1 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy mellencamp at Tamra Judge. Hi, guys, 2 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: welcome to this week's to Tease and a Pod with 3 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: myself and Tamra Judge. And we have an exciting guest 4 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: on this week. Yes we do. I interviewed with Melissa 5 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:26,440 Speaker 1: said Corga last week and now she's on our podcast 6 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: this week, and we are so excited to dive deep 7 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 1: into New Jersey. What's up, guys, Melissa? Welcome? Hi? How 8 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: are you guys? Too? Pretty blond? We're hanging in we 9 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: you know we've been Our motto on here is nothing's 10 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,479 Speaker 1: off limits, so we're just warning you in advance. We 11 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: make lots of friends on our party. Well we called 12 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 1: hashtag making friends. We're called we're called twats. Twats heard 13 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: I heard tamer was like letting me know about the 14 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: twats situation. So I feel like I will become a 15 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: twat today. I'm very so you're one of the twats 16 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 1: and hopefully you won't think that we are a twat 17 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: after we go through our Instagram questions, because I'm totally 18 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 1: fine with it. Hit me with your best shot hit 19 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: before we started. I want I always like to ask 20 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:18,040 Speaker 1: the question like when did you when you got casted, 21 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: Like how did you get casted? Did you have like 22 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: any do you have to audition? Um hesitation? Yeah, we did, 23 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: like a little pasting reel. They demed me on Facebook 24 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:34,279 Speaker 1: and they were just obviously our show was all family, 25 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 1: so it was like a bunch of sister in laws 26 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: to begin with with Tina, Caroline, and Jacqueline. So Teresa 27 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: obviously didn't have her family on the show and they 28 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:47,639 Speaker 1: wanted to get so they had that family, they had Teresa, 29 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 1: so they were like, Okay, we need to find more family. 30 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: I guess that's how they ended up d m ng 31 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 1: me on what At the time, there's no deal. It 32 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:57,559 Speaker 1: was like you know, Facebook message and they just said 33 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: what they're basically still doing now to every I'm like, hey, 34 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: we're a casting agent. We love to talk to you. YadA, YadA, YadA. 35 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: So the casting agents love to slide into the Facebook 36 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: even to this day, Like I had friends like they're like, hey, 37 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: Orange County Casting just I had one just slide into 38 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: my Damn. The casting for Orange County just sent me 39 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:22,639 Speaker 1: like that, I've never gotten one of these guys. Well, 40 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,919 Speaker 1: you probably don't even look at your Facebook. I don't 41 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 1: exactly exactly, no, but that's that's pretty much how it 42 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:31,839 Speaker 1: goes down. I feel like, for Jersey, it's still it's 43 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 1: still happening like that. And then you know, it went 44 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: on to talking to them, interviewing obviously, like you know, 45 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 1: we were perfect for the show for for many different reasons. 46 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:45,399 Speaker 1: And then here we are eleven years later. Oh my god, 47 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: what season did you come in? Season two? Season one 48 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 1: for them was very small. It was only like six episodes. 49 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: It was almost just like a little like, hey, do 50 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 1: you guys like these girls a little taste? Yeah? And 51 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: then season two was like a regular season for them, 52 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:04,639 Speaker 1: and then I came in on season three, and now 53 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 1: that's when the show started. Yeah yeah, I really cry cry, 54 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. That's when it all got 55 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:14,359 Speaker 1: That's when it all went down. So do you think 56 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 1: season one was like when they talk about Miami, Season 57 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 1: one wasn't actually a Housewives season. Do you think Jersey 58 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 1: was the same or than and they just switched it 59 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: into a Housewives or no, No, it was it was 60 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: a Housewives, but they just did like six episodes. It 61 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: was a short little season. I don't know why. I 62 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 1: guess they were just testing the waters and did you 63 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: have any hesitations or your husband have any hesitations because 64 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: Theresa was there and all of that. Yeah, it wasn't 65 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: just about Theresa though, there were so many other things. 66 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: It was opening our world up to this. It was just, 67 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 1: you know, it's it's hard. Like at the time, I 68 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 1: truly was a stay at home mom with like little kids. 69 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: I didn't even have Joey yet. I was like, possibly 70 00:03:56,360 --> 00:04:00,080 Speaker 1: pregnant or this. I think it was pregnant um or no, no, 71 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 1: I think I had just had Joey because Joey was 72 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 1: like two three months old at the first episode. I 73 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 1: was gonna say, I don't remember every seeing you're pregnant 74 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 1: on the show. No, no, no, I was never putting 75 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: on the show. No. So right, So I had just 76 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 1: had Joey. Um. It was just a big decision to make. 77 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: We we kind of didn't know if we want to 78 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:18,839 Speaker 1: open our world up to that. But we always look 79 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: at it like we are true entrepreneurs, So I think 80 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: we look at it like a stepping stone. At the time, 81 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 1: we were like, listen, maybe we can grow a couple 82 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 1: of businesses on here. Maybe we can make this bigger 83 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: than it is I mean, you forget that the show 84 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 1: is centered, especially back in the day, not as much 85 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 1: as it is now. But I feel like back in 86 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: the day, the drama and the producer like bringing on 87 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 1: the drama thing was much more intense than it is now. Now, 88 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 1: I feel like we're on our own a little bit more. 89 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 1: I don't feel like the producers get in there as 90 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:52,720 Speaker 1: much and tell you what to do, where before I 91 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,239 Speaker 1: felt like in the very beginning, I felt very pressured. 92 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:57,160 Speaker 1: The one thing I love about you, and you mentioned 93 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 1: earlier that you're an entrepreneur, and you went into it 94 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 1: looking as you know, what can I get out of 95 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 1: this and what kind of business can I start? All 96 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 1: three of us, which is very rare in the housewife 97 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: world have businesses outside of the actual show, and that 98 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: that will keep you going, because a lot of these 99 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 1: girls they ropped ten, you know, eight, ten, eleven, twelve 100 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 1: whatever years into it, and then when they're done, like 101 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: that money is gone, like it's cut right there, and 102 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: then you're like, what am I gonna do? I have 103 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 1: no career. I'm gonna go work at Nordstrom. Like it's well, 104 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:29,480 Speaker 1: it's because a lot of what they don't talk about 105 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: on these shows. Is how much money you still end 106 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 1: up spending just being on the show. Yeah. Yeah, the parties, 107 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 1: we throw, the clothes, the outfits, the interviews, the flam, 108 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 1: the glare out, the photo shoots. Like a lot of 109 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 1: people don't realize that we don't get a budget for that. 110 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: Like when you see us in a promo dress, like 111 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 1: we that's our dress. Yeah, there's not stylists, like in fact, 112 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 1: like you can't call I mean, I know, we couldn't 113 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 1: in Beverly Hills. Apparently back in the day they could, 114 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 1: but then someone stole something, so now they want to out. 115 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 1: But it's not like you can call Louis Vuitton or 116 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:07,159 Speaker 1: any high end you know brand and say we want 117 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: to listen. I don't know about you, but I can't know. 118 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: But they don't loan stuff. I mean, the only person 119 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 1: that ever loaned me anything was Michael Costello, and he 120 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 1: was like, everybody something my now since I'm not that special, 121 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: but I mean my first season he loaned me. He's 122 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 1: like selling stuff in my house. Here put this on. 123 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: He's great, He's great. Yeah, listen. This is why I 124 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: ended up opening up Envy to be honest with you guys, 125 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 1: because I was wearing a lot of clothes on the 126 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: show that boutiques in my area when they found out 127 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 1: I was a housewife. We're just contacting me constantly, wanting 128 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: to dress me, wanting to throw things at me, and 129 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: I'm wearing their clothes. And then I noticed when I 130 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 1: got on TV, it's like, where'd you get that dress? 131 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:54,040 Speaker 1: Where'd you get that shirt? Where did this come from? 132 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 1: And I'm sending everyone to all of these different boutiques 133 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 1: because everybody wanted whatever I had on And finally, like 134 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 1: a light bulb pop and I'm like, what am I doing? 135 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: I need to have my own boutique and you can 136 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: shop right on and be by MG dot com for 137 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 1: the dress. Yea, I that's where you know, that's where 138 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 1: the business aspect comes in, and that you can utilize 139 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 1: the platform for so many other things. Um, and there's 140 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 1: so many things you can do. Like when I left 141 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: my ex husband, I had no money. I had just 142 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 1: started the show. I literally sold my forever twenty one 143 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 1: clothes on eBay and I'm not joking, like, and sometimes 144 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: I would get four hundred dollars for a shirt, so 145 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: I would literally pay my rent and it was crazy, 146 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 1: and that was way back when when the days of 147 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 1: eBay were huge, and anything I wore it would sell 148 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: for like fifteen times more than when I paid for 149 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: because I don't have fancy stuff. But yeah, just I 150 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: love a good entrepreneur. Beau wore in regards to being 151 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 1: a business owner, but also in regards to being on 152 00:07:56,960 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 1: the show. Do you have any regrets because anything you 153 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 1: would do differently? Um, honestly, no, I have to say no, 154 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 1: because it changed my personal life so much too. It 155 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 1: really did, like things change in my house, and I'm 156 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 1: not saying they were ever bad, but I definitely did 157 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 1: not realize how dependent I was and how much that. 158 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: You know, I knew what I was doing. I got 159 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 1: married out of college, and you know it was I 160 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: was living in you know, a mother. I was a wife, 161 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: but it was like if I needed anything, I had 162 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 1: to ask Joe for it, you know, and if I 163 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 1: wanted a hundred dollar bill or cash, I didn't have it. 164 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 1: I was home with three kids all day. So the 165 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: independence of that, I wouldn't change the independence and just 166 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 1: what it brought business wise, I've always been a worker. 167 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 1: When I met Joe, I had three jobs, so um, 168 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:51,679 Speaker 1: it's just who I am. It's in my blood. I 169 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 1: raised my kids. I did my time for like the 170 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 1: first five years, and then I got on the show 171 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:58,959 Speaker 1: five years after we got married, so it was like 172 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 1: it was just an off to like play house for 173 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 1: five years. But I was starting to get auntsy and 174 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: I wanted something that was for me. I wanted to 175 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: I watched Joe create his buildings and have his dream 176 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 1: and you know, be so proud of everything he's achieving, 177 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:17,319 Speaker 1: and I was clapping for him, I was rooting for him. 178 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 1: But I wanted something that was mine, that like, I 179 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 1: didn't have to ask anyone for. And so I think, 180 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: even if you come for money, if your dad has money, 181 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 1: if your husband has money, whatever, it might be, like, 182 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 1: you want to have your own money, no matter what. 183 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 1: I think that's so important. How is the house coming along? Good? 184 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:37,199 Speaker 1: It's got a lot good. It's a lot of work. 185 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 1: I'm like a savage because I want to do it 186 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 1: all myself. And obviously I can have a decorator come 187 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 1: in and just pick tile and pick this and pick that, 188 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: but I spend more time asking, like doing that with her. 189 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 1: I might as well just do it myself because I 190 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 1: end up just picking everything myself. So I'm basically designing 191 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 1: the whole house by myself. Um, it's it's going good. 192 00:09:56,760 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: COVID is obviously like keep everything on it. Whow like 193 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: everything's double the amount of time and also double the price, right, 194 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 1: So yeah, we could have built this house for like 195 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 1: half the price if we built it three years ago. Um, 196 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 1: but whatever, it is what it is at this point. 197 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:14,200 Speaker 1: So we're just hopefully by this summer we'll be in 198 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: oh good. And then you are openly talking about and 199 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:19,559 Speaker 1: something Tamer and I talked about a lot in regards 200 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 1: to our husbands and stuff like that, like just just 201 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 1: therapy work or what's the best, you know, plan of 202 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:27,679 Speaker 1: attack if we're going through a rough patch. Last year 203 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:29,319 Speaker 1: you talked a little bit about going through a rough 204 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 1: patch with with Joe. What advice would you give to 205 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:37,079 Speaker 1: anybody listening if that's happening to you in your relationship? 206 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 1: Like is it communication? Is it therapy? Is that you know? 207 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 1: Like what was the thing that really shifted things for you? Guys? 208 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 1: We talked about therapy, which I always think therapy is great. 209 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 1: We've never actually done it, Joe and I, We've never 210 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: went down the road for for him and I it 211 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:57,319 Speaker 1: was definitely communication, um like, and I know that sounds 212 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 1: so cliche, but it's true. Like just I think when 213 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 1: you get into a rut of just being like with 214 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 1: each other and just giving each other that attitude, and 215 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 1: it's it's it turns into like a pattern. And I'm 216 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 1: also very impulsive, and I feel like relationships are very impulsive. 217 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 1: So I really think, like when you're fighting with somebody, 218 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 1: you got to wait it out, like let it take 219 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:23,319 Speaker 1: its course. Don't just jump ship right away, like give 220 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 1: it a chance to change. You know, marriage is a 221 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 1: lot of work. It's not easy. We all know this, right, 222 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 1: and it's just relationships in general are a lot of work. 223 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 1: But you can't jump ship because you're feelings. Give it 224 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 1: a month or two. You might fall back in love, 225 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:38,719 Speaker 1: you might change your mind, you might have just been 226 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: going through something, you know, So it's like wait it out. 227 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:44,199 Speaker 1: You can't be impulsive when it comes to like your 228 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 1: deep relationships, especially when there's children involved and there's real 229 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 1: love there, but people are getting jealous or you know, 230 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 1: there's selfish or whatever. It maybe I just feel like 231 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 1: wait it out, like really work through your feelings. I 232 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 1: hate when people just jump ship quick because it's like 233 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 1: it might you might change your mind in a couple 234 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 1: of months, and it might not even have anything to 235 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:07,080 Speaker 1: do with your partner. Sometime I realized, like when Edwin 236 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:08,839 Speaker 1: and I are like in a rough like in a 237 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 1: rough stage, it's like something's going on with work with 238 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 1: one of us or and then you're taking it out 239 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:17,720 Speaker 1: on each other because it's comfortable. And that's where you know, 240 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, you're an easy scapegoat. I can just 241 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 1: pretend that this is what the situation is when really 242 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: you're just not wanting to deal with something in another 243 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:27,199 Speaker 1: aspect of your life. It's true. And when men are 244 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 1: when are like stressed out over money or work or 245 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 1: they change, they do they don't want to have sex. 246 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: They're getting up monsters like you're like, why are you 247 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:41,440 Speaker 1: touching me? Like are you cheating up? Why isn't that 248 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 1: thing working? Like we use it all day long without me? No, 249 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,440 Speaker 1: they're just stressed out. And and I'm speaking from and 250 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: I wish that was the case from my husband ever, 251 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 1: to be honest with you, but I'm talking for a 252 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 1: lot of my girlfriends too, Like for real, it's just 253 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 1: that's a real thing. It's a real thing. It's a 254 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 1: real thing. Stressed out and doesn't you know, everything is 255 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 1: just they're they're they're in their feelings, they're in their 256 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:05,959 Speaker 1: head and they're not that into you at the moment, 257 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 1: and girls bug out sometimes. Um, well, speaking of marriages, 258 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: so you're gonna go there, I have to go there. 259 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 1: I mean, um, what is your thoughts on no prenup 260 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 1: with Louis? I mean, listens, Louisa, Louis. Why did I 261 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 1: just mess this up? Louis? I think it's sorry. I 262 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 1: read Louis too, so that's I'm like, I'm calming. I 263 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 1: think we just can't read tam. Yeah it's Louis. Um 264 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 1: it's spelt like Louis. So in all honesty, listen, I 265 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:39,560 Speaker 1: think where we come from, it's weird. She actually did 266 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: have a pre nump with Joe judaicce um, but I 267 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,959 Speaker 1: don't know. I I don't have a pre nump as well, 268 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 1: and either you know, Joe and I don't have pre ums. 269 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 1: But do you think if you got married right now, 270 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 1: if you and Joe Ja, do you think you would 271 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 1: have a pre nup? Yes? I think right now as 272 00:13:57,200 --> 00:14:00,079 Speaker 1: a full blown adult, yes, you know, when I is 273 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:02,960 Speaker 1: getting married at twenty four, and I think tersa the 274 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 1: first time was like seven or something. Maybe you don't 275 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 1: think that way, but right now what I yes? Will 276 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 1: you tell her? Has anybody said anything to her? Would 277 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 1: anybody like confront Teresa and say like maybe you should 278 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 1: rethink this? Yeah? I feel like we definitely give our opinion, 279 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 1: but sometimes it's better to just say, you're also a 280 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 1: grown adult, you as you wish. Um, I've learned even 281 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:32,880 Speaker 1: though you're making a mistake. Yeah, but like through the years, 282 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 1: I've learned to keep my mouth shut. Um, she's a 283 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 1: grown adult at this point. And so whenever they decide 284 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 1: and whatever works for her, I want her to stay 285 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 1: happy in her little love bubble. Yeah, and sometimes you 286 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 1: gotta step back, Yes, like you really do. It's none 287 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: of my business at this point. Yes, we care and 288 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 1: we worry, and um, she you know, ultimately gets up 289 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 1: to them whatever they decide. Now, the video, the drund 290 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 1: In video that one's talking about, Um, I don't think 291 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 1: it's that bad. Am I missing something? No? I think 292 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 1: he's just he's apologizing to someone. Obviously, do we know 293 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: that what year the video happened? That I don't know. 294 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 1: I have no idea because to me, that's what annoyed 295 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:25,320 Speaker 1: me versus like this is recent. I believe it was 296 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 1: like a year or six months before he had met her. 297 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 1: I honestly, I'm not confirmed, but I believe it was 298 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 1: like right before. Ye get it. Okay, well, let's take 299 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 1: a little bit a little break and we'll come back 300 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 1: and do some of our Instagram questions. Those were just 301 00:15:46,000 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 1: our so sorry, we'll be quick. Okay, Um back with 302 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 1: Melissa Gorga, my girl Tam. We are getting to your 303 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:10,120 Speaker 1: Instagram questions on the twats Um we already covered one. 304 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 1: I guess we couldn't have ourselves. That's everybody's questions. Everybody 305 00:16:13,680 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 1: wanted to know about the prenup. That was the most 306 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 1: asked question. The second most asked question was did you 307 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 1: go to Milannia's Sweet sixteen? No, it was for kids 308 00:16:22,520 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 1: only there you go. It was just she just had 309 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 1: like like her close, you know, the sixteen year olds 310 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 1: were there. Yeah. This one, I don't know if you 311 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 1: can even answer this because it's on your current season, 312 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 1: but have things gotten better between Joe and Gia? Answer? Yeah, 313 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 1: I figured you know how to go stay. Yeah, you can't. 314 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 1: We don't want you to blow anything. We don't probably 315 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 1: you are season I'm not really able to speak of. Yeah, no, 316 00:16:55,200 --> 00:17:01,280 Speaker 1: I I totally understand that. Alright, alright, let's see find Yeah, 317 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 1: let's see if we can find a question. Because can 318 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:06,879 Speaker 1: I ask you, brother? Were you so? Are you so 319 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 1: happy to be back home? I can tell you this much. 320 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Beverly Hills was five million times easier 321 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:20,680 Speaker 1: than big brother Melissa? Would you do it? I don't know. 322 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 1: I feel anxiety just like thinking about it. Have you 323 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:28,120 Speaker 1: watched it? I mean I really have never sat down 324 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:30,639 Speaker 1: and watched a full season. So it's like everyone is 325 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 1: trying to be the last person in the house. Is 326 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:35,120 Speaker 1: that how it goes? Yeah? I mean but here's the thing. 327 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:37,919 Speaker 1: So the part that was really hard for me, and 328 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 1: I know it would be hard for you as well. 329 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:42,400 Speaker 1: Is everything in my life, Like if you work really 330 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 1: hard and you're good at something, you're gonna be rewarded 331 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:49,679 Speaker 1: for it, right right, Like you know you you have 332 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 1: a great music video, people are going to download it, 333 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:55,520 Speaker 1: like any of those types of things. Um, you are 334 00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:58,439 Speaker 1: punished for doing well. So like I did well in 335 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 1: the first competition and then I became the biggest threat 336 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 1: and then they decide they don't want to keep you on. However, 337 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:08,120 Speaker 1: how can you knowing your because it's a family show. 338 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:10,119 Speaker 1: It's not like Housewives where your kids don't watch it. 339 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 1: How can you go in and be like, wow, I'm 340 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:16,920 Speaker 1: gonna throw it? Yeah, like it was, I couldn't do that. 341 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 1: Well you yeah, Well, here's the thing. If it's all 342 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:23,640 Speaker 1: about getting out the highest, it's almost like survivor, right, 343 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:27,639 Speaker 1: you want to get out whoever you think is gonna win. No. Yes, 344 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 1: but there's a social game and there's a physical game. 345 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:33,240 Speaker 1: But you are a threat, Teddy. I think you're a 346 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: complete threat. But I mean it definitely was went up 347 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 1: against the UFC fighter chick. Yeah, I mean it was. No, 348 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:44,880 Speaker 1: we haven't. Oh no, you hold onto champagne bottles and 349 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:49,560 Speaker 1: hanging spended and then you're in stirrups and then they 350 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:54,440 Speaker 1: throw first it's gold caviar, then it's cheetos, then it's glitter. 351 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 1: Then they move it around like it is complete insanity. 352 00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:02,199 Speaker 1: Then you go into the else. You have no phone, 353 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 1: no nothing, no contact with your family. The only thing 354 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:07,680 Speaker 1: that you're told is if something goes wrong in your life, 355 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:09,879 Speaker 1: that's like will ruin your life, will let you know. 356 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 1: But that doesn't that it's it, so hold on. You 357 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 1: literally have to put the phone like there's zero phone 358 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 1: for how long well I was in Well, I was 359 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 1: in quarantine for seven days where I was allowed to 360 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 1: have the phone in quarantine. That's not that big. But 361 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 1: that's before I knew who was on Big Brother. But 362 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: I was in the Big Brother house. I left on 363 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:31,280 Speaker 1: my eleventh night with no phone. No no, no, no, no, 364 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 1: no no. So eleven days you did not speak to 365 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 1: one human outside of that house. Correct asked me again 366 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 1: if I would ever do this time at the freaking 367 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:47,960 Speaker 1: not unless they paid you five mil right, And he's like, 368 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 1: there's no way you're doing that. Ever. You have a 369 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 1: favorite in the house, Carson Presley is so hilarious like him, 370 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:59,679 Speaker 1: I love him, crying laughing. Cynthia Bailey was you know, 371 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:01,399 Speaker 1: I hold her directly. I'm like, when I watched you 372 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 1: on Girls Trip, I was a little worried when I 373 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 1: saw you when I first walked in. But she was 374 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 1: really great because here's a little Debbie Downer. For some 375 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 1: reason on the Girl's Trip, she was just not in 376 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:15,240 Speaker 1: her elements. Something like must have struck her the wrong 377 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 1: way when we got there, like she wasn't feeling comfortable 378 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:22,719 Speaker 1: or she felt everyone else was kind of like grouping up. 379 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:25,320 Speaker 1: I don't know what it was, but something she got 380 00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 1: in her head, something she got, you know, she and 381 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 1: she didn't see herself. I meant back, I think, I 382 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 1: mean I wasn't there, but like watching it, it looked 383 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:36,159 Speaker 1: like she thought she was going to go in and 384 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:38,640 Speaker 1: be best friends with Kenya. And then Kenya like got 385 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 1: along really well with you and Kyle, and then you 386 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 1: could tell she got in her head about it. And 387 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: then once you get in your head and there's cameras there, 388 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:47,000 Speaker 1: it's really hard to get out of it. It is. 389 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:49,719 Speaker 1: It is because you're in that funk and you're in 390 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,520 Speaker 1: that mode and you feel like everyone's against you, and 391 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 1: like did the producers do this? Are they making her 392 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:57,120 Speaker 1: do that? Like you overthink it and I think that's 393 00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:59,640 Speaker 1: like totally what happened to her on the Girl's Trip. 394 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 1: But she was I mean, she came in and she 395 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 1: was really like like I took care of all of us, 396 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:08,399 Speaker 1: Like she cooked for us every day, Like she was 397 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:10,880 Speaker 1: really nice, and like I was like waiting for her 398 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:12,640 Speaker 1: to like throw it in her face after what I want, 399 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 1: and she never did. Like she was funny, she was nice. 400 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 1: She didn't like any time that I actually got to 401 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 1: like have my makeup on, she would do my eyelashes 402 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:24,119 Speaker 1: like she was really, Oh, is that why your eyelashes 403 00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:29,399 Speaker 1: look good on the way out? Yeah, so she was 404 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 1: she can't put her own eyelashes on. Well, it would 405 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:35,080 Speaker 1: stress me out to be in that house and know 406 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 1: that I wanted to do good. But doing good would 407 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:41,679 Speaker 1: I would be pretty would be really stressful for me, 408 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 1: Like I wouldn't know how to handle that. I also 409 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 1: want you to you guys, to imagine housewife confessional, but 410 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:50,280 Speaker 1: at three in the morning, after you've already been asleep 411 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 1: for two hours, just they're gonna go, uh, there's because 412 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 1: also it's not a human that talks to you. It's 413 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,879 Speaker 1: a button that's like celebrity big brother button that was 414 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: like a trip dud d. I need you to go 415 00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:07,200 Speaker 1: to the diary room downstairs, and I'd feel like huh 416 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 1: and the three in the time for your interview and 417 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 1: you like go up, like there's one interview that's everywhere. 418 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:14,480 Speaker 1: I have my hair on my head, no bra and 419 00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:18,640 Speaker 1: a wife beater, and I'm like this, I don't know that. 420 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:22,639 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not gonna The Girl's Trip for 421 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:26,120 Speaker 1: me was like dramatic because it was twenty four seven 422 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,560 Speaker 1: mics and cameras. You couldn't get away from them like 423 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 1: you can ask Kyle. We felt violated, like in every 424 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:35,640 Speaker 1: aspect they were there in the shower, they were there 425 00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:41,520 Speaker 1: like constantly, So we definitely felt like, holy crap, like 426 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:53,879 Speaker 1: I couldn't even imagine. I found a couple of questions 427 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 1: that you might be able to answer. Okay, Um, who 428 00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:59,439 Speaker 1: do you have the most fun with out of the 429 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:08,600 Speaker 1: cast the most fun with? I would say, Um, it's 430 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:13,879 Speaker 1: a tough one. I mean, would be nobody shade, Um, No, 431 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:15,720 Speaker 1: I you know what, I do A lot of events 432 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 1: with Margaret, I would say, Margaret and I had have 433 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 1: had a lot of fun like girls nights, and we've 434 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 1: definitely had I would say, Margaret. Well, that brings us 435 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:27,479 Speaker 1: to the next listener question, why are you so loyal 436 00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:32,040 Speaker 1: to Margaret? It's not about being loyal, it's just about listen. 437 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:35,199 Speaker 1: She hasn't done anything to hurt me. He is not 438 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 1: an evil person. She's a good person. A lot of 439 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 1: the things that she does says a lot of the 440 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:44,159 Speaker 1: questions that she has is truly out of concern. I 441 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 1: feel like she's a little bit more experienced than the 442 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:49,080 Speaker 1: rest of us. She's been married a couple of times. 443 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:51,239 Speaker 1: She's a little older than the rest of us. Like, 444 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:54,679 Speaker 1: I feel like she is truly Um you know, I 445 00:23:54,720 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 1: call her dynasty because she's the world's perfect housewife. She's like, ah, 446 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 1: like she inserts her evil laugh and she you know, 447 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 1: but she's Chattie Cathy. She's that woman that's like she 448 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 1: wakes up in the morning, she has her coffee and 449 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 1: she's ready to chat. Do you know what I mean? 450 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 1: She knows everything, so she phone calls, not texts. Yes, 451 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 1: she must be old. She knows me by now. She 452 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:25,720 Speaker 1: knows Like with me, it's like I don't talk on 453 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:27,600 Speaker 1: the phone as much as you do. I love you 454 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 1: to death, but like, don't call me. Don't call me 455 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:34,320 Speaker 1: unless somebody, unless you've got really good but it just 456 00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:38,439 Speaker 1: text me there. So does anybody talk to Caroline anymore? 457 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 1: Man's how Yeah? Um, not really. I I just filmed 458 00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,159 Speaker 1: I found a small little TV thing with her not 459 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 1: long ago. Yeah. She's doing great. She's doing great. I 460 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 1: love her, I love her family. I think she's awesome. 461 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 1: And then uh, I just saw Jennifer's post. But there's 462 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:02,680 Speaker 1: a lot of talk about the nose job. Jennifer has 463 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:05,679 Speaker 1: it settled. I know you can't talk about this season, 464 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:07,679 Speaker 1: but what are your thoughts on it? And what if 465 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:09,919 Speaker 1: your husband was a plastic surgeon, would you ever not 466 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:11,919 Speaker 1: go to him? I don't think she should have went 467 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:13,399 Speaker 1: to Turkey. I mean, first of all, I thought it 468 00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:17,360 Speaker 1: was a little duh. I mean, your husband's a plastic surgeon, 469 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,919 Speaker 1: So even if you don't want him, okay to do 470 00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:24,639 Speaker 1: your nose. I am sure he has some great plastic 471 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:30,719 Speaker 1: surgeon friends that he knows that are highly recommended, that 472 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 1: are in his circle of surgeons, Like, why are we 473 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 1: flying to Turkey? And I've I've said this to her. 474 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:40,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't think that was the best decision obviously. 475 00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 1: They kind of like, you know, they scooped it out 476 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,720 Speaker 1: too much on her and and you can't repair that, right, 477 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,639 Speaker 1: You can't. You can't go back forwards, can you. She 478 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,400 Speaker 1: did the chin thing too, which didn't work out for her. 479 00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 1: It's just you know, she had it just didn't work out. Whatever. 480 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 1: She went to go here, he knows it was perfect 481 00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 1: before I thought, no, she's a beautiful and I personally 482 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:04,040 Speaker 1: liked how she looked, you know before. But it is 483 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:07,040 Speaker 1: getting it's getting better. I guess it's like maybe the 484 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: swelling is going down. It takes you know, nose jobs 485 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:13,160 Speaker 1: don't fully come full circle for like a full year too, 486 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,399 Speaker 1: so it's getting a little better. When I saw her 487 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 1: last it wasn't as dramatic. I think when she was 488 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 1: filming it was like the first month. I don't care 489 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:23,479 Speaker 1: how long it's gonna take. It's never gonna look good. 490 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 1: I said it. Sorry, I'm putting out there. I mean, 491 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 1: I suggest you for a little filler filler. Yeah, she's 492 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:31,359 Speaker 1: gonna have to She's gonna have to build that bridge 493 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 1: back up because it looks like exact from what I heard. 494 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,840 Speaker 1: She wanted to go um to one of my doctors 495 00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 1: that I used and checked to have her have her 496 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:47,200 Speaker 1: maybe fix it supposedly. So let me I think that 497 00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 1: she was she was great before and she really didn't 498 00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:55,320 Speaker 1: need it. It's unfortunate. Okay, do you next question? Do 499 00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:59,359 Speaker 1: you watch Beverly Hills and OC or have you I 500 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:03,400 Speaker 1: watched my Really Hills? Um? I watched last season? Yes, 501 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:07,920 Speaker 1: oh see, I'm guilty. I do not okay, So I'll 502 00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:11,000 Speaker 1: only ask you in regards to Beverly Hills, Um, who 503 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:14,439 Speaker 1: other than Kyle, who do you think you'd get along 504 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:21,159 Speaker 1: best with on Beverly Hills Um on Beverly Hills currently, Like, 505 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 1: if I were on the show, who do I feel 506 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,880 Speaker 1: like would be like my girl? Besides, but you can't 507 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:30,959 Speaker 1: do Kyle, Yeah, believe it or not. I feel like, well, 508 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,159 Speaker 1: I'm also friends with Erica, so I feel like I 509 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 1: want to say Erica, but I also want to say 510 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 1: Lisa Rerenna and I would just be like the party 511 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 1: chicks and we would have so much fun and we 512 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:43,160 Speaker 1: would be so goofy together. So I think I'm gonna 513 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 1: say Lisa Wrenna or possibly Erica. Erica has a chill though, 514 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:48,880 Speaker 1: so like Eric and I. Eric and I love each other, 515 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 1: like I love her, bunch of events with her. She's 516 00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: super cool, love her, but she's very chill. So I 517 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:55,919 Speaker 1: think a lot of people would meet Erica or like 518 00:27:56,000 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 1: see her persona on Instagram and like the show, Like 519 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,520 Speaker 1: you know, she's a queen, right, She's like a queen 520 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:07,320 Speaker 1: be type things. So laid back. He is so laid 521 00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:11,120 Speaker 1: back like she has She talks chill, she talks like 522 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,000 Speaker 1: she's very late back. She is not a party girl 523 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:17,520 Speaker 1: at all. So do I think I'd probably end up 524 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 1: party with Lisa Renna? That's what I think would happen 525 00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 1: to me. And who do you think would do the 526 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:28,520 Speaker 1: best on if they were to come to Jersey? Oh? Um, 527 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,480 Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean I want to say Lisa again, 528 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 1: because she's loud and says it like it is and 529 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 1: like she could totally hang with us, because you know, 530 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 1: I think she could totally do it. Yeah, And I 531 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 1: feel like it's our one of our last questions. But 532 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:47,240 Speaker 1: are you going to do any more songs? Everybody wants 533 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 1: to know when the next when the next one's coming out? 534 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 1: Are you going to do another one? What's planning? No? 535 00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 1: I don't think so, I mean, never say never. But 536 00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 1: and if I did, it would be for fun. I 537 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 1: always said if I ever did another song, I would 538 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 1: want it to be like like a fun which I 539 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,600 Speaker 1: think Luanne just did this, but like a fun like 540 00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 1: Christmas song or like something fun like. I don't take 541 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 1: it seriously, guys, it was, I will say at the time. 542 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,440 Speaker 1: I still think the songs are really good. Every time 543 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 1: I listen I'm like, my ship is good, like they're good. 544 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,440 Speaker 1: But like you know, that's such a hard, hard business, 545 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 1: especially coming from a housewife. Nobody wants to hear. Hey, 546 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:27,120 Speaker 1: I'm a housewife and I can sing. It's now actually, 547 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:31,240 Speaker 1: like you know, it's a it's like a funny thing obviously, Um, 548 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,840 Speaker 1: but Jennifer Lope has asked you to do a song 549 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:39,520 Speaker 1: with her. I don't know. If the Queen herself asked 550 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 1: me for something, then she shall receive. Let me consider 551 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 1: it much? How much? Um? It was funny. I actually 552 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,640 Speaker 1: was out to dinner with Christina Aguilera once and she 553 00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:55,239 Speaker 1: was like, I love your music. You need to make 554 00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 1: another song, you need to sing more like you are great. 555 00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 1: And she was like just looking at me, and I'm 556 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:04,959 Speaker 1: like maybe serious, Like I just kept looking at her 557 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,200 Speaker 1: in her eyes, but like she's like, I'm serious, Like 558 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 1: why are you stopping. I'm like, girl, when you get 559 00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 1: on a track with me, that's when you are you 560 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,400 Speaker 1: ready for I'm like, no, how serious are you about 561 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:19,000 Speaker 1: what you're saying? So you know, the rumor is gonna 562 00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:22,440 Speaker 1: be Melissa Gorga says she's doing a track with Christina 563 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:28,880 Speaker 1: Aguilera that's will be the backup dancer. Yeah, and Tamers 564 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 1: the backup dancer exactly like our Fiber one commercial. That 565 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:34,960 Speaker 1: was one of the great guys, That was one of 566 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 1: the great Well, Melissa, we appreciate you doing on so much. 567 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:44,200 Speaker 1: You guys have to listen to her podcast, Melissa Gorga 568 00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 1: on Display. We we appreciate you, we love you, and 569 00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:51,320 Speaker 1: we cannot wait for this season. It's already so good. Yes, 570 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 1: it's good. It's good, So keep watching. It's so good 571 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 1: to see you guys. Can you tease anything for us? 572 00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 1: Is there anything like you want to give us? Alert 573 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 1: us on too so that we keep watching? Yeah, definitely. 574 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 1: I just feel like it's it's definitely one of those 575 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:07,640 Speaker 1: seasons that's going to remind you of the beginning. We 576 00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:10,120 Speaker 1: definitely throw a lot. There's a lot of violence there, 577 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:14,200 Speaker 1: which no, I don't like that as much. But it's 578 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:19,000 Speaker 1: definitely one of those crazy, like knockdown type seasons. We 579 00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:21,239 Speaker 1: have some of those and sometimes we don't, but this 580 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 1: is definitely one of those. And it's huge on like relationships, 581 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 1: huge relationships season. They dig into everyone's relationships. So it's 582 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:34,480 Speaker 1: great season. More family coming at you from Jersey, So 583 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:38,320 Speaker 1: we love it. Thanks for us entertained. Of course, thank 584 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 1: you guys. It's so good, Thank god to see you. Okay, 585 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 1: bye bye, She's so sweet. That was so fun with Melissa. 586 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 1: Don't forget jerseys on Tuesdays.