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Speaker 2: Leah is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and she is getting ghosted by a guy

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Speaker 2: named Jackson. So in a few seconds, we'll call him

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Speaker 2: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her

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Speaker 2: and maybe get her a second date if she still

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Speaker 2: wants one. But before we do that, Leah, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Jackson?

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Speaker 3: Hey?

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Speaker 4: Wow, it's probably been about a month.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh wow, Okay, and you still want to get

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Speaker 2: ahold of them?

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I mean I had a lot of fun and I

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Speaker 5: really thought that there was like a vibe and I'm

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Speaker 5: just kind of surprised that it's been maybe it's been

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Speaker 5: like three weeks, but yeah, like almost a month, and I'm.

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Speaker 4: Just kinda, I don't know, still still wondering.

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Speaker 5: Uh.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, So you feel like you're definitely being ghosted. You

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Speaker 6: just want to know why?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 6: Okay, have you tried to reach out to him at all?

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Speaker 5: I have, Yeah, and a few pecks if you like Instagram,

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Speaker 5: like ha ha.

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Speaker 4: You know, sending the heart. Yeah, but yeah, no, no

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Speaker 4: real response.

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Speaker 6: Oh no, can I ask why, like, why did you

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Speaker 6: wait three weeks to try it?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 5: I mean I have been contacted him without in the

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Speaker 5: three weeks.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, there's always I know, I yeah, had none. Okay,

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Speaker 6: why don't you tell us about the date then?

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Speaker 7: Leah?

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Speaker 4: Sure?

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Speaker 5: So, Yeah, his name is Jackson. I really really liked him.

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Speaker 5: He was not He was was very handsome but like

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Speaker 5: put together disciplines, like this quiet masculine energy, which is

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Speaker 5: very much my type. And he seemed very just like grounded,

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Speaker 5: Like he walked outside on the sidewalks, you know, be

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Speaker 5: a gentleman and open doors and didn't talk over me.

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Speaker 5: It was just like, yeah, very did all the right things.

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Speaker 4: Very attractive.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. So he took me to this like casual but

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Speaker 5: upscale place. We had some drinks and it was like.

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Speaker 4: A late day nerve vibe. We had just both finished work.

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Speaker 5: And it just felt like very playful and thirty and

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Speaker 4: It was a very fun date, which is why it's

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Speaker 4: so confusing. Why why he's ghosted?

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Speaker 7: Did anything weird happen?

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Speaker 6: Like, I mean, if you were to take a guess,

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Speaker 6: why do you think he is ghosting you?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? There was one moment that I think might be it.

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Speaker 5: So while we were like laughing at a joke, I

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Speaker 5: very playfully like grabbed his butt, like smacked his butt.

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Speaker 4: And like like what, yeah.

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Speaker 5: That's completely normal, flirting, light, harmless.

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Speaker 4: But then after I did that, there was just a

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Speaker 5: And then after that he would not walk in front

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Speaker 5: of me. He kept slowing down, insisting that I go first.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you know, the self conscious might have made him uncomfortable. Well,

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Speaker 2: so if he's not willing to present you with his butt.

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Speaker 7: Again, right, hail, I'm sorry, that's kind.

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Speaker 2: Of a weird way to say it, I know, but

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Speaker 2: and show you his butt and probably.

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Speaker 7: Well we'll see.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song and then come back and call

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Speaker 2: him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and maybe get you a second date. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, we'll get your first day follow up next.

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Speaker 1: It's the Jubile Show First Date follow Up powered by

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Speaker 1: the Advocates Injury Attorneys online at Advocatesla dot com.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up,

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Speaker 2: Leah is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: a guy named Jackson. So we're about to call him

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Speaker 2: and maybe get her a second date if she still

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Speaker 2: wants one. But before we make our phone call, Leah,

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Speaker 2: why don't you break down your date again for us

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Speaker 2: real quick?

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Speaker 4: Sure?

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Speaker 5: So we went on a really fun date, goodbvibe, playful fun,

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Speaker 5: lots of laughing, and at one point, I like lately.

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Speaker 4: Slapped and grabbed his butt and.

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Speaker 5: Right after that beat, the vibe totally changed. And then

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Speaker 6: He wouldn't present his butt in front of you again.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, all right, here we go. Are you ready for

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Speaker 7: us to call him?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to Jackson?

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Speaker 7: Please speaking?

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Speaker 8: Who is this?

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Speaker 7: Hey Jackson? How are you? This is a radio show.

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Speaker 7: It's called the Jubell Show.

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Speaker 6: Hi Jackson. I'm Nina.

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Speaker 7: Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubell.

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Speaker 3: Wait is that you guys have me on the radio

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Speaker 3: right now?

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Speaker 7: Yes? You are? How are you doing?

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Speaker 8: Uh?

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Speaker 3: I'm good. I've never never been on the radio before.

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Speaker 4: What do you guys?

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Speaker 8: What are you guys calling about?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you've ever listened to the show before,

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Speaker 2: But we do a segment on the show called the

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Speaker 2: First Day follow Up. That's where if you're getting ghosted

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Speaker 2: by somebody, they can email us to call the person

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Speaker 2: who's ghosting them and ask why. So we got an

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Speaker 2: email about you from somebody that you're ghosting you know my.

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Speaker 3: Pace, I do know what you guys are calling?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, uh uh okay, who are you ghosting?

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Speaker 3: I'm I know you're calling about Leah? And uh yeah,

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Speaker 3: I mean what do you guys need to know? I mean,

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Speaker 3: what are you what are you looking for?

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Speaker 2: She told us about your date and said she really

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Speaker 2: liked you. We're just wondering if you could tell us

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Speaker 2: why you've been ghosting her for about a month now.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I I genuinely liked Leah. I mean

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Speaker 3: I thought she was, you know, confident intelligence, she had

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Speaker 3: just she's very bold to me, very bold.

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Speaker 7: Okay, how so the bad thing like immediately bold and

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Speaker 7: what is that?

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Speaker 5: Man?

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Speaker 8: So we were we were we were laughing, having dreams,

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Speaker 8: she she blaps my butt and like kind of grabs it,

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Speaker 3: Like we're not here here yet. But then it then

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Speaker 3: I was just like it just felt kind of like

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Speaker 2: How was she talking about your butt like like trying

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Speaker 2: to like say, don't have a long discussion about it, or.

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Speaker 3: She was just kind of like she was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: your mushy butt, Like I felt it like it felt,

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Speaker 3: you know, it felt you know, like it's moving and

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Speaker 3: it's nice and I want to slap it again.

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Speaker 6: And I was just.

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Speaker 8: Like, like it was just it was.

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Speaker 3: Just kind of it was just bizarre and and and

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Speaker 3: the dates going on, and she's like, oh, hey, mushy,

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Speaker 2: It's like, does she just keep calling you, uh button,

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Speaker 7: What a nickname?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it was weird.

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Speaker 3: She just kept calling me Mushybut it's strange.

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Speaker 7: Weird, strange.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, all right, well mushy, but I'm sorry that you.

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Speaker 2: Leah is actually on the other line listening and wants

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Speaker 2: to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: Oh gosh, I mean, hello, what's hi?

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Speaker 8: This kind of this kind of awkward.

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Speaker 4: I mean yeah, I mean this is so ridiculous. You

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Speaker 4: was a playful butt crab, not a felony. We were flirting,

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Speaker 4: we were having fun.

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Speaker 3: You you you you You're joking is aggressive, It's just

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Speaker 4: It was so saying that you don't have a sense

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Speaker 3: So I mean, I mean, like, it's just you're you're

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Speaker 3: and just kind of crass and just what did you

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Speaker 3: what did you grow up in a trailer.

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Speaker 8: Park and what?

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you something, Leah, I work out a lot,

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Speaker 3: and my butt is not let me be clear on that. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I really a.

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Speaker 8: Lot of squats, I work. I do a lot of

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I'm gonna call your bluff there. I look,

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Speaker 3: I have a I have a firm butt here, Okay.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know what, like where you're getting this

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Speaker 3: mushy butcher. It was just weird and gross.

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Speaker 2: So had she said something else, like had she grabbed

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Speaker 2: crack an egcorn between there. That is a firm moody.

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Speaker 2: It would have been more okay.

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Speaker 3: You know what I think? So because here's the thing

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Speaker 3: It was just like, you know, here I am this

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Speaker 3: making like these like childish, weird jokes about it, and

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Speaker 3: it was just very weird. It just it was so

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Speaker 3: I am extremely self aware and I know I do

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Speaker 3: not have mushybooty back here, okay, so let me just

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Speaker 5: Leah, Okay, well I felt a mushi booty.

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Speaker 4: It felt like you don't work out at all.

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Speaker 5: So I'm sorry for just calling it how I see it,

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Speaker 5: and that you don't have a sense of humor. And yeah,

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Speaker 5: I did grow up in a trailer park and now

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Speaker 5: I'm a lawyer and I make more money than you.

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Speaker 3: So I also think you're just delusional, is what I

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Speaker 3: think about you.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Mushi.

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Speaker 8: But oh okay, here we go, missus trailer park turned lawyer.

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Speaker 5: Here we go at least they're not a grown man

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Speaker 5: that's upset about someone calling them mushy butt.

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Speaker 4: Like here's I'm so upset about it, and you're just

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Speaker 4: not fun.

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Speaker 3: I don't have a mushie booty. I will ordally.

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Speaker 4: Okay, mushy body mus.

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Speaker 7: All right, I do not have a mushi broodie. Jackson,

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Speaker 7: second date? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 3: I'll let you, guys be the judge of that.

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna guess yes.

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Speaker 6: So I'm not mushy it is eight all right.

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Speaker 2: Well sorry, Leah, no second date for you and Jackson.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for your time.

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Speaker 3: I don't want one either anymore, guys, Just so people

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Speaker 3: can see that I don't have a mushie booty, can

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Speaker 3: I can? I? Can you put out my Instagram?

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