 Speaker 7: I think Trey Brown is black. 2297 01:47:52,960 --> 01:47:56,679 Speaker 5: Karen's going with the black. Okay, why'd you go with black? 2298 01:47:58,680 --> 01:47:59,880 Speaker 7: Not a smart not smart? 2299 01:48:00,040 --> 01:48:02,640 Speaker 5: Because oh okay, black people are stupid. The way he 2300 01:48:02,840 --> 01:48:06,080 Speaker 5: talked about the crime, dude was black. Theft by taking? 2301 01:48:06,479 --> 01:48:09,120 Speaker 5: Isn't it how it works? Yet as opposed to theft 2302 01:48:09,240 --> 01:48:12,280 Speaker 5: by giving, that's a well known trick. 2303 01:48:13,800 --> 01:48:15,960 Speaker 7: And his krogern i Harris Teeter. 2304 01:48:16,160 --> 01:48:18,599 Speaker 5: Okay, I can see that. Uh he should have put 2305 01:48:18,640 --> 01:48:21,320 Speaker 5: that ship in big crime. Where are the racist thuf uh? 2306 01:48:21,479 --> 01:48:24,519 Speaker 4: Poor kpers like bubbles from the wire. Black tried to 2307 01:48:24,560 --> 01:48:26,200 Speaker 4: put the money in his baby's name. 2308 01:48:26,080 --> 01:48:27,000 Speaker 5: But didn't remember it. 2309 01:48:27,280 --> 01:48:32,240 Speaker 4: Black, Oh Joe Black, you got greedy young black white 2310 01:48:32,320 --> 01:48:33,919 Speaker 4: man scam but black execution. 2311 01:48:34,160 --> 01:48:36,400 Speaker 5: Nigga, go bring me my switch so. 2312 01:48:36,400 --> 01:48:40,320 Speaker 4: I could whip your ass all of those publics in Georgia. 2313 01:48:40,400 --> 01:48:43,639 Speaker 4: And he had a krogus and bought Jay's nigga shit. 2314 01:48:44,280 --> 01:48:45,520 Speaker 4: Nigga would nigga. 2315 01:48:45,240 --> 01:48:48,200 Speaker 5: Should had learned how to code first super predator. 2316 01:48:48,040 --> 01:48:50,519 Speaker 6: Black No, no. 2317 01:48:52,000 --> 01:48:54,519 Speaker 5: Super easy crime. Nigga could pull it off. 2318 01:48:55,200 --> 01:48:59,040 Speaker 4: Oh God, standing up for our people in white acting 2319 01:48:59,160 --> 01:49:02,600 Speaker 4: black black and the black Howard University student working at 2320 01:49:02,680 --> 01:49:07,960 Speaker 4: Kroger black devk card black ofc listen man I hope 2321 01:49:08,040 --> 01:49:11,640 Speaker 4: y'all realize that when we start off the show and 2322 01:49:11,720 --> 01:49:17,080 Speaker 4: we're like, look, man, sometimes these people are human, and 2323 01:49:18,479 --> 01:49:19,519 Speaker 4: these these people make. 2324 01:49:19,520 --> 01:49:21,519 Speaker 5: Mistakes they they don't really mean. 2325 01:49:22,040 --> 01:49:24,439 Speaker 4: I hope you realize when y'all are looking all high 2326 01:49:24,439 --> 01:49:26,679 Speaker 4: and mighty by the time we get to guess the race, 2327 01:49:26,880 --> 01:49:28,120 Speaker 4: we're all in the pit with. 2328 01:49:28,240 --> 01:49:32,080 Speaker 5: These motherfuckers because y'all racist and shit. But y'all all right, 2329 01:49:32,240 --> 01:49:47,280 Speaker 5: he's black. Oh my god. 2330 01:49:47,439 --> 01:49:50,599 Speaker 4: Even Lena Dunham is bleshing it. The massas y'all, y'all 2331 01:49:50,720 --> 01:49:51,920 Speaker 4: niggas are super racist. 2332 01:49:52,120 --> 01:49:52,880 Speaker 5: Jesus Christ. 2333 01:49:53,720 --> 01:49:59,400 Speaker 4: Anyway, that's trade. Oh yeah, I honestly, you know, I 2334 01:49:59,479 --> 01:50:00,960 Speaker 4: give him a lot to respect. 2335 01:50:01,000 --> 01:50:02,639 Speaker 6: You know, j WILLI Smith. 2336 01:50:03,760 --> 01:50:07,599 Speaker 5: Y'all talking, But the only thing I'm listening is that pain. 2337 01:50:09,600 --> 01:50:16,639 Speaker 5: Every day we getting set that paper, I had the money, 2338 01:50:16,760 --> 01:50:23,720 Speaker 5: talk to see it later. Every day we getting set 2339 01:50:23,760 --> 01:50:30,599 Speaker 5: that I had the money, talk to see you later. 2340 01:50:33,000 --> 01:50:39,839 Speaker 5: I'm to be that enterprising at nineteen. 2341 01:50:40,560 --> 01:50:40,760 Speaker 6: Yeah. 2342 01:50:40,840 --> 01:50:43,360 Speaker 7: That and obviously you don't know how accounting works. 2343 01:50:44,520 --> 01:50:46,960 Speaker 5: I mean, he was stealing. I mean, to have that 2344 01:50:47,120 --> 01:50:49,600 Speaker 5: much boldness. Yeah, you know, this. 2345 01:50:49,720 --> 01:50:52,519 Speaker 7: Whole ass department that actually checks this ship. Somebody was 2346 01:50:52,600 --> 01:50:55,000 Speaker 7: like the eighty seven thousand dollars. 2347 01:50:55,120 --> 01:50:55,800 Speaker 6: Go what who? 2348 01:50:56,040 --> 01:50:58,639 Speaker 7: Because something that big you assuming that it's a company 2349 01:50:59,000 --> 01:50:59,599 Speaker 7: not a person. 2350 01:51:00,400 --> 01:51:01,280 Speaker 5: Oh man. 2351 01:51:02,040 --> 01:51:04,640 Speaker 4: When I was his age, I was hiding portions of 2352 01:51:04,760 --> 01:51:06,200 Speaker 4: chicken sandwiches around Wendy. 2353 01:51:06,360 --> 01:51:09,719 Speaker 7: Y'all ha ha, Okay, that was my thinking about stealing. 2354 01:51:09,840 --> 01:51:11,799 Speaker 5: That was my heist. Okay. 2355 01:51:12,000 --> 01:51:15,880 Speaker 4: I was heisting spicy chicken sandwiches a quarter sandwich. 2356 01:51:15,560 --> 01:51:17,960 Speaker 7: At a time, y'all, y'all cut off in force. 2357 01:51:18,479 --> 01:51:21,960 Speaker 5: This nigga said, I want a million dollars. 2358 01:51:22,080 --> 01:51:26,800 Speaker 4: Okay, if you dreaming, you can achieve it. The sky 2359 01:51:27,080 --> 01:51:30,799 Speaker 4: is the limit. Oh my goodness, boy, that's a hmm. 2360 01:51:31,960 --> 01:51:34,160 Speaker 5: Hats off. I know it's fucked up, but hats off 2361 01:51:34,280 --> 01:51:36,840 Speaker 5: to him. He tried it right. 2362 01:51:37,240 --> 01:51:40,640 Speaker 1: And then the Kroger, I'm like, HOI, Croaker, that's how 2363 01:51:40,720 --> 01:51:41,680 Speaker 1: you know they gonna catch it. 2364 01:51:41,800 --> 01:51:44,040 Speaker 5: Croker don't make that much money. Croger be doing that 2365 01:51:44,160 --> 01:51:45,719 Speaker 5: much business. They don't do that much. 2366 01:51:45,560 --> 01:51:48,400 Speaker 1: Business in a year, right, They're like, no, bitch, that's 2367 01:51:48,400 --> 01:51:51,320 Speaker 1: too much money right now. If you just hit a 2368 01:51:51,439 --> 01:51:54,960 Speaker 1: Harris Teel or public or the marketplace, you'd have been like, oh. 2369 01:51:54,880 --> 01:51:57,320 Speaker 4: Okay, you can't pay with a twenty en Croger because 2370 01:51:57,320 --> 01:52:03,280 Speaker 4: they ain't got the change, you know, like they put 2371 01:52:04,040 --> 01:52:07,960 Speaker 4: that's what that's that's a grocery store where they used a. 2372 01:52:08,000 --> 01:52:08,960 Speaker 5: Pen on twenties. 2373 01:52:09,960 --> 01:52:12,639 Speaker 7: Like right, they get mad. You get him a twenty. 2374 01:52:13,120 --> 01:52:15,120 Speaker 1: You can't get a million dollars from cro. 2375 01:52:16,800 --> 01:52:17,559 Speaker 6: Oh Man. 2376 01:52:17,760 --> 01:52:20,400 Speaker 7: The County Department be on top of that shit immediately. 2377 01:52:20,600 --> 01:52:21,240 Speaker 5: You love to see it. 2378 01:52:21,320 --> 01:52:22,439 Speaker 7: That was like we had a balance. 2379 01:52:22,520 --> 01:52:24,160 Speaker 5: Find out why you love to see it? 2380 01:52:24,680 --> 01:52:24,800 Speaker 6: Uh? 2381 01:52:24,880 --> 01:52:28,120 Speaker 4: Sord ratching. This woman charged for allegedly stabbing husband with sword. 2382 01:52:28,880 --> 01:52:31,639 Speaker 4: A woman is facing multiple felony charges for allegedly taking 2383 01:52:31,720 --> 01:52:33,200 Speaker 4: up a sword doing an argument with her husband, is 2384 01:52:33,240 --> 01:52:35,080 Speaker 4: slashing him with it several times. 2385 01:52:35,680 --> 01:52:38,400 Speaker 5: Robert Joiner, thirty five of Detroit. 2386 01:52:39,760 --> 01:52:43,040 Speaker 4: Here we go, Uh, is recovering in a local hospital 2387 01:52:43,160 --> 01:52:45,479 Speaker 4: with Ray NetTel Moore, forty four. 2388 01:52:45,680 --> 01:52:48,280 Speaker 5: Oh, this sounds like a black couple of Detroit. She 2389 01:52:48,479 --> 01:52:52,120 Speaker 5: is losed in jail. Oh he was thirty five and 2390 01:52:52,280 --> 01:52:53,240 Speaker 5: she was forty four. 2391 01:52:54,080 --> 01:52:55,320 Speaker 7: Mm hmm, she like me young? 2392 01:52:55,600 --> 01:52:58,360 Speaker 5: What in the Z and DAYA and John David Washington? 2393 01:52:58,439 --> 01:52:59,160 Speaker 5: That's happening here? 2394 01:52:59,280 --> 01:53:00,600 Speaker 7: I see Ah. 2395 01:53:00,680 --> 01:53:04,200 Speaker 5: The incident occurred at six thirty am on Sunday. The 2396 01:53:04,280 --> 01:53:06,519 Speaker 5: couples of the couple's home. Authorities to lead. 2397 01:53:06,560 --> 01:53:08,799 Speaker 4: The couple was having a verbal argument when More allegedly 2398 01:53:08,840 --> 01:53:12,799 Speaker 4: grabbed a sword and used to inflict several serious slashing 2399 01:53:12,840 --> 01:53:13,679 Speaker 4: cuts on Joiner. 2400 01:53:16,000 --> 01:53:18,680 Speaker 5: Well, that's uh, I guess you had that rapier wit. 2401 01:53:23,120 --> 01:53:23,519 Speaker 5: That's me. 2402 01:53:24,520 --> 01:53:28,439 Speaker 4: When police arrived on the scene, they found a Joiner 2403 01:53:28,640 --> 01:53:31,640 Speaker 4: lying on the living room floor, bleeding from cuts to 2404 01:53:31,720 --> 01:53:33,560 Speaker 4: his left side and the back of his neck. A 2405 01:53:33,640 --> 01:53:36,120 Speaker 4: bloody sword was found in the dining room. It was 2406 01:53:36,200 --> 01:53:39,599 Speaker 4: confiscated by police. Joiner was transported to a hospital, while 2407 01:53:39,640 --> 01:53:41,920 Speaker 4: More was arrested at the scene. Moore is charged with 2408 01:53:41,960 --> 01:53:44,120 Speaker 4: the salt with intent to murder, assault with intent to 2409 01:53:44,160 --> 01:53:47,240 Speaker 4: do great body, hard for loneous assault, and aggravated assault. 2410 01:53:47,280 --> 01:53:49,599 Speaker 4: The release said her bond is set at what men 2411 01:53:49,680 --> 01:53:52,240 Speaker 4: dollars cash More's probable calls here to set at eight 2412 01:53:52,439 --> 01:53:57,599 Speaker 4: thirty am Wednesday, February third. Shout out to ms Smart's hometown. Okay, 2413 01:53:58,400 --> 01:54:01,519 Speaker 4: that's how it goes down in the Apparently it's so 2414 01:54:01,720 --> 01:54:06,280 Speaker 4: cold in the D and H and also very sharpened 2415 01:54:06,320 --> 01:54:09,320 Speaker 4: the d apparently for me. All right, y'all, that's it 2416 01:54:09,439 --> 01:54:12,840 Speaker 4: for today's episode. We didn't cover a lot of shit, 2417 01:54:13,040 --> 01:54:17,200 Speaker 4: and we had a very murky conversation about mental health 2418 01:54:17,240 --> 01:54:20,280 Speaker 4: and mental illness. Just to summarize it, I just want 2419 01:54:20,320 --> 01:54:22,479 Speaker 4: to say at the end of this episode so that 2420 01:54:22,520 --> 01:54:28,680 Speaker 4: people completely understand what I'm saying, everybody that is involved 2421 01:54:29,120 --> 01:54:33,200 Speaker 4: in the White House shit, the capital and white supremacy, 2422 01:54:34,040 --> 01:54:37,640 Speaker 4: all of them are attracted to white supremacy period. 2423 01:54:40,200 --> 01:54:41,160 Speaker 7: That's why they showed up. 2424 01:54:41,360 --> 01:54:46,120 Speaker 4: And there can be no quarter given to white supremacists. Understand, 2425 01:54:48,040 --> 01:54:50,520 Speaker 4: some of them arrived there in different ways. They did 2426 01:54:50,880 --> 01:54:53,240 Speaker 4: not everyone took the same car, you know what I'm saying. 2427 01:54:53,960 --> 01:54:58,520 Speaker 4: Some people have other issues that are attracted to grandiose 2428 01:54:58,600 --> 01:55:03,440 Speaker 4: people like Trump, like cold figure and some and some don't. 2429 01:55:04,200 --> 01:55:07,640 Speaker 4: But just understand that when we start asking trying to 2430 01:55:07,640 --> 01:55:10,760 Speaker 4: answer that murky ass question, that's why it get murky 2431 01:55:11,480 --> 01:55:16,040 Speaker 4: because everyone's not there of the of the same and 2432 01:55:16,680 --> 01:55:18,080 Speaker 4: not everyone took the same route. 2433 01:55:17,920 --> 01:55:18,320 Speaker 6: To get there. 2434 01:55:18,560 --> 01:55:20,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, because there were some people that were supporting them 2435 01:55:20,800 --> 01:55:22,920 Speaker 1: that were not there. You know, they don't wear the 2436 01:55:22,960 --> 01:55:24,360 Speaker 1: red head and we talked about this before, but a 2437 01:55:24,360 --> 01:55:26,280 Speaker 1: lot of people miss they don't wear the red hats. 2438 01:55:26,320 --> 01:55:28,560 Speaker 1: They're not in the street, they're not vocal or any 2439 01:55:28,560 --> 01:55:30,480 Speaker 1: of that shit. Some of your co works and people 2440 01:55:30,480 --> 01:55:31,120 Speaker 1: that you voted with. 2441 01:55:31,160 --> 01:55:34,000 Speaker 7: That actually voted for him. We turn around and tell 2442 01:55:34,080 --> 01:55:35,960 Speaker 7: you how Trump was a bad person, but. 2443 01:55:36,080 --> 01:55:40,600 Speaker 4: They still believe as black people, I say, we protect ourselves, 2444 01:55:40,760 --> 01:55:42,080 Speaker 4: and I know how I feel personally. 2445 01:55:43,040 --> 01:55:44,920 Speaker 5: I don't have time to quibble with you over what 2446 01:55:45,040 --> 01:55:46,480 Speaker 5: it was like. 2447 01:55:46,600 --> 01:55:48,720 Speaker 4: You will never catch me even having a discussion about 2448 01:55:49,720 --> 01:55:52,400 Speaker 4: you know, the shit like what's because at the end 2449 01:55:52,400 --> 01:55:54,120 Speaker 4: of the day, I'm not gonna front I don't have 2450 01:55:54,320 --> 01:55:57,200 Speaker 4: much of a difference, Like, Okay, you got there because 2451 01:55:57,200 --> 01:56:00,000 Speaker 4: you had some other issues, and you got there because 2452 01:56:00,360 --> 01:56:02,440 Speaker 4: you fucking just hate niggas. 2453 01:56:03,640 --> 01:56:05,600 Speaker 5: Do I won't either you in my house. No, no, 2454 01:56:06,120 --> 01:56:07,720 Speaker 5: No one gets to come in the house, no one. 2455 01:56:08,200 --> 01:56:09,320 Speaker 5: Everyone stays outside. 2456 01:56:09,400 --> 01:56:11,480 Speaker 4: So yeah, I just want to make sure because I 2457 01:56:11,520 --> 01:56:14,000 Speaker 4: know somebody's probably trying to email us right now because 2458 01:56:14,000 --> 01:56:17,280 Speaker 4: we're just talking and we're not psychologists or you know, 2459 01:56:17,360 --> 01:56:19,600 Speaker 4: they we didn't follow the rules of all the shit 2460 01:56:19,640 --> 01:56:24,720 Speaker 4: you're supposed to, but save the email, because it's it's like, honestly, 2461 01:56:25,040 --> 01:56:29,480 Speaker 4: we're just giving our honest opinions and trying to be 2462 01:56:29,520 --> 01:56:33,080 Speaker 4: as sensitive as possible, as positive as possible, but you know, 2463 01:56:33,280 --> 01:56:36,120 Speaker 4: trying to be as real as possible to It's there's 2464 01:56:36,160 --> 01:56:37,840 Speaker 4: a lot of moving parts. When it comes to mental 2465 01:56:37,880 --> 01:56:41,080 Speaker 4: health and social media, it's white supremacy and. 2466 01:56:41,040 --> 01:56:42,760 Speaker 5: All this, and it's not simple. 2467 01:56:42,840 --> 01:56:43,720 Speaker 7: It's a lot of grayer. 2468 01:56:43,920 --> 01:56:46,600 Speaker 4: Hopefully y'all understood what the fuck was trying to relay, 2469 01:56:46,880 --> 01:56:49,240 Speaker 4: you know, and if not, I don't know. 2470 01:56:49,400 --> 01:56:51,680 Speaker 5: See you tomorrow, don't see you tomorrow, talk to you then. 2471 01:56:52,200 --> 01:56:53,080 Speaker 5: Until then, I love you. 2472 01:56:53,760 --> 01:56:53,880 Speaker 6: Wo