WEBVTT - Emma Hernan Gets Blindsided & Bitten?

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to untraditionally, Lala, Hello, gorgeous, it is Lalakent, Welcome

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<v Speaker 2>back to untraditionally.

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<v Speaker 1>Lala. I am freaking excited.

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<v Speaker 3>You look gorge by the way, Babe, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>You always look gorge though. I have Emma hern in here.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys know her from selling Sunset. She also is

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<v Speaker 2>the CEO of her own frozen food company. But it

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<v Speaker 2>sounds like you've expanded beyond anything that I had in here,

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<v Speaker 2>so like, tell me everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I.

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<v Speaker 3>Launched with vegan empanadas Emily and Co. And then I

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<v Speaker 3>just launched my new company, Coast to Coast, which is

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<v Speaker 3>we have meat items, we have many crab cakes, We

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<v Speaker 3>have basically everything you could possibly imagine in the frozen section.

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<v Speaker 1>We manufacture and I own the facility. So like, my god.

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<v Speaker 3>People always think like, oh, okay, you have an empanada company,

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<v Speaker 3>and like you make empanadas, but I actually own the

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<v Speaker 3>manufacturing facility and we make everything you could possibly imagine.

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<v Speaker 1>That's incredible. Yeah, wait, so what made you go? I

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<v Speaker 1>for people like me, we love the frozen foods. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what is a stove?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not quite sure, Like what do I do with

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<v Speaker 2>these ingredientss? Teresa Juda says, ingredients?

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<v Speaker 3>Is?

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<v Speaker 1>I love that?

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<v Speaker 3>So I love?

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<v Speaker 1>Never stop?

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<v Speaker 2>What made you want to make that your baby? That

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<v Speaker 2>adventure is amazing?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was in the food industry my whole life.

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<v Speaker 3>My grandfather started a company Yankee Trader Seafood. So I

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<v Speaker 3>was in the seafood frozen industry my whole life. And

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<v Speaker 3>then I knew that I want to start my own

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<v Speaker 3>company because I love to cook.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, yeah, so that's how that happened.

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<v Speaker 3>And I helped my family get the company to where

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<v Speaker 3>it is today. So like when I was in high school,

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<v Speaker 3>I started in investing in stocks.

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<v Speaker 1>I lent the family money.

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<v Speaker 3>So that they could, you know, grow, because when my

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<v Speaker 3>grandfather passed away, you don't realize, like when you're left

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<v Speaker 3>a company everything that goes into it, like you have

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<v Speaker 3>to you have to pay the employees, equipment rents, all

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<v Speaker 3>these things. So I helped my family's company get to

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<v Speaker 3>where it is today. And then I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to start my own company because I actually

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<v Speaker 3>love to cook.

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<v Speaker 2>You're a bad bitch, Okay, So that's like your baby

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<v Speaker 2>and then when did you decide, like, I'm also going to.

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<v Speaker 1>Get my real estate license. So I was.

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<v Speaker 3>Looking at homes and I was like, oh, I'm going

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<v Speaker 3>to buy some real estate investments.

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<v Speaker 1>I also want to buy a property for myself.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I was going around looking at open houses

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<v Speaker 3>with Jason and Brett and they were like, you need

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<v Speaker 3>to get your license.

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<v Speaker 1>You know so many people.

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<v Speaker 3>You are picking up all the knowledge so fast. And

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh, okay, it's COVID, I have nothing

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<v Speaker 3>else to do. Let me get my real estate license.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to imagine, because you're very beautiful, and I

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<v Speaker 2>know the world we live in, and people do not.

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<v Speaker 2>Even though everyone says like women are are looked at

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<v Speaker 2>so differently.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we empower them.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to say, from my experience of being a woman,

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<v Speaker 2>I do not feel like we've made as much progress.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree as people say we have. I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>So I have to imagine people underestimate you a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>oh one hundred percent, especially like I dress the way

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<v Speaker 2>that I want to dress and I do not care

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<v Speaker 2>like if I want to wear something cute and pink

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>It is, Like I've been like that my whole life,

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<v Speaker 3>and there's been so many times where people just that

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<v Speaker 3>I walk in and they give me the dirtiest looks,

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<v Speaker 3>they laugh at me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I've dealt with that my entire life.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, my entire life for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you ever been in a situation where you walk

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<v Speaker 2>in with men and they are obviously in awe of

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<v Speaker 2>you because of the way you look, and then when

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<v Speaker 2>you make your mark with the brains, they get a

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<v Speaker 2>little turned off.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh for sure. I mean I've walked into like cause

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<v Speaker 3>I invest in companies too. Yeah, So I remember there

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<v Speaker 3>was one time I was actually at UCLA to invest

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<v Speaker 3>in this energy company and it was all men in there,

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<v Speaker 3>and I remember walking in and they were just looking

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<v Speaker 3>at me and then they were like whose girlfriend are

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<v Speaker 3>you or who's wife are you? And I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>first of all, I'm about to invest more money than

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<v Speaker 3>you into this company.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And then I waited.

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<v Speaker 3>Obviously it was like when they were going around and

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<v Speaker 3>asking questions, and I was I probably asked the smartest

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<v Speaker 3>questions there, and all of the men were just like

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<v Speaker 3>they didn't understand, and they were like, wait, you're not

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<v Speaker 3>someone's wife, you're not someone's girlfriend. You're investing Wow Yeah, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I've that my whole leg.

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<v Speaker 2>What I would give to be a fly on the

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<v Speaker 2>wall in those situations.

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<v Speaker 3>It was one time I walked into this is like

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<v Speaker 3>way before the show and all that, but I walked

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<v Speaker 3>into a meeting with like all these CEOs of like

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<v Speaker 3>this was like for the in the food industry, and

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<v Speaker 3>I walked in and I remember walking into and it

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<v Speaker 3>was like this, like really intense with all the CEOs

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<v Speaker 3>of all the company and I was going to represent

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<v Speaker 3>our company, and I remember everyone just it was like a.

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<v Speaker 1>You could hear a pin drop when I opened.

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<v Speaker 3>They stopped the presentation when I walked in, and they go,

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<v Speaker 3>we think you're in the wrong place.

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<v Speaker 1>Did they give the laugh like that? Yeah, Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>they laughed and they said, we think we're in the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong place. And what did you say?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm here to represent my company, like and that

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<v Speaker 3>was just like one of them many times, but I'll

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<v Speaker 3>never forget that one, yeah, because it was so it

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<v Speaker 3>was it was so loud and they were doing a

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<v Speaker 3>presentation and it was so quiet you could hear a

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<v Speaker 3>pin drop and then the laughs, the little giggles from everybody,

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<v Speaker 3>men and women included. It wasn't just men wasn't just women.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody laughed.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I always say that being a woman is one of

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<v Speaker 2>the hardest things in the world because we don't have

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<v Speaker 2>a safe space. We don't have a safe space amongst men,

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<v Speaker 2>and we don't have a safe space amongst each other.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>And do you feel that when moments like that happen

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<v Speaker 2>it adds fuel to your fire or do you have

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<v Speaker 2>moments where you feel extremely defeated by the way that

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<v Speaker 2>people look at you and perceive you.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I would say there's times for both. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>now I'm like, okay, those type of things empower me.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know, there was a point in time like

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<v Speaker 3>sometimes it's like it gets old, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>It gets old when you're being judged before you even speak,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean. But now it's like one

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<v Speaker 3>of those things where it empowers me, especially like I'm

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<v Speaker 3>so polite. I always wait for my turn to talk,

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<v Speaker 3>and then like when I'm asking them the questions all

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<v Speaker 3>these like business terms, They're like giving me the eyes like.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is this bitch? They're like who is this No?

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<v Speaker 3>Because yeah, because like they want to make fun of me,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, and right, yeah, no, for sure, when did

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<v Speaker 3>you land your role?

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<v Speaker 2>Forgive me because I'm a reality TV head, but I

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<v Speaker 2>get high off of my own supply, where like I'm Bravo, Bravo,

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<v Speaker 2>fucking Bravo at all times. Yeah, but people are obsessed

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<v Speaker 2>with selling Sunset.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, when did you join the show? Season four? And

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<v Speaker 1>what season are we on? Now? Nine just came out,

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<v Speaker 1>and you do you guys film two seasons at once?

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<v Speaker 1>We used to.

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<v Speaker 3>There was a point in time where we did, and

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<v Speaker 3>then they were coming out a little quicker this one.

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<v Speaker 3>We only did one at a time, and people have

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<v Speaker 3>noticed because there was like, wait, it's so long in between.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, we used to, and then we did, I know,

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<v Speaker 3>for six and seven we did, and then obviously eight

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<v Speaker 3>and nine we did not.

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<v Speaker 2>And when they came to you and they said we

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<v Speaker 2>want you to join this show, was it like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>all in, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>No, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like back and forth. I was talking about

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<v Speaker 3>it with my family. I was talking about it with

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<v Speaker 3>my because like the reason that I was with the

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<v Speaker 3>brokerage was because of my Ax, because he was the

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<v Speaker 3>one that told me to get my real estate license.

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<v Speaker 3>With Jason and Brett and all that but he had

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<v Speaker 3>also dated like two of the other girls.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like it was a whole thing.

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<v Speaker 3>So he didn't want me to join because he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, oh God, like like he did not want that.

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<v Speaker 3>And then my family was like, I think you should

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<v Speaker 3>do it because I think you have a really cool

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<v Speaker 3>story and I think that you could inspire women out there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I would like have a cool story. So he

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<v Speaker 1>was a little torn.

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<v Speaker 3>And I just remember going on a walk with my

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<v Speaker 3>parents up Sunset Plaza and they were like, I had

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<v Speaker 3>I had a time frame to just to basically sign

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<v Speaker 3>this contract and sign my life away, as you know,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I was like I didn't know what to

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<v Speaker 3>do it and my parents and like my dad is

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<v Speaker 3>very conservative and very like you know, like, uh, he

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't like the way I.

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<v Speaker 1>Dress sometimes, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>He's just like a time and it's a different generation.

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<v Speaker 3>Fame to him would be like weird, you know what

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<v Speaker 3>I mean. He was like, no, you should do it,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, my dad is so that held

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of weight if he yeah, because I feel like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, as it was, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Would always get back inside and put a sweater on.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd be like no, and then like he wanted me

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<v Speaker 3>to do it, so I was like, oh, okay, maybe

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<v Speaker 3>I should try it.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I can go inspire some people, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, were you prepared for the bad that comes

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<v Speaker 1>with it?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>I was not. I had no idea I can prepare

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<v Speaker 1>you for that.

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<v Speaker 3>I had no idea how many people were like I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, especially because I came onto the show and

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<v Speaker 3>the guy that I had dated was dating one of

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<v Speaker 3>he had dated, like one of the other kind of

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<v Speaker 3>like main characters on the show. Yeah, and so all

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<v Speaker 3>of her fans were attacking me basically when I joined

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<v Speaker 3>and like comparing us and then being telling me how

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<v Speaker 3>ugly I was. And I was like, oh god. They

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<v Speaker 3>were like telling me, oh my god, I needed to

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<v Speaker 3>basically like reconstruct my whole face. Well it was like

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<v Speaker 3>literally no, I'm not kidding, like every Twitter tweet everything,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, oh damn, people are mean.

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<v Speaker 2>It makes you lose faith in humanity a little bit, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>because they it's wild when you look at the comment

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<v Speaker 2>section when they're telling you how mean you you are,

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<v Speaker 2>you know whatever they watch on TV, and it's like

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<v Speaker 2>I could never be as mean as your being right now,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, No, I have goosebumps.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't tell, but like I have goosebumps all my

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<v Speaker 3>legs because I'm like I remember just like being like wow,

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<v Speaker 3>like you guys are awful, Like I mean, I was

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<v Speaker 3>minding my own business like I was. I didn't come

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<v Speaker 3>on like this villain or anything, and they took everything

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<v Speaker 3>and just like.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I mean I was like, wow, people

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<v Speaker 1>are mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you able to lean into the girls who had

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<v Speaker 2>been on since season one?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Have cause I always say there was something very special

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<v Speaker 2>about the show that I used to be on, called

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<v Speaker 2>Leander pump Roules.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And although we like went.

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<v Speaker 2>Toes with each other, I also joined that show season four. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>but I felt like there was a point in time

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<v Speaker 2>where even when the cast was not good, we we

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<v Speaker 2>had each other's backs when it came to out there

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<v Speaker 2>and the way that the audience would treat us. Did

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<v Speaker 2>you feel like you could lean lean on them because

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<v Speaker 2>they had been through it?

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<v Speaker 1>So yes?

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<v Speaker 3>The girls that like I got along with basically everyone

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<v Speaker 3>besides the one girl, so yeah. To be honest with you, ever, was.

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<v Speaker 1>The one girl again? Her name was Christine? Is she

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<v Speaker 1>still on it?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>She's not.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I know her. Yeah yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Like besides that, though, everyone was really great, really supportive,

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<v Speaker 3>and like, you know, like, Okay, don't read your comments

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<v Speaker 3>because they're probably going to be mean. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>but you know, when you first join, you kind of

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<v Speaker 3>want to read the comments.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to be like, wait, what's everyone saying?

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<v Speaker 3>You know it's like you you like want to torture yourself. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>oh now I don't. I don't care people literally they

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<v Speaker 3>roast me. You can tell me like I look like

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<v Speaker 3>x y Z.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care. What did they possibly say? You look like?

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<v Speaker 1>I'll never forget it.

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<v Speaker 3>The first season when I joined, I always like someone

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<v Speaker 3>was on Twitter and like, first of all they were

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<v Speaker 3>saying the meanest stuff, but like they were like, does

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<v Speaker 3>anyone else think Emma heard it from Sewing Sunset looks

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<v Speaker 3>like a pigeon And they put my face next to

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<v Speaker 3>a pigeon's face and I was like, damn, I'm telling you, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Never thought it looked like a pigeon until I saw that,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, damn, I see it. Shit, I

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<v Speaker 4>do get pigeon byes. Like I didn't want to see it,

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<v Speaker 4>but I did up.

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<v Speaker 1>The side by side telling you the side by side.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, ship, you can come with receipt. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>There was one time that this woman named Kelly Dodd,

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<v Speaker 2>she used to be on OC but she said that

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<v Speaker 2>she has a podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>And she said I look like Gollam and she posted

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<v Speaker 1>the photo and I was like, that does very much

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<v Speaker 1>look like me? You will side by side.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what if you can't beat them, join up?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you say last season was the hardest season you've

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<v Speaker 2>been part of?

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<v Speaker 1>Season eight?

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<v Speaker 2>Was that seas eight where you were cold like a

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<v Speaker 2>cheater and see Yeah for sure. Because I had no

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<v Speaker 2>idea that was being filmed.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought I was just like the supportive friend my

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<v Speaker 3>girlfriend was going through a divorce, felt like I was really.

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<v Speaker 1>There for show. No Chelsea Chelsea.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so I thought I was just really there for

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<v Speaker 3>Chelsea through her divorce. I had no idea what was

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<v Speaker 3>being filmed behind my back. I did not find out

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<v Speaker 3>until a week before it came out.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you serious?

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<v Speaker 2>Nope.

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<v Speaker 3>I got a phone call from Chelsea. It was like hey, babe,

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<v Speaker 3>like I just want to let you know, Like I

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<v Speaker 3>was just doing an interview like it was for Netflix.

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<v Speaker 3>I was doing an interview with Netflix and they said,

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<v Speaker 3>they asked me a question, have you how do you

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<v Speaker 3>feel about the rumor that Nicole started about Emma? And

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<v Speaker 3>then they interrupted and said, do not wait wait wait,

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<v Speaker 3>Chelsea doesn't know, she hasn't seen the season.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't tell her.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>So Chelsea called me.

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<v Speaker 3>She still didn't know, and then I called Mary because

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<v Speaker 3>I knew Mary's friends with Nicole Okay, and so I

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<v Speaker 3>called Mary and I was like, wait, what was being

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<v Speaker 3>said about me? I literally had no idea where.

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<v Speaker 1>No idea. Where do you think that rumor came from?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? I mean I know exactly where it

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<v Speaker 1>came from.

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<v Speaker 3>Jason and Brett's cousin, this girl Jen Okay, what talks

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<v Speaker 3>about it on this show? She wanted to be on

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<v Speaker 3>the show, which is from the very beginning, she supposedly

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<v Speaker 3>said something, but nothing like what Nicole said. She was

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<v Speaker 3>just like, oh my god, my girlfriend was super upset

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<v Speaker 3>that like her husband was trying to reach out to

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<v Speaker 3>Emma to do real estate and then he gave her

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<v Speaker 3>a ride back on his plane from Boston.

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<v Speaker 1>That's literally it.

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<v Speaker 3>And Nicole was like the entire season playing with her

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<v Speaker 3>ring Emma doesn't respect the sanctity of marriage, all of

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<v Speaker 3>this crazy stuff like a wacko, like unwell wacko. But

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<v Speaker 3>she said she did it because producers threatened her with

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<v Speaker 3>her job. But like, I think she just needed a storyline.

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<v Speaker 3>Like when I say, like, I didn't hold this guy's hand,

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<v Speaker 3>I never held this guy's hand, Like, but.

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<v Speaker 2>You got a ride on the PG, Like yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, yeah, how darious?

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<v Speaker 1>Seriously what the thing was?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>He I was in Boston with and I was going

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<v Speaker 3>to bring my aunt back to la as a surprise

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<v Speaker 3>for my cousin, and he was there for work.

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<v Speaker 1>He literally was actually like he wasn't like a sleazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Guy that was trying to hit on me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>trust me, we deal with that. I'm sure you deal

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<v Speaker 3>with that too. We're the guys pretty aggressive, especially in

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<v Speaker 3>real estate because they're like, oh, if you I'll buy

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<v Speaker 3>a house with you.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, he actually wasn't one of those guys. He wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>a sleazy guy. He was super nice. He happened to

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<v Speaker 3>be in Boston for a meeting and was like, if

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<v Speaker 3>you want to come back, I was going I flying

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<v Speaker 3>my aunt back because I want to surprise my cousin

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<v Speaker 3>and it was like, like we didn't even sit. He

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<v Speaker 3>sat in the back. He talked to my aunt for

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<v Speaker 3>a second, like it was super like And actually the

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<v Speaker 3>wife called me. So when all this was happening, the

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<v Speaker 3>wife called me, and so like it came out. Obviously

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<v Speaker 3>everyone he was shocked. Everyone was shocked that this was

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<v Speaker 3>even used as a storyline for selling Sunset. She called

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<v Speaker 3>me and was so nice. She was like, I'm so

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<v Speaker 3>sorry Jen, Jason and Brett's cousin. Yeah, totally used this

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<v Speaker 3>to try and get on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>Jen called me and was like, that is not what

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<v Speaker 3>I said. I said nothing. You did nothing wrong. We

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<v Speaker 3>all know that you did nothing wrong. So basically I

0:15:08.520 --> 0:15:10.680
<v Speaker 3>was just the punching bag in the middle of all

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<v Speaker 3>of this shit with Everyone had their own little motive.

0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:15.520
<v Speaker 3>Nicole needed a storyline. Jen probably wanted to get on

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<v Speaker 3>the show. And then the wife called and was super

0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:20.360
<v Speaker 3>sweet and like, I know nothing happened with you guys,

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<v Speaker 3>Like also they were separated, but nothing happened regardless, right,

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<v Speaker 3>but she was really nice. Like I have to say

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<v Speaker 3>out of everyone that I spoke to about the whole thing,

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<v Speaker 3>because I do feel like obviously Jen had some part

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<v Speaker 3>in like trying to stir the pot of it, probably

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<v Speaker 3>get a little camera time, or like just get on

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<v Speaker 3>the show. Nicole clearly was a whack adoodle and just

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to be you know, have a storyline. But the

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<v Speaker 3>wife was actually really nice and was like, I just

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<v Speaker 3>want to let you know, like I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>That you had to deal with this.

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<v Speaker 3>That's really sice. I know because she didn't have to

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<v Speaker 3>call me. No, she didn't know, because he reached out

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<v Speaker 3>to me. And I was like, just so you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like if you want to give your wife my number,

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm more than happy to talk to her. And

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<v Speaker 3>she was so sweet, like I actually really respected, like

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<v Speaker 3>the wife, Yeah, that makes me very very happy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and she was really nice.

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<v Speaker 3>She was like, I know, nothing happened, like you did

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<v Speaker 3>nothing wrong, and like basically like her and the gen

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<v Speaker 3>girl had a falling out.

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<v Speaker 1>Did it make you nervous to come back to this season?

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<v Speaker 1>For sure? I had no desire.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like if you guys, and first of all,

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<v Speaker 3>producers know me very well. I'm extremely kind, Like it's

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<v Speaker 3>not like, oh I'm a bitch behind the scenes. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>literally like I'll bring them donuts if you ask producers.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, who's the nicest to you?

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<v Speaker 3>They will say, Emma, I have heard them, like I

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<v Speaker 3>will yeah, they will like, I'm genuinely like a really nice, kind,

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<v Speaker 3>caring person.

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<v Speaker 1>So the fact that they did that to me, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like me out of all people, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's it's such a hard thing because at

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<v Speaker 2>the end of the day, like your life is for

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<v Speaker 2>other people's entertainment period. And I always say I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like doing reality TV is one of the hardest jobs.

0:16:54.880 --> 0:16:57.360
<v Speaker 2>There is an art to it, even though it very

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<v Speaker 2>much is real life. You have to separate reality from reality.

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<v Speaker 2>Like we don't have the luxury of let's say an

0:17:05.000 --> 0:17:09.080
<v Speaker 2>actor who shows up and you know, reading a script

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<v Speaker 2>and then people kind of leave them alone because they

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<v Speaker 2>know they're an actor.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't get that same respect.

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<v Speaker 2>And when it comes to the crew or producers, they

0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:19.639
<v Speaker 2>also have a job to do, no exactly, And the

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<v Speaker 2>thing is I do like them.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what was tough, because I was like, how could

0:17:22.880 --> 0:17:24.439
<v Speaker 3>you do that to me? But it's kind of like,

0:17:24.480 --> 0:17:28.000
<v Speaker 3>you know, a few of the producers, you know, they blamed.

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<v Speaker 1>The higher ups.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone kind of everyone has everyone, Everyone has someone else

0:17:31.240 --> 0:17:32.720
<v Speaker 3>to blame, but like for me, it was one of

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<v Speaker 3>those things too. It's like I know I look a

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<v Speaker 3>certain way, Like I know that I'm based off my

0:17:37.280 --> 0:17:39.560
<v Speaker 3>looks as it is, and I like to dress sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think there's anything wrong with that. There's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be a day we're like eighty years old. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>walk around with my stuff exactly.

0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:47.480
<v Speaker 3>So it's like I like to dress a certain way.

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<v Speaker 3>But I my entire life, I've literally only been with

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<v Speaker 3>my boyfriends.

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<v Speaker 1>I've dated three guys. I've never like dated a lot

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<v Speaker 1>in Layah.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone jokes like I'm like a like I have eight

0:17:59.400 --> 0:18:02.000
<v Speaker 3>cats too, Like everyone jokes like a crazy cat lad that.

0:18:02.040 --> 0:18:04.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm like a crazy cat nerve.

0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:08.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the cat lady seeing super cool, Like I'm ready

0:18:08.080 --> 0:18:09.000
<v Speaker 2>to get I would come.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't go out, I don't date around like I've

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<v Speaker 3>literally had three boyfriends and you guys are gonna label

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<v Speaker 3>me this. And I know that I look a certain way,

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<v Speaker 3>and that's why, like I've always been able to, you know,

0:18:19.040 --> 0:18:21.320
<v Speaker 3>dress super sexy because I've in my real life.

0:18:21.359 --> 0:18:23.400
<v Speaker 2>You know, I've only ever dated my boyfriends. It never

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<v Speaker 2>slept around never, you know, I had like a one

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<v Speaker 2>night stand. Never in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, you are missing I know, I know, I know,

0:18:30.359 --> 0:18:31.199
<v Speaker 1>I know. Trust me.

0:18:31.320 --> 0:18:32.800
<v Speaker 3>Like me and my girlfriends joke about it. I have

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<v Speaker 3>never had a one night stand. I've literally only been

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<v Speaker 3>with my boyfriends.

0:18:36.520 --> 0:18:39.720
<v Speaker 1>And are you kind of one right now? Yeah? And

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<v Speaker 1>you think you're gonna marry this guy? Do you believe

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<v Speaker 1>in marriage?

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<v Speaker 4>I do?

0:18:43.320 --> 0:18:46.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Yeah, I mean I believe in marriage for sure. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know if it's gonna be him.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean no, there's a lot of controversy for sure.

0:18:51.760 --> 0:18:54.320
<v Speaker 2>But I mean we'll see what I have been documented

0:18:54.320 --> 0:18:54.760
<v Speaker 2>this season.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, my relationship is up there this season. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, to be honest with you, I would

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<v Speaker 3>rather have my real relationship. That was my problem with

0:19:02.119 --> 0:19:05.960
<v Speaker 3>season eight. You put a fake story out there. Oh

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<v Speaker 3>also too, like in season eight you see a bite

0:19:08.640 --> 0:19:11.679
<v Speaker 3>mark on me which was from my current guy, and

0:19:11.720 --> 0:19:14.240
<v Speaker 3>they make it seem like it was Oh, who was

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<v Speaker 3>who bit emma?

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<v Speaker 1>Like it was the married guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh. They did me so dirty and I had no idea,

0:19:21.520 --> 0:19:23.960
<v Speaker 3>Like I didn't know again until the show came out,

0:19:24.000 --> 0:19:25.399
<v Speaker 3>but they did me so dirty.

0:19:25.760 --> 0:19:28.359
<v Speaker 1>So does he like biting the arm your guy? No?

0:19:28.480 --> 0:19:30.119
<v Speaker 3>That was like a weird funny thing. I don't know

0:19:30.119 --> 0:19:32.120
<v Speaker 3>why he did that, but he did buy my arm. Yeah,

0:19:32.240 --> 0:19:45.119
<v Speaker 3>but that was like a weird thing. How did you

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<v Speaker 3>navigate this season?

0:19:46.320 --> 0:19:49.680
<v Speaker 2>Because I know that you and Chrishelle, are you guys

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<v Speaker 2>still super close?

0:19:50.680 --> 0:19:52.919
<v Speaker 1>Were you able to like get back to where you

0:19:53.040 --> 0:19:56.400
<v Speaker 1>used to be? We were not? You weren't. No, we

0:19:56.400 --> 0:19:58.040
<v Speaker 1>were not there.

0:19:58.680 --> 0:20:00.600
<v Speaker 2>And I don't know if you feel that way, but

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's harder to go through like a breakup

0:20:03.280 --> 0:20:07.600
<v Speaker 2>with a girlfriend than a boyfriend, like someone you're intimate with,

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<v Speaker 2>because for sure, when you have like your best friend, yeah,

0:20:11.000 --> 0:20:13.199
<v Speaker 2>that's like your person, your soulmate, and you go to

0:20:13.240 --> 0:20:17.840
<v Speaker 2>them for everything. So when that dissolves or takes a turn,

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<v Speaker 2>like I literally would rather go through a breakup with

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<v Speaker 2>like my intimate partner, yeah, because it's almost easier because

0:20:24.160 --> 0:20:26.560
<v Speaker 2>you can, like you can block them, you can ghost them,

0:20:26.600 --> 0:20:29.200
<v Speaker 2>like I've definitely been known to do that to a guy.

0:20:29.280 --> 0:20:31.639
<v Speaker 2>But like with a girlfriend, it's different, Like I don't know,

0:20:31.680 --> 0:20:34.400
<v Speaker 2>there's something about it that's just hurtful.

0:20:34.520 --> 0:20:36.639
<v Speaker 1>It's sad. There's a sadness.

0:20:36.680 --> 0:20:38.399
<v Speaker 3>There's a loss for sure, and not that there's not

0:20:38.520 --> 0:20:40.000
<v Speaker 3>with a with a significant other.

0:20:40.040 --> 0:20:42.040
<v Speaker 1>But you can find another guy.

0:20:41.880 --> 0:20:43.720
<v Speaker 3>Friend, another boy friend. Yeah, you know what I mean.

0:20:43.760 --> 0:20:45.440
<v Speaker 3>But like with a girl, there's just something really.

0:20:45.280 --> 0:20:45.919
<v Speaker 1>Sad about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, do you think you'll ever be able

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<v Speaker 3>to get back to where you guys were? I mean

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<v Speaker 3>I thought that we were going to be able to

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<v Speaker 3>I really did. And you know what I mean, I'm

0:20:53.800 --> 0:20:55.560
<v Speaker 3>one of those people were like, Okay, I let a

0:20:55.560 --> 0:20:56.360
<v Speaker 3>lot of things go.

0:20:56.560 --> 0:21:00.280
<v Speaker 1>But like when when things are just to another.

0:21:00.280 --> 0:21:03.359
<v Speaker 3>Level of like they keep escalating and like they're not

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<v Speaker 3>getting better, and like the things that have been said

0:21:05.760 --> 0:21:08.000
<v Speaker 3>and done, like I just don't think that it will

0:21:08.000 --> 0:21:08.360
<v Speaker 3>get there.

0:21:09.119 --> 0:21:11.080
<v Speaker 1>That makes me sad. Yeah, no, it is.

0:21:11.119 --> 0:21:14.240
<v Speaker 3>It's really sad. It's really sad. And to be honest

0:21:14.280 --> 0:21:17.880
<v Speaker 3>with you, like I don't have anything bad to say,

0:21:17.880 --> 0:21:19.399
<v Speaker 3>and I wish her the best. I mean, to be

0:21:19.400 --> 0:21:21.879
<v Speaker 3>honest with you, I don't wish bad on anyone, and

0:21:21.920 --> 0:21:25.000
<v Speaker 3>I really do want her to be happy whatever that is.

0:21:25.080 --> 0:21:27.640
<v Speaker 3>But I mean, it's just one of those things where

0:21:27.680 --> 0:21:30.840
<v Speaker 3>like I can't constantly I can't feel the way that

0:21:30.880 --> 0:21:31.920
<v Speaker 3>I'm feeling either.

0:21:31.920 --> 0:21:32.520
<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean.

0:21:32.880 --> 0:21:34.919
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And I know that I'm a really good friend.

0:21:35.000 --> 0:21:37.200
<v Speaker 3>I know that I'm a really good friend to everyone

0:21:37.240 --> 0:21:38.320
<v Speaker 3>in my life, you know.

0:21:38.720 --> 0:21:42.760
<v Speaker 2>So the real the friendship ultimately went south because of

0:21:43.200 --> 0:21:44.199
<v Speaker 2>what your boyfriend.

0:21:45.560 --> 0:21:48.439
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she hates my boyfriend, And I mean I get it.

0:21:48.520 --> 0:21:50.800
<v Speaker 3>Like the first of all, no guy is perfect. So

0:21:50.880 --> 0:21:52.639
<v Speaker 3>your friend's going to be protective of you, and I

0:21:52.680 --> 0:21:55.560
<v Speaker 3>totally get that. I do get that. But at some

0:21:55.680 --> 0:21:58.120
<v Speaker 3>point you have to take a step back and be like, look,

0:21:58.160 --> 0:21:59.520
<v Speaker 3>it's her choice, it's her life.

0:21:59.600 --> 0:22:01.719
<v Speaker 1>She's gonna make the decisions that she's gonna make. I

0:22:01.800 --> 0:22:03.720
<v Speaker 1>love her. She's been a good friend to me, you

0:22:03.760 --> 0:22:04.320
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean.

0:22:04.560 --> 0:22:09.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I always wonder because I've never I mean,

0:22:09.600 --> 0:22:14.520
<v Speaker 2>I haven't been in like a healthy, productive relationship in

0:22:14.600 --> 0:22:17.919
<v Speaker 2>a very long time. And so when I am getting

0:22:18.040 --> 0:22:22.680
<v Speaker 2>to know new friends who are women and I don't

0:22:22.720 --> 0:22:26.359
<v Speaker 2>necessarily connect with their husband or their boyfriend, I'm like,

0:22:26.560 --> 0:22:30.480
<v Speaker 2>is their aversion of me still being your friend if

0:22:30.560 --> 0:22:32.560
<v Speaker 2>I don't connect with your person?

0:22:33.080 --> 0:22:33.920
<v Speaker 1>No, exactly.

0:22:34.480 --> 0:22:38.080
<v Speaker 3>So for me, if I don't connect with your significant other,

0:22:38.240 --> 0:22:41.040
<v Speaker 3>I can still have a relationship with you, because it's like,

0:22:41.440 --> 0:22:42.920
<v Speaker 3>I'm not going to just not be friends with someone

0:22:42.960 --> 0:22:44.360
<v Speaker 3>because I don't like their significant other.

0:22:44.440 --> 0:22:46.439
<v Speaker 2>You know what, I'm sorry, but are you able to

0:22:46.440 --> 0:22:48.680
<v Speaker 2>be friends with people who are girls who don't like

0:22:48.760 --> 0:22:49.360
<v Speaker 2>your boyfriend.

0:22:49.680 --> 0:22:52.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean I would be Yeah, really, I'm fine. I'm

0:22:52.480 --> 0:22:52.920
<v Speaker 1>so chill.

0:22:53.040 --> 0:22:55.679
<v Speaker 3>Wow, I'm so chilling, easy going. I don't care if

0:22:55.680 --> 0:22:57.640
<v Speaker 3>you can be nice to me. If you guys don't

0:22:57.640 --> 0:23:00.680
<v Speaker 3>see eye to eye, that's okay. I will you'll put

0:23:00.720 --> 0:23:01.880
<v Speaker 3>effort into the friendship.

0:23:02.000 --> 0:23:02.240
<v Speaker 2>Wow.

0:23:02.280 --> 0:23:04.000
<v Speaker 1>I love this. Yeah, I'm fine.

0:23:05.080 --> 0:23:07.840
<v Speaker 2>You know what, I really love this because I've noticed

0:23:07.840 --> 0:23:12.320
<v Speaker 2>that there's a lot of women who cannot separate themselves

0:23:12.359 --> 0:23:16.200
<v Speaker 2>from their relationship, and I'm like, you're your own person. Yeah,

0:23:16.440 --> 0:23:18.600
<v Speaker 2>this isn't like you don't constantly have to roll as

0:23:18.600 --> 0:23:21.280
<v Speaker 2>a wei. Yeah no, I mean for sure, that's the thing.

0:23:21.320 --> 0:23:24.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lose friendships, like I don't want to.

0:23:24.680 --> 0:23:27.159
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to lose a friendship over, you know,

0:23:27.400 --> 0:23:29.600
<v Speaker 2>a guy. So if I can make it work and like, Okay,

0:23:29.640 --> 0:23:31.119
<v Speaker 2>you guys don't see eye to eye, that's fine, we

0:23:31.119 --> 0:23:33.639
<v Speaker 2>can do stuff. Separate, it's okay, you know what I mean.

0:23:33.760 --> 0:23:35.560
<v Speaker 2>Maybe you'll come around, maybe you won't.

0:23:35.600 --> 0:23:38.080
<v Speaker 3>But I'm not the type of person where like you

0:23:38.119 --> 0:23:39.760
<v Speaker 3>need to love the person that I'm with or we're

0:23:39.840 --> 0:23:40.359
<v Speaker 3>not friends.

0:23:40.560 --> 0:23:43.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm just not like that. I love this. Yeah, you

0:23:43.560 --> 0:23:45.080
<v Speaker 1>and I would be great friends. Yeah.

0:23:45.119 --> 0:23:47.679
<v Speaker 3>Like I'm super easy going. I'm like the friend that

0:23:47.760 --> 0:23:49.600
<v Speaker 3>like people come to when they're like, I mean, the

0:23:49.640 --> 0:23:51.520
<v Speaker 3>guy had a girlfriend she was cheating on her husband.

0:23:51.640 --> 0:23:54.280
<v Speaker 3>She was like, I need to tell someone. I was like,

0:23:54.359 --> 0:23:57.000
<v Speaker 3>oh shit, okay, it had to be me. But like,

0:23:57.680 --> 0:23:59.920
<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna judge you, Like, I'm gonna talk about

0:24:00.280 --> 0:24:01.800
<v Speaker 3>through it with you, you know what I mean. Let's

0:24:01.800 --> 0:24:04.480
<v Speaker 3>figure it out why you're doing it? Can you stop?

0:24:04.600 --> 0:24:06.919
<v Speaker 1>You have children? You know what I mean. Yeah. So,

0:24:07.440 --> 0:24:10.160
<v Speaker 1>but I'm just a friend that, like I just I'm

0:24:10.200 --> 0:24:12.040
<v Speaker 1>not judgmental. I love this.

0:24:12.280 --> 0:24:16.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I have hope for you and Krishelle. Yeah, when

0:24:16.080 --> 0:24:17.360
<v Speaker 2>do you guys put cameras up again?

0:24:17.440 --> 0:24:19.600
<v Speaker 1>Do you know? Oh, I don't know that. I haven't

0:24:19.600 --> 0:24:22.000
<v Speaker 1>heard about season ten yet. Here's the thing.

0:24:22.240 --> 0:24:24.919
<v Speaker 2>When there's a friendship with a lot of history and

0:24:24.960 --> 0:24:27.720
<v Speaker 2>it goes south and then things are said and done,

0:24:28.400 --> 0:24:33.560
<v Speaker 2>you literally have to just have the mindset of you're

0:24:33.600 --> 0:24:35.800
<v Speaker 2>not going to see eye to eye and you either

0:24:35.880 --> 0:24:39.119
<v Speaker 2>have to literally forget what the both of you have

0:24:39.200 --> 0:24:42.040
<v Speaker 2>said and done and start from scratch. And it's actually

0:24:42.160 --> 0:24:45.719
<v Speaker 2>very very hard to do. Yeah, but I don't know

0:24:45.800 --> 0:24:48.960
<v Speaker 2>season ten. I'm feeling like a rekindling with you and kshell.

0:24:49.359 --> 0:24:52.400
<v Speaker 3>Right, we'll see, see, we'll see.

0:24:52.600 --> 0:24:52.879
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

0:24:52.880 --> 0:24:55.160
<v Speaker 2>I want to talk about the Empanadus because you said

0:24:55.160 --> 0:24:57.240
<v Speaker 2>that they're at Mel's Diner and there's one around the

0:24:57.240 --> 0:24:57.840
<v Speaker 2>corner from me.

0:24:58.320 --> 0:24:59.720
<v Speaker 1>Yes, so my.

0:25:00.000 --> 0:25:03.159
<v Speaker 3>Around the menu at Mels and the only other people

0:25:03.200 --> 0:25:05.239
<v Speaker 3>that have items on the menu are Lana del Rey

0:25:05.280 --> 0:25:06.320
<v Speaker 3>and Schwartzenegger.

0:25:06.440 --> 0:25:11.199
<v Speaker 1>What the fuck? Diaman guns company? You're company? Yeah, I'm like, damn, okay,

0:25:12.000 --> 0:25:14.359
<v Speaker 1>I see you a terminator. How did you get them into

0:25:14.520 --> 0:25:15.280
<v Speaker 1>Mel's Diner?

0:25:15.680 --> 0:25:15.760
<v Speaker 2>So?

0:25:15.960 --> 0:25:17.200
<v Speaker 1>I was super selective.

0:25:17.240 --> 0:25:19.639
<v Speaker 3>I wanted my Apanadus to be on a menu somewhere,

0:25:19.680 --> 0:25:21.840
<v Speaker 3>and like people kept asking me, but like Mels is.

0:25:21.960 --> 0:25:24.040
<v Speaker 1>Iconic, and I was like, Wells's iconic.

0:25:24.320 --> 0:25:26.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. So I was like, I want the first restaurant

0:25:26.520 --> 0:25:28.879
<v Speaker 3>that I let them go at to just be super

0:25:29.040 --> 0:25:30.600
<v Speaker 3>iconic and space it at Mels.

0:25:30.840 --> 0:25:34.000
<v Speaker 2>Is there because I have one by my house I'm

0:25:34.000 --> 0:25:35.880
<v Speaker 2>in the valley. Then there's one near Sunset.

0:25:36.080 --> 0:25:36.320
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:25:36.359 --> 0:25:37.800
<v Speaker 1>Are they at both locations?

0:25:38.000 --> 0:25:39.800
<v Speaker 3>They should be, but I know that they did sell out,

0:25:39.880 --> 0:25:42.600
<v Speaker 3>especially with the show airing these They texted and they

0:25:42.600 --> 0:25:45.320
<v Speaker 3>were like, we need more asap, but they but they're there.

0:25:45.520 --> 0:25:47.080
<v Speaker 1>They're there, like we just ship them in.

0:25:47.200 --> 0:25:48.919
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So I want to go and get that, and

0:25:48.960 --> 0:25:50.520
<v Speaker 2>then I have one more question and you don't have

0:25:50.560 --> 0:25:53.320
<v Speaker 2>to answer if they're an evil twin. A part of

0:25:53.400 --> 0:25:55.840
<v Speaker 2>the Oppenheimer is won the angel and one like the

0:25:55.920 --> 0:25:56.440
<v Speaker 2>evil twin.

0:25:56.720 --> 0:26:00.760
<v Speaker 3>Ooh, I mean, well they're both a little double girls,

0:26:00.920 --> 0:26:06.840
<v Speaker 3>that's for sure. They all Yeah, exactly, No, I mean

0:26:06.960 --> 0:26:08.439
<v Speaker 3>I'd like to just give you an answer because I'm

0:26:08.480 --> 0:26:11.000
<v Speaker 3>actually like I would tell you, but they're actually both

0:26:11.080 --> 0:26:13.679
<v Speaker 3>like I they're like my big brothers. I know they're little,

0:26:13.720 --> 0:26:16.600
<v Speaker 3>but they're like I have, But they're actually like my

0:26:16.640 --> 0:26:17.399
<v Speaker 3>big brothers are.

0:26:17.440 --> 0:26:18.280
<v Speaker 1>They're like five to five.

0:26:18.720 --> 0:26:21.240
<v Speaker 3>I think they're a little shorter. What I think, so

0:26:22.320 --> 0:26:25.120
<v Speaker 3>like a five three, five four, I've.

0:26:26.600 --> 0:26:27.200
<v Speaker 1>Five one.

0:26:27.320 --> 0:26:27.680
<v Speaker 2>They know that.

0:26:28.040 --> 0:26:29.520
<v Speaker 3>I don't know they're exact type, but I know that

0:26:29.520 --> 0:26:30.680
<v Speaker 3>they're smaller than five to five.

0:26:31.359 --> 0:26:32.639
<v Speaker 1>I think they like to say they're taller, but I

0:26:32.680 --> 0:26:33.000
<v Speaker 1>don't think that.

0:26:33.240 --> 0:26:37.360
<v Speaker 2>You guys, I am shocked to my very core. Yeah,

0:26:37.760 --> 0:26:40.840
<v Speaker 2>just a cool five to one, Yeah, swinging, big dick energy.

0:26:40.880 --> 0:26:41.120
<v Speaker 3>I guess.

0:26:41.200 --> 0:26:42.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I mean they pull some girls.

0:26:42.920 --> 0:26:45.200
<v Speaker 3>I have to say they pull girls but I love

0:26:45.280 --> 0:26:48.000
<v Speaker 3>them because, like they literally are like my big brothers,

0:26:48.000 --> 0:26:49.800
<v Speaker 3>Like they would never hit on me, they would never

0:26:49.840 --> 0:26:52.919
<v Speaker 3>be inappropriate with me because they're just protective of me.

0:26:53.040 --> 0:26:55.520
<v Speaker 2>So I like that they seem like they're protective of

0:26:55.600 --> 0:26:57.080
<v Speaker 2>the girls who work at the agency.

0:26:57.280 --> 0:26:59.400
<v Speaker 1>They are. I definitely think that they are. I mean,

0:27:00.040 --> 0:27:00.960
<v Speaker 1>they've dated a lot of.

0:27:00.880 --> 0:27:03.280
<v Speaker 3>Them, so they're definitely protective of the ones that they've dated.

0:27:03.760 --> 0:27:04.280
<v Speaker 1>Then are like.

0:27:04.320 --> 0:27:06.639
<v Speaker 2>Dogs they peed on the fire hydrant, this is now

0:27:06.640 --> 0:27:07.360
<v Speaker 2>my fire. Yeah.

0:27:07.440 --> 0:27:10.560
<v Speaker 3>No, they're definitely like protective of especially like the ones

0:27:10.600 --> 0:27:12.760
<v Speaker 3>that they've dated, for sure, But they are protective of

0:27:12.800 --> 0:27:15.200
<v Speaker 3>me in like a little sister sense. Do they get

0:27:15.240 --> 0:27:19.520
<v Speaker 3>along with your boyfriend? They met once and they were

0:27:19.560 --> 0:27:20.720
<v Speaker 3>totally fine.

0:27:20.800 --> 0:27:25.520
<v Speaker 2>It's the age difference with you and your man, Like

0:27:25.920 --> 0:27:28.160
<v Speaker 2>six years oh a big age.

0:27:28.240 --> 0:27:29.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's not that big of a deal. I don't

0:27:29.840 --> 0:27:30.240
<v Speaker 3>really care.

0:27:30.880 --> 0:27:33.359
<v Speaker 2>No, once you get into like fifteen twenty, I'm like,

0:27:33.480 --> 0:27:34.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't know about this.

0:27:34.400 --> 0:27:35.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, yeah, I mean.

0:27:35.680 --> 0:27:38.000
<v Speaker 3>And to be honest with you, he looks older and like,

0:27:38.600 --> 0:27:40.480
<v Speaker 3>you know, he's done everything that.

0:27:40.440 --> 0:27:42.000
<v Speaker 1>He needs to do, so I feel like he's he

0:27:42.119 --> 0:27:43.440
<v Speaker 1>can relax now.

0:27:43.600 --> 0:27:46.639
<v Speaker 3>Is he territorial of you? I mean, yes, but I

0:27:46.640 --> 0:27:49.560
<v Speaker 3>feel like most guys are. But I feel like in

0:27:49.640 --> 0:27:54.960
<v Speaker 3>a cute way, like he's protective for sure, but yeah,

0:27:55.000 --> 0:27:56.840
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I'm trying to think in my head, I'm like,

0:27:57.160 --> 0:27:59.560
<v Speaker 3>he's definitely protective, but still was like, I mean all

0:27:59.640 --> 0:28:03.840
<v Speaker 3>of my relationships have been somewhat protective, yeah, and territorial.

0:28:04.200 --> 0:28:06.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm just trying to have the roadmap back to you

0:28:06.800 --> 0:28:07.760
<v Speaker 2>and your friendship.

0:28:08.359 --> 0:28:10.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I do get like I understand some

0:28:11.040 --> 0:28:13.680
<v Speaker 3>of Krschelle's points, but obviously, you know, when you take

0:28:13.680 --> 0:28:15.280
<v Speaker 3>it to a level like okay, at some point, you

0:28:15.280 --> 0:28:16.960
<v Speaker 3>have to let other people live their lives, you know

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<v Speaker 3>what I mean. Yeah, but I'm not the type of

0:28:19.080 --> 0:28:21.640
<v Speaker 3>person where like I don't see I can't see both sides,

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<v Speaker 3>or I don't understand where one person's coming from or

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<v Speaker 3>the other.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I definitely try.

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<v Speaker 3>And see both sides to any situation, whether I'm included

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<v Speaker 3>in it or not.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so you told me before we started, and we'll

0:28:34.320 --> 0:28:36.359
<v Speaker 2>end it on this, but that you're like very chill.

0:28:36.800 --> 0:28:38.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm super sure. I wish.

0:28:39.000 --> 0:28:41.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm sure producers are like, can you be a little unchill?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, they hate it. They hate it. They

0:28:43.440 --> 0:28:45.720
<v Speaker 3>hate it so much. Like I was not made for

0:28:45.840 --> 0:28:49.360
<v Speaker 3>reality TV. Like I just wasn't. I fell it fell

0:28:49.400 --> 0:28:51.920
<v Speaker 3>into place. I happen to work for a brokerage that

0:28:52.080 --> 0:28:54.480
<v Speaker 3>was had a TV show. I happened to date the

0:28:54.520 --> 0:28:57.760
<v Speaker 3>same guy that dated the one of the main cast members.

0:28:58.480 --> 0:29:00.640
<v Speaker 3>My story just kind of fell in to place, and

0:29:00.680 --> 0:29:02.960
<v Speaker 3>I haven't to be working for the brokerage. But like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not really made for reality TV. I don't like drama.

0:29:06.120 --> 0:29:07.120
<v Speaker 3>I don't like fighting.

0:29:07.200 --> 0:29:07.600
<v Speaker 1>I won't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't really drink like they're like, try to feed

0:29:10.080 --> 0:29:12.360
<v Speaker 3>me booze and I'm like, just give me a coffee.

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<v Speaker 2>That is, you know, because as you're talking, I'm like, Okay,

0:29:16.520 --> 0:29:18.960
<v Speaker 2>she has conquered the art of finding the gray in life,

0:29:19.000 --> 0:29:20.760
<v Speaker 2>which which is wonderful, Like that's.

0:29:20.640 --> 0:29:21.840
<v Speaker 1>What you want in life.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom from the time I was a child always

0:29:26.920 --> 0:29:28.640
<v Speaker 2>tried to get me to be in the gray. And

0:29:28.680 --> 0:29:30.760
<v Speaker 2>I was black or white. Man, it was like I

0:29:30.800 --> 0:29:32.680
<v Speaker 2>didn't know how to live in the gray.

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<v Speaker 3>Ye.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't love confrontation, but I'm excellent at it,

0:29:37.160 --> 0:29:39.000
<v Speaker 2>Like I can, I can take it by the balls

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<v Speaker 2>and just like make it my bitch. So I actually

0:29:42.160 --> 0:29:45.840
<v Speaker 2>feel like I make great reality TV, but it is

0:29:46.400 --> 0:29:48.400
<v Speaker 2>just a weird life to sign up for.

0:29:48.680 --> 0:29:49.280
<v Speaker 1>It really is.

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<v Speaker 3>And so I feel like because I am more gray

0:29:52.440 --> 0:29:55.040
<v Speaker 3>and I'm more neutral and I don't really love drama,

0:29:55.280 --> 0:29:58.240
<v Speaker 3>They're like, Okay, we're gonna anything that you mentioned with

0:29:58.280 --> 0:30:01.960
<v Speaker 3>a relationship. So like, my relationships is what gives them headlines.

0:30:02.000 --> 0:30:03.600
<v Speaker 3>So no matter what I'm doing, no matter who I'm

0:30:03.600 --> 0:30:06.040
<v Speaker 3>talking to. First season, it was like me and my

0:30:06.120 --> 0:30:08.360
<v Speaker 3>ex that I was engaged to with the Christine drama.

0:30:09.080 --> 0:30:10.440
<v Speaker 3>Then it was like, oh my god, I made a

0:30:10.440 --> 0:30:12.960
<v Speaker 3>comment about someone on Riya that slid in or that

0:30:13.040 --> 0:30:15.480
<v Speaker 3>wrote me, and then that went viral. And then I

0:30:15.560 --> 0:30:18.560
<v Speaker 3>dated a guy that I was selling his house. It's

0:30:18.600 --> 0:30:21.400
<v Speaker 3>always like relationships for me, which is.

0:30:21.320 --> 0:30:23.760
<v Speaker 1>Like, how little suffocating? Yeah, it's a lot.

0:30:23.600 --> 0:30:26.160
<v Speaker 3>Because I'm like, I want my relationship to be private,

0:30:26.200 --> 0:30:26.760
<v Speaker 3>and I am.

0:30:27.120 --> 0:30:28.120
<v Speaker 1>I've always been.

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<v Speaker 3>Private about my relationships even before the show, like I

0:30:30.440 --> 0:30:33.280
<v Speaker 3>was engaged and I never posted I was engaged before

0:30:33.360 --> 0:30:36.040
<v Speaker 3>the show, Like I've just always been protective and private

0:30:36.040 --> 0:30:38.440
<v Speaker 3>about my relationships. So now I'm on the show where

0:30:38.440 --> 0:30:40.160
<v Speaker 3>all they want to do is talk about who I'm dating,

0:30:40.640 --> 0:30:43.080
<v Speaker 3>and like everything, every detail about.

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<v Speaker 1>It and it is overwhelming.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think that there will be a day where

0:30:47.440 --> 0:30:50.040
<v Speaker 2>you're like, I think I'm done here or is it

0:30:50.080 --> 0:30:51.240
<v Speaker 2>scratching in it right now?

0:30:51.280 --> 0:30:54.080
<v Speaker 3>Oh? Yeah, no, no, no, Like I'm I was basically

0:30:54.080 --> 0:30:56.320
<v Speaker 3>done season eight and I kind of came back to

0:30:56.320 --> 0:30:57.680
<v Speaker 3>tell like my side of the story.

0:30:58.360 --> 0:31:02.440
<v Speaker 1>Okay, well it's like TVD on season ten. Yeah, I

0:31:02.480 --> 0:31:04.000
<v Speaker 1>mean I'm kind of I'm tapped.

0:31:04.520 --> 0:31:07.320
<v Speaker 2>You're well, yeah, you mean you've got everything going on,

0:31:07.480 --> 0:31:09.560
<v Speaker 2>but yeah, like you have your business.

0:31:10.320 --> 0:31:11.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, I'll never say never.

0:31:11.720 --> 0:31:13.160
<v Speaker 3>I don't like when people say they're not going to

0:31:13.200 --> 0:31:15.240
<v Speaker 3>join the show and then they do, and you know

0:31:15.280 --> 0:31:16.680
<v Speaker 3>what I mean, I've heard that so many times where

0:31:16.720 --> 0:31:18.440
<v Speaker 3>people like I'm never coming back, I'm never coming back

0:31:18.440 --> 0:31:20.560
<v Speaker 3>and on their back every season, and like a lot

0:31:20.600 --> 0:31:22.880
<v Speaker 3>of people have done and said that, Like I'm not

0:31:23.120 --> 0:31:25.080
<v Speaker 3>naming names, but like a lot of people, you know

0:31:25.120 --> 0:31:25.480
<v Speaker 3>what I mean.

0:31:25.440 --> 0:31:26.160
<v Speaker 1>I do it every year.

0:31:26.240 --> 0:31:29.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly, exactly. Yeah, So I've actually never said it.

0:31:29.480 --> 0:31:31.600
<v Speaker 3>But I'm at a point where, like, I'm really happy

0:31:31.800 --> 0:31:32.320
<v Speaker 3>with my life.

0:31:32.360 --> 0:31:34.160
<v Speaker 1>I love my family. I've been trying to spend more

0:31:34.160 --> 0:31:34.640
<v Speaker 1>time with them.

0:31:35.400 --> 0:31:37.240
<v Speaker 3>My niece and my nephew live right next door to

0:31:37.280 --> 0:31:39.840
<v Speaker 3>my parents, and like, I enjoy being home with a family.

0:31:40.160 --> 0:31:42.800
<v Speaker 3>And I've been on the East Coast a lot this year,

0:31:42.840 --> 0:31:43.800
<v Speaker 3>which has been really nice.

0:31:43.880 --> 0:31:47.000
<v Speaker 2>Because you're from Massachusetts, right, Yeah, so your family is

0:31:47.040 --> 0:31:47.560
<v Speaker 2>still there.

0:31:47.720 --> 0:31:50.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they come out a lot, but not like my

0:31:50.240 --> 0:31:52.560
<v Speaker 3>brother and my niece and my nephew and my sister

0:31:52.600 --> 0:31:54.280
<v Speaker 3>in law, they don't come out as much. So my

0:31:54.280 --> 0:31:56.280
<v Speaker 3>mom and dad are always with me, Like they love

0:31:56.320 --> 0:31:58.480
<v Speaker 3>being with me. They travel with me. I'm super close

0:31:58.520 --> 0:32:00.160
<v Speaker 3>with them. But like I love seeing my niece to

0:32:00.200 --> 0:32:02.800
<v Speaker 3>my nephew and there she's going to turn five next week,

0:32:02.920 --> 0:32:05.280
<v Speaker 3>so like I'm flying out for that. But like I

0:32:05.440 --> 0:32:07.880
<v Speaker 3>like being home with the family. That's what brings me happiness.

0:32:08.240 --> 0:32:10.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I'm sure at some point you want a

0:32:10.240 --> 0:32:12.560
<v Speaker 2>family of you create a family of your own, oh,

0:32:12.560 --> 0:32:13.320
<v Speaker 2>one hundred percent.

0:32:13.440 --> 0:32:15.360
<v Speaker 3>Like that's that's always been my goal.

0:32:15.480 --> 0:32:19.000
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm the godmother to five kids. Shit, Everyone's like,

0:32:19.000 --> 0:32:21.080
<v Speaker 1>if anything happens, we want you to raise our kids.

0:32:21.120 --> 0:32:23.240
<v Speaker 3>Like literally, I was a godmother when I was twelve

0:32:23.320 --> 0:32:26.320
<v Speaker 3>years old because everyone was like, yeah.

0:32:25.760 --> 0:32:27.600
<v Speaker 1>Wow, how old are you? Can I ask that?

0:32:27.720 --> 0:32:30.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, so I'm thirty three, you're a baby. Yeah,

0:32:30.560 --> 0:32:31.600
<v Speaker 3>So like all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love this. Yeah, so I'm very impressed by you,

0:32:35.920 --> 0:32:37.760
<v Speaker 1>by the way. Yeah, like I.

0:32:37.560 --> 0:32:40.880
<v Speaker 3>Love like family is everything to me, like absolutely, at.

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<v Speaker 2>The end of the day, it's all we have, right yeah, exactly,

0:32:42.720 --> 0:32:44.720
<v Speaker 2>Like when all of this goes to shit and no

0:32:44.760 --> 0:32:48.120
<v Speaker 2>one cares about the Vanderpump Rules of Life or you know,

0:32:48.200 --> 0:32:50.880
<v Speaker 2>selling Sunset, it's like the family is the core of

0:32:51.080 --> 0:32:52.240
<v Speaker 2>who we are exactly.

0:32:52.280 --> 0:32:53.920
<v Speaker 3>So like I just I do want to have my

0:32:53.960 --> 0:32:56.800
<v Speaker 3>own family. That's number one priority on my list to

0:32:56.800 --> 0:33:00.400
<v Speaker 3>be amazing. I had such a wonderful time talking to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for making time for me. Thank you guys

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<v Speaker 3>for listening to another episode of Untraditionally Lala. I'm going

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<v Speaker 3>to catch you on the bonus episode and again next week.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye.