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A 80 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 3: woman was fired for bringing laxing to Phil Browness to 81 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 3: co workers send off. 82 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 2: I guess you didn't like him. 83 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 3: A forty seven year old Adrian woman lost her job 84 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 3: at the police determined she put laxatives in the departing 85 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 3: co workers going away brownies. Now, you absolutely hate a 86 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 3: motherfucker when they leaving, right they walking out the dough 87 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 3: you won they leaving and you still was like, Nah, 88 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 3: I'm gonna get that bitch. I don't like that shit. 89 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 3: I gotta drop a dime on this nigga. Damn. 90 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 2: I guess you really want to give her a reason 91 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 2: to run at the front door. 92 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 3: I guess. So she was running all right, she had 93 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 3: the runs. Yeah, they were called to police were call 94 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:02,599 Speaker 3: to MMI Engineering Solutions after a company received a tip 95 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 3: from it that an employee. Oh, they received a tip 96 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 3: from an employee that the woman planning to put laxatives 97 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 3: in brownie. She was bringing the send off for another coworker. 98 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 4: Which means she told somebody and job's got like the 99 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:17,839 Speaker 4: one eight hundred numbers that you can call and be anonymous, 100 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 4: and somebody call that hotline. 101 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 3: Well, that's the kind of thing where you gotta tell somebody. 102 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 4: It was like, look, I ain't I don't want to know. 103 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 4: It's like the crime stops. Don't give us your name, 104 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 4: your address, and you get the reward. We just give 105 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 4: you the reward. She was like, I'm not telling you nothing. 106 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 3: She knows exactly who snitched on her because she told somebody, 107 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 3: and that person said police the company. The company intervened, 108 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 3: confiscated the suspects brownies, and called the police before the 109 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 3: brownies could be eaten. When interviewed by police, the forty 110 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 3: seven year old initially denied putting laxus in the brownies, 111 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:52,839 Speaker 3: but when informed that the brownies could be forensically tested 112 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 3: for tampering, she admitted to baking in a cube of laxatives. 113 00:06:57,520 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 3: But police learned from other employees that to suspect, noted 114 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 3: that there may have been some previous tension between the 115 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 3: departing employee and the forty seven year old woman. The 116 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 3: nature the bat was not immediately known. 117 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 2: I don't like nobody that much. 118 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 4: You said, you know what, like nobody, I don't hate nobody, 119 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 4: you know, like like don't like them that much. 120 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 2: Like if you're gone, just gone like this the end. 121 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it sounded like you don't like them 122 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 3: and you think this will be the way to get 123 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 3: at them before they leave. But putting the putting lexus 124 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 3: and all the brownies, that's just gonna get everybody sick, 125 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 3: like I want all y'all to feel the way she 126 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 3: made me feel. I wonder what the fight started over. 127 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 2: Whatever it is is done that canna make you slap somebody. 128 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 3: I think it started over from dick. But though police 129 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 3: say the woman admitted to tempering with the brownies, Heart 130 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 3: said no charges would be pursued. Knowing ainate the brownies, 131 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 3: the company fire her. The matter would be different had 132 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 3: someone consumed the food. Heart said the incident is normally 133 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 3: something school aids. Children would be reminded that tampering with 134 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 3: food isn't a joke. So that's because the allergies and 135 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:05,679 Speaker 3: medical concerns, right. 136 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 4: So that's why, Uh, you know they gonna make it 137 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 4: to the point where y'all are lotting. No, no, no, no, 138 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 4: we're gonna we're store buying everything. Nope, we don't want 139 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 4: none of your side dishes. We purchasing everything if they 140 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 4: want to be on the safe side. Sheet had to 141 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 4: deal with shit like this, and then people want to 142 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 4: get offended when people be like, please, list was in this? 143 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 2: Why got because everybody can't eat everything? 144 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 3: Baby? 145 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 2: List was in your food? 146 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:38,679 Speaker 3: Yep. So the school chief, who I don't know if 147 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:40,959 Speaker 3: you remember the story from a long time ago Louisiana 148 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 3: school superintendent had placed a woman in a handcuffs because 149 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 3: she was talking about how he was making all this 150 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 3: money and the teachers weren't making anything, and he's voting 151 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 3: for his own raise, and she was a teacher and 152 00:08:56,880 --> 00:08:59,439 Speaker 3: he basically had her handcuffed and escorted out of the 153 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 3: out of the difference. Well, his hate to pay increase 154 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 3: led to a videotaped haaycuff and of a complaining teacher. 155 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 3: He has been put on the paid administrative lead. South 156 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 3: Louisiana news outlets report Jerome Payu was placed on leave 157 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 3: Monday night after the Vermilion Pairs School Board voted to 158 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 3: investigate a list of complaints by his critics. He has 159 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 3: been Vermilion superintendent since twenty thirteen. In January, the members 160 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 3: renewed his contract with the raise of thirty thousand dollars. 161 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 3: A teacher who questioned the raise of the board meeting 162 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 3: was then handcuffed in a rough video recorded arrest, and 163 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 3: that sparked outrage across the United States. The board's president 164 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 3: later resigned. Pyu's backers credit him with the Vermillion Schools 165 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 3: High State reagans opponents alleged that he has been confrontational, 166 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:55,559 Speaker 3: disrespectful to opponents, and has improperly overruller board decisions and 167 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 3: interviews Monday. Tuesday, he attributed the controversy to small town 168 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 3: rural politics. He said sometimes he and some board members 169 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 3: disagree about how much starty he has to hire and 170 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:06,719 Speaker 3: fire people under state law. He also said some of 171 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 3: the complaints listed Monday night were from previous evaluations prior 172 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 3: to the board's decision to renew his contract at a 173 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 3: higher conversation in January. 174 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, nobody investigated his pride to renew the contract because 175 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 4: the incident, this incident had happened, full it was time 176 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 4: to renew the contract, right. 177 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 3: I think it happened afterwards this incident, but he had 178 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 3: incidents that happened before too. Okay, it's ridiculous that we 179 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 3: keep coming back to the same items over and over. 180 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 3: He said. There's nothing that they can find or anything 181 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 3: they can investigate that has any substance. He said he's 182 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 3: also receiving legal advice on his next steps. Speaker showed 183 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 3: up in support and in opposition to him at the 184 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 3: mere meeting prior to the six two vote to put 185 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 3: him on leave. Board member Stacy Landry expressed support but 186 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 3: voted to place him on lead. Hopefully we get a 187 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 3: speedy answer in our praise. Jerome remains superintendent and he 188 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 3: can finish his contract and we can work together. Let's 189 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 3: get a good investigation. Let's find out who's right, who's wrong. 190 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 3: To put it to bed. Mhmm, yes, as a hard grave. 191 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 3: That was the teacher that was arrested. She spoke out 192 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 3: against Pyu receiving a raise while teachers had gone years 193 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:20,960 Speaker 3: without one. When the boys didn't president, that's definitely gonna 194 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 3: be a problem. When the boys didn't present, he's like 195 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 3: walking around. 196 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 4: The new nikes and shit right, they were like, we 197 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 4: ain't got raising years and y'all raised his raised forty 198 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 4: thousand I mean thirty thousand word. 199 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 3: He was like, I'm gonna eat out for lunch again, 200 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 3: but y'all enjoy that that school pizza when the boys, 201 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 3: then president Anthony Fontana banged this galvil and told her 202 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:40,839 Speaker 3: that the comments weren't Germaine. She argued that they were 203 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 3: according to a board member who was president. Fontana then 204 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 3: back into a Deputy Chief Mark a city marshal, who 205 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:49,559 Speaker 3: ordered her out. She appeared to be complying, but in 206 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 3: the hallway video shows her on the floor, her hands 207 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 3: behind her back being handcuffed. Charges against hard Grave would 208 00:11:55,320 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 3: never pursue the video jo why Yeah, reason the rest her? Yeah, 209 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 3: and this was a while ago that the arrest. Well, 210 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:10,839 Speaker 3: you know what I mean, you will be suing the 211 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 3: police and you probably aint gonna win that shit anyway. 212 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 3: You know, they'll make something up. Yeah, the little I mean, 213 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 3: I guess he's still on. Uh, I don't leave. I 214 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 3: don't see anything about him being I don't leave anymore. 215 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 3: So the last update was like September, and it sounds 216 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:35,320 Speaker 3: like the school boards moving forward even with him. Uh, well, 217 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 3: then moving forward with the investigation, so I guess it's 218 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 3: not over yet. All right, Well, we'll see what happens 219 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:44,200 Speaker 3: with that. But that was just an update. 220 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, you didn't give teachers raising years they be looking 221 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 4: like word you get a raised, but we don't. 222 00:12:51,679 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 3: Right, let's see an apology to my husband's ex wife. 223 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 3: Let us sink in an. 224 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 2: Apology to my husband's Okay. 225 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 3: A cautionary tale for cheetahs. You ready, I don't know 226 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 3: in thirteen parts, what is this? 227 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 2: Are kind of trapped in the closet. What the hell 228 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:24,319 Speaker 2: is happening here? 229 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 3: This is medium dot com by Maggie Hawker. Hookah one. 230 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 3: I had an affair with your husband, to whom I 231 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 3: am now married. I am so so sorry. If there's 232 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:40,359 Speaker 3: one decay. 233 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 2: Are you telling me now? If I didn't already. 234 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 3: Know, if there's one decision in my life I could undo, 235 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 3: it would be this because of what it did to you, 236 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 3: because of what it's done to me, and because it 237 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:57,319 Speaker 3: was just playing wrong. Number two, I won't take full 238 00:13:57,400 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 3: responsibility for the breakdown of your marriage. The myth of 239 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:03,679 Speaker 3: the home wreckord is just that a myth. No one 240 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 3: can wreck someone's home against his will. You two wrecked 241 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 3: your home on your own before I ever came on 242 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 3: the scene. And anyway, you had an affair too, so 243 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 3: I know you understand. Number three. However, I still owe 244 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 3: you several apologies beyond the apology for my original sin. 245 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 3: Number four, I'm sorry. I believe the things he said 246 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 3: about you fel forward. I mean, that's the thing. A 247 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 3: lot of these affairs, you know, the people cheating, they 248 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 3: go and tell the other person of the story. You 249 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 3: need a narrative, because you know the narrative can't just 250 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 3: be on a horrible person that's cheating on my husband 251 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 3: or wife. You gotta go tell them something like this 252 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 3: nigga ain't shit they do. They're horrible. I'm the good 253 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 3: guy and I just can't think of nothing else to 254 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 3: do other than the sheet. It's the kids, it's they've changed. 255 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 3: It's always something right. And if you choose to go 256 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 3: along with that story, then yeah, you're accepting probably lies 257 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 3: and you won't know until it happens to you that 258 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 3: this nigga was full of shit. You know, I mean 259 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 3: most of us go yeah, I mean, it's fucked up 260 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 3: what we do it. But many of us when we 261 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 3: see like the mistress end up with the dude and 262 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 3: then she gets screwed over, we all go, yeah, of 263 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 3: course that's how you got him right. Number five, He 264 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:37,120 Speaker 3: told me that you were dumb. He said that without 265 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 3: malice or Adamosi just presented it as a fact you 266 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 3: weren't that smart and therefore he was bored with you, 267 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 3: as if that's something unforgivable, saying, by the way you 268 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 3: married her dumb. The way dumb works is that if 269 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 3: you marry somebody, they don't become dumb. That's that's not 270 00:15:56,360 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 3: how dumb works. So that means you married I'm right dumb, 271 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 3: and then at some point decided that that was actually 272 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:06,400 Speaker 3: you would a victim in this. You made a decision 273 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 3: to forever till death do us part with a dumb person. 274 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 3: That's if you believe him, which obviously you're You're talking 275 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 3: to a dude that's cheating on his wife. I mean 276 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 3: he might want to take it with a grain of salt. 277 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 3: Number six. Now, I'm a stupid one, he tells me regularly. 278 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 3: But I know I'm not stupid, and I know that 279 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 3: you aren't either. I'm sorry I didn't challenge him when 280 00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 3: he said that you were. I mean, when were you 281 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 3: gonna challenge him? Between strokes? I mean, come on, you 282 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 3: are still fucking her husband. So I mean, it's like 283 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 3: my wife is so stupid. Uh, I don't know if 284 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 3: I agree. Come on, fuck out of here. Number seven, 285 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 3: he told me you were too lazy to work, too 286 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:53,360 Speaker 3: much of a prima donna. I meant this caused me 287 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 3: to look down on you, since I'm such a worker myself, 288 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 3: since I've always been self sufficient. But I find myself 289 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 3: calling him sick more and more these days, anything and 290 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:04,680 Speaker 3: asking my boss if I can work from home or 291 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 3: on others and more, and not because i want to 292 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 3: spend time with him, but because I'm afraid to leave 293 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 3: him in charge of our two children during the day. 294 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 3: He works from home, and you know how he can 295 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:20,160 Speaker 3: snap when he's angry when someone irritates him or argues 296 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 3: with him about nearly anything. Now, finally, it occurs to 297 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:27,200 Speaker 3: me that you may have wanted very much to work, 298 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:29,880 Speaker 3: especially since it could have been your ticket away from him. 299 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 3: But you had three young children. Ooh, there's a lot 300 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:35,920 Speaker 3: of babies involved in us. Three young children you probably 301 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 3: wisely did not want to leave in his care. I'm 302 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:40,159 Speaker 3: sorry that you were in that situation. You must have 303 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 3: felt so trapped. That's seven points so far. You're digging 304 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 3: her points care so far? Okay, number eight. He told 305 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:56,160 Speaker 3: me that you were selfish, that you didn't get him, 306 00:17:56,359 --> 00:17:58,399 Speaker 3: that you didn't care about what he needed from you. 307 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 3: I now understand there is no care in the world 308 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 3: that is great enough to accommodate his needs. They are endless, 309 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 3: they are very very important. I'm sorry that your needs 310 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:09,200 Speaker 3: were probably never met, and I sincerely hope you are 311 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 3: now with someone who meets them. This is like when 312 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:18,320 Speaker 3: new pussy becomes you know, the old pussy, and then 313 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:19,880 Speaker 3: all of a sudden, it's like this nigga ain't doing 314 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 3: all that stuff he was doing during the fair. 315 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, because you didn't have to deal with the day 316 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 2: to day shit. 317 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:34,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, you were an a skate you know. Number nine. 318 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 3: I'm sorry I ever believed any of these things. I'm 319 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 3: sorry I was even there to hear the words. I'm 320 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 3: sorry that I didn't shut them down the second I did. 321 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 3: Here's the thing about her sorries, guys. Her sorries sound 322 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:54,159 Speaker 3: like she regret she regrets it, andF I regret, I 323 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:56,159 Speaker 3: don't mean like I don't even know why this is 324 00:18:56,200 --> 00:19:00,040 Speaker 3: addressed to the ex wife. These are your regrets, this 325 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 3: baby girl. These ain't the regrets that you have to say. 326 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:06,879 Speaker 3: I'm sorry to you. No, you're sorry for yourself because 327 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 3: you know if you would have believed this shit, you 328 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:13,000 Speaker 3: wouldn't have had two smo kids. What a motherfucking dude 329 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 3: that that's a piece of shit. This is all like 330 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:19,400 Speaker 3: you talking to yourself in the past, And y'all don't 331 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 3: know why you roping this woman, this woman who probably 332 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:26,360 Speaker 3: gonna moved on with her life into this shit number ten. 333 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 3: I'm sorry if you ever still miss him. I hope 334 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 3: you don't find it patronizing for me to assure you 335 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:33,560 Speaker 3: that you are too good for him, that you are 336 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 3: always too good for him, and that you are better 337 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 3: off without him. Girl, tell it to yourself, look at 338 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 3: the mirror. That's what you really want to say. This 339 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 3: is a letter to yourself. Eleven for what is worth? 340 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:48,399 Speaker 3: I've never met you, what Sorry, you never even met her, 341 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 3: and you wrote this shit for what is worth? And 342 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:52,439 Speaker 3: I've never met you, so I don't know where you're 343 00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 3: staying on karma or shot shot in freud or revenge. 344 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 3: I can assure you that I am paying dearly for 345 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 3: my betrayal of you, for my more weakness than my selfishness. 346 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 4: And that's why, and that's probably why, because the thing is, 347 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:09,640 Speaker 4: it sounds like the wife didn't know she existed. 348 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:14,399 Speaker 3: I mean not in a personal way, like maybe in 349 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,199 Speaker 3: a way that you know your husband left you for 350 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:18,480 Speaker 3: another woman and you suspect he had an affair, but 351 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 3: you know, I'm sure that dude gas let her, because 352 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:25,679 Speaker 3: he's gas letting this glasslighting this woman like she's just going. Girl, 353 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 3: you was right, he ain't shit like, yeah, you fucked him. 354 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 3: That was part of the reason. I know, niggah sorry 355 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:40,720 Speaker 3: it's twelve. It's also for what it's worth, I could 356 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 3: tell you that he now compares me unfavorably to you, 357 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:47,359 Speaker 3: the way he used to compare you unfavorably to me. 358 00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:50,119 Speaker 3: This is what men like him do. I understand that 359 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 3: now you stupid. Like I get that you know you stupid, 360 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 3: but like, for real, for real, you stupid. If you 361 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 3: think anyone wants to hear this number thirteen, I'm sorry 362 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:05,400 Speaker 3: for myself. That's the whole that should have been one 363 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:08,040 Speaker 3: through thirteen. Right, all of these is you feeling sorry 364 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 3: for yourself for what I've let him do to my life. 365 00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 3: I know I have no right to be, but I am. 366 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:15,639 Speaker 3: I don't know how I'm gonna weather him, and in 367 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:18,400 Speaker 3: some ways I know I deserve all this. He told 368 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 3: me recently that you have found someone new that you 369 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:23,199 Speaker 3: are getting married. He scoffed at this, of course, muttering 370 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 3: something about the poor guy I turned away from him 371 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:29,160 Speaker 3: before I smiled for you. So you still ain't confronting 372 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:34,160 Speaker 3: this nigga girl, This a long ass sub tweet about 373 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:39,959 Speaker 3: this nigga sub boasts right, ironically, it's now you, the 374 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 3: one over whom I felt gelt ridden and regretful and 375 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:46,479 Speaker 3: maybe even pity. It's you who's become my hero and 376 00:21:46,560 --> 00:22:01,360 Speaker 3: my hope child lou what Oh no, m m mm 377 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 3: hmmm mm hmmm. And I really didn't feel like I 378 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:13,360 Speaker 3: heard any apology in there, did you. I really don't 379 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:15,679 Speaker 3: feel like I heard of apology up in there. I 380 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 3: feel like that was all woe is me, poor me, 381 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 3: the person that fucked your husband. Oh, pity me? Really really, 382 00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:29,159 Speaker 3: it's like, it's really like I did. It's almost like 383 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 3: you actually hurt my feelings bye by letting me have him, 384 00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:37,199 Speaker 3: by letting me have him, by letting me have what 385 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:39,880 Speaker 3: I wanted. Oh yes, somebody called it a leader done 386 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 3: on type of ology. It is. It's terrible, a generationally 387 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:51,440 Speaker 3: perpetuated pattern. Daughters do more chores. They also earned less allowance, 388 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 3: suggesting that gender inequality pay begins at home and early 389 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:56,879 Speaker 3: in life. But there are signs of gap. It's narrowing. 390 00:22:57,880 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 2: I believe that. 391 00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:05,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, one reason and a lot. 392 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:08,920 Speaker 4: Of times, particularly I guess me growing up it was more. 393 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 4: Since I'm talking about just boys and girls, girls kind 394 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 4: of did more inside work. Boys did more outside work. 395 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:17,159 Speaker 4: I know my mama had us doing like inside and 396 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 4: outside work, but I'm gonna tell you right now, patriarchy 397 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 4: on that fucking girl cutting grass. I'll be goddamn if 398 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 4: I'm gonna get my black ass out there and cuse 399 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,800 Speaker 4: some grass. 400 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:34,480 Speaker 3: One recent analysis, for example, found that boys ages fifteen 401 00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:36,680 Speaker 3: to nineteen to about a half hour housework a day, 402 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:40,200 Speaker 3: and girls about dough about forty five minutes. Although girls 403 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 3: spent a little less time on chores than they did 404 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:45,679 Speaker 3: a decade ago, the time that boys spend hasn't significantly changed. 405 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,479 Speaker 3: Shouldering more responsibilities at home is a big resident. 406 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 2: Listen, what are they doing in an hour? 407 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,800 Speaker 3: Probably more than forty five minutes, is what we know. 408 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,920 Speaker 3: Shoulder more responsible. Shouldering more of a reponssibilities at home 409 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,040 Speaker 3: is a big reason women are paid less than men 410 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,960 Speaker 3: and far behind the men in their careers. Researcher say. 411 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,560 Speaker 3: Achieve in the quality, they argue, will require not just 412 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,240 Speaker 3: preparing girls for pay work, but also teaching boys to 413 00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 3: do unpaid work. 414 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 4: Right right, because that's the shit don't nobody want to do. 415 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:21,120 Speaker 4: Because the thing about unpaid work is considered women's work. Cooking, cleaning, takeing, 416 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:21,760 Speaker 4: care of kids. 417 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,359 Speaker 2: That's considered women's work. That's the shit people want you 418 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:25,920 Speaker 2: to do for fucking free. 419 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 4: It costs like time is money and me because that's 420 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:33,920 Speaker 4: the thing. You pay babysitters though, you know you pay 421 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 4: people daycare, you know, you pay other people. 422 00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 2: But when it comes to your spouse, you like, nope, 423 00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:40,720 Speaker 2: You're supposed to do this out of love. 424 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 4: Well guess what. Sometimes love just ain't enough. I motherfucking 425 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,160 Speaker 4: tied and love can't give me my energy back. 426 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:54,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I found interested in this. I 427 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 3: brought it up at a couple of weeks ago. I 428 00:24:56,840 --> 00:25:01,280 Speaker 3: talked about boys should learn to cook as a skill, 429 00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:05,399 Speaker 3: not because of the patriarchal ways we tell them, like 430 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 3: so you won't have to depend on a woman to 431 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:11,160 Speaker 3: cook for you, or you know the kind of things 432 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 3: that people say, like, you know, like an independence type thing. 433 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 3: That's not a bad reason for the record, to learn 434 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 3: to cook. To be self sufficient is not a bad 435 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,959 Speaker 3: reason to learn to cook. But in my mind, I 436 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:25,600 Speaker 3: think there's this other reason that's more important. But it's 437 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:28,879 Speaker 3: kind of like in the background, which is to learn 438 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 3: the value of the work, right, because you know, when 439 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:37,440 Speaker 3: you cook for yourself, you end up learning how much 440 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:41,719 Speaker 3: fucking work it is to cook, and therefore, when you 441 00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 3: ask someone to cook or someone cooks for you, you become 442 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 3: more appreciative of the value of that work. And that's 443 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 3: just a human thing. If I cut the grass for 444 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:55,280 Speaker 3: you every Saturday, and you've never cut grass in your life, 445 00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 3: there is some level of you taking it for granted. 446 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,439 Speaker 3: It's just natural to be like, yeah, I take it 447 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 3: for granted that you cut my grass, and you might 448 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:04,200 Speaker 3: come in and be tired as fuck, you need to 449 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:07,919 Speaker 3: lay down sweating. I you know, you know there's but 450 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 3: when you do it, when you appreciate the work yourself, 451 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:12,520 Speaker 3: you're like, oh, yeah, I get why. You know, you 452 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,359 Speaker 3: might want something to drink. I get why after you 453 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,440 Speaker 3: finish cutting grass and you need to take a shower, 454 00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:19,000 Speaker 3: you might not want to be bothered for a couple 455 00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,679 Speaker 3: of hours. I understand that now in a way that 456 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:23,480 Speaker 3: I wouldn't have because I never did that. 457 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:23,720 Speaker 4: Shit. 458 00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,680 Speaker 3: Well, were the way that we talk and raise boys. 459 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:28,840 Speaker 3: A lot of times, it's like, let's not raise them 460 00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:31,600 Speaker 3: to cook. Let's not and especially let's not raise them 461 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 3: to cook for quality. You know, it's almost like for utility, 462 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:39,680 Speaker 3: like learn the boys and water and make some grits. Right. 463 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,600 Speaker 3: So I think once you once you learn that kind 464 00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 3: of thing, you then go when you see a meal 465 00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:49,040 Speaker 3: or have a meal, you go, Okay, I am thankful 466 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,639 Speaker 3: for this meal, and also I appreciate the value of it. 467 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:55,200 Speaker 3: So I think that's a huge thing. But that goes 468 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:59,119 Speaker 3: with everything every household or whether it's washing dishes, folding closed. 469 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:02,240 Speaker 3: You know, it's the reason now, I think a lot 470 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 3: of our parents instilled that work ethic in us. It's 471 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,879 Speaker 3: not just because you know you're the child and you're 472 00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 3: supposed to do the chores. That's fine, but it's also 473 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:13,080 Speaker 3: so that you don't grow up because most parents were 474 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 3: black parents anyway, that their generation is trying to get 475 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 3: the next generation a little better and give them a 476 00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 3: little bit more. But they don't want you to forget 477 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:24,240 Speaker 3: the value of work. And we as a as a 478 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 3: as a as a race in this country have never 479 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,680 Speaker 3: really had the luxury of not knowing the value of work. 480 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:34,240 Speaker 3: We like, we have not always been able to make 481 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,399 Speaker 3: that work work for us, if you know what I'm saying. 482 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 3: So I think it's interesting that a lot of people 483 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:47,440 Speaker 3: and they don't learn it early and then it matriculates 484 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 3: into the work environment, and then it becomes an albatross 485 00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 3: around women's next because we go, well, I would pay 486 00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,600 Speaker 3: a woman, would I pay a man? But they're the 487 00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,359 Speaker 3: ones that need to take care of the kid, right 488 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 3: They're the ones that need to cook for their houses 489 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 3: right now. 490 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,879 Speaker 2: They're more work, but you don't consider it work. 491 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:11,560 Speaker 3: Right, So you're being penalized twice because I'm paying you 492 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,639 Speaker 3: less because I expect you to do more in your 493 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:18,480 Speaker 3: private life that is unpaid, right. Like, I don't think 494 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:21,320 Speaker 3: like if I'm paying a man, I'm thinking like, he 495 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 3: might need this money to take care of his wife. 496 00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 3: He might need this money to hire a nanny or 497 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,040 Speaker 3: a babysitter or something. When I'm talking about a woman, 498 00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 3: I'm like, she needs this money, but she needs to 499 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 3: be off at five so she can get home and 500 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:33,359 Speaker 3: get the cooking. I don't want to get you in 501 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:34,399 Speaker 3: trouble with your husband. 502 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 4: You know that kind of shit, right, And I think 503 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 4: for me, whenever you're in a household where everybody's kind 504 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:45,400 Speaker 4: of appreciative of the work, that's the way. Like, let's 505 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 4: say you cook, I might put the food up. You cook, 506 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,080 Speaker 4: I might you know, do the dishes you know, just 507 00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 4: to assist you actually preparing the meal. You know, little 508 00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 4: things like that did a lot of times people don't 509 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:05,280 Speaker 4: consider that it's being helpful, but that is actually being helpful, 510 00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:08,240 Speaker 4: very helpful, because you understand, after you've been on your 511 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:12,200 Speaker 4: feet standing over a hot ass stove frying or whatever 512 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 4: you're doing. 513 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 2: Particularly after you've worked all day, your goddamn tired. You're tired. 514 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 2: You've been chopping. 515 00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:21,160 Speaker 4: Onions and whatever else you've been doing in there, you know, 516 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 4: telling the kids don't, don't, don't eat all the snacks 517 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 4: and then you won't want your food or whatever happens 518 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 4: in your household. 519 00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 2: You're exhausted, so you know. 520 00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 4: Little things you know like that, or even after you finish, 521 00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,920 Speaker 4: you can say, well, since you cooked and everything, I'll 522 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:37,680 Speaker 4: take out the trash, because you know what what comes 523 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 4: along with cooking trash when you peel them onions, when 524 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 4: you open up them packages, it's trash just around the house. 525 00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:45,920 Speaker 4: So you'd be like, well, since you did that, I'll. 526 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 2: Take the trash, y'all. I'll help you out, honey. 527 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,160 Speaker 3: Well, like it's like, you know, like this is a 528 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 3: couple dynamic, right like right with you leaving the house 529 00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 3: to go to work and me working from home. I 530 00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 3: try to do more stuff at home that you did, y'all. 531 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:01,080 Speaker 3: I feel like you shouldn't have to do right, So, like, 532 00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:03,840 Speaker 3: if you come home, I'm trying to have all the 533 00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,680 Speaker 3: dishes done, try to have all the clothes washing folded, 534 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,160 Speaker 3: try to have a house clean, you know, little shit 535 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 3: that you know. Because there's men that feel like, because 536 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,760 Speaker 3: of the gender roles of it, are like, why would 537 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,000 Speaker 3: I do that? That's what a woman does. And there 538 00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,640 Speaker 3: are women that will go, well, yeah, that's what I 539 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:21,320 Speaker 3: want to be able. I won't take care of my men. 540 00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 3: But to me, it's just not logical for one of 541 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 3: us to be in this motherfucking for eight hours and 542 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,600 Speaker 3: then the other one to come home and be like, 543 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 3: all right, well you gonna vacuum. That's a ridiculous thing. 544 00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 3: But we're talking about the couples dynamic. Let's take it 545 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,960 Speaker 3: a step further. What if I just ain't got a 546 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 3: man or don't want one. So now you're paying me 547 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 3: seventy seven cents on the motherfucking dollar, and I'm going 548 00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:48,479 Speaker 3: home and I'm cooking and cleaning for my motherfucking self now, 549 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 3: and I'm not getting my whole dollar. What is that? 550 00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,600 Speaker 3: Cause when a man doesn't have a woman, we don't 551 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,200 Speaker 3: cut their pay. We don't say single men actually make 552 00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:58,120 Speaker 3: a lot less than married man. We don't do that. 553 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 3: Men make a dollar for a fucking dollar. There's no 554 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,280 Speaker 3: qualifications on whether they have a wedding ring, or they 555 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:07,480 Speaker 3: have children or any of that shit. Women get that 556 00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:12,440 Speaker 3: seventy seven cent and even if and honestly, all one 557 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:17,880 Speaker 3: percent of people who have women in the household should 558 00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:20,520 Speaker 3: be on board for pay equality right. 559 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:27,040 Speaker 4: Because it benefits the whole fucking household. Everybody makes more money. Everybody, 560 00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 4: you have more disposable income, You're able to do stuff 561 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 4: it it it increased you putting money in your full 562 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:35,200 Speaker 4: one care whatever it. 563 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 2: Is that you want to do. 564 00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:40,480 Speaker 4: Because once you get into these you know, these dynamics 565 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,360 Speaker 4: that the thing that kills me. 566 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:46,880 Speaker 2: Is that, uh and how got say this. 567 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,920 Speaker 4: I think that once you get into like the gender roles, 568 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:54,800 Speaker 4: I think that actually hurts all households to me, Yeah, 569 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:56,960 Speaker 4: you know, it's this roller is for the man, This 570 00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 4: roller is for the woman. 571 00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 2: No, the shit just needs to get done. Who does it? 572 00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 2: The shit just needs to get done. And that's actually 573 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:05,760 Speaker 2: how it needs to be. 574 00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 4: It don't need to be male or female. It just 575 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:10,040 Speaker 4: needs to be this needs to be done. We all 576 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,720 Speaker 4: need to chip in. Let's get it done, because, like 577 00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 4: you're saying, if your children understand it, your children would 578 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:18,200 Speaker 4: be more willing to help and you won't have to 579 00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 4: fuss at them if they understood the value We also 580 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 4: of you doing these things, because we also teach girls 581 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 4: that their value is tied up in how well they 582 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 4: take care of the home. 583 00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 3: That stuff also like filters into life to where women 584 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 3: feel this extra pressure of being like a failure if 585 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 3: like someone else in the house has to pick up 586 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:43,640 Speaker 3: a broom, you know, like someone else has to wash 587 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,760 Speaker 3: the dishes or something. You know, it's just it's, oh, 588 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I didn't do Like it's like it's ingrained 589 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 3: in you in a way that is almost out of 590 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,720 Speaker 3: your control. Like you're a grown ass person talking about 591 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 3: making plates for other people at a food at a 592 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:02,080 Speaker 3: family function. Men don't have that conversation. It's never been 593 00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:05,160 Speaker 3: a plate debate by men because we don't even we're 594 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 3: not even raised to think that we're responsible for the 595 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:11,000 Speaker 3: other people around us. We're only responsible for ourselves. If 596 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:14,200 Speaker 3: that and if it wasn't for the patriarchal like ownership 597 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:18,080 Speaker 3: angle where men physically just don't want their women to 598 00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 3: do better than them, then I feel like gender like 599 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:24,480 Speaker 3: the gender quality pay gap would be completely erased. And 600 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,239 Speaker 3: if you could just erase the people that feel like 601 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 3: I need to feel like a man, and because I 602 00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 3: bring a bigger check home, if you could erase that mentality, 603 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:35,560 Speaker 3: you would have the pay gap would be a race, 604 00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:38,120 Speaker 3: because that's what a lot of this is, right. 605 00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 4: Right, And to side his bought into it and bringing 606 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 4: home the bacon or whatever it is. 607 00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 3: And you know, because hold up now, Peter finds that 608 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 3: very offensive. Okay, caaren bringing home. 609 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:53,280 Speaker 4: The bagels, no bacon, Peter gonna have to get over. 610 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:56,520 Speaker 4: And the fact I want an extra thick cut, I mean, 611 00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,440 Speaker 4: if you really want to get truthful with it. But 612 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 4: the thing about it, I know for me when we 613 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,160 Speaker 4: first got married, because I can relate because I kind 614 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 4: of just balk into that. 615 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:10,440 Speaker 2: When we got married, I literally would work for there 616 00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 2: hours a week, come home, cook, clean, and do all these. 617 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:17,920 Speaker 4: Other activities because that's what I thought I was obliged 618 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:19,760 Speaker 4: to do. Because when you get married, there's no book, 619 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:24,880 Speaker 4: there's no structural man manual. There's no rules, there's no regulation. 620 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,880 Speaker 4: Your marriage is whatever you make of it, your. 621 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:33,720 Speaker 2: Group of people, or have you do with your significant others. 622 00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:37,320 Speaker 2: It's what you make of it. That everybody household runs differently. 623 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:40,360 Speaker 4: And I wasn't doing this because you told me to 624 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:42,319 Speaker 4: or because you pressured me. 625 00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,279 Speaker 2: I put this pressure upon myself. And a lot of 626 00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 2: women do that. 627 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:47,759 Speaker 4: They put this like I was related to what you're 628 00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:50,120 Speaker 4: talking about. They put this unnecessary. 629 00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 2: Pressure upon themselves to be excellent, to be great. 630 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 3: And that pressure comes from other people your whole life. 631 00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 3: So like even when you say you put it upon yourself, 632 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 3: it was conditioned in you, like it's your mom telling 633 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:08,080 Speaker 3: you what you're gonna do to keep a good man 634 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 3: and what you can't cook and that kind of shit. 635 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:15,239 Speaker 4: And the funny part about it is that even for me, 636 00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:19,720 Speaker 4: because the way my mama functioned, a lot of things 637 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:21,880 Speaker 4: I didn't learn how to do till I got to college. 638 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:23,520 Speaker 4: I didn't learn how to cook that I got to college. 639 00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:25,000 Speaker 4: I didn't known how to watch clothes that I got 640 00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 4: to college. And the biggest reason why is because a 641 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,040 Speaker 4: lot and a lot of parents do this. 642 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:33,360 Speaker 2: Sometime, I'm gonna keep it for your parents. Stop this bullshit. 643 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,359 Speaker 4: If your child does not do it exactly like you 644 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:39,279 Speaker 4: do it, it's okay, because see what was happening is 645 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,360 Speaker 4: that I wasn't doing it the exact way ma Mama 646 00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:42,160 Speaker 4: wanted me to do it. 647 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:45,040 Speaker 2: So instead of her teaching me the way or. 648 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:46,719 Speaker 4: Allowing me to do it the way I want to 649 00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 4: do it, she was just like fucking and let me 650 00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,799 Speaker 4: do it. But then I never learned how to do it. 651 00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,640 Speaker 4: A lot of parents do do that. They'll come in 652 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:56,839 Speaker 4: and they'll do it to their mates too, because some 653 00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:58,880 Speaker 4: of you have very helpful mates. Some of you have 654 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:01,920 Speaker 4: mates that are willing to help your husband to come in, 655 00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:03,520 Speaker 4: will let me speak. God, don't get out to the way. 656 00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:04,879 Speaker 4: You don't do it the way I do it. Don't 657 00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:06,160 Speaker 4: go about to give a fuck. Do you want to 658 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 4: help or not? 659 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:07,279 Speaker 3: Right? 660 00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:07,960 Speaker 2: You know? 661 00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:11,799 Speaker 3: And also like societal pressure, right, so like you know, 662 00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:14,520 Speaker 3: it's not your mom in this case for cooking exactly, 663 00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:19,160 Speaker 3: but there's still like this pressure from other women. You're 664 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,600 Speaker 3: not gonna gett No, man, you're not to cook, you 665 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,440 Speaker 3: know what I mean. You're not gonna be able to know. 666 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:25,920 Speaker 3: People don't say that to men. You're not gonna, you know, 667 00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:29,759 Speaker 3: like you have to. There's just an extra bunch of 668 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:34,240 Speaker 3: work that is mostly unpaid, right that that people consider 669 00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:38,960 Speaker 3: women's work. That if we're looking at just human households, 670 00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:43,000 Speaker 3: those those jobs do not have a gender attached to them. 671 00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:46,160 Speaker 3: If you live by yourself as a man, there is 672 00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:49,040 Speaker 3: no reason you should not know how to clean, cook 673 00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,960 Speaker 3: the fold your clothes, do your laundry. There's no reason 674 00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:53,719 Speaker 3: you shouldn't know how to do that. But the bar 675 00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:55,239 Speaker 3: is so much lower for men. What do we call 676 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,319 Speaker 3: a man with no woman in his house special pad? 677 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,600 Speaker 3: What do we could what are the stereotypes of bachelor pads? 678 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:05,319 Speaker 3: You know, it's, oh yeah, the house is dirty, it's 679 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:08,399 Speaker 3: not clean. Your motherfucking clothes are like tied die because 680 00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,520 Speaker 3: you don't know how to fucking use the bleach and cook, 681 00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:13,560 Speaker 3: what goes in warm and cold water and all this shit. 682 00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:18,319 Speaker 3: There's just a lower bar and expectation for men. And 683 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:20,880 Speaker 3: I think it starts with this, and that leads it 684 00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:22,960 Speaker 3: starts at home, and it leads to all this pay 685 00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:27,760 Speaker 3: gap shit because essentially we know that a woman's life 686 00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:29,319 Speaker 3: is tied up with this extra work. 687 00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:31,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, and on top of that, it stresses a woman 688 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,399 Speaker 4: out because like I was saying before, do you want 689 00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,240 Speaker 4: to help or not? Because the thing is society is also, 690 00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:41,520 Speaker 4: to an extent, taught women to complain. Now people come 691 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:43,719 Speaker 4: and want assist, they don't do it the way you 692 00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:47,560 Speaker 4: do it, so you complain versus allowing people to help 693 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:52,040 Speaker 4: relieve you of this burden that's upon yourself because a 694 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:56,240 Speaker 4: household needs to But like this, your kids got draws, 695 00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,000 Speaker 4: they need to watch, They own clothes. 696 00:37:58,280 --> 00:37:59,879 Speaker 2: You know, your kids can pick up after. 697 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 4: These are things that children can do and help around 698 00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:05,480 Speaker 4: the household, probably more than they do. But as a 699 00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:08,000 Speaker 4: parent sometimes you like, well, I don't want to add 700 00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:09,920 Speaker 4: a necessary burden to my children. 701 00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:12,200 Speaker 2: But guess what all them dishes, You didn't eat all 702 00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:15,560 Speaker 2: them dishes? They help contribute it to it too well. 703 00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:19,719 Speaker 3: Also, just their personal value is tied up in it. 704 00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:23,880 Speaker 3: So even relinquishing control of certain things to let somebody 705 00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,840 Speaker 3: else do it, whether it's not done right or perfectly 706 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:30,320 Speaker 3: or just like you do it, it's also saying relinquishine controller. 707 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:33,759 Speaker 3: This lessens my womanhood because we've come to define womanhood 708 00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:36,439 Speaker 3: by it. You know. Men have this in a different way, 709 00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,520 Speaker 3: like don't let another man cut your lawn, you know, 710 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,840 Speaker 3: don't let your women be out there cutting the grass. 711 00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,040 Speaker 3: You know. So men have it in a different way 712 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:47,440 Speaker 3: that's very like tied to what we consider to be masculinity. 713 00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:51,080 Speaker 3: But yeah, but the whole point is all of this 714 00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:54,520 Speaker 3: shit ends up hurting in the long run because we 715 00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,840 Speaker 3: don't even consider this with men. We don't say John 716 00:38:57,880 --> 00:38:59,480 Speaker 3: needs to be off our five because he has to 717 00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,320 Speaker 3: cut his grass, ass in chopped wood and do manly 718 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,280 Speaker 3: things like fix his car. We don't say that. 719 00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:05,440 Speaker 2: You expect them to time. 720 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:07,640 Speaker 3: We expect them to be able to work overtime because 721 00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,960 Speaker 3: that's what to be expected, you know. So that gender 722 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,160 Speaker 3: shit hurts people all the way to the workplace, but 723 00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:14,360 Speaker 3: it starts with children. 724 00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,520 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, and I know, and and and kind of 725 00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:19,640 Speaker 4: the same. But not to get off topic, the day 726 00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:25,680 Speaker 4: I let shit go like around the house was a 727 00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:31,520 Speaker 4: freedom because I felt like this housework. You don't get 728 00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:34,239 Speaker 4: paid for the shit. So guess what if I don't 729 00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:36,160 Speaker 4: get paid for it, I do it when my mother 730 00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:38,600 Speaker 4: fucking feel like it. It's not gonna fix my four 731 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:41,160 Speaker 4: one k. I don't get a raised. You can't fucking 732 00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:43,840 Speaker 4: fire me if I decide not to do a motherfucking 733 00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:46,120 Speaker 4: thing up here, because you're not paying my ass anyway. 734 00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,239 Speaker 4: And I think for me when I was younger, my 735 00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:52,200 Speaker 4: mama she was like a neat fanatic, like a neat freak, 736 00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,600 Speaker 4: and she turned me off on a lot of shit. 737 00:39:55,800 --> 00:40:00,080 Speaker 4: I'm not like sloppy, slopping, nasty, but I'm like, I 738 00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,080 Speaker 4: can deal with a little bit of dirt, because she 739 00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:03,520 Speaker 4: was like clean nick knacks. 740 00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:07,080 Speaker 2: No, she would eight kids in there. She wiped the walls. 741 00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:09,640 Speaker 4: She was a person that got down on her hands 742 00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:14,040 Speaker 4: and hand mopped the floors and shit like that. And 743 00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:15,839 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, no, no, no, this is too much 744 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:17,120 Speaker 4: to do for fucking free. 745 00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:22,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, so it starts with your kids and 746 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:26,879 Speaker 3: you get all this extra housework for girls, and then 747 00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:31,200 Speaker 3: it goes into the workplace later right progressives believe that 748 00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:33,600 Speaker 3: they were training their boys for greater improvement involving in 749 00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:35,840 Speaker 3: the home. However, we did not see any evidence in 750 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:41,440 Speaker 3: the gap in household work, declining her research. The researches 751 00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:45,359 Speaker 3: of Sarah Holforth, who's a sociologist at the University of Maryland. 752 00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,400 Speaker 3: Her research was based on American Time Youth Survey diaries 753 00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:50,319 Speaker 3: from two thousand and three to twenty fourteen of six 754 00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,960 Speaker 3: three hundred and fifty eight highchool students between the ages 755 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:56,480 Speaker 3: of fifteen and nineteen, housework included cleaning, cooking, pet care, 756 00:40:56,640 --> 00:41:00,120 Speaker 3: yard care, and home and car maintenance. It found. It, ever, 757 00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:03,479 Speaker 3: is based on parents' education. Children of college educated parents 758 00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:07,200 Speaker 3: spend less time on chores overall, but the difference is 759 00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:11,960 Speaker 3: almost all among girls. Daughters of college graduates spend twenty 760 00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:14,760 Speaker 3: five percent less time on chores than daughters of parents 761 00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:17,799 Speaker 3: with no more than a high school education. That makes 762 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,960 Speaker 3: sense to me because if you have a high school education, 763 00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 3: and this is a shitting on anybody, but you will 764 00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:29,920 Speaker 3: find yourself more geared to tangible values, like a lot 765 00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:33,160 Speaker 3: of college shit cool. It's cool with college people, but 766 00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,560 Speaker 3: a lot of that shit can be a little bit ethereal, 767 00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:39,239 Speaker 3: a little high and mighty, a little bit to theoretical, 768 00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:43,719 Speaker 3: whereas wash the fucking dishes and clean the floor is 769 00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:46,759 Speaker 3: something that we all can agree is labor and a 770 00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:49,280 Speaker 3: skill that is useful. So I can see how people 771 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,920 Speaker 3: can be like, yeah, put that book down and fucking 772 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:55,359 Speaker 3: get the cleaning, because that is actual value. But they 773 00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:59,720 Speaker 3: still spend eleven minutes more a day than sons educated 774 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:02,880 Speaker 3: parents seem to have changed their expectations for their daughters, 775 00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:06,959 Speaker 3: but not for their sons. So boys don't do more 776 00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:10,000 Speaker 3: or less pretty much among all the different groups educated, 777 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:13,760 Speaker 3: not educated, poor, rich, any of this shit. But girls 778 00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:19,200 Speaker 3: depending on how much how how highly educated, and how 779 00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:21,400 Speaker 3: much money people having stuff, that's who that's when they 780 00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:22,759 Speaker 3: change how much work the girls do. 781 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, And the thing is you talk, you touched on 782 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:28,520 Speaker 4: the singles and what happened if you And the thing 783 00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:32,759 Speaker 4: is if you have a girl who grows up and 784 00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:36,080 Speaker 4: she's smart, intelligent, guess what she was like, I'm not cooking, 785 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:38,279 Speaker 4: I'm not cleaning. Because a lot of dudes are like, 786 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:41,760 Speaker 4: these are this shit I don't do. Men are already 787 00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:43,719 Speaker 4: frowned upon. But if you have a woman to be like, 788 00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:45,400 Speaker 4: I'm not cooking, I'm not cleaning. 789 00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:46,200 Speaker 3: I'm gonna pay. 790 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,399 Speaker 4: Somebody else to do that, it's like all of a sudden, 791 00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:51,759 Speaker 4: she's frowned upon, like she's not worthy of anything. But 792 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,839 Speaker 4: she's like no, no, no, no, no, baby, I got shit 793 00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:55,600 Speaker 4: to do, and this is extra shit that I don't 794 00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:56,239 Speaker 4: got the time for. 795 00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:58,719 Speaker 3: Also, I mean, what about women that cooking cleaning, but 796 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:00,799 Speaker 3: they just don't want to do it for your come on, 797 00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:03,040 Speaker 3: like I might want to cook and clean for my 798 00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 3: fucking self. Like this is I'm making the food. I'm 799 00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:08,640 Speaker 3: making the meal tonight for me, for me, you know 800 00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,400 Speaker 3: what I mean? Like there's something that's something that's my 801 00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:15,480 Speaker 3: whole family to eat, right right, what do you mean 802 00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:16,319 Speaker 3: my whole family eat? 803 00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:17,680 Speaker 2: You know, am I'm cooking for me. 804 00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:19,399 Speaker 4: If I eat the whole family eat, I ain't gotta 805 00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:22,319 Speaker 4: worry about me, no husband, no children, all right, right. 806 00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:26,680 Speaker 3: Right, yeah, I see what you're saying. Boys are also 807 00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,200 Speaker 3: paid more allowance than girls for doing chores. According to 808 00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:32,480 Speaker 3: a recent analysis of ten thousand families who use Busy Kid, 809 00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:35,080 Speaker 3: a chore app, boys using the app earn twice what 810 00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:37,920 Speaker 3: girls did for the doing chores, an average of thirteen 811 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:39,879 Speaker 3: dollars and eighty cents a week, compared to girls making 812 00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:41,960 Speaker 3: six dollars and seventy one cents a week. Good God, 813 00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:44,320 Speaker 3: here's what you have to think about in this situation. 814 00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:49,080 Speaker 3: These are this app, and the people paying you are 815 00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:53,200 Speaker 3: the people who love you. These aren't strangers. This isn't 816 00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:53,800 Speaker 3: the workplace. 817 00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:55,600 Speaker 2: Oh so they actually got apps today? 818 00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:58,000 Speaker 3: An app? Of course, they have an app for kids 819 00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:00,240 Speaker 3: doing chores and getting paid of course they do. Would 820 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,799 Speaker 3: they not have that? I don't know any if you 821 00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,560 Speaker 3: think of it, they got app for it. I'm old. 822 00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:07,880 Speaker 2: I'm like, here's your your fine. 823 00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:12,520 Speaker 3: Dollars, all right, right, So so of course they have 824 00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:14,520 Speaker 3: an app for it. It makes perfect sense that they would. 825 00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:16,880 Speaker 3: But this also allows people to track. 826 00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:18,600 Speaker 2: This data, right, and. 827 00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:22,120 Speaker 3: Something that I'm sure many girls, many women have probably 828 00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:24,560 Speaker 3: suspected their whole life of I'm getting this unfair treatment. 829 00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:28,200 Speaker 3: You know, my brother cleans the fucking kitchen. He gets 830 00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:31,440 Speaker 3: paid ten dollars and gets the car for the weekend. 831 00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:33,279 Speaker 3: I clean the kitchen, and you go, well, that's what 832 00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:37,040 Speaker 3: you're supposed to do. Well, we have proof, and the 833 00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,480 Speaker 3: pay gap is much wider than the work pay gap. 834 00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:46,200 Speaker 3: We're talking half half of what the boys do. That's crazy. 835 00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:50,080 Speaker 3: Boys are also more likely to be paid for personal 836 00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:54,240 Speaker 3: hygiene like brushing their teeth or taking the shower. According 837 00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:55,479 Speaker 3: to Busy Kid, girls are. 838 00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:57,440 Speaker 2: More like washing your ass. 839 00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:01,440 Speaker 3: The bar is that low girls will more likely to 840 00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:05,480 Speaker 3: be paid for cleaning. You know. The gender gap in 841 00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:08,399 Speaker 3: chores for children is worldwide. A recent study of twelve 842 00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:11,040 Speaker 3: year olds and sixteen countries across the economic spectrum, not 843 00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:13,120 Speaker 3: including the United States found that in each of them, 844 00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:16,480 Speaker 3: girls spent more time on household chores than boys did. 845 00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:19,600 Speaker 3: Men's and women's chores tend to break down along what 846 00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:23,320 Speaker 3: happens indoors and outdoors. Women do more of the inside 847 00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:25,279 Speaker 3: work like cooking, clean and lunda, while men do more 848 00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,960 Speaker 3: the outside work like mowing the lawn and taking out 849 00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:31,520 Speaker 3: the trash. Previous researchers found that the same divide happens 850 00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:35,600 Speaker 3: with children's chores. Chores are really practiced practice for adult living. 851 00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:39,880 Speaker 3: So the problem is it just gets generationally perpetuated, said Christina. 852 00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:45,359 Speaker 3: I mean Christia Spears Brown of Psychology, psychology professor at 853 00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:48,400 Speaker 3: the University of Kentucky who spent studies children in gender. 854 00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:50,880 Speaker 3: But there are signs that the gender gap and chores 855 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:53,400 Speaker 3: beginning and narrow as it is for adults in one particular. 856 00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:56,920 Speaker 3: In one area of particular, caring for family members like siblings, 857 00:45:57,040 --> 00:46:00,239 Speaker 3: older relatives, boys are doing as much as girls. Search 858 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:03,440 Speaker 3: says that could influence future generations, with boys who are 859 00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:06,680 Speaker 3: raised caring for family members being prepared to become more 860 00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:07,719 Speaker 3: engaged fathers. 861 00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:11,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I hope you know they have more empathy 862 00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:14,960 Speaker 4: because a lot of times, uh, men don't since you 863 00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:19,120 Speaker 4: don't look at certain work as quote unquote men's work, 864 00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:22,560 Speaker 4: you don't actually understand like the labor that goes behind it, 865 00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:24,640 Speaker 4: and you can have a tency to frown and look 866 00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:26,840 Speaker 4: and look down upon it, and you don't, really, like 867 00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:29,000 Speaker 4: I said, appreciate it until it's not there anymore. 868 00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:32,719 Speaker 3: Yep. So this is in the New York Times. It's 869 00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:35,200 Speaker 3: an interesting, uh article that I read. 870 00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:39,239 Speaker 2: So that thing is interesting. Like I said, I don't 871 00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:41,080 Speaker 2: keep up with the kids. I didn't know that's how 872 00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:41,600 Speaker 2: people paying. 873 00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:45,920 Speaker 3: I know you love not to know. I know I 874 00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,520 Speaker 3: know you ain't roll your eyes. I definitely just did 875 00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:50,880 Speaker 3: because I knew it was coming. You was gonna go 876 00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:53,120 Speaker 3: back to how much you didn't know about it and 877 00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,960 Speaker 3: uh be happy about it, and. 878 00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:57,640 Speaker 2: You act like I be the only one that don't 879 00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:58,080 Speaker 2: be knowing. 880 00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:02,600 Speaker 3: I'm not saying. I'm not saying, don't you like to 881 00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:04,440 Speaker 3: not know? And you like to let me know how 882 00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:06,719 Speaker 3: much you don't know? And everybody listen to the show 883 00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:08,920 Speaker 3: knows it's true. So I don't know why you're getting upset. 884 00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:12,759 Speaker 3: Did I know the truth? I knew who as soon 885 00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:14,439 Speaker 3: as you said you didn't know about that app I said, 886 00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:15,799 Speaker 3: she's gonna go back to this app at the end 887 00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:18,200 Speaker 3: of the article. At what happened? You went right back 888 00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:19,960 Speaker 3: to that app to let me know you did not know? 889 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:26,520 Speaker 2: That's what I do. You knew what the deal was. 890 00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:33,480 Speaker 3: I did. I did a principal band candy Canes because 891 00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:36,040 Speaker 3: they shaped like a J and he says that Jay 892 00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:45,719 Speaker 3: says for Jesus. Jesus Canes Elementary school principal in Nebraskas 893 00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:48,759 Speaker 3: was placed on't leave. Oh they got him up out 894 00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:53,239 Speaker 3: of the paint. Oh my god, m m m m 895 00:47:54,760 --> 00:48:02,200 Speaker 3: Canes apparently not who knew. Yeah, he got placed on 896 00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:05,520 Speaker 3: leave after telling teachers to avoid decorating that classroom those 897 00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:08,120 Speaker 3: of Christmas ting ornaments. So it's not to offend those 898 00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:09,720 Speaker 3: who don't celebrate the holiday. 899 00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,600 Speaker 2: It's a fucking hook. What are we talking about here? 900 00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:16,239 Speaker 3: So this is like liberals running up type thing, right. 901 00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:18,560 Speaker 2: It was like, Oh, you got to go the one 902 00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:21,000 Speaker 2: thing that we can get the kids when you got to. 903 00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:29,000 Speaker 3: Go wow mm mmmm. The principal at Manchaster Elementary School, 904 00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:33,040 Speaker 3: identified by Fox affiliate KPTM as Jennifer Sinclair, sent on 905 00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:34,960 Speaker 3: a memo earlier this week with God lies as to 906 00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:38,240 Speaker 3: what is considered appropriate for classroom decorations and assignments. Teachers 907 00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:41,000 Speaker 3: report League were told that generic winter themed items such 908 00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:44,320 Speaker 3: as sledding, the Scars, and the frozen character Oliffe were acceptable. 909 00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:47,960 Speaker 3: Decorations that included Santa Christmas trees rein there green and 910 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:51,279 Speaker 3: red items. Even candy canes, however, were not acceptable for 911 00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:55,319 Speaker 3: the elementary school. The candy canes going to k TV 912 00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:59,400 Speaker 3: were prohibitive because Sinclair them didn't have a religious significance. Historically, 913 00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:01,680 Speaker 3: the shape is J for Jesus, the reddest for the 914 00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:04,080 Speaker 3: blood of Christ. The white is the symbol of his resurrection, 915 00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:08,400 Speaker 3: she wrote. She reportedly wrote this would also include different 916 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:09,520 Speaker 3: colored candy canes. 917 00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:12,839 Speaker 2: So what because they come to you? Because you can 918 00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:15,320 Speaker 2: get some of that are green striped in red and white. 919 00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:18,319 Speaker 3: See the green in that case is for the money, 920 00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:21,200 Speaker 3: the moss on the stone in front of his grave. 921 00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:24,799 Speaker 2: So the reddest for the hone is let us happening here. 922 00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:27,600 Speaker 3: The gold is for what Judus was paid to snitch. 923 00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:32,720 Speaker 3: I feel uncomfortable that I have to get this specific, 924 00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:34,880 Speaker 3: but for everyone's comfort, I will, she reportedly wrote in 925 00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:38,520 Speaker 3: the memo. So yeah, they let her go. 926 00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:39,160 Speaker 2: You got that? 927 00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:43,759 Speaker 4: Yeah, goddamn right, Yeah, candy canes. You don't even hold 928 00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:45,480 Speaker 4: it that way for it, j you hold it as 929 00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:45,880 Speaker 4: a hook. 930 00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:50,040 Speaker 3: The district's policy states that Christmas trees, Santa Claws, and 931 00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:56,239 Speaker 3: Easter eggs and bunnies are considered to be secular seasonal symbols. Yeah. 932 00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:59,360 Speaker 3: I can see that argument. Even though they're associated with 933 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,960 Speaker 3: I would consider to be Christmas, they're not really Christian, 934 00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:07,400 Speaker 3: you know, like Christians. Christianity is like Jesus and the 935 00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:10,240 Speaker 3: Bible and ship Santa Claus. A lot of people should 936 00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:13,279 Speaker 3: consider Santa Claus and Easter bunny like blasphemy and ship 937 00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:16,600 Speaker 3: cause it's like, no, Easter is about the resurrection of Jesus, 938 00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:21,239 Speaker 3: not a chocolate bunny giving out eggs. But anyway, that 939 00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:24,919 Speaker 3: she was tripping though, I gotta say she was tripping. Also, 940 00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:26,799 Speaker 3: I have never heard that jay for Jesus Day. 941 00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:30,000 Speaker 4: Me either, But I'm looking online and for some people 942 00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:31,040 Speaker 4: they said they've heard it before. 943 00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:32,200 Speaker 2: I was like, that's dumb. 944 00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:34,920 Speaker 3: I've never heard of that. That's a new one on me. Okay, 945 00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:37,600 Speaker 3: I didn't know, and Karen didn't know. We both didn't know, 946 00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:40,440 Speaker 3: and we're proud to tell y'all we did not know. 947 00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:43,520 Speaker 3: I'll tell you what. I didn't know that. Come on, 948 00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:47,200 Speaker 3: I didn't know club. I had never heard of it, Joanna, 949 00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:49,480 Speaker 3: I'm too old to know that club. Come on, well, 950 00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:51,480 Speaker 3: this does sound like old people shit though, to sound 951 00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,200 Speaker 3: like come on the club, No, no, I mean this 952 00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,360 Speaker 3: sounds like old people would be the ones to know, 953 00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:01,520 Speaker 3: and it's just too old for me. Yeah, that sounded 954 00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:04,319 Speaker 3: like something people made up before they had things to do, 955 00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:07,360 Speaker 3: before we had Hulu and Netflix and the other things 956 00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:12,280 Speaker 3: to do at night. He was just making a joke. 957 00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:18,520 Speaker 3: Tory Hart tearfully defends her ex husband Kevin Hart. Of 958 00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:21,120 Speaker 3: all the things I've seen Tory Hart go in on 959 00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:27,480 Speaker 3: this food or after getting cheated on everything, Tory decided 960 00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:29,480 Speaker 3: to defend him on this one. 961 00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:33,120 Speaker 2: Did she do a comedy thing when she was old? 962 00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:34,960 Speaker 2: Did she have a little comedy career? Not little, but 963 00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:35,959 Speaker 2: you know that comedy career? 964 00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:37,239 Speaker 3: She did stand up? 965 00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:38,480 Speaker 2: I don't think she did. I don't think she did 966 00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:38,919 Speaker 2: it for long. 967 00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:40,880 Speaker 3: I don't know if she stopped or what, but she 968 00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:44,880 Speaker 3: did stand up. Yes. I don't understand why they had 969 00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:47,880 Speaker 3: a contentious divorce where he cheated on her, she dragged 970 00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,160 Speaker 3: his name through the mud, and here she is on 971 00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:54,080 Speaker 3: this heel. I would rather die, ready to die for 972 00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:58,240 Speaker 3: this nigga. 973 00:51:59,600 --> 00:51:59,799 Speaker 2: Yeah. 974 00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:05,719 Speaker 3: Apparently. In an interview with Inside Edition, Hart says she 975 00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:08,839 Speaker 3: stands with her ex. When asked if he was homophobic, 976 00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:13,000 Speaker 3: apparently she started crying. But not at all, he's not. 977 00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,120 Speaker 3: He's a comedian. He was just making a joke. I 978 00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:18,600 Speaker 3: don't think, of course he wants a gay son. That's not. 979 00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:22,720 Speaker 3: Of course, you want your son to be like you also, 980 00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:28,520 Speaker 3: So then that's kind of saying that he is a 981 00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:32,440 Speaker 3: little bit. I mean, he doesn't want a gains son. 982 00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:35,839 Speaker 3: The joke, you say, it's just a joke, But then 983 00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:37,799 Speaker 3: the joke is about how much he don't want a 984 00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:40,200 Speaker 3: gay son and would feel like a failure as a 985 00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:45,160 Speaker 3: father if he had one. How have y'all made this worse? 986 00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:48,920 Speaker 3: You see? Oh god, it does get worse. She says, 987 00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:51,200 Speaker 3: you come from the ghetto and you fight, you fight, 988 00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:54,440 Speaker 3: you fight, you fight, And so for my children to 989 00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:56,799 Speaker 3: see that, it makes them want to step it up 990 00:52:56,800 --> 00:53:00,920 Speaker 3: even higher. He would have been a great host. What 991 00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:02,480 Speaker 3: does the ghetto have to do with any of this? 992 00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:09,879 Speaker 3: Toy m my knowledge, The fact that we keep trying 993 00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:12,880 Speaker 3: to make this into like some black shit to like 994 00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,359 Speaker 3: we black. Of course we get to be homophobic. It's 995 00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:19,640 Speaker 3: the most anti black because like, way to look at 996 00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:23,080 Speaker 3: this shit, Oh my god, it's like, there's no we'll 997 00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:25,040 Speaker 3: do any gay people come from the ghetto and fight 998 00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:27,799 Speaker 3: and fight and fight. Come on, they all homophobic too, 999 00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:31,880 Speaker 3: Like what the fuck? Man, So this is so stupid. 1000 00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:37,560 Speaker 3: Just let it go, Just let it go. He stepped down. Fine, 1001 00:53:38,400 --> 00:53:41,520 Speaker 3: the nigga would not apologize until after he stepped down. 1002 00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:46,359 Speaker 3: Lost everything for the gig. Fine, now we can all 1003 00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:54,800 Speaker 3: move on, you know. Anyway, Centoya Brown was actually sentenced 1004 00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:58,440 Speaker 3: to fifty one years in prison. She was the sixteen 1005 00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:02,160 Speaker 3: year old who when she was sixteen, she was a 1006 00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:06,840 Speaker 3: victim of sex trafficking. She's a black girl. She killed 1007 00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:09,360 Speaker 3: She was pimped out by her boyfriend who was sexually 1008 00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:13,279 Speaker 3: and physically abusive towards her. She killed a man who 1009 00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:17,279 Speaker 3: was like a john that he sent her to be with, 1010 00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:19,720 Speaker 3: that he sold her off to be like a slave 1011 00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:24,160 Speaker 3: or some shit, and she killed him. Of course, you know, 1012 00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:30,440 Speaker 3: this is where it becomes opinion. People said, the judge, 1013 00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:34,719 Speaker 3: the jury, whoever sentenced her, go when she killed that 1014 00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:37,680 Speaker 3: man because there was a robbery and she killed him. 1015 00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:44,040 Speaker 3: To still sit from him, her right her. She contest 1016 00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:47,080 Speaker 3: I killed him in self defense. He's sexually abusing me. 1017 00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:52,799 Speaker 3: I'm sixteen. You know, well she was sentenced to I 1018 00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:57,840 Speaker 3: want to say, was it fifty one or sixty one years? 1019 00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:00,960 Speaker 3: It was a lot of years. Yeah, she's serving a 1020 00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:03,480 Speaker 3: life sentence in prison for a murder she committed at sixteen. 1021 00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:09,319 Speaker 3: But Tennessee Governor Bill Haslum said Monday he's gonna he 1022 00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:12,120 Speaker 3: continues the way whether or not to grant clemency to her. 1023 00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:16,480 Speaker 3: We are reviewing every aspect of it, just like we 1024 00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:18,640 Speaker 3: are with several other cases, he said, in response to 1025 00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:22,040 Speaker 3: an audience question at an event on higher education hosted 1026 00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:26,760 Speaker 3: by USA Today Network Tennessee and Nashville's Public Library. Haslum 1027 00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:29,360 Speaker 3: said he wants to treat the case fairly, all along 1028 00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:31,279 Speaker 3: with cases that are similar but have not received the 1029 00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:34,600 Speaker 3: same level of publicity. Brown's case was received in recent 1030 00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:38,680 Speaker 3: has received in recent months. After HASM addressed the question, 1031 00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:41,080 Speaker 3: the group of Black Lives Matter national activists demanded the 1032 00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:44,080 Speaker 3: governor grant clemency to Brown immediately. One activist used a 1033 00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:47,319 Speaker 3: bullhorn to lead those calls. Brown's advocates say she was 1034 00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:49,319 Speaker 3: a victim of sex trafficking, that her sentence is too 1035 00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:51,719 Speaker 3: harsh and she deserves to be released. Haslam has un 1036 00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:54,279 Speaker 3: till January nineteen, when he leads office to decide how 1037 00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:56,640 Speaker 3: he will handle the case. The state Parole Board, which 1038 00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:58,920 Speaker 3: will split in the recommendation, set the case file to 1039 00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:02,520 Speaker 3: the governor's office in July. Justin Lange, an organizer of 1040 00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:05,040 Speaker 3: the group who as has on whether it would grant Brown. 1041 00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:08,520 Speaker 3: He would grant Brown clemency, said the group showed up 1042 00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:11,360 Speaker 3: at the education event because Brown has earned higher education 1043 00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:14,680 Speaker 3: degree while in prison and she deserves to be free. 1044 00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:17,760 Speaker 3: Governor has them had six weeks left in his tenure, 1045 00:56:17,800 --> 00:56:20,480 Speaker 3: and we will ensure he does it during this time, 1046 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:24,600 Speaker 3: said Lane. More power to him. Man, Yeah, she got 1047 00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:28,520 Speaker 3: fifty one years in prison. That's when she'll be eligible 1048 00:56:28,560 --> 00:56:38,520 Speaker 3: for release. By the way, it's crazy, yeah yeah. Brown 1049 00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:41,040 Speaker 3: now thirty, was convicted in two thousand and six and 1050 00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:43,600 Speaker 3: sentenced to life in prison for shooting a forty three 1051 00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:46,839 Speaker 3: old Nashville real estate agent, Johnny Allen. Her legal team 1052 00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:49,040 Speaker 3: launched a challenge to her life sentence in the federal 1053 00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:51,880 Speaker 3: court system, pointed to a twenty twelve ruling from the 1054 00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:54,919 Speaker 3: US Supreme Court saying that given juveniles life sentences without 1055 00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:58,360 Speaker 3: parole was cruel and unusual. In most cases. Her cases 1056 00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:01,560 Speaker 3: drawn national tension. Celebrities such as Rihanna and Kim Kardashian 1057 00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:05,480 Speaker 3: West have taken the social media to push for our freedom. Well, 1058 00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:06,759 Speaker 3: hopefully it gets considered. 1059 00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:07,719 Speaker 5: Right. 1060 00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:15,279 Speaker 3: All right, let's go into some other stuff. Let's see 1061 00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:23,480 Speaker 3: what we got. I just do some fucking with black people. Guys. Oh, 1062 00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:27,400 Speaker 3: in the wrong list for this. Now, let's do some 1063 00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:38,920 Speaker 3: fucking with black people. Guys. We're just fucking with those 1064 00:57:38,960 --> 00:57:41,920 Speaker 3: black people. We're just fucking with those blacks. We're just 1065 00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:47,000 Speaker 3: fucking with fucking with black people. That's right. God's time 1066 00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:49,120 Speaker 3: to play the game, and we all hate to play. 1067 00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:51,520 Speaker 3: It's fucking with black people. The game will signed zero 1068 00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:54,600 Speaker 3: one hundred points is in verse twenty five to say 1069 00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:58,000 Speaker 3: how much we were fuck with by each story. Today's contestants, 1070 00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:04,960 Speaker 3: everybody Pool Patrol Paula. Remember Pool Patrol Paula. She's the 1071 00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:07,000 Speaker 3: white woman who beat a black teen and bit a cop. 1072 00:58:08,720 --> 00:58:14,360 Speaker 3: She got no real punishment today. Stephanie Sevey Strimple was 1073 00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:16,320 Speaker 3: ordered to pay a thousand dollars fine at the pleading 1074 00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,120 Speaker 3: guilty to a sutn battery with the cops. Keep in 1075 00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:23,520 Speaker 3: mind in the thirty eight year old smacked fifteen year 1076 00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:27,600 Speaker 3: old dar Shawn Simmons in the face at a neighborhood 1077 00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:31,400 Speaker 3: swimming pool in Somerville, South Carolina. She told Simmons and 1078 00:58:31,440 --> 00:58:34,160 Speaker 3: his friends they did not belong there before she threw 1079 00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:36,680 Speaker 3: racial slurs at him as the teens tried to lead 1080 00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:39,360 Speaker 3: a pool peacefully. Sev Strimple could be heard on the 1081 00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:41,920 Speaker 3: video saying, get out now. There's three numbers. I could 1082 00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:44,200 Speaker 3: get out now on one? Okay, get out, you little punk. 1083 00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:47,840 Speaker 3: The criminal justice system punishes African America's harsher than whites 1084 00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:50,880 Speaker 3: were committing similar crimes, as a twenty seventeen study by 1085 00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:55,600 Speaker 3: the United States Sentence and Commission reminded us. But uh yeah, Strimple, 1086 00:58:55,760 --> 00:59:05,280 Speaker 3: sentence was nothing. Slap on the wrist, So zero to 1087 00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:13,520 Speaker 3: one hundred, Yeah, that's one hundred. How about this one? 1088 00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:18,120 Speaker 3: How black youth defused a situation with the cops through 1089 00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:24,560 Speaker 3: video gaming. On Sunday night in Saint Paul, Minnesota, police 1090 00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:27,080 Speaker 3: are called to an apartment to answer the noise complaint. 1091 00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:29,240 Speaker 3: Apparently a group of young men were being too loud 1092 00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:32,680 Speaker 3: playing video games and my friend's apartment. There were there's 1093 00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:34,560 Speaker 3: been a couple of noise complaints going on from the 1094 00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:38,160 Speaker 3: same people. Javonte Williams said, lately, we've been playing our 1095 00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:40,920 Speaker 3: games on mute. We don't wanna bother anyone. We're not 1096 00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:43,800 Speaker 3: trouble where adults sometimes to drink beer, he says. Williams 1097 00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:46,680 Speaker 3: and his friends were playing the latest edition in Nintendo's 1098 00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:49,920 Speaker 3: extremely popular fighting games Super Smash Bros. We got a 1099 00:59:49,960 --> 00:59:53,720 Speaker 3: lot of cops. That's because the police showed up. We're 1100 00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:56,240 Speaker 3: telling them this is the same noise level we've been having, 1101 00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:59,720 Speaker 3: Williams said, adding that the group had taken the playing 1102 00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:02,480 Speaker 3: the game mute. They confirmed a few times that we 1103 01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:05,520 Speaker 3: weren't even loud. The neighbors thought we were doing the most. 1104 01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:09,960 Speaker 3: We were just playing. So when the police arrived, officers arrived, 1105 01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:13,320 Speaker 3: situation that's gone back so many times. One of the 1106 01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:15,320 Speaker 3: officers asked what they were playing. When they heard it 1107 01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:17,560 Speaker 3: was Smash Bros. They wanted them. I'm like, y'all playing 1108 01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:20,240 Speaker 3: Smash And two of them literally raised their hands and 1109 01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:23,000 Speaker 3: walked up, Williams said, and they're like, how do you jump? 1110 01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:26,200 Speaker 3: And they were acting. One of them was playing PIKACHUW 1111 01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:30,240 Speaker 3: Williams tweeted out the video of the impromptu game night 1112 01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:32,360 Speaker 3: with the cops. He was honest about the inherent fear 1113 01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:35,520 Speaker 3: of the police showing up in another instance of living 1114 01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:37,480 Speaker 3: while black, but he and his buddies were happy with 1115 01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:41,280 Speaker 3: the end result. It was concerning, he said, you see 1116 01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:43,600 Speaker 3: so many videos of terrible results. I'm not trying to 1117 01:00:43,680 --> 01:00:45,520 Speaker 3: end up in jail, I hurt or have my friends 1118 01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:47,880 Speaker 3: hard or the start a commotion. But you know what 1119 01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:50,520 Speaker 3: I heard the police saying, what's smash brothers? He said, 1120 01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:53,240 Speaker 3: instead of something negative or something wholesome. Yeah, they put 1121 01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:56,280 Speaker 3: a picture on Twitter. So neighbors caught the cops on us, 1122 01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:59,760 Speaker 3: and now we're fighting them in smash Bros. They put 1123 01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:06,480 Speaker 3: hash All hands matter, all right, zero to one hundred. Yeah, 1124 01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:09,320 Speaker 3: it's still one hundred for me, Like I would love 1125 01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:11,880 Speaker 3: to get be like this is adorable and cute, and 1126 01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:16,800 Speaker 3: I just don't play about that shit, man. And it 1127 01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:19,760 Speaker 3: reminds me so often of just like being a black 1128 01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:23,520 Speaker 3: person and then some white person moves in, lives close 1129 01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:25,680 Speaker 3: to you or whatever, and then everything you do becomes 1130 01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:30,080 Speaker 3: amplified to them, Right, your noise becomes amplified The way 1131 01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:34,760 Speaker 3: you dress becomes amplified, your car becomes amplified, your music 1132 01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:38,120 Speaker 3: becomes amplified. How many people come over to your house 1133 01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:42,400 Speaker 3: becomes amplified. And it's never through the prism of realism 1134 01:01:42,600 --> 01:01:45,800 Speaker 3: of what's really happening in reality. It's always like through 1135 01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:49,840 Speaker 3: this prism of racism that somehow is this multiplier on 1136 01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:52,840 Speaker 3: every single thing and things that would not be an 1137 01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:54,920 Speaker 3: infraction for white people that would just be like a 1138 01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:57,320 Speaker 3: wholesome like, oh yeah, of course, those are my neighbors. 1139 01:01:57,320 --> 01:02:01,560 Speaker 3: They have parties sometimes those like an attack when it's 1140 01:02:01,560 --> 01:02:04,280 Speaker 3: a black person doing it, and having people over to 1141 01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:06,920 Speaker 3: play video games should never result in the fucking cops 1142 01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:09,200 Speaker 3: being called. The fact that they had to put the 1143 01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:12,080 Speaker 3: games on mute really shows you how annoying those white 1144 01:02:12,080 --> 01:02:14,720 Speaker 3: people were being and how often they were calling the 1145 01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:18,480 Speaker 3: police on them or accusing them of noise complaints. And 1146 01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:21,040 Speaker 3: you know, a lot of black people deal with this 1147 01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:24,680 Speaker 3: shit every day. It's one of those small small things 1148 01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:27,240 Speaker 3: that just adds up. It's one of microaggressions. It's one 1149 01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:30,160 Speaker 3: of the small things that just adds into this big 1150 01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:31,919 Speaker 3: toll that it takes on you in your life where 1151 01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:35,120 Speaker 3: you're like policing your own actions because you're scared that, 1152 01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:38,640 Speaker 3: you know, just being a just being a black person 1153 01:02:38,760 --> 01:02:41,080 Speaker 3: is gonna end up with you getting the cops called 1154 01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:41,479 Speaker 3: on you. 1155 01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:45,200 Speaker 2: Right when you just want to be left the fuck alone. 1156 01:02:45,240 --> 01:02:47,800 Speaker 2: Everybody else is allowed to be left the fuck alone. 1157 01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:52,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's still one hundred. Uh, he's back. Paris 1158 01:02:52,760 --> 01:02:56,280 Speaker 3: Dinard breaks his silence comparing himself to Clarence high Tech 1159 01:02:56,400 --> 01:03:02,040 Speaker 3: Lynchend Thomas back in August, the Washington Post out, though, yes, yes, 1160 01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:04,920 Speaker 3: I don't understand. Why don't you What don't you understand 1161 01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:05,320 Speaker 3: about it? 1162 01:03:05,960 --> 01:03:08,480 Speaker 2: He can? Why would Oh you're not gonna be finishing? 1163 01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:08,960 Speaker 4: I say? 1164 01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:10,439 Speaker 2: Why did he compare himself like that? 1165 01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:13,760 Speaker 3: Well, if you remember Paris dinar there was a bombshell 1166 01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:17,120 Speaker 3: a story in The Washington Post about him getting fired 1167 01:03:17,120 --> 01:03:19,880 Speaker 3: from Arizona State University for sexual harassment in twenty fourteen. 1168 01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:23,560 Speaker 3: Allegedly he made masturbatory gestures, touched the woman's neck with 1169 01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:24,720 Speaker 3: his tongue, and much more. 1170 01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:26,680 Speaker 2: Oh this is that dude. 1171 01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:28,600 Speaker 4: We were sitting here watching TV the other day and 1172 01:03:28,600 --> 01:03:29,919 Speaker 4: we both loved at each other, like. 1173 01:03:29,880 --> 01:03:34,960 Speaker 3: What was he? I don't remember remember that. 1174 01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:37,960 Speaker 4: Was are we were watching? It was a coach that they 1175 01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:40,520 Speaker 4: had to get rid of. That's somebody else. 1176 01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:45,800 Speaker 3: Okay, oh, somebody else. Paris dinar is a right wing commentator, 1177 01:03:46,120 --> 01:03:48,160 Speaker 3: a black man who's a big Trump supporter. 1178 01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:50,760 Speaker 2: Okay, different different black men. My bad. 1179 01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:54,080 Speaker 3: Uh. Dinnar was fired from CNN, and I he's broken 1180 01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:57,360 Speaker 3: in silence with with the proudly racist sight Breitbart and 1181 01:03:57,400 --> 01:04:00,960 Speaker 3: a long piece Thenar whined dinnar Wine that his sexual 1182 01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:04,040 Speaker 3: harassment outing was a political hit job and that CNN 1183 01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:06,240 Speaker 3: was already out to fire him after he accused ex 1184 01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:10,520 Speaker 3: Deputy director of of the CIA's counter Terrorism Center, Phil 1185 01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:13,880 Speaker 3: Mudd of profiting off of his security clearance. Thenard wrote 1186 01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:17,240 Speaker 3: in August CNN appearance, a former CIA official with whom 1187 01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:19,840 Speaker 3: I had once worked with my former job, became highly 1188 01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:23,040 Speaker 3: upset with me while discussing President Donald Trump's red vocation 1189 01:04:23,640 --> 01:04:27,080 Speaker 3: of the security clearance of former intelligence officials. The segment 1190 01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:29,640 Speaker 3: went viral, even gain an attention to President Trump, who 1191 01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:32,560 Speaker 3: tweeted about me, saying I have verbally destroyed the official 1192 01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:35,480 Speaker 3: with my own airpoints that set in motion a coordinated 1193 01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:39,440 Speaker 3: attempt by faceless adversaries to destroy me personally and professionally. 1194 01:04:40,400 --> 01:04:43,240 Speaker 3: Faceless adversary y'all, they made you lick a woman's neck 1195 01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:48,360 Speaker 3: and do jog offf motions. Donard got into goes on 1196 01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:50,360 Speaker 3: the babble that it was a political hit job. Keep 1197 01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:54,920 Speaker 3: in mind twenty fourteen, so like this happened, It was 1198 01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:58,840 Speaker 3: already on the record. You got fired already, but you 1199 01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:00,760 Speaker 3: talking about it was a hit job. Did see? I 1200 01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:02,560 Speaker 3: knew you were gonna make that comment on the air 1201 01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:06,000 Speaker 3: four years later they was keeping track funk out of 1202 01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:10,080 Speaker 3: my face. Well, four years from now he might try 1203 01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:15,400 Speaker 3: to beat somebody, so let's get him fired. Yeah, the 1204 01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:18,360 Speaker 3: CNN fired that only black Republican is scelarios that Dinnar 1205 01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:21,440 Speaker 3: has been denying race and racism from his own president 1206 01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:24,360 Speaker 3: for years, but when he is fired, he is suddenly racism. 1207 01:05:24,560 --> 01:05:27,200 Speaker 3: Ain't it funny how that works on racism? 1208 01:05:27,200 --> 01:05:27,480 Speaker 2: For you? 1209 01:05:27,840 --> 01:05:31,600 Speaker 3: That black woman Utah Republican was the same woman, same way. 1210 01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:35,760 Speaker 3: This racism is just so messed up? Am I right? 1211 01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:41,880 Speaker 2: Yo? Crickets, We could have told you. 1212 01:05:43,840 --> 01:05:46,200 Speaker 3: But when he was fired, sudden racism. He also ignores 1213 01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:48,360 Speaker 3: the countless liberals on the networks that have been fired, 1214 01:05:48,400 --> 01:05:51,800 Speaker 3: like Mark Lamont Hill or so died O'Brien. Dinnar also 1215 01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:55,160 Speaker 3: compared himself to Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas, who claimed 1216 01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:57,320 Speaker 3: it was a high tech lynchend When he was questioning 1217 01:05:57,320 --> 01:06:00,120 Speaker 3: about sexual rastioning in nineteen ninety one, Dinar wrote, the 1218 01:06:00,160 --> 01:06:02,600 Speaker 3: more things changed, the more they remain exactly the same. 1219 01:06:02,680 --> 01:06:07,160 Speaker 3: Just ask former presidential candidate Hermi Kane. Oh yeah, he had. 1220 01:06:07,240 --> 01:06:10,240 Speaker 3: He was cheating with that white woman. Former R and 1221 01:06:10,360 --> 01:06:13,480 Speaker 3: C chairman Michael Steele. I don't know when he was 1222 01:06:13,560 --> 01:06:18,320 Speaker 3: cheating activists Candice Owens. Activists is that what we're calling that? 1223 01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:21,680 Speaker 3: And now Supreme Court Justice Brett Kavanaugh. 1224 01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:26,600 Speaker 2: Bad examples bad gets some more examples? 1225 01:06:26,640 --> 01:06:31,520 Speaker 3: Baby, ask o J. Simpson, Okay, asks I'll kill it. 1226 01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:41,400 Speaker 3: What the list? Oh my god, Oh my god. 1227 01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:45,680 Speaker 2: Asks Bill Cosby, Where are we going with that? This 1228 01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:46,280 Speaker 2: is dumb? 1229 01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:50,600 Speaker 3: He continued. I've been a Republican with a national platform 1230 01:06:50,640 --> 01:06:53,480 Speaker 3: since two thousands of deliberate politics of personal destruction and 1231 01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:56,600 Speaker 3: all our character assassination is real. But their weapons of 1232 01:06:56,640 --> 01:06:59,560 Speaker 3: harm and pain formed against me and against all the 1233 01:06:59,560 --> 01:07:02,720 Speaker 3: rest of us us. Those who dare to effectively speak 1234 01:07:02,760 --> 01:07:05,480 Speaker 3: out will not prosper. What is funny is that, with 1235 01:07:05,560 --> 01:07:07,880 Speaker 3: the exception of maybe Herman Kane, all of the names 1236 01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:11,840 Speaker 3: mentioned has prospered hermricane somewhere like what's up with the shade? Okay, 1237 01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:14,439 Speaker 3: what's up with the shade? Being a black Republican will 1238 01:07:14,440 --> 01:07:18,160 Speaker 3: always get someone to check. Selling your own out will 1239 01:07:18,200 --> 01:07:20,840 Speaker 3: always be profitable. Although no word on why he mentioned 1240 01:07:20,880 --> 01:07:28,040 Speaker 3: Kavanaugh still is barely a Republican. Yeah, Kavanall is white anyway. 1241 01:07:28,320 --> 01:07:30,880 Speaker 3: When The Post asked him about the accusations that August 1242 01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:34,040 Speaker 3: Dinard was noncommittal, it said, I cannot comment on items 1243 01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:36,720 Speaker 3: I have never seen regarding allegations I still believe to 1244 01:07:36,720 --> 01:07:40,320 Speaker 3: be false. This is sadly another politically motivated attempt to 1245 01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:43,120 Speaker 3: persumerse my character and shame me into silence for supporting 1246 01:07:43,160 --> 01:07:49,680 Speaker 3: the President Trump and the GOP Okay. He also said 1247 01:07:49,680 --> 01:07:53,680 Speaker 3: he's pursuing legal action against CNN. We'll see. Clearly Fox 1248 01:07:53,760 --> 01:07:56,880 Speaker 3: News doesn't want to hire him because they would have 1249 01:07:56,920 --> 01:07:59,360 Speaker 3: been put him on the roster. But they got a 1250 01:07:59,360 --> 01:08:01,880 Speaker 3: little trouble to them. sALS with sexual harassment over there, 1251 01:08:02,800 --> 01:08:04,520 Speaker 3: don't They might be trying to get out of the 1252 01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:05,840 Speaker 3: sexual harassment. 1253 01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:08,480 Speaker 2: Game, you know, I don't know they're working on it. 1254 01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:13,000 Speaker 3: Let somebody else have that lane, all right, let's move 1255 01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:18,280 Speaker 3: it to uh some guests the race zero zero yeah zero? 1256 01:08:18,320 --> 01:08:20,640 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, my bad. Yeah, damn. I didn't care so much. 1257 01:08:20,680 --> 01:08:23,920 Speaker 3: I accidentally shaded him by not putting it up. I 1258 01:08:23,920 --> 01:08:24,479 Speaker 3: forgot to say. 1259 01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:25,840 Speaker 2: I said we're gonna do a number. 1260 01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:28,640 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, well, coons be cooning, come on 1261 01:08:29,000 --> 01:08:35,800 Speaker 3: and on, con coon. But now that it's time for 1262 01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:40,519 Speaker 3: some guess the race, that's right, guess the race time. 1263 01:08:42,120 --> 01:08:45,160 Speaker 3: Now that it is time for some guests the race. 1264 01:08:45,960 --> 01:08:50,920 Speaker 3: That's right, guess the race time. But that's right, it's 1265 01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:54,599 Speaker 3: time for Guess the race. The number one game show 1266 01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:56,599 Speaker 3: going across all the podcast land. We read the play 1267 01:08:56,600 --> 01:08:58,800 Speaker 3: news r from all over the globe, and we asked 1268 01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:02,080 Speaker 3: our contestants today Aaron and the chat room to guess 1269 01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:06,880 Speaker 3: love raise and of course everyone playing is racist. All right, 1270 01:09:07,360 --> 01:09:12,760 Speaker 3: let's get to the game. Cincinnati, Ohio, a sixty one 1271 01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:15,200 Speaker 3: year old woman is accused of pooring hot grease on 1272 01:09:15,240 --> 01:09:16,920 Speaker 3: another person during the dispute. 1273 01:09:17,280 --> 01:09:18,080 Speaker 2: Was its grease? 1274 01:09:18,560 --> 01:09:19,639 Speaker 3: It just says hot grease? 1275 01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:24,479 Speaker 2: Cause all right, you want to name some more grease? 1276 01:09:24,600 --> 01:09:24,880 Speaker 3: Is uh? 1277 01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:28,240 Speaker 2: I mean I can? I mean gonna go down. 1278 01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:35,320 Speaker 3: We're gonna be like this, mm hmm chicken grease? All right, fish, yeah, chicken. 1279 01:09:35,560 --> 01:09:36,040 Speaker 6: Mm hm. 1280 01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:41,160 Speaker 3: Hm is that all the greases or you done? 1281 01:09:42,439 --> 01:09:43,120 Speaker 2: I mean. 1282 01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:53,320 Speaker 3: Take two grand historic hopes. Sorry, ad started playing hair grease, 1283 01:09:53,760 --> 01:09:58,800 Speaker 3: bacon grease, bacon grease. Okay, all right, I mean I. 1284 01:09:58,760 --> 01:10:02,000 Speaker 2: Mean Frida oaka grease. I means is me going now? 1285 01:10:02,120 --> 01:10:06,240 Speaker 3: All right, Bubba Gump with the grease over there? So 1286 01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:07,080 Speaker 3: we have first on. 1287 01:10:07,160 --> 01:10:10,839 Speaker 7: Fox nineteen now about this woman who's accused of pouring 1288 01:10:10,960 --> 01:10:14,040 Speaker 7: hot grease on someone. That's her in court today. She's 1289 01:10:14,040 --> 01:10:16,519 Speaker 7: been in trouble with the law before, though. Here are 1290 01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:21,040 Speaker 7: nine of her mugshots, the newest one whoo right here 1291 01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:24,439 Speaker 7: in the middle. Our Mike Schell is following this latest 1292 01:10:24,560 --> 01:10:25,559 Speaker 7: arrest Greece. 1293 01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:28,479 Speaker 8: Sixty one year old Charlene Thompson is no stranger to 1294 01:10:28,560 --> 01:10:32,080 Speaker 8: Cincinnati police. The latest trouble she found herself in happened 1295 01:10:32,120 --> 01:10:36,000 Speaker 8: over the weekend on Hawaiian Terrace in Mount Airy. Thompson 1296 01:10:36,040 --> 01:10:38,160 Speaker 8: appeared in court this morning wondering how much money she 1297 01:10:38,160 --> 01:10:39,920 Speaker 8: would have to come up with this time to be 1298 01:10:40,000 --> 01:10:43,439 Speaker 8: free on bond. Her rest date back more than twenty years. 1299 01:10:43,800 --> 01:10:46,040 Speaker 8: In two thousand and eight, Thompson was accused of kicking 1300 01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:48,960 Speaker 8: a Cincinnati police officer and spitting several times in the 1301 01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:51,559 Speaker 8: back of a police car. In two thousand and seven, 1302 01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:54,920 Speaker 8: Thompson was accused of entering an assisted living facility and 1303 01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:58,280 Speaker 8: hitting a resident. Her most recent arrest came on Sunday 1304 01:10:58,520 --> 01:11:00,960 Speaker 8: when she was charged with felonious assault on a woman. 1305 01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:04,680 Speaker 8: The allegations are that the defendant court hot grease on 1306 01:11:04,800 --> 01:11:06,880 Speaker 8: the victim, resulting in severe burns on the. 1307 01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:10,000 Speaker 3: Victim was back and armed. The injuries were visible to 1308 01:11:10,120 --> 01:11:13,439 Speaker 3: the police officer. As Thompson, a sixty one years old 1309 01:11:14,240 --> 01:11:16,120 Speaker 3: were the court of the Morris or before. 1310 01:11:17,960 --> 01:11:20,960 Speaker 6: It's been twenty years was her last fellamy. 1311 01:11:20,880 --> 01:11:23,920 Speaker 8: Two decades since her last felony. But Circuit Judge Ted 1312 01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:26,879 Speaker 8: Barry had Thompson's extensive arrest record in front. 1313 01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:28,680 Speaker 3: Of him, just like a good attorney to find some 1314 01:11:29,280 --> 01:11:31,280 Speaker 3: silver writing in the dark cloud. 1315 01:11:31,439 --> 01:11:34,360 Speaker 8: Then a response from her attorney that even caught Thompson 1316 01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:34,880 Speaker 8: off guard. 1317 01:11:35,400 --> 01:11:37,400 Speaker 3: Judge, but I really wanted to go for every silver line, 1318 01:11:37,400 --> 01:11:41,360 Speaker 3: and I point out that almost didn't you. I could 1319 01:11:41,360 --> 01:11:41,920 Speaker 3: point out. 1320 01:11:41,800 --> 01:11:45,120 Speaker 5: That she did not assault you, okay, is she's standing 1321 01:11:45,200 --> 01:11:46,800 Speaker 5: here very peacefully. 1322 01:11:47,080 --> 01:11:49,280 Speaker 8: When it came time to discuss a bond amount, the 1323 01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:51,960 Speaker 8: prosecutor said it should be significant. 1324 01:11:51,360 --> 01:11:52,719 Speaker 3: I'm requesting a high bond. 1325 01:11:52,760 --> 01:11:56,080 Speaker 8: Is the court as well aware burns of some of 1326 01:11:56,080 --> 01:12:01,840 Speaker 8: the most devastating, painful, long term debilitating injuries, but pain 1327 01:12:01,920 --> 01:12:09,240 Speaker 8: should have no bearing on bond, according to Magnus. But 1328 01:12:09,320 --> 01:12:11,479 Speaker 8: judge ordered Thompson to stay away from the victim and 1329 01:12:11,560 --> 01:12:14,679 Speaker 8: have no contact with her until further advised by the court. 1330 01:12:15,640 --> 01:12:18,320 Speaker 8: There is no word on the victim's condition. Judge Barry 1331 01:12:18,360 --> 01:12:22,120 Speaker 8: said Thompson's bond at fifteen thousand dollars on the assault charge. 1332 01:12:22,320 --> 01:12:24,400 Speaker 8: Her case will go before a grand jury. I'll just 1333 01:12:24,479 --> 01:12:28,000 Speaker 8: Zebra fourteenth reporting from the West End. Mike Schell, Fox 1334 01:12:28,080 --> 01:12:30,800 Speaker 8: nineteen now and one's time to put the news now 1335 01:12:30,920 --> 01:12:31,479 Speaker 8: for you, sir. 1336 01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:36,760 Speaker 3: All right, Karen, guess the race White. Karen's going with white. 1337 01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:41,200 Speaker 3: Let's check the chat room, see what they believe our 1338 01:12:41,280 --> 01:12:48,200 Speaker 3: green sister, black white fist, don't vern in the kitchen, Bean, 1339 01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:51,400 Speaker 3: don't vern on the grill. Moving on up, Black, Real 1340 01:12:51,439 --> 01:12:54,320 Speaker 3: Life Medea Black Greece is the only season that she uses. 1341 01:12:54,600 --> 01:12:57,080 Speaker 3: I guess that's why she had a terrible lawyer. So 1342 01:12:57,120 --> 01:13:00,639 Speaker 3: I'm saying black twenty years of felonies in Kentucky. White. 1343 01:13:01,479 --> 01:13:05,320 Speaker 3: The correct answer is and Karen you're sticking with yours. 1344 01:13:06,080 --> 01:13:09,719 Speaker 3: The correct answer is she was black. 1345 01:13:10,320 --> 01:13:26,960 Speaker 6: Oh, and some of you did get it right. 1346 01:13:36,520 --> 01:13:39,240 Speaker 3: Now. That's one of her mug shots. I think she looked, 1347 01:13:39,439 --> 01:13:41,760 Speaker 3: you know, all right right here, you're saying that in 1348 01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:45,160 Speaker 3: the chat room, all right. Then there's this one later 1349 01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:49,000 Speaker 3: times got a little hard. Then there's this one she 1350 01:13:49,080 --> 01:13:52,120 Speaker 3: was scamming. She got a fur and a wig. 1351 01:13:51,880 --> 01:13:54,200 Speaker 2: On mm hmm, tigging in the streets. 1352 01:13:55,240 --> 01:13:57,200 Speaker 3: Then there was this one she was just fed up 1353 01:13:57,920 --> 01:13:58,360 Speaker 3: with the. 1354 01:13:58,280 --> 01:14:04,080 Speaker 4: World and my brow say, I'm. 1355 01:14:02,120 --> 01:14:09,320 Speaker 3: Then that's this one she like Sam Jackson and. 1356 01:14:07,880 --> 01:14:10,120 Speaker 2: All them feelas I was like you do. There's a 1357 01:14:10,200 --> 01:14:14,240 Speaker 2: lot of white people spitting on offices and ship Uh. 1358 01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:19,559 Speaker 3: Then there's this one getting older. I guess this one 1359 01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:24,200 Speaker 3: when she just couldn't believe it. She was she got me. Uh. 1360 01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:27,040 Speaker 3: This one she was still shocked and a little older. 1361 01:14:27,040 --> 01:14:30,599 Speaker 3: But this is the leather face. Then there's this one 1362 01:14:30,600 --> 01:14:35,000 Speaker 3: where she clearly was Mary j bliging it up. She said, 1363 01:14:35,000 --> 01:14:35,960 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna cry no more. 1364 01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:37,160 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna cry no more. 1365 01:14:37,840 --> 01:14:40,360 Speaker 3: Oh, what is this an ad? Then there was this 1366 01:14:40,400 --> 01:14:45,000 Speaker 3: one that was advertising for the hornets tonight. I was 1367 01:14:45,160 --> 01:14:49,920 Speaker 3: missing one. Oh, I was trying to show y'all her 1368 01:14:50,000 --> 01:14:53,760 Speaker 3: latest one. It's a whipper. Oh yeah, this is the 1369 01:14:53,840 --> 01:15:03,080 Speaker 3: latest one. Oh my goodness, yeah yeah, the eyes have it. 1370 01:15:03,920 --> 01:15:08,560 Speaker 4: Oh oh, everybody getting the lash. 1371 01:15:09,479 --> 01:15:11,559 Speaker 3: I guess it's some low brown humor. We got here 1372 01:15:12,040 --> 01:15:19,639 Speaker 3: right now, so it's lashes for everybody. Well, shell, she'll 1373 01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:20,759 Speaker 3: keep her own things. 1374 01:15:21,439 --> 01:15:22,400 Speaker 2: M hm. 1375 01:15:22,400 --> 01:15:26,280 Speaker 3: Try to keep her out for the next crime. Mm hmm. 1376 01:15:27,200 --> 01:15:28,320 Speaker 2: You can see into the future. 1377 01:15:31,000 --> 01:15:33,519 Speaker 3: Oh all right, let's go to the next one. 1378 01:15:33,720 --> 01:15:35,679 Speaker 2: She's looking on first Earth and second Earth. 1379 01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:41,360 Speaker 3: I guess, so, officials. A woman passed gas and then 1380 01:15:41,400 --> 01:15:47,440 Speaker 3: poured a knife on an offended man. No a truth feminist, 1381 01:15:49,360 --> 01:15:55,200 Speaker 3: A legend your favod never uh? A Florida woman Florida 1382 01:15:55,280 --> 01:15:58,839 Speaker 3: all shot. A Florida woman faces aggravated as salt charge 1383 01:15:58,880 --> 01:16:02,559 Speaker 3: at the authority say she passed gas a line at 1384 01:16:02,560 --> 01:16:05,000 Speaker 3: a dollar store and poured a knife on a man 1385 01:16:05,040 --> 01:16:09,439 Speaker 3: who complained about it. Citing the Broward Sheriffs Office report 1386 01:16:09,479 --> 01:16:12,280 Speaker 3: to Miami Hair Reports, thirty seven year old Shanetta Yavett 1387 01:16:12,360 --> 01:16:15,519 Speaker 3: Wilson pass gas while waiting in line at the Dollars 1388 01:16:15,800 --> 01:16:20,840 Speaker 3: General Sunday, f sat a nearby customer. The report says 1389 01:16:20,840 --> 01:16:23,400 Speaker 3: the offended customer and Wilson then got into an argument 1390 01:16:24,360 --> 01:16:27,879 Speaker 3: in reference to the defendant farting loudly. It says Wilson 1391 01:16:27,920 --> 01:16:30,040 Speaker 3: then pulled a small folding knife out of her person 1392 01:16:30,120 --> 01:16:32,439 Speaker 3: told the vic because she was gonna gut him, while 1393 01:16:32,520 --> 01:16:35,200 Speaker 3: moving as if to a tackle. Wilson was arrested in 1394 01:16:35,320 --> 01:16:37,880 Speaker 3: charge of aggravated salt with a daily weapon without intent 1395 01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:43,799 Speaker 3: to kill. Guess the race of Janetta Wilson Black. Karen's 1396 01:16:43,840 --> 01:16:45,680 Speaker 3: going black on this one. I'm gonna see what you 1397 01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:57,000 Speaker 3: guys think in the chat room. Poverty and violence. Black black, Oh, 1398 01:16:57,000 --> 01:17:00,120 Speaker 3: like everybody else is scared of the guests, Pinky far 1399 01:17:00,200 --> 01:17:04,200 Speaker 3: and black black straight rays are probably some hard r 1400 01:17:04,400 --> 01:17:11,000 Speaker 3: nonsense beans, beans the magical fruit. That's a nigga dream girl. Uh, 1401 01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:15,360 Speaker 3: that's not a race. The correct answer is she was black. 1402 01:17:24,280 --> 01:17:35,479 Speaker 3: Some of you did miss it, though, So that dude 1403 01:17:35,560 --> 01:17:41,519 Speaker 3: said what she was farting? Yeah, I guess sometimes you 1404 01:17:41,520 --> 01:17:42,479 Speaker 3: gotta keep it to yourself. 1405 01:17:43,800 --> 01:17:44,120 Speaker 4: Mhm. 1406 01:17:44,920 --> 01:17:50,120 Speaker 3: Yes, she looked like yeah, sound. I mean, it was 1407 01:17:50,120 --> 01:17:53,160 Speaker 3: a loud part, but I guess it wasn't a silent 1408 01:17:53,200 --> 01:17:55,400 Speaker 3: but deadly. It was loud but deadly. She won't turn 1409 01:17:55,400 --> 01:17:56,280 Speaker 3: around to stab. 1410 01:17:56,080 --> 01:17:58,840 Speaker 2: That man, you're alright with the loud ones. It's the 1411 01:17:58,880 --> 01:17:59,479 Speaker 2: ones you don't hit. 1412 01:17:59,600 --> 01:18:10,840 Speaker 3: Is the rob I mean talk about cutting the cheese. Oh, 1413 01:18:10,920 --> 01:18:12,720 Speaker 3: let's go to the bonus around. 1414 01:18:22,280 --> 01:18:26,560 Speaker 5: Double upon the race, double. 1415 01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:30,880 Speaker 3: Upon saying the race, that's right, double the points, double 1416 01:18:30,880 --> 01:18:32,400 Speaker 3: the race, and the bonus trying to guess the race. 1417 01:18:32,479 --> 01:18:35,960 Speaker 3: So far, caring is one in one. Let's see if 1418 01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:40,000 Speaker 3: you can finish on a strong note. Mm hm hmmm. 1419 01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:46,200 Speaker 3: A woman throws a baby during an argument over an 1420 01:18:46,200 --> 01:18:55,360 Speaker 3: Amazon account. Oh shit, uh, police say that. Deliver Police 1421 01:18:55,400 --> 01:18:57,040 Speaker 3: say they were called to a home at the two 1422 01:18:57,080 --> 01:18:59,880 Speaker 3: women fought over purchases made on Amazon, and the infant 1423 01:18:59,880 --> 01:19:07,799 Speaker 3: was thrown twice twice. A hotache it's having on Saturday 1424 01:19:07,840 --> 01:19:09,599 Speaker 3: at nine am? You mean hot potato? 1425 01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:11,000 Speaker 2: Potato? 1426 01:19:15,520 --> 01:19:33,120 Speaker 3: It's okay, they said, they say, they say they put 1427 01:19:33,200 --> 01:19:35,120 Speaker 3: that baby fresh out to them, was like you hold it, No, 1428 01:19:35,200 --> 01:19:38,439 Speaker 3: you hold it, you hold it. McDonald's hot cakes on 1429 01:19:38,560 --> 01:19:42,800 Speaker 3: around for breakfast. Uh. When they they said when they 1430 01:19:42,920 --> 01:19:46,000 Speaker 3: arrived they found a woman holding her grandchild. I would 1431 01:19:46,000 --> 01:19:48,719 Speaker 3: to say there's an argument before between the women's two daughters. 1432 01:19:49,640 --> 01:19:55,719 Speaker 3: Oh so eight, So the two daughters are fighting and 1433 01:19:55,760 --> 01:19:57,760 Speaker 3: the grandmother and they lived with the grandmothers and the 1434 01:19:57,800 --> 01:20:05,439 Speaker 3: grandmama was holding the baby. Wait, okay, police say Aaron Johnson, 1435 01:20:05,439 --> 01:20:07,400 Speaker 3: thirty two, was holding the baby during the argument. When 1436 01:20:07,400 --> 01:20:09,679 Speaker 3: she became frustrated, to say, she threw the baby onto 1437 01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:12,320 Speaker 3: the couch picked up the infinite through the second time 1438 01:20:12,520 --> 01:20:15,360 Speaker 3: what I would say? Johnson rambled about how she is 1439 01:20:15,360 --> 01:20:18,040 Speaker 3: blamed for everything, and they say she told them she 1440 01:20:18,040 --> 01:20:23,479 Speaker 3: suffers from postpartum and needs to see someone. Okay, then't 1441 01:20:23,560 --> 01:20:26,800 Speaker 3: do that. Don't throw the baby. That doesn't seem like 1442 01:20:26,800 --> 01:20:30,400 Speaker 3: it's helping anyone, do it. They say she couldn't carry 1443 01:20:30,439 --> 01:20:33,320 Speaker 3: a conversation and was emotional. Johnson is charged with child 1444 01:20:33,360 --> 01:20:36,640 Speaker 3: and dangering. The infant was taken by ambulance to the hospital. 1445 01:20:37,120 --> 01:20:39,160 Speaker 3: Johnson did not show up the court Monday and now 1446 01:20:39,160 --> 01:20:45,639 Speaker 3: as a warning out for her rest yesterdayce of Aaron Johnson. Black, 1447 01:20:46,240 --> 01:20:49,080 Speaker 3: Karen's going with black. Let's check the chat room and believe. 1448 01:20:49,280 --> 01:20:55,280 Speaker 3: Let's see what you guys believe. Black black, A lot 1449 01:20:55,360 --> 01:20:59,160 Speaker 3: of black. So far only two guesses Mary from precious black. 1450 01:20:59,200 --> 01:21:04,360 Speaker 3: Ah you think out of Mongalod Trey black white, she devil, 1451 01:21:04,680 --> 01:21:08,200 Speaker 3: no mention of her father black? She black. Damn y'all. 1452 01:21:08,200 --> 01:21:13,360 Speaker 3: So entire black. My god, y'all are all correct. She's black? 1453 01:21:26,000 --> 01:21:28,880 Speaker 3: Oh I didn't hell Mary uh uh? 1454 01:21:29,000 --> 01:21:31,840 Speaker 2: She did the baby spiral like a hell Mary past. 1455 01:21:32,800 --> 01:21:33,879 Speaker 2: I hope not baby. 1456 01:21:34,920 --> 01:21:35,880 Speaker 3: Anyone missed that one. 1457 01:21:36,520 --> 01:21:37,040 Speaker 4: Mm hmmm. 1458 01:21:37,720 --> 01:21:40,320 Speaker 3: Here she is looking. She doesn't like a tired mom. 1459 01:21:40,400 --> 01:21:41,280 Speaker 3: I'll tell you that much. 1460 01:21:43,560 --> 01:21:45,799 Speaker 2: That hell needs some therapy. 1461 01:21:46,720 --> 01:21:47,599 Speaker 3: She's fed up. 1462 01:21:48,520 --> 01:21:49,959 Speaker 2: That wig has had enough. 1463 01:21:53,560 --> 01:22:07,600 Speaker 3: Florid rackingess. 1464 01:22:02,400 --> 01:22:04,280 Speaker 2: That big like, Oh baby, I'm gonna tied as you. 1465 01:22:14,520 --> 01:22:19,639 Speaker 3: I don't know nothing about no whigs. Uh, Samurai sword killer. 1466 01:22:19,920 --> 01:22:21,360 Speaker 2: This is something you don't know nothing about. 1467 01:22:21,640 --> 01:22:24,920 Speaker 3: I don't know nothing about that, Summari. I'm too old 1468 01:22:24,920 --> 01:22:27,479 Speaker 3: to be knowing about wigs. Samarai sword killer sentence the 1469 01:22:27,520 --> 01:22:32,719 Speaker 3: minimum five years. Muskegon County, Michigan. A man who killed 1470 01:22:32,720 --> 01:22:35,439 Speaker 3: his girlfriend with a Samurai sword will serve a minimum 1471 01:22:35,520 --> 01:22:44,120 Speaker 3: of five years in prison. That's it. You killed a 1472 01:22:44,240 --> 01:22:48,320 Speaker 3: whole person with a sword, and you only gonna get 1473 01:22:48,400 --> 01:22:50,920 Speaker 3: five years minimum in prison. 1474 01:22:51,240 --> 01:22:52,160 Speaker 2: Don't take it seriously. 1475 01:22:53,200 --> 01:22:59,200 Speaker 3: Centoria Brown is getting fifty one years one. I've one 1476 01:22:59,439 --> 01:23:02,439 Speaker 3: killed a a girl, your loved one, with a sword. 1477 01:23:03,320 --> 01:23:11,960 Speaker 3: He claimed the stabbing was accidental. Yeah, okay, yeah, thirty 1478 01:23:12,040 --> 01:23:17,479 Speaker 3: eight year old Amanda Shankle was stabbed on April twenty seven. 1479 01:23:20,960 --> 01:23:21,320 Speaker 2: Uh. 1480 01:23:21,479 --> 01:23:24,320 Speaker 3: The guy got convicted. He was sentenced to a minimum 1481 01:23:24,360 --> 01:23:26,400 Speaker 3: of five in a maximum of thirty years in prison. 1482 01:23:26,760 --> 01:23:30,519 Speaker 3: An autoxic report indicated the sword penetrated Shanko's buttocks and 1483 01:23:30,600 --> 01:23:35,519 Speaker 3: went over to ten inches into her body. He said, 1484 01:23:35,560 --> 01:23:38,679 Speaker 3: they were just playing around. What kind of accident, playing 1485 01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:41,600 Speaker 3: around with ten inches or nothing? Yeah, we got a 1486 01:23:41,640 --> 01:23:43,760 Speaker 3: new alarm system today and I had to go put 1487 01:23:43,800 --> 01:23:48,320 Speaker 3: that little sign in the backyard that shows you got alarm. 1488 01:23:49,040 --> 01:23:50,360 Speaker 3: You know how hard it is just to get that 1489 01:23:50,400 --> 01:23:53,439 Speaker 3: little sign ten inches into the ground, like you need 1490 01:23:53,479 --> 01:23:55,360 Speaker 3: to hammer and some shit like you got it's serious? 1491 01:23:56,080 --> 01:23:57,120 Speaker 2: Did you get it into the ground? 1492 01:23:57,200 --> 01:24:01,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, but you don't get a fucking You don't 1493 01:24:01,320 --> 01:24:03,679 Speaker 3: accidentally put a sword in a human body ten inches 1494 01:24:03,720 --> 01:24:05,519 Speaker 3: and then and be like, oh, it's just fucking around. 1495 01:24:05,560 --> 01:24:07,680 Speaker 3: I thought it was hilarious, just like to. 1496 01:24:07,680 --> 01:24:09,320 Speaker 2: Put a penis up in somebody. 1497 01:24:10,240 --> 01:24:14,479 Speaker 3: Don't go at what inch do you start going? I 1498 01:24:14,479 --> 01:24:16,960 Speaker 3: don't know if this joke is funny anymore. Maybe we 1499 01:24:16,960 --> 01:24:23,240 Speaker 3: should stop playing ridiculous. And the court didn't take it serious. 1500 01:24:23,320 --> 01:24:27,800 Speaker 3: Five years mint that's ridiculous, all right, that's it for today. 1501 01:24:27,880 --> 01:24:30,360 Speaker 3: We will talk to you guys tomorrow to finish up 1502 01:24:30,400 --> 01:24:33,160 Speaker 3: the week. Thank you so much for listening. We appreciate y'all. 1503 01:24:33,280 --> 01:24:35,599 Speaker 3: Until next time, I love you. Why