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Speaker 2: Live Nation. Honestly, this is what the Catholic Church as

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Speaker 2: a cadeicy. I can say what we need is a

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Speaker 2: rebrand and you would be the guy.

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Speaker 1: To do it.

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Speaker 3: Imagine the pink smoke that would come out when I

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Speaker 3: get it lived. Yeah, Freads Show is on. Yeah how

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Speaker 3: much is it worth? Would it be worth you? For

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Speaker 3: one day of peace and quiet?

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Speaker 1: Paulina like money wise?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 1: Currency? Yeah? Yeah yeah usd Yeah, we appreciate it. We

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Speaker 1: could not work in Canadian dollars. I'd have to figure

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Speaker 1: out the exchange, you know, rate great one point it's

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Speaker 1: better for us. No, yes it is. I got less

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Speaker 1: in Canada.

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Speaker 2: It's the other way. It's the other way. I was

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Speaker 2: just there the other way around one point four when.

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Speaker 1: You're over there, correct, But when you bring it here, I.

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Speaker 2: Think Canadian dollars. Yes, why are you stopping in Canadian

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Speaker 2: dollars that.

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Speaker 1: I told you? They're a lot tougher when you do

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Speaker 1: it that way, So yeah, I don't y yeah, right,

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Speaker 1: don't worry about it. Why why are we moving money

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Speaker 1: to Canada and math? I told you.

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Speaker 2: Don't move it that way. Okay, that's not a good

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Speaker 2: way to do it. Our money is worth more than

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Speaker 2: their money right now, girl, okay. And the way that

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Speaker 2: they're retaliating is by sending smoke right in our faces.

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Speaker 1: Girl. Christopher, Sometimes I know.

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Speaker 2: I love you, I love you deeply, but you like

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Speaker 2: stand on business and it's exactly the opposite.

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Speaker 1: Man.

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Speaker 2: You's so rude, Kiky. I can't believe you. You're hanging

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Speaker 2: out with your rich sister in law trying to do

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Speaker 2: rich sister in law stuff. Oh yes, I love how

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Speaker 2: I ask you about stuff that you told me about

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Speaker 2: and then you're like, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: Kiki? You are so rude. You are rude. Though you're rude.

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Speaker 2: You told so you you wanted to go get it

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Speaker 2: facial because you're trying to hang out. You're trying to

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Speaker 2: be like your rich sister in law. You're trying to

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Speaker 2: be bogie.

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, And and so they gave you an option

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Speaker 1: when you win to get the facial.

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Speaker 5: We haven't gotten it yet. So oh, I see I

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Speaker 5: scheduled it. It looks like your skin looks flawless. It

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Speaker 5: looks like you did thank you boom. Yeah yeah, I

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Speaker 5: mean I could have it. Looks it's glowing as though

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Speaker 5: it already happened.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. So you're scheduling, and they give you some choices, yes.

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Speaker 6: And on the like they make you feel out this

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Speaker 6: very detailed intake form, almost like you're going to a

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Speaker 6: doctor's appointment.

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Speaker 1: When was the last time you had sex? Do you have?

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Speaker 1: You know that.

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Speaker 2: Strains for official at least that kind of family. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so yeah, that's weird, Like I wouldn't. Why are you

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Speaker 2: asking me this?

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Speaker 7: Right?

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Speaker 1: This is why are you asking me your business? Not

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Speaker 1: gonna say nothing. No, it's like.

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Speaker 2: I'm a physician, fred, No, I don't care none of

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Speaker 2: your business for a facial. They're asking you all kinds

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Speaker 2: of personal questions, probably not that one, but all.

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Speaker 6: Right, yes, and then on this intake for him it says,

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Speaker 6: during your appointment, would you like moderate talking, no talking,

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Speaker 6: excessive talking, like you know, lots of chatter and explanations

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Speaker 6: of what the services are happening to you and me

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Speaker 6: being me. After I get off this radio, I have

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Speaker 6: no words. So I'm like, oh, for sure, no talking.

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Speaker 1: So I tell my sister law.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, hey, you know, I filled it out and

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Speaker 6: I said, I've never seen a form that asks you

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Speaker 6: how much do you want to talk? And I said,

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Speaker 6: I went ahead and put no. And my sister in

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Speaker 6: law was like, oh, girl, Like I we chat the

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Speaker 1: She's really cool, she's really nice.

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Speaker 6: And now I feel like a jerk because when I

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Speaker 1: She's not going to talk to me. So yeah, well

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Speaker 1: I probably talk to you. I'm thinking she'll probably greet you.

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Speaker 1: And I literally saying no talking, be friendly. Well, because

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Speaker 1: it's not supposed to be a relaxing experience. I know

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Speaker 1: some people do it for the aesthetics. Some people do

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Speaker 1: it for the aesthetic and because it feels good to them, right.

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Speaker 1: I don't like people touching me like that, so I

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Speaker 1: don't do that kind of stuff, But I I don't

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Speaker 8: I like when there's like a set aside time for

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Speaker 8: the no talking, so at first they'll explain what they're

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Speaker 8: doing and what the benefits are, and then there's a

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Speaker 8: relaxation part of the facial where they they they're quiet

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Speaker 8: for a little bit, because you could darn your fall

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Speaker 8: asleep during those things.

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Speaker 1: When I have had them done and I'm not trying

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Speaker 1: to have a conversation with you, right, I'm not really

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Speaker 1: going I wonder if the people, if you're somebody who

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Speaker 1: gives this kind of service eight five five five one

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Speaker 1: then relieved when somebody says no talking, because that means

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Speaker 1: I don't have to say anything.

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Speaker 2: We don't have to do this. I don't really know you,

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Speaker 2: so I don't have to come up with questions. I

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Speaker 2: don't have to you know, I don't have to come

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Speaker 2: up with you Hey, so the only think about the tariffs,

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Speaker 2: you know, I mean, I don't have to. I don't

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Speaker 2: have to say anything to you. So if anything, you're

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Speaker 2: probably doing this woman a favor. I don't think she's

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Speaker 2: going to take it personally and at all or man

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Speaker 2: and whomever it is.

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Speaker 1: She can either be like.

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Speaker 6: Us where we won't you know, we don't mind not talking,

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Speaker 6: or she's Bella and Bella is offended because I said,

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Speaker 6: I don't want to hope.

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Speaker 1: I'm nervous about.

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Speaker 6: Doing this service with this woman because sometimes the estheticians

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Speaker 6: want to explain every single step.

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Speaker 1: You don't want that.

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Speaker 6: No, Like, I don't care. I don't plan on leaving

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Speaker 6: here with the skin routine. Don't sell me your products.

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Speaker 6: Let me just come in here, get this little facial

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Speaker 6: that I saved my opinions up for.

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Speaker 1: I don't have money for.

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Speaker 6: Your skincare because you know they're going to try to

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Speaker 6: sell you. You know, I use this exfoliating moisture rider

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Speaker 6: with cream and ginger sigh.

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Speaker 1: If you don't buy its.

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Speaker 2: Water from the Amazon rainforest, like dripped off a leaf

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Speaker 2: or whatever. Yeah, it's like we collect this one drop

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Speaker 2: at a time in the middle of the rainforest.

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Speaker 9: You know, you and your test I don't want it.

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Speaker 9: Do you know what kind of facial you're getting, like

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Speaker 9: a hydrofacial. It's what she calls a starter facial.

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Speaker 6: It's like the first time client, and so I know

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Speaker 6: she's gonna come she and tell me I'm dehydrated and

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Speaker 6: I need to do this and that that's fine. Just

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Speaker 6: don't sell me nothing. I've already gave you all my

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Speaker 6: moneys to come there.

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Speaker 2: I would think people would be relieved by this. I think, good,

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Speaker 2: I don't have to talk to you about anything, we

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Speaker 2: don't have to make small talk. The only thing I'd

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Speaker 2: want to know is if you're gonna do something that

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Speaker 2: Like I'd like a heads up for that, Like, hey,

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Speaker 2: but I'm gonna start picking up your face. You're like, okay,

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Speaker 2: so I can prepare myself mentally for the staff.

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Speaker 1: And please, yeah, please prepare me for that. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: But if Bob's an as decision, I would love my

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Speaker 6: client to say no talking. Jason and I actually had

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Speaker 6: this experience with Uber where he keeps getting Uber drivers

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Speaker 6: that say they are dead.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but when we get in the car they're not dead.

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Speaker 3: Then stop it stop it on multitude of time. Stop

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Speaker 3: It's like, do you have a study like in your

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Speaker 3: app that only asks for like hearing drivers.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't think that's an option, because

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Speaker 2: They do that so that you don't, so you're aware

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Speaker 2: of it, you know, any kind of disability, so that

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Speaker 2: you're trying to get their attention or something and I

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Speaker 2: can't hear very well. Then you don't feel they're being rude,

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Speaker 2: but you're saying this is a this is a strategy.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but it's an experience. Put this on

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Speaker 1: there so they don't have to talk to you. I mean,

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Speaker 1: but I don't want to talk to anyone because I

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Speaker 1: am half deaf. Legally, I'm legal, I'm truly one percent.

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Speaker 1: My left ear does not work. Yeah, I had men

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Speaker 1: and Jedis when I was four and it doesn't work.

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Speaker 1: I should just start saying that to people and then

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Speaker 1: they won't talk to me, and then I won't.

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Speaker 2: Have to talk to them. It's not that I don't

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Speaker 2: like people. I like the people listen to this show,

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Speaker 2: but I don't like making small talk. I really don't.

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Speaker 2: They all it's a new strategy.

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Speaker 10: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Like I were in an uber on the way back

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Speaker 3: from Nevat, like this guy was his chad Jet and

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Speaker 3: on the way to the uber, I was like, oh

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Speaker 3: it just so you know, like it says this, so yeah, Jasus.

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Speaker 1: Is like Kiki just so you know the guy is deaf,

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Speaker 1: or he opened the door.

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Speaker 6: Like hey, y'all, and I'm like, wait a minute, he's

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Speaker 6: back to he's can you guys keep it down?

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Speaker 1: Man, I'm deaf, Like what's going on? It says right here,

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Speaker 1: like do I haven't.

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Speaker 7: You know?

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Speaker 1: I don't know? That's I mean, that is kind of

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Speaker 1: brilliant to be honest with. When someone texted six to three.

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Speaker 11: Oh.

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Speaker 2: When I was in beauty school to become an esthetician,

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Speaker 2: we had to tell them every single benefit of every

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Speaker 2: single thing we were going to do, and people would

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Speaker 2: not care, even if they were sleeping. We had to

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Speaker 2: continue telling them. It was horrible. I would be so

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Speaker 2: relieved sitting there talking to a sleeping person like a psycho.

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Speaker 1: There you go, there you go.

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Speaker 12: Let me rist.

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Speaker 2: So I think you're fine. I don't think it's I

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Speaker 2: don't I should I take it back. It's not route

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Speaker 2: at all, Okay, so I believe it was. We're out

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Speaker 2: on the porch, which is a table outside of the

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Speaker 2: studio where the pre show, the pre show production meeting occurs.

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Speaker 1: AKA.

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Speaker 2: I have no idea what the topic of conversation will

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Speaker 2: be when I walk in each morning, and today I

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Speaker 2: believe it was you, Paulina, who said that you didn't

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Speaker 2: know that men could pee sitting down.

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Speaker 1: I had no idea, like physicologically, physicologically just tackle the

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Speaker 1: mic again, Okay, let's just start.

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Speaker 6: And you can go right now, and you can look around.

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Speaker 13: You like when you aim, you you're on a mission,

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Speaker 1: But I believe you. Fred like you're not well, say,

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Speaker 3: And I'm like why because the urinal is the easiest

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Speaker 2: The only thing I can say is that it could

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Speaker 2: But this doesn't happen.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't happen. But you're far away, you're getting closer.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't happen. Someone's exit a boot camp. We would

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that's that.

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Speaker 13: I saw my best friend do it one time we

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Speaker 1: Are you pooping? And he's like, no, I'm being And

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Speaker 2: One of the perks, the peak perks of being a

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Speaker 1: Just happened there? I have nothing, what? What? What is

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Speaker 1: going on? I don't swear word. I didn't hear she's cussed. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you cussed. I didn't do that. I didn't hear out

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Speaker 1: I don't mean it quietly. I've never known that you

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Speaker 1: I don't know where I was going. I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: So this is why I want to know eight five

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Speaker 2: Like what is something that fascinated you? Like I'm trying

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no, no, no, the same way that I

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Speaker 1: I don't think you're just like you know what I mean,

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Speaker 2: But like, actually, Google, I googled this to see like

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Speaker 1: Were surprised to learn about men morning.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know if I can say this either,

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Speaker 1: There's a there's a term for it morning.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, two by four morning home depot lumber,

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Speaker 2: It's and it doesn't have to be a rhyme or reason.

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Speaker 2: It just is that way. Sometimes you just sort of emerge,

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Speaker 2: I'm just telling you what's on this list the things

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Speaker 2: But I guess a lot of women didn't know that,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I think there are certain things that

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Speaker 2: And they'll be like forty. Another guy will be like

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Speaker 3: I mean nothing really, I mean it's it's I mean,

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Speaker 3: I mean, we're no surprises and we just sit to

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Speaker 1: Let me see here sitting and it's nice getting load

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Speaker 1: off going through this list of things that that's surprise

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Speaker 2: My ex wife was shocked at how short a phone

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Speaker 2: And I guess she's surprised because I guess women don't.

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Speaker 2: They can't have a short conversation like that. You guys

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Speaker 1: we have the room. I love what you called me.

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Speaker 1: I don't pick up the fire. If the phone rings,

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Speaker 1: I'll send you a text and it will be short

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Speaker 3: Sometimes it's too long, like what I had to call

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you have to call it about? Yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Oh, I was like, what what you didn't

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Speaker 1: I didn't tell you.

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Speaker 17: Try not to.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what comes to mind for you guys.

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Speaker 1: How much they eat? Really? Yeah?

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Speaker 13: something just simple, easy, pot in the air fire. Yeah,

441
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Speaker 13: make a little zucchini like something just really cuick with

442
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Speaker 13: some hot sauce.

443
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Speaker 1: It was my thing, yes, And then now zucchini again, zucchini,

444
00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:41,000
Speaker 1: zucchina and I got it. But with Hobby, he can't

445
00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:43,080
Speaker 1: eat crackers and zucchini, like it.

446
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Speaker 3: Just doesn't work all of us, Like I would be

447
00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:47,080
Speaker 3: good with that, But Mike is the type of man

448
00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:49,320
Speaker 3: that needs a meal. We need a main course, and

449
00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:51,159
Speaker 3: we need a sign and then we probably need like

450
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Speaker 3: some sort of bread or potato. Right, I'm like a

451
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Speaker 3: mom in the seventies, like whipping up like courses with

452
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Speaker 3: my apron.

453
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Speaker 2: Someone texted I used to date a guy that had

454
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Speaker 2: to be completely naked to go number two. Apparently he

455
00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:11,080
Speaker 2: had to be comfortable and relaxed getting naked. The only

456
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Speaker 2: reason I would be completely naked doing that is if

457
00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:18,119
Speaker 2: I and I often do this shower immediately after. I

458
00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,120
Speaker 2: like to try and time that stuff out to where

459
00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:22,760
Speaker 2: a shower is at least on the game plan.

460
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Speaker 15: Yeah.

461
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Speaker 3: No, I'm very strategic about that. Mike does the same thing.

462
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Speaker 3: He has a shower after.

463
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Speaker 1: Like if I go.

464
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Speaker 2: Home and it's like, okay, that that's gonna happen, and

465
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Speaker 2: then I look at my schedule and be like, all right,

466
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Speaker 2: well I don't have anything to do until I go

467
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Speaker 2: to the gym. Then I go to the gym, and

468
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Speaker 2: then I'm gonna take a shower, so I'm good until

469
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Speaker 2: I won't see anybody until then, so we're all set.

470
00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:42,200
Speaker 2: But like, if I'm gonna go out after the set event,

471
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Speaker 2: then there is a shower to follow. And the worst

472
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Speaker 2: possible scenario is if you don't think you have to

473
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Speaker 2: and then you take a shower, you get out of

474
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Speaker 2: the shower and you realize you have to, and you're

475
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Speaker 2: like damn it, because then't not like what if I'm

476
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Speaker 2: going on a date, you know, and I'll shower again

477
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Speaker 2: because you know.

478
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Speaker 1: If it's not a go poop, I can't be caught

479
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Speaker 1: off guard. Yeah, you know what, I can't be caught

480
00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:03,960
Speaker 1: off guard.

481
00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:05,879
Speaker 2: Like I can't have this situation where I'm at the

482
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Speaker 2: dinner and then I didn't and then it's like, hey,

483
00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:09,720
Speaker 2: well you want to go back to mine, And it's

484
00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:12,000
Speaker 2: like I wasn't ready for this.

485
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Speaker 14: Yeah, for my friends and I, like we all have

486
00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:19,520
Speaker 14: the shared experience of our men using our expensive shampoo

487
00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:21,280
Speaker 14: and conditioner and stuff in the shower.

488
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Speaker 1: Like one of their.

489
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Speaker 14: Husbands was like, yeah, it just smells really good, so

490
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Speaker 14: I started using it as body wash, Like they don't

491
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Speaker 14: know how expensive is.

492
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Speaker 1: Like my boyfriend is brown. Here he was using my.

493
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Speaker 14: Purple blonde shampoo and he has his own shampoo.

494
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Speaker 2: He needs to learn how to read, because yesterday it

495
00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:41,160
Speaker 2: was he's taking suppositories in his mouth.

496
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Speaker 1: Well those weren't in the jar, so that one's.

497
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Speaker 2: But how about we read before he puts them in

498
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Speaker 2: her mouth and then like he's using purple hair uh

499
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Speaker 2: shampoo on his.

500
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Speaker 1: Knew he was using it just like.

501
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Speaker 2: Anything I read this, even if I'm too I'm going

502
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Speaker 2: to use purple hair shampoo.

503
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Speaker 1: If I don't purple, I'm not going to do I'm

504
00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:03,240
Speaker 1: not going to do anything to you. I don't know that,

505
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Speaker 1: so I'm not going to do it.

506
00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:06,960
Speaker 2: I'm gonna read the bottle because what if I actually

507
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,879
Speaker 2: mix up the nair bottle. What if the bottles just

508
00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:12,320
Speaker 2: hanging around it before long chunks of hair coming out.

509
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I like to look at

510
00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:17,720
Speaker 1: what I'm putting on my body before I do it.

511
00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:20,560
Speaker 1: If it does right, yeah, I know what the thing is.

512
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:22,960
Speaker 2: I'm not just popping it in my mouth or putting

513
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:25,080
Speaker 2: it on my hair or my body. I'm just not

514
00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:25,920
Speaker 2: well again.

515
00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,320
Speaker 1: He thought it was magnesium, not suppository.

516
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Speaker 3: I wouldn't take anything out of your jar period that.

517
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Speaker 3: I can't get over it exactly all day yesterday. I'm like,

518
00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:40,159
Speaker 3: I'm not just taking random stuff. I'm not using random

519
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,520
Speaker 3: stuff unless I know what it is. Thought he knew

520
00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 3: what it was, but he clearly didn't. But there's no

521
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Speaker 3: way to be sure that's not in a bottle, thank you.

522
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Speaker 6: It's a surprising thing, though, how freely men will use

523
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Speaker 6: women's product like.

524
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Speaker 1: What I'm saying. I won't. I never will use some

525
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Speaker 1: of these products.

526
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Speaker 6: Like I never let me put on his deodorant, Like

527
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Speaker 6: he will use my deodorant, you know, with.

528
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Speaker 1: My lotion, he will pick it up. You guys need

529
00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 1: to All my friends men do the same thing.

530
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Speaker 14: And it's like that was over one hundred dollars shampoo

531
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Speaker 14: and you're just like putting it on your body.

532
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 1: Stop it. That's wild.

533
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:14,080
Speaker 3: Like we have we are two men that live together

534
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:18,280
Speaker 3: and we have separate shampoo, body wash, your like different brands, different.

535
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:19,400
Speaker 1: Sons, like different locations.

536
00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:23,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, touring random substances in my hand and putting them

537
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:24,679
Speaker 2: on my body unless I look to see what.

538
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Speaker 1: You're a rare breed.

539
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Speaker 9: You don't pee everywhere, you know.

540
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:33,200
Speaker 1: I just kind of obvious. I don't know your gender. Man.

541
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Speaker 2: Men get shrinkage when they swim in the pool. That

542
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,600
Speaker 2: was surprising to women. I guess it has to do

543
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 2: with the temperature again.

544
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, let me see here.

545
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Speaker 2: My mom used to tell me not to use this

546
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Speaker 2: is a dude, I'm nate. My mom used to tell

547
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Speaker 2: me not to use her shampoo and conditioner because it

548
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 2: was for girls and it would turn my hair green

549
00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:54,159
Speaker 2: because I'm a boy. She didn't want me to use

550
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:55,640
Speaker 2: her fancy shampoo and conditioner.

551
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Speaker 1: She's smart.

552
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Speaker 2: I was embarrassingly old before I figured it out. See

553
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Speaker 2: there you go, that's that's very smart.

554
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,440
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm gonna do that. Have your partners ever used

555
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 1: your toothbrush?

556
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 4: No?

557
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,120
Speaker 1: I almost broke up. Yeah, I might have to wear

558
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 1: some of the guys I had. I had a girl

559
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Speaker 1: to do that.

560
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Speaker 18: One time.

561
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Speaker 2: We were in a hotel and she wasn't expected to

562
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Speaker 2: be there and she just I see her brushing her

563
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Speaker 2: teeth and I was like, did you bring a toothbrush

564
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 2: for you?

565
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,479
Speaker 1: And she's like, no, I the one that was in

566
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 1: your thing.

567
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,199
Speaker 2: And I was like, I realized that we were just

568
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 2: very close to one another, but I wasn't between your teeth.

569
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 1: Right, you know what I mean?

570
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:33,480
Speaker 2: Like, get the activities that took place were unspeakable moments ago.

571
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 2: But I mean, I mean that's different than my plaque. Really,

572
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:38,520
Speaker 2: can we just exa.

573
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Speaker 3: We have the same like power toothbrush and I have

574
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Speaker 3: them labeled like one has an M, one has a J,

575
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 3: so there is no room for error.

576
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Speaker 6: Almost broke up in Mexico over this over tooth bru

577
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Speaker 6: international border.

578
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 2: You know, I threw that thing. I threw that toothbrush

579
00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:57,120
Speaker 2: away went and got another one, yep.

580
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Speaker 1: But he had to go find me another toothbrush.

581
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 6: He had to go downstairs and by at the little bar.

582
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 1: And if you went to the bar, right, we were

583
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,639
Speaker 1: about to break up over that. He went to the

584
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 1: bar and got you another toothbrush.

585
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 6: Yes, but you guys do like other and that's what

586
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 6: he's said. He's like, come on, but there.

587
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 1: Is a difference between what is between my teeth, yeah,

588
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: and in my mouth almost. Well, I'm not at all detailed,

589
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 1: but I know, and I'm not a German phoe, but

590
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 1: that even gross.

591
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 3: That is because it's literally like a device that removes dirty.

592
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,880
Speaker 1: Out of Thank you, thank you. It's not necessary. I'm

593
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 1: putting it in like and the other.

594
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 2: Activity is we're practicing to procreate in the world. That's

595
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 2: a necessy. It has to be done. You don't have

596
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:46,639
Speaker 2: to use my toothbrush. We have to practice procreation. We

597
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,960
Speaker 2: have to and we have to get good at it.

598
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:53,919
Speaker 1: It's imperative. Yes, you don't have to use my toothbrush.

599
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:55,080
Speaker 1: That's the grounds determination.

600
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 7: Man.

601
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Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you very much. I wish you in

602
00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,200
Speaker 2: your future endeavors. That's what I said with this person.

603
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 2: I said, you can go now I switched the hotel

604
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:05,639
Speaker 2: key out, she said. She knocked on the door and

605
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:07,920
Speaker 2: said no blowing glass and that was the end of it.

606
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 2: And by the way, you owe me, you know, seven

607
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,160
Speaker 2: dollars for a toothbrush ertever or whatever.

608
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: I'm from a tooth bros. Cars I can't remember because

609
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 1: they're free of the dentist. Guys, I don't know how

610
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 1: many of you have like teenage kids. Obviously no one

611
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 1: in the room does.

612
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 2: I mean, I know the geeche's like two going on, yeah,

613
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 2: you know seventeen. However, this is the latest thing that

614
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 2: you didn't know you needed to do as a parent

615
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:33,640
Speaker 2: that I'm learning this morning. It's called the college bed party.

616
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 2: Have you heard about this or you have you've heard

617
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 2: about this? So people, parents, and by people I mean

618
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,880
Speaker 2: parents only people with money in this equation are having

619
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 2: to spend big bucks to announce their kid's college decision.

620
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 2: So college bound teens decide this month or have decided

621
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Speaker 2: early decision where they'll continue their education, and parents are

622
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Speaker 2: having to spend lots of hours and thousands of dollars

623
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Speaker 2: on bed parties for thenouncement, which in itself which broake

624
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 2: them up with a different name for it.

625
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:03,919
Speaker 1: I didn't sound right.

626
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 2: No, But the craze it was popularized in the South

627
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 2: apparently involves decorating a high school senior's bed to the

628
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 2: extreme with all of the school themed colors, candy, balloons,

629
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Speaker 2: and merchandise. Fans say that this expensive ritual is a

630
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:21,920
Speaker 2: festive way to mark the milestone, while critics view them

631
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,359
Speaker 2: as over the top displays of excess.

632
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: And you know, this probably.

633
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:29,919
Speaker 2: Started with like a blanket and a pillow and somebody

634
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,399
Speaker 2: posted that to social media, maybe some balloons or something,

635
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 2: and now it's probably gone to like where there's a

636
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 2: Rolls Royce in the bed. Yes, that's the color of

637
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 2: the school. Because this is not about the kids.

638
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 1: Oh no, it's not. This is one of those things

639
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:43,920
Speaker 1: and there are so many of them that I've learned

640
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 1: in parenting.

641
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,439
Speaker 2: This is not about the kids. The kids benefit from this.

642
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:51,160
Speaker 2: This is about parents not being outdone by other parents.

643
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 1: That's what this is about.

644
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 13: Our social media. You got to show off to everybody,

645
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:55,880
Speaker 13: That's what it is. Because you can just literally hold

646
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Speaker 13: up your letter.

647
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: Was no, we did. We would hold up our letter

648
00:26:58,119 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 1: and smile and I got a.

649
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 2: T shirt or a sweatshirt or something and I worked

650
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 2: to school one day and they're like, oh, you're going

651
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 2: to ask them you We didn't think you'd get in there,

652
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 2: just barely right.

653
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:11,439
Speaker 1: The book storted by the sweatshirt. That's what I got.

654
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:13,399
Speaker 1: I did go to the bookstore too. When I got

655
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: accepted to u IC, I was like, take me a Halsted.

656
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 1: I want to go get a T shirt. You're in

657
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 1: a cab.

658
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I mean, but that's what this is about.

659
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 2: And I've learned that's what a lot of parents think

660
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 2: it's about.

661
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 1: It's kind of sad.

662
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Speaker 2: It is sad, but I've learned the more than my

663
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,239
Speaker 2: friends have kids older, they get that a lot of

664
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 2: what they do, they love their kids, they want the

665
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 2: best of their kids. I'm not discrediting their parentsing, but

666
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 2: if it's not what they're doing, it's how they're comparing themselves.

667
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 2: How you're comparing yourselves to what other parents are doing

668
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 2: for their kids and how they provide it. And it's

669
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 2: such an unfair thing to do because the parameters are

670
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 2: never the same.

671
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 5: You know.

672
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:53,679
Speaker 2: It's like if you're you're a working mom and dad works,

673
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,160
Speaker 2: and you know you're not able to pick your kid

674
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 2: up every day from school, and you're not able to

675
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,199
Speaker 2: make these bento box lunches with your customs suit she

676
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,440
Speaker 2: rolls and you know, get up at four in the

677
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:05,239
Speaker 2: morning and make teppanyaki for your kid or you know,

678
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 2: say this crazy crazy stuff that you see online.

679
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not exaggerating, that's real.

680
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 2: And then you know your friend is. But your friend

681
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 2: maybe doesn't have to work because or whatever. Maybe the

682
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:18,360
Speaker 2: husband works or the wife works, someone makes a lot

683
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,879
Speaker 2: of money, maybe someone has a lot of money, maybe

684
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 2: someone has a nanny, you know, so then you can

685
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 2: you can do some of this stuff, and then other

686
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 2: parents can't do it, and then they start to feel,

687
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:29,360
Speaker 2: you know, resentful and feel bad.

688
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:31,920
Speaker 1: It's like, this is crazy. Yeah, if you love your.

689
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 2: Kid, are you providing you know, nourishment and love and

690
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 2: and you know shelter, Okay, buny me a nice sweatshirt

691
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:41,240
Speaker 2: or something when I get into college, because I'm gonna

692
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 2: have to pay for that too.

693
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 13: I'm sure I don't. I just feel like it's all

694
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 13: a big show for just other people. And that's what

695
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 13: I've learned in parenting. It's like, even before I had

696
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 13: my baby, I would see certain things and I'm like,

697
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 13: did we really have to do this whole thing, like

698
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 13: for the first birthday party. I know, culturally, for some

699
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 13: cultures that is like a huge deal and I love it.

700
00:28:57,760 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 13: But for me, I was like, we're just gonna do

701
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 13: a pizza party with an open bar, which actually was.

702
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 1: I thought it was. It was really quite the sacrifice

703
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 1: you had, Frankie J attend that as opposed to your wedding.

704
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 2: I saved the twenty thousand and the several Southwest tickets

705
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 2: that we had to buy. Yes, I mean I couldn't

706
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 2: believe it. I waked into Danny's Pizza and there was

707
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 2: Frankie J singing, you know I don't want to try yeah,

708
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 2: And I.

709
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: Was like, this is crazy, right, Jenny Pizza. Yeah.

710
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 2: And Gigi was drooling on herself and you know, begging

711
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 2: to go outside.

712
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 1: So it was crazy. It was like, can you appreciate this?

713
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: That's the Frankie Jaye. Yeah, I did this for you,

714
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 1: not for anybody else.

715
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 13: You Gigi, and she knew exactly what was going on

716
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 13: at that moment at age one.

717
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 1: And I love a party that appeals to I love

718
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 1: a kid's party that appeals to adults, not that I

719
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 1: get invited in many of those but when I do,

720
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 1: I love a parent who's considered here's the area for

721
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 1: the kids, and here's the area for the adults. You know,

722
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 1: we have food, we have nice drink. You know.

723
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 2: I liked the it was a one year old party

724
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 2: that you had, but it was pizza and beer and sports,

725
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 2: and there.

726
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 1: Was like stuff for the adults to do too. I

727
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: appreciated that.

728
00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 13: And then the little corner we had the balloons and

729
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 13: the two people whatever, which a lot of adults got

730
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 13: glitter tattoos, so hey, it was for everybody.

731
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 1: I got a neck tattoo. I saw they got it on. Yeah, no,

732
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 1: but mine was permanent. I didn't realize that. I felt

733
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 1: teardrop on. Yeah, well I got that too.

734
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 2: In this company, apparently if you have a neck tattoo,

735
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 2: you make a lot more money.

736
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: So I've decided to do that. Yeah.

737
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:19,959
Speaker 2: So yeah, no, that's why I left it. Yeah, I

738
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 2: thought I thought it was going to wash off, But

739
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 2: in fact I didn't realize that they were permanent tattoos.

740
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 2: That you were having two tons of children. Yeah, I

741
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 2: told you. Yeah, But the tear drop that was one

742
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:31,800
Speaker 2: I really thought would go away. But anyway, so I

743
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 2: have to explain that one to my to my friends.

744
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 2: But yeah, so that's the thing you're supposed to be

745
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 2: doing for your kids today. I'm sorry if you If

746
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:41,480
Speaker 2: you're not, then you're just not You're not up to bar.

747
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 2: It's you have to what can you possibly do to

748
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 2: a bed?

749
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 1: I mean my parents were sad. They were in mourning

750
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 1: because they were helping me pay for it. So they're like,

751
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 1: this is gonna suck. You know, there's no bed party.

752
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 1: It was like, you better figure it out, girl. My

753
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 1: parents were static.

754
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 2: They were like, really get out, really, Like what when

755
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 2: is the first day you can go? Like is there

756
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 2: a summer semester? And there was, and they're like, great,

757
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 2: you should go to that.

758
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 18: Oh wow.

759
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 14: I did ask for an early move in. I I

760
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 14: was the one ready to go. I was like, can

761
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 14: I come up early in climb of the storms?

762
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 2: Well, and it's a famous story in my house. But

763
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 2: my parents were very generous to help me with college,

764
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 2: and that was always the thing growing up was hey,

765
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 2: if you can get into Harvard, we'll help you with that.

766
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 2: Like if you can get into Harvard, which of course

767
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 2: I could not. I barely got into Skysdale Community College.

768
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 1: But that was the thing.

769
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 2: So it came down and you guys have probably heard

770
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 2: the story, but it came down to two schools in Dallas,

771
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 2: in the Dallas area. My mom went to SMU and

772
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 2: the rival was TCU, and those were that I got

773
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 2: into both and those were the school So we flew

774
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 2: to Dallas and we went to TCU and we had

775
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 2: the hottest tour guide and I had the best time

776
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 2: and I loved it there.

777
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 1: It was great. Then we went to SMU.

778
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 2: It was fine, it was fine, didn't have a hot

779
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 2: tour guide, it was whatever. I was really influenced by

780
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 2: the tour guide. I was they knew what they were doing.

781
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 2: And so we go to dinner. My mom is like, well,

782
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 2: what's you going to be And I said, Mom, I

783
00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 2: want to go to Texas Christian TCU, the rival, And

784
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 2: she's like, hmmm, how you gonna pay for that?

785
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 1: And she was not kidding. Oh, I guess are going

786
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 1: to answer me. And that's where I went, good decision,

787
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 1: I get it. My kids are not going to you

788
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 1: of them, Well that really really don't care. What if

789
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 1: they got a scholarship to the rival college at doing it?

790
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 2: What if they got a full ride scholarship and they

791
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 2: were going to pay them nil money to go to

792
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 2: Ohio State.

793
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 1: So my kids an athletes.

794
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, man il money to go to Ohio the Ohio

795
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 2: State University.

796
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 1: Oh, they can go there, they just can't go to

797
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 1: you about.

798
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:33,719
Speaker 7: I don't know.

799
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

800
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 2: And there's it's there are certain colleges that, like, once

801
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 2: you get affiliated with them, stuff gets weird. And I'm

802
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 2: not going to sit here and list them all because

803
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 2: because you know what they are, and I don't want to.

804
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 1: I don't want to make people mad.

805
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 2: But there's there are some colleges that once you become

806
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 2: involved in one rhymes with Notre Dame, things start to

807
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 2: get a little weird.

808
00:32:54,520 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 11: I don't I'm just saying Fred Show next.

809
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 2: And Kiki, you have a demographic of fans that I

810
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 2: never knew about.

811
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 1: Really it is fifty plus year old white men. What

812
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 1: did I come give me every day? Fred Show? I

813
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 1: have a lot of respect for people, the Thespians, state

814
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 1: and actors. It's very hard to do. I'm sure, I

815
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 1: just for me, I just for some reason, it makes

816
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:39,120
Speaker 1: me uncomfortable, like people singing in a non I should say,

817
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 1: a non musical way, like a conversational way, like that.

818
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 2: Like, go into a concert doesn't make me up well,

819
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 2: I mean, the crowds make me uncomfortable, but like the

820
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:51,200
Speaker 2: event itself is amazing. But for some reason, people like overacting,

821
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 2: like over dramatizing basic things. It just makes me uncomfortable.

822
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 2: And it's a me problem. It's a me issue. I

823
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 2: guess I'm just too dry and literal and devoid of emotion.

824
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 2: I guess I'm not sure. But like I went to

825
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 2: Dear Revan Hanson.

826
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,320
Speaker 1: My sister wanted to go for her for her birthday,

827
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:10,239
Speaker 1: and I went to New York and Broadway and the

828
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 1: whole thing.

829
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 2: I actually really liked it. I thought they did a

830
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 2: great job and it's a sweet story. But my parents,

831
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:18,439
Speaker 2: my mom, just just to sum it up, my mom

832
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,760
Speaker 2: and my aunt and my sister are sobbing.

833
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 1: My brother in law is looking at sports scores. My

834
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: dad's asleep, and I'm just and I'm going, Okay, where

835
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 1: what a motley crew I'm with right now? But I

836
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 1: don't know. For some reason, stage acting just makes me

837
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:39,879
Speaker 1: feel weird. I just really want you to see Wicked, though,

838
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 1: because it's so good. Even I love it. And I'm

839
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:45,960
Speaker 1: not a musical girl either. Really, Yeah, I've got a

840
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:50,879
Speaker 1: voicemail about that. I just have a check out. I've

841
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 1: ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.

842
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:58,359
Speaker 1: Hey Lisa, good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you? Hey?

843
00:34:58,360 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 15: Good morning?

844
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 2: So what's going on with this guy, Seth? Can you

845
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:03,439
Speaker 2: give us all the backstory about how you met? Any

846
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:05,439
Speaker 2: days you've been on kind of where everything is now?

847
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 18: Yeah?

848
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, okay. So we met at a party and

849
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 15: I actually asked for his number, and like, we flirted

850
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 15: for a bit at the party and then I asked

851
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:18,760
Speaker 15: you if you wanted to get drinks and he said yes,

852
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 15: so we did. And you know, I'm usually not like

853
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 15: outgoing or forward, but there was just something about him that,

854
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 15: you know, just made me feel like, yeah, go for it,

855
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:30,760
Speaker 15: you know, give it a hand.

856
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:31,399
Speaker 1: So I did.

857
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 15: And now after we made we had drinks, he's not

858
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:39,439
Speaker 15: talking to me, so like he's ghosting me, I think,

859
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 15: And I'm just trying to see what's going on because

860
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 15: it was cool, all right.

861
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 2: So you look back on this date and you were,

862
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:48,839
Speaker 2: you know, attracted to him, and you thought everything went well,

863
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 2: well enough that you were hoping to see him again.

864
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 2: But oh yeah, no call from him. He hasn't reached out,

865
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 2: he hasn't texted. Have you reached out to him, he's

866
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 2: not responding to you as well.

867
00:35:58,120 --> 00:35:59,880
Speaker 15: Yeah, I reached out, but like not like in an

868
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 15: amount of times, but definitely I have reached out and

869
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 15: he's yeah, he's just not talking to me. And I

870
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 15: don't I don't think I did anything. I mean, the

871
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 15: direction was there on my end for sure, right.

872
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 2: I mean, if you go on a date with somebody

873
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 2: that you thought went well and you text them and

874
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,359
Speaker 2: they don't respond or reach out to you afterwards, then

875
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 2: there's a difference of opinion then, and let's see if

876
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 2: we can figure out what that is. I'm going to

877
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 2: play a song. Come back, Lisa, you'll be on the

878
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 2: phone when we call Seth. We'll try and get him

879
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 2: on the line and and ask some questions. You welcome

880
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 2: to jump in at some point, and the hope is

881
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 2: we can straighten this out and set you guys up

882
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 2: on another date that.

883
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:39,760
Speaker 1: We pay for. Okay, thank you, Hey, Lisa, Hey.

884
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 2: Welcome back. Let's call this guy Seth. You guys went

885
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 2: on a date that you thought went really well. You

886
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 2: have texted him or reached out since the date because

887
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:50,360
Speaker 2: he didn't hear from him. He hasn't responded at all,

888
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 2: and you're confused, like, what you know?

889
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: What date was I on?

890
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 2: I guess if you thought it went well and he's

891
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:56,799
Speaker 2: not calling you back?

892
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,400
Speaker 15: Yeah, I mean I was thinking he was busy, but

893
00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 15: maybe I don't know. I just really want to you know,

894
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 15: it was a good date. I want to know.

895
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, well let's give him a call now.

896
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,760
Speaker 2: And I wish you, I wish you good luck, Lisa.

897
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 1: That that sounded very formal. I wish you, I wish you,

898
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 1: I give you, I offer you best twishes on this call,

899
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:20,360
Speaker 1: good luck, Lisa, Thank you.

900
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 18: Hi?

901
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: Is this Seth?

902
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 18: Yes?

903
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:31,359
Speaker 1: This is Seth. Good morning.

904
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:32,919
Speaker 2: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,

905
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 2: the morning radio show, and I have to tell you

906
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:36,440
Speaker 2: that we aren't the radio right now. The whole crew

907
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 2: is here and I would need your permission against you

908
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 2: with the call. Can which that for just a second,

909
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 2: would you mind?

910
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 1: Yeah? Absolutely? Yeah? Well, thank you.

911
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 2: This guy actually sounds happy to hear from us, which

912
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 2: is is rare. What's going on with a woman named

913
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,879
Speaker 2: Lisa who you went on a date with recently? Because

914
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 2: she reached out to us and I told us that

915
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 2: she had met you and you guys went out and

916
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 2: that she enjoyed it, but hasn't heard from you, and

917
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 2: she's hoping that we can figure out why.

918
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 19: Yeah, I I was genuinely scared of her.

919
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:09,799
Speaker 1: Why scared of her? Why is this the same lady

920
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:13,480
Speaker 1: from the other day? Why?

921
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 19: Well, so, you know, we go on the dates and

922
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 19: things are going normally, and because we were we met

923
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 19: at the party and we were on the day and

924
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 19: we're and we're having a good time. And then she

925
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,319
Speaker 19: she leans over to me and she says, I didn't

926
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,879
Speaker 19: want to tell you this at the party, but we

927
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:37,240
Speaker 19: are twin flames, which means at one point our soul

928
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 19: were one, but they were split.

929
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 2: Wow, Dad, is whoa what are the odds of you

930
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,759
Speaker 2: guys finding each other? That is incredible? You on one

931
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:48,759
Speaker 2: and now you're separate, right, you're going to come back

932
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:49,359
Speaker 2: together again?

933
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 1: I assume that.

934
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 19: It seemed to be her intention.

935
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,280
Speaker 10: She kept going on about that we had this divine connection,

936
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 10: that our souls were split in half and they will

937
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 10: only be complete their to garter and you if you.

938
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 2: Were once one to come back together. Guys, that sounds like, uh,

939
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 2: that's illegal in forty eight states.

940
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:12,280
Speaker 1: Wow.

941
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 2: Wow, so a spiritual reconnection because I have heard about

942
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 2: this before, this twin flame thing. I think it's a

943
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 2: documentary about it. But people, yeah, hm, well let me

944
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 2: ask Lisa, the other half of you. I mean you

945
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 2: probably you probably know Lisa's here because you guys are

946
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:31,879
Speaker 2: you know, you're one spiritually. But I forgot to mention

947
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,800
Speaker 2: that Lisa is here. Lisa, that is really intense that

948
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 2: you think you found your twin flame. I mean that's

949
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 2: a lot to sort of put on somebody.

950
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 15: Well, I mean like when you know, you know and

951
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 15: we do have a very very strong connection. I believe

952
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 15: it is. It is divine and I do believe that

953
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 15: he absolutely is my twin flames.

954
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:54,319
Speaker 1: Huh Okay, and then how like how does one know this?

955
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 4: Yeah?

956
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 1: Identify it? Yeah? Like how am I going to know

957
00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 1: when I'm like walking around in Walmart like I would

958
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: know wouldn't comes up? How am I going to.

959
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 15: I mean, you know, like everything gets worked out in

960
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:10,760
Speaker 15: a perfect way on our on our days the party.

961
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 15: So like we just met, we we we made eye

962
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 15: contact and doing that, he like he knew what I

963
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:21,359
Speaker 15: was going to order, and uh, it was just all

964
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 15: these guys, and he barely knew me, and it was

965
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 15: very real.

966
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:26,359
Speaker 2: You knew what you were going to order. You went

967
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 2: to a pizza place, I mean you ordered. I don't

968
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,399
Speaker 2: know where you went, but did you know what? Did

969
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 2: you already know deeth what she was going to order?

970
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 2: Or were you psychic? Did you know she wanted the

971
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 2: orange chicken?

972
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 1: We did.

973
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:41,799
Speaker 19: She's sorry about the drink and she had a Gen

974
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 19: and Tonic before, and I was like, I'm going to

975
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 19: get you another Gen Tonic.

976
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:50,399
Speaker 2: And that dude, you guys were meant to be. That's

977
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 2: incredible that you knew the same drink she was having before.

978
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 2: I mean, I can see a way feel this way.

979
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 2: The guy he just knew innately to order you another

980
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 2: of what you had, but.

981
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 15: He knew that I need somebody that pays attentions like

982
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 15: and like that's rare. It's real, and like I really

983
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 15: do believe.

984
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:14,359
Speaker 20: That sadly courteous people that is rare. You're right about it.

985
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 20: It sounds like this guy was like breathing and attentive.

986
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 20: So I don't know, you know, it's not everybody.

987
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 2: On dates is these days. Okay, well, I'm not going

988
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 2: to knock this. You feel a certain kind of way

989
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 2: about him. But here's what I would say, Lisa, is

990
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 2: it even if you're right, that's a lot to hear

991
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 2: on a first date, especially from somebody who might not

992
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:32,399
Speaker 2: believe in this.

993
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 15: I mean, it's it's not going to go away, like

994
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 15: if we're twinslames, Like we're going to end up reconnecting

995
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 15: at some point. It's inevitable, Like it's happening. We've met now,

996
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 15: and and our pads are going to kid, They're always

997
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 15: going to cross.

998
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 2: So you may as well just pull the triggers out

999
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 2: because she's never leaving you.

1000
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 1: Ever, I might, I might have to pull a trigger

1001
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:54,359
Speaker 1: on a restraining order.

1002
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 6: Yes, it's given thirsty really, Yeah, you don't buy any

1003
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 6: of this. No, how many twenty flames have you in

1004
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 6: your life? Was your ex also your twin flame?

1005
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 1: Oh wow? Did you feel that about the lad.

1006
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:07,839
Speaker 15: We did have a really really strong connection. But no,

1007
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 15: he was not. But Seth is like, this is real.

1008
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 1: You don't know, Seth. Yeah, it's giving a little bits.

1009
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 2: It's giving a little bit like everyone might be your soulmate.

1010
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:24,439
Speaker 2: And I think that's a really sweet aspiration, except it's

1011
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:24,879
Speaker 2: not true.

1012
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:27,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone's not going to be your soulmate.

1013
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:29,840
Speaker 13: Yes, they say that the the twin flames are actually

1014
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,799
Speaker 13: the toxic ones. They're the ones that, yes, you connect with,

1015
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 13: but it's the one that you're not supposed to be

1016
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 13: with because it's a toxic relationship.

1017
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:39,880
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Yeah, she should look for her soulmate if anything.

1018
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: And I don't think that is have you heard that?

1019
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 2: Have you heard that, Lisa, that maybe it's a sign

1020
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 2: that you shouldn't be with the sky run.

1021
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 15: I think I think it's just the opposite. I think

1022
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:51,839
Speaker 15: that it's toxic if you avoid it, like I think

1023
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 15: that if you just go away from it, that's toxic.

1024
00:42:55,239 --> 00:43:00,800
Speaker 15: So I mean, I'll see he him again. It's okay?

1025
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 1: That actually okay? So well and yet order oh no

1026
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 1: not Yeah, I don't know.

1027
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:11,359
Speaker 2: I feel bad if if she feels a certain kind

1028
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 2: of way. But we gotta play cooy, you know, we

1029
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 2: gotta we gotta play a little hard to get Lisa.

1030
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:17,759
Speaker 2: You know, you can't be saying this to everybody you meet.

1031
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:18,720
Speaker 7: I don't.

1032
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:19,879
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't.

1033
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 15: I mean, I don't say that to you. I don't.

1034
00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:23,919
Speaker 15: I don't feel that way about everyone. I do feel

1035
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 15: that way about that.

1036
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:30,919
Speaker 2: I just got rejected. I'm not a boy. It's a shame. Okay, Well, look,

1037
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 2: I'm gonna ask the question, Seth. I mean, I think

1038
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 2: I know the answer, But would you enjoy another experience?

1039
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 2: Because again you're I guess she's never going away. I mean,

1040
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 2: twin flames, it's once in a lifetime or maybe you know,

1041
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:44,800
Speaker 2: if she considers the last guy, then a couple of

1042
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 2: times in a lifetime.

1043
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 1: But you know, would let you try another date? Maybe

1044
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 1: I can't. I'm sorry, Lisa.

1045
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 19: I hope you find your true twin flame, but I

1046
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 19: don't really buy into it, and so I don't think

1047
00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:57,759
Speaker 19: I'm right for you.

1048
00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:02,280
Speaker 15: I mean, I understand, I get it, but you're wrong.

1049
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:05,359
Speaker 15: And I mean I hope that you can reconsider it

1050
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:08,800
Speaker 15: at some point because I think it's just you're avoiding

1051
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 15: what it's supposed to happen.

1052
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, you're you're avoiding it.

1053
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 2: So Lisa, good luck to you, Seth. I wish you

1054
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 2: the best of luck as well. I like, really, I

1055
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:18,319
Speaker 2: do ye safe.

1056
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:20,320
Speaker 7: Thank you.

1057
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 1: We have it on record, that set, it's all yeah,

1058
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 1: no worry, it's all document. It's in the public record.

1059
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 15: Now.

1060
00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:29,320
Speaker 2: I don't know if I have a theme song for Gideon,

1061
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 2: but body by Gideon personal Trainer to the Stars.

1062
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 1: And me, uh, is your high Gideon, what's going on? Look?

1063
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 1: Look at this guy?

1064
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:42,840
Speaker 2: Look at this guy? Can you just he just radiates

1065
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:46,800
Speaker 2: happiness and positivity. And it's so annoying because he's so

1066
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 2: good looking and he has this great smile and he

1067
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,759
Speaker 2: sounds like that, Well I'm huffing and puffing and having

1068
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 2: a heart attack and needing resuscitation. He's still smiling and

1069
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:59,399
Speaker 2: sounding like that. Like it's so frustrating, Gideon.

1070
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 7: Fred It's not frustrating. We have a good time. We'll

1071
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 7: never wear together it.

1072
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:05,359
Speaker 4: Sometimes you just don't realize it until it's over.

1073
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:07,839
Speaker 1: You're right, you're right.

1074
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 2: But we have our intern here, Bellahamine, who answers the

1075
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 2: phone and responds to many of the text messages.

1076
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:15,880
Speaker 1: And you said to me the other day that you want.

1077
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 21: To go couch to Chicago marathon, right right, Well, not Chicago,

1078
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 21: I'm doing a half marathon at the end of September.

1079
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:26,880
Speaker 2: Okay, So you haven't from now May June July August,

1080
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 2: so you have five months. Yeah, I've been a while

1081
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 2: to run a half marathon now, and so now tell

1082
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 2: Gideon where we're at. Because you've run how many marathons?

1083
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:36,800
Speaker 1: Now? Six? Seven?

1084
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 7: I run seven? But who's counting me?

1085
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:40,320
Speaker 16: Me?

1086
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 1: I'm counting.

1087
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 2: This guy's been to La, this guy's done Chicago many times,

1088
00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 2: He's done Houston, he's done New York.

1089
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 1: Wow, he ran around the world one time. Yeah that

1090
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 1: he climbed out.

1091
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 2: Everest six times. It's crazy and all while I ran

1092
00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 2: one mile, So it's crazy. So where are we at

1093
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 2: in our jer so far?

1094
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 1: Two days in?

1095
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 21: We're about two days in right now, My back is

1096
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,120
Speaker 21: hurting like no other. I didn't know your back hurts

1097
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 21: when you run, you guys, I didn't know the spots, everything,

1098
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:10,000
Speaker 21: everything hurts.

1099
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 2: So how much have we run? Cumulatively? Like what kind

1100
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 2: of running? What have we accomplished in two days?

1101
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:18,359
Speaker 21: We've done like a run walk walk walk run kind

1102
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 21: of a situation where I start to get embarrassed. The

1103
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 21: people behind me are looking at me. They're like, why

1104
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:26,840
Speaker 21: is this girl just running and walking? So I like

1105
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 21: motivate myself to keep running.

1106
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 2: But then I stopped because we had to learn Gideon

1107
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:32,120
Speaker 2: and said and teach me this is no one's actually

1108
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 2: looking at you.

1109
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:33,360
Speaker 1: You should just know.

1110
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 2: And they might be, but they're not really internalizing, So

1111
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 2: no one's really judging you.

1112
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:41,440
Speaker 1: There's that That the right, right, Gideon, That's correct.

1113
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:44,399
Speaker 7: Everybody has their own problems and struggles, and no one's

1114
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 7: concerned about the other person.

1115
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1116
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 21: That's my biggest thing is I feel like I look

1117
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:49,759
Speaker 21: like an idiot out there because I also run, like

1118
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 21: my legs go like side to side, Like they just

1119
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:53,799
Speaker 21: look a little silly.

1120
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Speaker 1: They go side to side. Yeah, that might be a.

1121
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 4: List.

1122
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Speaker 21: And I just always ran like this, and like people,

1123
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 21: my friends always make fun of me, and it's like,

1124
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 21: you know, I feel like people look at it when

1125
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 21: they like, I run, my legs go out.

1126
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 1: See. But here's the good news. The good news is

1127
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 1: that you can blend in.

1128
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:15,800
Speaker 2: Imagine me six five two and forty pounds, like trotting

1129
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:17,520
Speaker 2: down the lake. F its like, who is this NBA

1130
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:19,839
Speaker 2: player who's out of clearly out of shape and hasn't

1131
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:21,600
Speaker 2: been in the league in fifteen years? Like that's what

1132
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 2: they look when they think of me. And then they

1133
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:25,520
Speaker 2: see this very good looking fit guy and they're like,

1134
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 2: he must be paying him. You know what it looks

1135
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 2: like more on the lakefront, It looks like I hired

1136
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 2: someone to go on a date with me, you know

1137
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:33,719
Speaker 2: what I mean, because like no one is no one

1138
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 2: is saying, like this guy, the tall like guy that

1139
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:40,440
Speaker 2: looks like a moron running that that man is not

1140
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 2: electively training with him. Like no one thinks that I'm coming,

1141
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 2: that he's coming to me.

1142
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 1: For any form of inspiration. Yes, So don't worry about

1143
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 1: how you look. But I look like a sad child,

1144
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 1: you know. It's like running away from home on the

1145
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 1: lake past like I with like their parents ever tau

1146
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:02,720
Speaker 1: to run, just running away from your trouble. So giddy?

1147
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 1: What should she do? Like what's the progression here?

1148
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:09,600
Speaker 4: Well, first and foremost, my congratulations on making a decision

1149
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 4: and working towards that, because a lot of people don't

1150
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 4: give themselves credit for the fact that it takes some

1151
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 4: courage to kind of put yourself.

1152
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,359
Speaker 7: Out there, especially on the radio on the freat Show

1153
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 7: and just tell your friends and family that you had

1154
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 7: this audageous goal and you're actually doing something to work

1155
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 7: towards it.

1156
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 12: So big congratulations to you.

1157
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:30,160
Speaker 7: And then I would say that, like, this is a

1158
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:32,319
Speaker 7: journey and it's not going to be perfect. I'd say

1159
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:34,360
Speaker 7: this a print all the time, You're going to stumble

1160
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:37,320
Speaker 7: a little bit you may feel awkward or insecure at times,

1161
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 7: but you're doing something good for yourself, and you're doing

1162
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 7: something that's going to challenge you and change you positively,

1163
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:46,480
Speaker 7: so that to be a reward. You know what I mean,

1164
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 7: and its process and you'll learn so much about yourself

1165
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 7: as you go through it. So it's not going to

1166
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:53,360
Speaker 7: be perfect, but you will grow and you will be

1167
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:54,839
Speaker 7: glad that you took that first step.

1168
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:55,720
Speaker 1: Thank you, Gidon.

1169
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 21: I have one question for you that's really like keeps

1170
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 21: me up at night about So I look close to

1171
00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 21: a path on the lake, but I would like to

1172
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,800
Speaker 21: run to the path, but there's lights, like traffic lights.

1173
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 22: What do you do?

1174
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 1: There's the stop light? Like do I stop running?

1175
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 2: You do what I do, and you pray that it

1176
00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 2: goes longer, that the traffic light lasts longer.

1177
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 1: You just pray.

1178
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 2: You pray that, like not that anyone gets hurt in

1179
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 2: the accident, but you pray for an accident that blocks

1180
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 2: the road and then you have to go home.

1181
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 1: Now what do you do get in?

1182
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,480
Speaker 7: So it depends on how you want to approach it.

1183
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 7: So you can stand at the light and jog. I'm

1184
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 7: sure you've seen that many times. But what I like

1185
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 7: to do is I double back. You generally are going

1186
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 7: to figure out how long these lights are, especially if

1187
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:41,319
Speaker 7: that's a normal path for you. So if I'm coming

1188
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 7: up on the red light, I'll circle around, run back

1189
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 7: from where I just came from. I got to time

1190
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 7: it up so that as that lights in his grain,

1191
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 7: I'm pretty close to circle back again. And now just

1192
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:53,160
Speaker 7: make that cross. So this way, I didn't break stride

1193
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:54,839
Speaker 7: and I'm keeping my energy moving forward.

1194
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:57,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we don't want to break strid. We never

1195
00:49:57,520 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 1: do that. Never do we break the stride up at

1196
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 1: the hot dog standing you haven't something to eat?

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Speaker 11: You know that?

1198
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 2: No, man, because somettimes he tricks me and he says

1199
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Speaker 2: we're running to raising canes, and I'm like, we are,

1200
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 2: and then we never get there.

1201
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:14,919
Speaker 1: We never we never go there. Exit Yeah exactly. Okay.

1202
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:16,719
Speaker 2: So then as far as getting like for people who

1203
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 2: want to get off the couch and then go to

1204
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 2: a like let's say a five K or it's me

1205
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 2: next month there you go do it?

1206
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 1: So like okay, so maybe five K is like the

1207
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:26,919
Speaker 1: first goal.

1208
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 2: So then what would be like, how would we in

1209
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 2: simple terms, get there from couch to five K with

1210
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 2: a stroller.

1211
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 1: Because I have.

1212
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:38,120
Speaker 7: Okay, by the way, I think you should share those

1213
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 7: details on when this five k is going to be

1214
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 7: because I may show up and we may have some

1215
00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:43,959
Speaker 7: of the thirteen that want to join you in support.

1216
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:48,800
Speaker 12: To five k.

1217
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 1: Where's the that's not the thing? Very illegal now? Then

1218
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:56,719
Speaker 1: they just passed it in the city council. Yeah, how

1219
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: do you do it?

1220
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:59,520
Speaker 7: I'll say this anybody, anybody who's looking to get off

1221
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,760
Speaker 7: the couch and go and needs to do just that. Bella,

1222
00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:05,359
Speaker 7: I love your approach of running and walking. People don't

1223
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:07,920
Speaker 7: give walking enough credit like that is a great way

1224
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 7: to start a great way to break up your run

1225
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:12,840
Speaker 7: so that you're not doing too much too soon. I

1226
00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 7: know you were saying that your back is hurting, and

1227
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 7: I know you're pushing yourself at certain times because you

1228
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 7: maybe feel insecure that other people are watching and judging.

1229
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 7: But take those walks, take those breaks, and watch how

1230
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:26,480
Speaker 7: your endurance improves, and then you can actually make a

1231
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 7: note on how you're improving in the fact that you

1232
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:32,359
Speaker 7: don't have to walk as much or walk along over time.

1233
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 7: So just getting started and giving yourself a lot of

1234
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:37,800
Speaker 7: grace in this process, especially if it's something that you

1235
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 7: haven't done in a while or ever have done, because

1236
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:43,200
Speaker 7: you just need that great that time that's going to

1237
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 7: allow you to make those developments and changes later. So

1238
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 7: just get going.

1239
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 4: Just get going.

1240
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,719
Speaker 7: Grab a friend or two, a family member, some type

1241
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:54,600
Speaker 7: of support system, right, and like I said, do something

1242
00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:57,360
Speaker 7: that's going to be fun, encouraging with your dog, with

1243
00:51:57,560 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 7: your child, by yourself, with friends, and put it out there.

1244
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:05,279
Speaker 7: Like oftentimes, we hold ourselves accountable more when other people

1245
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 7: know that we had this big goal and they're going to.

1246
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 17: Be checking in on us.

1247
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 2: I agree with what he said because you and I

1248
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 2: have the same problem and we're worried about what other

1249
00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 2: people think. Yeah, and you should see me, like when

1250
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:18,359
Speaker 2: a pretty girl's running like the opposite direction, like towards us.

1251
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 1: Oh my god, my form is on point. I'm running

1252
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:22,400
Speaker 1: like the wind. I'm running.

1253
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 2: I look like Usain Bolt for the amount of time

1254
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 2: until the very moment she crosses and her back is

1255
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:30,880
Speaker 2: and then I collapse extual, I physically collapse, and I

1256
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 2: need to be resuscitated. Gideon knows CPR I learned, so

1257
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 2: that's exciting. And he carries a depipulator with him, which

1258
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 2: is wild. I didn't know that until I needed so

1259
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 2: it's true. But Guineon is the best, and we're holding

1260
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:44,320
Speaker 2: you accountable.

1261
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:45,480
Speaker 1: You can do this, you're doing.

1262
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:47,480
Speaker 21: That's why I'm telling people, because I want to be

1263
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 21: held accountable.

1264
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:48,880
Speaker 1: I got what I did do.

1265
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:50,359
Speaker 2: I went on the radio and said I'm gonna lose

1266
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:52,320
Speaker 2: thirty pounds because I want to guess I had to

1267
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,319
Speaker 2: because then he looks stupid. If you don't in your

1268
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:57,160
Speaker 2: shirt right now, Fred, I'm swimming in my you can

1269
00:52:57,200 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 2: barely see me.

1270
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 1: I disappreed.

1271
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 2: Well, this guy, this guy, you know, I pay him

1272
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 2: to be my friend, and he shows up and I

1273
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:08,920
Speaker 2: have no choice, and he doesn't let me make excuses.

1274
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 1: I'll be like, I don't know.

1275
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:11,400
Speaker 2: He's like, all right, we're going and then before long

1276
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:14,760
Speaker 2: I'm dead. How do people so get fit with giddy

1277
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 2: right on the socials?

1278
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 7: Yes, sir, that's right, that's me all right.

1279
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:21,759
Speaker 2: Any other way they get a hold of you, don't

1280
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:23,560
Speaker 2: give out your phone number. You won't like to close again.

1281
00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 7: Now hit me up on the ground. That's the best way.

1282
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 7: You can also check out my website Gideon.

1283
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:32,400
Speaker 4: Dot com g I D E O n A k

1284
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,320
Speaker 4: A n d e dot com.

1285
00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 7: For all types of workouts, fitness advice. I'm here for you.

1286
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:40,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, Kikey's on there looking at.

1287
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:40,440
Speaker 7: You right now.

1288
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 1: I've never felt more motivated in my life. So see,

1289
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:44,680
Speaker 1: this is what I mean. Yeah, I'm about to get

1290
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 1: you run.

1291
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:45,400
Speaker 17: It is.

1292
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 1: This man radiates it. It's impossible, like right now, you

1293
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:50,200
Speaker 1: want to run a marathon, don't you? Well, I was

1294
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 1: thinking run down the hallway. But you know, we got

1295
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 1: to start somewhere. We got to start somewhere.

1296
00:53:57,120 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 7: K I am so glad you're motivated right now. Let

1297
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:01,439
Speaker 7: me know we have our first session. I've been waiting

1298
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 7: for that.

1299
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:11,480
Speaker 1: Okay, I waited too. I'll see you later. This is

1300
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:15,399
Speaker 1: what I mean like, it's it's it's irritatingly positive. Oh yes,

1301
00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 1: he's very positive. Very you mean, well, it's just like

1302
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 1: I'm positive.

1303
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 7: What you know you are like I am?

1304
00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 1: You are like and certain things?

1305
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:30,840
Speaker 2: All right, Well, there you go, marks, mark the tape

1306
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 2: mark today it happened. You're committed now, it's how you're

1307
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 2: doing it it. Yeah, you're doing it.

1308
00:54:36,880 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 1: A fresh show. It's Geeky's court all right. All right,

1309
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:44,160
Speaker 1: the honor Ki is here, judge Kiki if you would, yes,

1310
00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:45,000
Speaker 1: let's get into it.

1311
00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:48,759
Speaker 6: The case says, Hey Kiki, my name is Lauren. I'm

1312
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Speaker 6: a longtime listener of the show. My husband and I

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Speaker 6: have three kids. I have one daughter from a previous relationship,

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Speaker 6: and we have two kids together. My oldest daughter has

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Speaker 6: never met her biological five, so my husband is the

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Speaker 6: only father that she knows. For her sixteenth birthday, she

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Speaker 6: thought it would be a sweet thing to ask my

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Speaker 6: husband to finally adopt her. She's always wanted to have

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Speaker 6: the same last name as my other kids, and I

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Speaker 6: always wanted it to be her decision. So at her

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Speaker 6: birthday party, she asks my husband in front of all

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Speaker 6: of our family and friends, and he said yes. Well,

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Speaker 6: a week later, my husband came back to me and

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Speaker 6: said that after thinking about it and talking it over

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Speaker 6: with his mom, he's had a change of heart. Yes,

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, he doesn't want to complicate things by

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Speaker 6: legally adopting my daughter.

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Speaker 1: I'm heartbroken.

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Speaker 6: His excuse was that he already plays the father role

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Speaker 6: for her and it's no need to get the courts involved.

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Speaker 6: I told him, there's no way I'm telling my daughter

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Speaker 6: that you've changed your mind. He has to adopt her

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Speaker 6: or I will leave.

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Speaker 1: Am I wrong? Forgiving him an ultimatum. Damn baby, But

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Speaker 1: what say you judge?

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Speaker 6: This is one that I really need the thirteen to

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Speaker 6: weigh in on because it's really been bothering me all weekend.

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Speaker 6: Because my issue really comes in is that you went

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Speaker 6: and spoke with your mother. What happened in that conversation

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00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:14,600
Speaker 6: between him and his mother that made him change his

1341
00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:16,880
Speaker 6: mind to come back and say he doesn't want to

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Speaker 6: illegally adopt my kid. And I don't want to tell

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Speaker 6: her to leave her husband because it's easy to say

1344
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Speaker 6: blow up your family when you're not the one in

1345
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Speaker 6: the situation. Obviously, he's a good guy, a good father.

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00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 6: He's raised her other children and alone. You know, he's

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Speaker 6: taken the girl in to be her father, but not legally.

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Speaker 6: What is stopping him? It makes me think of like,

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Speaker 6: is he worried about if they ever divorced and maybe

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Speaker 6: he's going to be responsible for child support or something,

1351
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:40,839
Speaker 6: or you know, is there some type of legal thing

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00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 6: that he's scared of getting the courts involved. I just

1353
00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:44,880
Speaker 6: feel like there has to be more to it, and

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Speaker 6: I would love to know the conversation between him and

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Speaker 6: his mother, But for him to renegue on the original agreement,

1356
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Speaker 6: and he promised this girl this in front of the

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Speaker 6: entire family.

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Speaker 1: He is so dead wrong, Like he's so wrong, And

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Speaker 1: I feel for you, Lauren. I live this like I

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Speaker 1: was adopted by I guess quote unquote my stepfather. So

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Speaker 1: is my sister.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I we turned eighteen, we went to court

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Speaker 2: and did it, and I I cannot imagine because I

1364
00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 2: was we were never like it was ever, this is

1365
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Speaker 2: what's going to happen, or it was always do you

1366
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:23,800
Speaker 2: want this to happen? And it was kind of I

1367
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Speaker 2: don't know, it was it was a very special thing

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Speaker 2: between each of us and and this guy who raised us.

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Speaker 2: And it's I just can't imagine how I would feel

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Speaker 2: if all of a sudden he were like, nah, I'm

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Speaker 2: not want this anymore. Like it almost makes me wonder

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Speaker 2: if there's that's something heartbreaking going on in the in

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Speaker 2: the primary relationship, like between he and the mom or

1374
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Speaker 2: something like maybe. I don't know, because why would he

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Speaker 2: I can't imagine that he goes to talk to his

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Speaker 2: mom and mom says, yeah, you don't want that kid.

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Speaker 1: It's almost like no, but it's it's well maybe, but

1378
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Speaker 1: it's almost like it's almost like.

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Speaker 2: Mom doesn't like the the wife or girlfriend or whatever

1380
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Speaker 2: and doesn't know if that's going to last, so then

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Speaker 2: don't adopt it. I don't know, because I can't imagine

1382
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Speaker 2: that my mom would talk me out of adopting somewhat

1383
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Speaker 2: a child that I helped raise over the child, I

1384
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Speaker 2: would think it would be something something else.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, can I say an unpopular opinion? Actually, why is

1386
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Speaker 13: he consulting with his mother?

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Speaker 16: Like?

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Speaker 1: This is a grown ass man and this.

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Speaker 13: Is his family, his mother, his mother is his family.

1390
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Speaker 13: It's his mother. I'm very aware of that. But this

1391
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Speaker 13: man created his own family. So I'm just really confused

1392
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Speaker 13: as to why we're consulting mom about your family dynamic

1393
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Speaker 13: and what you're going to do in adoption.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying? Like to me, I

1395
00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 1: don't like that. That that's too much. This is your family,

1396
00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:44,040
Speaker 1: you're a grown as from the woman who calls Hobby's mom. Absolutely,

1397
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Speaker 1: and he's not doing what you want him to do.

1398
00:58:46,600 --> 00:58:47,960
Speaker 1: He didn't watch the dishes I called his mother.

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Speaker 13: This is true, but we when it comes to family,

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00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 13: but when it comes to our family dynamic, we're not

1401
00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 13: going to consult our mommies like that's we're not doing that.

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Speaker 1: You consult his mom. So what you're saying is his

1403
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:00,800
Speaker 1: mom has influence, and I I don't think that's unfair.

1404
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Speaker 1: I don't think it's unfair to have your mom be

1405
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Speaker 1: someone that you can fight in.

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Speaker 13: You can talk to her, of course, but at the

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Speaker 13: end of the day, I still feel like, this is

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Speaker 13: your family.

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Speaker 1: When you get married, you create your own family. You

1410
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 1: guys know that we've been preaching this on this radio

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Speaker 1: for years. Like I'm learning that too. I consult my

1412
00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:17,080
Speaker 1: mom for the littlest things. I admit it. I'll say, hey, Ma,

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Speaker 1: you know I want to do this, what should I do?

1414
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 1: I want to get a tattoo. I'm still like, oh,

1415
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Speaker 1: should I ask my mom?

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Speaker 13: Like, yeah, I think these things, But at the end

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Speaker 13: of the day, it's like, no, I'm a grown ass woman.

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Speaker 1: I'm thirty two years old, I have a family. Now,

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Speaker 1: I have a child, and I have a husband. This

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Speaker 1: is now my family. We're making all decisions.

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Speaker 2: But he we don't know that that she's the one

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Speaker 2: who said don't do it, or he may have gone

1423
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Speaker 2: to her with this with this idea anyway, and she

1424
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Speaker 2: may have reinforced it. So no, I mean, mom shouldn't

1425
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Speaker 2: be running the family, But I don't think that Consulting

1426
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Speaker 2: family who are important to you when it comes to

1427
00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 2: making big decisions, isn't that what family's for, maybe help

1428
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 2: you sort of work through those kind of things.

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Speaker 13: It sounds like you got doubts though, if you're going

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00:59:54,120 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 13: to go to your mom too, I would call my

1431
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Speaker 13: mom or let in this case, this man called his

1432
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Speaker 13: mom and say, hey, guess what, mom, I'm going to adopt. First,

1433
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Speaker 13: I don't know her name, that's what I'm going to

1434
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Speaker 13: adopt her. Like, this is what we're doing in beautiful way.

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Speaker 1: Beautiful birtha and yeah, yeah, birth of Frederick. So that's

1436
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Speaker 1: my bigger, my bigger issue here is goodness. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I love the name birth it's beautiful. I hear it's

1438
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Speaker 1: making a comeback. Actually, yeah, you.

1439
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Speaker 6: Know, we don't And to play devil advocate like she

1440
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:33,920
Speaker 6: It all happened at the girl's birthday party, so she

1441
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:36,600
Speaker 6: asked him in front of the family. So I'm sure

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Speaker 6: his mom was there and his family and her family

1443
01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 6: were there. So of course that opens it up for

1444
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:44,560
Speaker 6: people to have opinions. However, you're in a marriage and

1445
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Speaker 6: you've raised this girl, I couldn't imagine telling a kid

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Speaker 6: I don't want to adopt you, Like it could be

1447
01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:52,640
Speaker 6: a kid I just met yesterday if they asked me

1448
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Speaker 6: to adopt him. Yes, you know what I'm saying, Like,

1449
01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:57,800
Speaker 6: how could you tell somebody living in your house that

1450
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 6: you raise that you don't want to take on their

1451
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:01,560
Speaker 6: responsibility for them?

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Speaker 1: Well, and I obviously don't know.

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Speaker 2: These people can judge cheeky, but these things, in my experience,

1454
01:01:08,160 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 2: at least in my personal experience, they don't just happen.

1455
01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 1: There's normally some discussion.

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Speaker 2: Now, she may have surprised him, I guess, see a

1457
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Speaker 2: viral because these things are viral sometimes.

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Speaker 1: Who knows. Maybe she just sprung it on him, But

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Speaker 1: I doubt it because, yeah, I mean, like in our family,

1460
01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:28,360
Speaker 1: was discussed for a very long time before it happened,

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Speaker 1: and everybody was comfortable with it. So I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, maybe she surprised him. I mean, and there

1463
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Speaker 2: are some things we don't know. How long is a

1464
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Speaker 2: relationship do We don't how long they've been together.

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Speaker 6: No, but she said that her daughter is sixteen and

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Speaker 6: he's the only father that she's known, So okay, well

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Speaker 6: then yeah, then.

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Speaker 1: I don't know most in my experience, most adults, when

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Speaker 1: the child that they raised that isn't technically their blood child,

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Speaker 1: when that kid wants them to be their legal father,

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Speaker 1: that is normally the biggest honor that you can show

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Speaker 1: on someone because choice, and you know, it's it's I.

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Speaker 2: Mean, I love my parents, and and I love my

1474
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Speaker 2: mom and my mom. I got so lucky. I won

1475
01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 2: the mom lottery with mom a friend, but not everybody did.

1476
01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:13,160
Speaker 2: Not everybody won the family lottery. And so a lot

1477
01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:15,760
Speaker 2: of times we hear people say that friends are the

1478
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 2: family that you can choose. Well, in this case, he's

1479
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Speaker 2: the dad that she gets to pick, because they could

1480
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Speaker 2: go on. I mean, how many stepparents do you know

1481
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Speaker 2: that are just kind of there, you know, and they're

1482
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,680
Speaker 2: nice and they're they're they're not bad people, but they're

1483
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Speaker 2: not necessarily running out to go to.

1484
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Speaker 1: Court and have them adopt you. So I can't imagine

1485
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Speaker 1: a world where this guy would be shunning this child

1486
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Speaker 1: that he raised. It's got to be something more. Yeah,

1487
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Speaker 1: five five five three five, it's crazy to me. Yvonne, hi,

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01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 1: yvon good morning, good morning, Hey you heard this whole thing?

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Speaker 18: What say you?

1490
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Speaker 22: So I've been with my husband for fourteen years now.

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Speaker 17: He came into the picture when.

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Speaker 23: My daughters were seven and for and he I know

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01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:04,640
Speaker 23: would adopt them in a heartbeat if he.

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Speaker 22: Had the chance. And so the fact that he changed

1495
01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:12,600
Speaker 22: his mind, not only is that heartbreaking for the mom

1496
01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 22: because she's been a second guest, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, like, how does he really feel about my daughter

1498
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Speaker 1: if he's.

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Speaker 23: Second guessing this, but also the daughter. I couldn't imagine

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01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:24,080
Speaker 23: having to go back and tell her like, hey, he

1501
01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 23: changed his mind. It's just really sad and.

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01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:30,600
Speaker 22: Coming from like someone.

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01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:31,400
Speaker 1: In a blended family.

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Speaker 23: If I had any doubts on the way my husband

1505
01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:37,160
Speaker 23: felt about my kid, I'd be out.

1506
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Speaker 22: I'd leave.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's you've raised this kid, I mean, her

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Speaker 1: whole life.

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Speaker 23: I don't know why he would like have any reservations

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01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:48,760
Speaker 23: or have changed his mind.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this doesn't sound like a snap decision. I mean

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Speaker 1: maybe I don't know. It's really crazy to raise a

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01:03:56,840 --> 01:03:58,520
Speaker 1: child and then this happens and then have you go

1514
01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:01,560
Speaker 1: never mind. I don't want that obligation anymore because you

1515
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Speaker 1: took it on already. You already did it.

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Speaker 6: And it sounds like he's still down for the obligation.

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Speaker 6: He just doesn't want to make it legal, and to me,

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01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:09,400
Speaker 6: it has something razy causing it.

1519
01:04:09,680 --> 01:04:11,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

1520
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Speaker 4: I don't know.

1521
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Speaker 2: I know it's it's it's puzzling, isn't it. Thank you

1522
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Speaker 2: so much for listening, for calling. Have a great day.

1523
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Speaker 2: Thank you, Yeah, Mike, Good morning, Mike.

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Speaker 1: How you doing, Hey, guys, good morning.

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Speaker 18: How are you.

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Speaker 2: I'm doing great, Thanks for listening. Thanks for calling. So Keithy,

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Speaker 2: just to make sure I have this right. Guy and

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Speaker 2: a girl been together for a while. Dude raises his

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Speaker 2: stepdaughter and we're kind of putting this together. But if

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Speaker 2: he's the only dad she ever knew, then let's just

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Speaker 2: say an extended period of time that the stepdad's been

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Speaker 2: raising this woman's daughter. And so there was discussion about

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Speaker 2: him adopting her legally, and they said let's do it,

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Speaker 2: and he said yes, and then he went back now

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Speaker 2: and had said to the woman, to his girlfriend or wife, whatever, no,

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Speaker 2: I don't want it anymore, which is crazy to me, Mike,

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Speaker 2: What do you think?

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Speaker 18: So I'm I was kind of put in that kind

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Speaker 18: of same situation. I've been with my wife now eleven

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Speaker 18: years today actually, so I've known my fourteen Thank you

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Speaker 18: I've been with I've known my fourteen year old, she'll

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Speaker 18: be fifteen here in July, since basically she was three.

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Speaker 18: So her father now is a deceased but after we

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Speaker 18: had our second child that we have three girls.

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Speaker 1: Including her, that she felt left out.

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Speaker 18: So my wife, instead of going through the adoption process,

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Speaker 18: we actually petitioned the court to her legally take my

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Speaker 18: last name. My family loved her, they thought that she

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Speaker 18: you know, she's the world to all of us. But yeah,

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Speaker 18: even after was it last month, we actually mentioned, hey,

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Speaker 18: you know, we know you have my last name.

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Speaker 1: Would you like for me to adopt you?

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Speaker 12: And she's like, no, I'm saying, I'm okay that you

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Speaker 12: know I have your last name.

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Speaker 1: I love you and that doesn't change anything.

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Speaker 18: She just wanted to have the same last name.

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Speaker 1: Ask her sisters and the.

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Speaker 18: Rest of my family because I come from a very

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Speaker 18: big family.

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Speaker 17: So that was kind of the gist with.

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Speaker 19: That.

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Speaker 18: So, I mean, yes, adoption is awesome, it's very expensive,

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Speaker 18: but we just petitioned the court.

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Speaker 7: We had to jump through a couple of oops.

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Speaker 18: For it to happen because he is deceased, But other

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Speaker 18: than that, I mean it was kind of easy peasy.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's a nice Mike, it's a great story, and

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Speaker 2: that you guys talked about it and that she's comfortable

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Speaker 2: with it or whatever. I can't imagine if you had

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Speaker 2: said it offered her that, or if she asked you

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Speaker 2: and you say yeah, and then you come back a

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Speaker 2: little while later, And actually I thought about it, and

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Speaker 2: I definitely don't want to be legally attached to you

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Speaker 2: in any way, even though I've done everything else in

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Speaker 2: the role of your father.

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Speaker 1: I don't get it.

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Speaker 12: I don't get it either, don't understand.

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Speaker 18: I mean there could be I mean, there could be

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Speaker 18: some other like factors that she didn't mention. But I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 18: it is kind of you know, crappy that he did that.

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Speaker 18: But I'm sure there's other reasons that we don't.

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Speaker 1: Know of, you know of why? So yeah, yeah, like, well,

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Speaker 1: like thanks for sharing that. By the way, I have

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Speaker 1: a great day.

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Speaker 12: Thanks you to you guys.

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Speaker 1: Have a good one.

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Speaker 19: Glad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, glad you called KB?

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Speaker 7: Hi? KB?

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Speaker 1: How you doing.

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Speaker 17: I'm a partifle.

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Speaker 1: How are you guys this morning?

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Speaker 7: KB?

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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Thanks for calling. So you heard you

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Speaker 1: heard the case in Kiki's court? What's say you? Oh?

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Speaker 1: This is a messy mess.

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Speaker 22: I would definitely say divorced.

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Speaker 1: But here's my reason why. So you're legally taught to me.

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Speaker 22: You made that that declaration, that.

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Speaker 17: Obligation, but you don't want to do it for my children.

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Speaker 17: And then you make it, you know, very.

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Speaker 22: Loud at the birthday party. Then you go back on

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Speaker 22: that we're not.

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Speaker 24: Going to create that type of heart within our children,

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Speaker 24: which is not which is not in Your mom needs

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Speaker 24: to go sit down and enjoy her own life because you.

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Speaker 22: Have your own.

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Speaker 1: Oh I just I got to think there's something very

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Speaker 1: adult going on here because it can't be about the child.

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Speaker 1: I mean, sixteen, she's a kid like any raiser supposedly,

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Speaker 1: so it can't be about the grid.

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Speaker 12: So then he makes.

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Speaker 1: Directed by that within himself.

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Speaker 12: And if he does have conversations with his mom, then

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Speaker 12: he needs to talk.

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Speaker 24: To his wife before and say, you know what my

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Speaker 24: mom said this. My mom said that it's not a

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Speaker 24: flat out no, but how do let's talk through it.

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Speaker 24: But to just say a flat out no not the

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Speaker 24: problem Like the previous gentleman he said, they want through

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Speaker 24: out of the name change. I mean that's also an option,

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Speaker 24: but to flat out know the answer to me itself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, thank you kV. Have a great day. Thanks

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Speaker 1: for listening. First appreciate you. Alicia, Hi, Alicia, Hi, Hey,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome. What do you think you're the jury here?

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Speaker 1: Tiki's so kind of a little similar situation.

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Speaker 25: My parents have been together, which is my mom and

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Speaker 25: my stepdad twenty seven years now.

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Speaker 17: Came into our life when my sister was sick and

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Speaker 17: I was two.

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Speaker 22: My sister asked, when.

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Speaker 17: She was like thirteen fourteen, for him to adopt her.

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Speaker 17: He sat out said no, He said no, he wouldn't

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Speaker 17: do it, even though he is our parent.

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Speaker 25: He's on all of our you know, emergency contacts, he

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Speaker 25: has whatever, he's our Stepdad's forward. I don't really know

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Speaker 25: because I was so young and I've never really like

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Speaker 25: asked exactly. I just know my sister still feels hurt

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Speaker 25: by it, and actually like fass forward to quarantine time.

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Speaker 17: My mom finds out that he's been messaging some lady

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Speaker 17: like the love of his life, and he also in

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Speaker 17: those messages was like, I'm not a dad to these

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Speaker 17: two girls.

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Speaker 1: He trusted me, he didn't know. My gut tells me

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Speaker 1: there's something going on at the relationship level, at the

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Speaker 1: romantic relationship level. That's making you said. Now that's said.

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Speaker 1: That said that even if they were to break up,

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Speaker 1: Like if my parents were to break up, my dad's

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Speaker 1: my dad, my mom's my.

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Speaker 2: Mom, they're still going to be in my life. They

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Speaker 2: don't have to be together. So that's weird too. But

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Speaker 2: maybe he just doesn't want to go through all this.

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Speaker 2: If he knows they're going to break up, they.

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Speaker 17: Could be you know, maybe he's saving feelings later on.

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Speaker 17: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy. Well, see, there you go. This dude

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Speaker 1: was there was there was nefarious niss going on here.

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Speaker 1: It always is, it always is, you know, Yeah, there

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Speaker 1: you go. I don't know if nefariousness is at word,

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Speaker 1: but it sounds good to me. Winter, Hi, welcome to

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Speaker 1: the Friend Show. How are you good morning? How are

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Speaker 1: you guying windsor so Kiki's Court. I'm just trying to

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Speaker 1: make this as simple as possible, but it's it's it's

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Speaker 1: the woman writing in right. Yes, so she is? And

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Speaker 1: is she married to this guy or they're just together?

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Speaker 6: No, she's married to him and they shared two other

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Speaker 6: kids biologically together. But she had a daughter from a

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Speaker 6: previous relationship, and this dad has been in her daughter's

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Speaker 6: life forever.

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Speaker 1: She's the only, easy, only dad that she knows.

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Speaker 6: And the girl asked him to adopt her and he agreed,

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Speaker 6: but then later a week later, came back and renigged

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Speaker 6: on it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you think? Winter?

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Speaker 22: So I was in a really very similar situation. I

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Speaker 22: was raised by my stepdad.

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Speaker 12: My parents got married when I was two.

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Speaker 22: Or three, so my stepdad is my dad. When I

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Speaker 22: was sixteen, I asked my dad to adopt me, And now.

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Speaker 1: At twenty eight, I have taken.

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Speaker 22: That back where now I do have a relationship with

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Speaker 22: my dad.

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Speaker 1: Pull into adulthood.

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Speaker 12: But I was the same way, and I was like, no,

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Speaker 12: I won't really want my stepdad.

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Speaker 1: To adopt me.

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Speaker 16: But coming into adulthood, I'm like, I really wish I

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Speaker 16: would have regretted my stepdad adopting me, because there's still

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Speaker 16: an opportunity for her to have.

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Speaker 12: That relationship with her dad that might be where he's.

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Speaker 1: Coming from, where the mom.

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Speaker 7: Is coming from.

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Speaker 16: Like, hold on, because if the dad really wants to

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Speaker 16: reach out in adulthood, he doesn't have any right.

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Speaker 1: Again, he shouldn't have a right.

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Speaker 22: Because he didn't.

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Speaker 1: He wasn't there her entire life.

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Speaker 16: So I see that part, but there is more sides

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Speaker 16: to the story because she is just a teenager. She

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Speaker 16: wants these decisions like yes, having that parential figure in

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Speaker 16: your life, your entire.

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Speaker 12: Life, and being like, no, that is my dad. That's

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Speaker 12: how I feel about my stepdad.

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Speaker 16: But I would have regretted it at sixteen had I

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Speaker 16: asked him to adopt me and not been able to

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Speaker 16: have that relationship with my biological father.

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Speaker 1: So there's there's a little bit more to it. But

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Speaker 1: I see everybody's.

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Speaker 16: Point where like if the stepdad came back to me

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Speaker 16: and was like, no, I don't want.

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Speaker 1: To adopt you, I get that point to you, man.

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Speaker 2: I mean the kind I mean the abandonment ceiling. I

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Speaker 2: mean that that's the kind of stuff that lives with you.

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Speaker 2: It would stay with you your whole life.

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Speaker 1: Like this guy that raised me doesn't want me, And

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Speaker 1: I just can't imagine a world words about the kid.

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Speaker 1: But you know, we don't, we don't know everything. But wow, Winter,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for calling.

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Speaker 19: You.

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Speaker 1: Have a good day.

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Speaker 22: Thank you guys, Love you guys.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love me.

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Speaker 13: You just can't you can't play with this have Yeah right,

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Speaker 13: I was gonna just say, when you turn eighteen though

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Speaker 13: you're technically an adult, right, so like you can do

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Speaker 13: and whatever as you please.

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Speaker 1: So like, if your biological dad does.

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Speaker 13: Come around and knocks on your door, you're legally able

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Speaker 13: to talk to him and have a relationship with him

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Speaker 13: right after eighteen or am I making this?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean it's a legal thing.

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Speaker 2: And if he's raised her and the other guy hasn't

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Speaker 2: been around, then I don't know why anybody would be surprised, right,

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Speaker 2: that's the way this went. But they wouldn't preclude you

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Speaker 2: from having a relationship with your birth father. I mean

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Speaker 2: I still do that if I chose.

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Speaker 1: To eat you know, and again I didn't, I didn't

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Speaker 1: well adopted, uh yeah, because he went for cigarettes. Both

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Speaker 1: of our dads were for cigarettes. That ever came back.

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Speaker 16: But I.

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Speaker 1: I'm yeah. I mean, if my birth father wanted to

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Speaker 1: have a relationship with me or whatever, then that's very

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Speaker 1: that's still possible. And the fact of the matter is

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Speaker 1: my dad who adopted me, the guy who raised me.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's it was that was appropriate for our

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Speaker 1: relationship because well he was he's been the guy exactly.

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Speaker 1: So that doesn't mean you can't have a relationship with

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Speaker 1: your birth father. He's not even around. So what incasion

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Speaker 1: do we have that's gonna happen? Exactly?

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Speaker 7: What show is on Fred's Fun Fact Fred's Fun.

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Speaker 1: Let's look so much now herself. The oldest male prophylactic ever,

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Speaker 1: and I shouldn't say that. I don't know what other

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Speaker 1: message they use, but the oldest condoms.

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Speaker 2: Ever were found to be made from animal and fish intestine.

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Speaker 2: One particular example was not in Sweden, was crafted from

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Speaker 2: a pagan testine and it's thought to have been made

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Speaker 2: around sixteen forty A.

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Speaker 1: D Wow, we're so there. Yeah yeah, yeah, so it's

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Speaker 1: like a baby. Hold on a second, let me go

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Speaker 1: grab you know, the stuff, and then that's what it is.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I had a lot of kids. More fread

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Speaker 1: show next, More fread show next. Who hear that? That's

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Speaker 1: what having fewer hot flashes and night sweats can sound

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Speaker 1: like