1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: Welcome to my show. I'm Rashon McDonald, a host of 2 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: Money Making Conversations Masterclass, where we encourage people to stop 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: reading other people's success stories and start planning your own. Now, 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: you don't want to miss an episode, so please take 5 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 1: a moment right now to follow or subscribe to Money 6 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:16,440 Speaker 1: Making Conversations Masterclass. 7 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 2: It's free. 8 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: You can follow me on iHeartRadio, app, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, 9 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your podcast. New Money Making 10 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: Conversations Masterclass episodes drop daily. 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Or make a sign five. 17 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 1: I actually please this young man, but let me tell 18 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: you about him before we get into that fraternity talk. 19 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 1: After earning an MBA and an MS and miis lost 20 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: a successful career in business consulting with some of the 21 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 1: nation's top firms, helping companies transformed through technology. He is 22 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: now reviving the legacy of the spare rear barbecue Pit 23 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 1: of Greenville, Texas, bringing his family's Cherry's recipe barbecue recipe 24 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: you know over already seventy year old recipe, seventy year 25 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 1: old sauce, and authentic Texas techniques to cook County, Illinois. WHOA, 26 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 1: The mission is too simple to become one of the 27 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: nation's premiere barbecue destinations by delivering unforgivable flavor with world 28 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 1: class service. Please work with the money making conversation masterclass, 29 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:32,960 Speaker 1: Robert Fitzpatrick. 30 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:34,759 Speaker 2: How ain't doing Fratt doing well? Fred? 31 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: Long time Margie Houston District. Let's get that out of 32 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: the way. Yes, because I want to go back. I 33 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 1: always tell people this, Robert. Okay, because now you're at 34 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 1: to barbecue all right. You know he also served our country. 35 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: Thank you for that. 36 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: Okay. 37 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: Navy, right, yes, okay, between the ages of eighteen and 38 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: twenty two, you know we just fire, you know, we 39 00:01:56,840 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: we you know, can't nobody tell us. You know, we 40 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: talk of the world between eighteen and twenty two, and 41 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: then after that we kind of like get off target, 42 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: you know, might get married or might do something like Okay, 43 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: you joined the Navy and all these things, but that 44 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: wasn't what you were your dreams between eighteen and twenty two. 45 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 2: Now you know mis mb you know. 46 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: You transformative guy in the tech world with corporations nationwide, 47 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 1: can now barbecue. So tell me this, what did you 48 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: want to do b between the ages of eighteen and 49 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:35,519 Speaker 1: twenty two. 50 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 3: Between age eighteen and twenty two, I had set out 51 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 3: to become an industrial engineer. Prior to that, I actually 52 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 3: wanted to be the city manager of the little town 53 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 3: that I grew up in, Belle, Texas. In my opinion, 54 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 3: it was just a poorly run Even as a teenager, 55 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 3: I thought it was a pool. 56 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 2: You saw the city and I thought I could do 57 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 2: a better job. 58 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 3: So I thought. My counselor told me it's really at 59 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,799 Speaker 3: that time, he said, there's really not a city manager curriculum. 60 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 3: He said, but you all to study civil engineer and 61 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 3: then you could that would be a good background to 62 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 3: be a city match thought about it, thought about it, 63 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:16,119 Speaker 3: and at the time, so this is late nineteen seventies, 64 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,800 Speaker 3: they're not gonna let a black man be a city manager. 65 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 3: And then my dad had a business and I thought, 66 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 3: I think I'll study industrial engineering because to me, that 67 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 3: was engineering applied to business, right, So that's what I 68 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 3: was trying to be between eighteen and twenty two, was 69 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 3: an industrial engineer. 70 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: So educate us what exactly is an industrial engineer. 71 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 3: And an industrial engineer does it? Like I said, it 72 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 3: applies engineering concepts to business. Okay, So an industrial engineer 73 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 3: would design business processes. An industrial engineer UPS employees lots 74 00:03:56,640 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 3: of industrial engineers. So time and motion study, shortening distances, 75 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 3: shortening work. 76 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: Did you say the famous thing that UPS trucks are 77 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: designed or left turns and something like that so they 78 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: can shorten their delivery routes. 79 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 2: Yep, yep, yeap. I believe so, And that was. 80 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: Tied to indust your engineer, and I'm sure, okay, so 81 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: just learning how processes work. 82 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 3: Right, right, And my thinking was maybe I could use 83 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:32,160 Speaker 3: that thought methodology to help my dad's business flourish and growth. 84 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 3: And what was his business? And his business was Dad 85 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 3: opened the Sparry Barbecue restaurant in nineteen fifty one in Greenville, Texas. 86 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 3: That was four years three years before Brown Versus Boarding 87 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 3: education at the peak of Kansas that desegregated schools, and 88 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,720 Speaker 3: so when they opened, it was also against the law 89 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:56,039 Speaker 3: for blacks and whites to eat together. Right in restaurants. 90 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 3: Dad just broke that law. He said, anybody wants to 91 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 3: eat can eat here. So for the next fifty years 92 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 3: Dad was serving northeast Texas. Well, I think it's the 93 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 3: best barbecue on the planet. 94 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 2: Let's talk. Let's talk about that. That's history. 95 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 1: You know, to have a forward thinking father, I would 96 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 1: have to say courageous. Yes, okay, yeah, you know I'm 97 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: from Texas, Houston, Texas, so I know what Texas is. Okay, 98 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:26,279 Speaker 1: talk about your life growing up with that type of father, 99 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: that type of environment, because obviously it impacted you because 100 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:32,599 Speaker 1: you wanted to run Greenville. You thought you could do 101 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: a better job, even in seventeen eighteen, so you saw 102 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: things differently as a young person. 103 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:43,359 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, one of the things I saw was a 104 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 3: strong leadership by my dad, letting blacks and whites eat 105 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:50,359 Speaker 3: together in the same place. He didn't allow cursing in 106 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 3: his restaurant, didn't have music in his restaurant either, because 107 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 3: they didn't want to bias you know, country versus R 108 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 3: and b versus soul to this good food, just good 109 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 3: food in a hole in the wild place in Greenville, 110 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 3: Texas that stayed packed. But he didn't allow cursing. So 111 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:16,239 Speaker 3: a white person was in his restaurant continuing the curse. 112 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 3: So my dad had to come from behind the counter 113 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 3: say hey, young man, I don't allow that kind of 114 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 3: language in this restaurant. He quieted down, Dad went back 115 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 3: to work. That cursing starts up again. Dad picks up 116 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:32,159 Speaker 3: a pistol, goes right up to this white man in 117 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 3: the nineteen fifties and says, I can do one of 118 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 3: two things. I can call it an undertaker of the ambulance. 119 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 3: Which one do you prefer? And if I shut up 120 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:45,919 Speaker 3: his cursing. So so I had a dad like that, 121 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:47,599 Speaker 3: right right. 122 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 2: So that anything in the place didn't get burned down overnight. 123 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 3: No, suddenly, suddenly, I think a lot of people were 124 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 3: scared about that black white. 125 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 1: It's a combination of scared in respect and respect. You 126 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because you know I first of all, 127 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: I respect anybody who went against the knowing when as 128 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 1: he ends up doing. 129 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 2: He was a business owner in a business where you 130 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 2: know all. 131 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 1: The all you know talking about how hard is open 132 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 1: the small business today, think about when your dad was 133 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 1: trying to do it. Okay, anybody give him a lot 134 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 1: of credit wasn't anybody gonna give him a loan. Wasn't 135 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 1: anybody in the situation where you had to deal with racism, 136 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 1: You had to deal with so many elements of discouragement 137 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: going home, you know, wondering if somebody gonna rob even 138 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: when you got home, you might get robbed. So the 139 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 1: elements of that really had to have vote. Was it 140 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 1: a profound impact on you? 141 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 3: I would say profound impact. You mentioned not getting ribbed 142 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 3: when you go home. He never got nobody, nobody even 143 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 3: challenge to tell and he always took back In those days, 144 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 3: you always took home and then you and then you 145 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 3: took it to the bank. And they and I'm just 146 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 3: sure people knew that, but they also knew he would 147 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 3: clock you if, as we said, he busted the capital. 148 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 2: And this is really a professial. 149 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 4: No documentary on your dad. 150 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 3: He did do East Texas State, which is about fifteen 151 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 3: miles away now I think they call it Texas and 152 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 3: in commerce. Yeah, they did do a documentary on him, 153 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 3: so he's interviewed and I do still have that. The 154 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 3: local paper that for Black History months did a whole 155 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:40,959 Speaker 3: spread on him. Not related to that, but more related 156 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 3: to Barbecue National Geographic did a spread on it in 157 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 3: nineteen eighty and then some Living magazine also did a 158 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 3: spread on it him in the eighties as well, But 159 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 3: that was more barbecue. 160 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:52,719 Speaker 2: Not so much his personality. 161 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:55,839 Speaker 1: I think that that's more about what we're talking about. 162 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: You know what inspired you? 163 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 2: You know? You know am I? You know? 164 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 1: You ahead of your time in the management information system, 165 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: which is what dominates our world today Google phagbook. Anything 166 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 1: you do in the social digital space is managing information systems. Now, 167 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: education played a major role in your life. Talk to 168 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 1: us about that. Well, let me say a couple of things. 169 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 1: So I'm the youngest of seven. Uh no, gay be 170 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 1: me all of us. 171 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 2: I got you know, six sisters, two brothers, So you 172 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 2: can stop all of that young and. 173 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:38,199 Speaker 3: See, all of us had degrees undergrad Five of us 174 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:39,319 Speaker 3: have massive degrees. 175 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 2: The youngest child meet from from Greenville Tech. Wow. Uh 176 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 2: so the youngest time me, I have two masters. 177 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 3: Uh and so what I what I began to do, 178 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 3: kind of continuing the industrial engineering aspirations, is to help 179 00:09:55,559 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 3: companies improve finance. So in accounting process of this processes 180 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:04,560 Speaker 3: really so the mis degree allowed me to understand the 181 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 3: technical side more than most financial people, and the NBA 182 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 3: allowed me to understand the business side more than technical 183 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 3: people do, so I helped them communicate and help improve 184 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:21,559 Speaker 3: systems from the Navy to EDESS time and only old 185 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 3: people know what DS is. Right, you probably know EDS 186 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 3: because you worked that. 187 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 2: I be a I've worked for their computer. 188 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 3: I worked for consulting companies of both Arthur Anderson and 189 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 3: you have to be old to know what that is. 190 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 3: And KPMG more recently. Wow, that's a resume. 191 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 1: Now, how did you squeeze military service into all of that? 192 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:46,199 Speaker 2: That is a great question. 193 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 3: So actually my I have two pieces of military service. 194 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 3: One was straight active duty, where I was active duty 195 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 3: and deployed on the ship. Okay, that was from nineteen 196 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:01,079 Speaker 3: eighty six to nineteen ninety, and I was still taking 197 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 3: classes while I was. In fact, that's why I went 198 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 3: into the Navy to be able to afford college. And 199 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 3: then I finished my listener trying to catch up with 200 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 3: people my age, so I said I probably should do 201 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 3: some more education, and I joined the reserves. So I 202 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 3: finished those two degrees, and I both joined eds's Accounting 203 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 3: of Financial Leadership Development program and the Navy picked me 204 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 3: up as a supply co asser, So I had to 205 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 3: I had to do two years of preparation to become 206 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:37,439 Speaker 3: a supply cosser in the reserves. But that was only 207 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 3: a week and a month and two weeks a year, 208 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 3: except for when I got deployed to Iraq right right, 209 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 3: that was a straight six months right desert. So that's 210 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:50,439 Speaker 3: how I combined those two careers. The reserve career was 211 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 3: really only one week in the month and. 212 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 2: Two weeks a year. 213 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 1: So we know, Robert, long time been knowing your long time, 214 00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 1: fascinating life. 215 00:11:57,840 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 2: You know, we're going to get to barbecue. 216 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 1: But I just want to respect sometimes when I'm when 217 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 1: I'm talking to people, you know, they kind of like 218 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 1: normalize their lives. 219 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 2: They normalize the things around them. You know. 220 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 1: You know, see what your dad did is kind of 221 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 1: normal to you, you know what I'm saying. But to me, 222 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: it's like, wow, you know the fact that seven kids 223 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:23,359 Speaker 1: all got degrees. 224 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:27,959 Speaker 2: You know, see, you know that's normal to you. You 225 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:28,559 Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. 226 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 1: And and I just want people to understand, who are 227 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:35,840 Speaker 1: listening to this show, we all know that's not normal. 228 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 1: So I have to ask you this question, why is 229 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 1: your family so humble? 230 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 2: Humility? 231 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 3: Probably because of mom and Dad, but also probably because 232 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 3: we are firmly rooted in Christ. 233 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 2: So if you try to get bold, he has a 234 00:12:56,559 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 2: way to make you right, right, right right. 235 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:03,079 Speaker 3: We try to get right right, he'll make you hump right. 236 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:06,959 Speaker 3: I've been through many of those to big experiences. One 237 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 3: of those, I would say is pursuing the industrial engineering 238 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:14,319 Speaker 3: at the University of Houston. That curriculum was. 239 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 1: Tough, absolutely well, you know the thing about it, like 240 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 1: anybody you know, and that's a university US of which 241 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 1: I graduate from. 242 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 2: That's a predominant white institution. 243 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 1: And you know, and so when you start talking about 244 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:29,440 Speaker 1: your peer group of people who look like you, you know, 245 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: it was always funny, you know, because we were in 246 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:34,439 Speaker 1: fraternity or make us I find we knew a lot 247 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 1: of our friends or in all the divine that organization, 248 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 1: it looked like a lot of black people, you know, 249 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 1: and we moved there is probably about thirty five thousand students. 250 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:45,599 Speaker 1: It was only about twenty five hundred dollars at the 251 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 1: university center. You see something looking like a ton of us, 252 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 1: So we really didn't have, you know, peers we could 253 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: turn to that looked like us. In the academic arenas 254 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 1: on talking about professors and deans and people like that 255 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 1: who could. So in my behindsight, I can see there's 256 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 1: an advantage to go in to an HBCU because there's 257 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:11,320 Speaker 1: a certain degree of relatability and also a general cause 258 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 1: to want you to win, you know, because I always 259 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:18,840 Speaker 1: tell people in college, as you know, Robert, it's the 260 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 1: pyramid of fact. It's a bunch of yards a freshman. 261 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: But as you go up that pyramid to that tip 262 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 1: is less and less, and as you get less and less, 263 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: that means it's less of us that we're going to 264 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 1: go around and have support because guess what, we've been 265 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 1: victimized by the pyramid of fact. So let's go back 266 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 1: to what your daddy started, barbecue. That's why I got 267 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 1: your the show. But you have such a fascinating life, Robert, 268 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 1: I have to detour right because you need everybody your 269 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 1: dad tell till we started talking about barbecue man, why 270 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 1: you want to get in the barbecue business man? 271 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 3: Well, I think that's very simple. Again, the leaving college 272 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 3: or leaving home to pursue college and they can study. 273 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 3: That's your engineering, so I can come back and help 274 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 3: my dad better his business. So I think almost everything 275 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 3: I was doing, I was thinking I need to be back. 276 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 4: So eighteen or twenty two really was about the business. 277 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 3: In the back of my mind, I'm thinking I need 278 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 3: to be doing that. When I got married in nineteen 279 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 3: ninety nine, a little late, but my wife said then, 280 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 3: and she still says to this day, well she's not 281 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 3: saying this so much now because I'm almost there. 282 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 2: She said, you. 283 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 3: Need to be barbecuing, and you don't need to be 284 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 3: working for these people out you need to be barbecue 285 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 3: so awesome. And then as I've traveled around I lived 286 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 3: and say, why. 287 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 2: Did she say that? I can't just let you go on? 288 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 2: Who are you doing that? She said, you need to 289 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 2: be doing this. 290 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 3: Well, a couple of things. One is she she got 291 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 3: to taste the barbecue. Okay, did you deliver it? 292 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 2: No, that my dad was so she knows. 293 00:15:57,040 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 3: And then I started because we moved to Virginia where 294 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:02,640 Speaker 3: I couldn't get dass barbecue, so I had to start 295 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 3: making it on my own. So she started to taste 296 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:07,760 Speaker 3: about barbecues and like, that's what you need to be doing. 297 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 2: Wow, listen, lord down, what are you barbecuing? What am 298 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 2: I barbecue? 299 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:18,680 Speaker 3: So my dad's place is called the spare rib. Okay, 300 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 3: so that was his special pork spare rib. So of 301 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 3: course I'm gonna do that. 302 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:23,040 Speaker 2: Okay. 303 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:26,280 Speaker 3: When he started too, he used to. He used to 304 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 3: get the whole fourth quarter of a cow and cut 305 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 3: it himself. Wow, and smoke all of those pieces of meat. 306 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:36,000 Speaker 2: Uh huh. 307 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 3: Later on they everybody stopped. He was able to get briskets, 308 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 3: and briskets just took off. So and I don't have 309 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 3: his skill set to know how to cut a four 310 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 3: quarter of it. So we'll be cutting up, we'll be 311 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 3: smoking briskets, Polish sausage. I'll take the sausage, police sausage, 312 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 3: link sausage, and hot links as well. I would change him. 313 00:16:58,160 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 3: People don't do that enough. 314 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe. 315 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: My greatest passion man and memory is coming out of 316 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:10,680 Speaker 1: a nightclub in Houston, Texas and paying two three dollars 317 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 1: for that link sandwich man the White brig. 318 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:17,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, we gon have hot links yep, yuh. 319 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 3: And then one a time I want to have something special, 320 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:25,400 Speaker 3: like I'll probably bring some Buddhan up from Louisiana smoking 321 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:27,400 Speaker 3: and that'll be the month special for that. 322 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:31,120 Speaker 2: Right right right, Smoke bou dat, Smoke bo da Okay. See, 323 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:31,640 Speaker 2: here's the thing. 324 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:34,640 Speaker 1: I lived in Chicago five years, five years, five years, 325 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 1: and so I'll tell you their hands down. Can nobody 326 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 1: be Houston food wise, hands out, but Chicago cargo brother. 327 00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 2: And see a lot of people don't know that. 328 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:52,120 Speaker 1: When they used to do the cattle drives, they always 329 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:56,959 Speaker 1: went up to Chicago. That's why great steak, great barbecue 330 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 1: exists up there because people go Chicago cause everybody want 331 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 1: to claim Texas and South Carolina that mustard. And you 332 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 1: get up in that Kentucky area. Every every small town 333 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 1: in Kentucky got a barbecue stand. It blew me away, 334 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 1: expecially orange I think Orangeboro, Kentucky is the barbecue capital 335 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 1: of the world. And if you go there, you go 336 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 1: they put another barbecue shop some places in Orangeboro. 337 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 2: It's ridiculous. 338 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 1: And so so when I when I see you're going 339 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 1: up there, and now tell everybody. 340 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:29,199 Speaker 2: Where you going and why are you going to do 341 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:33,359 Speaker 2: barbecue and Chicago? Okay, okay, that's a great question. 342 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:36,679 Speaker 3: So what what brought me to the area where I 343 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:39,920 Speaker 3: live now is I came to be the Deputy Comptroll 344 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 3: and Budget also for the Navy on the Great Lakes 345 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:46,240 Speaker 3: Naval Base, had a two hundred million dollar budget and 346 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 3: about fifteen people that worked for me. Thank God for technology. 347 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:59,120 Speaker 3: So that brought me the Great Lakes. But I knew 348 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:01,160 Speaker 3: I wanted to do this barbecue things, so I started 349 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 3: looking at locations, found a location closer to Chicago. I'm 350 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:08,359 Speaker 3: about fifty miles north of Chicago. Found a place closer 351 00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 3: to Chicago, and thought, Okay, this is the place. So 352 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:14,680 Speaker 3: let me get the word out that I'm going to 353 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:17,879 Speaker 3: be here. So I went to one of our tenth 354 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:23,359 Speaker 3: district for Mega Fire and one of the brothers that 355 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 3: told me that I needed to be in Skokee, Illinois. 356 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 3: And you know how we go back and forth with 357 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 3: the job. Man, I ain't going to know skoke right, 358 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 3: I'm not going to to gear Gear. But I started 359 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:44,960 Speaker 3: investigating and just one positive thing after another, and I'm 360 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:45,679 Speaker 3: buying building. 361 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:46,679 Speaker 2: It's Skokee, right. 362 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,200 Speaker 3: This particular brother happened happens to be on the board 363 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 3: of trustees for the Belgian Skokee. So just so many 364 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 3: positive things in the city. The economic development team there, 365 00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 3: they didn't just it's not like, oh yeah, another restaurants come, 366 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 3: It's like they really want me to be there. Yes, 367 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:07,359 Speaker 3: we have grants that you can. Yes, we'll help you 368 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:11,200 Speaker 3: find a building. Yes, hey, meet this owner of this building. 369 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 3: Met the owner, he was fantastic. She So this building 370 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 3: that I'm buying is five thousand square feet. I'm gonna 371 00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:24,119 Speaker 3: act three thousand square feet. But I've got two tenants 372 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 3: ridding the other two thousand square So if I don't 373 00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:29,879 Speaker 3: sell a beef sandwich, that rent's coming in. 374 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:34,160 Speaker 2: Well that's the old management sidey. You know what I'm saying. 375 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 1: You realize that I always tell people, you know, you 376 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,680 Speaker 1: buy building what you're doing in the daytime if you're 377 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 1: doing stuff at night only, you know. And so you 378 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:45,360 Speaker 1: said I got five thousand greet first feet, you partitioned 379 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:50,439 Speaker 1: it another thousand thousand for potential rent landlord activity. 380 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:52,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm gonna be a landlord as well as 381 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 3: a restaurant too at the same time. But the village's 382 00:20:56,760 --> 00:21:01,920 Speaker 3: scoche has just been so so positive, inviting, I think. 383 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:03,920 Speaker 2: So I'm gonna be downtown. 384 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 3: Skokie, right, and it's it's one of those communities areas 385 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 3: that's on the comeback. So this barbecue place, this Texas 386 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:15,600 Speaker 3: style barbecue place, may be the marquee feature. 387 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:17,480 Speaker 2: Let's come back down this. 388 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 1: Is this is always the killer for me and barbecue places. 389 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 1: What are the sides? 390 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 2: The sides are some Texas sides. You gotta have potato salad, 391 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:30,400 Speaker 2: yes sir, yes, sir, And you gotta have color. 392 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:36,520 Speaker 1: Let's let's letta okay, the sides we talked about, Okay, 393 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 1: potato south Okay, is that potato with mayonnaise? 394 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 2: And what type of sound is? Uh? It will be 395 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 2: the egg based egg potato sound. Yeah. Okay, I want you, 396 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:51,159 Speaker 2: I want I want you. Okay. Coast law shredded Coast 397 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 2: law with vannagar? 398 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:53,919 Speaker 3: What type of coast hot we we're gonna make the 399 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:56,080 Speaker 3: coast law in the house. Okay fresh, it will have 400 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:58,679 Speaker 3: some fresh and it'll have some vinegar, but it'll be 401 00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:01,680 Speaker 3: a pineapple coach slaw. Okay, okay, cool, so a little 402 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:02,879 Speaker 3: different than maybe what you use. 403 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 2: You hadn't ran me out the build because you got 404 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 2: two things. 405 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 1: I'm with y'all, okay, because a lot of people don't 406 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:10,640 Speaker 1: have the right potato sells. 407 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:14,440 Speaker 4: I go places dealing man potatoes out. 408 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, long coast Yeah, where I am you about to 409 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:16,200 Speaker 2: get cold? I'm saying. 410 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 1: Okay, So so you already up and up in Chicago 411 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:21,200 Speaker 1: area doing something a little different. 412 00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:24,560 Speaker 3: Okay, gotta have fried ocre, Okay, fried ok Okay, have 413 00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:28,040 Speaker 3: fried Ocre. And then I'm gonna have a barbecue bean 414 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 3: that's a pento bean, no sugar, not that sweet stuff 415 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,960 Speaker 3: that I'm making house. But because everything we do is smoke, 416 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:38,119 Speaker 3: my barbecue beans will be smoked, right, and you know 417 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:40,400 Speaker 3: that's about this. But the barbecue sauce. 418 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 4: Seventy year seventy years, I can't. 419 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 1: I can't ask you about the seventy year old recipe 420 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 1: because you're gonna look at me like a praise. Okay, 421 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 1: So but it's like different versions of that recipe, or 422 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 1: it's just one recipe for the sauce. 423 00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 2: It's just one recipe. I can. 424 00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:59,880 Speaker 3: I can if you ask for it, hot fight see hot. 425 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 3: I can heat you up when you come in, but 426 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,159 Speaker 3: you have to request that. And if you want a 427 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 3: little bit sweet, I can. Okay, But my standard sauce 428 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,440 Speaker 3: is my dad's standards. So great interview, Robert. 429 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 1: Now, I got the Kaslow, I got the smoke beans, 430 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,119 Speaker 1: I got the potato salad, I got the fried opal. 431 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:18,439 Speaker 2: That's four sides. 432 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 3: Yes, desserts, desserts, Apple Coppler, blueberry Coppler, Sweet, potato pie. 433 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 3: Uh my dad had a fried apple and a fried 434 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:32,720 Speaker 3: apricop pie. I'm gonna try to recreate recreate that, but 435 00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:35,840 Speaker 3: I don't know if I go that's some Greenville stuff, right. 436 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 2: The april coop pie, you might want to hold off 437 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 2: on that. 438 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 4: But the blueberry. 439 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:45,160 Speaker 1: You have to be a blueberry now, because that's again, 440 00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 1: that's a staple for me. 441 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:47,960 Speaker 2: A lot of people don't know how good that is. Man. 442 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:52,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, now, and you hear the scoop ice crime on 443 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:55,920 Speaker 3: either one, okay, now, the closure eye Texas toast or 444 00:23:55,960 --> 00:24:02,480 Speaker 3: corn bread. But I'm gonna have what you call bread dipping, Okay, 445 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 3: I mean sauce dipping. Bring so it'll just be sliced bread. 446 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 3: In the old days we call it light bread, not 447 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:13,200 Speaker 3: corn bread. Absolutely, corn bread to me is is soul food. 448 00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:15,959 Speaker 3: Absolutely absolutely not trying to be a soul food player. 449 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 3: Really not trying to be a creole restaurant. We're trying 450 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 3: to be a straight barbecue restaurant, just just barbecue. And 451 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 3: I want to do it better than or as good 452 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:28,600 Speaker 3: as anybody in the United States. So I'm trying to 453 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 3: kind of keep it simple because I want to do it. 454 00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 3: In fact, I wouldn't even do it if I didn't 455 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 3: think I was bringing the best product on the planet 456 00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 3: to Scokeet doing all. 457 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:42,640 Speaker 1: I'll tell you, Robert Man, you are can I say this, honestly, 458 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:44,440 Speaker 1: an amazing man, the whole thing. 459 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,920 Speaker 3: And I say that being interviewed by an amazing man. 460 00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 3: I always looked up to this. 461 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:50,640 Speaker 2: I appreciate that. 462 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 1: But but I was just talking about the humbleness and 463 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,199 Speaker 1: you know, and and and now I got to go 464 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:56,679 Speaker 1: back to you. 465 00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:58,959 Speaker 2: Now, did you just say anything about your mom? Marb's 466 00:24:59,000 --> 00:24:59,520 Speaker 2: there or what. 467 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 3: Your mom's sweetish, sweetish person, but the dominant figure with Dad, 468 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,199 Speaker 3: I'll say this about mom so so so. 469 00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 2: Dad had the force of you will do right right right. 470 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 3: Mom can tell you why you needed to do stuffing 471 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,480 Speaker 3: right right that bat, but he didn't give h much 472 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:21,600 Speaker 3: just what you gonna do? 473 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:24,480 Speaker 2: I love it. I love it. 474 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 1: Hey man, you know we're gonna talk more, man, and 475 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 1: you know I'm gonna come up there for your grand opening, 476 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:33,399 Speaker 1: But rob love that. First of all, thank you for 477 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 1: blessing me with this interview. You special brother, your family, 478 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:41,119 Speaker 1: special man, and uh your two of your children got 479 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:44,560 Speaker 1: a degree in sociology. I found that out my miners 480 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:46,359 Speaker 1: and sociology changed my life. 481 00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 2: And so again, man, thank. 482 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:51,199 Speaker 1: You brother for coming into my having and allowed us 483 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 1: to hear your story. 484 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:53,680 Speaker 2: What's the name of the barbecue place. 485 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 3: It's my dad was named Dewey, So it's gonna be 486 00:25:56,400 --> 00:26:02,040 Speaker 3: Dewey's Barbecue Market up and okay, illing right outside, right 487 00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:05,160 Speaker 3: outside of Chicago, by fifteen miles north of Chicago. We're 488 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 3: gonna have a side of it that's to go. So 489 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:11,120 Speaker 3: it'd be about like Wegman's. I forget what grocery store 490 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:14,320 Speaker 3: is around here, but like a grocery store deli. But 491 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 3: everything I have is smoke. But you can get it 492 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,159 Speaker 3: and go. Oh, you can dine in with us, and 493 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 3: you can hear some of the old good sixties, seventies, 494 00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:23,720 Speaker 3: eighties feel good music. 495 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:26,040 Speaker 2: That your dad would let you play. Dad wouldn't let 496 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:29,200 Speaker 2: it get play. We gotta get out of here, man, 497 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 2: Thank you, brother, Thank you. 498 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:39,360 Speaker 1: Don't understand, man, I you know when I meet individuals 499 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:44,400 Speaker 1: and I interview a lot, man you know, and Robert understand, brother, 500 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:52,439 Speaker 1: you are a special, special individual who's raised by a special. 501 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 2: Special mom and dad. 502 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 1: And I'm telling you right now, every last one of 503 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,880 Speaker 1: y'all impacted people are impacting people in this world. 504 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:01,919 Speaker 2: Thank you for coming on Money Making Conversation. 505 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 4: Thank you for listening to this episode. 506 00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 5: No need for you to do me a favor right 507 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:11,760 Speaker 5: now to follow or subscribe to Money Making Conversations. 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