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Speaker 1: Hey everybody, it's me Matt Rogers, letting you know.

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Speaker 2: Tickets are on sale now to see me on tour,

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Speaker 2: the Prince of Christmas Tour, that is, I'm doing my

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Speaker 2: whole album have you Heard of Christmas? Plus a lot

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Speaker 2: more with the whole band all throughout December. Go to

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Speaker 2: www dot Matt rodgersoficial dot com to see me in

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Speaker 2: a city near you. And now Lost culch drums.

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Speaker 1: Look mare, Oh, I see you my own and look

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Speaker 1: over there is that culture.

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Speaker 3: Yes, wow, Lost CULTU ding Dom, Lost culturess calling. It

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Speaker 3: must be another episode of Lost Cult, not just any

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Speaker 3: other episode. It's our first December episode.

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Speaker 1: You are in your bag.

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say bag. I was gonna say bag.

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Speaker 3: I was gonna finish your sentence like Bessie's do.

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Speaker 1: Yes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's officially December. Today is Wednesday, December fourth. That

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Speaker 3: means my tour begins tonight. Come see me in the

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Speaker 3: Fonda if you're out in LA and on the road

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Speaker 3: for the rest of the month, Sanah Boy Live.

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Speaker 1: Listen.

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Speaker 4: The people in Atlanta are very excited, are they. I

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Speaker 4: was just there for Thanksgiving and everyone's saying I'm going

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Speaker 4: to match show and I said, well, yes you are,

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Speaker 4: come on, and they were very disappointed that you did

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Speaker 4: not go last year, not to put you on black.

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Speaker 3: I know, I know, you know. It's okay. It's okay, Atlanta.

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Speaker 3: I'll see you this weekend. Don't be upset. Don't be upset.

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Speaker 3: How was Atlanta at Lanton experience? They call it when

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Speaker 3: you were when you were there, you were at Lanton.

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Speaker 1: I'm Atlanta. You know. It was good. It was great.

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Speaker 4: Took the Nieces to see Wicked. They loved, you know,

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Speaker 4: put together some legos.

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Speaker 1: We did a They.

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Speaker 3: Had a chic lego set where it's Wicked. I got

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Speaker 3: them a Wicked lego set where it's the dorm room,

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Speaker 3: it's Glinda, it's Glinda and Elflipa's dorm room. But it

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Speaker 3: opens up into this diorama of the dorm room. But

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Speaker 3: it closes into oh girl, I'm not touching that. Matt

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Speaker 3: just pulled out a little pre roll. Honey, honey, tell

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Speaker 3: you a little story about the diorama. Oh no, no, no,

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Speaker 3: it's over. Basically, well, so you you basically you saw

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Speaker 3: an incredible lego diorama with the girls.

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Speaker 4: This Ellie girl is very quick on the legos. She

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Speaker 4: put it together in no time? What is it called

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Speaker 4: no time flat?

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Speaker 1: No time flat? Is that what it is? In zero

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Speaker 1: second flat? Zero to hero no time flat? Woo.

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Speaker 3: Now here's a question that I have for you because

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Speaker 3: a lot of discourse about whether or not Wicked is

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Speaker 3: actually four kids?

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Speaker 1: Were they scared of the.

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Speaker 4: The scary parts have to do with chi history, certain,

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Speaker 4: and that's that's the only really scary thing. And then

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Speaker 4: you know there's fire, there's bullying, which is always scary

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Speaker 4: no matter what.

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Speaker 1: Which yeah, no, that was really scary.

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Speaker 3: But to speak on history, would you say the film

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Speaker 3: glorifies animal abuse? And would you say that this is

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Speaker 3: your opportunity to speak out against the film for the

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Speaker 3: glorification of animal abuse in the film Wicked glorifies it.

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Speaker 3: No know, the star of the movie, Oh my god

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Speaker 3: is an animal abuser.

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Speaker 1: Wicked elf? What do you mean?

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Speaker 4: No, you're believing the wizards lies and marbles lies.

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Speaker 3: If I come on here and I just I'm like

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Speaker 3: explicitly alt right from now on, this movie is sick.

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Speaker 3: They're taking people like like liberal elite Bo and Yang

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Speaker 3: are taking very young children to this movie that glorifies

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Speaker 3: animal abuse. And it starts queer people in lead.

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Speaker 1: Roles and it's normalizing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's it should never be normal. I'm not normal.

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Speaker 4: Don't normalize me, define normal. I have for what this

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Speaker 4: episode could be. Yes, yes, yes, we just did a

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Speaker 4: big culture catchup, right, yeah, And I thought about this.

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Speaker 4: I was like, well we even talk about nothing has happened.

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Speaker 4: I bought this book, this used book, and from what

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Speaker 4: I can tell, it came out in the late eighties

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Speaker 4: early nineties, but I'm going to reveal it to you now.

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Speaker 1: Sure.

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Speaker 4: It's called The Book of Questions by Gregory Stock, PhD.

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Speaker 4: And I forget who recommended this. It was on some

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Speaker 4: celebrity had this and she's like, you know, you just

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Speaker 4: you're on set or something like, rather than be on

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Speaker 4: your phone, you just flip through. This is an old

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Speaker 4: book that you flip through and you just ask each other.

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Speaker 4: Some of these questions are not super super fun, they're

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Speaker 4: a little too deep. But should we just flip through?

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Speaker 5: Can I tell you something? Sometimes it's not the question

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Speaker 5: that needs to be fun. It's about the answer, you know,

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Speaker 5: it's actually a real culture number ten. Sometimes it's not

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Speaker 5: about the question that needs to be fun.

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Speaker 3: It's about the answer. More value on answers over questionquestions.

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Speaker 1: How about that?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I mean there are no stupid questions. There

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Speaker 4: are certainly stupid answers.

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Speaker 1: Baby babe into this.

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Speaker 3: So you're saying, this episode is called the Book of

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Speaker 3: Questions and we should ask each other from it. We

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Speaker 3: we just have to pick a number from one to

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Speaker 3: two seventeen. Maybe producer Beckett can help us with the

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Speaker 3: number selection to randomize it. But should I just read

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Speaker 3: the back cover? Ye for everyone to get a sense

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Speaker 3: of what this is.

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Speaker 1: What this is about to be, let us know what

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Speaker 1: we can't expect from this episode. Last culture is.

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Speaker 4: Okay, big head says, ask yourself, period, Ask your friends,

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Speaker 4: ask your parents, ask someone you hardly know. The Book

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Speaker 4: of Questions gives you permission to ask those things that

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Speaker 4: ask by yourself. You will find questions of integrity, of sex,

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Speaker 4: of what you would do for money, even things too

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Speaker 4: person to talk about out loud. This is perfect, This

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Speaker 4: is perfect. One more little paragraph, may I yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Please?

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Speaker 4: Whether you use it as a tool for self discovery

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Speaker 4: or as a provocative way to stimulate conversation. This book

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Speaker 4: constantly challenges attitudes, morals, beliefs, and it challenges you.

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Speaker 1: I'm speechless.

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Speaker 3: I'm ready to embark on this. I'm speechless.

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Speaker 1: Becca, Get in the chat, Get in the chat, Becca.

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Speaker 1: Okay in this episode? Okay, Oh, she's already given us

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Speaker 1: a number. Okay, what does she say? Number eleven? All right, okay, let's.

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Speaker 3: Hear from Bowen Yang. This is the first can we

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Speaker 3: and can we get a sound effect?

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Speaker 3: We won't know what the sound effect is until later.

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Speaker 3: But when after Bowen says number eleven and before he

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Speaker 3: reads the question, we need some sound effect. Yeah, and

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Speaker 3: we are not going to weigh in on what it is. Whatever,

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Speaker 4: Doug and Milk have fun with us or don't. Just

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Speaker 4: you know, get it out of the way. This is

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Speaker 4: a big ask. We're throwing this at you last minute.

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Speaker 1: But feel free for this to be something that you

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and if it's no sound then that's also okay too.

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Speaker 4: If you're slammed don't worry about it, but we're giving

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Speaker 3: Carte Blanche, my favorite line from Public Affair by Jessica

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Speaker 3: Simpson ready said, go.

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Speaker 4: Does she sing carte blanche? And this she says, carte Blanche.

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Speaker 4: You need to write a single called carte Blanche.

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Speaker 1: Carte blan. Carte Blanche is a really good title for

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Speaker 1: a Christmas song. Yeah, carte Blanche, Like like, oh, that's good. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm ruminating on that. You should ruminate honey, all right?

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Speaker 4: Full of new by the way, Oh my god, can

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Speaker 4: I just before we get started on number eleven, congratulations

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Speaker 4: to my moving silence sister Matt Rodgers on the new

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Speaker 4: single Sandta Boy. It is fantastic triple A pop songcraft.

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Speaker 1: Well done. Well thanks.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know about this. You didn't tell me. I

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Speaker 3: Prince of Christmas tour because I felt we were missing

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Speaker 3: a shrewd dance pop and I want to see all

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Speaker 1: Ass to this song.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, by the way, just to set things up,

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Speaker 3: waiting like ten to fifteen minutes to go on because

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Speaker 3: in less than eighty minutes. How about that eighty ninety minutes.

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Speaker 4: Wow, that's the perfect Goldilock zone. Well done.

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Speaker 3: Shout out to Henry Koperski and Ethan Christopher who this

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Speaker 3: is his first song he ever co wrote. We wrote

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Speaker 3: it together, Ethan. Of course, Leland and Gable Lopez fucked

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Speaker 4: But I'm still come on, it is what you deserve,

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Speaker 4: it is what we deserve. Leland gave Ethan, Henry, Matt Rogers, Bravo, Bravisimo.

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Speaker 1: And a boy Streamer. Thank you, my absolute number one.

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Speaker 1: I love you. Just say nothing of number eleven, which

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Speaker 1: is I guess when we're headed should I read it? Yes?

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Speaker 4: Number eleven. You are given the power to kill people

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Speaker 4: simply by thinking of their deaths and twice repeating the

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Speaker 4: word goodbye. People would die in natural death and no

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Speaker 4: one would suspect you. Are there any situations in which

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Speaker 4: you would use this power? No, I'm not killing anybody.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, sure, I'll kill like, don't say that.

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Speaker 1: We love to cut that, We'll cut that out. I

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Speaker 3: I would kill keep certain people who abuse power. By

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Speaker 3: the way, this has gone already so last in such

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Speaker 3: a direction, I didn't see the questions will really run

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Speaker 3: the gamut?

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Speaker 1: Would I kill anyone?

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Speaker 3: You know what, if I saw in a moment someone

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Speaker 3: trying to physically harm someone I deeply cared about, I

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Speaker 3: would do it then. But I would never like premeditate.

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Speaker 3: I would use this power of number eleven as self defense.

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Speaker 3: And I would just want to say, going forward, if

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Speaker 3: it ever does come to light that I've quote unquote

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Speaker 3: never premeditated kill someone. I'm not a killer. I don't

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Speaker 3: identify as a killer. Whenever I even see movies where

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Speaker 3: there is a killer, I never understand them. I don't

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Speaker 3: identify with any of these girls.

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Speaker 4: How could you snuff out human life? It's so crazy.

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Speaker 1: I just don't think it's your responsibility.

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Speaker 3: So you're saying that you would only use it if

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Speaker 3: you were in a situation where you saw someone harming

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Speaker 1: Saw someone rushing you, if I saw someone rushing for myself.

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Speaker 1: Don't worry Bowen. No, you can't, not if you're back. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I can't.

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Speaker 3: First of all, it's don't make this into it. I'm

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Speaker 3: trying to save your fucking life, bitch. So get bet

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Speaker 3: you know what, Just get him, Go get him. He

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Speaker 4: It's a natural cause. You just gave eleven stranger things down.

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Speaker 3: Depends on the day. Probably not, probably likely nough no

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Speaker 3: I think, how about this mm hmm, if this power

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Speaker 7: They would just die and no one will know.

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Speaker 1: No, I think the whole thing is less fun.

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Speaker 7: That's only by brutal.

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Speaker 3: I mean, like, if we're going to kill someone, at

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Speaker 8: The power, Rebecca, Okay, the fire sign in me, like

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Speaker 4: What is the emotional What is the interiority of knowing

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Speaker 7: That I feel like would weigh on me because it's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's death note yea.

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Speaker 1: I deeply just want my own little positive life, you.

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Speaker 3: Know what I mean, Like I don't I don't even

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Speaker 8: That's what I think is the worst part, because it

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Speaker 1: You essentially are the grim Reaper. Are you comfortable with that?

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Speaker 3: If you're comfortable with the knowledge that you, Becca Ramos

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Speaker 1: I don't know about that. I don't know how I

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Speaker 7: It's like, what if you have the wrong thought and

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Speaker 8: Day, exactly, exactly exactly what happened to me, Like we've

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Speaker 7: Best friend's ex thought about it too hard.

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Speaker 3: Of course, it's over, goodbye, goodbye, goodbye. Plus it's better

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Speaker 7: I want to know they're miserable in every lifetime.

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Speaker 4: Yes, there's an asterisk at the end of this question,

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Speaker 4: follow up question, and I think we I think we're

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Speaker 4: you can imagine yourself killing someone indirectly, could you still

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Speaker 4: that's not an impulse.

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Speaker 4: That's if someone answers yes to number eleven. Aster risk

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Speaker 1: The Book of Questions is crazy. What was this published?

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Speaker 3: I just want to make sure everybody over one million

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Speaker 7: This is like the dark version of We're Not Really Strangers.

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Speaker 3: This was published in nineteen eighty five. What's We're not

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, you guys don't know.

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Speaker 1: No, I am.

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Speaker 8: The queen of We're Not Really Strangers. Okay, so it is.

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Speaker 8: I'm like, do I go grab it? It is this

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Speaker 7: But the whole point is that it is three sections of.

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Speaker 8: Cards and you go through them one on one with

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Speaker 8: because you do like about six to eight cards per round,

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Speaker 7: Oh, it is very intimate, but I love it.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot. That is a lot.

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Speaker 7: Make everyone play it.

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Speaker 8: I'm like, you want to get close to me, we're

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Speaker 4: I thought you were going to say that, like this

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Speaker 4: questionnaire where you ask these questions and you fall in

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Speaker 4: Oh it doesn't work, But this sounds even more intense.

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Speaker 7: Yes it is.

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Speaker 8: It's pretty intense, especially because they have now all these

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Speaker 3: No, No, I was just going to say, the craziest

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Speaker 7: Yes, not the craziest person is doing the big one

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Speaker 1: That is like, oh, no, that's absurd. That's we need.

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Speaker 3: I would think number eleven about those types of people,

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Speaker 3: because literally, I'm.

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Speaker 7: Like, you're like, I don't know you. We don't need

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Speaker 8: Now, only a long term relationship one like if you've

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Speaker 4: If you're snowed in with your significant other, yeah, perfect

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Speaker 3: It's cute, like, Oh, snowed in with significant other? You

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Speaker 3: bring out what's.

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Speaker 7: It called, we're not really stranger.

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Speaker 1: We're not really.

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Speaker 4: Strangers, and that's a rule of culture. Number seventy two.

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Speaker 3: With your significant other, you bring out, we're not really strangers?

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Speaker 1: Should we do the next question? Yes? Backet, Now give

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Speaker 4: Another Okay, this is another really intense one. I mean,

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Speaker 4: I guess this is the book of questions.

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Speaker 1: Do it? Do it? That's the book of questions. Number three.

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Speaker 3: If you were to die this evening with no opportunity

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Speaker 3: having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: This is so crazy. We can't answer this.

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Speaker 1: I mean I think we have to. We have to,

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Speaker 1: we have to do this.

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Speaker 3: Oh my brain goes one place like it's parental.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's about the parents.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, this episode went so hard into the book

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Speaker 3: of questions. I don't even like putting this out there,

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Speaker 3: but like, if someone in your immediate family were to

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Speaker 3: you being like, thank you for you know, pouring everything

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Speaker 3: like you know what I mean, Like that is something

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Speaker 3: But the thing is, I think that there is no

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Speaker 4: I know, I always want to go beyond the moment

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Speaker 4: instinct a.

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00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 3: Little bit more of theirs of mine to be like

440
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,720
Speaker 3: to like I don't shut it down, but I kind

441
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:20,399
Speaker 3: of dismissed it. And I'm like, no, I should I

442
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 3: should let that play, let that breathe, Like it's there's

443
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 3: a reason they're communicating this, and yes, yeah, like for

444
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 3: all the hardships that like my my parents and I

445
00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,679
Speaker 3: have had, like now, it's so beautiful and lovely and

446
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 3: it's and it's always been in a way, and and

447
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,199
Speaker 3: I just want to tell them like none of this

448
00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 3: would have been possible without you. And they gave me

449
00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:45,399
Speaker 3: an opportunity even though they did not by like literally

450
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 3: moving out of China so that I could have been

451
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 3: born and moving to the US and making sure I

452
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:53,480
Speaker 3: was okay for the most part, even though they didn't

453
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 3: understand what I was doing, Like that is a huge

454
00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 3: thing for them. And can you imagine moving to a

455
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:05,239
Speaker 3: place where you don't speak the language, where you are

456
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 3: immediately no a different, Like you're immediately marked in the

457
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 3: society as someone who's different and someone who whose assumptions

458
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 3: are created about you. Like I mean, the sacrifice is immense.

459
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:21,439
Speaker 4: Yes, they tell me this all the time, and it's

460
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,359
Speaker 4: not to guilt me, but it's like they want me

461
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:25,479
Speaker 4: to internalize that, and I have and it's just but

462
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 4: no amount of thought about it will ever like make

463
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 4: that unremarkable.

464
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:32,919
Speaker 1: It's so remarkable.

465
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, Also the totality of so basically I don't know

466
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 3: if you notice this. I'm sure you do it. I'm

467
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:43,240
Speaker 3: sure that's part of what you're getting at. But my

468
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 3: father has become so much more emotional as time goes on.

469
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,239
Speaker 3: I think it's because the estrogen starts popping, and man,

470
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,640
Speaker 3: as they get older, and I just think about your

471
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:59,159
Speaker 3: father and to understand and really wrap your mind around

472
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:04,359
Speaker 3: what that sacrifice ends it up doing in a macro sense,

473
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 3: in a cosmic sense, like he moved to this country,

474
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:14,399
Speaker 3: well countries, you know what I mean, Like made it

475
00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 3: work so much so that his son is a superstar

476
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 3: and not. But here's the thing I'm gonna say it.

477
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 3: You're shying away from it, but wow, if you could

478
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 3: go back in time and be like, you might not

479
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 3: even understand this later, but your son is going to

480
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:36,840
Speaker 3: be able to literally pursue his dream in America and

481
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:42,160
Speaker 3: become so brilliant at it that it's inspiring and changes

482
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,919
Speaker 3: things for other people. I mean, I just hope that

483
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 3: part of what they're experiencing when they are trying to

484
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 3: say that to you is that they acknowledge that how

485
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,679
Speaker 3: successful they were. That's just something that I think is

486
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,880
Speaker 3: truly an incredible story.

487
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:01,800
Speaker 1: It is an incredible story.

488
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 4: They had one outfit per year that my grandma basically

489
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 4: sewed her six children pants, but she hemmed the pants

490
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,959
Speaker 4: to like short little pants, right, And then as they

491
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,479
Speaker 4: got older, they had one pair of pants their entire

492
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 4: childhood into their teenage years, and then every year as

493
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 4: they grew she would take the hem out and then

494
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 4: just roll it down, like they had one outfit for

495
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:31,919
Speaker 4: their entire and they would sleep together in the same room,

496
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:37,400
Speaker 4: huddled together in the cold of inner Mongolia with no light.

497
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 4: Like it's like my grandma had her feet bound two

498
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 4: generations ago. My illiterate grandmother was raising six kids with

499
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 4: her feet bound, and like that practice had been illegal

500
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:52,119
Speaker 4: for like twenty years in China, but then she didn't

501
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:56,239
Speaker 4: know about it until someone from the coastal cities like

502
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 4: went into god the landlocked parts of that country, and

503
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:03,199
Speaker 4: they were like take the binding off. Like wow, it's

504
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 4: it's crazy.

505
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 1: It is crazy.

506
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 3: And I think that that is that idea is so

507
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 3: big and there's complicated feelings with people, like even though

508
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:20,439
Speaker 3: those sacrifices have been made, it's there's of course just

509
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:23,879
Speaker 3: that that because then you are an American child growing

510
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 3: up and like you know what I mean, there is

511
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 3: something about I think I experienced with my with this

512
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 3: is my father too. I remember one time it came

513
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 3: up that I was going to have to go to

514
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:40,400
Speaker 3: work one day in high school to my busboy job,

515
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 3: and it was raining, and I said something like I

516
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 3: hope they call me off work because it would I

517
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 3: could use my time better being at home, like studying

518
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:50,880
Speaker 3: or something, or like doing something else. And I don't

519
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 3: want to go to work because we'll make no money.

520
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 3: And my dad lost his mind on me and he

521
00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,640
Speaker 3: was like you go to work. And we had this

522
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 3: crazy fight and I did go to work, made no money,

523
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 3: came back early. But later he knocked on my door

524
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 3: and he was very tearful and he was like, I'm

525
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 3: really sorry I overreacted. I just sometimes wish your grandfather

526
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 3: was an influence in your life. And that's when I

527
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 3: realized he was like really going through something and thinking

528
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 3: about his own father. And it was like obviously like

529
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 3: baggage that was coming out.

530
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 1: But there's this.

531
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 3: Idea that like when you think about your history and

532
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 3: your lineage, there is a guilt because people didn't have

533
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 3: options in terms of comfort, in terms of you know,

534
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 3: trajectory of their life. Like it was just you woke

535
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 3: up and you did it and you put your head down.

536
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,399
Speaker 3: And I think generationally that is difficult for people to

537
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 3: wrap their heads around, like someone who was a baby boomer,

538
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 3: like in America, you know what I mean, like have

539
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 3: a different idea of what it means to like go

540
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 3: about this. And I think I was experiencing that in

541
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 3: that moment, and it's like from you to your father

542
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 3: to his father, those are three completely different abject realities.

543
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,360
Speaker 1: So of course there's going to be like lack of understanding.

544
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:15,439
Speaker 4: But for you, it's like from your father to his father,

545
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 4: it's like the through line there. And I hope I'm

546
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:23,120
Speaker 4: sure you were impacted by that overreaction on his end,

547
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 4: but it's like, yeah, that is like you getting this

548
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 4: work ethic that like, no one works harder than you,

549
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 4: no one works harder than you.

550
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 3: Well, that's very nice of you to say. I would

551
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 3: point to yourself. But I mean, like I remember if

552
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 3: it was so unfair at the time that I was

553
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 3: being treated this way, I'm sure you know what it's

554
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 3: what I'm talking about. When it's like this is something

555
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 3: that my father is just wrong about, I know, you know,

556
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 3: but it's like now looking back, I'm like, I do

557
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 3: understand it. I have compassionate empathy for it. My dad

558
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 3: used to tell me when I was very little, very little,

559
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 3: one of his famous lines was I know everything, and

560
00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 3: if you ever have a question, you asked me. And

561
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 3: I actually believe that, yeah, and I don't I understand

562
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 3: what he's trying to do I don't know if I

563
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 3: don't know if I would do it. Well, you know,

564
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 3: my dad is my dad, you know what I mean,

565
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 3: Like he's he's very similar to me, Like we both

566
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 3: have very performative personalities. We're both you know, gravitated towards

567
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 3: being the center of attention. And I think that like

568
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 3: he would say something like that because he doesn't want

569
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 3: me to value someone else's opinion or knowledge in the

570
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 3: world over his.

571
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: You know, he's my father.

572
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 3: But then when they reveal themselves to be human beings later,

573
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 3: that is when you as a son, there is a

574
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 3: moment of like you almost feel frustrated about it. Not

575
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 3: that you were lied to, but that it almost feels like, oh,

576
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 3: you didn't know everything. You're a human being just like

577
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 3: everyone else.

578
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

579
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, he second guess everything, but it does become like

580
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 3: a core belief. But then it's great to know that

581
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 3: your parents are human.

582
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 4: You would want to say all of this and more

583
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 4: to your parents to answer the question.

584
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, right, Like it's hard, Like I remember,

585
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 3: we've had moments where it really does happen more with

586
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 3: my dad and like it happens less with my mom.

587
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 3: But I think he becomes more emotional as he gets older,

588
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 3: and I think you're recognizing that as well.

589
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 4: Right absolutely, And as we're talking about this, like to

590
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 4: go back to going to Atlanta for Thanksgiving, Like, I

591
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 4: just know for a fact, I got so stressed out

592
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 4: because the kids, you know, had moments, as they should

593
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 4: their kids, they had moments where they were.

594
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 1: Distressed and well, Chistory was being abused, Chisty was.

595
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 4: Being abused, and there was a whole bunch of stuff

596
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 4: going on, you know, every every other hour. There was

597
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 4: just some kind of mini meltdown. And I realized that

598
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 4: that's normal. But for me, I was like, this is

599
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 4: more stressed than I've ever felt than I felt in

600
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 4: the last two months of yeah, work and wicked press

601
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:48,959
Speaker 4: and like all that stuff. I'm like, this is more.

602
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 4: Anytime someone's like I don't know how you do it,

603
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 4: I'm like, no, that's easy. Like what's hard for me

604
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 4: is watching these beautiful children get stressed out and then

605
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 4: my sister and my brother in law having a handle it,

606
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 4: and my mom having a handle it.

607
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 3: But I'm like, shout out to the parents.

608
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: This is my thing. I could never do it.

609
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 4: And my thing is like anytime someone asked me what

610
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 4: your drag name would be, anytime someone asks me like,

611
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 4: what would your like restaurant be called or whatever, I'm like,

612
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 4: I don't know the answer to that, because I have

613
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 4: too much respect for the thing to know that I

614
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 4: would never be in that situation.

615
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 1: I will never.

616
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 3: I will never. I have such reverence for my parents,

617
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 3: for your parents, for any parent.

618
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 9: Who doesn't drag artist and drag artists and restauranteur who

619
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 9: pours their heart and sole into this thing, like I

620
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 9: could never, literally, I could never.

621
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 3: Well, I feel like a couple of our group chats

622
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 3: have been active and because it's the holidays and people

623
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 3: be texting, so everyone is saying the same thing, which.

624
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 1: Is I'm never having kids.

625
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 3: I'm never having kids, so much like even the people

626
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 3: that wanted kids in our life are suddenly like turned

627
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 3: around and be like like, it's tough, it is tough.

628
00:31:59,560 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: Wow.

629
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 3: The Book of Dansons, the Book of Questions is popping off. Okay, Becca,

630
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 3: give us another number.

631
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 1: One through two hundred and seventeen.

632
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, come on, let's get deep, not that we haven't yet,

633
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 3: I mean deeper than numeric, Like.

634
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: Okay, she's.

635
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, here we go. This is I like this

636
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 3: number one two? Oh, this is simple.

637
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 1: Okay.

638
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 4: What do you value most in a relationship? And I

639
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 4: guess this is open ended. I guess this could be romantic,

640
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 4: This could be acquaintanceship, friendship, whatever, in a relationship. I'm

641
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 4: gonna say, I'm gonna interpret this as romantic.

642
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 3: I guess, yeah, let's choose to interpret it romantically. What

643
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 3: do you value most in a romantic relationship?

644
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say something that's kind of like an iroll maybe, yeah,

645
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 4: but comfort.

646
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 3: I think comfort is an incredible thing to look for,

647
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 3: and it's so valuable. Everything else falls into Yes, I

648
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 3: think once you're comfortable, I think that's literally, I mean,

649
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 3: that's where vulnerability comes from. That's where understanding comes from.

650
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 3: I think that's obviously what I'm going to say comes

651
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 3: from this, which is trust, which I think is so

652
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:12,479
Speaker 3: different than honesty. It's so different than all those things. Trust, Like,

653
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 3: it really hurts when someone breaks your trust.

654
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, totally. I mean that's like betrayal. I mean it's.

655
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, you can trust me, and then

656
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 3: turning around and being untrustworthy.

657
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 1: That's true, villain behavior. That's evil ass.

658
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 4: It is a mutual sort of buy in right in

659
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 4: a way, It's like you trust the person, and so

660
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 4: therefore what dictates your behavior around that person is to

661
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 4: make sure that you build that trust with them and

662
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 4: that they trust you in return. And then when that is,

663
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 4: when that is violated, it is so painful, it's.

664
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 1: Not so good.

665
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 3: But then in terms of comfort too, it's just like,

666
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,040
Speaker 3: you know, what I've been like dating a lot. Like

667
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 3: something I'm I think I'm trying to find now is

668
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 3: like instant comfort, like like it's gonna be some like

669
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 3: it's gonna be some kind of sign you know, like

670
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 3: me too. But that is that's bad. If you feel

671
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 3: instantly comfortable, that's when your guard is down. That's when

672
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,360
Speaker 3: you start looking the other way. That's when you start

673
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 3: ignoring things. And I also think comfort, at least for me,

674
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 3: is also based in a little bit of like sexual attraction.

675
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:31,360
Speaker 3: It's like, oh, I'm comfortable here, Like I think I

676
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:34,840
Speaker 3: could like ultimately potentially use my body in a certain

677
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 3: way with this person. Yeah, like and I think that

678
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 3: that Maybe I'm just thinking about my own past, But

679
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 3: that is what makes you ignore red flags. Both and

680
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 3: the other person and yourself. It's just important that I

681
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 3: just don't want to get fooled in.

682
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: Totally. That's trust.

683
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 4: I feel like that's trust too, Like I trust you

684
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 4: to I trust you enough that I'm going to use

685
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 4: my to use your word, use my body.

686
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 3: No, my I don't think you later is about a

687
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,759
Speaker 3: certain thing. But because that, I guess we're kind of

688
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 3: saying the same thing ultimately, like I want.

689
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:16,759
Speaker 1: To be able to be really available to you and

690
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 1: not be sorry later.

691
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 3: Totally, I guess the subtle difference in our answers is

692
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 3: I'm thinking of comfort in terms of like internal comfort,

693
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 3: like between the two people or whatever, and then outer comfort,

694
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,240
Speaker 3: which is to say that like which is the classic

695
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 3: thing of like can this person Like can I leave

696
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 3: this person alone at a party? Not that that's like

697
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 3: the thing that I value the most. It's just like

698
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 3: a good sign. It's that that's a sign of comfort.

699
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 3: That's a manifestation of comfort to me.

700
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 4: Can I I have the scenario I'm like, this is

701
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:52,479
Speaker 4: so eye roll, but I'm like, can this person hang

702
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:54,879
Speaker 4: in the fire Island house?

703
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 1: Of like me?

704
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 4: You, Josh, Aaron Patrick Wit, you know, like everyone is.

705
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,319
Speaker 3: That what you would want, But I also think about this.

706
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 3: I sometimes think about would you want your cigo to

707
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 3: be around all the time?

708
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know yet. Yeah, I think

709
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 1: I've had versions of both.

710
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, and what would you prefer one?

711
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: I actually I have.

712
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,319
Speaker 3: No idea, because I mean, out of everything I've been in, like,

713
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 3: I clearly still don't know what's the best thing for me.

714
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 1: That's kind of what I'm still looking for.

715
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:26,800
Speaker 4: Like, I don't know, but what to use Henry Koperski

716
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 4: as an example, like a cigo who was around.

717
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:30,439
Speaker 1: A lot of time.

718
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, and everyone was thrilled about that. Absolutely, And now

719
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 3: look at you guys, you're like, still you still have

720
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:40,759
Speaker 3: a wonderful friendship. But I'll say this, and this is

721
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:42,800
Speaker 3: not revealing anything, I think, because I think he would

722
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 3: say this.

723
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 1: He wasn't always comfortable with it. Oh of course, So

724
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

725
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 3: It's like you like, it's a lot to be around

726
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:53,880
Speaker 3: a lot of people who are like, you know whatever,

727
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 3: comedians and like.

728
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 1: On all the time. Oh my god, it's interesting.

729
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 3: It's a little bit of like an ask, you know

730
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 3: when not that I feel like it's an ask to

731
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:03,880
Speaker 3: date me.

732
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: But I get why someone wouldn't want to.

733
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 3: Oh, it's it's a huge aster risk. Yeah, it's a risk,

734
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 3: you know, it's a lot, it's a lot.

735
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: I don't know.

736
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,319
Speaker 4: It's just a lot of energy that goes in and

737
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:24,280
Speaker 4: goes out. That's what it's about. Yeah, anyway, Okay.

738
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 3: I love that question too. Comfort and trust. I'm sure

739
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,440
Speaker 3: people will agree. Some people out there are going to

740
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 3: be real horn dogs are just like a good dick.

741
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

742
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 4: Let's go with another question, Becca, give it two hundred

743
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 4: and six. Okay, you're really playing the extremes and the polls.

744
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 1: I like it.

745
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 3: Okay, number two hundred and six. Would you be willing

746
00:37:56,400 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 3: to eat a bowl of live crickets for forty thousand dollars?

747
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 1: Yes, a bowl of live crickets for thirty thousand dollars.

748
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:09,400
Speaker 3: I'm chopping down on them thereby killing them.

749
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:10,440
Speaker 1: Yeah.

750
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 4: I've had bugs in the past. Totally fine, kind of flavorless.

751
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:16,880
Speaker 4: It's just a texture thing, and it's just it's a

752
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:18,880
Speaker 4: mental thing of like, oh, I'm swallowing a bug and

753
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 4: that's but once you get past that, it's like, oh

754
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 4: it's fine.

755
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think I might need to see the

756
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 3: crickets the bowl.

757
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 4: Here Okay, let's google. Let's google a bowl of crickets.

758
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 4: Becka says, it's no taxies like cash money.

759
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:35,320
Speaker 3: Crazy answer, like, so you would do it for forty thousand,

760
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:37,320
Speaker 3: but not what thirty two thousand?

761
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 1: Sure beca no, that's still we never know.

762
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 7: Okay.

763
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 8: When I think about the lottery, right, and how people

764
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 8: are like broke after they win the lottery, or like

765
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 8: when you get those cars on Oprah and then you're

766
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 8: in debt, Like I want to see like a trunk

767
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 8: of cash and they're like, here you go, babe, no

768
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 8: iffans or butts.

769
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:55,760
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, crickets, here's a cash.

770
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 8: Yeah, but if there's work for me after I eat

771
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 8: those crickets, there's no catch.

772
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 3: Let's just let's just assume there's no catch. I mean,

773
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:07,880
Speaker 3: I'm saying, yeah, I'm thinking, what is can you a

774
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 3: bowl of crickets?

775
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:10,400
Speaker 1: I put it in the chat. I put in the chat.

776
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 3: Oh see, I don't know that this bowl of crickets

777
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 3: is so crazy looking.

778
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:18,399
Speaker 7: It's a this all.

779
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:20,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, That's what I'm saying, is like I would need

780
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 3: to see the bowl because suddenly it's like forty thousand

781
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 3: dollars seems not enough money for this, Like this is

782
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 3: this is probably not only physically difficult, but like digestionally

783
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:36,719
Speaker 3: impossible to take all these crickets to the thumb? Can

784
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 3: I actually modify this question a little bit?

785
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:41,799
Speaker 1: Can you? It's the Book of Questions?

786
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yeah, Well look it was published in nineteen

787
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 4: eighty five. Forty thousand dollars in nineteen eighty five is

788
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 4: the equivalent to one hundred and fifteen thousand dollars?

789
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:52,960
Speaker 1: Now okay, now let's look at this cricket ball again.

790
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 7: And that's what I'm wearing. No tax one hundred you

791
00:39:57,840 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 7: know what?

792
00:39:59,160 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 1: Hundred K?

793
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 3: Sure?

794
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 1: Can I make an addentum on the question? Yeah? Can

795
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,280
Speaker 1: I put buffalo sauce on this? Yeah?

796
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:07,320
Speaker 7: I didn't say you couldn't.

797
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 1: Then I'll still do it for forty I love buffalo sauce.

798
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:12,880
Speaker 4: I'll put it on anything. Yeah, put it on anything.

799
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 4: I would do barbecue.

800
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:17,719
Speaker 1: That's what the difference is.

801
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:22,400
Speaker 3: That's no, I love buffalo too, you know I love Buffalo. Oh,

802
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 3: come on, anyone who's not like a Buffalo fan, I

803
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 3: could not date them. Then that might be closed on

804
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,359
Speaker 3: the top of the list. Like things you're looking for

805
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:34,400
Speaker 3: the traits. The other question, Buffalo lover I need a

806
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 3: buffalo lover for show. Toss me in it, toss me

807
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 3: in it, all right, Becca, new number, new number.

808
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:43,720
Speaker 1: They were clearly running out of ideas.

809
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 3: They started so hot at three and eleven, and then

810
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:47,760
Speaker 3: they were like, would you eat a bowl of crickets?

811
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:52,240
Speaker 1: Sixty nine? Oh my god? This absolute freak for sexty nine?

812
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 4: Can somebody maunch Becca's freak number sixty nine? If a

813
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 4: friend were almost all ways late, would you resent it

814
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 4: or simply allow for it?

815
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,880
Speaker 1: Can you be counted on to be on time? Okay?

816
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 4: I've had conversations with people even after they were like

817
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 4: forty five minutes late once, yeah, and I'm like, that

818
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 4: wasn't okay. I'm generally I have. I have my moments

819
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 4: like today I was late. I asked to push our

820
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 4: you know, zoom back five to ten minutes.

821
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 3: That late I mean us for five and then I

822
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 3: said ten or well, that's not late. I'm not going

823
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 3: to say that I'm always on time. I try to be, okay,

824
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:32,879
Speaker 3: can I still and let me let me also throw

825
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:36,959
Speaker 3: out there for me personally, ten minutes late is not late.

826
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,359
Speaker 1: It's not late, like ten minutes late is not late.

827
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:41,840
Speaker 3: Like I don't I don't really care you you text

828
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,880
Speaker 3: me and be like, hey, I'm just running ten behind.

829
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:46,319
Speaker 3: I know you're on your way ten minutes. In the

830
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,319
Speaker 3: grand scheme of life, I can sit there.

831
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 4: Becka says, thirty plus minutes is late. Agree, that's like

832
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 4: if someone were almost always late, that would be an issue.

833
00:41:57,120 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 3: If you're over thirty minutes late all the time, it's

834
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:04,440
Speaker 3: definitely an issue because why should I take on the

835
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 3: responsibility of navigating my own shit around the fact.

836
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: That you're always late?

837
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:12,839
Speaker 3: Because then, guess what, I can't say it out loud.

838
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 3: I can't have an honest conversation with you. I can't

839
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 3: honestly be like, Okay, well you said two, I'm gonna

840
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:19,840
Speaker 3: show up at two thirty because you're you ha ha ha,

841
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 3: because then you're gonna show up at three, right, and

842
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:25,919
Speaker 3: now we're an hour after when we wanted to hang.

843
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 3: So I don't know, just understand like that chronic lateness

844
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 3: like that. Rue Paul says, that's being addicted to the

845
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 3: feeling of being late. That's an addiction.

846
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 1: Actually, Whoa totally?

847
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 3: And I also am like if you can't be dependable

848
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 3: with other people, then then there's something about you that

849
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:50,320
Speaker 3: is not dependable to yourself.

850
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

851
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 3: Well, first of all, I think one of the reasons

852
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:55,840
Speaker 3: why there aren't people in my life that I have

853
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:59,280
Speaker 3: this problem with is because if you have displayed this behavior,

854
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 3: I wrote.

855
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 1: You off already.

856
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 3: Unfortunately, Yes, kinda. I mean, like if you're saying, I

857
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 3: will never forget One time years ago, I let Catherine

858
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 3: Cohen sit at a diner for forty minutes waiting for me.

859
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 3: I will never forget it. I will always feel bad

860
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:20,360
Speaker 3: about it, the guilt, and I could tell she was annoyed,

861
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:22,959
Speaker 3: and she should have been. But like she also sat

862
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 3: with me still and gave me forty five minutes of

863
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 3: lunch at the diner that I did make, not deserve,

864
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 3: because forty minutes late is crazy and it haunts me

865
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 3: the one time. If this was something about me, like

866
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 3: that was a reliable thing. The only reliable thing about

867
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 3: me is that you're unreliable. Ooh, that's not gonna work.

868
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:46,200
Speaker 3: That's not gonna work. Hm hm, all right. I feel

869
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 3: like so far this is a nice sampling of questions.

870
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 1: This has been a rollercoaster ride.

871
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 3: Okay, should we do a few more? Yes, let's do

872
00:43:56,600 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 3: three more, three more more, Okay, thirty four our freaking age.

873
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god, hell.

874
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, hell yeah, Number thirty four. What was your most

875
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 4: enjoyable dream, your worst nightmare? I think I have my

876
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 4: worst nightmare for sure, Okay, and it's really dark and

877
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:21,840
Speaker 4: it's really vulnerable that I'm sharing this with everybody, but

878
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 4: I'm happy to. But I have I have a dream

879
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 4: that I from childhood that I still think about, which

880
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 4: is crazy. So maybe I'll go there.

881
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 3: Go there, whatever you whatever you feel comfortable with. Is

882
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 3: this the vulnerable one?

883
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 4: No, I mean they're both kind of they're both like

884
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 4: random and weird. They're dreams.

885
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:42,720
Speaker 1: I know my nightmare, but I'm still thinking on my dream.

886
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 4: Okay, my dream. I had this when I was like seven,

887
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 4: and for some reason it was I woke up in

888
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 4: the most euphoric state and I still think about it

889
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 4: and I don't know why, but it was basically like

890
00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:58,319
Speaker 4: it was a dream that turned into a nightmare. So

891
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 4: it that I was like on the phone before FaceTime.

892
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:07,879
Speaker 4: I was like I was on like a video call,

893
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 4: so like as a seven year old, like with technology

894
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:11,920
Speaker 4: did not exist back then. So it blew my mind

895
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 4: that I was talking to like a class full of

896
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 4: girls my age, but of just a bunch of cute girls.

897
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 4: For some reason, it thrilled me that I was talking

898
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 4: to all these cute girls who were like, we love you. Bowen,

899
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 4: my gay adult asked for I don't know what this

900
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,840
Speaker 4: means subconsciously, but like there was something about that dream

901
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 4: where I was just in heaven talking to all these

902
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:39,359
Speaker 4: people who like adored me. Uh and it was like

903
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:42,479
Speaker 4: attention or something I don't know. But then the call

904
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:46,080
Speaker 4: ended with them being like, oh no, the bully is here.

905
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:49,399
Speaker 4: The bully is here. And then I was like, I'll

906
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:53,360
Speaker 4: protect you. And then somehow fast forward, I'm on a bed,

907
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 4: jumping up and down the bed, fighting fist, fighting the

908
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:59,279
Speaker 4: bully while we're both jumping up and down on this bed,

909
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:00,439
Speaker 4: and then I woke up in the dream.

910
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: But I still think about so random. But for you,

911
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:06,879
Speaker 1: when you had this seven seven, I.

912
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 4: Still think about, like, oh my god, the thrill of

913
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 4: just like talking to like cute people, like cute girls.

914
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:17,359
Speaker 1: You know who are those girls represented? The katies? Yes,

915
00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:19,880
Speaker 1: oh my god, katies.

916
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:23,279
Speaker 4: Let's do a FaceTime and you guys tell me who

917
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:25,280
Speaker 4: the bully is and I will fight them.

918
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:27,200
Speaker 1: We need to find out who the bully is because

919
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 1: to go. It was just literally go.

920
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 4: It was like a big kid and I was like

921
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 4: a small, scrawny guy. Okay, so that's my most enjoyable dream.

922
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 1: Do you have one?

923
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 3: So I am going to share this one that I've

924
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 3: had not had had a dream when I was little,

925
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 3: and this one always stuck with me because it really

926
00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 3: was scary and sort of surreal and twisted. I remember

927
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:57,360
Speaker 3: I was dreaming that I was with a bunch of

928
00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:01,399
Speaker 3: my friends, like in some sort of cave, but we

929
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 3: were all Muppet babies. So me and my friends were

930
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 3: Muppet babies and we were like in this cave, like

931
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 3: sort of aware of the fact that there was a monster.

932
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:14,360
Speaker 1: Oh.

933
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 3: And then I remember like coming around a corner and

934
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 3: then being in my childhood kitchen and my mother was

935
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:27,919
Speaker 3: making food in the kitchen and I was calling out

936
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:30,719
Speaker 3: to her, like, Mom, I think there's a monster. She

937
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 3: couldn't hear me, Like I was like, and I was

938
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 3: Muppet baby sized, so I was just a generic Muppet

939
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:42,319
Speaker 3: baby or I don't really remember, but like that's what

940
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:42,760
Speaker 3: we were.

941
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:44,399
Speaker 1: You were a cute little puppet.

942
00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 3: I was like a little animated Muppet baby. And so

943
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 3: then I'm in my kitchen and I'm like, mom, there's

944
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:54,400
Speaker 3: a monster coming, and she can't hear me, and she's like,

945
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 3: I'm putting something in the oven.

946
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:56,720
Speaker 1: The oven is involved.

947
00:47:57,280 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 3: So then the monster come around the corner and it's it. Actually,

948
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:07,719
Speaker 3: he was like, you know that McDonald's character, which is

949
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 3: like a bunch of strings. He's like, yeah, yeah, you

950
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:14,320
Speaker 3: know what I mean, like Grimace. I think no, Grimace

951
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 3: is purple. The little the fry, the fry guys.

952
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 4: God, what was there were little little pom poms, the

953
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 4: mc dougal McDonald's fry guys, fry guys.

954
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 3: Uh yeah, yeah, literally a lot like this. That's the

955
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 3: tall but tall and like orange and another Muppet in

956
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 3: a way.

957
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:36,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

958
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 3: So he comes over to me, picks me up, puts

959
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 3: me in the oven and closes the door. And I

960
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 3: looked out the oven at my mother and was yelling mom, Mom, Mom,

961
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:48,440
Speaker 3: and she still couldn't hear me. And I remember, like,

962
00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:53,799
Speaker 3: just the the idea that I wasn't heard when I

963
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 3: was screaming for help from this monster and then I

964
00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 3: was too small to get anyone's attention like that stayed

965
00:48:59,520 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 3: with me.

966
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

967
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,600
Speaker 3: And it's one of the very few dreams from my

968
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 3: childhood that I remember because it really like shook me.

969
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:10,879
Speaker 3: That's a nightmare. That's your worst nightmare. Yeah, And then

970
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:18,319
Speaker 3: a dream. I don't know anyone where I sec I

971
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 3: love any of my dreams. And if you know, you

972
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 3: know when you have like a full blown like narrative

973
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 3: in it, Like sometimes I'll feel like I woke up

974
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 3: from a dream and I feel like I started Lord

975
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 3: of the Rings, like when you whenever you have a

976
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:31,320
Speaker 3: dream that's.

977
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:37,239
Speaker 4: Like an RPG, bitch, you can play them in real life.

978
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 1: Maybe I should. I don't think it dream to me.

979
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 4: Oh I think you would like some girl, girl. My

980
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:47,920
Speaker 4: nightmare is really bad. Wait, you don't want to It

981
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:52,320
Speaker 4: involves me like killing someone.

982
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:55,359
Speaker 3: I like, this is the death episode in a way.

983
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:57,400
Speaker 3: Who does your dream this?

984
00:49:57,480 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 4: I was at a grocery store and then like I

985
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 4: just I didn't shop, I didn't steal anything, but I

986
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 4: was like leaving the grocery store pushing my cart, and

987
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:05,160
Speaker 4: then this woman.

988
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 3: Chases after me.

989
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 4: She's like, you took you, you stole this, and I

990
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 4: was like no, I didn't, and she was like she

991
00:50:12,239 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 4: was about to kill me. And then I like picked

992
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:17,720
Speaker 4: up my cart and swung it and just kept hitting

993
00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 4: her with my cart.

994
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:20,839
Speaker 3: It's so dark.

995
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 1: Was my worst nightmare?

996
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:25,799
Speaker 4: Is like my own action and my the violence that

997
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:30,359
Speaker 4: I was capable of in them very coming. Well, yeah,

998
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:33,239
Speaker 4: that's what's disturbing to me. But meanwhile, I'm I'm I'm

999
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:35,359
Speaker 4: answering number eleven saying yeah, I would, I would do it,

1000
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:40,440
Speaker 4: but like there's something about the power of murder, of

1001
00:50:40,520 --> 00:50:44,160
Speaker 4: killing someone that like what breaks breaks your soul.

1002
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, I mean that that is a horrible feeling

1003
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:50,439
Speaker 3: to have to sit with. I'm sorry that's your worst nightmare.

1004
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:52,880
Speaker 4: Anyway, I bet it's such an easy answer. I was like,

1005
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 4: that is the most disturbed I've ever felt.

1006
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 3: I need to start writing down my dreams more. I

1007
00:50:57,719 --> 00:50:59,640
Speaker 3: think that would be interesting, like taking a dream journal.

1008
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:01,440
Speaker 1: Do you ever? Have you ever done it?

1009
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 4: The times that I have the wherewithal to like grab

1010
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:06,920
Speaker 4: my phone or whatever and type type the dream in.

1011
00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:09,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

1012
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 4: I got so inspired by Kirsten Dunst, like her you

1013
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 4: using her dreams as like acting sort of like guidelines.

1014
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:18,759
Speaker 4: I try that for a thing, and I don't.

1015
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1016
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,880
Speaker 1: It really helped for what wedding banquet?

1017
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:26,440
Speaker 4: No, for for uh, I forget something.

1018
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 3: I guess we'll have to see in your upcoming performances.

1019
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:34,400
Speaker 3: Which one feels the most dream inspired, subconsciously informed. Who?

1020
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:36,720
Speaker 1: Okay, well, let's get another number.

1021
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:39,399
Speaker 4: I feel really sort of naked in a good way,

1022
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:42,400
Speaker 4: Like I feel like everyone's really getting to know me to.

1023
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:45,239
Speaker 1: The last one.

1024
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:49,839
Speaker 4: Oh, this is very interesting. Let's hear it, number two

1025
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 4: hundred and seventeen. If you were guaranteed honest responses to

1026
00:51:56,920 --> 00:52:01,520
Speaker 4: any three questions, who would you question and what would

1027
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 4: you ask? I guess I okay, let's get it.

1028
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:11,279
Speaker 3: No, honestly, like, I know who I would ask, and

1029
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:16,040
Speaker 3: I think what the three questions were, but and I

1030
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 3: think I have asked.

1031
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:18,760
Speaker 1: Them, but I just don't know if they were honest answers.

1032
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 4: The thing is like, this is a deep one, and

1033
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:23,480
Speaker 4: this is going to take me a while to answer to.

1034
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:27,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is this one's tough. There's an interesting reason

1035
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:31,879
Speaker 3: why this one's last. It's an expansive question. Yeah, they

1036
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:33,840
Speaker 3: really kind of I don't know if it's almost with

1037
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 3: that they ate with that they really they they definitely hmmm.

1038
00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:43,520
Speaker 4: Okay, Becka saying number one O three, number one O three,

1039
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 4: does the fact that you have never done something before

1040
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:51,560
Speaker 4: increase or decrease, it's appeal to you.

1041
00:52:52,600 --> 00:53:00,839
Speaker 3: Oh, decrease. I think decrease comes at this point. Yeah, yeah,

1042
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 3: at this point in my life. This is this goes

1043
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:05,440
Speaker 3: back to the comfort of it all. I'm like, I

1044
00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:11,000
Speaker 3: have felt thrills, yeah, of all kinds. I'm good with something,

1045
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:14,719
Speaker 3: even I'm good with boring. I was actually just thinking

1046
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:17,720
Speaker 3: the other day, like about I don't think my sister's

1047
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 3: having kids. I'm not having kids. Probably, like I was

1048
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:23,359
Speaker 3: thinking about my parents again, being like, oh, they won't

1049
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:26,880
Speaker 3: get to be grandparents. And then I thought to myself, well,

1050
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:31,920
Speaker 3: not everyone gets to have every experience and that is okay.

1051
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:37,360
Speaker 3: And also I don't know. I also related to like skiing.

1052
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:39,440
Speaker 3: It's like maybe there's a reason I haven't done yet

1053
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 3: because my legs to happen half. I don't know, it's

1054
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:44,840
Speaker 3: just I think that that's like this is like this

1055
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:47,839
Speaker 3: question is scarcely in mindset, you know what I mean, Like,

1056
00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 3: I don't I'm not self conscious about experiences I have plenty.

1057
00:53:54,160 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 4: I'm all about an interpersonal thrill, like I don't have

1058
00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:06,640
Speaker 4: to have it be this like activity, but I love activity.

1059
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 4: I just don't know if that's like the gradient that

1060
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 4: I'm thinking about necessarily.

1061
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 1: I agree. I agree.

1062
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 3: I mean I think like I've done things to do

1063
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:21,640
Speaker 3: them already.

1064
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean there are things that I've done that

1065
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 4: I want to explore further because as I've already done them,

1066
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:29,200
Speaker 4: and I'm like, I liked that. Like I want to

1067
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:32,920
Speaker 4: go like I want to hike more intentionally and intensely.

1068
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:35,400
Speaker 4: I want to like learn new languages. I want to

1069
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 4: like do I just I don't know. I want to

1070
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:39,520
Speaker 4: like do stuff that I already know that I enjoy

1071
00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:41,239
Speaker 4: and that there's a wide.

1072
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:45,319
Speaker 3: Expansive horizon for more to come, you.

1073
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 1: Know, agree, Agree, Okay, new question, new question. Let's do

1074
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:53,319
Speaker 1: one more, one more, and then we'll do out of things.

1075
00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:54,120
Speaker 1: Bene twenty.

1076
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 3: I'm that's my lucky number. This is gonna be a

1077
00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 3: great question going to end on.

1078
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 4: Oh okay, interesting number twenty two.

1079
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 1: If you could.

1080
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:09,839
Speaker 4: Use this is kind of similar to the first. All right,

1081
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:13,720
Speaker 4: if you could use a voodoo doll to hurt anyone.

1082
00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:16,320
Speaker 1: You chose, would you? My god?

1083
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:18,840
Speaker 4: See, yeah, this is very similar to this, very similar.

1084
00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:24,080
Speaker 4: They got lazy, They got lazy. It's not Boody killing someone.

1085
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:27,359
Speaker 4: Becka saying she might do that.

1086
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,840
Speaker 3: No, because you know what like putting someone in pain.

1087
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:32,920
Speaker 3: This is even worse than the other one because the

1088
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 3: other one is like you'll think of someone and they'll

1089
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 3: die of a peaceful death, natural causes. This is like

1090
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 3: wanting to cause someone pain. It makes me even more uncomfortable.

1091
00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:43,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, this book is so cursed.

1092
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 3: The look of question the person book who wrote this

1093
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:49,000
Speaker 3: Gregory Styles.

1094
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:51,200
Speaker 4: Gregory Stock says, if you could choose, if you could

1095
00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:53,520
Speaker 4: use the voodoo doll to hurt anyone you chose, would

1096
00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:55,719
Speaker 4: you Okay, so you're your answer is no, I honor that.

1097
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 1: I don't want to hurt people. I really don't.

1098
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 3: I and I like, I know, I don't have that

1099
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:02,719
Speaker 3: kind of ill will.

1100
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I don't want anyone to be in any pain.

1101
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 1: I just.

1102
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 3: I really don't like that's I don't know, like when

1103
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:17,280
Speaker 3: people are like are people born good or evil?

1104
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:22,799
Speaker 1: I'm like good. Hmm. Interesting, what if it was No,

1105
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 1: I don't want her in pain.

1106
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:29,239
Speaker 3: I don't want her to be in really, no, you're

1107
00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 3: not gonna want this in the episode, Okay, yeah.

1108
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:32,480
Speaker 1: We'll take it out.

1109
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 3: Well, Okay, Becca's asking what if it was a bad

1110
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:40,720
Speaker 3: migraine once a month? I don't want people to feel

1111
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:42,560
Speaker 3: nauseous and in pain because of me.

1112
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:46,480
Speaker 1: They're gonna feel pain no matter what life is suffering.

1113
00:56:46,840 --> 00:56:49,319
Speaker 1: Have you seen mad but that I have.

1114
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 3: That doesn't mean that you should be the person to

1115
00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:57,360
Speaker 3: explicitly contribute to that physical suffering. You guys are scaring

1116
00:56:57,400 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 3: me with your devil's advocacy.

1117
00:56:58,760 --> 00:56:59,400
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding.

1118
00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:02,960
Speaker 4: I've not been a devil's advocate. I have been mostly

1119
00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:04,919
Speaker 4: aligned with you, except for the first and the last

1120
00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 4: question that you would kill and cause I know, actually, no, no, no,

1121
00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:11,399
Speaker 4: actually we are aligned on the first question, like it's

1122
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:14,359
Speaker 4: it's not worth the not worth it, the guilt.

1123
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I would have guilt about giving someone a migraine.

1124
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:18,480
Speaker 1: I wouldn't.

1125
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 3: Oh my god, my graines are awful. They are awful.

1126
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 3: They are debilitating. I knew a waitress named Crystal. She

1127
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 3: had to leave work.

1128
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:32,160
Speaker 1: And her dad had told her, you have to go

1129
00:57:32,200 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 1: to work.

1130
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 3: She had to leave work, and she had to go

1131
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 3: home and face her father, who, no doubt was like,

1132
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 3: if your grandfather was around, he'd be so disappointed in you.

1133
00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:46,200
Speaker 3: While she clutches her temple, nauseous in pain for a migraine, debilitated,

1134
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 3: unable to see out of one eye. I wouldn't wish

1135
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 3: a migraine on my worst enemy. I swear and trust

1136
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:54,040
Speaker 3: and believe.

1137
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 8: A lot.

1138
00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 3: One of these questions about causing someone pain On my

1139
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:01,480
Speaker 3: worst day, maybe I get a little edgy in terms

1140
00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:04,240
Speaker 3: of this question. But on today, No, it is December.

1141
00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 3: I'm the Prince of Christmas.

1142
00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 1: I can't be giving people migraines. No, you gotta give

1143
00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: gifts you have, you have a title to uphold. That

1144
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 1: would be bad for business. Bo Oh, I know, I know,

1145
00:58:16,840 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 1: stan Cole a migraine.

1146
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:21,600
Speaker 4: I feel like people have made up their minds about

1147
00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 4: me at this point. I'm like, well I can, I

1148
00:58:24,680 --> 00:58:26,640
Speaker 4: can kind of do whatever I want. This is what

1149
00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:28,200
Speaker 4: makes you Alphabet and me Glinda.

1150
00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 1: You realize this.

1151
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:31,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, although.

1152
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 4: I would say Glinda would align herself with power, which

1153
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 4: is I guess neither of us are doing that.

1154
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 3: It would be no trust me like Glinda would never

1155
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 3: give someone a migraine.

1156
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 4: Alphabe, Alphaba wouldn't give someone a migrone on purpose? What

1157
00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:51,680
Speaker 4: are you trying to say? Yes she would, No, she wouldn't.

1158
00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 4: The Wizard of Oz, No, no she wouldn't, And no,

1159
00:58:56,600 --> 00:58:59,760
Speaker 4: let me quote her. Her fought nobody in all of

1160
00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 4: our No wizard that there is or was, is ever

1161
00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:07,240
Speaker 4: gonna bring me down. That's protective, bro. She's not saying

1162
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:10,600
Speaker 4: fuck the Wizard. She said to protect he would she

1163
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 4: would like press, like give him a migraine. You forget that?

1164
00:59:14,400 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 1: Can I say something?

1165
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:18,360
Speaker 3: There is so much revisionist history here, and the Wicked

1166
00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 3: film not only glorifies animal abuse, but also erases the

1167
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:25,600
Speaker 3: fact that Alphaba, if she loved Fierro so much, why

1168
00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 3: does she set him on fire? In the Wizard of

1169
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:33,520
Speaker 3: Oz movie, there's a huge plot hole, huge plot timelines

1170
00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 3: are different. It's silver slippers not ruby. It's like, come on,

1171
00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:42,920
Speaker 3: come on, we're not doing this. No, no, no, In the

1172
00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:46,080
Speaker 3: Wizard of Watch the Wizard of Oz again. I've seen it,

1173
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 3: and I know used to excuse me, You've spoken a lot,

1174
00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 3: and you've got to speak in many lines in the

1175
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:56,920
Speaker 3: film Wicked, but I didn't get my opportunity. So I

1176
00:59:56,960 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 3: want to enter the Wicked universe and say, there's some

1177
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:03,560
Speaker 3: wrong here, there's something really wrong here.

1178
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:10,520
Speaker 4: You're anti Wicked because you think it's about a glorifies.

1179
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:15,640
Speaker 3: Animal glorifies animal abuse, and and I believe it's revisionist

1180
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:18,160
Speaker 3: about Alphaba's physical abuse.

1181
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 1: Okay, I've had it. We've done the Wicked press Star. Okay,

1182
01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:25,920
Speaker 1: now here's.

1183
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 3: My real feelings. I feel it's not pet Wicked, it's

1184
01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 3: not Peter. It's like how Crash thought it was anti racist,

1185
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:38,840
Speaker 3: and it was racist, and it was racist.

1186
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 1: Wicked thinks it's saving the animals.

1187
01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:44,160
Speaker 3: Last I checked, I'm watching this movie and a monkey

1188
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 3: was in agony.

1189
01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:47,840
Speaker 1: What they had to do to that monkey on set?

1190
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:50,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was That was not a good day. That

1191
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:54,400
Speaker 4: little that gorgeous little deer. That's our that's our, Tandy Newton.

1192
01:00:55,640 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 1: Crash, No, you're this man deep. The movie fucking sucks. God.

1193
01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:09,040
Speaker 3: It's a crazy ass movie, one of the craziest movies

1194
01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 3: ever in American history, and it won Best Picture at

1195
01:01:11,400 --> 01:01:12,360
Speaker 3: the Academy Awards.

1196
01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:20,960
Speaker 1: Sorry aang Lee, Sorry dang Sorry, beautiful Art, Sorry, beautiful Heath.

1197
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:33,280
Speaker 1: We were out here swimming in the deep. Now let's

1198
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 1: move on to I don't think so honey. Yeah, okay,

1199
01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:37,440
Speaker 1: I have a good one.

1200
01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:40,000
Speaker 4: Actually, okay, this is Matt Rodgers. I don't think so honey. Well,

1201
01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:41,200
Speaker 4: first of all, I don't think Sony is our one

1202
01:01:41,240 --> 01:01:44,480
Speaker 4: minute segment where we take one minute to rarely get

1203
01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 4: something in culture. Matt Rodgers has something. This is Matt Rodgers.

1204
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:48,520
Speaker 4: I don't think so many as time starts now.

1205
01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 3: I don't think so, honey. If you're gonna send a

1206
01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:55,920
Speaker 3: sexy DM and it's fisting, you have to say that beforehand.

1207
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:58,680
Speaker 1: Well, no, I am so on board with you.

1208
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:01,080
Speaker 3: With people out there, they want to send me their

1209
01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:03,560
Speaker 3: sexy dms, like you want to send me a dick

1210
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:06,480
Speaker 3: pic on DM, Like, truly, my dms are open. You

1211
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 3: want to send the little sneaky ass you want to

1212
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 3: send whatever it is. If you're empowered to send me

1213
01:02:11,640 --> 01:02:15,400
Speaker 3: this type of material, I support you, I embrace you.

1214
01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 1: I do think so, honey. I don't, however, think so honey.

1215
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:21,120
Speaker 3: If you're going to send and this is not a

1216
01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:23,600
Speaker 3: king shame, I swear to God everyone do whatever it

1217
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:27,200
Speaker 3: is you're gonna do consensually with your.

1218
01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:29,400
Speaker 1: Partner or partners, I don't care.

1219
01:02:29,880 --> 01:02:33,520
Speaker 3: But if I open my DM and like it is

1220
01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:39,320
Speaker 3: something that is going to sexually shock, disturb and turn

1221
01:02:39,440 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 3: me off, I have to know beforehand that second feels

1222
01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:47,240
Speaker 3: like animal abuse. When I'm an animal, a human is

1223
01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 3: an animal, and you send me just straight up fisting

1224
01:02:50,040 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 3: out of nowhere.

1225
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:52,760
Speaker 1: I don't think so, honey, I feel animally abused.

1226
01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:56,200
Speaker 4: That's one minute. And there's something very nuanced here, which

1227
01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:57,680
Speaker 4: is this is not a king shaming moment.

1228
01:02:57,720 --> 01:03:02,400
Speaker 3: It is no, it is a of there's no sort

1229
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 3: of like gut check either way about it. You have

1230
01:03:06,120 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 3: to ask someone if they're okay with certain things, period.

1231
01:03:11,560 --> 01:03:13,880
Speaker 3: And here's the thing, Like the person that sent me this,

1232
01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:18,800
Speaker 3: we have had a like an exchange nudes relationship in

1233
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:21,840
Speaker 3: the past, but this was a jump forward to the

1234
01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 3: point where it was like, if your intentles to test

1235
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 3: me and see what my limits are, truly, just ask.

1236
01:03:28,600 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 3: I will tell you, like very is that positive forward person.

1237
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:36,320
Speaker 3: When that is on the table, I will talk about it.

1238
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:36,880
Speaker 1: Let's get it.

1239
01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:45,520
Speaker 3: That's literally communication and whoa gay guys, slow it down.

1240
01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:49,200
Speaker 1: When this is the deal, I mean, I'm I'm shook

1241
01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:49,680
Speaker 1: about it.

1242
01:03:50,080 --> 01:03:52,480
Speaker 3: There's some good ones out there, gay guys.

1243
01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:56,400
Speaker 1: Oh, some of my favorite people. Absolutely, some of my

1244
01:03:56,560 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 1: favorite people.

1245
01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:02,520
Speaker 3: And when they get one, I mean, listen, it's a spectrum. Ye,

1246
01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:05,080
Speaker 3: gay guy is a spectrum. It's actually real Coachure number thirty.

1247
01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 3: Gay guy is a spectrum. But I have to say,

1248
01:04:09,080 --> 01:04:12,840
Speaker 3: and I kind of now my perspective on this one.

1249
01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:15,680
Speaker 3: Gig guy has to change a little bit because I

1250
01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:20,880
Speaker 3: feel I was like animally abused through the phone. It's

1251
01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:22,920
Speaker 3: just the worst medium for animals.

1252
01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:25,320
Speaker 1: Be like, hey, are you into this that the other?

1253
01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:27,840
Speaker 3: Then we can actually get into it so that when

1254
01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:30,000
Speaker 3: you send me this, I'm not on lost coach being like,

1255
01:04:30,040 --> 01:04:32,320
Speaker 3: I don't think so, honey your actions. Hey, I have

1256
01:04:32,360 --> 01:04:35,440
Speaker 3: a video of me fisting getting fisted.

1257
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 1: Is it okay? If I send this, you can say.

1258
01:04:37,680 --> 01:04:41,040
Speaker 3: No, I'll be I would be like, I'm gonna respectfully decline.

1259
01:04:41,120 --> 01:04:42,880
Speaker 3: I politely decline.

1260
01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:48,439
Speaker 4: And then you would have still maintained that nude sharing relationship, friendship, yeah,

1261
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:49,960
Speaker 4: something else.

1262
01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:54,080
Speaker 3: Also, or I go yes, and then I can't complain

1263
01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:56,720
Speaker 3: what I see, you know what I mean. But like,

1264
01:04:56,800 --> 01:05:00,000
Speaker 3: give me the opportunity to have a say in my experience,

1265
01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:02,600
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, because you can't see what

1266
01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:03,200
Speaker 3: it's gonna be.

1267
01:05:03,240 --> 01:05:05,920
Speaker 1: When it's one of those dms that goes away, you

1268
01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:09,600
Speaker 1: know that is is okay?

1269
01:05:09,680 --> 01:05:13,840
Speaker 3: Bo I survive? Yeah, I would give that person a migraine.

1270
01:05:14,520 --> 01:05:15,520
Speaker 3: Yeah you ready?

1271
01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1272
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:17,680
Speaker 4: I feel like this is gonna be a rehash of

1273
01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:19,720
Speaker 4: something that I've surely talked about before. But it's it's

1274
01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:21,880
Speaker 4: there's there's a new sort of resonance to it.

1275
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:25,600
Speaker 3: For some reason, it'll be fresh, new, brand new, different

1276
01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:29,080
Speaker 3: and more. I'm sure, I'm sure pertinent.

1277
01:05:29,760 --> 01:05:31,400
Speaker 1: Here we go. This is Bowen Yang's. I don't think

1278
01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:32,560
Speaker 1: so many as time starts now.

1279
01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 4: I don't think so, honey, TikTok, or at least my

1280
01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:38,160
Speaker 4: experience of it, because it's not even the algorithm anymore.

1281
01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:38,760
Speaker 1: It's for me.

1282
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 4: My experience of TikTok is I log on and twenty off.

1283
01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:46,120
Speaker 4: My notifications are of someone who thinks they're being cute,

1284
01:05:46,480 --> 01:05:50,080
Speaker 4: tagging me saying, oh my god, this person looks just

1285
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:52,360
Speaker 4: like bow and Yang. It's an Asian person. It's a

1286
01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 4: little Asian baby dancing around and like a little elephant costume.

1287
01:05:56,520 --> 01:05:58,640
Speaker 4: Trust me, I've seen it. You guys can stop tagging

1288
01:05:58,640 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 4: me in that no, thank you. I it makes me

1289
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:02,360
Speaker 4: not want to use the platform, which I guess is

1290
01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:04,840
Speaker 4: there not mine. It's just like I'm not missing out

1291
01:06:04,920 --> 01:06:08,200
Speaker 4: on too much. I'm happy to get the detritis on

1292
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:12,160
Speaker 4: reels weeks later. But I'm saying, like, I guess that's

1293
01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:13,840
Speaker 4: just not gonna go away. I guess I have to

1294
01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:18,560
Speaker 4: accept this as part of my life. But like, even

1295
01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:21,120
Speaker 4: if I even still get Asian people who make the

1296
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:24,320
Speaker 4: Joelkim booster joke switch a rude joke, and I'm like, y'all,

1297
01:06:24,480 --> 01:06:28,440
Speaker 4: what what's with that? I don't know, Like it's just

1298
01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:31,160
Speaker 4: a weird thing, and I hate the Internet because of it.

1299
01:06:31,200 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 4: I think this is a great reason to leave soch.

1300
01:06:33,960 --> 01:06:35,800
Speaker 1: I mean, I think that. Here's the thing.

1301
01:06:37,240 --> 01:06:39,560
Speaker 3: Last week I was in therapy and I was talking

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01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:41,920
Speaker 3: about how I for the first not the first time

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Speaker 3: in a while, but lately I've been feeling really good

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01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:47,520
Speaker 3: and the only times I feel bad are when I

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01:06:47,560 --> 01:06:50,440
Speaker 3: logged on and see what people I have to say.

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01:06:50,720 --> 01:06:55,240
Speaker 3: And so I would say, for you, it's probably not

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01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:59,400
Speaker 3: going to change. It's not going to change because if

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01:06:59,440 --> 01:07:03,360
Speaker 3: they haven't heard you at this point to or whatever.

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Speaker 3: It's like, Also, there's like unlimited people out there that

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Speaker 3: can all like you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Like these people who like don't see a lot of

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01:07:10,880 --> 01:07:13,479
Speaker 4: Asian people in their everyday lives, I'm top of mind

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01:07:13,520 --> 01:07:15,160
Speaker 4: to them, and so they see an Asian person on

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01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:17,400
Speaker 4: the Internet, they go, oh my god, that's bowen ying.

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01:07:17,760 --> 01:07:21,720
Speaker 4: Bowen Ying should do a sketch a skit on SNL

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01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:24,200
Speaker 4: where he plays this little baby who's dancing.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, listen to yourself, do you think that could happen?

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01:07:28,120 --> 01:07:30,520
Speaker 3: Do you think I'm over here thinking I'm gonna do that.

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01:07:32,040 --> 01:07:35,520
Speaker 3: I don't know what they think something about. And I listen,

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01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:38,280
Speaker 3: what a huge honor to be in this movie. That

1321
01:07:38,440 --> 01:07:41,000
Speaker 3: is you know, I'm being appreciated by so many people.

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01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:46,560
Speaker 3: I am receiving an uptick of the most lebottomized people

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Speaker 3: you have.

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Speaker 4: You didn't even think we're out there in this world.

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Speaker 4: I'm I'm I. I love everybody. And this is not

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01:07:56,440 --> 01:08:00,480
Speaker 4: related to me wanting to voodoo doll potentially kill anybody.

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Speaker 1: If I had the power.

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Speaker 3: But I am over here thinking, wow, like human beings, man,

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01:08:05,800 --> 01:08:10,440
Speaker 3: our brains are small. We are a stupid species. We

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01:08:10,520 --> 01:08:16,320
Speaker 3: are dumb, myself included. I think that also, people that

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01:08:16,800 --> 01:08:22,080
Speaker 3: act that way online are like they if they saw

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01:08:22,080 --> 01:08:24,840
Speaker 3: you in person, they would obviously never say those things,

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01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:26,920
Speaker 3: which makes me feel like that's not even a reflection

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01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:29,519
Speaker 3: of an actual human being. That's a reflection of like

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01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:32,880
Speaker 3: a human being's based thing. Yeah you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: It's like these people online quote unquote people online, Like

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01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:39,160
Speaker 3: if you think of them as not people, but as

1338
01:08:39,320 --> 01:08:42,960
Speaker 3: like online opportunities for people, you know what I mean,

1339
01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:46,720
Speaker 3: because like you're not actually being online, you're talking to

1340
01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:50,960
Speaker 3: an avatar and an attitude that is put on and constructed.

1341
01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:53,760
Speaker 3: So it's just like that makes you want to take

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01:08:53,800 --> 01:08:57,559
Speaker 3: the whole thing less seriously to begin with, because it's

1343
01:08:57,600 --> 01:09:00,800
Speaker 3: like these these aren't people online, even if they are

1344
01:09:00,840 --> 01:09:05,200
Speaker 3: operated by a human being. This is not a reflection

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01:09:05,360 --> 01:09:06,000
Speaker 3: of reality.

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01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:09,120
Speaker 4: Is the way you've thwarted extension of like the way

1347
01:09:09,160 --> 01:09:12,280
Speaker 4: their minds work, which is never gonna agree with me.

1348
01:09:12,360 --> 01:09:14,200
Speaker 4: I can't control what they think. I'm not out here

1349
01:09:14,240 --> 01:09:17,760
Speaker 4: saying like I'm out think so honey, I'm not saying

1350
01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:20,240
Speaker 4: like you better not do it.

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01:09:21,280 --> 01:09:24,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then they they they can't see you as

1352
01:09:24,320 --> 01:09:26,200
Speaker 3: a person either because they have their own thing in

1353
01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:29,439
Speaker 3: their own head. Yeah, I mean, social media is bad.

1354
01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:32,799
Speaker 3: Internet is bad, breaking news.

1355
01:09:33,760 --> 01:09:36,680
Speaker 4: God bless Australia. That little social media ban?

1356
01:09:37,560 --> 01:09:38,639
Speaker 1: Are they doing? That? Love?

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01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:41,640
Speaker 4: Is that under anyone under sixteen? They don't know how

1358
01:09:41,640 --> 01:09:43,479
Speaker 4: they're gonna People are like, how are they gonna enforce this?

1359
01:09:43,560 --> 01:09:46,360
Speaker 4: But I'm just glad it's out there. I'm glad of

1360
01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:47,640
Speaker 4: the intention.

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01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:49,320
Speaker 3: I knew I knew the intention was there, I wasn't

1362
01:09:49,360 --> 01:09:52,160
Speaker 3: sure if it was actually being enacted, which they get

1363
01:09:52,160 --> 01:09:54,240
Speaker 3: a couple shootings, they go, no more guns.

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01:09:54,520 --> 01:09:55,280
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly.

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01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:58,679
Speaker 3: I'm like, God, imagine that, Imagine that.

1366
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:03,400
Speaker 1: Imagine an episode that took you to highs and lows

1367
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:04,879
Speaker 1: like this one. Wow.

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01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:11,160
Speaker 3: Lost Coach really is a podcast that continues to grow

1369
01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:12,360
Speaker 3: and inspire.

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01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:13,240
Speaker 1: Hmm.

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Speaker 4: Thank you to Gregory stock PhD in what I don't

1372
01:10:18,200 --> 01:10:21,360
Speaker 4: know in being a mess and being a messy.

1373
01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:24,840
Speaker 3: Ho messy ho vibes. But also got to give him

1374
01:10:24,880 --> 01:10:28,120
Speaker 3: thought provoking. Gotta give him thought provoking. I mean, this

1375
01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:31,599
Speaker 3: man was writing the Book of Questions before we had

1376
01:10:31,680 --> 01:10:37,360
Speaker 3: these little fall in love. We're not really strangers girls

1377
01:10:37,360 --> 01:10:38,679
Speaker 3: stepped onto the world stage.

1378
01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:40,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my god.

1379
01:10:40,960 --> 01:10:44,439
Speaker 3: Well, maybe we'll do another episode of this. Maybe, Hey,

1380
01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:47,320
Speaker 3: look out for another episode the Book of Questions too,

1381
01:10:47,680 --> 01:10:48,639
Speaker 3: like Wicked too.

1382
01:10:50,520 --> 01:10:52,120
Speaker 1: Or Book of Shadows Blue which.

1383
01:10:52,040 --> 01:10:54,120
Speaker 3: And I want to say something, I take back everything

1384
01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:57,720
Speaker 3: I said about Wicked. Those animals were cgi. I know,

1385
01:10:57,760 --> 01:11:01,720
Speaker 3: they just looked incredibly real. That's just, you know, a

1386
01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:04,200
Speaker 3: testament to the power of filmmaking and what we called

1387
01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:05,040
Speaker 3: movie magic.

1388
01:11:05,240 --> 01:11:07,519
Speaker 4: And can I say I could have never convinced you

1389
01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:10,400
Speaker 4: that they were not real. You had to arrive at

1390
01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:11,080
Speaker 4: that yourself.

1391
01:11:11,840 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 1: Something has changed within me, something is.

1392
01:11:18,880 --> 01:11:19,320
Speaker 2: The same.

1393
01:11:19,800 --> 01:11:22,559
Speaker 1: I love her performance in that moment, so good. We

1394
01:11:22,680 --> 01:11:24,000
Speaker 1: end every episode of the song.

1395
01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:30,320
Speaker 3: I'm through is playing by what.

1396
01:11:33,240 --> 01:11:34,680
Speaker 2: To for?

1397
01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:42,960
Speaker 3: I guess it to go back to see time.

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01:11:43,840 --> 01:11:57,400
Speaker 1: That rush in sciences close and it's sound. You know

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01:11:57,439 --> 01:12:04,920
Speaker 1: that the soundtrack is out. Bye Last Culture.

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Speaker 4: Racis is the production by Will Ferrell's Big Many Players

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01:12:07,040 --> 01:12:08,360
Speaker 4: in My Heart radio podcasts.

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01:12:08,400 --> 01:12:11,720
Speaker 3: Created and hosted by Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang. Executive

1403
01:12:11,720 --> 01:12:15,519
Speaker 3: produced by Ana Hasnier and Hans Sondi, Produced by Becker Ramos,

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01:12:15,640 --> 01:12:18,000
Speaker 3: edited mixed by Doug Babymnika Board and.

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01:12:17,960 --> 01:12:19,679
Speaker 1: Our music is by Henry Komerski.

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01:12:26,400 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 2: Hey everybody, it's me Matt Rogers, letting you know. Tickets

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01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:31,559
Speaker 2: are on sale now to see me on tour, the

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01:12:31,600 --> 01:12:34,200
Speaker 2: Prince of Christmas Tour, that is, I'm doing my whole

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01:12:34,240 --> 01:12:36,639
Speaker 2: album have you Heard of Christmas? Plus a lot more

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01:12:36,680 --> 01:12:39,960
Speaker 2: with the whole band all throughout December. Go to www

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Speaker 2: dot Matt rodgersofficial dot com to see me in a

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Speaker 2: city near you