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Speaker 1: this one subject. She said, she's not going anywhere gear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I've been in a relationship for a little

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Speaker 1: She said, there's nothing to worry about. She does not

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Speaker 1: now you only see him once a week. Uh? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: of time until she started clowning. She already knew this,

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Speaker 1: She's done this before. Whoever she is? And who is

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Speaker 1: You never found that out? You never mentioned that in

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Speaker 1: the letter. So yeah, this looks this has trouble written

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Speaker 1: some strangeness that I discovered in this letter. And they

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Speaker 1: White women don't do that. What they don't tell you

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Speaker 1: her shaking his head. Yes, there was a terrorist threat,

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Speaker 1: did research, asked a woman to meet with him. They met,

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Speaker 1: gotta talked to nutcases. You gotta give them. You gotta

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Speaker 1: give them their information back. Yeah, for instance, send another

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Speaker 1: just slap them back down. Okay, do another one, say ugly?

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Speaker 1: he's hosted Ready to Love. Now he's changing. Do that

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Speaker 1: him to change. Okay, Okay, Yeah, she has told me

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Speaker 1: from here. Your ugly as hell. Damn it threw up.

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Speaker 1: When we were sitting up there talking, woman started stalking him,

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Speaker 1: sending neked pictures with her wide at telling him she's

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Speaker 1: gonna pop up at the house. You're gonna roll up,

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Speaker 1: but you ain't gonna roll off now, he says, we

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Speaker 1: Get a right back where I had when y'all met.

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Speaker 1: But she got awful mad's and then here she comes.

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Speaker 1: I need to go down, calming down, She says. I

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Speaker 1: when you're in a relationship and you can't go back

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Speaker 1: your house at any point, has there been any crime

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Speaker 1: do you think, should I hold on a little long?

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Speaker 1: Gonna move on? Please? A Well, you could sit there

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Speaker 1: and he comes by once a week because he asked

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Speaker 1: do it. But what I don't understand is what's taking

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Speaker 1: he not having sex with. See, if I'm not having

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Speaker 1: You ain't got to calm down. What about the make

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Speaker 1: you mean he says, you know, just like you said now,

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Speaker 1: you need to check on because this make her go

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Speaker 1: away could be dangerous. Have you looked in the garage?

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Speaker 1: Do you see a robot? Just stay with me, come

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Speaker 1: on check. She bought a lot of garbage bags. Garbage bags.

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Speaker 1: Check garbage bags. Do you see the stuff called waterproof

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Speaker 1: Is there a new saw laying round? Uh? Right there?

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Speaker 1: You see that? Check is computer the search the search engine.

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Speaker 1: Just type in killing somebody with a boat, rocks and

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Speaker 1: Check he might be getting rid of that. It says,

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Speaker 1: make her go away. So look out that garage, rowboat,

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Speaker 1: duct tape, chain, saw, hefty bags, burn, lap rocks. Whoa yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you can watch some files boys in eight hours, all

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Speaker 1: of it right? All right, Look, we gotta get out

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