1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us on air 2 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest. Seacrest with You, Patty, Tania, Yes, and 3 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: Sisity maternity leave. I think the time's going by fast 4 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 1: for us. I don't know about for her, but she'll 5 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:24,279 Speaker 1: be back soon. I know it is wild because time flies. 6 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 1: One September is in September. I was doing all of 7 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 1: that in my head last night. Funny enough, you're in 8 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:33,160 Speaker 1: my head. I was doing that last night. I was like, okay, 9 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 1: so once we're in two. Actually, October goes a little 10 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:38,239 Speaker 1: slow at the beginning, but once you get to Halloween, 11 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 1: it begins to go fast because you've got Thanksgiving. Hanaka 12 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: is back to like Hanaka is the end of November, 13 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: and then Christmas. The more years ago by my life, 14 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: the faster Christmas comes. Once December hits and it's your 15 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: birthday too, I know. I'm excited. It's a non number 16 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: though it's a it's a seven. First of all, every 17 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:59,639 Speaker 1: year is a blessing. So we're gonna celebrate and we're 18 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 1: gonna say a great big Why do you make me 19 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: feel bad? See sometimes Patty, she makes me feel bad 20 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:05,759 Speaker 1: when I say something honest like that. No, I don't 21 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: want you to feel bad about it. I don't want 22 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 1: to feel like it's a birthday whatever, not a big deal. 23 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:12,479 Speaker 1: It's not a milestone birthday. It's not It's just a seven. 24 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: And then you know, she does the whole will be 25 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 1: positive thing, and then I start feeling bad. You know 26 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: what I do want, though, um to celebrate your birthday 27 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: one year. We never had the chance. We've had the 28 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 1: chance for almost thirty years. Yeah, I've been here for 29 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 1: almost thirty years. O no, no, no, no no, I mean 30 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:36,680 Speaker 1: like together, not having to send you a text message, 31 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 1: which Kurt? Christmas Eve? You know, so actually to figure 32 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: something out. Life is too short to not celebrate birthdays 33 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: each other. What would you want to do on Christmas Eve? 34 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: For my birthday? You will take you. We'll take you 35 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: out to an early lunch step something guila, you know, 36 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 1: start the party early. Yeah, and then you're gonna go 37 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 1: back and have Christmas that afternoon, like get ready to Okay? 38 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: Do you know what else is wild that I actually 39 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: am trying to plan as well? Spring break? No? Um 40 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: my no, my two year anniversary of when I met 41 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: my boyfriend is coming up already. Isn't that wild? Wild? Sorry? 42 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 1: We're just having a moment about Christmas Eve, and now 43 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: you've got to make it about your boyfriend and your 44 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: two anniversary. You have changed. It always comes back to 45 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 1: your boyfriend and how long they've been together and what 46 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: a relationship approach. And it got me thinking, you know, 47 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: your birthday and Christmas Eve and Santa coming got me thinking, 48 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,519 Speaker 1: I've been with my boyfriend for two years? Could we 49 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 1: all believe it? I'm saying it because all of these 50 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: things come so quick. It's it's Halloween, and then Thanksgiving 51 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 1: and then Hanka, Christmas, your birthday, the New Year, and 52 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 1: then I have an anniversary, and so the tail end 53 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 1: of all of this you kinda when is your anniversary. 54 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: So it's funny we're actually talking about it because you know, 55 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: we had that we broke up a little bit and 56 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: got back together. Do we know? Yeah, we didn't. We 57 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:10,079 Speaker 1: know other people in the world we do know. So 58 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 1: what I was thinking is we would just celebrate on 59 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: the day that we first met each other, like the 60 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: day that we actually went on our first date. Got it? Okay, 61 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: Well that's what we do too on our over here 62 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 1: miss out of town. I think we should all be 63 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,079 Speaker 1: there for a luncheon for both things. On the day, 64 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: we did get into something that I was just trying 65 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 1: to sit here as that song was ending, which is 66 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 1: pretty fast song. I was just trying to sit here 67 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: to think, yeah, I mean it's actually it's longer than most, 68 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: but it's still fast. But I was just saying there, 69 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: thinking how did we get into this conversation? And I 70 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: know we got into it in some way because it 71 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: wasn't like planned, but somehow we start talking about how 72 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: how do you think it was? Your boys miss the 73 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 1: toilet when they go potty sometimes they do not know 74 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 1: how to pee. I don't either. Men don't know how 75 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: to pee. We don't. We really don't. And it wasn't 76 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: until an X of mine really got on me about it, like, really, 77 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: I'm glad my past relationships really didn't. Did they let 78 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 1: it slip inside? All right? So let's get Cheryl here 79 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: in Riverside. So Cheryl, isn't I mean, do boys and 80 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 1: and and even as we graduate men continue, do we 81 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 1: need maintenance on how to pee? I mean, it's true 82 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 1: we we are bad at it. Um, So you have 83 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 1: a tip for how to teach young boys to aim 84 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 1: in the toilet? I do the other day, when I 85 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: heard Patty talking about her son and not being able 86 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: to aim in the toilet, I thought about my own 87 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 1: ten year old and he had trouble aiming for the 88 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: toilet too. So my tip to her was the only 89 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: way I found to break him was to have him 90 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: seem it, so he could see that it's not fun 91 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: to pick up after somebody else's urine. And within the 92 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: stand of two weeks, his aim fixed itself. Mm hmmm, 93 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 1: I like that. What what what was it? What's what 94 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 1: fixed it? Him cleaning up after himself himself. That's the 95 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:25,159 Speaker 1: chip having seen up after himself. Okay, I worked for me. 96 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 1: You know, it's really a problem at night. Just to 97 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 1: defend men for a second, it's really the overnight. P 98 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:39,719 Speaker 1: that's the big issue. Right in the morning one too, well, 99 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 1: I consider that part of the overnight leads into it, 100 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 1: you know, rather not use that term, but yeah, you understand, 101 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 1: m hm. And I do get my kids to help 102 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: me clean the bathroom, but it just doesn't do it. 103 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: I think, I'm well, we're bad at it. We're bad 104 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 1: at it. You need to be be tough on your 105 00:05:56,680 --> 00:06:00,600 Speaker 1: man and your boy, because I'm scared out to leave 106 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 1: him that I'm like afraid to leave him. I'm glad 107 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: that she was tough on you with that. I know 108 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: you are. I know you are. Let me get your 109 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 1: morning hack. Then I have your quote of the day. 110 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 1: So this one has to do with science and hormones. 111 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: If you really want to make someone fall in love 112 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 1: with you, what do you think, Tanya? Where to take them? 113 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:24,039 Speaker 1: Where do you take them to? The beach? You're in 114 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: my head? Wait? Really, you're in my head? Does that 115 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 1: mean I'm gonna be in your head? Because I'm afraid 116 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: to be in your head a little bit, and I 117 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,279 Speaker 1: would be afraid for you to be in here too. Honestly, 118 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:38,799 Speaker 1: take a day spent in this brain and no needed 119 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: time share that. Um. So it is the it's actually 120 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:46,159 Speaker 1: outdoors during the day that's the best time people. So 121 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: here's the deal. The beach, picnic whatever. Exposure to sunlight. 122 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: So I thought maybe candle light. I was like, oh, 123 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 1: candles in music and the right a roma, big cookies 124 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 1: or or some great food. But I think I'm just 125 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 1: thinking like a romas that inspired more yea um. But anyway, 126 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: I suppose to sunlight increases the production of sexual hormones. 127 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 1: So sunlight can make you fall in love. Sunlight. That 128 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 1: is a great morning hack because, honestly, I feel like 129 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 1: most dates, especially in the beginning, you do them at 130 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 1: a bar. You meet at a bar, you meet in 131 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 1: a restaurant. You don't do things outdoors. Well, that could 132 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 1: be dating. This is love. Remember that's dating. This is love. 133 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 1: You want to fall in love, it's sunlight, right, and 134 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 1: don't you want to date? To fall in love depends 135 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 1: time of your life. Today's quote. I thought you're gonna 136 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 1: say time of the year, of season. Okay, today's quote. 137 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: Here's a quote. The quickest way to a peaceful life 138 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 1: is not having opinions on things that don't concern you. 139 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 1: Un with Ryan secrets alright, Sisney is out. Tanya in 140 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 1: with the headlines this morning. Tania Britney's Beers has been 141 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: freed from her father, and she could be freed entirely 142 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 1: from court control within weeks. A judge yesterday suspended the 143 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 1: singer's father from the conservatorship that has controlled her life 144 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 1: and money for thirteen years, saying that arrangement reflects a 145 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 1: toxic environment. COVID nineteen vaccine mandate deadlines are fast approaching 146 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 1: in l A u s D and employees who refused 147 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 1: the shots faced losing their jobs, while unvaccinated students would 148 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: ultimately be forced off campus into an online program. All 149 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 1: school district employees must be fully vaccinated by October. All 150 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 1: students twelve and older must receive their first shot by 151 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: this Sunday if they wish to take part in any 152 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: extracurricular activities. And the man hunt for Brian Laundry, the 153 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: fiance of the Lake Gabby Petito, continues with reported sightings 154 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 1: in North Carolina along the Appalachian Trail. Officials say they've 155 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 1: gotten about six tips in the last few days relating 156 00:08:54,679 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: to laundry with Ryan Seacrest. So the vacation that will 157 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: pay for those bills, that will take care of I'm 158 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 1: gonna give a shot to get that. In just a second, 159 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: let me grab Sharon here in Huntington's beach. Sharon, good morning, 160 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,839 Speaker 1: it's Ryan and Tanya and Patty. How are you hi, Ryan, 161 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:18,839 Speaker 1: How are you super good? Sharon? Thank you for listening 162 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: to us in the beach there, Huntington Beach. Absolutely. Hey, Um, 163 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 1: I don't know if you remember about I don't know 164 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:30,719 Speaker 1: years ago when you were just coming out into the 165 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 1: radio Uh. You were in Knoxbury Farm and a little 166 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 1: just SFM booth and you were handing out, you know, 167 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 1: prizes to everyone, and it came to the grand price 168 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 1: at the end. And like I said, you were just 169 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:49,079 Speaker 1: coming out and you were unknown at the time, and 170 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: you said to the whole audience, and there was a 171 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 1: huge audience in front of you, you said, if anyone 172 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 1: can tell me my name, you'll get the grand prize. 173 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:04,600 Speaker 1: And literally no one knew. No one knew. I knew, 174 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 1: I knew, I knew, I knew. Yeah, it's true. And 175 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 1: I looked at my daughter at the time, she was 176 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:15,359 Speaker 1: like eight years old, and I said, that's Ryan Seacrest. 177 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 1: I go, he's new on the radio, but he's awesome. 178 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 1: And my daughter goes, really, mom. And the guy next 179 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:23,839 Speaker 1: to me heard this and he shouted out your name 180 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 1: and won the prize. Yeah. Yeah. And then the funny 181 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 1: thing was I I looked at my daughter again, I said, 182 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 1: that guy is gonna make it. I go, he's awesome. 183 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 1: I was. I'm one of your original fans from you 184 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:41,599 Speaker 1: very beginning. That's crazy. What was the prize that he 185 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 1: stole from you? I really don't remember. I just I 186 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 1: didn't even pay attention to the prize. I just was 187 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 1: watching you because I liked you. I'd heard you on 188 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 1: the radio. Like I said, you were really new, but 189 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: I go that guy's awesome. Well, thank first of all, 190 00:10:55,840 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 1: thank you. I feel terrible that that was con from you, 191 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 1: and though that wasn't even an issue for you, and 192 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 1: I also started to think sharing. So your daughter was eight, 193 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 1: how old your daughter now? My daughter's old world so 194 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 1: so much. I think I really appreciate you still being here. 195 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 1: That means the world to me. That we've gone through 196 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 1: so much together and that you're still here. That's so cool. 197 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 1: And I'm happy you knew my name. I was like, 198 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 1: are you sure it was me? Until you said the question, OK, 199 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:33,079 Speaker 1: that's probably a question. I would have asked, Well, I'd 200 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:34,719 Speaker 1: like to give you a hundred two dollars right now 201 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 1: just for telling me that story. This much later. We 202 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 1: don't have to do that, Ryan, you don't even have 203 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 1: to do that. I just wanted to share my and 204 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 1: you know, I think very fondly of that every now 205 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 1: and again, because I listened to you guys every day 206 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 1: on my way to work and on my way home. 207 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 1: And you know what, um, I just wanted to share 208 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 1: my story with you. I think that's so sweet. That 209 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 1: is so nice. I'll tell you what I'll do. I'll 210 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 1: donate the money. We'll donate it to a charity. If 211 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:01,320 Speaker 1: you have a favorite charity. No, that's fine, that's fine. 212 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 1: Any cancer society is good with me. We'll take care 213 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 1: of it. We'll do that for you in your name. Okay, Sharon, 214 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 1: and thank you. Keep let's keep doing this for another down. 215 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 1: I'm down, baby, I'm doing okay talk how'd your daughter? Bye? Okay? 216 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 1: Thank you so much? By guys, it's crazy. I wish 217 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:23,840 Speaker 1: she had a video of that. I would love you 218 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: so bad at that. How did you can? Do you 219 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:30,079 Speaker 1: remember how you asked that question? Like I just need 220 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 1: to like I think she said, He's like, okay, guys, 221 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 1: I've got a T shirt whatever it was, water, water 222 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:42,079 Speaker 1: bottle or a couzy. Who wants a couzy chain, a 223 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 1: key chain, a bumper sticker? I bet you know. I 224 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 1: kind of figured maybe they didn't know my name and 225 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 1: that was right. Alright. I have to tell you, Shivers, 226 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 1: that's bad habits, But Shivers is that is so good. 227 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 1: I mean, that's great, but it's so good when you 228 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 1: told me that you had a playlist that was just 229 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:09,560 Speaker 1: Ed Shearing Shivers and then the Elton John Dualipa cold 230 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 1: Heart songs. Sorry I didn't tell you, I told Ed Shearon. 231 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 1: Well you said it on the air. No you don't. 232 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:15,920 Speaker 1: I don't know if you told him. You said it 233 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:19,679 Speaker 1: like on the air, weren't we talking Ede Shearing. I 234 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:21,319 Speaker 1: think you said it before we had ended Shearing, and 235 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 1: then when we had ed cheering on you told him 236 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 1: as well. I told my mom too, So I've told 237 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:28,320 Speaker 1: a lot of people. So yeah, I did the exact 238 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:33,079 Speaker 1: same thing. So good what you did, Elton dot ed 239 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 1: Sharon Shivers. I just I can do forty minutes of 240 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 1: running with just those two songs, back to back, back 241 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 1: to back, back to back. I thought I was the 242 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:42,200 Speaker 1: only weird one that did that. No, And you know what, 243 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 1: actually a lot of people are like us, are they? Yes? Okay, 244 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 1: all right, good, I'm happy that they are. Are we 245 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 1: just telling ourselves that? Do we know that? I did 246 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: an informal poll? Okay, good? What do you learn? That question? 247 00:13:58,160 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: It was, are you one of those people I can 248 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 1: listen to a song on repeat over and over again? 249 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 1: Or do you not like to do that, and you 250 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:05,560 Speaker 1: do right when you first get it. I mean, by 251 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:08,079 Speaker 1: the way, the eltondu a song has several versions. There's 252 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: a kind of different version of so I listened like 253 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 1: three versions of it too. Okay, let's go. When things 254 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 1: end with someone, do you keep watching their social media? 255 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 1: And you said torture yourself? Go on? Yes, So well 256 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 1: I'm asking you, are you do you either watch you 257 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 1: self sabotage watch their social media? Or are you one 258 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:27,280 Speaker 1: of those people who can just unfollow and delete? No, 259 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 1: I just don't look. I don't unfollow either. Generally. I 260 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 1: just don't look because you get curious. No, because I 261 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 1: if I get curious, the pain and torture I would 262 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: feel by looking outweighs my curiosity. Does that make sense? 263 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 1: You're telling us that after a breakup, you and you're 264 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 1: in your bed, you know you're winding down, you don't 265 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 1: ever get the urge to go. Well, no, no, I'm 266 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: not telling you that I signed it. The urge I 267 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 1: just don't do it because I know the pain is 268 00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 1: worse than the curiosity. It's very clear in my mind, 269 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 1: very strong of you, and I wish I was as 270 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 1: strong as you, because honestly, you never benefit from looking. 271 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 1: You never see something that makes you feel good. You 272 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 1: only strong. It's weak because the pain would hurt me 273 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:16,000 Speaker 1: so much that it's weak. No, it's strong because it's 274 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 1: helping you long term move forward. You see what I'm saying. 275 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 1: I might by the end of this, but keep going. 276 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 1: So the reason I bring it up is because Alesia 277 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 1: Carra so her album In the Meantime just came out, 278 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 1: and so naturally spent a lot of time digging into 279 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 1: the song, the lyrics, and actually she's going to be 280 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 1: on the show tomorrow. But the one of the songs 281 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 1: that I found that was so good because the lyrics 282 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 1: are so heartbreaking but also so relatable at the same time, 283 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 1: is a song called Bluebird. So it says, blue Bird 284 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 1: in the Spring told me that your new girl makes 285 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 1: you sing. Guess my loving only clipped your wings so 286 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 1: I let you go. And then here's what she said. 287 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 1: She said, I miss you, I do, but I wasn't 288 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 1: for you. You look happier, I checked, of course, And 289 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 1: so when I read this, or when I heard this, 290 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 1: it got me thinking, obviously, Alessia Carra is a lurker 291 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 1: like Patty and myself, or she checks up on the 292 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: social media after things end. Um and it made me 293 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:13,640 Speaker 1: feel a little bit better knowing that Alessia Carra does 294 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 1: this too, because I think it is it's total self sabotage. 295 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: You see somebody happier moving on. I totally do that. 296 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 1: I even at one point when I was going this 297 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 1: was a break up a long time ago, but his 298 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 1: Gmail was still logged into like my computer, you know, 299 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 1: just like automatically logged in, and I was checking his 300 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 1: emails for like a month after we broke up. Yeah, 301 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 1: I just know that I don't have the skin to 302 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 1: handle it. I don't have the ability to not feel 303 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 1: kicked in the gut if I were to see that 304 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 1: I could not write what she wrote like, I couldn't 305 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 1: look at and then write that that's like a double 306 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 1: kick to me. But that's what's so beautiful. Yeah, if 307 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 1: it is, But it's something where I just my curiosity 308 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 1: is not as strong as the pain I would feel 309 00:16:55,640 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 1: if I've looked honestly, I like, uh, what's the word? 310 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 1: Commend you? Commend? The right word I'm looking for. It 311 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 1: depends what you want to say. I commend you for that. 312 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: I wish that I was like that because I think 313 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:09,679 Speaker 1: I look and it just makes me sad, Like it 314 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: doesn't make me feel good, right, well, a lot of 315 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:15,119 Speaker 1: stuff makes me sad on Instagram. Um, okay, well you 316 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 1: know what makes me happy Disneyland tickets. That makes me happy. 317 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 1: And then you've got Ryan Roses. We got a nice 318 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 1: balance coming up next on air with Ryan Seacrest. It's 319 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 1: time for Ryan's Roses on one or two point seven? 320 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 1: Kissm Are you ready for Ryan's Roses? We're going to Cyprus. 321 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 1: She says. I was going through my husband's phone when 322 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:44,440 Speaker 1: I found a random selfie in there of this young 323 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:48,119 Speaker 1: woman showing major cleavage. It was clearly out at a 324 00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 1: club or a party or something. My husband was supposedly 325 00:17:51,520 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 1: helping his brother move that night. Let's grab Nicole. Nicole, Nicole, 326 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 1: thank you for coming on. So you just walk us 327 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:05,679 Speaker 1: through that day. So your husband said he was going 328 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 1: to help his brother moved to a new place. Yeah, so, Um, 329 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:15,679 Speaker 1: I was going through my husband's phone. He had taken 330 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:18,959 Speaker 1: some pictures of our kids with my mom, and so 331 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 1: I just you know, I hadn't looked at him yet, 332 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 1: so I wanted to find them. And while I was 333 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 1: looking for those pictures, I just I found this like 334 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:35,240 Speaker 1: random selfie in his phone of this like young not 335 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:38,800 Speaker 1: I mean, she's a young woman. It's looking like she 336 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 1: had like that duck lift phase and like there's major cleavage, 337 00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 1: and I've obviously freaked out, and I'm like, oh my 338 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:49,679 Speaker 1: god looking at this picture, and I see in the 339 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:52,959 Speaker 1: background it was clearly like a club or a party 340 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:56,919 Speaker 1: or something with dark lights, and and now I'm freaking 341 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:59,639 Speaker 1: even more so I'm like checking the date and it 342 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 1: I saw that it was during a time that he 343 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 1: was supposedly helping his brother move, like I told you, 344 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:10,520 Speaker 1: and so freaking out, I went looking in his phone 345 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 1: and looking and I see that there's like a text 346 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:19,639 Speaker 1: message from Emily. Damn, like who's Emily? And the text 347 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 1: said all it said was check your email? Like shady. 348 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 1: But I so now I like try to check his email, 349 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:31,640 Speaker 1: but I couldn't get into his email. And I'm just wondering, 350 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:34,880 Speaker 1: who is this woman in this picture? Who is Emily? 351 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,360 Speaker 1: Why is she saying like check your email? It's all 352 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:41,639 Speaker 1: really shady, and it just seems like he's lying to me, 353 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:45,440 Speaker 1: and I need to know, Okay, was there anyone else 354 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 1: in the picture When the picture was taken. I mean 355 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:52,879 Speaker 1: you could see like people in the background sort of, 356 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 1: but it was blurry. I mean go out after moving 357 00:19:57,080 --> 00:20:00,639 Speaker 1: to celebrate the move or something celebrate the move. It 358 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:03,680 Speaker 1: was a long day of moving. I mean it looked 359 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:06,439 Speaker 1: like there was like dark lights and like certain it 360 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:08,480 Speaker 1: looked like a party or a club or a bar. 361 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:11,679 Speaker 1: I don't know. A hold on one second, Nicole, Just 362 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:16,879 Speaker 1: want to hold on for a second. What's interesting to 363 00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 1: me is so Emily sends a text and says, check 364 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:22,239 Speaker 1: your email. It seems like emails the wrong way to go, 365 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:24,199 Speaker 1: right if they're trying to cover something up When you 366 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 1: say check your what'sapp? If you're just getting here, we're 367 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:33,640 Speaker 1: making the Ryan's Roses call right now, you haven't really 368 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 1: missed anything. So I'll bring up to speed. Nicole's worried 369 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 1: her husband is cheating because in the phone there was 370 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 1: a selfie at a club on a day that or 371 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:43,719 Speaker 1: a night of a day that he was moving his brother, right, 372 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:46,879 Speaker 1: it looked like a new place. And then there's a 373 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:49,359 Speaker 1: text into his phone from Emily saying check your email. 374 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: So she thinks that he whether he did or didn't 375 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:55,639 Speaker 1: help his brother move that night he was at a 376 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,920 Speaker 1: club he met some woman named Emily took a selfie. 377 00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 1: She's texting him and now saying check your email. We 378 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 1: don't know what was in the email, so she's worried. 379 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:08,639 Speaker 1: Let's bring up, Nicole. How many years have you been married? 380 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:15,879 Speaker 1: Almost eight? Now, okay, we are going to Tanya is 381 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:18,160 Speaker 1: going to call your husband and off from some roses. 382 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 1: Let's see what we can find out. Be very quiet 383 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 1: until we tell him he's on the arrow. Okay, okay, 384 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 1: A just say Ron, you have my permission to call, 385 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 1: and then his name on Kiss FM. Go ahead, you 386 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:33,439 Speaker 1: have my permission to call. Okay, we're gonna do that. 387 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:50,800 Speaker 1: Now here we go. Good luck. Hello? Hi is this 388 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 1: Patrick speaking? Who? Hi Patrick? My name is Tiana. I'm 389 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 1: calling from tse Tulips and more. How are you doing 390 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:02,360 Speaker 1: this morning? Pretty good? Are you? I'm so good? Thank 391 00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:04,639 Speaker 1: you for taking my call. I actually I have this 392 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 1: new flower shop and um we're actually located right on 393 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 1: Ball Road next to the high school, and I wanted 394 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:13,280 Speaker 1: to call and offer you a free dozen red roses. 395 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,159 Speaker 1: I'll get them out today by one pm. All I 396 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 1: need from you is the name of who you want 397 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:20,640 Speaker 1: to send them to. And no, I don't need any 398 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,080 Speaker 1: credit card information. I don't need any money from you. 399 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: Uh so just what Throw it up on the gram, 400 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,119 Speaker 1: put on Instagram of it. I get a little social 401 00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:31,480 Speaker 1: media boost. Is this the game plan that I'm not 402 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 1: even asking you to do that? But if you did, 403 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 1: I would love it. If you love the flowers, I 404 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:39,480 Speaker 1: would I would appreciate it so much. But this sounds cool, 405 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 1: I mean sure, this sounds great, awesome, Patrick, thank you 406 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 1: so much. You just made my day. Let's start with 407 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:46,720 Speaker 1: the name of who you want to send them to. 408 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 1: H Yeah, that'll be Nicole and I C O L 409 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:55,440 Speaker 1: E UM, Emma E M M A, Caitlin c A I, 410 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:59,360 Speaker 1: T l I N and l l I l A. 411 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:04,880 Speaker 1: And the note could be to my beautiful girls. Oh 412 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:09,920 Speaker 1: that is so sweet, beautiful yep. To my beautiful girls 413 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:12,440 Speaker 1: are called my wife, and then the Emma, Caitlin and Lila. 414 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 1: Those are I always said I wanted to be surrounded 415 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 1: by women, so I hain't nothing like having a wife 416 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 1: and three little girls. That is so sweet. Oh my gosh. 417 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 1: So do you want me to send the roses or 418 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 1: do you want I can throw some tulips in there? 419 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:28,639 Speaker 1: It's tease tulips yes. I mean it's just from my 420 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:30,880 Speaker 1: like my my wife and kids. So whatever you think 421 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:32,880 Speaker 1: looks good. I mean I don't want to break your bank, 422 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:36,800 Speaker 1: but sure, you're so wonderful. Patrick, Thank you so much. 423 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 1: Can you hang tight one second? Yeah? The problem? Patrick? Yello. Hey, 424 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 1: it's Ryan Seacrest. Your voice is being broadcast on the radio. 425 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 1: I just want you to know that. Thank you for 426 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,680 Speaker 1: staying on the line with us for a second. Um, 427 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:53,920 Speaker 1: I have your wife Nicole on the phone, and she's 428 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:57,240 Speaker 1: asked us to reach out to you. Nicole, do you 429 00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:05,119 Speaker 1: want to tell him why? M m um, hi, Hi, 430 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 1: I I'm what has happening? Like? Who is gosh? I 431 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:18,639 Speaker 1: don't even know where were you when you were helping 432 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 1: Andy move? I was, yeah, yeah, Nick, I was helping 433 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:33,159 Speaker 1: him move. What are you talking about? Why did you 434 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:39,120 Speaker 1: like go somewhere like we went from this old place 435 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:40,919 Speaker 1: to his new place. I mean, I don't know what 436 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:44,240 Speaker 1: you're What are you talking about, Darry? Okay, I'm just 437 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,920 Speaker 1: gonna say it. There is like some selfie of some 438 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:52,480 Speaker 1: chick in your phone and I don't even like it's 439 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 1: it was on the day that you were supposed to 440 00:24:55,040 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 1: be helping Andy move. So what's with that? Oh? Oh 441 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:11,520 Speaker 1: is it? Okay? Um? Okay, okay, all right, okay, okay, okay, okay. 442 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:15,360 Speaker 1: I think I know what happened. So I told you, well, 443 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 1: I hold on, hold on, okay, Yes, Andy and I 444 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 1: moved and then we were gonna go get a drink 445 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,919 Speaker 1: after we were done. But he said, oh, my coworker 446 00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:26,640 Speaker 1: is having a party. Do you want to go over there? 447 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, okay, that's that's that sounds cool. 448 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:32,440 Speaker 1: I mean I didn't know what party meant, like crazy party, 449 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:35,439 Speaker 1: and so someone must have grabbed my phone. The guy 450 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:37,159 Speaker 1: had like a little poker table set up. I was 451 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,960 Speaker 1: playing cards. The guy must someone must have taken my 452 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:43,840 Speaker 1: phone and like shot a selfie with it. Uh when 453 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:45,880 Speaker 1: I walked away from the table or something. I mean, 454 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 1: I don't there's done. I'm not cheating on you. If 455 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 1: that's what you're insinuating me, Well, why didn't you tell 456 00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:56,000 Speaker 1: me when? By all right, so when was the last 457 00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:58,360 Speaker 1: time you and I went to a party? You mean 458 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:00,399 Speaker 1: you're home with the kids. I was just supposed to 459 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,880 Speaker 1: go get a drink with Andy. I knew you wouldn't 460 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 1: be thrilled to hear that I was going to be like, 461 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 1: oh party, instead of just going down to get a beer. 462 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 1: I mean, but when like it was no big deal. 463 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:09,639 Speaker 1: I mean there was, Yeah, there was a bunch of 464 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 1: drunk people there, but I mean, you know, look like 465 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 1: like I said, it's like playing cards, like I had 466 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:14,920 Speaker 1: like a little poke table set up. It was nice. 467 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 1: I have no idea who who that girl is in 468 00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 1: the picture? I have no idea. I mean, why were 469 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 1: you so sure? It's just like you seriously didn't know 470 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:25,639 Speaker 1: it was in your phone? Like that seems weird. But Patrick, 471 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 1: who's Emily? Right? Yes? Who are Emily? So? Emily said 472 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,920 Speaker 1: only text saying check your email? Nicole found that in 473 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 1: your phone? So who's Emily? All right? And so we're 474 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 1: going we're going through my phone now. Emily is my 475 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:42,560 Speaker 1: office manager. I don't know who the girl in the 476 00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:45,200 Speaker 1: picture is. And we went to Andy's co workers party, 477 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 1: got it? Okay? Okay? All right? So Nicole, do you 478 00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:57,680 Speaker 1: believe Patrick? I don't know me. You want, hey, honey, 479 00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 1: if you want to check my email and the password 480 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:01,639 Speaker 1: is our anniversary in your name, if you want to 481 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:06,520 Speaker 1: check that email, Nicole, Nicole, I believe him. I don't 482 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:10,159 Speaker 1: know him, but I've been the three minutes I've been 483 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 1: talking to him, I believe him. Yeah, it sounds like 484 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:16,439 Speaker 1: a nice guy. I mean, I guess I yes, I 485 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:20,520 Speaker 1: know Emily is your manager. I just thought I didn't 486 00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,200 Speaker 1: think of it because I saw the picture. I just thought, 487 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,920 Speaker 1: this chick in the picture. You created that narrative, right, 488 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 1: You created that that narrative because it was all in 489 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:32,040 Speaker 1: your head. I guess it's not what says right that 490 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,359 Speaker 1: we connect all these dots that aren't necessarily meant to 491 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:36,639 Speaker 1: be connected because we're in a space. I mean, look it, 492 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:40,160 Speaker 1: it's it's not I could see why. I mean, many 493 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:42,360 Speaker 1: of us would do the same thing. But after hearing 494 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:46,080 Speaker 1: from Patrick, I think I think I believe Patrick Nicole. 495 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 1: So we'll leave it to you, guys. Patrick, thank you 496 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:51,360 Speaker 1: for talking with us, and you guys, good luck. Okay, 497 00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 1: thanks man, cool talking to you alright, man, you take 498 00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:59,880 Speaker 1: care you okay? Bye? Bye? Yeah? I like him a lot. 499 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:02,879 Speaker 1: Is it his voice that I like so much? Great? 500 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:08,040 Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, what was he wearing? Like Wrangler jeans 501 00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:13,639 Speaker 1: for sure? Yeah? Right, and a belt and like a 502 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:17,640 Speaker 1: nice button down. I was like a plaid in my head. 503 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:19,880 Speaker 1: I don't know, it was weird. I was just like, God, 504 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,480 Speaker 1: I can see the guy. I can see you would 505 00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,439 Speaker 1: help out my flower shop post on his gram, so 506 00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:28,399 Speaker 1: Nicole thought her husband was cheating. We got Patrick on 507 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,879 Speaker 1: the line. He sent the flowers to Nicole and his 508 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:36,200 Speaker 1: three daughters, and then he explained that the text from 509 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 1: Emily was his office manager and the picture was it 510 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 1: just looked bad. It wasn't a real issue because he said, look, 511 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,520 Speaker 1: I want to go out and drink with Andy after 512 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 1: we moved, and I knew you would meet thrilled if 513 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 1: we didn't just have a beer. So I didn't really 514 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:54,200 Speaker 1: say anything right. Maybe that was the flaw, like maybe 515 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:56,120 Speaker 1: just say I know this is not going to be 516 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 1: your like, this is probably gonna be popular with you. 517 00:28:58,600 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 1: But I ended up having a drink or two with 518 00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 1: an not just having a beer. We went to a club, 519 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 1: or we had a went to a party, whatever was 520 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:06,480 Speaker 1: a party. So Patty didn't get you on this. Tony 521 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:10,760 Speaker 1: and I are sold that Patrick's telling the truth. I 522 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:15,160 Speaker 1: don't know. I can see why you guys became enamored 523 00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 1: with his tone of voice, and I think that's what 524 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 1: you know that. I think men like him know that 525 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:26,040 Speaker 1: the game they're playing, and you can He can have 526 00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,600 Speaker 1: a million reasons as to why that picture landed on 527 00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 1: his phone, but he has got on his phone and 528 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:36,200 Speaker 1: you're you saying we felt for the sound of his voice, 529 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:39,160 Speaker 1: and he knows that he sounds like that, so he manipulates. 530 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:42,440 Speaker 1: I think there's just some men that are that use 531 00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:45,480 Speaker 1: this to their advantage and they know they're narcissists and 532 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 1: narciss very charming, very charming, Very narcissism is charming, very 533 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:55,320 Speaker 1: very charming. See what we think of narciss as, We 534 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:58,280 Speaker 1: think they're evil. And you can smell him a mild 535 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 1: narcissist who knows the game. Too many things happening at once. 536 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 1: So do you believe him or not? I do not 537 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:09,240 Speaker 1: believe him. I think the fact that you were like, oh, 538 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:11,760 Speaker 1: like I pictured what he was wearing immediately after he 539 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,360 Speaker 1: hung up. Yeah, because I was pitching while he was talking. 540 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,600 Speaker 1: So I didn't take he he trapped you. He didn't 541 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 1: trapped me. He got you right where he wanted to 542 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:22,400 Speaker 1: get you. He got me when he sent the flowers 543 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:25,239 Speaker 1: to the wife and little girls. I just melted. So 544 00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:32,000 Speaker 1: narcissism is attractive. No, not narcissism. Narcissists people who are 545 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:40,520 Speaker 1: Narcissists are very good at charming. Okay, so narcissists create narcissism, Yes, 546 00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 1: but it's not narcissism that's the charming, attractive thing. It's 547 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:48,400 Speaker 1: narcissists know how to charm and to please and to 548 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 1: make people like them. That's part of their appeal. I'm googling, 549 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:55,840 Speaker 1: and you don't know they're narcissist until it's too late. 550 00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,560 Speaker 1: Y'all find it attractive. You found that attractive right now. 551 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,760 Speaker 1: I don't think it's I think it's a nice guy, exactly, exactly. 552 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 1: That's my point. You will never know he's a narcissist 553 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 1: until you are well. And I don't think I would 554 00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 1: like him if I knew he was a narcissist. Well, 555 00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 1: of course you wouldn't know. I just googled it, and 556 00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:20,640 Speaker 1: the first thing stops. How to deal with narcissists and direct, 557 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 1: avoid direct confrontation, don't run away, set limits and no 558 00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: it won't work, seek counseling. So it all sounds bad. 559 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:37,360 Speaker 1: How did the narciss spouse except them break the spell speaker? 560 00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 1: I mean, this all sounds bad. Narcissists are not attractive. 561 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:45,360 Speaker 1: They're not attractive. They are, but they are because we 562 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 1: don't know their narcissists until they're too late. Exactly how 563 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 1: am I? I'm not seeing through the smoke on this. 564 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:52,960 Speaker 1: I think all we need is I think we need 565 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 1: like a doctor that can don't talk to I want 566 00:31:56,200 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 1: to talk to you and t about it. You guys 567 00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:03,000 Speaker 1: think narcissists are attractive. That's why I need to know. 568 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:07,720 Speaker 1: I not find out today charming tell you they know 569 00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 1: exactly what to say to you. They will charm you 570 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 1: that Malati. No, but you don't know you're being You 571 00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:20,360 Speaker 1: don't know you're being manipulated until because you're saying they're attractive, 572 00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:23,000 Speaker 1: until you know they're narcissists, then they're not. At that time, 573 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,480 Speaker 1: it's already too late. Okay, Well that you could should 574 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 1: have just said that. That's what we're trying to tell 575 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:33,560 Speaker 1: you today. And you the first thing you said was oh, 576 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 1: those pants that I imagine him wearing. I didn't say that. 577 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,720 Speaker 1: I said, I imagine what he's wearing. And he was 578 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:42,560 Speaker 1: wearing Wrangler jeans and a belt and I think boots. 579 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:44,880 Speaker 1: But you're right, Patty, he got me when he was 580 00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:47,080 Speaker 1: sending the fowers, I have like melted. And I said, oh, 581 00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:54,160 Speaker 1: what a sweet man on air with Ryan's Secrets. We're 582 00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:57,840 Speaker 1: gonna pay someone's vacation mills. This is a grand prize, 583 00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 1: that daily Grand Prize. You qualified ten minutes past the 584 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 1: hour from six ten to six ten all day. That's 585 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:07,400 Speaker 1: when you get a hundred two dollars and you qualify 586 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:12,240 Speaker 1: to win one five to oh, one to seven. Okay, 587 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:19,520 Speaker 1: let's grab Melissa. Hi, Melissa Royo of La Puente, Good morning. 588 00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 1: Were you color one oh two at two ten the 589 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 1: other day with Gabby? Yes? I was great. Well, it's 590 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:32,120 Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest. I'm calling it. Tell you your today's Grand 591 00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:38,520 Speaker 1: prize winner. We're paying your vacation bills so much, so much, 592 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 1: so much. That's my pleasure. Where do you want to go? Oh? 593 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:46,280 Speaker 1: Where do I want to go? I want to go 594 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 1: to Italy? Yes, Italy. I like it a lot. I 595 00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 1: was there a little bit over the summer. Were in Italy? Oh? Oh, 596 00:33:55,840 --> 00:34:01,240 Speaker 1: I want to visit Rome? How funny my sister? Do 597 00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:04,360 Speaker 1: you like reading my head? My sister and Jimmy went 598 00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:09,760 Speaker 1: to a wedding in Rome just the other week. Yeah. 599 00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:14,239 Speaker 1: Oh that's so amazing. That's amazing. So you definitely have 600 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,440 Speaker 1: to go. I'll find out, like where did get pizza 601 00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:17,880 Speaker 1: or something from you? I was gonna say, was it 602 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:21,839 Speaker 1: so beautiful? Yeah? I mean that's so amazing. That's great. 603 00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:25,719 Speaker 1: So how is the wedding? Well, I really only asked 604 00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:29,120 Speaker 1: about the food because weddings are a source subject for me. Oh, 605 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:33,040 Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear that subject. No. I mean they're great, 606 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:36,040 Speaker 1: but I just haven't figured it out all out yet. Anyway, Melissa, 607 00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:38,320 Speaker 1: we're gonna take care of your trip. Thank you for listening. 608 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:41,640 Speaker 1: Kiss FM. We'll get to Italy. Okay, okay, thank you 609 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,320 Speaker 1: so much. Trying see christ is just amazing. Thank you. 610 00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:48,319 Speaker 1: You're welcome, Melissa Royo. Hang on one second. So I 611 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:49,879 Speaker 1: saw this. You know a lot of people going back 612 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,439 Speaker 1: to work. I actually love this idea, and it's really 613 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:55,160 Speaker 1: never dawned on me before. But I might subscribe to 614 00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 1: it and you might start seeing me wear the same 615 00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,520 Speaker 1: thing literally every day, or a version of it. So 616 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:03,960 Speaker 1: a lot of people you're going back to your offices 617 00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:09,120 Speaker 1: for work, and there's something called the work uniform that 618 00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:14,040 Speaker 1: people have. You start looking at what's his name, Steve Jobs? 619 00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:17,080 Speaker 1: When when he was alive? And who runs the Facebook? 620 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:22,640 Speaker 1: Jeff Zuckerberg not Jeff Zuckerberg, Mark, Matt zucker Mark Zuckerber. 621 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:27,240 Speaker 1: How can we not know the guy that runs Facebook? 622 00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:31,319 Speaker 1: You know, Matt Zuckerberg, Mark Zuckerberg, Mark Zuckerberg. You at 623 00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:34,800 Speaker 1: least had the right continant m I said, Jeff, anyway, 624 00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:41,879 Speaker 1: you're probably no. I was thinking, Jeff zucker who runs CNN. Okay, 625 00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,240 Speaker 1: I don't know what to w I don't know where's 626 00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,960 Speaker 1: to work. But um, Mark Zuckerber, he wears the same 627 00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:49,480 Speaker 1: thing too. And here's the reason very successful. I think 628 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 1: President Obama said he only wore a blue or a 629 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:56,840 Speaker 1: gray suit every day to alleviate decisions. One less decision 630 00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:59,719 Speaker 1: every day. And I like it, and I like it 631 00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:03,440 Speaker 1: a amendous amount, and I might start doing it because 632 00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 1: it's like, if you have fewer to think of, First 633 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:11,160 Speaker 1: of all, the closet, like I have populated hanger anxiety. 634 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:16,160 Speaker 1: When hangers are populated too densely and together, I can't 635 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:17,680 Speaker 1: see a thing. It's like there's so much there, I 636 00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:19,959 Speaker 1: can't see anything. And mine are literally to the point 637 00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:21,920 Speaker 1: where you can't even put your hand through it, like 638 00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:26,799 Speaker 1: you can't even pret causes me anxiety just hearing about it. 639 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:32,560 Speaker 1: So if you have just a few choices. That means 640 00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:34,960 Speaker 1: less stress, That means you be comfortable. If you pick 641 00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:37,840 Speaker 1: out what you like all the time, you can minimize 642 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,799 Speaker 1: your closet and it saves you money and it saves 643 00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:43,440 Speaker 1: you time. I really think highly productive people do this 644 00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:47,759 Speaker 1: for a reason, and it makes sense. It makes so 645 00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:50,040 Speaker 1: much sense, and I think it's such a great idea 646 00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:52,200 Speaker 1: because I remember, do you remember when we were like 647 00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,680 Speaker 1: actually going in every single day you try and like 648 00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 1: change up your look. One day you want to wear down, 649 00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:00,200 Speaker 1: one day you want to wear hair up jacket. It's 650 00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 1: it's so much I'm not and who cares. It's in 651 00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:08,200 Speaker 1: every photograph you look the same, so you can mix 652 00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:12,920 Speaker 1: and match. It's like one long day. That whole year 653 00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:17,239 Speaker 1: was one day actually the same clothes every day. I 654 00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:19,680 Speaker 1: really like it. I have an idea of what I'm 655 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:21,919 Speaker 1: and I do want to like clean out so much 656 00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:27,239 Speaker 1: of the cutter and just in solids, grays, darks, draw 657 00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,800 Speaker 1: strings to the extent we can. That's what I'm feeling 658 00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:33,359 Speaker 1: right now. I've have to tell you I'm the same 659 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,239 Speaker 1: way with sweatsuits. Like I love wearing sweatshirts because I'm 660 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:38,359 Speaker 1: a really sweaty person, and so when I wear any 661 00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:41,640 Speaker 1: kind of T shirt that's close into my armpit. I get, yeah, 662 00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:45,440 Speaker 1: I know, I know. So you're seeing this. People are 663 00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:48,000 Speaker 1: doing this more and more as they go back to work, 664 00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,360 Speaker 1: and I sign up for it. Christina. How are you 665 00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:55,000 Speaker 1: this morning? Good? How are you well? You know, sifting 666 00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:58,799 Speaker 1: through it all? How can we help you? Christina? So 667 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,719 Speaker 1: I've been living with I lived with my boyfriend for 668 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,640 Speaker 1: a little over three years, and we just broke up 669 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:08,320 Speaker 1: over a month ago. Um unfortunately, but so I haven't. 670 00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:10,759 Speaker 1: I had a dog before we started dating who kind 671 00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:13,200 Speaker 1: of became obviously kind of kind of became our dog 672 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:16,360 Speaker 1: over three years and sistance we broke up, we were 673 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,960 Speaker 1: kind of planning on having like shared custody. Is shoved 674 00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,520 Speaker 1: the dog um since we broke up on good terms. 675 00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:24,560 Speaker 1: But my extress told me he suddenly has a new girlfriend, 676 00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:26,640 Speaker 1: and now I kind of want to, like, I want 677 00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:30,000 Speaker 1: to not do the visiting rights um with my dog, 678 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:32,560 Speaker 1: but I feel a little guilty about taking the dog 679 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:35,239 Speaker 1: away from him. What would you guys do? So just 680 00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:38,560 Speaker 1: understand it, uh, sharing the dog in a breakup, but 681 00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,680 Speaker 1: now he's got a new girl, and you don't want 682 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:47,000 Speaker 1: to share the dog? Not really? Nor is it because 683 00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:48,920 Speaker 1: you don't want to run into the girlfriend or what 684 00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:50,719 Speaker 1: what's the reason why you don't want to let him 685 00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 1: play with the dog. Yeah, I kind of feel like 686 00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:55,440 Speaker 1: that I'll be sharing the dog with the girlfriend too, 687 00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:57,040 Speaker 1: and I don't I don't really want to see. If 688 00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:59,560 Speaker 1: it were me, i'd not want to run into the boyfriend. 689 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:01,920 Speaker 1: Like if it were opposite, right, If I wouldn't want 690 00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:03,160 Speaker 1: to just drop the dog off and have to run 691 00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,360 Speaker 1: into the other person, that would be hard for me. 692 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:07,239 Speaker 1: The fact that you decided you were going to share 693 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:11,880 Speaker 1: custody before is kind of weird because you broke up, Like, 694 00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:15,000 Speaker 1: why would you want to see him at all. It's 695 00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:16,600 Speaker 1: just that we broke up on good terms and I 696 00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:18,719 Speaker 1: felt that taking a dog away from him, So it's 697 00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,680 Speaker 1: kind of like an agreement we came upon in this 698 00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:24,719 Speaker 1: whole long process of breaking up. But now I I 699 00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,880 Speaker 1: got it. I can only speak from experience. I've been 700 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:31,680 Speaker 1: through breakups with dogs, and the bottom line is whoever 701 00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:33,959 Speaker 1: came in with the dog usually ends up with the dog, 702 00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,000 Speaker 1: and there's not a lot of visitation once the other 703 00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:38,200 Speaker 1: person gets in a relationship. It's just is it's just 704 00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:41,160 Speaker 1: it's just too hard and everyone has to move on, 705 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:48,279 Speaker 1: even the dog. That makes me feel better, thank you, No, 706 00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:52,960 Speaker 1: especially now it was meant to be that we were together. 707 00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:56,359 Speaker 1: But I think I think it's okay that everyone has 708 00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:58,120 Speaker 1: to move on. You explain it to the dog tonight, 709 00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:04,880 Speaker 1: thank you all right? By no, no, I mean that's like, 710 00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:10,399 Speaker 1: that's a real thing when you break up and someone 711 00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:13,000 Speaker 1: comes into your life with dogs and you get so 712 00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:15,360 Speaker 1: attached to the dogs and then the dogs disappear, it 713 00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:18,359 Speaker 1: makes your heart empty. 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