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Speaker 1: good morning. How are y'all feeling out there? I am blessed,

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Speaker 1: Then we went to Brooklyn to Negrille. They have a

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Speaker 1: But there you too, Mixie, are you mix well? Done

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Speaker 1: Danielle comes here. He always wants to like then after

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Speaker 1: He has a whole plan. Did you call with test? Angela?

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Speaker 1: You went done the hell better at y'all age? Man,

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Speaker 1: be at Caroline's all weekend. Don't you passed that COVID test?

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Speaker 1: I ain't got time to be that mixing. Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: after that? Then, you know, I gotta I gotta have

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Speaker 1: that is my dinner with friends at night. I don't think.

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Speaker 1: then we're friends. I just you know, especially since COVID,

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Speaker 1: we just really haven't been out like that. So wouldn't

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Speaker 1: You are always traveling? Yeah, but that's for work. But

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Speaker 1: And even when restaurants weren't open, I was ordering from

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Speaker 1: gonna sleep. Did you get last night like three hours? Lord,

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Speaker 1: Ja Shetty. I follow J Shetty a lot. Uh. You know,

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Speaker 1: his legal authority to cancel student loan debt. Now, in

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Speaker 1: inspired by the proposal to make a debt free college

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Speaker 1: I think, well, not you, Charlagne, But when you got it,

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Speaker 1: Jim Clapburn and Jim Claiburn. Well, they said he stands

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Speaker 1: But she said she only ever heard it one time

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Speaker 1: in Jamaica and she wasn't getting any royalties from that song.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't until twenty fourteen when she saw the song

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Speaker 1: in a reebok ad that she got legal advice on

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Speaker 1: her rights for that music. Who was getting all them

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Speaker 1: checks before then? Well, she actually was able to get

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Speaker 1: checks from the past ten years, but you know, because

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Speaker 1: of statute of limitations, that's as far back as she

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Speaker 1: could get it, so she says, now she owns fifty

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Speaker 1: percent of the album one two that that was on.

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Speaker 1: So she said, at least I'm getting something now. I

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Speaker 1: never used to get anything. To think about it, all

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Speaker 1: that time she didn't get anything. And actually, to Tibbett,

435
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Speaker 1: who wrote it, never collected any royalties for it. He

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Speaker 1: passed away in twenty twenty at the age of seventies.

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Speaker 1: At the age of seventy seven, he tell me nobody

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Speaker 1: was getting paid all there, or what I'm saying, who

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Speaker 1: was getting paid over those reggae artists were getting like that,

440
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Speaker 1: like they would do those compilations and know what they

441
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Speaker 1: wouldn't know, so they would steal all that money. What

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Speaker 1: was she's on du now? So who was getting them checks?

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Speaker 1: I wonder what's getting them checks? And you know what,

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Speaker 1: there are one hundred and twenty eight songs that have

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Speaker 1: sampled that song. Oh my good. You guys remember it

446
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Speaker 1: in Belly too, right, damn right? Remember Belly like y'all

447
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Speaker 1: have to wait till Ozok to make that song number

448
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Speaker 1: one on the Reggae harks. Belly, Well it just shot

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Speaker 1: back to number one because of that. But you know

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Speaker 1: that song came out a while ago, back in nineteen

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Speaker 1: eighty two. So shout out to Sister Nancy. I think

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Speaker 1: she lives in Jersey too, don't she? Who's loot to you?

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Speaker 1: Sister subsist. She wants to come up here, So we're

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Speaker 1: gonna make that happen all right now, Master Pa has

455
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Speaker 1: sent a message to people who are questioning his success.

456
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Speaker 1: He has released a new song, look at All These Haters,

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Speaker 1: that actually remake but yeah, it's a remake of his

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Speaker 1: song from before Stop Stop Hayting from the Ghetto d

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Speaker 1: Album nineteen ninety seven, Phoenix Shoke the shaka y'all was

460
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Speaker 1: not outside, and here is look at all these haters

461
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Speaker 1: to try to figure out how to get because the

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Speaker 1: same you know, all these haters surrounding me every day,

463
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Speaker 1: like my polyson talking. Yeah, he sounds good, but they

464
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Speaker 1: can't stop my page sound good. I'm not gonna hating.

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Speaker 1: I can't take getting no moan sound like. I'm just

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Speaker 1: trying to get him. He said, you best to get

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Speaker 1: jos what you're hating foth. It's crazy because it's still

468
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Speaker 1: relevant today. He sounds good. I'm not even gonna classic,

469
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Speaker 1: just a classic record. That's when the ghetto d album

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Speaker 1: album is hard all right now, Yo, Gotti is giving

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Speaker 1: one lucky person, one lucky artists a chance to appear

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Speaker 1: on his album and also signed to his label u

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Speaker 1: CM ten is dropping February fourth. He said, I want

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Speaker 1: to put a brand new artist in position about to

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Speaker 1: upload this to YouTube and SoundCloud right now. Whoever can

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Speaker 1: put that real pressure on here that I like, I'm

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Speaker 1: putting you on CM ten and possibly the label. Let's go. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's dope with with god he's doing. So if you

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Speaker 1: don't know he's leaving, like I know, he played it

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Speaker 1: on his Instagram yesterday, so he played four balls and

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Speaker 1: him rapping. Then you gotta wrap four balls. Then he

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Speaker 1: comes back and wrap four balls. Then you gotta wrap

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Speaker 1: four balls. Then he does a sixteen and you got

484
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Speaker 1: to do a sixteen. It's pretty dope and the song

485
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Speaker 1: is dope all right, right, So that's a good opportunity

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Speaker 1: for somebody, all right now. A And he has announced

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Speaker 1: a new documentary and docuseries about the life and times

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Speaker 1: of Bobby Brown. So if you're a lifelong fan and

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Speaker 1: follower of Bobby Brown, you'll get to look into his

490
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Speaker 1: personal and professional life soon. Thanks to those projects. So,

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Speaker 1: according to the press release, he'll be unveiling his struggles

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Speaker 1: with substance abuse, his marriage to Whitney Houston, the devastating

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Speaker 1: loss of Whitney Houston and his two children, and his

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Speaker 1: life as a devoted father and husband to his wife now,

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Speaker 1: Alicia Ethridge Brown. Man, y'all should read Bobby Brown's book Man,

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Speaker 1: Every Little Step My Story. Bobby Brown's book is incredible.

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Speaker 1: So it's a two night documentary, and then you also

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Speaker 1: get a glimpse of who Bobby is now in a

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Speaker 1: new twelve part docuseries, Bobby Brown, Every Little Step All

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Speaker 1: right Now, DARE is criticizing Euphoria. You know. DARE is

501
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Speaker 1: an anti drug education program, the drug abuse resistance education

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Speaker 1: program that first launched in the eighties amidst the so

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Speaker 1: called war on drugs. And they are saying that Euphoria

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Speaker 1: glamorizes substance abuse and anonymous sex and more. They said,

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Speaker 1: rather than further each parents desire to keep their children

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Speaker 1: safe from the potentially horrific consequences drug abuse and other

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Speaker 1: high risk behavior. HBO television drama Euphoria chooses to misguidedly

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Speaker 1: glorify and erroneously depicts high school student drug use, addiction,

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Speaker 1: anonymous sex, violence, and other destructive behaviors as common and

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Speaker 1: widespread in today's world. You know what day I should

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Speaker 1: do before they release statements like that, they should talk

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Speaker 1: to parents. And even when you do talk to parents,

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Speaker 1: you know, some parents may feel like that, some parents don't.

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Speaker 1: You know what that euphoria does. Euphoria actually allows you

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Speaker 1: to have conversations, you know, with your young children. You know,

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Speaker 1: your child that might be thirteen or in high school

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Speaker 1: that you know watches in DAYA and maybe watching that show.

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Speaker 1: It opens up a lot of different discussions that you

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Speaker 1: can absolutely have with your children. And they do not

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Speaker 1: glorify it. Euphoria makes me be like, Lord, have mercy, boy,

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Speaker 1: somebody got to talk to these kids out here. It

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Speaker 1: does not glorify to glamorize it at all. They seem

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Speaker 1: like they're going through it. Yes, all right, well that

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Speaker 1: is your rumor report. All right, now we got front

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Speaker 1: page news next. What we're talking about? Yes, something that

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Speaker 1: got Envy excited this morning and also too, it's just

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Speaker 1: a it's a TV show and what happened? Why are

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Speaker 1: we taking that TV show so serious? It's a TV show?

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Speaker 1: People look crazy though they are. All right, well, we'll

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Speaker 1: get into it next. It's the breakfast Club. Good morning.

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Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait up, wake up, wait, you're checking out

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Speaker 1: the breakfast Club? Hey, what up? Y'all? Is dj Envy here?

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Speaker 1: at dat chat dot com. Forward Slash MHD one new

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Speaker 1: Yard iHeartRadio Station. Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

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Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast Club. Let's getting

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Speaker 1: some front page news. What we got? Are we starting? Easy? Well?

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Speaker 1: McDonald's they have a fan made menu hack. Now that

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Speaker 1: is starting. Um, I've seen that. Yes, it says beginning

544
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Speaker 1: to January thirty first, and for a limited time they're

545
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Speaker 1: gonna sell four men and you hacks that have been

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Speaker 1: popularized by its biggest fans, and they've been prominent on

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Speaker 1: social media platforms like TikTok. You want to know who

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Speaker 1: they are? Yes, all right, there's a hash brown McMuffin

549
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 1: So this is uh combined sausage, big muffin and a

550
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Speaker 1: hash brown for an extra crunch. Then there's the crunchy double.

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Speaker 1: It's six piece chicken nuggets inserted into a double cheeseburger.

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Speaker 1: Then there's the land air and Sea. This is a

553
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Speaker 1: chicken sandwich, a big mac, and a filet of fish

554
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Speaker 1: all on one button. All of that. They should just

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Speaker 1: call that the high menu. Why they're calling into the

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Speaker 1: hack menu call it. And there's the surfing turf that

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Speaker 1: puts together a double cheeseburger and a filet of fish

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Speaker 1: and it's only available on the app or through delivery.

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Speaker 1: You can advantage of everybody on edibles. How you put

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Speaker 1: that in your mouth? Paus Wow, Like that's a lot.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you can handle it. I'm just saying

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Speaker 1: that they've taken an advantage of everybody on edibles, everybody

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Speaker 1: that's smoke and all this recreational marijuana out here. A

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Speaker 1: double cheeseburger, filet of fish and nothing for nothing. You

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Speaker 1: came in here and said, man, I would have ate

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Speaker 1: that up. When you just smush it, you gotta smo

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Speaker 1: that's the whole point. You smush it all together. Man.

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Speaker 1: Back in the day. I definitely the turk. McDonald's may

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Speaker 1: not be healthy for you, but boy, that thing be slapping.

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Speaker 1: You cannot sit here and act like that. Damn phileta

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Speaker 1: fish and them large hot fries. They gotta be hot.

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Speaker 1: No h a wt lord have mercy man, listen, McDonald's

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Speaker 1: fries still for me? Slap all right now. Now, let's

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Speaker 1: talk about the question that finally stumped Amy Schneider on Jeopardy.

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Speaker 1: She won her thirty ninth game. She is number two

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Speaker 1: on the game show's consecutive wins list, and she is

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Speaker 1: the woman who has won the most times in a row.

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Speaker 1: And all of that came to an end yesterday. She lost. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you want to hear the question for final Jeopardy today

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Speaker 1: Countries of the World category. Here's the clip. The only

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Speaker 1: nation in the world who's name in English ends in

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Speaker 1: an H. It's also one of the two most fuckers

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Speaker 1: do you not country? It's the only nation in the

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Speaker 1: world whose name in English ends with an H, and

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Speaker 1: it's all so one of the ten most populous. No go,

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Speaker 1: she didn't have it any that does not end with

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Speaker 1: the It sounds like anyway. She didn't even make a guess.

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Speaker 1: It was blank Bangladesh oh banglad dash shee. They should

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Speaker 1: have done something else. They should have said he produced

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Speaker 1: Little Wayne's classic track on Millie. See how would have

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Speaker 1: got that? Would have got it? I would have got

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Speaker 1: that one easily. Du club Amy. Amy had a great run.

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Speaker 1: How much did she make? Told? I know it's over

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Speaker 1: a million dollars one point three eight one point three

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Speaker 1: eight two million. Yeah, she got my name right. They

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Speaker 1: asked her a Jeopardy question about me, and she said

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Speaker 1: Charlomagne and God with no hesitation. So salute to you, Amy,

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Speaker 1: thirty nine times in a row. You know who won

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Speaker 1: the most Ken Jennings. You know how many wins he had?

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Speaker 1: Seventy four? Wow? And Amy? They dropped, they robbed, and

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Speaker 1: they robbed Amy Man. Amy had a life, boy Amy

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Speaker 1: Amy Life could be a movie in just the past

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Speaker 1: six months. Number one Jeopardy winner of all time? Or

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Speaker 1: what she number one? Number woman? Though as far as winning,

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Speaker 1: winning and she robbed out in La y'all really thought

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Speaker 1: Amy was walking around with that Jeopardy money in her bag.

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Speaker 1: Sure did well. She did lose to Ron Talisma, who

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Speaker 1: was a librarian from Chicago, So congratulations to her, all right,

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Speaker 1: Anne as new variants are emerging. Let's turn to COVID

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Speaker 1: for a second. The government is thinking about doing a

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Speaker 1: universal coronavirus vaccine, so as the virus is continuing to

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Speaker 1: evolve into new concerning variants, each with a slightly different

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Speaker 1: genetic code. They said, current vaccines still work well against

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Speaker 1: new variants, but they're no longer a perfect match because

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Speaker 1: usually they have to find a genetic code that's a

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Speaker 1: perfect match for the variant. So right now they have

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Speaker 1: been tweaking booster shots to match omicron. But now they're

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Speaker 1: talking about trying to come up with a pan coronavirus

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Speaker 1: vaccine that would work equally well against any COVID nineteen variant.

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Speaker 1: And that is a new approach that they are going

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Speaker 1: to have that they're aggressively pursuing. And also too, oh

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Speaker 1: with Amy from Jeopardy, do you say woman or do

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Speaker 1: you say trans woman too? Because no, you want all

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Speaker 1: representation to matter, right, I think you said Tran Well

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Speaker 1: I don't know, okay, because he says she represents the

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Speaker 1: trans community that you didn't know she was trans. All right,

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Speaker 1: well that is your rumor reports. All right, thank you news,

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Speaker 1: all right, now, when we come back, Jay Shetty will

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Speaker 1: be joining us. He's the host of the podcast on Purpose.

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Speaker 1: It's a health of wellness podcast. He's a form of

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Speaker 1: monk because a Purpose culture New York Times bestselling author.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna talk to him when we come back,

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Speaker 1: all right, So don't move. It's to Breakfast Club, Go Morning,

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

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Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got

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Speaker 1: a special guest in the building, absolutely, Jay Shetty, welcome.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for having me himself. Great for to bear man.

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Speaker 1: He's a very familiar voice because you got the number

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Speaker 1: one health and wellness podcast, spiritual mind fulness podcast on Purpose.

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Speaker 1: I've had the pleasure of being a guest on it.

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Speaker 1: Phenomenal guest. I loved the episode with Kobe Bryant. I

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Speaker 1: loved the episode with Jada Pick. You got a lot

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Speaker 1: of great episodes. Yeah, it's I'm really grateful. We've got

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Speaker 1: an amazing community. They keep showing up and we've had

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Speaker 1: some phenomenal guests. I was just saying, you were one

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Speaker 1: of our first guests and like the first three to

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Speaker 1: six months of the show and it was brand new,

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Speaker 1: so I'm so grateful that you did that. Man, I

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Speaker 1: really appreciate it. And I've been hearing a lot of

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Speaker 1: people talk about meditation lately, and so you actually help

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Speaker 1: guide people through how to meditate, right, Yes, yeah, So

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Speaker 1: I spent three years living as a monk in India

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Speaker 1: and across Europe, and so I was trained in how

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Speaker 1: to meditate from monks who've been practicing for decades, and

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Speaker 1: they were practicing ancient meditation techniques for thousands and thousands

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Speaker 1: of years. And so when I was trained in that school,

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Speaker 1: I felt this responsibility to want to share that with

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Speaker 1: the world because it changed my life. And I'm just

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Speaker 1: an average kid born and raised in London, and I thought, well,

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Speaker 1: if it can help me, then I'm sure it can

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Speaker 1: help a lot of people would leads the young man

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Speaker 1: want to be a monk. Trust me, I did not

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Speaker 1: grow up wanting to be a monk. And if someone

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Speaker 1: if someone told me that I was going to grow

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Speaker 1: up and become a monk, I probably would have thrown

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Speaker 1: a beer I'll at them that I would have been holding.

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Speaker 1: But I was born and raised in London and I

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Speaker 1: would go in my teens to go and hear from

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Speaker 1: people who'd gone from nothing to something. So I was

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Speaker 1: fascinated by rags to riches stories. I'd go and hear CEOs, entrepreneurs, athletes, celebrities,

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Speaker 1: and this is before podcasts and YouTube, so you actually

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Speaker 1: had to go to events. And so I'd go to

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Speaker 1: these events. And once my friends told me that a

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Speaker 1: monk was speaking, and I was skeptical. I was like,

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Speaker 1: what am I going to learn from someone who's gone

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Speaker 1: from nothing to nothing? Like, you know, what are they

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Speaker 1: going to teach me? And so I said to my friends,

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Speaker 1: I'd only go if we go to a bar afterwards.

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Speaker 1: I was eighteen years old, and they were being very persuasive,

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Speaker 1: so they agreed. So I end up at this event

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Speaker 1: at my university waiting to hear this monk speak. I

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Speaker 1: go there, I'm looking at the clock, like just waiting

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Speaker 1: to leave, and I was just mesmerized. And I don't

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Speaker 1: mean that in like a spiritual experience, where I just

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Speaker 1: mean like I was captivated by every word that he said.

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Speaker 1: And there was nothing externally attractive about him. He was

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Speaker 1: wearing robes, he was from India, he wasn't connected to

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Speaker 1: me in any other way, but he spoke about service

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Speaker 1: and he spoke about purpose, and he spoke about how

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Speaker 1: serving others and helping others with your skills and your

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Speaker 1: strengths is the greatest thing you can do. And my

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Speaker 1: eighteen year old self was just completely penetrating my heart

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Speaker 1: and I was just like, that's what I want. And

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Speaker 1: now when I look back, I realized that when I

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Speaker 1: was eighteen, I'd met people who were rich. I've met

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Speaker 1: people who are famous, and met people who are beautiful

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Speaker 1: and strong, but I don't think i'd met anyone who

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Speaker 1: is truly happy. And that day I felt like I

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Speaker 1: met someone who was truly happy and that you just

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Speaker 1: felt that energy in this space of being a monk.

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Speaker 1: So the process is you wake up at four am

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Speaker 1: every day, and what is a monk? Okay, So a

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Speaker 1: monk is someone who dedicates themselves to a particular spiritual

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Speaker 1: tradition and you genuinely practice celibacy during the time that

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Speaker 1: you're a monk. But beyond that, you're waking up every

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Speaker 1: day four am meditating for four to eight hours. So

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Speaker 1: the morning meditation finishes about eight thirty, then you get

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Speaker 1: some breakfast, then you do your daily chores, and then

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Speaker 1: the rest of the day we were out serving, So

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Speaker 1: we were serving food to the homeless, building sustainable villages,

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Speaker 1: helping out in schools, and this was all out in India,

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Speaker 1: so a lot of the philanthropy work as well. So

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Speaker 1: the morning was about self mastery and the afternoon was

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Speaker 1: about serving others. And so that's kind of like the

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Speaker 1: rough framework of what a day looks like. You know,

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Speaker 1: you said you wanted to be a monk because it

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Speaker 1: led you to public service. I feel like that's our

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Speaker 1: two purpose in life. Service to others. Yes, you can

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Speaker 1: do that without being a monk, So what made you

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Speaker 1: want to go full fledge and be a monk? Absolutely?

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Speaker 1: And I think the truth is that I didn't see

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Speaker 1: anyone living a life of service at that time who

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Speaker 1: wasn't living from a spiritual place. It just wasn't as common.

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Speaker 1: And now I feel so happy that this conversation is

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Speaker 1: happening in the mainstream. But when I was eighteen, that's,

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Speaker 1: you know, roughly sixteen seventeen years ago, that wasn't there.

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Speaker 1: You didn't see that. You saw the Forbes Rich List,

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Speaker 1: you saw that list. You didn't really a service list

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Speaker 1: or a purpose list. And I think that's changing. But

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Speaker 1: it was also the idea that the self mastery part

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Speaker 1: was you're actually going to work on purifying your ego.

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Speaker 1: You're actually going to work on your own mind, so

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Speaker 1: you're not just going to go out there and try

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Speaker 1: and help other people, but you're actually going to deal

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Speaker 1: with everything that's going on in here. And I think

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Speaker 1: that attracted me that, Wow, I'm going to get X

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Speaker 1: amount of time every day to figure out the mess

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Speaker 1: that's in here? When am I ever going to get

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Speaker 1: that time again? Like? Who's going to give you the two? It? Like?

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Speaker 1: You know, because if you want to be if you

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Speaker 1: want to join the army, you can enlist in the army.

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Speaker 1: If you want to be a police officer, you can

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Speaker 1: fill out that application if you want to be there.

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Speaker 1: So where do you go to be a monk? So

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Speaker 1: there are lots of different monks schools, if I can

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Speaker 1: use that word, across the world. There's Tibet, there's India,

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Speaker 1: there's you know, there's multiple ones, and I've visited many

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Speaker 1: of them. I think it's about finding as always, it

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Speaker 1: is a teacher, a guide that you connect with. And

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Speaker 1: so for me, I speak about this gentleman Garangadas in

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Speaker 1: my book. He was the monk that I felt and

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Speaker 1: affection and affinity with and so I wanted to study

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Speaker 1: in his school, and so when I was part of

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Speaker 1: his institution two hours outside of Mumbai in India, in

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00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 1: that space, they had a system of what you have

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Speaker 1: to practice, what you have to process why. So for example,

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Speaker 1: a big part of it was, you know, practicing silence.

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Speaker 1: And when you practice silence, people think, oh, that sounds terrible,

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Speaker 1: and it does for like seven days, and then after

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Speaker 1: that you stop worrying about all the noise outside. You

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00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 1: start hearing the noise inside, and then you go deeper

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Speaker 1: and deeper and deeper. A part of it was practicing fasting, right,

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Speaker 1: we were practicing fasting for since control and being able

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Speaker 1: to master the tongue and master the desire to eat

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Speaker 1: and talk. And so there's so many practices and methods

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Speaker 1: that were set up, and service was a big part

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Speaker 1: of it to help us actually grow as humans. And

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Speaker 1: I really feel that those three years amongks school have

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Speaker 1: massively impacted how I lived that life now and I

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Speaker 1: left nine years ago, so it's been a fair amount

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Speaker 1: of time. Once you're out of school, what was the

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Speaker 1: first thing you did, Like, what do you how do

773
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Speaker 1: you apply for positions, What did you do after three years?

774
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Speaker 1: After three years as being a monk, so I thought

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Speaker 1: I was going to do it for the rest of

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Speaker 1: my life, and after three years it almost felt like

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Speaker 1: a failure, like I felt like I messed up, because

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Speaker 1: all of that self awareness led me to the feeling

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Speaker 1: that I wasn't meant to be a monk, that I

780
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Speaker 1: wasn't actually qualified to live the life of a monk.

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Speaker 1: I realized that monk life required a certain sense of

782
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Speaker 1: letting go of the rebellious nature that I had inside

783
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Speaker 1: of me, and also that this calling and desire I

784
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 1: had in my heart to want to share this wisdom

785
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 1: and message in a certain way. I always when I

786
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: learned about all these ancient teachings and scriptures, I was like,

787
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Speaker 1: how cool would it be if we could share that

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Speaker 1: in a modern, relevant, practical way for the people that

789
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Speaker 1: I grew up with, who maybe wouldn't do this, who

790
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Speaker 1: wouldn't go as far as I did. And so when

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Speaker 1: I shared that with the monks, they said, you know,

792
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:52,759
Speaker 1: they were like, yeah, you know, we agree that we

793
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 1: think you might be able to help people more if

794
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Speaker 1: you left. I think they were like saying, yeah, it's cool.

795
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Speaker 1: Leave get out of it, but they encouraged it. For me,

796
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Speaker 1: moving on as was actually really difficult. So when I left,

797
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Speaker 1: the first thing I did was come back start listening

798
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 1: to Drake m Yeah. I did that. First thing. I

799
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Speaker 1: ate a load of chocolate that I hadn't eating for

800
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Speaker 1: three years. I went back into all my old bad

801
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 1: habits for the first month that I was back, and

802
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Speaker 1: moved back with my parents twenty six years old because

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Speaker 1: I felt like I'd failed and I was losing this

804
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Speaker 1: life I'd committed to. Yeah, I was in debt twenty

805
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Speaker 1: five thousand dollars in debt eighteen thousand pounds. School no no, no,

806
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Speaker 1: no no from my university days, like going to college.

807
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 1: I've gone to college before. Yeah, what did your parents

808
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Speaker 1: think about you going to Monk School and then coming

809
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 1: back home? So when I first told them, my mom

810
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Speaker 1: was like, where did we go wrong? Right? You know,

811
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Speaker 1: like what did we do wrong? And luckily my you know,

812
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:48,800
Speaker 1: my parents are very forward thinking and they supported me

813
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Speaker 1: because they could see my heart was in it. And

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Speaker 1: I can't really you know, I can't really blame them.

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Speaker 1: They did a great job and they were really really supportive.

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Speaker 1: But my extended family was like you're never going to

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Speaker 1: get a job again, you've been brainwashed. You're never gonna

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Speaker 1: get my money again, You're never gonna be you know,

819
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Speaker 1: all that noise from society basically saying you've just committed

820
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Speaker 1: career suicide, and what are you gonna do when it

821
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 1: doesn't work out? So when it didn't work out, I

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Speaker 1: almost felt like I had made what they were saying true,

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Speaker 1: and so I kind of came with a lot of

824
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Speaker 1: pain and a lot of stress and pressure thinking all

825
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Speaker 1: these people were right and maybe I was wrong. We

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Speaker 1: have more with Jay Shetty when we come back, of course.

827
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Speaker 1: He's the host of On Purpose. It's the number one

828
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Speaker 1: health and wellness podcast. He's a former monk, and we'll

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Speaker 1: talk through some more when we come back. It's the

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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club for morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee. Charlomagne,

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Speaker 1: the guy we are to Breakfast Club was still kicking

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Speaker 1: it with Jay Shetty. He's the host of the On

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Speaker 1: Purpose podcasts, a health and wellness podcast. He's a former monk.

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Speaker 1: He's a New York Times best selling author, and he's here. Charlomagne.

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Speaker 1: You know it's so interesting, man. You became a monk

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Speaker 1: because you felt like it gave you a sense of purpose. Yes,

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Speaker 1: but then as you were being a monk, you felt

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Speaker 1: like you might have been suppressing your purpose. You felt

839
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Speaker 1: like something was big out there. So that's got to

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Speaker 1: be psychologically that's a great observation. That is a great

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Speaker 1: You phrased it way better than I did. That is

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00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 1: a great observation. And that's a psychological mind mess because

843
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 1: you're like, wait, this is And that's when I realized

844
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Speaker 1: that your purpose is not what you wear, where you live,

845
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,959
Speaker 1: what you think everyone thinks of you, because to some degree,

846
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 1: I'd become attached to living as a monk and that

847
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 1: becoming my purpose. So when I had to disconnect from that,

848
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 1: It's like how we say, oh, my marriage is my purpose,

849
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 1: and then when you get divorced, you're like, oh, well,

850
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,840
Speaker 1: I don't have an identity anymore, or my job is

851
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 1: my purpose. When you get kicked out of your job,

852
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 1: you go, oh, I don't have an identity anymore. That's

853
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: what it felt like. It felt like a divorce or

854
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 1: losing the job of my dreams, which actually led me

855
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: to find my real purpose, which is what I get

856
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 1: to do today, And what was the voice that you

857
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 1: heard told you this is what you should do, this

858
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 1: is the direction you should go with. I feel like

859
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 1: I had it even when I was there where it

860
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 1: was just like, there are people who will never ever

861
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 1: think And this is why I love what you all

862
00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:00,400
Speaker 1: do and what you've done with your work, is there

863
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 1: are people that will never ever think about their mental health,

864
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:06,799
Speaker 1: their mental world being about the word meditation or mindfulness

865
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 1: because it wasn't part of their upbringing. It wasn't a

866
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: word that they heard, same as me. And if I

867
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 1: can help make that accessible and relevant and practical and

868
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 1: simple for that person, then my life's going to feel

869
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:23,479
Speaker 1: like a success. And so I just started to share

870
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:25,359
Speaker 1: it with everyone. So now I came back. My friends

871
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:29,280
Speaker 1: were all working, they were making money, they were buying homes,

872
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:31,440
Speaker 1: they had nice cars. Maybe they were in a relationship,

873
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:33,800
Speaker 1: but a lot of them were stressed. They were working

874
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 1: in big city jobs, but they were burnt out. And

875
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 1: so they started coming to me for advice. And this

876
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 1: is back in twenty twenty fourteen, and they were saying,

877
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 1: which you learned about mindfulness and meditation, can you help

878
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 1: us with out stress? And so very naturally I started

879
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 1: working with people inside big corporate organizations because that was

880
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 1: my background, and so now I was seeing that impact

881
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 1: on these people. And so I was speaking at companies,

882
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 1: working with people, coaching people, and then finally I took

883
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 1: a corporate job back to understand and what the setup

884
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: was like. And my executive that was my lead, she

885
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 1: discovered that I learned meditation. So she put me on

886
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:11,279
Speaker 1: in front of all my peers to teach meditation to

887
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 1: a thousand people at our company event. This is before

888
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 1: any of my online work, and I'm stressing out because

889
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 1: I'm no one. They're like, this is one of our guys,

890
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 1: where he's our peer. What are we going to learn

891
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 1: from him? And it was just a beautiful experience where

892
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 1: everyone appreciated it, and so I got to see how

893
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:31,760
Speaker 1: this work could be practical with people from all different

894
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: backgrounds and walks of life. Meditation is a game change.

895
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:39,319
Speaker 1: Could tell people just some of the benefits of meditation. Yeah,

896
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 1: I mean meditation as a ton of benefits. Some of

897
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:43,839
Speaker 1: my favorites are that, of course a boost your moods,

898
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:48,360
Speaker 1: immune system. One of the most interesting parts about meditation

899
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 1: that people don't obviously realize is our life is completely

900
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 1: infiltrated by dopamine. Right, whether it's our phones, whether it's money,

901
00:42:56,680 --> 00:43:00,360
Speaker 1: whether it's purchases, whether it's instant buying dope. Mean, is

902
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 1: that constantly being released. A meditation helps us balance because

903
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:07,799
Speaker 1: it creates serotonin and oxytocin. So those are the three

904
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 1: chemicals that your brain needs to balance, and meditation is

905
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 1: one of the key things that actually brings about the

906
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:16,240
Speaker 1: other two. It helps with making sure that your brain's

907
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 1: in sync. It makes sure that you sleep better. I mean,

908
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 1: meditation benefits go on and on and on of course

909
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 1: with anxiety, stress and pressure. But to me, that balancing

910
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:26,320
Speaker 1: of the chemicals we need is it's probably one of

911
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: the most powerful. And you know, it's very hard to

912
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 1: find that stillness and that that silence, you know, on

913
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 1: your own. I tried it for years and couldn't grasp

914
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 1: the concept until like the symbol of twenty twenty, but

915
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:43,239
Speaker 1: you helped with the Carmat. Yeah. So I literally just

916
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 1: two days ago we launched the Daily Jay only on

917
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 1: Calm and it's a daily meditation for seven minutes that

918
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 1: I truly believe is going to be a meditation that

919
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,319
Speaker 1: each and every person on the planet can tune into

920
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 1: and start their practice, and the goal of it was

921
00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:59,720
Speaker 1: to make it as simple so that you can actually

922
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 1: to say, while you're folding your laundry, while you're doing

923
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 1: your dishes, while you're making your bed. The goal was,

924
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: how can we bring meditation into people's lives rather than saying,

925
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: take out time out of your day to do this.

926
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Speaker 1: And so we build this program and it's exciting. I'm

927
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 1: really excited that it's out there. What is meditation? Right?

928
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 1: And the reason I'm asking is, like Charlemagne said, it

929
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,279
Speaker 1: took him a while to get it. Yeah, So for

930
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 1: people out there, what is getting meditation? What should they

931
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 1: be feeling? What should they be seeing? What should they

932
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 1: be doing? What should they you know, should they be

933
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 1: sitting in the corner, should they be you know, criss

934
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 1: cross apple cross apple sauce? So they have their hands

935
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:34,800
Speaker 1: up like, what is it? Yes? So no, it's a

936
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 1: great question. It's a great question. I think it's so important.

937
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:38,440
Speaker 1: I think the first thing I'd like to say is

938
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 1: that meditation is making time to spend with yourself, as

939
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:44,840
Speaker 1: simple as that. Right. You make time to check in

940
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:47,319
Speaker 1: with your friends, your family, your partners, your kids. When

941
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 1: was the last time you checked him with yourself. Some

942
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:50,879
Speaker 1: people to say I meditate what I drive because I'm

943
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 1: just driving. That's and that's a great example. And that's

944
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 1: a great example, and I actually agree with you. I

945
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:58,719
Speaker 1: love thinking about life when I'm driving and talking to

946
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 1: myself and figuring things out. That is a form of meditation.

947
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 1: That is a beginning step towards meditation. Now, when you

948
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 1: start getting into meditation as a tool, it goes beyond

949
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 1: that because now you're bringing your awareness to three different

950
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:13,360
Speaker 1: types of things in the way I was trained. So

951
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 1: you have breathwork. When you're focusing on your breath, you're

952
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:19,880
Speaker 1: learning to navigate your emotions. Second one is visualization. A

953
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:23,080
Speaker 1: lot of athletes use this before big games. Lewis Hamilton,

954
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 1: I've heard, used it before he's driving a car. Soccer

955
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:27,879
Speaker 1: stars use it before they take a free kick. Where

956
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 1: you're visualizing what's happening in your life or what you're

957
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:33,279
Speaker 1: about to do. What it does is it prepares your body,

958
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:36,319
Speaker 1: It prepares the mind, right, So visualization is a way

959
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:39,240
Speaker 1: of meditating. And the third one is mantra or sound.

960
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:41,319
Speaker 1: So we all know, I mean, you're in the heart

961
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:44,080
Speaker 1: of music. We all know that music can make you

962
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:46,360
Speaker 1: feel different things. Music can make you feel like you

963
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 1: want to beat someone up, and music can make you

964
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 1: feel calm. Sounds and mantra really are defined to help

965
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:55,880
Speaker 1: you have sounds that bring peace and calm to the

966
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 1: mind and body. So those are three different types of meditation.

967
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,439
Speaker 1: Doesn't matter where you're sitting, It doesn't matter how you're sitting,

968
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:04,400
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter whether you're wearing a yoga suit or

969
00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 1: on a yoga mat. That really isn't the point. The

970
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 1: point is are you taking time to build that practice

971
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:13,720
Speaker 1: in that habit. Yeah, mantra su my good sister deVie

972
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 1: Brown mantra and the bees is what got me to

973
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 1: able meditation. So I count my bees and I do

974
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 1: my mantra and it's just like that's what got me.

975
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,880
Speaker 1: Like oh okay. When you come to and you're like,

976
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 1: where was That's how it feels like. You're like like

977
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:31,840
Speaker 1: you went into a sleep while you're sitting up, like

978
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 1: you just like like everything just went still for a moment,

979
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 1: like nothing is on your mind. You just hear yourself

980
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 1: repeating your mantra over and over and over, and it's

981
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:43,280
Speaker 1: just like I call it like a sinking feeling almost.

982
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: I feel like you're just sinking, sinking, sinking, And I

983
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 1: always jump before I go too deep. That's that's what

984
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: makes me come back. Yeah, imagine, imagine you actually felt

985
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 1: like you are where your feet are? Like, imagine you

986
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 1: actually felt like that that we right now, if we

987
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:58,920
Speaker 1: all put our feet on the ground and you actually

988
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:01,320
Speaker 1: felt like I was And what Charlomagne saying about sinking.

989
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 1: If I actually felt like I was actually here? How

990
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 1: many times doing this conversation while I've been talking and

991
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:07,719
Speaker 1: we've been thinking about what have I got for lunch

992
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:09,160
Speaker 1: later on? Or what am I doing later on? Or

993
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 1: who am I meeting? Or what's this going? What if

994
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 1: I was actually here? How much could I actually have

995
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:16,399
Speaker 1: an impact on the people around me? How much could

996
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 1: I actually feel people's energy? How much power and strength

997
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:23,759
Speaker 1: would I have if I was actually where my feet are?

998
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 1: Which is a common phrase and statement that's used in

999
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:30,319
Speaker 1: meditation language. If like be where your feet are, if

1000
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 1: we were actually here, just how powerful would that be?

1001
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 1: And that's what you feel. You actually feel like, I'm

1002
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 1: happy to be here. I am only here because think

1003
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 1: about it. When you wake up in the morning, how

1004
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:42,280
Speaker 1: many times have you over woken up and your mind

1005
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 1: is ahead of your body. Your body's like I don't

1006
00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 1: want to go anywhere, and your mind's like racing trying

1007
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:50,400
Speaker 1: to do a million things. Or you experienced the opposite.

1008
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 1: You wake up and your mind is like, come on,

1009
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:55,400
Speaker 1: I can't do this, but your body's like, come on,

1010
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:57,880
Speaker 1: we gotta go, we gotta go. So what we're experiencing

1011
00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:00,919
Speaker 1: at all times is our body and mind completely out

1012
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 1: of sync, completely out of seen. They're never in the

1013
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:06,960
Speaker 1: same place. So meditation and it's simplest for him is saying, well,

1014
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 1: let's start here, Let's bring them back into sync. Let's

1015
00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:12,880
Speaker 1: start with them being aligned, and imagine how powerful we

1016
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 1: could do. All Right, we have more with Jay Shetty

1017
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 1: when we come back. Of course. He's the host of

1018
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 1: On Purpose. It's the number one health and wellness podcast.

1019
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:20,880
Speaker 1: He's a form of monk and we'll talk to him

1020
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 1: someone when we come back. It's a breakfast club. Good

1021
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: morning e j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy. We

1022
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 1: are to breakfast club. Were still kicking it with Jay Shetty.

1023
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,839
Speaker 1: He's the host of the On Purpose podcasts, a health

1024
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:34,400
Speaker 1: and wellness podcast. He's a former monk. He's a New

1025
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 1: York Times best selling author and he's here, Charlomagne. I

1026
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 1: feel like we skipped a step right. Yeah, you went

1027
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,719
Speaker 1: from being a monk um sir for a monk for

1028
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:43,840
Speaker 1: three years. You couldn't find a job, he said. You

1029
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 1: got rejected about forty different forty companies. Yeah, at what

1030
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 1: point did the on Purpose podcast start? Between that and

1031
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:54,719
Speaker 1: the So I left being amongk in twenty thirteen, I

1032
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 1: started in twenty ten, unpurposed LUNs in twenty nineteen, okay,

1033
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: so six years later, and my online video content started

1034
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 1: in twenty sixteen. So in twenty sixteen, after I'd been

1035
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 1: sharing meditation and mindfulness with corporations, coaching people behind the

1036
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 1: scenes and never made any content, I just felt that

1037
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:14,759
Speaker 1: I was sitting in a lot of boardrooms, which was fantastic,

1038
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,040
Speaker 1: but I felt this message had to get further than

1039
00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 1: the boardroom. And at the time I was thinking how

1040
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:22,920
Speaker 1: do I do this? And so I was applying to

1041
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 1: media companies that I was like, Hey, if these guys

1042
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 1: give me a job, then I can make content about

1043
00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 1: mindfulness and meditation. And I was rejected from three media companies.

1044
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:33,480
Speaker 1: I remember chasing an exact on his bike in London

1045
00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 1: and saying hey, give me a job. And he was like,

1046
00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: you're too old? Is that after you said that? I

1047
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 1: guess it was the president or CEO asked you to

1048
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 1: do that, correct, So that's when you felt like that

1049
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 1: was your calling? Yeah, because I was like, Wow, I'm

1050
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 1: being asked to do this. It's working, but it needs

1051
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 1: to reach more people, and it needs to reach more

1052
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:54,400
Speaker 1: people without just their organization being involved. What if it

1053
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 1: could read to person on this street? Right? How do

1054
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 1: you get to that person? And so I thought media

1055
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:00,440
Speaker 1: is the way. And so I was appli to all

1056
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 1: these media jobs, but everyone kept telling me you're not

1057
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:05,400
Speaker 1: You're too you're too old. I was twenty eight years old.

1058
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 1: They're like, you're too old. Everyone's twenty one who wants

1059
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 1: this job? They were like, you don't have any background

1060
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:12,320
Speaker 1: in media, You've never been in communications. And so I

1061
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 1: ended up at a TV training day run by the

1062
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 1: BBC in London in Pinewood Studios and it was run

1063
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:20,320
Speaker 1: for ethnic minorities. So there were just six brown and

1064
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:22,920
Speaker 1: black people in that room and I'm one of them

1065
00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:25,720
Speaker 1: and they tell me, Jay, you're you're good, like you're engaging,

1066
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 1: you can present well. So I'm like, give me a job,

1067
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:29,400
Speaker 1: like I just want to shot. And they're like, Jay,

1068
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 1: there's no jobs in media. And so I'm like, come on,

1069
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 1: you brought me all the way here, like you know,

1070
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 1: six brown and black people to tell us there's no

1071
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 1: jobs in media. What was what was the point of this?

1072
00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 1: And they're like, well, you should start a YouTube channel.

1073
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:42,759
Speaker 1: And in my head, I'm thinking, yeah, that works for

1074
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:45,360
Speaker 1: Justin Bieber. That's not going to work for me, you know,

1075
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 1: And I'm having that limiting I was like, thank you,

1076
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:54,280
Speaker 1: maybe not maybe not yea and that uh and literally

1077
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 1: it was like I was like, maybe that worked for

1078
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:57,919
Speaker 1: Justin Bieber, like that's and I had that limiting belief.

1079
00:50:57,960 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: I was like, that's not going to work for me.

1080
00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 1: But literally, there's a beautiful statement by Thomas Edison. He said,

1081
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:08,000
Speaker 1: when you believe you've exhausted all options, remembered this you haven't.

1082
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:10,840
Speaker 1: And that's how I felt. I felt I had exhausted

1083
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:12,839
Speaker 1: all options and the only option that I had left

1084
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:15,239
Speaker 1: was YouTube if I really cared about this, So I

1085
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:17,960
Speaker 1: made a video and I kept making videos every week

1086
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 1: and they're doing okay, They're getting like a thousand views

1087
00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:23,120
Speaker 1: or something like that. And in three months, Arianna Huffington

1088
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 1: saw my videos from the Huffing and Post and so

1089
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:28,880
Speaker 1: she really connected with them, and they said, hey, j look,

1090
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:30,479
Speaker 1: we're not gonna pay you anything, We're not gonna do anything.

1091
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna take your videos. We're gonna put them on

1092
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 1: the Huffing in Post page because we like your content.

1093
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 1: What do you think. I'm like, great, let's get them

1094
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,239
Speaker 1: out there, right, like, that's what this is about. Smart

1095
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 1: you recognized the opportunity when it wasn't a pache. Yeah, yeah,

1096
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 1: there was no pageckets nobody. They put it out. The

1097
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:45,279
Speaker 1: first video did a million views in a week, The

1098
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: second video did a million views in twenty four hours.

1099
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 1: And those three or four videos I made for them

1100
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:52,480
Speaker 1: did like a hundred million views across that year. And

1101
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 1: literally it just changed everything because now the message was

1102
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 1: reaching people. And then I sent her right hand man

1103
00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:01,440
Speaker 1: who's a good friend of mine now, Danny Shay. He

1104
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 1: was the one who'd come out to make this contact happen.

1105
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 1: I message him every day saying, when an't you giving

1106
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: me a job? When he gave me a job, when

1107
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:11,399
Speaker 1: are you giving me a job? Finally, after thirty days,

1108
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: he sent me a visa sent me a job off

1109
00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:15,440
Speaker 1: for a move to New York City in twenty sixteen

1110
00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:17,839
Speaker 1: September to work at The Half Post as a senior

1111
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:21,320
Speaker 1: hosting producer. That lasted around six months. I mean, the

1112
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:23,439
Speaker 1: way you're speaking is great because it's not even about

1113
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 1: the meditation and what you're speaking, it's just about a

1114
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:28,479
Speaker 1: lot of people don't have that drive. You were told

1115
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 1: no a thousands of times, but still did it. You know,

1116
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 1: you did something that you had no idea about YouTube.

1117
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 1: Then when they came with a situation, most people now

1118
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 1: would be like, well, how much am I getting paid? Now?

1119
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 1: You want to use my contact? And he was like, nah,

1120
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 1: I understand what this could be and congratulating. I love

1121
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 1: I love stories like that. Thank you, and thank you

1122
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 1: for highlighting that. I really appreciate the way you're looking

1123
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:49,279
Speaker 1: at it over time, Like, yeah, you come up here

1124
00:52:49,320 --> 00:52:50,879
Speaker 1: and be like how much I'm getting paid? But I'm

1125
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 1: not doing this because I ain't get no money if

1126
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: the tests. But somethings ain't about the money. We came

1127
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: from a place where we both worked for a long

1128
00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 1: terms about the opportunity, but we knew hopefully well we

1129
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:00,160
Speaker 1: didn't even know. We did it for love. I did

1130
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 1: it for love, and it just grew into what it

1131
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 1: grew into. So I really respect and appreciate that. We

1132
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,160
Speaker 1: thank you for highlighting that because I think sometimes, you know,

1133
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:09,400
Speaker 1: we get lost in, especially when people talk to me,

1134
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:11,240
Speaker 1: we get lost in like the meditation and the mindfulness,

1135
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:13,480
Speaker 1: and it's like, that is my heart of what I

1136
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 1: want to share. But the way I've got there has

1137
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 1: not been normal or easy or you know, it's but

1138
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 1: that's been the most fun part about it. Like I

1139
00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 1: think I always wanted to serve. My whole goal was

1140
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 1: how can this reach more people? And when half Post

1141
00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:30,680
Speaker 1: or anyone came with that opportunity and thankfully after six months,

1142
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 1: I built in myself. I got to do it my way,

1143
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 1: on my own, and I got to build it on

1144
00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:37,799
Speaker 1: my first guest. My first big guest was Russell Brand

1145
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 1: who I've known for a long time. We have the

1146
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:42,960
Speaker 1: same meditation teacher. We've been friends in London for a while.

1147
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:44,919
Speaker 1: So Russell Brown was my first big guest. My first

1148
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 1: ever guest was my wife. It was my first episode.

1149
00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:49,440
Speaker 1: Well she was your first big guest. Yeah, that was

1150
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 1: my first yeah, oh yeah, thank you. Yeah I messed

1151
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 1: that up. Yeah, I messed that up. Yeah, my wife

1152
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:55,239
Speaker 1: was my first big Yeah. Russell Brown was my first

1153
00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:58,799
Speaker 1: well known guest. Novak Djokovic tennis player who I've known

1154
00:53:58,840 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 1: for a while as well, he was one of my

1155
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:02,839
Speaker 1: first big guest. Uh And then you know, since then,

1156
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,359
Speaker 1: it's just been a joy to sit down with people

1157
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:10,759
Speaker 1: that yeah, I had till this day. And I'm not

1158
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 1: just saying it because of what happened, and I don't

1159
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 1: I wish I didn't even have to say that, but

1160
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 1: I do because I think people try and make things

1161
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:22,000
Speaker 1: a certain way. But I have never felt someone more

1162
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:26,440
Speaker 1: present and grounded in his feet apart from monks, than

1163
00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:29,879
Speaker 1: Kobe Bryant. Like when I spoke to him, I choose

1164
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 1: there was so much gravity around him, and when he

1165
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:35,840
Speaker 1: spoke his voice as well, it had so much presence.

1166
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:40,399
Speaker 1: And that was two three months before the tragic event.

1167
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 1: So his his team had reached out and they said, Jay,

1168
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 1: we want Kobe to have a conversation with someone who

1169
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 1: isn't only obsessed with basketball. And I said to him,

1170
00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: I liked basketball, but I didn't grow up like soccer

1171
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:56,120
Speaker 1: is my first sport, right football. I'm from England, That's

1172
00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:59,680
Speaker 1: that's my thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's why I

1173
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 1: had to try it's late for because then my British

1174
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 1: friends make fun of me for saying Suker, so I've

1175
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:06,279
Speaker 1: got to you know. But yeah, Christiano Ronaldo, like, that's

1176
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:08,279
Speaker 1: that's my goat, right, Like that's the person I go to.

1177
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 1: But obviously have so much respect for Kobe. Obviously I

1178
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:14,719
Speaker 1: love I love basketball, genuine enjoy watching it. And so

1179
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 1: they said, but we want someone who talks to him

1180
00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 1: about storytelling about him, about his heart, about meditation, about

1181
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:22,680
Speaker 1: the stuff that he doesn't get to talk about because

1182
00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 1: every time he goes to an interview, people just to

1183
00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 1: ask him basketball questions. What was he like to play

1184
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:27,759
Speaker 1: in that game? What was he like to learn from this?

1185
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 1: So they they've reached out to him, and I said,

1186
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:32,960
Speaker 1: this is a dream, like I feel honored, and so

1187
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 1: we did that. That's how the podcast came about. I

1188
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 1: didn't I didn't know him or I didn't have a

1189
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 1: relationship with him, but in that short time that we

1190
00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:42,879
Speaker 1: spent together, he walked into the room and he came

1191
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:46,800
Speaker 1: around to my whole team and he introduces Kobe Kobe

1192
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:49,359
Speaker 1: like to my video, and you know, everyone's geeking out

1193
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:50,840
Speaker 1: because everyone knows who he is. It doesn't have to,

1194
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:53,759
Speaker 1: but he was so respectful, so wonderful with the whole team.

1195
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:57,040
Speaker 1: They'll never forget that experience. Jay, we appreciate. I was

1196
00:55:57,080 --> 00:55:59,439
Speaker 1: going to ask, can we meditate? But we really can't

1197
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:01,120
Speaker 1: because we need seven I mean it will be deadier

1198
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:02,719
Speaker 1: for seven minutes. Oh we can do it for lesson seven.

1199
00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:04,400
Speaker 1: We can do it. Yeah, yeah we can. How long

1200
00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 1: do you give me your time limit? And then I'll

1201
00:56:05,680 --> 00:56:09,279
Speaker 1: stick to that. Let's do a minute. Yeah, let's do it. Yeah, okay,

1202
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:11,279
Speaker 1: let's do it. And everyone who's listening can join in

1203
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 1: as well. So what I wanted, okay, okay, so what

1204
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:18,680
Speaker 1: do whatever you want to do is just take a

1205
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:20,840
Speaker 1: moment to look around wherever they are. So keep your

1206
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:23,840
Speaker 1: eyes open, and I want you to just notice five

1207
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:29,400
Speaker 1: things in this space. Choose five things in your environment

1208
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 1: and bring your awareness to them. The colors, the textures,

1209
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:39,239
Speaker 1: the fonts, whatever it may be, just five things, and

1210
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:44,640
Speaker 1: when you found them, close your eyes, taking a deep breath. Now,

1211
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:48,320
Speaker 1: what are four things that you can touch and just

1212
00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:51,320
Speaker 1: be present with it. It could be your jacket, the

1213
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:56,480
Speaker 1: chair you're sitting on, your own hands. Four things that

1214
00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: you can touch notice the difference in the coolness and

1215
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:05,800
Speaker 1: a texture. Taking another deep breath, what are three things

1216
00:57:05,920 --> 00:57:10,759
Speaker 1: that you can hear there? Maybe some white noise, the

1217
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:14,279
Speaker 1: sound of my voice, maybe even a voice in the

1218
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:18,440
Speaker 1: back of your head. Three things you can hear, Just

1219
00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 1: observe and be present, don't fight them. Just bring your

1220
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:28,160
Speaker 1: awareness back to your breath, breathe in. What are two

1221
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 1: things you can smell? Maybe the beautiful sage that we

1222
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:35,240
Speaker 1: have here in the studio or the palace center. Maybe

1223
00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: a fragrance, it diffuses some food. Taking a deep breath,

1224
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 1: And what's one thing you can taste? Maybe water breakfast?

1225
00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:50,480
Speaker 1: And now, in a moment, when you gently and softly,

1226
00:57:51,600 --> 00:57:53,520
Speaker 1: in your own time, at your own pace, you open

1227
00:57:53,560 --> 00:58:00,439
Speaker 1: your eyes, you'll experience full presence. Can open your eyes, man,

1228
00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 1: I love to sound a white noise. I love the

1229
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:06,640
Speaker 1: things you see behind your eyelids. And I've been stressing

1230
00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 1: to my heart that we need a mindfulness minute on

1231
00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:14,920
Speaker 1: all radio stations, like we need whether it's j could

1232
00:58:14,920 --> 00:58:16,680
Speaker 1: be Jetty, it could be Debbie Brown. We need a

1233
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 1: mindful this minute, like a few times throughout the day,

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00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:24,320
Speaker 1: especially during like the ten am the two pm slot,

1235
00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: when it's mid days and people at work every nine

1236
00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 1: and then you just got to take a break, like

1237
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 1: we got to do exactly what we did just now.

1238
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 1: So when we call you, Jay, answer the phone the opportunity.

1239
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 1: Thank you, Go get j Stty's book, Think Like a

1240
00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 1: monk Um, subscribe to them on Purpose podcast with Jay Setty,

1241
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:44,200
Speaker 1: and check out the app. One of my favorite people

1242
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:47,720
Speaker 1: to just follow and continue to be a great leader, Jake,

1243
00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:51,720
Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you so grateful. It's the Breakfast Club morning.

1244
00:58:51,840 --> 00:59:04,800
Speaker 1: Oh it's a wrong. But after being ordered to pay

1245
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 1: CARDI b upwards of four million dollars, bloggerd Taisha Kay

1246
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 1: is saying that it was the machine and corporate interests

1247
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:15,680
Speaker 1: that was the reason why she lost. Here's what she

1248
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:20,360
Speaker 1: had to say. We called bluff against a machine that

1249
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:24,560
Speaker 1: wanted to bully me for not wavering from my personal beliefs.

1250
00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:29,440
Speaker 1: A machine that has corporate interests to protect prostitution, drug

1251
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 1: youth promiscuity, and to glorify the violence that rex having

1252
00:59:34,320 --> 00:59:38,240
Speaker 1: on our society and in our neighborhoods. It's sold to

1253
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 1: our children as the it factor. Although the court hasn't

1254
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:46,840
Speaker 1: instructed us to take the videos down, I've always said

1255
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:49,480
Speaker 1: that I would comply with any court or jury. The

1256
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:52,400
Speaker 1: videos have been taken down to show good faith to

1257
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:56,520
Speaker 1: the courts. This machine has tried to have me arrested,

1258
00:59:56,720 --> 01:00:00,240
Speaker 1: threatened my life, and created a fake narrative about I mean,

1259
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:03,800
Speaker 1: I mean you lied. You know what I'm saying. You

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Speaker 1: lied about somebody maliciously, with malicious intent. Cardi B's records.

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01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:11,040
Speaker 1: She had to go and get tested to see if

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01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:13,400
Speaker 1: she had herpes because you were spreading this rumor and

1263
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:16,160
Speaker 1: it wasn't true. That's a lie, right, And sometimes you

1264
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:17,680
Speaker 1: just got to take a step back and really see

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01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 1: what God is trying to show you. You know, it's

1266
01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 1: not about likes, it's not about going viral, it's not

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01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:24,360
Speaker 1: about donating now, subscribe now. Sometimes just take a step

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01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:25,880
Speaker 1: back and see what God is trying to show you.

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01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:28,840
Speaker 1: Weapons for him to getst You will not prosper, but

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01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 1: they will if you are the weapon. And it's sad

1271
01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:34,000
Speaker 1: when people simply can't take accountability or simply admit when

1272
01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 1: they're wrong. It shows a lack of integrity and reminds

1273
01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:38,280
Speaker 1: folks while you're in the position you are in now.

1274
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 1: And I respect Cardi B so much because that that

1275
01:00:41,040 --> 01:00:44,320
Speaker 1: that court case took time. It took money. She had

1276
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:47,160
Speaker 1: to take this stand. That's not easy. Let it go

1277
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:50,200
Speaker 1: because she CARTI don't need the money. She had to things.

1278
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Speaker 1: She did it to set to set an example, and

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01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:55,800
Speaker 1: she did so. Shout took Cardi B and listen. I

1280
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Speaker 1: hope all YouTubers podcast as bloggers. You know, all all

1281
01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:02,080
Speaker 1: you folks in this new media space. Remember, small people

1282
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:03,920
Speaker 1: learn from their own mistakes. Wise people learn from the

1283
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:06,600
Speaker 1: mistakes of others. Even if you know she doesn't learn

1284
01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:10,360
Speaker 1: from her mistakes, you should hasn't learned, and she is

1285
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:14,880
Speaker 1: saying that she's appealing. This case was meant to drain

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01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:18,960
Speaker 1: me financially and it did not, and send a message

1287
01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:21,760
Speaker 1: to anyone who thinks they have the right to challenge

1288
01:01:21,760 --> 01:01:26,200
Speaker 1: a machine that protects their corporate interests. The appeal process

1289
01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:30,480
Speaker 1: has already started and we intend to expose every conspiracy

1290
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:35,080
Speaker 1: against me, my company, and my family. There was no defamation,

1291
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:39,880
Speaker 1: no invasion of privacy, and suicidal thoughts, and we proved

1292
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:44,560
Speaker 1: that with sufficient factual evidence, and we intend to fight

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01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:47,520
Speaker 1: until the truth is out. I don't think you can

1294
01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:50,000
Speaker 1: prove that somebody didn't have suicidal thought. You don't know

1295
01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 1: what's inside a person's he's that's not gonna fly. But

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01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:55,440
Speaker 1: that's not good advice. Whoever gave you that advice to

1297
01:01:56,120 --> 01:01:58,880
Speaker 1: put more money into terrible situation, that's not good. He

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01:01:58,960 --> 01:02:00,520
Speaker 1: has any friends, they need to be that girl. You

1299
01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:03,560
Speaker 1: gotta just relax. This is a landmark case that every

1300
01:02:03,640 --> 01:02:05,520
Speaker 1: lawyer in the world will be referencing from now on.

1301
01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:08,400
Speaker 1: Precedent has been set. So you know all you YouTube

1302
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:10,760
Speaker 1: was everybody else move accordingly or get hit just like

1303
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:13,720
Speaker 1: she did. Right. Your pride is just making you feel

1304
01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 1: like you gotta keep it going like stop all right now?

1305
01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:20,840
Speaker 1: Tyler Perry has dropped a media homecoming trailer and also

1306
01:02:21,040 --> 01:02:27,080
Speaker 1: the Netflix release date. So here is that trailer. Halleluyer,

1307
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Speaker 1: Hannelwier the heir are you doing? I'm gonna make this

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01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 1: big for my great grandson's graduation barbecue. I know you

1309
01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:38,959
Speaker 1: want barbecue, but do you have any room for roasted brown?

1310
01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:44,040
Speaker 1: You're gonna buy me on? Not the damn trick? What

1311
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:51,120
Speaker 1: come to forever? I'm a brown too, No, y'all here

1312
01:02:51,120 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 1: about to break loose now the right February twenty fifth

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01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:03,160
Speaker 1: is that date that you'll be able to watch that

1314
01:03:03,240 --> 01:03:05,800
Speaker 1: on Netflix? Yeah, so crazy, but I'm old enough to

1315
01:03:05,840 --> 01:03:08,480
Speaker 1: remember when we used to get to Tyler Perry my

1316
01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:11,760
Speaker 1: dear DVD stage place and watch those at the house.

1317
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:14,360
Speaker 1: Getting one of those from Blockbusters a thing. Now you

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01:03:14,400 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 1: can just watching new Tyler Perry movie on at home

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01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 1: on that all right, Well that is your rumor reports.

1320
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:23,920
Speaker 1: All right, thank you, miss see Charlomage, who're giving that donkey?

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01:03:24,680 --> 01:03:27,040
Speaker 1: Donkey of the Day is going to a young man

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01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:31,160
Speaker 1: in Jersey City named Travis Nearly. Albert Einstein has a quote,

1323
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:33,760
Speaker 1: and that quote is insanity is doing the same thing

1324
01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 1: over and over and expecting different results. We'll discuss that

1325
01:03:36,720 --> 01:03:38,560
Speaker 1: quote when we come back, all right, and then after

1326
01:03:38,640 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 1: they get on the phone lines, of course, we have

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Speaker 1: ask aye. So if you need relationship vice, call us now.

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Speaker 1: It's the breakfast Club. Come on, so breakfast Club, Your

1329
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:50,360
Speaker 1: mornings will never be the same. How mudiable to pick up?

1330
01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:52,640
Speaker 1: The day is the perfect day to boss up. This

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01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:55,480
Speaker 1: is Rick Ross's guide to building your own empire. Now

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1334
01:04:03,560 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 1: be out here acting like a donkey. It's time for

1335
01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:10,360
Speaker 1: Donkey of the Day. I'm a big boy. I could

1336
01:04:10,400 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 1: take it if you feel I deserve it. Ain't no

1337
01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:13,840
Speaker 1: big deal. I know, Charlot Migne gotta go out some

1338
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:16,800
Speaker 1: funny setta say something you may not agree with doesn't

1339
01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:19,320
Speaker 1: mean I need what's getting that donkey that donkey that

1340
01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:22,160
Speaker 1: don't don't don't don't don't donkey o the day right

1341
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:26,160
Speaker 1: here the breakfast club. Bitches, you can call me the

1342
01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:28,800
Speaker 1: donkey of the day, but like I mean no harm,

1343
01:04:29,800 --> 01:04:32,440
Speaker 1: don't give the day for Thursday, January twenty seven goes

1344
01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:34,680
Speaker 1: to thirty four year old Travis Nearly. Now. I'm sure

1345
01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 1: everyone listening to my voice has heard that Albert Einstein quote.

1346
01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 1: Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again

1347
01:04:41,120 --> 01:04:44,720
Speaker 1: and expecting different results. Well, because I've gotten old, I

1348
01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:48,200
Speaker 1: see that statement differently. There's a lot of things we

1349
01:04:48,320 --> 01:04:50,800
Speaker 1: do over and over again and expect different results. Like

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01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:54,480
Speaker 1: played a lottery I played Mega millions in Powerball over

1351
01:04:54,560 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 1: and over again, expecting different results. Okay, I'm used to losing.

1352
01:04:59,240 --> 01:05:02,040
Speaker 1: Sometimes I went four dollars, sometimes I win seven. Last

1353
01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:04,360
Speaker 1: week I bought a Mega million and Powerball ticket and

1354
01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:07,520
Speaker 1: I won nine dollars, career high for me. Drop one

1355
01:05:07,520 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 1: of Ko's bombs for my career high of nine dollars

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01:05:12,040 --> 01:05:16,520
Speaker 1: with the Mega million powerball. Okay, all right for me,

1357
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:19,000
Speaker 1: those were all different results, and I will continue to

1358
01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 1: play over and over again because I want that ultimate result,

1359
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:25,120
Speaker 1: which is all five numbers and the powerball that jackpot baby.

1360
01:05:25,160 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 1: So yes, we do things over and over and expect

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01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:31,720
Speaker 1: different results. Sometimes folks do the same things over and

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01:05:31,800 --> 01:05:34,440
Speaker 1: over again because they know exactly what they are going

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01:05:34,520 --> 01:05:36,120
Speaker 1: to get. They do the same thing over and over

1364
01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:38,480
Speaker 1: again because they know what the result is going to be.

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01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:41,520
Speaker 1: And that's what happened in Jersey City. See Travis Nearly

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01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:45,200
Speaker 1: robbed the spot called Augie's Grocery Delhi. He didn't rob

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01:05:45,240 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 1: it once, he didn't rob it twice. He didn't rob

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01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:51,120
Speaker 1: it three times. He robbed it four times. Why did

1369
01:05:51,160 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 1: he keep doing the same thing over and over Not

1370
01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:55,600
Speaker 1: because he expected a different result, but because he knew

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01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:57,880
Speaker 1: what the result was going to be. He thought it

1372
01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:00,800
Speaker 1: was an easy lick. Let's go to source twelve report

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01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:03,960
Speaker 1: police in his thirty two years running Aggie's Delhi Grocery

1374
01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:07,600
Speaker 1: on Old Bergen Road. This was a first surveillance video

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01:06:07,680 --> 01:06:10,720
Speaker 1: from January tenth shows a masked man coming behind the

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01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 1: counter and charging at seventy seven year old Aggie Lopez

1377
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:17,080
Speaker 1: and came on top of me and the banging me,

1378
01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 1: and I'm saying what. Then he says he stole a

1379
01:06:20,840 --> 01:06:24,200
Speaker 1: few cigars, but it wasn't enough. He came back five

1380
01:06:24,280 --> 01:06:27,080
Speaker 1: days later, knocked Aggie to the ground and got away

1381
01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:30,320
Speaker 1: with cash. He then came back the very next day

1382
01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:34,400
Speaker 1: again more money. Then for the fourth time in eleven days,

1383
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:38,479
Speaker 1: he came back, same guy, same clothes, and this time

1384
01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:41,320
Speaker 1: he jumped over with a counting but this time he

1385
01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:43,960
Speaker 1: had as a bride. We had a police officer here

1386
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:48,720
Speaker 1: and they grabbed him. I saw this in passing on

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01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:50,560
Speaker 1: the news because of course I live in Jersey, and

1388
01:06:50,560 --> 01:06:52,280
Speaker 1: the first thing I thought was what a coward robbing

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01:06:52,320 --> 01:06:54,080
Speaker 1: that old man, hitting that old man over the head.

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01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:56,120
Speaker 1: Then I heard the Delhi on and say we will

1391
01:06:56,160 --> 01:06:58,360
Speaker 1: be ready when he comes back. But I said, he's

1392
01:06:58,400 --> 01:07:00,400
Speaker 1: not coming back, because I didn't realize he already had

1393
01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:06,360
Speaker 1: came three times. Pause, whoa, whoa, hey, yo, Now here's

1394
01:07:06,400 --> 01:07:09,240
Speaker 1: the thing. Travis Neely might be insane, all right, this

1395
01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:11,240
Speaker 1: is who Albert Einstein wrote the quote for. Because when

1396
01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:13,080
Speaker 1: you talk about doing the same thing over and over

1397
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:16,880
Speaker 1: and expecting different results. I'm positive Albert Einstein wasn't talking

1398
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:19,600
Speaker 1: about crimes, all right. He might have been talking about workouts, Okay,

1399
01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:21,520
Speaker 1: not about crimes, all right. If he was robbing people,

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01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:23,960
Speaker 1: if he was robbing places, you wouldn't continue to rob

1401
01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:26,920
Speaker 1: the same individual, would you. You wouldn't continue to rob

1402
01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:29,880
Speaker 1: the same place, would you, Because eventually that person our

1403
01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:32,960
Speaker 1: place you keep hitting, it's gonna prepare for your arrival.

1404
01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:35,400
Speaker 1: And that's what happened here. The funniest thing about this

1405
01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:37,520
Speaker 1: news report to me is when it says the Robert

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01:07:37,600 --> 01:07:42,360
Speaker 1: Travis Neely was stunned when off duty police officer Maurice Johnson,

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01:07:42,560 --> 01:07:44,480
Speaker 1: who had stopped by the check on the store that

1408
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:47,520
Speaker 1: already got robbed three times, jumped out from the back

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01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:49,920
Speaker 1: of the store. I know what you're thinking, Okay, what

1410
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:54,080
Speaker 1: drug was Travis on? All right? This ain't normal. You

1411
01:07:54,160 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 1: don't rob the same store four times and then I

1412
01:07:56,360 --> 01:07:59,400
Speaker 1: surprised when the officer pops out on the fourth time.

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01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:02,280
Speaker 1: That's how that's like. I went. Taylor Swift, you know,

1414
01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:05,360
Speaker 1: acts fake surprise that she's winning an award. Taylor, you

1415
01:08:05,440 --> 01:08:08,480
Speaker 1: know you were winning. Okay, wait, Uncle Charlotte don't get distracted.

1416
01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:10,840
Speaker 1: What drug was Travis on? Well, he was rushed to

1417
01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:15,000
Speaker 1: the Jersey Jersey City Medical Center after his arrest due

1418
01:08:15,320 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 1: to possibly being under the influence of CDs. Now I'm old.

1419
01:08:18,600 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 1: I see acronyms. I don't know what they mean. The

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01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:21,719
Speaker 1: more I saw CDs, I was like, under the influence

1421
01:08:21,720 --> 01:08:23,360
Speaker 1: of CDs. But what the hell drug is CDs? I

1422
01:08:23,439 --> 01:08:25,840
Speaker 1: had no idea, So I did some research and by

1423
01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:28,360
Speaker 1: research I mean Google and all it means it's controlled

1424
01:08:28,479 --> 01:08:31,200
Speaker 1: dangerous substance. Okay, I just thought it was something new.

1425
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:34,000
Speaker 1: But it's the same old, same old heroin, opioid dope,

1426
01:08:34,160 --> 01:08:37,519
Speaker 1: dog food. Okay, look, it sounds to me like Travis

1427
01:08:37,680 --> 01:08:41,120
Speaker 1: nearly needs to change his daily routine. You robbed the

1428
01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:44,120
Speaker 1: same Delhi four times in eleven days. You probably need

1429
01:08:44,200 --> 01:08:47,360
Speaker 1: to change your routine. Actually, you need to change your life,

1430
01:08:47,760 --> 01:08:51,080
Speaker 1: your whole life, Travis. But it starts with changing your routine,

1431
01:08:51,320 --> 01:08:54,960
Speaker 1: and robbing shouldn't be part of your routine. Okay. Moral

1432
01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:58,200
Speaker 1: of this story for everyone listening is you will never

1433
01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:02,880
Speaker 1: change your life and tell you change something you do daily.

1434
01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:05,800
Speaker 1: The secret of your success is found in your daily

1435
01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:10,120
Speaker 1: routine routine, especially if your routine is Robbing the same

1436
01:09:10,200 --> 01:09:14,320
Speaker 1: person multiple times is not progress. Please let me give

1437
01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:17,519
Speaker 1: Travis nearly the biggest he hall he ha, he ha,

1438
01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:20,920
Speaker 1: You stupid mother? Are you dumb? Now? I wish the

1439
01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:22,519
Speaker 1: old man would have had a gun and shot his ass.

1440
01:09:22,640 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 1: That's what I'm telling you. Come to the store four times,

1441
01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:27,200
Speaker 1: you hit me over the head every now and then

1442
01:09:27,240 --> 01:09:30,000
Speaker 1: you're asking to get that shot. I don't like to

1443
01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:33,400
Speaker 1: promote violence, no, but I promote self defense and defended

1444
01:09:33,439 --> 01:09:36,280
Speaker 1: yourself and property. Hit me over the head. I could

1445
01:09:36,320 --> 01:09:37,640
Speaker 1: have hit my head and died. Now, you should have

1446
01:09:37,720 --> 01:09:39,559
Speaker 1: got shot. He lucky. Ain't your shot a good time?

1447
01:09:39,600 --> 01:09:41,439
Speaker 1: And he deserved the bullet. And the hood should have

1448
01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:43,479
Speaker 1: beat his ass for going into the store beating up

1449
01:09:43,479 --> 01:09:45,880
Speaker 1: an old man like that. I'm sure they will. He's

1450
01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:48,120
Speaker 1: probably enjailed. Like man, you robbed all. He's all. He's

1451
01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:51,080
Speaker 1: got the best sandwich is said Daly too. God damn it,

1452
01:09:51,080 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 1: I just burned my finger, My dumb ass, talk about

1453
01:09:52,800 --> 01:09:54,200
Speaker 1: doing the same thing over and over. I keep flicking

1454
01:09:54,200 --> 01:09:55,880
Speaker 1: the damn light and knowing it's hot as hell. Don't

1455
01:09:55,920 --> 01:09:58,800
Speaker 1: burn your finger, Yeah, I'm sure all right? Well next,

1456
01:09:58,840 --> 01:10:01,559
Speaker 1: thank you for that, donkey, to day. Ask ye eight

1457
01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:03,640
Speaker 1: hundred five eight five one oh five one. You need

1458
01:10:03,720 --> 01:10:05,960
Speaker 1: relationship advice to any type of advice? Call ye now.

1459
01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, what what what? What?

1460
01:10:09,120 --> 01:10:12,240
Speaker 1: What you gonna know? Baby mama issues? Need some words

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Speaker 1: of wisdom? Call up now for asking eight hundred five

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01:10:15,240 --> 01:10:21,200
Speaker 1: eight five one oh five one the Breakfast Club. Come on,

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01:10:22,479 --> 01:10:26,879
Speaker 1: need relationship advice, need personal advice? Just need real advice?

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01:10:27,040 --> 01:10:31,040
Speaker 1: Call up now for ask ye to Hey, what's up?

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01:10:31,040 --> 01:10:33,840
Speaker 1: It's Angela. What's your question for asking ye? All right,

1466
01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:36,360
Speaker 1: so this is the situation. First of all, good morning

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Speaker 1: New York, Good morning, good morning, Good morning world. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: there we go. All right, So what happened was all right,

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Speaker 1: just recently a young lady call me, y'all, and I

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Speaker 1: used to deal with and she was married. She is

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Speaker 1: Mavbie now, but when I first started talking to her,

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Speaker 1: wasn't mavvy you was kind of eighty but just like

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Speaker 1: two thousand thirteen. So after we would eating come to

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01:11:01,720 --> 01:11:04,800
Speaker 1: find out she had her boyfriend, baby daddy, and so

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Speaker 1: I left alone. Okay, so we've been cool. All emotions,

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01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:11,160
Speaker 1: you know, rang out. We've been cool over the years.

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Speaker 1: But the problem is recently talk about twenty nineteen. You know,

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01:11:20,880 --> 01:11:23,160
Speaker 1: you don't know what to do. She's going through counsel

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01:11:23,240 --> 01:11:26,000
Speaker 1: and but I'm like, but what should I do? Um, well,

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01:11:26,080 --> 01:11:31,160
Speaker 1: she's still married, right, okay? And are you doing anything

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01:11:31,200 --> 01:11:36,960
Speaker 1: with her? Okay? So here's my thing. It feels a

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01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:41,639
Speaker 1: little messy over there. So how's your life outside of that? Well,

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01:11:41,920 --> 01:11:45,000
Speaker 1: you know, the only person I fired that like go

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01:11:45,120 --> 01:11:47,760
Speaker 1: out on the DAP for empty life. So I'm kind

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01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:53,680
Speaker 1: of right, it feels too messy. I wouldn't voluntarily put

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01:11:53,760 --> 01:11:56,560
Speaker 1: myself in a situation with somebody who already when you

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01:11:56,600 --> 01:11:58,479
Speaker 1: first met her, was involved and you had to step

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01:11:58,560 --> 01:12:01,400
Speaker 1: away from that. And you know, now she's married, she

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01:12:01,560 --> 01:12:04,400
Speaker 1: has to make some decisions, and so I don't feel

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01:12:04,479 --> 01:12:06,280
Speaker 1: like I would want to put myself in the middle

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01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:09,080
Speaker 1: of that. You know, that's kind of like and I

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01:12:09,160 --> 01:12:11,240
Speaker 1: could tell you're asking about it because you care about her,

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01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:16,400
Speaker 1: you miss her, But yes, right, But you know, I

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01:12:16,520 --> 01:12:19,080
Speaker 1: think that you just can't accept certain things for yourself,

1495
01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:22,160
Speaker 1: and your standards have to be high enough that you say, look,

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01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:25,720
Speaker 1: as a friend, you know, I'm hoping to everything you

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01:12:25,840 --> 01:12:28,000
Speaker 1: got you get it together. If you're not in a

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01:12:28,080 --> 01:12:32,240
Speaker 1: relationship anymore. If you're not married anymore, then that's a

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01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:35,160
Speaker 1: consideration we can take. But I don't think you should

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01:12:35,160 --> 01:12:38,080
Speaker 1: put yourself that's you know, that's just not a situation

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01:12:38,160 --> 01:12:44,200
Speaker 1: you should voluntarily be in. True right now, right you

1502
01:12:44,240 --> 01:12:46,040
Speaker 1: know a lot of options are coming my way at

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01:12:46,080 --> 01:12:48,080
Speaker 1: the moment, you know, because of the pandemic. To all

1504
01:12:48,120 --> 01:12:50,640
Speaker 1: of that, you know, don't make your life more complicated.

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01:12:50,800 --> 01:12:53,800
Speaker 1: And I also feel like sometimes when you do that,

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01:12:54,000 --> 01:12:56,960
Speaker 1: you kind of block out what could be with some

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01:12:57,200 --> 01:12:59,240
Speaker 1: with the right person. And she may not be the

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01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:02,680
Speaker 1: right person you, but she has a responsibility also and

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01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:05,120
Speaker 1: for herself to figure out what she's doing in her

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01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:09,559
Speaker 1: life and her relationship before she can even move on, right, true.

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01:13:10,080 --> 01:13:12,040
Speaker 1: And I just don't want you to get hurt. Oh,

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01:13:12,080 --> 01:13:14,479
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna get hurt. It's okay. It's somebody that

1513
01:13:14,600 --> 01:13:17,639
Speaker 1: you care about, that's with somebody else, that's already done

1514
01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:19,800
Speaker 1: something that, whether or not you admit it, hurt you

1515
01:13:19,880 --> 01:13:22,320
Speaker 1: in the past because you ended up having a step away,

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01:13:22,840 --> 01:13:25,240
Speaker 1: and then because you care about her, she's come back.

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01:13:25,680 --> 01:13:29,200
Speaker 1: But it's not ideal for you exactly. Thank you, man,

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01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:32,479
Speaker 1: I really appreciate your info. You're welcome. You sound like

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01:13:32,520 --> 01:13:34,080
Speaker 1: a great guy, Tony, and I'm sure there's a lot

1520
01:13:34,080 --> 01:13:35,479
Speaker 1: of women out here that would love to meet you.

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01:13:36,000 --> 01:13:40,200
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm six or hit Instagram so I'll follow

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01:13:40,240 --> 01:13:41,920
Speaker 1: your soul if you ever tee me and I'll hit you.

1523
01:13:42,320 --> 01:13:45,519
Speaker 1: Sow your message, you know, please respond? What is it again?

1524
01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:47,800
Speaker 1: So everybody, all the women listening to here, because you

1525
01:13:47,840 --> 01:13:50,760
Speaker 1: are one hundred percent single? What is it? Lloyd? L

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01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:55,559
Speaker 1: O R D DOT Sin s I N C R. Okay,

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01:13:55,680 --> 01:13:58,599
Speaker 1: got you? Ask ye eight hundred five eighty five one

1528
01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:00,519
Speaker 1: or five one. If you need relationship advice and any

1529
01:14:00,560 --> 01:14:02,760
Speaker 1: type of advice, call ye. Now it's the Breakfast Club.

1530
01:14:02,800 --> 01:14:11,120
Speaker 1: Good morning, some real advice with Angela yet, ask ye morning?

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01:14:11,200 --> 01:14:15,360
Speaker 1: Everybody's DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are

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01:14:15,439 --> 01:14:18,040
Speaker 1: the breakfast Club with in the middle of ask ye, Hello,

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01:14:18,120 --> 01:14:24,160
Speaker 1: who's this? What's happening? Hey? First, before anything, I gotta

1534
01:14:24,240 --> 01:14:27,320
Speaker 1: tell y'all Charlotte Man, I love you. I love you too,

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01:14:27,439 --> 01:14:34,040
Speaker 1: King Ye, I love you. I love y'all man for real? Okay, Well,

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01:14:34,080 --> 01:14:36,640
Speaker 1: what's your question for? Ask ye? If the girls that

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01:14:36,800 --> 01:14:40,960
Speaker 1: you w you know she has a threesome before you

1538
01:14:41,040 --> 01:14:44,080
Speaker 1: guys got together, you know, the past really don't matter.

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01:14:44,200 --> 01:14:47,080
Speaker 1: But you know something, it might bother some people when

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01:14:47,120 --> 01:14:50,280
Speaker 1: they get into the relationship and they might find out

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01:14:50,520 --> 01:14:55,040
Speaker 1: or they girl or boy frand teller whatever, that they

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01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:57,400
Speaker 1: was in the threesome before they had gotten to the

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01:14:57,520 --> 01:15:02,280
Speaker 1: relationship with the person they w boy, did you and

1544
01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:04,960
Speaker 1: byted you? You know what. It did bothered me for

1545
01:15:05,479 --> 01:15:08,240
Speaker 1: a minute because her when we were asking, when we

1546
01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:11,000
Speaker 1: were talking about it, when we was you know how

1547
01:15:11,080 --> 01:15:14,360
Speaker 1: relationships start, y'all just friends, you know, y'all getting to

1548
01:15:14,439 --> 01:15:18,080
Speaker 1: know each other and everything is kind of like spoke freely.

1549
01:15:18,680 --> 01:15:21,720
Speaker 1: So when she first you know what, she asked me

1550
01:15:21,840 --> 01:15:23,840
Speaker 1: if I had one? I'm like, yeah, I had about

1551
01:15:23,920 --> 01:15:27,240
Speaker 1: four maybe five. Then I asked her, she comes she

1552
01:15:27,400 --> 01:15:31,200
Speaker 1: never had one. Then we got, you know, in the relationship,

1553
01:15:31,360 --> 01:15:34,360
Speaker 1: things got, you know, been together for a by the year,

1554
01:15:35,040 --> 01:15:37,080
Speaker 1: there's all the sudden that she tells me that she

1555
01:15:37,240 --> 01:15:39,760
Speaker 1: did have one. You know, it came up again and

1556
01:15:39,960 --> 01:15:42,639
Speaker 1: she tells me that she did. So I did feel

1557
01:15:42,680 --> 01:15:44,640
Speaker 1: a way about it, for sure. Did you feel a

1558
01:15:44,680 --> 01:15:46,680
Speaker 1: way that she lied to you initially or did you

1559
01:15:46,720 --> 01:15:48,800
Speaker 1: feel a way that she had a three seth It

1560
01:15:49,080 --> 01:15:51,280
Speaker 1: was it was a little bit of both. It was

1561
01:15:51,280 --> 01:15:53,120
Speaker 1: a little bit of both. She probably didn't want you

1562
01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:55,360
Speaker 1: to judge her because people look at women differently all

1563
01:15:55,400 --> 01:15:58,639
Speaker 1: the time. On our sexual experiences, there's a lot of judgment.

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01:15:59,240 --> 01:16:01,400
Speaker 1: But I do you feel like when somebody tells you

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01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:04,240
Speaker 1: something that places a lot of trust in you and

1566
01:16:04,320 --> 01:16:06,680
Speaker 1: in the relationship, and you can't really hold things over

1567
01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:09,519
Speaker 1: people's head from when they met, were from what happened

1568
01:16:09,560 --> 01:16:13,000
Speaker 1: before you, right, you know, the only issue is that

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01:16:13,080 --> 01:16:15,000
Speaker 1: she didn't tell the truth initially. But you guys were

1570
01:16:15,040 --> 01:16:18,040
Speaker 1: just friends then, right, Yeah, you know, were at that

1571
01:16:18,200 --> 01:16:20,160
Speaker 1: stage where you know, you're getting to know each other.

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01:16:20,240 --> 01:16:23,040
Speaker 1: You guys are asking each other question. Right, it was

1573
01:16:23,120 --> 01:16:27,840
Speaker 1: like really no expectations, There was no judgment and then

1574
01:16:28,200 --> 01:16:30,439
Speaker 1: you know what, it was probably the lie you know

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01:16:30,880 --> 01:16:33,320
Speaker 1: at first, and then it was you know, I'm thinking

1576
01:16:33,360 --> 01:16:35,800
Speaker 1: about the three from I'm replaying it in my mind,

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01:16:35,880 --> 01:16:38,479
Speaker 1: you know, like damn and she were lied to me

1578
01:16:38,600 --> 01:16:40,880
Speaker 1: about it, Like what kind of three from what? Like?

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01:16:41,080 --> 01:16:43,519
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just I let my mind get

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01:16:43,560 --> 01:16:45,639
Speaker 1: the best them. Right, Well you have four of them,

1581
01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:49,600
Speaker 1: so you know, but yeah, I get it that it

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01:16:49,680 --> 01:16:51,439
Speaker 1: was a lie. But you have to also understand that

1583
01:16:51,520 --> 01:16:55,360
Speaker 1: women are judged constantly all the time to this day.

1584
01:16:55,400 --> 01:16:57,840
Speaker 1: It's really bad. And so sometimes when you don't know

1585
01:16:57,960 --> 01:17:00,120
Speaker 1: somebody well enough, you don't know if we're gonna end

1586
01:17:00,240 --> 01:17:02,400
Speaker 1: up together. I don't want to tell you too much,

1587
01:17:02,439 --> 01:17:04,600
Speaker 1: and then you take this and then you know it

1588
01:17:04,720 --> 01:17:06,519
Speaker 1: comes back up. I also got to see how you're

1589
01:17:06,520 --> 01:17:08,519
Speaker 1: gonna treat me. Are you gonna look at me crazy?

1590
01:17:08,960 --> 01:17:11,240
Speaker 1: So I'm sure that she felt a little bit like,

1591
01:17:11,600 --> 01:17:13,360
Speaker 1: I'm not sure if I could trust him enough to

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01:17:13,439 --> 01:17:17,000
Speaker 1: share this with him? Right right, right right? But you

1593
01:17:17,120 --> 01:17:21,120
Speaker 1: over right now right? Oh yeah, I've been over when

1594
01:17:21,160 --> 01:17:23,439
Speaker 1: you asked me. When the person asked me right what

1595
01:17:23,520 --> 01:17:26,479
Speaker 1: you're gonna ask you, I'm like, uh, yeah, I didn't

1596
01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:28,840
Speaker 1: feel away about this, So yeah, let me ask you

1597
01:17:29,000 --> 01:17:33,200
Speaker 1: about this. Are y'all gonna have a threesome? No? We

1598
01:17:33,320 --> 01:17:35,680
Speaker 1: probably she probably is not gonna have a threation with me.

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01:17:35,760 --> 01:17:38,400
Speaker 1: I'm not even interested in having no threesothing like that.

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01:17:38,600 --> 01:17:42,680
Speaker 1: That's that's that's I have better sex with with, you know,

1601
01:17:43,160 --> 01:17:46,559
Speaker 1: with just one woman, then then I've had any three them,

1602
01:17:46,960 --> 01:17:48,800
Speaker 1: all right, And that's real. And at least you have

1603
01:17:48,920 --> 01:17:51,479
Speaker 1: the chance to experience those things before to know that

1604
01:17:52,040 --> 01:17:53,719
Speaker 1: you know you live your life and then you settle

1605
01:17:53,760 --> 01:17:55,479
Speaker 1: down with the person who you want to be with,

1606
01:17:56,479 --> 01:18:01,840
Speaker 1: right right, Okay, thank you, Yeah, I appreciate y'all. Love y'all,

1607
01:18:02,680 --> 01:18:05,519
Speaker 1: bro ask ye eight hundred five eight five one O

1608
01:18:05,680 --> 01:18:07,599
Speaker 1: five one. If you need relationship advice, you could always

1609
01:18:07,680 --> 01:18:10,080
Speaker 1: hit in. Now you got rumors on the way, Janet Jackson.

1610
01:18:10,400 --> 01:18:14,400
Speaker 1: This documentary, a two night documentary event, is primaring tomorrow.

1611
01:18:14,840 --> 01:18:16,960
Speaker 1: We'll tell you some more that you can expect to see.

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01:18:17,040 --> 01:18:20,000
Speaker 1: There's a surprise appearance. All right, we'll get into that next.

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01:18:20,000 --> 01:18:27,120
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This

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01:18:27,560 --> 01:18:36,880
Speaker 1: is the Rumor Report with Angela Ye. Well, Kanye wants

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01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:39,400
Speaker 1: to help out with the homeless crisis in LA and

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01:18:39,600 --> 01:18:42,719
Speaker 1: he wants to get them to model some clothes. Okay.

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01:18:42,840 --> 01:18:45,920
Speaker 1: He is working with streetwear brand skid Roll Fashion Week

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01:18:46,400 --> 01:18:48,680
Speaker 1: on a new collab and fashion show. The ultimate goal

1619
01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:51,280
Speaker 1: is to help out the homeless. David's Bashion, who is

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01:18:51,320 --> 01:18:53,479
Speaker 1: the founder of skid Roll Fashion Week, told tim Z

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01:18:53,600 --> 01:18:55,800
Speaker 1: he met with Kanye earlier this month while he was

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01:18:55,880 --> 01:18:58,960
Speaker 1: recording Donda two at his studio and they decided to

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01:18:59,080 --> 01:19:01,920
Speaker 1: create a easy skid Row Fashion Week clothing collab. He

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01:19:01,960 --> 01:19:04,360
Speaker 1: said the company donates a portion of all sales to

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01:19:04,479 --> 01:19:06,640
Speaker 1: helping those living on skid Row, and the factory that

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01:19:06,760 --> 01:19:09,679
Speaker 1: makes the clothes employees the homeless, and that Easy collabor

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01:19:09,840 --> 01:19:11,640
Speaker 1: use one hundred percent of the proceeds to help the

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01:19:11,720 --> 01:19:14,639
Speaker 1: homeless on skid Row. In the Drop February twenty second,

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01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:16,679
Speaker 1: that's dope. I didn't know skid Row had a fashion show.

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01:19:16,920 --> 01:19:18,320
Speaker 1: Skid Role we having a fashion I didn't know they

1631
01:19:18,360 --> 01:19:20,120
Speaker 1: had a fashion And how does that work? And am

1632
01:19:20,160 --> 01:19:22,120
Speaker 1: I thinking about this correctly when I say when I

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01:19:22,240 --> 01:19:24,360
Speaker 1: hear skid roll fashion show? Or am I is that

1634
01:19:24,479 --> 01:19:26,840
Speaker 1: just the name for something? Well, it's the name of

1635
01:19:27,760 --> 01:19:30,120
Speaker 1: it's a it's a clothing line. And then they're doing

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01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:32,640
Speaker 1: a fashion show, so they don't take actual you know,

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01:19:33,160 --> 01:19:35,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's placed people and let them walk

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01:19:35,800 --> 01:19:38,120
Speaker 1: the runway. Yeah, I don't know if they've done a

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01:19:38,160 --> 01:19:41,360
Speaker 1: fashion show before. Dope, though, if they paid the homeless

1640
01:19:41,400 --> 01:19:43,680
Speaker 1: people to actually to do a fashion show and bring

1641
01:19:43,760 --> 01:19:46,160
Speaker 1: people to where they from and make sure that they

1642
01:19:46,280 --> 01:19:48,960
Speaker 1: keep those clothes and pay them I think about stuff

1643
01:19:48,960 --> 01:19:50,560
Speaker 1: like that, it would be dope. But that's like a

1644
01:19:50,640 --> 01:19:52,240
Speaker 1: one time payment, Like, how do you hope those people

1645
01:19:52,280 --> 01:19:54,280
Speaker 1: permanently is you know what I mean? So well, they

1646
01:19:54,320 --> 01:19:57,120
Speaker 1: already have them working in the factory for a skid

1647
01:19:57,200 --> 01:19:58,840
Speaker 1: Row Fashion Week, so that's one of the things that

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01:19:58,880 --> 01:20:01,519
Speaker 1: they do. And like we said, the p of the proceeds.

1649
01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:03,800
Speaker 1: But they're saying one hundred percent of this clothing collab

1650
01:20:03,920 --> 01:20:05,559
Speaker 1: is going to go to help out the homeless, I hope.

1651
01:20:05,560 --> 01:20:07,960
Speaker 1: So because you don't want them to be homeless anymore,

1652
01:20:08,040 --> 01:20:11,160
Speaker 1: that that should be the goal, right, m Absolutely, And

1653
01:20:11,240 --> 01:20:13,720
Speaker 1: they're saying that one thing that they're kicking around as

1654
01:20:13,720 --> 01:20:17,560
Speaker 1: an idea is a trash bag puffer jacket. So I

1655
01:20:17,640 --> 01:20:19,880
Speaker 1: mean that's dope. And the reason another reason that because

1656
01:20:19,880 --> 01:20:21,559
Speaker 1: folks you know, would make jokes and say the clothes

1657
01:20:21,600 --> 01:20:23,599
Speaker 1: that Kanye may look like homeless folks to whim anyway,

1658
01:20:23,640 --> 01:20:25,240
Speaker 1: they do say that, But I think that would be

1659
01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:27,320
Speaker 1: dope if you could pay the homeless people to do

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01:20:27,400 --> 01:20:30,240
Speaker 1: it and have people come down. It's dope to flip

1661
01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:32,439
Speaker 1: that narrative. Correct, you make the jokes about me, but

1662
01:20:32,520 --> 01:20:34,439
Speaker 1: watch what I'll do with this, all right? Nick even

1663
01:20:34,520 --> 01:20:36,920
Speaker 1: Nach has confirmed that she has a collab but little

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01:20:36,960 --> 01:20:40,720
Speaker 1: Baby that is arriving On February fourth, she posted a

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01:20:40,760 --> 01:20:43,400
Speaker 1: picture on set with little Baby and said, do we

1666
01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:48,240
Speaker 1: have a problem baby times barbe pink Friday, February fourth, Okay,

1667
01:20:48,920 --> 01:20:50,360
Speaker 1: so get ready for that. I want to hear that,

1668
01:20:51,320 --> 01:20:54,639
Speaker 1: all right. Janet Jackson, you know her documentary, that two

1669
01:20:54,680 --> 01:20:58,800
Speaker 1: part documentary is coming out tomorrow. Oh, no, tomorrow's tomorrow Friday. Yes,

1670
01:20:58,960 --> 01:21:00,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what day it is. Yeah, so that's

1671
01:21:00,840 --> 01:21:03,280
Speaker 1: going to be coming out. It's two parts of a

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01:21:03,560 --> 01:21:06,679
Speaker 1: lifetime in A and E documentary called Janet, and there's

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Speaker 1: a lot of things that will be discussed. Now. Janet

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01:21:10,040 --> 01:21:13,240
Speaker 1: Jackson said her brother teased her about her weight game,

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Speaker 1: Michael Jackson, and called her names, and she said there

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01:21:16,280 --> 01:21:21,040
Speaker 1: were times when Mikey said, tease me and call me pig, horse, slaughterhog, cow.

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Speaker 1: He would laugh about it and I'd laugh too, but

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Speaker 1: there was something down inside that it would hurt. And

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01:21:26,240 --> 01:21:28,200
Speaker 1: she said, when you have somebody say you're too heavy,

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Speaker 1: it affects you. She said she and her older brother

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01:21:31,680 --> 01:21:34,080
Speaker 1: drifted apart as they grew older, starting with the release

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Speaker 1: of his album Thriller in nineteen eighty two. She said,

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01:21:36,320 --> 01:21:38,720
Speaker 1: I really I remember really loving a Thriller album, but

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Speaker 1: for the first time in my life, I felt like

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Speaker 1: it was different between us. A shift was happening. That's

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Speaker 1: the time Mike and I started going our separate ways.

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Speaker 1: He just wasn't as fun as he used to be.

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Speaker 1: And when they worked together on Scream in nineteen ninety five,

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Speaker 1: she felt frozen out by him. She said, Michael shot nights,

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Speaker 1: I shot days. His record company would block off his

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01:21:55,280 --> 01:21:57,400
Speaker 1: set so I couldn't see what was going on. They

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Speaker 1: didn't want me on set. That really hurt me because

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Speaker 1: I felt like I was there fighting the fight with him,

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Speaker 1: not to battle him. I wanted to feel like old

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Speaker 1: times between he and I, and it didn't. Old times

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Speaker 1: had long passed. She who knew, I had no idea now.

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01:22:10,880 --> 01:22:13,040
Speaker 1: She also shut down rumors of a secret baby with

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Speaker 1: her ex James Debarred. She said, that is not right.

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Speaker 1: Back in the day, she said, how could I keep

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Speaker 1: a child from their father? I could never do that.

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Speaker 1: That's not right. So also, how old were they when

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Speaker 1: they were making these jokes on each other? I mean,

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Speaker 1: if you got brothers and sisters, you make jokes on

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Speaker 1: your brothers. I was gonna say the same thing. I'm

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Speaker 1: an only child, but you know, Madison and Logan, they

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01:22:29,760 --> 01:22:32,439
Speaker 1: make old times got an old, two younger brothers and

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01:22:32,520 --> 01:22:34,880
Speaker 1: younger sister, Like how old they were? Never do you

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01:22:34,960 --> 01:22:37,280
Speaker 1: remember when she gained weight? Like she was a little

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Speaker 1: older when that happened. So she's saying it was it

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Speaker 1: was when the weight gain happened. It sounds like it

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Speaker 1: was when they were kids. When she was penny, she

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Speaker 1: wasn't big, she was really small. When I get in

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Speaker 1: a little way, my kids made fun of me too.

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Speaker 1: They told me a way I need a bra like well,

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Speaker 1: she said, she laughed, but she said it did hurt her.

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Speaker 1: She's right. Why do I feel like? Why do I

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Speaker 1: feel like? I remember Michael saying one of the reasons

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01:22:59,320 --> 01:23:01,080
Speaker 1: he got an old because he used to get teased

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Speaker 1: about his nose, about his family members. So there must

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01:23:04,760 --> 01:23:06,200
Speaker 1: have been some great jokes in that house. Then there

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Speaker 1: must have been all snapping on each other. I think

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01:23:08,680 --> 01:23:10,519
Speaker 1: you have to understand the way that it does hurt

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01:23:10,560 --> 01:23:12,400
Speaker 1: people when you say things. They might try to laugh

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01:23:12,439 --> 01:23:14,439
Speaker 1: it off in the moment, but it can really have

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Speaker 1: an effect on you. I agree. But you know what

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Speaker 1: that is that that has been a big part of

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Speaker 1: our culture for time, playing the dozens. That's right, snapping

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Speaker 1: on people. Team metal mouth and four eyes and brace face.

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Speaker 1: So I got all that shrimp not just something to

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Speaker 1: be aware of. Right, we still tease folks. All right,

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Speaker 1: let me come here with all that Beijing on his face.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna get these Stop it, man, leave me a little.

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Speaker 1: That is your record. I want to salute to the

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Speaker 1: Smithstonian magazine. Man. They put out an article this morning

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Speaker 1: titled the most Anticipated museum museum Openings of twenty twenty two,

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Speaker 1: and they have the International African American Museum that's opening

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Speaker 1: in Charleston, South Carolina this year on the list. Drop

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Speaker 1: on the clues bombs for they. I cannot wait to

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Speaker 1: take y'all on field trips to see that institution. And

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Speaker 1: salute to doctor Tanya Matthews, the CEO of that amazing project.

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Speaker 1: You are appreciated, queen, and congrats to you on making

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Speaker 1: the twenty twenty one Charleston Most Influential lists. Okay, drop

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Speaker 1: on a clues bombs for doctor Tony and everyone involved

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Speaker 1: in the International African American Museum. The eight for three

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Speaker 1: all day slew to Z ninety three jams. We come

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Speaker 1: on zuninity three jams in the morning. Drop on the

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Speaker 1: clues Bump is the Unity three jams, that's home, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right? Eight four to three, All day up? Next

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Speaker 1: to People's Choice Mix eight hundred five eight five one

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Speaker 1: or five one is to Breakfast Club the Morning to

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Speaker 1: wake Up. It's the Breakfast Club. Angela Year here and

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Speaker 1: me put a little bit the Breakfast Club Your life stock,

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Speaker 1: Angela Charmagne, the guy you don't need a body morning.

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Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee Charlomagne, the guy. We

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Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. Now, I just want to say

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01:25:20,880 --> 01:25:22,439
Speaker 1: thank you and shout out to all of you guys.

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01:25:22,520 --> 01:25:24,000
Speaker 1: You know, me and the wife. We have a book

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Speaker 1: coming out in April. It's called Real Life, Real Love

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01:25:27,200 --> 01:25:30,040
Speaker 1: Life Lessons on Joy, Pain and the Magic that holds

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01:25:30,120 --> 01:25:33,080
Speaker 1: us together. And this week I think the next couple

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Speaker 1: of day Barns and Nobles is doing something where they're

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Speaker 1: giving twenty five percent off of anybody that wants to

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Speaker 1: purchase a book. So get over the Barns and Nobles,

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Speaker 1: and I just want to say thank you, thank you

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Speaker 1: for everybody that that helped me with the book, everybody

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Speaker 1: that that wrote something about me and my wife in

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01:25:46,439 --> 01:25:49,200
Speaker 1: the book, it's about everything. It's it's things that we've

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Speaker 1: been through, so hopefully that you guys won't have to

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01:25:52,000 --> 01:25:55,160
Speaker 1: or you guys can learn from possibly, whether it's insecurities,

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Speaker 1: it's right fighting, it's uh cheating and fighting. Yeah, it

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01:26:00,080 --> 01:26:02,360
Speaker 1: was a right fighter meaning I'm wrong, but I fight

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Speaker 1: to the end because I just want to win the fight.

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Speaker 1: When sometimes you learn it's it's not about winning or losing,

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01:26:07,640 --> 01:26:10,040
Speaker 1: it's about understanding each other. Y'all. Y'all are just in therapy.

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01:26:10,080 --> 01:26:12,240
Speaker 1: That's therapy talking. I mean, we have to get to

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01:26:12,600 --> 01:26:14,320
Speaker 1: get there. We've been there with we've been together twenty

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01:26:14,320 --> 01:26:16,160
Speaker 1: seven years. We've been there so things like that. We

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Speaker 1: talk about raising our kids, love making, keeping a relationship, spicy,

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01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:24,200
Speaker 1: all that. Because you know what, I hope, I really

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Speaker 1: hope sincerely that y'all get to go on a book tour.

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Speaker 1: I hope that you know COVID clears up because Clovid

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Speaker 1: COVID has really stopped a lot of book tours, you know,

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Speaker 1: and a lot of the bonds and nobles haven't been

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Speaker 1: allowing people to do that. But I hope by April

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Speaker 1: y'all really get to go out there and do a

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Speaker 1: book talk. Because when you get to go out there

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Speaker 1: and do a book toll man and you get to

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Speaker 1: see all those people in all those different cities that

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Speaker 1: really really support you in a different ways. It's one

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Speaker 1: thing when you're in the clubs and all of that

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Speaker 1: stuff like that. But when you go to a bookstore

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Speaker 1: and people got to pull up to the bookstore to

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Speaker 1: you know, meet meet you, and year that's going. That's

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Speaker 1: a different feeling. So I really hope y'all get the

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Speaker 1: experience that. Yeah, I can't wait to have service without

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Speaker 1: you there too. That's gonna be fun. You'll have fun, y'all.

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01:27:00,000 --> 01:27:02,400
Speaker 1: I could do what y'all need to do. But excited

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Speaker 1: about that. If we get an advanced copy, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: have only the digital copies. I could send you the

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Speaker 1: digico copy. I hate the digital copy sometimes, but I'll

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Speaker 1: send you the digital cop because pure the pictures, because

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Speaker 1: there's pictures in there. It really shows up. You got

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Speaker 1: that picture that you had a little short time with

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Speaker 1: this knee high sicks. I did not put that picture.

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Speaker 1: You should. I'm not gonna lie as their time. No.

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Speaker 1: And the picture she's talking about is my mom showed

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Speaker 1: ANGELI a picture, you know, the Jamaican shirts with all

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Speaker 1: the holes in it, called the Jamaica shure. I had

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Speaker 1: that on. But back in the day, guys were short shorts,

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Speaker 1: and it was like, you know what, I'm not even

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Speaker 1: gonna explain it. That pictures going who you wear short shorts,

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Speaker 1: big glasses on, to wear biker shorts and stuff. Back

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Speaker 1: in the day, that like that was regular, especially in Florida, priceless.

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Speaker 1: You should have put it in there. I'm good. It

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Speaker 1: was like running shorts. I'm good, all right when we

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Speaker 1: come back positive. Notice the breakfast clog morning everybody your

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Speaker 1: cj Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlomagne, the guy, we all the

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Speaker 1: breakfast club. We gotta shout to Jay Shetty for joining

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Speaker 1: us this morning. Man, salute to Jay Setty. If you

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Speaker 1: are not one of the nine point six million people

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Speaker 1: that follow Jay Setty on Instagram, you need to be

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Speaker 1: Jay Shetty has one of the biggest podcasts in the

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Speaker 1: world with Our Purpose. His book Think Like a Monk

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Speaker 1: is amazing. I mean, he's just a real leader in

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Speaker 1: this mind from this mental health meditation space and man,

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Speaker 1: if you just need help, tip health tips on self care,

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Speaker 1: follow Jay Setty, trust me one. He's one of He's

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Speaker 1: one of My goal to Jay Setty, DeBie Brown, I'm

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Speaker 1: glad that people like that exist. Okay, and I want

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Speaker 1: to shout out to Kenya Garrett. She sent me a

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Speaker 1: beautiful package of fancy products. You know we love fancy beauty,

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Speaker 1: so thank you too, Kenya. All right, Well, leave us

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Speaker 1: on a positive news the positive notice. Simply this man

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Speaker 1: self care. Speaking of self care, self care is choosing

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Speaker 1: not to argue with people who are committed to misunderstanding you.

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Speaker 1: Breakfast club bitches, you are finishing, You'll done.