Speaker 1: You're listening to joj justsa now with me Jojo Seua
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Speaker 1: to get messy. I uh, recently, not recently. Honestly, at
Speaker 1: this point, it's pretty old. Not gonna lie. Went viral
Speaker 1: for us saying quote at the iHeartRadio Music Awards, I
Speaker 1: was asked who my dream guests on my podcast would be,
Speaker 1: and I, honestly, in the spur of the moment, said
Speaker 1: one of my exes. And I said, let's spice it
Speaker 1: up a bit. And truly that would spice it up
Speaker 1: a bit for sure. And I was like, you know what,
Speaker 1: why don't we Why don't we reverse this topic. Why
Speaker 1: don't we talk about people that I will not have
Speaker 1: on this podcast? Because there is a list of people
Speaker 1: that I do want to have on this podcast, but
Speaker 1: I can't. And there are a list of people that
Speaker 1: even if they ever tried to Oh my god, fuck me,
Speaker 1: I'm adding one to this list right now. We're doing
Speaker 1: six because I just thought of somebody as I was
Speaker 1: speaking about this, and huh oh, it's kinda get mad.
Speaker 1: I love this platform that I have to just speak freely,
Speaker 1: ramp my mind off, yap my little heart out, and
Speaker 1: just tell you how it is and be straight up
Speaker 1: with you, and also call out people for their bullshit.
Speaker 1: I love doing that. I know that this is gonna
Speaker 1: get messing online, especially because of the person that I
Speaker 1: just added. But the thing is is, like, I don't
Speaker 1: believe in being a dick for views. I know it
Speaker 1: might seem like that, but the only time I will
Speaker 1: be a dick online is if somebody's a dick first,
Speaker 1: like I don't. I don't fuck with that. I don't
Speaker 1: mess with people using others for views, using others for
Speaker 1: cloud It's not cool, it's not nice, it's not funny.
Speaker 1: But if you try it, and you try it with me,
Speaker 1: game on, if you open that door, I will walk
Speaker 1: through it. I will play ball, but I will never
Speaker 1: lose a game of ball. I will always win a
Speaker 1: game of ball because I will only play if I
Speaker 1: have a reason to. You know what I mean? Anyways,
Speaker 1: not the point point is five people that I will
Speaker 1: not be having on Joe's You and now ever. Number
Speaker 1: one on that list Candice Owens. I think it's pretty
Speaker 1: self explanatory. Her and I do not fuck with each other.
Speaker 1: Miss girl came out got this. Honestly, this must be
Speaker 1: must be like two years ago at this point. Maybe
Speaker 1: it's a year ago. I don't know. She came out
Speaker 1: and had a lot to say when I first came out. Right,
Speaker 1: she's she's just she's not a fan. That's and that's fine.
Speaker 1: Like do your thing, babe. I don't need you to
Speaker 1: be a fan. I don't. I don't care, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, it is what it is like
Speaker 1: you're not into the gay community, and that's fine. But
Speaker 1: what got me is homegirl thought that I was faking
Speaker 1: being a lesbian. And I said, miss ma'am, are you
Speaker 1: faking being straight? Because what the fuck are you talking about?
Speaker 1: How do you know my sexual orientation? Why are you
Speaker 1: talking about? Why are you thinking? Now? Mind you? At
Speaker 1: this time, I am maybe nineteen, maybe I'm pretty sure
Speaker 1: I was eighteen, but let's just say I was nineteen
Speaker 1: for shits and giggles. Why are you thinking? Hold on,
Speaker 1: let's google Candice owen Age. Candice owens Age, Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, why are you okay? Actually she's kind of young.
Speaker 1: Why are you, as a thirty five year old woman,
Speaker 1: thinking about a nineteen year old sexuality and saying that
Speaker 1: their sexual orientation is not not them. Who the fuck
Speaker 1: are you to say that? Who are you to claim
Speaker 1: that you're not claim that about anybody? Now? My thing
Speaker 1: is is let people live right. But if somebody is
Speaker 1: going to come after me, going to come after my people,
Speaker 1: going to attack, absolutely not that. I will always stand
Speaker 1: up for myself. I will always stand up for the
Speaker 1: people that I love and care about. I'll stand up
Speaker 1: for the people that I love and care about more
Speaker 1: than I will stand up for myself, like people can
Speaker 1: say it about me. But the thing Candace is she
Speaker 1: wasn't going after me. She was going after a whole
Speaker 1: community of people. And that's not okay. I will go
Speaker 1: to fucking bat at all times for my people, and uh,
Speaker 1: the LGBTQ community is absolutely my people, absolutely my family,
Speaker 1: and I will oh always fight for them. Of course
Speaker 1: I would be a fool not too. But mind you,
Speaker 1: at this point, I literally have a girlfriend. I'm also
Speaker 1: just a baby gay. Now I have this homegirl, thirty
Speaker 1: five year ol putting this shit out there, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I remember back in the day being like, how do
Speaker 1: I even engage with this? How do I even respond
Speaker 1: to that? I I don't know, I don't know. Beats me.
Speaker 1: I'm not into it. I said some shit back to her.
Speaker 1: I made a great pride at it, put it out there.
Speaker 1: She's tried some more things. She's tried to message me.
Speaker 1: She tried to talk to me. I'm like, na, bitch, no,
Speaker 1: it's not happening. I don't. I don't. I don't have
Speaker 1: time to deal with not nice people or people who
Speaker 1: aren't kind to everybody, and people who start shit, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like if you started, I'll finish it.
Speaker 1: But I don't mess with people who started, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, I'll finish it and then I'll
Speaker 1: be done with you. Anyways, speaking of not starting shit,
Speaker 1: second on our list is miss Candace Cameron. Now, the
Speaker 1: thing with Kandace ca and is her and I have
Speaker 1: had very very public beef. This. I did this. I
Speaker 1: started on accident. I really did. It really was an accident.
Speaker 1: I did not mean for it to go as viral
Speaker 1: as it was. If you go back into history, you
Speaker 1: can look I posted a TikTok that was like this celebrity,
Speaker 1: that celebrity, this celebrity, that celebrity. It was like, who
Speaker 1: is the nicest celebrity Boom. Who is the meanest celebrity? Boom?
Speaker 1: Who is your favorite celebrity? Boom? Who's someone you want
Speaker 1: to marry? Boom? Who's somebody you don't like? Boom? And
Speaker 1: so like you flash the phone and show this person right.
Speaker 1: One of the things was who is the rudest celebrity
Speaker 1: you've ever met? And to me, personally, the rude celebrity
Speaker 1: that I had ever met was Kennu Scameron. She wasn't
Speaker 1: nice to me when I met her. That doesn't mean
Speaker 1: she's an awful rude person. That just means that she
Speaker 1: was the rudest that I ever met. That was whatever
Speaker 1: flashed a quick thought, no one was gonna ever see it,
Speaker 1: like honestly linking back, like I shouldn't even have put
Speaker 1: the picture of her, like we had no real beef,
Speaker 1: Like she just wasn't nice to me as a kid,
Speaker 1: Like it's literally fine, But I did, and it blew up.
Speaker 1: I wasn't expecting that part of the video to blow up.
Speaker 1: I threw I met to throw shade at a company
Speaker 1: and that did me dirty, and I thought that was
Speaker 1: what was gonna like take, But unfortunately it took the
Speaker 1: candas route, and I did feel bad because we do
Speaker 1: have some mutual friends. And I was like, yeah, this
Speaker 1: is kind of fucked. But then I found out some
Speaker 1: things about Candace that I was like, wait this, this
Speaker 1: actually is pretty valid. And I I found out some
Speaker 1: some shady things that she has done and some shady
Speaker 1: organizations that she has worked with, and I, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I again, it goes back to wanting to stand up
Speaker 1: for my people, but not wanting to create drama that
Speaker 1: doesn't necessarily need to be there. But anyways, and Kandace
Speaker 1: and I talked about it. She was honestly pretty sweet
Speaker 1: to me about it. We talked publicly about it as well.
Speaker 1: She posted I commented like cause it was it was bad.
Speaker 1: My people were going after her, her people were going
Speaker 1: after me. Like it was bad. No one needed this.
Speaker 1: It was dramatic. Internet was bored. It was twenty twenty COVID,
Speaker 1: like everyone had nothing to do, so they were playing
Speaker 1: Jo JOSII versus Candae camera like that's psycho. Anyways, and
Speaker 1: then something happened where she after that and like you know,
Speaker 1: she tried to give me reassurance on how she supports
Speaker 1: the LGBTQ community and fine, and after that she came
Speaker 1: out with a statement that was like she wants traditional
Speaker 1: marriage only to be in her movies, and she essentially
Speaker 1: was saying that traditional American marriage is not LGBTQ marriage. Now,
Speaker 1: the thing is, it's fine to call it's totally fine
Speaker 1: to make a movie about straight marriage, like that's very normal.
Speaker 1: That is a very normal thing. But where it wasn't
Speaker 1: very okay what she said it was because she was
Speaker 1: basically calling gay marriage not traditional, and gay marriage weird,
Speaker 1: and gay marriage she didn't want to publicize that. She
Speaker 1: was specifically avoiding that, and now whether she meant to
Speaker 1: do that or not, she still did it, and it's
Speaker 1: still stunning the community. Of course, you know, we're doing
Speaker 1: all this work to be more visible and to be
Speaker 1: more out there for kids that are in the next
Speaker 1: generation to feel more normal, and it's hard when you
Speaker 1: have a person with a big platform that like just
Speaker 1: says shit like that and so puts a TikTok that.
Speaker 1: I was like, you're the the Grench, And I honestly
Speaker 1: like that was me being like stupid and messy in
Speaker 1: eighteen like what I would let me live my life.
Speaker 1: But yeah, that honestly, like no real shade anymore to Cameron,
Speaker 1: I just wouldn't have around my podcasts, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? But I we just we just don't walk
Speaker 1: on the sames on the road. That's fine. If I
Speaker 1: saw her, I would just not say hi, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. Where There's a lot of people that
Speaker 1: I would say hi to. Anyways, all Right, we're gonna
Speaker 1: churn a little bit. We're gonna go down more positive
Speaker 1: rout because I've been way too toxic for a second.
Speaker 1: Somebody that I would love to have on my podcast
Speaker 1: but I couldn't is mister Freddy Mercury. I love this
Speaker 1: man with all of my heart. Freddy Mercury is the
Speaker 1: reason why I do what I do today. I am
Speaker 1: so inspired beyond by him. He is one of the
Speaker 1: most legendary performers I think that has ever existed. But
Speaker 1: unfortunately Freddy passed away way too early and I will
Speaker 1: never be able to have him on my podcast. But
Speaker 1: I do. I do pull so much inspiration from Freddie,
Speaker 1: and I feel like if he was alive, he would
Speaker 1: even be like you're a fucking whack job, or we
Speaker 1: would be best friends and like, let me have my fantasy.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna believe that we'd be best friends. He for
Speaker 1: sued with think I'm a whack job, But honestly, Freddy's
Speaker 1: a nice dude. I don't think you would. I think
Speaker 1: I think would be very kind. He he just it's
Speaker 1: it's crazy how we didn't walk the Earth at the
Speaker 1: same time. Right, He died very early, but he somehow
Speaker 1: has such an impact on Earth now to this day,
Speaker 1: and he has such an impact on me personally, which
Speaker 1: is mind boggling that somebody that you have no connection to,
Speaker 1: no relation to, is so massive in your life. I'll
Speaker 1: never forget this day. I got to have a sit
Speaker 1: down and hang out with Elton John, which how is
Speaker 1: that a sentence? Like, how can I say? That? Beats me?
Speaker 1: But I did, and we talked about Freddie because Freddie
Speaker 1: and Elton were very close, they were very good friends.
Speaker 1: And talked with him about Freddie, and uh, it just
Speaker 1: it was so surreal to hear his stories because obviously
Speaker 1: I love Elton John as well, but Freddie, I mean
Speaker 1: truly is like my number one and so I I
Speaker 1: don't know that it was just mind blowing to sit
Speaker 1: there and be like this is real stories, like you
Speaker 1: were really his friend? You really know what happened fast
Speaker 1: is a fucking nating fascinating. Oh it was amazing. All right,
Speaker 1: let me go toxic one more time. Tricia paids. Look
Speaker 1: look here, uh this this is tough for me. This
Speaker 1: is tough for me because me and Tricia were friends.
Speaker 1: Did we go to dinner together? No, if we saw
Speaker 1: each other at an event where we friends and where
Speaker 1: we say hi and where we talk for a second
Speaker 1: catch up and say I miss you, yes we would,
Speaker 1: and we did videos together when I was a kid.
Speaker 1: And what's so interesting is she Tricia has a lot
Speaker 1: of shit to say about me nowadays. And that's fine.
Speaker 1: A lot of people have a lot of shit to
Speaker 1: say about me nowadays. But what hurts my heart is
Speaker 1: a lot of people who were friends with me when
Speaker 1: I was a kid are friends with me now. And
Speaker 1: that tells me that they weren't friends with me because
Speaker 1: they were using me. Because as a kid I did
Speaker 1: bring a lot of views. I brought a lot of
Speaker 1: views to a lot of people's videos, my own, but
Speaker 1: also if somebody did a video with me, it brought
Speaker 1: a lot of views to their videos. And that's not
Speaker 1: me flexing, that's not me saying. It's it's literally like
Speaker 1: the number fact. And what breaks my heart not for
Speaker 1: me as a ninth as a twenty one year old,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I just said him, fucking nineteen, bitch,
Speaker 1: you are twenty one. Literally find it well, it breaks
Speaker 1: my heart, not as a twenty one year old, but
Speaker 1: it breaks my heart for that fourteen year old that
Speaker 1: did videos with Trish. Thought Trish actually liked her, Like
Speaker 1: thought Trish, Like I don't know, like I knew me
Speaker 1: and Trish weren't like gonna be besties, but I did
Speaker 1: like crazy YouTuber and I did think she was really cool,
Speaker 1: and so when we did videos together, like I thought
Speaker 1: it was really fun. Like I thought she was in
Speaker 1: it for genuine reasons because a lot of YouTubers were
Speaker 1: everyone I'm still friends with to this day and like
Speaker 1: still very close with, so that we hang out at
Speaker 1: parties like they're literally my people. But Tricia is the
Speaker 1: only one that has traded for some reason. And I mean,
Speaker 1: she has her valid reasons, I guess, but I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's just very confusing to me because she does have
Speaker 1: her valid reasons, but I don't think she realizes you
Speaker 1: know what, say what you want, But then why the
Speaker 1: fuck were you friends with me? At fourteen? You were
Speaker 1: an asshole and you were using me. And now that
Speaker 1: I'm twenty one, I can see that. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean? What is with me and not knowing my
Speaker 1: age today let me find it? But now being twenty one,
Speaker 1: I look back at that and I'm like, Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: I see what she was doing there, and that's fine,
Speaker 1: like totally fine. But like, ow, you dressed up as me,
Speaker 1: you put your hand inside ponies elmbo, you wore a
Speaker 1: rainbow two two, you wore my hoodie, And now I
Speaker 1: know you were not doing that to be like fun
Speaker 1: and have fun and like make a video. You were
Speaker 1: doing that to make fun of me, you asshole. Like
Speaker 1: I was a fourteen year old kid. Find it? Can it?
Speaker 1: Don't do that? That's not cool. What if someone did
Speaker 1: that to your kid, you wouldn't like that. You wouldn't
Speaker 1: be cool with that. And so I yeah, seeing her
Speaker 1: stuff on the internet, anytime she talks about me, I'm like, dude,
Speaker 1: just shut the fuck up, get your views somehow else,
Speaker 1: Like you're literally trical paid is You're a fucking icon.
Speaker 1: You are an icon. You have created some of the
Speaker 1: most viral videos out there come up with something else,
Speaker 1: like anything else. But hey, it's fine. She's gonna do
Speaker 1: what she's gonna do. She's gonna talk the way she
Speaker 1: wants to talk, and that is just that. I got
Speaker 1: two more for you. Again, this is gott is silly.
Speaker 1: First one that I'm gonna say is a lover. So
Speaker 1: the first one is anybody that I would start a
Speaker 1: relationship with now, or start talking to or start dating.
Speaker 1: I would like to keep very private from the world
Speaker 1: because I do have such a public life, and everything
Speaker 1: about my life is so public and so out there
Speaker 1: and so exploited that I've learned a relationship for me
Speaker 1: is actually better in private. And I've believe it or not,
Speaker 1: kept some private y'all don't know about them, but I've
Speaker 1: done it, and uh sothea I'm very proud of because
Speaker 1: it's my life is very hard and the public eye
Speaker 1: is very hard, and still bringing somebody else into it
Speaker 1: is very hard. And one of the hardest things is like,
Speaker 1: no PDA is crazy, like how can we go on
Speaker 1: a date? How can we go you know, to dinner?
Speaker 1: Like it's very very difficult, but it is worth it.
Speaker 1: And so one thing that I would never do is
Speaker 1: have a lover on a podcast with me, have a
Speaker 1: lover on a TV show with me, Like I would
Speaker 1: just keep that side of my life completely removed, especially too,
Speaker 1: because I want somebody who is dating me for the
Speaker 1: right reasons, you know what I mean? And uh, I
Speaker 1: think that's a very important thing to protect my piece.
Speaker 1: And so yeah, any future lovers out there, I love ya.
Speaker 1: You were staying off this. You were staying off all
Speaker 1: of my things unless there was like like if we're
Speaker 1: married and we have children and like we know we're
Speaker 1: good for forever, like different story, but get a little date. Nope. Anyways, one,
Speaker 1: this is the one that everyone's been waiting for. Dream
Speaker 1: guests on my podcast. I can't even fucking recreate the
Speaker 1: way that I said that. Oh, dream guests on my podcast.
Speaker 1: Let's let's spice things up a little bit. Probably one
Speaker 1: of my exes. Honestly, that's when my vocals were for
Speaker 1: I didn't know it, but I had mono during that,
Speaker 1: so my vocal cords were shredded to flames, so my
Speaker 1: voice was extra raspy. But yeah, no dream guests on
Speaker 1: my podcast. One of my exes. I would only have
Speaker 1: one of my exes on my podcast. People might think
Speaker 1: that's like contradicting what I just said about lovers, but
Speaker 1: this would be past lovers. Our relationship was already public,
Speaker 1: like it is what it is, no going back in time.
Speaker 1: A lot of my exes I would not have on
Speaker 1: this podcast, but there is one that I would. I
Speaker 1: think our bands is funny. I think people would like it.
Speaker 1: We're still friends of the day, we still talk. We
Speaker 1: talked probably once a week. Like it's good, it's healthy,
Speaker 1: it's happy, And honestly, one of the things that makes
Speaker 1: me so happy is that because this relationship was my
Speaker 1: most because this relationship was like my most I guess
Speaker 1: valued in a way, and like the one that I
Speaker 1: I like was the I okay, okay, okay, this is
Speaker 1: the right way to but it was the realist She
Speaker 1: wasn't it for the realist reasons. I wasn't it for
Speaker 1: the realist reasons, Like it was very very real. That
Speaker 1: is why I cherish that that is the one that
Speaker 1: I have a very healthy relationship with because I think that,
Speaker 1: you know, I I saw this thing that's like people
Speaker 1: disappear out of your life, not because they care about you,
Speaker 1: they care they disappear because they don't need you anymore,
Speaker 1: they don't need to use you anymore. And so for me,
Speaker 1: that makes me very happy that she never disappeared out
Speaker 1: of my life. Okay, okay, we both disappeared because we
Speaker 1: needed to to heal and to take our time into like,
Speaker 1: but we always have been there for each other, and
Speaker 1: if either of us calls, we will always answer, we
Speaker 1: will always reply like it's very it's very mutual. We
Speaker 1: have a very good relationship now, which I'm very very
Speaker 1: grateful for. And it just feels like even though it
Speaker 1: ended like we did something right and there was something
Speaker 1: good and it's a good it's all good, happy fun memories. See.
Speaker 1: I think I would have her on my podcast. Oh,
Speaker 1: I would have my ex boyfriends on my podcast. I'm
Speaker 1: so fuso lutely in a heartbeat like I. They also
Speaker 1: didn't have any strings at touch, like, no feelings at least,
Speaker 1: I don't think. So Yeah, that's that's basically my rundown
Speaker 1: of who is not going to have a time to
Speaker 1: shine on this podcast? I I I I will stand
Speaker 1: by all these It's it's tough when I'm gonna put
Speaker 1: myself out there like this on the Internet, and I
Speaker 1: know people are gonna have shit to say about this one,
Speaker 1: but look, I didn't start any of these battles. I'll
Speaker 1: happily finish them, but I don't. I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: fucking care anymore. It's like, no matter what I do
Speaker 1: or what I say, people are gonna shit on, people
Speaker 1: are gonna be asked this about. And so it's like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm as well, give the people what
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