1 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: This episode is brought to you by boost Mobile. Hi guys, 2 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 1: we're back. 3 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:11,800 Speaker 2: Hey, Irol family, what's up? 4 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: Irol Family? We are back another episode of Edge Martinez 5 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: Irl Weekly. Your life has been lifing. 6 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 2: I'm always really careful to say that, though it. 7 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 1: Doesn't mean it's bad lifing though sometimes right, but somebody 8 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: always got it worse. I was having a conversation with 9 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: a friend the other day. Someone always got it better too. 10 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: Somebody does always got it better. And your path is 11 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 1: your path. Some friends of mine had a little miscommunication 12 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 1: and both of them have came to me separately about it, 13 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: and I realized they both got a lot of shit 14 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: going on, and each side didn't realize how much the 15 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:51,159 Speaker 1: other side had going on. And I just was like, 16 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: you know what, every single person has shit going on, 17 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: and sometimes you in turn like, damn, they're my friend, 18 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 1: they should know, Oh I need them in this time, 19 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 1: or you're thinking that way, so you feel about about 20 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: your friend, or everybody got shit. Everybody got they're battling 21 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: right now, and so I don't know what the fucking 22 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 1: point of this was, but like, life be lifing, and 23 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: why you don't say yeah, life with life, because then 24 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: all right, so then I'll have like a bad day 25 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:22,559 Speaker 1: or a bad week. But then one of my friends 26 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 1: is like, damn they going through That makes your problem 27 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: not seeing that big, And number one, it makes your 28 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 1: problem not seem that big. And then number two it's 29 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 1: like I wasn't even thinking about what they were experiencing. 30 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 1: Right now, let me shift my energy a little bit. 31 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 1: So you're thinking about upgrading to the all new iPhone 32 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 1: seventeen Pro, designed to be the most powerful iPhone ever, 33 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: but are you also thinking about the traffic on your 34 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: way to the store or transferring all your data and 35 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 1: all the time that takes. Well. 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Terms apply, 43 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 1: and sometimes that helps right the fastest way to solve 44 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: your own problems, Like if you're in a rut, I 45 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 1: always remember this if like I'm in a rut or 46 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:25,239 Speaker 1: I'm gonna woe is me, or a sad place or whatever. 47 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 1: The quickest way to make yourself feel better is to 48 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: do something for somebody else. It's like a quick fit. 49 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: It's almost like a cheat code, like if you're damn, 50 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: I can't figure this out, Damn, I can't believe this happened. 51 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: Damn me me, me, me, me, me, my, my, shit 52 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: my this. The fastest way to make yourself feel better 53 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 1: is to do something for somebody else. It's it's not 54 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 1: the all ending. You still have to get back to 55 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: yourself and heal whatever's going on. But if you're just 56 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: looking for a way to cheat that quickly relief. Quickly 57 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: relief is to do something for somebody else put you 58 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: in a better place. 59 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 3: I gotta be careful with that type, though, because then 60 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 3: I'll just only do stuff for anybody. 61 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: I cannot do that. No, No, that's not good. Then 62 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, hmm, where's me? What about me? 63 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 2: No, don't do that. That's only the extremes are never good. 64 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. 65 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't be about everybody else, and you can't 66 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:15,639 Speaker 1: be all about yourself all the time. 67 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 2: There's got to be like a mid, a mid and 68 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 2: how do we get to this? 69 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 1: This just came out of nowhere. This is in real life, happening, 70 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: real life, in real time. That's how life is lifing. 71 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: Life is fully lifing. We've had some really good episodes recently. 72 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: I really liked Leslie Jones. Leslie Jones. We haven't regrouped 73 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:33,799 Speaker 1: since then. First of all, she gave me like a 74 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: whole fortune tele reading an episode. If you haven't watched 75 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: it yet, please go watch it. 76 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 4: Well. 77 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: Also, she was talking about her brother. You know, her 78 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: brother had passed and they were beefing before he died, 79 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: and she never really got to fix that, and he 80 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: called her. She didn't answer. 81 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 5: I wish I had answered the phone. 82 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 1: You didn't answer? Were you somebody that screens a lot? 83 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: Because I did that? 84 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 5: It was how bad each other? 85 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 6: He was doing some dumb shit anyway, and I didn't 86 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 6: feel like I was making a lot ofy ticket in Atlanta, 87 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 6: and I didn't feel like answered. I was like just whatever, 88 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 6: because he had already did something and somebody had said 89 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 6: he was in the hospital. 90 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 5: But I was like, Oh, he's fine, I'll talk to 91 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 5: him later. That's the way. 92 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: Oh that's tough. How do you make peace with that? 93 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 6: How do you make peace with that? Yeah, you continue 94 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 6: to tell yourself. Fuck you know, tell people to fucking 95 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 6: love their people while they're here. If your loved one 96 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 6: is you, if you mad at your mama, unless your 97 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 6: mama abused you or did something fucking offul go make 98 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 6: up with your mama. If your daddy is still here 99 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 6: and you he ain't, like, go make up with people. 100 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 5: Stop that shit. It's too year. I promise they gone 101 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 5: in a fucking minute. 102 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 6: And ain't nothing worse than the people that's close to 103 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 6: you dying and them not knowing that you loved him. 104 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: She was telling everybody like, and we've heard this before, 105 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 1: like you never know when somebody's life is going to 106 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 1: be changed over you can or the removed. Everybody has 107 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: an expiration date, and you just never know when people's 108 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 1: expiration date is, so if you can, you know. It's 109 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 1: funny because some of the comments I saw people said, no, 110 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 1: thank you, not when they're toxic, not when they're this. 111 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, but she said that too. I said that. 112 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: She was like, I'm not saying if somebody abuses you, you 113 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 1: should make right with them, but if there are things 114 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 1: that you can kind of let go, that's the best 115 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: to do it, because she has a lot of regret 116 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 1: about not being right with her brother when he passed. 117 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 1: And I know. So it's a lot of death lately too. 118 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:23,479 Speaker 1: This week. We just lost di'angelo recently. I was having 119 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 1: a conversation about that yesterday, and I find it really 120 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 1: interesting how there's certain people that when they die, it 121 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 1: just hits different Yeah right, yeah, yeah, And it don't 122 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: even be the people necessarily that you're the closest with. 123 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: Sometimes people die and then you're like, yo, I really 124 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 1: I really like them. Well they really mattered to me, 125 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 1: and you don't really process it until they're gone. Some 126 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 1: people you do something you don't. But there's certain individuals 127 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: like D'Angelo just passed, and I'm seeing people talk about 128 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:57,479 Speaker 1: his music and how much it meant, And I don't 129 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:00,159 Speaker 1: remember seeing people talk about DiAngelo that much before. For 130 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 1: the same thing happened when Nipsey Hustle. When nip died, 131 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 1: everybody was affected by his life so deeply. People got 132 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 1: to learn who he was more. I think there's certain 133 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 1: people that after they die you kind of realize the 134 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 1: impact that they have on you. Like we just saw 135 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: that with the Angel. It's funny because we're Prodigy. Shout 136 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: out to Mob Deep. They just put an album out 137 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 1: where Prodigy died and Prodigy we weren't like we didn't 138 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 1: go No, we didn't go to them all together. We 139 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 1: was always cool. We had interviewed him a bunch of times. 140 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 1: He always showed love. He hopped one of my albums 141 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: back in the day, like show love cool, but like 142 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 1: we weren't besties. But something about when he died it 143 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: really hit me hard, and I realized not only that 144 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 1: I was sad personally because somebody I knew was always cool. 145 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:45,839 Speaker 1: I respected him as an artist, it was also what 146 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: he represented. He represented an era, a time, a music, 147 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:56,359 Speaker 1: a purity about that craft, you know what I'm saying. 148 00:06:56,560 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 1: And it's like he represented something bigger than just his 149 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 1: personality or his specific contributions. What he represented I almost 150 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 1: felt was gone when he left. So it's like you 151 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: don't really realize people's impact until they're gone. Has it 152 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 1: never happened to you or you haven't, you haven't had 153 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 1: that much experience with death. 154 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 3: I'm actually terrified of when because I know, like as 155 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 3: you're getting older, like it's gonna come, and we talk 156 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 3: about that stuff. Like that so much on this pod, 157 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 3: I haven't even wrapped my brain. 158 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 1: Around like how I'm gonna respond. Yeah, it's hard, But 159 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 1: have you not known anybody who died you had? 160 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 3: I have, but not someone who's like had such an 161 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 3: emotional impact on me. Like in high school we've had 162 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 3: I've had like a friend of a friend that. 163 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 1: Passed or Clark. We went through Clark. You got to 164 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 1: know Clark? Well, yeah I did. 165 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 3: That one was tough, but even still like I got 166 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 3: to know him for a short period of time. 167 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 1: But also sometimes some people represent something in your life, 168 00:07:57,320 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: like I have to talk about Prodigy represented this part 169 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 1: of him pop culture, or like even how Nip probably 170 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 1: really represented something to people. And I feel like D'Angelo 171 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 1: represented a music a shift in music, and you know 172 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: what I mean, what were you gonna say? 173 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 3: This one is not as nearly as like important as 174 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 3: someone who's so big to the culture. But like the 175 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 3: first time someone passed was it was like my first boyfriend. 176 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 3: This sounds so to me, this sounds so low like silly, 177 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 3: but it was my first boyfriend. And I remember he 178 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 3: was like into skateboarding and hip hop and he was 179 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:35,960 Speaker 3: like the first person that kind of like put me 180 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 3: onto a mob deep or like taught me what like 181 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:42,079 Speaker 3: old school hip hop was. And I remember just thinking 182 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 3: he was so the cool cool, No, he was the 183 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 3: coolest person ever. He put me onto like Nike as 184 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 3: B's like I literally was like a lot of his 185 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 3: A lot of my current day interests started with him. 186 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:56,679 Speaker 1: And then even after we broke up. 187 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:58,679 Speaker 3: I remember when I was in college, the last year 188 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 3: of my college year, he he passed away, and I 189 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 3: remember being so I was really hurt by it, to 190 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 3: the point where I had dreams about Him'm like, I 191 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 3: haven't talked to this guy in years. Why am I 192 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 3: having dreams about him? But then it brought me back 193 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 3: to like all the things. 194 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 1: That's the piece of your child like young adulthood. 195 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, but also like no, it's a perfect example 196 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 3: kind of how it helped mold my character to look 197 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 3: at the stuff I'm interested in. 198 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: Now what I'm doing. 199 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 3: And I always used to hold his opinion so highly 200 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 3: when it came to like music, culture. 201 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 1: And fashion and things. 202 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 3: And I remember when I was leaving from school, I 203 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:37,200 Speaker 3: was trying to decide what path for my career I 204 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 3: was going to take, and I had a dream with 205 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 3: him where he was like, just do the thing you 206 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 3: always talked about doing, and that's actually what helped me 207 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 3: move to New York. 208 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: That's interesting as you're saying that, I'm thinking, first of all, 209 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 1: there's no different what you're talking about, what I'm saying 210 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 1: about Prodigy or di'angelo or Nipsey Hustle. It's the same thing. 211 00:09:56,120 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 1: It's like what somebody represents to you, it's even bigger. 212 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 1: It's not diminishing who they were or their personal connections, 213 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: their family, but it's even bigger than that. It's like 214 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 1: how their life impacted you, uh in a way. And 215 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 1: so maybe that's a way how Leslie was saying to 216 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 1: make peace with people or to appreciate people while they're here. 217 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: It's like maybe making note of that the people who 218 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 1: have influenced you and in the ways that they have. 219 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 1: It might be a way to honor people in that way. 220 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 1: Like we don't always think about that, no, like how 221 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 1: has that person changed my life? Or how has this 222 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 1: person being alive or doing that shifted my because even 223 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: like my mother, right, so Diane Keaton just passed, right, 224 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:40,719 Speaker 1: my mom looks at her as, oh, my gosh, a 225 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 1: peer you haven't met that lady, she'll know her, but 226 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 1: to her, she's a woman that represents a time that 227 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: is important. To my mother, she's a woman, she's a 228 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 1: woman who represents women operating at a high level with 229 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 1: excellence and you know, talent and breaking through, you know, 230 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: and just the eight at any age, showing it's okay 231 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 1: to be fifty or sixty and have these big roles. 232 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 1: So I think that. So that struck my mother. Even 233 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 1: when we were talking about the other she was getting emotional. 234 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, what about Tyank? 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I mean 278 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 1: for me while we're in the room, all right, So 279 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:11,440 Speaker 1: for nobody else at least, sorry out no, no, no. 280 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 1: There are plenty of comments on. 281 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:15,720 Speaker 3: People who have even with this new Voice memo segment 282 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 3: that we have where someone someone called in, yes, well 283 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 3: the one when someone called in for you know, we 284 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 3: did the first one with Leslie and the young woman 285 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:26,319 Speaker 3: who was like you made me feel like it was 286 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 3: okay to be an awkward black girl, Like. 287 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 7: She has no idea the impact she has on other 288 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 7: black women who are going day to day with just 289 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:41,080 Speaker 7: how unapologetically she shows up as herself and I love 290 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 7: her for that. I know they mistreat you because they're 291 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 7: on her mistreating us, Leslie, and you continue to go 292 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 7: and that is the inspiration I took away from your book, 293 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 7: from seeing you on TV, from watching your specials. I 294 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 7: love that you are so unapologetically yourself that it makes 295 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:00,679 Speaker 7: it the norm. You're my aunt, You're my sister, You're 296 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 7: my mom, And I feel that I can show up 297 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 7: and continue to be myself unapoljectedly because you can either 298 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:09,679 Speaker 7: take me or you cannot. I loved Leslie f n 299 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 7: Jones her book. I laughed and cried for seventeen hours straight. 300 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,439 Speaker 7: Leslie Jones makes me feel like I can show up 301 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 7: as myself unapologetically every day as she does, and I 302 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 7: love her for that. 303 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 5: That's so sweet. 304 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 1: That's all I'm trying to do. 305 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 5: I'm trying to get the little girls that look like me. 306 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 1: That's dope that in itself. Do we have a question today? 307 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 5: Yeah? 308 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 1: The question is this is our segment. 309 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 2: By the way, our boost mobile voice notes Tianjie. 310 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 8: I'm fifty years old and I just moved to a 311 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 8: new city. I just needed something new, so I decided 312 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 8: to make a change. But I'm having a hard time 313 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 8: finding my community out here? How do I make friends 314 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 8: at this age? 315 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 5: You know what? 316 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 1: Shout out to Kalib because he really with no new friends, 317 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 1: he like ruined people. Oh, I felt cold on no 318 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 1: new friends. But it's also like you should always be 319 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 1: making new friends. We should always be by the way, 320 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 1: thank you for your voice. Note, Thank you so much. 321 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 1: What was her name by the way? Rebecca? Rebecca? Thank 322 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 1: you Rebecca for your voice. Note listen, I'm I'm with 323 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: call it in terms of like I don't need a 324 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 1: whole bunch of new friends just to have new friends, 325 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 1: like having a bunch of people around no thanks, are 326 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 1: consistently seeking out, have new roundaries, protect your piece. You 327 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 1: don't need a bunch of motherfuckers arounds or whatever. However, 328 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 1: the right people wherever and your stage in your life's changed. 329 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 1: So like who lifts you up, who motivates you, who 330 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 1: inspires you? That may change. You may need some new friends, 331 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 1: You may need some new inspiration or like your situation, Rebecca, 332 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 1: you're in a new city, You're gonna need people to 333 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 1: show you around. You're gonna need to see that place 334 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 1: through their eyes. So and it's an opportunity for you 335 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 1: to make a new crew. So what are you interested in? 336 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 1: And then go there and find those people like I 337 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 1: like the golf. I got a new batch of golf friends, 338 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 1: and so many I have golf friends many and some 339 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 1: of them are just there, like I see you at golf. 340 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: We golf, I don't ever talk to you again until 341 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 1: the next time. But while we're there, it's real, like 342 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 1: our connection to what we're doing is real. Then some 343 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 1: of them even after, like hey, by the way, we 344 00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 1: were talking about this thing check out. You know, like 345 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 1: all of a sudden you become kind of cool. But 346 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 1: it opens the space for people that have similar interests. 347 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 1: So what are your interests? So in the last episode 348 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: we talked to Norri. He's running now right, He's got 349 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 1: the run club. In this past episode with Norri, that's 350 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 1: the thing for him. 351 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 4: After the New York City Marathon on November second, you 352 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 4: are running it, I am running it. 353 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 7: Wow. 354 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 4: Second, I got my congratulations? 355 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 1: Is this are you announcing this now? Is this the 356 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: first time you're selling I said it. 357 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 9: But this is the first time I actually got the 358 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 9: actual email from the news. I want to say congratulations, sir, 359 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 9: We'll see you there. And they tell me that I'm 360 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 9: gonna be in the VIP section with Copo Choby. I 361 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 9: don't know if you know what Coco Chobe is. He's 362 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 9: a Michael Jordan of running. 363 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 1: This is amazing Number number one, This is amazing. Congratulations. 364 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 1: You deserve to have something that is not work related 365 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 1: that you effort and you commit yourself too, because it really, 366 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:05,439 Speaker 1: like I don't know, it fills you up right in 367 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 1: a different type of way and it makes you better 368 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 1: in your work. You're gonna kill this. By the way, 369 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 1: you got to find like mind of you. You got to 370 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:15,680 Speaker 1: find other runners to show you where the paths are, 371 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 1: the races are, to talk about man does your toe 372 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:22,880 Speaker 1: her whatever it is to have the experience with you. 373 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:24,919 Speaker 1: And so I think you have to start there right. 374 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:27,399 Speaker 1: Go whatever you think at list your five things that 375 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 1: you like to do or that you want to be 376 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 1: happening in your life. I decided a couple of years 377 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 1: ago I wanted to shoot a short film. I made 378 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:37,560 Speaker 1: some friends that are not that many, but a couple 379 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 1: that actually helped me, gave me great information. Shout out 380 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 1: to you, Shout out to Stephen, Bernie to Peck, Shout 381 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 1: out to Pack also coming into space using resources. It's 382 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:52,440 Speaker 1: like surround yourself with people that help you to kind 383 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 1: of develop. And it doesn't have to be false like 384 00:17:55,600 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 1: I need this, so I'm gonna get, you know, because 385 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:01,679 Speaker 1: that's the difference some people just take from people to 386 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:08,120 Speaker 1: help them get The connection has to be genuine. It's 387 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 1: not don't be an opportunist and it's for networking or 388 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 1: anything like that, but just genuinely connecting with people on 389 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 1: something that you genuinely both have interest in. And that's 390 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 1: a great way to start new friendships. And it's an 391 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:26,679 Speaker 1: opportunity for you to start something new. You're in a 392 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 1: new city, figure out what you want the next three 393 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 1: to five years of your life to look like, and 394 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:36,919 Speaker 1: then go to the places where those people work, live, shop, 395 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 1: go to church, work out, and put yourself in that mix, 396 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 1: and I think you'll find like minded people there. 397 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 3: I think Rebecca's halfway there, because you have to open 398 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:50,119 Speaker 3: up yourself up and be vulnerable to a certain degree 399 00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 3: to like make new friends. So being honest with yourself 400 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 3: like I want new friends is like. 401 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 1: How comfortable it's vulnerable, Especially at the age of fifty, 402 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:01,960 Speaker 1: you think, like, you know, which we get friends? You 403 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:02,800 Speaker 1: don't have no friends? 404 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:05,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, like what you been doing this whole time, girl, 405 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:08,160 Speaker 3: But some you know things, whatever things happen, life happens. 406 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 1: That's one part of it. 407 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 3: And then another part of it is too Like there's 408 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 3: this thing that I saw this clip. Actually, my friend 409 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 3: was on another podcast that she was talking about how 410 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 3: people are lacking in community because they put up too 411 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:23,920 Speaker 3: many boundaries. Oh I'm too tired, I need this time 412 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 3: to myself. Oh I don't want to go to that 413 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:28,680 Speaker 3: baby shower. I don't want to because I need to 414 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:31,399 Speaker 3: go do my own thing. And it's like, also be 415 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:33,640 Speaker 3: aware that it takes real effort. 416 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:36,200 Speaker 1: Don't close yourself up. Yes, it takes real effort. 417 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:39,880 Speaker 3: You might be too tired to go to the housewarming 418 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:42,639 Speaker 3: event or whatever, but you got to get up and 419 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:45,200 Speaker 3: show up because that's how you build community. 420 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:47,399 Speaker 1: And you know, I think there are different types of 421 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 1: friendships mm hmm. There are friendships like that I have 422 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:52,960 Speaker 1: with Nikki that we've been friends since we're eight years old, 423 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:55,440 Speaker 1: and then if I'm in a project and I don't 424 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 1: talk to her barely all month, I love those. Those 425 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 1: are great friendships to have and mostly not everyone's gonna 426 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 1: be like that. They're lifelong friendships and lucky you if 427 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:07,679 Speaker 1: you have one, wow, if you have two or three, 428 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 1: like that is like the blessing from wherever. But that 429 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 1: doesn't have to be your only type of friendship. You 430 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 1: can have cobby friendships, you can have mom friends. You 431 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 1: can have workout buddies or work friends people work friends 432 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:26,960 Speaker 1: or season friends. If you're in a season of healing, 433 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:28,879 Speaker 1: if you're going through a divorce, you might want to 434 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 1: you might want to talk to other people that have 435 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:35,679 Speaker 1: been through that shit. Yeah, that's what support groups are 436 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:38,359 Speaker 1: all about, is like finding those kind of people. And 437 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:41,679 Speaker 1: so you know, maybe you're these friends will just be 438 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: your season friends while you're living in this city, and 439 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 1: that's totally cool, and maybe one of them will stick 440 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:47,240 Speaker 1: and you'll be friends with twenty thirty years, which is 441 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 1: what I hope for Rebecca. But yeah, like Brittany said, 442 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:53,919 Speaker 1: you gotta be open to shit. Great and thank you 443 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:55,920 Speaker 1: to Boo's Mobile. That was our voice note, by the way, 444 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 1: our new voice note segment. How do people put those in? 445 00:20:58,359 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 1: How do they? Where they go? 446 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 3: They go to Andrew Martinez Iro Instagram or you can 447 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 3: send us a direct voice note there and. 448 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:07,720 Speaker 1: If oh DM, yep, yeah DM, Your voice notes great 449 00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 1: to Andrew Martinez Iral and we look for them through 450 00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:16,960 Speaker 1: there questions, comments, concerns, no hate, but like critique is fine. 451 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 1: I'm cool with that. It's respectful. Don't be crazy block 452 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:24,400 Speaker 1: you or suggestions you want to. I like suggestions. See 453 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 1: this guest, ask this guest this question. Yeah, for sure, 454 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 1: that type of thing. Anyway, Thanks for watching. Check out 455 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 1: the Leslie Jones episode. The Noriy episode, uh Nori was great. 456 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 1: It was great. A couple of things real quick about 457 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 1: nor number one. Find you a hobby, It changed change 458 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 1: your life at whatever age, something that you just love. 459 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 1: Find it, look, keep looking for it. You might not 460 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 1: find it year one, but you got to try different 461 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:52,160 Speaker 1: ship till you find your thing you love working out. 462 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 1: It's amazing to me that you found that, but find 463 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 1: the thing you know, and Norrie talks a lot about 464 00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: that in the episode, and he also talks about out, 465 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 1: which we didn't even get into, being a loyal husband, 466 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 1: A loyal husband, my fave, and how that has shaped 467 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:11,720 Speaker 1: his life as of recent since they've been married. 468 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,679 Speaker 9: Even some certain rappers like I hang out with I 469 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:17,159 Speaker 9: do judge you if you're not loyal to your to 470 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:20,200 Speaker 9: your lady and It's not about like me knowing her 471 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,920 Speaker 9: and you introducing me to her. It's about you actually 472 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 9: that because you're not actually cheating on her, you're cheating 473 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:25,560 Speaker 9: on yourself. 474 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 4: Like you know what I'm saying. 475 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 9: If you can lay down and you can disrespect a 476 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 9: lady that you lay down with, who fees your kids, 477 00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 9: who wakes you up. 478 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:34,639 Speaker 4: In the morning, and then what you're gonna do, You're 479 00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 4: gonna cheat me? 480 00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 9: Like shit, Yeah, how the fuck can I be worth 481 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 9: something to you if the person that's worth the closest 482 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:43,439 Speaker 9: to you you have no respect for? 483 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 4: So I do judge people by that, you know what 484 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:46,120 Speaker 4: I mean? 485 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 1: Two things to learn from now what you would expect 486 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,120 Speaker 1: from the drink Champ that those would be the two 487 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:53,960 Speaker 1: things that were like the standout moments of our conversation. 488 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,639 Speaker 1: That it would be about being a loyal husband and 489 00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:02,720 Speaker 1: finding your thing that's not work, that's joy, that's peace. 490 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:06,359 Speaker 1: That's like, you know, finding your hobby or your passion. Anyway, 491 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 1: no episode Leslie Jones episode subscribe like tell a friend, 492 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:19,040 Speaker 1: leave a voice note and thanks for watching. Hey guys, 493 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:22,439 Speaker 1: thanks for watching. Make sure you subscribe, like comments and 494 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 1: check out all of the other episodes we Have on 495 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:26,240 Speaker 1: Edge Martinez I r OL podcast