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Speaker 1: First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 2: Sierra is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Alie.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and

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Speaker 2: see why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 2: But first, Sierra, how long has it been since you

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Speaker 2: heard from Alie?

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Speaker 3: Oh? It's been gosh, like maybe a week, two weeks now.

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Speaker 1: Have you reached out to him in that time?

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Speaker 3: I texted him once and I haven't heard anything back yet,

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Speaker 3: and so he's.

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Speaker 4: Just ghosting me.

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Speaker 1: It's just it's not awesome. Let's go backwards. Why don't

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Speaker 1: you tell us about how you guys met how the

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Speaker 1: date was. Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I met Ali online and we decided we should

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Speaker 3: do something that's super fun for our first date.

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Speaker 5: So we did something a little non traditional.

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Speaker 4: And went glow bowling.

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Speaker 1: It's like glow night, okay, like.

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Speaker 3: Us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was so much fun.

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Speaker 3: It was like a rave, lots of glow lights everywhere,

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Speaker 3: body paint, you know, like black light everything in loud music,

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Speaker 3: lots of drinks.

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Speaker 1: It was so much fun. Yeah, that sounds fun. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was a really good date. I mean, like,

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Speaker 3: you know, we were dancing and there's a lot of

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Speaker 3: a lot of music and drinks and and.

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Speaker 4: Like we had a fun time.

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Speaker 3: And then we went back to his place afterwards.

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Speaker 2: Okay, because you got a chance to talk to him much.

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Speaker 2: Glow bowling is not necessarily a place for talking. It's

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Speaker 2: a place for glowing and bowling.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, and we we kind of, you know, knew

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Speaker 3: that going in, but we just wanted to see, like

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Speaker 3: if the chemistry was there, and it was, Okay.

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Speaker 1: I see what you mean. You just got artistic with

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Speaker 1: your body paint or yeah, yeah, that's that's a good way.

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Speaker 1: It cool. And so the chemistry was there, Yes, I

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Speaker 1: felt it.

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Speaker 3: I feel like we had a really great time. But

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Speaker 3: I will say I think maybe I had maybe one

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Speaker 3: too many drinks at the Bullerina. So I feel like

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Speaker 3: my like I.

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Speaker 5: Didn't come off as good as I could have, Like

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Speaker 5: I should have just kept myself to two drinks, and

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Speaker 5: instead I had three, and I just think that it took.

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Speaker 4: Me to the next level.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe I scared him. I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember anything that you did that was too much.

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Speaker 3: I just think maybe he didn't expect me to drink

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Speaker 3: as much.

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Speaker 1: I mean, three drinks isn't terrible bad, I mean unless.

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Speaker 1: I mean some people are kind of, you know, light light,

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Speaker 1: total lightweight.

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Speaker 4: So I am such a lightweight.

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Speaker 3: It's just like one drink for me and then.

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Speaker 4: It's like, oh, okay, she's gone. But he was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I'll drive you home. We'll go to my place, you know,

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Speaker 4: And he drove me home.

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Speaker 1: So like, I don't know, were you sloppy or are

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Speaker 1: you saying things?

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Speaker 3: Maybe I don't No, I don't know, Like I I

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Speaker 3: definitely was tipsy, but I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I don't think. I don't think it was that bad.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but if you were to say something weird happened

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Speaker 1: on the day, it would be that you were wasted. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's the last thing that he said to you?

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Speaker 3: I think he said like, have a good night.

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Speaker 1: You know that I said, after you guys had chemistry,

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Speaker 1: he said have a good night.

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Speaker 2: Oof m h, not like i'll see you again, And

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Speaker 2: did you guys plan another date or anything.

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Speaker 3: I kind of pushed that where I was like, hey,

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Speaker 3: let's use this against it. Let's let's do something later

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Speaker 3: this next week, and he was like, I'll have.

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Speaker 4: To wait and see, like I have to go and

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Speaker 4: check some things. But he didn't get He gave me

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Speaker 3: Non answer, you know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so it got weird.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Well we'll play a song come back,

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Speaker 2: and then call him and see if he'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date.

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Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, Okay, we'll play a song, come back

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Speaker 1: and get your first a follow up next.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of today's first follow up, if

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Speaker 2: you're just joining us, Sierra is on the phone and

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Speaker 2: she's getting ghosted by a dude named Allie. We're about

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Speaker 2: to call him and seefa tels why he's ghostinger. But first, Sierra,

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Speaker 2: why don't you catch us up on your situation?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Allie and I went to glow Night at the

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Speaker 3: Bowlereina near us and we had a great time. I

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Speaker 3: got a little too tipsy, I think, and now he's

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Speaker 3: ghosting me and we went back to his place and

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Speaker 3: then I went home later after and.

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Speaker 2: Got a strike. He hasn't gotten back to back to you.

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Speaker 2: Are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Here we go. Hello, Hi, may I speak to

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Speaker 1: Allie please?

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Speaker 4: This is him Ollie. How are you?

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Speaker 1: My name is Jewbell. I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 1: It's called The Jewbil Show. Hy. Ali, I'm Nina also

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Speaker 1: on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria. Oh hello, oh hello.

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Speaker 1: Do you listen to the show ever?

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Speaker 4: I've heard it before? Yeah, definitely, I definitely recognize the name.

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Speaker 1: Okay, sweet, that's what I try to go for. I've

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Speaker 1: heard it before, so thank you for hearing it before.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever heard a first day follow up before?

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Speaker 4: I'm not sure.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'll tell you what it is.

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Speaker 2: A first day follow up is a seconment we do

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Speaker 2: on the show where if you go out on a

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Speaker 2: date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them,

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Speaker 2: they can email us to get you on the phone

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Speaker 2: and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay, and we got

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Speaker 2: an email about you from somebody?

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Speaker 4: What really?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Have you been globowling lately?

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Speaker 4: Globaling?

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Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, yes, okay. Was it with somebody named Sierra?

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Speaker 4: Sierra? Yeah? Sierra? Uh huh? Okay.

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Speaker 1: And it's been a few weeks since you talked to Sierra.

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Speaker 1: You had to spoon feed on that. Are you really

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Speaker 1: seeing that many.

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Speaker 4: People well, you know, I don't think I'm ghosting anyone. Okay, Yes,

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Speaker 4: Sierra was a lot of fun, a lot of fun.

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Speaker 1: She told us about you.

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Speaker 2: She said that you guys really hit it off, but

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Speaker 2: now you're not responding to her, which would be ghosting.

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Speaker 4: It was fun. I had a lot of fun. And yeah,

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Speaker 4: I just haven't gone back to her. I guess.

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Speaker 1: I mean generally, when you don't get back to somebody

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I'm I was very busy with work,

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Speaker 6: and like my work's a very intense and kind of

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Speaker 6: takes a lot of my attention.

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Speaker 1: Not so you want to go out with her again.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like if you really like somebody, you're going to

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean we had fun. We definitely had a

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Speaker 4: lot of drinks.

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Speaker 6: And then I took her to my place and you know,

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Speaker 6: we had another drink and.

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Speaker 4: Well, she eat herself.

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Speaker 2: What Ollie, that's that's Sierras. She's actually on the phone

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Speaker 2: listening and wants to talk to you. Wait, yes, shels

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Speaker 2: the way till we got the answer, all the way

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Speaker 2: out of you.

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Speaker 1: But Ollie, I didn't think you'd go there.

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Speaker 4: They asked, why you know, I know you look. I mean,

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Speaker 4: it was fine. I'm not mad. He had a lot

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Speaker 3: I was laughing, by the way I was.

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Speaker 5: I was in the middle of laughing, like he had

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Speaker 5: me laughing, and that's.

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Speaker 4: Why I peed, Okay, Like it.

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Speaker 1: Was just a little ddle. What it means when he

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Speaker 1: not a big deal. It happens to everybody all the time.

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Speaker 7: No, I mean it was more than a piddle. I

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Speaker 7: had to get paper towels. Oh, and you know, and

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Speaker 7: I was like, not upset. I was just like, it's fine,

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Speaker 3: But then it wasn't that bad, Okay, seriously, seriously bad.

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Speaker 4: I'm not saying it's bad that you you peede and

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Speaker 4: it's fine. I'm definitely not saying it's out. It's what.

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Speaker 4: I totally get it. We have believe.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I.

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Speaker 6: Peed behind a donuts store one Seriously, you know the

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Speaker 6: amount of people that I that have peed on dates

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Speaker 6: with me a lot?

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Speaker 1: Wait, are you serious? Like, I mean, I know it happens,

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Speaker 1: especially when drinking is involved. It's not that uncommon. I mean,

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Speaker 1: and I've also done it too.

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Speaker 4: So it's not it's not a bad thing.

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Speaker 3: You drinking had a lot to do with this, you know, like.

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Speaker 6: It was just sort of a first impression thing that

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Speaker 4: I can't do that. I mean, it was fun, definitely fun.

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Speaker 6: But then I think once that happened, I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: Where did that happen? Were you guys like on the

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Speaker 4: Kind of bowld?

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Speaker 6: Okay, I mean I did make a comment that her

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Speaker 1: Strong.

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Speaker 4: I mean at this point, I'm just it's just commentary.

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Speaker 4: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: It did not smell that, Okay, it did not just smelled.

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Speaker 6: It was like it could definitely smell the sense of it.

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Speaker 4: It was like a stronger you were drinking. It was

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Speaker 1: Out.

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Speaker 2: Well, Ollie, would you like to go out another day

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Speaker 2: with Sierra? Will pay for it?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, But like Siera, you're you're definitely like a weekend

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Speaker 4: I'm not a weekend only girl. Just because I peed

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Speaker 4: while I.

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Speaker 6: Was drunk, there's I mean, there's nothing wrong with the

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Speaker 6: weekend only girl.

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Speaker 1: So that's a yes, Allie.

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Speaker 6: I mean yeah, if on the weekend you want to

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Speaker 6: do something, they're going to pay for it, I would

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Speaker 6: glow ball again.

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Speaker 4: I just put down some like packs, actually.

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Speaker 3: Considering it because it was a lot of fun. But no,

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Speaker 3: I'll find someone who is an every day a guy

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Speaker 3: who wants an every day of the week kind of girl.

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Speaker 6: Well you know, if you're ever you know, bored on

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Speaker 6: a Saturday or something and you need somewhere to come

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Speaker 6: and see, No, I'll.

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Speaker 1: Find somewhere else to be.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Jule's first day.

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Speaker 2: To follow up,