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Speaker 1: First Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Cole is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Terreen.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Cole, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Arran?

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's it's been a few days, and uh,

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Speaker 3: you know, I thought we had a real connection, so

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Speaker 3: it's it's a bummer if.

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Speaker 4: It's a few days. Are you sure you're being ghosted?

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Speaker 4: Have you tried to reach out to her?

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Speaker 3: I of course I've tried, and you know I texted,

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Speaker 3: I even called once, but uh, you know, just just nothing.

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Speaker 4: Why don't you tell us about the date? Okay? Uh?

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Speaker 3: So last month we met a stagecoach and it was magic,

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Speaker 3: like we were both in boots with Biden to Midland

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Speaker 3: those saying how you know where it was to meet

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Speaker 3: someone not from out of town at a festival and

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Speaker 3: you know, boom it was. It was awesome, like we

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Speaker 3: lived in the same city, same side. What are the

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Speaker 3: odds of finding some like guided stage coach.

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Speaker 4: Yeah not high.

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Speaker 3: I mean, oh man, Like the whole weekend, we just

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Speaker 3: kept bumping into each other, and you know, we were

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Speaker 3: partying together with both of our friend groups, and it's

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Speaker 3: just I don't want to be cheesy, but like it

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Speaker 3: really did feel like it was it was meant to beat.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, what happened?

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Speaker 3: So we hung out all night, We danced, We even

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Speaker 3: slow danced like under the stars at one point, and

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Speaker 3: it was magic. And when we got home, I was

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Speaker 3: so stoked. We actually falled through and grabbed drinks the

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Speaker 3: next week like right away. Oh good, Yeah, it was

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Speaker 3: better than it was great. Like we went to this

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Speaker 3: bar has like awesome HAPs and music and I got

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Speaker 3: some wings here, she got fries, and we just shared everything.

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Speaker 3: And I gotta say, she's like hilarious and smart and

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Speaker 3: kind of spicy. You know, she's definitely my type.

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Speaker 4: Okay, do you feel like you're her type too?

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Speaker 3: I mean, the way she was acting, I certainly did.

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Speaker 4: Well. How did things end?

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Speaker 2: Like, was the last thing that that last interaction you

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Speaker 2: had before she stopped texting you?

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Speaker 3: Well, I got to be honest, it's been a while

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Speaker 3: since I've felt like an immediate click with somebody, and

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Speaker 3: she she just kept up with me and called me

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Speaker 3: on funny ways, like I feel like she saw me,

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Speaker 3: and like, I guess there was this a moment at

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Speaker 3: the bar. I said something dumb like I told her, Hey,

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Speaker 3: you know, my friends think.

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Speaker 4: You're super hot. I know I like that.

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Speaker 3: So so like that I said that, and like she

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Speaker 3: gave me this look and said like cool, but why

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Speaker 3: do I need to know that? So I I tried

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Speaker 3: to recover and I was like, no, no, I mean

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Speaker 3: you're stunning. That's that's that's what I was trying to say.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, but that was like when I felt the shift.

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Speaker 3: You know, Okay, so you felt and so you did

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Speaker 3: feel a shift. Yeah, And you know it's been like

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Speaker 3: a little bit over week actually and not forever, but

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Speaker 3: like it's enough time that I've gone from Okay, she's

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Speaker 3: busy to she's done with me.

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Speaker 4: But did you guys plan to see each other again

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Speaker 4: at the end of the night or you just we're

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Speaker 4: like cool, thanks, this was fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we talked about it, and you know, I was

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Speaker 3: I was like excited and I reached out to her

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Speaker 3: and you know, so I haven't heard anything and I

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Speaker 3: saw that last night she posted this story about coffee

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Speaker 3: with the girls. So I felt like, oh, she's definitely

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Speaker 3: by her phone, and so I just like text her

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Speaker 3: one last time. I was like, can't wait to hang again?

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Speaker 4: Nothing?

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Speaker 3: Oh nothing at all.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well we'll see if we can figure it out

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Speaker 4: for you.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call her

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Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you.

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Speaker 4: Maybe get to a second date. Okay, I appreciate it.

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Speaker 4: All right, we'll get your first day follow up.

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Speaker 1: Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 4: Right in the middle of your first day follow up.

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Speaker 2: But if you're just joining us, Cole is on the

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Speaker 2: phone and he's getting ghosted by Terrence. So in a minute,

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Speaker 2: gonna call her and see if she'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Cole, why don't you remind

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Speaker 2: us about your.

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Speaker 4: Day with Terran.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well we went a stagecoach. We both lived in

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Speaker 3: I moved, you know, I wanted to see her when

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Speaker 3: we got back to wint to the bar, had a

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Speaker 3: good time, shared some food, had some laughs and then

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Speaker 3: since then she's just.

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Speaker 4: Ghost to me. Well, are you ready for us to

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Speaker 4: call her? I am all right? Hello, Hi man I

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Speaker 4: speaks of Terran. Please this hey Taran? How are you?

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Speaker 4: This is a radio show. It's called The Jubile Show. Hi,

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Speaker 4: Taron Amina, Hi, I'm Victoria. Hi. What's going on going?

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Speaker 5: Do you know?

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Speaker 4: Have you ever listened to the show?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I mean not not all the time. I'm so sorry,

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Speaker 6: but that's okay.

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Speaker 2: Hey, we're calling you today because we do a segment

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Speaker 2: on the show and it's called the First Day follow Up.

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Speaker 4: That's where if you go out.

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Speaker 2: On a date with somebody and then you end up

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Speaker 2: ghosting them, that person can have us get you on

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Speaker 2: the phone to ask why you're ghosting.

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Speaker 4: So are you ghosting anybody right now? I don't know?

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Speaker 6: Like what is what is happening?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 6: Okay? I think I know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 4: You want to take a shot at it?

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Speaker 1: Is it?

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Speaker 5: Col?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: It is?

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Speaker 2: Congratulations? Yeah, do you have a few minutes to tell

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Speaker 2: us why you're ghosting?

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Speaker 4: Cole? He said he really liked you and thought you

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Speaker 4: guys got along great.

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Speaker 6: Sure. Yeah, Look Cole's nice. He's a really nice guy,

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Speaker 6: but he's just not who I though he was.

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Speaker 4: What does that mean?

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Speaker 6: Well, okay, so we met at Stagecoach and there he

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Speaker 6: had the whole cowboy aesthetic, you know, hat thirty Games,

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Speaker 6: like hot, very Yellowstone. But then we got together at

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Speaker 6: a bar and he he was as different. He knew

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Speaker 6: every word to a Snoop Dogg song and he started

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Speaker 6: talking like we were the party and he was wearing

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Speaker 6: like joggers or something.

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Speaker 4: That sounds fun though, So what was the issue?

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Speaker 6: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that was kind of it.

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Speaker 6: Like, uh, I just he's not he's he's not a cowboy.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, So you want a cowboy, yeah I.

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Speaker 6: Do, okay for real, like a like an actual cowboy.

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Speaker 6: I mean he really has athetic down, but like.

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Speaker 2: You're not just talking about a guy who dressed like

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Speaker 2: a cowboy, like you want an actual guy who works

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Speaker 2: on cows, like an actual like cher.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I don't know if that's how that works.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Bobby is.

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Speaker 5: Well, guys, I'm sorry, I just I'm confused, Taren. Hey,

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Speaker 5: I thought we were having fun. Hey, Taren, that's cold.

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Speaker 5: He's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk

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Speaker 5: to you.

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Speaker 6: Mmmm. You you liked me with your hat?

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Speaker 4: What are you?

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Speaker 3: What are you talking about? No one at stage Coach

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Speaker 3: is a real cowboy. They just like I like country

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Speaker 3: music and also hip hops.

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Speaker 6: To me, you you tworked man. You tworked to gin

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Speaker 6: and juice in joggers.

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Speaker 4: Cowboys can't work.

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Speaker 3: Told me your dream man wears wranglers and fixes tractors.

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Speaker 3: I thought that was like a pipe, not like a

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Speaker 3: hard contract.

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Speaker 4: I tried to.

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Speaker 6: Tell you, I want a man who smells like leather

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Speaker 6: and hay, not one who smells like a d this

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Speaker 6: cologne and like acts like a like a hip hop

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Speaker 6: hype man.

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Speaker 3: Who So, I'm sorry you ghosted me over genre confusion

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Speaker 3: like I own boose.

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Speaker 6: Good for you, and I will always appreciate that, But

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Speaker 6: I've got to keep looking. You know, my my cowboys

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Speaker 6: out there. He's probably shoeing a horse right now.

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Speaker 5: What do I have to do to last so you happen.

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Speaker 4: On the move.

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Speaker 3: I'm trying. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: I don't have a horse.

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Speaker 3: I have a BMW Yes exactly, Okay, I'll ask anyway, Arreen,

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Speaker 3: would you like to go on another date with Cole?

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Speaker 4: Will pay for it?

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Speaker 6: If you were who I thought you were when we met,

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Speaker 6: we would definitely be dating, no hard feelings. You're hot,

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Speaker 6: You're just not a cowboy.

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Speaker 3: So you do think I'm hot, but you are not

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Speaker 3: a cowboy.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, Like, how many times?

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Speaker 4: How many times we have to do?

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Speaker 6: How many times I can.

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Speaker 3: Break up with you?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Y'all are oh like you're the roofs out of the range?

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Speaker 4: Do you have any plan for finding a cowboy? Tearran?

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Speaker 4: They're not really that easy to find. I mean, you

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Speaker 4: can go to a rodeo.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna hold out and uh you know, I'm sure

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Speaker 6: life will take me there.

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Speaker 4: Jubile's first date fall