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Speaker 1: The Nick Gliser passers.

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Speaker 2: Hello here, I am welcome to the show. It's Nick

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Speaker 2: a Podcast. Thank you for listening. I'm here in Saint Louis.

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Speaker 2: Brian is with us. What's up? Brian?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Did I? I told you? I want to go to

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Speaker 2: see the sphere again? What it was?

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Speaker 1: So it seems like you went to the superior show.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was redeemed. I mean they should have just

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Speaker 2: played the screens from the movie I saw Behind You too.

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Speaker 2: It's like I'm learning, I guess that the screens are

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Speaker 2: super expensive, and but that's no excuse Bono should have

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Speaker 2: taken a pay cut to make the screens better. There's

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Speaker 2: no way that Bono should have looked like been watched

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Speaker 2: what like, there's some way in which they probably filmed

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Speaker 2: themselves practicing and then watched it back and then like

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Speaker 2: what's the experience like? And there's no ways. But but

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Speaker 2: you know what, Yes, there is a way he was

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Speaker 2: satisfied me because we're the only ones who weren't, So

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Speaker 2: there is.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing that's mind boggling. That's always the thing

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Speaker 1: that's mind boggling about art. Does the amount of people

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Speaker 1: who gobble up mediocrity like it's greatness.

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Speaker 2: I they're dear people I love dearly who like things

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Speaker 2: that I can't understand why they like it, and I

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Speaker 2: have to ask them point for point, like and what

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Speaker 2: was funny about this line of this person's thing? I

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Speaker 2: like Anyaall sometimes see that she will like like someone's

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Speaker 2: comedy clip, and I'm like, I want to understand where

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Speaker 2: this light came from. It's no judgment, but like all

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Speaker 2: the judgment right, Like yeah, I'm like, do you just

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Speaker 2: want this person to like you or just being nice?

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Speaker 2: Like is this like a friend? Do you actually think

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Speaker 2: this is funny? And if so explained to me? Because

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Speaker 2: sometimes I'm like, okay, yeah, I got it now, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I just don't relate to that or I have taste,

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Speaker 2: but anyway, so, I definitely art is subjective, but is

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Speaker 2: it is it that I keep here? Like someone told

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Speaker 2: me the other day, oh, because I was complaining about

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Speaker 2: imposter syndrome right on the Girls Chat, Classic Ni classic Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and Carlisle I believe, was like, that's like asking someone

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Speaker 2: like you can't pick like the best color. There's no

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Speaker 2: best color because everyone likes a different color. And I'm like,

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Speaker 2: it's not like that to me it's not like that.

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Speaker 2: There is there are things that are superior and there

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Speaker 2: are things that are not. And yes you can very

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Speaker 2: like there's some Noah's into heavy metal I or in

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Speaker 2: death metal. I don't understand that at all, but I

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Speaker 2: do understand there is a musicality to it that I

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Speaker 2: don't grasp and therefore I'm just left out. But there's

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Speaker 2: some stuff that is.

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Speaker 1: Bad and appreciate, Like there's different types of art that

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Speaker 1: you can still appreciate even though it's not your thing.

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Speaker 1: But then there are some things that are just a

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Speaker 1: bad version of the thing, poorly done.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I don't think it's really subjective because

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Speaker 2: I think we can all all agree on who the

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Speaker 2: best comedians are, like at least the Here's the thing is,

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Speaker 2: some people think they're comedians that are great, but they

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Speaker 2: have bad taste, and that's fine, And I guess it

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Speaker 2: is subjective because they're allowed to think that's bad, but

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Speaker 2: they're they're wrong if you're looking at it like a

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like all agree on the

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Speaker 2: best comedians being Chris Rock, Dave Chappelle, John Mulaney, George Carlin,

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Speaker 2: Like why why is that? Why do we all agree

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Speaker 2: that if comedy is so subjective, why do we all

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Speaker 2: agree pretty much across the board, Luis k Bilbourg, Why

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Speaker 2: do we all agree that those are the best.

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Speaker 1: Because we're a comedians. We agree No them on out

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Speaker 1: of the street and they'll tell you that they're they're comedians,

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Speaker 1: know their work or somebody like.

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Speaker 2: But if they watch Gabriel Glaciers and they watch John

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Speaker 2: Mulani back to back, I think, well, Gabriel is very good, though,

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Speaker 2: but Gabriel's good.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's what I'm saying. I can appreciate people who

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Speaker 1: like Gabriel Glaciers because I can understand someone liking that.

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Speaker 1: But there are some comedians or whatever. I don't think

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Speaker 1: comedians that we should be talking about that because we're

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Speaker 1: so intriguing mentioned in it. Yeah, but there are some

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Speaker 1: comedians that are just terrible and you're like, how could

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Speaker 2: I just see that there's like, yes, everyone should be

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Speaker 2: able to make art, but we shouldn't all be like

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Speaker 2: it's all has the possibility to be the best. It's like, no,

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Speaker 2: some of it's not. It's just going to be mid.

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Speaker 1: As mid the.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's okay, to be mid, but it's also okay

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Speaker 2: to call something mid. I don't have to act like

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Speaker 2: everything has the potential to be so special and great

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Speaker 2: when I just I just don't. I don't get I

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Speaker 2: But the YouTube, back to the sphere. I just want

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Speaker 2: to say what I saw and compared to YouTube and

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Speaker 2: say that it was that YouTube is good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, one more thing. The one element that we're

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Speaker 1: and like that's why they like mid things. There's there's

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Speaker 2: Good or that's kind of stupid I am because I'm

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Speaker 2: pretty I'm not the smartest person. I'm not smart as

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Speaker 2: I want to be, but I at least know that

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Speaker 2: I'm not as smart as I want to be. I

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Speaker 2: think I'm really grateful. It's maybe I mean not grateful.

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Speaker 2: I know how dumb I am. I know my limitations

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Speaker 2: and it's frustrating. But I think there's some people that

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Speaker 2: are so stupid they don't even know how dumb they are,

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Speaker 2: and that would be a fun kind of place to

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Speaker 2: be in, is to hear big words and go, what

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Speaker 2: the fuck is that? When I hear a big word,

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Speaker 2: I go, how did I not know that word? I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna look it up. I'm gonna learn it. I'm going

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Speaker 2: to practicing execrable because that word is interesting to me.

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Speaker 2: I want to sound learned, and so I practiced yesterday

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Speaker 2: execrable execrable. I looked it up. I was like, it

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Speaker 2: means bad, like discuss, like just the worst. Okay, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I guess. But I had to like really focus on it.

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Speaker 2: And I'm because I'm stupid because that word did not land.

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Speaker 2: And some people. The guy that will use this word

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Speaker 2: is just an intellectual who I listened to. He has

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Speaker 2: a podcast with another guy and they just review music

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Speaker 2: and there they use so many big words and they're

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Speaker 2: Oh good word that what I'm still working on. That's

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Speaker 2: today's word execrable.

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Speaker 1: I got find it.

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Speaker 2: It means like of like beyond just nature. It's like

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Speaker 2: like unterwordly worldly.

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Speaker 1: I believe.

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Speaker 2: I think I could be wrong. That's the thing. I'll

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Speaker 2: learn a word and then I won't know how to

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Speaker 2: use it. But but I know, like there was a

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Speaker 2: frustration yesterday of like, why can't I just be as

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Speaker 2: smart as these guys. I've heard these words, why don't

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Speaker 2: they stick for me in a way that I can

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Speaker 2: And I like realizing that limitation in myself made me

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Speaker 2: a little bit frustrated. But I think there's some people

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Speaker 2: that out. That's not for me. And I don't care

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Speaker 2: that I don't know it, And that's fine. I don't

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Speaker 2: even think that it's a They don't even think it's

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Speaker 2: or whatever it is.

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Speaker 1: Like I just well, you know what, like that person,

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Speaker 1: I love that person. They're a great hang. They'd throw

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Speaker 1: you a great birthday party. They're probably gonna be really empathetic.

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Speaker 1: I think people like that are generally they have their place.

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Speaker 1: It's just not because you know, I think people who

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Speaker 1: are like I think what you're describing is somewhat of

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Speaker 1: like a perfectionistic quality. And I think people who like

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Speaker 2: Don't who hear a word and don't care about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, no, people who care about the words are perfectionists.

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Speaker 1: And people who don't care just like whatever, and like

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Speaker 1: those people are fun to hang out with.

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Speaker 2: They don't take it personally that they don't know.

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Speaker 1: Definitely not. And those are and those people can be fans,

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Speaker 1: Like I mean, I guess I maybe I want to

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Speaker 1: step back on what I said about everybody being stupid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe it's stupid. It's not a crime to be.

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Speaker 1: Stupid, No, And I think maybe it just people have

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Speaker 1: different strengths and weaknesses. But also when I think about

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Speaker 1: Internet and like just reading comments and like how dumb

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Speaker 1: everybody is on on Twitter and on comments, and you

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Speaker 2: In November, I guess, Yeah, will it's it's it does

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Speaker 2: feel disheartening to read Instagram comments, YouTube comments, which I

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Speaker 2: don't really do so much of, but Reddit is where

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Speaker 2: you go, Oh, people are still smart and really thoughtful.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that. Yeah, And it's and it's not

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Speaker 2: like just intellectuals on there or anything. It's it pretty

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Speaker 2: and like using correct punk punctuation and stuff. And that's

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Speaker 2: just like a that's about that's our education system. It's like,

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Speaker 2: there are people that are capable of using commas in

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Speaker 2: the right place and you're and your knowing the difference

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Speaker 2: and stuff like that, and they just didn't get good

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Speaker 2: teachers and so it's not their fault. But I will

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Speaker 2: say about the the sphere thing was so awesome. It's

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Speaker 2: called Postcard from Earth and it's pretty much about it's

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Speaker 2: like a movie. It's a fifty minute movie by Darren Arnofsky.

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Speaker 2: And I saw his movie that Jennifer Lawrence was in

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Speaker 2: Mother I think, and it was terrifying. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 2: kind of like, what's this gonn swan Yeah, and oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: and I saw the Whale and I didn't love the Whale,

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Speaker 2: but I liked the way it was shot, and I

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Speaker 2: was excited to see what he would do with this.

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Speaker 2: It was so pretty, it was so stunning. There were

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Speaker 2: breathtaking moments, like you know, it starts out there's an

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Speaker 2: alien ship and these aliens that have like been cryogenically frozen.

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Speaker 2: They're not aliens, sorry, they're humans, but they're on a

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Speaker 2: spaceship and they've been frozen because the war Old ended,

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Speaker 2: I guess, and they're waking up on this new world

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Speaker 2: and they're learning about where they came from and it's

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Speaker 2: called it was called the Earth, and here's what the

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Speaker 2: Earth was about. So they take you through and then

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Speaker 2: but at first, Brian, Okay, the screen was just a square,

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Speaker 2: like the way you would see it a movie theater.

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Speaker 2: That's all you were seeing. When the spaceship part was very.

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Speaker 1: Small, a very small amount of the actual.

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Speaker 2: Sphere big you know, like if you saw that big

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Speaker 2: of a screen else. It was a huge screen, but

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Speaker 2: it's like not using all the sphere screen. So I

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Speaker 2: was like, are they doing this? And again, but it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you got like I missed an opportunity to be like,

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Speaker 2: we will not accept this, and I was like, Babe,

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Speaker 2: they're gone, and I'm okay with it. Because this has

431
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Speaker 2: happened as someone with an eating disorder who hyper focuses

432
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Speaker 2: on certain foods. All my girls out there and guys

433
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Speaker 2: that have eating disorders that's hyper focus on a certain

434
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Speaker 2: brand or kind of flavor of something. You know it's

435
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Speaker 2: going to be discontinued eventually, or they're going to change

436
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Speaker 2: the flavor. It happens, and you get a move on

437
00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:38,760
Speaker 2: to something else.

438
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Speaker 1: They'll change the formula and then the thing you once

439
00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:41,720
Speaker 1: loved is now shit.

440
00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, or the packaging and it just looks different. Fuck

441
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Speaker 2: is this like? This is even with every This is

442
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Speaker 2: something with probably dozens of products for me. So yeah,

443
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Speaker 2: you're you're we got to go to break but you're

444
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Speaker 2: you're deodorant or you're on the lookout for a new one.

445
00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:58,000
Speaker 1: I think I might have found a new one natural.

446
00:20:58,480 --> 00:20:59,240
Speaker 1: It's all natural.

447
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm telling you this purely great stuff that if

448
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:05,000
Speaker 2: someone's listening and wants to find adodo that literally makes

449
00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:08,560
Speaker 2: you smell negative like no smell. It's a fucking miracle.

450
00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,119
Speaker 2: No natural deodorants are like this. I We've never found one.

451
00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:14,240
Speaker 2: Chris tried them all purely great. You stir it with

452
00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:15,840
Speaker 2: a stick and you have to like ladle it on

453
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Speaker 2: your armpit. But it works, It works real good. All right,

454
00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:24,480
Speaker 2: we'll be back with more after this. So, Brian, you

455
00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:27,400
Speaker 2: have been working on something that just got announced.

456
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so related to this. Actually, I'm going to Vegas tomorrow.

457
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:33,000
Speaker 2: Oh nice?

458
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Speaker 1: Yeah with uh? With Tim? Tim Dillon is doing shows

459
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Speaker 1: in Vegas. I'm not opening for going.

460
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Speaker 2: Where's he performing?

461
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:45,280
Speaker 1: The comedy club that's there? What's the comedy club called?

462
00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 2: I don't know. There's lots of them.

463
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Speaker 1: Wise guys, is that right? I don't know. Yeah, but

464
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Speaker 1: I'm now that you mentioned it reminded me that I

465
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:55,000
Speaker 1: should go to this fear and check out that show.

466
00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's like four there's like four showings of it today.

467
00:21:57,880 --> 00:21:59,280
Speaker 2: I can't wait to hear your thoughts on it. It's

468
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Speaker 2: really fun and like just a quick day and it's

469
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,920
Speaker 2: peoful and it was awesome. So yeah, go, so, uh

470
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Speaker 2: you're going with Tim Dillon. Tim has a TV show

471
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Speaker 2: coming out on a special coming out on Netflix, an

472
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Speaker 2: election special, right. Yeah.

473
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Speaker 1: Well it's it's like a talk show. Basically, it's like

474
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Speaker 1: a talk show comedy special that's based around the election,

475
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Speaker 1: and instead of focusing on the candidates, it's focusing on

476
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Speaker 1: the electorate and asking the question do we get what

477
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Speaker 1: we deserve? And it's really like a resurrection of trash

478
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,560
Speaker 1: talk shows from the nineties basically.

479
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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, oh my god, where did those go?

480
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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, but we need.

481
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Speaker 2: Because we are are We are already primed for them,

482
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Speaker 2: because we grew up with them, We know the format,

483
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Speaker 2: we can recognize it. And also who better to work

484
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Speaker 2: in that kind of atmosphere and wrangle those kinds of people.

485
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Speaker 1: But Tim Dillon, I mean, he's culmination of everything he's

486
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Speaker 1: ever done. It's like the perfect vehicle for him.

487
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Speaker 2: Good it's gonna When I saw the there was like

488
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Speaker 2: a on on Reddit. I saw a post about like,

489
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,359
Speaker 2: we need audience members for this show, for this talk show,

490
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 2: and we need you to be crazy, like it was

491
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:19,159
Speaker 2: asking for like unhinged people, rowdy.

492
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I know.

493
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Speaker 2: And that's before the announcement came and I was like,

494
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Speaker 2: what is And then I talked to another guy who's

495
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 2: working on it and he kind of told me about

496
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:30,640
Speaker 2: it too, and I was like, this is perfect. And

497
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Speaker 2: the greatest part about it is that if it's a

498
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Speaker 2: shit show, which it sounds like it'll be, that's the goal. Yeah,

499
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Speaker 2: you know, and Tim thrives in those environments. I just

500
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,199
Speaker 2: cannot wait to see this. Yes, I'll watch anything that

501
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Speaker 2: man does, but especially this kind of just him him,

502
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Speaker 2: He is just he's so he gets along with everyone.

503
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Speaker 2: He has a way of being making everyone feel seen,

504
00:23:55,680 --> 00:24:00,439
Speaker 2: everyone feel comfortable, making everyone feel funny and a pre shaated,

505
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 2: while also sneaking in just like devastating critiques of people

506
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:08,160
Speaker 2: without them really noticing, especially if they're not the smartest

507
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,199
Speaker 2: and the quickest, Like he is just an ability to

508
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 2: He's just so good. I can't wait.

509
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:13,360
Speaker 1: Is it's going to be amazing. I mean I said

510
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Speaker 1: this in the pitch deck. I said, this will be

511
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Speaker 1: the most accurate portrayal of America that television has ever seen. Ooh,

512
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Speaker 1: I think it will be. And yeah, And there was

513
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Speaker 1: a deadline article out yesterday and it was my first

514
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 1: ever mentioned in an industry trade.

515
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 2: You were in it, yes, yeah, first ever.

516
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Speaker 1: Which is you know, I've been like a showrunner before,

517
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Speaker 1: I've been EPs on things before, but I've never had

518
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Speaker 1: a deadline article. Yes, and so this was a big

519
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Speaker 1: moment for Team bry Oh.

520
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Speaker 2: Deadline is everything in the business.

521
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Speaker 1: That's like me getting a picture with Jason Moranz, like

522
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Speaker 1: I need to do these things.

523
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:53,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, you need that deadline. That is exactly what it is.

524
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Speaker 2: It's currency in this business. I've always said, like the

525
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Speaker 2: deadline article is probably a bigger splash then, honestly, like

526
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Speaker 2: the poster for the show that you have coming out

527
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 2: if you post it like yeah, or even the show itself,

528
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 2: Like more people care about the deadline article.

529
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:10,159
Speaker 1: Yeah.

530
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Speaker 2: I'm not exaggerating like it sounds like I'm just saying

531
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Speaker 2: something to say something. I truly get more attention when

532
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 2: I post a deadline thing of like I might be

533
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:22,639
Speaker 2: doing this show than when the show comes out. Without question,

534
00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 2: it's wild. So that's really exciting. And you're filming it

535
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,199
Speaker 2: in August filming it.

536
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Speaker 1: We're filming it in August. And if you're bestie and

537
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 1: you're in the LA area and you're interested in going

538
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 1: to the taping, then.

539
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 2: Dude, you gotta go. I would go.

540
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Speaker 1: If I could go, message me on Instagram and I

541
00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 1: will forward you the link and then I'll just make

542
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Speaker 1: sure that you're selected. You know, there's limited seats or whatever.

543
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,400
Speaker 2: But how intensely are you working on this right now?

544
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Speaker 1: It's pretty intense. It's like, uh, it's I'm feeling it

545
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:57,880
Speaker 1: in my body like I I did not, like my

546
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 1: wife Ali said, yeah yesterday, like she literally said, like,

547
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Speaker 1: can you calm down, cause I'm just like pacing around

548
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 1: the house like I'm on the phone like twenty four

549
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 1: to seven doing the equivalent of yelling. But it's, you know,

550
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: just me talking like when I'm when I'm amped up

551
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: and I'm like doing like business chatter. It's it's always.

552
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:18,680
Speaker 2: Sounds like yelling upset.

553
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 1: I sound upset, and I'm just on that mode. Like yeah,

554
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Speaker 1: I'm just on that mode like probably like ten hours

555
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Speaker 1: a day. And I didn't even realize like how amped

556
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Speaker 1: I've been, Like I was, I was, I feel calmed,

557
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 1: thick because I did some stuff to calm myself down

558
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Speaker 1: over the last couple of days. But I've been like

559
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:40,320
Speaker 1: adrenaline fuel super amped, you know, my typical Like did

560
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,880
Speaker 1: just first of all, just recognize that, Like I didn't

561
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Speaker 1: recognize I was like going out one hundred miles an

562
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Speaker 1: hour super amped, And I didn't even realize how much

563
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Speaker 1: stress I had until I was like, wait a second,

564
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Speaker 1: I feel like I've been yelling for like fourteen straight days,

565
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Speaker 1: going out one hundred miles an hour and I didn't

566
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Speaker 1: even notice, and my wife had to say, can you

567
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Speaker 1: calm down?

568
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Speaker 2: Well, it's good you didn't notice that. I feel like

569
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:06,159
Speaker 2: usually you're have residual like pains.

570
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 1: People, Well I did. I was like suffering through incredible

571
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: amounts of pain. But that's just par for the course.

572
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 2: What did you do? What did you do? You like,

573
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 2: did breathing stuff or meditation or.

574
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's like rounds from the DNRS program, which I've

575
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:24,199
Speaker 1: talked about before. I've done just like just being recognizing it,

576
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:28,680
Speaker 1: calming down, breathing. And then also I've returned to therapy

577
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 1: for the first time. Oh, therapy again. I've done two

578
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:38,720
Speaker 1: sessions now with like a pain psychology therapist. Yeah, it's

579
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 1: the same therapist I had six years ago. Great when

580
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 1: I initially started and I stopped seeing her because I

581
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 1: started doing the DNRS program. And let me tell you,

582
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 1: it's really fascinating to resume a relationship with someone that

583
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 1: you haven't seen for precisely six years.

584
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, because pre COVID.

585
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Speaker 1: Well, it's a long enough amount of time for like

586
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: things to change in your life, but not so long

587
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 1: that you're like, of course things have changed. Like if

588
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,200
Speaker 1: you see someone from high school that you haven't seen

589
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,880
Speaker 1: in twenty years, and they're like, I have kids now

590
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 1: and I'm married and I work for this. Like you're like,

591
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 1: of course you do, Like why wouldn't things have changed?

592
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: But six years ago is close enough that you're like, oh, wow,

593
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:24,439
Speaker 1: that is surprising. So like, for example, when I first

594
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:28,680
Speaker 1: started seeing this therapist six years ago, I just started

595
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 1: dating Ali. Oh wow, I didn't talk to her for

596
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 1: six full years, and I get to say, by the way, oh,

597
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 1: she said, are you how how is dating that girl?

598
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 2: Ali?

599
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: How did that go? Like she asked that question that

600
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 1: basically yeah, yeah, she definitely checked her notes, and I

601
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: was like, well, I'm married now to her in fact,

602
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 1: Oh that's cool. Yeah, And it's just exactly, it's like

603
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 1: a time capsule as opposed to like someone who I

604
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 1: knew as a child in camp who's like, what are

605
00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 1: you doing now?

606
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 2: Duff though that you were like, man, I haven't changed.

607
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 1: A lot, yeah, I mean so far. Just like yeah,

608
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 1: I mean I'm still like a suffering you know, and

609
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: like that's annoying.

610
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 2: I actually canceled my therapy session last I go every

611
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 2: other week at this point because I've been doing pretty

612
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 2: well and I canceled last week because I was like,

613
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 2: I don't really have anything. I just wrote toward the

614
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 2: day of I was like, I know I'm getting charged

615
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 2: for this, but like, I just don't have anything that

616
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 2: I need to like talk about or yeah or piece

617
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 2: together or make sense of. And I know that's not

618
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 2: what therapy is always for. It's just sometimes just good

619
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,239
Speaker 2: to do. But I'm like, I just I'm sorry. I

620
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 2: just like she doesn't fucking care. But I was like,

621
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 2: I'm I'm sorry. And then oh, immediately this and I

622
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 2: was almost like, maybe I'll just stop, you know, like

623
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 2: maybe in my life is perfect now and I don't

624
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 2: have anything to complain about. And of course it creeps

625
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 2: back in eventually, but it's kind of nice to have

626
00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 2: someone who's a little bit on call.

627
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 1: But you don't you don't have to do therapy every

628
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 1: week for the rest of your life, like it can be. Like,

629
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Speaker 1: especially after you develop a foundation of concepts and tools

630
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 1: you can use and an understanding of like what your

631
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 1: specific deal is, you should be able to like take

632
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 1: those tools out into the wild and use them and

633
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 1: you can return to therapy whenever you want. You don't,

634
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: you don't have to don't. You don't. You shouldn't have

635
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 1: to rely on them for every week for the rest

636
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 1: of your life. You should feel okay being like you

637
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 1: know what, I'm good. Maybe you have to come back

638
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 1: in a year or two, and.

639
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's just tough for I just think about

640
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 2: their business model and like, okay, if I if I

641
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 2: just go, actually, I'm not going to do this week,

642
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 2: and I give her enough notice that she does. She

643
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 2: has an open space, but she doesn't make money off

644
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 2: of it. Like I've kind of fucked her over by

645
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 2: being like I'll just pick.

646
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 1: And it's like canceling Netflix and on watching everything in

647
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 1: a month, then canceling it.

648
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I feel well that I wouldn't feel bad about,

649
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 2: but this on Like I'm just like she doesn't have

650
00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 2: time to feel like I just feel obligated to well.

651
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 1: But it's not like you're just doing it for a week.

652
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: I don't know why you feel that way, but it's

653
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 1: not like you're just seeing her for a week and

654
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: then bouncing. You're seeing her for like eight months a year. Yeah,

655
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 1: and then you're bouncing for a long time and coming back.

656
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 1: That's okay, Yeah, that should be expected.

657
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 2: That's true. I just I do couples therapy too. I

658
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 2: just can't do too much of it. It's just and

659
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 2: I do voice lessons, like there's just some seems to

660
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 2: be a lot of there's a lot of like talking

661
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 2: about my limitations that I can only take so much of.

662
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 2: And then I do this podcast and talk about him too.

663
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 2: I just can only take so much every week. But

664
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 2: I will say that I am creeping back into meditation

665
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:41,719
Speaker 2: because I had nice reminders of it. I'm reading Ian Carmel. Carmel, Yeah,

666
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 2: he's a comedian writer, was writer on James Gordon for

667
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 2: the whole time. I think he ended up head writer

668
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 2: of it. But he is so funny. And he wrote

669
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 2: this book called The Wet t Shirt Club, and it's

670
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 2: about being fat, fat kid, fat fat adult and his

671
00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 2: experience with being fat and society's just they're drilling into

672
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 2: our heads that it's wrong, and how he grew like

673
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 2: growing up in the early two thousands, late nineties, how

674
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 2: was just so bad to be a fat kid because

675
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:14,680
Speaker 2: that was like the punchline to everything. There was nobody acceptance,

676
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 2: all the stuff. Yeah, fascinating read so funny, so funny,

677
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 2: But then he kind of talks about how meditation is

678
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 2: now a part of his self care program. And even

679
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 2: just like reading that, I literally put the book down,

680
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 2: was like, let me just try it for five minutes,

681
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 2: like it really talked me into it again, and I

682
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 2: was like, Okay, let me just do this. And then

683
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 2: I'm kind of picking it back up. And then last

684
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 2: night I went to see Jason Moraz and he was

685
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 2: doing like breath exercises during the show with the audience.

686
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 2: He was like, let's all take a deep breath, wow,

687
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 2: and just let it out, and then he did. He

688
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 2: was talking to us about just like being in the

689
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 2: moment because he was talking about, you know that song

690
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 2: that he has, that's the remedy, is the experience, this

691
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 2: is the dangerous Liaison said. The comedy is that it's serious.

692
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 2: He talked about that that song was written when he

693
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 2: had just gotten a recording contract and his life was

694
00:32:57,960 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 2: like blowing up and it was, you know, thirty years

695
00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 2: ago or whatever. And right when this happened, his best

696
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 2: friend got diagnosed with leukemia and he was really having

697
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 2: a struggle, like dealing with the fact that he was

698
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 2: having this amazing moment and that his friend was having

699
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 2: this awful moment and they both grew up in the

700
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 2: same neighborhood. They drank the same water and like dated

701
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 2: the same girl, Like how could this be happened? Like?

702
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 2: And then he was telling his friend about this and

703
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 2: his friend was like, man, I just I'm not gonna

704
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 2: worry my life away, which is a lyric in the song.

705
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 2: He was like, the remedy, the remedy is just living

706
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 2: like it's being present. It's just living right now. It's

707
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 2: not worrying about anything like the outcome. The remedy is

708
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 2: the experience and being present. And that song, it just

709
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 2: breathed new life into that song. And then he also

710
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 2: had a funny thing that was like, let's all take

711
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 2: a deep breath together right now and we all breathe in,

712
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 2: breathe out, and he goes, okay, let's take a deep

713
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 2: breath yesterday. Let's take one tomorrow. And we're all like

714
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 2: what and he goes, Yep, you can't do that. All

715
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 2: you have whenever you're worried about yesterday, whenever you're about tomorrow,

716
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 2: take a deep breath and get centered in right now.

717
00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:01,960
Speaker 2: And then he had another great affers, if that's the word, I.

718
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 1: Don't know.

719
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 2: That he said that his friend who he brought out

720
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:08,959
Speaker 2: on stage to sing with him. They wrote a song

721
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 2: about be in your feet or be where your feet are,

722
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 2: So if you're worrying about something and you're freaking out

723
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 2: and you're like tripping out about the future of the past,

724
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:20,879
Speaker 2: look at your feet and just like be where your

725
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 2: feet are. And that just fucking helped me last night too,

726
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,760
Speaker 2: because I was like kind of spiraling last night because

727
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 2: it was an outdoor concert and there was kind of

728
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 2: like rump. I wasn't getting good cell phone service, and

729
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 2: there was definitely like a vibe in the air, like

730
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 2: the irons on the air felt tornadoish, and there were

731
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 2: storm clouds and there was thunder in the distance, and

732
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:40,839
Speaker 2: it's out in this area of Saint Louis that's really

733
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 2: like flat land where it's almost tornado y. And I

734
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, we wouldn't get tornado signal.

735
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:48,399
Speaker 2: Tornadoes come out of nowhere. Even weathermen can't really predict them.

736
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 2: Our phones are not getting signals to even check the weather.

737
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:55,720
Speaker 2: And it's getting like blustery, and then and then I realized,

738
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 2: oh my god, Okay, so then it was blustery, right,

739
00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 2: it was like windy, and I was like, oh my god,

740
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:01,839
Speaker 2: tornado's coming. And I was like, we should probably leave.

741
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:03,760
Speaker 2: And then all of a sudden, it got really calm

742
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 2: and the and the wind stopped, and I was like,

743
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:07,800
Speaker 2: oh good, it's stopped. And then I go, wait a second,

744
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:09,879
Speaker 2: the calm before the storm. So I was like, oh

745
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:13,239
Speaker 2: my god. And then I realized nothing could happen in

746
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 2: that moment that wouldn't allow my brain to convince myself

747
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 2: that the tornado is coming. If it's calm, if it's windy,

748
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 2: no matter what, a tornado's coming. And then he said

749
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 2: the thing about be where your feet are, and I

750
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 2: just was like, Okay, if I die in tornado right now,

751
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 2: it's fine, Like I am away, I'm doing my best.

752
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 1: To avoid that tornado. Your feet would go off the

753
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 1: ground and you'd be floating.

754
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, my feet, Oh, I would get probably bisected by

755
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 2: a stop sign, and then my feet.

756
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:40,280
Speaker 1: Would be your feet would the ground You can't.

757
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:46,280
Speaker 2: Miles from where my body would be found. Yeah, it's

758
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 2: so I just like I needed that reminder of like

759
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 2: be present. And then also another thing that like kind

760
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 2: of you know, I think we're always getting these messages

761
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 2: and they just sink in when we need them. Have

762
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,399
Speaker 2: you seen Neil Brennan's latest special, the.

763
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 1: One where he's had Yeah, yeah, well I haven't seen it.

764
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 1: I listened to it while playing basketball, and I didn't.

765
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 2: I listened to it too.

766
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

767
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 2: I listened to it down two times of speed because

768
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 2: that's just how I do things. And I was closing

769
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 2: my eyes because I was trying to sleep, but I

770
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:15,759
Speaker 2: was like, let me put on something that's inspiring. I

771
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 2: stayed awake the whole time. I thought it was fucking

772
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:18,919
Speaker 2: so good.

773
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought it.

774
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 2: Was nearly every joke was like a closer level of

775
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 2: joke in terms of just like I don't know acuity,

776
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:30,840
Speaker 2: and the just making me think about a thing in

777
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 2: a way I never have, and like kind of like

778
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 2: sending me off with a new perception of how I

779
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 2: used to compare things. His comparison from female organisms to

780
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 2: the uber app is worse than watching the whole special alone,

781
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:43,359
Speaker 2: because that was so fucking good and so on point.

782
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:46,319
Speaker 2: I love when an analogy isn't just for comedic's sake,

783
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 2: but actually explains something in such a genuine way that

784
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 2: you don't really have to stretch too far to make

785
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 2: it fit. It was amazing, but he said in the

786
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 2: special about all these influencers. You know, he calls them

787
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 2: like I forget what he calls him, like like clasp hand,

788
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 2: where they like kind of do this and they go

789
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 2: hey man, and and a lot of them have the

790
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 2: story of especially the women of like trauma and how

791
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 2: like no one believed in me and I did it.

792
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,399
Speaker 2: And he's like, no one thinks about you. And I've

793
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 2: heard that said before, and so at first I was like,

794
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,880
Speaker 2: where's this going, and he goes, there's no one sitting

795
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 2: up at night being like, ah, I hope that bitch

796
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:24,320
Speaker 2: doesn't starts her own I hope that bitch doesn't start

797
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:26,840
Speaker 2: her own business. And that was so funny to me,

798
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 2: because no one is thinking about you, even if you're

799
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 2: someone in the spotlight, like they might comment shit, but

800
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 2: they're not really preoccupied with you. And so my failures

801
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 2: or my limitations are really only my own to fret over,

802
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 2: and that is my own choice. And I don't really

803
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 2: need to think about how I'm perceived, because yes I'm perceived,

804
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 2: but it really I know this, but it doesn't really

805
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 2: matter and it all amounts to nothing in the end. Ah,

806
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 2: Oh were in my life? Oh, I was like, oh

807
00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 2: my god, yeah, we all in on too nothing. In

808
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 2: the end, let's not fret about this stuff. But at

809
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 2: the same time, work needs to be done, and the

810
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:06,359
Speaker 2: only way to get work done is to work.

811
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 1: To be fair, I will say this there, I do

812
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 1: have a list of about five to seven people who

813
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: I do wish would not succeed in their own business.

814
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 1: I think about that. I have about seven five enemies

815
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:18,920
Speaker 1: that I'm like, you know, once a week, I'm like,

816
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:24,760
Speaker 1: let me see what they're doing, really, really, absolutely absolutely

817
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 1: five and five enemies who have done me wrong, who

818
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: when when I see them fail, I go get what

819
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:33,320
Speaker 1: you deserve.

820
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well let's take that apart when we get

821
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:41,360
Speaker 2: back from the rank. Okay, So you have these enemies

822
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 2: me like that you hope do not succeed because you

823
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:48,760
Speaker 2: probably think they're like not talented. They either they probably

824
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 2: scorned you in some way, or I'm guessing they just

825
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,280
Speaker 2: aren't that talented, and you're like resentful of their success?

826
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 2: Is that mostly it?

827
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 1: No, No, these are no, I'm never resentful of people's

828
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 1: success that have nothing to do with me. It's people

829
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 1: who have actively hurt me in this business or in

830
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: you know, that have done things that are like that.

831
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 1: We were that conflicted with my goals. Yeah, and I go,

832
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,920
Speaker 1: if I ever get the chance to to sabotage you,

833
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 1: I will, and if you ever fail, I will laugh.

834
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 1: And if you succeed, I'll be upset. And you know what,

835
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 1: I I could let go of that. I could let

836
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 1: go of that.

837
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 2: But I think I can help everyone with this. When

838
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:30,840
Speaker 2: someone you hate succeeds, just know that nothing lasts forever,

839
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,879
Speaker 2: and the only worst thing than not succeeding is when

840
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 2: you succeed and then you lose it, which everyone will.

841
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 2: No one just keeps succeeding, except like bezos, you know

842
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 2: what I mean. Like, no one on have a downfall.

843
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:48,360
Speaker 2: Someone's business that everyone's talking about, or some recipe they

844
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,240
Speaker 2: made on TikTok and they're getting a bunch of attention

845
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:54,080
Speaker 2: or they post They're like some some girl from your

846
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 2: group of friends who's like, has a following in some

847
00:39:57,200 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 2: way and she thinks she's hot shit, She's a eventually

848
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 2: gonna lose that in some way. Either she's not going

849
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:04,359
Speaker 2: to keep growing in the way she wants, or it's

850
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 2: gonna stagnate and there's going to be a severe disappointment

851
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 2: in herself. And I only know this because I've experienced

852
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 2: it myself, and it's my own thing that I think about.

853
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 2: The second I get anything, I always just think about

854
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,399
Speaker 2: when I'm gonna lose it, So just I think about

855
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 2: that when I get jealous of other people, that they

856
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:23,399
Speaker 2: will lose it. Yeah, and that's soothing to me, because

857
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 2: that hurts worse than maybe never even getting it.

858
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I just want to be clear, this isn't jealousy.

859
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 1: This is just as pure animosity. For no, I get

860
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 1: directed at these people that I just want to be

861
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 1: a well yeah if they got things, and then I

862
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 1: was like why, But even if they don't have things,

863
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, I just want you to fail. And I

864
00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:42,960
Speaker 1: know this makes me sound like a bad person. I

865
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 1: probably should really know, I should release myself of this anger,

866
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:48,320
Speaker 1: Like you know, when you it's like drinking poison and

867
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 1: expecting it to hurt the other person. But no, I

868
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 1: believe that everybody should have at least five enemies, and

869
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:56,360
Speaker 1: if you don't have five enemies, you're just not trying

870
00:40:56,360 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 1: hard enough. You're not trying to succeed something wrong. Even

871
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: know five.

872
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 2: Enemies, I really can't think of a single enemy I have.

873
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:08,720
Speaker 2: Maybe I can think of some people, but I don't

874
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 2: really wish them ill. I can think of some people

875
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 2: I just don't want to run into because they cause

876
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 2: me stress and I don't want to deal with their bullshit,

877
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 2: and I know that they could suck me back in

878
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:20,759
Speaker 2: and like kind of ruin my life. And if they

879
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 2: even it's almost like the way I felt in high school,

880
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 2: where like there's some people like the class clown or

881
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 2: the guy that the kid that makes fun of people's looks.

882
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 2: I would just want to be invisible to that guy,

883
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 2: you know. And that's kind of the way I feel

884
00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:36,920
Speaker 2: about these people, is that I think they might know

885
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 2: the truth about me, and I want to be very

886
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:43,439
Speaker 2: silent to them so that they don't call it out

887
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,320
Speaker 2: and make fun of me to other people or something.

888
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 2: I think that's my my enemy. It's probably like someone

889
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 2: like you that i've you know what I mean, Like

890
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 2: the way you feel about these people is probably the

891
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 2: way that they feel about me, Like I'm somehow wronged.

892
00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:59,320
Speaker 1: I just want to be clear. When I have these enemies,

893
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 1: I don't want them to get sick. I don't want

894
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 1: them to be some tragedy to befall them I don't

895
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:06,839
Speaker 1: want them to be even sad. I just want them

896
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:10,920
Speaker 1: to specifically fail at the thing that they that's sad.

897
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:13,319
Speaker 1: Usually that's worse sick.

898
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,800
Speaker 2: I would rather be sick than fail at my career, honestly.

899
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 1: I mean, but these weld it most people. No, I

900
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 1: don't think so, okay, I ask.

901
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 2: You this, Okay. The other day we were talking about

902
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 2: the submarine. Yeah, the Spade has a joke about it

903
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 2: where he's like, I missed that crazy little suck. He

904
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 2: talks about it, and so we were talking about it,

905
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 2: and Bobby U Miamoto, who opens for US in Vegas sometimes,

906
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 2: he was there and he was saying, that's not like

907
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:47,799
Speaker 2: the worst way to die, because I was talking about

908
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:50,359
Speaker 2: how they probably actually died, which Bill Dixon, who you're

909
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:53,800
Speaker 2: working with on Tim Dillon's thing. Yes, Bill Dixon enlightened

910
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 2: me to how the we all think the sub just

911
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 2: like all of a sudden, it was like like and

912
00:42:57,200 --> 00:42:59,240
Speaker 2: it just imploded and they died in a split second

913
00:42:59,239 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 2: and they didn't even know.

914
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:00,360
Speaker 1: Mhm.

915
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 2: But what's more likely and this is the thing I

916
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 2: just it's almost like the human centipede where I've ruined

917
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 2: it for my mom and now she can't get it

918
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 2: out of her head. Yeah, like literally ear muffs for

919
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:16,280
Speaker 2: people if you want to not hear about a horrific death.

920
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 2: But they probably lost power and started plummeting down nose diving,

921
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 2: all alive. And then it was imploded as soon as

922
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 2: it reached the pressure that it was going to have

923
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 2: that pressure happen. But at first it was a lot

924
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:32,319
Speaker 2: of screaming and the toilet emptying to the bottom, and

925
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 2: them all like all five of them kind of in

926
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 2: the nose of it, climbing all over each other, screaming

927
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 2: to death until it imploded. Noisy, and that sounds horrific, right,

928
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 2: But then Bobby was like, that's I mean, in the

929
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 2: scheme of things, it's not the worst. I go, how

930
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 2: is that not the worst? And he goes, It's better

931
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:53,800
Speaker 2: than dying of like some kind of long term cancer.

932
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,319
Speaker 2: And I'm maybe I'm naive, but I would take long

933
00:43:56,400 --> 00:44:00,080
Speaker 2: term cancer. And I don't have any experience with it,

934
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 2: not even like close personally people in my life that

935
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 2: have died of cancer. It was pretty quickly. I just

936
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 2: don't know that I would ever. I don't know that

937
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 2: I could choose the submarine over that.

938
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: I just don't like to think. When people ask like

939
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: hypotheticals like this, I just say I don't want to

940
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 1: answer this question.

941
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 2: To answer, oh yeah, you sit these out.

942
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, but like yeah, I remember someone.

943
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 2: That's like me, asking like ranking Taylor Swift stuff. I'm like, no,

944
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 2: no comment, not gonna. No song is better than the other,

945
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 2: No one is worse.

946
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: Everything's great, thinking of thinking of way as you possibly

947
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 1: die as like my Taylor Swift. Yeah, it's like the opposite.

948
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 2: Oh you went, No, you are obsessed with it, like

949
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 2: you don't think about it.

950
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 1: I don't know.

951
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 2: Anytime you have free time, that's what you do.

952
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:43,399
Speaker 1: With it pretty much.

953
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 2: No.

954
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:47,120
Speaker 1: Someone one time I was at like a Christmas party

955
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 1: or something, and someone was like, uh, what would you

956
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 1: rather have happen? Have your hands cut off or your

957
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,759
Speaker 1: feet cut off? And my answer to that was, what

958
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,280
Speaker 1: the fuck is wrong with you? That was my answer.

959
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 2: Well, that person probably was struggling with social anxiety and

960
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 2: had looked up some fun or No.

961
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,480
Speaker 1: It wasn't like that. It wasn't we were friends, we're friends.

962
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 1: This was It wasn't like some stranger came to me

963
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: and Greg though his name was, it wasn't Greg.

964
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 2: I think I would rather that's a really tough one.

965
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 2: I think that's interesting.

966
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 1: These are these I don't want to think about question.

967
00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 2: But also thinking about things like makes them happen. Like

968
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:29,879
Speaker 2: I had a oh my god, I had a vision

969
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 2: the other really horrible vision. I've been having, like almost

970
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:35,959
Speaker 2: final destination vision.

971
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 1: You're doing this twisters thing out in theaters now, by

972
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 1: the way out.

973
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:43,840
Speaker 2: In theaters now, and there's no romance in it. Not

974
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 2: interested if Glenn Palell's not making out. I don't want

975
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 2: to see it. But actually we are excited to see it.

976
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 2: Chris and I we're pal heads. But I have been

977
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 2: visioning and envisioning these horrific things, which is not something

978
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 2: that I my mind would usually go to and I

979
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:02,240
Speaker 2: s and then I try to like shake it off,

980
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:05,399
Speaker 2: and I go, god, I don't want that. But then

981
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 2: I also have been looking so much into manifestation stuff

982
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 2: and visualization and how that can help it happen that

983
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:14,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, what the get this out of my head now?

984
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 1: And it's making it worse.

985
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 2: Oh, it's making it so worse. Final thought. Yesterday, Okay,

986
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 2: so I got a I got a new car, right,

987
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 2: I'm leasing a Mercedes three point fifty e q E

988
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 2: electric car Formatic. It's amazing. It's fast, it has like

989
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 2: a light show inside. I can make it pink. It's

990
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 2: like a tailor swift car. It has a white interior,

991
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:44,719
Speaker 2: it's black on the outside. It's beautiful. It's so fucking cool.

992
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 2: It has like the body of an MG or an AMG.

993
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 2: It is the wheels, it's it's like so interesting and unique.

994
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 2: And people have said nice car to me when I

995
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 2: drive past. But it's not like over the top. It's

996
00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 2: not like the one I was driving the AMG. I

997
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 2: was driving around that lots of noise, and it's not chrome.

998
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:04,479
Speaker 2: It's just it just is. Fuck it. It's the best car.

999
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 2: I'm so happy with it. Chris really helped me find it.

1000
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 2: He set it up so that they just dropped the

1001
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 2: car off it to me. I signed some papers. I

1002
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 2: didn't have to stay there all day. Beautiful. I've had

1003
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 2: this car for a week. Yesterday. I have a garage

1004
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:19,799
Speaker 2: on my apartment building. When you enter the garage, you

1005
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:23,719
Speaker 2: have like a little key card up in your rear

1006
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 2: view mirror or a it's supposed to like stick on

1007
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:28,279
Speaker 2: your windshield, but I always have to wave it because

1008
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 2: it doesn't the sensor doesn't connect. But I also a

1009
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 2: tint on my mom's car that I was driving before,

1010
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:35,400
Speaker 2: so we would wave it. Chris goes, you don't have

1011
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:37,400
Speaker 2: to wave it this time. Keep it up in the

1012
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:39,759
Speaker 2: flap and when you drive up, if you get close enough,

1013
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 2: it will sense it. So he showed me a couple times.

1014
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:43,720
Speaker 2: As we were driving it. I was like, Oh, that works.

1015
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 2: I tried it yesterday morning and I'm like, I have

1016
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 2: to get too close. This is making me nervous. I'm

1017
00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 2: just gonna like pull it out and wave. It worked, okay.

1018
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 2: So I got in and I go, I'm just gonna

1019
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 2: go back to waving it. This is too risky because

1020
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 2: I have before with my mom's Lexus gotten too close

1021
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:02,399
Speaker 2: the garage door opened and it like flipped the license plate,

1022
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:04,439
Speaker 2: like bent the license plate and caught the license plate.

1023
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 2: So I was like, not gonna do that again. But

1024
00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 2: I didn't really think of like what could happen on

1025
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 2: a different car or like in a different way. And

1026
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 2: Chris had never had this happen to him. So Chris

1027
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 2: is driving my car yesterday home from the mechanic where

1028
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:18,880
Speaker 2: we had brought my mom's car to have that license

1029
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 2: plate unbent, among other things, before we return it back

1030
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 2: to them and driving my new car home, we get

1031
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:31,839
Speaker 2: to the garage and Chris is not taking it out

1032
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 2: of the visor because he knows that he can get

1033
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 2: close enough that it will sense it. He's getting really

1034
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 2: really close close, and then all of a sudden, the

1035
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 2: garage opens great, and then there is a snag and

1036
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:50,120
Speaker 2: there is an explosive sound, and it rips my front bumper.

1037
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 2: Oh off, cracks like the salac like beautiful coating that's

1038
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 2: on the front, rips off the Mercedes logo. The Mercedes

1039
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:03,600
Speaker 2: as if I was in the movie Twister flies up.

1040
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 2: There is shrapnel all over. It's like five different pieces

1041
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:10,280
Speaker 2: flying so violently in there, crashes.

1042
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 1: Down on what the fuck this happened?

1043
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 2: Rips dude, it's and Chris is like, he is good

1044
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:21,319
Speaker 2: with machines. He knows how to use them, he knows

1045
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 2: how to wield them. He is in touch with them.

1046
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:25,440
Speaker 2: He does not make mistakes. He is someone who is

1047
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 2: so good about treating things and machinery and objects and

1048
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 2: pieces of art and arc and structure with such respect.

1049
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 2: And he he just goes, oh my god, and I go,

1050
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 2: It's okay, it's okay, it's okay. He goes, no, no,

1051
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 2: He gets out of the car. He looks at it

1052
00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 2: and he just holds his head like oh no. He

1053
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 2: falls to the ground, is cradling his head and is

1054
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 2: like catatonic, like cannot speak, just going I'm so sorry,

1055
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:58,400
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I'm just in the passenger seat and

1056
00:49:58,440 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 2: I refuse to get out because I don't even want

1057
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 2: to see the damages.

1058
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:04,399
Speaker 1: It's fine, it's the least. It's yeah, and leases are sacred.

1059
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:05,920
Speaker 2: I don't even know.

1060
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 1: I just like I can understand his reaction because I

1061
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 1: grew up with when dealing with leases, people drilled into

1062
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:16,080
Speaker 1: my brain that nothing bad can happen to a least car,

1063
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 1: or you'll pay seven hundred thousand dollars though oh we'll

1064
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:20,080
Speaker 1: never be able to drive again.

1065
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm glad that did not get in either of

1066
00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 2: our heads because he I think was just like, this

1067
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 2: is going to cost us a lot. But I don't

1068
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:27,240
Speaker 2: think it was about the lease. It was just about

1069
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 2: and he's just embarrassed that he'd made this dumb error.

1070
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:33,759
Speaker 1: But he is. The damage is so comical, but he.

1071
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 2: Will not like get off the ground, like I am

1072
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 2: seriously sitting there for like probably ninety seconds with the

1073
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 2: dog in my lap, going babe, yeah it's okay, and

1074
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 2: he's just like no, no, and nearly in tears. I'm

1075
00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 2: so sorry. I'm so glaze. Oh god, he can't even

1076
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:54,160
Speaker 2: like make words. It's like, I, this is is the

1077
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:57,759
Speaker 2: wor and I go I'm like, it could be so

1078
00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:00,319
Speaker 2: much worse. We could have gotten into a collision, We

1079
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:02,360
Speaker 2: could have the dog could have gotten run over. Like

1080
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 2: a million accidents happen all the time, accidents happened to everyone.

1081
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:10,320
Speaker 2: This is a relatively funny fine one. Yeah, it's gonna

1082
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 2: cost a lot of money. It's embarrassing. It's unfortunate because

1083
00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 2: this is a brand new car. And I never have

1084
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 2: nice things. And we had just literally a minute before this,

1085
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:21,920
Speaker 2: we had just listened to Taylor Swifts this is why

1086
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:24,240
Speaker 2: we can't have nice things. And I was like scream

1087
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 2: singing that, and he was just so sad. He collected

1088
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:30,799
Speaker 2: all the pieces, he put the back in the car.

1089
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,840
Speaker 2: We drive into the garage just silently and he's just like,

1090
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:36,400
Speaker 2: I can't believe this. I can't believe this. And we

1091
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 2: get out. I'm like, I'm not even gonna look at it.

1092
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 2: I'm with the dog. The dog is so alarmed by Chris,

1093
00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:43,440
Speaker 2: Like the dog is in tune with us, right, and

1094
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:46,120
Speaker 2: so the dog knows something is fucking wrong. Even though

1095
00:51:46,160 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 2: I'm staying calm, I'm not expressing. I'm just like grateful

1096
00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:52,319
Speaker 2: that it's I'm like, in the scheme of things, we

1097
00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 2: would be begging for this to happen. If any other

1098
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:56,319
Speaker 2: accident happened that's worse than this, we'd be like, God,

1099
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 2: I wish the front of my car was ripped off

1100
00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 2: by the garage. I was like, it's this, This is

1101
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 2: a blessing, I promise you, and we'll laugh about it someday.

1102
00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:08,239
Speaker 2: I'm trying to make light of it. And then the

1103
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:13,160
Speaker 2: dog runs under my car to hide from the anxiety

1104
00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 2: that it feels in the air. Itally felt the ions

1105
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:18,880
Speaker 2: change and takes. The dog's never like hid from us

1106
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 2: because it's scared or anything. And it's not like Chris

1107
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 2: was like throwing things. He was just like so sad

1108
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:24,239
Speaker 2: that the dog like didn't want to be a part

1109
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 2: of it. So we just like coax the dog out

1110
00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:30,520
Speaker 2: of the under the car and collect all the pieces.

1111
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 2: And Chris is just like he used to get on

1112
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:35,959
Speaker 2: a call within three minutes to like go a zoom

1113
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 2: call that he is for work and he's just I

1114
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:39,719
Speaker 2: hear him on there, just telling the story and just

1115
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:44,080
Speaker 2: being like and he just can't stop apologizing. And I

1116
00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 2: just have to say, I'm very proud of myself because

1117
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 2: I did not care at all, and I know that

1118
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 2: speaks to the fact that I have money and it's

1119
00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 2: Money's not a but it does. Money is something to

1120
00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 2: me and it is going to cost money. And we

1121
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 2: had just gotten done with this where I was like,

1122
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:02,520
Speaker 2: you know what, I want to get to a point

1123
00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 2: where my money is Chris's money, and like, if he

1124
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 2: wants to spend something on something stupid like it, it

1125
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:09,320
Speaker 2: should come out of my money, because like we're a

1126
00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:12,319
Speaker 2: partnership and he helps me be better and if he

1127
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 2: doesn't make a lot of money or enough money and

1128
00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 2: what he does to live the life that I want

1129
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 2: him to live. Then we'd just gotten done talking about it,

1130
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:20,440
Speaker 2: and I was like, I think you should pay for

1131
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:23,279
Speaker 2: this one, but but no, that's what I was like, No,

1132
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 2: I'll pay for it. It's fine because your mistakes are

1133
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 2: my mistakes. Is what a partnership is. I forgive you.

1134
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 2: I think even max verst st I was like, Babe,

1135
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:33,239
Speaker 2: max Verstappen would have made the same mistake. He was like, no,

1136
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 2: that guy knows every he would have studied the car.

1137
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 2: He would have studied And I was like, no, no,

1138
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:39,799
Speaker 2: he wouldn't. Like this is not because you're a bad driver.

1139
00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:42,919
Speaker 2: You can still do F one. But I was proud

1140
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 2: of myself that I did not do what my mom

1141
00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:47,439
Speaker 2: or my dad I think would have done. Situation, which

1142
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 2: is why did you Why do you think that you

1143
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 2: can just drive up to the thing and you you

1144
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:55,719
Speaker 2: think you could get that close? Why can't you just

1145
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:58,480
Speaker 2: take it out of the damn visor and and shake it?

1146
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 2: Why do you always like I just knew what my

1147
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 2: mom would be saying, and like they you know, I

1148
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 2: think people so often just want to find a blame

1149
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:07,839
Speaker 2: of like why did this happen? And why did you

1150
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:09,759
Speaker 2: ruin my thing? And I went to my girl's chat

1151
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm really proud of myself because

1152
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 2: I did not blame him. I didn't care. I forgave

1153
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 2: it immediately. I was like laughing about it, It will

1154
00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:19,760
Speaker 2: be okay. And I think that is something I wish

1155
00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 2: more people. I think I was just doing the golden rule,

1156
00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 2: because when I make mistakes, I just want people to

1157
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 2: be easier about it because they they have to know

1158
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:28,920
Speaker 2: I didn't mean to do that. Yeah, and I think

1159
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:31,480
Speaker 2: that I just knew that. There I go, Babe, there's

1160
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:33,840
Speaker 2: no way on earth you would ever do anything to

1161
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:35,760
Speaker 2: harm this car. You're obsessed with this car. You found

1162
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:37,280
Speaker 2: this car for me. You were the one that convinced

1163
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 2: me that I deserve nice things and that I should

1164
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:41,239
Speaker 2: have this and that it's worth you know, and you

1165
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 2: were the one that talked the price down and negotiated,

1166
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,279
Speaker 2: like you you wouldn't do this on like who, I'm

1167
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 2: not gonna like hold you at fault for it, but

1168
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:53,000
Speaker 2: it was it was just a lesson. And he was like,

1169
00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 2: I really do appreciate how you, he goes. The only

1170
00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:57,719
Speaker 2: thing about you that I don't like when it comes

1171
00:54:57,760 --> 00:54:59,319
Speaker 2: to money is that you don't know how much you have,

1172
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:01,160
Speaker 2: but you really do. You have a good relationship with

1173
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:04,160
Speaker 2: like objects and things. And I remember and Anya said

1174
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:05,479
Speaker 2: to me, she was like, if that were me, i'd

1175
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 2: be pissed because it's my car and I don't like

1176
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:10,239
Speaker 2: think people touching my things. And I just don't I

1177
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:11,799
Speaker 2: don't have that your car.

1178
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 1: It's owned by the bank.

1179
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:15,360
Speaker 2: That's a good point. It's someone else's car in the future,

1180
00:55:15,480 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 2: and they'll never know. I mean, the car facts will

1181
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:19,400
Speaker 2: show what happened, but it'll be as good as new.

1182
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 2: But he did get some glues, so we're just gonna

1183
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:23,360
Speaker 2: glue things together. We can take it to the right place.

1184
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 2: But you are everything, dude.

1185
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 1: I mean, that's such a comical result of that. I

1186
00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 1: don't know, it's a comical kind of accident, like the

1187
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:34,239
Speaker 1: garage door lifting up something. But then the amount of

1188
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:38,280
Speaker 1: damage that occurred is is like it's like a Charlie

1189
00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 1: Chaplin movie.

1190
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:43,160
Speaker 2: Plastic pieces down on us as if we were in Twister,

1191
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 2: and it was just like there was no cars behind us,

1192
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:46,799
Speaker 2: there was no urgency. It just happened in this like

1193
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:49,240
Speaker 2: vacuum where we were alone to just see our car

1194
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:50,400
Speaker 2: get fucked.

1195
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:53,279
Speaker 1: And I gotta imagine it was also relatively slow too,

1196
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:55,240
Speaker 1: because like the things just opening.

1197
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:58,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it kind of was like and then it

1198
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:03,040
Speaker 2: just like a party confetti explosion. Oh my god, plat

1199
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:06,400
Speaker 2: of expensive plastic. But I drove it later that night

1200
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:08,440
Speaker 2: to the last night to the Jason Morales show, and

1201
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:12,280
Speaker 2: I got home and oh, we were watching. I'm watching

1202
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:16,080
Speaker 2: this the documentary on Netflix about receivers, and then I'm

1203
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 2: watching the one that Dan suggested I watch about quarterbacks,

1204
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:21,000
Speaker 2: and I'm watching the Mahomes one and Mahomes is talking

1205
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:25,760
Speaker 2: about how quarterbacks have to recover so quickly from making

1206
00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 2: mistakes because they got the rest of the game and

1207
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:29,319
Speaker 2: they can't be focused on that. They got to go on.

1208
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 2: And so he was like, I just don't. I don't

1209
00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 2: even mistakes. I just let them in and out like

1210
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:35,719
Speaker 2: they just have to pass through. I don't. I can't

1211
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 2: dwell on things, and I just will reach over to

1212
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 2: Chris and I was like, did you forgive yourself for

1213
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 2: the mistake you made today yet? And he was like no,

1214
00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 2: And I was like, let's we got you. Gotta let

1215
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:45,600
Speaker 2: this go. You can't get you.

1216
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:48,040
Speaker 1: Remember who said that to us that exact thing was

1217
00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:51,839
Speaker 1: Rodney Thomas the second at the Super Bowl. He said

1218
00:56:51,880 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 1: that I don't. I just don't dwell on that stuff.

1219
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 1: I don't think about mistakes and I just move on.

1220
00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:58,920
Speaker 1: That's how that I think that's the mindset is hee quarterback.

1221
00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:02,480
Speaker 1: He's a safety. But I just want to remind everybody

1222
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:05,279
Speaker 1: about a movement that you've started that, I think is

1223
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:07,399
Speaker 1: it's I just want to repeat it because it has

1224
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:10,920
Speaker 1: been like, uh, it has created a fundamental change in

1225
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 1: both Alley and I's life, and I think it maybe

1226
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:18,480
Speaker 1: went under the radar. You have this, you have you've

1227
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 1: started a movement where you accept people's apologies and you

1228
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 1: don't force them to apologize more than once. If someone apologizes,

1229
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:30,480
Speaker 1: you accept it. And we've all we've taken that advice

1230
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 1: and we've been applying it to our own lives, and

1231
00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:37,160
Speaker 1: it is really it's hard to resist the urge to

1232
00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:41,600
Speaker 1: repeat break someone over the poles. Yeah, yes, And it's

1233
00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:44,919
Speaker 1: just like if someone brings themselves to apologizing, it's so

1234
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:48,080
Speaker 1: it's it's so nice to just respond to that with

1235
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 1: grace and accept it, and then you have to do

1236
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 1: the work of moving on.

1237
00:57:53,440 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 2: Yes, it's up to you. Now they've passed the baton

1238
00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 2: and it sucks because you didn't answer the baton in

1239
00:57:58,280 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 2: the first place, and they caused the baton to eve

1240
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 2: and be in play. Yeah, that's I really, it's it's

1241
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,720
Speaker 2: the greatest gift you can give yourself. And someone is

1242
00:58:07,840 --> 00:58:10,320
Speaker 2: just like if if someone apologizes, like that's what we're

1243
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:13,920
Speaker 2: all looking for. Nothing can really be You can't rewind

1244
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 2: what happened. You can just like I always say, if

1245
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 2: Trump one day woke up and goes, what the fuck

1246
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 2: have I been doing and saying I'm embarrassed at my behavior?

1247
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 2: I really it doesn't mean I don't think he should

1248
00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:29,720
Speaker 2: be tried for his crimes and like pay the price

1249
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 2: because it sets an example for society to not do

1250
00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 2: those crimes. Yeah, but if he were to wake up

1251
00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 2: one day and anyone really and go what was I.

1252
00:58:37,400 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 1: Think he needs to be a fake. He needs to

1253
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:41,160
Speaker 1: be a real apology. I can understand.

1254
00:58:40,840 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 2: Disgusted with myself and I want to change and I'm

1255
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:44,640
Speaker 2: gonna do better. I'd be like, you know what, I

1256
00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:47,400
Speaker 2: actually forgive you. I would literally forget.

1257
00:58:47,520 --> 00:58:50,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. Like, and this doesn't apply to like a boyfriend

1258
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:52,480
Speaker 1: who cheats on you over and over again just goes

1259
00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:54,400
Speaker 1: I'm sorry sixteen times.

1260
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 2: This apology really is like horror. You know what this

1261
00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 2: is a key compone for me is I'm horrified by

1262
00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 2: thinking about how I act. And maybe that's something just

1263
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 2: people say and they don't mean it. But when people

1264
00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 2: are like I can't, I don't know, I don't really

1265
00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:10,120
Speaker 2: I don't want to be that person anymore. And here's

1266
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 2: what I'm gonna do, so I don't do it again.

1267
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 2: Like they show action, you can't be mad, Yeah, you can't.

1268
00:59:16,560 --> 00:59:18,160
Speaker 1: We need to come up with a name for this

1269
00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:22,280
Speaker 1: movement because I think it's something some good marketing tools

1270
00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 1: for shorthand because its kind of hard to describe what

1271
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:28,920
Speaker 1: it is that we're like the forgiven quick forgiveness or something.

1272
00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:31,960
Speaker 1: Because it's it's important. I think it's important, and I

1273
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 1: think we should practice it more. And then actually forgiven

1274
00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:37,840
Speaker 1: that goes right back fast forgiveness is great. And here

1275
00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 1: I am the guy who just said ten minutes ago

1276
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:42,760
Speaker 1: that I have five enemies who I want to destroy. Yeah,

1277
00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:43,960
Speaker 1: but they never apologize.

1278
00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 2: They exactly if they're not. If they don't apologize, keep

1279
00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 2: those animosities going, let them fuel you. Okay, guys, we

1280
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:53,320
Speaker 2: gotta go. We have a special edition of the podcast

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Speaker 2: called Intrusive Thoughts that we're gonna get to some questions

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Speaker 2: that I asked you guys to ask us on the podcast.

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Speaker 2: And you have to be a big money player's diamond player.

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Speaker 2: I think that's what's called. It's just like I think

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Speaker 2: five bucks a month and then you get all of

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Speaker 2: our episodes, no ads, and then you get these special

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Speaker 2: bonus episodes once a month, and we're about to record

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Speaker 2: one and we're gonna answer your questions on that. But

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Speaker 2: you don't have to listen to that. You can keep

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Speaker 2: listening to this version. It's all here too. We appreciate

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Speaker 2: you listening and coming to see me on the road.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much. Go see Brian's live taping UH

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Speaker 2: for Tim Dillon in la if you're there, we'd love

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Speaker 2: Bestie's in the crowd for that, and have a great week.

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Speaker 2: We'll see you next time. Don't think good bye.