1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:08,159 Speaker 1: Forever. We howd off the presses, rab and Simona just 2 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 1: got married. Oh my god. 3 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 2: Now in this climate, just the things that people are 4 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 2: doing right now is problematic and it's triggering. But you know, 5 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 2: I'm glad that she found love, but it's just like, 6 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 2: couldn't your wedding? 7 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: Wait, couldn't it wait? 8 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 2: I don't think she needs to let everybody know that 9 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 2: she was with. 10 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: A white woman right now, right since we flocked the 11 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:41,159 Speaker 1: interracial love today out of everything that's going on right now. 12 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: But also nobody knew she was in a relationship. This 13 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 1: announcement could have waited until they arrested the officers who killed. 14 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 3: To talk about it. That's what's more important. 15 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:54,639 Speaker 2: If she would have posted her wedding and say, but 16 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 2: the real thing is Breonna Taylor's officers are still out 17 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 2: and about arrest those bastards, that would have been a caption. 18 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 1: I mean, let's think of let's talk about the other 19 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: black Disney Channel people who would never. Uh, Kiki Palmer 20 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: would never this, this this little stunt that Raven just did. 21 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:18,039 Speaker 1: Palmer would never neither would Zendia Zendaya, I just call 22 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 1: her Z. 23 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 2: But yeah, she wouldn't do it because z is also 24 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 2: I don't think she's gay, but I don't think. 25 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 1: She's gay, but I know the gays loved. 26 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,680 Speaker 2: Yes, yes she's great, But Zendaya also looks like she 27 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 2: might have a beige bay on the side. 28 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 1: Well, Zendia's also half white. If I'm if I'm saying 29 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: this correct, I'm not. I don't have the Wikipedia cuta. 30 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: But yeah, I see her with a white dude. I 31 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 1: just don't see her with a white dude posting about 32 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: it right now. 33 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 2: She's definitely no, no, no, no today. Oh, we didn't 34 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 2: even say how to everybody. Hey everyone, I know we 35 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 2: wanted to start off right up top with like some 36 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 2: hot goss, but uh, how y'all. 37 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: Do Hi guys, Hi people who are white, and people 38 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: who are black, and people who are in interracial relationships. 39 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: Hi Asian folks, Hi people who speak as Spanish. 40 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 3: A little bit of. 41 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 1: People who speak everything everything, every language you speak. 42 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 2: We're here for you, We're here for all of the people. 43 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 2: We we hit all corners of the world. But if 44 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 2: you're still listening to the podcast after several several weeks 45 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 2: of a quarantine, it's black as fuck. 46 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 3: You know we're shifting in another direction. 47 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 1: Now. 48 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,639 Speaker 3: So if we weren't talking about race before. 49 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: We were, we were not die. We've been, we've been, 50 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:38,679 Speaker 1: we've been black, been, we've been black. But now it's 51 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 1: just going to be aggressive. 52 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 2: So we just want to hit you with that up 53 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 2: top of the episode, so you know where we're going 54 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 2: with this because you were. 55 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: Wondering how black it was. Yeah, has Twigs released the 56 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: statement about Black Lives Matter? Because I don't want to 57 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 1: cancel them? 58 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, MARIZI in the Twigs right now, and I don't 59 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 2: feel like they said anything. Yes, good news and Jemima 60 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 2: out the door. We're done unemployed, We're done with it. 61 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 2: Oh Andrew is showing us that twist in fact? 62 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 1: Really okay, fact, I'm gonna keep eating this. Don't it 63 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 1: taste better when it's not racist? Just dipped in justice 64 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: and caramel? Love it? Let me let me see it 65 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 1: on the equality That's what equality tastes like. Huh TwixT 66 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 1: poor no no, no, no, no numb. 67 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 2: So yeah, Angemima, if you didn't know, is uh is 68 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 2: all the way wrong? 69 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 3: It's racist? 70 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: How did people not know that? I remember eating Eggo 71 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: waffles as a kid and putting Andrewmima on them and saying, oh, 72 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: like this bottle is like a I don't think that 73 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: I made the the connection to slavery, but I definitely 74 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 1: felt like she had like a mad thing. Yes, it 75 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 1: was absolutely made. The whole thing, the whole bottle felt wrong, 76 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 1: even the face, the face of it like jolly, like 77 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: when they made it, they gave her pearls, this jolly 78 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: black woman just happy about being syrup. No, I don't, 79 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: I don't know it feel like that is in us 80 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: to just be excited about about high fruit tools. Corns 81 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 1: are not even maple syrup, but like that, And when it. 82 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 2: Was made, it was like it was clear that black 83 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 2: people were obviously working for white people at the time, 84 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 2: So why. 85 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:36,839 Speaker 1: Was she Why is she so happy? Also the two women, 86 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 1: because apparently she's based off two different Yeah, we saw that, 87 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 1: We saw the changes. They never their family has never 88 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: made any money. Of course they did after they died. 89 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 1: They still they still using my aunt's face, my great 90 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: aunt's face, and waste and bea cups because the bottle 91 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 1: I think has some titties right the boom. 92 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:02,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it didn't feel right and just looking at it, 93 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 2: it was sexualized. 94 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:07,559 Speaker 1: It was just wrong. But people are upset. 95 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,799 Speaker 3: They're like, it's oh, you guys have gone too far. 96 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:15,840 Speaker 2: Oh they said, that's missus Butterworth. 97 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:20,039 Speaker 1: Buttersworth had the boobs. Okay, that's worth. 98 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 2: All of the shit is canceled, and we need more 99 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 2: black owned syrup companies, more black own pancake mix So 100 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 2: that's just. 101 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:31,599 Speaker 3: What we're moving in the direction of. 102 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 2: But I was seeing these conversations and people were like, 103 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 2: oh you okay, so what are we just gonna cancel everything? 104 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 1: Yes? Yes, yes. If it is racist, if it is misogynistic, 105 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 1: if it's sexist, if it if a rapist is connected 106 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:48,719 Speaker 1: to it, a pedophile, it's it's done. We can go 107 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: to something else that has nothing to do with all 108 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 1: of that. There's other things out there. Just you. You 109 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: get over. 110 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 3: Why are you so connected to fucking pancakes? 111 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 1: Bitch? That's so like a person's wrong. Andrew, Mama's gone, 112 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 1: what's gonna happen to Uncle Ben? Because he's as well 113 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:07,599 Speaker 1: he was her husband the entire time. 114 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:11,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's actually wearing like a servant's suit, isn't he. 115 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 1: I think he's wearing I see a white collar, so 116 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 1: he the butler? Maybe? 117 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, shit is trash. We can't do nothing. And 118 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 3: it's crazy because it's just like. 119 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 1: You're so obsessed with us, you need us so that 120 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 1: you can make money. Do you hear that you're sick? 121 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 3: Get your own, get your own culture. 122 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: This picture that I'm looking at looks like a woman 123 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 1: in black face. Okay, which one I can send it? 124 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: But it's somebody wrote somebody whose name has the word conservative. 125 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 1: Twitter said, Andrew Mama was Nancy Green. She was an 126 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: American success story. She was born into slavery in eighteen 127 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:02,040 Speaker 1: thirty four in Kentucky and be came a wealthy superstar 128 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: when she was selected as a spokesman in eighteen nineteen 129 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: for Andrebina whatever. And he said, now cry, babies have 130 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: killed her. And then the photo that this person who 131 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 1: is upset about their syrup put looks like a white 132 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: lady in blackface with a scarf holding a stack of pancakes. 133 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: So I'm not really understanding how that helps their argument. 134 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 1: But yes, we are gonna leave no stone unturned. 135 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 2: Especially now because we have the time, eh, since we 136 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 2: have nowhere to be in no place to go. 137 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 1: So let's look at everything, every book that's ever been published, 138 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 1: any the people who work at Apple and made the AirPods, Like, word, 139 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: everything is that racist? No? Well, iPhones can't recognize black 140 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: people's faces, so is that racist? No? Self driving cars 141 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: are hitting black people because they don't recognize our bodies 142 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: when they're driving that. No, everything can be racist, but 143 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 1: nothing should be. 144 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 2: So that's where we are, right, Yeah, and that's and 145 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 2: that's fine, And everybody is doing a lot of work. 146 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 2: They're realizing, Oh wow, the person that I work with 147 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 2: is not only racist, but also is the cousin to 148 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 2: the owner of the company who is also racist. So 149 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 2: this is so generational that I can't even stop being 150 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 2: this person's friend until I quit this fucking job because 151 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 2: the job was built on racism and nepotism. 152 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 1: Nepotism. Mm hmm, it's real. You see how we do 153 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: we hit all of this? Come on, facts, haven't googled 154 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 1: a single thing that we know everything. 155 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 2: We we haven't been able to uh reach any protests 156 00:08:56,120 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 2: yet because I still feel weird about being in that. 157 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 1: Like a group of people like that. It's so many 158 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 1: what you said, we haven't been talking for we oh 159 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 1: you have. Remember they muched by my house and I 160 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 1: jumped in like double dutch. 161 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 2: Unfortunately, they're not protesting in my area. I'm that far 162 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 2: into Brooklyn that they're like protests motests. We're just you know, 163 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 2: our water, our water is barely clean, so we're not 164 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 2: we can't. 165 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 1: Your water is clean. I was going the other day. Oh, 166 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:37,679 Speaker 1: here's an update. I was at the I was at 167 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:41,199 Speaker 1: Kasa to Sydney the other day for self care Monday, 168 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: Sister self care Monday, and I tasted the I tasted the. 169 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 3: Chicken pop pie, the chicken pop pie and cister. 170 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: It was cute from Sikok and it was snaky and 171 00:09:55,640 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 1: it was from Si Can Cook And I was like, wow, flavorful. 172 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 2: I do I have one more piece left, but I'm 173 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 2: pretty proud that the whole thing is almost gone. And 174 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:12,079 Speaker 2: you guys enjoyed it. Carolina loved it. That's when I 175 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:13,559 Speaker 2: knew it was good. When Carolina was. 176 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:16,199 Speaker 1: Like, can I get it? Every week? Carolina on sid 177 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: Can Cook is like it's good. 178 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 2: No, no, But this time she was like, oh, I 179 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:22,559 Speaker 2: need to get some for hammaday for her man. 180 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 3: So she wanted to give him. She wanted to save 181 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 3: him a piece too. 182 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 1: So that's how you but it's good enough that you 183 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:31,560 Speaker 1: would give your man some. That's how you know, I 184 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 1: need to fix my man a plate. This is so good. Okay. 185 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 1: So I saw something on Twitter the other day and 186 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 1: it was these This girl said, when I go to 187 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 1: a family function, I'm the one who fixes my man 188 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 1: a plate, not his mom, not his sisters, not his 189 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 1: aunt me. And people are in the comments, people are 190 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:59,320 Speaker 1: in the comments talking about it. And someone was like, yeah, 191 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:07,880 Speaker 1: but you're a single mother. Though. I love Twitter so much, 192 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 1: you like dragging us for not making the plate for 193 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 1: our men, but you're better than us because you do it. 194 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 1: But where is your man again? Damn Twitter? And it's 195 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 1: funny because all you got to do is click on 196 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:24,960 Speaker 1: the person's profiling. You know everything that you need to 197 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 1: know about them. 198 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 2: Twitter is doing some good work on exposing so many people, 199 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:37,200 Speaker 2: bringing up so many conversations issue it. I mean, they're 200 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 2: just really trying to make sure that this thing is 201 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 2: so layered in terms of conversations and how complicated not 202 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 2: only racism is, but the issues that go inside of the. 203 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 1: Black community as well. And I love that. I love 204 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:54,559 Speaker 1: that for us. 205 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not fixing my partner plate, but you 206 00:11:58,559 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 2: got two arms, Like why. 207 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 1: Do I me? Like? 208 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 2: If if you're like Hey, you're in a conversation and 209 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 2: you're like, ah, could you could you get me some two? 210 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:09,079 Speaker 2: Of course I would do it, But I don't think 211 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 2: it's my job to fix you a plate. 212 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: No. Well, I think maybe it's different for women because 213 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: anybody can do it, but also with a in a 214 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 1: straight relationship, anybody can do. If we're at my mom's house, 215 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 1: then I'm gonna gilt. I'm gonna go into the kitchen 216 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 1: with my mom. My mom's gonna fix the plate anyway. 217 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 1: You're gonna do that by herself. I might, I might 218 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 1: bring it out, but that's my mom's house. If I'm 219 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 1: at his mom's house, I'm not going into his mother's 220 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 1: kitchen to fix him a plate. You should be bringing 221 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 1: me a plate. I'm a guest. 222 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 3: Yes, that's the that's the real truth. You should be 223 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 3: fixing your guest a plate. That's a good host. 224 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah. But because I'm a female and you're a dude, 225 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 1: I gotta get up, gotta, I gotta get up and 226 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 1: put my aprint on and what No, this is not 227 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 1: cater to you. That song has always been problematic to me. 228 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 2: And I was like, I was like, I love you girls, 229 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 2: but I was like, I'm not putting on his T shirt, 230 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:12,559 Speaker 2: I'm not dinner, we're not playing video games. 231 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:13,559 Speaker 1: I couldn't. 232 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:15,959 Speaker 2: I couldn't. It didn't resonate for me because I was like, oh, 233 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 2: I don't like niggas like that, So that that's. 234 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:21,560 Speaker 1: What it was. Just slipper, your dinner, your desert so 235 00:13:21,679 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 1: much more. 236 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 2: You No, girl, It's like, no, sorry, we have to 237 00:13:29,280 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 2: bring that back Destiny's Child. Not only is the group canceled, 238 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 2: but that song is especially canceled, canceled. 239 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 1: It's done, canceled capital T. At the end of that 240 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:40,559 Speaker 1: and other news, did you did you hear about the J. 241 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 1: J Cole beef the J Yes, I saw that. That 242 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 1: was I think also just all of the stuff that 243 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: I was consuming when I was in my my whole 244 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 1: of ignoring everybody, do not disturb us. Yes, it's like, okay, 245 00:13:56,960 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 1: so explain what j Cole did for the people who 246 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 1: maybe are not with her friend. 247 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:04,680 Speaker 2: So you know, he's like heavily into the protests and 248 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:08,560 Speaker 2: black Lives Matter, et cetera, et cetera. He's he's there. 249 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 2: I mean a lot of people listen to what he 250 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 2: has to say. He always speaks out about things. He 251 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 2: uses his platform to talk and we love that for him. 252 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 2: But he did a song called Snow in the Bluff 253 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 2: or something like that, and basically he was just discussing 254 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 2: everything that's going on currently with you know, police brutality. 255 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 2: But he was also it felt like he was insinuating 256 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 2: a dig towards no name, who is a lady rapper 257 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 2: who is incredible. She's very educated music, very very educated. 258 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 2: She has her own book club. She stopped performing because 259 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 2: she didn't want white people to have the access of 260 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 2: to come to her shows. 261 00:14:57,200 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 3: That's how real she is in this. 262 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 1: You know. Well, I mean also, we're in the middle 263 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 1: of a pandemic, so what concerts did no. 264 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 2: But no, But before that, before that was like months 265 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 2: and months and months that she was just like I'm done. Okay, 266 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 2: it's called Snow on the Bluff. So he did this 267 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 2: and he dropped it the other day, and it's like, 268 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 2: why are we dropping music right now? 269 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 3: We need to stick We need to stay focused, stay focused. 270 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 1: What are we doing right now? 271 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 2: We're trying to comeback racism. Throw these dirty ass police 272 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 2: in in jail. They need to be arrested, and just 273 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 2: like keep it moving. We I don't really need to 274 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 2: hear your take on anything unless it's like. 275 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 1: We're fixing the problem. Well people, Okay, so he didn't 276 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 1: say her name, No, he didn't dropped, but he essentially 277 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 1: was like in the song, he like praises her for 278 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 1: being so woke and well read and knowing so much, 279 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 1: and then he like, I don't know necessarily if he 280 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 1: drags her because I read the lyrics, and it was like, 281 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: he was like, you have to educate people who don't 282 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 1: know as much as you, right, And it's not a 283 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 1: black woman's job to educate people who don't know as 284 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 1: much as you. He has access to the same books 285 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 1: that she has. He has nothing but time to read 286 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 1: said books. So that's what people were saying on one side. 287 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 1: On the other side, mainly black men, were like, well, 288 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: if he doesn't know, he's asking her to help him know. 289 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 1: And it's like what. 290 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 2: It's basically like, Oh, since you have all this information, 291 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 2: can you tell us? But also can you tell us 292 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 2: in a way that's not mean? Can you like watch 293 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 2: your tone the way the way you give this information. 294 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 2: And it's like, oh, oh, I'm so sorry, sir. Not 295 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 2: only do you know we're getting beat, we're getting killed, 296 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 2: we're getting raped. So not only we have to take 297 00:16:58,240 --> 00:17:00,280 Speaker 2: on that on our shoulders, but then we have to 298 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 2: consume all this information to educate ourselves and our children. 299 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 2: And then by that, we have to then take all 300 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 2: of that angst and then put it in a nice 301 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:12,680 Speaker 2: basket and pass it to you. 302 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:15,480 Speaker 1: We gotta, we gotta take We gotta learn all of 303 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:17,880 Speaker 1: the stuff that we did not learn in school about 304 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 1: how nasty this country's history actually is. Right, we gotta 305 00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:25,879 Speaker 1: chew up that nasty history, and then we gotta spit 306 00:17:25,960 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 1: it in these men's mouths so that they can they 307 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 1: can digest it better. No, absolutely not. And I like 308 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:39,159 Speaker 1: j Cole, I like him, I like no name, But like, 309 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 1: how dare you tell anybody right now to check their tone, sir, 310 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:49,120 Speaker 1: least of all a black woman check your tone? No, 311 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 1: I'm like angry and I'm overwhelmed, and I'm sad, and 312 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:56,240 Speaker 1: I've been locked in my house for three months and 313 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,880 Speaker 1: I can't create my art because I can't sleep at night. 314 00:17:58,920 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: Like shut up. 315 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:04,360 Speaker 2: But also, but also I was going to say about 316 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:07,160 Speaker 2: tone with people. Don't understand when you're telling a black 317 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:11,119 Speaker 2: woman to check her tone, it's demeaning. It's not coming 318 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:15,159 Speaker 2: from a place of like, oh, what you're saying. I 319 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 2: don't like the way you're saying. It's like, no, you 320 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:20,120 Speaker 2: don't have the right to talk to me like this. Meanwhile, 321 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 2: they go to their jobs and white men talk to 322 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 2: them any kind of way. The execs, ye, the lawyers, 323 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 2: they're handling everything. They don't even think you're supposed to speak. 324 00:18:30,040 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 2: So when you're saying to a black woman, check how 325 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,400 Speaker 2: you speak to me or how you talk, it's not 326 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:39,680 Speaker 2: in a way that's productive. It's pushing us down. It's 327 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 2: actually silencing us. It's not only check your tone, but 328 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 2: you really even shouldn't be speaking to me. So that's 329 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:47,880 Speaker 2: why I have a problem when you address a black 330 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 2: woman's tone, because it's it's not coming from a good place. 331 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 2: So wait, here's the lyrics that he was saying. He said, 332 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 2: and the frustration that feels her words seems to come 333 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 2: from the fact that most people don't see just because 334 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:03,919 Speaker 2: you woke and I'm not that shit, ain't no reason 335 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:05,280 Speaker 2: to talk like you better than me. 336 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:06,119 Speaker 1: I'm not. 337 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 2: She was not saying that she's better than anybody. It's 338 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 2: just like she has this book club. She has all 339 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:15,720 Speaker 2: the same access to the information like y'all you. 340 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 1: Should do so he made he made a whole song 341 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:19,880 Speaker 1: based on a tweet that she does. 342 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, get all g o t Her tweet was 343 00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 2: basically like, you're you're you're a rapper and all of 344 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:32,200 Speaker 2: your music is basically about the plight of. 345 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 1: Being a black man or being black in America. 346 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 2: But you can't put on your platforms, you can't tweet 347 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:44,880 Speaker 2: anything like acknowledging what's going on, and it's it's not helpful. 348 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:48,480 Speaker 2: That's what she was saying, which I mean, you know, 349 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 2: some of these uh rappers or entertainers, they shouldn't be 350 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:56,080 Speaker 2: allowed to tweet or use their social media. Beyonce's like, yeah, 351 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:58,360 Speaker 2: I'm no good at this, so somebody else take this over. 352 00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 2: And honestly, a lot of them, a lot of them 353 00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:04,479 Speaker 2: need that. But she was just saying that. It was like, 354 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:08,480 Speaker 2: it's your not that it's your duty, But why are 355 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 2: you so afraid you speak out about everything else on 356 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 2: your platform? 357 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 1: Why not? Why not this what you're talking about? 358 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:20,159 Speaker 3: What she said, Yeah, that's what I was interpreting her tweet. 359 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 1: Her tweet, the tweet that she the tweet that launched 360 00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 1: launched a thousand mixtapes. Her tweet says, poor black folks 361 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:32,159 Speaker 1: all over the country are putting her bodies on the 362 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:36,160 Speaker 1: line in protests for our collective safety and y'all favorite 363 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:39,199 Speaker 1: top selling rappers not even willing to put a tweet up. 364 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 1: Nigga's whole discographies be about black plight and they are 365 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:47,680 Speaker 1: nowhere to be found. And I mean, I don't see 366 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:52,159 Speaker 1: her saying Jake Cole anywhere in this. She's talking about 367 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:55,680 Speaker 1: multiple rappers here that haven't spoke up or haven't shown 368 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 1: up anywhere. And Jake Cole took that tweet and was like, 369 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:03,919 Speaker 1: don't don't you dare take that tone with me. Mind you, 370 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:05,920 Speaker 1: he's been at some of the protests. I've seen the photos. 371 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:08,879 Speaker 3: Okay, he wrote hit it. 372 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:11,640 Speaker 2: This is also on the song hit the Ghetto and 373 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 2: slowly start planting your seeds. Fuck, is the point of 374 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 2: you preaching your message to those that already believe what 375 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 2: you believe? I'm on some fuck or retweet most people 376 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:25,680 Speaker 2: is sheep. You got all the answers, but how you're 377 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:29,640 Speaker 2: going to reach If I could make one more suggestion, respectfully, 378 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:32,880 Speaker 2: I would say it's more effective to treat people like children, 379 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 2: understanding the time and love and patience that's needed to grow. 380 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:40,360 Speaker 2: This change is inevitable, but ain't no one of us 381 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:43,920 Speaker 2: seen this before. Therefore, we got to learn everything as 382 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 2: we go. I struggle with thoughts on the on the daily. 383 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:52,440 Speaker 2: But it's like, what, I gotta treat people like children? 384 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 1: Nik at you thirty five? What do you what? 385 00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:59,400 Speaker 2: And then he did this whole apology where he's like, well, 386 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:00,400 Speaker 2: I don't really read. 387 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 1: I just think a lot. What, Oh my god, can 388 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 1: you can't. I'm telling me to check my tone. You're 389 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 1: telling me to check my tone, and you're telling me 390 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:13,879 Speaker 1: that you don't really read, but you're telling me to 391 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:18,119 Speaker 1: treat you like a kid. I don't know. It's all dumb. 392 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 1: The tweet, the fact that he felt like the tweet 393 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 1: was about him mean something. But also the fact that 394 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,120 Speaker 1: she had to put the tweet up in the first 395 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 1: place also mean something else. So you know, everybody's bored 396 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 1: and everybody's angry. So this is just to keep happening 397 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:36,719 Speaker 1: until they let us back outside. 398 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,440 Speaker 2: We gotta stay on, we gotta stay focused though, That's 399 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:41,879 Speaker 2: what I think. It's like, we're having so many discussions 400 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 2: about everything, and then like people are getting to see 401 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 2: the inside of the conversations that you know, black people 402 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,399 Speaker 2: are having within our community. I mean the fact that 403 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 2: they don't believe that it's okay to say trans black 404 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:55,960 Speaker 2: trans lives matter. 405 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:57,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's another. 406 00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 2: Not only does black lives matter, but black t's lives 407 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 2: matter because they are out there getting slaughtered as well 408 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:08,239 Speaker 2: and not even reported. So the fact that like, well, 409 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 2: why do we have to like separate it is because, yeah, 410 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 2: because you're not even acknowledging that you. 411 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:15,560 Speaker 3: Don't even think we should discuss this. 412 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,159 Speaker 1: So I mean, I definitely think that conversations need to 413 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 1: be happening right now. Yeah, but everything should be like 414 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 1: everything is open I think for discussion right now. 415 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is right, But it's just it's just hard 416 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 2: because then you see, not only are black women mistreated 417 00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:37,159 Speaker 2: in the world, but then we have the men that 418 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 2: are supposed to be by our side trashing us as well. 419 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 3: So it's just it's just sad. It's sad to see. 420 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:49,680 Speaker 2: It's sad that we are not supported enough, even even 421 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 2: on our home team. You know, yes, did you see 422 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:54,879 Speaker 2: the video of the guys that put the girl in 423 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:58,679 Speaker 2: the dumpster? Oh my god, it's like this why you 424 00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:00,040 Speaker 2: can't this is why you got to put this so 425 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 2: for media down because every time we open it, it's 426 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 2: like people wake up chew on a bullet and then 427 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:11,399 Speaker 2: start tweeting and typing and putting out trash. 428 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,879 Speaker 3: It's just we're consuming too much. 429 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:18,919 Speaker 1: It's hurtful. You gotta you gotta protect your mental space. 430 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 1: Like social media is so loud and so distracting and 431 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:30,359 Speaker 1: so toxic sometimes that you just got to put your 432 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:33,400 Speaker 1: phone down. But this is where we get the information though, Yeah, 433 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:36,480 Speaker 1: but all the information doesn't need to come from We 434 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,680 Speaker 1: don't need all the information at the same time, right, right, 435 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:42,200 Speaker 1: Some days it's ignorance is bliss. Yes, some days it's 436 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:45,080 Speaker 1: okay to be like, I'm not consuming in news today. 437 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,480 Speaker 1: I'm a I'm ana burn some sage, I'm a smoke 438 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 1: of blunt, I'm gonna masturbate, I'm gonna not call my 439 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,000 Speaker 1: mom back. Like some days it's okay to just like, 440 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 1: we don't have to be so plugged in. We've been 441 00:24:56,320 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 1: plugged into our screens for I don't know how many 442 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:04,520 Speaker 1: things now, ninety seven days straight or whatever the day is. 443 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 1: It's definitely not go for our eyes, it's not go 444 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,240 Speaker 1: for our minds. It's probably not go for our posture. 445 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:11,920 Speaker 1: A lot of people look at their phones with like, 446 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:17,359 Speaker 1: you know, osteoporosis. Man, they got mister Burns vibes, they 447 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:23,919 Speaker 1: got the quasi motive pose. So we it's just sometimes 448 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 1: you just gotta step away. Yes, you gotta plug it 449 00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 1: in and plug it out. That's what you gotta do. 450 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,640 Speaker 1: You gotta unplug your phone and plug in your vibrator. 451 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 1: Either way, you you have to distract yourself, like paint 452 00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:42,359 Speaker 1: or read, or watch a silly kids program or a 453 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:45,120 Speaker 1: movie that you really like or I don't know. 454 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 3: Have cat. 455 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 2: I have cats, So I spent a lot of time 456 00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:53,240 Speaker 2: talking about these fucking cats, which I would like to 457 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:57,679 Speaker 2: say I had to reach back out to my beige 458 00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 2: allies because they care about the cats. But my brown 459 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 2: friends are like, get that fucking cat off the screen. 460 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 2: So it's very troubling. But you know, you guys, as 461 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,639 Speaker 2: some of you know, I have the cats, Jelly and Jam. 462 00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:13,399 Speaker 2: I have full custody of these niggas, and wow, you 463 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 2: know I won them in the breakup. I wouldn't say 464 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:18,800 Speaker 2: I won them or you lost them. It seems like 465 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:21,440 Speaker 2: I at first it was like I'm not in a 466 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:25,119 Speaker 2: place to take the children and then Adrian was like, 467 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,239 Speaker 2: you're gonna fucking take these kids or I'm giving them 468 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:30,919 Speaker 2: someone else. And my ego was like, you will not 469 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 2: give away our cats, because there are cats. I knew 470 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,119 Speaker 2: them when they were kittens. And then basically she was 471 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 2: talking to me as if I couldn't keep these cats alive. 472 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 1: So this is a bet, truly, this is a bet. 473 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:44,640 Speaker 2: I have these cats not because I fuck with cats, 474 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,920 Speaker 2: but because it's like, I'm going to prove that these 475 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 2: cats are going to live, and they're gonna be happy 476 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 2: and jolly, and they're gonna be in all of my 477 00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:59,520 Speaker 2: photos and I'm gonna be a hot cat lady. 478 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:03,600 Speaker 1: That sounds like an axe, a hot cat lady. 479 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:08,359 Speaker 3: Yes, come here, jam come on AnyWho. 480 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:11,359 Speaker 2: So I have the cats now, and they definitely have 481 00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:15,399 Speaker 2: helped me just settle in a little bit more. I 482 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 2: got my cards read, and the Tarot person was just like, 483 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:25,439 Speaker 2: you know, you're not ready for romance right now. You 484 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 2: should focus on your career. But also, these cats came 485 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 2: into your life at a certain time so that you 486 00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:35,040 Speaker 2: can focus your love on them, and then whatever love 487 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 2: that you're putting into them, you'll eventually be able to 488 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,440 Speaker 2: put out for someone else. 489 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:44,119 Speaker 1: They said, you don't have you, you don't have the 490 00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 1: capacity right now, but one day you will. Yes. Yeah, 491 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 1: you were like that, I'm adopted both of these cats, Jim. 492 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:56,520 Speaker 1: I hear him. Yeah, uh yeah. 493 00:27:56,560 --> 00:28:00,080 Speaker 2: So I you know, I was upset that there's a 494 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:01,040 Speaker 2: romance in my cards. 495 00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,960 Speaker 1: I was like, this is fucking wrong, this is hurtful. 496 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 3: What do you mean there's some fucking romance in my 497 00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 3: in my cards. 498 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,399 Speaker 2: They're like, well, you came here two months ago and 499 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,639 Speaker 2: I told you the cards said that there was no 500 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:15,560 Speaker 2: love in your life right now, and you came back 501 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,320 Speaker 2: two months later and it's the same thing. And I 502 00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:20,119 Speaker 2: was like, it's the same cards. It was truly pretty 503 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 2: much the same cards. And I was like, did you 504 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:22,760 Speaker 2: shuffle the ship? 505 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,159 Speaker 1: Yeah? You were like, well, what, let me watch you 506 00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 1: shut Yeah. Yeah. You're like, I'm gonna go buy some 507 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 1: cards from Amazon, send them to your house, and then 508 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 1: I want you to shuffle those and tell me what 509 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:37,920 Speaker 1: it says and then the cards. Yeah. Yeah, it was. 510 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:44,640 Speaker 2: It hurt because I was like, am I really ready 511 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 2: for a relationship right now? 512 00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:47,200 Speaker 1: Absolutely not. 513 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 2: I'm still working on myself from the last thing. But 514 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,000 Speaker 2: being quarantine, You're like, I think I want stuff that 515 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,200 Speaker 2: I probably don't need right now, you know. 516 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:01,040 Speaker 1: Oh, that's what that's all. This is everybody looking at 517 00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,360 Speaker 1: stuff that they don't that they want, that we none 518 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 1: of us need the stuff that we've been ordering. My 519 00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:08,520 Speaker 1: purchase that I know, there's a lot of things that 520 00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:11,800 Speaker 1: I have that I need, but sure, sure, but a 521 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,840 Speaker 1: lot of stuff also. You're like, like, yesterday, it was 522 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,280 Speaker 1: two o'clock in the morning and I was like, I 523 00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:21,720 Speaker 1: should get rose petals to wrap my weed in so 524 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 1: when I smoke it tasts like roses instead of weed paper. 525 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 1: And I googled because I feel like I've had this before. 526 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 1: I read that's how you know your ass need to 527 00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 1: go to sleep? Friends. I was like, I was like, okay, 528 00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:37,920 Speaker 1: but can I just get roses and do it? But 529 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:40,720 Speaker 1: I need big enough roses. It was since two o'clock. 530 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: Did you buy them? I did not, because I feel 531 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:47,080 Speaker 1: like I don't know how like a rose petal is small? 532 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:51,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, and how are they getting these big as rose petals? 533 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:54,840 Speaker 1: Well, I read I stopped myself from watching the tutorial, 534 00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 1: but I read a description on how to do it. 535 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 1: You're supposed to put like three pedals together. Oh, and 536 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 1: you have to bake them for ten seconds to dry them, 537 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:06,840 Speaker 1: and then you bake them again and you let them 538 00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:08,880 Speaker 1: sit and they're supposed to like dry out a little 539 00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,920 Speaker 1: bit because you can't smoke. You can't smoke. We would 540 00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 1: win pitle, No, not at all, that's anyway. That's what 541 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 1: I did last night, and I did not get them, 542 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:21,600 Speaker 1: but but I will. I will. Yeah. We were talking 543 00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 1: about your cards and things like that. I want to 544 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:28,440 Speaker 1: read my horoscope for okay, because everybody on Instagram told 545 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:30,200 Speaker 1: me to download the co Star app. 546 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:32,400 Speaker 2: Yeah I have it now I did, and okay, fab 547 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:33,680 Speaker 2: so I'll read mine and then you can read your. 548 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 1: Yeah cool. Uh. It says today, stay flexible to catastrophe. Okay, 549 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 1: that's term. Yeah, you're so busy controlling your emotions you 550 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,760 Speaker 1: can't see that it's blocking your own wisdom. Oh gee, 551 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 1: get out of bed. Even if it feels impossible. There's 552 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 1: no reason to hide who you are. The mysterious spectacle 553 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 1: is pointless. Show your complexity. Oh okay, okay. Your main 554 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,000 Speaker 1: challenge right now is to expel yourself to the truths 555 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,000 Speaker 1: there never you've never been willing to see, and to 556 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,320 Speaker 1: free yourself of secrets that pretend to prevent you from 557 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 1: growing practice saying no, I mean, I don't know when 558 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 1: you really say yes. You gotta do is say you 559 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 1: and no one else are responsible for your life's direction. Okay, 560 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:29,000 Speaker 1: where do you find that updates? So if yes, click 561 00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 1: updates and then it shall be like a chunk of 562 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 1: you see all updates. 563 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:37,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, where it says today in this power the success. 564 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:44,280 Speaker 2: Yeah that's where. Okay, So read the Okay, so you 565 00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:46,200 Speaker 2: see this pade right here? Does yours look like that 566 00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:47,600 Speaker 2: with the date? 567 00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:50,080 Speaker 1: Okay? So I read the very top line where it 568 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:53,160 Speaker 1: says today flexible, and then I read like a couple 569 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:54,080 Speaker 1: of the sciences. 570 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:59,760 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, So mine says you have to be tech. 571 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 1: Sorry, you have to be taxed hips. Okay, are we there? Okay? 572 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,080 Speaker 2: You have to be tactful when you're bored and ready 573 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,800 Speaker 2: for change. You don't have to punish yourself for wanting 574 00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:15,040 Speaker 2: to experience life with your friends, but you do have 575 00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:19,400 Speaker 2: to be intentional about it. Pay attention to what annoys 576 00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:23,520 Speaker 2: you about. Shallow interactions. Loneliness is a result of an 577 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 2: inability to communicate how you really feel. 578 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 1: You can't be seen by another. 579 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:35,360 Speaker 3: True, Oh, drag the fuck out of me. 580 00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:40,120 Speaker 1: Coach. Hey, we're talking about new relationships, damn bitch. 581 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,400 Speaker 2: The general theme of your life during this period is 582 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:48,240 Speaker 2: to evaluate the role spirituality plays in your life. The past. 583 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,520 Speaker 2: The past is a snare. The future doesn't care. 584 00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:55,480 Speaker 1: God, damn self respect. 585 00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:59,600 Speaker 2: It says, every human's head is a house of worship. 586 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,880 Speaker 2: You process trauma through your consciousness. If you can figure 587 00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:07,360 Speaker 2: out how to align your actions and your emotions. 588 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:16,760 Speaker 1: Shit, this is crazy. M m mm hmmmm. So a 589 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:18,360 Speaker 1: couple things to work on here. 590 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I do feel like I I'm hit. 591 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 3: I'm hitting that lonely part. 592 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:29,160 Speaker 2: And you know, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna touch 593 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,520 Speaker 2: on everything that happened during the quarantine, but I just 594 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:36,320 Speaker 2: feel like I was looking for something or just engaging 595 00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:37,200 Speaker 2: in things. 596 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:40,640 Speaker 3: That I thought like, oh this is this is dope. 597 00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,320 Speaker 1: But it could have just been like I'm passing the time. 598 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 1: But you just you don't know right now. And so yeah, 599 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,680 Speaker 1: I think we're in the time right now where things 600 00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,960 Speaker 1: seem attractive to us that if we had free will 601 00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 1: and freedom, we wouldn't even be looking at thinking about Yeah, 602 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:03,800 Speaker 1: but now we're hyper aware of things that you're your 603 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:07,640 Speaker 1: fat ass cat jams here now we're hyper aware of 604 00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:13,520 Speaker 1: stuff that like wouldn't even be on the radar. Sidney, 605 00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:15,840 Speaker 1: how much does your catwig? I don't know, but he 606 00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:17,919 Speaker 1: is a big one. He's a big guy. He eats 607 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,000 Speaker 1: a lot, and he eats his sister food too, because 608 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,400 Speaker 1: he's he's gluttonous. But he deserves it. 609 00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:24,239 Speaker 3: He's been through a lot. I mean, he peed on 610 00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:25,000 Speaker 3: my bed, So what. 611 00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:26,960 Speaker 1: Do you want? He's the one who peeed on your bed, 612 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,719 Speaker 1: not the other one. I don't know. 613 00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:30,280 Speaker 3: I keep saying, I don't. 614 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:33,840 Speaker 1: Think it was him. I think it was her. You 615 00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 1: might be right, Yeah, Cidy's cat, Sidney's cat pet. Yeah, 616 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 1: I think we said that the last episode. But everything 617 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:43,719 Speaker 1: is all blur is a blur. Sidney thoughts she peed 618 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:45,280 Speaker 1: on herself, but the cat pew don't. 619 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:49,960 Speaker 3: It's been a tough time. 620 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:55,759 Speaker 1: It's been a tough imagine that feeling, though, Like I mean, 621 00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:57,600 Speaker 1: because I can't remember the last time I peede on myself. 622 00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:02,560 Speaker 1: I'm a grown up. But we've we've had those dreams 623 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:07,040 Speaker 1: where you think that you're in a pool, or you 624 00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:10,719 Speaker 1: think that you're peeing on a toilet, and then you 625 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:14,560 Speaker 1: wake up there's pee all over your casper mattress. 626 00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:18,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then and then I was like, I was like, 627 00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:22,520 Speaker 2: damn I did. I was dreaming that I peed on 628 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:25,279 Speaker 2: myself but it wasn't. And then it smelled really bad, 629 00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:26,799 Speaker 2: and I was like, I know I don't drink enough water, 630 00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 2: but this is stack, like, this can't be my pee 631 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:33,240 Speaker 2: and it was. It was the cat's peece so whatever, 632 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:33,600 Speaker 2: it's wrong. 633 00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:35,719 Speaker 1: So we're blaming the cats. But it could have been 634 00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:39,759 Speaker 1: it could I do dream it's a sixty? No, it 635 00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:40,360 Speaker 1: was the cats. 636 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:45,200 Speaker 2: But yeah, this this whole quarantine put me in a 637 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:49,799 Speaker 2: in a weird, weird place, and I thought like, oh, 638 00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 2: I'm finally getting my life together, Like yeah, I could 639 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:57,399 Speaker 2: totally date right now. And at the end of the day, 640 00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 2: it's like, no, you still have so much work to 641 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:01,080 Speaker 2: do on yourself. 642 00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:04,080 Speaker 1: Friend, you can't. I don't want to work on myself 643 00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,759 Speaker 1: no more. I'm done working on myself. This is I'm 644 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:11,040 Speaker 1: not I'm closed for no more repairs, no more renovations. 645 00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:12,319 Speaker 1: I'm ready to phase one. 646 00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:16,719 Speaker 2: Like what, We're in the second leg of a Sydney 647 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,680 Speaker 2: work in progress and it is exhausting. 648 00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 1: I am through and through. Is this the second leg? 649 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:24,360 Speaker 1: What was the first leg? 650 00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,600 Speaker 2: The first leg was my whole relationship with Adrian. That 651 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:30,399 Speaker 2: was That was the first It was the first leg 652 00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:34,360 Speaker 2: of I have to work on myself while I was 653 00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:36,359 Speaker 2: with somebody else, And now I'm not in that, and 654 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:39,080 Speaker 2: it's like, okay, you gotta be by yourself to work 655 00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 2: on yourself. You realize being with somebody else you want 656 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,399 Speaker 2: somebody else's time when you're working on yourself. So now 657 00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:46,439 Speaker 2: you're by yourself, It's okay because this is your time 658 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 2: and you're not wasting nobody else's time. So what was 659 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,799 Speaker 2: he presses the original Cardi b in terms of the 660 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:57,680 Speaker 2: way that she talks. 661 00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,280 Speaker 1: Well do that. No she didn't, But I'm just saying, 662 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:06,320 Speaker 1: but yeah, and so so you gotta be by yourself 663 00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,040 Speaker 1: to work on yourself. I think that sounds I'm gonna 664 00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,640 Speaker 1: play Devil's Advocate right here. I know that's the whitest 665 00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:13,239 Speaker 1: thing I've ever said. I'm gonna go ahead and play 666 00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 1: Devil's as well. Actually well actually it's all of the lives, 667 00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:22,000 Speaker 1: not just the black ones. But I damn I forgot 668 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:23,600 Speaker 1: what I was gonna say. Wow, that's what I get. 669 00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:25,839 Speaker 2: You were gonna play Devil's Advocate? Was you gotta work 670 00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:27,880 Speaker 2: on yourself to be your be with yourself. 671 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:33,320 Speaker 1: You be yourself, yeah, but sometimes you need you Sometimes 672 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,440 Speaker 1: I think I can see you being with somebody and 673 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:39,440 Speaker 1: working on yourself, because sometimes you need somebody to point 674 00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:43,960 Speaker 1: out your flaws. Sometimes you need somebody to be like, actually, 675 00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:46,960 Speaker 1: you did that wrong. That wrong, You need to work 676 00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:52,360 Speaker 1: on that. Okay. So maybe yes, that's me being right there. Sure, 677 00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:55,840 Speaker 1: I don't know what's it meant. I've been by myself. 678 00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:58,239 Speaker 1: I've been single for a long time. You haven't You 679 00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:01,239 Speaker 1: really think that I've been working all my self. I 680 00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:04,640 Speaker 1: think you have. You have Marie, you like yes, but 681 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:08,560 Speaker 1: that's through my friendship. Like being friends with somebody as 682 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:13,040 Speaker 1: open and like compassionate as you. It like forces because 683 00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:16,759 Speaker 1: sometimes you're so happy when I see you, it makes 684 00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,279 Speaker 1: me mad. Really, you're in such a good mood that 685 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 1: it makes me. It puts me in a bad mood. 686 00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:25,720 Speaker 1: You're like hi, and I'm like, like, I don't know why, Sydney, 687 00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,200 Speaker 1: I have not done the work to check on myself. 688 00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:32,200 Speaker 2: Right, But I want to tell you when i'm when 689 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:35,440 Speaker 2: you see me, and I'm happy, I'm happy because I 690 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:39,560 Speaker 2: see you, like I'm dead ass serious like you. You 691 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:43,320 Speaker 2: make me happy sometimes just seeing you, it's like, yay, friend, 692 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 2: I know we're gonna have a good time. 693 00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:50,040 Speaker 1: But the end of the thought, and we we we 694 00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,000 Speaker 1: usually do have a good Yeah. Nine times out of 695 00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:54,560 Speaker 1: ten we're having a ball, Yeah a blast. That tenth 696 00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:58,280 Speaker 1: time it's you know, we got to take a break. Yes, yes, yes, 697 00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:05,240 Speaker 1: but yes. But I'm saying, through my friendships with people, 698 00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:09,759 Speaker 1: that's what's making me like be a better person or like, 699 00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:13,920 Speaker 1: because sometimes in those moments when I'm angry at other 700 00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:17,520 Speaker 1: people being like very happy, like, I'll stop and be like, 701 00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:20,480 Speaker 1: but why am I so mad? Like why am I 702 00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:24,080 Speaker 1: so grumpy? Like it's but it's like my dad is 703 00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:27,879 Speaker 1: a grumpy person. My dad is always grumpy. He's never 704 00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:31,759 Speaker 1: happy about anything. And my mom is somebody who is 705 00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,600 Speaker 1: like a really big personality, and she's the one that 706 00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:36,400 Speaker 1: I think I'm most of them like, but but my 707 00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,760 Speaker 1: mom is also when my mother is in a bad mood, 708 00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:44,320 Speaker 1: the whole house is in a bad mood. So I 709 00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:50,440 Speaker 1: don't know, you know, And this is me just talking, 710 00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:54,680 Speaker 1: this is me running my mouth, But I'm saying that 711 00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:57,920 Speaker 1: you can work. You can work on you when you 712 00:39:58,000 --> 00:39:59,680 Speaker 1: when you hear that, when I hear that, That doesn't 713 00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 1: mean you to be completely alone to work on yourself. 714 00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:05,280 Speaker 1: You can be around people that know you the best 715 00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:07,520 Speaker 1: and it forces you to work on yourself. Yeah, and 716 00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:08,680 Speaker 1: I do that with my friends. 717 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:13,040 Speaker 2: But I really think that because I wasn't able to 718 00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:17,279 Speaker 2: give a lot in my last relationship, I'm at that 719 00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:20,480 Speaker 2: point where I'm like, oh, I do kind of want 720 00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:25,680 Speaker 2: to share my growth right now. But it's like, bitch, 721 00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 2: you just got here, Like calm down, Like I'm already 722 00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:33,640 Speaker 2: ready to go to the consignment shop and turn some things. 723 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:37,439 Speaker 3: And it's like no, no, no, no, no, no, hold on, hold. 724 00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,440 Speaker 2: Up, It's okay, Like I have a lot to give 725 00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:42,839 Speaker 2: right now, but it's like, just give to yourself. Why 726 00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,160 Speaker 2: do you want to give to somebody else right now? 727 00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:46,120 Speaker 2: You don't have it? 728 00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:52,200 Speaker 1: I know. But sometimes being in your own heads is worse. 729 00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,719 Speaker 1: That's what it is than anything else. That's what it is. 730 00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:56,759 Speaker 2: Friend, I'm in my We have so much time to 731 00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:59,520 Speaker 2: be in my in my head, and we're usually so 732 00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:01,640 Speaker 2: busy that we don't have no time. 733 00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:06,160 Speaker 1: You're at my head, your head, Amina's head, everybody who's 734 00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:09,040 Speaker 1: listening to this right now. Our thoughts are the loudest 735 00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:12,839 Speaker 1: things in our lives right now. It's so loud, too much. 736 00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:15,319 Speaker 1: Turn the volume down. I don't want to. I don't 737 00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:18,200 Speaker 1: want to think about any of the things that I'm 738 00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:18,800 Speaker 1: thinking about. 739 00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:20,840 Speaker 3: Mute the thoughts. The thoughts need to be muted. 740 00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:24,080 Speaker 1: Turn it off. Also, my period is starting probably tomorrow, 741 00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:26,840 Speaker 1: so also that that's the police and my period. 742 00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:31,720 Speaker 3: Yes, throw them both in jail. Fuck, lock them up. Yeah, 743 00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:33,399 Speaker 3: it's like, why are they both coming out? 744 00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:37,600 Speaker 1: It's not right? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I almost cried at 745 00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:41,239 Speaker 1: the laundromat today. Are you serious? I just it's a 746 00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:42,000 Speaker 1: lot of friends. 747 00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:43,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, But. 748 00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:47,000 Speaker 1: I find solace in the fact that my period is 749 00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:48,759 Speaker 1: starting in twenty four hours, and that's what it is. 750 00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:50,880 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not going crazy. I'm not going crazy. 751 00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,400 Speaker 1: I'm just about to start pleading for so many days. 752 00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:54,440 Speaker 3: When the last time you cried? 753 00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:58,200 Speaker 1: Also that I don't remember. 754 00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:02,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying. I'm I'm literally never there when you cry. 755 00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:05,759 Speaker 2: So I don't know, but I feel like it's been 756 00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:06,240 Speaker 2: a minute. 757 00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:09,200 Speaker 1: You don't cry. It has been it has been a minute. 758 00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:13,440 Speaker 1: But like nobody likes crying. You get it out, get 759 00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:17,560 Speaker 1: what out whatever that it ever built up emotions you're 760 00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:22,319 Speaker 1: you have inside you gotta gotta release it, but you're 761 00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:28,840 Speaker 1: releasing it some other guy away the liquids, so instead 762 00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,839 Speaker 1: of you know, doing what you do. That's how I cry, 763 00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:39,400 Speaker 1: you scuirll out my coops. Maybe that's the correlationsist. People 764 00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,560 Speaker 1: who cry less squirk. 765 00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,279 Speaker 3: More, cry less squirt more. 766 00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:50,640 Speaker 1: That's the title, guys, less squirt more. That's it. Merch, 767 00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:57,520 Speaker 1: That is it. I love the baby. Oh my god, 768 00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,960 Speaker 1: cry less squirrere. 769 00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:01,879 Speaker 3: Can we make shirts of that? 770 00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:06,160 Speaker 1: We gotta do merch again, Babe, We got to do it, Babe, 771 00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:10,399 Speaker 1: bab Babe City. When are you coming over to do 772 00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:14,399 Speaker 1: the patroon episodes? We got a lot of new patrons, Yes, 773 00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:17,520 Speaker 1: people are. I sent out some messages to some of 774 00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:20,840 Speaker 1: the new people the other day and people are like, 775 00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:24,080 Speaker 1: you're getting me through the quarantine and like eating and 776 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:26,359 Speaker 1: prying and hoeing. I hope I'll not be in host 777 00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:27,200 Speaker 1: during the quarantine. 778 00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:28,879 Speaker 2: You want me to you want me to come over early. 779 00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:30,839 Speaker 2: I could come over early. We bang it out, maybe 780 00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:32,279 Speaker 2: make you breakfast or something like that. 781 00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:37,239 Speaker 1: Bang it out? Okay, pancakes, you make toaster strudle for 782 00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:38,640 Speaker 1: me again? No, no, no, we did. 783 00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:41,880 Speaker 2: We did a zoom show which was so cute. It 784 00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:45,239 Speaker 2: was actually like the cooking with SNM was great. You 785 00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:49,839 Speaker 2: make cupcakes and I made breakfast and I made pancakes 786 00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:51,280 Speaker 2: and bacon. 787 00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:54,680 Speaker 1: And eggs, and it was did you make eggs? I 788 00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:56,719 Speaker 1: made the eggs after when we were on the home. 789 00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:59,320 Speaker 1: But I can I can do all that for you tomorrow. 790 00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:04,279 Speaker 1: I can come over since I don't I don't know 791 00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:06,840 Speaker 1: if early works for me tomorrow. Also, I'm going to 792 00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:11,759 Speaker 1: pick up my sister's cat tomorrow at noon. At noon, yeah, 793 00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:14,759 Speaker 1: because you know I'm cat sitting for four five minutes. Well, 794 00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:20,160 Speaker 1: I've been getting up at eight am, so I mean, 795 00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:22,560 Speaker 1: I hear what you're saying, but I might not be 796 00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:25,680 Speaker 1: here tonight. So I'm just trying to throrow the timing 797 00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:29,360 Speaker 1: for rights. I'm just trying to you know, you know, 798 00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:34,440 Speaker 1: yam is, maybe maybe this weekend, maybe Saturday or Sunday morning. 799 00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:39,000 Speaker 1: Can you do that? I can do Saturday morning. Look 800 00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:43,680 Speaker 1: at this cat roost cat balls. 801 00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:49,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, his balls are not that big though, so wait what, No, 802 00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:50,120 Speaker 3: they're tiny. 803 00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:54,080 Speaker 1: I've never seen cat balls before. Go ahead and go 804 00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:55,880 Speaker 1: ahead and put them on the zooms. Okay, hold on, 805 00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:58,720 Speaker 1: put the ring light on his pain. No, I wouldn't. 806 00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:02,480 Speaker 1: That is not that it's disgusting. I think it's I 807 00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:02,799 Speaker 1: don't know. 808 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,400 Speaker 2: I think it's really to stop while he's cleaning and 809 00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:06,520 Speaker 2: show you his walls. 810 00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:08,640 Speaker 1: I think that's that's not really Just pick him up 811 00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:13,840 Speaker 1: and hold that's cat lady, that's peak cat lady behaviors. 812 00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:15,239 Speaker 1: Just pick him up and hold him in front of 813 00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:19,120 Speaker 1: the camera. Put the mic down. I might describe what's 814 00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:20,799 Speaker 1: happening to me. He's picking him up. He looks like he 815 00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:24,880 Speaker 1: was about eighty pounds. I don't see anything, friend, Yeah, 816 00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:29,200 Speaker 1: I don't else Like Andrews, I hope he took a 817 00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:31,320 Speaker 1: picture of that. Cidney trying to tell me the cat's balls, 818 00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:35,799 Speaker 1: I did not see. Oh, we need got fixed. Yeah, 819 00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:40,200 Speaker 1: so he ain't got no balls? You. I don't get that. 820 00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:44,080 Speaker 1: I forgot. Damn. I'm a bad mom. 821 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:49,800 Speaker 2: I was not there when he got need By the way, Adrian. 822 00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,400 Speaker 1: When they newt her a cat, which is why she 823 00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:55,319 Speaker 1: had got full custody before. When they new her cat, 824 00:45:55,360 --> 00:46:01,600 Speaker 1: they take everything out. Yeah, and he's just smooth new yes, 825 00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:05,360 Speaker 1: so damn. So how does he pee? Honestly? Girl, I 826 00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:05,759 Speaker 1: don't know. 827 00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:08,719 Speaker 2: Can y'all can y'all tag us and let us know 828 00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:11,439 Speaker 2: how cats pee after they're neutered male cats. 829 00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:17,280 Speaker 1: Any any veterinarians listening to this friend nowans any zoologists? 830 00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:20,759 Speaker 2: When we post on the Instagram page, can you which 831 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:24,319 Speaker 2: Marie has been doing diligently? And I had actually not 832 00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:27,319 Speaker 2: been doing you have? I haven't even checked, to be. 833 00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:32,560 Speaker 1: Honest, I'm like, is this right? Right? 834 00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:36,080 Speaker 2: But if you do post something, I would like people 835 00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:37,839 Speaker 2: to put out their professions. 836 00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:39,440 Speaker 1: That would be nice because we don't know what Yeah, 837 00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:42,080 Speaker 1: leave in the comments what you do? We know we 838 00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:45,439 Speaker 1: got some students, we got some some professors as well. 839 00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:48,719 Speaker 1: We got we got a lot of people listening that 840 00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:52,359 Speaker 1: do all types of job. We have a truck driver, right, 841 00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:54,759 Speaker 1: you don't remember? Yeah? 842 00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:57,040 Speaker 3: No, no I remember, But I'm just like, that's he listens 843 00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:57,600 Speaker 3: to us. 844 00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:02,240 Speaker 1: He listens to us on long trips. Heboo. 845 00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:08,200 Speaker 2: Oh. And there's a there's a woman named Bernie from 846 00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:13,319 Speaker 2: our Patreon that wrote a really nice message, and I 847 00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:17,279 Speaker 2: said that I was going to shout her out, and 848 00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:21,200 Speaker 2: I wanted I don't know Bernie's last name because that 849 00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:26,719 Speaker 2: isn't that's just it's Sanders. 850 00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:28,600 Speaker 1: Stupid Bernie. No, it's not, but I want to read 851 00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:34,480 Speaker 1: her message because she deserves that, because I think she 852 00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:37,160 Speaker 1: might be going through a divorce. I'm not for sure. 853 00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:39,200 Speaker 2: There was a couple of people who have been going 854 00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:42,040 Speaker 2: through it and they hit us up, just giving us 855 00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:46,800 Speaker 2: the whole rundown, and they're like, your podcast literally gives 856 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:50,680 Speaker 2: me the energy I need strength, Yeah, the. 857 00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:52,399 Speaker 1: Strength to go about my day. 858 00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:57,799 Speaker 2: Okay, Bernie, y'all are the only reason I'm getting through 859 00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:01,319 Speaker 2: this quarantine, going through a divorce, and you located back home, 860 00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:05,000 Speaker 2: came back to only go straight into this quarantine. Thank 861 00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:08,840 Speaker 2: you for your funny ass banter going through your entire 862 00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:12,560 Speaker 2: catalog and instead of sitting and crying over someone's dusty 863 00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:17,680 Speaker 2: as son, you ladies have have made me laugh all day, eat, 864 00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:18,360 Speaker 2: pray ho. 865 00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:24,879 Speaker 1: Yo, instead of sitting and crying over someone's dusty ass son, 866 00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:31,000 Speaker 1: listen that merch right there, son. Thank you to you friend. 867 00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:34,080 Speaker 2: I'm sorry you're going through a divorce, but honestly, this 868 00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:36,720 Speaker 2: is the best time to go through a divorce because 869 00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,960 Speaker 2: ever the change. Everybody said, Yeah, the change is happening 870 00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:44,399 Speaker 2: and people are supporting the change. And when we get 871 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:46,280 Speaker 2: out of this, you're going to be a brand new person. 872 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,320 Speaker 2: And it's kind of like when you get plastic surgery 873 00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:51,279 Speaker 2: and you have all that downtime, and then you come 874 00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:52,000 Speaker 2: out and it's like. 875 00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:53,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you got a fat ass, we got 876 00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:55,040 Speaker 1: big tds. Oh my god, you're amazing. 877 00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:56,839 Speaker 3: That's how we're going to be when we get out 878 00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:58,440 Speaker 3: of this this wave. 879 00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:01,400 Speaker 1: This this is the best time to go through a 880 00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:06,120 Speaker 1: divorce because when you are free again, Bernie, and people 881 00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:09,640 Speaker 1: are like, where's your husband, like weren't you married? You 882 00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:12,719 Speaker 1: could be like, no, that never happened, Like what do 883 00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:14,920 Speaker 1: you talk that never happened, and then make them feel 884 00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:18,239 Speaker 1: like they're going crazy. Also, people are gonna be so 885 00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:20,520 Speaker 1: excited to see you outside of all of this that 886 00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:22,919 Speaker 1: no one's gonna be thinking about your dusty ass egg. Yeah, 887 00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:23,680 Speaker 1: not one bit. 888 00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:25,359 Speaker 3: And one more thing. 889 00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,520 Speaker 2: After this is all over, we're gonna hit them with 890 00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:32,919 Speaker 2: the men in black a little clear your memory. 891 00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:34,080 Speaker 1: Type of neuralize. 892 00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:38,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then everything that happened is deleted. So, friend, 893 00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:40,040 Speaker 2: everything is. 894 00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:43,960 Speaker 1: Any If I was obsessed and in love with you 895 00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:45,480 Speaker 1: during the quarantine. 896 00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:49,560 Speaker 2: Deleted, Okay, it's done, don't care. That was not specific, 897 00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:52,080 Speaker 2: but no, but truly no. 898 00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:57,400 Speaker 1: But also nothing counts this year. If you had a birthday, 899 00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:02,000 Speaker 1: it didn't if you turned thirty this you're still twenty nine, right, 900 00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:06,080 Speaker 1: You're turning thirty next year. If you you know, if 901 00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:08,400 Speaker 1: you got chlamydia this year, that never happened, I mean 902 00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:09,920 Speaker 1: you should probably put something on that. 903 00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:11,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely fix it, make sure you're okay. 904 00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:14,560 Speaker 1: But yeah, if somebody cheated on you this year, none 905 00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:17,360 Speaker 1: of these nothing that happened this year counts except for 906 00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:19,480 Speaker 1: when they arrest the cops. 907 00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:20,440 Speaker 3: That killed Breonna Taylor. 908 00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:21,880 Speaker 1: Keep doing that. We have to. 909 00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,680 Speaker 3: That's the only thing that we're looking forward to. 910 00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:29,400 Speaker 2: You know, if they're trying to throw people in McDonald's 911 00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:32,479 Speaker 2: in jail before they throw to the officers that killed 912 00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:36,160 Speaker 2: Breonna Taylor. We have bigger issues than we thought. I mean, 913 00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:41,080 Speaker 2: we have huge issues, but it's just like say what yeah, yeah, 914 00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:45,320 Speaker 2: never forget, never forget. 915 00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:48,719 Speaker 1: We did a lot this episode. Wow, we went We 916 00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:52,040 Speaker 1: hit everything, We hit Raven Simone, we hit zendeya en 917 00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:58,480 Speaker 1: zend And we talked about Jacob no no, and we 918 00:50:58,520 --> 00:51:01,120 Speaker 1: also we discussed the tweak community. 919 00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:06,640 Speaker 2: Yes, and Jemima your period. We talked about Missus Butterworth's titty. 920 00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:06,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. 921 00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:11,560 Speaker 2: We talked about me being lonely but also working on 922 00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:13,240 Speaker 2: myself and being by myself. 923 00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:17,719 Speaker 1: We talked about you getting kitty custody custody of both. 924 00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:20,040 Speaker 2: Cats, but I would love somebody to get custody of 925 00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:22,960 Speaker 2: my kitty. Yeah, we didn't talk about that, but that's 926 00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:23,960 Speaker 2: for another episode. 927 00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:26,120 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, yes, but we just go. That's we're 928 00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:27,279 Speaker 1: gonna put a pin in that and come back. 929 00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:31,240 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, we you know, less tears, more squirting 930 00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:31,800 Speaker 2: or whatever. 931 00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:34,400 Speaker 1: What was the title again? I forgot whatever? Girl Andrew 932 00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:39,960 Speaker 1: knows what it is? Okay, he did. We believe in him. 933 00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:43,000 Speaker 1: Any final thoughts or final words you want to leave 934 00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:45,520 Speaker 1: the listeners with before we go. 935 00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:48,640 Speaker 2: I feel like there's so many people listening to the podcast, 936 00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:52,640 Speaker 2: but not enough people are leaving reviews. That's my only 937 00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:58,560 Speaker 2: want is more reviews on the iTunes. Let people know 938 00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,959 Speaker 2: we out here do are we really following the. 939 00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:07,760 Speaker 1: What is it? What's the what's our thing? The experts? 940 00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:11,960 Speaker 2: We haven't had an expert in fucking weeks, But it's fine. 941 00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:15,720 Speaker 1: No one's an expert. Everybody's an expert in being home 942 00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:17,920 Speaker 1: and eating too much right now. Yeah, that's not what 943 00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:20,080 Speaker 1: we want to talk about now. That's why we're not 944 00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:26,800 Speaker 1: having experts. It's just us. It's fine. Friend. Yes, always 945 00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:30,160 Speaker 1: always a pleasure seeing your face. Sidney sent me a 946 00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:32,480 Speaker 1: text today and she was like, if you don't respond 947 00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:35,920 Speaker 1: to me, I will show up at your house. Let's 948 00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:38,960 Speaker 1: show up at your house with a foot with a 949 00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:42,000 Speaker 1: foot spot. And I said, well, let me go ahead 950 00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:49,600 Speaker 1: and respond to this me coming over unannounced? Really? Yes? Wow? 951 00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:50,799 Speaker 1: What did you do if you came over? And I 952 00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:54,359 Speaker 1: just looked out the window and it was like, I can't. 953 00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:56,479 Speaker 2: I would understand that I would go back home because 954 00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:58,279 Speaker 2: I would come over because I would like rode my 955 00:52:58,320 --> 00:52:59,000 Speaker 2: bike over there. 956 00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:06,160 Speaker 1: But oh, full body workout. Yeah yeah, what a time 957 00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:09,120 Speaker 1: to be alive. What a time to be alive. What 958 00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:12,920 Speaker 1: a time to arrest the cops that killed Breonna Taylor? 959 00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:15,000 Speaker 3: One more time for the people in the back. 960 00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:19,560 Speaker 1: Watch a mother ef in time to kill the cops. 961 00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:20,960 Speaker 1: I need not kill the cops. 962 00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:23,920 Speaker 3: No arrest the cops. 963 00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:28,120 Speaker 1: Slip of the tongue. Okay, So we will be back. 964 00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:30,840 Speaker 1: Sydney's coming over this weekend. We're going to record a 965 00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:34,959 Speaker 1: Patreon for you guys. Well, I might spill some tea. 966 00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:40,800 Speaker 1: Actually I think I'm ready, I know I'm ready. Oh, 967 00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:43,160 Speaker 1: Cydny be having good tea. And she just be keeping 968 00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:45,400 Speaker 1: it to myself. She just be. Don't it in the 969 00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:55,040 Speaker 1: freezer cold? I got this great comment. Subscribe, Love you much, bye, 970 00:53:56,040 --> 00:54:00,520 Speaker 1: by Andrew. 971 00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:04,480 Speaker 4: This has been a Forever Dog production executive produced by 972 00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:09,839 Speaker 4: Brett Bauham, Joe Scilio, and Alex Ramsey. For more original podcasts, 973 00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:14,120 Speaker 4: please visit Foreverdog Podcasts dot com and subscribe to our 974 00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:18,759 Speaker 4: shows on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. 975 00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:21,840 Speaker 4: Keep up with the latest Forever Dog news by following 976 00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:26,160 Speaker 4: us on Twitter and Instagram at Forever Dog Team, and 977 00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:28,200 Speaker 4: liking our page on Facebook.