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Speaker 1: iHeart Podcasts, bring you the ultimate Summer of Love Tree.

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Speaker 2: This is famously available.

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Speaker 1: Okay, guys, it's one of your famously available gals. Deanna

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Speaker 1: here and I am jumping in to take over this episode.

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Speaker 1: We are at jingle Ball and we're getting ready to

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Speaker 1: send my girl Mercedes out on a date with a

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Speaker 1: single eligible man.

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Speaker 3: And he's here. He is here.

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Speaker 1: We've been talking about him all day. But before I'm

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Speaker 1: allowed to introduce Mercedes to him, Ben has tasked me

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Speaker 1: with getting to know him a little bit better.

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Speaker 3: So Bryce, welcome to the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for having me. I'm come to be here.

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Speaker 1: I have had the pleasure of spending the afternoon with Mercedes.

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Speaker 1: So we were running through all of our what ifs,

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Speaker 1: and then we're in the car. We're talking about what

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Speaker 1: it might be like. She's a little nervous. Okay, are

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Speaker 1: you nervous?

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Speaker 2: I'm not nervous.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: I think it's just gonna be a fun experience and

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Speaker 2: meeting new people is always a good time. So I

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Speaker 2: don't know, I'm not nervous as though.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, well that's confidence is attractive.

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Speaker 2: I think, So, I mean, do you have a type?

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Speaker 2: This is it's a it's kind of like a blanket statement.

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Speaker 2: But I just like beauty, right, It doesn't really matter

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Speaker 2: what they look like or you know what, race, ethnicity,

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Speaker 2: of who I gravitate towards. So just like beauty in

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Speaker 2: any form. And I know that's kind of subjective because

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Speaker 2: beauty's and the eye of the beholder, but yeah, just

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Speaker 2: just beauty.

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Speaker 1: Like great, So you typically date twenty somethings, blonde, fake

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Speaker 1: boobs in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think that's my type of beauty to.

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Speaker 1: Be, Okay, so give it to me, run it down,

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Speaker 1: give me something specific. Have you had girlfriends before?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I've always been kind of like a relationship guy.

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Speaker 2: I'm kind of a monogamous guy. The longest I've been

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Speaker 2: single is right now, which I forced myself to be

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Speaker 2: single for like last year and a half, almost two years,

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Speaker 2: just because I needed to.

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Speaker 1: You forced yourself, force myself beat them off with a stick.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I had to beat myself off with

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Speaker 2: a stick, no pun intended. But but I just I

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Speaker 2: get into these relationships where it starts really fast, upfront,

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Speaker 2: and then I'm like, oh, of course the love bombing

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Speaker 2: that we're both doing to each other is warranted because

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Speaker 2: we're both awesome. But then I get into the relationship

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Speaker 2: and then within like six months to a year, a

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Speaker 2: couple of years, you start seeing that maybe what was

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Speaker 2: portrayed or sold to me wasn't exactly who they were.

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Speaker 2: So I've kind of been in a cycle, and it's

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Speaker 2: been very clear, a very clear cycle. So I've taken

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Speaker 2: the year and a half almost two years and now

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Speaker 2: I'll just say two years of being single and just

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Speaker 2: focusing on myself growth therapy, Like, oh.

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Speaker 1: God, I was literally going to ask if you've seen

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Speaker 1: a psychiatrist, So I'm so glad to hear you tell

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Speaker 1: us that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely, that's been like that. I mean, my breakups

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Speaker 2: my exites reached out a couple of years after we

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Speaker 2: broke up and she told me why she kind of

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Speaker 2: had a crash out, and she was like, the relationship

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Speaker 2: was the best relationship I've ever been in, so when

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Speaker 2: you walked away from it, it was like the whole

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Speaker 2: world collapsing. She was trying to hold on right, and

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Speaker 2: so I think that that's been the trend, and so

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Speaker 2: I do give a lot to my relationships. I'm a

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Speaker 2: big giver in every type of way. Like if I

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Speaker 2: see potential, I want to know foster that and like

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Speaker 2: grow that and just make my partner the best person

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Speaker 2: they can be. But I kind of lose myself within that.

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Speaker 2: So this last two years being single has been me

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Speaker 2: focusing on me for kind of the first time ever,

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Speaker 2: and it's been the most transformational two years of my

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Speaker 1: I love to hear that because I think that I'm

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Speaker 1: a little bit older, much wiser. I didn't hear you

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Speaker 2: Bryce, Oh you're beautiful. Yeah, you're beautiful, You're something you

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Speaker 2: speak very well. But I'm not here dating you.

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Speaker 3: Older and wiser.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm glad to hear you say that, because you

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Speaker 1: are still in such a place in your life. You're

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Speaker 1: still trying to figure out who you are. There is

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Speaker 1: a part of you that you're born with, that's in

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Speaker 1: your soul, that's who you are. But through relationships, through friendships,

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Speaker 1: through experience.

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Speaker 3: You will learn who you are and what it is

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Speaker 3: that you want.

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Speaker 1: But I'm also here to tell you that it changes

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Speaker 1: to your only thirty You said, yeah, that stuff changes

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Speaker 1: as well. It's kind of change in five years, ten years,

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Speaker 1: another four years after that, right, it evolves, And the

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Speaker 2: Evolve with you exactly.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So let's run through some basic things. I don't

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Speaker 1: information because I'm friends with Mercedes. I'm her girl, and

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Speaker 1: so I think they knew that I was going to

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Speaker 2: Okay, I like that. Okay, you're thirty one, Yeah, I'm thirty.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and your last relationship was a year and a

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Speaker 2: Said, like, it was June of almost two years ago,

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Speaker 2: So I guess we're past two years now a little bit.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay. What's the biggest thing you learned about yourself

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Speaker 2: Oh? Man, like so much. I think the biggest thing

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Speaker 2: is I carry a really magnifying light. Like any room

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Speaker 2: and I think I kind of had never realized that

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Speaker 2: not a way that's like psychotic or coyotistical part of you. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 2: I yeah, I try not to have ego, which I'm

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Speaker 2: I fell in love with who I am at a

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Speaker 2: and getting back to just having a relationship, like a

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it's been awesome.

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Speaker 3: What's your longest relationship?

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Speaker 2: Three years?

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Speaker 3: Three years? Okay, all right.

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Speaker 1: So I do know that you're a mortgage broker and

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Speaker 3: I run down for my girl.

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Speaker 2: So I'm not a DJ yet. I would say I

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Speaker 3: So you are a connoisseur of music.

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Speaker 2: So I run a pretty successful music label. I do

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Speaker 2: then I, you know, have that passion part of me

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Speaker 2: where it's like I still want to make music as

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Speaker 2: much as I'm like helping these artists build their careers

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Speaker 3: Wait do you sing? Also?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Are you about to serenade our girl right now?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: She can be ours.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, as long.

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Speaker 3: As I can just creep around and hang out all

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, you're more than welcome to hang out

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Speaker 2: I think I'll do that if I know the songs.

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Speaker 3: But she sent to music, Okay, she likes music.

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Speaker 2: We can rock and roll with that. Then that's my

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Speaker 3: What are you looking for now?

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Speaker 1: If you took some time off of dating, and you've

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Speaker 1: been single for the two years to work on yourself,

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Speaker 1: to learn more about yourself, your career is taking off.

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Speaker 1: What is it that you're looking for now?

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Speaker 2: A woman like a like a like a wool and go.

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Speaker 3: Without saying right, So you've got to give me some details.

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Speaker 2: Here, strong, powerful, knows what she wants, uh Like, has

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Speaker 2: Like that's the biggest thing. Like, I know it's very cliche,

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Speaker 2: but power couple is really what I need. A lot

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Speaker 2: kind of been They've been always obviously beautiful and smart

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Speaker 2: I would come in and like kind of direct them

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Speaker 2: I think I ended all the relationships was it was

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Speaker 2: not doing that anymore. And I need someone who's passionate

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Speaker 2: knows what she wants. And you know, I don't want

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Speaker 2: to be a therapist anymore.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let me put it a little bit more plainly

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Speaker 1: for you. Okay, do you want marriage and children? Yeah, Okay, totally,

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Speaker 1: that's in your that's in your goals.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And is that your five year plan or that's your

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Speaker 3: ten year plan?

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Speaker 1: Right? We're being really honest here because I do know

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Speaker 1: that you live in LA and then in LA.

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Speaker 2: You know. The good thing is I'm from Kansas, so

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Speaker 2: I got that Midwest like Midwest thing. My parents are

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Speaker 2: still together. They have the most beautiful relationship I've ever seen.

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Speaker 2: So I grew up with that, which is why I

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Speaker 2: don't stay in relationships too long if I know it's

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Speaker 2: not what my parents have, right, because I know it's real.

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Speaker 2: I know what my parents have is real, and so

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Speaker 2: I'm not settling anymore. So it could be could be

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Speaker 2: five years, could be ten years, It could be thre years,

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Speaker 2: it could be one year. I don't know. I mean, right,

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Speaker 2: you'll know, Yeah, if it's the right person, I feel

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Speaker 1: So I'm wondering do their opinions really matter? My sibling

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Speaker 1: And it's a fine line though you love and respect

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Speaker 3: Those are called healthy boundaries.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what yours is? And what is yours to give?

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Speaker 3: Or the bottom?

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Speaker 1: You're in luck tonight. I think I'm gonna let you

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Speaker 1: meet Mercedes. That was the question that all bared pressure

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Speaker 1: But this is one of my favorite situations where two

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Speaker 3: So there is this.

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Speaker 3: She hasn't been on one yet.

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Speaker 1: Like if we want doers not sayers? Yeah, so what

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Speaker 2: I'm down.

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Speaker 2: That'd be kind of fun. Actually, fine, that would be fun.

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Speaker 2: Am I allowed to ask questions about her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I think that's all right?

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Speaker 2: Okay cool?

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Speaker 3: Do you know what reality show she was on?

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Speaker 2: I know nothing. I just think I know nothing. I

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Speaker 2: just I tolds. I didn't want to know anything. I

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Speaker 1: All right, let's get Judgie on you first. Which reality

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Speaker 2: Is?

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Speaker 1: This could say a lot about you? Bryce's fun about me?

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Speaker 2: I was on this show called f Boy Island and

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Speaker 2: Yes? Oh, I love him as my boy.

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Speaker 3: I was on a show called The Bachelor and the Bachelorette.

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Speaker 2: Nice and amazing. Okay, great, well you know Bill as well? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Taxty Lawn right now, he's going to say wonderful things

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I hope he still follows me on Instagram. So

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Speaker 2: I think I think I'm good. And I see Bill

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Speaker 3: Do you like to eat?

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Speaker 2: I loved I'm Italian, so I love to eat. But okay,

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Speaker 2: So on the show for people that don't know you,

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Speaker 2: What do you think I came in this?

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Speaker 3: I think that you came in as a nice guy.

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Speaker 3: We each have our own path. It wasn't your time,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I'll tell you what Mercedes is wearing these

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Speaker 4: Why don't you.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you three things about her, because what I

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Speaker 2: Love it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you can ask me three things.

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Speaker 2: Three things? Okay, what is she passionate about?

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Speaker 3: Ask me something else.

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Speaker 1: That's a good question for her tonight as you get

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Speaker 3: You can ask me the surface level questions.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, you want to go.

444
00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:46,680
Speaker 3: Super you'll ask her the deep shit.

445
00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:49,880
Speaker 2: You know her sign? What's her sign? You don't know either,

446
00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:51,800
Speaker 2: that's the most service.

447
00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:55,440
Speaker 1: She has brown hair, okay, sign, she's tall and gorgeous, amazing.

448
00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:58,480
Speaker 1: She lives in Nashville, Tennessee. Is that going to be

449
00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:03,680
Speaker 1: an issue for you? Why she Nashville, that's where she lives. Well, why, well,

450
00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:04,520
Speaker 1: you can ask her that.

451
00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:06,119
Speaker 3: I told you. I'm giving you the service.

452
00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:07,720
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, got you.

453
00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:10,320
Speaker 3: She list it's interested in a change and a.

454
00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:13,320
Speaker 2: Move, understood. Okay. I think now that you kind of

455
00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:14,920
Speaker 2: put in my head that I think I just want

456
00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:16,480
Speaker 2: to get all these answers from her on this.

457
00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:17,640
Speaker 3: I think that would be really great.

458
00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:18,199
Speaker 2: Let's just do that.

459
00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:20,280
Speaker 1: What if you guys are vibing so hard? Are you

460
00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:21,280
Speaker 1: going to kiss her tonight?

461
00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:22,000
Speaker 2: Yeah?

462
00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:24,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're down for a first kiss. You didn't hesitate?

463
00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:25,439
Speaker 2: Why not?

464
00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:26,360
Speaker 3: Okay?

465
00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:28,920
Speaker 2: Yeah? If the if the moment is there and it

466
00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:30,080
Speaker 2: feels right, you got to.

467
00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:31,639
Speaker 1: Do it, like you have to commit. If you're going

468
00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:33,680
Speaker 1: to go in for it. You have to commit. It's

469
00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:36,360
Speaker 1: got to be great, Okay, Okay, easy.

470
00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:38,960
Speaker 3: Make sure I make sure I'm nearby so I can Okay.

471
00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:41,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll be like, hey, not to.

472
00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:42,080
Speaker 5: Make it too weird, but.

473
00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:47,359
Speaker 2: We're going to do We're ready for you, okay.

474
00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:50,359
Speaker 1: Because I asked her the same question in the car

475
00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:51,760
Speaker 1: and she was like, I don't know.

476
00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:53,400
Speaker 3: Should I kiss on the first date? And I was like, girl,

477
00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:54,480
Speaker 3: I'm forty four, I have two kids.

478
00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:56,680
Speaker 1: You should absolutely if you're feeling it, Yeah, you should

479
00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:58,840
Speaker 1: kiss on the first date. If the vibe is there

480
00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:01,120
Speaker 1: and you guys like each other and the conversation is great,

481
00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:03,159
Speaker 1: I think you should. Why wouldn't you? But if you

482
00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:05,040
Speaker 1: don't get to see each other for again after.

483
00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:07,000
Speaker 2: This, well that's the thing. She goes back to Nashville

484
00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:09,600
Speaker 2: or is she here for a while's I guess I'll

485
00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:12,359
Speaker 2: ask her that. Yeah, yeah, that's going to be an

486
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:14,960
Speaker 2: issue for you. I mean, I travel all the time.

487
00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:18,280
Speaker 2: I have artists in Nashville, so it's like I'm there,

488
00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:19,600
Speaker 2: so okay.

489
00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:22,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, if it does go well, will you ask.

490
00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:23,600
Speaker 3: For her phone number at.

491
00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:25,399
Speaker 2: The end, I'm gonna ask for her phone number, right,

492
00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:26,480
Speaker 2: after we leave this room.

493
00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:27,720
Speaker 3: Don't make it weird.

494
00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:31,200
Speaker 2: Bryce, why if Okay, if the conversation is we're in

495
00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:33,040
Speaker 2: the room, I'll be like, never mind. But if the

496
00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:34,760
Speaker 2: conversation is good in the room, I'll be like, look like,

497
00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:36,080
Speaker 2: let's just get the phone number.

498
00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:39,199
Speaker 3: Part over with, Let's get the let's get the stats.

499
00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:41,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, because what if we get lost at this massive

500
00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:42,880
Speaker 2: music festival. I'm like, I gotta call.

501
00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:44,640
Speaker 1: You're not going to get lost. We all stay together.

502
00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,359
Speaker 1: We're a technic grip. Okay, guys, we're going to keep

503
00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:48,400
Speaker 1: you close. Does Bryce get to ride with us?

504
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:49,320
Speaker 6: Oh?

505
00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:52,600
Speaker 1: This is fair for a real treat. Yeah, you know

506
00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,000
Speaker 1: no one and Mercedes knows everyone.

507
00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,360
Speaker 2: Oh so I love that dynamic.

508
00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,920
Speaker 1: You were asking about the wingman. She's got about third

509
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:00,960
Speaker 1: of them here tonight.

510
00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:06,520
Speaker 2: I will say this because I'm such a out there

511
00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:08,840
Speaker 2: type of person. My core people I hang out with

512
00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:10,119
Speaker 2: is a very small circle.

513
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:12,760
Speaker 3: So it's normal. That's normal, that's good.

514
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I got like three men in my life

515
00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 2: that are like my only people that I really like

516
00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,960
Speaker 2: hang with. But yeah, outside in about I'm nice everybody,

517
00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 2: But like I'm I kind of have a photographic memory

518
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:25,520
Speaker 2: for faces, so I might recognize people and be like

519
00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:26,680
Speaker 2: do we know each other?

520
00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:27,000
Speaker 6: Or what?

521
00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 3: Have you ever watched The Bachelor?

522
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,560
Speaker 2: It was my mom and I was guilty pleasure when

523
00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:32,280
Speaker 2: I was like a child.

524
00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 1: So well, okay, so what was that five years ago?

525
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:36,720
Speaker 1: Would you say you were thirty? Yeah?

526
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,320
Speaker 2: No, like like when I was like twelve fifteen? Okay,

527
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:40,199
Speaker 2: those days?

528
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,359
Speaker 3: So I think you'll recognize Mercedes.

529
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:46,159
Speaker 2: No, she's my age, right? Or no? How did she?

530
00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:47,800
Speaker 3: She's close to your age, she's a little bit younger

531
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:48,119
Speaker 3: than you.

532
00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 2: Then no, I wouldn't. I wouldn't know her.

533
00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:53,040
Speaker 1: Listen, I think this is the perfect time to bring

534
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 1: in Mercedes. I'm really excited that I'm here to witness this.

535
00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:58,000
Speaker 1: I'm like your third wheel tonight.

536
00:21:58,160 --> 00:21:59,200
Speaker 2: I can't wait. That's great.

537
00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:00,240
Speaker 3: All right, let's bring are in?

538
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 2: Okay, cool? Oh my, what's up? Can I get up?

539
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,800
Speaker 2: Or do you have to sit here? Okay?

540
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,359
Speaker 5: Thank you.

541
00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:24,719
Speaker 1: I didn't tell Bryce a whole lot about you, and

542
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 1: I know he knows you don't know a lot about

543
00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:30,679
Speaker 1: him either, because I thought some of those questions should

544
00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:34,840
Speaker 1: be taking place tonight on your first date. But let's

545
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:39,439
Speaker 1: just start with, like, you guys are dressed the same tonight?

546
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:42,480
Speaker 1: Anything about each other. You don't know each other and

547
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:43,560
Speaker 1: you're both wearing silk.

548
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:44,400
Speaker 5: Are you nervous?

549
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:45,880
Speaker 2: No?

550
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 5: No, do you get nervous?

551
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 2: No no, Are you like a little but I'll make

552
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:53,480
Speaker 2: sure that you're not nervous. Honestly, as soon as we

553
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:54,800
Speaker 2: leave the room, you're not gonna have anything.

554
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:58,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I think tonight it will be really fun.

555
00:22:58,200 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 2: I'm excited.

556
00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 5: Have you been a dingle ball before either?

557
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:01,919
Speaker 2: Verything?

558
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 5: First date, first jingle bell? Yeah, it's gonna be fun matching.

559
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:07,159
Speaker 2: I look at us like we call each other.

560
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 3: We did something good tonight. Good job, guys, you have

561
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 3: done something good.

562
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,840
Speaker 2: Okay, lock in, I'm locked in.

563
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 1: I didn't get into the nitty gritty with him because

564
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 1: I wanted to save it for you to experience. But

565
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,399
Speaker 1: I'm just wondering right now, Like I'd love to know

566
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 1: your initial thoughts of each other. Just like rattle off

567
00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:30,119
Speaker 1: quick quick shots your initial impressions.

568
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:34,320
Speaker 2: I'll go first, Okay, well she's clearly stunny, totally totally

569
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:39,160
Speaker 2: my time. Yeah, I like your laugh, Oh, thank you,

570
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 2: your smiles? Great, ten out of ten. We're good.

571
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:47,440
Speaker 5: We're sadi, yeah, very attractive obviously. But first, but also

572
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:48,720
Speaker 5: I can just tell your energy is great.

573
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:50,679
Speaker 6: I feel like you can talk to anyone, which I

574
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 6: love because I don't know good conversations good obviously, And yeah,

575
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 6: I feel like we're gonna.

576
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:56,160
Speaker 5: Have a really good time tonight.

577
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:56,680
Speaker 2: We sure are.

578
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 5: Yeah.

579
00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:57,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

580
00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:59,680
Speaker 3: Don't you want to know what reality show he was on?

581
00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:00,240
Speaker 2: Yeah? I do.

582
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 5: Actually they told me that earlier about show.

583
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:05,679
Speaker 2: So there's this show right called Fay Island.

584
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,160
Speaker 5: No, you were on that. Have a couple of friends

585
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 5: are on that? Well, not really my friends, but Casey,

586
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 5: you know.

587
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:18,200
Speaker 2: Casey Casey he was previous season.

588
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 5: There's another guy too, but I forget his name.

589
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:22,159
Speaker 3: He was on Katie's season.

590
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

591
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 5: Oh wait, I've never watched it, So you like dated Katie?

592
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 2: No, there there was another Okay, so I technically didn't

593
00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 2: date any of them.

594
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 3: Run down the concept of the show, like you broke

595
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:34,159
Speaker 3: it down for me.

596
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 2: Okay, So have you ever seen it?

597
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:36,240
Speaker 5: No?

598
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 2: Okay, So there's like half the guys come in as

599
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:40,679
Speaker 2: self proclaimed boys.

600
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 5: Was that you?

601
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:46,639
Speaker 2: Well, let me get through the whole thing first, and

602
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 2: then the other half come in as self proclaimed nice guys.

603
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 3: Don't tell her which one you were, Okay, I made.

604
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,480
Speaker 2: Your guess, so you can guess what do you think

605
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:55,879
Speaker 2: I came in this, well.

606
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:57,919
Speaker 5: I'm going to feel bad. I don't know.

607
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:00,920
Speaker 2: You can't heart my feel I think you can say

608
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 2: that my feelings. You were I was the good one? Yeah,

609
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:10,679
Speaker 2: I was, and you were she was on the best one? Okay?

610
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 2: Did do you know Alan and Billy were?

611
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 3: They were done over season.

612
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 2: So the creators or executive producers of The Bachelor of

613
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 2: years ago started this show. Okay, so we're kind of

614
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 2: in the same family. I'm like the dumb step child,

615
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:29,960
Speaker 2: I guess. But it was super fun. And one of

616
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,199
Speaker 2: the things I told her about it was when I

617
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,399
Speaker 2: was talking to a lawn about it, I was like,

618
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:37,239
Speaker 2: in the previous seasons, the nice guys tend to just

619
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 2: be kind of pushovers.

620
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 5: M h.

621
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 2: And I was like, I'm not that way. So I'll

622
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 2: come in and be a nice guy to the girls,

623
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,400
Speaker 2: but I'm down to like Greek havoc in the house

624
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 2: of the guys. And so we had we had some fun.

625
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 2: But yeah, it was cool.

626
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:54,960
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, nice. Well that's what I wasn't expecting. Floy Island, I.

627
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 1: Wasn't expecting it either, but it was okay. I actually

628
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,199
Speaker 1: pecked him for a nice guy, but I In my defense,

629
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 1: I got to talk to him. I got to talk

630
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,159
Speaker 1: to him a little bit before, so I kind of

631
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 1: could hear his answers.

632
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 3: So I pegged him for a nice guy.

633
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he said when I start talking about the

634
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 2: family and my parents and everything, she was like, this

635
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:10,359
Speaker 2: guy's not that boy.

636
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: He's solid things about him, he's got he's in for

637
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 1: a relationship.

638
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:16,919
Speaker 3: He's been single for a couple of years.

639
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,639
Speaker 1: Purpose Yeah, yeah, do you have anything that you would

640
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: like to know about him before we go tonight?

641
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 5: I don't think so.

642
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 6: I think we should just like make it like as

643
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 6: like easy and natural as possible and.

644
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:32,400
Speaker 2: Like organic is great.

645
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:33,359
Speaker 5: Yes, I love it.

646
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, I do.

647
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 2: Know one thing about you that I want to talk about.

648
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 2: What so you? She said, you live in Nashville. Yeah,

649
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 2: I live in l A. Yeah, What's what's going on?

650
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:43,400
Speaker 2: Why are you in Nashville? Are you from there?

651
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 3: No?

652
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 6: So my grandparents lived there, so I moved there, and

653
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 6: I don't know.

654
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:50,119
Speaker 5: I just I'm from Iowa, like a grew up on

655
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 5: a farm.

656
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:51,680
Speaker 2: I'm from Kansas.

657
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 5: And it's perfect about.

658
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,719
Speaker 6: So Nashville just like gave me the like Midwest kind

659
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 6: of vibe. Everyone's super nice and I just fell in love.

660
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 6: I've been there six years.

661
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:09,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's typically what I hear from my people in

662
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 2: Nashville is like five to six years, or like, let's

663
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 2: do something else, okay.

664
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 5: Because I know something about you. You were like in

665
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 5: music too, right, So do you go to Nashville a lot?

666
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I'm a I'm a partner in the music label.

667
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 2: So music execs a.

668
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,880
Speaker 3: Little different, a little different from an aspiring DJ.

669
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 6: Right.

670
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was so funny. She came in. She was like,

671
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 2: you're a DJ, and like, no, like Saturday, It's something

672
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:38,640
Speaker 2: I bought my first like DJ deck like two months ago,

673
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:41,439
Speaker 2: just like how funse I love house music and I

674
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 2: love like my happy place is Meek and those So

675
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,159
Speaker 2: if that tells you anything about me, but yeah, but

676
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 2: I just love music. So I was like, let me

677
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 2: just dive into that world. And it's been fun. But no,

678
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:56,199
Speaker 2: I'm a music executive. I have artists and the label's

679
00:27:56,760 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 2: doing great, so I'm very proud of it. And yes,

680
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 2: we got people out in Nashville. My partner in the

681
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 2: company is actually one of the biggest songwriters producers from Nashville.

682
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 2: His name is Andrew Merrick.

683
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I actually have heard of them.

684
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, maybe he's big time. But yeah, he

685
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:14,879
Speaker 2: stepped away from that stuff and now we created the

686
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 2: company together and.

687
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 5: That's so cool.

688
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 2: It's been very fun.

689
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 5: I love that.

690
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's awesome. Do you like music?

691
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:22,160
Speaker 5: I love music?

692
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 2: Okay, are you like a country music girl or what?

693
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 2: I love?

694
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:25,400
Speaker 5: Like R and B?

695
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 6: Yeah?

696
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 2: I love country too.

697
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 5: I grew up on nineteenth country.

698
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 3: That did not our boys, Tim Kenny, you know the

699
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,920
Speaker 3: good guys. Are you a country I'm from Georgia Brown,

700
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 3: Oh of.

701
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 2: Course, Okay, there you go.

702
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, so I definitely love country.

703
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 6: But like my Spotify rap was like, all like, Sissa,

704
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 6: we're on the same page.

705
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 2: I was literally just gonna be like, hey, so Spotify

706
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 2: rap just dropped like what was your tough Olivia Dean?

707
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 2: Everybody is obsessed with that.

708
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 6: No, I actually am, Like I told my best friend

709
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 6: is a Swiftie and I'm not a Swiftie but she is.

710
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 6: And I was like, no, I feel like a Dean

711
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 6: is my Taylor Swift Like I'm genuinely obsessed with her

712
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 6: and her music just like speaks to me, so I

713
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 6: love her.

714
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 5: And then it was like Drake's is a who else

715
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 5: was it?

716
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 6: I don't even remember. The other ones don't matter, I

717
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 6: guess I don't remember the other two.

718
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 3: But do you typically date older guys?

719
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, am I technically older?

720
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 3: Technically or older?

721
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: But mentally you're right on her level?

722
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 2: Okay? Fun? Awesome? I try to keep that childlike spirit.

723
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 5: Yeah.

724
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 6: No, I feel like everyone I've dated the last like

725
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 6: four years have been like probably at least two years

726
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 6: older than me.

727
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 2: So, and how old are you? Okay, great?

728
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll be twenty eight in March, so cool.

729
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, what's your son?

730
00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 5: Guess you need to take a guess? Are you like

731
00:29:58,960 --> 00:29:59,719
Speaker 5: big in signs?

732
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 2: So there's like certain European countries that still teach astrology

733
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 2: like a science. And so my mom is Italian and

734
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 2: she grew up on all that. So I learned all

735
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 2: of it like from like a real perspective of from

736
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 2: like the l a thing. There's there's a part of

737
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 2: me that wants to say Leo, but I don't think

738
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 2: that's right. No, Aries, really, no, I would not expect that.

739
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 2: I guess I see it in the real world.

740
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 6: Everyone always says that they're like, you don't act like

741
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 6: an Aries.

742
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't know what that means. I'm

743
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 5: not really into the sign thing, but.

744
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why you present the people is Sagittarius, so

745
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 2: people are like this dude's and f boy for sure.

746
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 5: Aries are a match.

747
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 2: It's a lot of fire.

748
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 5: And always says that is my match.

749
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 2: My moon is Aries.

750
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 5: There we go. I have to look at my coast

751
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 5: start to let you know my Yeah.

752
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll get your no after this and we can

753
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:01,880
Speaker 2: do the thing.

754
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 1: Have you ever heard of the podcast Bryce, the one

755
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 1: that we're on. No, I haven't heard of anything famously available.

756
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 1: I've heard of it now, and.

757
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 3: You've never listened to an episode you haven't heard.

758
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 2: I'm going in here raw dogging it like I don't know.

759
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:17,239
Speaker 5: I love that's the best way to do it.

760
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't want to know anything. Yeah, no, I

761
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 2: haven't listened that.

762
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 5: I asked so many.

763
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 6: Times for your Instagram, like can I just see like

764
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 6: what Like Nope, nope, No, I like that.

765
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 2: I know.

766
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 6: And it's kind of nice though, because like I feel

767
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 6: like dating now, like you basically figure out who the

768
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 6: person is before you even meet them, so you have

769
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 6: like these you know.

770
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 2: So yeah, I feel like my Instagram does a kind

771
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 2: of you seen my Instagram, right or no?

772
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 1: I didn't know they I told you they wouldn't tell

773
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: me anything. I would tell her things.

774
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 2: That's right.

775
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 3: I came in here raw dogging it too.

776
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like my Instagram is a good representation

777
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 2: of me, so I would. I would hope. I try

778
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 2: not to be a douchebag on there, but sometimes I am.

779
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 3: But do either of you have any expectations for tonight?

780
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 2: Have fun?

781
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 5: Yeah? That's what I said earlier too. I was like,

782
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 5: just have fun, gets known, see where the night takes us.

783
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 3: I already asked him if he was going to try

784
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 3: to kiss you?

785
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 5: What did you say?

786
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 2: What do you think? I said?

787
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 5: And then he said, no, what if he tries to

788
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 5: kiss you? Mercedes, I don't know, I said, I'm doing

789
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 5: all the wrong things.

790
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 2: She's but he doesn't want to kissing.

791
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 3: What if he tries to kiss you?

792
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 5: I mean, even have to see how the vibe is,

793
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 5: but I'd be down. I don't know. Right now, I

794
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 5: feel like we're like vibing. We're good.

795
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 2: I think you're vibing. Yeah.

796
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 3: I think the chemistry is palpable. Yeah, I think I

797
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 3: think it's I think it's good. She also has pretty

798
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 3: teeth and a mouth.

799
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 2: I'm not kissing her teeth.

800
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 3: Don't you think teeth are very important?

801
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 2: Very important?

802
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 1: I mean if she had busted teeth, you might not

803
00:32:58,240 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 1: want to hang out with her.

804
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 2: She had teeth on things, you would be here.

805
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 3: You can smile with your mouth closed.

806
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, people smile with their mouth close. I don't know.

807
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 1: I have a big as mouth, but she has a

808
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 1: pretty mouth.

809
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 2: Yeah. I almost something crazy. I was like, whoa, yeah, one

810
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 2: of my favorite things. Did you have braces or no? No,

811
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 2: you're just perfect?

812
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 5: Yeah?

813
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 3: No, no, we might have to lead with it. She said,

814
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 3: you're just perfect.

815
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: Love.

816
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's my favorite compliment is like people like you

817
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 2: have great teeth, and like how long did you have braces?

818
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 5: Like you have braces? Either look at us.

819
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: I would have to say, it's something that I look

820
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 1: at right off the bat. I look at someone's mouth

821
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 1: and their teeth. It's very important to It's hard to

822
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 1: get past teeth. You can get past a lot of things.

823
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: Teeth and when their eyeballs are too close together, because

824
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 1: now I know they're psychotic, so I was too close together.

825
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 1: Third time talking about that, You're okay.

826
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 2: Exactly man, they're perfectly.

827
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 1: Faced, and both of you they're so symmetrical. Your faces

828
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 1: are so beautiful. I can see the future now, your

829
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 1: children are going to beautiful.

830
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:12,879
Speaker 5: I'm going to love you.

831
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:17,439
Speaker 2: My mom will love you. Actually, yeah, we talked about

832
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 2: this a little bit. She was like, are you a

833
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 2: mama's boy. I'm like, no, not a MoMA's boy. But

834
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:24,240
Speaker 2: my mom is like a son's mom, Like she loves

835
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 2: she loves me and my brother so much. Yeah, she's great,

836
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 2: super Italian, like Psycho in the best way. Like I

837
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 2: told her, I was like, my dad is work hard

838
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 2: in my mom's play hard. I feel like I'm like

839
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 2: the perfect combination of both.

840
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 5: So I love that.

841
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 2: No, they moved from Kansas to Florida like three years ago.

842
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,280
Speaker 2: They wanted to go retire where it was not Kansas.

843
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 5: I feel that your parents.

844
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 2: And I still really on the farm. So you're like

845
00:34:51,800 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 2: Boots writing cow writing cows and almost. I think.

846
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 3: She could also answer that, Yeah, well.

847
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,880
Speaker 2: She's in Nashville, so I already know they answer. But

848
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 2: so when you go back for the holidays, you go there. Yeah, okay.

849
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:14,839
Speaker 6: So I have two younger brothers. I have a twelve

850
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 6: year old brother. No, actually just turned thirteen. And then

851
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:18,319
Speaker 6: a four year old brother.

852
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:19,800
Speaker 2: Oh nice, Yeah, and you're the oldest.

853
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:23,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, I love it. You know, I'm twenty seven, twenty seven,

854
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 5: thirteen and four.

855
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 2: Your parents are still together.

856
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 5: Yeah.

857
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:28,799
Speaker 2: Wow, it's lovely. That's so rare.

858
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know right, Yeah, it's awesome.

859
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 6: Though.

860
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 1: I have seen the evolution of this relationship in the

861
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:35,240
Speaker 1: last fifteen minutes.

862
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 3: You know, because when they.

863
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:39,879
Speaker 1: First came in, they weren't quite looking at each other

864
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 1: but looking at each other. They weren't quite making eye contacts,

865
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:48,319
Speaker 1: but like checking each other out. And now you're perfectly

866
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,359
Speaker 1: holding eye contacts with each other.

867
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 2: I like this.

868
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 3: I like this.

869
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:55,799
Speaker 1: I don't know if I am creepy or if I

870
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 1: should be really honored that the two of you are

871
00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: allowing me to come along tonight.

872
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, be as creepy as you want.

873
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 1: I'm having a great time too, and we're going to

874
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 1: make sure that everyone has a great time.

875
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 3: Yes, Okay, I'm so excited for this. Yeah, thanks for things,

876
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 3: for letting me be a third wheel. Like this is

877
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 3: so great.

878
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm excited.

879
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 3: Okay, good.

880
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 2: Do you guys know each other pretty well or like,

881
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 2: are you guys like homies or.

882
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 1: What's I told poor Bryce that you have about thirty

883
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 1: wing women tonight.

884
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:26,360
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, fantastic.

885
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,359
Speaker 5: She does have a lot of people with me to night.

886
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 2: Yeah okay, but.

887
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 5: You said you're very personable, you'll you'll make them good.

888
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 2: No, for sure, I'm not nervous.

889
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:37,560
Speaker 1: So you've met two of them, that means twenty eight

890
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:38,400
Speaker 1: more to impress.

891
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:39,720
Speaker 5: Wait what else did you meet?

892
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 2: You one too? Oh?

893
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 5: Even wing women?

894
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 2: Okay yeah, no, just you too so far. I mean

895
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 2: you're kind of your only woman tonight, too, true, That

896
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:52,359
Speaker 2: is true. Yeah, no, I'm excited. There's twenty eight other

897
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:53,879
Speaker 2: women or there's guys as well.

898
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 3: I tend to exaggerate bright. I either go real big

899
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 3: or real small.

900
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 2: So you just yeah, I can't imagine me with thirty

901
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 2: women movie insane.

902
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 3: It's not as insane as you think. Me with thirty

903
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 3: men is a lot of fun.

904
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my god, that's terrible.

905
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 3: That's not what I meant.

906
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,879
Speaker 5: We know, that's not what I'm No, we'll get it.

907
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 3: It's fine. Everything is fine.

908
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 5: It's not filthy.

909
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:22,440
Speaker 2: You're not awesome.

910
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 3: Thank you. Yeah, thanks, I'm really doing well. Look at me.

911
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're doing great. I have friends for you. I

912
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 2: can already there's already. Couple of guys in my head.

913
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 3: Are they coming tonight? I'm looking to find someone.

914
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 2: N I'm the only one allowed to come tonight for

915
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 2: my people.

916
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 3: I think my guess you're better. You have to do

917
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 3: another episode. It sounds like we do.

918
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 1: I did have one question before we head out to

919
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: jingle Ball. I want to know, Mercedes, how many more

920
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: days you're in Los Angeles? What if you guys this

921
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,279
Speaker 1: you smash it out of the park. You can't wait

922
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 1: to see each other again? Stop it, boy, I'm being clean.

923
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 3: I'm a mom.

924
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 1: What if tonight could not go better and you guys

925
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 1: genuinely like each other?

926
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 3: Are you in Los Angeles still tomorrow?

927
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 2: No?

928
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 5: I leave at seven am.

929
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,280
Speaker 1: I guess you better? You better really really do good tonight.

930
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:11,320
Speaker 3: Bryce. Yeah, you got a lot riding on it before.

931
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 2: So when do you? I mean it's a holiday, so

932
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 2: I guess like that's fine. But how often are you

933
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 2: in l A?

934
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 5: Probably like once a month?

935
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 2: Maybe okay, I'll work with that. I'm in Nashville like

936
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 2: a couple of times a month.

937
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 5: That's a couple of times a month. That's great to see.

938
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 5: I feel like distance is not hard if you like

939
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:30,320
Speaker 5: see each other a couple of times.

940
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 2: Plane ticket is like five. It's fun.

941
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: You can't you can't put a dime on quality. And

942
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,760
Speaker 1: look at the two of you. Yeah, I'm super excited.

943
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for for letting at least me

944
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 1: be a part of this. Yeah, and and for coming

945
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 1: out and joining.

946
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 2: Us and going to thank you saving appreciate that.

947
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 3: All right, kiss, kiss now, I will take you.

948
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 2: I will do it right now.

949
00:38:57,040 --> 00:38:58,880
Speaker 3: Can you say not the one who you need to

950
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 3: ask permission for? I am going to say yes.

951
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: All right, you guys, this has gone smashingly. I think

952
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 1: the two of you are hitting it off. I see

953
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:09,640
Speaker 1: the sparks.

954
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 3: They're coming.

955
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 1: I am going to go and let them know that

956
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: this is really going well and we should probably go

957
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 1: to dingle ball.

958
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 5: Let's go