Speaker 1: Rooking Jubels Second d Update. I'll start today's second date
Speaker 1: update off just by reading the subject line from the
Speaker 1: email at our listener Tyler sentence. It said, she changed
Speaker 1: my life with one date. Oh I knew you would
Speaker 1: be a sucker for an email like this, A good
Speaker 1: romantic tale. Yes I do, Tyler? How are you man?
Speaker 1: I'm great? Guys, how are you good? So? So this
Speaker 1: girl changed your life with just one date? Huh? Absolutely? Absolutely?
Speaker 1: What does that mean? Like, how did you change your
Speaker 1: life with one date? Well? She was just like an
Speaker 1: unimaginable angel. She just jumped into my life. Is this normally?
Speaker 1: Do you normally fall for girls that you go out
Speaker 1: with like that? No? No, what's her name? Her name
Speaker 1: is Chelsea? Chelsea? And how did you meet her? We
Speaker 1: met online? Okay, okay when you saw her? Was it
Speaker 1: like love at first sight? Is that what we're getting
Speaker 1: to right now? Love at first sight? I mean wow?
Speaker 1: It was? It even happened online too? I mean she
Speaker 1: just hit all my checkpoints online and you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: so she on your profile. She like matched everything. You
Speaker 1: were a perfect match for add percent match across the board. Know,
Speaker 1: you were probably pretty nervous for your date. Then I
Speaker 1: was very nervous, but you know, I was also hopeful
Speaker 1: because I just felt so good. It felt like it
Speaker 1: was a lock. Tell us a little bit about the date.
Speaker 1: We met at a low key bar and she walked
Speaker 1: into the bar and it was just like, I mean,
Speaker 1: this bar was dingy, and she made it into you know,
Speaker 1: chandeliers hanging on the walls. She was just she just
Speaker 1: lit up the room. She was amazing. So she walked in,
Speaker 1: angels sang, trumpets sounded, and then she sat down at
Speaker 1: your table. How did the rest of the date go
Speaker 1: once you guys actually started talking. I mean, man, I
Speaker 1: could get lost in the conversation with her for days,
Speaker 1: and you know, I wanted her. I wanted to know
Speaker 1: everything about her. I wanted her to know everything about me.
Speaker 1: I just felt like our hearts would just match. Okay,
Speaker 1: come here right like love novels in your spare time, Tyler.
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to tell you guys, how I felt
Speaker 1: from my heart at the time, and how it felt
Speaker 1: to me. You know, Yeah, the guy's trying to speak
Speaker 1: from his heart. Let's not bash him. I think he's adorable. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I do too, and that's why I trust him, unlike you,
Speaker 1: who just wants to start bashing the guy for his
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Tyler. Tyler, did you feel like it was
Speaker 1: a mutual feeling? Did she appear to be reciprocating all
Speaker 1: of your good feelings? I know for sure that it
Speaker 1: was reciprocated because I actually asked her in the middle
Speaker 1: of our conversation at the bar if I could kiss her.
Speaker 1: I actually said, um, don't, let's not talk anymore. I
Speaker 1: have to kiss you right now. No, that's kind of cute.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'd totally fall for that. And she
Speaker 1: kissed you. Yeah, she I told her. I've been thinking
Speaker 1: about it since she walked in, and you know, it
Speaker 1: was just it was unbelievable. Good work, Tyler, Man. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I try that with almost every person I meet, male
Speaker 1: female in between. It never works out for me, especially
Speaker 1: bill collectors. Hey, no, no, let's just kiss, but it
Speaker 1: never actually works out for me. Like a good job, man.
Speaker 1: So so she kissed you back, and then what it
Speaker 1: was I couldn't have been imagined a better kiss. I mean,
Speaker 1: her mouths were like dancing. Everything was flashtrick for me.
Speaker 1: I mean, what did she say right after you were
Speaker 1: done with a kiss? I think that she was, you know,
Speaker 1: a little shocked about her at first, after right after
Speaker 1: it happened, and you know, so I, um, but I
Speaker 1: think it went okay. I think she liked it. So
Speaker 1: why is she blowing you often? I have no idea.
Speaker 1: We actually made it one day for the next day
Speaker 1: and she just never showed up at dude. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: you went showed up where you guys said you were
Speaker 1: gonna have lunch, and she just didn't go. Did she
Speaker 1: text you or call you or anything? No? I texted her. Um,
Speaker 1: she just hasn't responded to me. And it's just been
Speaker 1: it's been really hard because it just feels like it
Speaker 1: was so perfect and then I just don't even know
Speaker 1: what happened. You know, you sure you want to call
Speaker 1: her and try to get a second date, because if
Speaker 1: somebody blows you off like that, like I'd be pissed. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not mad. I'm just desperate to reconnect with her.
Speaker 1: Can I ask, did you guys kiss again after that
Speaker 1: middle of the date kiss? No? That was only kiss.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's a good sign. You know, if
Speaker 1: you really liked it, you'd probably do it again. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call her and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. All right, thanks, guys, I'm desert sweet,
Speaker 1: live frooking jubil in the morning seate. Hey, Tyler, before
Speaker 1: we do your second day update, I do have to
Speaker 1: tell you something. I don't like you. That's just not nice.
Speaker 1: Why I don't like you, Tyler? Why, Well, because you
Speaker 1: call up you send us. Then that's like, oh, this
Speaker 1: girl changed my life with just one date. And then
Speaker 1: we talked to you about the date, and you're like,
Speaker 1: she was an angel when she walked in, and my
Speaker 1: heart fell to the floor and I knew that I
Speaker 1: loved her from that instant. And it's not necessarily a
Speaker 1: personal thing with you. It's more that Brooke and jose
Speaker 1: eat this crap up when people call it like they're
Speaker 1: rolling around on the floor in ecstasy because of your love.
Speaker 1: So I have to deal with that all morning long.
Speaker 1: And then I know if we make this phone call
Speaker 1: and she picks up and she's in love with you too,
Speaker 1: it's gonna set it off even worse. I'm gonna like
Speaker 1: vomit all over the control board here, and then you're
Speaker 1: gonna put me in a horrible mood for like three
Speaker 1: straight weeks because of all the annoying sweetness that is
Speaker 1: about to happen. Tyler, don't let him get you down. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're gonna do the Seconday update for he doesn't change
Speaker 1: the fact that I do not like you. You know,
Speaker 1: right now, there's not enough celebration of love in this world.
Speaker 1: Think that this is a moment where we can just
Speaker 1: enjoy the beauty of it. God, see, that's exactly what
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. Jose heard your story and just got
Speaker 1: his mensies. Alright, good, Okay, We're gonna call her right now,
Speaker 1: just to refresh everybody's memory. You guys made plans after
Speaker 1: your first date the next day to have lunch, and
Speaker 1: she just stood you up. Yeah, when you finally get
Speaker 1: on the phone to talk to her, you're not angry
Speaker 1: about that, right, No, No, I'm not angry. I just
Speaker 1: I would just like to find out what happened, you know,
Speaker 1: and try it again, and you're convinced that this girl
Speaker 1: is the one for you. Yeah, all right, it's really
Speaker 1: set see and there it goes again. All right, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna dial the phone number right now. Okay, okay, all right, hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Chelsea? Please? Speaking Chelsea. How are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewbil from brook and Jewil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Oh how are you? Okay? Wow, so you listen to
Speaker 1: our show, then obviously I know you guys. Yeah, all right?
Speaker 1: Have you ever heard the second Date update before? Is
Speaker 1: that what you're calling me? It is? Okay. You recently
Speaker 1: went on a date with one of our listeners. He
Speaker 1: liked you a lot, and you actually stood him up
Speaker 1: for lunch and he wants to know why you would
Speaker 1: do that. Oh, wait, who are you talking about? Do
Speaker 1: you stand a lot of guys up for lunch? I
Speaker 1: guess are you guys saying about Tyler? Yes we are.
Speaker 1: Tyler emailed us about your date, said that he had
Speaker 1: a great time, You seemed like a really awesome girl.
Speaker 1: You even shared a kiss, and then at the end
Speaker 1: of the night said he'd love to see you again,
Speaker 1: can't wait too long, and let's get lunch tomorrow. You
Speaker 1: agreed to it and then didn't show up, and he
Speaker 1: said he texted you a few times, but you didn't
Speaker 1: respond at all. He made me super uncomfortable, okay, like
Speaker 1: I was overly sensitive and like just really weird and out,
Speaker 1: Like anytime I said anything on the date, he would
Speaker 1: respond to me by saying, wow, like the way you
Speaker 1: said that was flawless. Didn't you just tell you were
Speaker 1: perfect the entire date, Chelsea? Yeah, he was just like
Speaker 1: looking at me with these like dreamy eyes, you know.
Speaker 1: I mean he totally had oag face. Okay, like the
Speaker 1: whole time. What's oagh? Oag face is overly attached girlfriend.
Speaker 1: I never heard that before. I like that. So he
Speaker 1: was a little too gushy for you a little like
Speaker 1: did he just compliment you a little bit and maybe
Speaker 1: you don't handle complimentary well? Or did he really go home? No? No,
Speaker 1: he was like overboard, like it was worried he didn't
Speaker 1: say this, but like I was worried he was going
Speaker 1: to say that he loved me right then and there
Speaker 1: really didn't he didn't. I mean, was there a point
Speaker 1: in the date that you liked him and then maybe
Speaker 1: it just turned badly? Oh like these at one point
Speaker 1: where he like, we're talking and then he goes stop
Speaker 1: talking and he told me that my lip looked really
Speaker 1: soft and that he had to kiss me, and then
Speaker 1: he kissed me. Yeah, he told us about that. He
Speaker 1: said that you kissed him back, though, I mean I
Speaker 1: didn't want to. I know, it was just so awkward.
Speaker 1: Like that's not even the weirdest part. Really, we get
Speaker 1: into this yeah, like later on, we get into this
Speaker 1: conversation about like people who would greatly influence stuff in
Speaker 1: our lives. No, it's the first date whatever, and I say,
Speaker 1: my mom, you know, and like I asked him, okay,
Speaker 1: like who greatly influenced you? And he goes into this
Speaker 1: like huge long story about his second grade teacher and
Speaker 1: he started crying. Like he's like start getting so like
Speaker 1: emotionally like laughed in it, I guess, and then he's like,
Speaker 1: in the middle of his tears, he goes, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I just moved myself to tears. No he didn't. Oh sorry,
Speaker 1: woe is me. I've moved myself tears and water is
Speaker 1: streaming down my face. Now, hey, Chelsea, Chelsea, I'd like
Speaker 1: to let you know that Tyler is actually on the
Speaker 1: phone listening to this conversation. You might be crying right now, Tyler.
Speaker 1: You okay, buddy, I don't know why you guys are
Speaker 1: abusing me like this. You, Tyler, you made me feel
Speaker 1: these feelings, Chelsea. I don't know why. It's such a surprise.
Speaker 1: Tyler I'm sorry, but like it's a first date we
Speaker 1: met online, Like to be crying on the first date
Speaker 1: about your second grade teacher, Like, yeah, it was one date,
Speaker 1: but it was a very important story to me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't share that. I'm sorry, like your second grade teacher, Like,
Speaker 1: I know she means a lot to you, but like
Speaker 1: that was in second grade, Like you're a grown man,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I shared that with you
Speaker 1: because I thought that you were important to me in
Speaker 1: that moment, and I had to let it go. I
Speaker 1: had to put it on you. I had to throw
Speaker 1: the tears on you. Tyler, don't see how that's a
Speaker 1: big deal. Tyler, you don't see how crying on front
Speaker 1: whatever you're talking about. Maybe it was a really touching
Speaker 1: story with your second grade teacher. I don't know your story,
Speaker 1: but even if you worked up, crying on a first
Speaker 1: date can be kind of awkward for me. Yeah, for me,
Speaker 1: it was a really bizarre first date, and I just
Speaker 1: hope you can see my perspective sometime. Yeah, I just
Speaker 1: don't know why you didn't tell me that at the moment.
Speaker 1: I mean, I told you about my favorite lunch place,
Speaker 1: and you didn't. You didn't show up. Why did you
Speaker 1: stand me up? Why didn't you just tell me right
Speaker 1: there and then? But you didn't want to see me? Honestly,
Speaker 1: I was scared you were going to cry again. Tyler,
Speaker 1: tell her how you can be fun and how you're
Speaker 1: not always this intense. I'm hoping I can be fun.
Speaker 1: I can be a lot of fun I want. I
Speaker 1: wanted to show her what she meant to me, and
Speaker 1: I wanted her to be a part of me. And
Speaker 1: I think, Okay, Tyler, you should probably stop talking. You
Speaker 1: need to find some new words to use when speaking
Speaker 1: about your dates on her and inside of me. At
Speaker 1: this point, I would love to ask you, Chelsea, if
Speaker 1: you will go on a second date with Tyler. We
Speaker 1: will pay for it. You know. I'm sorry, Tyler, but
Speaker 1: I think I'm just Oh, please, Chelsea, just come on
Speaker 1: one more time. I promise I'll show you off funding him.
Speaker 1: Uh listen. I'm really sorry, and I know a lot
Speaker 1: of love to give, but please, Chelsey, come on time, Tyler.
Speaker 1: The more you shouting is not going to help you out.
Speaker 1: Brod Chelsea, thank you for your time. I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Thank you. Tyler. Are you still there? Yeah? I'm sorry, man,
Speaker 1: I think, honestly, you just need to tone it down
Speaker 1: a little bit, even if you're feeling that way, keep
Speaker 1: it under wraps for a little while on your next date.
Speaker 1: I just need one more time, one more chance. You're
Speaker 1: not going to get that. I don't. I don't think
Speaker 1: Chelsea's given that to you. Chan in the morning,