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Am I wrong for telling 43 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 5: them Mom her daughter deserved to be left out because 44 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 5: she's a bully. My daughter's been relentlessly bullied at school 45 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 5: and in her summer gymnastics league by my neighbor's daughter. 46 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 5: The kid is a terrorist from name calling, physical attacks, 47 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 5: the works. But my kid has come home crying multiple times. 48 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 5: So I've talked to her parents, who always make excuses, 49 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 5: and the school. I've talked to them too, but nothing changes. 50 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 5: I finally told my daughter she can defend herself if needed, 51 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 5: and for her birthday, I bought shriek bags and party 52 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 5: invites for her gymnastics class. I brought them for everyone 53 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,919 Speaker 5: except for the bully. At the end of the class, 54 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 5: I told everyone to stay. Then when the bully approached 55 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 5: me and her mom, I said, oh, you two can leave. 56 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 4: This isn't for your kid. 57 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 5: Her mom exploded, calling my kid a punk, and then 58 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 5: stormed out. The instructor lectured me on fairness, but I 59 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:58,239 Speaker 5: think it's time that the bully feels what she dishes out. 60 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,239 Speaker 5: Some parents say I cross the lane, but I want 61 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 5: you guys to tell me. 62 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 6: Am I wrong? Yeah, honey, I knowed. 63 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 5: I need the jury away in because I know I'm 64 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 5: going to be off on this one because. 65 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: I grew up. 66 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 5: Are you though up in a house where it was like, 67 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 5: don't come in here crying about no bully. If somebody 68 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 5: is bullying you, you need to meet them where they're 69 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 5: at and I'll leave it at that and then you 70 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 5: come back and tell me how you met them where 71 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 5: they're at, and that's it. You know, it was very 72 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 5: much go handle your bully and she this. 73 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 2: And I know that bullying has gone to a different 74 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 2: level now. We've talked about this before with social media 75 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 2: and all. You know, it's just like it's never ending. 76 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 2: As were when we were younger, there was less of 77 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 2: that and it was more just you know, you had 78 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 2: to deal with them one on one at school, on 79 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 2: the playground, whatever it was. At the same time, though, 80 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 2: you know that aside, I also think you can't ignore 81 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 2: all bullying because then your kids grow up and they 82 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 2: into adults to get bullied by other adults because it 83 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 2: happened all the time as grown ups and they're not 84 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 2: equipped to handle that. Like some amount of that you 85 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:07,839 Speaker 2: have to learn how to deal with as a human being, 86 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 2: because people are not nice. 87 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: Now people bullied. You know, there are bullies. 88 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 2: All over the place, and you're not going to avoid them, 89 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: so you can't just hide from them or make them 90 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:20,600 Speaker 2: go away or quit your job every time. So I 91 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 2: get that, but I don't know, what do you think. 92 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:25,479 Speaker 5: I thought it was brilliant and very petty to have, 93 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 5: you know, you announced to the entire gymnastics class. Everybody 94 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 5: stay back, everybody stay behind. I have treats for all 95 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:34,279 Speaker 5: the children, and then you line up all the kids 96 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 5: and then right when this little girl comes to the 97 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 5: front of the line, you're like, oh, honey, not you. 98 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 5: You know you could go by. That was slow down, 99 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:45,039 Speaker 5: that was but it was kind of brilliant. 100 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, But it's like, is there a different way to 101 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:53,280 Speaker 2: handle it? You know, like I mean, not ignore it 102 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 2: by any means, but like all the kids get treated 103 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 2: the same, and then you handle it with the parent 104 00:04:56,960 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 2: maybe if it's like way out of control. I mean, 105 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 2: every ever parent listening now is like, row, ray, I 106 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 2: want to beat up the kid that is mean to 107 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 2: my kid. But at the same time, you know, returning 108 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 2: fire in the same way. Is that is that really right? 109 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 5: The right thing to do, because I don't think to 110 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 5: beat a bully, you don't become a bully, right, You 111 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,280 Speaker 5: don't become a bully, but you do confront a bully. 112 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 6: If that makes sense. 113 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think there's a parenting crisis right now happening 114 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 3: where people aren't you know, really teaching their children certain things, 115 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 3: And that's just my hot take. I do feel that 116 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 3: if your child is a bully, I think that's something 117 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 3: that you and you when you're a parent, who know 118 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 3: your child's the bully, like don't play with me like 119 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 3: you didn't, you know. And as a parent, I think 120 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 3: that's something that you need to step in on, Like 121 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:44,479 Speaker 3: I would never allow my daughter to ever bully another child. 122 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 3: I've seen my best friend get bullied, you know, growing up, 123 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 3: Like I don't like that. I ride for that hard, 124 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 3: and that's something that I don't I think that we're 125 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 3: not doing a good job. We're throwing iPads at kids 126 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 3: and letting them say what they want, to do what 127 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 3: they want actuss social media. Like you mentioned Fred, things 128 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 3: are different now when it comes to bullying. When we're 129 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 3: a kid, what like you took my lunch money? 130 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 7: I don't know. 131 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 2: But the parent calling the kid a punk, the parents 132 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 2: to a kid that tells you where it's coming. That 133 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 2: tells you there's no account of ability. 134 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 4: Again, it starts at home. 135 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 3: So I'm really big on that, and I don't know, 136 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 3: like I wouldn't want my kids bully at the birthday 137 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 3: party either. Now the parents need to figure this out 138 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 3: and not name calic you said, don't do any of that. 139 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:23,840 Speaker 3: I think there's ways to handle it. It's just it's 140 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 3: not with the kids like it's between the adults at 141 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 3: that point. That's my opinion. 142 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 2: Hey Joe, yes, all right, you guys are the jury 143 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 2: eight flave five five nine one one o three five. 144 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 1: What do you what say you? 145 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 8: I say you that she did the right thing. Hmm, okay, 146 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 8: my daughter, My daughter was bullied for a little while 147 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 8: and we kind of did the same thing with me 148 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 8: and my wife. We we kind of brushed it on 149 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 8: the rug. Oh, it's not a big deal. It's your friends. 150 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 8: You guys are girls. You'll be friends again in a week. 151 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 8: It'll be over with. But it didn't. And we told 152 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:55,799 Speaker 8: her to stand up for herself, and when she did, 153 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 8: they started to back off and the parents got concerned. 154 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 8: And we hadn't mentioned to the parents that listen, we've 155 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 8: brought this to your attention multiple times, even to the school. 156 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 8: Like I even told my daughter, like I will deal 157 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 8: with the school, don't worry about it. And I had 158 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 8: a long conversation with the principal. But I had to 159 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 8: explain to our daughter that you know, if you let 160 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 8: this happen now, it's going to continue to happen and 161 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 8: all through high school and and everything, and you have 162 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 8: to just put it in the button. I don't go 163 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 8: pull off, you know, beating her up and assaulting her 164 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 8: and stuff. But you know, at the same time, you 165 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 8: have to defend yourself and stand your ground because you know, 166 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 8: even in middle school it can get worse. 167 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 9: Yeah. 168 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 2: True, Yeah, I mean we h Yeah, it's tricky because 169 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 2: I mean, I want to say, as far as the 170 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 2: kids are concerned, killing with kindness almost as if the 171 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 2: bullying doesn't matter, like you don't really have a voice, 172 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 2: you're not really influencing my decisions. But at the same 173 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 2: time it is and you wanted to stop, but then 174 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 2: the retaliation bullying, what does that accomplish. I mean, I'm 175 00:07:57,480 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 2: not saying yeah, no, I'm saying I'm not saying no, 176 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 2: but that's what that's what they did the mom and 177 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 2: that that's what they did. 178 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean it feels and I guess I can 179 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 8: understand where they're coming from, right because if you try 180 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 8: multiple things, and you have tried them with kindness, kill 181 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 8: them with kindness before and it doesn't work. I mean, 182 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 8: you know, we don't know what kind of bullying was 183 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 8: going on, whether it was physical, whether it was social 184 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 8: media media type bulliant. You know, there's so much now. 185 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 8: For we were kids, it was just you got picked 186 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 8: on and that was it. There's so much type of 187 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 8: bullying now that it mentally, I literally see it every 188 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 8: day mentally affect people that they probably said, we can't 189 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 8: do this anymore. Let's do this instead of doing something physical. 190 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 8: Let's start with this and see if this works. Before 191 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 8: they resulted in, you know, the child hitting them and 192 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 8: then them sticking up to themselves and hitting them back. 193 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 8: Maybe it's let's not invite them to the party so 194 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:52,559 Speaker 8: they can kind of get a little taste of how 195 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 8: it feels, and maybe that right there will change their attitude. 196 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:56,719 Speaker 8: But I don't think it did. 197 00:08:57,160 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 1: Joe, Thank you. Have a good day you as well. 198 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 10: Thank you. 199 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: Glad you called hey, Rico, Yeah, Hey, how's going on? WECo? 200 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 1: Hey Man? So you were you were the bully? 201 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 10: I was, Yeah, I was. I regret it. I regret 202 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 10: it one hundred times fold, really I do. And no, 203 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 10: and then like I don't know, one day, I don't know, 204 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 10: I started defending one of one of the people that 205 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 10: I was making fun of and I was like, I 206 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 10: kind of beat them up a little bit. I got 207 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 10: spunded from the bus. Uh how do you kind of 208 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 10: beat up a little bit? 209 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. 210 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 2: How do you kind of beat them up? But anyway, 211 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 2: you know, just like I don't know, just a little bit. 212 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 2: I just read him up a little bit. Yeah, okay, 213 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 2: it's a little bit. But then how do you switch side? 214 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:49,679 Speaker 2: Though you saw the light? 215 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 10: I did it, Yeah, I did. And and and now 216 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 10: that I look back on it, I'm like, I regret 217 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 10: that one hundred times fold. And I'm just like, these 218 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 10: people aren't aren't They're not geeks. They're they're really cool people. 219 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 10: Ye know, yes, no, And then well the thing is, 220 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 10: so the thing is I actually became one of them. 221 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 10: I became a geek. 222 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 1: I wasn't in the band. 223 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:15,679 Speaker 8: Also, I was a bank See how. 224 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 1: One day one day up a little bit, the next 225 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 1: day you're you're the guy right right right? 226 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 2: But hey, you saw you you saw that it wasn't right, 227 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 2: and that's that's good. Good for you, man, Hey, have 228 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 2: a good day. Yes, oh yeah, I love you guys. Yeah, no, 229 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 2: thank you. You can continue with the compliments. 230 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 10: But I know. 231 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 2: He saw the light he saw the other side, because 232 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 2: you know, I mean, you're growing up and people bully you, 233 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 2: and you'll come home and your parents will be like, 234 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 2: you know, that says more about them than it is 235 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:50,839 Speaker 2: it's about you. And you know, I don't know all 236 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 2: these all these cliche things that may be true, they 237 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 2: don't help at the time, but the fact is this 238 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 2: is going to be present your whole life. 239 00:10:58,200 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 11: It is. 240 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 2: I mean, to this day, we all still deal with bullies, 241 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 2: people who think they're more important than they are, people 242 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 2: who you know, say mean things and then hide whatever 243 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 2: is it's it's it's never going to end, so you 244 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 2: have to be equipped to deal with it. In some regard, 245 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 2: I would agree it's worse now than it's ever been, 246 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 2: because it's it's it's relentless, you know, from all different angles, 247 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 2: and you can hide behind screen names and accounts and whatever. 248 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 2: But I don't know that my parents ever would have 249 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:27,320 Speaker 2: My parents definitely there were kids they didn't like, and 250 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 2: and you know I knew that, but I don't know 251 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:31,079 Speaker 2: that they were going to treat the kids that way 252 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 2: because what message does that send, right, I mean, it's 253 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 2: it's retaliation bullying essentially. 254 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:36,960 Speaker 12: I don't know. 255 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 2: I mean, there are parents listening. Now, I'm sure going good, 256 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 2: good for that mom, But then would you really do that? 257 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 2: I'm not sure. Stacey? 258 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:48,079 Speaker 1: Hi, hi, Hi? So are you a parent? 259 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 5: Yes? 260 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 1: I am, okay? 261 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 2: So would you would you retaliate on a bully, Like 262 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 2: if your son or daughter came home and, like in 263 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 2: this case, it said this person is being mean to me, 264 00:11:58,160 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 2: would you then get involved? 265 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 7: Yes? Well, that's why I actually give the parents a 266 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 7: round of applause for calling out the bully, because the 267 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 7: parents these days with the generation, don't teach their kids 268 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 7: any type of respect. And if you want to live 269 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 7: in this society, you got to have some kind of 270 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 7: you know, thank you, please, and all. 271 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:18,840 Speaker 4: That other stuff. 272 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:23,719 Speaker 2: But what are you teaching, Stacey If everybody gets a 273 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 2: treat except for the one kid. You know, what are 274 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 2: you saying? Essentially? I mean, you're saying that it's okay 275 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 2: to bully. 276 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 6: We're being a bully. 277 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 7: If you want to live in the society, then have 278 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 7: some type of mental stability to let you be in 279 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 7: the society with everybody else, because nowadays, with people like that, 280 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:42,960 Speaker 7: you don't want to bring them in your thing though 281 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 7: not knowing if they don't have any type of mental issues, 282 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 7: and if they're going to come and shoot up. 283 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 9: Your party, well that's that's that's where it ends up leaving, 284 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:58,199 Speaker 9: because that's where it ends up leading too, because they 285 00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 9: want to start saying that they get the press because 286 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 9: people leave them out because they're being bullied, you know, 287 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:06,200 Speaker 9: and then when they start being depressed and they start 288 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:07,680 Speaker 9: thinking about harming theirself. 289 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Stacy, Well thank you, have a good day. 290 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:12,679 Speaker 1: I mean, dad took a turn, my. 291 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 6: God, and turned into an episode of a mess. 292 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 2: I don't know those see, I guess from my perspective, 293 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 2: as as somebody who I don't know, not everybody. 294 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 1: I was kind of middle of the road. 295 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 2: I mean, there were people that made fun of me 296 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 2: because I was obsessed with radio and said it would 297 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 2: never happen, and I don't know, you're you're a doork 298 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 2: for that, and then there were people that were nice 299 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 2: to me. 300 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 1: I was right in the middle. But I guess at the. 301 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 2: Time my parents retaliating wouldn't have helped a whole lot. 302 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 2: If anything, their message was not killing with kindness, which 303 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 2: is easy to say, but it's almost like by by 304 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 2: not giving her a treat or not giving her, not 305 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 2: including her in with the rest of the group, You're 306 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 2: essentially saying you're on you got under my skin, I 307 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 2: don't like you, and and and I'm you affected me, 308 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 2: And I think to a certain extent, if you can 309 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 2: learn to rise above it, It's almost like here with 310 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 2: a smile, everybody knows the person who's mean to you, 311 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 2: and you're still kind to them even though you don't 312 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 2: like them. And I know that it's so crushing inside 313 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:11,440 Speaker 2: for the person who you're still nice to even when 314 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:13,560 Speaker 2: they're mean to you, and I think there's something to 315 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 2: be It's almost like I'm teaching you that that person's 316 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 2: words don't matter and that you'll just continue to give 317 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 2: good energy. But if I don't know, if my mom 318 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 2: comes down there and solves my problems for me, is 319 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 2: that what am. 320 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 1: I learning from that? 321 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 4: I think you're sending the wrong message. 322 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 11: Though. 323 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 3: If I'm inviting the bully to my birthday party or 324 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 3: my kids' birthday party, like I'm rewarding your behavior at 325 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 3: that point, because what everybody gets to come over, it 326 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 3: gets a trophy. I personally don't like that children take 327 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 3: their lives for this kind of stuff. 328 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 2: I don't play like this was this was like at 329 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 2: a class, wasn't it like everybody was there? 330 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, they were in gymnastics. Question. 331 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you're more than welcome to have a 332 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 2: party and not invite everybody. I think that's fine. I'm 333 00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 2: not going to invite the bully to my house. No, 334 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 2: but if it's in front of everybody, I don't know. 335 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 2: I feel like that's probably the message is what. 336 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 5: You know what is getting me though, the mom of 337 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 5: the bully. You had the audacity and the nerve to 338 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 5: get in line to get a treat back. And you 339 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 5: know that your child is a bully, and you know 340 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 5: I've confronted you about it before, so like, bad on 341 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 5: you to get in line thinking your kid deserves something 342 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 5: when you know your kid is a bully. 343 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 2: What we all know what, we all know where it's 344 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 2: coming from them. The lack of awareness means that the 345 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 2: parent is instilling this and the kids exactly, Hey, Lena, 346 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 2: you're okay with this, and you're a school counselor. 347 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 13: Oh yes, yes, yes I am. And the reason why 348 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:27,760 Speaker 13: I say that is because the kids nowadays are. 349 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 4: An entirely different breed. 350 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 13: I've been doing this for over six years now and 351 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 13: I can see the change in the way the kids 352 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 13: interact with each other, and you know, I feel like 353 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 13: it it gives the bully, you know, because when a 354 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 13: kid is being bullied and you know they're the ones 355 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 13: that are doing the bullying, they have that sense of power. 356 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 12: But I almost feel like what the mom did just 357 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 12: kind of help knock that child down a little bit 358 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 12: and maybe hopefully in the future they won't continue to 359 00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 12: do the same behavior. 360 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, both sides of this. 361 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 2: I mean, I know what I would want to do 362 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 2: as a parent, and I want to kick the little 363 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 2: kids ass. Yeah, But at the same time that I 364 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 2: have I have to think, like, Okay, what what is 365 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 2: the lesson I'm teaching? What am I instilling in my kid? 366 00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 2: Am I saying that I'll just I'll be there for 367 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 2: every every difficult situation that my kids in and I'll 368 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 2: fix it because I won't be you know. And again, 369 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:21,840 Speaker 2: it's not like this was in front of everybody. This 370 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 2: was It wasn't as though this was at my house 371 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 2: and that we were required to invite a kid. 372 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 1: No, we weren't. 373 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 2: Like this was in a thing that we're all involved 374 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 2: with together and one of the kids is a little jerk, 375 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 2: and I feel like there's always going to be a little. 376 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 13: Jerk for sure. 377 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 12: Yeah, I definitely I can see both sides one percent. 378 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 4: But I don't know. 379 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 12: I feel like the Mama Bear and me definitely would 380 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:45,760 Speaker 12: have been like, okay, no, we need to take you 381 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:46,520 Speaker 12: down a little bit. 382 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 13: But I do think that, you know, I have a feeling. 383 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 12: That they're not going to have any issues with that 384 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 12: kid anymore though, and hopefully, you know, yeah, things will 385 00:16:57,920 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 12: get better. 386 00:16:58,400 --> 00:17:01,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I hope so too. Thank you, Lena, all Right, 387 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 2: have a good day. I'm glad you called. Hey, Michelle, Hi, 388 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 2: Michelle Kicky's court. So basically, it's it's a bullying situation 389 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 2: in a gymnastics class and there was a party of 390 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:16,359 Speaker 2: some kind and the kid being bullied gave that little 391 00:17:16,400 --> 00:17:20,360 Speaker 2: treats to everybody except the and the mom, except for 392 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:23,160 Speaker 2: the kid who was the bully, And then the bully's 393 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:26,160 Speaker 2: mom got involved in it was sort of this tussle. 394 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:28,879 Speaker 1: W I mean, what do you think. 395 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 14: I mean, as somebody that I saw a bullying around me, 396 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 14: I guess I just have a question about the other 397 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 14: people that witnessed it. Bullying usually doesn't happen online closed doors. 398 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 14: It happened in front of other people, in front of coaches, 399 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:47,480 Speaker 14: in front of other kids, Like, it also comes down 400 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 14: to the people that witnessed it. How is that not complacency? 401 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:56,400 Speaker 14: So I guess it just comes down to I guess yes, 402 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:59,920 Speaker 14: I think it could have been helpful because it puts 403 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:02,919 Speaker 14: a bully in the place, But it's it's kind of 404 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 14: chicken or the egg, which one comes first. It really 405 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:08,960 Speaker 14: comes down to what about the community around that watched 406 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:09,520 Speaker 14: it happen? 407 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. 408 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 5: The mom says she's spoken to everyone, the school administrator, 409 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:17,399 Speaker 5: she went to the parents, and nobody's taking her please seriously. 410 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 6: So she's like, okay, I'll take matters into my own hands. 411 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. 412 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 14: Other teammates, so. 413 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, one of the other kids that are standing. 414 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:28,879 Speaker 14: Up up to those that were being bullied around me. 415 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:32,399 Speaker 6: This seems like young kids. Yeah, and the gymnastics. I 416 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 6: don't know. 417 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 5: I wouldn't put the the responsibility on the other kids. 418 00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 5: I've already approached the parents and the adults in the situation. 419 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:41,680 Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you, Michelle, have a good. 420 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 14: Day, Thanks you too. 421 00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 2: Uh hold to say, Antonio, hey, go ahead and tell 422 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 2: you don't agree with me. I gotta go sorry, have 423 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 2: a nice day, thanks for calling. No, what do you 424 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 2: want to say? 425 00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 1: I get where you're going with it. 426 00:18:57,800 --> 00:19:00,359 Speaker 11: I'm a parent of three, and i'll I want to 427 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 11: call it revenge bullying because it's really hard to get 428 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 11: kids to stand up for themselves when it's like not 429 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:09,159 Speaker 11: naturally in them. As she mentioned, it's something that's happened 430 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 11: at school, it's happened at gymnastics, and it's became physical. 431 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:15,320 Speaker 11: Most people would have been lost it at that point, 432 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 11: and even me personally, I'm a challenge to parent at 433 00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:20,399 Speaker 11: that point. I need to see what's going on and 434 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:23,120 Speaker 11: if you're not going to correct your child, I'm going 435 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:24,159 Speaker 11: to correct your child. 436 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:25,120 Speaker 10: And I thought that was. 437 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 11: Very gentle, a very gentle response. And for it, that's 438 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:32,120 Speaker 11: the Fox move. Baby, you out smarter them. You don't 439 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 11: get physical, you're out smarter them. That's a Fox move. 440 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 2: Well, but I agree with you that, like, let's have 441 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 2: the conversation among parents, and as hard as it is 442 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 2: to do and as much as I don't necessarily always 443 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 2: do this in my life and would like to, the 444 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 2: killing's kindest thing is the move, because what you're saying 445 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 2: to the bully kid or adult is that you are 446 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:53,000 Speaker 2: not getting under my skin, Like I'm going to continue 447 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,600 Speaker 2: to be nice to you because we're not and it's 448 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 2: hard to do. But like if I still give you 449 00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:59,959 Speaker 2: this pressent like everybody else or whatever, it's just like, 450 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 2: at what point do they get bored and move on 451 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:03,639 Speaker 2: to somebody else? 452 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 11: And they didn't and attack more antagonize them. It's just 453 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:10,800 Speaker 11: more you don't deserve to be there. And we have 454 00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:13,879 Speaker 11: a writer's people. Especially as the mom said, I know 455 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:15,720 Speaker 11: that she went a little off the richter with the 456 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 11: school shooting, but that happens. I've been in a situation 457 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 11: where my kid was at a school and this kid 458 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:24,320 Speaker 11: like that, that's nothing nobody wants to ever be a 459 00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:26,960 Speaker 11: part of. We don't know where it starts, so we 460 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 11: have to be proactive and not reactive in them situations. 461 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 11: And I'll sell you get stressed anxiety, like to be 462 00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 11: around somebody who treats mistreats you. That's a very uncomfortable 463 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:39,879 Speaker 11: situation for an adult. That's crazy off the chart for 464 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 11: a kid. And like I say, I agree with what 465 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:43,399 Speaker 11: you're saying as far as like we don't want that 466 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 11: to be teddy hypocritical. It can't get that's a fine line. 467 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 11: So I agree with what you're saying. But I thought, 468 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:51,720 Speaker 11: as a dad, that was gentle because I don't have 469 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 11: that in me like that, so I thought that was 470 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 11: really clever. You know. 471 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, see, I know what I'd like to do. 472 00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:59,080 Speaker 2: I just would hope I wouldn't do it, because tell you, 473 00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 2: everyone knows what you do. Smile to their face and 474 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 2: you get online with a fake screen name and you 475 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,360 Speaker 2: say that you know, the mom's got drugs in her house. 476 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 2: She call the cops, get the docs, and me get 477 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:08,280 Speaker 2: the SWAT team out there. 478 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 1: Everyone knows what that's how you handle it. Calin's Entertainment 479 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:13,440 Speaker 1: Report and he's on the Bread Show. 480 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 15: A grasshopper is now going viral after landing on Jlo's 481 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 15: neck while she was performing in Kazakhstan. 482 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 4: Which is not a sentence I thought I'd say. 483 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:25,399 Speaker 15: Video shows Jlo in this tight little bodysuit that laces 484 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 15: up in the front, with the little guy slowly crawling 485 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 15: up as she's singing very emotionally. Eventually he lands on 486 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 15: her neck. She then calmly grabs it and in true 487 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:38,320 Speaker 15: showbiz fashion, she like tosses it off with like an 488 00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:40,760 Speaker 15: arm dance move, and then like brings it back in 489 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:43,200 Speaker 15: as if it was like a five six seven eight moment. 490 00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:46,159 Speaker 15: She said, simply it was tickling me. And now the 491 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:50,640 Speaker 15: grasshopper is going viral while we are talking, or we 492 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,639 Speaker 15: were talking about it off air. And I did like 493 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:55,159 Speaker 15: google if this means anything for j Lo, because we 494 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:58,480 Speaker 15: stay worried about j Loo, and it says in some 495 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:03,160 Speaker 15: cultures crickets symbolize good luck, prosperity, and intuition. They're associated 496 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 15: with positive omens and are seen as symbols of abundance 497 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:07,120 Speaker 15: and happiness. 498 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 4: So j Loo needs that. 499 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:09,919 Speaker 6: So oh this might be the turn. 500 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,680 Speaker 4: Okay. So I was wondering, like, oh, is this really 501 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 4: bad for her? 502 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:16,399 Speaker 5: But hopefully the sisterns things around the video too if 503 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,359 Speaker 5: they want to see it, okay, perfect Fred Show Radio, 504 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 5: all right, thank you very much. 505 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:20,439 Speaker 1: They see it. 506 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 2: A bird crabbing on you is good luck. I'm like, 507 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,960 Speaker 2: but I got bird crab on me. Yeah, luck in 508 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,920 Speaker 2: the world. But I got bird This is not Yeah, 509 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:29,920 Speaker 2: this is not a good situation. I think that's just. 510 00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:32,200 Speaker 4: People trying to make us feel better when that happens. 511 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 15: This was posted like a half an hour ago, and 512 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:40,399 Speaker 15: I have to tell you guys, so Travis Kelce collaborated 513 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 15: with the New Heights podcast Instagram and they said they 514 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:47,719 Speaker 15: are coming back early with a very special guest Wednesday. 515 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 4: Jason, take a look at this outline of this woman. 516 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:52,080 Speaker 4: Do you think that is? 517 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:53,680 Speaker 1: It could be mother? 518 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:56,600 Speaker 4: It might be mother. It looks as if it is 519 00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:57,120 Speaker 4: her hair. 520 00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 6: But they did. 521 00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 15: They better not do it again because we will be pissed. 522 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:05,240 Speaker 4: But Wednesday at seven pm. It looks like her curly hair. 523 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:06,360 Speaker 4: Why would it. 524 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 15: Only be Travis and their Instagram. It's not Jason. He's 525 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 15: not collaborated, so it could be mother. We will find 526 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 15: out in a couple of swift Bobby so pissed. 527 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:22,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love you, but I see you every day. 528 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:27,040 Speaker 15: Tom Brady statue was unveiled Friday night before the Patriots 529 00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:30,679 Speaker 15: exhibition opener against the Commanders. During his speech, Brady saved 530 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,200 Speaker 15: his best for the rival New York Jets. 531 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,320 Speaker 4: He said, this statue isn't just for Pats fans. 532 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 15: It'll also give all the Jets fans something to throw 533 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,280 Speaker 15: their beers at as they leave the stadium every year, 534 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 15: probably in the second quarter of course, as you know, 535 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:46,760 Speaker 15: three time NFL MVP, five time Super Bowl MVP, seven 536 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:50,400 Speaker 15: time NFL champ. He retired in twenty twenty three as 537 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:54,240 Speaker 15: the league's most dedicated player ever, holding records in dozens 538 00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:57,440 Speaker 15: of categories, and they inducted him. The Pats did into 539 00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 15: their Hall of Fame last year, waving the usual four 540 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:04,760 Speaker 15: year waiting period, and retired his jersey number. So if 541 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:06,880 Speaker 15: you love Tom Brady, that one's for you, and really quick. 542 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:10,160 Speaker 15: Fantastic four was denied a three peete or threesome as 543 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 15: Paulina would call it, at the box office over the 544 00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 15: weekend as the new release Weapons took in forty two 545 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 15: point five million dollars for the first time. Freakerer Friday 546 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:23,440 Speaker 15: came in second, and then Fantastic four First Steps, Bad 547 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:25,920 Speaker 15: Guys to a Naked Gun, which I think they thought 548 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:27,679 Speaker 15: I was going to do a lot better, but it didn't. 549 00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:28,639 Speaker 4: So want womp. 550 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:30,159 Speaker 15: By the way, if you want to catch up on 551 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,439 Speaker 15: anything you missed from today or any day, tape The 552 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 15: Fread Show on demand and set us as a preset. 553 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:36,720 Speaker 4: On the free iHeartRadio app. 554 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 1: The Fread Show is on Friend's Fun Fact Fred one Learner, 555 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:48,920 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. 556 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:53,479 Speaker 2: But did you know that before we had toilet paper, 557 00:24:53,920 --> 00:25:00,840 Speaker 2: Americans used corn husks to wipe our booties and before that. 558 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 1: This is even worse. 559 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:06,280 Speaker 2: What are The Romans used a sea sponge stuck to 560 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 2: the end of a stick. It was kept in a 561 00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:11,120 Speaker 2: bucket of salt water or vinegar. 562 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:13,119 Speaker 6: I know some people that still need that. 563 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,240 Speaker 1: I got more fresh show next.