1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 1: Ridiculous History is a production of iHeartRadio. Welcome back to 2 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: the show, Ridiculous Historians. Thank you, as always so much 3 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 1: for tuning in. Let's give a shout out to our 4 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 1: special guest, our super producer, Ben Sleeping Dog Hacket. 5 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 2: Oh wow, you gotta let them lie. I hear the 6 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 2: sleeping dogs. You're supposed to let them let them lie. 7 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: There are three of us, so would that make this 8 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: a three dog night? 9 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 2: Apparently three dog morning, late morning, mid morning. I don't 10 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 2: know what do you call ten fifteen? It's always nighttime 11 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 2: to me. Man, I bet bullied. You are mister Noel Brown. 12 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 1: And today we are diving into a very strange concept 13 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 1: that still is widely misunderstood in the West. What would 14 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: you say, guys, if someone came to you and said, Hey, 15 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: do you want to have a secret compound that is 16 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: just full of women that you are in love with? 17 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 2: Where do I sign up? 18 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: Right? That's what I'd say. I actually problems, and I 19 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: love the caveat. 20 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 2: And I think you sort of stacked the deck a 21 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 2: little bit by adding that you are also in love 22 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 2: with right, Because I mean, let's be real, polyamory is 23 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 2: certainly a thing, you know, it requires consent, it requires 24 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:45,559 Speaker 2: agency on the part of all participants. A harem ain't 25 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 2: that though. 26 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: No, no, we will. We will dive in here with 27 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:57,639 Speaker 1: this This episode maybe a two parter. It's about the 28 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 1: most famous harems in the Western world world, which are 29 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: the harems of the Automan Empire. But to understand how 30 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,640 Speaker 1: dangerous and disturbing the harem of the Ottoman Empire was, 31 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:12,920 Speaker 1: we have the first correct some myths about harems in general. 32 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 1: With a big shout out to our pals over at Britannica. 33 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, boy, do we love Britannica. Rural Britannica is what 34 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 2: I say. Let's change the slogan. 35 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: We also have some exciting news about the Smithsonian. 36 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 2: Right, let's keep it under everybody, get the our stovepipe paths, 37 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,799 Speaker 2: which we are both definitely wearing right now. What is 38 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:43,079 Speaker 2: a harem? To your point, Ben, very important to corrects 39 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 2: some myths and Muslim countries. The word harem refers to 40 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 2: a part of a home set apart for women of 41 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:54,119 Speaker 2: the family, so you know, separated from all the kind 42 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 2: of sexual connotations and sort of the exoticized you know, 43 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 2: ideas of a harem is sort of a functional thing 44 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 2: that has to do with a cultural more, you know, 45 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 2: of the Muslim faith, which is not something that is 46 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 2: inherently bad at all. 47 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 1: Right, yeah, well said. And the etymology harimi is used 48 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: collectively to refer to the to the occupants of the harem. 49 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:24,239 Speaker 1: And there are different terms in different languages in different 50 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 1: parts of the world, right, Like what we'll call a 51 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: harem in India would be zenana or and a room 52 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: in Iran and in Persian this these just be like 53 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: places for women or the inside part of the house. 54 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 1: And we always associate harems in the West with Muslim practices, 55 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 1: but they definitely also existed before Islam in the Middle East, 56 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 1: and in the role of the harem right pre Islam, 57 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: it was a secure private quarters for women who still 58 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: still obviously played different roles in public life. The profit 59 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: of Islam did not originate the idea of a harem, 60 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 1: nor the idea of veiling or secluding women, but he 61 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: did co sign it pretty heavily. 62 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:17,839 Speaker 2: So in pre Islamic Assyria, Persia and Egypt, many of 63 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 2: the royal courts also included a harem, which consisted. 64 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:23,479 Speaker 1: Of the rulers wives. 65 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 2: They're direct wives by marriage and also they're concubines, which 66 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:31,840 Speaker 2: is another term that is loaded and interesting and sort 67 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 2: of bandied about, you know, in Western culture. I guess 68 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 2: a lot of times this uses a stand in for 69 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 2: sort of sex worker or even the more potentially problematic prostitute, 70 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 2: which I think is a term that has largely been 71 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 2: retired outside of using it as a term of abuse, 72 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 2: because of course, sex work is work, and you know, 73 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:53,840 Speaker 2: many places it is becoming much more normalized, and it 74 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 2: is absolutely with agency and you know, safety, in all 75 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:02,919 Speaker 2: a completely legitimate of earning a living. So this harem 76 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 2: was kind of like a separate domicile, you know, a compound, 77 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:10,839 Speaker 2: let's call it, for all of these female members of 78 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:16,359 Speaker 2: the court, including attendants, handmaidens, and of course who we 79 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,839 Speaker 2: can't talk about this without talking about Unix, something that 80 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 2: I just find endlessly fascinating and disturbing. 81 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll dive into the unique stuff just a bit, 82 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:33,840 Speaker 1: because it is disturbing and endlessly fascinating. As you said, concubine, 83 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:37,280 Speaker 1: the best way to think about it would be a mistress, right, 84 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 1: And in these in these social hierarchies, being a concubine 85 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 1: didn't have to be a dead end job. There was 86 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: always the potential that one could become one could ascend 87 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: to the role of wife or something like that. 88 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 2: I believe it was even preferable in some cases for 89 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 2: a concubine to bear children. Yes, interestingly, I'd love to 90 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:06,479 Speaker 2: get into the minutia of why that might be. But yeah, 91 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 2: and then of course, you know, it's interesting. It's almost 92 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 2: like a brothel in some ways, only it's not for sale. 93 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 2: It's all for. 94 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 1: One dude and one customer. 95 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and his homies. I imagine you gotta imagine he'd 96 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 2: bring no never never not. I mean, he has some pals, 97 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 2: he'd he spread it around a little bit. 98 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: I just gotta send a member of his harem to 99 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:35,720 Speaker 1: someone else, especially if they're cementing a political. 100 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 2: Yeah sense, but never entry would be It's I just 101 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 2: find that hard to believe. There would never be exceptions. 102 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 2: But I trust you. That's that's. Oh, we don't we 103 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 2: don't know. As It's just if if it were me, 104 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 2: I'd be having parties, you know. It's it's it's weird, 105 00:06:57,000 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 2: and it just seems like a kind of that you'd 106 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 2: host like a bro down, you know. It just feels 107 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 2: that way. 108 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 1: Members of the Sultan's family like male members of the 109 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 1: Sultan's family might be raised in the harem, right that 110 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 1: would be that would be a way around it. But 111 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 1: as far as like blowout ragers, the kind of it 112 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: ain't no fun if the homies can't have none sort 113 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 1: of vibe, that kind of thing. We don't have tons 114 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: of proof on because for a long time the West 115 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 1: didn't really understand what was going on in the arem, 116 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 1: you know, they didn't know it was a political engine. 117 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 2: And we're joking around a little bit and maybe being 118 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 2: a little minor ely crass and not meaning to, but 119 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 2: let's not forget this is, at the end of the day, 120 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 2: not sex work. This is sex slavery, and this is 121 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 2: sex trafficking in many cases as well, although it's complicated 122 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 2: because many of the women that lived in these arams 123 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 2: lived not too bad lives. They were pampered, they were 124 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 2: able to kind of have all of the resources they needed, 125 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 2: but they were living exclusively at the behest of this 126 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 2: one dude, at the pleasure of this one dude, which 127 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 2: is jacked up if yes, just no matter how it's like, 128 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 2: it's like a gilded cage kind of situation, right, very. 129 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: Much so, and in some cases, well we'll get we'll 130 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 1: get in well, this just you know. 131 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 2: I just want to make sure we put that ahead 132 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 2: of everything else, because it's easy to joke about some 133 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 2: of the stuff, but it is, at the end of 134 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 2: the day, pretty serious. And there's a lot of you know, 135 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 2: very opportunistic, nasty, misogynistic themes in this. 136 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: Story and the idea of that sort of the racy 137 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 1: sex parts. Sometimes they steal the headline from the function 138 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 1: of the harem, which was again a political engine. You 139 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: walk into a harem, especially in the Ottoman Empire there 140 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:58,079 Speaker 1: and what you're going to find is uh game of thrones, 141 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, success battle though yeah right, 142 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 1: it's well not always, but what I'm saying is is 143 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:07,679 Speaker 1: a political engine, and that it was like pieces on 144 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 1: the board that could be used, you know, at the 145 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 1: discretion of the. 146 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 2: Sultan. You know, like if you wanted to either get 147 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 2: or give from the harem, that could be a political tool. 148 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:22,839 Speaker 1: That could be a political tool. That's one piece of it. 149 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 1: The ultimate aim, the highlander esque part of this is 150 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:30,680 Speaker 1: that you, as a member of the harem, if you 151 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: have a child and you can get your child to 152 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 1: be the favored successor of the assaultan then you essentially 153 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:42,320 Speaker 1: have gained control of the empire all without necessarily leaving 154 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: the Harom. 155 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 2: Machinations within machinations. 156 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: So secession, Game of thrones type stuff, real courts, intrigue, 157 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: and often so. Yes, a lot of female members of 158 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 1: the harem may come from enslavement, right, or may come 159 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 1: from the horrors of war from an expansionist empire. But 160 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: a lot of other women in harems came from influential, 161 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 1: powerful families. They were politically, they were, uh, they were 162 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 1: the links in political alliances, and they sometimes were sent 163 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:16,840 Speaker 1: to the harem with a mission. 164 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 2: That's right, and to walk back my previous question or 165 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 2: sort of I don't know, I guess hypothetical of life. 166 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 2: Wouldn't they wouldn't the sultan bring his boys in? They 167 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:30,200 Speaker 2: had their own. If they were of a level where 168 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 2: they were hanging out with the Sultans, and they were 169 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 2: of a powerful enough family, they had their own. And 170 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 2: it was very, very common. 171 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 1: Uh. 172 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 2: The Sultans was just the most bougie and and outrageous 173 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 2: and largest, But it was common in affluent households for 174 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 2: folks to have these, and even in slightly less affluent 175 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 2: households they'd still the norm would be for a male 176 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 2: to have multiple mistresses on the side. 177 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: Well, if you could afford them, if you could, especially 178 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 1: once Islam propagated throughout this part of the world, there 179 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 1: are there were specific rules, so there are specific rules 180 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 1: for how those relationships should be pursued and maintained. And 181 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:14,320 Speaker 1: I love that you're pointing out that this is kind 182 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 1: of like a It's kind of like saying the bathroom, 183 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:23,920 Speaker 1: because most people have their own restroom. It's just some 184 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 1: people have super opulent, like stupid fancy restrooms. 185 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, gilded the toilets and the Japanese bidets, you know, 186 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 2: things like that. 187 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 1: I love it. 188 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 2: I love it. 189 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 1: And the Ottoman Empire, specifically in Imperial Turkey, the sultan had, 190 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 1: like you said, fantastically complicated palatial harem or seraglio, and 191 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 1: they this thing had a staff that disciplinary administrative officers. 192 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 1: It was all overseen by a former Haram member themselves, 193 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 1: the sultan's mother, the Vali da Sultan. Wait, she's saying 194 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 1: she was like in charge kind of, She was in 195 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 1: charge of the harem, which was a common thing because 196 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 1: her son is the one who became the sultan's so 197 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 1: she got that key to that power. 198 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:26,439 Speaker 2: The structure, though, does remind me still of a brothel 199 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 2: where you have kind of the madam or whatever you know, 200 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 2: that's in charge and that sort of like keeps everyone 201 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 2: in check and make sure everyone's like, you know, going 202 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 2: the line or whatever. 203 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 1: But in this case it's the sultan's literal mother. Yeah, 204 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 1: and kind of weird. 205 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 2: She's the one that's making sure her son's sex pets 206 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 2: are doing. Okay. 207 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 1: Again, a lot of it is not actually sex. It's 208 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 1: like it's politics, it's intrigue. It's a lot of backstabbing 209 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 1: put a lot of sex. There is, obviously there's sex 210 00:12:56,960 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 1: that occurs, but consider this, there are women in a 211 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 1: harem who may live the entirety of their lives there 212 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 1: and not interact with the sultan. That's in the case 213 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: of the Automan Empire, because it just it was so big. 214 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 1: We know that it wasn't just separated or dare I say, 215 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:19,839 Speaker 1: segregated from the rest of the royal court, but from 216 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 1: the entirety of public life. It was purposely mysterious. It 217 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 1: was a black box. The women inside were either connected 218 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: to the sultan in that they were family members, or 219 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 1: maybe they were They did have some sort of romantic 220 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:38,319 Speaker 1: or sexual relationship. They were. They were kind of forced 221 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 1: into this sequestered monastic existence. The idea was not it 222 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 1: was a guilded cage. As you said, you you could 223 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: wake up and say I want pomegranates or something, and boom, 224 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 1: they would appear for you. But if you woke up 225 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 1: and said I would like to walk to the market 226 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 1: and get pomegranates, uh huh. 227 00:13:57,160 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, these are kept women, you know, and the ling 228 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 2: and all of that stuff. I mean, and part of 229 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 2: that is I believe as a result of a religious belief, 230 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:11,319 Speaker 2: right is it part or is that not quite intersecting 231 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:13,320 Speaker 2: here yet? Ben like with the you know, you think 232 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 2: of the veils and the idea of not letting other 233 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 2: men see these women and all of that and keeping 234 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 2: them separate or even that part of the home. Doesn't 235 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 2: that stem from an Islamic belief? 236 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 1: It predates Islam, but Islam does adopt that. Yeah, adopts it. 237 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 1: That's a great word for it. And then also yeah, 238 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:36,240 Speaker 1: very like also this is an area the internal aspect 239 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 1: of the compound means that you don't necessarily have to 240 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 1: do that kind of stuff. You don't have to have 241 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 1: a veil. It's just the in group and the reality 242 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 1: of life there. For a long time, it was very 243 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 1: confusing here in the West because Western observers started reporting 244 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 1: about harems and other parts of life in the Ottoman 245 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 1: Empire in the eighteen hundreds. They weren't what we would 246 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 1: call pc. They were not especially careful nor sensitive in 247 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 1: their descriptions, and they went for the lurid stuff, you 248 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like how Europeans wrote crazy sex 249 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 1: fantasies about Native Americans when they came over to North 250 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 1: and South America. The Western writers about the Ottoman Empire 251 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 1: weren't really tracing the nuances of political intrigue. They were 252 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 1: more like sex house Ottoman and that's where we get 253 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:39,240 Speaker 1: a lot of these images of decadence, debauchery, oppression of women, 254 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 1: and you know, the finest fabrics, the most succulent and 255 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 1: delicious of fruits and meats. 256 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:56,479 Speaker 2: Yes, fine linens and oils, lotions, yes, of course, exotic fruits, 257 00:15:56,960 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 2: you know, all of all of that sort. I do 258 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 2: want to shout out more piece from Escapus Scott s 259 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 2: k A p A s dot com on the Ottoman 260 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 2: Harem just a really, really great resource with lots of details, 261 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 2: and I was I was. I founded it when I 262 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 2: was trying to figure out, like how many are we 263 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 2: talking here, and it could be hundreds, right, This is 264 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 2: like a almost like a micro city and in in 265 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 2: and of itself in the. 266 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:30,480 Speaker 1: In the case of the Sultan's harem in the Ottoman Empire, yes, 267 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 1: it's it's kind of a hidden city. We could call it, 268 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 1: or at the very least a hidden town, just because 269 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 1: there are so many people. But there are obviously there 270 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: are other harems, right, They're just on this level. 271 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 2: A million percent, like we were saying, you know, they 272 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 2: had they had their own There's also like within the 273 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 2: harems kind of a hierarchy, the concept. I found this 274 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 2: again on this Escapus article. 275 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 1: Odalisks. Yeah, we get at the bottom of the cast system. 276 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 2: They were at the bottom of this hierarchy, were kind 277 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:04,440 Speaker 2: of more like servants or like handmaids again, and they 278 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:09,440 Speaker 2: were kind of not necessarily seen as being attractive enough 279 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 2: to ascend to the level of being presented. 280 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 1: To Let's jump to this part too, and well we'll 281 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:17,399 Speaker 1: get back to the rest of the cast later. But 282 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:21,959 Speaker 1: the Odelisque is a very interesting position to Haram because, uh, 283 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 1: these are slave children these are child female child slaves 284 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:31,439 Speaker 1: who are purchased at a slave market and they're not 285 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 1: necessarily going to become full time or they're not going 286 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 1: to become Haram members for the rest of their life. 287 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 1: You have to be the most beautiful. We don't know 288 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:47,399 Speaker 1: who judges that, maybe the Sultan's mom. You have to 289 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:50,439 Speaker 1: be judged the most beautiful of the odelisque to be 290 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:55,439 Speaker 1: trained in uh in sex work and then different like 291 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 1: it's like the Ottoman version of a geisha kind of thing. Yes, 292 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 1: what were going on? Entertainment etiquette, and then you would 293 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:08,960 Speaker 1: be presented to the Sultan and if the Sultan like 294 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 1: your vibe, you could become a concubine. But if nine 295 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 1: years pass and the Sultan doesn't ask about you, then 296 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 1: you can leave the harem and you can get married. 297 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 1: So nine years though nine years long time, but again 298 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:25,159 Speaker 1: they're enslaved since their children. 299 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 2: Now that's right, right, right, So you could theoretically ascend 300 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 2: from the position of odolisk to becoming Yeah, so that's 301 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:37,679 Speaker 2: it is like sort of like a ladder. 302 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:42,679 Speaker 1: Sort of chaos is a ladder. Sure, So during the 303 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 1: sixteenth and seventeenth century, one of the things that really 304 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:50,679 Speaker 1: launched Western interest in the Harem, and specific was that 305 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:53,879 Speaker 1: the Ottoman court was known for just balling out, for 306 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 1: being crazy, extravagant. If you are a if you are 307 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:02,679 Speaker 1: another old leader and you meet with the Sultan, or 308 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 1: you travel there, or you send a dignitary there, they're 309 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 1: going to have the best time of their life, or 310 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:13,919 Speaker 1: they might get murdered. So it's a real roll of 311 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:17,359 Speaker 1: the dice, it's right, yeah, but they definitely knew how to. 312 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, some of the kind of. 313 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:23,639 Speaker 2: Cliche to the point of almost being offensive images we 314 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:26,200 Speaker 2: have of this era, you know, there is some truth 315 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 2: to them. These these wild, debauched displays of wealth, right, 316 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 2: and all of the uses of you know, fine materials, 317 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:38,439 Speaker 2: you know, slit silks and all of that, the best 318 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:40,920 Speaker 2: of the best, you know, all on display. This idea 319 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 2: of like, look, you know, behold my wealth. There is 320 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:46,240 Speaker 2: there is truth to that. And then the idea of 321 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:51,679 Speaker 2: exotic fruits even and these you know, seductive women scantily clad, 322 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:55,159 Speaker 2: there is that. You know, there were times where they 323 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:57,440 Speaker 2: might feel like that, right, yeah. 324 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:02,439 Speaker 1: And the sultan, given their unique position in the hierarchy 325 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:05,920 Speaker 1: of the empire, the sultan had rights other people didn't have, 326 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:10,400 Speaker 1: and one of those was one of those was the 327 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 1: right to possess as many women as he pleased, even 328 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:23,719 Speaker 1: if only for a night. This reminds me of the 329 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:28,360 Speaker 1: old oh gosh, the old fake story about the origin 330 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 1: of the word beat me her ben, the origin of 331 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 1: the word fornication under consent of the king. It was 332 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 1: the idea that the king had prima nactus. 333 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 2: I think that was in Game of Thrones as well, 334 00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:45,040 Speaker 2: where that was depicted, the idea of that you could 335 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 2: if you so desired. Basically, I think you could either 336 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 2: deflower a woman on her wedding nights or something like that. 337 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 2: Then that sort of puts a real damper on the 338 00:20:56,080 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 2: proceedings or also literally just possess another man's wife and 339 00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:03,639 Speaker 2: you couldn't do anything about it. But as we know, 340 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 2: sometimes just because you can doesn't mean you should, uh, 341 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 2: And it doesn't necessarily bode well for you politically if 342 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 2: you start messing with other people's you know, wives in 343 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:15,800 Speaker 2: this way, right. 344 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, no opp And then also the also you know, 345 00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 1: we give democracy a hard time because it's far from perfect, 346 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 1: but it's a little better than this system. 347 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:30,639 Speaker 2: Ye say, yeah, yeah, one one one could certainly argue 348 00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:32,560 Speaker 2: that should we talk a little bit more about like 349 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 2: the kind of you know, cultural I guess vibes at 350 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:41,200 Speaker 2: the time, right, or like the political you know system. 351 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:45,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, let's do this. So the court had, because 352 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:51,719 Speaker 1: of the Sultan's unique sort of social superpower and cartoonish privilege, 353 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 1: the court had hundreds of what we're considered the most 354 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:58,040 Speaker 1: beautiful women of the entirety of the empire locked away 355 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,960 Speaker 1: just surveying the pleasure of the Sultan. They had a 356 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,680 Speaker 1: lot of free time because the Sultan's one dude, and 357 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 1: they spent this free time pursuing one thing, to ascend 358 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 1: this hierarchy, to navigate this political these political headwinds, and 359 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 1: become more than a servant, someone who could, should the 360 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 1: dominoes fall correctly, someone who could basically have the power 361 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:28,400 Speaker 1: of the Sultan. And these folks, you know, it's very 362 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:32,120 Speaker 1: strange because a lot of them were there non consensually, 363 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 1: but they had more power than the average person outside 364 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:40,400 Speaker 1: of the Harem. It's it's very it's very weird. We'll 365 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,639 Speaker 1: get to some weird specifics here. We just need to 366 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 1: I think we're doing a good job showing that the 367 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:50,479 Speaker 1: harem is not just a sexual playground for the Sultan, 368 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 1: it was, but it wasn't. 369 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 2: Just that, No, Yeah, it was very multifaceted for sure. 370 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 2: To jump even you know, further beyond that point then 371 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,639 Speaker 2: to take on the next level. There was actually a 372 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:03,920 Speaker 2: period in the empire known as the Reign of Women 373 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:08,399 Speaker 2: or the cot in Law Sultani, which saw Harem women 374 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:14,680 Speaker 2: playing even more powerful roles in politics and wielding significant 375 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 2: political capital in the Ottoman Empire. And even you know 376 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 2: that of course, being the Ottoman Empire being what it was, 377 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 2: that extended out beyond the wider world around and often 378 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 2: led to some of these women having incredible power because 379 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 2: of their association. I mean, maybe we could dive a 380 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:35,639 Speaker 2: little bit more into the Reign of women, but I 381 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 2: assume it was just because of their association. This whole 382 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:42,320 Speaker 2: idea of being a favorite, or the sultan perhaps relegating 383 00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:45,920 Speaker 2: or delegating some of his power to this person who 384 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 2: has become so close to him, not just sexually but personally, 385 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:51,359 Speaker 2: and there's a trust there and maybe it's like you 386 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 2: know what you do it, I'm gonna take a break, 387 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:54,680 Speaker 2: and I don't know. 388 00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:57,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's having the ear of the king, you know 389 00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,920 Speaker 1: what I mean? Like, yes, there's one guy who gets 390 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 1: to sit on the fancy chair. But when someone asking Yeah, 391 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,639 Speaker 1: when someone asks him a question, he leans over to 392 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:14,120 Speaker 1: you know, his his favorite wife, Vanessa and just says, Vanessa, 393 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,439 Speaker 1: you know more about you know more about the trade 394 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 1: and balance of us in Austria Hungary than I do. 395 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:22,719 Speaker 1: And she goes, oh, yeah, well you should do this. 396 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,800 Speaker 1: And he's like, all right, well, guys, Vanessa says you 397 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 1: got to get out. 398 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it. Power behind the throw. I mean, that's 399 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 2: you know, that's that's inherent in any political dynasty, orb 400 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:39,800 Speaker 2: especially especially in the case of a more totalitarian or 401 00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:43,399 Speaker 2: dictatorial rule, because it is all coming from one individual 402 00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,240 Speaker 2: who can get their info or their counsel from whomever 403 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 2: they please. 404 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 1: And with this, let's let's go to the cast of 405 00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 1: the Haram Right. 406 00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:51,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, we tease it a little bit, let's dig in 407 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,119 Speaker 2: a little deeper, and we're going to get to UNIX 408 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 2: trigger warning. We're going to talk a little bit about 409 00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 2: genital mutilation here. As you can imagine the process that 410 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,880 Speaker 2: Lens will give another touristic trigger warning when it's actually 411 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 2: about yeah, yeah, it will be, and we won't be 412 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 2: super explicit, but it is important to know. So, uh, 413 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:17,119 Speaker 2: the population of the harem falls into two groups, the 414 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 2: wives and relatives of a sultan. So you could, for instance, 415 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 2: be the sultan's aunt or be the sultan's niece, and 416 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 2: you live in the harem, right, and you're not attached 417 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,560 Speaker 2: to the sexual nature at all. So it does still 418 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:35,040 Speaker 2: occupy that place of the part of the home for women. 419 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, okay, we could even we could even argue 420 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:43,880 Speaker 1: that the primary function a place, a specific place for 421 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:47,639 Speaker 1: women in the home has been tainted by the success 422 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:52,080 Speaker 1: of the sultan. And now he's leaning into maybe twisting 423 00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 1: the idea of a little because the second serving. Yeah, the 424 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:59,560 Speaker 1: second group, which is usually the larger group by by 425 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 1: a long by a country mile, is going to be 426 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 1: the group of slaves that are brought inside the harem 427 00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 1: from multiple parts of the world. Like we said, the 428 00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:11,360 Speaker 1: new girls were called odalisque. They might get if they 429 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 1: they got the right vibe. They get taught poetry and 430 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:21,200 Speaker 1: different dance techniques and erotic arts, the erotic arts. If 431 00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 1: they don't succeed in this, they become servants. And if 432 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 1: nine years past, in some cases they can leave the 433 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 1: harem because sometimes to be honest, the Sultan just completely 434 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 1: forgot about people. Well, yeah, that sounds very callous, and 435 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:38,240 Speaker 1: it kind of is. 436 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:42,720 Speaker 2: But it's also like this is about there's a curatorial 437 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:46,479 Speaker 2: aspect to the harem, right, this idea of like keeping 438 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,119 Speaker 2: it popping, keeping an interesting. Don't want to get too 439 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 2: stagnat if someone's not pulling their way. It's not like 440 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 2: they're taking out back and shot. They might just be 441 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 2: dismissed and allowed to live a normal life, you know, 442 00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:01,240 Speaker 2: and and then get married and have children of their own, 443 00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:05,720 Speaker 2: which you know, it's not a magnanimous act. It really 444 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:09,280 Speaker 2: is kind of like a very callous act. It's like, well, 445 00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:11,960 Speaker 2: now that I've got no more use for you, I'm 446 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 2: going to let you go back out of the world. 447 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 2: But at least it's better than the alternative, which would 448 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:19,600 Speaker 2: be like banishment or you know, execution. 449 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, also, if you die in a harem, there 450 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 1: is a not insignificant chance that you die as a 451 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 1: result of another rival in the harem not liking you. Yeah, 452 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,480 Speaker 1: like they would poison each other, they would try to 453 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:38,560 Speaker 1: kill each other's children, et cetera. 454 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:42,680 Speaker 2: The political machinations within the harem itself, you know, everyone 455 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:44,440 Speaker 2: vying for that top. 456 00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:49,720 Speaker 1: Spot right right exactly, and then also vying for the 457 00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:53,200 Speaker 1: favor of Look, Harem's definitely had a mean girl's click, 458 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 1: so they're vying for the favor of maybe a more powerful, 459 00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 1: more established Haram member, and if that means you have 460 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 1: to follow her vibe, Like if you know, if the 461 00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:08,640 Speaker 1: mean girl crew that you're trying to get with says, oh, 462 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 1: we don't like let's use Vanessa again as an example, 463 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 1: we don't like Vanessa, then if you want them to 464 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 1: like you, you have to also dislike Vanessa. 465 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:20,120 Speaker 2: This is very weirdly complicated, but it's also very weirdly 466 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 2: understandable relatable. If anyone's ever been in middle school, you 467 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:27,520 Speaker 2: kind of get these same vibes just playground bullying and 468 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:31,000 Speaker 2: like again, it's when you come up and you come 469 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:34,720 Speaker 2: from nothing and you have this sort of attitude where 470 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 2: you want to survive. You're gonna glom on in that way, 471 00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:42,080 Speaker 2: even if sometimes it makes you go against your better 472 00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:44,800 Speaker 2: you know, the morals. 473 00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:49,000 Speaker 1: Perhaps you know, it's like self preservation. If you say, well, 474 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:53,600 Speaker 1: I think Vanessa isn't that bad, then you may become 475 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 1: the next object of bullying. That's right, or poisoning in 476 00:28:58,360 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 1: this case, yeah. 477 00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,240 Speaker 2: And you know, even in middle school with her, where 478 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:04,240 Speaker 2: there are those clicks, sometimes you join the mean girl 479 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:09,560 Speaker 2: click just so yourself don't get bullied exactly, you know, Yeah, yeah, 480 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 2: I hate to see it, but there it. 481 00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 1: Is breaking news here in the Ottoman Empire and Harem's folks. 482 00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 1: We are having such an immense time here. You know, 483 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:23,000 Speaker 1: we were talking off air about whether or not this 484 00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 1: would be a two parter. I think we defer to 485 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:28,560 Speaker 1: Max the Sultan Williams, and we just got mured. 486 00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,400 Speaker 2: He says he can neither confirm nor deny that he. 487 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:35,280 Speaker 1: Is a saultant. But I am here, now he is here, 488 00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 1: and so we are going to call this a two parter. 489 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 1: There is so much more ridiculous history to get into. 490 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:45,520 Speaker 1: We left it at a bit of a cliffhanger. We 491 00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:47,280 Speaker 1: don't want to leave you without a dope beat the 492 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 1: step two. So tune in Thursday for part two of 493 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 1: the Ottoman Empire's Notorious Harem System. Big big thanks to 494 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 1: our returning super producer, mister Max Williams, Big big thanks 495 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 1: to our guest producer Ben Sleeping Dog Hacket. 496 00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 2: Indeed, well geez. 497 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 3: Thanks always to Christopherrasiotis and Eves Jeffcoat here in Spirit, 498 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 3: Jonathan Strickland, The quizt Aj Bahamas, Jacobs the Puzzler. 499 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 1: Yes, Big, big thanks to doctor Rachel Big Spinach Lance Big, 500 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:23,480 Speaker 1: thanks to Alex Williams who composed our soundtrack, and Noel 501 00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 1: Big thanks to you. 502 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:26,959 Speaker 2: On you as well, Ben. We'll see you next time, folks. 503 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 2: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 504 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 2: or wherever you listen to your favorite shows,