1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: It is time for us to clo Chief Love Officer 2 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This one is from LaDonna in Omaha. La. 3 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:11,639 Speaker 1: Donna says, I'm twenty eight and I used to date 4 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: one of the guys at my job when I was 5 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: in high school. Guys flirt with me at work, and 6 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:20,319 Speaker 1: my ex tries to be territorial. Does he want me 7 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: or is he just hating? 8 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 2: Well, it's a little bit of both. You know, he 9 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 2: dated you in high school. 10 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 3: He does have a memory, so he want you back, 11 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 3: and it is hating, and it's being tot of territory. 12 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:35,199 Speaker 2: It's all of that. It's all of it. 13 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 3: He want you back, he's hating, and he's being territorial. 14 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 2: That's all period. 15 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 4: So what should she do? 16 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 3: I mean, what you want to do? You want to 17 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 3: date him? That's the question. You know, she really trying 18 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 3: to figure out, you know, is he hating? And you 19 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 3: know she's flattered by it really and she just trying 20 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 3: to figure out in her youth, is that what she 21 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 3: want to do. That's up to you. But remember this 22 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 3: not exsis for a reason. Try to remember the reason. 23 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 3: Try to remember the reason. All the reasons, all right, 24 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 3: them might be the same, them just older and. 25 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:17,199 Speaker 4: At work, all right, Sharon and making rights. 26 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: I stopped by my husband's office tuesday to get his 27 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: mail because he's out of town. There's a read's jeweler's 28 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 1: bill in my husband's name, but my husband hates credit cards. 29 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 1: Do you think I should open the mail or ask 30 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 1: my husband about it first? 31 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:36,039 Speaker 2: No, I can't believe you ain't open it. I know 32 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 2: that's right. I would have what woman ain't opening. 33 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 3: Do you think I should open his mail? What your 34 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 3: husband's mail a jeweler? Now, what you could do is 35 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 3: mess up something as a surprise he got for you. 36 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you know that's the only. 37 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 2: You know. Yeah? Right, this ain't gonna go good here? 38 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh? 39 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 4: Should she ask her about it? Then? 40 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 3: Why she asking me that? I don't like I'm saying, 41 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 3: I don't know what you're waiting on you. I can't 42 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:19,359 Speaker 3: believe you ain't opened it. I just don't know how 43 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 3: you haven't opened it. 44 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 1: So maybe she's an honest person and she doesn't. People's 45 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: what I would need anyone that doesn't have your name 46 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 1: on it. 47 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 4: But I would have to. 48 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 2: Get arrested for that. 49 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 4: Well, you're not supposed to open other people's mail, and 50 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 4: you know. 51 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 3: That that's what you want to You can open your 52 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 3: spouse's mail, surely stop. 53 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 2: I don't know what this righteousness to come from her. 54 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 3: You would have opened it and read it and called 55 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 3: him about it. Girl, y'all need Hey, this is not 56 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 3: this is not a white show. 57 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 2: Okay, so let's stop. That's what you're gonna. 58 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 3: Stop doing on your white is you know you all 59 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 3: of a sudden, you're just on the white show. This girl, 60 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 3: you this Steve Hardmore in the show. 61 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 2: Stop. 62 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: I'm saying that's maybe that's why she didn't open it. 63 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 4: Girl, girl, I'm not saying what I would have done. 64 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 4: This is she did? 65 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 3: Girl? 66 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 4: Asking should she? 67 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: She? 68 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 2: Asking you as a black person. 69 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 4: Ship asking you the l O? 70 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 2: Or what did my black just say? Ain't Tommy? What Tommy? 71 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 2: What is that? I just gave? 72 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: It? 73 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 2: Was? It was a black answer? What do you want? Won't? 74 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: All? Right? 75 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 4: So you're saying open. 76 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 3: S Shirley, good lord, yes, open it and asking about it? 77 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 3: The mess little rise up because he'd got you something 78 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 3: from mother's dad. You finla messed that up? Now go 79 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 3: and ask him about it. Sitting up in here, we're 80 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 3: gonna do it. You know what kind of show this 81 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 3: he is. We're gonna do a segment what's called black 82 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 3: and white, where you answering cheerlands. 83 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 2: Yeah. White. As a matter of fact, we're gonna do 84 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 2: that on the note. 85 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 3: Sooner we get an opening segment, we're gonna let you answer, 86 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 3: and then I'm gonna answer. The winds post get in 87 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 3: if we got that and somebody sometimes it's the strawberry leftons. 88 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 4: Did you not hear me say I would have opened it? 89 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 4: Where was that? 90 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 2: Where is that? What is this illegal? What is this illegal? 91 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:42,279 Speaker 2: Part come from? 92 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 4: It is illegal? But she's saying she would have done it. 93 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 3: But it's illegal to spank your children? 94 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 1: It is. 95 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 2: I didn't know that it is illegal. I didn't know that. 96 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 2: Dog you got in trouble now for spanking your kids? 97 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 2: What is y'all talking about? You know that? Because you're black? 98 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 2: That's why you don't know what That's why I want 99 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 2: to know the law. 100 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 1: I'm black now, Okay, go ahead. Moving on to Twyana 101 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 1: and duval Tauana says, I'm a forty nine year old 102 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: married woman and I was at lunch with my husband 103 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:20,599 Speaker 1: when his phone rang. He looked at it and turned 104 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: it over. It rang again, So I answered, it, and 105 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 1: the lady on the phone said, she is the party 106 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 1: planner for my surprise fiftieth birthday party. 107 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:31,719 Speaker 4: But I don't believe her. Does this sound crazy to 108 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 4: you too? 109 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 3: No, she said she's the party planner for your fiftieth birthday. 110 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 3: And you picked up the man's phone. He trying to 111 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 3: keep it a secret. You answered it, and she told 112 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 3: you what she was not. You didn messed that up. 113 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 2: Too, black answer. I'm sitting you and I know you 114 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 2: black cause your name is. 115 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:58,600 Speaker 3: Twana girl douvall. 116 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 2: Ball Ain't ain't no white to want to now? 117 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 4: All right? So she mess that up? Yeah, all right? 118 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:18,720 Speaker 1: Oneka and mobile says, my twenty two year old cousin 119 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: is staying with me while she does her spring internship. 120 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 4: She's stinking up the place. 121 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: I don't know how she can get out of the 122 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: shower and still be musty, but it happens. 123 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:33,840 Speaker 4: To suggest a stronger deodorant to her. 124 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, no, are you no good hair? Where you 125 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 3: you know what's up? Let's stop this here. We've grown 126 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 3: folks on this show. 127 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 2: Right here. 128 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 3: If you're taking a shower black and where you're given 129 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 3: out and you still stink, this is not this ain't deodorant. 130 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 2: You gotta do something. You already know this here. 131 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:52,280 Speaker 3: You already know this hit in the wind because it's 132 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 3: kids in the car, So we ain't finna go here. 133 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 2: You already know what to hear. You're gonna stop this hill. 134 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 2: You finished. You should have find out. 135 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 3: You couldn't come home be finished, be all kind of 136 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 3: products on the table, summer's eve ba poor start you 137 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 3: know it would be all kind of stuff. 138 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 2: I thing right here. 139 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, you finish, get all this hill. You already know 140 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 3: what's happening. She sit up in here. Fin played this 141 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 3: game with you. 142 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 2: Finish. 143 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 3: Get that hot water bottle that's been on the back 144 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 3: of the dope. You finish, get fins to get all that. 145 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 4: You know, sometimes you can go too far. 146 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 2: You great bottles. I heard you. 147 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 4: You didn't have to report it, thank god, with. 148 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 2: The little vinegar in it. You didn't that. She's Steve 149 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 2: Harvey Martin show Man. 150 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 3: But sister Dale Abraham and Solomon Dead multiple lead the 151 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 3: Bible out. 152 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 2: Stay in the face. Hey watch yourself, you just rain 153 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 2: the bell. Don't get yourself back in there. 154 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 3: He no, you did not, You don't know and drag 155 00:07:58,520 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 3: up nothing in the old Testament. 156 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 2: Try to use it as an example. You're close to 157 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 2: God now. You ought to know better. 158 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 3: Your daddy was a preaching everything you can ring my 159 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 3: bed 160 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 2: Than Steve Show coming up right up to you.