WEBVTT - Remain Calm ( Jay Shetty Interview)

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you get voice to people that would be voiceless.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, your show has the post of the culture. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone smells successful for y'all that now. Ain't nobody saying

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<v Speaker 1>I don't stop for the team. It's a breakfast club. Wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>your podcasts up. Good morning Usa yo yo yo yo

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<v Speaker 1>yo yo Good morning, and jolo ye Good morning. Djam

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<v Speaker 1>vy Cholomagne the cot he stood up playing this Thursday

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<v Speaker 1>good morning. How are y'all feeling out there? I am blessed,

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<v Speaker 1>black and holly favored. What's happening? Just gotta make it

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<v Speaker 1>through the day. Take a deep breath for all of

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<v Speaker 1>those who can't. Why you just gotta make it through day.

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<v Speaker 1>It's only six o'clock in the morning and they just thought. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I left my current in the city all night last

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<v Speaker 1>night because I went to go to Donna l Rawlings

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<v Speaker 1>podcast yesterday. Then we went to some place in the

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<v Speaker 1>city called Zero Bond. It's like some members only club,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's really nice. I've never even heard of it before.

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<v Speaker 1>Then we went to Brooklyn to Negrille. They have a

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<v Speaker 1>live band every Thursday night and that was my night.

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<v Speaker 1>But there you too, Mixie, are you mix well? Done

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<v Speaker 1>is in town? It's a random Wednesday, both of y'all

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<v Speaker 1>too mixee. Well, he was doing his podcast. Every time

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<v Speaker 1>Danielle comes here. He always wants to like then after

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<v Speaker 1>that we can go to dinner. After we can do this.

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<v Speaker 1>He has a whole plan. Did you call with test? Angela?

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<v Speaker 1>You went done the hell better at y'all age? Man,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta wait three more days to test me? Because days,

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<v Speaker 1>but then I already had COVID like ten times, so

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<v Speaker 1>not you not haveing donell will be on the show tomorrow. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>be at Caroline's all weekend. Don't you passed that COVID test?

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't got time to be that mixing. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>like being at um Okay. I realized what the hour was,

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<v Speaker 1>nine to five? Me, all right, those are my workouts

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<v Speaker 1>after that? Then, you know, I gotta I gotta have

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<v Speaker 1>my personal time. You don't go to dinner with friends ever.

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<v Speaker 1>I got a family weekend. Yeah, and rarely on the weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>And if it is, they'll come to the house or

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go to their house, Like I got four kids,

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<v Speaker 1>that is my dinner with friends at night. I don't think.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know the last time I went to a

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant in New York City. Man, Wow, not much in

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<v Speaker 1>your bill will be hide in mine. You got nineteen children,

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<v Speaker 1>then we're friends. I just you know, especially since COVID,

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<v Speaker 1>we just really haven't been out like that. So wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>You are always traveling? Yeah, but that's for work. But

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<v Speaker 1>for pleasure, I just chill up the crib. What is

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<v Speaker 1>the last time I've been to a restaurant. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>good point. I haven't been in a long time, Not

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<v Speaker 1>in America, not in America, in America. And I will

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<v Speaker 1>say I've always been really intentional on supporting a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of the black owned restaurants, especially in Brooklyn, because I

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<v Speaker 1>know places have had a really tough time and business

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<v Speaker 1>has dropped since all these vaccination requirements in order to

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<v Speaker 1>even go in. So I always make sure I support

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<v Speaker 1>the grill Tillies. All my spots in Brooklyn swayed footprints everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Excuse you gotta use to be mixing? No I do.

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<v Speaker 1>And even when restaurants weren't open, I was ordering from

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<v Speaker 1>all these places on Uber eats and giving extra tips

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<v Speaker 1>because they need our they do need our support. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna sleep. Did you get last night like three hours? Lord,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not good, It's not healthy. That's just simply not

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<v Speaker 1>Up's one night listen. I got Ja Shetty will be

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<v Speaker 1>here to day drop on a clue box with Jay Shetty.

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<v Speaker 1>He's the host of the Hard Perfect podcast. I love

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<v Speaker 1>Ja Shetty. I follow J Shetty a lot. Uh. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>he's got a book out call Think like a Monk,

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<v Speaker 1>and he always says, you gotta get sleep between the

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<v Speaker 1>hours of ten PM in midnight because that's when the harmonies. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to be in bed by if you're not

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<v Speaker 1>sleeping between those two hours, because most most of your

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<v Speaker 1>HGH is dispressed in your body between those two hours. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I was thinking, too weird. When I

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<v Speaker 1>go out of town, I go out to eat because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm usually at a hotel. When I'm home, I'm usually

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<v Speaker 1>I'm usually doing corny stuff with the kids, playing games,

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<v Speaker 1>corny being a dad. I didn't enjoy myself and I

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<v Speaker 1>love that now Now I don't live here, And if

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<v Speaker 1>he's in town and wants to go to dinner. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going playing Hungry Hungry Hippo, and I'm gonna go see

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<v Speaker 1>him at Caroline's this weekend. That's the life I'm trying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm tired of Elsa, though, Elsa gotta go. You're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go to Caroline and Nothing because you don't go

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<v Speaker 1>out in New York. I was gonna go see now,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all about the nanny. A huge storm is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be hit in New York City this weekend. But I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to see Don. Saturday said Friday night, yes, like overnight. Sure, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought he said Friday like eight. I said Friday

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<v Speaker 1>overnight into Saturday morning. Weather. We all enjoy different things. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm God bless. All right, well let's get the show

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<v Speaker 1>cracking front page news. What are we talking about, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you are going to talk about Joe Biden. Over eighty

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<v Speaker 1>lawmakers want him to release a memo outlining his authority

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<v Speaker 1>on student debt cancelation. All right, we'll get into that next.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the breakfast Club. Good morning. Yeah, I might. I

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<v Speaker 1>might go see Don now if the weather's good and

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta need a babysitter. No, I got older kids.

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<v Speaker 1>The older kids that. Oh yeah, for god, damn, you

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<v Speaker 1>do got old? That's what that? Oh that's a blessing.

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<v Speaker 1>But they think they're gonna live rep free. Oh that's

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<v Speaker 1>a blessing, school for free. I can't wait for that.

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<v Speaker 1>In fin, he got a babysit. Oh that's a blessing,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Right, let's get got a young young one

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<v Speaker 1>eating the new one. She's in college. Yes, I don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't want to do that to madage. Manage might

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<v Speaker 1>want to enjoy her weekend. Do that's not every weekend,

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<v Speaker 1>but every once in a while. Look, how do you

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<v Speaker 1>think that that that colleague gonna get paidful? Now, don't

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<v Speaker 1>you have a nanny? Yes? Oh so she good? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well let's get into front page news where

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<v Speaker 1>we started. More than eighty lawmakers in the House and

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<v Speaker 1>the Senate went President Biden to publicly release information on

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<v Speaker 1>his legal authority to cancel student loan debt. Now, in

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<v Speaker 1>the letter, they want him to direct the Department of

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<v Speaker 1>Education to publicly release a memo that they ordered last

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<v Speaker 1>year outlining the president's authority to cancel those loans. And

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<v Speaker 1>they also want him to use all the tools at

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<v Speaker 1>his disposal to deliver relief to the millions of families

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<v Speaker 1>inspired by the proposal to make a debt free college

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<v Speaker 1>degree within their reach by a limiting up to fifty

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars in federal student loan debt for all families

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<v Speaker 1>before payments resumed. Now, since his campaign, he has called

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<v Speaker 1>for a minimum of ten thousand dollars in federal student

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<v Speaker 1>loans to be canceled per borrower, and he is willing

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<v Speaker 1>to go as high as well. He's pushing back on

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<v Speaker 1>calls from Democrats they want him to go as high

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<v Speaker 1>as fifty thousand dollars or to wipe out federal student

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<v Speaker 1>loan debt entirely. They did say they've canceled fifteen billion

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<v Speaker 1>dollars in student loan debt during his first year in office,

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<v Speaker 1>and they released a press release from the Department of

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<v Speaker 1>Education stating that now is that state college, community college,

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<v Speaker 1>private college, or that's all colleges. I think those are

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<v Speaker 1>the loans have to be, don't they have to be

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<v Speaker 1>like a federal loans. I have no yeah, I have

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<v Speaker 1>no idea what that means, but it sounds like they

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<v Speaker 1>just want to know what it is he can or

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<v Speaker 1>can't do because of the campaign promise that he made

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<v Speaker 1>when he pledged to cancel at least ten thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 1>a student debt per person, which he has reniged on.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if they could figure out a way to

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<v Speaker 1>wipe out student loans, that would be amazing. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I think, well, not you, Charlagne, But when you got it,

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<v Speaker 1>when we all got out of college and we had

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<v Speaker 1>to start paying that loan, it was tougher from I

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<v Speaker 1>want my money back, Well, we're not gonna get that

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<v Speaker 1>money back e. But it was difficult. You know, you

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<v Speaker 1>had to get a job, you had to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you could pay as so a lot of times you

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<v Speaker 1>can't start your career because you have to start paying

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<v Speaker 1>them college loans. You know. After a while, I remember

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<v Speaker 1>we had the Secretary of Education up him and we

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<v Speaker 1>was asking them what happened to the you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>student loans that the ten thousand dollars I was supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to go to each person. And he started talking to

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<v Speaker 1>us about all of the student loans that that they

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<v Speaker 1>got people with disabilities out of and everything else. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's great, but what about the campaign promise or the

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<v Speaker 1>ten thousand dollars per student? You know, for whatever reason

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<v Speaker 1>they keep ducking that question. So it sounds to me

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<v Speaker 1>like the lawmakers just want to know what it is

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<v Speaker 1>they can or can't do. And let me ask you this.

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<v Speaker 1>If they cancer that, so no one pays it, like

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<v Speaker 1>the money doesn't come from anywhere, and what happens like

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<v Speaker 1>the government takes care of it. Yeah, I'm just how

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<v Speaker 1>does that because university still gotta get paid some house somewhere. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>when somebody give me a check and tell me that

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<v Speaker 1>the debt is free, I don't care about where they

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<v Speaker 1>got the money from it. I'm just curious, how does

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<v Speaker 1>that work? Yeah, it's probably all taxpayer of dollars, more

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<v Speaker 1>than likely. Now. Joe Biden is also standing by his

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<v Speaker 1>campaign promise to nominate a black woman to the Supreme Court.

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<v Speaker 1>They just announced that Justice Stephen Briars set to retire

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of this current term, and so, according

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<v Speaker 1>to Jansaki, the White House Press secretary, that is going

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<v Speaker 1>to happen. There was too they played it from me earlier.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what happened. He got it hypothetically, but

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<v Speaker 1>Supreme Court justice was to retire and announce it on

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<v Speaker 1>his or her own terms. Does President Biden plan to

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<v Speaker 1>honor his pledge to nominate a black woman to the Court. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I've commented on this previously. The President has stated and

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<v Speaker 1>reiterated his commitment to nominating a black woman to the

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<v Speaker 1>Supreme Court and certainly stands by that um for today. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just not going to be able to say anything

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<v Speaker 1>about any specifics until, of course, Justice Briar makes any announcement,

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<v Speaker 1>should he decide to make an announcement. That's a campaign

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<v Speaker 1>promise he has to keep because he made that. The

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<v Speaker 1>you know, OG black elected officials in the Democratic Party

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<v Speaker 1>like that already have a likely replacement too. Who's that, um,

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<v Speaker 1>Judge Katangi Brown Jackson, a Harvard trained jurist who sits

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<v Speaker 1>on the same DC Circuit Court that was home to

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<v Speaker 1>Brett Cavanaugh before he was nominated to the Supreme Court.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know in the court there's only been two

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<v Speaker 1>black justices Thirdgood Marshall and Clarence Thomas. That black woman

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<v Speaker 1>has never been nominated to the Supreme Court, let alone confirmed. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was that was That was a campaign promise that

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<v Speaker 1>he made to a lot of og black elected officials.

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<v Speaker 1>They were like, yo, we're not endorsing you if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't you know promise promised to give us a black

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<v Speaker 1>woman on the Supreme Court. One black elected official in

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<v Speaker 1>particular who really turned the tide. His name was OLDG.

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<v Speaker 1>Jim Clapburn and Jim Claiburn. Well, they said he stands

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<v Speaker 1>by it so good. That is your front page news.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, get it all few chips. Eight on drink

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<v Speaker 1>five eight five one oh five one. If you're upset,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to vent. Phone lines a wide open again.

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<v Speaker 1>Eight on drink five eight five one oh five one

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<v Speaker 1>is to Breakfast Club. Good morning the Breakfast Club. Wake up,

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<v Speaker 1>wake up, wake y'all. Ask you're trying to get it

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<v Speaker 1>off your chests. We want to hear from you on

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<v Speaker 1>the Reckless Lust. Hello. Who's that hi challenge? Good morning? Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning. Hi. I'm actually just going to give you

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<v Speaker 1>guys a shout out. I've been trying to call you

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<v Speaker 1>guys for a year now, so I'm happy I finally

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<v Speaker 1>got through it. I just got married to my best friend. Congratulations, queen,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much. Dj MB. I want to say

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<v Speaker 1>that I watched your interview with Mano and you told

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<v Speaker 1>the woman on there something about and she how much

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<v Speaker 1>she paid for her outfit and if she was to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, devote that to buying sneakers or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It was some lesson you gat at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the interview, and that inspired me to start my own business. Great.

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<v Speaker 1>So now I'm a boutique on. I want to shout

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<v Speaker 1>out my bootique. I want you guys just look into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Angeline you there, yes, ma'am, can you look at my bootique? Please?

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<v Speaker 1>What is it? So? My Instagram name is silent fa

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<v Speaker 1>l e n b a U b au ci queu ot.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wait sa l e n dot. Oh you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't say that, Okay, Sorry, trying to find your girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I just mentioned you in your DM, so go all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I go look for that. Okay. Oh yeah, I remember

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<v Speaker 1>what I told you that. I think the lady, the

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<v Speaker 1>co host with Mano, I think she had like a

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand dollar outfit on and she said she she

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<v Speaker 1>was saving to invest and I was like, well, how

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<v Speaker 1>can you be saving the investment You got a two

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollar outfit on And I was like, you should

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<v Speaker 1>take that money that you spent on that and put

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<v Speaker 1>it into different things that could make you a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of money instead of her to put it into

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<v Speaker 1>sneakers and I was like, oh, I can't wait in

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<v Speaker 1>those lines, and you was like, wow, the same money

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<v Speaker 1>that you used to being here, you can pay somebody

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<v Speaker 1>to wait on those lines or whatever. Whatever. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a good lesson. Everybody who hasn't watched that yet definitely

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<v Speaker 1>watched that interview was pretty good. Shot the Mano. He

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<v Speaker 1>has Kitchen Talk. His podcast is Kitchen Talk. Definitely check

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<v Speaker 1>out the brother Manolo. And thank you for calling Mama

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<v Speaker 1>of course, and DELI check out my boutique. Please. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to find a girl, all right, but you

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<v Speaker 1>ain't got nothing for me. And Charlottage at your women

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<v Speaker 1>and woman. Yeah, sorry, your wife's been looking through it though.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, so I'll definitely check it out. Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>Ever going? All right? Hello, who's this was going on? Charlotte?

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<v Speaker 1>This is a sad from New York City, but I

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<v Speaker 1>live in Atlanta, King you know, I'm black man, what's

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<v Speaker 1>I'm envy and I'm angela little good morning everybody. Gil

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<v Speaker 1>to do my second time pulling, and I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>a regular Okay, welcome, well, thank you, thank you. What

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get off my chest is my cousins.

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<v Speaker 1>They they they've been cursing me out because me and

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<v Speaker 1>one of their sisters got in a little altercation and

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<v Speaker 1>they just took it a little too far. They put

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<v Speaker 1>my name on Facebook and made up a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>lies about me. I'm not feeling that at all, so

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<v Speaker 1>so can I can sue them for that? If they

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<v Speaker 1>made up a bunch of lies, that's information, and if

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<v Speaker 1>you can prove that it was a malicious intent? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>oh cost you some coins as I'm trying them. And

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<v Speaker 1>if they don't have the money, you probably ain't gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get it back. But you know this depends on Patty.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to be well, I don't think you should

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<v Speaker 1>suiting your cousins. Why not? I I know it's called

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<v Speaker 1>a breakfas club. And then y'all are cash aping all right? Nah? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Tryn I can I get a book aside? My mental

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<v Speaker 1>health needs work on? Can I got you? I got,

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<v Speaker 1>I got, I got the I got the Unapologetic Guy,

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<v Speaker 1>The Black Mental Health by doctor Rita Walker. Here, I

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<v Speaker 1>think we got some copies of my grandmother's hands by Resumementicum.

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<v Speaker 1>Here do we got some of the old Daddie? I

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<v Speaker 1>think we might have one of those but y'all get

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<v Speaker 1>you that hold on all right? That's that's great literature

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<v Speaker 1>for your mental health. Yo, thank you and thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for something my call, y'all, word up? I'm a regular,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, he's he's a regular. He's just dubbed its

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<v Speaker 1>Mark Lytle Strength for the wild Mark. What up? Get

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<v Speaker 1>you off her chess? Brother? So, how y'all doing this morning?

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<v Speaker 1>Doing well? Brother? How you? I'm love man? On my

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<v Speaker 1>way to work. I was concentrating here. And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like the term culture vulture or not sharing with the

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<v Speaker 1>culture or take it from the culture. Why. I look

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<v Speaker 1>at it as like to be of the culture. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>Usually you're in a position to create something to share

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<v Speaker 1>amongst people, and if you're sometimes you're just gonna spit over.

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to share what people who aren't necessarily from

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<v Speaker 1>the culture. But when you get into a certain position,

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<v Speaker 1>we're asking the creators of culture based stuff to ask

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<v Speaker 1>what you contributed to the culture and do more than

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<v Speaker 1>the n actual purchaser of the product. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that's fair. I think the product is the contribution to

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<v Speaker 1>the culture. I look at it differently. I look at

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<v Speaker 1>it like, you know, the culture was created let's say

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<v Speaker 1>let's say something was created in the hip hop community

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<v Speaker 1>and the black community and the Bronx right like hip

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<v Speaker 1>hop right, and those brothers created that out of love.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you have somebody who's not from the bronx seeing

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<v Speaker 1>what they did and made billions off of it, and

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<v Speaker 1>those brothers that created got nothing. And if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>give back to those communities that created it, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that you're a culture voture. How do you take something

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<v Speaker 1>from a community and don't give anything backpacked out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's culture vulture. Yeah, but don't you think I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't disagree with that, But don't you think culture

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<v Speaker 1>culture is something that is just shared. Coaching can be closed,

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<v Speaker 1>coaching can be slain, Coaching can be you know, exact music,

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<v Speaker 1>like just people Like a lot of people will sit

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<v Speaker 1>there and bashed Kim Kardashian And I hate to say this,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't. I don't just like the woman. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's not her who's going around and saying, hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>created this style, I came up with it. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>people who are the critics of Kim Kardashian. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think Kim has ever said and said I got this

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<v Speaker 1>brand new off the back of my mind because its

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<v Speaker 1>influenced by the culture. Because truth be told. If that's

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<v Speaker 1>the case, based off what NB said, then everybody in

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<v Speaker 1>hip hop should be giving back money to those brothers

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<v Speaker 1>in the Bronx, Like literally everybody from every region across

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<v Speaker 1>the world should be paying those brothers back for something

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<v Speaker 1>that they started. Black white. It don't matter because they

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<v Speaker 1>every everybody profited off hip hop. But I think a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people do. I think a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>do give it back to the founding fault does to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure that people are straight, whether it's I think

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<v Speaker 1>how you're raised around the millionaire bro who I don't

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<v Speaker 1>disagree with you. But if that's the case, why is

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<v Speaker 1>it that people like syl So can't get their credit?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? Why is it that they can't get their masters?

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<v Speaker 1>Why do we have all? Right? But that's part of

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<v Speaker 1>the from them. But that's what I think, it's part

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<v Speaker 1>of the culture. Voters like you said, like they sign

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<v Speaker 1>them and don't give the them masters. But but that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I think people do. That's just busy. Made a

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<v Speaker 1>profit of it, made made it the business. That's it

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<v Speaker 1>is business. But I think it's it's a coach of

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<v Speaker 1>volture part of it, you know. I mean, you take

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's culture, you make a profit off it, probably because

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't know how to make a profit off of it,

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<v Speaker 1>or they didn't have the money to invest in it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you don't give back to the yat I

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<v Speaker 1>don't listen. I don't agree. I don't. I don't agree

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<v Speaker 1>with it morally, but I understand it business wise. Isn't

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<v Speaker 1>it the part of the giving back to the business

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<v Speaker 1>of hey, this is what we did, we did this wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>this what's wrong. It's just the next generation the information

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<v Speaker 1>so they don't repeat their mistakes. Is that not giving back? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's giving back absolutely. I think, well, I think we

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<v Speaker 1>I think we all can be uh be vultuish in

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<v Speaker 1>a way. So I think the only way that you can,

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<v Speaker 1>I believe, your back is just to honestly show other

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<v Speaker 1>people how to do it, show other people how to

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<v Speaker 1>make money the way you have. I mean, that's my

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<v Speaker 1>personal opinion. It's a good conversation, like, yeah, y'all have

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<v Speaker 1>a great thing. Man, I gonna hold you up. Have

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<v Speaker 1>a good one too, brother. I was having this conversation

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday about a Black Record executive. You know who owned

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<v Speaker 1>somebody Masters, and I'm like, I can understand business wise,

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<v Speaker 1>you know why they feel like they should hold onto

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<v Speaker 1>the masters, you know what I mean. But then there's

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<v Speaker 1>a part of me that's just like, yo, you black,

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<v Speaker 1>that person black. Just at least give them half, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. Make it fair and equitable. But

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<v Speaker 1>I understand if I've invested so much money into this person,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's a Gambley ten million into you and you

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<v Speaker 1>don't probably make but no, do get it back. I

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<v Speaker 1>should be able to, you know, that's the deal that

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<v Speaker 1>we made. That's where the lines get blurred when you're black,

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<v Speaker 1>because then there's there's good it's because it's really just

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<v Speaker 1>good business and bad business. Correct, bad businesses me just

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<v Speaker 1>giving you your Masters and I didn't recoup my money.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, that's just bad business. But people think you

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<v Speaker 1>should do that. No just because you're black. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think what people negotiate deals once something that works out,

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<v Speaker 1>so that it's it's something that's more fair. Who are

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<v Speaker 1>the more fan to what if I still haven't made that.

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<v Speaker 1>I know they've done that with some big artists where

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<v Speaker 1>they initially signed a deal that they were locked in

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<v Speaker 1>that artist blew up, and then they came back to

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<v Speaker 1>the table before the deal was up and renegotiate. Once

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<v Speaker 1>they made their money back, yea, once the keyword, once

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<v Speaker 1>they made their money make money back, because at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the day is it's an investment. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>The reason the labels are able to promote artists because

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<v Speaker 1>they make money. And if they don't make money, where

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<v Speaker 1>they getting this money from, they just can't it. Hold

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<v Speaker 1>it in the back. They just can't make it in

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<v Speaker 1>the back, you know, back rooms. It oftens to make

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<v Speaker 1>their money back. The perception of it often looks bad,

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<v Speaker 1>but the reality is they probably didn't recoup off this

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<v Speaker 1>person or this individual. That's why they're still holding onto

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<v Speaker 1>their masses. Correct, get it off a few chests eight

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<v Speaker 1>D five five one O five one. Now we got

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<v Speaker 1>rooms on the way. Yes, and get ready for a

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<v Speaker 1>new documentary and DOCI series about Bobby Brown. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,

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<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Club. She's filling the team. This is the

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<v Speaker 1>rumor rapport with Angela Yee on the Breakfast Club. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>have you wait, wait, wait, you're not gonna spoil alert

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<v Speaker 1>right now because I fell asleep on it last night, right, No, Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to talk about Ozark because a new

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<v Speaker 1>season has started. I don't know if anybody's been watching it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I guess you kind of have. And you know

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<v Speaker 1>that the new season of Ozark has caused this classic

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<v Speaker 1>song to search to number one on the charts on

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<v Speaker 1>the Reggae Charts one. It plays near the end of

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<v Speaker 1>episode one. Hopefully that's not a spoiler for you. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I fell asleep, all right. Now. What's interesting about this

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<v Speaker 1>song though, is sister Nancy actually when that song came out,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't even know how popular it was. She first

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<v Speaker 1>recorded it in nineteen eighty two, and her producer traveled

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<v Speaker 1>the world, so he knew it was playing in other places.

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<v Speaker 1>But she said she only ever heard it one time

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<v Speaker 1>in Jamaica and she wasn't getting any royalties from that song.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't until twenty fourteen when she saw the song

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<v Speaker 1>in a reebok ad that she got legal advice on

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<v Speaker 1>her rights for that music. Who was getting all them

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<v Speaker 1>checks before then? Well, she actually was able to get

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<v Speaker 1>checks from the past ten years, but you know, because

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<v Speaker 1>of statute of limitations, that's as far back as she

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<v Speaker 1>could get it, so she says, now she owns fifty

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<v Speaker 1>percent of the album one two that that was on.

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<v Speaker 1>So she said, at least I'm getting something now. I

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<v Speaker 1>never used to get anything. To think about it, all

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<v Speaker 1>that time she didn't get anything. And actually, to Tibbett,

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<v Speaker 1>who wrote it, never collected any royalties for it. He

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<v Speaker 1>passed away in twenty twenty at the age of seventies.

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<v Speaker 1>At the age of seventy seven, he tell me nobody

0:20:38.520 --> 0:20:40.959
<v Speaker 1>was getting paid all there, or what I'm saying, who

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<v Speaker 1>was getting paid over those reggae artists were getting like that,

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<v Speaker 1>like they would do those compilations and know what they

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't know, so they would steal all that money. What

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<v Speaker 1>was she's on du now? So who was getting them checks?

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder what's getting them checks? And you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>there are one hundred and twenty eight songs that have

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<v Speaker 1>sampled that song. Oh my good. You guys remember it

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<v Speaker 1>in Belly too, right, damn right? Remember Belly like y'all

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<v Speaker 1>have to wait till Ozok to make that song number

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<v Speaker 1>one on the Reggae harks. Belly, Well it just shot

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<v Speaker 1>back to number one because of that. But you know

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<v Speaker 1>that song came out a while ago, back in nineteen

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<v Speaker 1>eighty two. So shout out to Sister Nancy. I think

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<v Speaker 1>she lives in Jersey too, don't she? Who's loot to you?

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<v Speaker 1>Sister subsist. She wants to come up here, So we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna make that happen all right now, Master Pa has

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<v Speaker 1>sent a message to people who are questioning his success.

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<v Speaker 1>He has released a new song, look at All These Haters,

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<v Speaker 1>that actually remake but yeah, it's a remake of his

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<v Speaker 1>song from before Stop Stop Hayting from the Ghetto d

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<v Speaker 1>Album nineteen ninety seven, Phoenix Shoke the shaka y'all was

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<v Speaker 1>not outside, and here is look at all these haters

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<v Speaker 1>to try to figure out how to get because the

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<v Speaker 1>same you know, all these haters surrounding me every day,

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<v Speaker 1>like my polyson talking. Yeah, he sounds good, but they

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<v Speaker 1>can't stop my page sound good. I'm not gonna hating.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't take getting no moan sound like. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get him. He said, you best to get

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<v Speaker 1>jos what you're hating foth. It's crazy because it's still

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<v Speaker 1>relevant today. He sounds good. I'm not even gonna classic,

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<v Speaker 1>just a classic record. That's when the ghetto d album

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<v Speaker 1>album is hard all right now, Yo, Gotti is giving

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<v Speaker 1>one lucky person, one lucky artists a chance to appear

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<v Speaker 1>on his album and also signed to his label u

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<v Speaker 1>CM ten is dropping February fourth. He said, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to put a brand new artist in position about to

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<v Speaker 1>upload this to YouTube and SoundCloud right now. Whoever can

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<v Speaker 1>put that real pressure on here that I like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>putting you on CM ten and possibly the label. Let's go. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's dope with with god he's doing. So if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know he's leaving, like I know, he played it

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<v Speaker 1>on his Instagram yesterday, so he played four balls and

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<v Speaker 1>him rapping. Then you gotta wrap four balls. Then he

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<v Speaker 1>comes back and wrap four balls. Then you gotta wrap

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<v Speaker 1>four balls. Then he does a sixteen and you got

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<v Speaker 1>to do a sixteen. It's pretty dope and the song

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<v Speaker 1>is dope all right, right, So that's a good opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>for somebody, all right now. A And he has announced

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<v Speaker 1>a new documentary and docuseries about the life and times

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<v Speaker 1>of Bobby Brown. So if you're a lifelong fan and

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<v Speaker 1>follower of Bobby Brown, you'll get to look into his

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<v Speaker 1>personal and professional life soon. Thanks to those projects. So,

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<v Speaker 1>according to the press release, he'll be unveiling his struggles

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<v Speaker 1>with substance abuse, his marriage to Whitney Houston, the devastating

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<v Speaker 1>loss of Whitney Houston and his two children, and his

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<v Speaker 1>life as a devoted father and husband to his wife now,

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<v Speaker 1>Alicia Ethridge Brown. Man, y'all should read Bobby Brown's book Man,

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<v Speaker 1>Every Little Step My Story. Bobby Brown's book is incredible.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's a two night documentary, and then you also

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<v Speaker 1>get a glimpse of who Bobby is now in a

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<v Speaker 1>new twelve part docuseries, Bobby Brown, Every Little Step All

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<v Speaker 1>right Now, DARE is criticizing Euphoria. You know. DARE is

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<v Speaker 1>an anti drug education program, the drug abuse resistance education

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<v Speaker 1>program that first launched in the eighties amidst the so

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<v Speaker 1>called war on drugs. And they are saying that Euphoria

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<v Speaker 1>glamorizes substance abuse and anonymous sex and more. They said,

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<v Speaker 1>rather than further each parents desire to keep their children

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<v Speaker 1>safe from the potentially horrific consequences drug abuse and other

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<v Speaker 1>high risk behavior. HBO television drama Euphoria chooses to misguidedly

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<v Speaker 1>glorify and erroneously depicts high school student drug use, addiction,

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<v Speaker 1>anonymous sex, violence, and other destructive behaviors as common and

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<v Speaker 1>widespread in today's world. You know what day I should

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<v Speaker 1>do before they release statements like that, they should talk

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<v Speaker 1>to parents. And even when you do talk to parents,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, some parents may feel like that, some parents don't.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what that euphoria does. Euphoria actually allows you

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<v Speaker 1>to have conversations, you know, with your young children. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>your child that might be thirteen or in high school

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<v Speaker 1>that you know watches in DAYA and maybe watching that show.

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<v Speaker 1>It opens up a lot of different discussions that you

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<v Speaker 1>can absolutely have with your children. And they do not

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<v Speaker 1>glorify it. Euphoria makes me be like, Lord, have mercy, boy,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody got to talk to these kids out here. It

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<v Speaker 1>does not glorify to glamorize it at all. They seem

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<v Speaker 1>like they're going through it. Yes, all right, well that

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<v Speaker 1>is your rumor report. All right, now we got front

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<v Speaker 1>page news next. What we're talking about? Yes, something that

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<v Speaker 1>got Envy excited this morning and also too, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>a it's a TV show and what happened? Why are

0:24:58.000 --> 0:25:00.520
<v Speaker 1>we taking that TV show so serious? It's a TV show?

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<v Speaker 1>People look crazy though they are. All right, well, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>get into it next. It's the breakfast Club. Good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Yard iHeartRadio Station. Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

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<v Speaker 1>Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast Club. Let's getting

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<v Speaker 1>some front page news. What we got? Are we starting? Easy? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>McDonald's they have a fan made menu hack. Now that

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<v Speaker 1>is starting. Um, I've seen that. Yes, it says beginning

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<v Speaker 1>to January thirty first, and for a limited time they're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna sell four men and you hacks that have been

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<v Speaker 1>popularized by its biggest fans, and they've been prominent on

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<v Speaker 1>social media platforms like TikTok. You want to know who

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<v Speaker 1>they are? Yes, all right, there's a hash brown McMuffin

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<v Speaker 1>So this is uh combined sausage, big muffin and a

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<v Speaker 1>hash brown for an extra crunch. Then there's the crunchy double.

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<v Speaker 1>It's six piece chicken nuggets inserted into a double cheeseburger.

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<v Speaker 1>Then there's the land air and Sea. This is a

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<v Speaker 1>chicken sandwich, a big mac, and a filet of fish

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<v Speaker 1>all on one button. All of that. They should just

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<v Speaker 1>call that the high menu. Why they're calling into the

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<v Speaker 1>hack menu call it. And there's the surfing turf that

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<v Speaker 1>puts together a double cheeseburger and a filet of fish

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<v Speaker 1>and it's only available on the app or through delivery.

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<v Speaker 1>You can advantage of everybody on edibles. How you put

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<v Speaker 1>that in your mouth? Paus Wow, Like that's a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you can handle it. I'm just saying

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<v Speaker 1>that they've taken an advantage of everybody on edibles, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>that's smoke and all this recreational marijuana out here. A

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<v Speaker 1>double cheeseburger, filet of fish and nothing for nothing. You

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<v Speaker 1>came in here and said, man, I would have ate

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<v Speaker 1>that up. When you just smush it, you gotta smo

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<v Speaker 1>that's the whole point. You smush it all together. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>Back in the day. I definitely the turk. McDonald's may

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<v Speaker 1>not be healthy for you, but boy, that thing be slapping.

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<v Speaker 1>You cannot sit here and act like that. Damn phileta

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<v Speaker 1>fish and them large hot fries. They gotta be hot.

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<v Speaker 1>No h a wt lord have mercy man, listen, McDonald's

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<v Speaker 1>fries still for me? Slap all right now. Now, let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk about the question that finally stumped Amy Schneider on Jeopardy.

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<v Speaker 1>She won her thirty ninth game. She is number two

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<v Speaker 1>on the game show's consecutive wins list, and she is

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<v Speaker 1>the woman who has won the most times in a row.

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<v Speaker 1>And all of that came to an end yesterday. She lost. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to hear the question for final Jeopardy today

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<v Speaker 1>Countries of the World category. Here's the clip. The only

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<v Speaker 1>nation in the world who's name in English ends in

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<v Speaker 1>an H. It's also one of the two most fuckers

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<v Speaker 1>do you not country? It's the only nation in the

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<v Speaker 1>world whose name in English ends with an H, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's all so one of the ten most populous. No go,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't have it any that does not end with

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<v Speaker 1>the It sounds like anyway. She didn't even make a guess.

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<v Speaker 1>It was blank Bangladesh oh banglad dash shee. They should

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<v Speaker 1>have done something else. They should have said he produced

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<v Speaker 1>Little Wayne's classic track on Millie. See how would have

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<v Speaker 1>got that? Would have got it? I would have got

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<v Speaker 1>that one easily. Du club Amy. Amy had a great run.

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<v Speaker 1>How much did she make? Told? I know it's over

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<v Speaker 1>a million dollars one point three eight one point three

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<v Speaker 1>eight two million. Yeah, she got my name right. They

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<v Speaker 1>asked her a Jeopardy question about me, and she said

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<v Speaker 1>Charlomagne and God with no hesitation. So salute to you, Amy,

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<v Speaker 1>thirty nine times in a row. You know who won

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<v Speaker 1>the most Ken Jennings. You know how many wins he had?

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<v Speaker 1>Seventy four? Wow? And Amy? They dropped, they robbed, and

0:28:45.920 --> 0:28:49.320
<v Speaker 1>they robbed Amy Man. Amy had a life, boy Amy

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<v Speaker 1>Amy Life could be a movie in just the past

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<v Speaker 1>six months. Number one Jeopardy winner of all time? Or

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<v Speaker 1>what she number one? Number woman? Though as far as winning,

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<v Speaker 1>winning and she robbed out in La y'all really thought

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<v Speaker 1>Amy was walking around with that Jeopardy money in her bag.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure did well. She did lose to Ron Talisma, who

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<v Speaker 1>was a librarian from Chicago, So congratulations to her, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Anne as new variants are emerging. Let's turn to COVID

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<v Speaker 1>for a second. The government is thinking about doing a

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<v Speaker 1>universal coronavirus vaccine, so as the virus is continuing to

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<v Speaker 1>evolve into new concerning variants, each with a slightly different

0:29:28.520 --> 0:29:31.640
<v Speaker 1>genetic code. They said, current vaccines still work well against

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<v Speaker 1>new variants, but they're no longer a perfect match because

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<v Speaker 1>usually they have to find a genetic code that's a

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<v Speaker 1>perfect match for the variant. So right now they have

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<v Speaker 1>been tweaking booster shots to match omicron. But now they're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about trying to come up with a pan coronavirus

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<v Speaker 1>vaccine that would work equally well against any COVID nineteen variant.

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<v Speaker 1>And that is a new approach that they are going

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<v Speaker 1>to have that they're aggressively pursuing. And also too, oh

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<v Speaker 1>with Amy from Jeopardy, do you say woman or do

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<v Speaker 1>you say trans woman too? Because no, you want all

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<v Speaker 1>representation to matter, right, I think you said Tran Well

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, okay, because he says she represents the

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<v Speaker 1>trans community that you didn't know she was trans. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>well that is your rumor reports. All right, thank you news,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, now, when we come back, Jay Shetty will

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<v Speaker 1>be joining us. He's the host of the podcast on Purpose.

0:30:23.360 --> 0:30:25.840
<v Speaker 1>It's a health of wellness podcast. He's a form of

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<v Speaker 1>monk because a Purpose culture New York Times bestselling author.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna talk to him when we come back,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So don't move. It's to Breakfast Club, Go Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

0:30:41.440 --> 0:30:43.520
<v Speaker 1>Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got

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<v Speaker 1>a special guest in the building, absolutely, Jay Shetty, welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for having me himself. Great for to bear man.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a very familiar voice because you got the number

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<v Speaker 1>one health and wellness podcast, spiritual mind fulness podcast on Purpose.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had the pleasure of being a guest on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Phenomenal guest. I loved the episode with Kobe Bryant. I

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<v Speaker 1>loved the episode with Jada Pick. You got a lot

0:31:03.160 --> 0:31:05.440
<v Speaker 1>of great episodes. Yeah, it's I'm really grateful. We've got

0:31:05.480 --> 0:31:07.959
<v Speaker 1>an amazing community. They keep showing up and we've had

0:31:08.000 --> 0:31:09.720
<v Speaker 1>some phenomenal guests. I was just saying, you were one

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<v Speaker 1>of our first guests and like the first three to

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<v Speaker 1>six months of the show and it was brand new,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm so grateful that you did that. Man, I

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<v Speaker 1>really appreciate it. And I've been hearing a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people talk about meditation lately, and so you actually help

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<v Speaker 1>guide people through how to meditate, right, Yes, yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>I spent three years living as a monk in India

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<v Speaker 1>and across Europe, and so I was trained in how

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<v Speaker 1>to meditate from monks who've been practicing for decades, and

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<v Speaker 1>they were practicing ancient meditation techniques for thousands and thousands

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<v Speaker 1>of years. And so when I was trained in that school,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt this responsibility to want to share that with

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<v Speaker 1>the world because it changed my life. And I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>an average kid born and raised in London, and I thought, well,

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<v Speaker 1>if it can help me, then I'm sure it can

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<v Speaker 1>help a lot of people would leads the young man

0:31:51.680 --> 0:31:54.280
<v Speaker 1>want to be a monk. Trust me, I did not

0:31:54.320 --> 0:31:56.040
<v Speaker 1>grow up wanting to be a monk. And if someone

0:31:56.160 --> 0:31:57.920
<v Speaker 1>if someone told me that I was going to grow

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<v Speaker 1>up and become a monk, I probably would have thrown

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<v Speaker 1>a beer I'll at them that I would have been holding.

0:32:01.920 --> 0:32:03.880
<v Speaker 1>But I was born and raised in London and I

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<v Speaker 1>would go in my teens to go and hear from

0:32:06.720 --> 0:32:10.040
<v Speaker 1>people who'd gone from nothing to something. So I was

0:32:10.120 --> 0:32:15.440
<v Speaker 1>fascinated by rags to riches stories. I'd go and hear CEOs, entrepreneurs, athletes, celebrities,

0:32:15.600 --> 0:32:18.520
<v Speaker 1>and this is before podcasts and YouTube, so you actually

0:32:18.600 --> 0:32:20.440
<v Speaker 1>had to go to events. And so I'd go to

0:32:20.560 --> 0:32:22.960
<v Speaker 1>these events. And once my friends told me that a

0:32:23.040 --> 0:32:25.800
<v Speaker 1>monk was speaking, and I was skeptical. I was like,

0:32:26.120 --> 0:32:28.080
<v Speaker 1>what am I going to learn from someone who's gone

0:32:28.200 --> 0:32:30.760
<v Speaker 1>from nothing to nothing? Like, you know, what are they

0:32:30.800 --> 0:32:32.840
<v Speaker 1>going to teach me? And so I said to my friends,

0:32:32.880 --> 0:32:35.640
<v Speaker 1>I'd only go if we go to a bar afterwards.

0:32:35.760 --> 0:32:39.200
<v Speaker 1>I was eighteen years old, and they were being very persuasive,

0:32:39.240 --> 0:32:41.440
<v Speaker 1>so they agreed. So I end up at this event

0:32:41.800 --> 0:32:45.080
<v Speaker 1>at my university waiting to hear this monk speak. I

0:32:45.160 --> 0:32:46.880
<v Speaker 1>go there, I'm looking at the clock, like just waiting

0:32:46.920 --> 0:32:51.240
<v Speaker 1>to leave, and I was just mesmerized. And I don't

0:32:51.280 --> 0:32:53.040
<v Speaker 1>mean that in like a spiritual experience, where I just

0:32:53.120 --> 0:32:55.680
<v Speaker 1>mean like I was captivated by every word that he said.

0:32:56.120 --> 0:32:59.000
<v Speaker 1>And there was nothing externally attractive about him. He was

0:32:59.080 --> 0:33:02.600
<v Speaker 1>wearing robes, he was from India, he wasn't connected to

0:33:02.800 --> 0:33:05.640
<v Speaker 1>me in any other way, but he spoke about service

0:33:05.840 --> 0:33:07.880
<v Speaker 1>and he spoke about purpose, and he spoke about how

0:33:08.520 --> 0:33:11.480
<v Speaker 1>serving others and helping others with your skills and your

0:33:11.480 --> 0:33:13.520
<v Speaker 1>strengths is the greatest thing you can do. And my

0:33:13.640 --> 0:33:17.920
<v Speaker 1>eighteen year old self was just completely penetrating my heart

0:33:18.000 --> 0:33:20.080
<v Speaker 1>and I was just like, that's what I want. And

0:33:20.160 --> 0:33:22.920
<v Speaker 1>now when I look back, I realized that when I

0:33:23.040 --> 0:33:25.440
<v Speaker 1>was eighteen, I'd met people who were rich. I've met

0:33:25.480 --> 0:33:27.680
<v Speaker 1>people who are famous, and met people who are beautiful

0:33:27.760 --> 0:33:30.440
<v Speaker 1>and strong, but I don't think i'd met anyone who

0:33:30.520 --> 0:33:32.840
<v Speaker 1>is truly happy. And that day I felt like I

0:33:32.960 --> 0:33:35.120
<v Speaker 1>met someone who was truly happy and that you just

0:33:35.280 --> 0:33:38.520
<v Speaker 1>felt that energy in this space of being a monk.

0:33:39.120 --> 0:33:41.720
<v Speaker 1>So the process is you wake up at four am

0:33:41.800 --> 0:33:45.640
<v Speaker 1>every day, and what is a monk? Okay, So a

0:33:45.800 --> 0:33:49.720
<v Speaker 1>monk is someone who dedicates themselves to a particular spiritual

0:33:50.520 --> 0:33:54.520
<v Speaker 1>tradition and you genuinely practice celibacy during the time that

0:33:54.560 --> 0:33:57.440
<v Speaker 1>you're a monk. But beyond that, you're waking up every

0:33:57.520 --> 0:34:00.480
<v Speaker 1>day four am meditating for four to eight hours. So

0:34:00.600 --> 0:34:03.600
<v Speaker 1>the morning meditation finishes about eight thirty, then you get

0:34:03.640 --> 0:34:06.120
<v Speaker 1>some breakfast, then you do your daily chores, and then

0:34:06.160 --> 0:34:07.840
<v Speaker 1>the rest of the day we were out serving, So

0:34:07.960 --> 0:34:11.480
<v Speaker 1>we were serving food to the homeless, building sustainable villages,

0:34:12.160 --> 0:34:14.240
<v Speaker 1>helping out in schools, and this was all out in India,

0:34:14.560 --> 0:34:16.440
<v Speaker 1>so a lot of the philanthropy work as well. So

0:34:16.760 --> 0:34:20.279
<v Speaker 1>the morning was about self mastery and the afternoon was

0:34:20.280 --> 0:34:22.279
<v Speaker 1>about serving others. And so that's kind of like the

0:34:22.400 --> 0:34:25.279
<v Speaker 1>rough framework of what a day looks like. You know,

0:34:25.400 --> 0:34:27.160
<v Speaker 1>you said you wanted to be a monk because it

0:34:27.280 --> 0:34:28.960
<v Speaker 1>led you to public service. I feel like that's our

0:34:29.000 --> 0:34:31.120
<v Speaker 1>two purpose in life. Service to others. Yes, you can

0:34:31.160 --> 0:34:32.719
<v Speaker 1>do that without being a monk, So what made you

0:34:32.960 --> 0:34:36.120
<v Speaker 1>want to go full fledge and be a monk? Absolutely?

0:34:36.320 --> 0:34:39.600
<v Speaker 1>And I think the truth is that I didn't see

0:34:39.680 --> 0:34:42.960
<v Speaker 1>anyone living a life of service at that time who

0:34:43.280 --> 0:34:46.880
<v Speaker 1>wasn't living from a spiritual place. It just wasn't as common.

0:34:46.920 --> 0:34:49.600
<v Speaker 1>And now I feel so happy that this conversation is

0:34:49.600 --> 0:34:52.200
<v Speaker 1>happening in the mainstream. But when I was eighteen, that's,

0:34:52.239 --> 0:34:55.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, roughly sixteen seventeen years ago, that wasn't there.

0:34:55.440 --> 0:34:58.040
<v Speaker 1>You didn't see that. You saw the Forbes Rich List,

0:34:58.160 --> 0:35:01.000
<v Speaker 1>you saw that list. You didn't really a service list

0:35:01.160 --> 0:35:03.920
<v Speaker 1>or a purpose list. And I think that's changing. But

0:35:04.360 --> 0:35:07.839
<v Speaker 1>it was also the idea that the self mastery part

0:35:08.200 --> 0:35:10.680
<v Speaker 1>was you're actually going to work on purifying your ego.

0:35:11.080 --> 0:35:13.680
<v Speaker 1>You're actually going to work on your own mind, so

0:35:13.800 --> 0:35:15.000
<v Speaker 1>you're not just going to go out there and try

0:35:15.000 --> 0:35:17.120
<v Speaker 1>and help other people, but you're actually going to deal

0:35:17.160 --> 0:35:19.640
<v Speaker 1>with everything that's going on in here. And I think

0:35:19.719 --> 0:35:22.719
<v Speaker 1>that attracted me that, Wow, I'm going to get X

0:35:22.760 --> 0:35:26.120
<v Speaker 1>amount of time every day to figure out the mess

0:35:26.200 --> 0:35:28.960
<v Speaker 1>that's in here? When am I ever going to get

0:35:29.000 --> 0:35:31.120
<v Speaker 1>that time again? Like? Who's going to give you the two? It? Like?

0:35:31.160 --> 0:35:32.320
<v Speaker 1>You know, because if you want to be if you

0:35:32.360 --> 0:35:34.000
<v Speaker 1>want to join the army, you can enlist in the army.

0:35:34.000 --> 0:35:35.319
<v Speaker 1>If you want to be a police officer, you can

0:35:35.360 --> 0:35:37.000
<v Speaker 1>fill out that application if you want to be there.

0:35:37.239 --> 0:35:39.719
<v Speaker 1>So where do you go to be a monk? So

0:35:40.040 --> 0:35:42.880
<v Speaker 1>there are lots of different monks schools, if I can

0:35:42.960 --> 0:35:46.440
<v Speaker 1>use that word, across the world. There's Tibet, there's India,

0:35:46.520 --> 0:35:49.080
<v Speaker 1>there's you know, there's multiple ones, and I've visited many

0:35:49.160 --> 0:35:52.320
<v Speaker 1>of them. I think it's about finding as always, it

0:35:52.520 --> 0:35:55.239
<v Speaker 1>is a teacher, a guide that you connect with. And

0:35:55.320 --> 0:35:57.560
<v Speaker 1>so for me, I speak about this gentleman Garangadas in

0:35:57.640 --> 0:36:00.279
<v Speaker 1>my book. He was the monk that I felt and

0:36:00.440 --> 0:36:03.680
<v Speaker 1>affection and affinity with and so I wanted to study

0:36:03.719 --> 0:36:05.800
<v Speaker 1>in his school, and so when I was part of

0:36:05.920 --> 0:36:09.320
<v Speaker 1>his institution two hours outside of Mumbai in India, in

0:36:09.520 --> 0:36:12.960
<v Speaker 1>that space, they had a system of what you have

0:36:13.000 --> 0:36:15.280
<v Speaker 1>to practice, what you have to process why. So for example,

0:36:15.640 --> 0:36:18.560
<v Speaker 1>a big part of it was, you know, practicing silence.

0:36:19.040 --> 0:36:23.160
<v Speaker 1>And when you practice silence, people think, oh, that sounds terrible,

0:36:23.600 --> 0:36:26.080
<v Speaker 1>and it does for like seven days, and then after

0:36:26.200 --> 0:36:29.080
<v Speaker 1>that you stop worrying about all the noise outside. You

0:36:29.160 --> 0:36:31.040
<v Speaker 1>start hearing the noise inside, and then you go deeper

0:36:31.080 --> 0:36:34.440
<v Speaker 1>and deeper and deeper. A part of it was practicing fasting, right,

0:36:34.480 --> 0:36:37.279
<v Speaker 1>we were practicing fasting for since control and being able

0:36:37.320 --> 0:36:39.799
<v Speaker 1>to master the tongue and master the desire to eat

0:36:39.840 --> 0:36:42.880
<v Speaker 1>and talk. And so there's so many practices and methods

0:36:42.960 --> 0:36:45.680
<v Speaker 1>that were set up, and service was a big part

0:36:45.760 --> 0:36:48.279
<v Speaker 1>of it to help us actually grow as humans. And

0:36:48.760 --> 0:36:51.360
<v Speaker 1>I really feel that those three years amongks school have

0:36:51.560 --> 0:36:54.200
<v Speaker 1>massively impacted how I lived that life now and I

0:36:54.320 --> 0:36:56.120
<v Speaker 1>left nine years ago, so it's been a fair amount

0:36:56.120 --> 0:36:57.600
<v Speaker 1>of time. Once you're out of school, what was the

0:36:57.680 --> 0:36:59.239
<v Speaker 1>first thing you did, Like, what do you how do

0:36:59.280 --> 0:37:02.480
<v Speaker 1>you apply for positions, What did you do after three years?

0:37:02.640 --> 0:37:05.520
<v Speaker 1>After three years as being a monk, so I thought

0:37:05.560 --> 0:37:06.560
<v Speaker 1>I was going to do it for the rest of

0:37:06.600 --> 0:37:10.040
<v Speaker 1>my life, and after three years it almost felt like

0:37:10.120 --> 0:37:12.440
<v Speaker 1>a failure, like I felt like I messed up, because

0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:15.440
<v Speaker 1>all of that self awareness led me to the feeling

0:37:15.520 --> 0:37:17.360
<v Speaker 1>that I wasn't meant to be a monk, that I

0:37:17.480 --> 0:37:20.040
<v Speaker 1>wasn't actually qualified to live the life of a monk.

0:37:20.680 --> 0:37:24.239
<v Speaker 1>I realized that monk life required a certain sense of

0:37:24.760 --> 0:37:28.560
<v Speaker 1>letting go of the rebellious nature that I had inside

0:37:28.600 --> 0:37:31.320
<v Speaker 1>of me, and also that this calling and desire I

0:37:31.400 --> 0:37:33.520
<v Speaker 1>had in my heart to want to share this wisdom

0:37:33.560 --> 0:37:36.560
<v Speaker 1>and message in a certain way. I always when I

0:37:36.680 --> 0:37:39.080
<v Speaker 1>learned about all these ancient teachings and scriptures, I was like,

0:37:39.520 --> 0:37:41.000
<v Speaker 1>how cool would it be if we could share that

0:37:41.200 --> 0:37:43.960
<v Speaker 1>in a modern, relevant, practical way for the people that

0:37:44.040 --> 0:37:46.760
<v Speaker 1>I grew up with, who maybe wouldn't do this, who

0:37:46.760 --> 0:37:48.920
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't go as far as I did. And so when

0:37:48.920 --> 0:37:50.640
<v Speaker 1>I shared that with the monks, they said, you know,

0:37:50.719 --> 0:37:52.759
<v Speaker 1>they were like, yeah, you know, we agree that we

0:37:52.880 --> 0:37:54.440
<v Speaker 1>think you might be able to help people more if

0:37:54.480 --> 0:37:56.319
<v Speaker 1>you left. I think they were like saying, yeah, it's cool.

0:37:56.400 --> 0:38:00.400
<v Speaker 1>Leave get out of it, but they encouraged it. For me,

0:38:00.640 --> 0:38:04.160
<v Speaker 1>moving on as was actually really difficult. So when I left,

0:38:04.200 --> 0:38:06.680
<v Speaker 1>the first thing I did was come back start listening

0:38:06.719 --> 0:38:11.279
<v Speaker 1>to Drake m Yeah. I did that. First thing. I

0:38:11.480 --> 0:38:13.080
<v Speaker 1>ate a load of chocolate that I hadn't eating for

0:38:13.160 --> 0:38:15.480
<v Speaker 1>three years. I went back into all my old bad

0:38:15.520 --> 0:38:17.239
<v Speaker 1>habits for the first month that I was back, and

0:38:17.360 --> 0:38:19.960
<v Speaker 1>moved back with my parents twenty six years old because

0:38:20.200 --> 0:38:22.320
<v Speaker 1>I felt like I'd failed and I was losing this

0:38:22.480 --> 0:38:26.080
<v Speaker 1>life I'd committed to. Yeah, I was in debt twenty

0:38:26.120 --> 0:38:29.800
<v Speaker 1>five thousand dollars in debt eighteen thousand pounds. School no no, no,

0:38:29.880 --> 0:38:32.360
<v Speaker 1>no no from my university days, like going to college.

0:38:32.400 --> 0:38:34.600
<v Speaker 1>I've gone to college before. Yeah, what did your parents

0:38:34.680 --> 0:38:37.080
<v Speaker 1>think about you going to Monk School and then coming

0:38:37.080 --> 0:38:40.000
<v Speaker 1>back home? So when I first told them, my mom

0:38:40.200 --> 0:38:42.279
<v Speaker 1>was like, where did we go wrong? Right? You know,

0:38:42.400 --> 0:38:45.320
<v Speaker 1>like what did we do wrong? And luckily my you know,

0:38:45.480 --> 0:38:48.800
<v Speaker 1>my parents are very forward thinking and they supported me

0:38:48.840 --> 0:38:50.759
<v Speaker 1>because they could see my heart was in it. And

0:38:51.000 --> 0:38:52.839
<v Speaker 1>I can't really you know, I can't really blame them.

0:38:52.880 --> 0:38:55.000
<v Speaker 1>They did a great job and they were really really supportive.

0:38:55.080 --> 0:38:56.920
<v Speaker 1>But my extended family was like you're never going to

0:38:56.960 --> 0:38:59.680
<v Speaker 1>get a job again, you've been brainwashed. You're never gonna

0:38:59.719 --> 0:39:01.680
<v Speaker 1>get my money again, You're never gonna be you know,

0:39:01.760 --> 0:39:05.840
<v Speaker 1>all that noise from society basically saying you've just committed

0:39:05.920 --> 0:39:08.719
<v Speaker 1>career suicide, and what are you gonna do when it

0:39:08.760 --> 0:39:11.640
<v Speaker 1>doesn't work out? So when it didn't work out, I

0:39:11.719 --> 0:39:14.520
<v Speaker 1>almost felt like I had made what they were saying true,

0:39:14.880 --> 0:39:16.239
<v Speaker 1>and so I kind of came with a lot of

0:39:16.280 --> 0:39:19.839
<v Speaker 1>pain and a lot of stress and pressure thinking all

0:39:19.880 --> 0:39:22.360
<v Speaker 1>these people were right and maybe I was wrong. We

0:39:22.440 --> 0:39:24.719
<v Speaker 1>have more with Jay Shetty when we come back, of course.

0:39:25.000 --> 0:39:27.160
<v Speaker 1>He's the host of On Purpose. It's the number one

0:39:27.200 --> 0:39:29.319
<v Speaker 1>health and wellness podcast. He's a former monk, and we'll

0:39:29.320 --> 0:39:31.000
<v Speaker 1>talk through some more when we come back. It's the

0:39:31.040 --> 0:39:36.080
<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club for morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee. Charlomagne,

0:39:36.080 --> 0:39:37.919
<v Speaker 1>the guy we are to Breakfast Club was still kicking

0:39:37.960 --> 0:39:40.200
<v Speaker 1>it with Jay Shetty. He's the host of the On

0:39:40.360 --> 0:39:43.560
<v Speaker 1>Purpose podcasts, a health and wellness podcast. He's a former monk.

0:39:43.840 --> 0:39:46.880
<v Speaker 1>He's a New York Times best selling author, and he's here. Charlomagne.

0:39:46.920 --> 0:39:49.239
<v Speaker 1>You know it's so interesting, man. You became a monk

0:39:49.560 --> 0:39:52.560
<v Speaker 1>because you felt like it gave you a sense of purpose. Yes,

0:39:52.719 --> 0:39:55.239
<v Speaker 1>but then as you were being a monk, you felt

0:39:55.280 --> 0:39:56.960
<v Speaker 1>like you might have been suppressing your purpose. You felt

0:39:56.960 --> 0:39:58.800
<v Speaker 1>like something was big out there. So that's got to

0:39:58.800 --> 0:40:01.839
<v Speaker 1>be psychologically that's a great observation. That is a great

0:40:02.120 --> 0:40:04.040
<v Speaker 1>You phrased it way better than I did. That is

0:40:04.040 --> 0:40:07.600
<v Speaker 1>a great observation. And that's a psychological mind mess because

0:40:07.600 --> 0:40:09.680
<v Speaker 1>you're like, wait, this is And that's when I realized

0:40:09.719 --> 0:40:14.600
<v Speaker 1>that your purpose is not what you wear, where you live,

0:40:15.560 --> 0:40:18.959
<v Speaker 1>what you think everyone thinks of you, because to some degree,

0:40:19.000 --> 0:40:21.520
<v Speaker 1>I'd become attached to living as a monk and that

0:40:21.680 --> 0:40:23.880
<v Speaker 1>becoming my purpose. So when I had to disconnect from that,

0:40:23.920 --> 0:40:26.120
<v Speaker 1>It's like how we say, oh, my marriage is my purpose,

0:40:26.120 --> 0:40:27.520
<v Speaker 1>and then when you get divorced, you're like, oh, well,

0:40:27.560 --> 0:40:29.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't have an identity anymore, or my job is

0:40:29.920 --> 0:40:32.480
<v Speaker 1>my purpose. When you get kicked out of your job,

0:40:32.520 --> 0:40:34.759
<v Speaker 1>you go, oh, I don't have an identity anymore. That's

0:40:34.800 --> 0:40:37.200
<v Speaker 1>what it felt like. It felt like a divorce or

0:40:37.280 --> 0:40:40.080
<v Speaker 1>losing the job of my dreams, which actually led me

0:40:40.160 --> 0:40:42.160
<v Speaker 1>to find my real purpose, which is what I get

0:40:42.200 --> 0:40:43.880
<v Speaker 1>to do today, And what was the voice that you

0:40:44.040 --> 0:40:46.920
<v Speaker 1>heard told you this is what you should do, this

0:40:46.920 --> 0:40:49.080
<v Speaker 1>is the direction you should go with. I feel like

0:40:49.239 --> 0:40:51.279
<v Speaker 1>I had it even when I was there where it

0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:54.719
<v Speaker 1>was just like, there are people who will never ever

0:40:55.120 --> 0:40:57.080
<v Speaker 1>think And this is why I love what you all

0:40:57.160 --> 0:41:00.400
<v Speaker 1>do and what you've done with your work, is there

0:41:00.480 --> 0:41:03.279
<v Speaker 1>are people that will never ever think about their mental health,

0:41:03.320 --> 0:41:06.799
<v Speaker 1>their mental world being about the word meditation or mindfulness

0:41:07.200 --> 0:41:10.000
<v Speaker 1>because it wasn't part of their upbringing. It wasn't a

0:41:10.080 --> 0:41:12.560
<v Speaker 1>word that they heard, same as me. And if I

0:41:12.680 --> 0:41:17.120
<v Speaker 1>can help make that accessible and relevant and practical and

0:41:17.280 --> 0:41:20.239
<v Speaker 1>simple for that person, then my life's going to feel

0:41:20.280 --> 0:41:23.479
<v Speaker 1>like a success. And so I just started to share

0:41:23.520 --> 0:41:25.359
<v Speaker 1>it with everyone. So now I came back. My friends

0:41:25.400 --> 0:41:29.280
<v Speaker 1>were all working, they were making money, they were buying homes,

0:41:29.320 --> 0:41:31.440
<v Speaker 1>they had nice cars. Maybe they were in a relationship,

0:41:32.000 --> 0:41:33.800
<v Speaker 1>but a lot of them were stressed. They were working

0:41:33.840 --> 0:41:37.160
<v Speaker 1>in big city jobs, but they were burnt out. And

0:41:37.239 --> 0:41:39.239
<v Speaker 1>so they started coming to me for advice. And this

0:41:39.360 --> 0:41:41.719
<v Speaker 1>is back in twenty twenty fourteen, and they were saying,

0:41:41.960 --> 0:41:44.200
<v Speaker 1>which you learned about mindfulness and meditation, can you help

0:41:44.280 --> 0:41:46.960
<v Speaker 1>us with out stress? And so very naturally I started

0:41:47.000 --> 0:41:50.239
<v Speaker 1>working with people inside big corporate organizations because that was

0:41:50.320 --> 0:41:52.880
<v Speaker 1>my background, and so now I was seeing that impact

0:41:52.920 --> 0:41:54.920
<v Speaker 1>on these people. And so I was speaking at companies,

0:41:54.960 --> 0:41:58.000
<v Speaker 1>working with people, coaching people, and then finally I took

0:41:58.040 --> 0:42:01.440
<v Speaker 1>a corporate job back to understand and what the setup

0:42:01.600 --> 0:42:05.160
<v Speaker 1>was like. And my executive that was my lead, she

0:42:05.320 --> 0:42:08.279
<v Speaker 1>discovered that I learned meditation. So she put me on

0:42:08.440 --> 0:42:11.279
<v Speaker 1>in front of all my peers to teach meditation to

0:42:11.360 --> 0:42:14.200
<v Speaker 1>a thousand people at our company event. This is before

0:42:14.239 --> 0:42:17.120
<v Speaker 1>any of my online work, and I'm stressing out because

0:42:17.600 --> 0:42:20.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm no one. They're like, this is one of our guys,

0:42:20.080 --> 0:42:21.640
<v Speaker 1>where he's our peer. What are we going to learn

0:42:21.719 --> 0:42:24.759
<v Speaker 1>from him? And it was just a beautiful experience where

0:42:24.800 --> 0:42:27.960
<v Speaker 1>everyone appreciated it, and so I got to see how

0:42:28.080 --> 0:42:31.760
<v Speaker 1>this work could be practical with people from all different

0:42:31.760 --> 0:42:35.200
<v Speaker 1>backgrounds and walks of life. Meditation is a game change.

0:42:35.280 --> 0:42:39.319
<v Speaker 1>Could tell people just some of the benefits of meditation. Yeah,

0:42:39.320 --> 0:42:41.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean meditation as a ton of benefits. Some of

0:42:41.480 --> 0:42:43.839
<v Speaker 1>my favorites are that, of course a boost your moods,

0:42:44.719 --> 0:42:48.360
<v Speaker 1>immune system. One of the most interesting parts about meditation

0:42:48.440 --> 0:42:51.640
<v Speaker 1>that people don't obviously realize is our life is completely

0:42:52.680 --> 0:42:56.640
<v Speaker 1>infiltrated by dopamine. Right, whether it's our phones, whether it's money,

0:42:56.680 --> 0:43:00.360
<v Speaker 1>whether it's purchases, whether it's instant buying dope. Mean, is

0:43:00.400 --> 0:43:04.160
<v Speaker 1>that constantly being released. A meditation helps us balance because

0:43:04.360 --> 0:43:07.799
<v Speaker 1>it creates serotonin and oxytocin. So those are the three

0:43:07.880 --> 0:43:11.000
<v Speaker 1>chemicals that your brain needs to balance, and meditation is

0:43:11.040 --> 0:43:12.759
<v Speaker 1>one of the key things that actually brings about the

0:43:12.840 --> 0:43:16.240
<v Speaker 1>other two. It helps with making sure that your brain's

0:43:16.239 --> 0:43:18.719
<v Speaker 1>in sync. It makes sure that you sleep better. I mean,

0:43:18.800 --> 0:43:20.759
<v Speaker 1>meditation benefits go on and on and on of course

0:43:20.800 --> 0:43:24.480
<v Speaker 1>with anxiety, stress and pressure. But to me, that balancing

0:43:24.520 --> 0:43:26.320
<v Speaker 1>of the chemicals we need is it's probably one of

0:43:26.360 --> 0:43:28.120
<v Speaker 1>the most powerful. And you know, it's very hard to

0:43:28.840 --> 0:43:32.120
<v Speaker 1>find that stillness and that that silence, you know, on

0:43:32.280 --> 0:43:34.640
<v Speaker 1>your own. I tried it for years and couldn't grasp

0:43:34.680 --> 0:43:39.080
<v Speaker 1>the concept until like the symbol of twenty twenty, but

0:43:39.280 --> 0:43:43.239
<v Speaker 1>you helped with the Carmat. Yeah. So I literally just

0:43:43.480 --> 0:43:46.400
<v Speaker 1>two days ago we launched the Daily Jay only on

0:43:46.560 --> 0:43:50.719
<v Speaker 1>Calm and it's a daily meditation for seven minutes that

0:43:50.840 --> 0:43:52.920
<v Speaker 1>I truly believe is going to be a meditation that

0:43:53.000 --> 0:43:55.319
<v Speaker 1>each and every person on the planet can tune into

0:43:55.360 --> 0:43:57.640
<v Speaker 1>and start their practice, and the goal of it was

0:43:57.680 --> 0:43:59.720
<v Speaker 1>to make it as simple so that you can actually

0:44:00.040 --> 0:44:02.040
<v Speaker 1>to say, while you're folding your laundry, while you're doing

0:44:02.080 --> 0:44:04.680
<v Speaker 1>your dishes, while you're making your bed. The goal was,

0:44:04.960 --> 0:44:08.560
<v Speaker 1>how can we bring meditation into people's lives rather than saying,

0:44:08.960 --> 0:44:10.600
<v Speaker 1>take out time out of your day to do this.

0:44:11.120 --> 0:44:13.759
<v Speaker 1>And so we build this program and it's exciting. I'm

0:44:13.800 --> 0:44:15.920
<v Speaker 1>really excited that it's out there. What is meditation? Right?

0:44:15.960 --> 0:44:18.080
<v Speaker 1>And the reason I'm asking is, like Charlemagne said, it

0:44:18.120 --> 0:44:20.279
<v Speaker 1>took him a while to get it. Yeah, So for

0:44:20.360 --> 0:44:22.799
<v Speaker 1>people out there, what is getting meditation? What should they

0:44:22.840 --> 0:44:24.440
<v Speaker 1>be feeling? What should they be seeing? What should they

0:44:24.480 --> 0:44:26.759
<v Speaker 1>be doing? What should they you know, should they be

0:44:26.800 --> 0:44:29.120
<v Speaker 1>sitting in the corner, should they be you know, criss

0:44:29.120 --> 0:44:31.960
<v Speaker 1>cross apple cross apple sauce? So they have their hands

0:44:32.040 --> 0:44:34.800
<v Speaker 1>up like, what is it? Yes? So no, it's a

0:44:34.840 --> 0:44:37.080
<v Speaker 1>great question. It's a great question. I think it's so important.

0:44:37.080 --> 0:44:38.440
<v Speaker 1>I think the first thing I'd like to say is

0:44:38.480 --> 0:44:42.520
<v Speaker 1>that meditation is making time to spend with yourself, as

0:44:42.600 --> 0:44:44.840
<v Speaker 1>simple as that. Right. You make time to check in

0:44:44.920 --> 0:44:47.319
<v Speaker 1>with your friends, your family, your partners, your kids. When

0:44:47.480 --> 0:44:49.040
<v Speaker 1>was the last time you checked him with yourself. Some

0:44:49.120 --> 0:44:50.879
<v Speaker 1>people to say I meditate what I drive because I'm

0:44:50.920 --> 0:44:54.440
<v Speaker 1>just driving. That's and that's a great example. And that's

0:44:54.480 --> 0:44:56.120
<v Speaker 1>a great example, and I actually agree with you. I

0:44:56.280 --> 0:44:58.719
<v Speaker 1>love thinking about life when I'm driving and talking to

0:44:58.800 --> 0:45:01.920
<v Speaker 1>myself and figuring things out. That is a form of meditation.

0:45:02.040 --> 0:45:05.120
<v Speaker 1>That is a beginning step towards meditation. Now, when you

0:45:05.160 --> 0:45:08.040
<v Speaker 1>start getting into meditation as a tool, it goes beyond

0:45:08.120 --> 0:45:11.440
<v Speaker 1>that because now you're bringing your awareness to three different

0:45:11.480 --> 0:45:13.360
<v Speaker 1>types of things in the way I was trained. So

0:45:13.480 --> 0:45:15.480
<v Speaker 1>you have breathwork. When you're focusing on your breath, you're

0:45:15.520 --> 0:45:19.880
<v Speaker 1>learning to navigate your emotions. Second one is visualization. A

0:45:19.960 --> 0:45:23.080
<v Speaker 1>lot of athletes use this before big games. Lewis Hamilton,

0:45:23.120 --> 0:45:26.000
<v Speaker 1>I've heard, used it before he's driving a car. Soccer

0:45:26.040 --> 0:45:27.879
<v Speaker 1>stars use it before they take a free kick. Where

0:45:27.880 --> 0:45:30.680
<v Speaker 1>you're visualizing what's happening in your life or what you're

0:45:30.719 --> 0:45:33.279
<v Speaker 1>about to do. What it does is it prepares your body,

0:45:33.320 --> 0:45:36.319
<v Speaker 1>It prepares the mind, right, So visualization is a way

0:45:36.360 --> 0:45:39.240
<v Speaker 1>of meditating. And the third one is mantra or sound.

0:45:39.600 --> 0:45:41.319
<v Speaker 1>So we all know, I mean, you're in the heart

0:45:41.360 --> 0:45:44.080
<v Speaker 1>of music. We all know that music can make you

0:45:44.160 --> 0:45:46.360
<v Speaker 1>feel different things. Music can make you feel like you

0:45:46.440 --> 0:45:48.279
<v Speaker 1>want to beat someone up, and music can make you

0:45:48.360 --> 0:45:52.920
<v Speaker 1>feel calm. Sounds and mantra really are defined to help

0:45:53.000 --> 0:45:55.880
<v Speaker 1>you have sounds that bring peace and calm to the

0:45:55.960 --> 0:45:58.600
<v Speaker 1>mind and body. So those are three different types of meditation.

0:45:58.719 --> 0:46:01.439
<v Speaker 1>Doesn't matter where you're sitting, It doesn't matter how you're sitting,

0:46:01.480 --> 0:46:04.400
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter whether you're wearing a yoga suit or

0:46:04.440 --> 0:46:07.200
<v Speaker 1>on a yoga mat. That really isn't the point. The

0:46:07.360 --> 0:46:10.960
<v Speaker 1>point is are you taking time to build that practice

0:46:11.000 --> 0:46:13.720
<v Speaker 1>in that habit. Yeah, mantra su my good sister deVie

0:46:13.760 --> 0:46:16.960
<v Speaker 1>Brown mantra and the bees is what got me to

0:46:17.120 --> 0:46:20.120
<v Speaker 1>able meditation. So I count my bees and I do

0:46:20.280 --> 0:46:22.640
<v Speaker 1>my mantra and it's just like that's what got me.

0:46:22.960 --> 0:46:25.880
<v Speaker 1>Like oh okay. When you come to and you're like,

0:46:25.920 --> 0:46:28.880
<v Speaker 1>where was That's how it feels like. You're like like

0:46:29.160 --> 0:46:31.840
<v Speaker 1>you went into a sleep while you're sitting up, like

0:46:31.920 --> 0:46:35.160
<v Speaker 1>you just like like everything just went still for a moment,

0:46:35.239 --> 0:46:38.080
<v Speaker 1>like nothing is on your mind. You just hear yourself

0:46:38.160 --> 0:46:40.200
<v Speaker 1>repeating your mantra over and over and over, and it's

0:46:40.239 --> 0:46:43.280
<v Speaker 1>just like I call it like a sinking feeling almost.

0:46:43.480 --> 0:46:46.080
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you're just sinking, sinking, sinking, And I

0:46:46.200 --> 0:46:49.000
<v Speaker 1>always jump before I go too deep. That's that's what

0:46:49.120 --> 0:46:51.680
<v Speaker 1>makes me come back. Yeah, imagine, imagine you actually felt

0:46:51.760 --> 0:46:54.440
<v Speaker 1>like you are where your feet are? Like, imagine you

0:46:54.520 --> 0:46:56.719
<v Speaker 1>actually felt like that that we right now, if we

0:46:56.840 --> 0:46:58.920
<v Speaker 1>all put our feet on the ground and you actually

0:46:58.960 --> 0:47:01.320
<v Speaker 1>felt like I was And what Charlomagne saying about sinking.

0:47:01.600 --> 0:47:03.920
<v Speaker 1>If I actually felt like I was actually here? How

0:47:03.920 --> 0:47:05.719
<v Speaker 1>many times doing this conversation while I've been talking and

0:47:05.800 --> 0:47:07.719
<v Speaker 1>we've been thinking about what have I got for lunch

0:47:07.800 --> 0:47:09.160
<v Speaker 1>later on? Or what am I doing later on? Or

0:47:09.160 --> 0:47:11.160
<v Speaker 1>who am I meeting? Or what's this going? What if

0:47:11.200 --> 0:47:14.279
<v Speaker 1>I was actually here? How much could I actually have

0:47:14.360 --> 0:47:16.399
<v Speaker 1>an impact on the people around me? How much could

0:47:16.400 --> 0:47:20.640
<v Speaker 1>I actually feel people's energy? How much power and strength

0:47:20.719 --> 0:47:23.759
<v Speaker 1>would I have if I was actually where my feet are?

0:47:24.560 --> 0:47:27.000
<v Speaker 1>Which is a common phrase and statement that's used in

0:47:27.120 --> 0:47:30.319
<v Speaker 1>meditation language. If like be where your feet are, if

0:47:30.400 --> 0:47:33.080
<v Speaker 1>we were actually here, just how powerful would that be?

0:47:33.160 --> 0:47:35.200
<v Speaker 1>And that's what you feel. You actually feel like, I'm

0:47:35.239 --> 0:47:38.440
<v Speaker 1>happy to be here. I am only here because think

0:47:38.480 --> 0:47:40.239
<v Speaker 1>about it. When you wake up in the morning, how

0:47:40.320 --> 0:47:42.280
<v Speaker 1>many times have you over woken up and your mind

0:47:42.400 --> 0:47:45.120
<v Speaker 1>is ahead of your body. Your body's like I don't

0:47:45.160 --> 0:47:47.680
<v Speaker 1>want to go anywhere, and your mind's like racing trying

0:47:47.719 --> 0:47:50.400
<v Speaker 1>to do a million things. Or you experienced the opposite.

0:47:50.680 --> 0:47:53.239
<v Speaker 1>You wake up and your mind is like, come on,

0:47:53.440 --> 0:47:55.400
<v Speaker 1>I can't do this, but your body's like, come on,

0:47:55.480 --> 0:47:57.880
<v Speaker 1>we gotta go, we gotta go. So what we're experiencing

0:47:57.920 --> 0:48:00.919
<v Speaker 1>at all times is our body and mind completely out

0:48:00.960 --> 0:48:03.680
<v Speaker 1>of sync, completely out of seen. They're never in the

0:48:03.760 --> 0:48:06.960
<v Speaker 1>same place. So meditation and it's simplest for him is saying, well,

0:48:07.000 --> 0:48:09.719
<v Speaker 1>let's start here, Let's bring them back into sync. Let's

0:48:09.760 --> 0:48:12.880
<v Speaker 1>start with them being aligned, and imagine how powerful we

0:48:12.920 --> 0:48:14.640
<v Speaker 1>could do. All Right, we have more with Jay Shetty

0:48:14.680 --> 0:48:16.920
<v Speaker 1>when we come back. Of course. He's the host of

0:48:17.080 --> 0:48:19.440
<v Speaker 1>On Purpose. It's the number one health and wellness podcast.

0:48:19.520 --> 0:48:20.880
<v Speaker 1>He's a form of monk and we'll talk to him

0:48:20.880 --> 0:48:22.960
<v Speaker 1>someone when we come back. It's a breakfast club. Good

0:48:23.000 --> 0:48:26.600
<v Speaker 1>morning e j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy. We

0:48:26.680 --> 0:48:29.080
<v Speaker 1>are to breakfast club. Were still kicking it with Jay Shetty.

0:48:29.480 --> 0:48:31.839
<v Speaker 1>He's the host of the On Purpose podcasts, a health

0:48:31.880 --> 0:48:34.400
<v Speaker 1>and wellness podcast. He's a former monk. He's a New

0:48:34.480 --> 0:48:37.200
<v Speaker 1>York Times best selling author and he's here, Charlomagne. I

0:48:37.280 --> 0:48:39.000
<v Speaker 1>feel like we skipped a step right. Yeah, you went

0:48:39.040 --> 0:48:41.719
<v Speaker 1>from being a monk um sir for a monk for

0:48:41.840 --> 0:48:43.840
<v Speaker 1>three years. You couldn't find a job, he said. You

0:48:43.880 --> 0:48:47.080
<v Speaker 1>got rejected about forty different forty companies. Yeah, at what

0:48:47.239 --> 0:48:50.000
<v Speaker 1>point did the on Purpose podcast start? Between that and

0:48:51.719 --> 0:48:54.719
<v Speaker 1>the So I left being amongk in twenty thirteen, I

0:48:54.800 --> 0:48:58.160
<v Speaker 1>started in twenty ten, unpurposed LUNs in twenty nineteen, okay,

0:48:58.400 --> 0:49:01.680
<v Speaker 1>so six years later, and my online video content started

0:49:01.719 --> 0:49:05.279
<v Speaker 1>in twenty sixteen. So in twenty sixteen, after I'd been

0:49:05.320 --> 0:49:09.120
<v Speaker 1>sharing meditation and mindfulness with corporations, coaching people behind the

0:49:09.239 --> 0:49:12.160
<v Speaker 1>scenes and never made any content, I just felt that

0:49:12.239 --> 0:49:14.759
<v Speaker 1>I was sitting in a lot of boardrooms, which was fantastic,

0:49:15.160 --> 0:49:17.040
<v Speaker 1>but I felt this message had to get further than

0:49:17.080 --> 0:49:20.160
<v Speaker 1>the boardroom. And at the time I was thinking how

0:49:20.200 --> 0:49:22.920
<v Speaker 1>do I do this? And so I was applying to

0:49:23.120 --> 0:49:26.000
<v Speaker 1>media companies that I was like, Hey, if these guys

0:49:26.040 --> 0:49:27.640
<v Speaker 1>give me a job, then I can make content about

0:49:27.640 --> 0:49:30.880
<v Speaker 1>mindfulness and meditation. And I was rejected from three media companies.

0:49:30.880 --> 0:49:33.480
<v Speaker 1>I remember chasing an exact on his bike in London

0:49:33.520 --> 0:49:35.000
<v Speaker 1>and saying hey, give me a job. And he was like,

0:49:35.080 --> 0:49:38.000
<v Speaker 1>you're too old? Is that after you said that? I

0:49:38.080 --> 0:49:39.960
<v Speaker 1>guess it was the president or CEO asked you to

0:49:40.040 --> 0:49:42.000
<v Speaker 1>do that, correct, So that's when you felt like that

0:49:42.280 --> 0:49:44.120
<v Speaker 1>was your calling? Yeah, because I was like, Wow, I'm

0:49:44.280 --> 0:49:47.680
<v Speaker 1>being asked to do this. It's working, but it needs

0:49:47.680 --> 0:49:50.640
<v Speaker 1>to reach more people, and it needs to reach more

0:49:50.719 --> 0:49:54.400
<v Speaker 1>people without just their organization being involved. What if it

0:49:54.440 --> 0:49:56.520
<v Speaker 1>could read to person on this street? Right? How do

0:49:56.600 --> 0:49:58.600
<v Speaker 1>you get to that person? And so I thought media

0:49:58.719 --> 0:50:00.440
<v Speaker 1>is the way. And so I was appli to all

0:50:00.480 --> 0:50:03.000
<v Speaker 1>these media jobs, but everyone kept telling me you're not

0:50:03.160 --> 0:50:05.400
<v Speaker 1>You're too you're too old. I was twenty eight years old.

0:50:05.440 --> 0:50:07.200
<v Speaker 1>They're like, you're too old. Everyone's twenty one who wants

0:50:07.239 --> 0:50:09.600
<v Speaker 1>this job? They were like, you don't have any background

0:50:09.600 --> 0:50:12.320
<v Speaker 1>in media, You've never been in communications. And so I

0:50:12.480 --> 0:50:14.400
<v Speaker 1>ended up at a TV training day run by the

0:50:14.480 --> 0:50:17.759
<v Speaker 1>BBC in London in Pinewood Studios and it was run

0:50:17.880 --> 0:50:20.320
<v Speaker 1>for ethnic minorities. So there were just six brown and

0:50:20.360 --> 0:50:22.920
<v Speaker 1>black people in that room and I'm one of them

0:50:23.280 --> 0:50:25.720
<v Speaker 1>and they tell me, Jay, you're you're good, like you're engaging,

0:50:25.880 --> 0:50:27.560
<v Speaker 1>you can present well. So I'm like, give me a job,

0:50:27.640 --> 0:50:29.400
<v Speaker 1>like I just want to shot. And they're like, Jay,

0:50:29.440 --> 0:50:31.719
<v Speaker 1>there's no jobs in media. And so I'm like, come on,

0:50:31.840 --> 0:50:33.640
<v Speaker 1>you brought me all the way here, like you know,

0:50:33.840 --> 0:50:35.600
<v Speaker 1>six brown and black people to tell us there's no

0:50:35.719 --> 0:50:37.600
<v Speaker 1>jobs in media. What was what was the point of this?

0:50:38.440 --> 0:50:40.680
<v Speaker 1>And they're like, well, you should start a YouTube channel.

0:50:41.000 --> 0:50:42.759
<v Speaker 1>And in my head, I'm thinking, yeah, that works for

0:50:42.840 --> 0:50:45.360
<v Speaker 1>Justin Bieber. That's not going to work for me, you know,

0:50:45.440 --> 0:50:50.560
<v Speaker 1>And I'm having that limiting I was like, thank you,

0:50:51.120 --> 0:50:54.280
<v Speaker 1>maybe not maybe not yea and that uh and literally

0:50:54.320 --> 0:50:55.680
<v Speaker 1>it was like I was like, maybe that worked for

0:50:55.760 --> 0:50:57.919
<v Speaker 1>Justin Bieber, like that's and I had that limiting belief.

0:50:57.960 --> 0:50:59.120
<v Speaker 1>I was like, that's not going to work for me.

0:50:59.239 --> 0:51:03.200
<v Speaker 1>But literally, there's a beautiful statement by Thomas Edison. He said,

0:51:03.320 --> 0:51:08.000
<v Speaker 1>when you believe you've exhausted all options, remembered this you haven't.

0:51:08.560 --> 0:51:10.840
<v Speaker 1>And that's how I felt. I felt I had exhausted

0:51:10.880 --> 0:51:12.839
<v Speaker 1>all options and the only option that I had left

0:51:12.880 --> 0:51:15.239
<v Speaker 1>was YouTube if I really cared about this, So I

0:51:15.320 --> 0:51:17.960
<v Speaker 1>made a video and I kept making videos every week

0:51:17.960 --> 0:51:19.759
<v Speaker 1>and they're doing okay, They're getting like a thousand views

0:51:19.840 --> 0:51:23.120
<v Speaker 1>or something like that. And in three months, Arianna Huffington

0:51:23.200 --> 0:51:26.279
<v Speaker 1>saw my videos from the Huffing and Post and so

0:51:26.440 --> 0:51:28.880
<v Speaker 1>she really connected with them, and they said, hey, j look,

0:51:28.880 --> 0:51:30.479
<v Speaker 1>we're not gonna pay you anything, We're not gonna do anything.

0:51:30.480 --> 0:51:32.000
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna take your videos. We're gonna put them on

0:51:32.000 --> 0:51:34.080
<v Speaker 1>the Huffing in Post page because we like your content.

0:51:34.160 --> 0:51:36.239
<v Speaker 1>What do you think. I'm like, great, let's get them

0:51:36.280 --> 0:51:38.239
<v Speaker 1>out there, right, like, that's what this is about. Smart

0:51:38.239 --> 0:51:40.719
<v Speaker 1>you recognized the opportunity when it wasn't a pache. Yeah, yeah,

0:51:40.719 --> 0:51:42.680
<v Speaker 1>there was no pageckets nobody. They put it out. The

0:51:42.800 --> 0:51:45.279
<v Speaker 1>first video did a million views in a week, The

0:51:45.400 --> 0:51:47.600
<v Speaker 1>second video did a million views in twenty four hours.

0:51:48.160 --> 0:51:50.239
<v Speaker 1>And those three or four videos I made for them

0:51:50.280 --> 0:51:52.480
<v Speaker 1>did like a hundred million views across that year. And

0:51:52.640 --> 0:51:56.120
<v Speaker 1>literally it just changed everything because now the message was

0:51:56.160 --> 0:51:59.040
<v Speaker 1>reaching people. And then I sent her right hand man

0:51:59.080 --> 0:52:01.440
<v Speaker 1>who's a good friend of mine now, Danny Shay. He

0:52:01.600 --> 0:52:03.680
<v Speaker 1>was the one who'd come out to make this contact happen.

0:52:04.480 --> 0:52:07.600
<v Speaker 1>I message him every day saying, when an't you giving

0:52:07.640 --> 0:52:09.200
<v Speaker 1>me a job? When he gave me a job, when

0:52:09.200 --> 0:52:11.399
<v Speaker 1>are you giving me a job? Finally, after thirty days,

0:52:11.760 --> 0:52:13.560
<v Speaker 1>he sent me a visa sent me a job off

0:52:13.600 --> 0:52:15.440
<v Speaker 1>for a move to New York City in twenty sixteen

0:52:15.440 --> 0:52:17.839
<v Speaker 1>September to work at The Half Post as a senior

0:52:17.880 --> 0:52:21.320
<v Speaker 1>hosting producer. That lasted around six months. I mean, the

0:52:21.400 --> 0:52:23.439
<v Speaker 1>way you're speaking is great because it's not even about

0:52:23.440 --> 0:52:25.640
<v Speaker 1>the meditation and what you're speaking, it's just about a

0:52:25.760 --> 0:52:28.479
<v Speaker 1>lot of people don't have that drive. You were told

0:52:28.560 --> 0:52:31.279
<v Speaker 1>no a thousands of times, but still did it. You know,

0:52:31.840 --> 0:52:34.120
<v Speaker 1>you did something that you had no idea about YouTube.

0:52:34.560 --> 0:52:36.640
<v Speaker 1>Then when they came with a situation, most people now

0:52:36.680 --> 0:52:38.239
<v Speaker 1>would be like, well, how much am I getting paid? Now?

0:52:38.280 --> 0:52:40.160
<v Speaker 1>You want to use my contact? And he was like, nah,

0:52:40.239 --> 0:52:42.839
<v Speaker 1>I understand what this could be and congratulating. I love

0:52:42.920 --> 0:52:45.160
<v Speaker 1>I love stories like that. Thank you, and thank you

0:52:45.200 --> 0:52:47.560
<v Speaker 1>for highlighting that. I really appreciate the way you're looking

0:52:47.560 --> 0:52:49.279
<v Speaker 1>at it over time, Like, yeah, you come up here

0:52:49.320 --> 0:52:50.879
<v Speaker 1>and be like how much I'm getting paid? But I'm

0:52:50.880 --> 0:52:52.160
<v Speaker 1>not doing this because I ain't get no money if

0:52:52.160 --> 0:52:54.080
<v Speaker 1>the tests. But somethings ain't about the money. We came

0:52:54.120 --> 0:52:56.080
<v Speaker 1>from a place where we both worked for a long

0:52:56.200 --> 0:52:58.759
<v Speaker 1>terms about the opportunity, but we knew hopefully well we

0:52:58.760 --> 0:53:00.160
<v Speaker 1>didn't even know. We did it for love. I did

0:53:00.200 --> 0:53:02.560
<v Speaker 1>it for love, and it just grew into what it

0:53:02.600 --> 0:53:04.960
<v Speaker 1>grew into. So I really respect and appreciate that. We

0:53:05.080 --> 0:53:07.160
<v Speaker 1>thank you for highlighting that because I think sometimes, you know,

0:53:07.520 --> 0:53:09.400
<v Speaker 1>we get lost in, especially when people talk to me,

0:53:09.440 --> 0:53:11.240
<v Speaker 1>we get lost in like the meditation and the mindfulness,

0:53:11.239 --> 0:53:13.480
<v Speaker 1>and it's like, that is my heart of what I

0:53:13.560 --> 0:53:15.680
<v Speaker 1>want to share. But the way I've got there has

0:53:15.800 --> 0:53:19.120
<v Speaker 1>not been normal or easy or you know, it's but

0:53:19.600 --> 0:53:22.000
<v Speaker 1>that's been the most fun part about it. Like I

0:53:22.200 --> 0:53:25.200
<v Speaker 1>think I always wanted to serve. My whole goal was

0:53:25.280 --> 0:53:27.680
<v Speaker 1>how can this reach more people? And when half Post

0:53:27.760 --> 0:53:30.680
<v Speaker 1>or anyone came with that opportunity and thankfully after six months,

0:53:30.719 --> 0:53:32.680
<v Speaker 1>I built in myself. I got to do it my way,

0:53:32.680 --> 0:53:34.279
<v Speaker 1>on my own, and I got to build it on

0:53:34.360 --> 0:53:37.799
<v Speaker 1>my first guest. My first big guest was Russell Brand

0:53:37.800 --> 0:53:39.560
<v Speaker 1>who I've known for a long time. We have the

0:53:39.600 --> 0:53:42.960
<v Speaker 1>same meditation teacher. We've been friends in London for a while.

0:53:43.040 --> 0:53:44.919
<v Speaker 1>So Russell Brown was my first big guest. My first

0:53:44.960 --> 0:53:47.680
<v Speaker 1>ever guest was my wife. It was my first episode.

0:53:47.960 --> 0:53:49.440
<v Speaker 1>Well she was your first big guest. Yeah, that was

0:53:49.440 --> 0:53:51.120
<v Speaker 1>my first yeah, oh yeah, thank you. Yeah I messed

0:53:51.120 --> 0:53:53.160
<v Speaker 1>that up. Yeah, I messed that up. Yeah, my wife

0:53:53.280 --> 0:53:55.239
<v Speaker 1>was my first big Yeah. Russell Brown was my first

0:53:55.280 --> 0:53:58.799
<v Speaker 1>well known guest. Novak Djokovic tennis player who I've known

0:53:58.840 --> 0:53:59.920
<v Speaker 1>for a while as well, he was one of my

0:54:00.080 --> 0:54:02.839
<v Speaker 1>first big guest. Uh And then you know, since then,

0:54:02.920 --> 0:54:05.359
<v Speaker 1>it's just been a joy to sit down with people

0:54:05.440 --> 0:54:10.759
<v Speaker 1>that yeah, I had till this day. And I'm not

0:54:10.880 --> 0:54:13.040
<v Speaker 1>just saying it because of what happened, and I don't

0:54:13.080 --> 0:54:14.600
<v Speaker 1>I wish I didn't even have to say that, but

0:54:14.719 --> 0:54:17.440
<v Speaker 1>I do because I think people try and make things

0:54:17.480 --> 0:54:22.000
<v Speaker 1>a certain way. But I have never felt someone more

0:54:22.160 --> 0:54:26.440
<v Speaker 1>present and grounded in his feet apart from monks, than

0:54:26.520 --> 0:54:29.879
<v Speaker 1>Kobe Bryant. Like when I spoke to him, I choose

0:54:29.960 --> 0:54:33.000
<v Speaker 1>there was so much gravity around him, and when he

0:54:33.120 --> 0:54:35.840
<v Speaker 1>spoke his voice as well, it had so much presence.

0:54:36.920 --> 0:54:40.399
<v Speaker 1>And that was two three months before the tragic event.

0:54:42.480 --> 0:54:44.560
<v Speaker 1>So his his team had reached out and they said, Jay,

0:54:44.600 --> 0:54:47.560
<v Speaker 1>we want Kobe to have a conversation with someone who

0:54:47.800 --> 0:54:51.600
<v Speaker 1>isn't only obsessed with basketball. And I said to him,

0:54:51.680 --> 0:54:53.960
<v Speaker 1>I liked basketball, but I didn't grow up like soccer

0:54:54.080 --> 0:54:56.120
<v Speaker 1>is my first sport, right football. I'm from England, That's

0:54:56.200 --> 0:54:59.680
<v Speaker 1>that's my thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's why I

0:54:59.680 --> 0:55:01.400
<v Speaker 1>had to try it's late for because then my British

0:55:01.400 --> 0:55:03.239
<v Speaker 1>friends make fun of me for saying Suker, so I've

0:55:03.280 --> 0:55:06.279
<v Speaker 1>got to you know. But yeah, Christiano Ronaldo, like, that's

0:55:06.360 --> 0:55:08.279
<v Speaker 1>that's my goat, right, Like that's the person I go to.

0:55:09.120 --> 0:55:11.640
<v Speaker 1>But obviously have so much respect for Kobe. Obviously I

0:55:11.960 --> 0:55:14.719
<v Speaker 1>love I love basketball, genuine enjoy watching it. And so

0:55:14.880 --> 0:55:16.640
<v Speaker 1>they said, but we want someone who talks to him

0:55:16.640 --> 0:55:20.600
<v Speaker 1>about storytelling about him, about his heart, about meditation, about

0:55:20.640 --> 0:55:22.680
<v Speaker 1>the stuff that he doesn't get to talk about because

0:55:22.680 --> 0:55:24.160
<v Speaker 1>every time he goes to an interview, people just to

0:55:24.160 --> 0:55:26.239
<v Speaker 1>ask him basketball questions. What was he like to play

0:55:26.239 --> 0:55:27.759
<v Speaker 1>in that game? What was he like to learn from this?

0:55:28.600 --> 0:55:30.160
<v Speaker 1>So they they've reached out to him, and I said,

0:55:30.360 --> 0:55:32.960
<v Speaker 1>this is a dream, like I feel honored, and so

0:55:33.080 --> 0:55:35.000
<v Speaker 1>we did that. That's how the podcast came about. I

0:55:35.040 --> 0:55:36.360
<v Speaker 1>didn't I didn't know him or I didn't have a

0:55:36.400 --> 0:55:39.160
<v Speaker 1>relationship with him, but in that short time that we

0:55:39.280 --> 0:55:42.879
<v Speaker 1>spent together, he walked into the room and he came

0:55:42.920 --> 0:55:46.800
<v Speaker 1>around to my whole team and he introduces Kobe Kobe

0:55:47.000 --> 0:55:49.359
<v Speaker 1>like to my video, and you know, everyone's geeking out

0:55:49.400 --> 0:55:50.840
<v Speaker 1>because everyone knows who he is. It doesn't have to,

0:55:51.200 --> 0:55:53.759
<v Speaker 1>but he was so respectful, so wonderful with the whole team.

0:55:54.000 --> 0:55:57.040
<v Speaker 1>They'll never forget that experience. Jay, we appreciate. I was

0:55:57.080 --> 0:55:59.439
<v Speaker 1>going to ask, can we meditate? But we really can't

0:55:59.480 --> 0:56:01.120
<v Speaker 1>because we need seven I mean it will be deadier

0:56:01.120 --> 0:56:02.719
<v Speaker 1>for seven minutes. Oh we can do it for lesson seven.

0:56:02.760 --> 0:56:04.400
<v Speaker 1>We can do it. Yeah, yeah we can. How long

0:56:04.480 --> 0:56:05.680
<v Speaker 1>do you give me your time limit? And then I'll

0:56:05.680 --> 0:56:09.279
<v Speaker 1>stick to that. Let's do a minute. Yeah, let's do it. Yeah, okay,

0:56:09.600 --> 0:56:11.279
<v Speaker 1>let's do it. And everyone who's listening can join in

0:56:11.320 --> 0:56:16.200
<v Speaker 1>as well. So what I wanted, okay, okay, so what

0:56:16.280 --> 0:56:18.680
<v Speaker 1>do whatever you want to do is just take a

0:56:18.800 --> 0:56:20.840
<v Speaker 1>moment to look around wherever they are. So keep your

0:56:20.880 --> 0:56:23.840
<v Speaker 1>eyes open, and I want you to just notice five

0:56:24.280 --> 0:56:29.400
<v Speaker 1>things in this space. Choose five things in your environment

0:56:30.840 --> 0:56:34.400
<v Speaker 1>and bring your awareness to them. The colors, the textures,

0:56:35.840 --> 0:56:39.239
<v Speaker 1>the fonts, whatever it may be, just five things, and

0:56:39.320 --> 0:56:44.640
<v Speaker 1>when you found them, close your eyes, taking a deep breath. Now,

0:56:44.880 --> 0:56:48.320
<v Speaker 1>what are four things that you can touch and just

0:56:48.440 --> 0:56:51.320
<v Speaker 1>be present with it. It could be your jacket, the

0:56:51.480 --> 0:56:56.480
<v Speaker 1>chair you're sitting on, your own hands. Four things that

0:56:56.600 --> 0:56:59.880
<v Speaker 1>you can touch notice the difference in the coolness and

0:57:00.040 --> 0:57:05.800
<v Speaker 1>a texture. Taking another deep breath, what are three things

0:57:05.920 --> 0:57:10.759
<v Speaker 1>that you can hear there? Maybe some white noise, the

0:57:10.880 --> 0:57:14.279
<v Speaker 1>sound of my voice, maybe even a voice in the

0:57:14.360 --> 0:57:18.440
<v Speaker 1>back of your head. Three things you can hear, Just

0:57:18.640 --> 0:57:23.040
<v Speaker 1>observe and be present, don't fight them. Just bring your

0:57:23.080 --> 0:57:28.160
<v Speaker 1>awareness back to your breath, breathe in. What are two

0:57:28.240 --> 0:57:31.760
<v Speaker 1>things you can smell? Maybe the beautiful sage that we

0:57:31.840 --> 0:57:35.240
<v Speaker 1>have here in the studio or the palace center. Maybe

0:57:35.280 --> 0:57:40.600
<v Speaker 1>a fragrance, it diffuses some food. Taking a deep breath,

0:57:41.920 --> 0:57:46.640
<v Speaker 1>And what's one thing you can taste? Maybe water breakfast?

0:57:47.880 --> 0:57:50.480
<v Speaker 1>And now, in a moment, when you gently and softly,

0:57:51.600 --> 0:57:53.520
<v Speaker 1>in your own time, at your own pace, you open

0:57:53.560 --> 0:58:00.439
<v Speaker 1>your eyes, you'll experience full presence. Can open your eyes, man,

0:58:00.720 --> 0:58:03.120
<v Speaker 1>I love to sound a white noise. I love the

0:58:03.240 --> 0:58:06.640
<v Speaker 1>things you see behind your eyelids. And I've been stressing

0:58:07.000 --> 0:58:10.840
<v Speaker 1>to my heart that we need a mindfulness minute on

0:58:11.080 --> 0:58:14.920
<v Speaker 1>all radio stations, like we need whether it's j could

0:58:14.920 --> 0:58:16.680
<v Speaker 1>be Jetty, it could be Debbie Brown. We need a

0:58:16.800 --> 0:58:21.160
<v Speaker 1>mindful this minute, like a few times throughout the day,

0:58:21.320 --> 0:58:24.320
<v Speaker 1>especially during like the ten am the two pm slot,

0:58:24.360 --> 0:58:26.680
<v Speaker 1>when it's mid days and people at work every nine

0:58:26.680 --> 0:58:27.920
<v Speaker 1>and then you just got to take a break, like

0:58:28.000 --> 0:58:29.960
<v Speaker 1>we got to do exactly what we did just now.

0:58:30.520 --> 0:58:34.040
<v Speaker 1>So when we call you, Jay, answer the phone the opportunity.

0:58:34.120 --> 0:58:37.400
<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Go get j Stty's book, Think Like a

0:58:37.520 --> 0:58:42.160
<v Speaker 1>monk Um, subscribe to them on Purpose podcast with Jay Setty,

0:58:42.280 --> 0:58:44.200
<v Speaker 1>and check out the app. One of my favorite people

0:58:44.280 --> 0:58:47.720
<v Speaker 1>to just follow and continue to be a great leader, Jake,

0:58:47.840 --> 0:58:51.720
<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Thank you so grateful. It's the Breakfast Club morning.

0:58:51.840 --> 0:59:04.800
<v Speaker 1>Oh it's a wrong. But after being ordered to pay

0:59:04.880 --> 0:59:08.840
<v Speaker 1>CARDI b upwards of four million dollars, bloggerd Taisha Kay

0:59:09.680 --> 0:59:12.760
<v Speaker 1>is saying that it was the machine and corporate interests

0:59:13.560 --> 0:59:15.680
<v Speaker 1>that was the reason why she lost. Here's what she

0:59:15.760 --> 0:59:20.360
<v Speaker 1>had to say. We called bluff against a machine that

0:59:20.520 --> 0:59:24.560
<v Speaker 1>wanted to bully me for not wavering from my personal beliefs.

0:59:24.960 --> 0:59:29.440
<v Speaker 1>A machine that has corporate interests to protect prostitution, drug

0:59:29.520 --> 0:59:33.880
<v Speaker 1>youth promiscuity, and to glorify the violence that rex having

0:59:34.320 --> 0:59:38.240
<v Speaker 1>on our society and in our neighborhoods. It's sold to

0:59:38.400 --> 0:59:43.600
<v Speaker 1>our children as the it factor. Although the court hasn't

0:59:43.640 --> 0:59:46.840
<v Speaker 1>instructed us to take the videos down, I've always said

0:59:46.920 --> 0:59:49.480
<v Speaker 1>that I would comply with any court or jury. The

0:59:49.680 --> 0:59:52.400
<v Speaker 1>videos have been taken down to show good faith to

0:59:52.640 --> 0:59:56.520
<v Speaker 1>the courts. This machine has tried to have me arrested,

0:59:56.720 --> 1:00:00.240
<v Speaker 1>threatened my life, and created a fake narrative about I mean,

1:00:01.480 --> 1:00:03.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean you lied. You know what I'm saying. You

1:00:03.920 --> 1:00:08.640
<v Speaker 1>lied about somebody maliciously, with malicious intent. Cardi B's records.

1:00:08.680 --> 1:00:11.040
<v Speaker 1>She had to go and get tested to see if

1:00:11.120 --> 1:00:13.400
<v Speaker 1>she had herpes because you were spreading this rumor and

1:00:13.480 --> 1:00:16.160
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't true. That's a lie, right, And sometimes you

1:00:16.200 --> 1:00:17.680
<v Speaker 1>just got to take a step back and really see

1:00:17.760 --> 1:00:19.480
<v Speaker 1>what God is trying to show you. You know, it's

1:00:19.520 --> 1:00:21.560
<v Speaker 1>not about likes, it's not about going viral, it's not

1:00:21.600 --> 1:00:24.360
<v Speaker 1>about donating now, subscribe now. Sometimes just take a step

1:00:24.400 --> 1:00:25.880
<v Speaker 1>back and see what God is trying to show you.

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<v Speaker 1>Weapons for him to getst You will not prosper, but

1:00:28.920 --> 1:00:31.160
<v Speaker 1>they will if you are the weapon. And it's sad

1:00:31.240 --> 1:00:34.000
<v Speaker 1>when people simply can't take accountability or simply admit when

1:00:34.000 --> 1:00:36.560
<v Speaker 1>they're wrong. It shows a lack of integrity and reminds

1:00:36.600 --> 1:00:38.280
<v Speaker 1>folks while you're in the position you are in now.

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<v Speaker 1>And I respect Cardi B so much because that that

1:00:41.040 --> 1:00:44.320
<v Speaker 1>that court case took time. It took money. She had

1:00:44.320 --> 1:00:47.160
<v Speaker 1>to take this stand. That's not easy. Let it go

1:00:47.200 --> 1:00:50.200
<v Speaker 1>because she CARTI don't need the money. She had to things.

1:00:50.440 --> 1:00:53.520
<v Speaker 1>She did it to set to set an example, and

1:00:53.640 --> 1:00:55.800
<v Speaker 1>she did so. Shout took Cardi B and listen. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope all YouTubers podcast as bloggers. You know, all all

1:00:59.360 --> 1:01:02.080
<v Speaker 1>you folks in this new media space. Remember, small people

1:01:02.160 --> 1:01:03.920
<v Speaker 1>learn from their own mistakes. Wise people learn from the

1:01:03.960 --> 1:01:06.600
<v Speaker 1>mistakes of others. Even if you know she doesn't learn

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<v Speaker 1>from her mistakes, you should hasn't learned, and she is

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<v Speaker 1>saying that she's appealing. This case was meant to drain

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<v Speaker 1>me financially and it did not, and send a message

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<v Speaker 1>to anyone who thinks they have the right to challenge

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<v Speaker 1>a machine that protects their corporate interests. The appeal process

1:01:26.320 --> 1:01:30.480
<v Speaker 1>has already started and we intend to expose every conspiracy

1:01:30.560 --> 1:01:35.080
<v Speaker 1>against me, my company, and my family. There was no defamation,

1:01:35.920 --> 1:01:39.880
<v Speaker 1>no invasion of privacy, and suicidal thoughts, and we proved

1:01:39.960 --> 1:01:44.560
<v Speaker 1>that with sufficient factual evidence, and we intend to fight

1:01:44.800 --> 1:01:47.520
<v Speaker 1>until the truth is out. I don't think you can

1:01:47.600 --> 1:01:50.000
<v Speaker 1>prove that somebody didn't have suicidal thought. You don't know

1:01:50.040 --> 1:01:53.600
<v Speaker 1>what's inside a person's he's that's not gonna fly. But

1:01:53.720 --> 1:01:55.440
<v Speaker 1>that's not good advice. Whoever gave you that advice to

1:01:56.120 --> 1:01:58.880
<v Speaker 1>put more money into terrible situation, that's not good. He

1:01:58.960 --> 1:02:00.520
<v Speaker 1>has any friends, they need to be that girl. You

1:02:00.560 --> 1:02:03.560
<v Speaker 1>gotta just relax. This is a landmark case that every

1:02:03.640 --> 1:02:05.520
<v Speaker 1>lawyer in the world will be referencing from now on.

1:02:05.720 --> 1:02:08.400
<v Speaker 1>Precedent has been set. So you know all you YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>was everybody else move accordingly or get hit just like

1:02:10.880 --> 1:02:13.720
<v Speaker 1>she did. Right. Your pride is just making you feel

1:02:13.760 --> 1:02:17.240
<v Speaker 1>like you gotta keep it going like stop all right now?

1:02:17.280 --> 1:02:20.840
<v Speaker 1>Tyler Perry has dropped a media homecoming trailer and also

1:02:21.040 --> 1:02:27.080
<v Speaker 1>the Netflix release date. So here is that trailer. Halleluyer,

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<v Speaker 1>Hannelwier the heir are you doing? I'm gonna make this

1:02:32.720 --> 1:02:35.280
<v Speaker 1>big for my great grandson's graduation barbecue. I know you

1:02:35.400 --> 1:02:38.959
<v Speaker 1>want barbecue, but do you have any room for roasted brown?

1:02:41.560 --> 1:02:44.040
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna buy me on? Not the damn trick? What

1:02:44.240 --> 1:02:51.120
<v Speaker 1>come to forever? I'm a brown too, No, y'all here

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<v Speaker 1>about to break loose now the right February twenty fifth

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<v Speaker 1>is that date that you'll be able to watch that

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<v Speaker 1>on Netflix? Yeah, so crazy, but I'm old enough to

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<v Speaker 1>remember when we used to get to Tyler Perry my

1:03:08.600 --> 1:03:11.760
<v Speaker 1>dear DVD stage place and watch those at the house.

1:03:11.800 --> 1:03:14.360
<v Speaker 1>Getting one of those from Blockbusters a thing. Now you

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<v Speaker 1>can just watching new Tyler Perry movie on at home

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<v Speaker 1>on that all right, Well that is your rumor reports.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, thank you, miss see Charlomage, who're giving that donkey?

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<v Speaker 1>Donkey of the Day is going to a young man

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<v Speaker 1>in Jersey City named Travis Nearly. Albert Einstein has a quote,

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<v Speaker 1>and that quote is insanity is doing the same thing

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<v Speaker 1>over and over and expecting different results. We'll discuss that

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<v Speaker 1>quote when we come back, all right, and then after

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<v Speaker 1>they get on the phone lines, of course, we have

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<v Speaker 1>ask aye. So if you need relationship vice, call us now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the breakfast Club. Come on, so breakfast Club, Your

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<v Speaker 1>mornings will never be the same. How mudiable to pick up?

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<v Speaker 1>listen up your first dirty days of Audible or free

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<v Speaker 1>when you sign up at audible dot com slash. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>be out here acting like a donkey. It's time for

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<v Speaker 1>Donkey of the Day. I'm a big boy. I could

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<v Speaker 1>take it if you feel I deserve it. Ain't no

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<v Speaker 1>big deal. I know, Charlot Migne gotta go out some

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<v Speaker 1>funny setta say something you may not agree with doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean I need what's getting that donkey that donkey that

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<v Speaker 1>don't don't don't don't don't donkey o the day right

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<v Speaker 1>here the breakfast club. Bitches, you can call me the

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<v Speaker 1>donkey of the day, but like I mean no harm,

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<v Speaker 1>don't give the day for Thursday, January twenty seven goes

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<v Speaker 1>to thirty four year old Travis Nearly. Now. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>everyone listening to my voice has heard that Albert Einstein quote.

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<v Speaker 1>Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again

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<v Speaker 1>and expecting different results. Well, because I've gotten old, I

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<v Speaker 1>see that statement differently. There's a lot of things we

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<v Speaker 1>do over and over again and expect different results. Like

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<v Speaker 1>played a lottery I played Mega millions in Powerball over

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<v Speaker 1>and over again, expecting different results. Okay, I'm used to losing.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I went four dollars, sometimes I win seven. Last

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<v Speaker 1>week I bought a Mega million and Powerball ticket and

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<v Speaker 1>I won nine dollars, career high for me. Drop one

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<v Speaker 1>of Ko's bombs for my career high of nine dollars

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<v Speaker 1>with the Mega million powerball. Okay, all right for me,

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<v Speaker 1>those were all different results, and I will continue to

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<v Speaker 1>play over and over again because I want that ultimate result,

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<v Speaker 1>which is all five numbers and the powerball that jackpot baby.

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<v Speaker 1>So yes, we do things over and over and expect

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<v Speaker 1>different results. Sometimes folks do the same things over and

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<v Speaker 1>over again because they know exactly what they are going

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<v Speaker 1>to get. They do the same thing over and over

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<v Speaker 1>again because they know what the result is going to be.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what happened in Jersey City. See Travis Nearly

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<v Speaker 1>robbed the spot called Augie's Grocery Delhi. He didn't rob

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<v Speaker 1>it once, he didn't rob it twice. He didn't rob

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<v Speaker 1>it three times. He robbed it four times. Why did

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<v Speaker 1>he keep doing the same thing over and over Not

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<v Speaker 1>because he expected a different result, but because he knew

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<v Speaker 1>what the result was going to be. He thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was an easy lick. Let's go to source twelve report

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<v Speaker 1>police in his thirty two years running Aggie's Delhi Grocery

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<v Speaker 1>on Old Bergen Road. This was a first surveillance video

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<v Speaker 1>from January tenth shows a masked man coming behind the

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<v Speaker 1>counter and charging at seventy seven year old Aggie Lopez

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<v Speaker 1>and came on top of me and the banging me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm saying what. Then he says he stole a

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<v Speaker 1>few cigars, but it wasn't enough. He came back five

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<v Speaker 1>days later, knocked Aggie to the ground and got away

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<v Speaker 1>with cash. He then came back the very next day

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<v Speaker 1>again more money. Then for the fourth time in eleven days,

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<v Speaker 1>he came back, same guy, same clothes, and this time

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<v Speaker 1>he jumped over with a counting but this time he

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<v Speaker 1>had as a bride. We had a police officer here

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<v Speaker 1>and they grabbed him. I saw this in passing on

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<v Speaker 1>the news because of course I live in Jersey, and

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<v Speaker 1>the first thing I thought was what a coward robbing

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<v Speaker 1>that old man, hitting that old man over the head.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I heard the Delhi on and say we will

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<v Speaker 1>be ready when he comes back. But I said, he's

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<v Speaker 1>not coming back, because I didn't realize he already had

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<v Speaker 1>came three times. Pause, whoa, whoa, hey, yo, Now here's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. Travis Neely might be insane, all right, this

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<v Speaker 1>is who Albert Einstein wrote the quote for. Because when

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<v Speaker 1>you talk about doing the same thing over and over

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<v Speaker 1>and expecting different results. I'm positive Albert Einstein wasn't talking

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<v Speaker 1>about crimes, all right. He might have been talking about workouts, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>not about crimes, all right. If he was robbing people,

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<v Speaker 1>if he was robbing places, you wouldn't continue to rob

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<v Speaker 1>the same individual, would you. You wouldn't continue to rob

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<v Speaker 1>the same place, would you, Because eventually that person our

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<v Speaker 1>place you keep hitting, it's gonna prepare for your arrival.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what happened here. The funniest thing about this

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<v Speaker 1>news report to me is when it says the Robert

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<v Speaker 1>Travis Neely was stunned when off duty police officer Maurice Johnson,

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<v Speaker 1>who had stopped by the check on the store that

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<v Speaker 1>already got robbed three times, jumped out from the back

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<v Speaker 1>of the store. I know what you're thinking, Okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>drug was Travis on? All right? This ain't normal. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't rob the same store four times and then I

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<v Speaker 1>surprised when the officer pops out on the fourth time.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how that's like. I went. Taylor Swift, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>acts fake surprise that she's winning an award. Taylor, you

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<v Speaker 1>know you were winning. Okay, wait, Uncle Charlotte don't get distracted.

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<v Speaker 1>What drug was Travis on? Well, he was rushed to

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<v Speaker 1>the Jersey Jersey City Medical Center after his arrest due

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<v Speaker 1>to possibly being under the influence of CDs. Now I'm old.

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<v Speaker 1>I see acronyms. I don't know what they mean. The

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<v Speaker 1>more I saw CDs, I was like, under the influence

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<v Speaker 1>of CDs. But what the hell drug is CDs? I

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea, So I did some research and by

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<v Speaker 1>research I mean Google and all it means it's controlled

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<v Speaker 1>dangerous substance. Okay, I just thought it was something new.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's the same old, same old heroin, opioid dope,

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<v Speaker 1>dog food. Okay, look, it sounds to me like Travis

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<v Speaker 1>nearly needs to change his daily routine. You robbed the

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<v Speaker 1>same Delhi four times in eleven days. You probably need

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<v Speaker 1>to change your routine. Actually, you need to change your life,

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<v Speaker 1>your whole life, Travis. But it starts with changing your routine,

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<v Speaker 1>and robbing shouldn't be part of your routine. Okay. Moral

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<v Speaker 1>of this story for everyone listening is you will never

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<v Speaker 1>change your life and tell you change something you do daily.

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<v Speaker 1>The secret of your success is found in your daily

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<v Speaker 1>routine routine, especially if your routine is Robbing the same

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<v Speaker 1>person multiple times is not progress. Please let me give

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<v Speaker 1>Travis nearly the biggest he hall he ha, he ha,

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<v Speaker 1>You stupid mother? Are you dumb? Now? I wish the

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<v Speaker 1>old man would have had a gun and shot his ass.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm telling you. Come to the store four times,

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<v Speaker 1>you hit me over the head every now and then

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<v Speaker 1>you're asking to get that shot. I don't like to

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<v Speaker 1>promote violence, no, but I promote self defense and defended

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<v Speaker 1>yourself and property. Hit me over the head. I could

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<v Speaker 1>have hit my head and died. Now, you should have

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<v Speaker 1>got shot. He lucky. Ain't your shot a good time?

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<v Speaker 1>And he deserved the bullet. And the hood should have

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<v Speaker 1>beat his ass for going into the store beating up

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<v Speaker 1>an old man like that. I'm sure they will. He's

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<v Speaker 1>probably enjailed. Like man, you robbed all. He's all. He's

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<v Speaker 1>got the best sandwich is said Daly too. God damn it,

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<v Speaker 1>I just burned my finger, My dumb ass, talk about

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<v Speaker 1>doing the same thing over and over. I keep flicking

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<v Speaker 1>the damn light and knowing it's hot as hell. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>burn your finger, Yeah, I'm sure all right? Well next,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for that, donkey, to day. Ask ye eight

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<v Speaker 1>hundred five eight five one oh five one. You need

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<v Speaker 1>relationship advice to any type of advice? Call ye now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, what what what? What?

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<v Speaker 1>What you gonna know? Baby mama issues? Need some words

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<v Speaker 1>of wisdom? Call up now for asking eight hundred five

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<v Speaker 1>eight five one oh five one the Breakfast Club. Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>need relationship advice, need personal advice? Just need real advice?

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<v Speaker 1>Call up now for ask ye to Hey, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>It's Angela. What's your question for asking ye? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>so this is the situation. First of all, good morning

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<v Speaker 1>New York, Good morning, good morning, Good morning world. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there we go. All right, So what happened was all right,

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<v Speaker 1>just recently a young lady call me, y'all, and I

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<v Speaker 1>used to deal with and she was married. She is

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<v Speaker 1>Mavbie now, but when I first started talking to her,

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't mavvy you was kind of eighty but just like

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand thirteen. So after we would eating come to

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<v Speaker 1>find out she had her boyfriend, baby daddy, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I left alone. Okay, so we've been cool. All emotions,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, rang out. We've been cool over the years.

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<v Speaker 1>But the problem is recently talk about twenty nineteen. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know what to do. She's going through counsel

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<v Speaker 1>and but I'm like, but what should I do? Um, well,

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<v Speaker 1>she's still married, right, okay? And are you doing anything

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<v Speaker 1>with her? Okay? So here's my thing. It feels a

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<v Speaker 1>little messy over there. So how's your life outside of that? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the only person I fired that like go

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<v Speaker 1>out on the DAP for empty life. So I'm kind

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<v Speaker 1>of right, it feels too messy. I wouldn't voluntarily put

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<v Speaker 1>myself in a situation with somebody who already when you

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<v Speaker 1>first met her, was involved and you had to step

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<v Speaker 1>away from that. And you know, now she's married, she

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<v Speaker 1>has to make some decisions, and so I don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I would want to put myself in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of that. You know, that's kind of like and I

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<v Speaker 1>could tell you're asking about it because you care about her,

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<v Speaker 1>you miss her, But yes, right, But you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that you just can't accept certain things for yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>and your standards have to be high enough that you say, look,

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<v Speaker 1>as a friend, you know, I'm hoping to everything you

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<v Speaker 1>got you get it together. If you're not in a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship anymore. If you're not married anymore, then that's a

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<v Speaker 1>consideration we can take. But I don't think you should

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<v Speaker 1>put yourself that's you know, that's just not a situation

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<v Speaker 1>you should voluntarily be in. True right now, right you

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<v Speaker 1>know a lot of options are coming my way at

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<v Speaker 1>the moment, you know, because of the pandemic. To all

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<v Speaker 1>of that, you know, don't make your life more complicated.

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<v Speaker 1>And I also feel like sometimes when you do that,

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<v Speaker 1>you kind of block out what could be with some

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<v Speaker 1>with the right person. And she may not be the

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<v Speaker 1>right person you, but she has a responsibility also and

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<v Speaker 1>for herself to figure out what she's doing in her

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<v Speaker 1>life and her relationship before she can even move on, right, true.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just don't want you to get hurt. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna get hurt. It's okay. It's somebody that

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<v Speaker 1>you care about, that's with somebody else, that's already done

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<v Speaker 1>something that, whether or not you admit it, hurt you

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<v Speaker 1>in the past because you ended up having a step away,

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<v Speaker 1>and then because you care about her, she's come back.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's not ideal for you exactly. Thank you, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I really appreciate your info. You're welcome. You sound like

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<v Speaker 1>a great guy, Tony, and I'm sure there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of women out here that would love to meet you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I'm six or hit Instagram so I'll follow

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<v Speaker 1>your soul if you ever tee me and I'll hit you.

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<v Speaker 1>Sow your message, you know, please respond? What is it again?

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<v Speaker 1>So everybody, all the women listening to here, because you

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<v Speaker 1>are one hundred percent single? What is it? Lloyd? L

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<v Speaker 1>O R D DOT Sin s I N C R. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>got you? Ask ye eight hundred five eighty five one

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<v Speaker 1>or five one. If you need relationship advice and any

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<v Speaker 1>type of advice, call ye. Now it's the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, some real advice with Angela yet, ask ye morning?

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody's DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are

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<v Speaker 1>the breakfast Club with in the middle of ask ye, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>who's this? What's happening? Hey? First, before anything, I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>tell y'all Charlotte Man, I love you. I love you too,

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<v Speaker 1>King Ye, I love you. I love y'all man for real? Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your question for? Ask ye? If the girls that

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<v Speaker 1>you w you know she has a threesome before you

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<v Speaker 1>guys got together, you know, the past really don't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know something, it might bother some people when

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<v Speaker 1>they get into the relationship and they might find out

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<v Speaker 1>or they girl or boy frand teller whatever, that they

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<v Speaker 1>was in the threesome before they had gotten to the

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with the person they w boy, did you and

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<v Speaker 1>byted you? You know what. It did bothered me for

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<v Speaker 1>a minute because her when we were asking, when we

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<v Speaker 1>were talking about it, when we was you know how

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<v Speaker 1>relationships start, y'all just friends, you know, y'all getting to

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<v Speaker 1>know each other and everything is kind of like spoke freely.

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<v Speaker 1>So when she first you know what, she asked me

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<v Speaker 1>if I had one? I'm like, yeah, I had about

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<v Speaker 1>four maybe five. Then I asked her, she comes she

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<v Speaker 1>never had one. Then we got, you know, in the relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>things got, you know, been together for a by the year,

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<v Speaker 1>there's all the sudden that she tells me that she

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<v Speaker 1>did have one. You know, it came up again and

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<v Speaker 1>she tells me that she did. So I did feel

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<v Speaker 1>a way about it, for sure. Did you feel a

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<v Speaker 1>way that she lied to you initially or did you

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<v Speaker 1>feel a way that she had a three seth It

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<v Speaker 1>was it was a little bit of both. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of both. She probably didn't want you

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<v Speaker 1>to judge her because people look at women differently all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. On our sexual experiences, there's a lot of judgment.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do you feel like when somebody tells you

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<v Speaker 1>something that places a lot of trust in you and

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<v Speaker 1>in the relationship, and you can't really hold things over

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<v Speaker 1>people's head from when they met, were from what happened

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<v Speaker 1>before you, right, you know, the only issue is that

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't tell the truth initially. But you guys were

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<v Speaker 1>just friends then, right, Yeah, you know, were at that

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<v Speaker 1>stage where you know, you're getting to know each other.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are asking each other question. Right, it was

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<v Speaker 1>like really no expectations, There was no judgment and then

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, it was probably the lie you know

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<v Speaker 1>at first, and then it was you know, I'm thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about the three from I'm replaying it in my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like damn and she were lied to me

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<v Speaker 1>about it, Like what kind of three from what? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I just I let my mind get

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<v Speaker 1>the best them. Right, Well you have four of them,

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, but yeah, I get it that it

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<v Speaker 1>was a lie. But you have to also understand that

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<v Speaker 1>women are judged constantly all the time to this day.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really bad. And so sometimes when you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>somebody well enough, you don't know if we're gonna end

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<v Speaker 1>up together. I don't want to tell you too much,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you take this and then you know it

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<v Speaker 1>comes back up. I also got to see how you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna treat me. Are you gonna look at me crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm sure that she felt a little bit like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure if I could trust him enough to

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<v Speaker 1>share this with him? Right right, right right? But you

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<v Speaker 1>over right now right? Oh yeah, I've been over when

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<v Speaker 1>you asked me. When the person asked me right what

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna ask you, I'm like, uh, yeah, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>feel away about this, So yeah, let me ask you

1:17:29.000 --> 1:17:33.200
<v Speaker 1>about this. Are y'all gonna have a threesome? No? We

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<v Speaker 1>probably she probably is not gonna have a threation with me.

1:17:35.760 --> 1:17:38.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm not even interested in having no threesothing like that.

1:17:38.600 --> 1:17:42.680
<v Speaker 1>That's that's that's I have better sex with with, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>with just one woman, then then I've had any three them,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, And that's real. And at least you have

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<v Speaker 1>the chance to experience those things before to know that

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<v Speaker 1>you know you live your life and then you settle

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<v Speaker 1>down with the person who you want to be with,

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<v Speaker 1>right right, Okay, thank you, Yeah, I appreciate y'all. Love y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>bro ask ye eight hundred five eight five one O

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<v Speaker 1>five one. If you need relationship advice, you could always

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<v Speaker 1>hit in. Now you got rumors on the way, Janet Jackson.

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<v Speaker 1>This documentary, a two night documentary event, is primaring tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll tell you some more that you can expect to see.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a surprise appearance. All right, we'll get into that next.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the Rumor Report with Angela Ye. Well, Kanye wants

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<v Speaker 1>to help out with the homeless crisis in LA and

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to get them to model some clothes. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>He is working with streetwear brand skid Roll Fashion Week

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<v Speaker 1>on a new collab and fashion show. The ultimate goal

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<v Speaker 1>is to help out the homeless. David's Bashion, who is

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<v Speaker 1>the founder of skid Roll Fashion Week, told tim Z

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<v Speaker 1>he met with Kanye earlier this month while he was

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<v Speaker 1>recording Donda two at his studio and they decided to

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<v Speaker 1>create a easy skid Row Fashion Week clothing collab. He

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<v Speaker 1>said the company donates a portion of all sales to

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<v Speaker 1>helping those living on skid Row, and the factory that

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<v Speaker 1>makes the clothes employees the homeless, and that Easy collabor

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<v Speaker 1>use one hundred percent of the proceeds to help the

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<v Speaker 1>homeless on skid Row. In the Drop February twenty second,

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<v Speaker 1>that's dope. I didn't know skid Row had a fashion show.

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<v Speaker 1>Skid Role we having a fashion I didn't know they

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<v Speaker 1>had a fashion And how does that work? And am

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<v Speaker 1>I thinking about this correctly when I say when I

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<v Speaker 1>hear skid roll fashion show? Or am I is that

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<v Speaker 1>just the name for something? Well, it's the name of

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<v Speaker 1>it's a it's a clothing line. And then they're doing

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<v Speaker 1>a fashion show, so they don't take actual you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, it's placed people and let them walk

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<v Speaker 1>the runway. Yeah, I don't know if they've done a

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<v Speaker 1>fashion show before. Dope, though, if they paid the homeless

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<v Speaker 1>people to actually to do a fashion show and bring

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<v Speaker 1>people to where they from and make sure that they

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<v Speaker 1>keep those clothes and pay them I think about stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like that, it would be dope. But that's like a

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<v Speaker 1>one time payment, Like, how do you hope those people

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<v Speaker 1>permanently is you know what I mean? So well, they

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<v Speaker 1>already have them working in the factory for a skid

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<v Speaker 1>Row Fashion Week, so that's one of the things that

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<v Speaker 1>they do. And like we said, the p of the proceeds.

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<v Speaker 1>But they're saying one hundred percent of this clothing collab

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<v Speaker 1>is going to go to help out the homeless, I hope.

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<v Speaker 1>So because you don't want them to be homeless anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>that that should be the goal, right, m Absolutely, And

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<v Speaker 1>they're saying that one thing that they're kicking around as

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<v Speaker 1>an idea is a trash bag puffer jacket. So I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that's dope. And the reason another reason that because

1:20:19.880 --> 1:20:21.559
<v Speaker 1>folks you know, would make jokes and say the clothes

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<v Speaker 1>that Kanye may look like homeless folks to whim anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>they do say that, But I think that would be

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<v Speaker 1>dope if you could pay the homeless people to do

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<v Speaker 1>it and have people come down. It's dope to flip

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<v Speaker 1>that narrative. Correct, you make the jokes about me, but

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<v Speaker 1>watch what I'll do with this, all right? Nick even

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<v Speaker 1>Nach has confirmed that she has a collab but little

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<v Speaker 1>Baby that is arriving On February fourth, she posted a

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<v Speaker 1>picture on set with little Baby and said, do we

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<v Speaker 1>have a problem baby times barbe pink Friday, February fourth, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so get ready for that. I want to hear that,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Janet Jackson, you know her documentary, that two

1:20:54.680 --> 1:20:58.800
<v Speaker 1>part documentary is coming out tomorrow. Oh, no, tomorrow's tomorrow Friday. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what day it is. Yeah, so that's

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<v Speaker 1>going to be coming out. It's two parts of a

1:21:03.560 --> 1:21:06.679
<v Speaker 1>lifetime in A and E documentary called Janet, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of things that will be discussed. Now. Janet

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<v Speaker 1>Jackson said her brother teased her about her weight game,

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<v Speaker 1>Michael Jackson, and called her names, and she said there

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<v Speaker 1>were times when Mikey said, tease me and call me pig, horse, slaughterhog, cow.

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<v Speaker 1>He would laugh about it and I'd laugh too, but

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<v Speaker 1>there was something down inside that it would hurt. And

1:21:26.240 --> 1:21:28.200
<v Speaker 1>she said, when you have somebody say you're too heavy,

1:21:28.320 --> 1:21:31.559
<v Speaker 1>it affects you. She said she and her older brother

1:21:31.680 --> 1:21:34.080
<v Speaker 1>drifted apart as they grew older, starting with the release

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<v Speaker 1>of his album Thriller in nineteen eighty two. She said,

1:21:36.320 --> 1:21:38.720
<v Speaker 1>I really I remember really loving a Thriller album, but

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<v Speaker 1>for the first time in my life, I felt like

1:21:40.320 --> 1:21:42.920
<v Speaker 1>it was different between us. A shift was happening. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the time Mike and I started going our separate ways.

1:21:45.479 --> 1:21:47.080
<v Speaker 1>He just wasn't as fun as he used to be.

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<v Speaker 1>And when they worked together on Scream in nineteen ninety five,

1:21:49.640 --> 1:21:52.760
<v Speaker 1>she felt frozen out by him. She said, Michael shot nights,

1:21:52.800 --> 1:21:55.200
<v Speaker 1>I shot days. His record company would block off his

1:21:55.280 --> 1:21:57.400
<v Speaker 1>set so I couldn't see what was going on. They

1:21:57.439 --> 1:21:59.639
<v Speaker 1>didn't want me on set. That really hurt me because

1:21:59.680 --> 1:22:02.320
<v Speaker 1>I felt like I was there fighting the fight with him,

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<v Speaker 1>not to battle him. I wanted to feel like old

1:22:04.160 --> 1:22:06.160
<v Speaker 1>times between he and I, and it didn't. Old times

1:22:06.200 --> 1:22:10.800
<v Speaker 1>had long passed. She who knew, I had no idea now.

1:22:10.880 --> 1:22:13.040
<v Speaker 1>She also shut down rumors of a secret baby with

1:22:13.160 --> 1:22:15.519
<v Speaker 1>her ex James Debarred. She said, that is not right.

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<v Speaker 1>Back in the day, she said, how could I keep

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<v Speaker 1>a child from their father? I could never do that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not right. So also, how old were they when

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<v Speaker 1>they were making these jokes on each other? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you got brothers and sisters, you make jokes on

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<v Speaker 1>your brothers. I was gonna say the same thing. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>an only child, but you know, Madison and Logan, they

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<v Speaker 1>make old times got an old, two younger brothers and

1:22:32.520 --> 1:22:34.880
<v Speaker 1>younger sister, Like how old they were? Never do you

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<v Speaker 1>remember when she gained weight? Like she was a little

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<v Speaker 1>older when that happened. So she's saying it was it

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<v Speaker 1>was when the weight gain happened. It sounds like it

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<v Speaker 1>was when they were kids. When she was penny, she

1:22:45.479 --> 1:22:47.560
<v Speaker 1>wasn't big, she was really small. When I get in

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<v Speaker 1>a little way, my kids made fun of me too.

1:22:48.960 --> 1:22:51.439
<v Speaker 1>They told me a way I need a bra like well,

1:22:51.479 --> 1:22:53.120
<v Speaker 1>she said, she laughed, but she said it did hurt her.

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<v Speaker 1>She's right. Why do I feel like? Why do I

1:22:57.280 --> 1:22:59.280
<v Speaker 1>feel like? I remember Michael saying one of the reasons

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<v Speaker 1>he got an old because he used to get teased

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<v Speaker 1>about his nose, about his family members. So there must

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<v Speaker 1>have been some great jokes in that house. Then there

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<v Speaker 1>must have been all snapping on each other. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you have to understand the way that it does hurt

1:23:10.560 --> 1:23:12.400
<v Speaker 1>people when you say things. They might try to laugh

1:23:12.439 --> 1:23:14.439
<v Speaker 1>it off in the moment, but it can really have

1:23:14.520 --> 1:23:16.400
<v Speaker 1>an effect on you. I agree. But you know what

1:23:16.640 --> 1:23:18.760
<v Speaker 1>that is that that has been a big part of

1:23:18.800 --> 1:23:22.759
<v Speaker 1>our culture for time, playing the dozens. That's right, snapping

1:23:22.800 --> 1:23:26.800
<v Speaker 1>on people. Team metal mouth and four eyes and brace face.

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<v Speaker 1>So I got all that shrimp not just something to

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<v Speaker 1>be aware of. Right, we still tease folks. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>let me come here with all that Beijing on his face.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna get these Stop it, man, leave me a little.

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<v Speaker 1>That is your record. I want to salute to the

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<v Speaker 1>are the Breakfast Club. Now, I just want to say

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<v Speaker 1>thank you and shout out to all of you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, me and the wife. We have a book

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<v Speaker 1>for everybody that that helped me with the book, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>that that wrote something about me and my wife in

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<v Speaker 1>the book, it's about everything. It's it's things that we've

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<v Speaker 1>been through, so hopefully that you guys won't have to

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<v Speaker 1>or you guys can learn from possibly, whether it's insecurities,

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<v Speaker 1>it's right fighting, it's uh cheating and fighting. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>was a right fighter meaning I'm wrong, but I fight

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<v Speaker 1>to the end because I just want to win the fight.

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<v Speaker 1>When sometimes you learn it's it's not about winning or losing,

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<v Speaker 1>it's about understanding each other. Y'all. Y'all are just in therapy.

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<v Speaker 1>That's therapy talking. I mean, we have to get to

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<v Speaker 1>get there. We've been there with we've been together twenty

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<v Speaker 1>seven years. We've been there so things like that. We

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<v Speaker 1>talk about raising our kids, love making, keeping a relationship, spicy,

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<v Speaker 1>all that. Because you know what, I hope, I really

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<v Speaker 1>hope sincerely that y'all get to go on a book tour.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that you know COVID clears up because Clovid

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<v Speaker 1>COVID has really stopped a lot of book tours, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of the bonds and nobles haven't been

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<v Speaker 1>allowing people to do that. But I hope by April

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<v Speaker 1>y'all really get to go out there and do a

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<v Speaker 1>book talk. Because when you get to go out there

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<v Speaker 1>and do a book toll man and you get to

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<v Speaker 1>see all those people in all those different cities that

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<v Speaker 1>really really support you in a different ways. It's one

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<v Speaker 1>thing when you're in the clubs and all of that

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that. But when you go to a bookstore

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<v Speaker 1>and people got to pull up to the bookstore to

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<v Speaker 1>you know, meet meet you, and year that's going. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a different feeling. So I really hope y'all get the

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<v Speaker 1>experience that. Yeah, I can't wait to have service without

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<v Speaker 1>you there too. That's gonna be fun. You'll have fun, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>I could do what y'all need to do. But excited

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<v Speaker 1>about that. If we get an advanced copy, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>have only the digital copies. I could send you the

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<v Speaker 1>digico copy. I hate the digital copy sometimes, but I'll

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<v Speaker 1>send you the digital cop because pure the pictures, because

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<v Speaker 1>there's pictures in there. It really shows up. You got

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<v Speaker 1>that picture that you had a little short time with

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<v Speaker 1>this knee high sicks. I did not put that picture.

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<v Speaker 1>You should. I'm not gonna lie as their time. No.

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<v Speaker 1>And the picture she's talking about is my mom showed

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<v Speaker 1>ANGELI a picture, you know, the Jamaican shirts with all

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<v Speaker 1>the holes in it, called the Jamaica shure. I had

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<v Speaker 1>that on. But back in the day, guys were short shorts,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like, you know what, I'm not even

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<v Speaker 1>gonna explain it. That pictures going who you wear short shorts,

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<v Speaker 1>big glasses on, to wear biker shorts and stuff. Back

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<v Speaker 1>in the day, that like that was regular, especially in Florida, priceless.

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<v Speaker 1>You should have put it in there. I'm good. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like running shorts. I'm good, all right when we

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<v Speaker 1>come back positive. Notice the breakfast clog morning everybody your

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<v Speaker 1>cj Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlomagne, the guy, we all the

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast club. We gotta shout to Jay Shetty for joining

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<v Speaker 1>us this morning. Man, salute to Jay Setty. If you

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<v Speaker 1>are not one of the nine point six million people

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<v Speaker 1>that follow Jay Setty on Instagram, you need to be

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<v Speaker 1>Jay Shetty has one of the biggest podcasts in the

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<v Speaker 1>world with Our Purpose. His book Think Like a Monk

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<v Speaker 1>is amazing. I mean, he's just a real leader in

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<v Speaker 1>this mind from this mental health meditation space and man,

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<v Speaker 1>if you just need help, tip health tips on self care,

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<v Speaker 1>follow Jay Setty, trust me one. He's one of He's

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<v Speaker 1>one of My goal to Jay Setty, DeBie Brown, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>glad that people like that exist. Okay, and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to shout out to Kenya Garrett. She sent me a

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful package of fancy products. You know we love fancy beauty,

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<v Speaker 1>so thank you too, Kenya. All right, Well, leave us

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<v Speaker 1>on a positive news the positive notice. Simply this man

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<v Speaker 1>self care. Speaking of self care, self care is choosing

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<v Speaker 1>not to argue with people who are committed to misunderstanding you.

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast club bitches, you are finishing, You'll done.