Speaker 1: Scrubbing In Withy and Tanya rap an iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: Hello, everybody, we are scrubbing in.
Speaker 1: Scrub dum dumb.
Speaker 2: That is either a delirious Tanya or a Tanya that
Speaker 2: somehow got enough sleep after a weekend in NYC.
Speaker 1: Got enough sleep? Don't think it made up for the
Speaker 1: lack of sleep in n y C. So it's definitely
Speaker 1: a delusional, delirious delirium delirium.
Speaker 2: Yeah, delusion is your baseline. Delirium is what happens when
Speaker 2: you're sleep yes, yes, and gluten full, yes, gluten filled.
Speaker 2: You're just gonna let me say delusion is your base
Speaker 2: and not even like questioning, no full accepting, no rebuttal
Speaker 2: from anyone in the room. No, all right, great, how
Speaker 2: was it? I love New York? Do you love New York?
Speaker 1: I love New York? It was magical. Well, no, First
Speaker 1: of all, we had to back up because there's so
Speaker 1: much stuff that happened this past week.
Speaker 2: Yes, so much happened. What happened?
Speaker 1: You went out two times in one day with your
Speaker 1: new best friend Daisy from The Bachelor.
Speaker 2: Okay, this is this is where social media can really
Speaker 2: be deceiving to people, right, because I did go to
Speaker 2: two events in one day, which I rarely go to
Speaker 2: any events these days because I'm just lazy as hell,
Speaker 2: and I for some reason was like, why not do
Speaker 2: two in one day? Actually, what happened was Amanda had
Speaker 2: invited me to her show Me Your mumou collection launch
Speaker 2: and it was in Costa Mesa, So I drove down
Speaker 2: there to support her. And that was really fun because
Speaker 2: I haven't seen the Show Me Your Muma girls in
Speaker 2: so long, and they were my first brand that I
Speaker 2: worked with post Bachelor, and it was when Flower Crowns
Speaker 2: were in so like, I went and did a photo
Speaker 2: shoot and I was just decked out in Flower Crowns.
Speaker 2: I've never felt better about myself and pulled up some
Speaker 2: of those photos and.
Speaker 1: Was reminiscing humbled. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So anyways, it was really fun. And then the night before,
Speaker 2: Tyler Cameron had dm'd me and was like, Hey, I'm
Speaker 2: having a launch for my show tomorrow night. If you
Speaker 2: it's like a launch party event, here's the invite if
Speaker 2: you want to come.
Speaker 1: He sent me that too, He texted it to me yeah,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I saw his name pop up
Speaker 1: on my phone. I was like, why is Tyler Cameron
Speaker 1: texting me. It wasn't just an invite the flyer.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the fire fire Yeah. So I was like, great,
Speaker 2: would love to. And so I saw Daisy at the
Speaker 2: event show me your Moonmoo thing. Didn't know she was
Speaker 2: going to be. There's my first time meeting her. She
Speaker 2: is absolutely a ray of sunshine, just a little doll.
Speaker 2: You didn't watch the show, but we're trying to get
Speaker 2: her on the podcast, so you'll get to meet her nice.
Speaker 2: And then we were messaging on Instagram and I was
Speaker 2: gonna invite her because I had I was going to
Speaker 2: just have a plus one for Tyler's thing. And I
Speaker 2: was like, Oh, what are you doing tonight? And she goes, Oh,
Speaker 2: I'm going to this launch party for Tyler Cameron's new show.
Speaker 2: And I was like, I'll be there, see you there.
Speaker 2: So we just saw each other. So it wasn't like
Speaker 2: we were just hanging out all night and went to
Speaker 2: the event, which I would have done that. It's just
Speaker 2: not what happened, and what does that matter.
Speaker 1: It's just it's interesting. It made me realize how mature
Speaker 1: I have grown, because I did not get jealous seeing
Speaker 1: those photos.
Speaker 2: But if it had been Ali or Jojo. She cannot
Speaker 2: confirm or deny, not confirm.
Speaker 1: Nor deny, but it made me feel like I am
Speaker 1: becoming securely attached.
Speaker 3: Was totally jealousy in your voice throughout this conversation.
Speaker 1: No no no, no, no, no no no no no. Happy
Speaker 1: for Cucumber, Happy for you and Daisy and your twenty
Speaker 1: four hour excursion together.
Speaker 2: It was so cute. Yeah, So that was that was that.
Speaker 1: We have to get Daisy on the podcast, because you
Speaker 1: told me one thing that literally made me laugh out loud,
Speaker 1: which was that she said she grew up watching you
Speaker 1: on The Bachelor.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it was it was so and we
Speaker 2: did the math and it was like she was fifteen
Speaker 2: and she said she so at the beginning of the season,
Speaker 2: I had messaged her and I said something like you
Speaker 2: like you have a light about you, like I can't
Speaker 2: wait to watch the season. Whatever. So he DMed back
Speaker 2: and forth a little bit, and then when that night
Speaker 2: at Tyler's event, she goes, I just wanted to say,
Speaker 2: it meant so much to me when you reach out,
Speaker 2: because like, I remember watching you when I was yoing,
Speaker 2: and it it hit like there was a beat of like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, it's fine. Embrace it. But it did
Speaker 2: make me kind of laugh just because of the conversations
Speaker 2: we've been having.
Speaker 1: But I was like, honestly, it's couldn't have come at
Speaker 1: a better time that you've now accepted your millennialness, because
Speaker 1: I feel like if she had said that two weeks prior,
Speaker 1: you would have like spiraled. Yeah, I would have spiraled.
Speaker 2: But it was it was so funny. It also is
Speaker 2: so weird because that was such a It almost feels
Speaker 2: like a different person. Like even when I think about
Speaker 2: details about certain things during that time of my life,
Speaker 2: it's all fuzzy, kind of.
Speaker 1: Join the club.
Speaker 2: So with just like me accepting my millennialism, my memory
Speaker 2: is fading. But it was. It was really cute because
Speaker 2: she just said it so sweetly and recently, and it
Speaker 2: was like daggers, dang. When you were younger, huh.
Speaker 1: High school.
Speaker 4: I used to watch.
Speaker 2: You when you're of high school. Loved you on the Bats.
Speaker 1: Watching you on the Bachelor.
Speaker 2: I remember hearing the sound.
Speaker 1: So comforting to me.
Speaker 5: Now my parents watch on the Bachelor literally.
Speaker 2: Literally, Mom probably was more of the bat was watching
Speaker 2: watching my seasons. But yeah, she was just so sweet
Speaker 2: and everyone's like get her on the podcast we're trying.
Speaker 1: We're getting her. It's the last thing we do. If
Speaker 1: it's the last podcast she does, Yes, we are getting her.
Speaker 2: Something else that was really interesting that happened over the
Speaker 2: week was I was on a walk and I'm a
Speaker 2: very paranoid walker, like I'm always checking to see if
Speaker 2: someone's behind me. And in fact, I think they have
Speaker 2: glasses now that you can get, and they have like
Speaker 2: rear view mirrors. I think I might get some of those.
Speaker 2: I don't know how stylish they are, but it sucks.
Speaker 3: You have to think that, but I understand it.
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, so you just you just gotta be.
Speaker 1: Aware, especially on my side. Just illusion no walk on
Speaker 1: too bashedly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want to do That's fine, especially like
Speaker 2: all the people in New York. There were all these
Speaker 2: people getting punched in the face in New York. Did
Speaker 2: you see this? They were looking down at their phone.
Speaker 2: And so anyways, I'm on guard and I'm walking back
Speaker 2: home and I feel someone behind me. Sorry, my nipple
Speaker 2: covers falling off. Hurry.
Speaker 1: Why are you wearing a nipple cover with that.
Speaker 4: Because you'd see my nipples?
Speaker 1: Why are you wearing a bra? I never wear bra okay.
Speaker 2: Anyways, so I'm walking, I feel someone running behind me,
Speaker 2: so I turn and it's just a guy and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 2: he's just jogging. He's gonna pass me, right. I hear
Speaker 2: him again, so I turn around and he's like out
Speaker 2: of breath and he's like hi. And he's in jeans
Speaker 2: and a top, so he's not like in athletic where
Speaker 2: And he goes, I saw you walk by back there,
Speaker 2: and I thought you were really pretty and I didn't
Speaker 2: want to let you go without saying hello. And this
Speaker 2: guy's very normal, like I'm not freaked out by him
Speaker 2: at all, and so I go, oh, that's really nice,
Speaker 2: and he goes, I was wondering if I could get
Speaker 2: your number just bold move right off the bat. And
Speaker 2: I go, oh, that's so nice. But I have a girlfriend,
Speaker 2: and he goes, I'm talking.
Speaker 4: He goes, you're.
Speaker 2: Gay, and I go, well, hands on his hands on
Speaker 2: the head, couldn't believe it. And I go, well, I
Speaker 2: guess not technically. Well it's by technically, but I've been
Speaker 2: with my girl him for six years. And he goes, wow,
Speaker 2: I never would have guessed.
Speaker 3: Oh my god. I go oh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I was like, well, thanks, for saying hi,
Speaker 2: and I got to walk off and he goes, are
Speaker 2: you sure you don't want a boyfriend?
Speaker 3: Wow?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm good. Thanks. It was the most sweat.
Speaker 5: You weren't waving your rainbow flag blasting Tegan and Sarah,
Speaker 5: right right, come on.
Speaker 2: I was just like, this is so funny because it's
Speaker 2: so weird how and I think I used to think
Speaker 2: that way, that there was a stereotype of how it
Speaker 2: looked to be gay, you know, But it was so
Speaker 2: funny to have someone say that to me. And in
Speaker 2: this year of twenty.
Speaker 1: Four you're like, yes, I left my rainbow tube, sox
Speaker 1: at ho, thank you, so sorry, we'll let it happen again.
Speaker 3: And at first I was kind of like, wow, this guy.
Speaker 3: You know, we complained that guys don't make the first
Speaker 3: move these days, like this guy's just pointing it out there.
Speaker 3: But then every other word he said his stock drop
Speaker 3: dramatic and it.
Speaker 2: Wasn't I will say he wasn't rude about He genuinely
Speaker 2: was like shocked. He just said what came to his mind.
Speaker 2: But I was telling Haley later that night and she goes,
Speaker 2: does it feel good to get hit.
Speaker 4: On like that?
Speaker 2: Hell?
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, but at the same time.
Speaker 2: It was such a funny interaction that.
Speaker 1: Like, my god, that would have happened to me. I
Speaker 1: would have walked around like the Rizzler of the rest
Speaker 1: of the day. I'd be like, hey with the little
Speaker 1: guns near, Hey.
Speaker 4: The old wristler.
Speaker 1: The street, because when.
Speaker 3: You get rid of that, do it. It's just a compliment.
Speaker 2: Yes, he didn't say anything. I did not take it
Speaker 2: personally that he was shocked that I had a girlfriend.
Speaker 2: You know, I didn't feel personally attacked by that. It
Speaker 2: was just such a funny, like shocked reaction. And then
Speaker 2: the one part was like, are you sure you don't
Speaker 2: want a boyfriend? Because that's a whole thing like respecting
Speaker 2: when you when you say you have a girlfriend, it's
Speaker 2: like you.
Speaker 1: Yeah. But I feel like he would have done that
Speaker 1: even if you said I had a boyfriend. He would
Speaker 1: have been like.
Speaker 2: Yes, so yeah, he could have been like you don't
Speaker 2: want another one?
Speaker 4: Yeah, we want to.
Speaker 2: I could be better, so yeah, you being the Wrizzlers.
Speaker 3: By the way, people who are good at art, can
Speaker 3: you make Tanya into the superhero or super villain?
Speaker 1: You have to have a little little like let me see.
Speaker 3: If I can get ai to do that while we're
Speaker 3: having this, well, there are there are a lot of
Speaker 3: image generators. Now, uh, yeah, we should follow up on
Speaker 3: the Riz conversation last week because there was a lot
Speaker 3: of comments on that.
Speaker 2: The Wrizzler name was. I laughed out loud at the
Speaker 2: Wrizzler when you were Yeah. Some of the comments that
Speaker 2: I really loved was, Tanya is the rizziest.
Speaker 1: That's right. This the Wrizzler came from a scrubber, by
Speaker 1: the way, did not originate from me. Yeah, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: just making sure.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I knew original. No, Yeah, she's playing a made
Speaker 2: up game for sure. If you're the Delulu friend, you
Speaker 2: don't have Riz. Sorry, Tanya, love.
Speaker 1: You the audacity Becca has risk for sure.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, my burner account. Just kidding. I need to
Speaker 2: seer to text the boys for a week. Someone said,
Speaker 2: gotta say, I think Haley and Robbie have the risks.
Speaker 1: Rude.
Speaker 2: Robbie said risk for days with the Z, which just
Speaker 2: feels like supportive energy from him.
Speaker 1: By the way, We're at the airport yesterday and uh,
Speaker 1: he was eating his banana at the airport and he goes,
Speaker 1: it's like Nature's popsicle and I was like, I love you.
Speaker 1: This is why I'm burying you.
Speaker 2: It's just that just one not same have found a
Speaker 2: better match for you. No, like how Hinge needs to
Speaker 2: sponsor your wedding.
Speaker 1: I couldn't have found, honestly a better match for myself.
Speaker 2: They it's not because the popsicle is cold and refreshing.
Speaker 1: H banana's like mushy, like grimy, grimy.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, so even you agree, it's not I do agree, well.
Speaker 1: And they constipate you. It's like nobody wants that.
Speaker 2: So the task that you were assigned was to ask
Speaker 2: Robbie's two boys, ages twelve and nine, if you have
Speaker 2: riz yes, and you got some feedback.
Speaker 1: Twelve year old said no, absolutely, not that whatsoever.
Speaker 2: Conversation.
Speaker 1: No, it was just like no. I was like no,
Speaker 1: he was like no, okay. Nine year old said a
Speaker 1: little bit, I have a little bit.
Speaker 2: He still so sweet. Yeah, he's just softest.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you know, I want to put that in
Speaker 1: my back pocket.
Speaker 2: A little bit, little bit is the rizzler with a
Speaker 2: little bit of.
Speaker 1: The rizzler adjacent Well, let me tell you I had
Speaker 1: some risen New York City because your girl was popping off. Okay, well, no, oh,
Speaker 1: just living life. You know it was life. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: I went full force. First of all, it was so
Speaker 1: cute because we show up. We went for Sophia. It
Speaker 1: was her birthday weekend, but it was more about she's
Speaker 1: been filming this movie in New York, so I just
Speaker 1: haven't seen her in like over two months. So we
Speaker 1: went out there and we all stayed with her in
Speaker 1: her like apartment, which was so cute, and she got
Speaker 1: keys made for for all of us, so like all
Speaker 1: next to each one of our bedside tables was like
Speaker 1: a key to the apartment, which is like so cute,
Speaker 1: so thoughtful, and she had put you know when you
Speaker 1: like you write on the mirror, like you can write
Speaker 1: on mirror, she would like she would little hearts in
Speaker 1: everybody's bathrooms and like I love you guys. And then
Speaker 1: she got all our favorite snacks that she put.
Speaker 2: It was you know what I mean, Like it's just
Speaker 2: so the most It was really really cute.
Speaker 1: So we like showed up to all that. Just Paulina
Speaker 1: got sweatshirts made, Robbie made t shirts. So it was
Speaker 1: like a really fun like I felt I felt like
Speaker 1: we were like the Friends cast all weekend just like
Speaker 1: you like Disney.
Speaker 2: It was kind of like going to Disneyland vibes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we were like rising it all over in New
Speaker 1: York City, you know what I mean, Like you were
Speaker 1: setting left and right, rising it here it there. And
Speaker 1: we did like a pizza tour. By the way, I
Speaker 1: just went full gluten, like just full gluten over the
Speaker 1: weekend and we did like a pizza taste test all
Speaker 1: these different places. I met a scrubber at one of
Speaker 1: the pizza places. Yeah, so cute, and she ended up
Speaker 1: being on my flight back home. Okay, so I saw
Speaker 1: on the plane, which was like very funny and cute.
Speaker 1: But did all these pizza taste testings, went on a
Speaker 1: boat to go see the Statue of Liberty, went to
Speaker 1: like clubs like we were like damnancing till four in
Speaker 1: the morning. I lost my voice.
Speaker 2: Wow, yeah you lived, you were living a living. Did
Speaker 2: you love it?
Speaker 1: I loved it. I'm exhausted, yeah, fully fully worth it. It
Speaker 1: was so worth it. Yeah, it was very well.
Speaker 2: That's what we have to remember when we do things
Speaker 2: and we're feeling tired and like we don't want to
Speaker 2: do things, we have to remember that's worth it.
Speaker 1: I think last night. I went to bed around seven
Speaker 1: forty five, and I think, if I do it again
Speaker 1: one more night tonight, I think tomorrow I'll feel back
Speaker 1: to normal again, back to myself. But it was totally
Speaker 1: worth it, and I locked in a bridesmaid over the weekend. Wow,
Speaker 1: just one, just one? Yeah.
Speaker 2: Interesting?
Speaker 1: Well because so because Sophia is living out there for
Speaker 1: a little bit, I I wanted to do it in
Speaker 1: person with her, but the rest of my crew I'm
Speaker 1: going to do together.
Speaker 2: And she said yes, and she said yes, great, Yeah,
Speaker 2: she said, can I ask a question? Yes, what did
Speaker 2: it take to keep you out till four am? Because
Speaker 2: at the actual party, you went to bed rather early,
Speaker 2: So what does it take to keep you out?
Speaker 1: I think the time difference because it was one one
Speaker 1: in La, but I was very pushing it. We were
Speaker 1: home by like two. But then I did all my
Speaker 1: bridesmaid stuff.
Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah, middle of the night, the middle of
Speaker 2: the night bride posal.
Speaker 1: Yes, at the middle of the night. Wow. But I
Speaker 1: think it was the time difference and everything. We didn't
Speaker 1: start everything until later, so I was like sleeping in later.
Speaker 1: Everything was just kind of like later.
Speaker 2: All right, just seeing what it takes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was not. It was not easy. Two
Speaker 1: o'clock was like. The first night was okay, the second
Speaker 1: night I was like, it was hard.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm proud of you, thank you.
Speaker 1: I'm proud of my I really lived, I know, but
Speaker 1: it really threw off my whole week because Sunday's I
Speaker 1: like to meal prep and I did not have any
Speaker 1: time to meal prep. So this morning I was trying
Speaker 1: to pack my bag for work and I didn't have food,
Speaker 1: idn't have coffee. Like I was like, ah, oh.
Speaker 2: No, what could could you do that today? Yes, it's
Speaker 2: today because I was worried about Yeah, yeah, hop right
Speaker 2: back into.
Speaker 1: It, don't you worry.
Speaker 2: Well, something else that happened over the weekend was Coachella,
Speaker 2: and I had a little fomo for the first time
Speaker 2: ever in my life. To say it, but I think
Speaker 2: we should talk about that after a break. Okay, all right,
Speaker 2: So Coachella happened this weekend. And when I say, I
Speaker 2: never feel fomo about Coachella ever, because I have always
Speaker 2: associated my only times going to Coachella were for work things,
Speaker 2: so I've never associated it with like.
Speaker 1: Fun, just fun, Oh my gosh, you know, so fun.
Speaker 2: And when I went, I had fun. But I when
Speaker 2: I think about Coachella, I think of work and brands,
Speaker 2: and you know, that's like my mindset about it. And
Speaker 2: I saw this TikToker talking about how it's not gonna
Speaker 2: it's not cool this year to go to Coachella or
Speaker 2: it's like not trendy because it's mostly just influencers going
Speaker 2: with brands, so what's considered to be work. And so
Speaker 2: this girl stitched the video and she was saying she
Speaker 2: was in the airport heading to Coachella, and she was saying,
Speaker 2: like I think for influencers, it's your influencers are so
Speaker 2: out of touch with reality. Which we talk about this
Speaker 2: all the time, like the experiences we get, the people
Speaker 2: we get to me, it's so it's our world to
Speaker 2: the point where we almost are jaded about it, right,
Speaker 2: And she was saying how it's like Coachella is the
Speaker 2: most exciting weekend of the year for her and her
Speaker 2: friends because they take off work, they work, you know,
Speaker 2: nine to five jobs, they plan their outfits and they're
Speaker 2: so excited to go and listen to music, dance in
Speaker 2: the fields or whatever. And it really was like a
Speaker 2: perspective shift for me because I watched all the content
Speaker 2: from coachel this year, and I didn't feel like I
Speaker 2: saw as much branded stuff, Like it felt like people
Speaker 2: were just having the best time and they were like.
Speaker 1: It felt so branded to me. Really maybe my autodrone.
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean they have the stuff, but all branded.
Speaker 2: I didn't see. No, no, no, I'm saying I saw
Speaker 2: all that stuff. I'm just saying I didn't see a
Speaker 2: lot of content that was like I'm staying at the
Speaker 2: blah blah blah, and here's the product that I'm using it.
Speaker 2: It felt more organic and it felt like people were
Speaker 2: just having fun there. That's what it felt like to me.
Speaker 2: And then something about Lana del Rey coming in on
Speaker 2: that motorcycle entrance, I was like, that was so epic
Speaker 2: and iconic. And then Taylor slipped being there with Travis.
Speaker 1: So it's funny that you say that because I had
Speaker 1: people boots on the ground at Coachella that said Lana
Speaker 1: set was so snoozy.
Speaker 3: Snoozy wow until Billy, until Billy saved.
Speaker 1: It, saved it, Billy saved the day, but it was
Speaker 1: still snoozy wow.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is so crazy because TikTok made me feel
Speaker 2: like it was the greatest Coachella set of.
Speaker 1: All times, I know, okay, boots on the grounded.
Speaker 2: Boots on the ground. Say, Aside from.
Speaker 1: That, everything else was like high high, like high vibes, but.
Speaker 2: His music is snoop. I mean, I don't think. I know.
Speaker 1: It's an interesting energy, interesting choice, but I have so
Speaker 1: many questions, So I did not feel I don't think
Speaker 1: I feel fomo unless it has to do with the
Speaker 1: people that I love. So like, if you were at
Speaker 1: Coachella with like Jojo and Ally, I would have been
Speaker 1: like I needed to be. That could be at an
Speaker 1: airport with.
Speaker 2: I, could be at a dumpster yard, yes, and you
Speaker 2: would feel fomo. Yes, if I was the right people.
Speaker 1: Correct, correct, So like, I don't really feel fomo about
Speaker 1: like experience experiences unless people that I love are at them, right,
Speaker 1: That's when I feel fomo. But so I didn't really
Speaker 1: feel fomo from Coachella because I also feel like I
Speaker 1: could like see what was going on. But I have
Speaker 1: so many questions about the tailor and Travis logistics of
Speaker 1: it all. Because even if you have artists passed, you
Speaker 1: have the best VIP passes that you can possibly get,
Speaker 1: It's a lot of walking, it's a lot of people.
Speaker 1: They were in a sea of people without what seemed
Speaker 1: to be bodyguards around. But there's no way. They must
Speaker 1: have had bodyguards in the crowd somewhere, we just didn't
Speaker 1: see them on the video like they like were told
Speaker 1: to like blend in. Yeah, there's no way. They were
Speaker 1: just out there the way they were, right, No chance,
Speaker 1: no chance.
Speaker 2: Also, Travis is a big guy though, so I think
Speaker 2: she also probably feels safe.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but like any big guy gets clocked from behind
Speaker 1: is not a big guy anymore.
Speaker 2: She's not going anywhere without her security team, right.
Speaker 1: But she really did a good job blending in because
Speaker 1: I could not. I looked at videos from the left,
Speaker 1: from the right, from the front, from the back, and
Speaker 1: I could not spot any security guards.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I felt so giddy watching the videos of them.
Speaker 1: More than it feels like she's a teenager living out
Speaker 1: her like fantasy of life.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Like I always feel like Taylor Swift wanted to be
Speaker 1: the cheerleader with the jock boyfriend, and I feel like
Speaker 1: she's living that fantasy out now. Yeah, do you know
Speaker 1: what I mean?
Speaker 2: Did you see the video where he like wraps his
Speaker 2: arms around her and then has her by the head.
Speaker 1: Oh, who posted it.
Speaker 2: I've seen it everywhere. Oh, it's so cute. I'm gonna
Speaker 2: see if I can find hous and of teeth.
Speaker 6: She's swaddled by him, yes, and she looks like you
Speaker 6: know when you can feel She almost just looks so relaxed,
Speaker 6: and in that moment of being around, like engulfed by
Speaker 6: people and there's so many people around.
Speaker 1: It just felt like she was just felt safe.
Speaker 2: Listen, Yeah, felt safe.
Speaker 1: Wow, it was so I don't even feel safe in
Speaker 1: those crowds. I can't imagine if Aaron Taylor Swift, I'd
Speaker 1: feel like one e in the back of my head,
Speaker 1: like what's going on?
Speaker 2: I think she tried think her security team so locked
Speaker 2: in that she just and like I said, you got
Speaker 2: a six or five giant standing over you behind you.
Speaker 1: Did you feel like most people? I feel like the
Speaker 1: vibe was try less, not try harder, try less. Like
Speaker 1: everybody was in like hoodies and pants, hoodies and jeans, hats,
Speaker 1: like there was no like g strings with like the
Speaker 1: high boots and the lace spras like those. But yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean you're always gonna get your typical like Coachella vie.
Speaker 1: But I felt like in terms of at least the
Speaker 1: celebrities that I saw that usually are wearing like bikini
Speaker 1: tops and chaps were in like hoodies and jeans.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like the celebrities normally do less,
Speaker 2: way more the influencers doing more. No way, So.
Speaker 1: The Kylie Jenners and the Haley Beavers of the world
Speaker 1: and the Kend dinner is way.
Speaker 2: More low key than the influencers.
Speaker 1: No, and they were.
Speaker 2: Always that was like twenty seventeen. I'm talking about the
Speaker 2: recent whatever.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying. I feel as though there's been a
Speaker 1: big shift.
Speaker 2: That's the fomo I felt.
Speaker 1: So I back here the jean the cooler these days.
Speaker 1: There's a girl at the airport they needed to she
Speaker 1: had to take her belt off for the security and
Speaker 1: to get off, and her pants fell and she literally
Speaker 1: had to like hold them as she was walking through
Speaker 1: the security line because they were that baggy.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was like, why do.
Speaker 2: You sell those? Can you please? That's giving wrizzler energy?
Speaker 1: What the baggy baggage? YEA super tight belt, super tight belt. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so it just looks like a long ship the waist.
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, this is what a I came up with.
Speaker 3: You'll have to go to our Instagram for this. But
Speaker 3: this is what they This is the Wrizzler.
Speaker 1: My booms are huge.
Speaker 3: It's not part of my prompt?
Speaker 1: Is that me?
Speaker 3: It's supposed to be you?
Speaker 1: Yes, my god.
Speaker 4: Wrizzler is more like, what's the is it?
Speaker 2: The Joker?
Speaker 4: The Riddler?
Speaker 5: I photoshopped Tiny's face onto the Riddler.
Speaker 1: That's your face that doesn't not look at Jojo the Wrizzler.
Speaker 4: I know, Mark is Marx is what you think you are?
Speaker 5: The Wristler? The wrestler is your face on Jim Carrey's
Speaker 5: so good.
Speaker 2: That is so good. But yeah, I agree. I felt
Speaker 2: like that's what it was about Coachell that felt different
Speaker 2: this year. It felt like it was just low key.
Speaker 2: Everyone was just having a blast, not trying too hard.
Speaker 1: So if you had fomo, there is another weekend coming
Speaker 1: up this weekend, will you go to Coachella weekend too?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: Because actually still available.
Speaker 2: You just made me realize something, is that unless I
Speaker 2: was with people that were super excited to be there,
Speaker 2: and we were all on the same page of when
Speaker 2: we were gonna go. And here's the thing, I know
Speaker 2: that there was a lot of dust and heat and
Speaker 2: a lot of walking, and I probably would have been
Speaker 2: absolutely miserable. But it just looked fun this year. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so maybe fomo is not the word. It's not like
Speaker 2: I needed to be there. It was just more like, wow,
Speaker 2: that actually looked like a good time.
Speaker 1: You know, we could do the stream is like really good.
Speaker 1: We could watch it together on stream and we're like,
Speaker 1: chaps and stuff.
Speaker 2: Just get desert ready, yeah, buttershop ourselves.
Speaker 1: Yeah, not photoshop like ourselves.
Speaker 2: No, we could literally put ourselves, take some photos and
Speaker 2: put us in front of the ferris wheel.
Speaker 1: No one would ever know, No would never know.
Speaker 2: We'll get Ashley on that with her photoshop skills.
Speaker 1: Perfect. She's great. By the way, I saw Moura Higgins
Speaker 1: was there and I goes like, a She's a Love
Speaker 1: Island UK.
Speaker 2: Star of us at each other.
Speaker 1: She never leaves the pond. And I saw photos of
Speaker 1: her in front of the ferris wheel and I was like,
Speaker 1: that was my chance to get her on the podcast.
Speaker 1: She was in the vicinity of Burbank.
Speaker 2: Boots on the ground could have happened.
Speaker 3: It happen.
Speaker 1: Yeah, boots on the ground could have made some things happen.
Speaker 1: So anyways, all right, well I did not have Phomo
Speaker 1: felt like I saw it all, saw what I needed
Speaker 1: to see. But I do have a theory that Taylor
Speaker 1: is gonna come out during Wanna.
Speaker 2: Second to her album's coming out correct.
Speaker 1: There was just too much going on at the Grammys
Speaker 1: between Lana and Taylor for it just to end there.
Speaker 2: Well, also, it's the day that Taylor's album comes out correct?
Speaker 1: Is the Tortured Poet's Department Department?
Speaker 2: I want to know, just based on the track list,
Speaker 2: every what you predict your favorite song from the album
Speaker 2: is gonna be.
Speaker 1: I'm usually pretty spot on when I guess these things.
Speaker 1: The Wrizler is Confident Bitten all Over.
Speaker 2: Fortnite featuring post Malone, The Tortured Poet's Department. My boy
Speaker 2: only breaks his favorite toys down bad So long London,
Speaker 2: but Daddy, I love him Fresh out the Slammer Florida
Speaker 2: featuring Florence in the Machine, Guilty as Sin, who's afraid
Speaker 2: of little old Me? I can fix him? No, really,
Speaker 2: I can. Love of my Life.
Speaker 1: Well that's what that's it's for.
Speaker 2: All the time. On the instagroom, I'll post it a
Speaker 2: picture of Haley and put l o mL and you
Speaker 2: always go, what is that.
Speaker 1: Oh I guess like, yeah.
Speaker 2: I can do it with the Broken Heart, The Smallest
Speaker 2: Man who Ever Lived, The Alchemy, and Clara bow Bell
Speaker 2: but your guests.
Speaker 1: So, I think my least favorite song is gonna be
Speaker 1: so Long London Oh Why I hate London boy, and
Speaker 1: so I'm just equating the two since they have London
Speaker 1: in the title.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I think it's gonna be sad. I think
Speaker 2: it's gonna be sad.
Speaker 1: So I think that one's gonna be my least favorite. Okay,
Speaker 1: And I think Fortnite is gonna be my favorite.
Speaker 3: Clara bo was an actress in the twenties, so I'm
Speaker 3: curious about that one.
Speaker 1: Interesting Okay, with with a close second of but Daddy
Speaker 1: I love him.
Speaker 2: Okay. I think my my Boy only breaks his favorite
Speaker 2: toys is gonna be my least favorite.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: And I think my favorite is going to be Love
Speaker 2: of My Life, followed by the Alchemy.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 5: I'm excited for Florida Florenza Machine pretty good.
Speaker 3: I think I'm really excited. Love the exclamation points, haven't you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's my favorite piece of punctuation. Yeah, so that
Speaker 5: that one's probably my favorite, and then down Bad I
Speaker 5: keep going back to that one that sounds like that's
Speaker 5: probably gonna be a closed second.
Speaker 3: I'm down bad for it.
Speaker 5: Good Okay, least favorite, I mean the Alchemy. That title
Speaker 5: just I'm sorry, the title annoys me already.
Speaker 1: I feel like to me, that one's gonna be like
Speaker 1: the Archer.
Speaker 3: That's what I think, the Archer.
Speaker 1: But I love the Archer. Bhi'm the Archer.
Speaker 3: Florida gets three exclamation points. It's not gonna be political,
Speaker 3: you think because there's not a lot of good news
Speaker 3: about Florida lately.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you're probably right.
Speaker 3: I don't know, just throwing it out there. I'm going
Speaker 3: to choose. I think my boy only breaks his favorite
Speaker 3: toys is gonna be a fun song.
Speaker 2: Okay, so my wow. Okay, that'd be kind of a
Speaker 2: paper Rings vibe, I think.
Speaker 3: And then my least favorite, I am going with.
Speaker 1: So Long London.
Speaker 3: No, I think that's gonna be nice. I'm gonna go
Speaker 3: with I'm gonna go with the Florida. I don't that's
Speaker 3: the weird fit for her.
Speaker 2: You're going to go least favorite favorite. Wow, I'm honestly
Speaker 2: excited to either be proven wrong or right. I like
Speaker 2: this game I do.
Speaker 1: I play this game often.
Speaker 3: I don't like Who's afraid of Little Old Me? Either?
Speaker 2: You don't like me?
Speaker 3: No, I don't like that one.
Speaker 2: Okay, I think So Long London is going to be devastating.
Speaker 2: It's like her Goodbye to that time of her, that era.
Speaker 1: London Boy is like one of my least favorite songs two.
Speaker 3: Times, so it doesn't have to be a sequel.
Speaker 1: It's going to be a sequel. I just feel it
Speaker 1: in my I think so.
Speaker 3: Long London it's going to be a beautiful song.
Speaker 1: So Long London Boy.
Speaker 2: More about like say goodbye to Big Ben Goodbye.
Speaker 1: Don't care like there's a line.
Speaker 2: Say goodbye to Big Ben in there.
Speaker 1: No, I really don't think I like Joe Alwyn the
Speaker 1: more I learn.
Speaker 2: Why, because I think.
Speaker 1: That you started you're feeling bad for him.
Speaker 2: Well, I don't. I'm very indifferent about Joe all one,
Speaker 2: if I'm being honest, But I trying to even put
Speaker 2: myself in that position. I don't know. Obviously, we don't
Speaker 2: know what happened that led to the breakup, but just
Speaker 2: thinking of a person being in the position of dating
Speaker 2: the most famous person in the world of our generation
Speaker 2: and then you get broken up with and she's bigger
Speaker 2: than ever, and now she's dating the biggest athlete, like
Speaker 2: the most successful. They're so public and they won the
Speaker 2: Super Bowl and everyone's just obsessed and you can't get
Speaker 2: away from it. Yikes.
Speaker 1: So I know, my boyfriend.
Speaker 2: The opposite of love is indifference. Oh Taylor lyric No,
Speaker 2: oh luminears Oh right, often confuse those two.
Speaker 1: Somebody actually posted a video of Taylor Swift dancing to
Speaker 1: Karma I Spice singing Karma and they were like, Taylor
Speaker 1: Swift singing in the crowd and dancing to her own
Speaker 1: song is so meta, And I was like, what does
Speaker 1: that mean?
Speaker 2: What does that mean?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Meta. Yeah, it's like calling attention to what you're doing. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's like calling attention like in a movie. Referring to
Speaker 3: the fact that they're in a movie is very meta.
Speaker 1: Oh huh, Yeah, apparently it was very meta.
Speaker 2: I watched Ripley on Netflix The Rizzler, a Frizzler adjacent.
Speaker 2: It's basically the talented mister Ripley, but it's a series
Speaker 2: and it's shot in black and white the whole thing. No,
Speaker 2: it's really good. Hayley's obsessed I've just been like, I
Speaker 2: don't really focus watch shows. I just sent on my
Speaker 2: phone and tune in when I want. It's so beautiful.
Speaker 2: Every shot looks like a photo. Like every shot look,
Speaker 2: every video shot looks like it could be a still photo.
Speaker 2: It's really cool. Anyways, good talk.
Speaker 1: Sorry, Yeah I didn't watch anything, but you know I
Speaker 1: did kind of discover about myself this weekend is just
Speaker 1: as of late. I noticed that I have like an
Speaker 1: obsessive personality.
Speaker 3: No, please elaborate.
Speaker 2: Self discovery.
Speaker 1: Yes, it was a self discovery, and I'm just curious
Speaker 1: what that means, Like why do I like that? Like
Speaker 1: why am I like this? What does that mean about me?
Speaker 1: You know? Like I fell in love with this show,
Speaker 1: The Traders, and I can't just watch one season and
Speaker 1: enjoy it. I have now watched every USA season, every
Speaker 1: UK season, and now I'm in the middle of Australia
Speaker 1: and then I will do New Zealand next and I
Speaker 1: just get very into those things and I can't stop.
Speaker 2: Do you want to know my opinion? Yes, I think
Speaker 2: you like control. I think you crave control over things,
Speaker 2: and I think you feel like you can relax when
Speaker 2: you're watching something that's familiar to you, like, you know,
Speaker 2: it's because I'm.
Speaker 1: So out of control with my life that I want
Speaker 1: to be in control with everything else that I can.
Speaker 2: I just think you like to control. I don't think
Speaker 2: this is a negative thing, but uh.
Speaker 1: I'm not taking it negative.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I think this is a human thing. But
Speaker 2: I think you like you crave having control in like
Speaker 2: how you like things to go and how you want
Speaker 2: the outcome to be, and so I think you don't.
Speaker 2: And the thing about life is you don't have control.
Speaker 2: So I think when you're watching TV, it's in your
Speaker 2: hands of watching something that you know the format and
Speaker 2: what's going to happen, and it feels like comiliar to
Speaker 2: your interesting that's what? Right?
Speaker 3: Is it a cancer thing? Because I feel like I
Speaker 3: am very obsessed. You like this too?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like with Survivor, it's like I watched one season
Speaker 1: and now I've basically watched like over half of the
Speaker 1: forty whatever seasons that the show is.
Speaker 3: That exactly. I think if my kids were into a
Speaker 3: show or a singer or anything, I would go on Wikipedia.
Speaker 3: I would learn everything there was to know about that
Speaker 3: show and the actors in it and what else they've done.
Speaker 3: And what they've done since. Like I get very very
Speaker 3: obsessed with these things and video games. I cannot have
Speaker 3: video games in the house, Like I would never own
Speaker 3: an Xbox or a PS five or something whatever it
Speaker 3: is now, because I know I would never get anything
Speaker 3: else done. I'd give some football or baseball video game
Speaker 3: and I'd never be able to do anything else.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's I just get so obsessed and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't love this about myself, so I'm going to
Speaker 1: work on that in therapy.
Speaker 2: Well, no, I think that's such a harmless thing. The
Speaker 2: TV thing, I think. I think in other areas it's
Speaker 2: something you should work on. But I don't think what
Speaker 2: you watch on TVs.
Speaker 1: It all bleeds together, Becca, The beauty of life is
Speaker 1: it all bleeds together. Nothing is secular, it's all secular.
Speaker 2: Sent you a TikTok. You remember I sent you a
Speaker 2: TikTok and I was like, do you relate to this?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, about how cancers are like the most depressed
Speaker 1: or something that.
Speaker 2: They're never like statist, they always want more and they
Speaker 2: don't feel satisfied in life.
Speaker 1: It wasn't that kind of It was like they're like
Speaker 1: the saddest saddest zodiac signs. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I did relate.
Speaker 3: Are we one of.
Speaker 1: The statist cancer cancers are very emotional?
Speaker 3: We are?
Speaker 1: Yes. I think that's kind of where it comes from.
Speaker 3: I got a rough patch coming my way. Oh, I
Speaker 3: have a daughter who turns eighteen on Saturday, and then
Speaker 3: she graduates high school in June. She's singing at graduation,
Speaker 3: and then she's moving out and going to college. Oh
Speaker 3: so for a cancer it's going to be a really
Speaker 3: rough yes.
Speaker 1: So like, okay, let's say cancer. As a parent, you
Speaker 1: were like so excited your kid's eighteen, They're out of
Speaker 1: the house, like next stage of life, next phase, like party,
Speaker 1: but you're gonna cry and be sad. I would feel
Speaker 1: the same way. Yeah, it's tough being cancer.
Speaker 2: I have a cancer rising, I mean cancer moon, So
Speaker 2: I have a little bit of that.
Speaker 1: I don't know about that I do.
Speaker 2: That's why I get that's where my more emotional side
Speaker 2: comes from, because.
Speaker 1: My friends were straight side is a much more prevalent.
Speaker 2: I'm Scorpio Libra and cancer and I don't know what
Speaker 2: any of that means, but I know I got them in. Yeah,
Speaker 2: based on my chart. Okay, something really cute happened last night.
Speaker 2: So we're in bed and I look over at Haley.
Speaker 2: She's writing something in her notes or I see her
Speaker 2: phone up and all I see no one notes when
Speaker 2: it has like the first thing you type people. It
Speaker 2: said things about Becca, oh, things about like I had
Speaker 2: had like almond croissant or something, and she was like,
Speaker 2: you like almond stuff, and I was like, I love
Speaker 2: like almond pastries.
Speaker 5: I wrote.
Speaker 1: The fact that she still keeps up on her back note,
Speaker 1: like I had a Robbie notes page, but that ship sailed,
Speaker 1: like I stopped putting stuff in that after year one.
Speaker 2: Shocking.
Speaker 1: It's actually really well, we could say this for next week.
Speaker 1: But we got into a really big debate over the
Speaker 1: weekend about being good on paper or being good in person. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And it was very funny because were at the airport
Speaker 1: getting ready to get on our flight and we were
Speaker 1: having this debate just me and Paulina chit chatting, and
Speaker 1: Robbie was just kind of like sitting across from us,
Speaker 1: not really listening. Yeah, and we were talking about our
Speaker 1: friend that's dating someone and he's good on paper but
Speaker 1: not so good in person, blah blah blah. And I
Speaker 1: was like yeah, like I totally get it. Like I
Speaker 1: like pointed out Robbie, like I totally get it. And
Speaker 1: then Robbie goes.
Speaker 2: Like, excuse me.
Speaker 1: He's like, what do you mean I'm knocking on paper?
Speaker 1: And I was like, well, you know, you're so much
Speaker 1: better in person, and you out of this whole debate,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I think it's better to be
Speaker 1: better in person on paper. I would be so much
Speaker 1: more when you're dating you, that's all you want is
Speaker 1: to be good on paper because that's all people see,
Speaker 1: like on the dating apps and stuff. No, like chicken
Speaker 1: or the egg.
Speaker 2: No, if I'm dating I want to be like I
Speaker 2: want to blow them away in person. I want to
Speaker 2: be interesting to.
Speaker 1: Get the person. If you're sitting on paper, excuse me,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Wow, that just flew out of my mouth.
Speaker 2: It was just body mouth. Yeah, that's so interesting because
Speaker 2: I would never I would so much rather someone meet
Speaker 2: me in person and impact them than them read about
Speaker 2: me on paper and then be underwhelmed.
Speaker 1: I know. But what I'm saying is you might not
Speaker 1: even get that in person if you're bad on paper.
Speaker 3: Robbie's good on paper, your paper, because it wasn't what
Speaker 3: you had in mind talked about, but generally speaking on paper,
Speaker 3: he's pretty strong.
Speaker 1: It was very funny because there's a couple sitting right
Speaker 1: next to us and they were both like hammer they'd
Speaker 1: like miss their fight from Mexico. Like it was like
Speaker 1: very funny. And the guy leans over and he's like,
Speaker 1: I don't mean to interrupt in your conversation, man, but
Speaker 1: I'm forty five with two kids, divorced with two kids,
Speaker 1: and I'm bad on paper two or it was like
Speaker 1: very very funny. So we started talking to like this couple.
Speaker 2: It was very funny, was a very interesting topic.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was very funny.
Speaker 2: You'd like to be both. I think I'd like to
Speaker 2: be good on paper and then i'd like to be
Speaker 2: like great in person.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, Robbie posts a very interesting question. At our
Speaker 1: lunch table.
Speaker 3: We did break.
Speaker 2: Oh oh my god, that's a good time. That's a
Speaker 2: good time.
Speaker 1: Okay, So we'll break and then I'll ask you guys
Speaker 1: this question. Everybody, everybody has to go around and answer
Speaker 1: it one by one. I guess you don't have to answer.
Speaker 1: You don't have to if you don't want to. But
Speaker 1: if you don't, that's the lame and you answer the question,
Speaker 1: and and that's what I'm going to leave you. It
Speaker 1: was very it was very made for a very fun
Speaker 1: lunch activity.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, we'll be right. All right, we're back. So
Speaker 2: Robbie started a new game. What happened? He invented a game.
Speaker 1: I don't know if he invented this or what. It
Speaker 1: just came out of his head. So I'm just gonna
Speaker 1: accredit him to this game. He might have seen it somewhere.
Speaker 1: But so, uh, you go around the table and you
Speaker 1: all say whether you think you yourself are better looking
Speaker 1: than people see you as, or equal to what people
Speaker 1: see you as, or worse looking than what people see
Speaker 1: you as.
Speaker 2: Wait, so I'm confused. So what people like? So how
Speaker 2: I say? How?
Speaker 1: How you see yourself?
Speaker 2: Are you?
Speaker 1: And just it's all physical, there's no mental mentalness of
Speaker 1: this or paper. It's all do you think that you are?
Speaker 1: Like wording it wrong?
Speaker 2: I was like, can we get.
Speaker 6: It's?
Speaker 1: It's do you feel like you are as good looking
Speaker 1: as people see you? Do you feel like you're more
Speaker 1: good looking than people see you as or just about
Speaker 1: the same?
Speaker 5: How do we know how people see us?
Speaker 1: Okay, So that's an interesting, interesting.
Speaker 3: Do you think you're better looking than you actually are
Speaker 3: or the same as you actually are, you're worst looking
Speaker 3: than you actually are?
Speaker 1: Yes, So, like, I'll give you my answer. I think
Speaker 1: I am less attractive than people see me as, or
Speaker 1: or close to equal. Like, I don't think I'm this.
Speaker 1: I don't walk around thinking I'm like this gorgeous being right,
Speaker 1: I think I'm probably I see myself less beautiful than
Speaker 1: other people see me. That was my like, Okay, two
Speaker 1: of the guys at the table said that they saw
Speaker 1: they think they're hotter than people see that of course, right,
Speaker 1: So it's funny because it was like and then one
Speaker 1: of the guys said he doesn't know how other people
Speaker 1: view him. So I found that to be interesting too,
Speaker 1: because I felt like many guys don't either care or
Speaker 1: see what other people see them as. But every girl
Speaker 1: had like a different response.
Speaker 2: I think I'm equal like I would say I'm equal
Speaker 2: to I think, Yeah, that seems.
Speaker 1: Good for your self esteem, Yeah, it's not so good
Speaker 1: for mine.
Speaker 5: I don't I don't like think about I'm lucky that
Speaker 5: I don't think about it.
Speaker 1: Right, which is a very male thing, like men not
Speaker 1: think about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we have to think about all the time.
Speaker 5: So in that case, I feel like I am much
Speaker 5: much hotter than people give me credit for. That's what
Speaker 5: I mean. I think that I am much better looking
Speaker 5: than people think.
Speaker 3: Okay, and Mark, I think there was a time in
Speaker 3: my life when I thought I was better looking than
Speaker 3: I was.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you had more confident than you actually overly confident.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're now. I think I've got a pretty good
Speaker 3: gauge on it. Yeah, I'm about a six six and
Speaker 3: a half and I'm and I'm kind I'm cool with that.
Speaker 3: I can get to like a seven if I really
Speaker 3: addressed nactually yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, So I think I'm
Speaker 3: pretty square on now, But there were times when I
Speaker 3: was way more than reality.
Speaker 2: That is very fascinating to just the human brain and
Speaker 2: women women.
Speaker 1: Because Robbie was saying, he's like, I think I think
Speaker 1: I'm hotter in my head than I actually am.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, and I think that that that's true of
Speaker 3: me too, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Like, and it was it was very prevalent among the
Speaker 1: men at the table that they felt hotter than they
Speaker 1: actually were.
Speaker 3: But then the fact that we know that we are
Speaker 3: not as hot as we think we are Isn't that
Speaker 3: good somehow that we have that level of reality?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. It's interesting.
Speaker 2: It's a very interesting.
Speaker 3: I think there's guys who think they're smoking hot and
Speaker 3: aren't and don't know that they're not smoking hot.
Speaker 1: But I think that there's something that comes with that.
Speaker 1: Like it's like with men, they are not afraid to
Speaker 1: ask for more money or raise or do you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like men just do it and women
Speaker 1: we have to like have a full spreadsheet and say
Speaker 1: like why we deserve the rays and like how we
Speaker 1: add to the company, and like men just go in
Speaker 1: there and ask, you know. It's like, it's very interesting.
Speaker 1: It's a very psychological brainbuster, it is.
Speaker 3: And that's true. And we've talked about that too, about
Speaker 3: how guys have their self esteem built up. Yeah, it's
Speaker 3: by their parents or their coworkers whatever. Where girls have
Speaker 3: their self esteem just squashed, squash squashed their whole life
Speaker 3: by reality, by society, by social media. Right, Yeah, it's true.
Speaker 1: Yeah, fundel activity right. Yeah, thanks, Oh glad you all
Speaker 1: enjoyed it. Take it home and play with your friends.
Speaker 2: Yeah, crush your confidence.
Speaker 4: With Robbie's new game. Ask your friends to read one
Speaker 4: to ten.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I think that's it's all the time.
Speaker 2: We've got, yeah, our special guest of the well, I
Speaker 2: don't know if she's airing this week, but we do
Speaker 2: have a yeah she is, huh, a special guest of
Speaker 2: the week, Alie Grant. Six years into doing this podcast
Speaker 2: and we finally have She's a busy girl. She's a
Speaker 2: busy girl. Yeah. But that will be this Thursday's episode.
Speaker 2: So we will be back again with you for a
Speaker 2: new episode this week.
Speaker 1: So soon. Just a few sleeps away, just.
Speaker 2: A few sleeps away. We love you so much. Have
Speaker 2: a great week.
Speaker 1: Love you bye.