WEBVTT - The Comment Section Has Zero Power Over Me 

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to untraditionally, Lala, Hello, gorgeous, Welcome back to untraditionally, Lala.

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<v Speaker 2>Ignore this room that we are in. We're in Palm Springs.

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<v Speaker 2>We've been here since last week. We got here on Thursday.

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<v Speaker 2>Janet and her husband and her beautiful son went to

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<v Speaker 2>San Francisco for Easter. So we brought Janet's mom, Claudia,

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<v Speaker 2>and we have had a heyday.

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<v Speaker 3>There is no one.

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<v Speaker 2>You keep saying that. She was like, what does that

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<v Speaker 2>even mean? It's just the top tier. So Claudia came

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<v Speaker 2>with us, which is Janet's mom. Great a bitch, great

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<v Speaker 2>a bitch. The moment that you said that, she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>what does that even mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I kind of got flustered. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>is she going to get mad? And be like, oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>well you never know. She would never get mad at

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<v Speaker 1>that win loser Maybe.

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<v Speaker 2>Does that mean that you always go in for the

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<v Speaker 2>maybe yeah, win lose er, maybe win loser draw? Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>well either way, I love it so very quickly. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not supposed to talk about the show, which I won't.

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<v Speaker 2>The showed the show that shall not be mentioned.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm on television. What the fuck is going on?

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<v Speaker 2>There are moments where when I do an interview or

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<v Speaker 2>a podcast comes out and the clips are.

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<v Speaker 1>Posted, I start to feel a little bit exposed.

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<v Speaker 2>So I just wanted to see I just wanted to see,

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<v Speaker 2>on average, how many people are actually seeing me in

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<v Speaker 2>a year.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I like, how many viewers see you?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? Yeah, because you look in the comments section and

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<v Speaker 2>there's there's moments where people start telling you who you

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<v Speaker 2>are and what you need to work on, and you

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<v Speaker 2>start believing it, and then you're like, what the how

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<v Speaker 2>do how am I giving these people so much power

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<v Speaker 2>to tell me who I am right and what I

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<v Speaker 2>need to work on. When I'm with myself twenty four

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<v Speaker 2>to seven, I can check myself.

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<v Speaker 3>I have people around me who check me. But then

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<v Speaker 3>I'm reading.

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<v Speaker 2>Things and it's like, am I good at staying out

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<v Speaker 2>of the comment section?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty good at it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm pretty good at it.

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<v Speaker 2>Occasionally, because I'm human, I like to sabotage and people

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<v Speaker 2>will say things that you need to work on, and

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<v Speaker 2>you start seeing it over and over again, and you're like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, these people know me?

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<v Speaker 1>Do they know me?

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<v Speaker 2>What's happening. So I went into chat GPT, don't laugh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's my best friend. Last night, Ocean wanted to know

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<v Speaker 2>what she looked like as an old person, so I

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<v Speaker 2>put her. I put her in. By the way, she's

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<v Speaker 2>a gorgeous old person. I went back in this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I did this, you guys, and I give her take.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I'm on a show. If I appear on

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<v Speaker 2>someone's screen once a week for twenty weeks, give or

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<v Speaker 2>take right, for ten to fifteen minutes each time, what

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<v Speaker 2>is the percentage that people.

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<v Speaker 1>See me per year? You want to know what? It said?

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<v Speaker 2>Zero point zero four percent? Oh, not even one percent?

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<v Speaker 1>And batta. Oh and by the.

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<v Speaker 2>Way, I'm going to allow you at not even a

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<v Speaker 2>one percent to show me.

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<v Speaker 1>What I need. I need to work on my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Get the fuck out thing. Put a camera on you.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me see what you should do differently in life. Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, there is a group of women who

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<v Speaker 2>just had cameras put on them in Rhode Island, and

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<v Speaker 2>we're going.

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<v Speaker 1>To talk about it. I can't. I can't.

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<v Speaker 3>We're going to get into it. I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so grade A great a great a bitches, It's

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<v Speaker 1>just great, a bitches on that too. We had a

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful easter.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys.

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<v Speaker 2>We for a brief moment, said, you know what, let's

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<v Speaker 2>stay in for easter.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's not fight the crowds.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to get ready, obviously, and I just

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<v Speaker 2>want to stay home and cook.

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<v Speaker 3>That lasted right four minutes that last.

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<v Speaker 1>We should have known. We want to cook seconds.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, cook, What the fuck are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>Just to let you guys know, just a side note.

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<v Speaker 1>We went to the store, got pasta, came.

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<v Speaker 2>Home the easiest thing you could possibly too lazy to

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<v Speaker 2>make the pasta.

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<v Speaker 3>We were too lazy to make we didn't make it.

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<v Speaker 1>We ordered in.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, literally the easiest thing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how lazy we are. Lorgos. I really just don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to boil water. I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>we really are pathetic. But then me like, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>be mad at her when I'm like, oh, I don't either.

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<v Speaker 1>I just had a.

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<v Speaker 2>Drop and I feel like lifting a pot of.

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<v Speaker 1>Water is not well. I oh, so this is now

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<v Speaker 1>my fault. I can't make the beds, I can't clean up.

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<v Speaker 1>She has been a worthless old bag for about a month.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been brutal. Most people would be into it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not into it anyway. Easter, we just deid not to cook.

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<v Speaker 2>We go to Wilman Frieda's, which is like our go

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<v Speaker 2>to spot in Palm Springs.

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<v Speaker 1>We came back, we laid by the pool. It was

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<v Speaker 1>so easy.

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<v Speaker 2>The kids played. We made more runs to Target than

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<v Speaker 2>I can count.

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<v Speaker 1>A little TJ. Max just we thrive in the desert.

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<v Speaker 1>It's easy. It's the simple life.

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<v Speaker 2>I always make a hall wasting time, a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>wasting time, a lot of wasting time.

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<v Speaker 1>Clearing the mind. But we get home.

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<v Speaker 2>And we put Sosa down and she's been taking her

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<v Speaker 2>diaper off for a very long time, you guys, and

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<v Speaker 2>I know what you're gonna say. I mean, she's ready

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<v Speaker 2>to be potty trained. She's been trying to take her

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<v Speaker 2>diaper off since she could crawl, and they always say,

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<v Speaker 2>like wait until they can walk right, And she's been

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit wobbly.

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<v Speaker 3>She's finally on her feet.

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<v Speaker 2>So we all know that when you put Sosa down

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<v Speaker 2>for a nap or even just playing around, she's got

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<v Speaker 2>to have a diaper on. However, she's got to have

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<v Speaker 2>pants on as well. Over thee because she will take

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<v Speaker 2>the diaper off so we put her down for a nap.

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<v Speaker 3>We put her pants on with the diaper.

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<v Speaker 2>Usually, like we all know our kids, right, I know

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<v Speaker 2>that when it's naptime for so so you'll hear it

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<v Speaker 2>talking a little bit and then she's out cold and

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't wake up. We put her down, she's like fussy.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, that's weird. We'll she's in a pack and play,

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<v Speaker 2>not like a normal crib. It's probably why she's fussy,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's past her naptime. She's probably overly tired. I

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<v Speaker 2>give it ten minutes and she's still fussy. So I

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<v Speaker 2>go easton, go see what's going on, just like get

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<v Speaker 2>her up because I can't lift her. He goes in

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<v Speaker 2>there and I hear Lauren, and I just knew. I go,

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<v Speaker 2>she took her diaper often? She he goes, yeah, And

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<v Speaker 2>they're shit everywhere, you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>This kid has gone through two pack and plays. I

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<v Speaker 1>just throw them out. No, they're they're ruined.

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<v Speaker 2>They're ruined, okay, And she's screaming bloody murder. There's feces

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<v Speaker 2>and everywhere everywhere. I look at the pack and player,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, huck it. I put her into the bath.

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<v Speaker 2>She's very upset because it takes a little bit for.

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<v Speaker 3>The water to warm up.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't care.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't care. I was like, you're covered in poop.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm dry heaving the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't do it. At least I had to take over.

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<v Speaker 1>I could.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like ready to vomit everywhere, though I had

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<v Speaker 2>to throw it away.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you disgusted? Oh, oh my god, I'm thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>So the pack and play you have to like lift

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<v Speaker 1>the middle and then know the sections where you have

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<v Speaker 1>to like click so it collapses. That's where they covering shit.

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<v Speaker 1>So and we had no gloves.

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<v Speaker 2>We were not prepared, which is weird because since COVID,

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<v Speaker 2>I've I like stalked up on hazmat suits and rubber

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<v Speaker 2>like rubber don'tn't have any.

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<v Speaker 1>So I yeah, I gotch I took off my sh

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<v Speaker 1>I was running this thing out away from the body,

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<v Speaker 1>touched some feces from the child busting in this door.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah there's the shit box, bdugum, we're talking about you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah. She also took a tumble and hit her

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<v Speaker 1>lip just barely. She is you didn't know that. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Mom, Oh okay, hi gorgeous so that's what happened on

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<v Speaker 2>during Eastern and.

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<v Speaker 3>We threw the Pack and Play out.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank god Target does delivery very quickly because I said,

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<v Speaker 2>you got to get a new Pack and Play like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so overwhelmed, and this kid is going to bed,

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<v Speaker 2>she's had no nap. Five thirty, no later than six,

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<v Speaker 2>into the pack and play, good night. Pack and Play arrives.

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<v Speaker 2>It could not have come at a better time, because I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was What's hard is that the days.

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<v Speaker 2>Are already very long when you have children, especially when

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<v Speaker 2>they're on break.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and I love it. I enjoy my children.

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<v Speaker 2>It may sound like a dream where you're like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>out of commission. Everyone has to do everything for me,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm so particular about how I like things. And

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<v Speaker 2>Easton and my mom are more chill. We'll say, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 2>take a piece of what we do there.

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<v Speaker 3>I could find the happy medium.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's like something as simple as someone cuts something

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<v Speaker 2>on the cutting board.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me put it this way, be cleaned immediately.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why it's still sitting there five, ten, fifteen,

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<v Speaker 2>twenty minutes later and I can't pick it up.

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<v Speaker 3>We had to clean it on my own.

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<v Speaker 1>We had Nick and Joe over. We have Claudia, We

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot of people over. We had a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of dishes. We put them in the dishwasher, Lisa did.

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<v Speaker 1>She's running it because it's full. There's a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>dishes in the sink and Lauren is like, why are

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<v Speaker 1>these in here? And I was like, well, the dishwasher

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<v Speaker 1>is running and mom is taking care of it. Shes,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is the thing. I would have done these

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<v Speaker 1>by hand. And it's like it was like big pots. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like, well, okay, we also cooked in them.

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<v Speaker 1>They're soaking. She's just a little get to work strong.

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<v Speaker 2>I strung, temperamental. All of the things are to my detriment.

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<v Speaker 2>Yea possesses as well. But I will say what made

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<v Speaker 2>it all better was sitting in the car driving home

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<v Speaker 2>after a fabulous Easter brunch and my daughter busting into

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<v Speaker 2>song Eminem's Mockingbird.

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<v Speaker 1>Made it all better.

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<v Speaker 3>It made it all better.

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<v Speaker 1>And what's what app did she hear it from?

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<v Speaker 2>I downloaded this song app on her iPad because she

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<v Speaker 2>verbally waterboards me to where I just give her what

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<v Speaker 2>she wants.

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<v Speaker 3>She does get that from the other side.

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<v Speaker 2>It makes total sense why he keeps on working because

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<v Speaker 2>you finally just give him what they want, you know what?

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<v Speaker 3>And I fine, I don't give a shit.

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<v Speaker 2>One hundred dollars a year, don't even give a fuck

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<v Speaker 2>if I download it? Will you leave me alone for

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<v Speaker 2>five minutes so I can watch real House as of

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<v Speaker 2>Rhode Island. I would love that here you go, But

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<v Speaker 2>apparently there's songs like that on it. And she was

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<v Speaker 2>like talking about how pretty babe. I'm like, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>love that. This is literally that like deadby Baby Mama.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm thrilled it was eminem It's great. I don't even

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<v Speaker 2>care in other nudes nudes.

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<v Speaker 1>No other news, please fucking please, HESI, what is this

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<v Speaker 1>that you wrote? Kids? Out there?

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<v Speaker 2>What did you see that made you write this? And

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<v Speaker 2>also tell me about robots? Your section get I'm on

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<v Speaker 2>a roll over here, So kids being kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if anybody else has been seeing this,

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<v Speaker 1>but next to the house, we have, like next to

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<v Speaker 1>the river, okay, there's just a dirt trail where people

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<v Speaker 1>walk ride bikes. All of that, kids were building dirt

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<v Speaker 1>jumps for their bikes. And then the dad was on

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<v Speaker 1>a motor the little motorcycle with his little girl and

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<v Speaker 1>his kid in the back following him and you just

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<v Speaker 1>I don't remember seeing this ever. This is the first

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<v Speaker 1>time week growing up. Yes, And I was on Ventura

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<v Speaker 1>and there was just a group of kids on scooters

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<v Speaker 1>not the electric one pushing wow, I know, and they

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<v Speaker 1>were like doing tricks and stuff, and I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>kids being kids. I don't know. It just made me

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<v Speaker 1>happy because I remember.

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<v Speaker 2>Like getting on that I'm downloading all of these apps

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<v Speaker 2>for ocean so that.

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<v Speaker 1>I I don't want her out and yet no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no time place she can do. She's learning. Here's the

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<v Speaker 1>thing about iPads that I'm torn about, and I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to know other people's opinions. Yeah, I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a kid, so it doesn't hold much weight. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like if you don't give your kid an iPad, you

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<v Speaker 1>are putting them behind because everything is going in that route.

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<v Speaker 1>Like talking to our nephew who's in high school. They

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<v Speaker 1>don't have books. I had no idea open a computer.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything's right there. So like, if you're not giving your

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<v Speaker 1>kid the iPad right now, it's like you're doing them

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<v Speaker 1>a disservice. I want to know if you guys agree

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<v Speaker 1>or disagree, because I kind of think there's a happy medium,

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<v Speaker 1>but you have to give them an iPad to learn

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<v Speaker 1>how to learn what their future is going to be.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, that's very true.

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<v Speaker 2>What's what's hard, And I think everyone every parent at

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<v Speaker 2>this time of year can relate. When it's spring break

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<v Speaker 2>and yes, you want the kids out and about, but

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<v Speaker 2>there are moments where.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, just take the iPad. I don't even care.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I mean, we've all been there. You go out,

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<v Speaker 1>you know when we're here, You go out, you're with

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<v Speaker 1>the kids, you're doing stuff for the kids. Then you

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<v Speaker 1>come home and they're like, hey, can we do Can

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<v Speaker 1>you blow up the big air thing and put it

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<v Speaker 1>next to the pool so I can slide in? And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you're like, what about your iPad? Five thirty Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've had a full day. I'm like lost. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to color on your iPad? She goes yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, all right, that's way better. Maybe I'm lazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, we are lazy.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm starting to feel guilty, and you know what the

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<v Speaker 2>uncle Yeah right. But there's also the portion that you

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<v Speaker 2>were talking about where I think you were on Siri

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<v Speaker 2>or something. Because electronics are like it's not the future,

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<v Speaker 2>like we're in it right, Like I'm watching people in

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<v Speaker 2>the front seat of away mo.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no one well driving and that's what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we're here. She was doing stuff on the iPad.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know you could do like she she made

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<v Speaker 1>this screen smaller on the iPad like it does that,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she moved it and moved another one into it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what are you doing. She goes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you can do that. I'll show you. I'll show you.

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<v Speaker 1>But I talked to like Siri and like I have

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<v Speaker 1>a Google at home and so like I have it

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<v Speaker 1>play things, I'll ask you question guys.

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<v Speaker 2>And we're in the car and Hesan's like, Siri, do

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<v Speaker 2>this for me, and she does it and he goes,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, why are you thanking her?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you? Because I want him when they take over.

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<v Speaker 1>I want him to remember as a good guy, don't you.

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<v Speaker 1>They're coming about it, They're coming and I want them

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<v Speaker 1>to be like this guy said thank you ninety nine

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<v Speaker 1>percent of the time and they're like yes. So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, sire, or I do do this. I wake

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<v Speaker 1>up and I go, hey, Google, what's the weather? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>and he'll tell me and I go, oh, that is

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful day, thank you so much. Oh my. He

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have a respond, which is kind of a dick move,

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<v Speaker 1>but they know they're listening. And I'm a good guy

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<v Speaker 1>clocking every Yeah. Do you not think it? I do

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<v Speaker 1>other people.

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<v Speaker 2>You've given me a new complex to worry about, Like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I've never thanked Siri, and I've been using her for

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<v Speaker 2>the past for many years, whenever she came to be.

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<v Speaker 1>I judge know how people judge how you talk to

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<v Speaker 1>your waiter and matress there, I judge how you talk

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<v Speaker 1>to Siri. Wow?

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<v Speaker 2>No, true, though she's doing so much like when she

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<v Speaker 2>sucks up, I'm like, you stupid bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. And it's like, why am I getting mad

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<v Speaker 1>at something? I have no idea how Like I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>even I don't know how this works, but I'm upset

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<v Speaker 1>at it. It's pinging things doing I.

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<v Speaker 2>Know when I'm like, take this into a caricature and

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<v Speaker 2>it won't do it?

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<v Speaker 1>On CHATGYBT liked it's like you do it, boyd, how

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<v Speaker 1>to do the tables turn? God? For Chat GBT, I

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<v Speaker 1>spend too much time. No, it's too fun guys. I

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<v Speaker 1>bought it just to like, oh, you're paying like the

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<v Speaker 1>forty dollars a month or whatever it is. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's twenty Okay, whatever it is, I'm paying for it.

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<v Speaker 1>And because you can have limited images that you've come

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<v Speaker 1>through it. And what's so sad is like if you

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<v Speaker 1>look through my like you know how you can see

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<v Speaker 1>your feet of like what you've asked? Oh god, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know that it's on the soule? How do I

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<v Speaker 1>I'll show you that? But mine are just like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not doing anything productive on chat on chat GPT. I

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<v Speaker 1>think a small percentage of people are no, A lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people are a lot of yes, what are they doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Analytics A whole bunch of shit? Analytics for what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>You just saw the farming girl. She was like, how

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<v Speaker 1>much water have we used? And I put it into Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was cool. That's where I'm saying, like, this is

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<v Speaker 1>years in business, yes, And she doesn't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>the one to make it go under, so she's got

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<v Speaker 1>a I use different have you had deductive?

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<v Speaker 2>I now know that people only see me less than

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<v Speaker 2>one percent.

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<v Speaker 1>A year, and you know what your daughter will look

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<v Speaker 1>like very old? So yours really doing things on it.

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<v Speaker 1>I am on it, and I'm like, people are like

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<v Speaker 1>being productive making money on this, and I'm looking up

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<v Speaker 1>like a bowl of something and making it look funny. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta react for you, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Taylor Frankie Paul posted on Easter Sunday that she's detaching

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<v Speaker 2>herself from the Mormon Church.

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<v Speaker 1>She still believes in God the Bible.

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<v Speaker 2>But seems to be rethinking her identity and wanting a

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<v Speaker 2>more personal form of faith.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot be mad at this at all. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to say, when you find your own form of faith,

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<v Speaker 1>it's great. Yeah, So I.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't consider myself religious. We've talked about this a million

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<v Speaker 2>and one times. Anytime our family from my dad's side

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<v Speaker 2>would like go to church and invite us and try

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<v Speaker 2>to like convert us to Mormonism, and we would decide

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<v Speaker 2>to like go to Park City, and my mom would say,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need to like be in a building to

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<v Speaker 2>let God know that I'm grateful for him, and I believe.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to spend time in his creation.

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<v Speaker 2>To what he created in these beautiful mountains with my family,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's how I'm going to like take tribute to

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<v Speaker 2>him and what he's done. Right, that did make sense.

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<v Speaker 2>It was more of a spiritual type of thing. I

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't tell you one thing from the Bible, you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>not a one Like did Jesus walk on water? Was

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<v Speaker 2>that Moses? I'm not sure the Red Sea? Maybe? Oh fuck?

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<v Speaker 2>I might have thrown myself in hot water?

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<v Speaker 1>Who knows? Do you think this podcast makes people dumber

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<v Speaker 1>or make them smart? Or do you make it?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think it makes them feel seen?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe what we do is like give them a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of street smarts because we're so stupid. We like think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm stupid in any sense of the word.

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<v Speaker 2>Not at all. I've done stupid shit. Who hasn't I

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<v Speaker 2>just continue a book to tell me how to live

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<v Speaker 2>my life and be a good person.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I just needed a correct which is all about

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<v Speaker 1>like higher power power. Here's how I look at I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not a religious I'm spiritual, and I there is something

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<v Speaker 1>greater than me. That's all I know.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So I'm assuming that this is what Taylor Frankie

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<v Speaker 2>Paul is find me. I again have not seen that

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<v Speaker 2>show beyond maybe three to four episodes of season one.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe they're on season like four.

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<v Speaker 2>What I do know, Okay, season four, What I do

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<v Speaker 2>know is people are obsessed because it's very weird to

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<v Speaker 2>see how Mormons work. I can assume after that video

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<v Speaker 2>came out of the throwing of the chairs that I

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<v Speaker 2>deep self reflection happened on her end. Whatever trauma she's experienced,

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<v Speaker 2>I believe just knowing what I know about the church

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<v Speaker 2>and just seeing how my dad was, that a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of her trauma came from that church and the amount

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<v Speaker 2>of pressure and guilt that came along with it. That

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<v Speaker 2>if you don't abide by these guidelines, you're not going

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<v Speaker 2>to the highest kingdom of heaven.

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<v Speaker 1>Three levels. Okay, that sounds like a lot of pressure.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, a lot. And my mom has always said, my

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<v Speaker 2>God gave me a brain and I'm gonna use it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need to use it to simply read and go, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>this is how I am a good person. No, God

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<v Speaker 2>gave me the brain to decide and how to go.

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<v Speaker 2>This feels right, and this feels wrong. So for her

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<v Speaker 2>Taylor Frankie Paul to come out and say, I'm detaching

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<v Speaker 2>myself from this religion. This is just what I'm gathering,

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<v Speaker 2>it did not serve her any longer and coming up

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<v Speaker 2>with her own relationship that feels right to her that

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<v Speaker 2>she doesn't need to push onto anybody because it is

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<v Speaker 2>so sacred and she's going to become very deep rooted

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<v Speaker 2>when when all else fails, that is what she's going to.

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<v Speaker 1>Have, right.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it is a beautiful step in the right

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<v Speaker 2>direction to healing herself. You guys know that I had

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<v Speaker 2>very strong thoughts about that video that came out with

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<v Speaker 2>she and her baby daddy. My strong opinions were just

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<v Speaker 2>based on the kid being in their room one hundred

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<v Speaker 2>percent where I'm there is no version of me condoning it. However,

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<v Speaker 2>here's the flip side. When somebody has such a low,

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<v Speaker 2>low moment and you thank God that it wasn't worse

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<v Speaker 2>than it was, and you take time to say, this

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<v Speaker 2>is what I want. I'm detaching myself from this, attaching

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<v Speaker 2>myself to that maybe I'm going to rethink picking up

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<v Speaker 2>drinks for me.

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<v Speaker 3>For me, you have a clean slate at that.

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<v Speaker 2>Point, nothing is erased. We all saw the video and

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<v Speaker 2>she has to live with that. I can't even imagine

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<v Speaker 2>the guilt that she feels. And then on top of

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<v Speaker 2>all of us talking about it right and placing our

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<v Speaker 2>judgments because life is already hard enough, but because I

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<v Speaker 2>know what that feels like to have such horrendous moments

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<v Speaker 2>and then you get sober and you feel the shame

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<v Speaker 2>and you just want to not only forgive yourself, but

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<v Speaker 2>have other people not look past it. I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to say that, but see you and your growth. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know that may have been part of your story,

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<v Speaker 2>but that is.

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<v Speaker 1>Not who you are. But just like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>working on yourself and choosing to get sober and all that. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>if you make changes, it's like you made changes, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's doesn't It doesn't erase everything. And starting from there

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<v Speaker 1>you're a new person. And I will give you a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of leeway, but you have to put in a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of work day by day to show that you

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<v Speaker 1>are a changing person.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I agree with you. So I don't think that

0:23:25.240 --> 0:23:27.800
<v Speaker 2>it is her job to change the public's mind.

0:23:28.040 --> 0:23:30.960
<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, But I'm saying for her, she changed

0:23:31.000 --> 0:23:34.240
<v Speaker 1>herself every day. The one thing that I will say

0:23:35.280 --> 0:23:38.480
<v Speaker 1>that I could never meant to like I've never been there,

0:23:38.560 --> 0:23:40.880
<v Speaker 1>but like seeing her home and I know a lot

0:23:40.880 --> 0:23:44.679
<v Speaker 1>of people saw it because she's like depressed, and there

0:23:44.720 --> 0:23:45.359
<v Speaker 1>is a mess.

0:23:45.640 --> 0:23:46.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:23:46.160 --> 0:23:49.320
<v Speaker 1>So mentally I don't know where she's at, but to

0:23:49.720 --> 0:23:52.120
<v Speaker 1>live in that space, I can only imagine what you've

0:23:52.119 --> 0:23:55.360
<v Speaker 1>gone through and things like that. So I just hope her,

0:23:55.520 --> 0:23:58.080
<v Speaker 1>like I'm just wishing her the best, and I'm glad

0:23:58.080 --> 0:24:01.200
<v Speaker 1>that she's finding something out side of the Mormon Church,

0:24:01.280 --> 0:24:04.439
<v Speaker 1>because I really do that. I could go on for

0:24:04.600 --> 0:24:07.639
<v Speaker 1>days about how I'm not the biggest fan of that

0:24:07.720 --> 0:24:08.920
<v Speaker 1>malag a fan at all.

0:24:09.080 --> 0:24:12.720
<v Speaker 2>It is all about like guilt, guilt, guilt, and the

0:24:12.800 --> 0:24:15.920
<v Speaker 2>guilt is hopefully what makes you conform to the rules.

0:24:16.000 --> 0:24:20.520
<v Speaker 2>It's very it's very toxic. So I think that this.

0:24:20.440 --> 0:24:22.199
<v Speaker 1>Is and here's the thing. Everybody's going to have their

0:24:22.200 --> 0:24:25.880
<v Speaker 1>own opinion. I'm coming off the opinion of my dad. Well, yeah,

0:24:25.920 --> 0:24:28.080
<v Speaker 1>we saw first guilt that I mean, he left at

0:24:28.080 --> 0:24:28.479
<v Speaker 1>twenty two.

0:24:28.600 --> 0:24:32.560
<v Speaker 2>He passed away when he was sixty four, and as

0:24:32.600 --> 0:24:35.760
<v Speaker 2>long as he was my dad, I saw the battle.

0:24:36.040 --> 0:24:38.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and him that's a long time to be out

0:24:38.000 --> 0:24:39.320
<v Speaker 1>of it. And that was the other thing that he had,

0:24:39.520 --> 0:24:42.400
<v Speaker 1>like the battle with dating my mom who isn't Mormon

0:24:42.600 --> 0:24:44.240
<v Speaker 1>or who was never Mormon.

0:24:44.240 --> 0:24:49.120
<v Speaker 2>And then the family aspect of like judging and not accepting,

0:24:49.119 --> 0:24:49.960
<v Speaker 2>but you're in love.

0:24:49.800 --> 0:24:51.760
<v Speaker 1>And you know, my mom was.

0:24:51.840 --> 0:24:54.000
<v Speaker 2>My mom was born in El Paso, Texas. She was

0:24:54.040 --> 0:24:56.720
<v Speaker 2>an army brat. She moved all over the world.

0:24:56.760 --> 0:25:00.119
<v Speaker 1>She lived in Japan for three years.

0:24:59.560 --> 0:25:01.800
<v Speaker 2>And so when she got to Utah, she was still

0:25:01.920 --> 0:25:04.440
<v Speaker 2>very she was still very young. But she was raised

0:25:04.440 --> 0:25:08.720
<v Speaker 2>in a Christian household, like even now her family, who

0:25:08.800 --> 0:25:11.480
<v Speaker 2>I love and adore, they're all from the South.

0:25:11.920 --> 0:25:13.760
<v Speaker 1>They're all very, very Christian.

0:25:14.480 --> 0:25:18.399
<v Speaker 2>And I think that the combination of how she was

0:25:18.480 --> 0:25:22.000
<v Speaker 2>raised and how my dad was raised, I think the

0:25:22.119 --> 0:25:28.359
<v Speaker 2>blend was, or the compromise was spirituality. Let's not raise

0:25:28.359 --> 0:25:31.280
<v Speaker 2>our kids with a book in front of them. And

0:25:31.320 --> 0:25:35.520
<v Speaker 2>you know, before I got pregnant with Ocean, my ex

0:25:35.560 --> 0:25:38.680
<v Speaker 2>and I had this conversation. And this is no disrespect

0:25:38.960 --> 0:25:42.359
<v Speaker 2>to any one religion. I obviously have my feelings about

0:25:42.359 --> 0:25:44.520
<v Speaker 2>the Mormon Church because I witnessed it with my dad.

0:25:45.400 --> 0:25:51.200
<v Speaker 2>I do think that religion, it handled properly, is can

0:25:51.280 --> 0:25:52.080
<v Speaker 2>be a beautiful thing.

0:25:52.200 --> 0:25:57.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh is a corruption that comes within it with dirty people, right,

0:25:57.680 --> 0:25:59.320
<v Speaker 1>That's where it's like, Okay.

0:25:59.520 --> 0:26:03.280
<v Speaker 2>I was very very open with my ex about how

0:26:03.320 --> 0:26:08.680
<v Speaker 2>Ocean would be raised. My ex was Jewish, beautiful religion,

0:26:08.840 --> 0:26:11.840
<v Speaker 2>I said, it is it is imperative that we do

0:26:11.920 --> 0:26:15.480
<v Speaker 2>not raise Ocean with religion or our future kids. Because

0:26:15.480 --> 0:26:17.199
<v Speaker 2>Ocean wasn't even a thought at this point. It was

0:26:17.280 --> 0:26:19.199
<v Speaker 2>just the overall because that was going to be a

0:26:19.320 --> 0:26:22.240
<v Speaker 2>breaking point if he said this is a deal breaker

0:26:22.600 --> 0:26:26.040
<v Speaker 2>for me. I just felt like organized religion, it's just

0:26:26.080 --> 0:26:26.760
<v Speaker 2>so personal.

0:26:27.240 --> 0:26:27.760
<v Speaker 1>I want.

0:26:28.359 --> 0:26:31.960
<v Speaker 2>I wanted Ocean to kind of know about every religion

0:26:32.160 --> 0:26:34.840
<v Speaker 2>and what it entails. And then when she gets to

0:26:34.880 --> 0:26:38.320
<v Speaker 2>a point where she can say, you know, Judaism really

0:26:38.880 --> 0:26:42.760
<v Speaker 2>resonates with me. Catholicism really resonates with me. Just being

0:26:42.800 --> 0:26:46.199
<v Speaker 2>a spiritual person. That's what makes me feel safe and

0:26:46.240 --> 0:26:47.439
<v Speaker 2>like I have something to rely on.

0:26:47.520 --> 0:26:49.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't care what if hurt.

0:26:50.400 --> 0:26:52.479
<v Speaker 3>I have to be okay with that. Okay, I have

0:26:52.560 --> 0:26:53.320
<v Speaker 3>to be okay with that.

0:26:54.440 --> 0:26:56.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't think there's anything wrong with people

0:26:56.680 --> 0:27:00.639
<v Speaker 1>being atheist. There's not, but I it is hard to

0:27:00.640 --> 0:27:05.879
<v Speaker 1>believe in something when if if you don't pray or

0:27:06.320 --> 0:27:08.520
<v Speaker 1>speak loudly and you don't have anything in return, and

0:27:08.600 --> 0:27:10.520
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people I wasn't very spiritual until I

0:27:10.840 --> 0:27:13.600
<v Speaker 1>hit AA. I never prayed. I always thought I was

0:27:13.680 --> 0:27:15.520
<v Speaker 1>pretty atheist. I told you guys that I was like,

0:27:15.560 --> 0:27:18.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't pride, Yeah I did. I was like, it's

0:27:18.200 --> 0:27:20.800
<v Speaker 1>hard to believe in something when you look at the

0:27:20.840 --> 0:27:23.359
<v Speaker 1>state of the world or when you're yeah yeah, like

0:27:23.359 --> 0:27:25.240
<v Speaker 1>you're like this is just unfair. And then you start

0:27:25.240 --> 0:27:26.320
<v Speaker 1>to look at it. And I was like, I was

0:27:26.359 --> 0:27:28.760
<v Speaker 1>twenty five. It's like, I'm glad I had a dad

0:27:28.800 --> 0:27:31.040
<v Speaker 1>till twenty five. I had a homie who's he lost

0:27:31.080 --> 0:27:31.760
<v Speaker 1>his dad at seven.

0:27:31.800 --> 0:27:35.639
<v Speaker 2>So the perfect example Savannah Guthrie so deeply rooted in

0:27:35.680 --> 0:27:36.320
<v Speaker 2>her face.

0:27:38.000 --> 0:27:41.960
<v Speaker 1>And her mother. How can you sit and not question it.

0:27:42.119 --> 0:27:44.840
<v Speaker 1>My buddy died on a mission, on a Mormon mission. Yeah,

0:27:44.880 --> 0:27:48.560
<v Speaker 1>he was housing. He was building a roof for people, slipped,

0:27:48.640 --> 0:27:52.480
<v Speaker 1>grabbed a cord, electrocuted, killed him. And it's like he

0:27:52.600 --> 0:27:56.520
<v Speaker 1>was on service for the Lord, I know how, Like why?

0:27:56.680 --> 0:27:59.359
<v Speaker 1>And then you know they're like, well, it's there's something

0:27:59.400 --> 0:28:01.600
<v Speaker 1>and it was probably his time and he there was

0:28:01.640 --> 0:28:03.720
<v Speaker 1>bigger things, and it's like, well, now are we just lying?

0:28:04.560 --> 0:28:06.720
<v Speaker 2>You know? I think we are telling ourselves something because

0:28:06.720 --> 0:28:07.679
<v Speaker 2>none of us really know.

0:28:07.920 --> 0:28:10.400
<v Speaker 1>But now, like back to it, Like I was atheist

0:28:10.440 --> 0:28:13.360
<v Speaker 1>and I got sober. I started to talk to somebody

0:28:13.400 --> 0:28:16.560
<v Speaker 1>that was bigger than me, or honestly, I speak to

0:28:16.640 --> 0:28:19.040
<v Speaker 1>nature because that's what I find bigger than me. And

0:28:19.200 --> 0:28:21.600
<v Speaker 1>things started to happen and things talked back, and it's

0:28:21.920 --> 0:28:24.920
<v Speaker 1>maybe the way my mindset was. And you do have

0:28:25.000 --> 0:28:29.640
<v Speaker 1>to speak it into the existence and manifestation is real,

0:28:29.720 --> 0:28:33.120
<v Speaker 1>but it it it's hard.

0:28:32.920 --> 0:28:35.399
<v Speaker 2>No, I know, and it's hard. It is hard, and

0:28:35.440 --> 0:28:38.080
<v Speaker 2>you do question it. And Savannah Guthrie was asked, how

0:28:38.120 --> 0:28:39.960
<v Speaker 2>do you stay in your faith? And she goes, I

0:28:39.960 --> 0:28:42.280
<v Speaker 2>have battled it, but God never once asked me to

0:28:42.280 --> 0:28:43.080
<v Speaker 2>not question him.

0:28:43.920 --> 0:28:45.160
<v Speaker 1>That's what works for her.

0:28:45.280 --> 0:28:46.840
<v Speaker 3>And so for Ocean.

0:28:47.120 --> 0:28:49.120
<v Speaker 2>If she one day comes to me and says, this

0:28:49.160 --> 0:28:50.000
<v Speaker 2>is what I believe in.

0:28:50.440 --> 0:28:51.520
<v Speaker 1>As long as I.

0:28:51.960 --> 0:28:55.560
<v Speaker 2>Know that she's the one that made the call, I

0:28:55.640 --> 0:28:59.120
<v Speaker 2>have to raise her with a moral compass, raise her

0:28:59.280 --> 0:29:02.160
<v Speaker 2>to know how to treat people. But as far as

0:29:02.200 --> 0:29:05.480
<v Speaker 2>what her higher power looks like, she's got to make

0:29:05.520 --> 0:29:09.320
<v Speaker 2>that decision because trauma does come from that. We watched

0:29:09.360 --> 0:29:12.880
<v Speaker 2>it with Taylor, Frankie Paul, We've watched it with a

0:29:12.880 --> 0:29:14.440
<v Speaker 2>lot of those girls on that Mormon show.

0:29:15.400 --> 0:29:19.640
<v Speaker 1>And I hope for her she has a beautiful.

0:29:19.560 --> 0:29:20.840
<v Speaker 3>She's gonna have one hell of a comeback.

0:29:21.280 --> 0:29:21.959
<v Speaker 1>I feel it.

0:29:22.240 --> 0:29:24.640
<v Speaker 2>I feel like I think we are finally getting to

0:29:24.760 --> 0:29:30.680
<v Speaker 2>a place everyone was so quick to cancel everybody all

0:29:30.720 --> 0:29:31.080
<v Speaker 2>the time.

0:29:31.200 --> 0:29:32.920
<v Speaker 1>Isn't it kind of nice that this is the one

0:29:32.920 --> 0:29:34.440
<v Speaker 1>that everybody was kind of riding.

0:29:34.280 --> 0:29:38.400
<v Speaker 3>For the thing that I'm enjoying overall, we are allowing

0:29:38.440 --> 0:29:39.479
<v Speaker 3>people to make mistakes.

0:29:39.480 --> 0:29:41.800
<v Speaker 2>Because let me tell you something, anybody who is in

0:29:41.840 --> 0:29:44.720
<v Speaker 2>the public eye, if we were to take a no name,

0:29:45.080 --> 0:29:48.280
<v Speaker 2>throw them in the public eye. I'm telling you there

0:29:48.360 --> 0:29:52.800
<v Speaker 2>will We all do. We all do. And it doesn't

0:29:52.800 --> 0:29:53.720
<v Speaker 2>mean you're a bad person.

0:29:53.760 --> 0:29:56.800
<v Speaker 1>It means that you made a mistake or at that moment,

0:29:56.880 --> 0:30:00.160
<v Speaker 1>you didn't make the right decision. We're looking back, but

0:30:00.280 --> 0:30:02.880
<v Speaker 1>how hindsight hindsight, it's twenty twenty.

0:30:03.000 --> 0:30:04.320
<v Speaker 3>Those things are finding moments.

0:30:04.400 --> 0:30:07.120
<v Speaker 1>See how many decisions that you've thought about, that we've

0:30:07.160 --> 0:30:10.959
<v Speaker 1>all thought about, and you have a choice and B choice,

0:30:11.000 --> 0:30:12.920
<v Speaker 1>and you really think about it and you choose B

0:30:13.240 --> 0:30:16.120
<v Speaker 1>and then hindsight you're like, fuck, I should have chosen now,

0:30:16.440 --> 0:30:18.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, yeah, should have happens.

0:30:18.480 --> 0:30:21.720
<v Speaker 2>Dakota is going to be cut out of season three

0:30:21.760 --> 0:30:25.000
<v Speaker 2>of vander Pump Villa, and most of the dads from

0:30:25.080 --> 0:30:27.000
<v Speaker 2>mom Talk are going to be on the upcoming season.

0:30:27.040 --> 0:30:28.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm not really familiar with.

0:30:30.200 --> 0:30:35.960
<v Speaker 2>Vander pump Villa, so season three, I mean, I think

0:30:35.960 --> 0:30:37.440
<v Speaker 2>that that's probably a good choice.

0:30:37.520 --> 0:30:39.960
<v Speaker 3>I think his motive in releasing.

0:30:39.480 --> 0:30:40.600
<v Speaker 1>That was not.

0:30:42.960 --> 0:30:46.160
<v Speaker 2>When I went in on her. You guys, this is

0:30:46.160 --> 0:30:48.440
<v Speaker 2>the luxury of kind of being a little nobody with

0:30:48.520 --> 0:30:52.600
<v Speaker 2>nothing to lose. Yeah, who the fuck is this Dakota?

0:30:53.200 --> 0:30:55.560
<v Speaker 1>We know him because he's.

0:30:56.720 --> 0:30:59.360
<v Speaker 2>He's still just as dangerous, but he's not as important

0:30:59.360 --> 0:31:00.760
<v Speaker 2>in the story because.

0:31:00.880 --> 0:31:04.280
<v Speaker 1>No, that's why he can he can be He has.

0:31:04.200 --> 0:31:07.400
<v Speaker 2>No Taylor Franky Paul Right, I'm not excusing his behavior.

0:31:07.440 --> 0:31:09.920
<v Speaker 2>He's a piece of shit. You guys know how I

0:31:09.960 --> 0:31:13.840
<v Speaker 2>feel about most men. Okay, I'm not excusing his behavior.

0:31:14.240 --> 0:31:18.400
<v Speaker 2>Cut him out, goodbye, you gotta go. You have traumatized

0:31:18.440 --> 0:31:21.160
<v Speaker 2>this girl further. How she chose to react to you

0:31:21.560 --> 0:31:23.959
<v Speaker 2>not great, But like I'm not looking at him like

0:31:24.120 --> 0:31:28.120
<v Speaker 2>he's some wonderful man, and they're recording her reaction.

0:31:28.840 --> 0:31:31.360
<v Speaker 1>And then he placed himself near the kid when it's like,

0:31:31.480 --> 0:31:34.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm not, Taylor sure going to be.

0:31:34.720 --> 0:31:36.920
<v Speaker 2>Sitting there cowering and talking to the child when you

0:31:36.960 --> 0:31:37.800
<v Speaker 2>know you're recording.

0:31:37.960 --> 0:31:42.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, duh, Because I have a feeling he you know,

0:31:43.680 --> 0:31:44.480
<v Speaker 1>is not like that.

0:31:44.720 --> 0:31:47.480
<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you when the camera ain't going that

0:31:47.520 --> 0:31:48.719
<v Speaker 2>he pressed record on.

0:31:49.400 --> 0:31:51.000
<v Speaker 1>She should have been doing it on the other end.

0:32:03.240 --> 0:32:05.480
<v Speaker 2>So now that we're on the subject of reality TV,

0:32:05.880 --> 0:32:07.720
<v Speaker 2>let's talk about a show that I that.

0:32:07.800 --> 0:32:09.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have to start watching now.

0:32:10.600 --> 0:32:15.720
<v Speaker 2>Your fucking one, okright, So my number, my number. The

0:32:15.760 --> 0:32:19.040
<v Speaker 2>only complain I have. Only complain I have about Real

0:32:19.080 --> 0:32:22.560
<v Speaker 2>Housewives of Rhode Island, and it's gonna change. We're two

0:32:22.560 --> 0:32:25.000
<v Speaker 2>episodes in at this point, I believe that I've seen

0:32:26.000 --> 0:32:31.160
<v Speaker 2>an episode one fantastic chef's kiss. It made me. I

0:32:31.280 --> 0:32:33.640
<v Speaker 2>rock with Housewives no matter what. But there is a

0:32:33.640 --> 0:32:40.080
<v Speaker 2>point in time where every single city it's just, uh,

0:32:40.520 --> 0:32:43.280
<v Speaker 2>it doesn't feel like we're at the where we got

0:32:43.280 --> 0:32:45.840
<v Speaker 2>the bones still. We just have like the pretty structure,

0:32:45.880 --> 0:32:47.960
<v Speaker 2>but you blow and the house is gonna fall down.

0:32:49.360 --> 0:32:50.960
<v Speaker 1>This is it already blowing.

0:32:51.360 --> 0:32:57.040
<v Speaker 2>Fucking show is so deep rooted, the bones are fucking strong.

0:32:57.720 --> 0:33:02.280
<v Speaker 1>I did watch these women are so seasoned already, like

0:33:02.600 --> 0:33:07.600
<v Speaker 1>air is going on. Oh that's the only thing I

0:33:07.640 --> 0:33:09.560
<v Speaker 1>couldn't get into a guys, because the first thing they

0:33:09.600 --> 0:33:11.720
<v Speaker 1>were all watching it and I was just in the

0:33:11.760 --> 0:33:14.000
<v Speaker 1>house and I walked by, and I did stop behind

0:33:14.040 --> 0:33:15.640
<v Speaker 1>the couch because they were all just sitting at a

0:33:15.680 --> 0:33:19.360
<v Speaker 1>table and they were just reading did you sleep with

0:33:19.440 --> 0:33:22.080
<v Speaker 1>this person and you sleep with the coach? Do you

0:33:22.120 --> 0:33:24.320
<v Speaker 1>have multiple? She was I was not the reporter. I

0:33:24.360 --> 0:33:28.520
<v Speaker 1>was like, that's the episode one I could get.

0:33:28.400 --> 0:33:29.320
<v Speaker 3>My only complaint.

0:33:29.480 --> 0:33:33.480
<v Speaker 2>They're all very aesthetically pleasing, yes, but they do all

0:33:33.480 --> 0:33:36.720
<v Speaker 2>look alike. They all have really dark hair. They all

0:33:36.760 --> 0:33:43.200
<v Speaker 2>have these beautiful olive reversion. I'm like, yeah, blonde hair

0:33:43.240 --> 0:33:48.000
<v Speaker 2>for the darkness there watching a YouTube, You're like, they're

0:33:48.040 --> 0:33:50.760
<v Speaker 2>all They're all really really so it's going to take

0:33:50.760 --> 0:33:53.719
<v Speaker 2>me a minute to learn everybody's names.

0:33:54.200 --> 0:34:00.040
<v Speaker 1>And they're married most of them. Yes. The young he

0:34:00.120 --> 0:34:01.680
<v Speaker 1>his housewife.

0:34:01.760 --> 0:34:05.400
<v Speaker 2>She's thirty one. Her name's Kelsey. She met her guy

0:34:05.520 --> 0:34:09.200
<v Speaker 2>when she was nineteen. They've been together for ten years.

0:34:09.719 --> 0:34:13.080
<v Speaker 2>She lives in a sixteen thousand square foot home. And

0:34:13.120 --> 0:34:15.279
<v Speaker 2>she doesn't shy away from this. She's like, I'm a

0:34:15.280 --> 0:34:17.319
<v Speaker 2>sugar baby, and I've been getting sugar for the last

0:34:17.320 --> 0:34:20.399
<v Speaker 2>ten years. Because now she's at a point in time,

0:34:20.440 --> 0:34:22.200
<v Speaker 2>so she says he's gone five months out of the year,

0:34:23.000 --> 0:34:24.800
<v Speaker 2>and of course me, I'm like, well, die he's cheating.

0:34:24.920 --> 0:34:28.360
<v Speaker 2>Then it cuts to her interview and she goes because

0:34:29.760 --> 0:34:34.919
<v Speaker 2>he is in Miami with his girlfriend. And I knew

0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:37.759
<v Speaker 2>the rules that he was never going to settle down

0:34:37.800 --> 0:34:39.440
<v Speaker 2>and commit to one person, that I had to be

0:34:39.480 --> 0:34:43.799
<v Speaker 2>okay with him having multiple partners. So they're not in

0:34:43.840 --> 0:34:47.520
<v Speaker 2>a polygamous relationship because apparently you have to be married

0:34:47.520 --> 0:34:47.759
<v Speaker 2>for that.

0:34:48.160 --> 0:34:52.319
<v Speaker 1>They're polyamorous. Is she allowed to have other boyfriends? So

0:34:52.719 --> 0:34:54.400
<v Speaker 1>now she is at a crossroads.

0:34:54.480 --> 0:34:57.319
<v Speaker 2>Here's the thing I'm all about when you lay out,

0:34:57.400 --> 0:35:00.239
<v Speaker 2>when you put out the ground rules, and someone is

0:35:00.280 --> 0:35:03.120
<v Speaker 2>aware that you when you're gone, are sleeping with whoever.

0:35:03.160 --> 0:35:07.800
<v Speaker 2>And I say, okay, great, I'm aware you're not cheating

0:35:07.800 --> 0:35:08.040
<v Speaker 2>on me.

0:35:08.480 --> 0:35:09.000
<v Speaker 1>So listen.

0:35:09.200 --> 0:35:12.680
<v Speaker 2>They're at that table, the one you saw where they

0:35:12.680 --> 0:35:16.560
<v Speaker 2>write the question. Oh yeah, Kelsey's at a crossroads right now.

0:35:16.880 --> 0:35:18.719
<v Speaker 2>She's thirty one. She's like, I want to get married

0:35:18.719 --> 0:35:21.279
<v Speaker 2>and have children. I have decided to switch the game up.

0:35:21.320 --> 0:35:23.440
<v Speaker 2>I knew the rules, I was okay with them, and

0:35:23.480 --> 0:35:26.279
<v Speaker 2>now I'm suddenly not. She does have a boyfriend, she's

0:35:26.280 --> 0:35:26.880
<v Speaker 2>seeing someone.

0:35:27.560 --> 0:35:28.960
<v Speaker 1>How does the guy know.

0:35:29.160 --> 0:35:30.319
<v Speaker 3>I'm not quite sure yet.

0:35:30.680 --> 0:35:36.520
<v Speaker 2>So Sunday's episode, we see the boyfriend because in episode one,

0:35:36.960 --> 0:35:40.359
<v Speaker 2>she's talking about her relationship with this guy that she's

0:35:40.360 --> 0:35:43.080
<v Speaker 2>been with for ten years, living in his house, and

0:35:44.520 --> 0:35:47.600
<v Speaker 2>the pictures of them together has his face torn out.

0:35:48.719 --> 0:35:50.759
<v Speaker 1>But like production did it. I'm loving the way they're

0:35:50.760 --> 0:35:51.000
<v Speaker 1>doing it.

0:35:51.000 --> 0:35:54.200
<v Speaker 2>They're not blurring the faces all of the images they show,

0:35:54.239 --> 0:35:56.160
<v Speaker 2>and they're talking about people who like obviously don't want

0:35:56.160 --> 0:35:58.520
<v Speaker 2>to be on camera. They're making it look like the

0:35:58.520 --> 0:36:03.120
<v Speaker 2>photo was ripped. It's really really, really good, not petty.

0:36:03.160 --> 0:36:06.799
<v Speaker 2>I just like the choice, the creative choice behind that.

0:36:06.920 --> 0:36:09.880
<v Speaker 2>It's very good. So the thing that I'm liking about

0:36:09.920 --> 0:36:15.520
<v Speaker 2>it is it's giving me. It's giving me og Jersey

0:36:15.560 --> 0:36:15.920
<v Speaker 2>and the.

0:36:16.000 --> 0:36:19.600
<v Speaker 1>Moment that I thought they were sisters and I'm going

0:36:19.680 --> 0:36:23.640
<v Speaker 1>to ruin names. Let me pull it up here. I

0:36:23.680 --> 0:36:29.560
<v Speaker 1>have all of their faces. It's she was on Dolorous Dolores.

0:36:29.560 --> 0:36:33.200
<v Speaker 2>So when I saw Liz just like Dolores and literally,

0:36:33.239 --> 0:36:35.440
<v Speaker 2>in a matter of no, they have the same they

0:36:35.480 --> 0:36:43.040
<v Speaker 2>have the same teeth doctor.

0:36:39.840 --> 0:36:42.400
<v Speaker 1>And the same face doctor. Not at the moment I

0:36:42.400 --> 0:36:44.560
<v Speaker 1>saw her and I was like, that looks just like Dolores.

0:36:44.600 --> 0:36:46.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't care about it.

0:36:46.280 --> 0:36:48.520
<v Speaker 3>She popped up and I go your thinking, I looked

0:36:48.560 --> 0:36:49.080
<v Speaker 3>like Dolores.

0:36:49.080 --> 0:36:50.320
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh wow, here we go.

0:36:50.840 --> 0:36:53.399
<v Speaker 2>It's giving me that vibe. I had no idea. Rhode

0:36:53.400 --> 0:36:56.439
<v Speaker 2>Island was like that. I've been to Rhode Island one time.

0:36:56.440 --> 0:36:58.480
<v Speaker 2>I filmed a movie there and I was wasted the

0:36:58.520 --> 0:37:02.560
<v Speaker 2>whole time. It was with Samira Wiley. She was in

0:37:02.680 --> 0:37:05.080
<v Speaker 2>Orange is the New Black. I played opposite her, and

0:37:05.120 --> 0:37:07.200
<v Speaker 2>I remember in our gift bags they gave us a

0:37:07.520 --> 0:37:09.600
<v Speaker 2>I think like a twelve pack of Rhode Island beer

0:37:09.880 --> 0:37:11.040
<v Speaker 2>and I was in my green room.

0:37:11.080 --> 0:37:14.160
<v Speaker 1>I fucking polished it all before you left it. Yeah. No,

0:37:14.200 --> 0:37:17.640
<v Speaker 1>it was like, I had the best time. So I'm vague.

0:37:17.920 --> 0:37:20.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm a little foggy on Rhode Island, but it's fucking

0:37:20.680 --> 0:37:21.600
<v Speaker 2>gold you guys.

0:37:22.200 --> 0:37:23.560
<v Speaker 3>So there's that part. Joellen.

0:37:24.200 --> 0:37:26.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm obsessed with her the moment in episode one she

0:37:27.040 --> 0:37:28.759
<v Speaker 2>was like, Horton, here's a who. So she's sitting in

0:37:28.800 --> 0:37:32.480
<v Speaker 2>her confessionals She's like, I don't know why anyone tells

0:37:32.480 --> 0:37:36.680
<v Speaker 2>me anything, because if you tell me something and then

0:37:36.719 --> 0:37:39.080
<v Speaker 2>you say don't tell, I'm not gonna tell except for

0:37:39.120 --> 0:37:40.640
<v Speaker 2>my best friend. And it like pops up one of

0:37:40.640 --> 0:37:42.440
<v Speaker 2>her besties who's on the show, and she goes and

0:37:42.480 --> 0:37:44.359
<v Speaker 2>then my other best friend. It pops up her other

0:37:44.400 --> 0:37:47.600
<v Speaker 2>bestie on the show. She just and if they choose

0:37:47.640 --> 0:37:50.120
<v Speaker 2>to tell, that's on them, and it is Horton.

0:37:50.160 --> 0:37:53.040
<v Speaker 1>Here's a who. If you guys remember the Elephant movie.

0:37:54.400 --> 0:37:56.319
<v Speaker 2>Where he's like, I have a secret and all of

0:37:56.360 --> 0:38:00.040
<v Speaker 2>the little like uh uh jungle people are like what

0:38:00.200 --> 0:38:03.759
<v Speaker 2>is it? And he's like, but you can't tell anyone,

0:38:03.920 --> 0:38:06.400
<v Speaker 2>and the little guy goes, we're not gonna tell anyone,

0:38:06.680 --> 0:38:09.880
<v Speaker 2>and if we do, we'll tell them not to tell anyone,

0:38:10.280 --> 0:38:13.799
<v Speaker 2>and Horton goes, perfect, I'm like Joelle and is Horton.

0:38:13.840 --> 0:38:16.719
<v Speaker 1>Here's a who. I'm obsessed with her. I love her.

0:38:16.960 --> 0:38:20.279
<v Speaker 2>She's so beautiful. She's got this big, beautiful smile, but

0:38:20.320 --> 0:38:24.120
<v Speaker 2>she will fuck you up. And apparently she's like the

0:38:24.200 --> 0:38:25.640
<v Speaker 2>main bitch in Rhode Island.

0:38:26.320 --> 0:38:29.560
<v Speaker 1>The main one is she is she having affairs? No,

0:38:29.960 --> 0:38:30.360
<v Speaker 1>she's not.

0:38:30.520 --> 0:38:32.560
<v Speaker 3>She's having issues with her mother, though they're gonna.

0:38:32.320 --> 0:38:38.400
<v Speaker 1>Get into that. As Alicia, who I also love. She

0:38:38.480 --> 0:38:40.439
<v Speaker 1>is mouful, she's beautiful as well.

0:38:40.880 --> 0:38:43.400
<v Speaker 2>She's sitting there talking about how she doesn't drive, she

0:38:43.480 --> 0:38:45.799
<v Speaker 2>will not drive, and then she's talking.

0:38:45.520 --> 0:38:46.440
<v Speaker 3>To Kelsey about it.

0:38:47.120 --> 0:38:49.759
<v Speaker 2>Cut to her interview because they want to go to

0:38:49.800 --> 0:38:52.759
<v Speaker 2>the winery, and she's like, have the bus meet here

0:38:52.880 --> 0:38:56.359
<v Speaker 2>because you know I don't drive, And then it cuts

0:38:56.400 --> 0:38:59.440
<v Speaker 2>her a confessional and she's like, my fear of driving

0:38:59.440 --> 0:39:01.359
<v Speaker 2>started when I ran off of a bridge.

0:39:01.040 --> 0:39:01.960
<v Speaker 3>And then I hit a woman.

0:39:03.040 --> 0:39:06.480
<v Speaker 2>And the interviewers like, you hit a woman. She's like, yeah,

0:39:06.480 --> 0:39:09.919
<v Speaker 2>I ran over a woman. Oh, Like she can see

0:39:09.920 --> 0:39:13.040
<v Speaker 2>it replaying in her mind. She's Lisa, she doesn't drive.

0:39:13.880 --> 0:39:18.880
<v Speaker 2>Rula just appeared episode two. She's beefing with Joellen because

0:39:18.880 --> 0:39:23.279
<v Speaker 2>apparently Rula's husband was having an affair. The mistress posted

0:39:23.360 --> 0:39:30.160
<v Speaker 2>on Instagram the picture Joellen found it calls Liz. Liz

0:39:30.239 --> 0:39:31.560
<v Speaker 2>is like, you got to be a girl's girl and

0:39:31.560 --> 0:39:34.719
<v Speaker 2>you have to tell her. So Rula's like, please send

0:39:34.760 --> 0:39:38.360
<v Speaker 2>me the photos. She fires them off and then apparently

0:39:38.680 --> 0:39:42.600
<v Speaker 2>from there, Rula and her husband work things out. In

0:39:42.640 --> 0:39:46.600
<v Speaker 2>the meantime, Joellen has gone to people in Rhode Island.

0:39:46.280 --> 0:39:48.239
<v Speaker 3>And talked about these photos.

0:39:48.480 --> 0:39:51.080
<v Speaker 2>So now Rula is placing all the blame on Joellen,

0:39:51.320 --> 0:39:53.319
<v Speaker 2>and Joellen's like, what the fuck is going on?

0:39:53.640 --> 0:39:56.319
<v Speaker 1>Deal with your marriage? He's saying he ain't cheating. Guess what.

0:39:56.480 --> 0:39:58.560
<v Speaker 2>He still very much has this mistress. I don't care

0:39:58.560 --> 0:40:03.440
<v Speaker 2>what he's saying, but Joellen is now the enemy. I

0:40:03.440 --> 0:40:05.160
<v Speaker 2>I think if it was, I don't know what I

0:40:05.160 --> 0:40:07.880
<v Speaker 2>would do. You guys, because I'm of the mindset of

0:40:08.640 --> 0:40:10.680
<v Speaker 2>if my man's cheating and you catch him, scream it

0:40:10.680 --> 0:40:13.200
<v Speaker 2>from the rooftops, tell everyone in town because I'm gonna

0:40:13.200 --> 0:40:16.520
<v Speaker 2>need them to be on the lookout. I'm gonna need

0:40:16.560 --> 0:40:20.000
<v Speaker 2>them to be on the lookout. You're cheating, motherfucker. I

0:40:20.000 --> 0:40:23.879
<v Speaker 2>don't think that Rula's placement is fair. And she talks

0:40:23.880 --> 0:40:26.080
<v Speaker 2>about when you have children with someone, it changes the game.

0:40:26.160 --> 0:40:28.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah it does. Now you've really fucking pissed me off.

0:40:29.200 --> 0:40:29.880
<v Speaker 1>Don't do that.

0:40:30.400 --> 0:40:32.440
<v Speaker 2>No, when we have kids and you want to go

0:40:32.520 --> 0:40:35.719
<v Speaker 2>out and do this, Oh, I'm outing you, shout it

0:40:35.760 --> 0:40:36.120
<v Speaker 2>from the.

0:40:36.160 --> 0:40:38.360
<v Speaker 1>Rooftops, making you leave town.

0:40:38.760 --> 0:40:40.920
<v Speaker 2>You're never coming back here, buddy, you won't never be

0:40:40.960 --> 0:40:43.960
<v Speaker 2>able to show your face again. So it changes the

0:40:43.960 --> 0:40:46.520
<v Speaker 2>game for me in that regard, not like we have kids.

0:40:46.520 --> 0:40:52.239
<v Speaker 2>We need to work it out, Noboddy, No, sir, I'm

0:40:52.239 --> 0:40:54.399
<v Speaker 2>gonna need you to tell your friends and tell them

0:40:54.440 --> 0:40:55.280
<v Speaker 2>to tell everybody.

0:40:55.880 --> 0:40:56.280
<v Speaker 1>Perfect.

0:40:59.440 --> 0:41:03.200
<v Speaker 2>So that's the breakdown. I cannot wait. I cannot wait

0:41:04.680 --> 0:41:08.960
<v Speaker 2>for episode three. They're going to a party and now Liz,

0:41:09.120 --> 0:41:11.680
<v Speaker 2>who looks like Dolores. They've talked about when the mice

0:41:11.719 --> 0:41:14.879
<v Speaker 2>are away, the cat shall play, or no reverse, when

0:41:14.880 --> 0:41:17.680
<v Speaker 2>the cat's away, the mice shall play. Is the cat

0:41:17.719 --> 0:41:22.359
<v Speaker 2>the guy just the people in general? Her husband apparently

0:41:22.520 --> 0:41:28.280
<v Speaker 2>allegedly dogs. Yeah, well she's been playing.

0:41:29.160 --> 0:41:30.120
<v Speaker 1>Apparently.

0:41:30.239 --> 0:41:33.480
<v Speaker 2>Apparently we're gonna find out this weekend.

0:41:34.360 --> 0:41:49.440
<v Speaker 1>God, it's so good. Let's cut to the ache and

0:41:49.520 --> 0:41:50.560
<v Speaker 1>relief of the week.

0:41:50.880 --> 0:41:54.719
<v Speaker 2>My ache is that I have still not hit four

0:41:54.760 --> 0:42:00.000
<v Speaker 2>weeks of post op, and my doctor said, you're gonna

0:42:00.040 --> 0:42:02.520
<v Speaker 2>feel good week three. It is imperative that you don't

0:42:02.520 --> 0:42:04.279
<v Speaker 2>do anything because week four you're going to feel like

0:42:04.280 --> 0:42:08.360
<v Speaker 2>a champion. That'll be next week. My doctor's appointment is

0:42:08.400 --> 0:42:11.600
<v Speaker 2>on the fifteenth. I'm just ready to feel like a

0:42:11.600 --> 0:42:15.239
<v Speaker 2>normal person again. I want to lift a weight, I

0:42:15.280 --> 0:42:18.080
<v Speaker 2>want to squat. I want to be able to pick

0:42:18.120 --> 0:42:20.560
<v Speaker 2>my children up first and foremost.

0:42:20.760 --> 0:42:21.560
<v Speaker 1>That is my ache.

0:42:21.880 --> 0:42:24.480
<v Speaker 2>This is the longest postop shit I've ever dealt with

0:42:24.520 --> 0:42:27.120
<v Speaker 2>in my life. And my relief is the fact that

0:42:27.160 --> 0:42:29.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm going tonight with Brittany and Janet for a mom's

0:42:30.000 --> 0:42:33.840
<v Speaker 2>dinner to the boulevard. It's going to be fantastic. I

0:42:33.920 --> 0:42:36.759
<v Speaker 2>can't wait to just sit and chat and.

0:42:36.680 --> 0:42:40.399
<v Speaker 1>Be with my girls. Love that for you. I love

0:42:40.400 --> 0:42:42.239
<v Speaker 1>that for me too. What's your ache and relief to you? Before?

0:42:42.239 --> 0:42:46.359
<v Speaker 1>My ache is, guys, I have a song coming out

0:42:47.040 --> 0:42:49.560
<v Speaker 1>when we do not know. The ach is that I

0:42:49.560 --> 0:42:54.000
<v Speaker 1>don't know. Yeah, I'm you know. Yeah, I got to

0:42:54.000 --> 0:42:57.080
<v Speaker 1>figure out how to own the right. So I'm in

0:42:57.120 --> 0:42:59.920
<v Speaker 1>the process of owning rights and figuring all that out.

0:43:00.040 --> 0:43:02.480
<v Speaker 1>So that is my ache. But when it comes out,

0:43:02.600 --> 0:43:06.640
<v Speaker 1>it'll be a relief and it'll be out it's very good. Well,

0:43:06.640 --> 0:43:15.040
<v Speaker 1>thank you. My relief is tonight. What's tonight today? What

0:43:15.600 --> 0:43:17.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm going I have a whole day planned with my

0:43:17.600 --> 0:43:21.320
<v Speaker 1>friends with Dina, Yeah, Dina and some friends, little Dina

0:43:21.400 --> 0:43:25.360
<v Speaker 1>who does her hair. Yeah, We're going to a little

0:43:25.480 --> 0:43:29.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go grab some thrifty stuff, some shirts. I

0:43:29.160 --> 0:43:31.040
<v Speaker 1>need some shirts, some cheap, cheap shirts.

0:43:32.360 --> 0:43:33.760
<v Speaker 3>It's a little vintage moment.

0:43:33.960 --> 0:43:35.960
<v Speaker 1>I know. We're gonna grab some dinner, all of us,

0:43:36.040 --> 0:43:39.719
<v Speaker 1>and then the real relief. So we're seeing Mario two.

0:43:41.080 --> 0:43:43.239
<v Speaker 3>Don't tell Ocean you promise you would take her.

0:43:44.880 --> 0:43:47.520
<v Speaker 1>Don't tell her saying I'm going in three D so

0:43:47.560 --> 0:43:49.400
<v Speaker 1>I may not even last I may.

0:43:49.280 --> 0:43:51.920
<v Speaker 2>Throw up at You're gonna have to take a dramamine

0:43:51.920 --> 0:43:58.040
<v Speaker 2>before and red bull. Okay, that's like the sober sober

0:43:58.120 --> 0:44:06.600
<v Speaker 2>man's xanax and what's an upper cocon xanax? Jesus, be careful. Well,

0:44:06.600 --> 0:44:10.600
<v Speaker 2>the gang wants implement some water until I will.

0:44:10.440 --> 0:44:13.759
<v Speaker 1>I will do. I need to tell my sponsor, no a.

0:44:13.840 --> 0:44:16.879
<v Speaker 2>Red bull and drama meine Easton. No, I'm saying it's

0:44:16.920 --> 0:44:21.560
<v Speaker 2>the sober person's version of coke and some fucking zandy bars.

0:44:21.760 --> 0:44:24.600
<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, well I got to stay awake, so you know.

0:44:24.719 --> 0:44:26.800
<v Speaker 1>There it is. There we go. I love you, guys.

0:44:26.880 --> 0:44:30.040
<v Speaker 2>I hope you enjoyed the tangent episode of Untraditionally La La.

0:44:30.400 --> 0:44:32.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to catch you guys on Monday for a

0:44:32.680 --> 0:44:35.719
<v Speaker 2>bonus episode. I'm going to catch you again on Wednesday

0:44:35.719 --> 0:44:38.840
<v Speaker 2>for a regular old episode, and remember an Unlikely Affair

0:44:39.320 --> 0:44:44.359
<v Speaker 2>Airs every Thursday night, nine pm. You're fucking welcome, Love

0:44:44.360 --> 0:44:46.719
<v Speaker 2>you guys, Bye bye